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IMPRESSIONS Taking care of your emotional health

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HOME A manor on the river— everything you dream of and more

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TRAVEL There’s no stopping us now; holiday travel is heating up, and we have a few suggestions

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With the stressful holidays rapidly approaching, now is the time to plan travel, entertainment, and shopping expeditions, while taking care of yourself and your family. There is no need to panic if you have your calendar filled with days and evenings of the “must do” items, but be sure to leave room for the “I want to have fun” events.

This month, in our Travel section, you will find the best holiday activities to bring back fond memories or create new ones. Discover what makes the Christmas experience memorable.

Two of our favorites holiday day trips include the fantastic sounds produced by the world-renowned Boston Symphony Orchestra and the illumination of stately Victorian homes, a.k.a.

The Newport Mansions. In both cases, these destinations are unlike any other, and will put you into the holiday spirit.

As for shopping, November means The Foundry Art Show artists are preparing for their December opening; after a hiatus during 2020, the crowds are getting ready to return to the best art buying experience in New England. And if you are looking to keep a rein on your budget, remember, purchases at this show are tax-free!

This season is not all pumpkin pie and apple cider. Found in our Living Well department, we report on a little-discussed

but important mental health With the stressful problem on the rise—the personality holidays rapidly disorder known as Narcissism. Not approaching, the garden variety type, but the now is the time pathology diagnosed through clinical to plan travel, intervention. entertainment, It is a complicated mental health issue; it is difficult to identify, horrible and shopping to live with, and a disorder that expeditions, treatment doesn’t often cure. Worse, it while taking care wreaks havoc on unsuspecting partners of yourself and and other types of relationships. Those your family. dating, living with, or married to a person afflicted with this manipulative and destructive disorder will suffer immense emotional pain.

This modern-day health issue is so pervasive; you will see us delve into it this month, so you’ll learn how to spot the manipulative behaviors of the narcissist and avoid the trappings laid out to snare the naive.

Finally, we offer tips for keeping your budget and loving relationship on a smooth course this season. Expert Andrew Aaron, LICSW, discusses how money can make or break up couples.

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Impressions

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he stress of providing for your family in a tittering economy is difficult.

Inflation devaluing our buying power is evident by fuel and grocery bills. Adding to the pain is the lack of security on every front; is it any wonder why our collective anxiety is at an all-time high?

According to the Anxiety & Depression Association of America (ADAA), anxiety disorders affect some 40 million adults in the US—that’s over 18 percent of the population. And, while many of the subcategories falling under the heading of anxiety are treatable, less than 37 percent of those afflicted seek help.

It is common for those experiencing high levels of anxiety also to be fighting depression. The combination of anxiety and depression can be linked to genetics and brain chemistry, but it is also tied to personality development and life events.

In speaking with Clinical Director at Brightside Behavioral Health in Warwick, Rhode Island, Amy Creegan, MS, LMFT, explains, “Pre-existing anxieties have been exacerbated in this time of uncertainty and unsure footing. We all still seem to be waiting to exhale from the cascading effects of the pandemic.”

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WHAT IS STRESSING YOU OUT?

Anxiety is the result of uninterrupted stress. Being reactive is normal; our fight or flight response system—found in the recess of our brains—works well, but the trouble begins when it refuses to shut off. When a person is in a stressful situation but finds resolution, the body’s feedback loop returns to regular operation. Trouble begins when the response mechanism remains

“We are only human,” Creegan offers, “and as humans, we have to remember to simply breathe; exhale —inhale, repeat.” active, and the elevation in our alert systems (neurologically and chemically) maintains a heightened sense of readiness without retraction.

This past year, financial giant Capital One reported the result of a recent CreditWise survey found for most people, finances were the number one cause of stress at 73 percent; politics 59

percent, work 49 percent, and family 46 percent. The survey also showed that high rates of anxiety due to finances were found throughout every generation.

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Many people find they are stressed daily, their anxiety continues to build— without relief, and they begin to notice mood changes that may be linked to depression. For them, a therapist is a wise choice; talking to a trained professional to provide insight into the etiology of their change in behavior and thought processes can be enough to get them back on track.

For others, it could be seeking support from a friend or family member, developing an exercise routine as simple as a brisk daily walk or hike, meditation, or other physical relaxation techniques.

What is most important is recognizing when stress is taking over your life, and your reaction to it isn’t solving the problem.

The sooner you address the difficulties found in everyday living, the better you will feel. “We are only human,” Creegan offers, “and as humans, we have to remember to simply breathe; exhale— inhale, repeat.” H

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Surrounded by nature and wildlife, this exquisite retreat neatly ties manor-style living with modern luxuries into a 12,295 square-foot home, settled on more than nine private acres.

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othing compares to the spectacular views and peacefulness relished along the Slocum River. Surrounded by nature and wildlife, this exquisite retreat neatly ties manor-style living with modern luxuries into a 12,295 square-foot home, settled on more than nine private acres.

Visually elegant, the custom-designed and built home provides a new definition for the term coastal living; evident, by the elegance that exudes from every vantage point.

The interior is striking, and its grand-scale styling is befitting a family who takes pride and comfort in their surroundings. Whether you expect weekend guests or a family gathering, the five bedrooms with four and one-half baths are as much an attractive attribute as the property’s other amenities.

Contributing to effortless entertaining, the home has an expanded gourmet kitchen with a breakfast area, an impressive dining room, a stately living room, and a bright family room with a stone fireplace. The library is appointed in mahogany

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paneling, along with a spa, gym, wine cellar, entertainment space with bar and kitchen, a game room, five stall garage, and a detached barn.

Other desirable features include a private floating dock, and an official-sized NCAA basketball court, set upon perfectly manicured grounds that host a vineyard and paddock.

The privacy and seclusion found at this level of living are unduplicated, making this South Dartmouth estate one of the rarest to come onto the market.

Effort and expense to complete such a sumptuous

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environment have not been an issue; incredible stonework, vaulted ceilings, architectural details, hand-painted murals, a music room, and a newly installed pool create and capture the essence of luxury and comfort.

Country living along the SouthCoast has never been so sophisticated and smart. The estate is listed for $7,400,000, with proof of funds prior to a showing. H For more information, contact Nona Burns Sbordone at Anne Whiting Real Estate at 508-951-2429 or by emailing nona@annewhitingrealestate.com.

The library is appointed in mahogany paneling, along with a spa, gym, wine cellar, entertainment space with bar and kitchen, a game room, five stall garage, and a detached barn.

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Travel

What’s On Your Agenda? merica is on the move, and nothing seems to be stopping the public from traveling and enjoying the many experiences missed during the last holiday season.

It will be markedly different this year; families will reunite—perhaps still taking precautions and following protocol, but they will enjoy the closeness that reminds us of why we are thankful.

Day trips, weekends, and even middle-of-the-week

excursions, remain attractive. We all want to get out of the house and see something new, even though the airlines are having scheduling issues, and fuel costs are at a record high.

Perhaps we are wired to desire adventure, a propensity for excitement. In the end, we all benefit from the enjoyment we find by meeting new people and learning new things; why else would we make such a considerable investment of time and resources?

Take the leap and get out of that comfort zone—plan an adventure, you’ll be glad you did. H

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ith conviction, the public is making arrangements to travel for the next few months, and nothing will get in their way this time around. A second, maybe third round of the COVID scare isn’t penetrating their collective psyche, and so they are planning to hit the road—even though fuel prices have hit decade-old highs and

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fly the not-so-friendly skies as the holidays approach.

Many events are opening up, and families will come together, largely because the masses have opted to become vaccinated with both the first and second doses. Along with masking, there is evidence the spread of the dreadful disease is being curtailed.

Naturally, families will gather for Thanksgiving and Christmas, but what

about all those days in between and after the celebrations?

For most, it will be day-tripping to New York and around New England; people from all over the northeast will be traveling to cities, coastal towns, and of course, heading to the mountains for wintertime fun and excitement.

For singles, who have had just about all they can stand, will likely jet down to a resort for a few days of sun and fun—

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and, who can blame them.

As we all know, the hospitality industry is fraught with problems, higher food costs, labor shortages, and regulations; as a result, there will be problems getting reservations at the most desirable restaurants, so make your plans as early as possible.

By all reports, there is a significant increase in people wanting to expand their leisure time into outdoor activities, partly because they don’t wish to breathe the same air you do, but staying active means living longer and everyone is on the same track.

It also seems that spectator sports are rising in popularity; many of those canceled last year have been reinstated.

For those taking homage indoors, some antique shows will reopen, fashion week is back, and museums are seeing full bookings day after day. The public isn’t taking the last 18 months lying down; they are shifting into gear and are ready to charge ahead for the end of 2021 and the beginning of 2022. H

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For singles, who have had just about all they can stand, will likely jet down to a resort for a few days of sun and fun—and, who can blame them.

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Newport Holidays

BY JAMES HOLDEN

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othing is more exciting than a trip to the city by the sea to enjoy superb dining, excellent holiday shopping, a walk along the beach, or atop the famous Cliff Walk. But, what one doesn’t want to miss is a wondrous journey to The Preservation Society of Newport County—Newport Mansions.

Beginning November 20, 2021, and running to January 9, 2022, The Breakers, Marble House, and The Elms will be open and decorated for the season.

A gathering with family for a tour of these mansions, filled with festive lights and atmosphere, will surely alleviate stress and is a perfect means to ring in the season.

Enjoy a Victorian Christmas at the location where it began;

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this year is expected to be more spectacular than ever before.

Lavishly decorated inside and out with magnificent Christmas trees, wreaths, fresh flowers, and poinsettias, the twinkle of lights will instill the feeling of the holidays that cannot be duplicated.

This year we recommend the Sparkling Lights at the Breakers; expanded to cover nearly half of the 13-acre property, the ‘cottage’ façade will be bathed in color, and its landscape will shine brightly with thousands of lights illuminating the grounds. While strolling the paths, holiday music will fill the air making this trip unforgettable.

Reservations are not required, but it is essential to visit the Newport Mansions website for hours and any restrictions that could occur due to COVID precautions.

The properties will be closed on Thanksgiving Day and Christmas, with the last tour on Christmas Eve at 3 p.m. H For additional information visit, newportmansions.org.

Lavishly decorated inside and out with magnificent Christmas trees, wreaths, fresh flowers, and poinsettias, the twinkle of lights will instill the feeling of the holidays that cannot be duplicated.

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Music

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The Boston Symphony Orchestra’s Concert for Our City

Dazzles the Community

BY STEVEN CHAN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARCO BORGGREVE

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n September 30, the BSO performed their first concert in front of a live audience at Symphony Hall since March 2020, after the COVID-19 pandemic necessitated the closure of the Hall for 18 months.

The opening night program included Beethoven’s Consecration of the House Overture and Bartók’s Concerto for Orchestra, under the direction of BSO Music Director Andris Nelsons and John Williams.

On Sunday of the opening weekend, the BSO performed a special concert for those lucky enough to learn about the extraordinary musical event titled “Concert For Our City: Reunited At Symphony Hall.” Free of charge, the concert was near capacity.

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Music fans and artists reunited at the famed concert hall, where four BSOs titled conductors performed a rare and unique concert creating musical magic.

Conductors Andris Nelsons, Thomas Wilkins, John Williams, and Keith Lockhart lead a magnificent production that will live in the minds of all who attended. Along with violin soloist Anne-Sophie Mutter, the players filled the glorious space with perfect sound and rhythm for more than an hour, bringing the crowd to their feet over and over again.

In a statement released prior to the event, and repeated to the audience, BSO President and CEO Gail Samuel said, “It is our hope that this special free performance will provide some much needed joy and inspiration as we celebrate the reopening of Symphony Hall and share that beautiful space again with our Boston community. For all of us at the BSO, we can’t imagine a better counter to the pandemic than welcoming concertgoers back to live performances at Symphony Hall.”

Opening the program, BSO Music Director Andris Nelsons conducted the BSO in Beethoven’s Consecration of the House Overture—the first piece performed by the BSO in 1881—a work that imparts a sense of renewal and revitalization as orchestra and audience come together again in a shared space.

Mr. Nelsons also led the players in the final movement of Bartók’s Concerto for Orchestra (music that the BSO premiered in 1944 under then Music Director Serge Koussevitzky).

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BSO Youth and Family Concerts Conductor Thomas Wilkins took the baton for movements from William Grant Still’s evocative 1948 orchestral suite Wood Notes, music inspired by poems about America’s natural beauty.

Boston Pops Conductor Laureate John Williams took charge and enchanted the audience with three of his recent film score arrangements for violin and orchestra with German violin virtuoso Anne-Sophie Mutter as soloist. Williams recreated a selection of tunes many are familiar with, yet, he took time to share some anecdotes about bringing orchestra music back to the movie industry, including his misunderstanding of a relationship between two actors in the popular film series Star Wars, when he wrote the score. He also mentioned the possibil-

Music fans and artists reunited at the famed concert hall, where four BSOs titled conductors performed a rare and unique concert creating musical magic.

ity of contributing music for a film planned to be added to the famous Indiana Jones chronicles coming soon.

Boston Pops Conductor Keith Lockhart led the Pops in the humorous Ringtone Cycle arranged by Mark Cumberland, Rachel Bruerville’s propulsive Dancing on Tiptoes (but never falling), and an arrangement of St. Louis Blues by “Father of the Blues” W.C. Handy.

Formal BSO titles for conductors referenced in this release: Andris Nelsons is the Ray and Maria Stata BSO Music Director; Thomas Wilkins is the BSOs Artistic Advisor, Education, and Community Engagement; and the Germeshausen Youth and Family Concerts Conductor; John Williams is the George and Roberta Berry Boston Pops Conductor Laureate, and Keith Lockhart is the Julian and Eunice Cohen Boston Pops Conductor. H The BSOs season continues through April 30, 2022.

Additional information about the 2021–2022 BSO season is available at bso.org.

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Literature

Lust, Revenge, & Murder Bathsheba Spooner — A Revolutionary Murder Conspiracy

by Andrew Noone

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uppose you have been tantalized by the tales surrounding the alleged murder committed by the notorious Lizzie Borden of Fall River, Massachusetts. In that case, you will appreciate the crime of the century orchestrated by Bathsheba Spooner of Worcester as told by scholar and author Andrew Noone.

Factual to the highest research standards, the detail found in this 18th century murder conspiracy lays the groundwork for one of history’s most crucial reads regarding real-life crime stories.

Spooner, encapsulated in elite society, steps out of her privileged existence and into a dark and nonsensical reality when she enlists an attractive wayward teenager and two British prisoners of war for deception, sexual favors, and the execution of her husband in an unfathomable crime. Her plotting, mistakes, and disregard of evidence keep readers rigorously turning pages to learn if and how these demonic criminals will be caught and held responsible.

Anticipation builds as common sense

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Nothing is more riveting than a centuries-old tale about wealth, lust, and murder, and that is what this must-read account of marital betrayal delivers.

is disregarded by the villains as if they feel impervious—may be justified when following the commands of Spooner. Adding to the drama is the possibility the mastermind of the plot is actually of sound mind.

Evidence is presented that Spooner may have been haunted by a severe personality disorder that made her dangerous to be around due to her manipulations and lack of compassion for human life.

Added value to the story, the author leads readers through the history of the American Revolution and displays how colonists and loyalists interacted—often brutally towards each other. Familiar names encircle the main characters, with leaders of the day being drawn into the fray and gossip, kept alive by talk and rumors exchanged in the many taverns that served as public houses for social gatherings.

Noone delivers readers back in time, allowing them to grasp onto the same realities faced today, but in a setting of buckle shoes, waistcoats, and knickers.

Nothing is more riveting than a centuries-old tale about wealth, lust, and murder, and that is what this must-read account of marital betrayal delivers. H

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The event will feature more than 65 professional artists from the region and is held at the historic Pawtucket Armory located at 172 Exchange Street, Pawtucket, R.I. An opening reception will be Thursday, December 2, from 5-9 p.m., with shopping opportunities over two full weekends.

The popular and much anticipated New England holiday tradition allows patrons to view and purchase exceptional, high-quality work from a juried selection of artists.

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The show and sale run Friday, December 3, from 12-8 p.m.; Saturday, December 4 from 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.; and Sunday, December 5 from 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Then resumes, Friday, December 10 from 12-8 p.m.; Saturday, December 11 from 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.; and Sunday, December 12 from 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.

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There will be a silent auction showcasing items donated by the Association’s artists the first weekend; proceeds support The Outsider Collective in Pawtucket, R.I., whose mission is to build community and belonging through art for every ability. H For additional information about this year’s Foundry Artists Show & Sale, please visit foundryshow.com.

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The Toxicity of

Narcissistic Personalities

A PERSONALITY DISORDER ON THE RISE, UNREPORTED, AND CAUSING HEARTACHE

BY ROB SAINT LAURENT, M.ED

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n Greek mythology, there was a young hunter who stood out for his beauty. He was the son of Cephissus, the river god, and Liriope, the nymph. In one account, the Roman poet Ovid explains that Tiresias, the blind seer, told the boy’s mother that her son would live a long life so long as he never noticed himself. But when the boy rejected the love of Echo, the Oreod nymph, who died of a broken heart; he drew the ire of the gods. After witnessing his reflection in a pristine spring, the boy was cursed with a deep love of self that could never be consummated. He died shortly after, some say

by suicide, and a flower of his namesake appeared where he laid.

The boy’s name was Narcissus, from which the term narcissist originates.

Statistics show a rising number of modern-day expressions of this Greek tragedy playing out across Western nations—so much so that researchers say we have a “narcissism epidemic.” They ask, “Are modern capitalistic cultures nurturing narcissism?” They point to the endorsement of the statement “I am an important person,” going from just 12 percent in 1963 to roughly 80 percent in 1992 among thousands of sampled adolescents. They note greater use of personal pronouns like NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | NOVEMBER 2021 | 49

I and me versus we and us in modern literature and a jump in phrases like I am the greatest, from 1960 to 2008. They cite an increase in self-focused song lyrics and fame in television.1 Attributed to childhood trauma and fueled by social media, narcissism appears to be nestled in all sectors of society. Because of damage inflicted to those captured in the undertow of manipulation, the topic begs the following questions: Who is a narcissist?

How can we detect them in the search for a loving relationship?

And, what long-lasting damage can they do to the unsuspecting or untrained?

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1 of 10 officially recognized personality disorders, narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), is a complex mental health condition characterized by inflated self-importance, lack of empathy, and an unquenchable thirst for attention or appreciation. A narcissist will have delusions of grandeur, readily demean others, possess low self-esteem, and seek those that can benefit them with praise, money, and sex.

Narcissists need to feel perfect at all times; otherwise, they feel threatened. Thus, while they [project] very high self-esteem, it’s dependent on constant external validation.2 In general, experts say people with personality disorders and especially NPD have a long track record of problems with intimacy and close relationships.2 Part of a constellation of four overlapping psychological disorders, NPD may also be diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder (ASPD), borderline personality disorder (BPD), and/or histrionic personality disorder (HPD),

TABLE 1

| THE FOUR TYPES OF NARCISSISTS4

1. Secretive or covert This person does not crave constant attention, but is shy, self-effacing, overly sensitive to how they’re perceived, and very envious. They believe their pain is worse than everyone else’s.

2. Intellectual This person has a sense of superiority from believing they’re the smartest in the room.

as well as other conditions like major depressive disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, or substance abuse.3 We know that NPD is widespread in the US, yet official statistics range from just 0.5-5 percent of the general population since many people won’t admit they have a problem.4 A 2009 US estimate had NPD affecting 7.7 percent of men and 4.8 percent of women, while other research from that year suggested the rate of NPD more than doubled between 1999 and 2009.5, 6 NPD can ultimately have many negative health outcomes if untreated; such as suicidal fantasies and increased risk of drug and alcohol abuse, and arrogant or aggressive behavior. Psychological effects can include depression and anxiety, and an inability to take criticism. Social impacts can include, decreased job or school performance; social withdrawal; and a lack of close relationships; either because of the narcissist’s demeaning attitude, or their avoidance of intimacy for fear of having their imperfections exposed and judged.4 HOW NARCISSISM MANIFESTS

Men and women display narcissistic traits differently. Women with NPD tend to be more competitive with other women and feel threatened. They also exhibit jealousy and have deep insecurities. In contrast, men tend to take advantage and feel entitled, and are more likely to exhibit aggression and a desire for power.

Both sexes are equally vain and self-absorbed.4 Narcissists typically fall into one of four categories, outlined in Table 1.

Researchers also say that personality traits affect how NPD manifests. People can have “grandiose narcissism” in which they exhibit the classic narcissist profile of being openly immodest, self-absorbed, entitled, and domineering; or, they can have “vulnerable narcissism” characterized by introversion, self-absorption, moodiness, and shifting feelings of deep pride and shame, superiority and inadequacy. Vulnerable narcissists can still feel superior, but tend to shy away from criticism and may avoid people in doing so.7, 8 It’s important to keep in mind that NPD is associated with long-standing behavior patterns and not isolated episodes or a normal display of self-love. Many of us have narcissistic, selfcentered traits even if we don’t meet the criteria for NPD, though more of us are showing toxic, narcissistic behavior.2, 9 THE MAKING OF A NARCISSIST

3. Appearance-obsessed (“somatic”) This person is fixated on their physical appearance, from which they get their self-worth, and tend to point out others’ flaws.

4. Spiritual This person feels “holier than thou” and will use religion or spirituality to intimidate, harm, or self-aggrandize.

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The cause of narcissism isn’t known, but if a person is male and someone in his lineage had NPD, chances are greater he will also have NPD. Narcissists have been shown to have less gray matter in their brain’s left anterior insula responsible for such traits as empathy, compassion, and regulating emotions.2 We know that parenting plays a critical role in the making of a narcissist. A child can experience many losses over time that may lead to NPD as an adult, such as those listed in Table 2.

As alluded to earlier, a person’s cultural environment may also contribute to NPD onset. In the first study of its kind, researchers were able to compare NPD in people living in former East Germany,

TABLE 2

as an equal.” This will challenge the narcissist to change how they relate.9

Possible Childhood Developmental Factors Contributing to NPD2, 4, 8

ADDRESSING NARCISSISM

Suffering severe childhood abuse or neglect, a lack of warmth Inconsistent parental caregiving (negligible neglect) Overprotective (“helicopter”) parenting Excessive praise overlooks or abilities, and overindulging Excessive admiration with no realistic feedback Excessive criticism or feelings of rejection Instilling unrealistic expectations or perfection Too lenient, with few limits or boundaries a collectivist group-oriented society, versus those living in former West Germany, a more individualistic society focused on rights and goals. They found that people raised in West Germany had greater NPD and lower self-esteem than people in East Germany.1 THE NARCISSIST NEXT DOOR

Experts confirm that many narcissists are drawn to careers in finance, law, and politics, offering status and power. In finance, for example, big decisions can be made without any consideration for the welfare of others.10 But what about the narcissist you may be living with?

Author and psychologist Lisa Firestone, Ph.D., explains that in relationships, even slight criticism can often lead a narcissist to lash out and be condescending in a desperate attempt to maintain their feeling of superiority. “Narcissistic relationships tend to be very challenging. Narcissistic partners usually have difficulty really loving someone else, because they don’t truly love themselves.”

At first, a narcissist can be alluring with their charm and passion, but their lack of empathy and controlling, jealous, fragile nature, eventually leads to a lot of ill will. Narcissists only value their partners (and children) to fulfill their needs, often leaving them very lonely, angry, and/or ashamed.9 To cope with someone having NPD, or people with narcissistic tendencies, Firestone says people should reflect on why they are in that relationship. Do they feel secure around someone in the spotlight so they can be passive or because this is how they derive their self-worth? Did they have a self-centered parent?

Does the abuse match a negative self-perception? Many partners of narcissists have co-dependency issues and lack self-confidence.

She advises that partners realize narcissists are compensating for their lack of self-love and feelings of inadequacy and that they learn self-compassion and develop self-confidence to avoid being a victim. “In all encounters, act equal, and treat your partner

The beautiful white narcissus flower was said to have properties that could both heal and hurt, giving pleasure and pain, from which an ointment could be made that was at the same time terrible and tempting.11 A 2019 study in Northern Ireland found that grandiose narcissists were more likely to be happier, resilient, and less stressed.

They were found to be more goal-oriented and confident, for example, which protected against depression and stress. Lead researcher Kostas Papageorgiou, Ph.D., argues that while narcissism can be bad (part of the “dark tetrad” of Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and sadism), it does have some redeeming qualities that should be cultivated as other qualities are discouraged.12 Current treatment for narcissism involves recognizing and separating from critical inner voices, or attitudes, formed early in life. Narcissists need to separate from behaviors that protected them from abusive or neglectful parents that they’ve carried into adulthood, such as an attitude of superiority or condescending behaviors. They need to break harmful behavior patterns of self-centeredness, constantly comparing themselves to others, and always needing to be the best or perfect. Also effective is emphasizing self-compassion over self-esteem. Self-compassion teaches kindness toward oneself and realizing our shared humanity, promoting needed self-awareness and compassion toward others; whereas, self-esteem is based on comparing oneself to others and needing to be special—shown in research by Kristin Neff, Ph.D. to actually promote narcissism.9 Experts say narcissists are capable of learning and feeling empathy, the “ultimate antidote.”2 Since children learn from adults’ manipulative ways, it’s important that we identify any narcissistic tendencies of our own. Nondiagnostic self-tests are available online, such as the one at psycom. net/narcissistic-personality-disorder-test. H 1. Vater, A., Moritz, S., & Roepke, S. (2018). Does a narcissism epidemic exist in modern western societies? Comparing narcissism and self-esteem in East and West Germany. PLoS One, 13(1), e0188287.

2. Gregory, S. & Soriano, K. (n.d.). Tell Me All I Need to Know About Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Psycom.

3. Ambardar, S. (2018, May 16). Narcissistic Personality Disorder Differential Diagnoses. Medscape.

4. Addiction Hope. (2013, April 15). Narcissistic Personality Disorder Causes, Statistics, Signs, Symptoms & Side Effects.

5. Stinson, F.S., Dawson, D.A., Goldstein, R.B., et al. (2009, July 1). Prevalence, Correlates, Dis ability, and Comorbidity of DSM-IV Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Results from the Wave 2 National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions. Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 69(7), 1033-46.

6. Twenge, J. & Campbell, W.K. (2009). The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement.

Free Press.

7. Miller, J.D., Lynam, D.R., Hyatt, C.S., & Campbell, W.K. (2017, May 8). Controversies in Narcissism. Annual Review of Clinical Psychology, 13, 291-315.

8. Pedersen, T. (2021, March 29). What Causes Narcissistic Personality Disorder? PscyhCentral.

9. Firestone, L. (n.d.). In a Relationship with a Narcissist? What You Need to Know About Narcissistic Relationships. PsychAlive.

10. Tempany, A. (2010, September 3). When narcissism becomes pathological. Financial Times.

11. Potter, B. (2019, June 3). Narcissus: How Vanity can be Evil. Classical Wisdom.

12. Queen’s University Belfast. (2019, October 29). Narcissism can lower stress levels and reduce chances of depression. ScienceDaily.

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Beware Of The Narcissists Coming For You

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he holidays are here, and no one wants to be alone. Still, a word to the wise, some narcissists would like to target you for nothing more than to win you over sexually, financially, or enjoy the pleasure they derive from trapping you into a life-draining relationship leaving you confused and with self-doubt.

When we are the most vulnerable, these individuals who have this personality disorder will search for prey. Initially, they romance their victims with absolute conviction, speaking of love and the future, hoping to trap their target in a short-lived whirlwind of holiday romance.

Shortly after, they go into the second phase, where they will attempt to exploit and detach you from your self-identity through criticism and to point out your faults. It’s here their deceit, lies, and intentions become apparent, but you find it hard to pull away; you are now their ‘supply.’ And, the insecure and unempathetic huckster will never leave you the way they found you.

While no one is expected to pull out the psychologist’s go-to handbook, the DSM-V, for diagnosing, here are some warning signs when meeting someone who seems too good to be true.

TRUST YOUR GUT; RED FLAGS TO WATCH FOR

1. Lack of empathy; they act without care for your feelings. They will disregard your explaining that they have slighted or hurt you by their actions every time it occurs.

Notice they will never say or mean they are sorry for any of their actions, and they will tell you that you’re too sensitive.

2. When questioned about their past relationships, some will describe

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having been in a dysfunctional one that may have lasted years but filled with sexual promiscuity, adultery, substance abuse (not only with them but their co-dependent mate too). Likely, there was constant lying, deceit, and often, all of these

behaviors combined. Others have dozens of short-term relationships, which they will claim wasn’t their fault.

3. Watch for the person who is the life of the party, attempting at every avenue to gain acceptance, stand out, excessively flirts, and be falsely charming. These people need a ‘supply’ of attention and future victims, so they are always hunting.

Inevitably, you are only one in the stable of many.

4. They are particularly private about simple things like all their phone notifications are silenced when you are around. They don’t keep anything personal where it can be seen, and they refuse to answer questions directly, instead use word salad, leaving you to wonder what they just said?

5. When they feel you won’t give in to their requests for you supplying everything to enrich them financially and emotionally, they often become agitated, verbally abusive, and

hostile; expect to be blamed for the argument.

6. You will often hear women call themselves “old-fashioned” and believe you are responsible for all expenses. They will spend your money like water, only to tell you they need money—the reward is usually false attention, promises of a future, or sexual pleasure without emotional connection.

If you refuse, you’ll be called cheap. For women, you will be left paying for dates over and over because his wallet was left at home or a payroll check never made it into the mailbox. And, when he promises to pay you back, forget about it; that investment is history.

7. If you’ve planned an event or trip with your new narcissist, and you’re paying, don’t count on being called back as the winner. Sound confusing? It is, you may be one of many suitors who are submitting bids for their attention; know the person offering the luxurious outcome will win, leaving you empty.

8. Risky behavior is another sign you may have made a wrong choice; unprotected sex, reckless driving, excessive consumption of alcohol.

These types of behaviors fit the profile of a sociopath. You may also notice that while you gaze at them, they are looking at someone else.

This year, give yourself a gift, don’t get tangled with the person looking to control you, rebuke you and take you for all you are worth. Better to be a little lonely than to become filled with remorse and an empty bank account. H

All Eyes Are On You and Your Money egional financial institutions are taking the lead by requesting the public’s support opposing the proposed expansion of tax information reporting.

House Speaker Nancy Pelosi (D-Calif.) recently told reporters that a controversial tax reporting provision would be included in their budget reconciliation package requiring banks to report information to the Internal Revenue Service on gross inflows and outflows of customer accounts above a certain threshold. This legislation would allow the US government full access to every citizen’s personal financial information and documentation.

Speaker Pelosi did not specify what that threshold would be, although

Democrats have eyed a $10,000 threshold, up from the $600 initially proposed by the Biden administration. House Democrats have not yet agreed on the details of a final reconciliation package, and no vote has been scheduled at this time.

The American Bankers Association aggressively oppose this tax reporting proposal at any dollar threshold, calling it “bad tax policy,” and urging lawmakers to reject it from any future legislation.

In a recent letter to lawmakers, the American Bankers Association noted that “the impact on average Americans and the safety and privacy of their financial information will remain the same regard-

less of the threshold amount. In the end, whether it is average workers or self-employed citizens, virtually all Americans will be subject to this new reporting.” It may be time to have your voices heard and your finances kept private—if that is even possible. H

What Four Out of Five Dentists Won’t Tell You… There is a Better Way to Whiten Your Smile

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f your eyes are the windows to your soul, then your smile must be the path to your heart.

Today, the public spends millions of dollars on fillers, surgery, hair, and makeup; they also dump a fortune into their mouths. Braces and teeth whitening products are promoted everywhere you look; there are gels, lights, pastes, and rinses, all claiming to contain the magic ingredients to make your smile shine.

At the same time, dentists have been promoting their in-office techniques as superior to over-the-counter products. We have heard from many that this boutique-type of whitening services are costly and produce mini-

mal results. In part, because once the treatment is performed, there are long lapses between the next one, leading back to discoloration of the enamel.

After investigation, we determined that an effective and inexpensive means for brightening your smile is at your retailer—and you’ll be shocked at the price.

For two weeks, we followed a regiment of once in the morning and then again in the evening; brushing with Crest’s Baking Soda & Peroxide Whitening, With Tartar Protection, followed by Market Basket’s Multi-Action Whitening RinseAlcohol Free. The results were astounding! The dual products brought a glow to everyone’s mouth, and the changes were evident almost immediately.

Drink black coffee and red wine— no problem; the more we use the two products, the better the results.

For under $10.00, you have more than a month’s supply of two effective products when used together. H NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | NOVEMBER 2021 | 55

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Intimacy

You, Your Honey, and Money

BY ANDREW AARON, LICSW

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ur lives are awash in money. Almost everything we do includes a financial transaction. Finances are on the short-list of most difficult topics for couples because of the subject’s potential for discomfort and conflict. More often than not, spending expresses personal values and emotional strength; making extravagant purchases is often passionate and reveals our needs and desires.

Money stress is common with couples dealing with financial restraints; the lack of financial security creates a divide, causing boundaries to be broken.

Our capitalistic society exacerbates problems, which encourages adding more debt to our lives, only to be aided by the media’s efforts to stoke our desires for the next great thing they tell us we need to own. Adding to the mix is a financial industry that continuously offers easy-to-obtain credit, often to those who are not credit-worthy.

Couples with accumulated debt are the norm, and it is causing serious relationship issues. The emotional burden of stress and insecurity it invokes creates a poor environment for a satisfying love relationship.

Debt also reduces the possibility of building wealth and experiencing financial freedom.

Partners either pool their incomes or operate

separately. The poolers have a financial advantage if they cooperate. Although, when combining resources, there is some surrender of individuality and a greater need to trust a partner. Loving while being an excellent financial team is more complex because the partner with higher income or greater control over the money will have more power.

Money imbalances amplify relationship power struggles. Personal strength is required to maintain the openness of a love relationship and be a good money manager. It takes discipline to stick with a financial plan and delayed gratification to curb impulsive spending.

Money choices involve risk, and saving or investing depends on each person’s risk tolerance in the relationship.

Partners who struggle with insecurity and anxiety are prone to low-risk tolerance. When paired with a partner who enjoys the excitement of risk-taking, the tension between partners is sure to build and create separation.

Other issues include partners who suffer low-self esteem and are susceptible to using money to feel better through compulsive shopping or gambling; behaviors that bust a budget and create financial hardship.

Partners who function as a financial team can live a good life because of their compatibility concerning money. In reaching common goals, partners tend to be emotionally strong and balanced. When couples communicate and consult each other about money matters, they demonstrate respect and love for their partner. H Andrew Aaron, LICSW, is a sex and relationship therapist who practices in the New Bedford Seaport.

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he snowflakes will begin to fall, and what the weather might not supply skiers, riders, and tubers for pleasure, blasting snow guns will coat the northeast slopes with plenty of fluff.

November is for pulling out the gear you hurriedly stashed away when the weather warmed in March, now to find a broken buckle or a torn sleeve. It’s the month when the annual Boston Ski Show comes to town, and you get to decide if some new equipment might make for a lovely holiday gift under the tree.

Then there is shopping and lots of it to do. Supplies will be limited because of port slowdowns and a politically made labor crisis; if this prediction comes true, you better pull your list together and start early; it will make for a relaxing holiday season.

Most importantly—captured by the spirit of the season—it is the time when we reflect on our good fortune, health, and the importance of family and friends.

Get out and breathe some fresh air, don’t complain about the weather—dress for it, better yet, find a winter sport that will give you the thrills and spills that make you feel a decade or two younger. H NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | NOVEMBER 2021 | 61

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Women’s World Cup Ski Racing Returns to Killington in November

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ermont ski resort, Killington, the largest ski and snowboard resort in Eastern North America, welcomes spectators and athletes to the HomeLight Killington Cup. The traditional, international event will be held on Thanksgiving weekend— November 27-28, 2021.

The races will be broadcast worldwide to more than 60 nations, along with national coverage across the United States. Interest draws just shy of 40,000 attendees, and is called one of the top three events on the Women’s FIS World Cup tour with spectators.

Major attractions to this year’s World Cup races are US Alpine Ski Team superstar and two-time Olympic champion Mikaela Shiffrin, who has emerged victorious in slalom each of the last four years at Killington. Also, the opportunity to witness 2021 overall World Cup winner Petra Vlhova from Slovakia; slalom globe winner Katharina Liensberger of Austria; and giant slalom globe winner Marta Bassino of Italy, who will compete for a podium finish. H For more information visit, killington.com.

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adison Square Garden Entertainment and the Westminster Kennel Club have announced that tickets for the 146th Annual Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show are now on sale.

The Westminster Kennel Club, established in 1877, is America’s oldest organization dedicated to the sport of dogs. Its mission, which enhances the lives of all dogs, celebrates the companionship of dogs, promotes responsible dog ownership and breed preservation.

The Club hosts the iconic, all-breed Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show, the second-longest continuously held

sporting event in the US, and since 1948, the longest nationally televised live dog show. Its annual “Best in Show” winner is affectionately known as “America’s Dog.” H Now is an incredible opportunity to attend a show you’ve watched over and over on television. Tickets for Tuesday, January 25, and Wednesday, January 26, are available at msg. com/dogshow.

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FREE ADMISSION Admission and parking are free, and purchases are tax-free. There is a handicap-accessible entrance at the rear of the building and handicap facilities in the Armory. Major credit cards are accepted on all purchases. H Visit foundryshow.com for more information.

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