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LESS THAN HALF OF THE STATES IN THE U.S. EXPERIENCE all four seasons, and here in Oklahoma we are lucky enough to be one of them. Summers in Oklahoma City go hard, though. We are currently experiencing a wonderful foliage bloom due to abundant rain in the spring and everything looks so lovely, but those of us seasoned in the seasons know that as the humidity rises and the screaming of the cicadas replaces the screaming of the tornado sirens—the real heat is right on its heels.
Toward the middle of the summer when the temperatures begin to drift into the triple digits and stay there all day is when we get resourceful! Kaylin Hill and Matt Kirouac rounded up the best local ways to beat that scorching summer heat. From watery fun and indoor activities to food and drinks, we have you covered (pg. 37). And you will find a summer sips guide to help you and the crew decide where the drinks will take you (pg. 45).
Also in this issue we are thrilled to introduce you to a local life coach who had a tenure on the Dr. Phil show (pg. 22), as well as a country musician honky tonking her way across the nation (pg. 61).
Later this month when Twisters hits theaters, you will see many people and places you recognize. My daughter, a budding actress, wanted to be in a movie, so last summer she and I became background actors in the rodeo scene. Between the bull riders, cowboy costumes and a real actual storm stopping the filming of the fictional movie about storms, it was a wild experience. Read about how this summer blockbuster and other movies are booming as a result of Oklahoma’s growing film industry (pg. 58).
I am officially back from maternity leave. It was a wonderful few months and we are settling into being a family of five. I am deeply thankful to the 405 Magazine team for keeping things running smoothly and producing beautiful content while I was out.
But I’m excited to be back, and looking forward to having a summer of fun together!
BEHIND THE SCENES
Julie Partin EDITOR IN CHIEF
Peripheral Neurophathy Breakthrough!
“MY FEET FEEL LIKE THEY’RE ON FIRE.”
“EACH STEP FEELS LIKE I’M WALKING THROUGH WET PAINT.”
“I LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR THAT I’LL FALL.”
“I CAN’T SLEEP, MY HANDS AND FEET TINGLE ALL NIGHT.”
What do all of these people have in common? They suffer from peripheral neuropathy. It’s estimated that more than 20 million people in the United States have peripheral neuropathy. Unfortunately this figure may be signficantly higher as the disease is often misdiagnosed because of its wide array of symptoms.
Toni Twitty of Be Well Acupuncture in Edmond, OK shares this belief. “I’ve been treating neuropathy, in all its various forms, for over a decade and so often my patients come to me becuase of the symptoms not because of a diagnosis. They saw one of my television specials, or read a testimonial of another patient and say to themselves, ‘hey, I feel the same thing’.”
Betty M. of Oklahoma City testified to this, “I remember my husband driving me to my consultation and I saw a woman running just outside our neighborhood. I was so envious- I kept thinking, ‘I would give anything just to walk again’. My primary care doctor told me my troubles with pain and balance were just symptoms of old age and gave me a prescription. I was so depressed.”
Fortunately, Betty would eventually see a review of Toni Twitty talking about similar symptoms and how she offers a real solution at Be Well Acupuncture. “I just knew I had to see her. She was my last hope.”
“Almost all of our patients come to us with a story similar to Betty’s. They’ve been everywhere else. They’ve been told there is no hope. They’ve been told, ‘its just part of getting older,’” shares Brooke, a Patient Care Technician at Be Well Acupuncture. “It just breaks my heart but I know that we can help people like Betty so I’m always
so happy when they walk through our door.”
Those diagnosed with peripheral neuropathy often face a grim reality; Western Medicine declares there is no solution while cost alternative therapies carry huge price tags and offer little to no resolve. Which is why Toni Twitty and the staff at Be Well pride themselves on being, ‘the last resort with the best results’.
Peripheral neuropathy is a result of damage to the nerves. This damage is commonly caused by low blood flow in the hands and feet. Low blood flow results in lack of nutrients; the nerves then begin to degenerate and die which causes pain ranging from discomfort to debilitating. Because neuropathy is a degenerative condition, once those nerves begin to deteriorate they will continue to do so until they completely expire, leaving those suffering with crippling balance issues. “In this case the absence of pain is not a good thing,” shares Dr. Toni. “This usually indicates that your nerves are hanging on by a fragile thread.”
So how exactly is Dr. Toni able to reverse the effects of this degenerative disease? “Acupuncture has been used to increase blood flow for thousands of years. It helps get the nutrients to the nerves. But the real magic happens when I integrate ATP Resonance BioTherapy™. This is tech that was orginally developed by NASA to expedite recovering and healing.”
“I just can’t say enough about Be Well,” Betty shared joyfully. “My husband and I moved here 3 years ago to be near our grandchildren. I always stayed home because of the pain and discomfort. I couldn’t keep up. Yesterday I walked
around the park with him! Next week we’re taking the grandkids with us! I am truly living life these days.”
According to Betty’s test results, she has seen a 74% improvement in pain and functionality, which is on par with a majority of our patients,” shares Paige. “But more important than those test results is the joy she’s expressed being here and hearing about all the amazing things she’s able to do because she feels great!”
By seamlessly blending the ancient science of acupuncture with modern medical solutions, Be Well Acupuncture has achieved a 90% success rate in reversing the effects of neuropathy. She starts each patient with an initial consultation during which a sensory exam is performed. “This not only aids in making a proper diagnosis but it helps to define just how much nerve damage has occurred,” tells the doctor. “This is important because if a patient has suffered more than 95% damage, there is little that I can do to help them. I’m familiar with the medical miracle but I know my limits as a practitioner and the limits of my medicine.”
When it somes to treating peripheral neuropathy, regardless of its origin, early detection greatly improves your chances of full recovery.
If you or someone you love are suffering with chronic pain that presents as burning, tingling, or ‘pins and needles’ or you’ve recently been diagnosed with peripheral neuropathy, it’s important to know that there are options. There is hope. Call 405-697-5121 to schedule an initial consultation or visit bewellokc.com to read more incredible success stories.
Rewriting Your Story
A Blast From the Past
Bringing back fun boho fashion
BY BENNETT HILL
THERE IS SOMETHING IN THE AIR, AND it’s not the pungent remnants of spent fireworks. Perhaps it is “The Rachel Zoe Project” now streaming, or the wedgefilled front row at Chloé’s Fall ’24 runway show, but there is an undeniable straying from the clean-cut minimalism we have become used to. The boho aesthetic can be interpreted as a call to find the fun again, using patterning to make a statement and gems like turquoise to add a natural pop. We have always heard that “history repeats itself,” and your closet should only prove it true.
1. Anna-Karin Karlsson, White Moon Sunglasses: Black Optical 2. Cory Lynne Calter, Harper Ruffle Dress: Refinery 3. Valerie Naifeh Design, Turquoise Harmony Necklace: Naifeh Fine Jewelry 4. Closed, Glow Up Jean: Edit & Co. 5. Ryan Studio, Wild Cat Pillow: Cayman’s 6. Seychelles, Applause Slide: Betsy King Shoes 7. Ippolita, Goddess Huggie Earrings: BC Clark
Oklahoma
Children’s Theatre
Fairy Tale Ball
PHOTOS BY LYDIA ROYCE
Oklahoma Children’s Theatre celebrated a successful return of its annual Fairy Tale Ball at Science Museum Oklahoma. The Night at the Museum themed event welcomed families in magical attire and set a new fundraising record benefiting the theatre’s “Page to Stage” and rural touring programs. Children enjoyed adventure-filled activities while adults participated in a sit-down dinner and silent auction. The event honored founder and former Executive Director Lyn Adams following her retirement, and her more than 36 years of dedication.
Andi and Travis Cunningham Character Actors - Joy Stachmus, Katie Imes, Amy Miller with OCT Dir. of Programs Mollie Reid
2024 Fairy Tale Ball Committee: Meagan Panter, Katty Gasbarra, Kanika Brown, Leslie Te (Event Chair), Haley Gremillion, Alyson Moses, Jamie Shouse, Abby Weigand, and Austin Klososky
Gillian Rooney, Raisa Pinto, Pat Nguyen, Meagan Panter and Rachel Wright
Lawson Krummel
OCT Founder Lyn Adams, Sam Gresham, Bob Anthony and Nancy Anthony
OCT Founder Lyn Adams Olivia Castrejana, Amy Maguire, and Joan Maguire
Erin Richardson, Landry Richardson, Anna Richardson, and Shawn Richardson
Courtney Wallace, Bennett Wallace and Nate Wallace
PHOTOS BY DANIELLE
MAYES
City Rescue Mission hosted the 2024 Hearts of Hope Benefit Luncheon at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum. Funds raised supported the organization’s family rehousing services and updated elevator safety and functionality, furthering the Misson’s commitment of providing a safe place for those in need. Special guest Anne Neilson, a renowned painter and author, shared her journey of creativity and compassion. Amanda Taylor, coanchor on KWTV News 9, emceed the event, reflecting its mission through her dedication to helping children. Event chairs Barbara Green and Darsee Lett were also among those honored at the ceremony.
Anne Neilson Guest Speaker Artist & Author
Amanda Taylor Emcee News 9
Guests pose in front of Eventures designed butterfly backdrop.
Erin Goodin President City Rescue Mission, Susan Sakil, Barbara Green
Guests showed up and showed out with the event's "tea party" themed dress code.
Hobby Lobby designs a unique set of teacups for Hearts of Hope each year that are available for purchase in stores nationwide.
Guests gathered within the beautiful event space at the National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum. Event catering by the Petroleum Club.
Lanita Martin, Barbara Green, Samantha Jett, Shellie Holt, Darsee Lett
Rewriting Your Story
Life and relationship coach Anthony Haskins discusses mental health and his upcoming book
BY KRISTEN GRACE
ANTHONY HASKINS, A LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP coach who worked on the Dr. Phil show for over 20 years, grew up with his single mom and sister in Jones, Oklahoma. He remembers that he felt anxious and shy most of the time. He had a speech impediment to overcome. And when he was 14 years old, his older sister, Mandy, hit a spot of black ice on the road and veered into a ravine; she lay in the hospital in a coma for almost six months.
Sitting with his sister one day, he realized that he was also trapped inside his own mind and body, but while she did not have a choice at that time, he did. He discovered the courage that day to start doing positive things to face his life and anxieties.
Haskins, now living in Edmond with his wife and two daughters, brings what he learned from his own struggles to help his clients with stress management, relationships and recovery. “I was away from my home state for over 20 years. Bringing my family back here a few years ago was one of the most meaningful things I’ve done in my adult life,” he said.
Haskins received his bachelor’s degree at OSU in 2001. “I was born and raised in Oklahoma, went to Oklahoma State for my undergrad, then went to Dallas and got my law degree from Southern Methodist University in 2004. From there I went on to work with Dr. Phil.
“When I started working on the Dr. Phil show in 2004, he had just started appearing on Oprah every Tuesday. After I graduated law school, he asked me to be his Resources Director. We set up an advisory board made up of the top minds and experts in neurology, mind-body medicine, sociology and psychology from top universities around the country. Our board included a network of experts in different areas of mental health and medicine.”
Haskins had the honor of sitting with and learning from these experts for almost two decades. “Very early on, I got passionate about mental health and the ability to break
through your family history and break patterns, and to create the life you wanted. And I was experiencing all these things myself — I always say that I am my primary client.”
After each Dr. Phil episode was over, Haskins did exit counseling and crisis intervention with the guests. “They started taping what I was doing at the end of the show. I started my own private practice in California. I also conducted teaching and training for inpatient clinicians and helped to install research- and evidence-based therapeutic interventions at inpatient health and addiction treatment centers around the country.”
Haskins is working on his first book, Mental Health Strategies, and plans to have it published and available to the public sometime in 2024. “I have been doing research for almost seven years. I want to make sure that I am promoting evidence-based research that can work for all of us.”
He continued, “I believe that it is possible to rewrite the story of your family history; facilitate changes in how you live, all the way down to the genetic level. My life has taken me on a journey that I never could have planned out or orchestrated on my own. I’m just a small-town kid from Oklahoma. It is such a rich experience to watch people overcome themselves.”
→ For more information visit anthonyhaskins.com and setyoufreenow.com
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UV Urgency
Protect yourself from the sun this summer
BY LAVINIA CRESWA
SUMMER IS HERE, AND WITH IT comes hours of glorious sunshine every day. Oklahomans love to be outside — and from zoo days to lake trips, we tend to catch some serious rays.
It is common knowledge that sunburns can lead to skin cancers like melanoma, basal cell carcinoma and squamous cell carcinoma. What you may not know is that the sun produces powerful ultraviolet (UV) rays that can cause serious and irreversible damage — all year long.
Physician Assistant Kaitlyn White of Dermatology and Aesthetics of Oklahoma said that “UV damage can occur without visible signs of sunburn. Typically, UVA rays primarily contribute to premature aging of the skin, such as wrinkles and age spots, while UVB rays are responsible for sunburn and are more closely linked to the development of skin cancer.”
She continued, “Risk factors for skin cancer include excessive sun exposure, indoor tanning, fair skin, a history of sunburns, a family history of skin cancer and having many moles or atypical moles. To reduce the risk of skin cancer, it is important to practice sun safety measures; these include wearing a broad-spectrum sunscreen with SPF 30 or higher, reapplying every 80 minutes or more frequently if swimming or sweating. Also, seek shade during peak sun hours (10 a.m. to 4 p.m.); wear protective (UPF) clothing, wide-brimmed hats and sunglasses; and avoid tanning beds. Regular skin self-exams and annual skin checks by a dermatologist are crucial for early detection of skin cancer.”
White finds that patients most commonly complain of skin conditions actinic purpura and actinic keratoses, which are a direct result of UV damage.
Actinic purpura, also known as solar purpura or senile purpura, is characterized by purple or red-brown bruises on the skin, typically on areas that have been chronically sun-exposed such as the arms, hands, face and neck. Actinic purpura can then lead to skin tears, where even minor trauma or friction, such as bumping into objects or scratching the skin, can cause the skin to tear easily.
Actinic keratoses
skin lesions that typically appear as rough, scaly patches, also found on chronically sunexposed areas of the skin. AKs are considered precursors to squamous cell carcinoma and are recommended to be treated when present, although treatment options can be very painful and unsightly for patients.
“Unfortunately, these issues cannot be reversed once they begin. Many patients express regret that they used tanning beds or that they did not protect their skin more in their youth,” White noted.
She also emphasized the importance of proper skin protection starting early. “Children
are particularly vulnerable to the harmful effects of UV radiation, because their skin is more delicate and sensitive than adults. Yearly skin exams can play a crucial role in reducing the risk of skin cancer by facilitating early detection and treatment. Detecting skin cancer at an early stage increases the chances of successful treatment and reduces the risk of metastases or disfiguring
→ For more information on protecting your skin from UV damage, visit epa.gov/radtown/ultravioletuv-radiation-and-sun-exposure
MYTH BUSTER
White said, “It is a common misconception that individuals with darker skin tones are immune to the harmful effects of UV radiation and don’t need sunscreen. While it is true that darker skin tones have more natural protection against UV damage due to higher levels of melanin, they are still at risk for sunburn, skin cancer and other UV-related health issues. Sadly, as a result of this myth, those with darker skin tones are often diagnosed with skin cancer at a later stage, leading to poorer outcomes.” All the more reason for everyone of all ethnic backgrounds to have their skin checked annually!
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Rise Above
Renovations and an unexpected rebuild elevate a Nichols Hills home
SUE AND GARY HANNA’S FIVE YEARS OF house hunting ended in Nichols Hills in 2018, when they purchased a property with potential in a treasured location.
“Our daughter and grandkids live on the same street; so does my sister,” Sue Hanna explained.
There was some work to do: While Hanna said the property warranted “a complete makeover,” her husband jokingly called it “a prison” thanks to its brick-walled perimeter. However, the Hannas appreciated the home’s mid-century modern bones. They also liked how the majority of the living space was downstairs and a smaller lot meant less maintenance. To
make the most of it, they enlisted contractor Mike Gilles of Savannah Builders; interior designers at Sees Design; and architect Bruce Bockus of Bockus Payne.
“The house had gone through multiple renovations over the years, and it just didn’t have a clear design theme about it anymore,” said Bruce Bockus.
Cohesive design was their focus, but as renovations began, the pathway there became blurry.
“Every time we opened up a wall, we found something really bad,” Bockus said. “You’ve heard, ‘Taking three steps forward and one step back.’ We took one step forward and three steps back,
several times … We discovered the structure for the second floor had been compromised so much by previous renovations, there were floor joists that had been cut through for new plumbing, et cetera. It was just a colossal mess.”
“We had to take like a third of the house down, which wasn’t the plan,” added Hanna. “It could have turned into a nasty project, but Gary and Sue maintained really good attitudes and kept positive,” said Bockus, “and ultimately they have an incredibly beautiful home.”
Bockus refocused the unexpected rebuild as an opportunity to improve initial designs, raising the second floor’s ceiling for a more spacious and airy feel. With added skylights, natural light
THE LIVING ROOM FIREPLACE IS ACCENTED WITH SAPELE WOOD -- A CONNECTIVE THREAD THROUGHOUT THE RESIDENCE.
A SKYLIGHT ABOVE THE SWEEPING STAIRCASE MAXIMIZES THE INFLUX OF NATURAL LIGHT.
FLOOR-TO-CEILING WINDOWS CONNECT INDOOR AND OUTDOOR DESIGNS WHILE WHITE OAK FLOORS CONTRAST SAPELE WOOD ACCENTS, CREATING AN ATMOSPHERE OF WARM AND MODERN COMFORT.
BC Clark , Oklahoma’s oldest jewelry store and the longest-operating retailer under the same name and ownership, runs print ads with 405 through their agency. Here is what Debra Davis, Media Director at Traction Marketing, had to say about why they continue to work with 405:
I think 405 helps connect readers with the brands BC Clark sells… David Yurman saw a boost in sales, and we had two David Yurman insertions in Q4 in 405 Magazine.”
illuminates the sweeping staircase, original to the home.
Architectural changes embrace an indooroutdoor flow. Living areas blend seamlessly with floor-to-ceiling windows and repeating details, like the rich sapele wood and steel pillar groupings applied throughout the residence.
“To blur the distinction between inside and out, we like to carry the exterior materials inside,” Bockus said. “We did that with floor material, with the wood wall material and with some brick in places to complete that idea.”
The clean and crisp modern aesthetic reflects the homeowners’ preference for low-key living.
“The house is not overdone, in my opinion. It’s just very subtle and understated.” Hanna said. “I don’t think Gary or I, either one, like a whole lot of attention. And we don’t like clutter. We like things to be pretty simple.”
And even though renovating and rebuilding this home was anything but simple, all are pleased with the outcome.
“I sold real estate in Houston for 20 years, so I’ve seen everything — and I’ve also seen a lot of possibilities,” said Hanna. “I’ve seen a lot of beautiful homes, and this is at the top.”
Today, the treasured design matches the treasured location, with family nearby and friendships intact.
“Relationally, I am just exceedingly proud that I call Mike Gillis a friend and I call Gary and Sue friends — that we were able to do something beautiful together, even though it was exceedingly difficult,” Bockus said. “We kept the best of what was there and then made the other [areas] better. At the end of the day, it turned out really, really fantastically cool.”
WHITE NICKEL-GAP SIDING WRAPS OVER THE TOP OF THE BED AND DOWN THE WALL, INTRODUCING TEXTURE TO THE ROOM’S NEUTRAL PALETTE.
SAPELE CABINETRY LINES THE KITCHEN AND CUSTOM BAR, ALL ACCENTED BY STAINLESS STEEL APPLIANCES AND FIXTURES. SAPELE WOOD, A DARK AFRICAN MAHOGANY, WAS APPLIED THROUGHOUT THE PROPERTY, BLURRING THE LINES BETWEEN INDOORS AND OUT.
A MOMENT FOR MIDTOWN
Get a sneak peek of the second stop on our district tour
This summer, Cadillac sent Emmy Award-winning filmmaker and travel influencer Matt Payne (@mattpaynetravelphotography) on a tour of three of Oklahoma City’s most dynamic districts. From the bustling streets filled with boutique shops and local artisans to the tantalizing array of culinary delights, this series will spotlight the essence and charm of The Plaza, Midtown and Downtown. In this captivating three-part video series, Oklahoma’s own Prairie Surf (@prairiesurfmedia) takes us on an intimate journey into the heart and distinctiveness of each district. Follow along at @405mag as we debut a new video each summer month.
405: What makes Midtown so unique to Oklahoma City?
PAYNE : First off, the roundabout with the Midtown Plaza Court sign makes for a strong first impression. What makes Midtown stand out is its blend of retail, residences and walkability. I love driving through the district because there are people everywhere. It is fun to see them sitting on the patio at McNellie’s and racing around on scooters. Plus, if you need a new pair of Jordans, The Laboratory OKC has you covered.
405: What surprises you most about the Midtown District?
PAYNE : In Midtown there’s always something interesting going on. For instance, shooting this episode of our series, we saw a guy riding around on a motorcycle with his dog in a sidecar. What’s really wild is that not long ago, it wasn’t a part of town you’d want anything to do with. What makes OKC so cool is that you’ve got so many partners – a city – willing to do the work to bring these historic neighborhoods to life.
405: Describe your perfect day in Midtown.
PAYNE : A perfect day in Midtown starts with a staycation at The Ambassador Hotel. The pool is a great spot for a morning swim and the balcony of the O Bar is the ideal locale for a nightcap. In between, it is all about the food and retail. I’d pop into Opolis Clothing to grab a throwback OKC t-shirt, hit the lanes at Dust Bowling Lanes and then I’d head to Commonplace Books. Lunch at Stella Modern Italian Cuisine is a must.
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Matt Payne is an Emmy award-winning filmmaker, writer, photographer and educator based in Oklahoma City. Payne was the Travel Editor of 405 Magazine and has been a contributing writer and photographer to National Geographic Traveler, Travel Age West, Explorer Magazine and many other travel publications. Today, he serves as the CEO and Founder of Prairie Surf Media.
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WATER ACTIVITIES, SEASONAL DRINKS, THE BEST WAYS TO COOL DOWN AND MORE IN THE OKLAHOMA CITY METRO
Summertime in Oklahoma is unmatched. The sky blazes blue, the sun’s warmth envelops you and the days stretch longer, making more room for more amazing summer memories. Whether you’re looking to keep the kids entertained while school’s out for summer or searching for ways to beat the Oklahoma heat, we’ve got you covered. From refreshing, adventurous water activities and chilly, ice-cold treats to posting up to enjoy the A/C in your favorite local spots, this guide offers tips, tricks and ideas to help you and your loved ones stay cool and have fun this summer in the OKC metro area.
BY KAYLIN HILL & MATT KIROUAC
PHOTO BY SHEA ALAN
MAKING WAVES
We might be a landlocked state, but there is no shortage of fun to be had when it comes to water activities in the metro area. Whether you’re hoping to relax in nature, seeking a date night activity to remember or looking to take on a new water sport skill this summer, there’s something here for everyone.
FOR SUMMER DATE NIGHT SUNSET SAILS
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Enjoy a sunset cruise or day sailing with Sunset Sails — a great choice for romance on the water, date nights, proposals or anniversaries. Relax with your date and watch the sunset aboard a spacious, full-size sailboat on Oklahoma City’s Lake Hefner. Bottled water and soft drinks are provided during your sail, and couples are welcome to bring their own cooler with drinks aboard too.
FOR THE THRILL SEEKER
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WHITEWATER RAFTING
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Looking for a bucket-list adventure or a season of excitement? Riversport OKC’s Class II-IV Whitewater Rafting is a great way to embark on an exhilarating adventure, whether you’re a seasoned thrill seeker or a newbie. Your raft guide is there to ensure a fun, safe ride for the best authentic whitewater rafting experience, perfect for cooling off on a summer day.
FOR THE OKC NEWCOMER BRICKTOWN WATER TAXI
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Check out Bricktown Canal’s Water Taxi for an engaging, histor ically themed, narrated cruise through the heart of downtown Oklahoma City’s vibrant Bricktown entertainment district. This is an exceptional way for any newcomer to learn about what makes our city special and the best places to check out in the metro, as your captain is there to help answer any questions you might have about the area.
FOR THE KIDDOS SCISSORTAIL PARK SPLASH PAD
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Scissortail Sprayground is open daily 9 a.m.-9 p.m. every summer at Scissortail Park in the heart of Oklahoma City, and is perfect for kids ages 3-12. Covering a total of 3,500 square feet, this pad is a fun adventure to keep little ones entertained for hours. Gray fountains and large jets provide an array of fun to any group stopping by to enjoy the installation, say, before a family picnic in the park.
FOR THE FAMILY HURRICANE HARBOR
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Parents can enjoy lounging under shade in a private cabana or floating along the Castaway Creek lazy river, while kids love to tackle the park’s Splashwater Island splashpad or water slides at Paradise Plunge. Restaurant and dining options are sprinkled throughout the harbor for your crew to consume, and the gift shops offer exceptional souvenirs to snag.
FOR THE ADVENTUROUS SURF OKC
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Head over to Surf OKC in the OKC Boathouse District, grab a board and ride the waves. With its trampoline-like surface, this attraction is great for all skill levels — no prior experience needed. You can choose to either take a lesson from the staff or just dive right in and learn along the way. If you’re into wakeboarding, skateboarding or snowboarding, this is a great option to beat the heat this season.
FOR THE GIRLS’ NIGHT OUT OKLAHOMA RIVER COCKTAIL CRUISE
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Capture memories over a cocktail and soak in the evening Oklahoma City skyline with an Oklahoma River Cocktail Cruise, recurring weekly on Fridays and Saturdays April through September. Along the way, enjoy unique views of the Boathouse District, the Wheeler Ferris Wheel and perhaps a famous, breathtaking Oklahoma sunset.
FOR THE NATURE LOVER KAYAKING AT LAKE OVERHOLSER
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Stinchcomb Wildlife Refuge near Oklahoma City’s Lake Overholser is full of breathtaking scenery to soak up as you wade through the water. Locals partake in SUP and canoeing in this area as well, if you prefer to bring along a buddy. The OKC Riversport Lake Overholser boathouse is a great place to start your journey, providing kayak rentals and a cafe to fuel up before your day in the sun.
INDOOR ACTIVITIES
If you grew up in the ’80s or ’90s, arcades were the go-to for a break from the summer routine and a chance to compete with friends away from home — and the heat. Remember those moments of pleading with your mom for just one more game of pinball after a trip to the movies? Nowadays, arcade spots are popping up all over. Here in our area, places like Flashback RetroPub and UpDown are ready to add some fun to your summer plans, a drink to your hand and maybe even food to your plate to fuel some friendly competition. And arcades are just the beginning of fun ways to spend some time in blissfully air-conditioned jubilation.
UPDOWN
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At Up-Down Oklahoma City, located in the happening Plaza District, you’ll find over 70 arcade games from the ’80s and ’90s, many illuminated pinball machines, four classic skee-ball alleys, Nintendo 64 console gaming, life-size Jenga, Connect Four and a spacious rooftop patio for hanging out. Plus, a selection of quirky pizza with wild toppings like macaroni and cheese and a great, vast craft beer selection.
FLASHBACK RETROPUB
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No tokens required here — this spot has been a key part of OKC’s Historic Film Row District and all games are set to “free play.” If you miss bold styles, bright colors and big hair, this is your place. With high school lockers turned liquor cabinets, Rubik’s Cube tables and Lite-Brite signs, you’ll feel transported back in time. Enjoy over 100 arcade games, plus Nintendo NES, Super Nintendo, Sega and N64 consoles. Pair your gaming fun with over 100 craft beers or try one of the signature cocktails.
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WORKSHOPS AT MYRIAD BOTANICAL GARDENS
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Summer is a great opportunity to take time for yourself, hone a skill or learn a new one. The folks at Myriad Botanical Gardens have designed many experiences to partake in this summer for those interested in candle pouring, jewelry and home decor crafts, gardening tips and more.
FILMS AT OKCMOA NOBLE THEATRE
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Throughout the year, the OKCMOA Film Program showcases top-notch independent, international and classic films in the museum’s cozy 230-seat Samuel Roberts Noble Theater. Showtimes can be viewed online and tickets are available for digital purchase or in person at the box office.
ROLLER SKATING AT SKATE GALAXY
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Grab the fam; this rink offers high-energy group fun via roller skating and video games. It’s open Wednesdays through Sundays and summer passes are available to skate anytime during open hours all summer long through Aug. 2.
BOWLING AT DUST BOWL LANES AND LOUNGE
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Imagine stepping out of the heat into a bowling alley with a cozy lounge, a full-service bar and a welcoming patio. This retro-inspired gem pays homage to the beloved bowling alleys of the 1970s, promising a nostalgic
experience filled with laughter and good times. Food, beer and cocktail options await to accompany your game.
CERAMIC CLASSES AT PREACHER POTTERY
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Offering both courses for adults and summer camps for kids, Preacher Pottery is a perfect cool, creative escape for any age. Open studio time is also on the menu for those who have wheel throwing or hand building experience. Reserve a wheel online and experience the fun.
ANTIQUE SHOPPING AT MOCKINGBIRD MANOR
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Located on Western Avenue, Mockingbird Manor houses a charming collection of antiques to add a little personality to your space. Guests are often captivated by its selection of vintage home decor, art and trinkets galore. Spend time soaking up the A/C during your wandering adventures to find the perfect treasure.
EVERYTHING AT OKLAHOMA CITY PUBLIC LIBRARIES
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With the kids home from school this summer, each local Metropolitan Library System location has plenty of fun planned to keep visitors entertained all season long. From the summer reading program to its Discovery Backpack program, Scavenger Hunts, Crafts — there are many different interactive and educational experiences to choose from. Check out the website and select a library close to you for a rundown of local events.
FROZEN DELIGHTS
Summer in Oklahoma City is infamously scorching, but rather than hibernate by the A/C for months on end, refreshing sips and snacks are far better balms. Luckily, there are more than enough cool treats to go around, from fizzy cocktails and chilled noodles to playful popsicles and iced lattes.
TIZO’S POPS & ICE CREAM
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Roberto Godinez knows a thing or two about beating the heat. Growing up in Aguascalientes, Mexico, he made popsicles with his family — a tradition he brought with him to Oklahoma City, where Tizo’s Pops & Ice Cream became the first Mexican popsicle and ice cream shop in the state. Today, the sunny southside shop keeps Godinez’s family tradition alive, featuring 80 flavors of scratch-
made popsicles in fun and fruity flavors like avocado, blackberrycheese, rice pudding, coconut, mango with condensed milk and pine nut. There are also non-dairy popsicles, like cantaloupe and michelada, and more than 20 flavors of ice cream. 5125 S Western Ave
CLARITY COFFEE
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Always a harbinger of hotter weather to come, the Clarity Cool Down is a summertime staple
at Clarity Coffee, which now boasts locations downtown and in the Wheeler District. Made with cold-brew coffee, brown sugar and oat milk, the icy slush is the most quenching way to caffeinate in the summer months. 431 W Main St Suite A
BURGER PUNK
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For cold-brew with more of a kick, check out the Turbo! at Burger Punk. Similar to Clarity, it’s a slushy made with cold-brew coffee, but
the similarities end there. At both Burger Punk locations, the signature staple adds Evan Williams Bonded bourbon, coconut cream, Xocotatl mole bitters and vanilla. For something even more refreshing, upgrade to the Turbo Twister!, which blends the whole thing with vanilla soft-serve. 3012 N Walker Ave
WATER’S EDGE WINERY
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Fortunately, there’s no shortage of ice cream in our fair metro,
from the Americana comforts of Roxy’s Ice Cream Social to the whimsical innovations at Boomtown Creamery. But there’s nothing quite like the wineinfused ice cream at Water’s Edge Winery in Moore. In addition to crisp and refreshing wines made on-site, like Gewurztraminer and Pinotage, the winery uses its vino to make wine slushies and wine ice cream, the latter of which is impressively creamy and fruity. 2001 S Broadway Ave Ste C, Moore, OK
TINY BUBBLES
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Among the most anticipated openings of 2024, Tiny Bubbles finally popped the cork on its wine bar in the Shoppes at NorthPark. And just in time to quench the masses with its POP It Like It’s Hot, a Prosecco-based cocktail with Lillet Blanc, sparkling wine, Topo Chico and mini popsicles from Wondervan Pops. 12100 N May Ave STE B
EL COYOTE
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Frozen margaritas are a classic go-to, found on many a menu, but frozen horchata is the kind of icy novelty you won’t find just anywhere. Both are on the menu at El Coyote, and the frozen horchata — made from scratch with rice, cinnamon, and sugar — is particularly well matched with the spices from the kitchen. It’s available as is, or with a shot of rum or tequila. 925 W Britton Rd
GOOD FOR A FEW
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In case palomas weren’t naturally refreshing enough on their own, Good For a Few ups the ante with sorbet. The new speakeasystyle bar in the Plaza District is featuring a paloma variation this summer called La Cantinera, made with tequila, mezcal, black currant liqueur, lime, grapefruit, Squirt soda and the grand finale: pomegranate sorbet
GORO RAMEN
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Ramen, typically, is confined to colder weather, when warming bowls of hot broth brace against winter. At Goro Ramen, though, ramen is an all-season comfort food, as evidenced by its seasonal chilled ramen, available in the summer months. In lieu of hot broth, it’s a broth-less bowl of chilled noodles with sesame dressing, shrimp, surimi, mustard greens, negi (Japanese green onions) and fried shallots. Pair it with the Tokyo Vice, a blend of frozen strawberry-yuzu daiquiri and frozen chai colada. 3000 Paseo
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When it’s just too dang hot
When you want to hideaway
When you’re sipping without the buzz
Cool off in a literal bank vault at the Library of Distilled Spirits, with something tropical, like the Coco Rouge, with açai liqueur, coconut rum, cacao liqueur, strawberry, cream and mole bitters.
Make your way to Lunar Lounge, hidden inside the Plaza Court building in Midtown, where celestial sips — like the sake-based Space Dandy — await behind an unmarked door.
Explore the ever-expanding zero-proof cocktails, wines and beers at Milo, like the Spiced Pear Quencher with lemon, pear-balsamic syrup, non-alcoholic gin and non-alcoholic sparkling wine.
When you want to play games
For summer sips with a little fun, play a round of darts or shuffleboard at The Flycatcher Club, where craft beer and Pét-nat wines are the drinks of choice.
SUMMER SIPS
Where are your summer sips taking you?
Use this handy guide to map out your seasonal drinking plans.
When you want a dip in the pool
When you’re doing dinner and drinks
When it’s prime patio weather
When it’s a wine night
Make a splash at Pool Bar, the cheery patio space at the Fordson Hotel, where a small wading pool is conveniently accompanied by Frozen Dole Whip, made with rum, pineapple, orange, coconut, lime and agave.
Make a night of it, with pre-dinner drinks or a nightcap, at a cozy nook like R&J Lounge and Supper Club, where Champagne cocktails and French 75s scratch the itch.
Snag a seat on the shaded patio at Skydance Brewing Co., and sip your way through a flight of IPAs, pilsners and red ales.
Head to Stella, which offers 50% off select bottles of wine on Sundays, and pairs them perfectly with seasonal flatbreads.
The Roosevelt Room rewards a close look. p. 50
DRIVING DOWN CLASSEN THROUGH THE ASIAN District, the air practically perfumed with pho spices, is an apt reminder that Oklahoma City’s Vietnamese restaurant community is as prominent as ever. Along with newcomers like Bun Box, one savvy chef is putting her own stamp on Vietnamese tradition in untraditional ways — by slinging egg rolls at pop-ups and events around town.
Vicki Vo is the woman behind OKC Eggrolls, an homage to her roots as a first-generation Vietnamese-American, and an opportunity to showcase family tradition in new ways. Self-taught as a chef, Vo said most of her influence came from her mother and grandmother. “They didn’t teach much about cooking, but I mostly watched them from afar when I was younger,” she recalled. “I didn’t get interested in cooking Vietnamese food until my early 20s. I started teaching myself how to make a lot of the foods that I craved, that my grandma would make.”
In 2022, she started sharing those cravings with the rest of Oklahoma City. That’s when she started doing pop-ups, and taking her egg rolls from at-home comforts to a burgeoning business. “My intention wasn’t to do pop-ups, it just sort of
happened,” Vo says. “My friends would ask me to make egg rolls for parties, so I made an Instagram handle in case someone wanted them for events.” It all went on a roll from there, as she started gaining more and more followers, and business owners began contacting her about doing pop-ups. Lively Beerworks was her first, followed swiftly by other restaurants and breweries, like Stonecloud. “Mainly, I did pop-ups at places that didn’t have food, to bring in customers and slowly build my clientele,” Vo explained. “We’ve done a bunch at breweries and bars, and a few restaurant collaborations too, like Sedalia’s, Palo Santo and Ludivine.”
As a first-generation Vietnamese-American, born and raised in Oklahoma City, Vo is putting her own stamp on tradition passed down by the generations that came before her (the logo is inspired by her grandma, featuring an image that Vo drew herself). She describes her food as “Vietnamese-inspired eats,” licensing her to be creative with her offerings — like a vegan egg roll she makes with mushrooms, tofu and cabbage. She started exclusively with egg rolls, and has since expanded her rotating recipe portfolio to include noodles, rice bowls and bánh cuán, a Northern Vietnamese rice crêpe dish that Vo makes from scratch. The crispy egg rolls, though, are the star attraction. “My main egg rolls are Vietnamese-style, with ground pork, vermicelli threads and wood-ear mushrooms, and what makes them a little different is I season them with a special spice blend that I make, similar to five-spice, except I add several more,” she said.
Business was gangbusters from the beginning, with Vo clocking two to four popups per month. On top of working at Sedalia’s, though, the schedule proved too much,
Vietnamese crêpes
especially as a one-woman business. After a few months off, she’s back in action this summer, with plans for one pop-up per month, with schedules posted to her Instagram and website.
In the long term, her goal is to open a late-night kitchen and bar with her husband, focusing on Vietnamese small plates, and offering restaurant industry workers a place they can go after work. In the meantime, she’s continuing to make her mark on the Vietnamese community. “I feel like what I’m doing helps me feel more community-oriented,” said Vo. “I feel more involved with the community, and I’m helping Asian representation, using this as my platform."
→ For more information visit @okceggrolls on Instagram.
Pork spring rolls and pho-inspired PHOever Yum beer
Uptown Gets a Glow Up
The Roosevelt Room rewards a close look
BY MATT KIROUAC
BY RACHEL MAUCIERI
THE 23RD STREET CORRIDOR IS A VERITABLE choose-yourown-adventure of bars, with styles spanning from The Pump’s patio and Guyutes’ rooftop to Ponyboy and the dive-y Bar Next Door. But there’s nothing quite like The Roosevelt Room, the latest addition to the district, which set up shop as a quasi-speakeasy beneath Hurts Donuts.
Accessed by stairwell and a nondescript door in the back of the building, marked by a Roosevelt Room mural, the basement bar distinguishes itself from its Uptown compatriots with an intimate, cozy atmosphere, and a style of cocktail service that raises the bar, so to speak. A far cry from the spacious crowd-pleasers that populate the neighborhood, including the new Bungalow 23 nearby, The Roosevelt Room is dark and discreet, with a central bar flanked by booths and stools. And that stark difference is intentional.
“We wanted to bring a speakeasy style, a sensual and intimate datenight spot, to the 23rd Street area,” explained general manager Kolton
Dickerson, citing more one-on-one interactions with guests, and more focus on hospitality. “It’s fun to be a part of 23rd Street and its new roots. People will always go to the late-night bars, but we’re allowing people to come unwind at the end of the night, and get away from the street-level nightlife.”
The name is partly inspired by similarly named bars in Tulsa and Austin, which capture the intimacy and classic ambience operators are striving for here. The caliber of cocktails is a notch above as well, spotlighting seasonal novelties like the Lemongrass Grass, a tiki-inspired riff on a caipirinha with cachaca, lemongrass-fennel syrup, lime, vanilla and hibiscus butters. And the LSP, a creamy medley of mezcal and Drambuie with Cherry Heering, lemon, orgeat, Peychaud’s bitters and grated nutmeg. The Yubari Fizz is a particular stunner that showcases the bar’s artistry and capabilities — served in a highball, it’s a fruity spin on a Melon Ball, with Midori, vodka, ginger liqueur, pineapple, lime, vanilla, cream and Topo Chico.
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LSP cocktail with Drambuie, mezcal, Cherry Heering, lemon, orgeat, Peychaud’s bitters, and nutmeg
Lemongrass Grass, Yubari Fizz, and LSP cocktails
Classic cocktails are well represented too. “That’s where hospitality starts, being able to execute a classic well,” explains Dickerson. “It’s like a latte. You go get your coffee of choice in the morning, and you want it done your way. The same for someone coming in and wanting a Sazerac made the same way it was made 150 years ago.”
Rounding it all out is a curated wine list and a tapas menu with plates like lobster quesadillas, shrimp ceviche, duck wings and crispy eggplant. Together, it’s all a part of a new kind of hospitality experience for the lively neighborhood — at once elevated and subterranean.
→ For more information visit therooseveltroomokc.com
Lemongrass Grass cocktail with cachaca, Italicus, lemongrass-fennel
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Rise and Shine
Kaitlin Butts’ journey through honky tonk honors and Opry performances. p. 60
Let’s Twist Again
Summer blockbuster continues Oklahoma’s Hollywood streak
BY LAVINIA CRESWA PHOTOS PROVIDED BY OKLAHOMA FILM & MUSIC DEPARTMENT
OKLAHOMA IS OFFICIALLY IN ITS FILM era. Between the 10-time Oscar nominated film Killers of the Flower Moon and Sylvester Stallone’s smash hit show “Tulsa King,” production companies are flocking to Oklahoma. This year’s summer blockbuster Twisters, in theaters July 19, is the latest movie entirely shot in the Sooner State.
We are a long way from Hollywood — so why, all of a sudden, does it seem that we have so many movies being made here? Jeanette Stanton, director of the Oklahoma Film and Music Office, explains that Oklahoma is one of several states offering major incentives to bring studios to town. During the credits of a movie, there is a long list of vendors used that were imperative
to filming; everything from construction crews hired to build sets to wardrobe, food and beverage, even hotels where the cast and crew stayed. The state’s incentive program ensures that these jobs are filled by local vendors, offering 20-30% cash back for all waged employees associated with the production, up to $30 million a year.
“The purpose of our program is to be an economic driver and a job program. We use the film incentive program as a business development tool for local companies. We also recruit from outside the state to production companies of all sizes to come to Oklahoma, put local people to work and spend money in our communities,” Stanton said. The incentive program is broken up into two tiers, with some money designated for
smaller, independent productions and some for the major studios like Paramount or Universal. Stanton noted, “We have made that part of our business model. We want to support films across all spectrums.”
With Twisters, the sequel to the iconic 1996 disaster film, Universal Studios spent 60 days shooting across Oklahoma, in addition to several months here both before and after filming. Champion Hotels, a vendor used during the filming of Twisters, reported over 10,000 hotel nights booked. Over 1,000 Oklahomans, between vendors and extras, were associated with the project, sometimes even involving entire towns, like the city of El Reno. Filmmakers have to work together with the city government
to undertake such a huge project, often shutting down entire streets for days to get the perfect shot. As a thank-you to the town, a huge block party was thrown by the city of El Reno which included renting out their local theater to screen the original Twister for free. This seems only fair, as in the movie trailer the El Reno water tower can be seen tumbling to the ground.
Producers spent time at the National Weather Service in Norman to learn how a tornado looks and moves, as well as learning about equipment used to recreate it for the film. Several local storm chasers can be spotted in the film, including KFOR’s own Brian Winslow. With advanced effects, fans of the original film aren’t likely to be disappointed with the adrenaline-
pumping, edge-of-your-seat roller coaster the upcoming Twisters is set to provide.
If you want to learn more about Oklahoma’s film industry, the Oklahoma Film and Music Office has a robust website at okfilmmusic. org. Stay up to date with what is filming — and showing — in our great state.
HAIL TO THE CHIEF
Another film shot in Oklahoma to check out this summer is Reagan, starring Dennis Quaid. This biopic follows the life of America’s 40th president from childhood to his time in the Oval Office, as told by a KGB agent. Reagan is out in theaters Aug. 30.
Rise and Shine
Kaitlin Butts’ journey through honky tonk honors and Opry performances
BY JAKE DURHAM PHOTO BY THOMAS CRABTREE
BORN AND RAISED IN TULSA, RISING COUNTRY MUSIC STAR KAITLIN
BUTTS has swiftly become a beloved figure, celebrated for her authentic storytelling and powerful vocal performances. With a sound that bridges the classic roots of country, contemporary influences and Red Dirt, her music resonates deeply with fans across the state and the globe—she won a 2024 Ameripolitan Award for Best Honky Tonk Female and has been invited to perform on multiple occasions at the Grand Ole Opry. As she looks to the future, there’s little doubt that Kaitlin Butts will keep making waves, inspiring fans and leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of all who hear her.
What’s different and unique about your music, and how do you think it represents Oklahoma?
So, I grew up in Tulsa doing musical theater. At about 15, I picked up the guitar and started learning songs by my favorite artists like Taylor Swift, The Wreckers, Miranda Lambert and the Chicks, and in doing that, I feel like the things that I listen to turned out to be like what I wanted to play myself. Then I got to learn more and more about country music and its history—because my only knowledge was mainly about ’90s country and what I grew up listening to on the radio. Then, I got pushed down to Texas, learned all about Texas music and expanded from there.
This next album brings together the two worlds that I grew up doing. I’m making a concept album around the musical Oklahoma! and it’s like a reimagined version of the musical. My last album was kind of rock-and-roll oriented, a lot more hard-hitting, and a lot of deep, tough subjects like domestic violence and substance abuse and generational trauma. I feel like that’s definitely a part of my story.
But whenever you come to my live show, I feel like it’s a little bit of a different experience when it comes to what you’re gonna get there. And I think that this next album encompasses just everything that you would see at a show of mine, like humor, tongue-in-cheek fun and serious topics as well, with a little bit of rock and roll here and there. But this is definitely a very
country album that I’m getting out on June 28, and I’m excited to get it out there.
Who are some artists that you typically look to for inspiration, or that you try and mirror some of your music after?
I’ve always loved Brandy Carlisle. I’ve listened to her for a long time — since I was about 15 or 16 years old. She lives left of center, which I think has a lot of longevity in the Americana industry. But I definitely do lean more toward that country.
Do you listen to your own music?
I definitely do. I have to do these little double-checks to make sure that it’s good. I have to listen to it to make music, make videos, create concepts and for creative purposes. I have to listen to my music quite a bit.
What are you passionate about that you try and incorporate into your music?
As I’ve gotten older, I felt pretty strongly in all my decisions. But I feel like when it comes to human rights, that’s something that I have to vocalize. Sometimes, it’s something that just comes more naturally to me, like I had a drag queen in one of my music videos [“What Else Can She Do”]. It wasn’t that I was trying to make a political statement. But at the time, drag queens weren’t such a political thing. I just thought of the most glamorous person that I could think
of who has to work at a diner. In my head, that’s a drag queen, and how she could, you know, be living like this drag queen, who’s like a simple gal, dreaming of a more beautiful, colorful life. And while she works, I wanted to make the world watch her instead of this dusty old diner.
Tell me about your interview with Rolling Stone.
I was very nervous. It was exciting. I got to go to my local coffee shop and just sit and talk on a couch for a couple of hours, and it felt just like any other interview. But I know that there was a lot more pressure for it, cause it’s gonna be in a magazine. And that’s, you know, even bigger than just to be in an article online with them; to have it be in print is just like another level.
Tell me what it is like being married — you’re both musicians, and you are both touring. You have these busy, packed lives. What’s the key to making that work? How do you stay connected and commit to making things work?
Google Calendar is our best friend and just scheduling out time to see each other. We also have the same agent, and he tries to book us at the same time and not book us at the same time where we can either cross paths, play shows together or block out weekends where we can both be at home. We just do what we can. We’ve always done it this way — and it’s definitely
difficult at times, and we definitely miss each other. But I think if anyone can understand this job, it’s both of us. We know the level of commitment that we have to the job and to the work. We don’t ask questions about why we have to stay up till two or three in the morning or why we haven’t called all day. We know how hectic it gets playing shows and doing this. We just try to make the most of it and cherish the time.
Is it easy to disconnect from the job when you guys are together? Or is there a tendency for both of you to continuously bring music and work schedules into it?
We are trying to get better at making sure that we have a time when we turn off our phones and have a date, because work can be happening at all times. When you’re a songwriter or a musician you can work from the time that you wake up till two in the morning every single day. You really have to commit to your person and really set boundaries with your hours.
Do you have any favorite venues or locations you like to perform?
Yeah, I love Cain’s Ballroom in Tulsa. That’s where I grew up. My first concert was there, and I interned there when I was 16. Another one of my favorites is Billy Bob’s in Fort Worth. I love the people who work there. I love the community that, you know, shows up for me, and I love the support that Fort Worth radio has given me.
THOMAS CRABTREE
Fort Gibson’s Bicentennial
The long history of an Oklahoma landmark
BY LINDA MILLER PHOTO COURTESY OF THE OKLAHOMA HISTORICAL SOCIETY
FORT GIBSON, THE FIRST MILITARY POST IN WHAT would become the state of Oklahoma, celebrates its 200th anniversary this year.
In 1824 Col. Matthew Arbuckle, leader of the 7th U.S. Infantry and namesake of the mountains near Turner Falls, opened Cantonment Gibson. The garrison at nearby Fort Smith in Arkansas was relocated to the new post, later renamed Fort Gibson in honor of Revolutionary War hero George Gibson.
The frontier outpost was established to maintain peace between the Cherokee and Osage tribes. Some Cherokees were already in the area before the forced relocation of Eastern tribes from 1830 to 1850 during the Trail of Tears to Indian Territory. Historians say the Osage people had been living nearby for centuries.
During the height of the removal, Fort Gibson had the largest garrison in the nation, with many noteworthy men either serving there or passing through — including Henry Leavenworth, Jefferson Davis, Sam Houston, Zachary Taylor and Nathan Boone, youngest son of Daniel Boone.
Situated on the Grand River near its confluence with the Verdigris and the Arkansas Rivers at a place known as Three Forks, Fort Gibson was farther west than any other military post at the time. Its nearby boat landing and easy river navigation were important, but the location soon proved a
poor choice: The log fort was built in a low area that often flooded, creating stagnant pools of water that caused illness and death among the troops. Rotting logs needed constant repair. One officer described the location as “the bottom of a sinkhole.” During a 5-year period, deaths totaled 500.
During the 1840s and ’50s, the sale of liquor to Cherokees had become a problem and at the persistent urging of tribal leaders, Congress agreed to abandon the post. Political debates about relocation continued for years, and construction finally began in 1845 on higher ground not far away. The fort’s role diminished in the 1850s as tribes settled on their new lands and the need for military protection declined.
In 1857, the property was deeded to the Cherokee, who established the village of Kee-too-wah on the site but later sold the land and buildings. The fort became essential again during and after the Civil War and remained in federal hands until 1865.
Protection and peace-keeping efforts on the frontier were successful for more than 50 years, with no battles or massacres. In summer 1890, the fort was once again abandoned but later used as the headquarters of the Dawes Commission to enroll members of the Five Tribes.
Today, a smaller, reconstructed version of the early fort and stockade is open to visitors. Up the hill, nine original buildings of the latter fort, many made of stone instead of logs, are still standing. Some have become personal homes; others are occupied or being restored. Visitors can see a film and exhibits at the Commissary Visitor Center on Garrison Hill, and the fort’s original stone oven is in the bake house.
The state-run Fort Gibson Historic Site is listed on the National Register of Historic Places and is designated a National Historic Landmark. It played a crucial role for many decades and remains an important part of Oklahoma’s history.
One of the original barracks at Fort Gibson in 1934. A reconstructed version of the fort is open for visitors.
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KickingBird’s Golfing Legacy
Fresh renovations on a longstanding tradition
BY JAKE DURHAM PHOTO BY JUSTIN MIERS
NESTLED IN THE HEART OF EDMOND, KickingBird Golf Club stands as the city’s most venerable public golf course. Originally designed by Floyd Farley, the facility opened with a bang during its inaugural weekend more than half a century ago. Since then, KickingBird has woven itself into the fabric of local and state golfing lore.
“KickingBird Golf is Edmond’s oldest golf course, built in 1971,” said Director of Golf Brian Soerensen. “The course has a rich history of competitive golf events that have been hosted, including the Oklahoma Open, which was held in the early ’80s. KickingBird Golf Club was host to the Oklahoma Open from 1979-1985.”
KickingBird has not only served as the backdrop to numerous prestigious tournaments, but also shaped the careers of several notable golfers. The club’s competitive spirit remains undiminished, from hosting legends like Danny Edwards and Dr. Gil Morgan to being the current
venue for the Oklahoma Golf Association’s Boys State Junior Championship.
Soerensen described the club’s enduring appeal and recent enhancements created by Oklahoma’s Bockus Payne: “The KickingBird Golf Renovation was built to offer golfers and non-golfers alike a unique and exceptional municipal golf experience,” he said. “The project was constructed with the community in mind, and you do not have to be a member or a golfer to enjoy the new amenities. We have a 6,600-square-foot event center hosting wedding receptions, birthday parties, business meetings and other non-golf-related events.”
While golfers of all levels can enjoy the course, KickingBird also caters to non-golfers through its diverse amenities, like the Lookout Restaurant and Range Entertainment Pavilion. The event center, managed by the Hole in One Food and Beverage group, offers a versatile space
for weddings, business meetings and other events, making the club a central hub for social activities in Edmond.
Soerensen also noted, “Golf experienced exponential growth during and after COVID; it was one of the safe outdoor activities people could participate in. We have seen a large growth in our customer base between the ages of 20-40. Junior Golf is growing as well. Golf is relational, and that is one of the aspects we focus on here at KickingBird. Golfers are spending their time and money for fun, and we hope to provide them with a fun, relational experience every time they visit KickingBird.”
KickingBird’s strategic initiatives focus on financial responsibility, economic development and enhancing the community quality of life. “Our goal is to host more events that draw visitors to Edmond, boost local sales and support community organizations,” said Soerensen. He proudly added that KickingBird has been pivotal in maintaining the city’s rich golf tradition, noting the success of several PGA Tour players from local high schools.
From its scenic views to its modern architectural designs featuring expansive windows and high ceilings, every aspect of KickingBird is crafted to offer an exceptional experience.
“We placed an importance on the way the buildings function and how they relate to one another from a business flow perspective,” Soerensen said. “We focused on the great views—KickingBird is the highest point in Edmond. [Bockus Payne] used a modern design incorporating windows and patio spaces. High ceilings create an expansive, open feeling throughout. We wanted to create a facility that was unique to our area and region.”
As KickingBird Golf Club continues to redefine municipal golf, its tag lines, “Bring Your Game to Life” and “Municipal Golf Redefined,” encapsulate its mission to enhance the golfing experience and strengthen community ties. Whether you are a seasoned golfer or a newcomer eager to take your first swing, KickingBird offers a welcoming environment where every visitor can find enjoyment and a sense of belonging.
→ For more information visit www.edmondokc.gov /371/KickingBird-Golf
South View of Clubhouse, Golf Shop, Restaurant and Turn Bar
Range Entertainment Pavilion
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Shai Gilgeous-Alexander was named the 2024 NBA Fan Favorite for Style of the Year.”
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Norman is #filmfriendly certified! #OkieFilm“Knowing what an economic driver film prod. has been...& how it will positively impact Norman’s business comm. has been a major motivator to become officially certified.”Dan Schemm, @VisitNorman”
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Staying active is one of the most important aspects of health at any age. Planet Fitness is offering high school students a free summer membership until the end of August. Encourage your teen to exercise at least 30 minutes four times per week.”
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