1 CHILD AND SOCIETY – (Thuraiyooraan) “It takes a whole village to raise a child” (African Proverb) This proverb points out the importance and the responsibility of a society in bringing up its children. Society plays a major role in molding the characters and behavior of children growing in its folds. Society includes all the members, in a particular society or community. Each one is responsible for the character building of all the young ones. The key figures who play major role in this scenario are the parents, teachers and the elders. These people effect a greater and everlasting impact on the lives of these children growing around them. These children are the leaders of tomorrow. Hence they should be guided and directed in the proper path. The destiny of these young ones are in the hands of the elders around them. Hence, I would like to outline the responsibilities and duties expected of these elders, who are the role models of the younger generation. The role of the mother: Mother is regarded as the most important individual involved in the production and development of a child. A mother is considered as a person next to God by Indians for more than several centuries. Some are of the opinion that “God could not be everywhere so He made mothers.” If you trace the history of great leaders you will find that their mothers played a very important part in their lives. For example the mother of Mahatma Gandhi and Winston Churchill had tremendous influence in their formative years. In the true Indian culture a mother has always occupied a place after God. But in the last century or so the status of women has declined and as a result the society has lost its peace and tranquility. The modern society is obsessed with material wealth and sensual pleasures. As a result a woman has become an object of sensuality rather than reverence. Mothers must take more care in molding the character of their children. From the time of conception, mothers have to take care of their words and deeds. They have to sacrifice some of their worldly pleasures for the sake of the embryo developing in their wombs. It is the custom of many Indian mothers to read spiritual and moral teachings of many leaders and saints during their pregnancy. They believed that their kids would be great leaders once they are born. Even they were choosy in what they ate and drank. They avoided certain fruits like pine apples, Ananas and some sea foods like crabs and lobsters. Also abhorred certain drinks, especially alcohol. They believed that these fruits and drinks may affect the embryo growing inside them. Also they were in the habit of drinking saffron petals mixed in milk, daily. Saffron is supposed to purify the blood and also safeguard the child’s skin from getting skin diseases later. These may sound goofy to the present medical pundits but it has been the practice for several centuries among the Indians and it works.