“ OLYFED BELIEVED IN OUR VISION AND WALKED ALONGSIDE US EVERY STEP OF THE WAY.”
W hen the owners of Coffee Pub NW were ready to make their dream a reality, OlyFed was the trusted partner they could count on to be there for them every step of the way through the SBA loan process.
OlyFed went above and beyond in helping to map out financing that provided leasehold improvements, equipment purchases, inventory and working capital. OlyFed’s expertise made for a stress-free experience and was beyond what they expected from a bank.
It’s OlyFed’s caring approach that showed them what local businesses have known for 118 years; OlyFed puts real relationships above the bottom line.
COFFEE PUB NW, TUMWATER I L to R: Owners James Mickelson, Craig Richards, Dawn Richards
the substance
community
events | summer splash! gala “vintage beach party”
p 9
events | wheels and heels at lemay car museum p 11 events | zoo society’s long table dinner and auction p 13
lucky eagle casino & hotel: wise words of advice p 15 the mayday foundation: rescue support for cancer patients p 17 events calendar p 18
lifting spirits with helping hands p 20
education
museum of glass celebrates 20 years of landmark program p 21 ‘kids design glass’
three simple activities that encourage kids to save
cuisine
the reef: olympia’s reimagined ‘finer diner’
p 23
p 24 bakeries: a sweet slice of life p 25
home & garden
team red: communication is key p 27 commencement bank opens gig harbor location p 29
wedding
vida bridal and beauty: curated dresses for brides p 31 six most popular wedding venues p 32
holiday guide
shopping guide
p 37
gift guide: santa’s got a brand new bag p 38
sound and vision living: elevate your home environment p 41 holiday fun p 44
wellness
how the y invests in kitsap and beyond p 47 spa & salon guide p 49
creating healthy holidays at any age
p 51
December 14th, 15th, 21st & 22nd at 2pm & December 20th at 7pm
from the publisher
Winter Issue: Giving Back
Winter is truly one of my favorite seasons with the anticipation of the bustling activities, approaching celebrations and, yes, beautifully wrapped gifts. The Puget Sound is a magnificent place to take it all in. The holidays are also a perfect time to think about those in need in our community and how we and our organizations give back.
Along those lines, this issue features nonprofits, educators and community leaders who are doing ‘selfless work’ and deserve our praise. We hope that you will find one or two that you will want to support during the holidays and in the coming year.
To bring a little peace to your holiday shopping season, we have created our annual holiday shopping and gift guide highlighting our favorite ideas, products and those local stores that offer something special that won’t be found otherwise.
Nothing is sweeter than the gift of wedding nuptials, and since the holidays are often a time for wedding proposals, we feature our favorite wedding venues to help newly engaged couples find a wonderful location.
In our wellness section, we offer wellness ideas and tips for the entire family this holiday season. I hope that you enjoy reading this issue online or in print and in doing so think about ways to give back along the way.
Kindest regards,
Robin Lucas
Robin Lucas | Publisher
with Tacoma City Ballet Orchestra
events | Summer Splash! Gala “Vintage Beach Party!”
The Hands On Children’s Museum hosted a reimagined Gala for their annual fundraiser. Despite a little rain, the vintage-themed beach party was a blast. The party just moved indoors at the award-winning children’s museum, adding extra whimsy and wonder to the night.
Guests explored and played in ten different galleries while sipping on signature cocktails, munching on passed appetizers, and enjoying a fabulous charcuterie spread. Dinner, dancing, delectable desserts, and a gelato trike were all part of the fun!
In a nod to the museum’s 21+ afterhours events, guests could also make friendship bracelets, create Chihuly-inspired sea glass votives, silk screen a beach bag, and watch wacky Dr. Science experiments.
The Gala raised crucial funds to support over 30 Access Programs to help keep the Museum accessible to all children—regardless of their ability to pay.
Summer Splash! Gala event co-chairs Alexis Erickson and Victoria Byrd
John Carmichael and Michael Partlow
Lindsay Paylor, Mitch Dietz, and Marsha Tadano Long
Dr. Rosaleen Shavron Perlot, Dr. Scott Rowley, Dr. Daniel Walsh, Dr. Ben Ruder, and Dr. Maureen Callender
Miracles SEASON OF
Providence Christmas in the Forest 2024
Gala Saturday, November 23 | 5pm
Public Viewing Sunday, November 24 | 9am - 4pm
Great Wolf Lodge 20500 Old Hwy 99 SW (I-5 to Exit #88 in Grand Mound)
Please visit provforest.org for more information
events | Wheels and Heels at LeMay Car Museum
America’s Automotive Trust hosted its 12th annual Wheels & Heels Gala at LeMay – America’s Car Museum in Tacoma. The swanky event raised over $1.1 million dollars for The Trust and its entities which help fund the mission and vision of working to preserve car history and car culture for future generations to experience and appreciate. The Trust also creates educational opportunities for students and restorers with much-needed grants and scholarships to aid them in their journey to a career in keeping the automotive industry alive and running.
The Gala also served as an opportunity to celebrate and honor several significant individuals in the car community. AAT presented prestigious awards for their contributions and accomplishments in the automotive world. Award winners honored by the Trust included legendary race car driver and designer Jim Hall, top automotive craftsman Steve Babinsky, Pebble Beach Concours d’Elegance Chairman Sandra Button, and Dirtfish Rally School founder Stephen Rimmer.
David Maderia and Sandra Button (Nicola Bulgari Award Recipient)
Steve Babinsky (Jay C. Ackley Mastercraftsman Award), Jay C. Ackley and David Madeira
events | Zoo Society’s Long Table Dinner and Auction
On a cool and damp August evening, The Zoo Society at Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium hosted its annual Long Table Dinner and Auction. The weather, reminiscent of fall, perfectly complemented this year’s Glamp & Gather theme, creating an authentic Pacific Northwest experience. Over 75 guests, dressed in their camping best, came together to support the Zoo and an expanded school field trip scholarship program funded by The Zoo Society. Thanks to their generosity, over $107,000 was raised, allowing qualified schools from three additional Pierce County districts to become eligible for scholarships. “Now, even more children will have the chance to visit the Zoo,” said Ruthann Howell, Executive Director of The Zoo Society. “For many of them, a school field trip is their only opportunity to connect with wildlife and nature.”
When people reflect on their career journey, many often credit good advice from their mentor as the tipping point of their success. “I met my mentor when I was working at the Player’s Club at the Lucky Eagle Casino and he encouraged me to go to school and then come back and run this place,” said JaNessa Bumgarner, Chief Executive Officer of Lucky Eagle Casino & Hotel.
Lucky Eagle Casino & Hotel is proudly owned and operated by The Confederated Tribes of the Chehalis Reservation. Bumgarner is a Chehalis tribal member who grew up on the Chehalis tribal reservation and is the first tribal member to be named CEO of the Casino & Hotel.
Starting in 1999, Bumgarner worked her way through various positions at Lucky Eagle including busser, server and hostess in the restaurant area to working in marketing at the Player’s Club. “I loved working with the guests,” she said.
Then with the tremendous support of family, Bumgarner attended UNLV and received her degree in Hotel Management while still working summers and breaks at the Casino & Hotel in Rochester. Bumgarner’s path to CEO started as the Hotel Director, then COO, and then in 2020 she was named CEO.
As CEO, Bumgarner has a few goals in mind but the one that drives her is to ensure the employees of Lucky Eagle Casino & Hotel earn not just a livable wage, but a thriving wage. “We see this goal as being an economic boost to our area and in turn that is being a good neighbor in our community,” said Bumgarner.
According to Bumgarner, “Yes, I am CEO, but I am also a tribal member, and I want to make sure that everyone is taken care of.” Through her work, she wants to create economic development and “help our tribe thrive.”
Visitors to the Lucky Eagle Casino & Hotel will see new carpeting throughout the casino floor as well as a newly opened Little Caesar’s and Starbucks being served. They will also see the pride that Bumgarner has for her role and the facility she oversees.
When Bumgarner was realizing her dream, she wrote a “giant” letter to her mentor. He still has that letter to this day.
v LYNN CASTLE
For Additional Information Lucky Eagle Casino & Hotel luckyeagle.com
THE MAYDAY FOUNDATION
Rescue Support for Cancer Patients
The cancer diagnosis was unexpected. At 42, Amy Rowley was diagnosed with invasive ductal carcinoma (breast cancer) in April 2017. “I had a flexible work schedule, good health insurance, grandparents, and other support and it was still really hard,” recalls Rowley. She wondered how families managed who were missing any one of these things.
Amy is a wife, mother, and business owner. “As I neared the end of my active treatment (chemo, surgery, radiation), I recognized a need locally for a nonprofit organization to assist local families with the non-medical costs of cancer. My goal is to ease the burden of cancer by offsetting some household expenses for Thurston, Lewis and Grays Harbor County families, hopefully avoiding bankruptcy, maintaining stable housing, and reducing stress,” she adds. The result was her founding of The Mayday Foundation in 2018.
The Mayday Foundation, a 501(c)(3), provides immediate, practical financial support for non-medical expenses like rent, utilities, groceries, transportation costs and other household expenses. With medical expenses being the leading cause of bankruptcy in the United States, it is not a surprise that
any family dealing with cancer will have unexpected expenses. “Eighty percent of the people we have helped had never asked for help before,” says Rowley. Since its inception, The Mayday Foundation has raised nearly $1 million that has assisted 148 families.
The Mayday Foundation works closely with social workers at regional cancer centers to identify local families in need. Those eligible for help may include a person in active treatment or a member of the immediate family including a child. The person must live or receive treatment in Thurston, Grays Harbor, or Lewis counties.
The emphasis is on immediate, practical household support so a parent can focus on treatment and regaining strength for the betterment of the whole family. All payments are made directly to third parties on behalf of the family. For example, rent checks are mailed to the landlord. In some cases, gas and grocery gift cards will be supplied. No funds are given to families directly and none pay for healthcare-related expenses. The Mayday Foundation gives short-term support as families work out long-term solutions.
To inquire about financial help for your family, email help@maydayfoundation.org. v MARY ELLEN PSALTIS
For Additional Information
The Mayday Foundation maydayfoundation.org
events calendar
NOVEMBER
Olympia Farmers Market
Through December 22, Saturday & Sunday Closed November 29
700 Capitol Way N, Olympia olympiafarmersmarket.org
Lakes High School Performing Arts Center 10320 Farwest Dr SW, Lakewood Dance Theatre Northwest 253.565.5149 | dtnw.org
Messiah Sing-Along
December 23, 7pm
Washington Center
512 Washington St, Olympia 360.753.8586 | washingtoncenter.org
A Magical Cirque Christmas
December 29, 7pm
Washington Center
512 Washington St, Olympia 360.753.8586 | washingtoncenter.org
Epic Movie Music Battle: NYE Concert
December 31, 7:30pm
Washington Center
512 Washington St, Olympia 360.753.8586 | olympiasymphony.org
JANUARY
MLK Welcome Walk
January 13 Fort Steilacoom Park 8714 87th Ave SW, Lakewood cityoflakewood.us/MLK-Day
The Pack Drumline
January 15, 7pm
Washington Center
512 Washington St, Olympia 360.753.8586 | washingtoncenter.org
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time
January 24-February 9
Fridays & Saturdays, 7:30pm, Sundays 2pm
Tacoma Little Theatre
210 North I St, Tacoma 253.272.2281 | tacomalittletheatre.org
Ms. Holmes & Ms. Watson - Apt. 2B
January 24-February 9
State Theater
202 4th Ave E, Olympia 360.786.0151 | harlequinproductions.org
Northwest Sinfonietta: Mortal Beloved
January 25, 7:30pm
Schneebeck Concert Hall University of Puget Sound, Tacoma
January 26, 2pm
Pioneer Park Pavilion
303 S Meridian, Puyallup 253.383.5344 | nwsinfonietta.org
Submit calendar entries to calendar@showcasemedialive.com
Lifting Spirits with Helping Hands
As part of the coursework for a class, Dr. Paul Gerhardt asks his students to come up with a business plan for a nonprofit organization. For Shatone Martin, the class project had perfect timing.
“I went to my teammates and said I actually have this idea and I want to start this in real life,” Martin said. Her teammates agreed and the project became the start of Lifting Spirits with Helping Hands, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit that collects unused and essential medical equipment and gets it to the people that need it most.
not replace items that break within a certain time frame, so folks could be left without a working piece of equipment.
Martin first began collecting supplies for what would become Lifting Spirits with Helping Hands in 2019, after an illness left her in need of medical equipment to assist with her mobility. Because of her experience, she discovered how expensive and difficult it can be to get the equipment she needed.
Martin’s first donations went to the Tacoma Rescue Mission. As part of their project for Dr. Gerhadt’s class, her group needed a tangible result to their work. Helping Hands is still working with the Tacoma Rescue Mission and community organizations like the Tacoma Pierce County Coalition to End Homelessness, Sea Mar Community Health Centers, and others across the South Sound. Martin says the response has been “humbling.”
Martin said people need items that insurance companies don’t cover or take months to approve. She said there are situations where insurance will cover a wheelchair but not a walker even if both are needed. She said insurance also will
Martin grew up hearing about Pierce College, her mother’s alma mater, and knew she wanted to get her business degree there. “I always wanted to get my degree from Pierce; that was my plan from the beginning,” Martin said. “I’ve been able to do it virtually when I otherwise wouldn’t have been able to go back to school.” Part of what has allowed Martin to be so successful at Pierce are the accommodations provided to her by the college’s Access and Disability Services office.
“My first quarter back was brutal because I was going through rehab and trying to be able to walk again,” Martin said. “All of my professors were super fantastic; they allowed me grace when I really needed it.”
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For Additional Information
Lifting Spirits with Helping Hands liftingspiritswithhelpinghands.org
Museum of Glass Celebrates 20 years of Landmark Program ‘Kids Design Glass’
In the second half of the 19th century, a revolutionary change occurred in the world of glass when artists and architects —not traditionally practitioners of the material — became designers of glass art pieces. Although not makers, they formed a symbiotic connection with those who were. With this relationship in mind, Museum of Glass took the next step and asked: “Who else can be a designer?”
The idea took shape, and Kids Design Glass was born. Over the last twenty years, Museum of Glass has solicited drawings from children 12 and under. The prompt is simple: “Draw your idea for something you would like to see made from glass.” Kids are encouraged to stretch their imaginations and put their creativity on display. No idea is too abstract.
Periodically, the Hot Shop Team chooses one design to produce to the child designer’s exact specifications. The young artist is then invited to watch in the Hot Shop and direct the Museum’s resident glassblowers as they bring the concept to life. The child is an integral part of the process, interacting with the Hot Shop Team in real time to ensure precise interpretation of every element of the drawing. Two works are made: one for the Museum’s Kids Design Glass Collection and one for the child to take home.
Over the years, the Museum has made over 170 pieces and, in the process, transformed lives. Families of the participants have spoken of the confidence and excitement that the program provided their children. The creation of a sculpture based on the child’s ideas gives physicality to their art, brings their visions to life, and encourages them to continue to explore new ways to be creative. For the viewer, Kids Design Glass pieces allow us to see the world through children’s eyes with wonder, joy, perplexity, and hope.
The collaboration between the Museum glassblowers and the young designers captures the intersection of each child’s dreams and their life experiences. The whimsical sketches are often extraordinarily difficult to create with glass, and the Hot Shop Team relishes the challenge of being pushed into uncharted territories. They stretch to interpret the nuances of a non-glass designer who is not restrained by the knowledge of traditional techniques.
We hope you will visit this new exhibition and help us celebrate 20 years of this life-changing program. What will Kids Design Glass participants dream up over the next 20 years?
v LYNN CASTLE
For Additional Information Museum of Glass museumofglass.org
Three Simple Activities That Encourage Kids to Save
Saving money—whether it’s for something small, such as a coveted toy or trendy accessory, or a big-ticket item, such as a computer, car, or future education—is an often challenging and vitally important life skill to teach kids. Whether your kids earn money by completing chores, earning an allowance, or just turning another year older (thanks for the fiver, Grandma!), instilling good saving habits is an important part of managing those earnings. Here are three ways to help kids earn, learn and save, and have fun doing it, too.
GO ON A SAVINGS-CHALLENGE TREASURE HUNT
This activity not only encourages saving but also adds an element of excitement
and mystery, turning saving into a thrilling adventure for kids. Organize a treasure hunt around your house or neighborhood. Then, create clues that lead to hidden jars of coins or bills. Each jar should be associated with a different savings goal set by your child, such as a toy they’ve had their eye on or a contribution toward their future education.
CRAFT A PIGGY BANK
Gather old jars, shoeboxes or other types of containers and let the kids unleash their creativity by turning them into personalized piggy banks. They can use anything you have around the house to make them unique. Label each piggy bank with a specific savings goal, such as “ice cream fund” or “save
for something big.” This hands-on approach makes saving tangible and fun.
MAKE SAVING SCIENTIFIC
Combine learning with saving by conducting simple science experiments that illustrate saving concepts. For example, use jars and different colored rocks or liquids to demonstrate how money saved over time can accumulate. Discuss concepts such as interest and growth over time in terms that kids can understand. Hands-on experiments make abstract ideas concrete and memorable.
While you’re concentrating on instilling strong habits in the kids, don’t forget about your own saving goals. Research the value of opening a 529 account for their education. Continue to contribute if you already have one.
Washington College Savings Plans (WA529) offers two ways to save. GET is a prepaid tuition program in which you pay for future education at today’s prices. DreamAhead is a college investment plan. Your savings are invested as you wish and can grow over time. Both are excellent tools to help Washington families build their student’s future.
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For Additional Information
WA529: Washington College Savings Plans 529.wa.gov
The Reef: Olympia’s Reimagined ‘Finer Diner’
Olympia welcomes back The Reef, a much-beloved eatery in the heart of downtown. With new ownership and management, The Reef offers homage to its roots by keeping its diner vibe with original tile floors, ceiling, and furniture after having undergone a deep clean and refurbishment. It’s a family-welcoming atmosphere with a fresh, seasonal menu offering traditional favorites like a burger along with freshly grilled oysters and kimchi fried rice.
Friends since kindergarten, owners Sam Dinsmore and Ryan Perkins, also known as the Oyster Boys, have been catering private dinner parties, pop-up events, and festivals over the past three years. “We always wanted a place in downtown Olympia – with a community sense, like we had when we grew up,” says Dinsmore. Joining the ownership team is Noah Murray, also a cook.
The pair grew up in the Boston Harbor neighborhood. Now with young families of their own, they wanted flexibility in the workplace and a space welcoming to other families. It took months to get the diner ready to open, as the doors had been shut nearly two years.
“I cook the style I like – what I like to eat,” explains Dinsmore. The Reef sources produce and other ingredients from local farmers and purveyors. You’ll find oysters on the menu from
the Perkins Family Farms. The menu, like the space, is a bit eclectic. Ladyberry Produce supplies organic vegetables and you’ll taste the difference. Dinsmore especially likes the kale.
The Reef has its own pastry chef, Olivia Vidallon, known for her malasadas. She’s baking up cinnamon rolls on the weekends and many other goodies. The Reef also bakes its own biscuits and breads and makes its sauces and marinades. Late-nighters will be thrilled that the kitchen is open on Friday and Saturday nights from 10pm to 2am. Enjoy weekend brunch, too.
Those over 21 can take a journey back in time when you enter the bar. It’s amazing. The alleyway just outside the bar offers picnic tables. The space will be spruced up over time with a cover, heaters, and even live music.
The Reef is a place to come as you are, bring the kids, your parents, have a milkshake or a cocktail and relax. Welcome Back, The Reef!
v MARY ELLEN PSALTIS
For Additional Information
The Reef
Instagram @olympiareef
A Sweet Slice of Life
Bakeries are personal. One bakes your favorite baguette; another rolls the perfect rugelach, and another brews the best coffee. Then there’s cake and donuts… The best advice is to cast your net far and wide and sample the wares. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
THURSTON COUNTY
Both the San Francisco Street Bakery and the Blue Heron Bakery have deep roots in Olympia. It’s literally been decades. At the San Francisco Street Bakery, did you know the round shortbread cookie with the dollop of white frosting with colored sprinkles is a Carmen, named after the owner’s daughter? Each business has a second location at the Olympia Farmers Market. The San Francisco Street Bakery is on Olympia’s Eastside and the Blue Heron Bakery, now a cooperative, is on Harrison Avenue on the Westside. Both have seating and serve savory and sweet items.
Phoebe’s Pastry Cafe and Miss Moffett’s Mystical Cupcakes both made a splash on Food TV. Phoebe Martinson’s stylized cakes are singular creations made-to-order. Her two Westside locations offer sweet and savory items. Making cupcakes cool before many others, Miss Moffett’s Hawks Prairie kitchen is dedicated to maintaining a gluten-free, celiac-safe and peanut-free bakery.
Left Bank Pastry made a new, larger space up the hill on Olympia’s Eastside. Its lovely French things sell out, and usually there’s a line. The Bread Peddler also gets people lined up for top-notch bread and pastries.
PIERCE COUNTY
The Cat and Rabbitt Cake Shop now in Puyallup offers whole cakes and cupcakes but is best known for daily delightful cakes by the slice. They have a different flavor daily and the shop closes its doors when it runs out for the day.
Celebrity Cake Studio is a familyowned and award-winning cake boutique offering signature custom cakes, cupcakes and petit fours.
Farm 12 is a non-profit restaurant and bakery which offers support to moms in need in the community. The location has a restaurant and coffee house and is revered for its cakes and pastries. Guests are invited to sit and linger with a full range of coffees to go with your favorite pastry.
Looking for the widest cupcake variety in Pierce County? Locally owned Wanna Cupcake has you covered. With locations in Puyallup and University Place, they offer gourmet cupcakes, cakes, cake pops and pastries.
Wren’s Nest Baking Company in Tacoma was born out of a passion for elevating gluten-free baked goods with quality ingredients and flavor that even gluten-lovers will keep coming back for. In an attempt to replicate traditionally glutenous baked goods, gluten-free foods have hidden behind too much sugar for years. At Wren’s Nest, they took a different approach - highlighting each ingredient that makes the menu naturally gluten-free.
v MARY ELLEN PSALTIS & SHOWCASE STAFF
TEAM RED Communication is Key
Selling a home in today’s real estate market brings new challenges for both buyers and sellers. Strong communication skills set Kathy Kleber and her associates apart from other Realtors with their custom Team RED project management approach to full-service senior transitions.
According to Harvey and Phyllis Persinger, who recently sold their home using Team RED, “Any communication was immediate, whether it was a phone call or text; we didn’t have to wait hours or days for answers.”
In late 2023, Harvey and Phyllis, both in their 80s, decided they had reached a point in their life where their large, custom Geodesic home on 1.76 acres in Enumclaw was becoming too much for them to adequately maintain. Harvey, a former Weyerhaeuser employee, designed their original geodesic home in 1979. Later, he and Phyllis, also a former Weyerhaeuser employee, did a major remodel, creating a one-of-a-kind, 3530 square-foot custom home.
Once selected, Kathy of Team RED recommended the Persingers begin the sales process with their own home inspection, identifying several areas where work was needed in the house. Then financing was obtained so they could pay for many of the repairs before the home was sold. Team RED also tapped into their lending resources for options on any loans needed to finance a non-traditional home like a geodesic dome.
Team RED guided the Persingers through every step of their senior transition, which for them included packers and move managers, followed by estate disbursal including auction, donation and discard. Harvey and Phyllis moved right after New Years and with the help of their move managers, they quickly settled into their new home in Wesley at Tehaleh.
The Persingers worked closely with Team RED to evaluate the situation every step of the way and were willing to adjust to a
price that was reflective of the changing market and the price reductions the buyers were having to make on the sale of their own property.
“The best part of working with Kathy is she was professional and courteous with us and right up front about what to expect,” said Harvey. Phyllis added, “They were exceptional … it was a flawless transition.”
v LYNN CASTLE
For Additional Information Team RED teamredrealestate.com
Senior Transitions
The Team RED Difference
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Commencement Bank Opens Gig Harbor Location
After operating out of a temporary space during the new branch’s construction, Commencement Bank recently opened in their permanent location on Pioneer Way in downtown Gig Harbor in August this year. This branch isn’t like a lot of other banks, however.
“Our philosophy since we formed in 2006 is to engage with the communities we serve, so we wanted the new location to fit aesthetically with the downtown waterfront district, while the interior features an open concept design to promote faceto-face interactions,” said Nigel English, President and COO of Commencement Bank. The full-service branch doesn’t have tellers and counters but instead has Community Bankers seated at desks to serve their clients personally in their bright and welcoming environment.
Early on, Commencement’s plan was to integrate the building into the surroundings and offer the space as a community hub when not in use. “I’ve been in banking for more than 33 years and I agree this is fairly unique. The branch was designed to host and serve the efforts in our community and the non-profit organizations we support all year,” said English. This support includes opening their parking lot in off hours for citizens to park in what can sometimes be a challenging parking environment.
According to English, “When I joined the Commencement Bank team two and half years ago, we made it a huge priority to expand into Gig Harbor.” Like many industries, finding the perfect location is a challenge but more important for English was finding the right banker. He immediately thought of Allisha McVay, now the Market Manager of the Gig Harbor branch, and knew she was the perfect combination as a lifelong Gig Harbor resident and experienced banker that would champion the core values of Commencement Bank.
“Local decision-making, speed to market, and everything our team does day in and day out is impactful and validates the benefits of banking locally,” said English. “Gig Harbor is a tight-knit, welcoming community that supports each other and that aligns well with our style of banking.”
v LYNN CASTLE
For Additional Information Commencement Bank commencementbank.com
Katalina Berbari Photography
Vida Bridal and Beauty: Curated Dresses for Brides
Vida Bridal and Beauty opened this past November in Tacoma. The beautiful boutique studio is a dream come true for Daniele Otto. Daniele left Brazil to pursue a marketing job in the U.S. after working in the beauty industry and styling hair for fashion shows and weddings. This past fall she decided to fulfill her dream of opening a bridal boutique. The boutique is an upscale bridal consignment and sample sale wedding dress store.
Offering over 60 carefully selected and curated dresses, Daniele spends time researching gowns that suit different wedding venues, locations, and perspectives—from classic
designers like Vera Wang and Carolina Herrera to up-and-coming designers from South Africa and Australia.
Daniele and her team can lead you through the wedding dress shopping process while making the experience fun and relaxing. They take appointments 7 days a week and welcome you to bring your nearest and dearest friends and family to help you pick the dress of your dreams. Daniele says, “We love creating a unique and intimate experience for our brides-to-be.” The boutique provides beautiful dressing rooms, beverage service, and customized styling for the brides and their guests.
Whether you’re looking for a dream gown or simply want to explore beautiful bridal options, Vida Bridal & Beauty is a wonderful place to visit. Daniele says, “This is a labor of love and we enjoy supporting brides in finding a perfect dress.”
v MORGAN MARICI
For Additional Information
Vida Bridal & Beauty
vidabridal.com
Six Most Popular Wedding Venues
Here are our top choices for wedding venues in the South Puget Sound. Our aim is to list a wide array of only the best wedding venues to assist you in picking the perfect spot to celebrate with your loved ones.
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} Indian Summer Golf and Country Club, Lacey
Picture your dream ceremony on the beautifully landscaped courtyard, under the watchful eye of towering oak trees while guests gaze over the magnificent wetlands. Indian Summer’s natural setting makes for an amazing backdrop for breathtaking wedding pictures. The intricately landscaped gardens and the charm of the entrance pond to the Clubhouse make a unique setting for the bride and groom’s departure before being whisked away to the honeymoon.
Lord Mansion is a unique historic home in Olympia’s Capitol neighborhood. With its beautiful architectural features and grounds, it provides an intimate, memorable backdrop and setting for events.
Lakewold Gardens is a lovely 10-acre historic garden estate that features formal and natural settings. Nestled amidst the lush English-inspired gardens is the Georgian-style mansion which overlooks Gravelly Lake. This historic and unique property is an elegant setting for any wedding ceremony and reception. Lakewold provides a beautiful backdrop for your wedding photos that will continue the memory of your special day for years to come. Discover why we are one of the premier wedding venues in the South Sound.
Let a piece of history elevate your guests’ experience. This historic space housed the printing presses for the Tacoma Daily Ledger and Tacoma News Tribune from the early part of the 20th century.
Guest capacity: 150
Venue Type: Historic pressroomevents.com
} Washington State History Museum, Tacoma
Bold architecture, stunning views and a convenient downtown location make this an ideal wedding place to have your wedding. Located in historic downtown Tacoma, the Museum offers grand indoor and outdoor spaces for both your ceremony and reception, private access to our current exhibitions, and beautiful views of the city skyline, Thea Foss waterway, and Mount Rainier.
The estate Farm has a variety of options for the special day from rustic to elegant. You can choose from an indoor space or an outdoor space. They also offer all in-house catering and bar services to provide delicious cuisine and cocktails throughout your event.
Guest capacity: 75+
Venue Type: Barn, garden farm12.org/events
FARM 12
LAKEWOLD GARDENS
Say ‘I Do’ to Lakewold Gardens
An historic estate situated on 10 acres of formal gardens and native woodlands, Lakewold Gardens boasts the Georgian-style Wagner House with its stunning spiral staircase, intimate rooms and a wisteria-covered veranda. The gardens offer a magical backdrop with a gazebo, quatrefoil pool, brick walkway and a view of Gravelly Lake. With packages for weddings, micro-weddings and elopements, Lakewold is the perfect setting to say, “I do.” lakewoldgardens.org/weddings
12317 Gravelly Lake Dr SW, Lakewood, WA 98499 253-584-4106 • rentals@lakewoldgardens.org
1101 Outlet Collection Way 253.833.9500 outletcollectionseattle.com
KENT
Kent Station
417 Ramsay Way 253.856.2301 kentstation.com
PUYALLUP
Johnson Jewelers 103 S Meridian 253.848.1332 johnson-jewelers.com
South Hill Mall 3500 S Meridian 253.840.2828 southhillmall.com
Sunrise Village 10305 156th St E 253.904.8923 mysunrisevillage.com
SUMNER
Inta Vintage 1109 Main St 253.939.4888 facebook.com/intavintage
Northlight Interiors 1119 Main St 253.826.0339 northlightinteriors.com
Drees 524 Washington St SE 360.357.7177 dreesofolympia.com
Holy Lamb Organics 113 Thurston Ave NE 360.819.4293 holylamborganics.com
Panowicz Jewelers 111 Market St NE 360.357.4943 panowicz.com
The Popinjay 414 Capitol Way S 360.352.9841 facebook.com/popinjayoly
Old Cannery Furniture Store 13608 Valley Ave E 253.863.0422 oldcanneryfurniture.com
Simple Tidings & Kitchen 1115 Main St 253.863.7933 simpletidings.com
OLYMPIA
Archibald Sisters 406 Capitol Way S 800.943.2707 archibaldsisters.com
Bittersweet Chocolates 203 Columbia St NW 360.489.1812 bittersweetchocolatesllc.com
Capital Mall 625 Black Lake Blvd 360.754.8017 shoppingcapitalmall.com
Courtyard Antiques 705 4th Ave E 360.352.3864 courtyardantiquesolympia.com
Sweet Life Boutique 2525 Capital Mall Dr SW 360.352.7999 shopsweetlife.com
LACEY
Linnea's Unique Boutique 6715 Martin Way E 360.570.3322 facebook.com/linneasdreamlacey
Merle Norman Cosmetics
3925 8th Ave SE, Suite F 360.491.4911
MerleNormanCosmeticsOlympia.com
CENTRALIA
Gracie’s 120-A South Tower Ave 360.623.1586 facebook.com/graciesfashions
HUBBUB 505 North Tower Ave 360.736.1517 hubbubshop.com
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Santa’s Got a Brand New Bag
Staub Ceramic 3-Piece Ovenware Set
For the clever cook who will love the elegance and functionality of Staub ceramics. These pieces go from freezer to oven to table. $129.99 simpletidings.com
Giving Shawl
Each shawl is crafted from sumptuously soft fabric designed for soothing comfort and presented in a beautiful gift box. An inside pocket is designed to hold a tissue, eyeglasses or cell phone. This shawl includes a message of encouragement printed on a keepsake bookmark in the inside pocket.
$54 shoplinneas.com
Organic Bed Pillow
Who doesn’t like a good nights sleep? Certified organic, handmade wool pillow that come with a premium sateen case. Size and thickness options available.
$85 holylamborganics.com
Fanlory 12” Screen Magnifier
Looking for the most unique gift that the man on your holiday shopping list would never think to buy himself? This 12-inch screen magnifier is exactly what you’re looking for. Designed to fit most smart phones, this popular Amazon gift idea allows him to watch movies, videos and more like a mini HD television.
$15 amazon.com
Pretzels & Beer Cheese Class
If you prefer to give the gift of experiences instead of stuff, this is the ideal gift for sons because during the 90-minute online class with an expert chef, he’ll learn how to make plump soft pretzels and warm, rich beer cheese.
$60 uncommongoods.com
Yeti Lunch Box
Elevate your meals-to-go with sleek design, ColdCell™ Flex insulation and leakproof, waterproof exterior. $80 rei.com
Indoor/Outdoor Kids
Pickleball
If your kids haven’t gotten into pickleball yet, now is the time. All you need is an open space and this kit, which includes a net, two indoor-safe silicone pickleballs, and two kids pickleball paddles. $80 watchitude.com
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SOUND AND VISION LIVING
Elevate Your Home Environment
When you are exploring the delights of historic downtown Olympia, be sure to step through the door at Sound and Vision Living. In a relatively small space, you will find an abundant choice of interesting and thoughtful home décor pieces. It’s fun to look at everything. Owners Dan and Nicole Durden are typically on hand to meet visitors and make friends. “It’s my favorite store in Olympia,” smiled a satisfied customer.
“We strive for small-batch, handmade items,” explains Nicole. Most come from the Pacific Northwest or West Coast. There’s a sofa from Biltwell of Portland, a consistently popular brand.
The handcrafted furniture is made by a family business with exquisite craftsmanship and thoughtful designs. All pieces are custom and meant to last. “We can order furniture,” suggests Nicole. You’ll get exactly what you want.
The display of Ukrainian wall clocks is amazing. They have a mid-century vibe with modern flair. As you walk around, you will discover a surprising variety of cute, modern art selections and home décor that reflects items that the Durdens say, “We’d buy it ourselves.” Dan has a selection of matted and framed maps. Check out the jewelry from a Portland artist. There’s glassware and other kitchen items that catch your eye. You might need to walk around the store twice to make sure you have seen everything. Interspersed are naturally scented candles, mugs, humorous note cards, incense, and print art. “There’s no filler,” agree the Durdens, whose tightly curated store brings to mind a museum, but you can afford to buy things.
Sound and Vision Living welcomes your whole family. It’s not only the children who are attracted to the shelves of science-related playthings. Dan and Nicole are happy to answer questions. As an experienced interior decorator, Nicole offers design services for your home.
Sound and Vision has been serving Olympia for six years and is celebrating its one-year anniversary in its current location. They like being in the core of downtown with its delightful shops, galleries, parks, museums and restaurants. Sound and Vision Living is open every day of the week.
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For Additional Information Sound and Vision Living soundandvisionliving.com
Holiday Fun!
It’s a magical time of year, perfect for enjoying some family time. Here’s a few things to consider when you’re putting together your holiday calendar.
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Light shows are always a favorite activity. The 36th annual Zoolights at Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium will be held from November 29 to January 5, 2025 daily from 4:30-10pm. To ensure a pleasant experience for all visitors, timed online tickets must be purchased in advance. pdza.org/event/zoolights
Fantasy Lights in Spanaway will run every night including holidays from November 29 to January 5, 2025 between 5:30-9pm. The event features nearly 300 elaborate displays, digital animations, and thousands of sparkling lights. piercecountywa.gov/1253/Fantasy-Lights
Celebrate the season with a Holiday Parade of Lights at the Lakewood Towne Center on Saturday, December 7. Visitors get to view holiday floats constructed by local businesses, clubs, and organizations. This event is completely free. cityoflakewood.us/holiday-parade
The Lighted Boat Parade, organized by the Gig Harbor Yacht Club, is a festive maritime event where boats adorned with holiday lights sail along the harbor creating a magical evening spectacle. The parade takes place on December 14 at 5pm. visitgigharbor.com/events-festivals
Winter Glow, a celebration of Winter at Lakewold Gardens, will be held December 6-21 from 5 to 8:30pm on Fridays and Saturdays. Their extraordinary gardens will be lit up with colorful lights and seasonal music for evening strolls, followed by refreshments, music and a contemporary quilt show in Wagner House. lakewoldgardens.org
For many, a Nutcracker performance is a holiday tradition. You may want to check out one of these options.
Tacoma City Ballet performs The Nutcracker at the Pantages Theater December 14 and 15 at 2pm, December 20 at 7 pm and December 21 and 22 at 2 pm. This is the only
performance of the ballet in the South Puget Sound that features a live orchestra. tacomacityballet.com
Ballet Northwest at the Washington Center in Olympia will be performing The Nutcracker from December 13 to 22. balletnorthwest.org
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Hometown Holidays will be presented by the Sumner Downtown Association on Saturday, November 16 from 10am to 5pm at Heritage Park. There will be holiday music performances from local artists, gourmet hot chocolate and more from Vinyl Coffee Roasters, holiday cookies and ice cream from Jazzy’s Cookie Co., and special surprises! sumnermainstreet.com/events
The Jingle Bell Fun Run returns to Fort Steilacoom Park on December 14 at 9:30am and 10am. This 5k walk/run and 1-mile kids fun run is great for families. Wear your best holidaythemed costume and bring your dog (on a leash). cityoflakewood.us/the-lakewood-jingle-bell-5k-is-back
Gig Harbor will host their annual 5k Turkey Trot that brings the community together on Thanksgiving morning to support local food banks. The run will be held on Thursday, November 28 at 8am. visitgigharbor.com/events-festivals
LoveOly Winterfest olympialoveolydowntown.com
Lacey Holiday Lights December 2, 5:30-7:30pm Huntamer Park
618 Woodland Square Lp SE, Lacey laceyparks.org/events v LYNN CASTLE
How the Y Invests in Kitsap and Beyond
CONVENIENT YMCA COMMUNITY CENTERS THAT FIT YOUR LIFESTYLE
We are dedicated to meeting you where you are to help you reach your health and wellness goals, find a community, and live your best life. YMCAs are available to join today in Bremerton, Silverdale, Gig Harbor, and across Pierce and Kitsap Counties. Take a tour today to learn more about the state-of-the-art equipment, upgrades to our strength training spaces, and all-inclusive amenities like swim lessons, group exercise classes, and 24/7 virtual access.
OUR Y IS INVESTING IN KITSAP WITH FACILITY UPGRADES AND A NEW EXPRESS GYM
In partnership with both the Kitsap Family YMCA Foundation and Sound West Group, we’re doubling down on our commitment to Kitsap County by making two significant investments in a thriving Bremerton community and beyond. We’re bringing a better, stronger, and faster fitness experience to the Y through member-driven gym enhancements designed to amplify your workout goals. We have renovated the gym space at every YMCA in Kitsap County!
DISCOVER OUR GYM ENHANCEMENTS
• Brand new gear including barbells, weights, and strength training equipment
• High-tech flooring with sound-dampening features
• Turf field space as well as sleds
• More open space with improved flow
• Less wait time for popular machines and equipment
In addition, we’re opening the Marina Square Express YMCA in the heart of downtown Bremerton, an exciting and innovative way to serve our urban communities.
OUR NEW MARINA SQUARE EXPRESS YMCA
• Over 2,000 square-feet of gym space
• Convenient downtown Bremerton location
• Adult-only facility (ages 15 and up)
• State-of-the-art strength training and cardio equipment
• Walkable to the ferry, naval shipyard, and Quincy Square
Experience the connection, energy, and uplifting atmosphere of our Y at our community centers. The Y is the leading nonprofit committed to strengthening community by connecting all people to their potential, purpose, and each other.
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For Additional Information
YMCA of Pierce and Kitsap Counties ymcapkc.org
Spa & Salon Guide
TACOMA
FoxFire Salon & Spa
An Aveda Salon; two locations 2701 N Proctor | 1912 65th Ave W 253.565.7765 foxfiresalon.com
Intaglio Salon
5005 Ruston Way 253.472.0359 theintagliosalon.com
Mynx Aesthetik
5013 N Pearl St, Ste B 253.202.3755 mynxaesthetik.com
Serenity Spa
Two Tacoma locations 706 Market St | 253.473.7830 3518 6th Ave | 253.507.7121 serenityspa.com
Spa Serein 5125 Grand Loop, Ruston 253.352.0000 spaserein.com
PUYALLUP
Bella Terra Spa 1503 W Stewart Ave 253.848.6844 bellaterrawellness.com
Waxing the City 10306 156th St E 253.446.6906 waxingthecity.com
GIG HARBOR
Jax Salon & Spa 3111 Harborview Dr 253.851.5599 jaxsalonspa.com
Serenity Spa 4641 Point Fosdick Dr #300 253.473.7830 serenityspa.com
UNIVERSITY PLACE
Serenity Spa 3633 Market Pl W 253.473.7830
serenityspa.com
BONNEY LAKE
Urban Day Spa 18401 Veterans Memorial Dr 253.826.5556 urbanaestheticsandnails.com
SUMNER
Mission Aveda 1119 Main St 253.470.3970 missionsalonandspa.com
KENT
Pure Escape Spa 24030 132nd Ave SE 253.630.1332 thepureescapespa.com
OLYMPIA
Antidote Salon & Spa 3814 Prestwick Ln SW 360.493.1900 antidotealive.com
Premiere Salon & Spa 111 Market St NE, Suite 101 360.753.3299 premieresalonandspa.com
Salt Hair Lounge 2629 Parkmont Ln SW, Suite 103 360.764-8935 salthairlounge.co
LAKEWOOD
Olympus Spa 8615 S Tacoma Way 253.588.3355 olympusspa.com
Creating Healthy Holidays at Any Age
The holidays can be a mixture of excitement and anxiety tinged with expectations that may exceed reality. Schedules are packed, daylight hours are short, and sweets are everywhere. Take a breath and consider the following suggestions for a more joyous season.
BE SELECTIVE
Whether it’s desserts or festive events, you don’t have to do everything. Take the cookie you especially love but don’t eat the whole plate. Sit down and savor each bit. A quiet evening at home watching a movie with family might be more fun than squeezing in another event.
WASH YOUR HANDS
Viruses are tricky microbes that are everywhere. The simple act of washing your hands regularly is one of the most effective and inexpensive health tips. It’s especially important when being with people who have weakened immune systems. Everyone benefits.
TAKE A CAT NAP
Close your eyes for twenty minutes (more or less) while relaxed in a comfy chair or fully reclined in your bed. Set a timer. It’s normal to have an afternoon slump and a brief rest can reboot your system for a more engaging rest of your day.
VENTURE OUTSIDE
Yes, it’s damp and cool. Bundle up and walk your neighborhood. Your brain, as well as the rest of your body, will appreciate the fresh air and movement.
BE MINDFUL OF YOUR SPENDING
Reduce your stress with a holiday budget, gift list, and a plan. While gifts are fun, there are many ways to express your love and affection. Your contributions to local organizations, perhaps in lieu of presents to others, can brighten the holidays for those in need.
DO AT LEAST ONE FAVORITE THING
Get your photo with Santa, make Grandma’s gingerbread cookies, drive around to see the lights, or go to the Nutcracker. If it’s truly a favorite – make it happen.
RECONSIDER TRADITIONS
Moving off traditions can be a huge challenge, but it gives the possibility to bring new life and great memories into play. Make the gathering meal a potluck instead of doing it all yourself.
COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS
Every day during the holidays write down five things you are thankful for. The positivity it generates will change your life.
