Neighbors Newspaper July 2019

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Stay-Cation Cookhouse at Vail HQ Opens Taste of Old Town Summerfest JC Fest at Lake Skinner Be a Neighbor This Week Social Media IQ Rethink Your Drink Movies in the Park Camp Dinners for Kids Photography Table of Contents Page 4

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2019 Live @ the Plateau Summer Art and Concert Series Back by very popular demand, the deck and stage area behind the Visitor Center at the Santa Rosa Plateau Ecological Reserve in rural Murrieta will be transformed into an outdoor concert and art exhibition venue, to include seven weeks of celebrating 22 years of the Annual Santa Rosa Plateau Art Exhibition and six Saturday evenings of tribute concerts.

Art Exhibition Focusing on local art, the seven week exhibition will feature the works of 25 local artists conveying the celebration of nature in a wide range of media from pen and ink, oils, watercolor, sculptures, textures and glass. This year, a special art exhibition opening night reception will be held Saturday, June 29, 6-8pm. A $15 tickets must be purchased in advance. The Exhibition is free to the public during the day beginning Sunday, July 7 until August 11.

The June 29 reception will include wine, heavy hors d’oeurves, and special entertainment by Kodi Lee. The art show will be open during the Saturday night concerts, but will require a concert admission ticket, purchased in advance.

Concert Series Plateau Vineyards presents the 2019 Summer Art and Concert Series Live! @ the Plateau…held in conjunction with the annual summer art show.

The concerts will be held on the 6 Saturdays during the duration of the art show beginning July 6 – August 10. While the art exhibition is free to the public during the day starting July 7, the Saturday night concerts and exhibition will require a ticket purchased in advance. No tickets are sold on day of the event. Bring your own chair.

Concerts will be held on the outdoor stage behind the Visitor Center. The art exhibition will be inside the Visitor Center. Concert tickets must be purchased in advance. Picnic dinners, provided by The Naughty Pig, must be purchased in advance. Art reception and concert tickets purchased at www.plateauconcertsandart.org.

TICKET INFORMATION ADVANCE PURCHASE ONLY – NO SAME DAY TICKETS AT GATE Concert Tickets: $35 per person – General Public (Children 12 & under free) $25 per person – SRPNEF Members Season Tickets – General Public - $150 SRPNEF Members - $130 Art Exhibition Reception - $15 PURCHASE TICKETS & MEALS www.plateauconcertsandart.org or in person at Visitor Center Santa Rosa Plateau Ecological Reserve Visitor Center’s Outdoor Stage & Deck 39400 Clinton Keith, Murrieta 92562

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Your Skin Deserves a Blissed Out Experience This Summer!

Are you looking for a Radiant Glow? How about an experience that will leave your skin feeling beautiful, rejuvenated and refreshed?

Having a facial with Sydney Seligman at “Blissed Out” is Heavenly, with her warm and gentle touch, not to mention your skin feels absolutely divine and more alive than ever.

Sydney is a native Temeculan. She grew up homeschooled and graduated high school early to start her career in the beauty industry. She’s a professional makeup artist as well as a licensed Esthetician. She went to Esthetician school at San Diego City College. She has always had big dreams of owning her own business.

Sydney grew up living a holistic lifestyle, and at Blissed Out, Sydney only uses natural and organic products in all her services, proving that additives like perfumes, dyes, parabens, etc. are unnecessary when it comes to holistic skincare.

Her services provide Relaxing Facials, Therapeutic Facials, Customized Facials, Acneic Facials for acne control, even Booty Facials that help boost collagen and elastin. This process slowly dissolves cellulite over time leaving your derriere smooth. Or, you can enjoy a Back Facial to relieve soreness and tension on your back and prevent back acne. Sydney also caters to men offering Dude Facials.

Lash Extensions are also available using lash products which are safe for sensitive skin and lack harsh chemicals.

Her services can either be purely for relaxation or for therapeutic purposes depending on what her clients tell her during their consultation. Sydney provides in depth consultations and follow ups with all her clients. Call today for an appointment and see for yourself.

Blissed Out is located in the Sola Salon 32467 Temecula Pkwy Suiute #4, Temecula, CA squidney.heart@gmail.com 951-315-5192 Instagram @okaysydney To Book Appointments online: solalalonstudios.com/salon-profes sional/sydney-seligman1

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THANK YOU JULY 2019

Support Our Local Businesses Animal Friends of the Valley ...........................8 Azuza Pacific University .................................6 Ben's Junk Removal......................................17 Blissed Out Salon ...........................................3 California Technical Academy ........................7 Callaway Winery............................................27 Decompress Express......................................5 Doug Foster Art.............................................18 Epic Dog Academy .........................................8 Express Tech .................................................21 First Light Home Care ...................................28 Galway Spirits ...............................................5 Grace Evangelical Free Church ......................30 GreenBee Services ........................................36 Honeycutt Farms ...........................................10 Heyday Productions ......................................27 Heyday 90's Concert .....................................12 Honest Discounts..........................................26 Hope Lutheran Church VBS...........................31 Hospice of the Valleys ...................................28 Jennifer Smart Foundation............................23 Jeweler by Design ..........................................9 Lake Elsinore 4th of July ..............................14 Menifee 4th of July........................................14 Menifee Bible Church ....................................31 Mobile Legal Services ...................................17 Murrieta Concerts in the Park .......................33 Mt. San Jacingo College.................................6 My Grannys' Attic..........................................25 Naughty Pig Gourmet Meats .........................10 OTTA Summerfest.........................................25 Painted Garden..............................................25 Passion Life Church ......................................19 Plumber- Ron Dumas....................................17

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COMMUNITY

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JC Fest at Lake Skinner

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HEALTHY LIVING

In The News.....................................................................34 Community Events ..........................................................23

Dance Like 1 Person is Watching....................................26 Rethink Your Drink this Summer .....................................32

Piedmontese Beef ...........................................................10 The Cookhouse at Vail HQ ..............................................11

Room Arranger-Outdoor Spaces ....................................16

DINING

EDUCATION

MSJC Free Tuition Program ..............................................6 MSJC Nursing Program ..................................................17

ENTERTAINMENT

Next to Normal at Vista Murrieta HS ...............................33 Taste of Old Town Summerfest .......................................33 Shakespeare in the Vines ................................................33

EVENTS

Vail HQ July Events ...........................................................7 July 4th Events ................................................................14 Summerfest – Old Town Temecula ..................................17 JC Fest at Lake Skinner ..................................................19

FAITH

What is Truth?..................................................................30 Be a Neighbor This Week ................................................31

HOME

JUST FOR FUN

Blissed Out Spa.................................................................3 Photography – Bolsa Chica Reserve...............................18

KIDS

Movies in the Park ...........................................................15 Camp Dinners for Kids ....................................................22

OLD TOWN COMMUNITY

Temecula House of Jerky ................................................24 Old Town Live ..................................................................25

PETS

Pet Adoptions....................................................................8

TEENS

Project Independence Skills ............................................28

VISITING OUR VINEYARDS

Events at the Wineries.....................................................27

FAMILY

Parenting – When They Whine ..........................................9 Social Media IQ ...............................................................12 And She Said “I Do” ........................................................13

Santa Rosa Plateau Concerts .........................2 Sizzler ...........................................................11 Storm Baseball .............................................34 Studio 395- Village on Grand ........................29 Swim to Shore ..............................................15 Sweet Cheeks Studio Permanent Makeup ......3 Temecula Newcomers Club ...........................23 Temecula Valley Youth Symphony.................15 Temecula Valley Womens's Club...................23 Vineyard Ranch .............................................12 Wickerd Farm Artisan's Market .....................35

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Mt. San Jacinto College Launches Tuition-Free MSJC Promise Program

Mt. San Jacinto College is excited to announce that beginning this fall, we are launching the MSJC Promise program that provides free tuition to first-time, full-time students.

“We know that tuition can be a major financial barrier that prevents people from attending college,” said Dr. Roger W. Schultz, Superintendent/President.

“The MSJC Promise will remove that obstacle for incoming students who qualify.

We urge students to take advantage of this great program to earn a highquality college education tuition free at MSJC.” To be eligible for the MSJC Promise, students must meet all of the following criteria: • Apply for admission at msjc.edu/apply

• Apply for and join the First-Year Experience program • Be a California resident or exempt group • Have a high school diploma or GED

• Be a first-time college student (no transfer units)

• Apply for FAFSA or California Dream Act Application

• Be enrolled in and complete at least 12 units per term in the Fall and Spring semesters • Take English and Math in the first year

• Maintain a minimum 2.0 GPA while at MSJC

“We are doing what we can to help provide all residents of our communities more access to the quality higher education we offer at Mt. San Jacinto College, whether we’re providing free tuition or campuses closer to where our students live and work,” Schultz said. “We are committed to providing higher education that improves the quality of our students’ lives. We will continue to look for additional avenues to help make MSJC even more accessible to our communities.”

Those interested in the MSJC Promise program and enrolling at MSJC can learn more at www.msjc.edu/free. All applications will be reviewed and considered on a first-come, first-served basis depending on availability of funds.

MSJC’s Fall 2019 registration opens in July and the semester begins Aug. 12. For more information on getting started, call (951) 639-5313.

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July at Vail HQ – Fun for Everyone Saturday July 6th – Clear Charity kid’s carnival and craft fair – 5pm to 9pm Free family event featuring Bubble Dance Party every hour, train rides, cake walk, & kids carnival, face painting and diaper drive raffle!

Plus, a Kids Carnival - Get a $5 all day game pass to have access to unlimited, kid-friendly games and activities.Funds go directly towards supporting Diaper Aid of Southern California! **Bring your WIC folder and receive up to 2 pass/family.

RAFFLE & DIAPER DRIVE Bring a Pack of Diapers to donate & get a raffle ticket per 30 diapers! Or you can purchase your raffle ticket with cash or credit card! Winner will be announced throughout the day!

This event is hosted by Diaper Aid by Clear Charity. All proceeds from this event go towards supplying over 30,000 Diapers that are distributed to families in need each month! https://www.facebook.com/events/1226760160831401/ Sunday July 7th – Sunday Funday with craft fair by Synergy Social – 11am to 4pm

Saturday July 13th – HerrKooled Inland Empire presents: Little V Dubs on the Prairie classic car show – 3pm to 10pm – 300+ expected attendance An all VW classic car show with live music all day, car themed vendors, costume contest, prizes for car show participants and more. https://www. facebook.com/events /2148834528546553/

Saturday July 20th – Thistle and Sage Vegan Marketplace - 4pm to 8pm.

Join us each month for the one and only Temecula Vegan Market! We'll have your favorite vegan food vendors, makers, kombucha on tap, live music, art, workshops and more! https://www.facebook.com/e vents/358251854975964/ Sunday July 21st - Sunday Funday with craft fair by Synergy Social – 11am to 4pm

Friday July 26th – Starlight Bazaar - 6pm to 10pm – 300+ expected attendance.

Starlight Bazaar is a night time festival for the whole family that takes place at Vail Headquarters on the last Friday of every month (starting May and ending October).

At Opening Night you'll find: A Night market with 50 VENDORS presented by In The Loop Carriage rides, Live Music, Street Performers, Free Photo Ops, Make and Take Art projects, Food, Drinks + MORE. Event is free to attend and all ages must be 21+ to drink Monday July 29th – Family Movie Night presented by Rucker Orthodontics – 6pm to 9pm.

We will be playing “Dumbo” on the movie screen by the main stage. This event is open to the public and free to attend. Bring your lawn chairs, blankets and pillows!

Vail HQ is located at 32127 Temecula Parkway. VailHQ.com

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Pet Adoptions of the Month

PETS

Retrievers and Friends

Mattie is a very sweet 11 yr. old Lab mix. This older girl still loves to play ball, walks well on the leash, has good manners and is housetrained. She still has a lot of life and love to give and is looking for a loving home.

Shadow is a 2 year old Cockapoo.

He’s active, playful and full of life. He enjoys going for walks and is good with other dogs. He would be best with someone who has time to work with him and give him the attention he needs.

Roxy is a beautiful, 4 month old German Shepherd. She’s a sweetheart of a pup who wants to please. She will be a great companion for someone or a nice addition to a family who has the time for her.

If you’re interested in any of these dogs or to see many more available for adoption as well as feline friends, a pig, goat and a bunny, please visit www.retrieversandfriends.com.

Animal Friends of the Valleys

Bailey is an 18 month old Jack Russell Terrier mix, about 20 lbs. She’s gentle and very quiet. She came in with a group of dogs from a family who had too many dogs.

Buddy (ID #316349) is a handsome 8 year-old neutered Great Pyrenees mix who is looking for an active family to call his own! This big boy is very sweet and playful, loves going for walks, and is great with other dogs! Since he is such a big guy, he would prefer to have older children in the home, but he is such a wonderful pal and he can’t wait to go home with you! Stop by AFV to take this handsome fella home today!

Cinderella (ID #469751) is a gorgeous 3 year-old spayed kitty who is looking for a fairy godmother (or Prince Charming) to take her home!

It’s easy to fall in love with her gorgeous emerald eyes and sweet disposition, so stop by AFV to see if this gorgeous gal will be the perfect fit for your home!

For more information or to view other pets for adoption: www.animalfriendsofthevalleys.com

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Conscious Parenting - When They Whine

By Traci L. Williams

Summer is now in full swing and your kids may have more time on their hands. What do you do when more time feels like too much time? What do you do when whining starts and patience is low? The following list includes some things you may want to consider to reduce the conflict and meltdowns: 1. Is your child hungry?

2. Is he tired?

3. Has there been too much out-time or too much in-time?

4. Is he missing a friend?

5. Has something at home changed? (deployment, new work schedule, new sibling, etc.)

6. Did feelings get hurt that have not been resolved yet?

7. Does he need some quiet time (not a time-out, but personal quiet time to read a book or be alone)?

8. Are you making eye contact when you speak to him?

9. Is there stress in the home over finances, relational issues, etc.? (kids feel that) 10. Is there an unresolved battle going on between siblings? (best to sit down and help them resolve it) 11. Are you able to take the time to listen when he has an issue or wants to share something with you? (listening is key) 12. Do you kindly remind him to use his “big boy” words? (sometimes we regress when we are upset or our tank is empty) 13. Are you making a point to fit in selfcare? (equips you with more patience and gentleness with your kids) These are just a few things to look at. If you can resolve upsets at their core, instead of pushing them aside, it creates a longer lasting peace and you teach your child valuable life skills. It also builds trust and connection between you and your child, which is really important.

It takes time and energy, but is well worth the investment!

Additional tips for summer success: 1. Schedule some play dates, but also make plenty of room for “flow.” (let your kids use their imagination) 2. Ask your children what they most want to do before school starts again. (Put that on your calendar, if it is doable. Try to get at least one item on the schedule for each child.)

3. Do your best not to multi-task when you are with your children. If they are home, put on your mom/dad hat as much as you can. Enjoy the time off as a family.

4. Focus on FUN, even if it’s just hanging out watching a movie or playing in the backyard.

5. Schedule “date nights” with each child. (Check in and see how they are.)

6. Remember what it was like when you were a kid? Let them be kids.

7. Take family walks or bike rides.

Evenings after dinner are wonderful times for that.

8. Enjoy ice cream together on the patio after dark.

9. Stay up late to watch a special movie with your oldest child alone.

10. Think of things you can’t do when school is in session (such as staying up later), and have fun surprising your kids with special moments.

As a society, we have gotten away from built-in family time. As a parent, it is important that you create that time for your family as early as you can. Every moment spent investing in your parent-child relationship will pay off in the future. Find ways to open your schedule for enjoyment, quality time and conversation throughout the summer. Listen more than you talk. Do your best not to judge, blame or lecture. Be curious and seek to understand. Be patient. Do not yell. Get support when you need it. Have a wonderful summer!

Traci L. Williams is the Founder of A Loving Way to Parent. She provides parenting classes, teen programs and individual coaching. She is known for her practical parenting style and can be reached directly at 951-240-1407 or traci@alovingway.com. www.alovingway.com

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DINING

New Arrival at The Naughty Pig Piedmontese Beef

The Naughty Pig Butchery in Murrieta and Temecula continue to search the world over for the finest products. The Naughty Pig is proud to present a beef product that is low in Calories, high in protein and low in Saturated Fat: Certified Piedmontese Beef!

The Piedmontese breed dates back 25,000 years from Northwest Italy, where it was first discovered among the region’s robust history of fine wines and rich cuisines over 100 years ago. Prized for its noticeably heavy musculature, the Piedmontese breed’s unique genetic composition means that these cattle naturally develop a significantly greater muscle mass compared to conventional cattle. At the same time, muscle fibers

remain tender without the need for excess marbling.

The result is consistently superior beef that is both lean and tender.

Exceptionally lean and incredibly tender, Certified Piedmontese beef provides consumers and chefs with a healthier beef option without sacrificing flavor. Certified Piedmontese cattle are each DNA tested to confirm their unique heritage. Not only is the beef much lower in fat, Certified Piedmontese cattle are never given antibiotics or steroids. We raise this rare breed through a ranch-to-fork approach that ensures traceability, environmental sustainability, humane animal handling, and responsible resource management at every step. Countless well-known chefs from across the country rave about the exceptional quality and flavor profile of Certified Piedmontese beef.

The Certified Piedmontese program is a vertically integrated, source-verified, ranch-to-fork operation rooted in a dedication to our land, ranchers, cattle, consumers, and products. Progressive ranching protocols such as EID (Electronic Identification) tagging technology, database tracking initiatives, DNA testing to confirm heritage, and voluntary third-party audits, ensure beef that is consistently true to our supreme care, handling, and quality standards.

The mixed grass prairies of the Heartland and the fresh water of the Ogallala Aquifer sustain the cattle; Certified Piedmontese ranchers are stewards of both the cattle and the region’s natural resources. Progressive stockmanship values such as low stress handling protocols and the elimination of added growth hormones, antibiotics, and animal by-products, ensure healthier cattle and higher-quality beef for consumers. The Naughty Pig Butchery currently carries the Rib Eye and NY Strip cuts-Com’n get it!!

2 locations: Murrieta: 25359 Madison Ave. Ste. 108 – 951-677-1372 Temecula: 28780 Old Town Front St. A-5 – 951-587-0282

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The Cookhouse Food Hall at Vail HQ is NOW OPEN

At the Cookhouse you will find food from 4 kitchens including Amo Nakatl Asada (vegan Mexican cuisine), Wingman’s Wings (wings, strips and sandwiches), La Isla Ceviche (ceviche, fish tacos and more) and The Smok’d Hog (American regional barbeque). All of these kitchens serve unique dishes prepared fresh for the table.

The casual atmosphere, makes it a perfect place for lunch or dinner on any day of the week and it is just the place for Enjoy Vegan Mexican Cuisine at Amo the family. The kids can work up an apNakatl Asada petite and work off the ‘wiggles’ playing and exploring on the Vail HQ grounds before settling down for an adventurous meal.

While there shop at Super Mix Mercantile located inside the food hall for locally made art and goods, vintage clothing and accessories, kid’s stuff, and desserts!

Opening in late July will be another addition to the Cookhouse, the Daisy Bar, a cool and casual bar serving a selection of craft beer, local wines, and reimagined classic cocktails.

Vail HQ 32127 Temecula Parkway VailHQ.com @cookhouseatvailhq on Instagram and Facebook Open daily 11am to 9pm La Isla Ceviche serves fish tacos, ceviche and more.

You can guess what is available at the Smok’d Hog – Real American Reginal BBQ.

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Did You Know You Could Download Your Facebook Data?

If you have been using Facebook for a number of years now, your account must pack-in tons of your personal data like photos, videos, posts, messages, info and more. And the good thing is Facebook lets you download all of your profile data!

To do it, just head over to Facebook Settings and under the “General” tab column on the left, you should see an option at the bottom saying, "Your Facebook Information," You can download all of it at once, or you can select only the types of information and date ranges you want. Once you have selected the items you want to Download, then click “Create File." You can choose to receive your information in an HTML format that is easy to view, or a JSON format, which could allow another service to more easily import it. Facebook will then gather all your data and send you an email once the download is ready. Voila!

Downloading your information is a password-protected process that only you will have access to. Once you've created a file, it will be available for download for a few days after which Facebook will prompt you to enter your password again, as a security measure. You can also view your information without downloading it by clicking "Access Your Information" at any time.

We hope you find this information helpful. If you have any social media questions, please email them to socialmediaiq@neighborsnewspaper.com. Have a great day!

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“And then she said, “I do.”

By Judy Scharfenberg

Charles and Grace were newlyweds and had just moved into their first apartment. Grace put a shoebox on a shelf and asked her young husband to never touch it. For fifty years he left the box alone, but one day, he was in that closet, deciding on what to wear, and his curiosity overwhelmed him. He told himself, “My Gracie loves me. Surely after all this time, she won’t mind if I take a look.”

Inside he found two doilies, (doilies are usually little place mats that look like lace to put under a dish or vase) and twenty-five hundred dollars in cash.

He just had to ask Gracie about it.

He’d been right. Grace didn’t mind at all. Laughingly she explained, “My mother gave me that a box on our wedding day, Charles. She told me to crochet a doily to ease my frustrations every time I got mad at you.”

Charles was touched that in fifty years she’d been mad at him only twice.

“But what’s the money for?” he asked.

“Oh,” she answered. “That’s the money I made selling the doilies.”

Cute story and it makes us laugh. That’s one young bride’s way of easing frustrations. Today it’s not so simple. Life has become more complicated and in many ways so has marriage. Crocheting a doily may not do what it used to.

There will be many weddings this month. Brides have spent months on choosing invitations, venues, florists, and caterers and then there’s “the dress.”

This is probably one of the most tension filled times in a woman’s life. However, the wedding is over in the blink of an eye, but a marriage lasts much longer. The vows that were just spoken have been words of pledge and commitment and they are said with sincerity. Easy to say to your young groom who is looking at you with stars in his eyes.

Spending life together is now your dream come true. You expect that relationship you have read about in romance novels or seen in a movie to be the story of your life. But what man can live up to that?

Recently I heard a news commentator ask a 98-year-old woman what she attributed her 65-year marriage to. “Well,” she said, “when I said I do, I did!”

I remember thinking, aww, isn’t that the cutest thing you ever heard? The sweet-faced woman looked happy, content and so wise.

I thought about her vow, “I do.” I had said that same vow many years ago.

I was a young, starry-eyed woman who didn’t know anything about marriage. I looked at my handsome groom and saw only excitement and romance. All the things you see in the movies; it was there all right. And I expected our lives were just going to get better and better.

And I promised him I would take him to be my wedded husband, I would have and hold him from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish him till death do us part.

And there I pledged him my faithfulness.

Hmm. I had to be honest. When I said I do, I didn’t. Not for a long time.

It’s as simple as that. I wanted to, I just didn’t know how. Nor did he. And that’s where most marriages begin. You want to, just don’t know how.

I remember one time when I told my husband something and I expected a

certain answer. But what I got was complete silence. I could have gotten mad and stomped off. I gave him the silent treatment a lot when we were younger, but this was after years of marriage. I said to him, “Richard, this is when you’re supposed to say, such and such.”

He sheepishly grinned and said, “I wanted to, I just didn’t know how to say it. I thought it would sound stupid.” And I learned something new about my husband even after years of marriage. He was “thinking about it.”

Below are some suggestions to help you in those first few days and weeks after the honeymoon. Keep them handy and refer to them every once in awhile.

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Try to understand his perspective.

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Don’t have a critical spirit. Be harder on yourself and easier on your new husband. Give him a break and let him think about his answers.

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Seek to love him and encourage him.

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Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.

Be sure what you say is true, kind and necessary.

When you blow it, you hurt him or create a misunderstanding, be quick to ask for forgiveness.

Make sure you spend one night a week on a date. This will come easy at first, but after the dust settles, you get into a routine, maybe little ones arrive, it will get harder to carve out that time, but do it faithfully. You won’t regret it.

Someone has to begin.

Someone has to take the first step. Usually it’s the woman who does that. And if you do I can promise you one thing. Treat your man like a king, honor and respect him, encourage him and love him the way you did on your wedding day and he will conquer the world for you. You will be his queen.

Judy Scharfenberg is an author, mentor and speaker at conferences, retreats and other women’s events. Her newest book, Secure Families in a Shaky World is available at www.redemption- press.com or from the author herself. Married to Richard for 42 yrs., mother of six and grandmother to sixteen, Judy lives in Murrieta, California. If you would like to know more about a relationship with God or book her for an event, email her at: judyspeaksandwrites@gmail.com, or call 951-310-1421.

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July 4th Fireworks and Festivities Star Spangled 4th of July Parade- Temecula

Celebrate July 4th Galway style!

41000 Main Street, Temecula, CA 92590 The 4th of July Parade will be starting at 10am Thursday morning. The parade will be running arch to arch, South to North. Parking is available at the Old Town Parking Garage (South of the Civic Center on Mercedes St.)

Thursday, July 4, 2019 Website: https://galwayspirits.com/events Join us from 1-4pm on Thursday, July 4th for a barbecue complete with sausages from Mad Mikes!

Tastings will be available for $4 and specialty drinks from our bar for $8.

Bottles of our craft spirits will be on sale all weekend and we have some specials that you won’t want to miss!! Galway Spirits is located at 42065 Zevo Drive #7, Temecula, CA 92590

4th of July Festivities 41000 Main Street, Temecula, CA 92590 Festivities start at 2:00 pm; Food Vendors and Kids Fun Zone.

Entertainment from 2:00 pm - 9:00 pm on the main stage Fireworks start at 9pm sharp. Music broadcasted on KATY 101.3 Ronald Reagan Sports Park, 30875 Rancho Vista Rd, Temecula, California 92592

4th of July Fireworks

Valley-Wide Independence Day Celebration Thursday: July 4 All Day – Free to the Public Vendors open at 10:00 am; Entertainment starts at 5:00 pm Fireworks start at 9:00 pm. Join us for music, food, drinks and fireworks.

For more information call (951) 487-9234 https://www.gorecreation.org/valley-wide-recreation-s-4th-of-july-independence-day-celebration

Pechanga Fireworks Show Thursday, July 4, 2019, 8:30 pm - 9:30 pm Pechanga Resort Casino, 45000 Pechanga Pkwy, Temecula, California 92592

July 6 – We Love America Festival 2:00 pm - 8:00 pm – Lake Elsinore Observing everything our country was founded on and stands for. A tribute to our active military, veterans and first responders. 85,000 square feet of celebration through Music, Art, Entrepreneurship, Locally Brewed Beer and Food... Lots and lots of food. Located in the generously donated North End Parking Lot of the Outlets at Lake Elsinore.

Live Music - Food & Beer – Shopping Art: Art auction; Crafts and Painting for Kids; Face Painting; Balloon Art Activities for Kids: Waterslide; Bounce Houses Location: 17600 Collier Ave, Lake Elsinore, CA 92530

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Movies in the Park

Temecula Hosts Six Free Moonlight Movies in the Park Spend six summer nights at the park for free family fun and a movie under the stars. Activities begin at 6:00 pm with movies shown at dusk at one of the following locations: Temeku Hills Park (31367 La Serena Way) or Harveston Community Park (28582 Harveston Drive).

Please join us on Friday, August 9, 2019 for the movie, Planes: Fire & Rescue, as we celebrate the 75th birthday of Smokey the Bear at the last movie of the summer!

Remember to bring your family, friends, blankets, and lawn chairs.

Moonlight Movies In The Park Schedule • July 12 The Grinch (Rated PG) Temeku Hills Park • July 19 Up (Rated PG) Harveston Community Park • July 26 Ralph Breaks the Internet (Rated PG) Harveston Community Park • August 9 Planes: Fire & Rescue (Rated PG) Temeku Hills Park For more information, please visit TemeculaCA.gov or call (951) 694-6480.

Menifee Moonlight Markets A brand new experience being brought to Menifee! Enjoy local vendors selling unique good and food, a concert, family activities and a movie in the park! Each week will be themed and have opportunities for the community to get involved on the fun!

This is an event series you won’t want to miss! Free Event open to all ages.

• July 12th -The Karate Kid • July 26th – The Incredibles 2 • August 2nd – Community’s Choice Event begins at 5:00pm | Concert at 6:30pm | Movie at Dusk For more information or to become a vendor contact Menifee Community Services at (951) 723-3880.

Temecula Valley Youth Symphony (TVYS) enriches the lives of student musicians with outstanding educational and performance opportunities for music students at all levels, in a nurturing and challenging environment. TVYS is a tuition-based program. A few scholarships are available for students in need. New students should call the number below to set up an audition and discuss enrollment.

Beginning Strings Class is also available for those beginning level string players! (Violin, Viola, Cello, String Bass) Fall Semester Enrollment - new student auditions Monday, August 12th.

1st Rehearsal For Fall Semester – Monday, August 19th –Murrieta at Warm Springs Middle School. On occasion we use a different venue.

SCHEDULE - We are offering three levels of performance groups: 4:00 to 4:30 pm – Prelude I, Beginning Strings – for first time beginners.

4:30 to 5:30 pm – Prelude II, Beginning Strings – this class is for children who have played for at least one year. – Gina Wingfield, instructor 4:30 to 6:00 pm – Jr. Youth Symphony conducted by Dr. Sylvia Lee Mann 6:15 to 8:30 pm - Youth Symphony conducted by Dr. Zun-Hin Woo

CONCERTS: The group performs several concerts per season, in addition to various civic performances.

July 29th – 7:30 pm Summer Orchestra at Murrieta Springs Seventh-day Adventist Church Oct. 13th - 3 pm Fall Concert for City of Temecula; Oct. 21st – 7:30 pm Fall Concert ; Dec. 16th- 7:30 pm Winter Concert ; Mar. 16th – 7:30 pm Spring Concert; May 18th – 7:30 pm Season Finale Temecula Valley Youth Symphony - (951) 587-1536 www.TemeculaValleyYouthSymphony.org Contact: Alana Joos alana@temeculavalleyyouthsymphony.org Note: Auditions are available throughout the season.

PAGE 15 Lake Elsinore - Movies In The Park Wednesdays • 8:00 PM to 10:00 PM Summerlake Park• 900 Broadway Street, Lake Elsinore Free To Participate Bring your blankets, chairs, and snacks, and we will provide the entertainment.

Target to sponsor free popcorn & waters to kids.

For more information call (951) 674-3124 ext 292 • July 10: Ralph Breaks the Internet • July 24: The Karate Kid Movie Night at the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library on Monday, July 8, 2019 Do you love movies from the ‘80s? Join us for a showing of Spaceballs during Movie Night on July 8, 2019 from 6:30 pm to 8:30 pm, at the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library (30600 Pauba Road).

Bring some friends, sit back, and enjoy a classic ‘80s comedy! Snacks and drinks will be provided (while supplies last).

Sponsored by the Friends of the Temecula Libraries, this program is for Grades 7-12. No advance registration necessary. Space is limited.

Murrieta – Movies in the Park • August 3- The Little Mermaid • August 10 – Aquaman California Oaks Sports Park. Movies begin at 8pm.

Free Admission. Food Sales. Bring your lawn chair or blanket.

Murrieta Community Services Department at (951) 304-7275

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Ideas for Home

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Summer Spaces

By Rita Wood

Is summer calling your name? If it’s not calling your name then it should be calling you to get outside! Think of the outdoors an extension of your home. Taking advantage of outdoor space, whether big or small, not only increases your living area but also gives you the feeling of being on vacation. It could be just the ticket to a more relaxing summer!

So, let’s take another look at your outside space.

You probably cannot increase the size of your property; however, you can make the most of what you have. So, take a walk, check out your patio, the front porch, balcony, your back and side yard, the deck and even the area around your pool. Any of these can be turned into a summer time outside spot.

Once you’ve identified a potential spot, think about a good use for the space then furnish it in a way that complements the inside of your home. Select a style and colors that coordinate for a pleasing visual flow.

Depending on how large an area you have, both a sitting/conversation area with a separate spot to eat is ideal. A sofa or sectional and club or lounge chairs are all good choices. Don’t forget to add weather resistant cushions and throw pillows for comfort, style and a pop of color. A place to eat is important too because food always tastes better when you eat outside . . . so let’s have a picnic! A table and chairs or bench are perfect. Remember, everything doesn’t have to be a “set”. Mismatched chairs can be painted a fresh new color and paired with any table for a stylish, eclectic look and a casual vibe.

If your space is limited such as a balcony or perhaps a small front porch, don’t worry. You still have enough space to create a cozy spot for outdoor enjoyment. Just because an area is small doesn’t

mean it can’t be large in style! Start with a couple comfortable chairs and a small table between. If you have room for ottomans, that’s great as they can be used for feet and as extra seating.

The same furniture placement “rules” apply to outdoor spaces as well.

Adding an area rug and maybe a plant or two will complete your comfy spot.

The only thing left to do is grab a cold beverage and the newest summer novel!

Another in/outside “rule” is that you don’t have to place furniture against a wall, or in this example, outside against a fence. By doing so, it sometimes leaves too much open space and your pieces appear unrelated. (See my before and after photos.) By pulling the bench forward towards the fountain focal point, the pieces better relate to one another. Rearranging the potted plants and adding a pillow complete the side yard mini-makeover.

As night time rolls around, it doesn’t mean you have to go inside.

Don’t hesitate to add both task and decorative lighting as part of your outdoor decor. Use table and floor lamps for overall lighting, and to add ambience, string lights in or around trees, and fences or the railing of your balcony. Path lighting along sidewalks and or spotlights highlighting plants add another level of interest. And wouldn’t a fire pit be great?! Add adirondack chairs and you’re set for a fun evening under the stars. (Don’t forget the marshmallows ;) I wish for you a fabulous summer and hope you find some underutilized outdoor space, large or small, and discover ways to turn it into the perfect summer getaway!

Temecula resident Rita Wood, The Room Arranger, has been a certified member of the Interior Redecorators Network for 20 years. Her specialty is helping clients transform their home using the furniture and accessories they already own and love. To learn more, visit her website www.theroomarranger.com or attend one of her decorating classes at Hobby Lobby. Call 315-481-9659 for details.

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MSJC Registered Nursing Program Ranks No. 7 in California

Mt. San Jacinto College’s Registered Nursing program ranked No. 7 out of 160 programs in California for best-value RN programs, according to Nursing Explorer.

Photo courtesy of Mt. San Jacinto College

Mt. San Jacinto College’s Registered Nursing program ranked No. 7 out of 160 programs in California for best-value RN programs, according to Nursing Explorer.

Nursing Explorer, a nursing education and career resource center, calculates the rankings by considering a college’s National Council Licensure Examination (NCLEX) pass rate and the net price of attendance for a student who receives the average amount of financial aid. “The higher the NCLEX pass rate of the program, and the lower the cost, the better the return on investment,” Nursing Explorer explains of its rankings.The demand for nurses continues to grow in our area and MSJC students are sought out by local agencies, said Dr. Peter Zografos, MSJC Nursing Program Director.MSJC Nursing students participate in an occupational internship with local agencies and gain hands-on experience, he said. All graduates who have participated in the occupational internship program, in past years, have secured employment through their internship. Getting a job in the field of study is one of the reasons MSJC’s Allied Health & Nursing Program earned a Silver Star award from the California Community College Chancellor’s Office.In May, MSJC held a nurse pinning ceremony for its 46 nursing graduates. They were among 1,707 graduates earning a record-breaking 3,314 degrees and certificates from Mt. San Jacinto College this academic year.

On June 17, Mt. San Jacinto College launched its MSJC Promise program that will provide free tuition to first-time, full-time students beginning this fall. Learn more about the exciting new program at www.msjc.edu/free. All applications will be reviewed and considered on a first-come, first-served basis depending on availability of funds.

MSJC’s Fall 2019 registration opens in July and the semester begins Aug. 12. For more information on getting started, call (951) 639-5313.

Mt. San Jacinto College serves about 26,000 students in a district covering 1,700 square miles from the San Gorgonio Pass to Temecula.

Have a wonderful day and please follow MSJC on social media – Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

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Bolsa Chica Ecological Reserve

By Dick Cronberg

Through the years many folks ask me where they should go to get good wildlife photos in the summer. Since migrations are pretty well finished and the weather can get unbearably hot, I always head to the coast.

And my favorite spot to shoot great images at close range is Bolsa Chica Ecological Reserve (also know just a Bolsa Chica).

Bolsa Chica is located in Huntington Beach on the Pacific Coast Highway between Seapoint Avenue on the southern border and Warner Ave. on the north. There are two entrances but I prefer the south en-

trance right off of P.C.H. Highway.

This entrance has a small parking lot and is just steps way from a beautiful boardwalk that wanders through the tidal marsh. As you walk onto the boardwalk you will immediately see and hear birds everywhere. And the variety of birds is amazing!

When most wildlife areas have little avian activity Bolsa Chica is teeming with birds. And many of them are flying right past you, sometimes within feet!

Keep in mind this is a tidal march so you’ll be seeing mostly water birds. Some of the species you’ll most likely see are several varieties of terns, several species of gulls, herons, egrets, shorebirds by the hundreds, ducks, Brown Pelicans and rails.

The really exciting part is that these birds are busy tending babies (nesting season) and concentrating on feeding those hungry mouths. They’re not paying attention to you so you will get really great close-up looks (and photos).

Probably my favorite bird there is the Black Skimmer. These large birds are related to terns and have a specialized feeding behavior. Their lower mandible (bill) is longer than the top. They fly low over the water (skimming) with the lower mandible in the water. When they come across a fish, SNAP!

Black Skimmer Their beautiful black and white foliage and bright reddish-orange bill make then very colorful.

You’ll also get a good chance to see rarities. One is the Rideway Rail. This secretive bird skulks around the vegetation sometimes seemingly invisible one moment and then easy to spot the next.

Another unique bird found at Bolsa Chica is the Reddish Egret. This bird is rarely found in the U.S. and is at home in Mexico and further south. There always seems to be one or two wading the tidal flats and “dancing” with their wings spread in an odd feeding behavior.

There is also a 4 mile hiking trail that encompasses the reserve and you’ll have a chance to see Ospreys, owls, swallows and even hummingbirds. You just never know what you’ll spot.

The interpretive center is close to the north parking lot where you can get more information.

When I teach Wildlife Photography classes for the City of Temecula, I talk a lot about Bolsa Chica. It’s a special place where beginning wildlife photographers can get great shots up close without expensive cameras and lenses.

So, there you have it. If you’re wanting someplace new to explore either to take photos or just to explore try Bolsa Chica. And, don’t forget the binoculars!!!

For more info. on my Digital Photography classes sponsored by the City of Temecula go to: To get information on classes at the City of Temecula go to: temecula.gov/tcds.

Forster’s Terns

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JC Fest Christian Music Festival Announces Lineup of Chart-topping Bands & Performers Unspoken, Brandon Heath and Sanctus Real

JC Fest, Southern California’s newest Christian Music Brandon Heath Festival, recently announced a stellar lineup for the inaugural event, August 3 at Lake Skinner Recreation Area. The lineup includes Unspoken, Brandon Heath and Sanctus Real. Coffey Anderson, who recently performed on the Temecula Valley Balloon & Wine Festival, will host the entire day.

Unspoken’s current hit “Reason” has been on Billboard’s top 20 Christian Airplay and Hot Christian Song charts for over 10 weeks. A band that recently toured with Big Daddy Weave and Sanctus Real, Unspoken has six Top 10 AC singles including “Who You Are,” “Lift My Life Up,” “Good Fight,” and “Start A Fire” a No. 1 on the Christian Adult Contemporary charts.

With three Sanctus Real No. 1 Billboard hits and five more in the top ten, Brandon Heath has garnered five GRAMMY® nominations, an American Music Award nod and an Emmy Award. His No. 1 hit “Give Me Your Eyes” was certified Platinum by Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA” In addition, he’s earned eight Dove Awards, including being named Male Vocalist of the Year twice.

Sanctus Real has a slew of Christian Music hits including the 2010 hit “Lead Me” that held No. 1 on Billboard for nine weeks. Sanctus Real has two GRAMMY® nominations, plus seven GMA nominations and one Best Modern Rock Album (2005 - Fight the Tide). The group released a new single in May titled “Unstoppable.”

Coffey Anderson has his roots in Country and soul in Christian music. When record labels said he wasn’t ready to be “signed” he created YouTube.com/CoffeySouthernMan and started his own career. His YouTube channel has over 114,000 subscribers with over 40 million views. Anderson will host the stage as well as perform at JC FEST. He and Riverside County Sheriff Chad Bianco will pay tribute to service men and women, and first responders at the Festival when Anderson performs his song “Mr. Red White and Blue.”

JC FEST, a one-day festival, starts at 2 p.m. and includes professional skateboarding demonstrations, food trucks, arts and crafts exhibits, Splash Pad, and a kids’ zone.

JC Fest is for all ages and is a Christian-centered family fun event designed to bring communities together for a one-of-a-kind Christian Music Festival. The event is partnering with the non-profit organization Project T.O.U.C.H. who provides emergency and transitional housing, as well as basic essential needs for the homeless. Riverside County Sheriff Bianco will welcome the crowd. All first responUnspoken ders and active duty military are invited to attend the event and will receive free admission to the event with identification.

Tickets on sale now at JCFest.com.

Church & youth groups, mission programs, and Christian organizations are encouraged to volunteer. For group pricing information and sponsorships call (951) 450-8809.

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Launch Pointe RV Resort Now Open If you love camping, this is a perfect getaway in your own backyard!

Launch Pointe Recreation Destination & RV Park is Southern California’s newest outdoor resort destination. It was designed to provide guests with a truly unique RV resort experience.

The RV Park includes seven unique spaces in the resort for your RV stay.

1. The Infield offers quiet seclusion with easy access to all amenities.

2. The Loop includes perimeter sites for more privacy, with half of these doubling as long-term spaces.

3. The Track & Trails Parkway sites surround a beautiful, large lawn and provide some of the most unobstructed views of the lake.

4. The Fields provides an intimate RV experience beneath the canopy of beautiful old-growth pecan trees.

The Bobber Restaurant offers meal delivery to your campsite, trailer or yurt!

5. The Base Camp is our smallest area in the park. It is designed for friends, with eight buddyspaces.

6. Aquaplane Lane is the place to be if you have children. It surrounds a 4,500-gallon splash pad, which will be a popular place during hot summer days.

7. Canopy Court is every child’s playground dream come true. It has lots of fabulous equipment to climb and play on, all on top of a surface cushioned to eliminate those scuffed knees.

All RV spaces are equipped with 50-amp electrical hookups, along with water and sewer. Each site comes with a concrete patio pad, as well as privacy fence.

Boating and Fishing

Come rent a boat and get out on the lake! You can stay a day or take an extended vacation. Whichever you choose, be sure to stop by our new location for your best source of Lake Elsinore bait, tackle and boat rentals now available at Launch Pointe in City of Lake Elsinore, California.

There are 9 themed vintage trailers to rent. Each includes a deck and furniture for outdoor enjoyment.

Eat and Shop

Launch Pointe has a Bait & Tackle Shop, along with The Bobber Restaurant to ensure guests have access to what they need while here.

The Bait & Tackle shop has everything you’ll need to ensure you have an enjoyable day fishing. The store also stocks beverages, snacks and merchandise you’ll need while here.

Cool off in the swimming pool.

The fire pit is in the center of vintage trailer area. Bring the marshmallows.

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Host an Event at Community Hall

Launch Pointe provides guests with the option of using our new Community Hall. This facility is perfect for weddings, family reunions or corporate retreats. It comes equipped with the following amenities: • 5,000 square feet main hall with forty-foot ceilings • State-of-the-art audio/video systems

• Professional catering kitchen with high-end appliances

• Upstairs mezzanine with outdoor patio is perfect for cocktail receptions • 45,000 square foot lawn is perfect for receptions

• Launch Pointe has a Bait & Tackle Shop, along with The Bobber Restaurant to ensure guests have access to what they need while here.

• The Bait & Tackle shop has everything you’ll need to ensure you have an enjoyable day fishing. The store also stocks beverages, snacks and merchandise you’ll need while here.

Rent a Vintage Trailer or Yurt

What is a Yurt? According to Wikipedia it is a portable, round tent covered with skins or felt and used as a dwelling by several distinct nomadic groups in the steppes of Central Asia. The structure comprises an angled assembly or latticework of pieces of wood or bamboo for walls, a door frame, ribs, and a wheel possibly steam-bent. Wikipedia There are 9 themed Vintage Trailers 6 uniquely decorated Yurts to choose from in varying sizes and styles. Each includes a deck, outdoor furniture and beautiful views of the lake and mountains.

Camp rates and rentals are affordable and with the amenities of

The new community hall is available for weddings, family reunions or corporate retreats.

There are 7 unique spaces in the resort for the perfect RV stay.

Yurts for rent. For 2 or a group. Complete with a deck and lavish outdoor plumbing.

a restaurant, concierge service, parks, pool, lake, boat rentals, campfires…..what else could you ask for?

Launch Pointe is located at 32040 Riverside Drive, Lake Elsinore www.Launch-Pointe.com or call 855-471-1212 or more information.

Photos courtesy of Jimmy Fu

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Creative Kid-Friendly Camping Dinner Ideas

By Ann Gibson, Reserve America

The ideal campout dinner is one that lets you spend the day outdoors and maximizes your evening relaxation time. That means simple set up, minimal prep time and a fun cooking experience.

A bit of advanced planning is all it takes to turn your camping picnic into a culinary adventure for the whole family. Get the bulk of your grocery shopping out of the way before you leave home, so you can slice, dice and portion out your family’s favorite toppings, add creative spices like lemon pepper or cilantro lime to your seafood, then marinate and freeze chicken, steak and other hearty proteins to preserve flavor during transport. Pack food in a wellinsulated cooler to keep ingredients chilled, and replace messy ice cubes with frozen juice pouches that double as a slushy treat for the kids upon arrival. Once you fire up the grill, let the flames burn down to a smoldering bed of coals for high heat and even cooking temperatures. The embers will be just right for roasting marshmallows after dinner.

Gather ‘round the campfire for dinners that are as much fun to cook as they are to eat.

flour tortillas toasted on foil to refrigerated pizza dough pressed lightly into an oiled cast iron skillet. Top with your favorite pesto, white or red pizza sauce, mozzarella cheese, proteins like sausage, chicken or pepperoni, and fresh veggies like sliced tomatoes, mushrooms, olives and onions. Sprinkle basil, cilantro, oregano and parsley on top, dust with parmesan, and finish to melted perfection on the grill.

4. Surf ‘n Turf Foil Packets

1. Hawaiian-style Skewers

A light dinner alternative that you can prepare at home. Use wooden skewers and toss them in the fire at the end of the meal for the easiest clean-up ever.

Instructions: Stack chicken pieces, red onion and pineapple wedges on skewers, adding optional ingredients like green peppers, cherry tomatoes and bacon slices for more adventurous palates. Marinate the meat and veggies with summer flavors like lime, ginger, cilantro and honey. Turn frequently over medium coals to grill evenly and prevent charring.

Foil packet grilling is one of the easiest campfire cooking techniques.

Everyone can mix and match their favorite ingredients, so there are no complaints from picky eaters. Tweens and teens can staff the grill with long-handled tongs, flipping packets until it’s dinnertime. Eat out of the foil for easy clean-up.

Instructions : This versatile recipe can be modified in endless ways depending on the ages and tastes of your campers. Toddlers will love proteins like ground beef, chicken nuggets and shrimp, while older kids and adults can go upscale with lobster, scallops, salmon and sirloin. Top it all off with veggies like onions, grape tomatoes, potatoes and corn, then toss in olive oil and seasonings.

5. Pie Iron Empanadas

2. Baked Potato Bar

After a long day of being active, your hungry campers will crave a filling meal. Make extras of these hefty taters and mix with leftover toppings for grab and go lunches the next day.

Instructions : Scrub potatoes at home, then oil, salt, pepper and pierce the skin before wrapping each one tightly in foil. As dinnertime approaches, roast them on the coals while you lay out your topping buffet. Include crowdpleasers like ground beef, cheddar cheese, onions, sour cream and salsa, but don’t be bashful about adding some unexpected options. Try Cotija cheese, pulled pork, bacon, black beans, roasted red peppers, avocado and sriracha for rave reviews. You might even throw sweet potatoes on the grill, and top with soy-marinated chicken, peanut sauce, snow peas and ginger.

3. Campfire Pizza

Take family pizza night on the road with this easy recipe for personal pan pizzas. Incorporate produce and herbs from local farmers markets for pies that are bursting with summertime flavor.

Instructions : Pick a crust to match your prep time, from ready-made

Cooking with pie irons is a camping tradition that is destined to become a family favorite. These mini cast iron cases on a stick melt your ingredients, all packed in between a warm and crunchy crust.

Instructions : Trim and press thawed, ready-made pie crust into both sides of your oiled iron, then add fillings like ground beef, onion, garlic and Monterey Jack cheese. Build on the traditional recipe with fillings like flank steak, black beans, corn, zucchini and sweet potatoes.

Are you ready for an outdoor adventure?

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11th City Birthday Celebration Saturday July 13, 20196pm-10pm Marna O’Brien Park 20505 Palomar Street Wildomar.

• Vendor: $20 Vendor/ Sales Booth: $40 • Sponsorship to be listed on City Flyer: $250 • No Food Vendors Join the 11th Birthday Celebration! There will be food, activities for kids, a concert, prizes and more. Form and non-refundable application fee are due by Tuesday July 9th at 5pm. Space is 12x12.

Contact:Jmorales@cityofwildomar.org Wildomar Celebrates 11th Birthday

Community Events and Activities

The next meeting and Luncheon Monday, July 17, 2019 at 11:00 a.m.

Come join us for our Luncheon on Monday, July 17 at 11:00 a.m. Everyone is welcome. Enjoy good food, great company and make new friends. If you are new to the Temecula Valley or have lived here for many years and want to get out more, meet new people in 2019 and have fun, Temecula Valley Newcomers Club (TVNC) is for you. Come see what it's all about at our monthly luncheon at Wilson Creek Winery, 35960 Rancho California Rd, Temecula. Paid reservations are required at least one week prior to the luncheon. Please call Anne (951-677-7149). This club is a social organization with many different activities for members such as card games, bunco groups, book clubs, mahjong, lunch and happy hour groups, theatre trips and much more. For club information call Isa (951-255-1818). Hope to see you at our next meeting!

Temecula Valley Newcomers Club

of hot dog, chips, drink, and ice cream; and a special souvenir for both mom and son. The fee is just $10 per person, and please note that parking is not included. Preregistration is required for both mom and son. Sign up online at TemeculaCA.gov/TCSD and use activity # 9065.201. For more information, please visit TemeculaCA.gov or call (951) 694-6480.

Pop Cultured: Trivia & Pizza Night for Teens

You think you know pop culture? Come on down to see if you are right during Pop Cultured: Trivia & Pizza Night on Monday, July 15, from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, at the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library (30600 Pauba Road). Test your knowledge of pop culture from the past five decades during this Jeopardy-style program. Play in teams of up to five people for a chance to win a prize! Sponsored by the Friends of the Temecula Libraries, this program is for Grades 7-12, and limited to 40 participants. Advance registration begins two weeks prior to scheduled programs and events. Please register at the adult reference desk or call (951) 693-8940.

Mark Your Calendar: 23rd Annual ‘Wine & Choclate’ Fundraiser - September 21

The next Find Your Voice radio workshop for kids/teens is July 14th. Location: Outlets at Lake Elsinore G165. For all ages: Make Your Own T-Shirts and Lip Sync Videos. New for adults: Easily learn to make low-cost professional videos for business & social media. Visit FYVcenter.org/workshops for details. Listen to kid & teen radio shows and other family friendly music & entertainment – 101.7 FM and JENNiRADIO.com. For registration & sponsorships, plus studios available for business audio/video needs, creative center & more, visit FYVcenter.org. Contact info@FYVcenter.org or (951) 3951017 with questions.

Hospice of the Valleys will host its 23rd annual “Wine & Chocolate” fundraiser on Saturday, September 21 from 5:30 – 10:00pm at Monteleone Meadows in Murrieta.

Hospice of the Valleys hosts its annual ‘Wine & Chocolate’ fundraiser to help raise funds for their unreimbursed services and programs. The event consists of a seated dinner, live and silent auctions, and free food & drink tastings.

Some of the unreimbursed services and programs provided by Hospice of the Valleys to the community include weekly grief support groups, Alzheimer’s support groups, educational workshops, and hospice care for the uninsured.

Hospice of the Valleys is not reimbursed for these community resources or programs and relies on donations, grants, fundraising, and community support to fund them.

You are invited to the Temecula Valley Woman’s Club’s Hollywood Under the Stars Gala on Saturday, September 7, 5 to 9 pm at the Morgan Estate in Temecula’s Wine Country. Enjoy hors d’oeuvres and a gourmet dinner followed by the performance of Hollywood Revisited, a stunning and magical musical revue showcasing the actual costumes worn in the original Hollywood films. A no-host bar will be available as well as a silent and live auction. Tickets are $115 per person until July 15, then $125 thereafter. Tables of 10 are available. All proceeds will benefit local high school scholarships and other community projects and charities. GFWC/Temecula Valley Woman’s Club is a 501(c)3 organization. For more information, you may call 951/3021370 or infotvwc@gmail.com or www.tvwc.com.

First Fridays at Art Off the Walls Art Off The Walls continues on Friday, July 5 and August 2 with an artist reception, art show, live music, and refreshments. Artists will be exhibiting a variety of artwork in the cabaret space in The Merc and The Lot on Main, accessible through Temecula Theater’s Courtyard. Both indoor and outdoor locations will feature live music. Guests are also invited to attend the free artist reception at The Gallery at The Visiting Art Off The Walls helps support Temecula’s growing local arts community.

For more information on this event or for artists and artisans interested in exhibiting at Art Off The Walls, please contact Temecula’s Arts & Culture Team at (951) 694-6417 or visit www.TemeculaCA.gov/ArtOffTheWalls.

Summer Activities for Kids, Teens & Adults

Temecula Valley Woman’s Club

Saturday, July 20 • Vail Headquarters • 4:00 PM – 8:00 PM Vail Headquarters, 32115 Temecula Pkwy, Temecula, CA 92592, USA Temecula's first all vegan night market!

Thistle & Sage Marketplace

Mother/Son Date Night At the Diamond, Wednesday, July 17

You won’t strike out when you sign up for an evening of home run fun at the City of Temecula’s Mother/Son Date Night on Wednesday, July 17, 2019 from 5:30 pm to 9:00 pm, at the Lake Elsinore Storm Baseball Stadium (500 Diamond Drive, Lake Elsinore). Date Night includes game admission; dinner

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Old Town Temecula House of Jerky Gourmet Jerky and Specialty Hot Sauces

By Carol Malin

If you snack, you’re not alone. Most of us do and we want a healthy, low carb, high protein, tasty snack to take with us on our daily journey to work, school, or sports activity. Jerky fits the bill and suits today’s busy lifestyle that often requires us to grab a bite on the run.

Old Town Temecula House of Jerky stocks jerky made from a variety of quality meats such as beef, pork, turkey, and Ahi and salmon fish fillets. The selection doesn’t stop there. To satisfy the more adventurous jerky connoisseur the store carries alligator, buffalo, elk, ostrich, shark, venison, and wild boar to name a few. The shop also sells gluten free and soy free Shitake mushroom jerky in applewood, salt & pepper, and Thai flavors. Even Fido is not forgotten at this store; check out Jerky for Doggies.

“This store has a wide selection of jerky,” said Tammy, a visitor to Temecula from San Diego. “We picked up a few different kinds today.”

Americans buy jerky by the bagful—plain, spicy, sweet, or hot. The Neilson Company, a global marketing research firm, reports that meat snacks are the fastest growing snack food segment in the world, with the U.S. leading in consumption. Jerky is popular because it is rich in protein content and with an average of 80 calories a slice it is a good alternative to high calorie chips or snack bars.

The jerky sold at the House of Jerky is far removed from the tough, stringy shreds you may have bought at a big box store. Here you will find jerky made from lean cuts of meat, marinated and nicely seasoned. All are made with no added preservatives or MSG. The seasonings used range from sweet maple brown sugar to spicy black pepper, and for those with a taste for hot there is habanero and red-hot ghost pepper jerky.

“I’ve bought the beef Teriyaki here several times because I always prefer sweet.

It’s very good,” shared Temecula resident Andrea Diaz.

“How did I come to own a jerky business? I have experience working in the food industry,” explains the store’s owner, Chris O’Neill. “I’ve managed a restaurant, and when I was attending college in San Diego I was a partner in a food truck venture. When Leslie and I married we moved to Temecula to raise our family. Leslie is a nurse and I operate our store. We opened on December 1 and are very pleased with the shop. The store provides me the opportunity to work directly with the customers, which I enjoy, and allows me to be my own boss. This is a mom and pop business, and I want customers to know if they have questions or comments about our products, please send me an email and I will get back to you promptly: chris@temeculahouseofjerky.com.”

Next time you are in town, stop at the Old Town Temecula House of Jerky and try a free sample. That’s the easy part. The hard part is deciding which varieties and flavors to take home with you.

Old Town Temecula House of Jerky 28655 Old Town Front Street, Temecula, CA 92590 951 484-0950 • TemeculaHouseofJerky.com Mon.–Thurs.: 11 am to 5 pm Fri & Sat: 10:30 am to 7:30 pm | Sun: 10 am to 5 pm

House of Jerky is a California original, established in 1993!

Chris O’Neill owner, Old Town Temecula House of Jerky

In addition to exotic meats, there are many flavors of jerky to choose from.

Something for every palate.

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City of Temecula Hosts Old Town Live All Summer Long

The City of Temecula will host Old Town Live (formerly Hot Summer Nights) every Friday and Saturday night beginning through – August 31, 2019, from 6:00 pm to 10:00 pm in Old Town Temecula.

Spend your summer nights on a “stay-cation” in Old Town Temecula.

Bring the entire family out to dine at one of the many fine restaurants, shop in the unique boutiques, support small businesses in Old Town, and enjoy live music by bands offering a wide variety of entertainment. Free parking is available at the Old Town Parking Garage adjacent to City Hall.

For more information, and to see the specific band line-up and locations, please visit TemeculaCA.gov/OldTownLive or call (951) 694-6480.

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Dance Like Maybe One Person is Watching

By Jules Perez

Dance like no one is watching. At least that’s what they say. For those of you that have had the unfortunate opportunity to see me dance, you know that this may not be the best advice for me. But guess what, we can’t be good at everything we do, right?

I have spent many years passing judgment on things that I know nothing about because I was afraid to try. I foolishly made blanket statements about things I had never tried in order to sound superior. When in all reality I was just scared. Do a

triathlon? Who wants to pay money and train for that? Eat gluten free? Well, that’s just stupid unless you have celiac disease. Do a juice cleansing? Why the heck would you stop eating real food?

And guess what, several times I have had to eat my words along with a huge side of crow when I was wrong. Are we so afraid of failing that we are unwilling to try new experiences?

There are plenty of things that I am terrible at. Goodness, I can count on one hand the number of things that I actually excel at. That’s not the point. How do you know unless you try? I’m not talking about just dabbling in things that are new or strange. I am not even just talking about testing the waters with an errant toe. But really jumping in head first. You might find that immersing yourself in unpleasant, awkward, strange situations can be so refreshing. Maybe sometimes not. But isn’t that part of the fun in this precious life that we have been given?

We only get one shot to make this count.

Finding a place in your journey to truly get comfortable with being uncomfort-

able might be the difference between you merely existing and really living.

So, go forth and conquer new adventures. Try something you are afraid of. Make your mark. Look awkward and maybe even completely fail at it. But mostly, find joy in the process. Learn to laugh at yourself. Find beautiful pieces of your soul in each new experience. Grin, change, grow.

As for me, I know I can still dance like an idiot. But maybe as if at least one person is watching just to be on the safe side of things.

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Visiting Our Vineyards

Crush 2019

SAVE-THE-DATE September 28, 2019 • 7:30-10:00pm Tickets go on sale in July Hosted by Monte De Oro Winery

The ONE and ONLY event showcasing the wines of 30+ member wineries in one location!

Culinary creations from over fifteen winery and local restaurants and caterers.

Mix and mingle with winery owners and winemakers at this most anticipated walkabout tasting of culinary delights and award-winning Temecula wines along with live entertainment!

This event sells out quickly, so get your tickets early!

For Tickets: www.temeculawines.org

Benefit Wine Tasting for TVWS Scholarship Fund The Temecula Valley Wine Society will host a Benefit on Aug. 8 to raise funds for students who wish to attend Wine Industry classes at MSJC. The event will be held from 4-6PM at Somerset Winery on De Portola Road. Tickets are $25.

Sip - Snack - Savor small plates will be paired with 6 Somerset wines.

• Assorted Cheeses & Fruits • Lettuce Cups filled with Chicken Salad • Salmon Mousse • Smoked Pulled Pork Sliders • Roasted Veggie Frittata • Roast Beef Crostini Can’t make the event but still want to donate cash or prizes for the Gift Basket Raffle?

Contact:Sue Meyer 951-506-0525 For Tickets : Mail your check made out to TVWS for $25 per person to: Nancy Hurtienne 37925 Glenoaks Road, Temecula, CA 92592

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Project Independence Teaching Skills A place of growth & opportunity for young adults formerly in foster care.

As more young people join the Project Independence program, we are finding the need to go back to teach more and more basic life skills. Like all Rancho Damacitas programs, Project Independence is a place to learn, grow and thrive. Recently a young man came into the program without a job, without transportation, without a supportive family, but he had determination and willpower! He found a job within the first week of entering the program and we gave him a bike for his transportation until he could save enough money for a car.

Budgeting and understanding how to manage your money is part of the program. During a routine visit, the staff realized he had no food. Not only that, he didn't know how to cook. He was spending his grocery money, just not spending it wisely. So that very second, Janet took him to the store and for $25 she helped him learn how to shop for affordable, healthy meals on a budget. Then, she took him back home and taught him how to cook a meal that could last a couple days with what they bought.

Additionally, Project Independence is in the beginning stages of launching a new mentoring program for the young men and women within the program. Volunteers will be working with the residents on careers, life skills, and coaching on adult responsibilities.

Visit our website to learn more about http://4kidsfirst.org/project-independence/

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July Wednesday Night Dances at Hemet West

In July, the following bands will be playing for the popular senior Wednesday Night Dances at The Lakes at Hemet West, 5001 West Florida Avenue in Hemet.

• July 10 - Rainbow Cottage.

• July 17 - Rhonda and Showdown, Western theme • July 24- American Made.

• July 31 - Stage Robbers These Wednesday Night Dances are from 6:30 to 9:30 pm. Admission is $6.00 per person, proper attire is required, and alcohol is not allowed. Opportunity drawings offer free tickets.

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Tables have snacks, and pitchers of water, and freshly brewed tea and coffee is available. For further information about these popular dances, contact Kathy Perry at 951692-0891. OPEN TO THE PUBLIC

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Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me. ~ John 14:6 NLT

What is Truth?

By Pastor John Stewart

One of the most profound and eternally significant questions in the Bible was posed by an unbeliever. Pontius Pilate—the Roman Governor of Judah and the man who handed Jesus over to be crucified—turned to Jesus in His final hour, and asked, “What is truth?” (John 18:38) It was a rhetorical question, a cynical response to what Jesus had just revealed: “. . . I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth.”

Two thousand years later, the whole world breathes and emulates Pilate’s cynicism. Some say truth is a power play, an overarching narrative constructed by societal elites for the purpose of controlling the ignorant masses. To some, truth is subjective, meaning truth is determined by individual preferences and opinions. Others believe truth is a collective judgment, the product of cultural consensus, and still others flatly deny the concept of truth altogether.

I often discuss God and Truth with people by asking them this question, “do you believe in truth”? Increasingly, I receive responses similar to this; “no I don't believe, because is there such a thing as truth!” To which I reply, “is that statement true?” I then hear a reply like this, “well, maybe there is one truth and that is, that there is no truth.” Even if sincere, that is a self-serving answer! When man becomes his own source of authority and truth, he denies the one true foundation of authority which is the Holy Bible: God’s Word. Jesus declared to His Father “Your Word is truth” John 17:17 Another question I often ask, is “do you believe there are any absolute truths in this world?” The most popular answer is, “there are no absolute truths in this world.”

I then ask, "Are you absolutely sure there are no absolute truths?” The response is always, "yes, I am absolutely sure there are no absolute truths.” My response is always, “thank you for your honesty, but you must certainly realize that in saying there are absolutely no absolutes, you are contradicting yourself, because you are stating your belief as an absolute truth.”

So, what is truth?

Here’s a good, simple definition: Truth is that which is consistent with the mind, will, character and glory of God. Truth is the being and self-expression of God. This is the biblical meaning of truth as it inherently related to knowing and learning from God and His Word.

Truth is also declared by the way things really are. Reality is what it is because God declared it so and made it so. Therefore, God is the author, fountain, determiner, governor, mediator, ultimate standard and final judge of all truth. The Old Testament refers to God in this way, “He is the Rock, His work is perfect; For all His ways are justice, A God of truth and without injustice . . . .” (Deuteronomy 32:4). “Into Your hand I commit my spirit; You have redeemed me, O LORD God of truth.” (Psalms 31:5).

“So that he who blesses himself in the earth Shall bless himself in the God of truth; And he who swears in the earth Shall swear by the God of truth ...” (Isaiah 65:16).

The night before He was crucified, Jesus said of Himself, “I am . . . the truth” (John 14:6), and was thereby making a truth claim about His own deity. He was also making it clear that all truth must ultimately be defined in terms of God and His eternal glory. Jesus is “the brightness of [God’s] glory and the express image of His person” (Hebrews 1:3) and He is truth incarnate—the perfect expression of God and therefore the absolute embodiment and manifestation of all that is true. Jesus is the Word, God’s chief and most significant truth statement about who He is and what He is like!

Jesus also told His disciples that after His departure He would send another Helper, “... the Spirit of truth . . .. He will guide you into all truth; (John 16:13). The work which Jesus began, was continued by the Spirit of truth. He guides God’s disciples into all truth. There is a sense in which all truth was committed to the apostles in their lifetime and they, in turn, committed it to writing, which we find today in the New Testament. With the Old Testament, this completed God's written revelation to man.

The Holy Spirit guides God's people into all the truth, illuminating and giving understanding of the Bible.

Jesus, also, directly stated that the written Word of God, the Holy Bible, is truth.

It does not merely contain nuggets of truth; in it’s entirely God’s Word is pure, unchangeable, and inviolable truth. Jesus asked the Father, on behalf of His disciples, “Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth” (John 17:17). To sanctify means to set apart and the truth of God’s Word, is His primary sanctifying influence. As God’s children read it and obey it, they are set apart as vessels suitable for the Master's use. That is exactly what the Lord Jesus was praying for here. He wanted a people who were set apart to God from the world, and made usable by God. Jesus said, "Your word is truth." He did not say, as so many do today, "Your word contains truth," but "Your word IS truth."

Finally, the Word of God is eternal truth “which lives and abides forever” (1 Peter 1:23). There cannot be any discord or differentiation between the written Word of God (Scripture) and the incarnate Word of God (Jesus). In the first place, truth by definition cannot contradict itself. Second, Scripture is called “the word of Christ” (Colossians 3:16). It is God’s message and self-expression. In other words, the truth of Christ and the truth of the Bible are of the very same character. They are in perfect agreement in every respect. Both are equally true. God has revealed Himself to humanity through Scripture and through His Son. Both perfectly embody the essence of what truth is.

How each person responds to the truth God has revealed determines their personal eternity. To reject and rebel against the truth of God results in darkness, folly, sin, judgment, and the never-ending wrath of God. To believe and submit to the truth of God is to see clearly, to know with certainty, and to find life everlasting.

Pastor John Stewart is the Executive Pastor at Revival Christian Fellowship in Menifee. For more information about the church or to listen to teachings go to Revival.TV

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Jesus replied, “The most important commandment is this: ‘Listen, O Israel! The Lord our God is the one and only Lord.

And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’ The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ No other commandment is greater than these. ~ Mark 12:29-31 (NLT)

Be a Neighbor this Week!

By Rick Brown

"That's what's wrong with the world today. If we'd learn to love each other there'd be no war ... no killing ... no raping ... no fighting. People would be loving one another and that's what we human beings got to learn: how to love one another."

So says Johnny Barnes. Johnny rises at 2:00 a.m. every morning, eats his breakfast, and takes his place from 4:00 a.m. until 10:00 a.m. at the Crow Lane roundabout in Hamilton, Bermuda. One day in 1984, he stopped at the roundabout and started waving at the passing commuters. Due to the unique layout of the island and its roads, nearly all drivers at rush hour coming from the western and southern areas of the island pass Barnes at the roundabout.

He doesn't merely wave, though. As people drive and walk by, he keeps up a constant chatter: • "Have a lovely day."

• "Good morning!"

• "God bless you."

• "I love you!"

• "God loves you!"

He's talked to people who have told him no one had ever told them they were loved. He tries to make sure they at least hear it from him. "People need to know that love is important," he says.

What would move an 88 year-old man to get up before dawn every day and stand for six hours with his message for the crowds? Perhaps the same thing that caused Jesus to mount a colt and ride into Jerusalem. The multitude of his disciples would rejoice, praise God, and say: "Blessed is the King who comes in the name of the Lord!" "Peace in heaven and glory in the highest!" (Luke 19:38).

He did not do it, however, for the acclaim. Jesus knew that in a short time he would be delivered over to the chief priests and scribes, be condemned to death and hung on a cross. He had predicted it explicitly three times to his disciples. He knew where he was headed.

What would cause him to endure this extreme punishment voluntarily?

So, love your neighbor this week. Love!

When asked what the greatest commandment was Jesus summed it up in one word. "Love!" Love God with all that you are and love your neighbor as yourself (Mark 12:29-31). "Neighbor" means "one who is near." However, when Jesus tells us to "love our neighbor as ourselves," he redefines neighbor for us. Your neighbor can be near: • Next door.

• Across the street.

Hope Lutheran Hosts Vacation Bible School July 29-Aug 2, 9 am-12:15 pm Theme: Athens ~ Paul’s Dangerous Journey to Share the Truth

Each day kids will see, hear, touch, and even taste what is was like to learn in ancient Athens. VBS is open to kids age 4 (by September 1, 2019) through fifth grade this fall. Suggested donation is $35. Multiple child discounts and partial scholarships are available. Register at or learn more at www.hopetemecula.org/featuredevents or in the church office 9 am-4 pm Monday thru Thursday. Hope Lutheran is located at 29043 Vallejo Ave, Temecula. 951.676.6262.

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In the next cubicle.

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In another subdivision.

Your neighbor can be far:

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Across town.

On the other side of the world.

Neighbor is not merely the one who is near. Neighbor is the one who needs God's blessing (Luke 10:29-37).

So, love your neighbor this week. Johnny Barnes will. He will sacrifice some sleep, journey to his roundabout post, and stand on his 88-year old legs for six hours. He does not have a degree in philosophy or physics, but he is convinced that he knows the secret of life. "The world is made for love," he tells Bermuda visitors curious or brave enough to stop in traffic and shake his hand.

Love your neighbor this week. Jesus did. He rode into Jerusalem and sacrificed his life by hanging on a cross for six hours. And because he loved his neighbors, multitudes still follow him 2,000 years later.

Love your neighbor as yourself. It can change someone else's life. And it will definitely change yours.

"Be a Neighbor this Week!" by Rick Brown is licensed under a Creative Commons License. www.Heartlight.org

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Rethink Your Drink This Summer

(Family Features) From barbecues and birthdays to concerts and cookouts, summertime is the perfect time of year to bring everyone together. However, nice weather and outdoor events are also coupled with summer heat waves and high temperatures.

Water – whether plain or sparkling – is a great way to help you stay hydrated all summer long without the calories and added sugar of other summer favorites like lemonade or punch. Healthy hydration in the summertime starts when you rethink your drink so you can beat the heat.

To get started, these tips from Sarah Ladden, M.S., R.D., nutrition, health and wellness director at Nestlé Waters North America, can help keep you hydrated all summer long.

• Pack for the heat. The summer heat can mean an increase in water loss, which can put you at a higher risk for dehydration especially if you’re outside for long periods of time. Make sure to pack water for all your summer outings and hydrate before, during and after all outdoor activities.

• Add your own flavor. While bottled, filtered or tap water are all good choices for healthy hydration, some people simply prefer flavored bev-

erages. The good news: it’s easy to customize water just the way you like it. This summer, wow your friends with a DIY sparkling water bar. Set out your favorite sparkling waters – include flavored waters for added fun – alongside an assortment of seasonal berries, sliced fruit and fresh herbs, and let guests create their personalized refreshments.

• Make water fun. Jazz up a glass of your favorite water with a simple addition – decorative ice. Before filling your ice tray, add a few berries or cubed melon, fresh herbs like mint or rosemary then top with water and freeze.

Add a few cubes to a refreshing glass of water and enjoy just a hint of subtle flavor.

• Keep water close. It’s important to keep your body well-hydrated throughout the day, but it is easy to get busy and simply forget to drink.

Keep water in convenient locations throughout your home, office or even in the car for a visual reminder to keep sipping. Stocking water at the front of your fridge is another good habit so it’s the first choice kids or other family members see.

This summer, rethink your drink with these tips to help make smart beverage choices. To learn more about healthy hydration, visit nestle-watersna.com.

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Shakespeare In The Vines: MEASURE FOR MEASURE July 11 - 27, 2019 at 7:30pm Presented by Shakespeare in the Vines Baily Vineyard & Winery, 33440 La Serena Way, Temecula, CA 92591 Measure For Measure Written by William Shakespeare Directed by Mike Eastman

You are welcome to bring your picnic meals for this event: Wine and soft drinks will be available for purchase. No outside alcohol, please. Also, the evenings can get very cool so we suggest blankets and/ or jackets for warmth. We will have some blankets available for free, but a donation is appreciated.

TICKETS: General Seating: $22 Regular $17 Seniors 55+, Students, Military Royal Table Seating: $30 Regular Tickets: www.temeculatheater.org

Summer Jam 2019 Featuring MRS. JONES' REVENGE Friday, July 19, 2019 at 7:30pm Community Recreation Center Amphitheater 30875 Rancho Vista Road, Temecula, CA 92592

Join your friends for "the ultimate" summer concert in the park as Mrs. Jones' Revenge faithfully recreates rock and roll music's greatest hits, LIVE on stage at the CRC Amphitheater! Southern California's ultimate tribute band provides an electrifying rock and roll retrospective, covering the bands and artists everyone loves from the '60's, '70's and '80's, when rock and roll dominated the culture with amazing acts like The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Pink Floyd, Tom Petty and dozens more!

Mrs. Jones' Revenge is the ultimate classic rock tribute band, sounding as much like the original artists as they did themselves in concert. Greg Lake of Emerson, Lake and Palmer called MJR's recreation of one of his hits "...the best that I have heard... it's a pleasure to hear it being played properly." Enjoy festival seating on the grassy terraced hillside, bring your own food and refreshments and dance under the stars right in front of the stage.

Old Town Temecula Announces Inaugural SUMMER SUNSET TASTE OF OLD TOWN

Stroll through Old Town Temecula enjoying live music, shopping and sampling at participating restaurants, tasting rooms and retail stores.

Following the success of Old Town Temecula Association’s (OTTA) annual Holiday Taste of Old Town, the non-profit organization will hold its first summer event of this kind, Summer Sunset Taste of Old Town, on Tuesday, July 30, 2019, from 5pm-9pm. Tickets are $25 per person and available online at OldTownTemecula.org.

Attendees will stroll through Old Town Temecula enjoying food samplings from a variety of Old Town restaurants and tasting rooms. There will be live music and the charming atmosphere of the historic downtown. Participating stores will be open late for shopping. Several merchants are offering special sales for the evening and incentives to visit again.

Enjoy Temecula Valley’s Summer Nights at Summer Sunset Taste of Old Town Temecula, for more information about the event and offerings in Old Town, visit OldTownTemecula.org. email info@OldTownTemecula.org or call (909) 648-8942.

Vista Murrieta High School Drama Department Presents NEXT TO NORMAL

Vista Murrieta High School Drama Department: A C.L.A.S.S. Act is proud to present a summer series production of the musical Next to Normal, through special arrangement with Music Theatre International (MTI). The book and lyrics by Brian Yorkey and music by Tom Kitt; winner of 3 Tony Awards, including Best Musical Score and the Pulitzer Prize.

This powerful story explores issues of grieving a loss and ethics in modern medical practices. Directed by Kit Fugrad and Musically Directed by Zach Krug. This special performance brings back many alumni and includes staff members and guest artists filling our cast and production team!

This special production only runs three days; July 25- 27 at Vista Murrieta High School, 28251 Clinton Keith Road, Murrieta, CA 92563 in the Performing Arts Center, all performances begin at 7:00pm.

Tickets are available at the door the evening of each performance for only $10. Don’t miss this look at a family whose lives are anything but “normal” as the mother has been battling manic depression for 16 years. Next to Normal takes audiences into the minds and hearts of each character, presenting their family’s story with love, sympathy and heart.

Some mature content, recommended for audiences of 13 and older. *Parents Cautioned – some material may not be appropriate for children under 13.

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Visit Temecula Valley Announces Tourism Economic Impact of $1.1 Billion for Temecula Valley Southern California Wine Country

Visit Temecula Valley may no longer be the hidden gem so many have claimed it to be. The popular southern California destination announced today it reached the one-billion-dollar level in tourism economic impact. In addition, Visit Temecula Valley claims it received 3.1 million visitors to Temecula Valley Southern California Wine Country in 2018.

“Consistently for nearly a decade and importantly, tourism and hospitality provide significant, positive economic impact that helps to sustain a broad spectrum of local businesses,” explained Scott Wilson, 2019 Visit Temecula Valley Chairman of the Board. “In 2018, all commodities, across all sectors experienced milestone sales with healthy increases of at least 20% over the prior year. Visitors spent $409 million on arts, entertainment, and recreation; $198 million on food and beverage services; $127 million on off-premise food and beverage including wine sales; $117 million on accommodations; $107 million on retail; and $106 million on local transportation.”

“Most of the local, direct Temecula visitor spending is generated by overnight hotel, motel, B&B, and short-term vacation rental guests,” explained Kimberly Adams, Visit Temecula Valley founding President and CEO. “In 2018, these overnight guests spent a significant, milestone $705 million of the total $1.1 billion in visitor spending.

Visitors traveling 50 miles or more, one-way from their homes on “day trips” to Temecula Valley spent a considerable, record-breaking $281 million. *Source for the current statistics announced by Visit Temecula Valley is the ten-page report Temecula Valley Travel Impacts 2010-2018 Preliminary. Authored

by Dean Runyan Associates, the annual report was prepared for the Temecula Valley Convention and Visitors Bureau, also known as Visit Temecula Valley.

Temecula Valley Hospital’s CEO is Honored as a Woman of Distinction for the 75th Assembly District The state of California boasts a rich history of women who demonstrate excellent leadership and thus serve as role models in our community.

One such individual who exemplifies these qualities is Darlene Wetton, Chief Executive Officer at Temecula Valley Hospital.

Darlene Wetton earned her Bachelor’s degree in Nursing from California State University, Dominguez Hills, and graduated summa cum laude with a Master of Business Administration degree from Webster University. For 27 years at San Diego’s Alvarado Hospital Medical Center, she served in various leadership roles including Chief Nursing Officer and Chief Operating Officer. Accepting the role as the first CEO of Temecula Valley Hospital in 2012, Darlene had the opportunity to open the new hospital and set the vision for the health care services.

Within the first year of opening, Temecula Valley Hospital began offering Cardiovascular services to provide comprehensive heart and vascular care and began services as a designated ST-Elevated Myocardial Infarction (STEMI) receiving center for heart attack victims in San Diego and Riverside Counties. Temecula Valley Hospital was also the first in the region to attain Primary Stroke Certification from the Joint Commission to provide advanced stroke care and services to both Counties.

Darlene Wetton has participated in numerous enterprises that have a left a lasting impact on her community and beyond. She is to be congratulated on her selection as a 2019 Woman of Distinction for the 75th Assembly District and commended for her exemplary record of professional and civic leadership.“