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Caring for Our Nation’s Heroes From FirstLight Home Care
There are just under 2 million World War II veterans remaining in the U.S., and they are aging quickly. Many members of the “Greatest Generation” who are dealing with the challenges of advancing age need care and assistance with activities of daily living. Home care can be an ideal solution to help veterans receive exceptional care and maintain the quality of life they deserve. Home care services assist veterans in a variety of ways, including professional companion care such as conversation and company, as well as household duties like cooking, cleaning and laundry. Non-medical personal care can provide individual needs such as bathing and hygiene, continence and toileting care, mobility support and assistance with eating. Home care also can assist veterans of any age living with injuries sustained in the field and active-duty families that need help when loved ones are deployed. Additionally, these services can be applied in various settings. Veterans can receive companion care or personal care in their own homes; care can be provided in independent and assisted living communities and skilled nursing facilities; respite care can be offered to family caregivers so that they may take time off from the responsibility of caring for their loved one. Little-Known VA Benefit
Did you know that wartime service veterans and their surviving spouses are eligible for VA pensions? One little-known benefit is the Veterans Aid & Attendance Pension, which helps reduce the cost of care for veterans and surviving spouses. Aid & Attendance is available to eligible veterans and spouses who require home care - including assistance with eating, bathing and medication reminders - even if the assistance is not a direct result of a service-related injury. This benefit also can be used for assisted living communities and private-pay nursing homes. If you are caring for a veteran of the United States Armed Forces, make sure that your loved one is receiving the benefits they deserve. The owners and operators of FirstLight Home Care of Temecula are a military service family and understand the challenges and importance of veteran’s care. John served in the United States Marine Corps for more than 26 years and is a veteran of the Gulf War, Iraqi Freedom, and the War on terrorism in Afghanistan. Call us and let us assist you in obtaining the benefits you earned and deserve. We care about you! FirstLight provides non-medical
home care under the Aid & Attendance program, as well as companion and personal care services to anyone 18 years of age and older. This article is provided by Christine and John Hamby, owners of FirstLight Home Care of Temecula. For more information, visit www.Temecula.FirstLightHome Care.com or call (951) 395-0821.
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IN THIS ISSUE COMMUNITY
Serving the City...................................................................................10
EDUCATION
Lake Elsinore Teachers of the Month....................................................7 Murrieta Students of the Month............................................................8 Teachers are Heroes .............................................................................9
ENTERTAINMENT
The Nutcracker Ballet .........................................................................13 A Christmas Story ...............................................................................40 Sherri Williams & All Star Big Band.....................................................40
EVEENTS
Publisher: Diane Simones Director of Business Development: Gino Simones Contributing Editors: Laurie Malmstrom, Susan Montgomery, Tracy Williams, Pastor John Stewart, Joshua Straub PhD, Aubrey Masters, Vlada Vladic, Chef Daniel Johnson Art Director: Dorina Blythe, GranDesigns View or print articles online at www.NeighborsNewspaper.com email: info@neighborsnewspaper.com Contact Us 31566 Railroad Canyon Road, #2-575, Canyon Lake, CA 92587 951.244.7025 • Fax: 951.848.9733 Neighbors Newspaper, a subsidiary of Simones Holdings Inc., is a monthly publication. Reproduction of any material without the expressed written consent of the Publisher is prohibited by law. Opinions contained within are those of the authors and may not reflect the views of the Publisher or any staff members of Neighbors Newspaper and does not constitute any endorsement of information products or services. Neighbors Newspaper is not affiliated with any other publication. Neighbors Newspaper has the right to refuse advertisement and editorial submissions.
Community Events..............................................................................18 Historical Society at Vail Ranch ..........................................................41 Thomas the Train ................................................................................25
FAITH
How to Overcome Anger ....................................................................20
FAMILY
4 Ways to Thanksgiving Peace ...........................................................44
HEALTHY LIVING
Free Seminar on Breast Reconstruction .............................................22 Exercise – Easy and Often ..................................................................22 Lake Elsinore’s First Fitness Trail ........................................................26
HOME
Don’t Let F.O.G. Spoil Holidays ..........................................................27
JUST FOR FUN
Temecula Site for Filming Movies .......................................................30 Holiday Boutique Shopping ...............................................................38
KIDS
Cake Batter Slime ...............................................................................24 Train to Santa’s Workshop ..................................................................25
PETS
Pumpkin – Wonder Food for Dogs......................................................42 Pets for Adoption ................................................................................43
RECIPES
Sweet Seasonal Treats for Fall............................................................34 Juicy Thanksgiving Turkey ..................................................................35 Savory Appetizers, Gifts .....................................................................36
SENIORS
Medicare Takes Aim at Identity theft...................................................16
TEENS
Teen Addiction: Recovery is Possible .................................................32
VETERANS
Veterans Care for Veterans ...................................................................5 Veterans Day Events ...........................................................................45
VISITING OUR VINEYARDS
Events at the Wineries ........................................................................28
FEATURE
Galway Downs: A Destination for Everyone .......................................14
support local businesses O2 Alive and Well ................................................................22 Animal Friends of the Valley.................................................43 Anthony's Ristorante ...........................................................33 Artistic Expressions Permanent Makeup..............................16 Azuza Pacific University ........................................................9 Barons Market .......................................................................3 Barrell Tasting Event in Wine Country..................................29 Butterfield Dog Grooming ....................................................42 California Technical Academy ................................................7 Center 4 Life Change............................................................32 Candlelight Tribute ..............................................................19 Christmas Lights..................................................................10 Coldwell Banker ...................................................................47 Constitution Association Events...........................................18 Envoy Mortgage...................................................................27 Farmers Wife, The................................................................39 Fast Signs Banner Sale ........................................................37 Fast Signs Flag Sale .............................................................37 Fire and Ice Ball ..................................................................46 First Light Home Care ..........................................................16 Grace Evangelical Free .........................................................20 Grace Revolution Today Magazine .......................................21 Honeycutt Farms..................................................................34 Hope Lutheran Church .........................................................18 Jeweler by Design................................................................11 Jennifer Smart Foundation...................................................18 Lamb's Fellowship Thanksgiving Experience .......................40 Living Jen ............................................................................23 Lorimar Winery ...................................................................28 Mad Mikes Gourmet Sausage ..............................................36 Maria Vitale Salon ................................................................11 Michelle's Place Holiday Sacks for Kids ..............................22 Morton Grabel Law Offices ..................................................26 Medicare Open Enrollment Mtgs............................................5 Menifee Bible Church ...........................................................21 MSJC Spring Classes.............................................................9
My Grannys' Attic ................................................................39 Music and Art Festival..........................................................41 NAFE Meetings.....................................................................18 Naughty Pig Gourmet Meats................................................35 Orange Empire Railway- Thomas the Train ..........................25 Plumber- Ron Dumas ..........................................................17 Patriot's Cup Golf Tournament.............................................41 Polar Ice ..............................................................................19 Pole Positon.........................................................................24 Ponte Winery .......................................................................28 Powers Dentistry .................................................................13 Promenade in Temecula.......................................................48 Richard Shuldiner O. D. ......................................................17 Sizzler ..................................................................................33 Southwest Women's Chorus ...............................................18 Stater Brothers ......................................................................2 Subscriptions.........................................................................6 Sweet Cheeks Skin & Body Care..........................................12 Swim to Shore .....................................................................24 Temecula Newcomers Club..................................................18 Temecula Optometry............................................................13 Temecula Valley Symphony .................................................40 Temecula Valley Women's Club Home Tour .........................27 Temecula Valley Women's Club Gala ...................................10 Temecula Women's Connection ...........................................18 Terri's Tasty Cupcakes .........................................................10 Texas Lil's Mesquite Grill .....................................................38 Toy for Tots Movie Night ......................................................24 Van Avery Prep ....................................................................45 VIC Ministries ......................................................................18 Vitality Medical Group..........................................................23 Wickerd Farm Christmas Trees ............................................26 White Christmas- The Musical ...............................................4 Word Search ..........................................................................8 Word Search Answer Key ......................................................8
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The Rotary Club of Lake Elsinore Honors Teachers of the Month Principals Select the Best from Earl Warren Elementary, Tuscany Hills Elementary, and Rice Canyon Elementary
The Lake Elsinore Rotary Club honored three Lake Elsinore Unified School District teachers for their years of commitment and dedication at the Teacher of the Month Program. September’s honorees included Phyllis Hofmeister of Earl Warren Elementary, Jessica Davison of Tuscany Hill Elementary, and Patricia Brown of Rice Canyon Elementary. Phyllis Hofmeister is a second grade teacher at Earl Warren Elementary. At the start of each school year, her emphasis is focused on building community skill and social-emotional learning. Earl Warren has successfully used the Boys Town model for social emotional learning and behavioral support to students. Jessica Davidson is an SDC teacher spanning grades K-5. Her classroom is an exemplar of the district’s Multi-Tiered System of Student Supports (MTSS) to support both students and parents of children with special needs. Patricia Brown serves as a Speech and Language Pathologist (SLP) for Rice Canyon Elementary school. She particularly enjoys working with pre-school children. “We work on developing language and communication skills as early as three,” she said.
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TEACHER OF THE MONTH HONOREES: Dr. Alain Guevara, Assistant Superintendent; Phyllis Hofmeister, Earl Warren Elementary; Scott Poncy, Principal-Earl Warren Elementary; Rick Morsch, Rotary President; Jessica Davison, Tuscany Hills Elementary; Jeff Marks, PrincipalTuscany Hills Elementary; Patricia Brown, Rice Canyon Elementary; Robert Recatto, PrincipalRice Canyon Elementary.
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Murrieta Chamber of Commerce Honors Students of the Month
The Murrieta Chamber of Commerce High School Student of the Month Program Honored Zainab Qasemi, Sarah Thompson, Christine Longenecker, Jeffrey Kim and Jacob Barnes. Vista Murrieta High School Senior Zainab Qasemi is an outstanding student who has a 4.40 GPA while taking 15 AP and dual enrollment college classes. She overcame her shyness and is now the Cadet Commander of 300 cadets in the Air Force JROTC unit. Zainab hopes to attend the University of Maryland and major in criminal justice. She plans to continue to participate in ROTC, serve in the Air Force and she would like to work for the FBI in counter-terrorism. Murrieta Mesa Senior Sarah Thompson says her story is one of learning perseverance. Over a period of two years, Sarah had four surgeries and spent a month in the hospital, dealt with kidney stones, broke her leg and tore her ACL and meniscus and had pneumonia. In
Shown sitting left to right are: Jeffrey Kim, Zainab Qasemi, Christine Longenecker, and Sarah Thompson. Standing from left to right are: Pat Kelley, MVUSD Superintendent; Ken Dickson, MVUSD Board Member; Samantha Stilwell, Intern for Assemblywoman Melissa Melendez; Rick Gibbs, City of Murrieta Mayor; John Hunneman, Communications Director for Senator Jeff Stone; Mary Walters, MVUSD Executive Director of Secondary Education and SOM Emcee. Photo provided by: Kip A. Cothran of KC Photography
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spite of all these health challenges, she maintains a 4.0 GPA while taking a challenging course load including several AP classes. Sarah is a member of National Honor Society, California Scholarship Federation and she served as the president of the Class of 2018 all four years. Sarah would like to attend UCLA or UC San Diego and she plans to major in Biomedical Engineering. Calvary Murrieta Christian High School Senior Christine Longenecker shared that a mission trip to the Ukraine serving as a camp counselor was a transformational experience in her life and helped her overcome the depression and anxiety she had been dealing with for two years. Christine plans to continue to be involved in global outreach to Bulgaria and the Ukraine again next summer. Christine wants to be a voice for those who have no voice and bring God’s love and joy to others. She hopes to attend Southern Utah University and major in agriculture. Murrieta Valley High School Senior Jeffrey Kim is first in his class of 603 students. Jeffrey is not only a stellar student, he has a strong work ethic. Jeffrey is CEO of the school’s Virtual Enterprise team and last year he led the team to a third place finish in the world. Jeffrey is a National Merit Scholarship finalist. He is extremely well Did you find all of the words that have to do with rounded and after winning a piano competition, he will play at Carnegie Hall in Explore the State from djr November. Jeffrey hopes to attend Harvard or Yale and he plans to become a physician. Springs Charter School Senior Jacob Barnes is in the Keys Independent Study program. Jacob is known for being driven and dedicated to his school work. In addition to his school work, Jacob owns his own business building websites for others. He is responsible and often helps other students who are struggling. Jacob plans to attend college and major in business. crescent city If you wish to learn more about fresno san diego redding los angeles sacramento the Student of the Month Program, yosemite valley eureka san jose please contact Sally A. Myers, lake tahoe modesto monterey Founder at (951) 506-8024.
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Bautista Creek Elementary School Teacher Stacey Van Zee, Recipient of Teachers are Heroes Award
Teaching offers many challenges but offers rewards that go far beyond the benefits provided by a day-to-day job. KATY- 101.3 The Mix (KATY) and Azusa Pacific University (APU) is excited to kick-off the Teachers are Heroes program for the 2017-2018 school year. On Tuesday, September 19, From left to right front row: Belle Napi, Stacey Van Zee, Dr. Ie 2017, Mrs. Stacey Van Zee, May Freeman, Francisco Leivera and Karan McGlynn. From second grade teacher at left to right back row: Sharann Napi and Greg Giroux Bautista Creek Elementary School, was surprised with the first Teachers are Heroes award for this year. Mrs. Van Zee was nominated by Sharann Napi, the mother of one of Van Zee’s students, who said, “She is an amazing teacher. She is kind, patient and truly cares about her students. She motivates the kids and helps them feel special every day. Her daughter, Belle, loves being in her class. Thank you, Mrs. Van Zee!” Van Zee has been teaching for 22 years of which 18 have been at Bautista Creek Elementary. The first day that she stepped foot on the Bautista campus she knew that she found her home. Van Zee was surrounded by hard-working, caring colleagues that had every students' best interest in mind. She also feels fortunate because she has lots of support. She comes from of a family of teachers. There are nine in her family. Mrs. Van Zee works with her brother and sister-in-law and her husband teaches 6th grade. Her daughters have been raised in the classroom setting. Van Zee's oldest daughter is working towards her teaching credential and her youngest wants to be a speech pathologist in the school setting. Mrs. Van Zee states, "I love working with the kiddos. I believe if you make each and every student feel important and make it fun, they will love school and learning. In my classroom, we know that we learn from our mistakes and that when you make a mistake, "You are normal". We know that you are expected to do your personal best. I couldn't imagine being anywhere else or doing anything else. I am doing my dream job!"
Van Zee received prizes from KATY and APU and her students enjoyed a pizza party celebration from The Pizza Factory in Temecula. All selected teachers and their classes will attend a private celebration at the end of the year at the Lake Elsinore Storm Stadium. The Teachers are Heroes program will run through April 2018. Teachers can be nominated by students, parents, and even other school administrators. For more information go to www.1013themix.com, keyword: Teachers or go to http://www.apu.edu/murrieta/teachers/
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Meet a Need, Change a Life
October 14th marked the 3-year anniversary of the Dream Center and we celebrated it the way we do every year… with a Serving the City Day! Serving the City is our weekly Adopt-A-Block ministry on steroids. We save up all of the large work projects we encounter during the year that we need skilled labor, more hands, and specific materials to accomplish. This year we had 15 different sites and 150 people to do the work! It was great to see the Church band together to love on and care for their community. It’s through meeting these physical needs in the community that we are able to form relationship with the residents we are helping. This relationship is really what begins to change peoples’ lives. Now there is someone in their life who cares, who speaks life, who calls out their potential, and who champions their dreams. This all starts by meeting a physical tangible need.
NOVEMBER 2017 This doesn’t just happen once a year… this happens every single Saturday Adopt-Athrough Block. On a weekly basis we are finding and filling needs, and finding and healing hurts. Through consistently serving in downtown Lake Elsinore for 3 years now we åhave formed some incredible relationships within the community and are seeing miraculous life transformation. Every week we are playing with kids coming from broken families, visiting seniors who are isolated and alone, and cleaning up littered streets and houses. Come join us any Saturday to be a part of changing the atmosphere in Lake Elsinore! Adopt-A-Block happens every Saturday from 9:15am-Noon in front of the Old Ambassador Hotel in Historic Downtown Lake Elsinore (164 South Main St., Lake Elsinore, CA 92530). For more information please visit our website www.DreamCenterLE.org/adopt-a-block or give us a call at (951) 376-3703.
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Temecula Valley Symphony & Symphony Chorus FALL & WINTER SCHEDULE TEMECULA VALLEY SYMPHONY Nov. 11 - Sat. 6:00 pm - “PATRIOTIC SALUTE” - Free Veterans Day Concert at Temecula Civic Center featuring the Symphony with guest vocalist Emily Chelsea. Dec. 2 - Sat. 2:00 pm - “WINTER JOY” – Symphony Holiday Concert featuring a Special Guest Violinist, YuEun Gemma Kim, performing Winter from Vivaldi’s Four Seasons. Music includes Hanukkah Overture for Strings and Clarinet Solo and a narrated tale, The Night Before Christmas. Enjoy music from White Christmas, and other holiday favorites! Golden Bears Theater, TVHS, 31555 Rancho Vista Rd., Temecula.
Dec. 16 – Sat. 3:00 pm – Chorus Concert “COMFORT & JOY“ – Temecula Valley Symphony Chorus presents a delightful holiday program full of lush seasonal favorites. Grace Presbyterian Church, 31143 Nicolas Rd., Temecula. Feb. 10, 2018 – Sat. 2:00 pm – “BOLD & BRASSY…SWEET & SASSY” – This concert features the various sections of the orchestra. Brass and percussion perform Fanfare for the Common Man by Aaron Copland and Two Bagatelles by Alfred Reed. Kate Prestia-Schaub performs Carmen Fantasy for Flute & Orchestra by Bizet. Enjoy Poulenc’s Sextet for Piano @ Woodwind Quintet and Mozart’s Divertimento No. 2 in D major for Chamber Orchestra: Flute, Oboe, Bassoon, 4 Horns, and Strings. Golden Bears Theater, TVHS, 31555 Rancho Vista Rd., Temecula. TEMECULA VALLEY SYMPHONY is a 60-member orchestra under the baton of Music Director and Conductor, John Mario Di Costanzo. The Symphony produces numerous concerts throughout the year and takes pride in offering “Symphonic Music with A New Twist.” Our concert programs include exciting selections from movies, animated films, Broadway, operas, epic classics, works featuring our Symphony Chorus, and refreshing compositions by living composers. We aim to provide you with a memorable concert experience that includes large screen projections and humorously delivered program notes presented live from the podium by John Mario. TEMECULA VALLEY SYMPHONY CHORUS is a 50-voice mixed chorus under the Artistic Direction of Conductor Eric Rea. The Chorus performs on two Symphony concerts each season and presents two stand-alone choral concerts.
Call 951-587-1536 for more info or visit www.TemeculaValleySym phony.org We’re not your ordinary stuffy symphony. Come and join the experience of Music, Art, & Passion!
NOVEMBER 2017
THE NUTCRACKER BALLET Presented by Inland Valley Classical Ballet Theatre
PERFORMANCES: NOV 24 - 7PM; NOV 25 – 2PM & 7PM; NOV 26 – 1PM & 4PM If you could imagine a little girl named Clara, a magical Nutcracker doll, a mysterious magician Drosselmayer, toss in an evil Rat Queen, fearless soldiers, beautiful snowflakes, a breath-taking Sugar Plum fairy and enough sparkling costumes that would make Liberace weep with envy...you are dreaming of the Nutcracker ballet! Enhanced by Tchaikovsky's rich score, distinctive choreography, dazzling performance this extravagant production is ideal for children and those of us who can still be carried away to a magnificent world of beauty. This holiday season is somehow unthinkable without it. TICKETS: $24 Orchestra, $22 Parterre, $20 Balcony *Discounts available for Seniors/Children/Military* *Children under age 2 FREE on Adult lap. Must obtain a "Babes in Arms" ticket at the Ticket Office for entry into the theater. Performace at The Old Town Temecula Community Theater, Temecula. For tickets: temeculatheater.org.
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Galway Downs: A Destination for Everyone By Susan Montgomery
The four-acre Village area provides a lovely pastoral setting with open lawns, large eucalyptus trees, and running streams. Wedding ceremonies can be held under the trees or in front of a tumbling waterfall.
perform after the equestrian competitions on Sunday, November 5 at 5 p.m. On Saturday night, entertainment will be provided by the Lee Koch Band. These performances and all the equestrian events are open to the public and tickets can be purchased on the Galway Downs website at http://www.galwaydowns.com/.
We recently visited Galway Downs, a beautiful 242-acre property located in Temecula on the edge of the wine country. Galway has been around for almost half a century and has seen a variety of owners and uses, although it has always primarily been an equestrian destination. We met with the property’s owner, Ken Smith, and Equestrian Facility Manager, Robert Kellerhouse, who described what is currently going on at Galway Downs with contagious enthusiasm. We learned that under their visionary leadership Galway is taking on an exhilarating new life. As we took a tour of the property, we were amazed by its expansive beauty. Accented by willow trees, oak trees, creeks, waterfalls, and meadows, Galway is an inspiring destination for an exciting variety of events. Framed by the majestic, rolling hills of Temecula Valley’s lovely wine country, Galway Downs is a unique, one-of-a-kind location with a rural ambiance that makes it an enchanting getaway. Galway Downs is still first and foremost a site for equestrian pursuits — world class eventing competitions, boarding, and training. Galway has 400 permanent horse stalls, a one-mile racetrack, a polo field, 15 miles of trails, and 25 RV hook-ups. However, the property is now also evolving into a destination for weddings, other sporting events and festivities, music, and great food. Big Weekend at Galway: Nov. 2 to 5 A wonderful example of the kinds of exceptional events you can find at Galway Downs is the upcoming Galway Downs International Three-Day Eventing weekend, November 2 to 5th. For this Olympic level competition, horses and their riders will be coming from all over North America for a variety of competitions, including Dressage, Show Jumping, and Cross Country, where horses face challenging obstacles through water and over ditches. (How much fun will this event be to watch?) During the weekend, spectators can also enjoy enticing gourmet food trucks, beer, wine, and special offerings from a variety of local vendors. Galway is a destination for the whole family. Much of this will take place in the beautifully landscaped Sycamore Tree grass field. A highlight of the weekend will be the performance of award-winning country rock star Leann Rimes who has sold over 20 million records. She will
A Destination for Weddings and Special Events Galway Downs also provides a four-acre Village area for weddings and other special gatherings. Managed by Wedgewood Weddings, this inviting, beautifully landscaped Village area is stunning destination for one-of-a-kind events. The bucolic site provides a lovely pastoral setting with open lawns, large eucalyptus trees, and running streams. Wedding ceremonies can be held under the trees or in front of a tumbling waterfall. Receptions can be held in the spacious, rustic Carriage House, which seats up to 300 guests and features huge sliding glass doors that bring the picturesque outdoors right into the reception. Completely customizable, all-inclusive wedding packages are available. You can even ride a charming horse and carriage through the property. Wedgewood partners with local vendors to make sure couples receive the best service possible. For more information on holding a wedding or special event at Galway Downs, call 888-382-5108 for a tour of the property and consultation about your event.
Receptions can be held in the spacious, rustic Carriage House, which seats up to 300 guests.
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A Multi-Use Destination with a Bright Future The Galway Downs property has space for multiple uses, including fields for such sports as soccer, LaCrosse, and running and walking events. The property can have a number of different events taking place at the same time and they won’t interfere with each other. Ken and Robert make the point that because the Galway property was previously dependent on equestrian events for its success, it struggled to survive. Now equestrian events do not carry the whole responsibility for the venue’s success. With other events and weddings sharing the weight of success, the entire property can thrive with the equestrian activities still remaining Galway’s cornerstone. From a spectator and guest point of view, this expanded focus is wonderful because there is something going on for everyone, not just horse lovers. Ken makes the point that “At Galway we are doing what needs to be done to make the property sustainable. With multiple kinds of activities we are providing an entertainment destination that can support itself and attract a wide range of people who will enjoy the property.” Robert Kellerhouse, who has worked with Galway’s equestrian program for more than 20 years, says, “The future of Galway has never been brighter. Ken Smith has set the tone for this equestrian zone by creating a wine country community. Now it’s a horse place with a future.” This year Galway has hosted 27 different equestrian events and next year there will be even more going on with a focus on pre -World Championship qualifying events. Hunters and Jumpers, one of three Olympic events, will be added. Upper echelon Dressage events are coming early next year. All these competitions are spectator friendly. A person who is not experienced with horses can come and enjoy equestrian events while also sa-
Ken Smith and Robert Kellerhouse agree that the future of Galways Downs has never been brighter.
voring good food and drinks, plus there are frequent opportunities to listen to great music—all in a fabulous setting. Galway Downs: A work in progress Ken Smith talks with passion about Galway Downs. He says, “The first time I saw this property I was overwhelmed with its beauty. I saw all the work that needed to be done, but I also saw its solid infrastructure and great potential. All it needed was some tender loving care and that’s what we are giving it right now.” Galway Downs is a continually evolving, on-going project with exciting plans for the future in place. . Robert points out that the equestrian areas, tracks and arenas, continue to be improved. Galway is a work in progress. Ken admits that its development may never end and he is excited about that. He says, “Every morning I wake up and say ‘Who is the lucky person who has the pleasure of owning and developing this property?’ ” Fortunately, Galway’s visitors also have the opportunity to enjoy this spectacular venue as it evolves. Go to Galway Down’s website (http://www.galwaydowns.com/) to find out about the upcoming events that you, your family, and your friends can attend.
Photos by Todd Montgomery Wedding photos by Leah Marie Photography
Galway Downs has hosted 27 different equestrian events in 2017 and next year there will be even more.
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SENIORS
Medicare Takes Aim at Medical Identity Theft By Seema Verna, CMS Administrator
(Family Features) Criminals are increasingly targeting people age 65 or older for personal identity theft. In 2014 alone, there were 2.6 million such incidents among seniors, according to the Department of Justice. A growing offshoot of identity theft is healthcare fraud, which can result when someone unlawfully uses another person’s Medicare number. Medical identity theft can lead to inaccuracies in medical records, which in turn can result in delayed care, denied services and costly false claims. That’s why Medicare works with the Department of Justice, taking aim squarely at would-be thieves. In the largest law enforcement action against criminals fraudulently targeting the Medicare, Medicaid and Tricare programs, 412 people around the country, including 115 doctors, nurses and other licensed medical professionals, were charged in 2017 with bilking U.S. taxpayers out of $1.3 billion. The next big fraud-fighting push is well underway -- and its focus is protecting the personal information of senior citizens by removing their Social Security numbers from Medicare cards. People with Medicare don’t need to take any action to get a new Medicare card. Beginning in April, 2018, the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS) will mail out newly designed Medicare cards to the 58 million Americans with Medicare. The cards will have a new number that will be unique for each card recipient. This will help protect personal identity and prevent fraud because identity thieves can’t bill Medicare without a valid Medicare number. To help with a seamless transition to the new cards, providers will be able to use secure look up tools that will support quick access to the new card numbers when needed. Healthcare fraud drives up costs for everyone, but healthcare consumers can be an effective first line of defense against fraud. Follow these tips to help protect yourself: Do
• Treat your Medicare number like a credit card.
• When the new card comes in the mail next year, destroy your old card and make sure you bring your new one to your doctors’ appointments.
• Be suspicious of anyone offering early bird discounts, limited time offers or encouraging you to act now for the best deal. That's an indicator of potential fraud because Medicare plans are forbidden from offering incentives. • Be skeptical of free gifts, free medical services, discount packages or any offer that sounds too good to be true. Continued on page 17
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County Offers Free Evening Class Series for Families Dealing with Alzheimer’s and Chronic Illnesses
The Riverside County Office on Aging is facilitating “Care Pathways,” an educational series will be offered in Murrieta for family members caring for older adults with Alzheimer’s and other chronic conditions. This class will be offered in the early evening at Rancho Springs Medical Center, starting on Thursday, October 19th. To get details and register for the series of free workshops call the Riverside County Office on Aging at (951) 867-3800 or (800) 510-2020. Respite care is available; request assistance at the time of registration. This series if offered in multiple locations throughout the county and is offered in both English and Spanish.
This series of 12 workshops will cover subjects such as: Living with Dementia, Preventing Caregiver Burnout, Managing Medications, Talking to the Doctor, Understanding Legal Issues, Stress Prevention, Communication Techniques and more. The workshops are conducted in a supportive setting, with facilitators who understand the challenges that caregivers face, and who can provide powerful tools to assist caregivers to manage their tasks with confidence, increase their self-care, and thrive. A graduate from an earlier class said “This class has made a difficult situation bearable.”
Medicare Takes Aim at Medical Identity Theft
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Don't allow anyone, except your doctor or other Medicare providers, to review your medical records or recommend services.
Don't let anyone persuade you to see a doctor for care or services you don't need.
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Don't accept medical supplies from a door-to-door salesman.
Learn more about how you can fight Medicare fraud at Medicare.gov/fraud, or call 1-800-MEDICARE (1-800-633-4227). You can also visit a local SHIP counselor, who can provide free, one-on-one, non-biased Medicare assistance.
With a common sense approach to protecting health information, senior citizens can be effective partners in fighting Medicare fraud.
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Community Events and Activities How to Help Others in Difficult Times
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*Anxiety, Trauma, Marriage Troubles, Loss of Loved Ones, Terror, Abuse, Pornography, Financial Trouble, Victims of Violence... What do you do? What do you say? Can you help? YES! Classes begin Thursday Nov. 2, 2017 from 6:30pm-8:00pm. This is a 6 week class. Space is limited. Please RSVP to 888-443-2169 or vicbiblicalcounseling@gmail.com. You may still attend if you missed the first class. V.I.C. Ministries vicbiblicalcounseling.com 31285 Temecula Parkway, Suite 220, Temecula
Family Wildlife Day at the Santa Rosa Plateau
Family Wildlife Day will be held on Saturday, November 4, 2017 10:00 am – 3:00 pm. Families visit wild animals, live birds, snakes, and a variety of mammals. Designed to inform, entertain and inspire children and their families to learn more about the Reserve and the natural world. The day will also include “bats, bugs and creepy crawly things” with presentations by Project Wildlife, Sierra Club, and UC. Temecula Valley Astronomers bring solar telescopes. Margie Valdez from the Hidden Valley Nature Center helps kids explore the world of live reptiles. The Western Science Center shares hidden treasures found beneath SW Riverside County as kids explore fossils and cool science. The day offers nature walks, crafts, activities, music, and games. No Advance Ticket Sales – Pay on site. Adults $5 – Children (2 – 12) $4 – Under 2 Free - Retired, active and reserve military with ID cards – Free Admission. For more information: www.srpf.org
Constitution Association Invitation Freedom! Liberty! Independence! Prosperity!
"Giving Thanks!" General Meeting w/appetizers! November 4th - 5 P.M. Guest Speaker: Assemblywoman Melissa Melendez at the Lake Village Club House: 30151 Rancho Vista Road, Temecula. RSVP 951-246-2524 or hhps60@gmail.com before November 1st. “Liberty: Heroes of the American Revolution” Movie/Discussion: Family Friendly Patriotic Film November 26th 1 P.M. & December 14th 4:30 P.M. at the Sun City Library, 26982 Cherry Hills Blvd. Join us for the”White Elephant" Christmas Celebration w/appetizers on December 2nd at 5 P.M at the Lake Village Club House, 30151 Rancho Vista Road, Temecula. R.S.V.P 951-246-2524 or hhps60@gmail.com
Stonecroft Temecula Women’s Connection
Program: Circle of Care Food Pantry. Speaker: Former member of the US Air Force, Angela Alexander will explain how she was able to turn pain into power and grief into peace in “Love Letters.” Thursday, November 16, 11:30am to 1:30pm Cost is $22 at Wilson Creek Winery, Temecula. Reservations and cancellations required by November 8, please call Christine 951.677. 8187 or cw4cwc@verizon.net
SMART Moms (single mothers support group)
November 5, 12 & 19. No cost. Includes children's program (infant through 12th grade), speakers for the moms and dinner for all! Location: Murrieta Church of Christ located at 24750 Lincoln Avenue, Murrieta. 951-375-2594 www.smartmoms.info
Parenting 101 Intro Class: The Bridge
November 11 - 11:00 to 12:30. Hosted by: New Point Wellness located at 44274 George Cushman Court #211Temecula. Presented by: Traci Williams, A Loving Way to Parent. RSVP: 951-772-6315 (text) or newpointacupuncture@gmail.com. Snacks served; limited seating.
Meet The Author: Carrie Arcos
Celebrate National Novel Writing Month at the teen program, Meet the Author: Carrie Arcos on Monday, November 13, 2017, from 6:30 pm to 8:30 pm at the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library (30600 Pauba Road). Carrie Arcos is a National Book Award Finalist for Out of Reach and bestselling author of Crazy Messy Beautiful and There Will Come a Time. She also has strong Temecula roots as a Temecula Valley High School graduate. Ms. Arcos will be at the library to share valuable writing tips and insight. Get inspired to take pen to paper and write the next hit young adult novel. Barnes & Noble will be on site selling Carrie Arcos’ books for an author signing to be held after the program. This Teen Program is sponsored by the Friends of the Temecula Libraries and has limited seating. Advanced registration begins two weeks prior to scheduled programs and events. Please register at the library reception desk or by calling (951) 693-8900.
Meet Actress/Singer/Dancer Alyson Stoner in Lake Elsinore November 18th
Alyson Stoner (“The Suite Life of Zack and Cody” “Camp Rock” “Phineas and Ferb”) will spend Saturday, November 18th meeting and dancing with local fans. This event benefits Lake Elsinore's Find Your Voice Center, as well as Alyson's own non-profit, I Pour Life. There are different opportunities for fans to meet Alyson, including a group dance class, where Alyson teaches her own choreography and participants get to perform it. For information about sponsorships and ticket packages visit FYVcenter.org.
Temecula Valley Newcomers Club
The Club Meeting and Members Vendors Fair will be held on Monday, November 20, 2017 at 11 a.m. Come join us for our Members Venders Fair on Monday, November 20 at 11 a.m. Everyone is welcome, so come shop for holiday gifts or just pamper yourself. Our Member Venders will be displaying and selling their wares. There will be holiday gifts, wreaths, decorations, handmade toys, jewelry, English Toffee, soup mixes, fine art photograph, garden decor, hand embroidered items, scarves, ponchos, ionized water demo, hand reflexology massage and more. All sold by our TVNC members. If you have recently moved to the Temecula Valley or have lived here for many years and want to get out more, meet new people and have fun, Temecula Valley Newcomers Club (TVNC) is for you. Come see what it’s all about at the TVNC monthly luncheon at Wilson Creek Winery, 35960 Rancho California Rd, Temecula. Paid reservations are required at least one week prior to luncheon; please call Anne (951) 677-7149. This Club is a social organization with many different activities for members such as card games, book clubs, mahjong, movie groups, theater trips, lunch and dinner groups and much more. For Club information call Gwen (951) 461-1525. Hope to shop with you at our next meeting.
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NAFE Meetings in the Area
Escondido Nafe meets the 1st Thursday of each month at 6:00 pm at Cocina del Charo Mexican Restaurant - 890 West Valley Parkway, Escondido, CA. Temecula Nafe meets the 1st Tuesday in November at Bamboo House 27473 Ynez Road, Temecula at 6 pm. Each month the location alternates between Bamboo House 27473 Ynez Road, Temecula and Spositos located at 28120 Jefferson Ave Suite 207, Temecula CA. Menifee Nafe meets the 2nd Wednesday at 11:30 at Merna's Cafe and Grill 26850 Cherry Hills Blvd, Sun City, CA 92586 (behind Stater Brothers) Murrieta Nafe meets the 4th Thursday of each month at noon at RJ's Sizzlin' Steer 41401 Kalmia Street. Nafe's mission is to help women grow both personally and professionally and has been serving women globally for 45 years. For more information contact Robbie Motter, Nafe Global Coordinator 951-255-9200 or email rmotter@aol.com. Every meeting has a dynamic speaker and networking. Cost is $10.00 for Nafe members, $15.00 for guests and then you order food and pay the restaurant direct.
Thanksgiving Worship at Hope Lutheran Church
Hope Lutheran Church invites the community to Thanksgiving Eve Worship with Holy Communion on Wednesday, November 22 at 6:30 pm. A pie fellowship, hosted by Hope’s youth, will follow the worship service. Hope is located at 32819 Temecula Parkway, Suite B in the Redhawk Business Center. Please visit Hope’s website www.hopetemecula.org/featured-events or call 951.676.6262 for more information on Hope Lutheran.
Southwest Women’s Chorus Christmas Concert
The Southwest Women's Chorus will present our 18th annual winter concert, Christmas in the Air, on December 2nd at 7:30pm and December 3rd at 2pm at The Old Town Temecula Community Theater. Tickets will be available through http://southwestwomenschorus.org/concerts , at the box office and 1-866-OLD-TOWN. Come take a rest from your holiday rush, and enjoy a hearty helping of entertainment! Our annual Christmas in the Air concert is always a big hit!
17th Annual Angel Tree Christmas Party
The party is being hosted by Community Outreach Ministry on Sunday, December 17, 2017, 12:30-3:00 pm at the Elks Lodge #2591, 33700 Mission Trail, Wildomar, CA. 92595. The party is by invitation for Angel Tree children whose parents are incarcerated. We welcome sponsors to contact us to buy, shop or wrap gifts for local children ages 0-18. For details call 951-698-7650 or info@communityoutreachministry.org.
West Coast Polar Ice for Your Holiday Party
Serves 'Mustache Mike’s' Italian Ice every Saturday and Sunday at Old Town Temecula and Murrieta Farmers Markets. Gluten & Dairy FREE, 25 Calories per oz. and an all natural, creamy texture. Available for Birthday Parties, School Events or Corporate Events 951-551-6780. PTA Packets available at these markets. Packets include license, permit, liability /holdharmless. Like and share us on Facebook at WestCoastPolarIce & follow us on Instagram at icyscoops.
Emergency Preparedness Class Offered at MSJC
Learn to Create Your Family Emergency “Grab & Go” Binder. The class fee is $49. Class begins Nov. 2. 6:00 – 9:00 pm at the Menifee Valley Campus, Rm. 486 located at 28237 La Piedra Rd, 92584. Learn how to put together vital documents needed in the event of a house fire, impending natural disaster, medical emergency or even death. This class will help determine, simplify and organize all your important documents in a "grab-and-go" Family Emergency Binder. For more information contact MSJC Community Education at 951-5066701.
~ CRAFT SHOWS AND BOUTIQUES ~ Quilt Show - Quilted Treasurers
Fallbrook Quilt Guild is proud of all north county quilters. On Friday, November 3rd, and Saturday, November 4th, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. there will be over 200 incredible quilts on display made by local quilters. There will be a Boutique of handmade quilting and wearable items, a Country Store, and Vendors (for fabric, patterns, quilt hangers, etc.) and both days will feature a Quilt Auction at 1:00 p.m. This auction includes beautiful quilts, baskets of fabric, Singer Sewing machine. Demonstrations on quilting techniques will be viewed by attendees. Location: Son Rise Christian Fellowship, 463 S. Stage Coach Lane, Fallbrook, CA 92028 Admission is $10 for adults and children 3-12 years old $3.00. Food and beverages are offered. Visit our website: www.fallbrookquiltguild.com
Holiday Boutique - Canyon Lake
Canyon Lake’s 17th Annual Holiday Boutique will be held on November 4th and 5th from 10AM to 4PM. Hand Crafted Items and Baked Goods!! Located at the Senior Center at 23307 Canyon Lake Drive. **Entrance Is at the Main Gate** Sponsored by the Senior Center Work Group
Annual Holiday Bazaar
The annual bazaar will be held on Saturday, November 4 from 9am to 2 pm at the Solera Diamond by Del Webb Valley Clubhouse located at 1645 Paseo Diamante, Hemet. Choose from hand made goods, jewelry, photography, paper crafts, embroidered items and unique home adornments that will dazzle. Come early for the best selections at fantastic prices.
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And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. Mark 11:25 NKJV
How to Overcome Anger By Pastor John Stewart
Anger is more than momentary outbursts of rage and frustration! Anger is also more than ongoing inner resentments! Anger is based on a deep–seated conviction and habitual reactions as to how we are going to respond when we don’t like something that is taking place. It occurs in different degrees of intensity – from mild irritation, to violent rage. Sometimes anger can be held inside, other times it is vented in explosive outbursts! It may last a short time, or it may be an enduring irritation, an inner seething, or an embittered agitation. Anger is not always bad. It can be either destructive or constructive, depending on how it is used. However, all too often we see it expressed destructively. The Bible reveals that anger is also a part of God’s nature. Since He is perfect, we need to see how He uses anger. We can then establish this as a framework by which we can understand and overcome our own battles with destructive anger. A variety of sources suggest that nearly fifty percent of people who seek counseling have problems dealing with anger. Anger can shatter communication and tear apart relationships, and it ruins both the joy and health of many. Sadly, people tend to justify their anger instead of accepting responsibility for it. Most people struggle in one way or another, with anger. Properly dealing with anger is an important life skill. Thankfully, God’s Word contains principles regarding how to handle anger in a godly manner, and how to overcome sinful anger. Anger is not always sin. There is a type of anger of which the Bible approves,
often called “righteous indignation.” There are evils which rightly anger God, (Psalm 7:11; Mark 3:5), and believers are commanded to “be angry, but not to sin” (Ephesians 4:26). There are two Greek words in the New Testament translated as “anger.” One means “passion, energy” and the other means “agitated, boiling.” There are times when a believer may be righteously angry, for instance, when the character of God is impugned. In such cases anger is commanded: Be angry. Anger against evil can be righteous. Examples of biblical anger include David’s anger when he heard Nathan the prophet sharing of an injustice (2 Samuel 12). Jesus was angered over the defiling worship in God’s temple in Jerusalem (John 2:13-18). Notice that neither of these examples of anger involved self-defense, but a defense of goodness or of righteous principle. Therefore, anger at injustice or evil inflicted against oneself or others can be appropriate. Anger alerts us to danger when others are attempting to cause malice or harm. God cares for people, but sadly men do not always care for or protect one another. When standing against injustice, abuse or other kinds of cruelty, there is a righteous anger that is part of a right response to such evils. Conversely, “the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God” (James 1:20). When anger arises because of self-interest or pride it neither serves nor accomplishes Gods will and is therefore sinful. When anger stirs emotions of malice, jealousy, resentment, vindictiveness, or hatred because of personal wrongs, it is forbidden. Aristotle said, “Anybody can become angry—that is easy; but to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not easy.” Anger is also sinful when it is unproductive and thus distorts God’s purposes. For instance, when anger is allowed to linger and fester, the Bible warns: “Be angry, and do not sin: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, 27 nor give place to the devil.” (Ephesians 4:26-27). There should not be a nursing of grudges, nor harboring of resentments, or carrying over of irritations. “Do not let the sun go down on your wrath.” Anything that mars fellowship with God or with our brethren should immediately be made right. Additionally, sins of distemper provide the devil with a foothold or a base of operations. Therefore, we must not excuse malice, wrath, envy, hatred, or passion in our lives. These sinful attitudes dishonor God, discredit our Christian witness, stumble the unsaved, offend our brethren, and otherwise undermine our spiritual, mental and physical wellbeing. Anger has turned to sin is when, instead of attacking the problem at hand, we attack the wrongdoer. As Christians we are to “speak the truth in love.” (Ephesians 4:15). We are also commanded to “let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. (Ephesians 4:29-30) We are to use our words to build others up, not to hurt or tear them down! Sadly, angry and hurtful speech is a common characteristic of fallen man (Romans 3:13-14). Anger becomes sin when it boils over without restraint, resulting in a scenario in which hurt is multiplied leaving devastation in its wake. Often, the consequences of out-of-control anger are irreparable. Anger often leads to corrupt speech which covers many areas including hurtful and inappropriate words that neither builds up (edify), nor is pleasing to God! Angry words do not give grace to the hearers. Corrupt speech at best is worthless, at worst is destructive and overall is grieving to the Holy Spirit. To bring God such grief, is sin as it is unholy and dishonoring to His love and goodness. As the Holy Spirit has sealed the believer in Christ, Christians are secured as God’s children and man’s anger is contrary to the Holy work He desires to produce in us. Therefore, all sins of temper and tongue should be put away. The apostle also listed several attitudes associated with anger: Bitterness is smoldering resentment, unwillingness to forgive, enduring harshness. Wrath is outbursts of rage, violent passion, temper tantrums. Anger is grouchiness, animosity and hostility. Clamor means outcries of agitation, angry bickering, shouting down of opponents. Evil speaking is insulting language, slander, hurtful or abusive speech. Malice is a meanness that is expressed by evil or spite toward others. Continued on page 21
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Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.
Eph: 3:20 NLT
No One Cares As Jesus Cares By Joni Eareckson Tada
"Oh Lord, what is man that you care for him, the son of man that you think of him?" ~Psalm 144:3 No one ever cared for me like Jesus There's no other friend so kind as He; No one else could take the sin and darkness from meO how much He cared for me!*
Whether you are weak or strong, saintly or struggling, Jesus cares for you. I realize that you may be thinking, "Sure, Jesus cares for me in the general sense, and for the whole world, but when it comes to specifics, surely there must be others He is more interested in. After all, I can't pray out loud ... I have a hard time understanding the Bible ... I can't seem to shake bad habits. Yes, I know He cares but not as much as He does for more obedient types." Not so. The Lord's care for you does not hinge on your hang-ups. His care for
How to Overcome Anger
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The Lord’s fundamental answer for anger is also simply declared in Ephesians 4:31-32: “Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you. Ongoing sins of temper must cease, but the vacuum must be filled by the cultivation of Christlike qualities. The deeds of anger are of the flesh, God’s answer is of the Spirit. “For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life.” (Galatians 6:8) Giving time to God in worship, in The Word and in prayer as opposed to indulging selfish desires makes a difference. Trusting and obeying the Lord or following our own desires and emotions makes all the difference in the world. If we follow the Spirit and walk by the Spirit, we will enjoy and express kindness which is an unselfish and sacrificial concern for the welfare of others. By the Spirit, we also develop a tenderhearted attitude which is an affectionate and compassionate willingness to bear one another’s burdens. We also become forgiving, just as we have been forgiven. Forgiveness is a readiness to pardon offenses, to overlook personal wrongs against oneself, and to harbor no desire for retaliation. If a
you has nothing to do with your baggage of personal problems. You could be a wimp when it comes to standing for the Lord, always getting distracted by everyday pressures. It doesn't matter. As a child of God, you matter. For you, dear believer, have the full force and undivided attention of eternal Love. Love that cares with no strings attached. The Living Bible translates 1 Peter 5:7 as, "Let him have all your worries and cares, for he is always thinking about you and watching everything that concerns you." What other friend is there who thinks about you every moment, every second of the day and night? What other friend is so jealous for your love and affection? What other friend forgives seventy times seven, and then some? Truly, no one ever cared for you as Jesus cares! You are always thinking of me and watching everything that concerns me. I love You, Jesus! Taken from Diamonds in the Dust. Printed with permission by Joni & Friends Disability Center.
believer gives way to unrighteous wrath, he should confess and forsake it quickly. Confession should be made both to God and to the victim of his anger. “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9) And just as God in Christ forgave us, so we must be willing to forgive others! The discretion of a man makes him slow to anger, and his glory is to overlook a transgression.” (Proverbs 19:11) Pastor Stewart is the Executive Pastor at Revival Christian Fellowship in Menifee. For service times, special events and previous studies from Pastor John Miller go to www.Revival.TV.
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HEALTHYLIFESTYLE
Michelle’s Place Hosts Free Seminar on Breast Reconstruction
Michelle’s Place, Breast Cancer Resource Center is hosting a free educational seminar on Tuesday, November 7th at 6:30 pm on Breast Reconstruction. Inland Empire board certified plastic surgeon, Ben Childers, M.D., F.A.C.S. of Riverside Plastic Surgery Associates and Sheer Beauty Medical Skin Care, will be educating attendees on breast reconstructive surgery and what options are available for patients. Dr. Childers has over twenty years of experience, 25,000 procedures, and eight years of rigorous training at Harvard Medical School and Loma Linda University. For more information, visit benchildersmd.com. To RSVP for this free seminar visit michellesplace.org/seminar-rsvp or call (951) 699-5455. Michelle’s Place is a full-service breast cancer resource center located at 27645 Jefferson Ave. #117, Temecula, CA 92590. For more information, visit www.michellesplace.org.
Make Exercising Easy and Often
Most people think they have to go to a gym, change into sweats, and do an hour-long workout...and that stops them from working out at all! It’s completely unnecessary. For example, get on the floor and do 10 push-ups right now. You just exercised! It’s really that simple. Here are some other examples of things you can do on the spot: • Do squats in the bathroom.
• Do laps up and down the stairwell.
• Stash a kettlebell in your office... and do swings when you have a minute.
• Do arm curls with books in your office.
• Lean against the wall and do calf raises.
These are just examples. There are hundreds of exercises you can do anywhere,anytime. So, don’t turn exercise into some big event. That makes it too easy to come up with excuses for not exercising. Instead, sany time you feel like skipping exercise, drop to the floor and do 10 push-ups. For more Fit Tips and Healthy recipes go to Nucific.com.
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Rose Again Foundation Seeks Volunteers and Runners for Temecula Half Marathon Foster children and emancipated fosters received FREE admission and pair of shoes
The Rose Again Foundation (RAF) is looking for community members to join their team for the Temecula Half Marathon & 5K on Sunday, November 12th. As the charity partner for the race, the Foundation seeks both runners and volunteers to take part on behalf of the organization. With a start location of Galloway Downs, the race includes both a half marathon and 5K option, as runners race through Temecula wine country. “Rose Again Foundation is honored to once again be the charity partner for this event. Through the participation of runners on our team and Foundation volunteers, Rose Again is able to provide resources to foster children and emancipated foster youth right here in the valley, shares Rhonda Reinke, Rose Again Foundation, Chief Executive Officer. “Foster children are part of our community. They deserve opportunities, resources and support, which is why our organization exists.” Foster children and emancipated foster youth who join as part of the Rose Again Foundation team will receive a free pair of running shoes and can receive a reimbursement for registration. The donation of shoes is made possible through a partnership between RAF and Elias Shoes in Murrieta. Last year, the organization distributed 120 pairs of shoes, properly fitting and distributing footwear to children from Rancho Damacitas, Oak Grove Institute and foster families throughout the valley. Visit RoseAgainFoundation.org to download an application for the New Shoes Program. To receive reimbursement for race registration email: RoseAgainFoundation@gmail.com. Rose Again Foundation team participants are able to participate both on race day, as well as virtually. Runners can use code RAF for
About Rose Again Foundation
Founded in 2013, Rose
Again Foundation was formed in
order to provide a safe, loving
and nurturing home-life experi-
ence and exceptional liberal arts education to orphaned and fos-
ter children. The Foundation
provides programs and services
to foster children and emanci-
pated foster young adults residing in Temecula and Murrieta.
a 10% discount. To register, runners: http://haku.ly/455703, volunteers: https://goo.gl/forms/OcYmy7p7j2ZjbrB72
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Kids
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Birthday Cake Edible Play Dough Ingredients
• 1 part white frosting • 3 parts cornstarch
• 1 Tablespoon water • Sprinkles optional
Note: Exact measurements were not used for this recipe, so you can adjust to make as much or as little as you’d like. Simply keep a 3-to-1 ratio of cornstarch to frosting.
Directions Start by combining about a teaspoon of your cornstarch with water in a medium mixing bowl. Stir until cornstarch is fully dissolved in water.
Add your frosting to the bowl and stir a couple times. Add the rest of your cornstarch little by little until the mixture clumps together to form a batter. As it thickens, it may be easier to mix with your hands to better incorporate the ingredients. If the batter is still sticky, continue adding cornstarch a spoonful at a time until you have a soft, moldable ball of dough that does not stick to hands. Now the fun part — add sprinkles, roll, and make your “cakes”! Notes • While this edible play dough is safe to taste, always supervise small children while they’re playing. I turned around for a minute and my daughter was cramming sprinkles into her mouth! • If dough gets too thick or starts to crumble, add a little bit of water to soften.
• Since this dough is made with food ingredients, you’ll want to discard when you’re done playing for the day.
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Get Your Tickets for the Train to Santa’s Workshop
Embark on a magical train ride and visit with Santa Claus himself at his North Pole workshop. Ride the train where elves will lead your family in Christmas songs, holiday trivia games and storytelling. Santa greets the guests as they arrive at the workshop. At the workshop children will be able to play in the play area and do craft activities. Before boarding the train guests can visit with Mrs. Claus and enjoy refreshments at Mrs. Claus’ Kitchen, see the model railroad layout, write a letter to Santa and shop at the vendor booths and the museum gift shop. Train times: 11:00, 1:00, 3:00, 5:30 & 7:00 on Saturday and Sunday and 5:30 & 7:00 on Friday. Dates: December 1, 2, 3, 8, 9, 10,15,16.17 Trains fill up fast. So it is advised to call the museum for reservations. Prices are ages 12 and up, $20; ages 211, $15, 951-943-3020. For tickets: oerm.org.
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City of Lake Elsinore New Fitness Trail
The Ribbon Cutting on Oct. 17 signaled the opening of Lake Elsinore’s first Fitness Trail. Bring your running shoes, water bottle and be ready to break a sweat on the newest addition to Serenity Park, the City’s first “Fitness Trail!” This 1/5 mile course has 12 different stations and varied elevations that will exercise your body in a beautiful setting. Whether you are a beginner just starting to get fit or a seasoned exerciser ready to push yourself to the next level, SERENITY PARK FITNESS TRAIL HAS YOUR CHALLENGE HERE! 19685 Palomar Street.
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Don’t Let FOG Spoil Your Holiday Cheer!
Fats, oils, and grease (FOG) can be a big problem for homeowners, especially during the holiday season. With the large family meals being prepared, it is easy to forget that some of our favorite dishes can cause clogs, if sent down the drain. Foods, including meats, sauces, gravies, salad dressings, frostings, batter and butter can all attribute to clogged drains. Here are a few simple tips to keep in mind when preparing your favorite holiday meals: • Scrape all food into the trash before washing dishes or placing them in the dishwasher • Pour oils, fats and grease from cooking into a disposable container, such as an empty jar or can, and let solidify. Then, place container into a trash can.
• Use paper towels to wipe out any fat, oil, or grease residue left in a pan and dispose of in a trash can.
• Mix small amounts of used fat, oil and grease with absorbent waste such as kitty litter, coffee grounds or paper towels before discarding.
It is the homeowner’s responsibility to keep their home sewer pipes in good working condition. When a sewer begins to drain slowly, it may be a sign that it needs to be cleaned or repaired. Clogs in the sewer pipe can be expensive to repair, so don’t let the FOG ruin your holiday celebrations. Consider having your home sewer pipe cleaned yearly by a professional plumber to prevent clogs and backups. For more information, visit www.evmwd.com. EVMWD provides service to more than 133,000 water, wastewater and agricultural customers in a 96-square-mile area in Western Riverside County. The District is a subagency of the Western Municipal Water District and a member agency of the Metropolitan Water District of Southern California. Visit the EVMWD website at www.evmwd.com for additional information.
Helpful Hints for Using the Slow Cooker 1.
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To speed up the thickening of sauces with flour or possibly cornstarch at the end of cooking, increase the heat to the high setting and cook from 15 to 45 min longer. Or possibly drain the juices into a saucepan and bring to a boil on top of the stove or possibly in a glass measure in a microwave, stirring till smooth and thickened.
Because they cook more slowly than meats, generally place fresh vegetables, such as carrots, potatoes, celery, and onions, in the bottom and around the sides of the slow cooker. Then place meats on top.
Because colors fade with long, slow cooking, for eye appeal, dress up slow-cooker dishes with a garnish of minced fresh parsley, cilantro or possibly watercress, basil or possibly other fresh herbs, sliced scallions, minced tomatoes or possibly red peppers, shredded carrots, shredded cheese, nonfat yogurt, lowfat sour cream, lemon or possibly lime wedges, etc.
For more Helpful Hints and recipes go to CookEatShare.com.
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Visiting Our Vineyards
Events in Wine Country Baily Vineyard & Winery Enjoy Dog-Day Sundays at Carol’s With Live Acoustic Music in November. Bring your well mannered pooches for lunch on the patio in wine country. All dogs will receive a free raffle ticket for a bottle of Baily wine! Purchase a Dog Day T-Shirt, wear it on your next visit and receive a free doggie entrée. Doggie menu, Doggie treats & Dog related gift items. Remember to post a picture of your dog at Carol’s on our Facebook page. www.bailywinery.com
Bel Vino Winery Friday Nite Live – No Cover Bel Vino Winery presents Friday Nite Live 6pm-10pm every Friday featuring live music from local bands, our Bistro, and award winning wines. Friday Nite Live is free and open to the public. The Bistro is open until 9pm for full service dining or order from the to-go menu for seating on the lawn. Feel free to bring your lawn chairs and blankets. Belvinowinery.com
People’s Choice Blind Tasting & Awards What is Temecula Valley's Best Wine? You Decide. On Sunday, November 12, join fellow wine enthusiasts and Temecula Valley Southern California Wine Country movers and shakers at the second annual People's Choice Blind Tasting and Awards! Let your palate guide you through dozens of Temecula Valley's best wines. Rate them and help crown the region's favorites at a 5-course wine dinner and celebration. Never been to a blind tasting? Rest assured you won't be blindfolded. You will simply not know which wines you are tasting until they are revealed after the event, allowing for total objectivity in your tasting. Three ticket levels allow you to take part in some or all of this exciting event: Sun, November 12, 2017 from 11:00 AM – 9:30 PM PST at Leoness Cellars located at 38311 De Portola Road Temecula www.visittmeculavalley.com
Carter Estates Wine, Dine and Painting on November 4 from 11:00 AM - 2:00 PM Take in the views and tap into your inner artist. Hosted by Art & Vino's Jill Roberts. Select Saturdays on the Carter Estate tasting room patio. This fun and informative package includes: • Paint instruction with Jill Roberts • Lunch and a glass of pre-selected Carter Estate wine. www.carterestatewinery.com
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Visiting Our Vineyards
Military Appreciation Month
Monte De Oro Winery and Vineyards
November 1 @ 10:00am - November 30 @ 5:00 pm Falkner Winery, 40620 Calle Contento
5th Annual Masquerade Ball - Saturday, November 11, 2017 Price: $82.00 - $93.00 . Duration: 3 hrs Join us for our 5th Annual Masquerade Ball & Winemakers Dinner!
Honoring our Military all Month of November! Active, Retired, and Veteran U.S. Military Personnel receive a free Classic Tasting from November 1st November 13th. Show your military I.D. card or DD214 at the Tasting Room to redeem this offer. From November 14th - November 30th receive 50% off Tastings and 15% off bottle purchases. www.falknerwinery.com
�Bonfire Saturday Nights� Every Saturday evening 6pm to 10pm at Longshadow Winery.
Come on by and bring the family out to enjoy Live Music with different artists each week along with our fine wines and craft brews, mechanical bull rides, petting zoo, full snack bar and tons of family fun! Dinner available with RSVP ~ Menu varies but is usually ranch style faire. $8 to $10 approximately. Open to the public and no admission charge. Please do not bring coolers or outside beverages. Birthday cakes etc.. are no problem. Call or email for table reservations (recommended!) (951) 587-6221 or info@longshadowranchwinery.com
Wilson Creek Sunday, November 05, 2017 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM An Evening Benefiting Music Education In support of Temecula Education Foundation. Awards will be presented to the finalists of the 2017 WCMA in each of the following categories: Acoustic, Pop Singer Songwriter, Country, Rock, Cover, Instrumental, Youth (under 18), People's Choice, Christian, and Misc. Red Carpet event with celebrity judges and live performances. Presentation of Wine Country Music Awards, followed by a concert by the The Stray Cats' Lee Rocker. www.wilsoncreekwinery.com Wine Country Music Awards
Meritage at Callaway
On Friday & Sunday nights Meritage offers a prix fixe menu (in addition to the regular menu). Enjoy a three course meal for $35. www.callawaywinery.com
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Temecula Site for Entertainment Factory Movies By Carol Malin
Quiet on the set. A movie is being filmed in the coffee shop of Pechanga Casino in Temecula. What’s this all about? Is Temecula on the cusp of becoming a sought-after movie location? Temecula has good weather and a variety of possible film-shoot sites, such as wineries, breweries, ranches, lakes, an Old Town, and a casino. For filmmakers looking for a town that’s anything but sleepy, Temecula just might be the ticket.
I think this will be Steven’s break-through role. It allows him the opportunity to dig deep into the character and show the depth of his acting range. CM: I read that Steven Chase is part of the Entertainment Factory crew.
RF: Yes, we have worked together for years, writing and producing. His passion is acting. He starred in “Garlic and Gunpowder,” which we filmed in Temecula earlier this year. He has played lead roles in our films “How Sweet It Is,” “Bus Driver,” and “Death House,” and also produced those films. CM: On your website I saw that Felissa Rose is named as a producer for the “Stan the Man.”
RF: We’re very fortunate to have Felissa. She is a graduate of New York University’s Tisch School of the Arts, and has been in the entertainment industry for over 25 years working in many aspects of the business from producer to actress. If you’re a fan of horror movies, you will recall her role as the murderous Angela Baker in “Sleepaway Camp.” She was dubbed the Scream Queen after that role, which she mastered at the age of 13. Felissa has worked with us on several projects. She acted in “Death House” and “Garlic and Gunpowder.” CM: Other stars involved with “Stan the Man?”
Steven Chase, actor/producer; Rick Finkelstein, CEO/producer, Entertainment Factory. Photo: Roger Paige
“Film crews are choosing Temecula as a location more and more,” said Annette Brown, PR Director for Visit Temecula Valley. “This spring, Factory Entertainment Group contacted Film Temecula (division of Visit Temecula Valley) and chose our city as the film site for their comedy ‘Garlic and Gunpowder.’ They came back in October to shoot the feature film ‘Stan the Man’. We want to thank local businesses and the community for the hospitality they extended the film crew and know this is why they returned.” “The Film Temecula office brought the possibility of the Entertainment Factory shooting several scenes for ‘Stan the Man’ at the Pechanga Casino,” said Ciara Green, Public Relations Manager, Pechanga Resort and Casino. “We appreciate that recommendation and are honored. Pechanga and the Temecula Valley will be featured prominently in the movie. Perhaps this will encourage more production groups to consider us when location scouting for upcoming projects and perhaps more visitors will be exposed to this area through films and come and take a look at what Temecula and Pechanga have to offer.” The CEO of Entertainment Factory Group, Rick Finkelstein, sat down for an interview with Neighbors inside Pechanga’s Blends coffee shop. As the cameras rolled, he spoke about the “Stan the Man” film, upcoming projects, and the entertainment company. CM: When will “Stan the Man” be released? RF: Valentine’s Day 2018. It is a fitting premier date for this romantic comedy.
RF: Kelly Lang, the actress who portrays Brooke Logan on the daytime soap opera “Bold and the Beautiful” plays the role of Jennifer in “Stan the Man.” Ann Layton has the role of Kristi, Stan’s love interest. Ann is known for her work in “Grimm,” “Criminal Minds,” and “Lucifer.”
RF: I believe your readers will find this interesting…Orson Chaplin, Charlie Chaplin’s grandson, plays the gunman in the movie who is the cause of Stan’s near-death experience. Barry Gibb’s son, Michael Gibb, has a role in the film and Barry has provided the movie with two songs from his latest album.
CM: What about the crew?
RF: It takes a number of people to put a movie together. We’ve got about 28 crew members working now and with cast and background actors, I’d say about 88. I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention my wife, Karen, who is my greatest ally and our faithful German Shepard, Shaman, who patiently goes with us on every shoot.
CM: Can you give us an overview?
RF: “Stan the Man” is an engaging film about a man who loses his way in life but is given a chance to redeem himself, and does against all odds. This movie has excitement, love, loss, a near-death experience, and spiritual reckoning. Steven Chase wrote the script and stars in the film.
Crew behind the scenes, filming “Stan the Man” Photo: Roger Paige
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RF: Before we sign off, we want to thank Pechanga and Film Temecula for the professional courtesy they have shown us. They have been absolutely wonderful. We have encountered the most terrific people in the Temecula area and thank each and every one of them. Entertainment Factory filming “Stan the Man” at Blends, Pechanga Photo: Roger Paige
CM: What other Entertainment Factory films are in production or development? RF: “Garlic and Gunpowder” will be in theaters this December. “Death “Stan the Man” Synopsis: Man with an “I won’t grow up” attitude drinks, gambles, and womanizes until he loses his friends and business partnership. Cheated in a gambling scam he finds himself flat broke. To avoid living on the streets he decides to marry Jennifer, a woman he doesn’t love but desires her money. Unexpectedly he meets Kristi, a beautiful young woman he is immediately attracted to. She has an overbearing boyfriend that she wants to leave. Stan and Kristi decide to escape their miserable circumstances. Fate intervenes and Stan’s life takes a dramatic turn when he is shot during a convenience store robbery. In the hospital he is visited by an angel who grants him 30 days to get his life in order, live honestly, and open his heart to love or pay the consequences. This motivates him to straighten up. He confesses his dishonesty to Jennifer, acknowledges love for Kristi, and transforms his life. All is forgiven. His former business partner recognizes the positive change in Stan and cuts him in on a multi-million dollar deal. In the closing scene Stan rides off into the sunset with Kristi, on horseback no less. Film debuts on Valentine’s Day 2018.
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NOVEMBER 2017
Teen Addiction: Recovery is Possible!
Teen addiction is a problem that can have a lasting impact on the rest of the teen’s life. These habits are formed at an early age, which means that early treatment is critical to set the teen up for success in the future. But, many parents are at a loss of what to do. It is hard to know the right pathway forward if you don’t see the teen’s desire to overcome addictive behavior. It is easy to see that teens have a unique set of challenges relating to their recovery. They need the ongoing care of family and friends to overcome the addiction and reduce the risk of relapse in the future.
Understand Why the Teen is Using Whether you are a parent or a friend, the best things that you can do is offer emotional support for the teen and encourage a recovery program. Teenagers often turn to drugs and alcohol to feel included with their group of friends. Another motivation is to self-medicate to dull emotions, boost performance, and overcome sadness. Most people who struggle with addiction will start using before the age of 25. Just because the addictive behavior begins early in life, doesn’t mean that there isn’t hope for the future. The right treatment program can help the teenager overcome the habit and move forward in an empowered way.
You Can Move Forward Consistent recovery support is essential when a teenager is navigating the difficult world of high school, friends, and hormone changes. An outpatient program can make it possible for the teen to continue their education while working with an encouraging team of professional counselors. These recovery tools are designed to be applicable in all life situations. So, people in recovery have an opportunity to practice in the real-world, under the guiding hand of counselors, family, and other people supporting the effort. Do you have questions about addiction recovery? Whether you are seeking help for yourself or someone that you love, The Center for Life Change is here to offer the assistance that you need. We provide outpatient treatment, catered to the needs of each person. Call to learn more about our services: (951) 775-4000
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Sign up now, it’s still not too late!
Temecula Valley Youth Symphony (TVYS) enriches the lives of student musicians with outstanding educational and performance opportunities for music students at all levels, in a nurturing and challenging environment. Students may audition throughout the season. TVYS is a tuition based program. New students should call the number below to set up an audition. Rehersals are on Mondays at Warm Springs Middle School Band Room, 39245 Calle De Fortuna, Murrieta, CA 92563. 4:15 to 5:15 pm – Prelude Beginning Strings, Gina Wingfield, Instructor 4:30 to 6:00 pm - Junior Youth Symphony, Conducted by Scott Merrin 6:15 to 8:30 pm - Youth Symphony, conducted by Zun-Hin Woo, Principal Violinist & Associate Conductor of Temecula Valley Symphony. CONCERTS: Holiday Concert - Monday evening, December 18th at 7:30 p.m. The concert venue will be announced soon! Check the website for concert updates. The Temecula Valley Youth Symphony String Quartet is also available to perform at special events, weddings, and corporate affairs. Temecula Valley Youth Symphony - (951) 587-1536 www.TemeculaValleyYouthSymphony.org Note: formerly known as Inland Valley Youth Symphony.
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Sweet Seasonal Treats for Fall By Diane Simones
(Family Features) Crisp fall days call for flavorful desserts that warm you from the inside out. There’s no better way to capture the flavor of fall than with dishes that celebrate traditional seasonal favorites like cinnamon, spice and tart, juicy apples. These desserts are perfect for fall, and a secret ingredient makes them quick and easy so you have plenty of free time to work up an appetite and earn an extra bite (or two). Apple butter is more than just a spread for toast; it’s a versatile ingredient that can enhance your favorite recipes. With Musselman’s Apple Butter, made the oldfashioned way for perfect texture and a deep, rich flavor, you can make it simple to satisfy your craving for a taste of autumn at its best. Find more fall tips and recipes perfect for sharing with your family at musselmans.com.
Caramel Crumble Bars
1 box (15 1/4 ounces) yellow cake mix, dry 1/2 cup butter, softened, plus 2 tablespoons, divided 3/4 cup Musselman’s Apple Butter, plus 3 tablespoons 1 egg 1 package (11 ounces) caramels, unwrapped 2/3 cup walnuts, chopped 2/3 cup flaked coconut, sweetened 2 tablespoons butter, melted
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Heat oven to 350 F. Grease 13-by-9-inch baking pan.
With electric mixer on low speed, beat dry cake mix and 1/2 cup softened butter until mixture is crumbly. Spoon 1 cup cake mix mixture into medium bowl; set
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Add 3/4 cup apple butter and egg to remaining mixture. Beat on medium speed until smooth and creamy. Spread evenly into pan. Bake 20 minutes, or until starting to brown and top is set.
Place caramels, 2 tablespoons butter and remaining apple butter in microwavable bowl. Microwave on high 3-4 minutes, stirring every 30 seconds until smooth and melted. Pour caramel mixture evenly over partially baked crust. If caramel has cooled and set, microwave 1 minute until soft and pourable.
Combine walnuts, coconut and 2 tablespoons melted butter with reserved cake mix mixture. Mix until crumbly. Break up topping and sprinkle evenly over caramel.
Bake 16-18 minutes, or until topping is starting to brown. Cool completely before cutting into bars.
Easy Apple Pie Bars
Prep time: 20 minutes. Cook time: 1 hour. Servings: 20
Nonstick cooking spray 7 cups Granny Smith apples, peeled, cored and diced 1 cup Musselman’s Apple Butter 1 1/2teaspoons vanilla extract, divided 1/2 cup brown sugar 2 frozen pie crusts, defrosted 1 egg white 2 tablespoons sugar 1/2teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 cup powdered sugar 2 tablespoons milk
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Place diced apples in large mixing bowl. Add apple butter, 1 teaspoon vanilla and brown sugar. Mix until apples are evenly coated.
Place one pie crust in bottom of greased pan. Slowly stretch out crust to cover pan’s bottom. Cut some edges off, if necessary. Spread apple filling evenly over crust. With rolling pin, roll second crust to make it same size as pan. Place second crust on top of apple pie filling and tuck down edges to cover. To make topping: In small bowl, whisk egg white until foamy and brush over crust. In another bowl, combine sugar and cinnamon, and sprinkle evenly over crust.
Bake 50-60 minutes until crust is golden brown. Remove from oven and cool slightly before cutting.
To make glaze: In small bowl, combine powdered sugar, milk and remaining vanilla, and whisk until smooth. Drizzle over cooled bars and serve.
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Juicy Thanksgiving Turkey 3.
• Prep Time 20 min—cook 3 hours – Ready in 3 Hours 20 Minutes
• Recipe is for any size turkey- cook time may vary-internal temp will tell you when ready
• Always check internal temp-insert thermometer into the thickest part of the thigh-near the bone-temp needs to read 180 degrees F Ingredients
• 2 tablespoons dried parsley
• 2 tablespoons ground dried rosemary • 2 tablespoons rubbed dried sage
• 2 tablespoons dried thyme leaves • 1 tablespoon lemon pepper • 1 tablespoon salt
• 1 (15 pound) whole turkey, neck and giblets removed
• 2 stalks celery, chopped
• 1 orange, cut into wedges • 1 onion, chopped
• 1 carrot, chopped
• 1 (14.5 ounce) can chicken broth
• 1 (750 milliliter) bottle champagne or chardonnay
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Preheat an oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Line a turkey roaster with long sheets of aluminum foil that will be long enough to wrap over the turkey.
Stir together the parsley, rosemary, sage, thyme, lemon pepper, and salt in a small bowl. Rub the herb mixture into the cavity of the turkey, then stuff with the celery, orange, onion, and carrot. Truss if desired, and place the turkey into the roasting pan. Pour the chicken broth and champagne over the turkey, making sure to get some champagne in the cavity. Bring the aluminum foil over the top of the turkey, and seal. Try to keep the foil from touching the skin of the turkey breast or legs.
Bake the turkey in the preheated oven for 2 1/2 to 3 hours until no longer pink at the bone and the juices run clear. Uncover the turkey, and continue baking until the skin turns golden brown, 30 minutes to 1 hour longer. An instant-read thermometer inserted into the thickest part of the thigh, near the bone should read 180 degrees F (82 degrees C). Remove the turkey from the oven, cover with a doubled sheet of aluminum foil, and allow to rest in a warm area 10 to 15 minutes before slicing.
The Naughty Pig Butchery is taking Pre-orders on Organic-Free Range Fresh Turkeys until November 19th- we also have all the ingredients in this recipe measured and cut in a kit-(you supply the champagne or chardonnay) – when you place your turkey order-request the “Recipe Kit” – Phone 951-677-1372 to pre-order today
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Holiday Entertaining Excellence Savory appetizers, gifts and more
(Family Features) From savory appetizers to delicious holiday gifts, cheese is a must-have holiday ingredient. These recipes from Chef George Duran, host of TLC’s “Ultimate Cake Off” and Food Network’s “Ham on the Street,” make it easy to elevate your cheeseboard, serve up delightfully delicate puffed pastries or make glass canning jar gifts to give away to guests. Each dish features Jarlsberg Cheese, which was created in 1956 and remains based on the original Norwegian recipe, offering a slightly nutty, mild and delicious taste that helps every dish live up to festive occasions. Best known for its classic wedge, Jarlsberg is also available sliced and in snacks and crisps for simple appetizers, savory sides and even take-home treats your guests will love. Find more ideas to elevate this holiday season at jarlsberg.com.
Tomatoes Gratin
Servings: 4 4 tomatoes • 2 ounces balsamic vinegar
• 1/3 cup extra-virgin olive oil, plus 4 ounces, divided • 4 garlic cloves, sliced thin
• 4 sprigs fresh thyme (or equivalent dried) • Salt & pepper to taste
• 2 ounces pine (pignoli) nuts
• 8 ounces shredded Jarlsberg Cheese
Heat oven to 350 F. • Cut tomatoes in half. In bowl, whisk together vinegar, 1/3 cup olive oil, garlic, thyme, salt and pepper; gently mix in tomatoes.
Transfer to ovenproof dish. Place tomatoes cut-side up and bake 15 minutes.
• In pan, toast pine nuts with remaining olive oil until golden then set aside.
• When tomatoes are cool enough to handle, remove skins and return to baking dish. Sprinkle tomatoes with shredded cheese. Return to oven and broil about 5 minutes, or until cheese turns golden and bubbly. Top with toasted pine nuts.
Cranberry & Walnut Phyllo Triangles
Servings: 4 Filling: • 1 cup chopped fresh or frozen cranberries • 1/3 cup sugar
• 1/3 cup raisins
• 2 tablespoons honey or maple syrup
• 1 tablespoon finely grated orange peel
• 3 tablespoons freshly squeezed orange juice
Triangles: 10 sheets fresh or frozen phyllo dough • 1/3 cup melted butter
• 2 1/2 cups Jarlsberg Chunk Cheese, cut into 25 cubes • 2 cups chopped walnuts
Heat oven to 375 F. • In saucepan, combine cranberries, sugar, raisins, honey, orange peel and orange juice; bring to boil. Reduce heat and simmer uncovered 5 minutes, stirring occasionally. Cool to room temperature. • Carefully lay one phyllo sheet on cutting board and brush with melted butter. Place another sheet of phyllo on top and brush with melted butter. Cover remaining sheets with damp towel to prevent drying out. Position brushed pastry horizontally and cut into five strips.
• Place 1/2 teaspoon cranberry filling, one cube of cheese and 1/2 teaspoon chopped nuts in lower corner of each strip. Fold dough over filling to form triangle. Fold triangle up then over, forming another triangle. Continue folding to end of strip. Brush top with melted butter and sprinkle with 1/2 teaspoon chopped nuts. Repeat with remaining strips of dough and remaining sheets of phyllo.
• Bake 12-15 minutes, or until golden brown. Cool on wire rack before serving. Note: If using frozen phyllo dough, thaw in refrigerator overnight.
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French-Style Marinated Cheese
Servings: 1 jar • 6 ounces Jarlsberg Original, Lite or Hickory Smoked Cheese • 2 ounces black or green olives
• 1 small leek, bulb only (or small shallot)
• 1 tablespoon fresh oregano or tarragon (or equivalent dried) • 1 teaspoon green or black peppercorns
• 2 sprigs fresh thyme (or equivalent dried) • 1 clove garlic
• 2 tablespoons white wine vinegar
• 4 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil • 1glass canning jar
• Cube cheese and thinly slice olives and leek. Finely chop oregano and peppercorns, and finely mince thyme and garlic.
• To make marinade: Whisk vinegar with oil, oregano, peppercorns, thyme and garlic. Layer cheese, olives and leeks inside jar. Cover with marinade and seal tightly. • Place jar in refrigerator to marinate 1 day. For best results, use within 3 days.
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Servings: 12 • 6 eggs
Holiday Deviled Eggs
• 1/8 teaspoon salt
• 1/8 teaspoon pepper
• 1 teaspoon white vinegar • 1 teaspoon mustard
• 1/4 cup mayonnaise
• 1 cup shredded Jarlsberg Cheese
Topping options: Paprirsley, Bacon, Shredded Jarlsberg Cheese, Cooked crab meat, Scallions
• Boil large pot of water. Carefully add eggs and boil on high 2 minutes then simmer 13 minutes. • While eggs cook, chop parsley and scallions, if desired.
• Once eggs are cooked, transfer to bowl of ice water; cool 8-10 minutes. Peel eggs and cut in half lengthwise. Separate egg yolks into another bowl. Reserve egg white halves. • Combine egg yolks with salt, pepper, vinegar and mustard. Add shredded cheese and mayonnaise; mix until smooth. • Spoon about 1 tablespoon of yolk mixture into each egg white half.
• Add toppings, as desired. For classic deviled eggs, sprinkle paprika and chopped parsley over eggs. For a savory alternative, cook four strips of bacon and chop. Top eggs with chopped bacon and shredded cheese. For a unique variation, try topping eggs with cooked crab meat and chopped scallions.
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OLD TOWN.TEMECULA
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Holiday Boutique Shopping Can Be Do you dread the crush of holiday shopping? The crowds, the lines, the frenzy of trying to find a unique gift! It can be overwhelming, so try something different this year. Shop at one of the many boutiques in Old Town Temecula where you will fine unique gifts for pets, the scrap booker in the family, candles, frames, purses, jewelry, spa products, soaps, fresh lavender products and lots more. You may even decide to spend a little on yourself. Find the latest in fashion boots, hats along with casual or holiday attire. There are so many places to choose from that this month we will feature 6 boutiques, so watch for the rest of them in the December issue of Neighbors.
Stampin Post
For the Scrap booker in the family, Stampin Post has everything for the enthusiast including classes by Frank Garcia from Fremont and Rebecca Lawler from Authentique. You will find papers, paints, embellishments of all kinds and mixed media. For upcoming classes visit stampinpost.com. 28410 Old Town Front St.
HollyHocks
This is such a fun shop on the corner of 6th and Mercedes in a center with the greatest coffee – Press Espresso. Choose from all kinds of unique jewelry, frames, purses, candles, fashion, home décor and even children’s toys. There are not the toys you will find at Toys R US. This gift shop has a bit of something for everyone. 41920 6th St.
Plan B Fashionista
If you are looking for affordable, trendy, upscale fashion and a great selection of boots this is the place. This shop offers a large selection of high and low boots, Nicole Lee Bags, Umgee Boho Chic tops and sweaters, Corral boots, Pretty Woman misses to plus sizes and Pretty Angel fashions. Located at 28522 Old Town Front St., in the Palomar Hotel. PlanBfashionista.com
More Fun!
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OLD TOWN.TEMECULA
Temecula Lavender Company
The owner grows and produces healthful, lavender products for the bath, body and home. You will find the perfect gift for any female on your list and they will love you for it. Choose from hand-made bath salts, lavender essential oil, soaps, lip balms, natural laundry dryer bags to freshen up your clothing, fragrant lotions, sachets, herbs, culinary products and now their own wine. Put together a personal gift basket. 28561 Old Town Front Street. Temeculalavenderco.com
Temecula Souveniers
Everything Temecula – that is what you will find here: T-shirts, sweatshirts, caps, mugs, shot glasses, wine signs, ladies and children’s apparel. For the man on your list, Old Guys Rule and Laid Back t-shirts are available in many styles and sizes. Or pick up some Wild Jerky, made from wild game and offered in several flavors. 28635 A Old Town Front St.
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Sacred Souls Creations
Gifts for Pets and People! There are many handmade items from local artisans: bags, wall décor, toys and home décor. Find a perfect gift for your pooch or a grand-dog this holiday season. Choose from natural treats of all kinds, shampoos, collars, bowls and more. This little shop is definitely worth a stop. 42030 Main St. in the Emporium Alley on Main.
Coming in the December Issue: The Farmers Wife Gardners Cottage Barnyard Chicks Treasures Wild Lotus and more
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NOVEMBER 2017
Performances at the Old Town Temecula Community Theater in November SHERRY WILLIAMS "SWINGS TEMECULA" WITH THE ALL STAR BIG BAND
Sunday, November 5, 2017 2:00 PM Presented by Temecula Presents We celebrate the 13th annual concert featuring Sherry Williams with the All Star Big Band. Sherry has performed over 100 Big Band songs and arrangements in the past 12 seasons at Temecula’s Theater. As a top headliner, Sherry performs a collection of songs from the Great American Songbook and orchestrations by some of the finest arrangers like John Rodby and Keith Droste. Come see Temecula’s favorite singing sensation Sherry Williams accompanied by Jeff Stover’s Orchestra, conducted by John Rodby.
INDIVIDUAL TICKET PRICES $37 Regular*, $35 Senior/Military, $32 Pick 5, $25 Student, $31 Group of 15+ *Family Discount: Two children admitted free with each paid adult ticket.
Performance Date: 11/10/2017, 7:30 pm NOV 10, 11, 17 &18, 2017 @ 7:30pm NOV 11, 12, 18 & 19, 2017 @ 2pm Presented by Temecula Performing Arts Company Based on the iconic film of the same name, this show is suitable for ALL AGES! "You’ll shoot your eye out!“ This classic and comedic holiday tale follows the escapades of nine-year-old Ralphie Parker who wants one thing for Christmas, and one thing only: An Official Red Ryder Range Model Carbine Action BB Gun. There’s only one problem: everyone else is convinced he’ll shoot his eye out! Filled with quirky and lovable characters, this zany, heartfelt, and nostalgic Christmas musical is a delight for young and old. TICKETS: $25 Orchestra, $20 Parterre , $15 Balcony, $15 All sections for Students and Military w/ID on Fridays $5 Discount off pricing for Seniors and Children aged 12 & under in Orchestra and Parterre for all performances
A CHRISTMAS STORY: THE MUSICAL
NOVEMBER 2017
ENTERTAINMENT
Pianist, YiYi Ku and Flautist Kate Prestia-Straub to Perform in Murrieta
The Friends of the Murrieta Library are pleased to have a return engagement of Pianist, Yiyi Ku at their November 21 General Monthly Meeting at 10:00am. Also performing for your enjoyment is Recording Artist, Flautist Kate Prestia-Straub. Born in Taiwan, Ms. Ku grew up in New Zealand and obtained her Master of Music degree from the University of Canterbury. She has maintained a busy private studio for many years and enjoys teaching students of all ages and levels. She writes a monthly blog, and has been invited to present at Music Teachers National Association 2014 Conference in Chicago as well as the Music Teachers Association of California 2014 Convention in Los Angeles. Ms. Ku lives with her husband, daughter and two dogs in Murrieta. Kate Prestia-Schaub is an active and enthusiastic performinzg and recording artist in Southern California. She is the first place winner of many prestigious competitions, most notably the National Flute Association Piccolo Artist Competition, the San Diego Flute Guild Artist Gold Competition, and the Indiana University Woodwind Concerto Competition. Kate made her solo piccolo debut with the Colorado Symphony Orchestra at age 18, and since then, has concertized throughout the United States, Canada, Japan, Germany, Austria, and the Czech Republic. With degrees from the University of Southern California (MM) and Indiana University (BM). She has the premier recordings of the works on her debut album Timeless, released in 2013. In addition to her life and love in the music world, Kate enjoys spending time with her husband Kevin, their 2 kitties, Milo and Millie, and their puppy, Merlin. The Friends invite you to come and meet performing artists, visit with new friends and neighbors and enjoy the lovely refreshments provided. This program is free to the public. The meeting is held in the Community Room of the Murrieta Library. The Library is located at 8 Town Square, on Adams between Juniper and Kalmia. For further information, please call Rita Nastri 698-8640. Or visit our website at www.murrietalibraryfriends.org.
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The Temecula Valley Historical Society Upcoming Events A Celebration the 50th Anniversary of the filming of the pilot episode of the Invaders television series will be held at the Vail Headquarters stage at 32095 Wolf Store Road on Friday, November 10th, beginning at 5 pm. During this free-ofcharge event the uncut pilot episode will be shown with local historian Rick Reiss narrating to identify Temecula landmarks seen in the film. Food will be available for purchase from Vail Headquarters retailers. Spaceship related silent auction items will be offered. On November 17 the society will hold their annual dinner meeting at the Assistance League building at 28720 Via Montezuma in Temecula at 5:30 pm. The program for the evening will be "Some Fun Tonight" by Chuck Gunderson, a leading expert on the Beatles music group. He will tell about the Beatles' 1964 North American summer concert tour. Dinner and the program are open to the public for a fee of $40 per person. Many silent auction items will be available, several with Beatles memorabilia. For more information on any of the above, please contact info@temeculahistoricalsociety.org .
Local Filmmaker Honored at Sci-Fi Film Festival
At the second-annual Atlanta Sci-Fi Film Festival, IMAX honored Michael Brandon Wright, a 25-year old native of Murrieta, California, with the IMAX Big Picture In Focus Award for his film, Amercon. The IMAX Big Picture In Focus Award recognizes young filmmakers for his or her outstanding work in the film space. Winners not only receive recognition for their inspiring work, but also an all-expense paid trip to Hollywood to tour the IMAX Entertainment offices and more. IMAX was the Title Sponsor of the Atlanta Sci-Fi Film Festival, and the distribution of the IMAX Big Picture In Focus Award is part of the company’s ongoing support of young filmmakers.
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Trainer Talk ... with Donna Shawver
Pumpkin: Natureís Wonder Food for Dogs
Who doesn’t love pumpkin? As fall and Halloween approach, grocery retailers bank on our love of the stuff, so out comes the endless parade of pumpkin-centric products on the shelves: pumpkin pancake mix, pumpkin cookies, pumpkin cheesecake … the list of creative ways pumpkin is blended into human food is staggering. As with human trends, popular food additives in the pet space are gaining ground. Many food manufacturers incorporate pumpkin into dog food, as well. And it so happens that many dogs love pumpkin. In fact, unsweetened canned pumpkin, pumpkin seeds and cooked fresh pumpkin flesh can offer many benefits to our canine companions. How so? Obesity in dogs is on the rise. If you’re looking to help your dog shed weight, try replacing a portion of their daily food with canned pumpkin. The dog still will be full, but overall calorie consumption is reduced. Fiber is just as good for dogs’ digestive health as it is for humans’. And fresh cooked pureed pumpkin, chock full of fiber, can help with constipation and diarrhea. Adding a couple tablespoons (for dogs 75-80 Lbs.) to dogs’ regular meals can help keep them regular. Pumpkin seeds are high in essential fatty acids and antioxidants, and the oils in pumpkin flesh and seeds are thought to support urinary health and maintain healthy coat and skin. Never mind the fact they are a great source of vitamin A, beta carotene, potassium, magnesium, manganese and iron for your dog.
According to pet360.com, tapeworms and other intestinal parasites become paralyzed by cucurbitin, an amino acid in pumpkin seeds that acts as a natural deworming agent. The site’s experts recommend grinding up fresh or properly preserved pumpkin seeds into a powder. Give your dog 1 teaspoon three times a day, mixed into a marble-sized portion of canned food and given as a treat. Sprinkle it on your pet’s food at mealtime instead, but doing so runs the risk of the full dosage not being consumed each time it’s administered. Both raw and cooked pumpkin are safe for dogs, with a few caveats: The flesh and seeds of fresh raw pumpkin are safe—just make sure it hasn’t begun to mold. If you go the canned route, select an organic variety with no added salt or sugar. Donna Shawver is CST's Puppy Raiser Instructor. She has over a decade of Therapy and Service Dog training experience. A devoted German Shepherd Dog enthusiast, Donna works directly with our volunteer Puppy Raisers and teaches our GROUP
FREE Workshops on Dog Behavior Coming at AFV
It is never an easy task to obey a destruction order from Riverside County Superior Court. Unfortunately, we have recently received such an order for a dog that has now bitten two young children—one of whom is undergoing facial reconstruction surgery and may need more surgeries in the years to come in order to repair the damage that this dog has done to the child’s face. This is a tragic reminder that all dogs have the capacity to be dangerous if not properly trained.
At Animal Friends of the Valleys, they encourage you to train your dogs—big or small—so that they can be the loyal and loving family members that we know they can be. In order to take every measure that we can to prevent any instances like this in the future, we are in the process of planning FREE weekly workshops in our facility where members of our community can come to ask a trainer and behaviorist any questions that they may have about behavior training. In the meantime, please visit https://www.aspca.org/petcare/dog-care/common-dog-behavior-issues or http://www.humanesociety.org/animals/dogs/tips/ for more information about training your furry friends.
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A Shelter Dogs Poem
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Retrievers and Friends
Emmy is a lovely, 8-year-old Toy Poodle. She is housetrained, friendly and good with other dogs. She is looking for a loving home.
Lucy is a sweet, 4-year-old Shepherd mix. She is good with kids and other dogs, housetrained, crate trained, loves to go for walks and is very friendly.
Kelser is a big, handsome 1-year-old Newfoundland– Great Pyrenees mix. He is good with kids, cats, other dogs, chickens, ducks and horses. He is well over 100 pounds and growing. His family is moving and he’s looking for a wonderful new home.
Milo is a precious, 6-year-old Boston Terrier. He’s had a very hard life. He was found living in a homeless camp in need of medical care. He has been loved and cared by RFSC for months and he’s ready for a loving family. He is smart, very loving and would be best in a home with a very gentle dog.
Once upon a time, you see, There was this little pup For reasons unbeknownst to me, His family gave him up Maybe it was chewing Everything that he could find Maybe they were busy and Just didn't have the time They took him to the shelter And they just left him there Outside, alone, in the cage Shivering and scared Even though they knew inside If he went through those doors He may never have the chance To find a home like yours He sat there crying silently Wondering what he did That was so bad that they just Had to leave him like they did However fate was smiling On that little pup that day Because a lady saw him And she whisked him right away He got a second chance at life That others may have not And now he's in a loving home With everything he wants Every day he gets that love That he was looking for And silently is thankful for when She walked through that door Others may not have this chance So open up your heart And adopt a shelter dog to take And give a brand new start
For more information on these and many other available pets, please visit: www.retrieversandfriends.com.
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Conscious Parenting ~ 4 Tips to Thanksgiving Peace By Traci L. Williams
The holidays tend to sneak up on most people and then the hustle and bustle begins. I remember as a child watching movies where the “hustle and bustle” was actually fun and exciting. Somehow it doesn’t feel as fun and exciting when I watch people do it today. Most people feel behind, overburdened and fatigued. The stress is visible. The moods are harsh. The pace is quick. Where is the Thanksgiving peace? This year for Thanksgiving, are you expecting company? Or,
AmeriGas Supports Local Foster Families This Holiday Season Raising awareness of the region’s foster children population; encouraging the community to help those in need
The announcement not only marks the importance of National Adoption Month celebrated in November, but AmeriGas’ newly established partnership with Koinonia Family Services (KFH), a Californiabased nonprofit that has spent over 30 years helping place vulnerable children into better situations where they can grow and thrive. AmeriGas employees will be presenting each KFH foster family in the Temecula region with Thanksgiving baskets featuring turkeys, certificates, and gifts donated by other local businesses. Employees of the propane company will volunteer at the nonprofit’s upcoming holiday event that will help raise awareness and funds for KFH to continue serving and protecting more children throughout Riverside County. AmeriGas is also proud to be sponsoring the December celebration. Local records show that more than 4,000 children are in foster care throughout Riverside County. For many of them, the holidays can be a difficult and painful reminder of past abuse, neglect or abandonment. The contribution by the AmeriGas team is part of a larger effort, “From Here. For Here.”, a community-based movement to give back to a local cause impacting the region. With 6% of Riverside County’s child population living in foster care, there is a real need for loving and nurturing homes in Temecula and its surrounding areas. To learn more about how AmeriGas is helping local foster children and families, and how you can support the cause, contact Torie Tanner at (951) 296-3118 or Torie.Tanner@amerigas.com.
are you expected to BE the company? Are you going places you and your family enjoy or places you prefer not to go? How can you turn an obligatory visit into a gift for a lonely family member? Are your children going to experience a holiday of love and joy or one filled with conflict and “have to’s”? What will you create? What will you and your children remember? The good news is you are the parent and you get to choose! Since you steer the ship, you can go in any direction you want. So how do you create Thanksgiving peace with your children this year? Here are four tips that might help:
Tip #1: Talk About Options. Ask your children for ideas, opinions and input. Lay everything out on the table and get feedback about preferences for how to spend the holiday. See what you can come up with as a team to meet the varying (and sometimes competing) needs of your family and extended family. Get creative. You just may be surprised at what everyone comes up with!
Tip #2: Don’t Overbook. Many families go to multiple places for Thanksgiving … all in ONE day! Is there any way to break it up over the four day holiday? I know that’s not ideal for everyone, but if children (and adults) are tired and tummies are full, wouldn’t it be better to spread the holiday out over a few days? Keep in mind that this is about quality family time. How do you make it enjoyable and meaningful?
Tip #3: As a family, share what you like most and least about this holiday. See if you can drop some activities that no one cares for and spend more time doing the things that everyone enjoys. If you have competing preferences, maybe you do some favorite activities over Thanksgiving and others at Christmas. The point is that the holiday is about spending valuable family time together in meaningful ways. Don’t waste that precious time fighting over details that won’t matter later. Create Thanksgiving peace.
Tip #4: Focus on Giving. Thanksgiving is all about gratitude. What if we taught our children to be grateful for family, holidays and abundance … even when we may have a grumpy or annoying family member? If we focused on giving joy to others and blessing them with our company (even if we wanted to do something else instead), how would that transform the day? How would that transform us and our children?
Ultimately, my wish for all of our families is peace, quality time, fun, love and great memories. Thanksgiving is not just another dinner. It’s not just another holiday that we tolerate. It’s an experience and a gift we can give to ourselves and others. We never know what next year will bring and who may be missing from our table. Wouldn’t it be great to know that you gave them the gift of Thanksgiving peace? Traci L. Williams is the Founder of A Loving Way to Parent, an organization devoted to healthy parent-child relationships. She can be reached at 951-240-1407 or traci@alovingway.com. www.alovingway.com.
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Veterans Day Celebrations Annual Patriotic Salute Honors All Veterans on Saturday, November 11, 2017.
The City of Temecula proudly presents our Annual Patriotic Salute to Veterans on Saturday, November 11, 2017 at 6:00 pm, held at the Temecula Civic Center (41000 Main Street). The community is invited to join us at this free concert as we honor veterans on this commemorative day. A free picnic dinner will be served from 5:00 pm to 6:00 pm out on the grass of Town Square Park to the first 500 patrons. The event will feature remarks by City dignitaries, the presentation of military banners to recognize active military personnel from the City’s Military Banner Program, and a performance by the Temecula Valley Symphony, beginning with the National Anthem, performed by Resonate! A highlight of this free Annual Veterans Day Celebration is the 90-minute concert under the stars, A Patriotic Salute to Veterans, presented by the Temecula Valley Symphony, featuring John Mario, Musical Director and Conductor, and guest vocalist, Emily Chelsea. Bring your entire family, your friends, lawn chairs, and warm blankets to enjoy a wonderful evening under the stars at this free Veterans Day event. For more information, please contact the City of Temecula Community Services Department at (951) 694-6480, or visit us online at www.TemeculaCA.gov. Murrieta Rotary Honors Heroes in Upcoming Field of Honor Event
The Murrieta Rotary has selected four Heroes for special recognition during the 2017 Field of Honor, which will be staged in Murrieta’s Town Square Park, November 4-11. These Heroes were nominated by friends and acquaintances for their Service Above Self. They will be honored at the Veteran’s Lunch on Mon. Nov. 6, and the Patriots Ball on Sat. Nov. 11. Congratulations to the 2017 Heroes. Both events are being held at the Field of Honor. Being honored this year, are:
ALL FROM THE HEART: Honoring local military families is the overriding mission of this nonprofit which started in 2003. Each year it has hosted a Support Our Troops holiday season event serving 100 family members living with special circumstances.
JUAN DOMINGUEZ: This Marine Corporal became famous here in Southwest Riverside County five years ago when he was handed the keys to a smart home, thanks to actor Gary Sinese and the Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation. But Juan, who lost both legs and his right arm in Afghanistan, didn’t just settle down in the beautifully modified home with his wife, Alexis. Since moving in, he has been busy giving back to help others similar to himself.
DON “DONNIE” SIMPSON: A lifetime Hemet resident, Simpson was awarded the Silver Star, the third highest U.S. military honor, for valor this year, 50 years after the brave act in the Vietnam War for which the medal was awarded.
HOWARD J. TAIT: Retired after 23 years of service, as a Marine infantryman, Master Sergeant Tait experienced 11 deployments, four in combat and two unexpected diversions to Sri Lanka and Japan, for humanitarian assistance during Tsunamis.
Mt. San Jacinto College Veterans Day Remembrance Events
Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2:00 – 4:00 pm at the San Jacinto Campus Quad located at 1499 N. State St., 92583.
Thursday, Nov. 9, 12:00 – 2:00 pm at the Menifee Valley Campus Quad located at 28237 La Piedra Rd., 92584
MSJC's Veterans Resource Center Hosts its Annual Veterans Day Remembrance Events honoring military veterans, with guest speakers, food and entertainment. Don't miss the unveiling of a new San Jacinto Campus mural by MSJC student/mural artist Angela Stedham, featuring service members who have fallen and those who have served and sacrificed. For more information contact the Veterans Resource Centers at 951-4873247 or 951-639-5237.