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The Third Annual DigiFest™ Temecula Celebrates the Digital Arts of Hollywood - April 12 – 14, 2019 DigiFest™ Competition Accepting Digital Entries Until March 15th
JDS Creative Academy’s third annual DigiFest will take place on April 12th –14th at JDS Studios, located at 28069 Diaz Rd in Temecula, as well as at Temeku Theaters and the City of Temecula’s Conference Center. DigiFest 2019 will feature renowned guest speakers from the digital media field, create thought-provoking special presentations and provide workshops that will occur throughout the weekend, along with screenings, digital exhibits, expo vendors and an awards banquet. Presentations will include: April 12th Keynote speaker, Cady McClain, a two-time Emmy Award winning, six-time nominated actress best known for the roles of Dixie Cooney Martin on All My Children and Rosanna Cabot on As the World Turns, will speak about encouraging women to direct and produce. She’s also a two-time Emmy nominated director (Venice the Series), producer, and writer. April 13th Gaming Panel led by Producer/YouTuber Samantha Leichtamer, gaming content creator, social media producer and YouTuber; How To Be A Vocalist In The Digital World presented by record producer and songwriter Jay Will. Festival screening of competition entries, hosted by Niketa Calame, voice of “Baby Nala” from The Lion King, at Temeku Theaters. April 14th Adobe Audio Audition with Premier Workshop taught by a certified Adobe Creative Suite trainer and a Green Screen Magic Workshop taught by a professional acting coach. Industry Panel at the Temecula City Hall Conference Center, with Niketa Calame, Mario Ortiz, multiple Emmy award winning director of photography; Jacob Fleisher, writer for Netflix, Warner Bros. Animation, and Nickelodeon; and other professionals to be announced. The festival’s competition features all things digital including film, video, animation, music, games, photography, graphics and comics. Any media, which is designed digitally or enhanced digitally, is qualified for the competition. Entrant categories begin at age twelve years old and go through adult, with student, amateur and professional categories. Fees are nominal and the final entry deadline is March 15th. The coveted “Digi” Awards will be presented at the awards dinner held on April 14th at the Temecula City Hall Conference Center. Community support for this event includes Abbott Vascular, Mt. San Jacinto College, Helixstorm, The City of Temecula, Riverside County Film Commission, 101.3 The Mix, Alta Pacific Bank, California State University San Marcos at Temecula, Tristone Cinemas, The Valley Business Journal, Temecula Music Teacher, Temecula Valley Chamber of Commerce, Visit Temecula Valley, The
Economic Development Coalition, The Law Offices of Rosenstein and Associates, JDS Video & Media Productions and JDS Actors Studio JDS Creative Academy welcomes all sponsorship opportunities. All donations are 100% tax deductible. For more information about DigiFest, go to www.digfesttemecula.org. For more information on JDSCA go to www.jdscreativeacademy.org, contact via email info@jdsca.org, or phone 951 296-6715.
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Wine Society Awards Scholarships to Two MSJC Viticulture, Enology & Wine Technology Students
The Temecula Valley Wine Society (TVWS) presented two Scholarship Awards amounting to $3,000 to Professor Greg Pennyroyal and Dr. Karen Cranney, Ed.D., of Mt. San Jacinto College for students participating in the college’s program in Viticulture, Enology & Wine Technology. The presentation was made at the Temecula Valley Small Winegrowers Association meeting at the Wilson Creek Ballroom in Temecula on January 14, 2019. Presenting the Checks was TVWS President, Tom Doyle, and TVWS Board Members. From left to right: Greg Pennyroyal, Dr. Karen Cranney, Tom Doyle, Terri Connolly and Robert Pratt. The TVWS is committed to support scholarships for qualified or approved enology
programs, with a priority given to local worthy students studying enology and viticulture and dedicated to the development of the wine industry in the Temecula Valley. Funds may also be used to assist the development of local qualified educational programs and facilities. At the presentation event, Greg Pennyroyal shared a story. Peter Cousins, PhD, is the enologist for E&J Gallo. He and Greg were having a conversation, and the subject of the Temecula Wine Region came up. Dr. Cousins told Greg that he owes much thanks to TVWS. He is a past recipient of our scholarship funds, and he credits those $2,000 for allowing him to pursue his degree. He was short of funds for his education, and his award came at the right time for him to use to continue his education.
Rotary Students Volunteer Monthly to Help Community
Students from local high schools are fulfilling the commitment they made when they joined the Interact Clubs at Temescal High School. Interact is a service club for youth ages 12 to 18 who want to connect with other youth and have fun while serving their communities. The Interact Clubs are sponsored by the Rotary Club of Lake Elsinore and meet at least twice a month on their respective campuses. They elect officers every year and select projects that interest the students. The Interact Club at Temescal High School is 154 strong and they have at least one project per month including, but not limited to, filing sand bags, picking up trash, carwashes for fire victims, volunteering at the Senior Center and drawing school murals at local elementary school sites.
Temescal students cleaning up trash on the Lake Elsinore levy near Storm Stadium.
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Mt. San Jacinto College to Offer Classes at Perris Senior Center
In an ongoing effort to provide greater access to higher education in the region, Mt. San Jacinto College (MSJC) has partnered with the City of Perris to proudly offer classes at the Perris Senior Center. The Center, at 100 N. D Street in Perris, will host:
• Art 100 (Art Appreciation) from 5 to 7:50 p.m. Tuesdays and Thursdays beginning March 14.
• English 101 (Freshman Composition) from 4 to 7:50 p.m. Mondays and Wednesdays starting March 25. Both courses end the week of May 13.
Mobile Career Center Will Help People Further their Education The Mt. San Jacinto College Career Education Office proudly unveiled its new MSJC Mobile Career at the San Jacinto Campus. Featuring 14 computer stations and an interview station, the Mobile Career Center will visit schools and job fairs, participate in community parades, and provide community workshops such as resume writing and interview skills. College officials will also collaborate with local agencies such as the Economic Development Coalition Southwest Riverside to attend various regional conferences, meetings and trade shows. “Whether you’re at Mt. San Jacinto College to get a certificate, upgrade your skills or start a new career, MSJC Career Education is here to help you succeed,” said Joyce Johnson, Executive Dean of Instruction. “The Mobile Career Center is a logical next step that enables us to send our knowledgeable resources out into our communities to help people further their education or prepare to land their next job. MSJC will be there to help them succeed and thrive in today’s workforce.” The Strong Workforce Program provided about $300,000 in funding for the Mobile Career Center. For more information about the Mobile Career Center, please contact MSJC Director of Career & Workforce Development Avante Simmons at (951) 639-5438 or asimmons@msjc.edu. If you see the MSJC Mobile Career Center out and about, please feel free to take a photo and share it with us on our social media -- Facebook, Twitter and Instagram – and tag it with #MSJConthego or #MSJCeaglehaslanded
There are several latestart classes available throughout the district. For more information about late-start classes at any location, visit www.msjc.edu/OpenClasses or call (951) 639-5313. Seats are open in a variety of classes students need to transfer to four-year universities, complete their associate degrees or earn career certificates. And don’t forget you can follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, or visit us at www.msjc.edu
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Support Our Local Businesses 24/7 Family Home Care.....................................39 Accipiter Marketing...........................................27 Altura Credit Union.............................................2 Animal Friends of the Valley ...............................7 Animal Friends - Fore the Animals Tournament ....25 Azuza Pacific University ....................................4 Bowling for Kids................................................11 California Technical Academy ............................5 Circus Vargas ...................................................43 Community Events............................................37 Corporate Room ...............................................19 De Portola Big Red Festival...............................44 Doug Foster Art.................................................13 Elks Gold Tournament.......................................25 FireStorm Fundraiser ........................................38 FirstLight Home Care ........................................41 Five Wishes Workshop......................................42 Gold Star Families.............................................37 Grace Evangelical Free ......................................20 Honeycutt Farms...............................................16 Hope Lutheran Church ......................................22 Hope Children's Center Preschool ....................37 Hospice of the Valleys.......................................41 JDS- Digifest ......................................................3 Jeweler by Design.............................................12 Killarney's .........................................................17 Learning Choice Academy.................................10 Lake Elsinore Kids Outlets.................................11 Litte Burlap Barn, Tha .......................................33 Limu .................................................................24 Living Faith Magazine........................................21 Menifee Bible Church ........................................22 Morton Grabel, Attorney at Law ........................42 My Grannys' Attic .............................................35 Naughty Pig Gourmet Meats .............................16 New Birth Church..............................................22 New Wealth Advisors ........................................37 Oak Grove - Rock the Oaks ................................4 Old Town Temecula Community Theater ...........34 Passion Life Church ..........................................21 Plumber- Ron Dumas .......................................32
7 Pet Adoptions COMMUNITY
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Circus Vargas Raises the Big Top
KIDS
About 27 Misconceptions Photography
Community Events ..........................................................37 Dream Center – a Group of Radicals...............................36
Princess at the Castle Event ...........................................10 Youth Symphony .............................................................23
Mobile Career Center from MSJC .....................................5
Culinary Creations Opens ...............................................15 Art off the Walls ...............................................................35
EDUCATION EVENTS
3rd Annual Digifest ............................................................3 Menifee Music and Arts Festival .....................................13 Taste of Temecula............................................................14 Taste of the World............................................................18 Circus Vargas Raises the Big Top....................................23
OLD TOWN TEMECULA PETS
Pet Adoptions....................................................................7
TEENS
FAITH
Students Volunteer ............................................................4 Rotary Music Competition Winners...................................8
FAMILY
Run Through the Vineyards .............................................12 Bottaia Winery: Oasis of Serenity....................................28
Humility and Grace..........................................................20 Our Strongholds ..............................................................21
March Events at Vail HQ....................................................9 Secure Families in a Shaky World ...................................24 Parenting-Children & Anxiety ..........................................38
HEALTHY LIVING
Weight is Over .................................................................26
VISITING OUR VINEYARDS
CELEBRATE ST. PATRICK’S DAY
Irish Food and Heritage at Museum ................................16 Killarney’s Celebration.....................................................17 The History of the Irish ....................................................30 A Photo Album of Irish Heritage ......................................34
HOME
Home Tour Requesting Entries........................................19 Room Arranger: Spring into Color...................................31 Trends vs. Staging ...........................................................32
JUST FOR FUN
Misconceptions about Photography ...............................27
Richard Shuldiner O. D. ....................................8 Richard Shuldiner O. D. ...................................39 Sizzler ...............................................................15 Southrn California Railway Museum ..................9 Swim to Shore ..................................................10 Sullivan Solar....................................................32 Sweet Cheeks Studio Permanent Makeup.........13 Taste of the World .............................................18 Taste of Temecula Valley ...................................14 Teen Panel.........................................................26 Temecula Valley Chiropractic ...........................40 Temecula Newcomers Club...............................37 Temecula Valley Museum..................................35 Temecula Valley Symphony...............................19 Temecula Women's Connection ........................37 Vineyard Ranch.................................................41
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PETS
Pet Adoptions of the Month
Animal Friends of the Valleys Princess (ID #162100) and Spike (ID #168530) are a pair of 12-year-old Dachshund mixes whose former owner passed away and they are looking for a new forever family! Princess is a very social lady who loves everyone and everything, and she balances well with Spike, who is very loyal to his one person and can be a bit nervous in new situations. They are both fixed and would love a home where they can bask in some sunshine, go for some walks, and enjoy their days together with you! Come visit these cuties at AFV today! Photo by Laurette Nicoll during AFV’s new Volunteer Dog Walking Program!
Help Walk Our Shelter Dogs Become a Volunteer Joins Animal Friends of the Valleys’ volunteer program to take our shelter dogs for a walk! 1. Volunteer Orientation is held on the first and third Wednesday of at month at 5:30pm. 2. Dog Walking Orientation is held on the first and third Thursday of each month from 8: to 10am. To join the program visit: animalfriendsofthevalleys.com/become-a-volunteer.
Retrievers and Friends
Hazel is a 9-month-old Chihuahua - Rat Terrier mix (great combo!). She is a very sweet, quiet, gentle little dog. She’s about 8 pounds and good with other dogs. Abraham is a handsome Arabian Gelding who is about 12 years old. He was left to starve with two other horses. Thanks to our good friends at the shelter he received the much-needed care to put back on weight and regain his health.
Adopted!
For more information on these and many other pets available for adoption, please visit: www.retrieversandfriends.com.
Penny is a pretty, 6-month-old, medium haired, orange tabby. You don’t find orange tabby females that often so Penny is pretty special. She loves to chat and is looking for a loving home.
Raven is a beautiful, 8-month-old Rottweiler. She has not had much training, but has been friendly with everyone she meets.
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Three Local High Schoolers Win in Murrieta Rotary Music Contest
Three local-area high school students took top prizes in Murrieta Rotary Club’s annual music contest. Winners in the contest will move to Rotary District competitions this spring. Eiley Lopez, a junior at Vista Murrieta High School, took first place playing Oboe Concerto in F by Antonio Rosetti on her oboe. Her music teacher is Kirk Green. First prize earned her Did you find all of the words $400. that have to do with Second place went to Gabriella Beaches of So Cal from djr Pryce, a Murrieta Mesa High School junior, on the piano and playing Impromptu in Ab Major by Franz Schubert. Her music teacher is YiYi Ku. Gabriella earned $250 for her second place accomplishment. Francis Saspa, a junior at Temecula Preparatory School, took third place playing Prelude in G Minor by Sergei Rachmaninoff on the piano. His music teacher is YiYi Ku. Third place awarded him $100. carlsbad one thousand monarch Judges for the Murrieta Rotary south point doheny steps Club contest were Anne Agadjanian, moonlight san aliso solana clemente laguna a private music teacher in Murrieta blacks san onofre area; Dr. Gene Moon, Director of Or-
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Murrieta Rotary Club’s 2019 music contest winners were (from left) Francis Saspa, Eiley Lopez and Gabriella Pryce.
chestral Studies at California Baptist University; Lavinia Tikasingh, teacher at Murrieta Valley Unified School District; and Timothy Tikasingh, teacher at Murrieta Valley Unified School District. Rotary Club meetings are held Mondays (excepting holidays) at noon at Richie’s Diner, 40651 Murrieta Hot Springs Road, in Murrieta.
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March Events at March 3rd – 11am to 4pm Sunday Funday with vendor market presented by Synergy Social Join us for Sunday Funday at Vail HQ! Featuring • 25 vendors representing Temecula small businesses. • Local eateries
• Face Painting and balloon Artist • Photo Booth • Train Rides
• Activities for the whole family
This is a Kid friendly, dog friendly, family friendly event!
March 9th – 9am to 3pm Vintage Soul Flea Market From Vintage to Vinyl, this is shopping for the Soul! Primarily commemorative of the triumphant aesthetic of 1960s-1990s fashion + home decor #fleafromnormal • FREE ENTRY
• All ages | 21+ to drink (beer and wine sold by select Vail HQ restaurants)
• VIP lounge tickets available at: theloopsocial.com/vintagesoultickets
March 17th – 11am to 4pm Sunday Funday with vendor market presented by Synergy Social Join us for Sunday Funday at Vail HQ! Featuring • 25 vendors representing Temecula small businesses. • Local eateries • Face Painting and balloon Artist • Celtic dancers • Train Rides • Activities for the whole family This is a Kid friendly, dog friendly, family friendly event!
March 16th – 4pm to 8pm Thistle & Sage Vegan Marketplace Join us for the FIRST EVER Temecula Vegan Market! Thistle and Sage Marketplace brings all of your favorite vegan foods, and makers together in one place! Think kombucha on tap, sweet treats, live music, artisan vendors, workshops and more ~ Market will take place at Vail Headquarters on the third Saturday of each month, from 4pm to 8pm. The event is free to attend, all ages (and pets too) are welcome! For more information on all Vail Headquarters events visit vailhq.com
Annual Princess at the Castle Event
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Kids
A Fairy Tale can come true on April 6th at Kimberly Crest’s 15th Annual Princess at the Castle. The enchanted experience begins with a walk through the magically decorated castle grounds. While guests meander the walkways lined with flowers and butterflies they are advised to keep their eyes open for their favorite fairytale characters. The highlight of the day occurs when every young Royal’s dream is fulfilled and the Master of Ceremonies proclaims them “Princess for a Day” to the cheers of attending guests gathered in the royal courtyard. Each young Royal will be sent off with a goody bag so they can take the fairytale magic home with them. Many activities will be spread throughout the enchanted gardens surrounding Kimberly Crest. Take a ride in the Royal horse-drawn carriage while
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the Coachmen stand by, see a demonstration of TinkerScience, visit the Royal Face Painting booth, attend Princess School, fish in the Royal pond, and make a wish in the wishing well in addition to many other special activities. Fairy Godmothers will take the princesses on a magical Quest. There will be many enchanted photo opportunities with Prince Charming, Princess Ella, Jasmine, Anna and many more fairytale characters. In addition to Royal activities and character experiences there will also be an amazing selection of silent auction baskets and opportunity baskets. These items include an American Girl doll, princess items, stuffed animals, dress up clothes, crafts and more. The event is open to children ages 3-10. General admission tick-
ets admit 1 child and 1 adult for $70. Limited adult only tickets are available and may be purchased for $30. A morning session is available from 10 a.m. -12 p.m. and an afternoon session is available from 2-4 p.m. Registration is online at KimberlyCrest.Org/PrincessAtTheCastle. Tickets on sale now. Limited availability and pre-purchase is required. Questions regarding the Princess event may be directed to Princess@KimberlyCrest.Org or 909-792- 2111. This year there are many different levels of sponsorship. A special level of sponsorship includes a Royal Court escort and a day of princess pampering. To view the different levels of sponsorship please visit KimberlyCrest.Org/PrincessAtTheCastle.
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Down Syndrome Awareness Day Inaugural Light It Up Yellow & Blue Presented by the City of Temecula for Down Syndrome Awareness Day
Temecula Valley Youth Symphony (TVYS) enriches the lives of student musicians with outstanding educational and performance opportunities for music students at all levels, in a nurturing and challenging environment. TVYS is a tuition-based program. A few scholarships are available for students in need. New students should call the number below to set up an audition. REHEARSALS are on MONDAYS through the end of May. We offer three levels of performance groups.
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4:00 to 4:30 pm – Prelude I Beginning Strings, Gina Wingfield, Instructor
4:30 to 5:30 pm – Prelude II Beginning Strings, Gina Wingfield, Instructor
4:30 to 6:00 pm – Junior Youth Symphony, Conducted by Juanita Jackson
6:15 to 8:30 pm - Youth Symphony, Conducted by Zun-Hin Woo, Principal Violinist & Associate Conductor of Temecula Valley Symphony.
UPCOMING CONCERTS: Monday, March 18th, and Monday, May 20th at 7:30 pm, Grace Presbyterian Church. Additional performance opportunities are scheduled throughout the season at various venues. Temecula Valley Youth Symphony - (951) 587-1536 www.TemeculaValleyYouthSymphony.org Note: Auditions are available throughout the season.
World Down Syndrome Day (WDSD) is observed annually on March 21st. This day was chosen to symbolize the third copy of chromosome 21 in Trisomy 21, the most common form. The City of Temecula will Light it Up Yellow & Blue in recognition of Down Syndrome Awareness at 7:00 pm on Thursday, March 21, 2019 at City Hall (41000 Main Street). At this early evening gathering, individuals and families with Down syndrome participate in activities and events to raise public awareness and create a single global voice for advocating for the inclusion of people with Down syndrome. Mayor Naggar said, “There was no question in my mind when we were approached to Light it Up for World Down Syndrome Day. We want our community and families touched by Down syndrome to know that Temecula LOVES them! We have created a community that embraces people of all unique abilities and are honored to celebrate them on World Down Syndrome Day!” Join us at this inaugural World Down Syndrome Day at City Hall with special guests and surprise performances. For more information, please contact Temecula Community Services Department at (951) 694-6464.
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It is Time to ‘Run Through the Vineyards’!
The Temecula Sunrise Rotary Club announces its 32nd annual Run through the Vineyard on Saturday, April 27, 2019 at the Maurice Car’rie Vineyard and Winery, which has hosted the run for many years. The first Vineyard Run ever in Southern California beginning in 1987, this challenging 2K/5K/10K is run through the rows of the winery’s beautiful vineyards six miles east of Temecula, 34225 Rancho California Road. The event draws hundreds of runners for all classes from all over southern California, from San Diego to Los Angeles and beyond. Because of the way the course is set up, it has gained a “must” reputation among many of the runners who love the wine country layout.
Come run or walk this challenging course through Maurice Car’rie Vineyards and enjoy Temecula's scenic wine country. It is a race you will never forget!
Registration is limited to the first 800 entrants. The event will take place rain or shine!
To sign up for the race, go online to www.active.com and link to “Run through the Vineyard.” Or log on to temeculasunriserotary.com and click on the link Run through the Vineyard. Sign up before March 15 and save money. Team discounts are available. Online registration will close April 25 at 12:01 am or whenever the race is sold out, whichever comes first. Race Day registration is from 6 to 7 am on April 27. You may also go to pick up bibs and/or do prerace day registration a day ahead at The Running Center in Temecula from 4 to 6 pm on Friday, April 26. Race times are: 10K at 7:30 am; 5K at 7:45 am; and 2K at 8 am. Awards will be given for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place in each age group for 5K and 10K only, and presentation will begin after the completion of the 5K race. Beautiful finisher medals will be given to all walk/run participants, as well as a quality Gildan T-shirt. Adults will receive a coupon for 2 for 1 Wine Tasting, to be used on Race Day from 9:30 to 11 am. Temecula Sunrise Rotary Club meets for its breakfast meeting at 7:30 am each Tuesday at Journey’s End at Pechanga, the golf course restaurant. For information about Rotary or the race, contact Frank Appice, Race Chairman, at 949-632-5667 or frankappice@ earthlink.net.
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Menifee Music & Arts Festival- March 30 An exciting new event is coming to the valley this spring to kick off festival season!
The inaugural Menifee Music and Arts Festival features Grammy-nominated country music duo Thompson Square, local art from all mediums, and a wide variety of local flavor, including craft beers and unique food trucks. The free event celebrating the colorful culture in Menifee will take place from 2 to 10 p.m. Saturday, March 30, at the Mt. San Jacinto College (MSJC) Menifee Valley Campus, 28237 La Piedra Road, Menifee. Headlining the Music and Arts Festival is two-time platinum and multi-Grammy-nominated duo Thompson Square, who will hit the main stage at 8:30 p.m. Preceding them will be a wide variety of popular local acts, including Temecula Road; Kanan Road; MSJC Menifee Jazz Ensemble; Clapton Hook; Scottie Mac Band; Chris Fast Band; Replay Band; Anahi Rodriguez; Hunter Ryan; a Drum Circle; and several community groups performing on three stages. In addition to the acts, participants can enjoy live art demonstrations on Mt. San Jacinto College’s campus, which will come alive with an immersive art pavilion. Local artists will represent the Arts Council of Menifee and Mt. San Jacinto College’s art departments. Many art pieces will be available for purchase. Expect art from all mediums, including activities for kids and families. Various vendors also will have unique items for sale and a wide variety of food trucks and vendors will offer delicious treats and entrees. Additionally, the beer and wine garden, hosted by the Menifee Valley Community Cupboard, will offer a variety of local flavor. The Menifee Music and Arts Festival is free to attend, with the option of purchasing tickets for seats near the stage for $25, including a commemorative koozie and ticket (quantities are limited). Additional VIP Packages are available and more information can be requested by contacting the Community Services Department. See the City of Menifee’s website for more information,
festival FAQ’s, and sponsorship and vendor opportunities. The Community Services Department can be reached at (951) 723-3880, communityservices@cityofmenifee.us, or www.cityofmenifee.us
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SAVE THE DATE - April 26 - 27, 2019
The 9th Annual Taste of Temecula Valley is Coming This Two-Day Taste Event Features VIP Concert & Dinner; Food, Entertainment, & Fun for All Ages
The Temecula Education Foundation (TEF), in partnership with the City of Temecula and the Temecula Valley Unified School District, invites the community to the ninth annual Taste of Temecula Valley (TOTV) Friday, April 26th, 6 PM - 10 PM, and Saturday, April 27th, 11 AM - 7 PM. The taste event will be held in front of the Temecula Civic Center, 41000 Main Street, Old Town Temecula, California. This year’s festivities begin with the opening of taste booths and a special Friday-only VIP Dinner and Concert catered by the award-winning chefs from Pechanga Resort
& Casino. The two-day entertainment lineup features a Friday-night concert, silent and live auctions, and full-day entertainment on Saturday. General admission to Friday’s TOTV opening night is $10 per person. Reserved seating for the TOTV VIP Concert & Dinner is $100 per person. An exclusive VIP Table Sponsor Package featuring champagne and special promotions ($800 for table of eight) also is available. The VIP Dinner & Concert Package includes admission, access to all TOTV booths, front-row concert seating, a premier buffet dinner, and bid access to a live auction. For VIP reservation information, contact Mark Katan at events@temeculaeducationfoundation.org. The full-day tasting event on Saturday, April 27th, 11 AM – 7 PM, returns for its ninth year, with all-day family-friendly entertainment and access to vendor booths spotlighting local area restaurants, wineries, and craft breweries. Artisan booths and expanded Fun Zones featuring Jolly Jumps and the Jolly Express trackless train will keep all ages busy. Tasting and activities require the use of tickets, which are sold in increments of $2 at the gate and inside the event. Admission to Saturday’s full-day Taste of Temecula Valley is $10 per person. Children 12 and under are free. Taste and other activity tickets are $2 each. Patrons 21 and over must show ID at entrance. Admission to Saturday’s event includes a special tasting glass with appropriate wristband. Vendors interested in being involved in this year’s event can register online at http://tasteof temeculavalley.com. Local or area businesses who would like to become sponsors of the event should also visit http://tasteoftemeculavalley.com for complete details. A sponsorship brochure (PDF) is also available to download at the TOTV website.
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Oak Grove Center’s Culinary Creations Storefront in Old Town
Oak Grove Center CEO Tammy Wilson announced recently that their Culinary Program: Oak Grove Culinary Creations, has opened a storefront in Old Town Temecula. “We are so proud that because of the generosity of Bernie Truax, CEO of Truax Development, who owns the building in which we now have a storefront, we are up and operating out of ground floor space in the Truax Building in Old Town through the foreseeable future,” said Wilson. “We can’t thank him enough for his kindness and demonstration of confidence in our ability to succeed here.” Wilson stressed that Truax has donated the space to Oak Grove Center’s Culinary Creations to give the special program a quick start to commercial success. “This remarkable program at Oak Grove Center is teaching students not only how to prepare a wide variety of cookies, cakes, pies, and pastries as well as specialty coffees, it also teaches them teamwork, the need for a strong work ethic, and skills they can use recreationally or commercially for years to come,” said Wilson, noting that the program has existed for years at their main campus in Murrieta, but this new storefront is an amazing opportunity for expansion. “This incredible opportunity is allowing Oak Grove Center to better showcase the talents of the students and the quality of products and service provided. The renowned center’s culinary program works in tandem with “Coffee for Compassion”, owned and operated by Rosie Taranto who is also the Fund Development Coordinator of Oak Grove and is teaching youth how to make hand-crafted lattes and other hot drinks. Robin Mc Coy with Robins Nests Desserts and Catering is teaching the skills of baking and hospitality. In addition to their storefront location they are also able to cater to local businesses and organizations for special events such as parties, weddings, birthdays, corporate meetings, and other special occasions. “Our new storefront location is open not only to our current students to work there, but also for graduates of Oak Grove and other young adults who have gone through the foster system and are looking for this type of training and skill sets,” said Wilson. Oak Grove Center is a remarkable nonprofit residential, educational and treatment center with multiple campuses for children throughout California who have psychological, emotional and behavioral problems and special needs. For anyone interested in learning more about this special program, you are invited to visit cullinarycreations@oakgrove.org or call 951-677-5599 extension 2271. Tammy also encourages you to visit them for delicious cookies, desserts, coffee, breads and other specialty items in Old Town Temecula at 41923 Second Street around the corner from City Hall.
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Celebrate Irish Culture: Music, Crafts, and Food on March 9
The new monthly program, Second Saturday, celebrates the history and heritage of the various and diverse cultures making Temecula home. The next adventure will highlight Irish culture and be held on Saturday, March 9, 2019 from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm at the Temecula Valley Museum (28314 Mercedes Street). All are welcome for this St. Patrick’s Day-themed event as we explore Irish culture through music provided by fiddler Michael Kelly, food from Shamrock Irish
Pub and Eatery (while supplies last), and learning the meaning behind the shamrock as you make your own in the Museum’s Art and Education room. Also, inside the museum, the exhibit A Photo Album of Ireland will be on display for guests to enjoy. This exhibition profiles ordinary and extraordinary histories, viewed from the perspective of private individuals and families. The images on display reveal details about how the people of Ireland lived, worked, and gathered. The Temecula Valley Museum acknowledges the inextricable link between art, culture, history, and community by enhancing the current offerings and expanding the scope of what can be experienced. Mark your calendars to join us the Second Saturday of every month for culture, entertainment, crafts, food, and fun! MARCH 9 - IRELAND
APRIL 13 - NETHERLANDS MAY 11 - POLYNESIA JUNE 8 - AFRICA JULY 13 - USA
AUGUST 10 - JAPAN
SEPTEMBER 14 - ENGLAND OCTOBER 12 - ITALY
NOVEMBER 9 - NATIVE AMERICA
DECEMBER 14 - CHRISTMAS AROUND THE WORLD
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Rotary Taste of the World 2019
Taste & Enjoy from the Four Corners of the World
For almost a decade, ‘‘Taste of the World’’ has showcased Temecula’s own amazing restaurants and chefs. Presented by the Rotary Club of Temecula, ‘‘‘Taste of the World’’’ is an evening of great food, world-class entertainment and live auction excitement! Join us this year on Friday, March 22, at Pechanga’s Grand Resort Ballroom. Doors open at 5:30 at this four-diamond destination, truly one of the jewels of the Temecula Valley. Pechanga is the Presenting Sponsor for the evening, and with the new luxury features of the Grand Resort, makes the perfect home for this not-to-be
missed event. The Rotary Club of Temecula, with over 100 members strong, has grown to be one of the most effective service providers, both to the local community and across the globe. Chartered in 1975, the Club is made up of business people, community leaders and people looking to make Temecula and the world a better place. Becoming a Rotarian connects you with this diverse group of wonderful people serving others over self. The ‘Taste of the World’ event serves as our annual fundraiser, allowing the club to provide over $100,000 in local literacy, military, homeless, senior, youth and disadvantaged avenues of service and support. The stars of ‘Taste of the World’ are our own Temecula eateries, wineries and brew houses. Their generous support is the key to this event. Featured this year are: 8 Bit Brewing Company, The Bank, The Canyon Cowboy, Espresso Chaffeur, Europa Village Winery, Fazeli Cellars, Il Tramonto Ristorante, Nothing Bundt Cakes, New Life Culinary Creations, Rustico Ristorante, Shamrock Irish Pub, Smokey Mountain, Catering, Wilson Creek Winery, Burgers & Beer, Bamboo, Pie Nation, Paisano’s, Umi Sushi & Oyster Bar, Oak Grove Center Culinary Creations There are only a few spaces left, so If you are interested in showcasing your culinary, winemaking, craft brewing or spirit distilling talent, please contact Karen Schneider at wagonmastercatering@yahoo.com In addition to the great food and spirits, ‘Taste of the World’ is pleased to announce the featured entertainment, California’s own, Kanan Road Band who consistently deliver unforgettable, highenergy live performances that are filled with heartfelt precision. Kanan Road has shared the stage with Trace Adkins, Lonestar, The Marshall Tucker Band, The Dan Band, Easton Corbin, Josh Gracin, and Blue Oyster Cult at venues from The House of Blues and the The Bluebird Cafe in Nashville to the Canyon Club in Agoura, along with wineries, fairs and private events. Taste of the World is pleased to have this local favorite entertain our guests. ‘Taste of the World’ would not be possible without our sponsors. There is a sponsorship for every budget. Sponsors receive a variety of benefits and are included in many areas of the Taste of the World experience. For information on how you can sponsor or donate, please visit www.rotarytasteofthe world.com or contact Leif Jacobsen at socaljacobsen@gmail.com. This event sells out every year so purchase your tickets, today, at www.rotarytasteoftheworld.com. The Rotary Club of Temecula meets every Wednesday, at noon, at 8Bit Brewery. Please visit and join us for lunch.
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Meet Author, Jeff Spalsbury at the Murrieta Library
The Friends of the Murrieta Library is excited to present Jeff R. Spalsbury on Tuesday, March 19, 2019 at 10 am in the Murrieta Library Community Room 8 Town Square (On Adams between Juniper & Kalmia). Mr. Spalsbury is an active member of Western Writers of America. He grew up in the small town of Logan, Ohio, and attended Ohio State University, San Jose State University and the University of Denver. Before deciding to become
Temecula Valley Woman’s Club’s 35th Annual Home Tour! You Are Invited to Have Your Estate Home Considered Do you live in Temecula’s wine country? Do you live in the De Luz area? There is still room for your home to be part of the Temecula Valley Woman’s Club’s 35th Annual Home Tour on November 16 and 17. Consideration is now being given to homeowners who would like to offer their homes in support of this acclaimed event. Over the past 40 years, the Temecula Valley Woman’s Club has donated in excess of $3 million and members have volunteered over 1.5 million service hours to local charitable organizations and student scholarships. This is accomplished through our Annual Holiday Home Tour and Mid-Year fundraisers Our lovely homes book quickly so If you are interested in supporting the club by opening your home for the Home Tour or have a friend whose home is ideal, please contact Barbara Purdy at 951/526-5599 or email barbpurdy@verizon.net. GFWC Temecula Valley Woman’s Club is a member of the General Federation of Women’s Clubs and is a 501©3 Non-Profit organization. http://www.tvwc.com
a full-time novelist and short-story writer, Jeff was a research librarian, director of a college library and a college professor. He currently lives in Murrieta. A writer of Christmas short stories, contemporary, western and science fiction novels, Mr. Spalsbury admits that he finds inspiration to write in many places-from his study in Murrieta, on a hike deep into the Sierras and even on a trip to Biarritz, France. The Friends invite you to come and enjoy the presentation by Mr. Spalsbury, visit with new friends and neighbors and enjoy the lovely refreshments provided. The public and guests are invited. Not only do the Friends of the Murrieta Library provide support to the Murrieta Public Library through fundraising, advocacy and volunteerism, they promote awareness of and support for the Library as it serves the informational, educational, cultural and recreational needs of our Community. Their monthly meetings serve as a low-key cultural event for our local residents, providing the opportunity to meet, first hand, with established and published authors. For further information, please call Rita Nastri 698-8640. Or visit our website at www.murrietalibraryfriends.org.
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Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. ~ Colossians 3:12 NLT
Humility and Grace By Pastor John Stewart
A life saved and enriched by God’s grace, is a life that humbly recognizes one’s total need of God’s provision and therefore cries out to the Lord constantly for His guidance and strength. God’s grace is not only necessary for coming to salvation but for growth and spiritual development in a believer’s daily life! Therefore, The Lord wants humility to be the spiritual attire that adorns our character. “Be clothed with humility.” This is crucial, since God “resists the proud but gives grace to the humble.” We cannot live by grace unless we are willing to walk in humility. Any other approach is some form of pride, which always is met by God’s resistance. These are absolutes that every person must face. “Whoever exalts himself will be abased and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” (Matthew 23:12) Pride leads a list of things that God despises. “These six things the LORD hates, yes, seven are an abomination to Him: A proud look, a lying tongue...” (Proverbs 6:1617). It is God’s will that the lives of believers be built up, but pride is destructive. “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall” (Proverbs 16:18). The Lord desires that His children be established in truth; but pride is deceptive. “The pride of your heart has deceived you” (Obadiah 3). It is God’s will that Christians grow in things that are right and honorable, but pride brings disgrace and dishonor. “When pride comes, then comes shame” (Proverbs 11:2). Our Lord does not want His name dishonored or our lives destroyed by pride. Pride is an overestimation of one’s self, and promotes looking down on others or even treating them with contempt. We live in a very proud and egotistical time and place! Self-promotion and pride are considered by many to be honorable while the Bible considers them to be sin and an abomination. In the Roman Empire, pride was
exalted as a virtue and humility was looked on as a weakness. I used to wonder how a great society could come to that point, but I see now what has occurred in our own nation and this may be one of the marks of our national demise! The Roman Empire imploded through such moral decadence, for no society can survive pride run rampant. 1 Timothy 3:6, says “pride comes from the devil.” 1 John 2:16, states “the boastful pride of life is of the world”. And again, God’s wisdom from the Proverbs: “Everyone who is proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord,” Proverbs 16:5. We can see quite clearly that pride is not from the Lord and in fact He finds pride revolting and therefore He resists the proud. On the other hand, humility is an inner virtue that God loves to develop in us. Note the terms God uses in His word to describe humility. “But with the humble is wisdom.” (Proverbs 11:2b) “Better to be of a humble spirit with the lowly, than to divide the spoil with the proud” (Proverbs 16:19). The Lord reveals that it is better to be a humble person, who associates with the lowly, than to partake of the wealth that the arrogant can often accumulate. Rather than the shamefulness of pride, God blesses the humble with His wisdom. Also, the Lord says, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 5:3). Here we are told that humility is a blessing, because the kingdom (the eternal spiritual realm of God’s rule and provision) is given to the humble. And the humble are described as those who honestly recognize the poverty of trying to live in this world by and of their own abilities and resources. In Isaiah 57:15 God declared, “I dwell in the high and holy place, with him who has a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones”. Although our Lord is most fully revealed in His high and exalted heavenly abode, He also is near to the humble and repentant on earth below, bringing them spiritual revitalization. Of course, we cannot manufacture humility. It is a relational reality that results from getting to know the Lord. Isaiah discovered this. “I saw the Lord sitting on a throne, high and lifted up . . . Then I said: ‘Woe is me, for I am undone’!” (Isaiah 6:1, 5). When the Lord was gloriously revealed to Isaiah, the prophet responded in profound humility. This can also happen in our lives, as we immerse ourselves in the Scriptures in seeking a deeper relationship with the Lord. As He is increasingly revealed to us, our response will be increasingly characterized by true humility. The Prophet Micah told God’s people exactly what God desired of them: “What does the Lord require of you? But to do justly, to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” (Micah 6:8) God required his people to be related to Him from the heart—to obey Him because they desired to, not because it was burdensome. That relationship, which is good (beneficial), involves three things: (a) do justly (be fair and honest in their dealings with others), (b) love mercy (to be loyal and merciful in serving other’s needs), and (c) walk humbly with... God (walk with Him in intimate fellowship in humility, without arrogance). Micah’s declaration emphasized moral and ethical conduct, not religious ceremonies. Of course, we can’t “do justly” unless we’ve been justified by faith and are right with God by grace thru faith in Jesus Christ. (Romans 4:1-8) And how can we “love mercy” if we’ve not personally experienced God’s mercy? (Ephesians 2:4 and Titus 3:5) If we want to “walk humbly with [our] God,” we must first bow humbly before Him, confess our sins, and claim His promise of forgiveness. (Luke 14:11; James 4:10). “Therefore, humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:6, 7) John Stewart is the Executive Pastor at Revival Christian Fellowship in Menifee. For additional information: Revival.TV.
“Be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud,
but gives grace to the humble.” (1 Peter 5:5)
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Do not waste time bothering whether you 'love' your neighbor, act as if you did. ~ C.S. Lewis
Our Strongholds By Max Lucado
Does a stronghold have a strong hold on you? Do you feel nothing but despair? Do you think thoughts of defeat? A stronghold is a false premise that denies God’s promise. 2 Corinthians 10:5 says “it sets itself up against the knowledge of God.” It attempts to magnify the problem and minimize God’s ability to solve it. • God could never forgive me— That’s the stronghold of guilt. • Bad things always happen to me— That’s the stronghold of self-pity. • I have to be in charge– The stronghold of pride. • I don’t deserve to be loved– The stronghold of rejection. Most Christians don’t recognize strongholds. But we don’t have to be among them. Our weapons are from God and have divine power to demolish strongholds. Isn’t that what you want? Keep God at center stage. Turn off the computer and open the Bible more! And turn to God for help. From Glory Days. All rights reserved. Printed with Permission.
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New Birth Church - Murrieta @Easter Jesus Makes Everything EPIC Join us for an EPIC Easter Easter Services: 8am Worship, 9:30am Community Breakfast (All invited), 11am Worship 29920 Hunter Rd. Murrieta (French Valley) www.NewBirthChurch.tv, email:NewBirthChurchMurrieta@gmail.com, 951457-2712. Dr. J. Wayman Wells, Lead Pastor/Founder
New Birth Church will host a Community Egg Hunt, Saturday, April 20 at 10am at Shady Maple Park located at 29785 Calle Andras, Murrieta.
Hope Lutheran Church will host a Mardi Gras/ Pancake Dinner, 6-7:30 pm on Shrove Tuesday, March 5. The event will include a pancake dinner, live Dixieland music by the Second Hand Brass Band, face painting, balloon animals and puppet skits. The event is free and open to the community. A freewill donation will be accepted with proceeds going towards the summer mission trip to Baja, Mexico. The following day, Ash Wednesday, Hope invite you to join them at 7:00 pm for worship with imposition of ashes and Holy Communion. Hope is located at 29043 Vallejo Ave., Temecula. 951.676.6262
NIGHT OF WORSHIP WITH TOMMY WALKER
Join us at Revival Christian Fellowship in Menifee on Wednesday, March 27th at 7 pm for a special night of worship with Tommy Walker and an evangelistic message by Pastor John Miller. Bring a friend for a night you won't want to miss! Revival Christian Fellowship is located at 29220 Scott Road, Menifee. For more information: www.revival.TV. The event is free and open to the public.
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Circus Vargas is Back!
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Preserving an American Tradition Like No Other
The Big One is Back with “The Greatest of Ease’ bringing acrobats, daredevils and flying trapeze!
Join us in celebrating, Circus Vargas’ 50th Anniversary extravaganza, an homage to the golden era of circus in America, making their Temecula debut March 21 and running through April 1st! All aboard our spectacular circus steam engine as we ride the railways back in time, to relive the nostalgia of yesteryear! Marvel at the sights and sounds emanating from the big top, just as audiences did decades ago! The hypnotic call of the calliope, the sawdust, the sequins, the spangles! Hurry, Hurry, Hurry! Witness the unusual, the astonishing, the unimaginable! Wonder at the daring and the beauty! Experience the phenomenal, the extraordinary! Run away with the circus, for two unforgettable hours of nonstop action and adventure, as we transport you back through the ages of circus history and tradition! A magnificent, mega-hit production guaranteed to thrill and enchant children of all ages …only at Circus Vargas, where memories are made and cherished for a lifetime!
Circus Vargas presents “The Greatest of Ease,” circus as it should be seen…under the Big Top!
Always fun for the entire family, Circus Vargas’ incredible new 2019 production highlights an amazing cast of world-renowned performers! Death- Defying Acrobats, Daredevils, Aerialists, Jugglers, Contortionists, Clowns, Motorcycles and much, much, more! Arrive 30 minutes early for an entertaining, interactive pre-show celebration, where kids can create their own magic under the big top, learning circus skills such as juggling, balancing and more! Meet and mingle with the entire cast after each performance. Capture the fun by posing for pics or selfies with your favorite cast members, all part of an unforgettable Circus Vargas experience!
For Circus Vargas performance dates, times and to purchase tickets, visit www.circusvargas.com, call 877-GOTFUN-1 (877-468-3861) or visit the box office at each location. Follow Circus Vargas on Facebook and Twitter for updates, discounts and behind the scenes video.
You’re Invited to Join Us for raising of The Big Top on March 19 from 2:00pm to 3:pm
Soon residents will recognize a new and exciting, albeit temporary, addition to their local scenery. It may seem to most that, the Circus Vargas Big Top materialized as if by magic, effortlessly and strategically placed amid the customary community surroundings. In actuality an extreme amount of hard work goes into the “Raising of the Big Top.” It takes a crew of approximately 20 men a minimum of seven hours to erect the massive structure. Like an intricate puzzle, tens of thousands of square feet of canvas fabric, dozens of poles, stakes, and miles of rope and cable are all placed deliberately and with accuracy, no detail too minute. Then just as quickly as it came, it disappears from view. Handled carefully and respectfully, the big top is gently lowered and dismantled, neatly rolled up and stowed away ready to make the long trip to the next town it will call home for the next week or so. No longer a part of the local panorama, performances are over and the circus moves on leaving only memories and children of all ages in anticipation of its return. Witness Firsthand The Magical Transformation Of Sturdy Canvas Into Intimate, Theater-Style Venue, Home To Circus Vargas’ Spectacular 2019 Production, The Greatest of Ease!
Don’t Miss the Raising of the Big Top Promenade Temecula Tues. March 19 2:00 – 3:00pm!
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Secure Families in a Shaky World
I didn’t do everything right and I have many regrets. I think we all have regrets. I didn’t hug my children enough nor read to them enough. I didn’t sit and listen to them enough. Oh, if I could do it over how different things would be. Maybe you’ve had those same thoughts. Let’s face it, we do have problems. Young women today have it worse than I did. Home Economics is no longer offered in our schools, their moms work full time and grandma lives across the country. Worse yet, for many girls the only education they receive about being a wife and mom are from the sitcoms they see on television. So, how’s that working for us? The family is being attacked from every angle. I don’t need to go through the statistics. We see them every day in our neighborhood, on the news and even at the grocery store. Ladies hear me; you are the heartbeat of your home. Whether you’re a mom or not, you set the standard and control the mechanics of your home. And regardless of your age or how old your kids are, you can begin today to help keep your family secure. One thing we have in common is we have all come from a family. Over the years, families have evolved from a two parent, two children Father Knows Best kind of family to our present-day status of the modern family. According to Alexandra Temblador in her blog defining the modern family, “Many websites contest that a family is made up of two parents and children living under the same household. This definition does not fully reflect the diversity and complex intricacies of families in America today. Can someone not live in the same household and still be a part of your family—of course! What if you have only one parent or no children, does that constitute a family? You bet it does!” However, no matter what our family is made up of, we need a plan. How do we stop the momentum; can we get our values back? It may seem impossible, but I will tell you changes can happen. It may be just one baby step at a time, but it’s a step and it’s moving forward. I was married at 17. At 20 I found myself a single parent with two children under 3. I married once more, to a wonderful man I might add, had four more children and now those six children are married with families of their own and I have some gray hair to boast about. That’s why I wrote my book, Secure Families in a Shaky World. It’s not rocket science and I will never win a Pulitzer Prize, but believe me, if you’ll take to heart even a few of the steps I have to offer, you are going to see some changes. Dinner at the Table Do you know what dinner time looks like in most families? It’s hurried and chaotic because there are 25 things to get to. Some families eat at the counter standing up while mom yells for everyone to hurry and get in the car. And I know there are nights you don’t even have time to eat and you gobble down fast food on the way to still another commitment. Some families take their plates into the living room and everyone watches television while eating dinner. Family life has changed along the way and we’ve lost something; a connection with each other. Having dinner together is one way to bring back that connection. During a meal your family bonds together and your children learn to communicate. Research shows that children who have regular meals with their families do better in every way, from better grades, to healthier relationships, to staying out of trouble. It may be that your family is grown like mine. You still have the opportunity to influence them. Make sure when they come to dinner at your home that you sit down to a table that looks like you’ve been expecting them. Make place cards with their names on them, fix their favorite meal, ask each one what is one good thing that happened to them today and then be sure and listen. Play the alphabet game or tell some jokes. It’s going to open up all kinds of doors for building relationships. Read to the Children in Your Life I know what it’s like to have a busy afternoon and evening fixing dinner, cleaning up, giving baths, and then helping with homework. Our children’s ages were spread out from newborn to college age. For years, I drove kids to and from elementary school, middle school, and high school. That’s thirty trips a week! Your life may be just as hectic, yet you’ve carved out time to read to your family. I applaud you. Maybe you’re not a mom, but you know what? A child doesn’t mind if Aunt Ellen or a neighbor or a big sister is doing the reading. You could give a busy mom in your life a nice break by reading to her children once in a while.
MARCH 2019 Reasons Why You Should Read to Your Child
• They will develop their ability to retain a sequence of ideas and build their vocabulary.
• They will learn to listen, and their attention spans will increase.
• You will strengthen your emotional bond with your children.
• You will help your children gain experience in speaking and be more confident in school.
When you read to your children, you’ll discover all those benefits and more. You see, learning to read is one of the most important steps your children will ever take. We want to be sure their first experiences with words and books are happy and successful. What better place to be than snuggled at your side? I advise new mothers to start early. Put your baby on your lap and begin with a bright colored board book. He won’t understand, but that time on your lap, hearing your voice and feeling your warmth is irreplaceable. Learning that books are friends and that words have magic will carry into the school years and make a world of difference in years to come. Children who become achievers in school come from homes where parents place importance on reading for pleasure. Volunteer in Your Community A good friend of mine came home from work one day and found her husband lying on the floor, dead from a heart attack. Naturally, her life was shattered, and it’s taken a long time for her to get back to the living. Another friend talked her into volunteering at her local hospital. She went reluctantly. You should see her now. She reads to patients and writes letters for them. Sometimes she just listens to them. She’s a really funny gal, and most of the time she brings smiles to their faces. Susan is a happy woman again, and she feels like her life has meaning and purpose. It’s really true that when we give ourselves to others, we will feel better. Everyone loves to give at Thanksgiving and Christmas. We listen to those beautiful carols about peace on earth and good will toward men. We get busy, bake our cookies and pumpkin bread, and visit the hospitals. (Did you know that hospitals experience more visitors in December than at any other time of the year?) We tell ourselves, “This is great. I’m going to do this more often.” But the holidays pass, we get back into our routines, and somehow, we just don’t get to it. Why not make a meal for your neighbor, visit a shut-in, bring your neighbors trash cans in or babysit for a busy mom? I know you can come up with a dozen other things that will encourage another. And if you run out of ideas, there are dozens more suggestions in my book. Do you know what the best part is? You’re going to make someone else feel really good and in the meantime your life will change too. It feels good to be generous with our time and money; the benefits physically and mentally are endless. Take Care of Yourself How important is exercise, really? By exercising you will reap the benefits of a stronger heart, more powerful lungs, and better-toned muscles. Plus, you’ll increase your metabolism and likely shed a few pounds. Hallelujah! That’s what I want; maybe you do too. In addition, you’ll be a great example to your family, and you’ll be teaching them something that may save their lives. Turn off that TV, grab those little hands, and take your family for a walk. Let’s get moving and change our families. Spring Cleaning It’s almost spring. That’s when we clear out the muddle that’s gathered over the winter. How about clearing out the muddle in our families and incorporate these four baby steps into your lives? They’re easy and doable, I promise. If you would like to learn more detail, you will find lots more in my book, Secure Families in a Shaky World. Order information is below. And while you’re cooking one of the simple recipes from my book, (my grandkids love the Seasoned Turkey Meat Balls) why not drop me an email and share your success story. I would love nothing more than to hear how this is working for you.
Judy Scharfenberg is an author and speaker at conferences, retreats and other women’s events. Her newest book, Secure Families in a Shaky World is available at www.redemptionpress.com or from the author herself. Email or call. Mother of six and grandmother to sixteen, Judy lives in Murrieta, California. Her favorite things to do are read to her grandchildren and sing with her four daughters; if you add to that not having to cook dinner, she’ll tell you it’s a perfect day. If you would like to know more about a relationship with God or book her for an event, email her at: judyspeaksandwrites@gmail.com, or call 951-310-1421.
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The Weight is Over By Jules Perez
As a personal trainer, there are a number of reasons that people come to me for my help. Some are looking to lose weight, some are looking to feel better about themselves, some just want to get stronger. But once on the journey to finding better health, it doesn’t take long for the evils of social media and sports culture for the ever pressuring talks about weight and the scale to begin creeping around the edges of every corner. I have been just about every size from a 2 all the way up to a 16. I have lived all sides of the story when it comes to knowing the scale. The biggest lesson that I have learned is that I am not what the number on the scale says. I am much more than that and that number doesn’t determine my day and how I feel about myself. There has never been a day in my life, no matter what the scale says, that I have stood back and said, “Yassssss Jules, you have done it. There it is girl. Hot and sexy. You have achieved it.” Never. Not once. And there won’t be. I am going to say something really important right now. Sit down, let it soak in. Make sure you hear me. Because if there is one thing I want you to take away from reading this, let it be this sentence; It is okay to love your body even as you are working towards changing your body. So now, real talk with yourself. There are few things that I like to remind myself of when I am worrying about body image: 1. Thank your body for what it can do for you, not the way it looks. Be grateful that you can take that spin class, or go for run with your kiddos, or take a walk with your honey. Your body is amazing and it does amazing things daily.
2. Throw away your scale. Again, those numbers don’t mean anything anyway. How do you feel in your clothes? That is the real test.
3. Consider how you speak to yourself. Would you say the same thing to your best friend? If not then why are you allowing yourself to talk that way to the person that you should be loving the most? If you wouldn’t say it to your bestie, don’t say it to yourself.
4. Don't expose yourself to it if it isn’t useful to you. Remember, social media is not real life. People are posing and photoshopping. That is not what they look like in their bathroom under florescent lighting. So stop comparing yourself to them. Unsubscribe, unfollow, unfriend. Do what needs to be done to protect yourself from the negative.
5. Above all, love yourself and all that you are. Your body is just the outward shell of what holds you!
Remember that no matter where you are on your journey, your health is the most important part. Finding sustainable ways to be healthy and live a full life is the goal. Not the number on a scale. So throw away those scales and start living a full life that isn’t determined by a number but more by how you feel about yourself. Jules Perez is NASM Certified Personal Trainer www.houseofJfitness.com (951) 972-6743
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Common Misconceptions About Photography By Dick Cronberg
Even after 40+ years being involved in photography I still enjoy sharing ideas and talking photography. And everyone seems to have an opinion. However, I’ve noticed that a couple of opinions enter the conversation that are misconceptions: The first is, “Photography isn’t really art!” Somehow some folks seem to think that just because the image was recorded by a camera that it isn’t truly something produced by a human and isn’t art. But the fact is that a camera is just a tool! Just like a paintbrush, a pencil, a chisel, or any other “tool” someone uses to create a piece of art. A painter has to learn how to use a brush. A sculptor must learn to use a chisel. And it stands to reason that a photographer must learn how to use a camera. There’s a lot more to creating a photographic masterpiece than pointing and shooting! Take great photographers like Ansel Adams. He was not only a great photographer being able to “see” the shot but he was also a scientist! He created a developing system that is still today regarded as perfection! One of his famous quotes is “You don’t take a picture, you make a picture”. And what’s interesting is that whenever I visit an art show that features “mixed media”, meaning that all forms of art are displayed, the really outstanding photographs are the most popular!!! The second misconception that I hear often is, “Photoshop is cheating”! People say that because they don’t really understand Photoshop and what’s happening inside their digital camera or phone when they shoot a picture. In digital photography cameras shoot what’s called “raw” images, meaning that no editing is done (like exposure, sharpness, vibrance, etc. correction). And then the camera has a program inside that reduces the raw image to a manageable size and makes corrections for exposure, sharpness, vibrance, etc. So, what you see on the LCD screen or on your computer is the “camera’s” version of what you shot! And, it’s usually pretty good. But most professional and advanced photographers would rather do their own editing on their images. So, they shoot “raw” images only (no editing done by the camera) and then edit in Photoshop. It’s just another way of doing things! However, it can get a little complicated when the person using Photoshop does other things to the image. You see Photoshop is also a graphics art tool. A person using Photoshop can do other things like removing objects from the image, changing colors of objects, adding objects, combining images,
and much more. In my mind that’s what makes Photoshop so versatile. But it’s when someone makes these drastic changes to an image and represents that that’s the way it was, then it’s wrong. I wouldn’t think of NOT using Photoshop for my work but when I do something to an image that wasn’t the way it was, I always acknowledge what I did. So, when someone says to you “Photoshop is cheating” you know the real answer. And besides, if Photoshop is “cheating” please tell me where to find the rulebook!
Don’t forget the photo club. The attendance is free and we meet the first Thursday of every month except for December (members only that month). Go to www.iephotoclub.org. for more info. Also, I teach photo classes for the City of Temecula. Go to www.temecula.gov/tcsd.
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BOTTAIA WINERY: An Oasis of Serenity By Susan Montgomery
What are you looking for in a wine tasting experience? If you are seeking exceptional wine in a relaxing setting, look no further than BOTTAIA Winery, which opened last August in the Temecula Valley Wine Country. At BOTTAIA there will not be crowds four deep at the tasting bar. There will not be inebriated partygoers who arrive en masse in busses. You will not be rushed through tastings while others wait in line. Instead, you will have a personalized wine tasting experience in a serene, beautiful setting surrounded by acres of vineyards. We recently met with BOTTAIA’s visionary founder, Claudio Ponte, who creBottaia Winery Founder, Claudio Ponte ated BOTTAIA for the sophisticated wine drinker who appreciates a tranquil experience where high-quality wine can be savored in a peaceful setting. Ponte, who also founded the highly successful Ponte Winery in 2003, is excited to see his vision evolving at BOTTAIA. By the way, BOTTAIA means “cask aging room” in Italian. Aging takes place right on the winery’s property in large-capacity concrete and oak vats for at least two years. Reserve wines are aged longer. All the wines offered at BOTTAIA are made from Italian varietals grown right on the property. Ponte and his winemakers have tested these wines through several vintages until they are convinced the wines reflect their exceptionally high standards. They have chosen grapes that thrive in this region of California. Ponte says, “We want to make sure our product and our wine tasting experiences reflect outstanding quality.” BOTTAIA achieves its goal of a serene wine tasting experience in great part by limiting the number of guests the winery allows at one time. Most guests make reservations in advance, although walk-ins are allowed if there is availability. Ponte points out that many Napa and Sonoma wineries now encourage reservations for tastings since so many visitors prefer a personalized experience rather than battling the crowds. BOTTAIA is reflecting this trend among high-end wineries. The architecture of the winery buildings adds to the upscale ambiance of the wine tasting experience. Ponte describes BOTTAIA’s buildings as “modern barn with classic gables.” The lines are clean, modern, and very different from most other winery architecture in Temecula. The layout of the buildings is inspired by Italian Palladian villas where a central building is flanked by other buildings for production and storage. The winery’s interior is spacious, open, and stylish with inviting furnishings and towering windows allowing spectacular views of the surrounding vineyards.
All guests can enjoy a tour of the property, including the aromatic and impressive barrel room where all the wine is aged. Then there are several options for wine experiences. Wine tasting can take place in the barrel tasting room where guests can taste six wines plus savor a special tasting straight from the barrel. Or guests can make a reservation for an elegant seated tasting that includes a guided tasting of five estate wines paired with a delicious charcuterie platter.
Guests can make reservations for a unique blending experience.
Also, guests can make reservations for a unique wine blending experience in BOTTAIA’s wine blending lab where participants can create their own bottles of wine by experimenting with a mixture of four of BOTTAIA’s premier wines. Participants bottle and cork their own creations to take home the same day. Ponte emphasizes that this is a unique experience for wine aficionados. They are able to learn firsthand how blends are created and see how blends are sometimes more appealing than one-varietal wines for many palates. On the day we visited, we were fortunate to enjoy a seated tasting with lovely charcuterie platters. Our knowledgeable, friendly server, Mike Russell, brought us each an enticing charcuterie platter with a variety of cheeses, meats, olives, mustards, and pickled vegetables. There are three choices of charcuterie platters: an Antipasto Platter, a traditional Charcuterie Board, and a Mediterranean Board with figs, dates and vegetables. Mike then described each wine as he poured it and suggested which of the charcuterie items might pair best with the wine being tasted. We found the wines we tasted to be exceptional. They were all so delicious that it’s hard to say which we liked best. Bottaia Winery’s Modern Barn Design: Modern Barn with Classic Gables
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We first tasted a dry, smooth 2016 Arneis that went well with the white cheeses and vegetables. Next, we enjoyed the 2017 Pinot Grigio, which was tart, well-balanced, and fruity. It paired nicely with the olives and cheese dipped in truffle honey. We especially loved the 2015 Cartuccia, a distinctive blend of Primitivo and Sangiovese with cherry and raspberry tastes. The 2014 Nero D’Avola was bold and rich with beautiful floral aromas and went so well with all the food, especially the meats. And finally, the 2013 Montepulciano Reserve was nicely intense and complex with lovely fruit overtones. And these are only a few of the wonderful wines offered at BOTTAIA Winery. A unique facet of the BOTTAIA experience is that the winery includes a beautiful, large swimming pool. While children under 21 are not allowed in the wine tasting rooms (adding to the wine tasters’ serene experience), families are encouraged to bring their children to the pool. Cabines, Italian-style private changing rooms, can be reserved and a cocktail bar and upscale café are also available. (How about a margarita or mojito after your wine tasting experience?) The pool will open for the season Easter weekend, Saturday, April 20th. BOTTAIA did not publicize its winery opening when it first opened since they wanted to fine tune their offerings—and they have certainly done that. However, even without much publicity, word-of-mouth has led many enchanted guests to BOTTAIA and they are loving the experience. Right now, about half the visitors come from surrounding counties (Orange, Riverside, LA and San Diego) and the rest from the Temecula/Murrieta area. Claudio Ponte emphasizes that our local wine tasters are
Bottaia Winery Opens up to the vineyards achieving perfect serenity.
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Three types of Charcuterie platters are offered to pair with the wines.
becoming much more discriminating and appreciate a high-end, personalized experience as much as the LA crowd. The BOTTAIA Wine Club is popular and growing. Wine club members receive four shipments of four bottles each annually and 20 percent off all wines and tasting experiences. They also have access to the soon-to-be exclusive Wine Club Lounge and Terrace — and I have heard via the grapevine (so to speak) that the wine club parties are spectacular. Reservations are strongly encouraged and can be made online or by calling 951-365-3388. BOTTAIA Winery is located at 35601 Rancho California Rd. in Temecula and is open Wednesday through Sunday from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. For more information, go to http://www.bottaiawinery.com. This is an experience you will not want to miss! Photos by Todd Montgomery.
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March is Irish-American Heritage Month
The luck of the Irish shines on March — which has not one but two Irish celebrations. While most of us know about St. Patrick’s Day, far fewer are aware that Irish-American Heritage Month is celebrated in March as well. That should come as no surprise. Irish Americans have played a prominent role in this country since before the American Revolution. This month gives everyone a chance to discover Irish culture and appreciate the ways Irish immigrants have contributed to the United States.
Irish-American Heritage Month - History 1991 - The First Irish-American Heritage Month was Celebrated As a tribute to Irish Americans, Congress declared March Irish-American Heritage month. 1850 - Massive migration About a million Irish people migrated from Ireland to America during the Irish Potato Famine. 1790 - Catholic Migrations Began England repealed its Anti-Catholic Penal Laws — allowing Catholics to leave the country and come to America.
5 Reasons We Wish We Were Irish 1. Chicago’s River Turns Green Every year around St Patrick’s Day, the Chicago Plumbers Union Local 130 dyes the Chicago River a Kelly green and it stays that color for a full 5 hours.
2. The Green House During the White House St. Patrick's Day Shamrock Ceremony, the Irish leader hands a crystal bowl filled with shamrocks to the President.
3. There are More Irish Here than There Over 34 Million Americans are of Irish descent. This number is four times larger than the population of Ireland!
4. Irish Built America Most Irish immigrants worked to build roads, railroads, streets, and sewers — laying the foundations of the country we know today.
5. Did an Irishman Discover America? That’s what one theory suggests! Nine hundred years before Columbus set foot on this land, Brendan the Navigator returned from his voyages and talked of finding a land of an unimaginable size that some historians claim was America.
1776 - Irish ink on the Declaration of Independence Nine of the 56 Declaration of Independence signers were of Irish origin. 1775 - Irish soldiers in the Revolutionary War Irish participation in the American Revolution helped make independence a reality.
Why Irish-American Heritage Month is Important • It’s a window into the Irish culture
• Everyone can enjoy and discover all things Irish by taking part in celebrations this month. • It unravels the stories of Irish immigrants
• These colorful, important stories deserve to be told because they are a part of American history. • Irish Americans can connect to their roots
• The Irish imported and adapted their food, music, and a new style of political organizing — among many other traditions.
How to Observe Irish-American Heritage Month 1. Turn Irish for a Month That sounds like a whole lot of fun. The Irish are known to be fun-loving and cheerful. Begin by wearing lots of green, eat Irish foods like haggis, corned beef and cabbage — or head to an Irish pub for a glass of Guinness.
2. Try Some Authentic Green Beer Did you know the best green beer is made with blue food coloring — which balances light beer's natural yellowish hue?
3. Take Part in Irish Celebrations Food, music, dance, and much more. Most of these fun cultural events take place around St. Patrick’s Day.
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Spring Into Color! By Rita Wood
This time of the year, most every year, I’m ready for something new. I’m tired of wearing winter clothes (especially socks!) and I fantasize about getting rid of all of my furniture and starting over. Eventually reality sets in and I realize I can’t do that . . . but what I can do is refresh my home using color. Introducing a new color into your home is like a breath of fresh air. It’s just about the easiest and budget friendliest way to change up a room. Whether adding
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just a pop of color with accessories or painting your entire home . . . color is powerful! But for some people, choosing colors can be overwhelming, so let’s start at the beginning. How do you pick a color? I say, look around you and you’ll find an endless source of color inspiration for your home. Nature provides us with a wealth of pallets. Did you know there are more shades of green than of any other color? Or take a peek in your closet and see what you find. We typically wear colors that we are drawn to. Find colors you like in a painting or area rug or maybe in a quilt your grandmother made, or even a piece of jewelry. Anything can be a source of color inspiration. Once you have decided on a color that you like it’s important to consider space and lighting. A color that looks rich on a small piece of fabric can appear overwhelming when a chair or entire sectional is covered in that same fabric. The larger the area, the bolder a color will appear. Colors seemingly change when they are viewed in different light sources such as direct sunlight, indirect sunlight or artificial light. It’s important to see how color will look in YOUR home. The same is true of a paint color chip. When deciding on a wall color, I recommend purchasing a small amount of paint and applying it to a piece of 20”x30” white foam board. The board can then be easily moved around the room so you can envision what the color will look like at different times of the day/night. Keep in mind you don’t have to paint an entire room to introduce a new color. Maybe you need only to consider painting an accent wall, just your front door or a pair of tired looking night stands! Every room in your home can be refreshed by adding a pop of color using accessories. The living / family room is prime territory for accent pillows, throws, lamps or colorful table top décor. A dining room shines with a fresh bouquet of spring flowers or bright placemats and napkins. We know the bed is the focal point of a bedroom, so give it a little burst by adding a bed scarf in your favorite new color. (Dollar saving tip: a pashmina can be used in place of a bed scarf.) The kitchen and bathrooms are always candidates for new color by replacing bath / hand towels, rugs or soap dispensers. Remember to use a color more than once or it may look out of place.
Color preferences change throughout our lifetime, so don’t be afraid to try something new. I recently painted an antique family heirloom frame . . . and I love its fresh new look! (See the before and after photos.) Forget past preferences and think about what brings you joy today. I hope this article helps you spring into your own creative exploration on how to invite color into your home!
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Temecula resident Rita Wood, The Room Arranger has been a certified member of the Interior Re-decorators Network since 1999. Her specialty is helping clients transform their home using the furniture and accessories they already own and love! To learn more, visit her website www.theroomarranger.com or attend her decorating class at Hobby Lobby. Call 315-481-9659 for details.
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What are the Trends and Which Ones Will Sell My Home Faster and for More Money? Learn about the fine line between trends and staging & how to stage with purpose. By Dara Bowers
A client recently asked me what the current home interior trends are and which of them would make their home more appealing to buyers. I was excited to answer this question and genuinely impressed with my client’s desire to understand what contemporary changes to her home would result in the highest return. So, listen up! The most important piece of the puzzle is understanding the demographic of your target buyer. In all honesty, it does vary home to home; however, in most circumstances professional home stagers will stage with furnishings, decor and wall hangings that appeal to the masses. This was not the question though. The question was, “What are the trends and which ones will help
me sell my house faster and for more money?” I explained the most effective way to answer this question was to first identify the target demographic, then explain the current home trends and then, breakdown which trends could be attained through staging and which ones could not. Make sense? Let’s get started.
Target Demographic
For this particular home, the demographic stretched from professionals to small families to retirees because it was a quaint single-story tract home in a wonderful community in Menifee. According to the National Association of Realtors (NAR), 2018 Home Buyer and Seller Generational Trends Report millennials are (still) the largest share of home buyers at 36%, Generation Xers are 26%, Baby Boomers account for 32% and the Silent Generation accounts for 6%. These statistics helped my client understand the majority of their prospective buyers would be millennials and allowed me to explain what features millennials specifically look for in a home—which, I know are: sustainability (energy efficiency), turn-key and low maintenance living spaces, outdoor living rooms, indoor laundry rooms, etc. I was also able to share that a lack of community amenities is not a big deterrent among millennials, which was a serious concern for my client, since the home is in a non-HOA community.
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Current Home Trends
Each year, a handful of industry leading interior designers gather their favorites and drive the market in home decor. For 2019, the top three colors are: Cavern Clay by Sherwin Williams, Blueprint by Behr, and Living Coral by Pantone. Gallery walls are being replaced by statement, maximalist art pieces and boho style decor like macramĂŠ wall hangings and trellis patterns are fading in popularity as earthy, urban textures and wood grains take center stage. Black hardware, fixtures and appliances are taking the lead ahead of brass and stainless steel and layered, jewel tones are overtaking the cool, gray neutrals that have dominated the farmhouse, shabby chic motif for years. As you can tell, the trends are shifting. Still, in staging there is a fine line between staging in style and traditional staging. Traditional staging calls for neutral color schemes, soft tones of blue, accented with greenery and layered linens. In order to stage in keeping with current trends, there must be a concentrated focus to stage with purpose.
Trends you Can Stage vs. Trends you Cannot Stage
Trends you can stage deal with color, patterns and texture. For example, choosing a geometric wood grained coffee table, honey leather accent chair, rich blue upholstery and edgy art pieces that complement the structural in-
tegrity of the home. These are all ways to incorporate trends into your home through staging. For trends you cannot stage, I recommended to my client in this example, that the focus be on ensuring the home is energy efficient and provides a turnkey, low maintenance living space. Regardless of budget, my goal is to provide budget friendly solutions with a great return. For example, smart, cost-saving home features like a smart thermostat, extra insulation and double paned windows will be a higher rate of return than crown molding. Low maintenance features like easy-to-clean floors and countertops are high priorities versus expensive kitchen backsplashes and other detailed home improvements. As always, my advice stays the same: do not gamble with your largest asset. If you have any staging questions, please visit www.stageinstylehomes.com or call 951-365-7984.
Dara lives in Temecula, California with her husband of 7 years, David. She is a member of the Real Estate Staging Association (RESA) and has her undergraduate in history, journalism and business administration. As a graduate of Murrieta Valley High School, she has called Temecula home (on and off) since 2003. Dara is easy, fun, and flexible to talk to and happily performs free staging consultations offering advice, tips and tricks to local residents.
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Big Band 2018-19 Season 8th Annual Jazz Festival Performance: March 10, 2019 • 2:00 pm
Temecula Theater celebrates the 8th Annual Jazz Festival. Join us for a day of jazz with some of the finest musicians in the Inland Empire. Enjoy music in the courtyard from the Elvio Ditta Trio. The incredible outdoor setting with a great selection of food, art and much more. The festival continues on Temecula's Stage for an afternoon concert featuring Yve Evans, Keith Droste, Jonathan Karrant, and Doug McDonald. This year we are fortunate to have the father and son team of Colin and Joel Wenhardt. Festival favorites include Don Rice, Jay Huston, and David Hitchings with a host of jazz greats. TICKET PRICES: $37 Regular*, $35 Senior/Military, $32 Pick 5, $25 Student,$31 Group of 15+ *Family Discount: Two children admitted free with each paid adult ticket. For Tickets: www.temeculatheater.org.
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A Photo Album of Ireland Exhibit
Temecula Valley Museum. This touring exhibition is a celebration of ordinary and extraordinary histories, viewed from the perspective of private individuals and families. These images reveal details about how the people of Ireland lived, worked, and gathered. The exhibit will be on display in the second-floor gallery at the museum from January 26, 2019 to March 17, 2019. This collection of more than 120 photographs creates a rich tapestry of images that tells of the triumphs and turmoils in the life of a nation. From photographs of pastoral picnics, holiday celebrations, and parlor portraits to snapshots documenting the impact of the troubles in the North; from joyful wedding parties to solemn funeral processions; A Photo Album of Ireland presents the people’s account of history that is both personal and powerful. This exhibition was created by the Gallery of Photography, Dublin, and organized by ExhibitsUSA in partnership with Culture Ireland.
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Experience Art, Culture, and Entertainment at Art Off The Walls on March 8, in The Merc
The City of Temecula, Community Services Department’s Arts & Culture Team invites one and all to the monthly Art Off The Walls event, now held exclusively at The Merc (42051 Main Street) in the heart of Old Town Temecula on Friday, March 8, 2019 starting at 6:00pm. Enjoy art from local artists, live music, and refreshments at this free monthly event. #TemeculaHasArt The City of Temecula Community Services Department is proud to showcase Temecula Creates, an exhibition featuring original art and photography by students participating in the City of Temecula’s Fine Arts Classes through Temecula’s Guide to Leisure Activities. Guests will be able to meet the artists and instructors of these art classes. A variety of artists will be displaying their pieces for sale. Concurrently, on the stage at The Merc, live music will be performed by singer and guitarist Vince Bury. This Art Show at The Merc will be held from 6:00pm to 9:00pm. Visiting Art Off The Walls helps to support our growing local arts community. These creative community gatherings provide opportunities for local artists to display
their fine art and local entertainers to perform for guests and share their talents with residents and visitors. For more information on this event or for artists and artisans interested in exhibiting at Art Off The Walls, please contact Temecula’s Arts & Culture Team at (951) 694-6417 or visit www.TemeculaCA.gov/ArtOffTheWalls
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The Power of Faithful Radicals By Aubrey Masters, Communications Director & Assistant Pastor at the Dream Center Lake Elsinore
Here at the Dream Center we feel called to restore & rebuild the people & properties of Lake Elsinore, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We always say, “Find a need and fill it, find a hurt and heal it.” When my husband and I started off to launch the Dream Center, the process began like most non-profit organizations… with a burden. Our hearts were turned towards those living broken and marginalized lives all around us. And I don’t think I have to convince anyone that there is plenty of brokenness in Lake Elsinore to go around. It was out of this burden that we felt compelled to take action and make a difference. So we gathered a small team of radicals and together we stepped out to launch the Adopt-A-Block program of the Dream Center in 2014. We had a strategy that with only two people you can adopt a single block with thirty homes and be there every week… serving consistently, meeting needs, and making a difference! So, we mapped out our community and got busy! We simply introduced ourselves, let them know our purpose to work together to make Lake Elsinore better and asked them to help us meet needs in their own community. One of those days was when we met Michele. We met her through another single mother in the same apartment community that we had been working with. She had been under the thumb of an extremely abusive and manipulative ex-husband for years, living in a tiny studio apartment with a broken stove and AC unit that worked when it wanted to… not to mention that the entire complex was infested with roaches and mice. She’s barely surviving here with her two kids. We simply came alongside her as friends and agreed to walk with her in a process of change. We asked her what her dreams were and through tears, wrote them all down. We helped her develop a plan with measurable goals and committed to taking the steps together. Not long after, her Ex-husband protested, asking her “who have you been talking to?!” He couldn’t believe it the first time she stood up to him! Not long after she got herself back into the work force and hits top sales almost every month! She is taking better care of herself and her kids. She’s more active and getting out of the house. She bought a minivan for the family, and at last, finally moved to a new home! Right now, she is pursuing further education in order to engage a promising
The entire family is Radical! Brett, Aubrey, Trevor and Dillon.
career. She has changed not her only life and future, but she has forever changed the course of her children’s lives as well. This is one story of many, countless others that’s we’ve been privileged to see.
So how does this happen? Let me tell you the secret sauce! The goal is to change the atmosphere in our city and the key to success is consistency. Adopt-A-Block is all about consistently serving, building healthy relationships, and then speaking into a person’s God-given potential. You see, we’ve come to believe that poverty is much more than a simple lack of money and material things. No, true poverty is the lack of healthy and helpful relationships. Think about it… if you were to lose everything you had today, tonight you wouldn’t be homeless. You have relationships that sustain and secure you. So that’s just what we bring… a vibrant community of helpful and healthy relationships committed to supporting a broken and under-resourced community until they don’t need us anymore! It’s been over 4 years now and we’ve grown up from that little band of radicals to a BIGGER band of radicals! And we could tell you so many impact numbers, but our favorite is that in all of our serving and making a difference, we have brought over 15,000 purposeful worker hours invested into the community. Now THAT’S how you change a city! We’re also currently in the midst of our first building restoration project in for our very own downtown headquarters to serve as a hub for leadership training & equipping, youth programs, recovery meetings, and a variety of practical life skills workshops. We love the name “Dream Center” because dreams are powerful; dreams have the power to pull you through the most challenging of situations and circumstances; dreams have the power to change our reality and transform our future. And we’re committed to helping others do just that! We’re not just offering a “hand out” but a HAND UP. More than “life support” we’re committed to LIFE TRANSFORMATION. We’re not just “serving to serve” but SERVING TO SOLVE. Now, if this is something that speaks to your heart and you’d like to join us in this restorative work, we have many ways you can get involved! Please check out our website at www.DreamCenterLE.org or email me: Aubrey@DreamCenterLE.org
MARCH 2019 Health and Wellness Seminars "Healthy, Wealthy, and Wise!" presented by the The Consumer Health and Wellness Advocacy. March 2,2019 & April 6,2019 at: 9:30-10:30 or 11:30-12:30 At: Canyon Lake Country Club (Magnolia Room). 31512 Railroad Canyon Rd., Canyon Lake, CA 92587. For more information call 951-264-8926
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Community Events and Activities
Teens Teaching Tech First Tuesday of the month: March 5, April 2, May 7 FREE: Parents and Grandparents: are you frustrated with your cell phone, tablet, smart home device or laptop? Bring your device and have patient and tech-savvy teens sit down with you to provide oneon-one tutoring. Learn how to send and received texts and pictures, download apps, send and receive email or learn how to use your new device you received at Christmas from your grandkids! Bring any technical question or issue to the team and learn from the best: teen-agers! RSVP by calling (951)331-8861 for upcoming dates: March 5, April 2, May 7 from 3-5PM at the Ronald H Roberts Temecula Public Library: 30600 Pauba Rd. Presented by the Heart of Temecula LEO Club, partnering with the Ronald H Roberts Temecula Public Library and the City of Temecula. Free event.
Murrieta Garden Club The Murrieta Garden club will meet Tuesday, March 12th at 9:30 at the Murrieta Community Center, 41816 Juniper St., Murrieta. The Club has informative speakers with demonstrations on varied gardening topics. Everyone is welcome to join. Like us on Facebook. murrietagardenclub@yahoo.com Cancer and Law Set for Thursday, March 14 The Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library hosts Cancer and the Law on Thursday, March 14, 2019, from 1:00 pm to 2:30 pm (30600 Pauba Road). Connor Hannigan of the Disability Rights Legal Center will be on hand to discuss the full spectrum of cancer patient rights as well as how to avoid some of the common legal pitfalls that occur following a cancer diagnosis. Health insurance, employment rights, and public benefits programs are among some of the other topics that will also be discussed. Join us, learn the law, and fight cancer every step of the way. The Event is sponsored by the Friends of the Temecula Libraries, this program is open to adults 18 years and older. Carpooling is encouraged. For additional information, please call (951) 693-8900. A Time for Mercy/Rachel’s Vineyard Post Abortion Healing Retreat 3/15- 3/17. A safe place to renew, rebuild & redeem hearts broken by abortion. Retreats are confidential & non-judgmental, offered in Catholic tradition. Open to women & men wounded by abortion. All inquiries strictly confidential: Dolores 951-325-7702 or email to RVTemecula@verizon.net. Early Registration Recommended, Space Limited! Web Site: atimeformercy.org Special Concert of Love Songs of WWII The Temecula Valley Historical Society is sponsoring a special concert of Love Songs of WWII by Mike Chamberlain at 7 pm on St. Patrick's Day, March 17. The performance will be in the Merc at 42051 Main Street in Temecula, in the building once known as the Mercantile Building. Tickets are $20 and the proceeds from the performance will benefit the society's scholarship fund. Reservations are necessary and can be made with Bonnie Martland, 951-775-6366. Temecula Valley Newcomers Club Temecula Valley Newcomers Club Meeting and Luncheon Monday, March 18, 2019 at 11 a.m. Come join us for our Luncheon on Monday, March 18 at 11 a.m. Everyone is welcome. Enjoy good food, great company and make some new friends. If you have recently moved to the Temecula Valley or have lived here for many years and want to get out more, meet new people in 2019 and have fun, Temecula Valley Newcomers Club (TVNC) is for you. Come see what it’s all about at the TVNC monthly luncheon at Wilson Creek Winery, 35960 Rancho California Rd, Temecula. Paid reservations are Required at least one week prior to luncheon, please call Anne (951) 677-7149. This Club is a social organization with many different activities for members such as card games, book clubs, mahjong, movie groups, theater trips, lunch and dinner groups and much more. For Club information call Isa (951) 255-1818. Hope to see you at our next meeting. Riverside National Cemetery, Gold Star Family Monument Event “ay tribute to all Gold Star Families who have sacrificed a loved one for our freedom” Join us in raising money for the Gold Star Family Monument: “A Place to Remember, Reflect, Honor & Heal”. Gold Star Wives and Mothers would like to invite you to a Wine & Dine Fundraiser.
Wine - Pasta & Cheese Stations – Live Auction! Special Guest Speaker: Major Scott A. Huesing USMC (RET), Best Selling Author – Echo in Ramadi. Europa Village Winery, Temecula Wine Country, March 30, 2019 @ 6:00-9:00 pm Ticket price: $100. www.goldstarfamiliesmonumentRNC.com. 951-551-7328, non-profit 501c3 Hope Children’s Center Preschooll HOPE CHILDREN'S CENTER PRESCHOOL is now enrolling for the new school year that starts in August! We offer a comprehensive preschool program that includes Christian values. We offer this program 2 and 3 days per week; mornings from 9 am to noon or half days 9 am to 2 pm. Registration is $50.00. For more information you can call our office at 951-694-3607 or stop by and take a tour. No appointment necessary!
Don’t Miss a Day Out with Thomas! Southern California Railway Museum invites families to the railway Museum for a day out with Thomas the Train for the Steam Team Tour on April 6th, 7th & 13th, 14th. Full steam ahead for a train ride and a day of family fun. For more information visit OERM.ORG/Thomas. Make Reservations early – the Tickets do sell out. Attention Golfers and Those That Support Youth Programs Riverside County 4-H Program Rising Funds for Summer Camp and Leadership Programs Help Riverside County 4-H program which includes clubs in Murrieta, Temecula, Menifee, Anza, and other county areas make it possible for 4-H youth members ages 5-19 to attend 4-H summer camp, leadership conferences and citizenship activities by going to the 4-H Golf Tournament and BBQ on April 6 at Golden Era Golf Course at 19871 Gilman Springs Rd, Gilman Hot Springs. Cost to golf is $150 for four or $45.00 individual golf. This includes 9 holes with a golf cart. The BBQ which includes Smoked Brisket, Ribs, Chili, Coleslaw and Potato Salad, tickets are $18.00 per person. Registration starts at 9am and there are prizes for the 1st to 3rd teams. The event also includes being able to watch 4-H members do presentations about many subjects and a silent auction. For more information or to become a sponsor visit the website http://www.4-h-riverside-resource.com or contact Stephanie at slbarrett@ucanr.edu or 951-683-6491 x229 Wednesday Night Dances at Hemet West - March 2019 March 6 - Rhonda and Showdown. Mardi Gras theme. March March 13 - Rainbow Cottage. St. Patrick’s Day theme. March 20 - American Made. March 27 - Stage Robbers. These Dances for seniors are from 6:30 to 9:30 pm. and are open to the public. Admission is $6.00 per person, proper attire is required, and alcohol is not allowed. Opportunity drawings offer free tickets. Tables have snacks, and pitchers of water, and freshly brewed tea and coffee is available. For further information about these weekly dances at Hemet West, 5001 West Florida Avenue in Hemet, contact Kathy Perry at 951-692-0891. Real Estate Investing Club 1 on 1 support for members including step by step 1 on 1 instruction from local full time investors. The key to growth is surrounding yourself with people who are already doing what you want to do. If you want to partner with experienced investors who can bring the capital and systems to the table, you need to contact us. Real Deals, Real People, Real Office ... We Teach Real Estate. Are you ready for a change? Are you ready to become a real estate investor? For more information visit http://www.joinmeflippinghouses.com/event
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Children and Anxiety By Traci L. Williams
Many children are experiencing anxiety these days. I see it all the way down to elementary school. What happened to “fun” being the main activity in Kindergarten? Over the years, I have watched a lot of things change as they relate to school, home and community. Slowly but surely we are stepping away from good old family values. I thought it would be interesting to share these comparisons, see chart on right. There are many more things we could add to this list. It is true that every generation goes through change and growth. Our parents and grandparents had black and white TV’s. Their parents could only listen to shows on the radio. Phone lines used to be called “party lines” and were shared by more than one family. We have come a long way! The downside to where we are today is that our children are suffering. They do not get enough rest. They are constantly performing, preparing and
producing. Holiday breaks are for catch-up with homework, whereas that time used to be for catching up with family. I may be old fashioned, but sometimes we just need to get back to basics. I think we are missing a HUGE piece in life when our children meeting criteria becomes more important than them experiencing balance. When we don’t say NO to more testing, unending learning curves, rising GPA requirements, daily grade checks, inability to stay home when they are sick and hours of homework being the norm, we are saying YES to our children being overwhelmed, overworked, stressed, anxious and finding other coping strategies (vaping and drugs) to keep moving. I see it every day. Please take the time after reading this article to talk to your children. How are they feeling about school? How are they sleeping? How often are they nervous and anxious? Do they need more time with you? Let them know you not only care, but that you are willing to stand up for them. We are blindly creating a generation of workaholics. Parents … say NO when it’s too much for your child. You are the only one who can. Traci L. Williams is the Founder of A Loving Way to Parent. She provides parenting classes, teen programs and individual coaching. She is known for her practical parenting style and can be reached directly at 951-240-1407 or traci@alovingway.com. www.alovingway.com
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Tax Issues for Veterans Program Thursday, March 7 Veterans, learn how to navigate tax laws that apply to you!
Tax Day is fast approaching, and the Temecula Law Resource Center (TLRC) will host a free Tax Issues for Veterans program presented by the Inland Counties Legal Services (ICLS) at the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library (30600 Pauba Road) on Thursday, March 7, 2019 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm. This event will discuss taxable (and non-taxable) benefits, considerations for disabled vets, education benefits, student loans, tax refunds, and other topics. The ICLS (http://www.inlandlegal.org/) is a non-profit 501c(3) corporation dedicated to securing justice and equality for low income people through counsel, advice, advocacy, and community education. The TLRC is a partnership between the City of Temecula and the Riverside County Law Library (http://www.rclawlibrary.org/). Contact the TLRC at lawlibrary.temecula@rclawlibrary.org or (951) 639-8902 for inquiries.
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In The Temecula Valley Hospital is Underway on a New Medical Residency Program
UHS Southern California Medical Education Consortium has been approved to start a new medical residency program by the Accreditation Council for Graduate Medical Education (ACGME). The program underway will feature Internal Medicine and Family Medicine residents receiving the majority of their training at Temecula Valley Hospital. Residents will also complete specialty rotations at Southwest Health Care System. The three-year residency program is scheduled to begin in July 2019 with 26 residents; 20 Internal Medicine and 6 Family Medicine. Each year, an additional 26 residents will be added to the program. The principal goal of the graduate medical education program is to train residents to be compassionate and skilled physicians. The residents will have the opportunity to work side-by-side with the exceptional medical faculty at Temecula Valley Hospital and to collaborate with medical faculty in the community. These skilled faculty work as a team ensuring residents receive the educational experiences necessary to prepare them for their futures. The success of the residency program is paramount to begin to address the serious shortage of physicians in this region. According to the latest Advisory Board, there are approximately
From left to right, Dr. Michael Nduati – Chief Academic Officer, Dr. Carrie Bacon – Program Director, Family Medicine, Christine Torre – Family Medicine Program Coordinator, Jennifer Banks – Internal Medicine Program Coordinator, and Dr. Joel Trambley – Program Director, Internal Medicine.
45 physicians per 100,000 people in Southwest Riverside County, which is one of the lowest per capita in Southern California. “We are thrilled to serve as the host site for this newly accredited program at Temecula Valley Hospital,” said Darlene Wetton, Chief Executive Officer of Temecula Valley Hospital. “As a highly acclaimed and award-winning hospital, the addition of graduate medical education allows us to train future physicians who share our commitment to compassionate patient care and clinical excellence. We are committed to bringing new physicians to the region who will advance the care to our community.” For more information, visit www.socalresidency.com/
Graybill Medical Group Opens Primary Care Office in Murrieta Open House Scheduled for March 14, 2019
Graybill Medical Group, one of the largest independent medical groups in North San Diego County, announced the opening of its newest office, in Murrieta, California. The Murrieta Office provides primary care for all family members, including Pediatrics, Family Medicine, and Internal Medicine. It is located directly across from Rancho Springs Medical Center, at 25485 Medical Center Drive, Suite 100, Murrieta, CA 92562. Telephone (866) 228-2236.
Open House
In celebration of the new office, Graybill will host an Open House there on Thursday, March 14 from 10:30 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. Graybill executives will be on hand to answer questions from interested parties. Parking will be available onsite for public use. Directions and further information can be found at https://www.graybill.org/class/murrieta-open-house/.
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The Season Continues... For a complete listing of 2019 concerts, venues, and ticket prices please visit our website at www.TemeculaValleySymphony.org or call 951-587-1536! We’re not your ordinary stuffy symphony. Come and join the experience of Music, Art, & Passion!
Mar. 10, 2019 – Sun. 3:00 pm – “CARNIVAL OF MUSIC” a free concert hosted by The City of Temecula’s Community Services Dept., at the Temecula Amphitheater at the Community Rec. Ctr. The program is child-friendly with music selections and educational demonstrations for kids. The Master Musician of Murrieta will provide a display of musical instruments for kids to explore after the concert. FREE.
May 18, 2019 – Sat. 2:00 pm – “THE EXPERIENCE!” will showcase acclaimed jazz singer Sherry Williams performing some of Duke Ellington’s biggest hits along with Beethoven’s 5th, Queen’s Bohemian Rhapsody, and Overture to a Pops Concert by Henry Mancini.
Mar. 30, 2019 – Sat. 2:00 pm – “TRIUMPH & DESTINY” features three piano winners of the 2019 Young Artist Competition performing one movement of each of their concertos, plus Spitfire Prelude & Fugue from the 1942 film “The First of the Few,” Elgar’s Serenade to Strings, and Video Games Live, a thrilling medley of video game themes.
TEMECULA VALLEY SYMPHONY is a 60member orchestra under the baton of Music Director and Conductor, John Mario Di Costanzo. The Symphony produces numerous concerts throughout the year and takes pride in offering “Symphonic Music with A New Twist.” Our concert programs include exciting selections from movies, animated films, Broadway, operas, and epic classics.
Venue for March 30th and May 18th – Golden Bears Theater, Temecula Valley High School, 31555 Rancho Vista Rd., Temecula.
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Leading Home Care Provider Releases Quarterly Client Satisfaction Survey Results FirstLight Home Care of Temecula earns exceptional overall rating
FirstLight Home Care, a leading provider of non-medical home care, has released its quarterly client satisfaction survey results. The report found that FirstLight Home Care of Temecula, in business since Jan 2017, has been recognized as one of the company’s top home care providers in overall client satisfaction with an average rating of 5 stars out of 5. FirstLight has a proven commitment to client satisfaction. The company conducts live phone interviews with clients every quarter through independent third-party research firm Infosurv. Consistent with FirstLight’s Culture of Care, Infosurv conducts these surveys to gather honest, unbiased feedback in specific areas, including quality of care, communication and responsiveness, and overall satisfaction. Clients are also
given the opportunity to provide feedback in areas where FirstLight excels, as well as areas in which the company can improve. Non-medical home care provides the assistance and support people need to live independently in their homes. Traditionally, home care providers focus services exclusively on older adults who are aging in place. But FirstLight also delivers services to adults with disabilities; those recovering from illness, injury or surgery; new and busy mothers; and John and Christine Hamby, owners anyone 18 or older who may need assisof FirstLight Home Care. tance managing daily activities. The home care segment is experiencing significant growth, making superior client satisfaction a critical component in helping consumers make the most informed decisions about home care services. Regularly surveying clients and considering their feedback is the first step toward achieving the goal of providing exceptional care. FirstLight Home Care of Temecula is owned and operated by local entrepreneurs John and Christine Hamby. Their business achieved an average rating of 5 out of 5 stars. The score was determined based on clients’ experience with and opinions of FirstLight Home Care. The Temecula, California provider is part of FirstLight Home Care, a national leader in home care services operating in more than 30 states. For more information about FirstLight Home Care of Temecula visit www.temecula.firstlighthomecare.com or give us a call at (951) 395-0821.