Curated Magazine - Issue 17 from SewEndipitous

No. 17 | June 2024

Featured Designer

If you had told me when I was younger that I would be an artist and designer as a career, I likely would have laughed. I was a calculus nerd...a language disecter...addicted to equations, structure, and scientific explanations, so it was easy for me to graduate with a B.S. in Aviation Technology from Purdue University and go on as a commercial pilot Graphs, charts, weights & balances, the physics associated with flight were so achievable and understandable for me in every way. Then I married a military man and was whisked off to different locations leaving my aviation career behind me. I found my niche for creating, painting, and quilting while adapting to my new "military wife life " But here's the thing color and design are, in fact, extremely mathematical in this crazy brain of mine, and I absolutely adore tapping into my creative genes (thanks, Gramma Dittman!) to be the designer and artist I am today.

SARIDITTY came about as a mix of my childhood nickname, Sari (rhymes with 'cherry'), and my high school/college nickname, Ditty A "ditty" made by Sari a SARIDITTY!

From Puerto Rico to Indiana then South Carolina and Oklahoma, I am officially a West Virginia "Mountain Momma" now, and you will absolutely find me in one of a handful of locations: in my kitchen cooking or baking up mouthwatering creations; playing or cuddling with my boxer dogs; knee deep in our huge garden with produce and flowers galore; at my desk drawing, sketching, designing; out at the barn loving on my sweet Thoroughbred; in the studio stitching up a storm; running, cycling, hiking, or practicing yoga & Pilates; or enjoying Game Night with my perfect-for-me husband and parents, who recently moved nearby (that's a good thing!) Everything I do and every bit of who I have become influence my ideas for fabric and patterns. I sincerely enjoy bringing bits of my personal history back to life to share with you through art, pattern, and design!

Website: www.Sariditty.com

Monika’s

Sarah Thomas Sariditty

Rainbow Spice

It’s time to spice things up a bit with this full-spectrum collection of low-volume prints from Sarah Thomas of SARIDITTY. Rainbow Spice once again combines Sarah’s own sketches, doodles, and quilting patterns with a vibrant palette of saturated and intense hues. This collection is a celebration of autumn favorites: cranberry muffins, mulled wine, fresh cider, pumpkin patches, apple picking, changing leaves, and quilting, of course!

Manufacturer: Moda Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Sariditty

Group Name: Rainbow Spice

Theme: Blenders

Aubergine

Butternut

27

Aster 45046 14

Cranberry 45044 33

22

Toasted Pecan 45045 28

Chrysanthemum 45045 14

33

Peridot 45045 26

Eggplant 45044 17

45045 21

Sunset 45043 34

Truffle 45047

Topaz 45047

Burning Bush 45046

Alexandrite 45046 19

Peacock

Pumpkin 45042 31

Emerald 45042 23

Bean 45043 11

45042 19

Vanilla

Tanzanite

HEALING THREADS THE ART & SPIRITUALITY OF PRAYER QUILTS

by: Steve Baker, SewEndipitous

A unique form of artistry unfolds in the quiet corners of homes, churches, and community centers worldwide It's a practice that weaves together threads of faith, hope, and love into a tangible symbol of spiritual connection This is the world of prayer quilts, a tradition steeped in rich cultural significance and profound personal meaning

A prayer quilt, at its most basic, is a quilt that is made with prayer. Each stitch, each piece of fabric, is imbued with a prayer or a wish for the person it is intended for. It's a physical manifestation of intercession, a way to wrap someone in the warmth of prayer. However, to truly understand the depth of this practice, one must delve into the cultural tapestry from which it springs.

Across cultures and continents, prayer quilts have served as a significant spiritual tool They are not just pieces of fabric sewn together but a sacred space where prayers, thoughts, and wishes are interwoven into each thread In some cultures, they are seen as a bridge between the earthly and the divine, a way to carry prayers to higher powers In others, they are a form of communal support, a way for a community to wrap its collective arms around a member in need

The importance and significance of prayer quilts are as diverse as the cultures they come from Yet, they all share a common thread - the belief in the healing power of prayer and the comfort of knowing that you are not alone This is the heart of the prayer quilt tradition, a testament to the human spirit's resilience and the power of faith.

HISTORY OF PRAYER QUILTS

When it comes to the historical aspects of many quilting origins, the true beginnings are often difficult to discover. To begin, the concept of the prayer quilt seems to have been around for ages but may not have carried the specific designation of "prayer quilt." For example, the names "hope quilt", "comfort quilt," and the like share many of the same intentions and purposes.

While we're going to take a broader look at prayer quilts here in their many forms, indeed, today's predominate presence and driving influence appear to have started with the Prayer Quilt Ministry's "Prayers & Squares," which, according to their website, "is an interfaith outreach organization that combines the gift of prayer with the gift of a hand-tied quilt The purpose of Prayers & Squares is to promote prayer through the use of quilts " They have chapters all over the world dedicated to the prayer quilt mission

Many cultures have embraced the concept of prayer quilts, which are a testament to the human spirit's resilience and the power of faith The tradition of creating and using quilts or other handmade items to inspire hope and healing can be traced back to ancient civilizations.

quilts or other handmade items to inspire hope and healing can be traced back to ancient civilizations These cultures believed in the power of intention and prayer and often incorporated these beliefs into their textile arts. With its intricate patterns and stitches, the quilt was seen as a tangible manifestation of these prayers and intentions. Each stitch was a silent prayer or wish for the recipient, imbuing the quilt with a spiritual significance beyond its physical form. Indeed, many a quilt was made with a similar intention, which we often call the "quilter's heart."

EVOLUTION OF PRAYER QUILTS OVER TIME

Over the centuries, the tradition of prayer quilts has evolved and adapted to the changing times. While the core concept of infusing each stitch with a prayer or intention has remained, the designs, materials, and creation methods have varied considerably.

Today, the concept of prayer quilts is a more modern practice that is best understood as outlined by the practices of the Prayer Quilt Ministry Prayer quilts are made by individuals and groups worldwide for various reasons - to provide comfort during illness or grief, to celebrate joyous occasions like births or weddings, or simply as a form of meditation and spiritual expression Despite the changes over time, the essence of the prayer quilt remains the same - a tangible symbol of love, care, and prayer

THE MAKING OF A PRAYER QUILT

Creating a prayer quilt is a labor of love, requiring patience and attention to detail It begins with selecting fabrics and then arranging them in a pleasing pattern Once the layout is decided, the squares or other shapes are sewn together to form the top layer of the quilt. Batting is placed between this top layer and a piece of fabric that serves as the quilt's back. The three layers are then sewn together, often with additional decorative stitching. The final step is adding ties or knots regularly across the quilt. These are typically added by the individuals praying over the quilt, with each knot or tie representing a prayer or intention.

The Role of Prayer and Intention in the Creation Process

The creation of a prayer quilt is not just a physical process but a spiritual one as well Each step, from the selection of materials to the final knotting, is imbued with prayer and intention The maker(s) of the quilt often pray as they work, asking for blessings, healing, or comfort for the individual who will receive the quilt The knots or ties

The creation of a prayer quilt is not just a physical process but a spiritual one as well Each step, from the selection of materials to the final knotting, is imbued with prayer and intention The maker(s) of the quilt often pray as they work, asking for blessings, healing, or comfort for the individual who will receive the quilt The knots or ties added at the end represent specific prayers and are a physical manifestation of the love and care that has gone into the quilt This spiritual aspect sets prayer quilts apart from other types of quilts and is a vital part of their significance and power

THE SYMBOLISM IN PRAYER QUILTS

As symbols and color meanings vary across cultures, beliefs, and regions, so will their use

Prayer quilts are not just pieces of fabric stitched together; they are a canvas where symbols and colors intertwine to create a narrative of faith, hope, and love Common symbols used in prayer quilts often include crosses, hearts, and doves, each representing different aspects of spirituality Crosses symbolize faith and redemption, hearts represent love and compassion, and doves are a universal symbol of peace.

Colors also play a significant role in the symbolism of prayer quilts. For instance, blue often represents peace and tranquility, while green symbolizes renewal and growth. Red, on the other hand, is frequently used to signify love and passion. Again, it is essential to understand that these meanings can vary greatly and may be misconstrued by other faiths, so knowing the recipient personally is an integral part of the process

How Personal Experiences and Beliefs Can Influence the Design

The design of a prayer quilt is deeply personal and often reflects the creator's experiences and beliefs or those of the intended recipient For instance, a quilt for someone battling illness might include symbols of strength and resilience, such as an oak tree or a mountain

Knowing one's spiritual beliefs will significantly influence the design Christians might incorporate crosses or fish symbols, while Buddhists might include lotus flowers or the symbol for Om.

In the end, each prayer quilt is a unique piece of art, imbued with the creator's intentions and prayers and a testament to the healing power of faith and creativity.

THE ROLE OF PRAYER QUILTS IN COMMUNITIES

Prayer quilts are a significant part of many religious and spiritual ceremonies They are often used as a tangible symbol of faith, love, and compassion. In some communities, for instance, the clergy often bless prayer quilts before they are given to the intended recipient. During the blessing, prayers are said for the recipient's health, peace, and well-being. In other spiritual traditions, prayer quilts may be used in meditation or healing rituals, serving as a focal point for the practitioner's intentions.

The Impact of Gifting and Receiving Prayer Quilts

The act of gifting a prayer quilt is a profound expression of empathy and care It means saying, "I am with you in your struggle " Receiving a prayer quilt can be a profoundly moving experience for the recipient It is not just a piece of fabric but a tangible manifestation of love and support It can provide comfort during times of distress and serve as a reminder of the community's care and concern

Stories of Healing and Comfort Associated with Prayer Quilts

There are countless stories of individuals finding comfort and healing through prayer quilts. For some, it's the warmth and comfort the quilt provides during a difficult time. For others, the prayers and good wishes imbued in every stitch bring solace. There are stories of people who, while battling illness, found strength in the prayer quilt they received. Others speak of the comfort they felt knowing that each knot in the quilt represented a prayer said for them personally. These stories underscore the prayer quilts' powerful role in providing emotional and spiritual support to needy individuals

MODERN DAY PRAYER QUILTS

Current Trends and Styles in Prayer Quilt Making

Prayer quilts have evolved to reflect contemporary aesthetics and personal tastes in the modern era While traditional patterns and symbols are still widely used, there is a growing trend towards more abstract and unique designs Some quilters incorporate modern art techniques, such as appliqué and free-motion quilting, to create visually striking prayer quilts that are as much a piece of art as a spiritual tool. Some incorporate especially meaningful designs to the recipient based on their interests, hobbies, careers, dreams, and ambitions. The possibilities are endless but personal.

designs Some quilters incorporate modern art techniques, such as appliqué and free-motion quilting, to create visually striking prayer quilts that are as much a piece of art as a spiritual tool Some incorporate especially meaningful designs to the recipient based on their interests, hobbies, careers, dreams, and ambitions The possibilities are endless but personal

The Influence of Technology and Social Media on the Spread and Popularity of Prayer Quilts

The advent of technology and social media have significantly impacted the world of prayer quilts Online platforms have become a hub for quilters to share their creations, exchange patterns, and offer support and encouragement. Social media has also played a crucial role in spreading awareness about the spiritual significance of prayer quilts, attracting a new generation of quilters.

Moreover, the internet has made it possible for people to learn the art of prayer quilt-making from the comfort of their homes. Numerous online tutorials and workshops are available for beginners and experienced quilters alike This accessibility has contributed to the resurgence of interest in prayer quilts and their role in spiritual practices

I WANT TO MAKE MY OWN PRAYER QUILT

In all the research I used for this article, I didn't find references to self-made prayer quilts, but the topic is too important not to mention or consider

For many, spirituality is deeply personal and something they don't share with others Or, perhaps they aren't surrounded by people who either know about prayer quilts or are of different faiths yet still want one. As these quilts can be a powerful tool for personal reflection and spiritual growth, I've pulled together some suggestions on using a prayer quilt you made for yourself. These may also help you build a closer connection with a quilt you were gifted.

4. Comfort and Reassurance: Use your prayer quilt in times of stress or uncertainty Wrap yourself in it as a physical reminder of your faith, intentions, and personal strength

5. Gratitude Practice: Use your quilt as a tool for gratitude practice. As you touch each knot or stitch, think of something you're grateful for. This can be a powerful way to shift your mindset and cultivate a more positive outlook.

6. Tie Your Own Knots: Continue tying knots until no string is left. Try a daily prayer, tying a new knot each day. Remember, there are no rules; you can add as many knots to each string length as you want or add new strings as needed Do what works and is meaningful to you

I love the idea of daily prayer quilts, one for each year, with 365 pieces of string! What a beautiful thing to reflect on later in life as an ongoing practice of gratitude and prayer

Remember, the power of a prayer quilt comes not just from its physical form but from the intention and faith that went into its creation As you use your quilt, let it remind you of your spiritual journey and personal growth

In closing, he journey through prayer quilts' history, symbolism, creation, and community impact has been a testament to their profound significance. They are not merely pieces of fabric stitched together but a woven tapestry of faith, hope, and love. Each thread carries a prayer, each color a symbol, and each pattern a story.

Prayer quilts have evolved, adapting to the changing world while maintaining their spiritual essence. They have been a source of comfort and healing, a tangible manifestation of prayers and good wishes They have brought communities together, bridging gaps between generations and cultures

1. Use it During Prayer or Meditation: Incorporate your prayer quilt into your daily or weekly spiritual practices As you pray or meditate, hold onto your quilt or drape it over your shoulders The tactile sensation can help ground you in the moment and deepen your connection to your spiritual practice

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Dedicate Your Quilt: If you made the prayer quilt yourself, begin by dedicating your quilt to its purpose. This could be a specific prayer, a general intention, or a personal goal You might want to say a prayer or perform a small ceremony to mark this dedication

2 Reflect on its Symbolism: Each stitch, each piece of fabric, and each color in your quilt holds meaning Spend time reflecting on these elements and what they represent for you This can be a form of meditation in itself

The world of prayer quilts is a rich tapestry waiting to be explored It is an art form that combines creativity with spirituality, a craft that allows for personal expression while serving a higher purpose Whether you create your own prayer quilt, gift one to a loved one, or appreciate their beauty and significance, you are participating in a tradition that has brought comfort and healing to many

The threads of these quilts reflect our shared human experience the hopes, fears, joys, and sorrows They remind us of the power of prayer, the comfort of faith, and the healing potential of love and compassion. As we move forward, let us carry these lessons with us, stitched forever into the fabric of our lives.

I Heart Kitsch

Please welcome, 1970's London inspired, Chelsea Garden. Featuring lush florals picked right from the show gardens of Chelsea and extravagant

Manufacturer: Michael Miller Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Aimee Stewart

Group Name: I Heart Kitsch

Theme: Novelty

DDC11641-AQUA-D RETRO BABY ANIMALS

DDC11642-REDX-D KITSCHY POM POMS

DDC11645-AQUA-D KITSCHY MUSHROOMS

DDC11641-PINK-D RETRO BABY ANIMALS

DDC11643-CREM-D KITSCHY CATS

DDC11645-BLAC-D KITSCHY MUSHROOMS

DDC11642-ORAN-D KITSCHY POM POMS

DDC11643-REDX-D KITSCHY CATS

DDC11646-PEAC-D KITSCHY KIDS

DDC11647-BLUE-D KITSCHY CARDS

DDC11648-PINK-D KITSCHY CHERRIES

DDC11648-BLAC-D KITSCHY CHERRIES

DDC11648-CREM-D KITSCHY CHERRIES

Strawberry Season

This collection was inspired by sunny, summer months, petite strawberry blossoms, and warm bursting berries. Twenty-two beautifully illustrated prints compose the Strawberry Season line. With a perfect blend of dark and light values, this quilt friendly collection makes any sewing project a breeze!

Manufacturer: Robert Kaufman Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Briar Hill Designs

Group Name: Strawberry Season

Theme: Florals/Summer

Strawberries

Camellia # ABYD22314122

Seeds Moss # ABYD2231845

Slate ABYD-22311-66

Strawberries

Seafoam # ABYD22314241

Seeds Strawberry # ABYD2231898

FIVE in Squares 42pcs # CHS-120942

Strawberry Tonal Azalea # ABYD22317301

Slate ABYD-22317-66

TEN-1273-42

Complete Collection Ten Square

Seeds White # ABYD223181

Cranberry ABYD-22317-113

Teddy Bears Picnic

A splendid summer picnic for the Lewis & Irene teddy bears! A feast of honey, bees, bears, strawberries and fun. There’s a super combination of designs in this cheerful collection of fabrics.

Manufacturer: Lewis & Irene Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Lewis & Irene

Group Name: Teddy Bears Picnic

Theme: Novelty

DOUBLE EDGE BORDER PRINT A791

STRAWBERRY BEE FLORAL ON DUCK EGG A795.3

HONEY

STRAWBERRIES ON DUCK

A794 2

STRAWBERRY

HONEY BEE ON DUCK EGG

STRAWBERRIES ON CREAM

STRAWBERRY

Hey Boo

If you've got it, haunt it. Let's get spooky with a wickedly cute collection starring a pastel pumpkin patch, daisies, friendly ghosts, pretty cobwebs, magical stars, and more. Get your sugar rush on with the cheeriest candy color palette that is sure to put a spell on you. Bring your favorite haunted holiday to life by stitching up frightfully fun quilts, pillows, and bags for trick-or-treating. The scariest thing about this collection is how much you will love it - to death.

Manufacturer: Moda Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Lella Boutique

Group Name: Hey Boo Theme: Halloween

Ghost 5210 11

Bubble Gum Pink 5210 13 Midnight 5210 16

Witchy Green 5210 17

Soft Pumpkin 5211 12

Witchy Green 5211 17

Midnight 5212 16

Love Potion Pink 5211 14

Soft Pumpkin 5212 12

Soft Pumpkin 5213 12

Purple Haze 5211 15

Love Potion Pink 5212 14

Bubble Gum Pink 5213 13

Midnight 5211 16

Purple Haze 5212 15

Love Potion Pink 5213 14

5215 11

5215 16

Midnight 5213 16

Ghost

Midnight

Witchy Green 5213 17

Soft Pumpkin 5215 12

Witchy Green 5215 17

Soft Pumpkin 5214 12

Bubble Gum Pink 5215 13

Ghost White 5215 21

Bubble Gum Pink 5214 13

Purple Haze 5215 15

Multi Panel 5216 11

Pumpkin Patch

Pumpkin Patch was inspired by one of Janet’s original watercolors, depicting a jacko-lantern character named Boo. The image was digitally distressed to resemble a vintage poster on a whitewashed fence. The pumpkin patch theme is further carried through showcasing 1800’s illustrations of seedy characters on vegetable seed packets. A few of the artist’s collected vintage labels and postcards were used for the two patch panels. The border stripe and story prints are a blend of an unusual book “The Vege-men’s Revenge by Florence K. Upton, verses by Bertha Upton, in public domain and Janet’s own watercolors. Pumpkin Patch is great for quilting, apparel and home decor.

Manufacturer: Riley Blake Designs

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: J. Wecker Frisch

Group Name: Pumpkin Patch Theme: Halloween

BARN DANCE BORDER STRIPE WHITE CD14573-WHITE

SEED PACKS TOSS BLACK CD14579-BLACK

SEED PACKS TOSS WHITE CD14579-WHITE

SEED PACKS TOSS ORANGE CD14579-ORANGE

LARGE PUMPKIN PATCH PANEL PD14571-PANEL

SEEDY CHARACTERS PATCH PANEL PD14572-PANEL

BLACK C14574BLACK

PUMPKIN TOSS BLACK C14575-BLACK

RAISE THE ROOFTOP BLACK C14577-BLACK

PUMPKIN TOSS ORANGE C14575-ORANGE

RAISE THE ROOFTOP GRAY C14577-GRAY

ORANGE C14574ORANGE

PUMPKIN TOSS WHITE C14575-WHITE

RAISE THE ROOFTOP ORANGE C14577-ORANGE

GINGHAM

GINGHAM GRAY C14574GRAY

GINGHAM

TERRIFYING TICKING BLACK C14578-BLACK

TOSSED

TERRIFYING TICKING GRAY C14578-GRAY

TERRIFYING TICKING ORANGE C14578-ORANGE

SILVER LINING STRIPE YELLOW C14581-YELLOW

TOSSED JACKS YELLOW C14580-YELLOW

SILVER LINING STRIPE WHITE C14581-WHITE

TOSSED JACKS WHITE C14580-WHITE

SILVER LINING STRIPE ORANGE C14581-ORANGE

JACKS BLACK C14580-BLACK

INSIDE CLOVER BLACK C14582-BLACK

VEGGIES VENGEANCE BLACK C14583-BLACK

VINTAGE VEGGIES BLACK C14584-BLACK

INSIDE CLOVER GRAY C14582-GRAY

VEGGIES VENGEANCE ORANGE C14583-ORANGE

VINTAGE VEGGIES GRAY C14584-GRAY

INSIDE CLOVER ORANGE C14582-ORANGE

VEGGIES VENGEANCE WHITE C14583-WHITE

BARN DANCE BORDER STRIPE WHITE CD14573WHITE

Black & Boo

There’s nothing scary about these fun fabrics! We’ve gathered our most popular Halloween prints into one eerie-sistible fabric line. Ghosts, spiderwebs, cats and skeletons all in the spookiest Halloween colors You’ll have a scream creating projects with this glow-in-the-dark collection!

Manufacturer: Bemartex Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Kanvas Studio

Group Name: Black & Boo

Theme: Halloween

SAY BOO ORANGE 14561G-28

WEBBY PURPLE 14562G-66

SCAREDY CATS ORANGE 14564G-38

SAY BOO GREEN 14561G-44

LITTLE STARS & MOONS BLACK 14563G-12

SCAREDY CATS PURPLE 14564G-66

WEBBY BLACK 14562G-12

LITTLE STARS & MOONS GREEN 14563G-44

LITTLE SKELETONS BLACK 14565G-12

WEBBY ORANGE 14562G-38

LITTLE STARS & MOONS PURPLE 14563G-66

LITTLE SKELETONS ORANGE 14565G-38

Trick or Treat

'Trick or Treat' Fabric Collection, is designed by the talented Patrick Lose for Northcott Fabrics. This vibrant collection features a stunning array of colorful oranges, blacks, and yellows, adorned with whimsical jack-olanterns, assorted candy, and spooky Halloween illustrations Other designs in this fabric collection showcases a variety of geometric designs, perfect for adding a touch of festive fun to your next quilting project. Get ready to create spooktacular quilts and crafts with the 'Trick or Treat' Fabric Collection!

Manufacturer: Northcott Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Patrick Lose

Group Name: Trick Or Treat Theme: Halloween

TRICK OR TREAT - 10476-99

TRICK OR TREAT - 10477-99

TRICK OR TREAT - 10478-99

TRICK OR TREAT - 10480-11

TRICK OR TREAT - 10480-98

TRICK OR TREAT - 10482-59

TRICK OR TREAT - 10483-57

TRICK OR TREAT - 10479-54

TRICK OR TREAT - 10481-59

TRICK OR TREAT - 10484-10

HANDLING DISAPPOINTMENT WITH GRACE STRATEGIES FOR DEALING WITH UNGRATEFUL GIFT RECIPIENTS

by: Steve Baker, SewEndipitous

If you have ever poured your heart and soul into creating a one-of-a-kind handmade gift for someone, only to be met with indifference or even ingratitude, you know how deeply hurtful it can be Truthfully? It sucks! Bad!

It can be a crushing experience, leaving you feeling unappreciated and disheartened. It can cut deep and leave lasting scars. If we're being completely honest, it can also result in downright explosive anger that can result in irreparable consequences if not managed with restraint and grace.

When working in a quilt shop, the air is typically filled with joy and laughter, and people relishing their time in their happy place. However, there are still those rare moments (moments I would like to see go away completely) that arise with the retelling and heartbreaking story of a handmade quilt or other specially sewn gift that was met with indifference or downright inappropriate responses by entitled or ungrateful recipients Witnessing these tear-filled moments doesn't come easy, and I find it challenging to manage my own emotions, so I can only imagine the hurt and feelings of betrayal that are behind them It's a lot!

Here, we will explore the complex emotions that arise when dealing with ungrateful or unappreciative gift recipients and provide practical strategies for navigating these challenging situations with grace and resilience With a deep breath, let's delve into the delicate art of managing expectations, setting boundaries, and finding peace in the face of disappointment. For the sake of the relationships involved, it is important to find ways to navigate these emotions and handle the situations with dignity.

Handmade gifts often require hours of work, attention to detail, and a personal touch that cannot be replicated with store-bought items Creating something with your hands can be a deeply meaningful and fulfilling experience, as it allows you to express your creativity and show your love and appreciation for the recipient The emotional investment in handmade gifts is not just about the physical materials used but also about the sentiment and care woven into every stitch or design This emotional connection makes receiving an ungrateful response particularly hurtful and challenging to navigate. A gift's rejection feels like a personal rejection, which can be impossible to separate, especially at the moment.

UNDERSTANDING UNGRATEFULNESS

So here comes the tricky part. The last thing we want to do when it feels like someone has just stabbed us in the heart is to seek understanding This is the part where we take the high road, dig as deeply as possible at the moment, even when that is the last thing we want to do, and practice radical empathy

Yes, we want to lash out in hurt, but let's try something different for the sake of the relationships involved and our serenity and healing inside our bruised hearts. And yes, it hurts to be the grown-up in these situations but bear with me. Here, we will seek understanding, not allow for excuses or justifications; we will look for the knowledge of differing perspectives, going into this with the assumption that someone's responses weren't just to hurt or break us but a knowledge that perhaps other emotions were at play

Ingratitude, particularly in the context of receiving gifts, can be a complex issue to navigate It's essential to understand that the reasons behind such reactions can be multifaceted and deeply personal

One primary reason some people may not appreciate handmade gifts is societal conditioning In a world where material possessions are often equated with success and status, handmade gifts may hold a different perceived value than store-bought items. This perception can be particularly prevalent among individuals who place a high value on brand names and the prestige they carry. A problem we continue to see an increase with the prevalence of social media

Another reason could be related to personal taste and preferences Handmade gifts are often unique and may not align with the recipient's style or preference For instance, a hand-knitted sweater might not be appreciated by someone who prefers minimalist, store-bought clothing or secondhand clothing, which is important to those who practice sustainability as a way of life

Additionally, some people may simply not understand the time, effort, and thought that goes into creating a handmade gift. They may not realize that these gifts often carry a more profound emotional significance than massproduced items. This lack of understanding can lead to a lack of appreciation for the gift and, by extension, the gift giver. While this may be true for many people, it is very much the case in the younger generations never exposed to the arts and crafts we take for granted While it may seem obvious to us, they may be utterly ignorant about why we would take handmade gift-giving so seriously Many argue, myself included, that we are culturally facing a deficiency in basic manners and etiquette today, which adds to the problem

the arts and crafts we take for granted While it may seem obvious to us, they may be utterly ignorant about why we would take handmade gift-giving so seriously. Many argue, myself included, that we are culturally facing a deficiency in basic manners and etiquette today, which adds to the problem.

Ungratefulness can have a profound impact on the gift giver It can lead to feelings of disappointment, rejection, and even resentment The gift giver may have spent considerable time and effort creating a unique gift, only to have it unappreciated or outright rejected This can be particularly disheartening if the gift was made with love and care, intending to bring joy to the recipient

Moreover, the gift giver may start questioning their abilities or taste, leading to a decrease in self-esteem They may also feel less inclined to give in the future, which can impact their relationships and interactions with others.

In extreme cases, the gift giver may feel used or taken for granted, especially if the ungrateful behavior is recurring. This can strain the relationship and create a sense of distance or disconnect.

Understanding this lack of gratitude requires empathy and perspective It's crucial to remember that everyone has different tastes, values, and understandings of what constitutes a meaningful gift As a gift giver, it's essential not to take reactions personally and to understand that appreciation often depends more on the recipient's perspective than the gift itself Granted, it's a challenging thing to do!

COPING STRATEGIES

Managing disappointment and hurt feelings when faced with ungrateful people can be challenging. However, it is essential to remember that the act of giving should be a selfless one, and the reaction of the recipient should not diminish the joy and satisfaction derived from the act itself.

Here are some strategies to help you cope with such situations:

1. Reframe Your Thoughts: It's natural to feel hurt when your gift isn't appreciated, but try to reframe your thoughts Instead of focusing on the recipient's reaction, concentrate on the effort and love you put into the gift Remember, the value of a gift lies in the giver's intentions, not the recipient's response

2. Practice Empathy: Try to understand the recipient's perspective. They might be having a tough time or may not understand the value of handmade gifts. Empathy can help you manage your disappointment and prevent it from turning into resentment.

3. Communicate Openly: If you feel comfortable, express your feelings to the recipient. They may not realize how their reaction affected you Open communication can lead to better understanding and prevent similar situations in the future

4. Let Go: Holding onto negative feelings can be harmful Once you've expressed your feelings, try to let go of the disappointment Everyone has different tastes and preferences, and it's okay if someone doesn't appreciate your gift as much as you hoped they would Rejection of the highly personal gift doesn't mean a rejection of you They are two completely different things

5. Self-Care: It's crucial to take care of your emotional health. Engage in activities that make you happy and relaxed. These could be anything from reading a book to taking a walk, meditating, or spending time with loved ones.

6. Seek Support: If your disappointment persists, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional They can provide a fresh perspective and help you navigate your feelings Remember, there is a difference between seeking support and looking for commiseration or someone to take your side Finding understanding can take work

Maintaining perspective is also crucial in these situations Remember that a gift is just a token of love and appreciation The real value lies in your relationship with the person, not their reaction to a gift.

Regarding self-care, it's important to remember that others' reactions do not define your worth. Engage in activities that boost your self-esteem and make you feel valued. This could be pursuing a hobby, spending time in nature, or practicing mindfulness.

Dealing with ungrateful people can be hurtful, but with the right coping strategies, you can manage your disappointment and maintain your emotional well-being Remember, giving is a joy in itself, and no one's reaction should have the power to take that away from you

COMMUNICATION TECHNIQUES

Addressing ungratefulness with the recipient can be a delicate task, but it is essential for maintaining healthy relationships and managing expectations. Here are some strategies to consider:

1. Open Dialogue: Start by having an open and honest conversation Express your feelings without blaming or criticizing Use "I" statements to communicate how you feel For example, instead of saying, "You are ungrateful for the gift I gave you," you might say, "I felt hurt when I noticed that you didn't appreciate the gift I made for you "

2. Active Listening: Ensure you listen to their side of the story They might have reasons for their reaction that you hadn't considered Active listening involves hearing the words and understanding the emotions and intentions behind them

3. Non-Verbal Communication: Pay attention to non-verbal cues. Body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice can provide valuable insights into the other person's feelings and attitudes.

4. Empathy: Try to understand the situation from their perspective. This doesn't mean you have to agree with them, but showing empathy can help to defuse tension and open up a more constructive dialogue

Setting boundaries and managing expectations are crucial to dealing with ungrateful gift recipients Here are some tips:

1. Be Clear: Clearly communicate your expectations If you've put a lot of effort into a handmade gift, let the recipient know, then let it go This can help them to appreciate the time and effort you've invested They may genuinely not understand the importance of it to you.

2. Set Boundaries: It's essential to set boundaries to protect your feelings. If a person consistently reacts negatively to your gifts, it might be time to reconsider the nature of your gift-giving or the relationship itself.

3. Self-Care: Remember, taking care of your emotional health is important. If dealing with ungratefulness is causing you significant stress, consider seeking advice from a counselor or therapist

4. Seek Support: Again, if you're finding it difficult to cope, don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or a professional Sometimes, an outside perspective can provide valuable insights and strategies

Remember, communication is a two-way street. While expressing your feelings is essential, listening and trying to understand the other person's perspective is equally important. With patience, empathy, and clear communication, it's possible to address ungratefulness, set healthy boundaries, and manage expectations effectively.

MOVING FORWARD

Reflecting on the gift-giving process can be a powerful tool for personal growth and understanding It's important to remember that giving is a gesture of kindness and love, and the recipient's reaction does not diminish the value of that gesture It's natural to feel hurt when a gift is not received with the expected level of gratitude, but separating the recipient's reaction from your self-worth is crucial

The process of giving is a journey. It's about expressing your feelings for the recipient, not about receiving praise or gratitude in return. If the recipient does not appreciate the gift as much as you hoped, it does not reflect your internal worth, nor their feelings of worth toward you, or your ability to give meaningful gifts. It's a reflection of their perspective and their current state of mind

In moving forward, it's integral to focus on the positive aspects of the gift-giving process Remember the joy you felt in choosing or creating the gift, the anticipation of the recipient's reaction, and the satisfaction of expressing your feelings in a tangible way These positive experiences are the true rewards of giving and are entirely within your control

It's also vital to cultivate a sense of gratitude in your own life. Gratitude is a powerful antidote to disappointment and hurt feelings. It shifts your focus from what you didn't receive to what you have, from the recipient's reaction to your own experiences. It helps you appreciate the joy of giving for its own sake without expecting anything in return.

Moving forward from an experience of ungratefulness involves:

Reflecting on the gift-giving process

Affirming your self-worth

Cultivating a sense of gratitude

It's about learning from the experience, growing, and giving with love and kindness, regardless of the recipient's reaction.

CONCLUSION

In our journey of understanding and handling disappointment with grace, we have encountered various aspects of ungratefulness, coping strategies, communication techniques, and the importance of moving forward The key takeaway from this exploration is that the act of gift-giving reflects our love and thoughtfulness, and the response to our gifts, whether grateful or ungrateful, should not diminish the value of our intentions

Ungratefulness, as we have discussed, can stem from various reasons, including a lack of understanding of the effort put into handmade gifts Importantly, it may also include the receiver's inability to process and express strong emotions in a moment of surprise. They may shut down, which may appear to be a lack of thankfulness or gratitude. However, it's crucial to remember that the value of a gift lies not in its material worth, but in the thought and care that went into its creation. The impact of ungratefulness on the gift giver can be profound, causing disappointment and hurt feelings Yet, it's essential to manage these emotions effectively, maintaining perspective and practicing self-care

Communication techniques play a vital role in addressing a lack of gratitude. They involve setting boundaries, managing expectations, and having open, honest conversations. They also include expressing one's feelings without blaming or shaming the other person and listening to and understanding their perspective.

We know the danger of leaving wounds left to fester. A failed gift-giving moment is best left behind, despite the sacrifices you put into it Moving forward, reflecting on the gift-giving process is essential Remember, the reaction of the gift recipient is about them Use the same love you put into the gift to heal the emotional injury

As we conclude, let's approach gift-giving with grace and resilience Remember that every gift we give is a piece of our heart, a token of our affection, and a symbol of our care Let's not allow the shadow of ungratefulness to dim the light of our generosity. Instead, let's continue to give, not for recognition or gratitude, but for the sheer joy of giving. After all, the act of giving is a gift in itself, a gift that enriches our lives with love, kindness, and grace.

SANTA CHRISTMAS PANEL 43"X43" DP27125-44

Letters to Santa

The "Letters to Santa" Christmas Quilting Fabric Collection by Simon Treadwell for Northcott Fabrics is a festive and charming assortment of traditional greens and reds, perfect for capturing the spirit of the holiday season This collection features a delightful array of holiday elements including snowflakes, Christmas candy, holiday wellwishes, holly, Santa, gift tags, and holiday stamps. Create beautiful and heartwarming quilts, stockings, pillows and other holiday decor with this lovely fabric collection that will bring joy and cheer to your Christmas celebrations.

Manufacturer: Northcott Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Simon Treadwell

Group Name: Letters to Santa Theme: Christmas

LETTERS TO SANTA - DP27127-24

27132-10

DP27129-24 27134-10

27131-24

DP27128-10 27133-74

DP27130-74

27135-74

Christmas Splendor & Winter’s Eve Curated Collections

We’ve curated select pieces from Hoffman Fabrics’ Collections Christmas Splendor & Winter’s Eve filled with beautiful reds, silvers and muted greens sure to chase away the cold weather holiday chills.

Manufacturer: Hoffman Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Hoffman Fabrics

Group Name: Christmas Splendor & Winter’s Eve

Theme: Christmas/Winter

W7783-176S-IceSilver

W7783-D21S-DustyTeal-Silver

W7783-76S-PewterSilver

W7784-176S-IceSilver

W7775-441SWinter-CherrySilver

W7778-441SWinter-CherrySilver

W7780-441SWinter-CherrySilver

W7776-3S-WhiteSilver

W7782-176S-IceSilver

W5360-176S-IceSilver

W7777-441SWinter-CherrySilver

W7781-441SWinter-CherrySilver

W5362-113S-FrostSilver

W5361-113S-FrostSilver

W5359-113S-FrostSilver

EMBRACING NEGATIVE SPACE MINIMALISM IN MODERN QUILTING

by: Steve Baker, SewEndipitous

For many traditional quilters, the concept of negative space can feel unnatural or go against their creative instincts. However, it can also be a freeing concept and an opportunity to explore another side of their imagination.

For those unfamiliar with negative space in quilting, it refers to the conscious and purposeful use of empty or blank areas in a quilt design created by using minimal design elements or leaving areas intentionally unquilted or minimally stitched This technique allows for a sense of balance, harmony, and visual interest in the overall quilt composition

Minimalism in modern quilting is a design approach focusing on simplicity, clean lines, and a less-is-more philosophy. It often involves using negative space to highlight the main design elements and create a sense of calm and sophistication in the quilt.

By combining negative space and minimalism in modern quilting, quilters can create stunning, contemporary designs that stand out for their simplicity and elegance. It is important to note that minimalism in interior design has exploded in the last decade, making these modern quilts the perfect accent piece for any living space. Let's explore how embracing negative space and minimalism can elevate your quilting projects to new heights.

THE HISTORY OF MINIMALISM IN QUILT DESIGN

Minimalism, as an art and design movement, emerged in the late 1950s as a reaction against the complexity and expressiveness of abstract expressionism. It sought to simplify and reduce, focusing on the essential elements of an object or concept This philosophy eventually found its way into various art forms, including quilt design

The history of minimalism in quilt design can be traced back to the early 20th century, although it wasn't explicitly recognized as such at the time Quilts from this era, particularly those made by the Amish communities in the United States, exhibited many of the characteristics that would later be associated with minimalism These quilts were characterized by their simplicity, use of solid colors, and emphasis on geometric shapes and patterns

The Amish quilts were not created with the intention of being minimalist; rather, their design was a reflection of the Amish lifestyle and beliefs, which value simplicity and functionality However, their aesthetic resonated with the principles of minimalism, and they have since been recognized as early examples of minimalist design in quilting

The 1960s and 1970s saw a resurgence of interest in quilting, spurred by the feminist movement and a growing appreciation for traditional crafts During this period, some quilters began to experiment with minimalist design, influenced by the broader minimalist movement in art and design. These quilts were characterized by their simplicity, use of negative space, and focus on form and color over pattern and detail.

In the late 20th and early 21st centuries, minimalism in quilt design has continued to evolve and diversify. Today, minimalist quilts can range from monochromatic designs that play with texture and form, to bold, graphic designs that use color and shape to create impact.

The rise of modern quilting has also contributed to the popularity of minimalism in quilt design. Modern quilting, which emerged in the early 2000s, is characterized by its willingness to break with tradition and experiment with new techniques and designs Many modern quilters have embraced minimalism, using it as a way to explore the interplay of color, shape, and space in their work

Some influential quilt artists who have embraced minimalism in their work include Nancy Crow, known for her bold use of negative space and geometric shapes in her quilts Other artists like Gwen Marston and especially Yoshiko Jinzenji have contributed significantly to the minimalist quilt design movement with their innovative use of color and shape

EMBRACING NEGATIVE SPACE IN QUILT DESIGN

Use of Solid Colors: One of the simplest ways to incorporate negative space in your quilt design is by using solid colors This allows the patterns and designs of the quilt to stand out against the background

Asymmetrical Layouts: Traditional quilts often use symmetrical layouts, but if you're looking to incorporate negative space, consider an asymmetrical layout. This can create a sense of movement and interest in your quilt.

Scaling and Sizing: Playing with the scale and size of your quilt blocks can also create negative space. For example, using larger blocks with smaller ones can create interesting negative spaces in your quilt.

Irregular Shapes: Instead of sticking to traditional square or rectangular blocks, consider using irregular shapes. This can create unique and unexpected negative spaces in your quilt design.

BENEFITS OF USING NEGATIVE SPACE IN QUILT DESIGN

Highlighting Quilt Patterns: Negative space can be used to highlight the patterns and designs in your quilt. It can draw the viewer's eye to the areas of the quilt you want to emphasize.

Creating Visual Interest: Negative space can create visual interest and add a modern touch to your quilt design It can break up the monotony of repetitive patterns and give your quilt a unique look

Adding Balance: Negative space can add balance to your quilt design It can provide a restful area for the eye, balancing out the busier, patterned areas of the quilt

Enhancing Quilt Texture: Negative space can enhance the texture of your quilt By allowing more of the quilt's fabric to be seen, it can showcase the tactile qualities of the materials used

CONCLUSION

The importance of negative space in modern quilting continues its significant growth and cannot be overstated as it has come to define the look of many modern quilts By embracing negative space, quilters have the opportunity to create designs that are visually striking and unique It allows the design to breathe and stand out, emphasizing the beauty of the quilt

I encourage quilters to experiment with minimalism in their designs By incorporating negative space, quilters can explore new techniques and push the boundaries of traditional quilting. Don't be afraid to try asymmetrical designs, utilize solid fabrics, and play with quilting patterns to create stunning works of art.

In the world of modern quilting, embracing negative space is a powerful tool that can elevate your designs to new heights. So embrace the beauty of negative space and let your creativity shine!

Stars and Stripes 12

Explore or celebrate the patriotic spirit with the 'Stars and Stripes 12' fabric collection by Linda Ludovico for Northcott Fabrics. Featuring a stunning array of designs including stars, stripes, the American flag, and majestic eagles, this collection is a tribute to the spirit of patriotism Inspiring words of patriotism and fabric panels with powerful imagery bring a sense of pride and honor to your projects. Don't miss the special design dedicated to the red poppies, a symbol of remembrance for those who have sacrificed for freedom. Show your support and celebrate the American spirit with 'Stars and Stripes 12'.

Manufacturer: Northcott Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Linda Ludovico

Group Name: Stars and Stripes 12

Theme: Patriotic

STARS AND STRIPES 12 - 27013-11

27017-24

27015-44

27014-49

27013-11

PANEL 43"X24 DP24283-12

39302-490

39302-466

PANEL 43" X 24" 27011-49

39302-260

Hearts Anthem

"Hearts Anthem" is a stunning patriotic quilting fabric collection designed by Jungle Design Inc. for Wilmington Prints. This collection features a vibrant color palette of reds, whites, and blues, along with iconic American symbols such as stars, stripes, and American flags. The standout piece in this collection is the "Home of the Brave" panel, which showcases a beautiful and patriotic design that is sure to inspire quilters of all skill levels. Get ready to create patriotic masterpieces with "Hearts Anthem"!

Manufacturer: Wilmington Prints

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Jungle Design Inc

Group Name: Hearts Anthem

Theme: Patriotic

Repeating Stripe Multi 1031 84473 243

Packed Flags Multi 1031 84474 234

Heart Toss Denim 1031 84477 414

Patriotic Toss Blue 1031 84475 434

Stars All Over Red 1031 84479 311

Diagonal Stripe Cream 1031 84478 243

Star Toss Beige 1031 84476 243

Diagonal Stipe Navy 1031 84478 433

Stars All Over Blue 1031 84479 411

Flag Texture Cream 1031 84480 121

Heart Toss Red 1031 84477 314

Stars All Over Cream 1031 84479 143

Flag Texture Red 1031 84480 333

American Spirit

A 36” American Eagle panel sets the stage in this impressive ensemble of patriotic icons and symbols. Create quilts of valor, decorations for commemorative holidays, accessories, and apparel that will sew your pride for our great country ©Morris Creative

Manufacturer: QT Fabrics

Description: 100% Cotton

Type: 44"- 45" Wide

Designer: Morris Creative

Group Name: American Spirit

Theme: Patriotic

PATRIOTIC EAGLE PICTURE PATCHE 30125 -N

FLAG STRIPE 30126 -R

PATRIOTIC EAGLE PICTURE PATCHE 30125 -E

108" LIBERTY BELL AND STARS 1899 30130 -E

LIBERTY BELL AND STARS 30130 -W

FLAG TOSS 30129 -E

STAR PAISLEY TOSS 30131 -E

LIBERTY BELL AND STARS 30130 -E

EAGLE AND FLAG TOSS 30128 -E

STAR PAISLEY TOSS 30131 -B

FLAG TOSS 30129 -N

PATRIOTIC VIGNETTE 30127 -E

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