DATING LATER IN LIFE
Dating typically presents some challenges, especially if you haven’t done it in a while. Here are some tips to help navigate the dating world later in life: • Figure out what you’re looking for, both the type of person you would like to date and also what you’re looking to get out of your dating experience. Are you looking for a longterm, serious relationship or simply someone to occasionally spend time with? Don’t be afraid to let others know what you want so you don’t waste your time or theirs. • Let friends and family know you’re open to dating, that way they might be able to set you up with someone. The best part about being set up is that someone else has already vetted the person you will be going out with. • If you have older children, you may want to let them know of your intentions only so they hear it from you and not from someone else. Some children are supportive of their parents dating while others may take a while to warm up to the idea. • Ask others for advice. Talk to people you know who are dating or have recently dated to find out what’s worked for them. • Expand your social circle to meet new people. Sign up for activities at a community club, take up a new hobby, join a gym, volunteer for a local organization, etc. • Trust your instincts. Sadly there are people out there who want to take advantage of single people, especially older adults. If someone seems too good to be true, they likely are. If you are unsure, ask a trusted friend for their feedback.
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