Summer Spire 2019

Vol. 167 | No. 2 | Summer 2019

StLukesMethodist.org | 713-622-5710

IN THIS ISSUE

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FATHER ABRAHAM HAD MANY SONS... By Dr. Tom Pace

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THANK YOU, DR. LINDA CHRISTIANS

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SUMMER BIBLE STUDIES

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KIDS HOPE WINS AN AWARD

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REDUCING THE STIGMA OF SEEKING MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES

By April Henderson, M.A., LPC

Spire (USPS 7190) is published quarterly by St. Luke’s United Methodist Church, 3471 Westheimer Road, Houston, TX 77027-5334.

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A couple of weeks ago I received an envelope from St. Luke's and it was filled with cards with supportive thank-you notes to the staff of Amazing Place. It deeply touched our entire team­—see above! This was our staff meeting in the chapel this morning, each staff member holding a special card of love and caring from St. Luke's! Thank you for this incredibly thoughtful and uplifting gesture. We are very thankful for ALL that St. Luke's does to support the mission of Amazing Place. You bless our work in so many ways.

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Father Abraham Had Many Sons…

By Dr. Tom Pace, Sr. Pastor

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rom the time my kids were a part of their first Vacation Bible School, they sang “Father Abraham had many sons, many sons had Father Abraham. I am one of them, and so are you…”

The story of Jesus rests on the foundation of three essential Old Testament narratives. There is the exodus, as the people of Israel are set free from slavery in Egypt to go to the promised land. After the exodus is the exile, as Israel, now a nation, is taken away to Babylon and then returns to put Jerusalem back together again. But before either of these, there is the third narrative, the story of a family.

Abraham and Sarah, who set out at God’s command to discover “a land that I will show you,” and give birth to a nation “through which the whole world will be blessed.”

helps him. The lying goes on and on.) There is family dysfunction beyond your normal family challenges (Esau is refused his father’s blessing. Joseph is sold into slavery by his own brothers.) And yet, this is the foundational story of Scripture. We are all “sons of Abraham.”

In the summer of 2019, St. Luke’s will look together at the stories of Abraham, Sarah, and their many sons and daughters, discovering how God manages to work through them despite their many flaws to accomplish God’s purposes, just as God finds a way to work through us in spite of our many flaws. God’s purpose will not ultimately be thwarted! Come and join us this summer and learn what it means to be a son or daughter of Abraham!

The story of Abraham and the patriarchs is pretty amazing.

There are miracles (a really really old lady gets pregnant).

There is lots of deception (Abraham passes his wife Sarah as his sister. Jacob pretends he is Esau and his mother About the cover: Inspired by the epic story of Abraham, Os Galindo, St. Luke’s Lead Media Creator, sketches a modern take on vignettes of Abraham and Sarah, Isaac, Rebekah, Joseph and Rachel, Jacob and Esau and a wrestling match for the ages.

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I have called you by name, you are mine. Isaiah 43:1 Dear Friends,

Many of you may already know that I received my call to ministry while on a Bible study tour in the Holy Land in 1997.

But the reality is that God has been at work in me from the very beginning, gently molding and shaping me for the time he would call me into his service.

Growing up, I learned many things. From my family, I learned discipline and the importance of loving each other through good times and bad. From my church, I learned the importance of having a strong faith foundation and of loving others as Jesus did. From my friends, I learned the importance of relaxing and having fun while forming solid relationships.

From school, I learned that with education you could not only dream, but have resources to make those dreams come true. Looking back now, I can see God’s hands at work in the different facets of my life, all in preparation for me to be ready for his call.

I am grateful to have had the opportunity of serving at St. Luke’s for the past 21 years, and am honored that the past 13 years have been as Executive Pastor. So many precious memories have been made here! I cherish each friend I have 4

made along the way and will always remember the times we have spent together. I have been privileged to walk alongside others on their faith journeys, all the while knowing that my own faith was being strengthened with each experience. I have been motivated and encouraged as I witnessed the spiritual growth of class members and co-leaders in the classes and Bible studies I have led. It has been a joy to combine my spiritual journey with others making inspirational pilgrimages to the Holy Land and Greece. On a personal note, my husband, Doug, and I have enjoyed watching our children, Zach and Emily, grow from tots into fascinating young adults at St. Luke’s. Without a doubt, I have been blessed in many ways!

One of my favorite scriptures is Isaiah 43:1-4 because in it the Lord assures us that he is with us no matter what we are going through. This has been a source of comfort and joy for me through the various stages of my life. And I am leaning on it now as I prepare to begin a new chapter as Senior Pastor at West University UMC. Know that I will continue to hold you close in my prayers, and I humbly ask for yours.

With a loving and grateful heart, Linda

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Linda Christians is a daughter to us.

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first met Linda when I walked into her Go with Grace Bible study in 2013. Linda gently led this group of amazing women to a closer walk with Jesus. She built a community of love and trust where we share one another’s deepest pain, joys and secrets. Linda allowed us to see her heart as we studied the Bible with no homework at our own pace.

Linda led us to St. Luke’s, to Tom Pace, to Men’s Life, to the Walk to Emmaus, to the Gene Decker Bible class, to Nick Finnegan Counseling Center, and Amazing Place. Linda also led us to see the Holy Spirit more clearly.

As Linda prayed for the sick, for those hurting from a death or other traumatic loss, and for those who rejoice, we saw Jesus come alive because He lives in her.

Thank you, Linda!

Sara Eggleston

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am filled with gratitude as I look back on the eleven years I have worked with Linda. Gratitude for her friendship, sense of humor, and innate kindness. Gratitude for the compassionate way she tends to those who are hurting and the peace she so readily shares. Gratitude for all she has taught me about serving God’s people. But most of all, I am filled with gratitude for the way she lives out her faith and for the many lives that have been impacted by her witness. Working with Linda has indeed been a blessing in my life, and for that I am very, very grateful.

Karen Smith

Please join us for a Reception honoring Dr. Linda Christians Sunday, May 19 | 12 p.m. | Fellowship Hall

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or 21 years, God has used Dr. Linda Christians to make a significant impact on the people of St. Luke’s Church. She has loved us through deaths and illnesses, family troubles and community challenges.

She celebrated with us baptisms and graduations and rites of passage. She taught classes and has been a shepherd to so many people as we grew in faith and love. She has nurtured and encouraged staff and called lay leaders into ministry. In short, she has been a pastor, effective and caring.

The closing scene of the movie Mr. Holland’s Opus is a heartwarming moment in which the band instructor comes to realize the impact he has made on the students whom he has mentored and taught. I know that so many of us are a part of Linda Christian’s Opus. Now, she will be sent to make an impact on others of God’s children.

Nonetheless, the impact she has made in this place will be a legacy for decades to come.

Tom Pace

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Small Groups Launch Tuesday, September 24

6:30 p.m. | Fellowship Hall Are you ready to join or start a small group? At this gathering, you’ll talk to people already in small groups, meet others interested in joining a group, and find one that best fits your needs and schedule!

Register: StLukesMethodist.org/group-life

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piritual growth doesn’t only happen in corporate worship, but often happens in less formal gatherings like small groups. A small group typically meets on a weekly basis for fellowship, study, prayer, and reflection. Small groups of six to 10 people allow us to experience the purpose and power of Christ in our lives, dig deeper into our faith and grow closer to God. We want to help you find a place to truly belong, to celebrate the joys of life and to weather the storms together. And, we want you to become who God made you to be through personal and spiritual growth. For more information, please contact Kathy Neely at kneely@stlukesmethodist.org or call her at 713-402-5139.

We Study the Bible Scripture + Shared Summer Bible Reading

Looking for a convenient way to study the scriptures this summer? Or is your life too crazy right now to commit to a specific day and time for a small group? Invite a friend to be your “Bible Buddy” and use any of the Scripture + Shared materials to study and exchange thoughts and ideas at a time that is mutually convenient. Available studies include Freedom: Life in the Spirit, Journey to Jerusalem, Praying the Psalms, and more. Take your Bible study with you when you go on vacation by downloading the app at Subsplash.com/ScriptureShared/app or StLukesMethodist.org/scripture-shared. The Parables of Jesus, our fall study, will be available the week of September 29.

Bible in 90 Days Tuesdays | June 4-August 27 | Hines Baker Room | 6-7 p.m. | Led by Ken & Gail Jacobson and Peggy Keus Join us for a special class designed to read the Bible from cover to cover…in 90 days! Committing to this challenge will positively impact your faith journey in ways you cannot imagine…. sign up today! The registration fee of $15 includes the participant book.

Use any Bible or, if you prefer, an “official” Bible in 90 Days Bible is available for $15. Register: StLukesMethodist.org/group-life.

Bible 101: Old Testament Tuesdays | June 4-August 6 | 6-7:30 p.m. | ES313/314 Led by Rev. Thomas Harper and Rev. Katie Montgomery Mears

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What is the Old Testament all about? Who wrote it? Have you heard of Esther, Habakkuk, and Nehemiah and wondered who they were, but were afraid to ask? Join us for a 10-week study of the Old Testament, where you will gain a deeper understanding of the birth of Israel, its rulers and prophets, the exile and return of the Israelites, and the way that God was with them the whole time.

Register: StLukesMethodist.org/group-life.

Women's Groups Mom’s Bible Study Tuesdays | ongoing | 9:15-10:30 a.m. | ES314 | Led by Julie Ellerbrock and Christy Dulaney

While moms are super busy, we all need time with Christ and each other as we journey through motherhood. The commitment is simple—just come. The conversations are rich. The studies are impactful. The relationships formed are life-changing. For more information or to receive a copy of the book or current study, contact Julie Ellerbrock: jellerbrock@stlukesmethodist.org. Free childcare is available to participants with an advance reservation. Contact Adrian Chandler: at achandler@stlukesmethodist.org.

Busy Moms’ Bible Study Wednesdays | Resumes June 5 | 11:45 a.m.-12:45 p.m. | ES309 Led by Lori Fahrbach and Rev. Katie Montgomery Mears

Striking a balance between work, motherhood, and all of the other things that fill up our lives can be tough. Bible study may get pushed to the side because it feels like one more thing on the “to do” list... but the truth is that time spent studying scripture and being in fellowship with other women brings refreshment. Join Busy Moms for encouragement and meaningful discussion about faith.

Register: StLukesMethodist.org/group-life.

Women’s Westheimer Book Group Second Mondays |10 -11:30 a.m. | ES306

Are you a woman who loves to read and discuss books? Books are chosen by members of the group ranging from the most contemporary to the classics. Whether you read the entire book, make it part way through, or did not have a chance to read it, everyone is welcome! For the current book and more information, contact Dorothy Voss: 713-660-7243.

May 13 | Goodbye to Innocence by John Warren Smith led by Lori Wilson-Reynolds

June 10 | Book selections for 2019-2020

Women’s Night Circle 3rd Tuesday of the month | 6:30 p.m. | meeting locations TBD

Women of the Church— join us at the Night Circle. This group of caring and supportive friends present programs by members or outside speakers. Information: Pat Deckert at 713-334-6848. Upcoming dates: May 21, June 18, July 16, and August 20.

Men's Groups Men’s Downtown Group (ages 25-45) Thursdays | beginning June 6 | 12-1 p.m. | Led by Whitney Mears and Barry Alsup

Join the guys (ages 25-45) for a downtown study group at lunchtime on Thursdays. This summer Whitney and Barry will lead a six-week study on Simon Peter: Flawed But Faithful Disciple by Adam Hamilton. Register: StLukesMethodist.org/group-life.

Men’s Breakfast Group Thursdays | May 2-June 13 | 6:30-7:45 a.m. | Corner Bakery Café (2615 SW Freeway) | Led by John Holmes Join men of all ages for breakfast, study and fellowship on Thursday mornings at the Corner Bakery Cafe. May 2-June 13, we'll study Counterfeit Gods: The Empty Promises of Money, Sex, and Power, and Only Hope That Matters by Timothy Keller.

Register: StLukesMethodist.org/group-life.

Men’s Pick-Up Basketball Open Gym Saturdays | through October 26 | 9-11 a.m. | Activity Center

Open to all men of all ages! Play is no-cost, come-as-you-can. Contact Michael Lutter: mlutter12@yahoo.com. No RSVP needed.

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STUDENT'S Middle and High School students have plenty of events and retreats to keep them busy this summer! We're also looking forward to welcoming our college interns who will be with us from May-August. Find more information and links to register: StLukesMethodist.org/students

CIY: Mix (students entering grades 7-8 next year) June 2-6 | Lake of the Ozarks, MO | $895 (registration closing soon)

Throughout this week-long retreat, you'll spend time in large and small group activities. Get challenged to embrace your spiritual journey and role as Kingdom workers through dynamic worship, recreation, and thoughtful discussion.

Vacation Bible School Teen Helpers and VB6 June 10-14 | St. Luke's | $25 or $50 (depending on grade level)

If you are entering grades 7-12 in the fall, you can be a VBS teen helper. Entering 6th grade this fall? Try VB6, now in its second year at St. Luke's. You do not have to be a member of St. Luke's to participate, and friends are welcome!

After-VBS Activities June 10-13 | Various Locations | Cost Varies

We are going to keep the party going after VBS. Student Ministries has events for VB6ers and Teen Helpers Monday-Thursday afternoons during VBS week. Register for each event separately: StLukesMethodist.org/vbs

CIY: Move (Students entering grades 9-12 + new high school graduates) June 24-29 | Holland, MI | $895

MOVE is more than just another camp; MOVE is an experience! Students - you'll be challenged through intense, interactive worship, dynamic speakers, small group study and community building. We're heading back to Holland, Michigan, a favorite destination.

Return home with a personal and unique challenge for the upcoming year. Although this trip is officially full, contact Brindley Ginn: bginn@stlukesmethodist.org to be placed on the waitlist.

Middle School Mission Trip (Students entering grades 7-8) July 7-11 | San Antonio | $225

Students entering grades 7 and 8 — you'll have an awesome opportunity to travel to San Antonio for our mission trip this year.

After working on projects with two area churches, we'll have a day to relax at Schlitterbahn! Register: StLukesMethodist.org/students.

High School Mission Trip (Students entering grades 9-12 + new high school graduates) July 21-27 | Kentucky | $800

You're off to the hills of Kentucky on an adventure you won't soon forget! Test your limits while developing leadership skills, growing spiritually and carrying out your faith in mission. You will return home exhausted and a little sore, but with a renewed vision to change the world. Check out the organization we're partnering with at adventureserve.org.

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We give ourselves away in generosity and service

From Genesis to Revelation, we see God’s unique relationship with His creation. As creator, God values the earth in its entirety and invites us into stewardship of creation. Participating in stewardship of creation is also an effective way to serve the world’s poorest people. There are 800 million hungry people in the world and 85 percent are rural farmers, reliant on only what they can grow from their small plot of land to feed their families and make a living.

St. Luke’s partners with Plant With Purpose to support its local staff in the southern states of Oaxaca and Chiapas in Mexico.

At the 2018 Easter offering, more than $40,000 was raised to equip more than 11 Sustainable Development Groups (over 275 families) to experience environmental restoration, economic empowerment and spiritual renewal. At that time, this was the most that had ever been raised at an Easter offering!

Teresa Robertson, St Luke’s Chief Financial Officer, visited Plant With Purpose’s program and shares, “I am so thankful to partner with Plant With Purpose. I was able to participate in a Vision Trip to the Dominican Republic to review and participate in their sustainability model. Plant With Purpose empowers the rural poor by teaching, training, and partnering with local community members to reverse deforestation, grow family savings, improve nutrition and their overall quality of life. I am truly excited to continue the partnership with Plant With Purpose over the next few years helping restore hope and health to the rural poor. I believe Plant With Purpose lives out God’s call to love and care for others with their sustainability model.”

Partnering farmer, Alier, who was once a migrant worker in Oaxaca, after partnering with Plant With Purpose now runs a successful farm and business in his own community. He says, “Through this experience, it helped us realize God’s love and know that He is here. God created nature complete. We are stewards of His work. If we take care of our land, our security will be there. We have water. We have land. We have plants and seeds and food to eat. Nothing scares me.”

Thank you, St. Luke’s, for your partnership! To learn more, visit: plantwithpurpose.org/stlukesmethodist or contact Valerie Foulkes, Regional Representative, valerie@plantwithpurpose.org

VISION TRIP. WILL YOU COME?

St. Luke’s returns to Plant With Purpose in Oaxaca, Mexico August 4-9, 2019 to see the impact of the 2018 Easter Offering and our ongoing partnership. If you are interested in going on this Vision Trip or want more information, please contact Meredith Davis at mdavis@stlukesmethodist.org

Easter Offering 2019: AVDA Your generosity just keeps increasing! Our Easter offering this year set a record and to date, has brought in $49,124, and supports AVDA - Aid to Victims of Domestic Abuse. AVDA takes a holistic approach by advocating for the safety and selfdetermination of victims, promoting accountability for abusers, and fostering a community response to abuse. Last year alone, AVDA served 4,042 adult and children victims and 901 abusers. The organization's outreach efforts reached 16,000 adults and youth. From intervention to prevention, the AVDA staff works tirelessly on behalf of abuse survivors to end family violence in our community.

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KIDS HOPE Receives the Jean Davis Myers Award from HISD When we give ourselves away in generosity and service to be the hands and feet of Jesus, it’s never so we can win awards.

But, on April 10 that is exactly what happened to KIDS HOPE USA mentoring programs sponsored by St. Luke’s.

The Jean Davis Myers Volunteer Service Award recognizing outstanding service by volunteers in HISD was presented at a reception sponsored by VIPS (Volunteers in Public Schools).

KIDS HOPE was nominated for the award by Nohelia Rodriguez, the Volunteer Coordinator at Sutton Elementary, who wanted to show the school’s appreciation for the dedication of the volunteers from our church who have been working with students at Sutton for the last nine years.

Each mentor is matched with only one student and meets with that student for an hour each week at the school. Teachers refer students who could benefit from some extra one-on-one attention from an adult. The reasons for the referrals vary.

Some students have been through tragic circumstances. Others are referred because they are very shy or withdrawn and just need encouragement to draw them out. Part of the mentoring session can be spent tutoring, but relationship building is equally important. Mentors play games with the students, read with them, or just spend time talking and listening. It’s not necessary to have a background in education or experience in childcare to become a KIDS HOPE mentor. You just need to be a member or frequent attendee of any St. Luke’s worship community, have a schedule that permits you to spend an hour a week during school hours and a heart for helping children. The most important part of mentoring is faithfully showing up!

This year teachers have shown how much they value the work of the mentors by making an unusually large number of referrals. Although we have 54 mentors going to Sutton each week, there are still eleven students there waiting to be matched with a mentor. There are an additional 41 mentors serving at Briarmeadow. If you would like to help with KIDS HOPE or just find out more about it, contact Marci Pampe: 713-357-4466 or mpampe@stlukesmethodist.org ) or Karen McCarver: 713-402-5026 or kmccarver@stlukesmethodist.org.)

KIDS HOPE USA is a national program that began in Michigan over 20 years ago and now has programs in 38 states. St. Luke’s sponsors two KIDS HOPE programs; one at Sutton Elementary, led by Marci Pampi and another at Briarmeadow Charter School, led by Karen McCarver. The students range in age from Pre-K children to 5th graders.

Summer Saturday Serve!

Sunday, June 2 | Beans and Rice Gethsemane Campus | 12:30-2 p.m.

Saturday, July 20 | Kids' Meals Fellowship Hall | 9:30-11:30 a.m.

Saturday, August 10 | aniMeals Fellowship Hall | 9:30-11:30 a.m.

Head over after church for lunch and bagging beans and rice to be distributed to Christian Community Service Center and other local food pantries. Lunch provided.

Have you ever made 650 sandwiches for Kids’ Meals on a Monday night? Come help us make 2-3 times that many for children out of school for the summer.

Come bag food for pets of Meals on Wheels recipients. If not for this assistance, many food insecure clients would share their meals with their pets.

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Tapestry Players Presents: Barefoot in the Park Thursday-Saturday, June 13-15 at 7:30 p.m., and Sunday, June 16 at 2:30 p.m. | Rotunda Theater

A romantic comedy by Neil Simon, Barefoot in the Park follows newlyweds as they learn to cope with life and each other. Directed by Sid Davis. $15 general admission—purchase at the door or online at tapestryplayers.org/barefoot.

H.M.S. Pinafore ‑ the comic operetta that rocketed Gilbert and Sullivan to international fame.

Thursday, August 1-Saturday, August 3 at 7:30 p.m., and Saturday, August 4 and Sunday, August 5 at 2:30 p.m. | Rotunda Theater Directed by Randy Murrow, with musical direction by Sid Davis. $20 admission / $15 children and

students with ID — purchase at the door or online at tapestryplayers.org/pinafore. Interested in singing in the chorus? Sign up online: tapestryplayers.org/chorus.

Bridges Academy presents Jerry Eckles Music Theater Camp Getting to Know…The Sound of Music Monday-Friday June 17-21 | 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. | Rotunda Theater

Campers will present a one-hour version of the classic musical The Sound of Music on Friday evening at the end of this week-long day camp for students in grades 3-9. Tuition is $300 for one child, and $275 for each additional sibling through our registration deadline of May 31. Late registrations will be accepted if space allows at a $325 tuition fee per child.

Enroll online at www.bridgesfinearts.org/soundofmusic.

Children's Music Ministry Presents "Life of the Party" Life of the Party | Children's Production | Monday-Friday | July 8-12 | 1:30-5 p.m. | Rotunda Theater for children in grades 1-5

Life of the Party is a humorous telling of the stories of Mary and Martha in the gospels. Family conflict, making time for Jesus in the midst of hectic lives, and trusting God when things get tough are the themes that are addressed with both lighthearted humor and poignant drama. Children will perform on Friday, July 12 at 6 p.m., and then sing in the 11 a.m. worship service on Sunday, July 14.

Register online at stlukesmethodist.org/childrensmusical.

Pure Sound Youth Present "Fly Me to the Moon: Babes on Broadway" Friday-Sunday | August 16-18 | Rotunda Theater

This summer's production—Fly Me to the Moon—honors the 50th anniversary of the moon landing.

Tickets: stlukesmethodist.org/babes.

Featured Artists in the Rotunda Gallery This summer we welcome two returning artists back to our gallery, Mary Ann Lucas in June and Dave Collins in August, and feature a new group in our space during the month of July—Children’s Prison Arts Project—a non-profit arts education organization whose mission is to introduce juvenile offenders in correctional facilities and shelters to an innovative educational theater and visual arts forum where they can express their thoughts and visions in constructive ways. Find out more about this organization at www. childrensprisonart.org.

The gallery is located next to the Fellowship Hall and is open for viewing during all hours that the building is open. A portion of gallery proceeds helps to fund the growth and maintenance of the permanent art collection at St. Luke’s. For more information about the gallery, email Randy Murrow: rmurrow@stlukesmethodist.org.

We Tell Our Stories

Sharing Our Stories:

Reducing the Stigma of Seeking Mental Health Services

By April Henderson, M.A., LPC

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t some point in their life most people experience hardship or trauma leading to depression, anxiety, addiction or other mental health issues. The road to healing can be difficult as often those who are hurting experience shame and isolation.

In these moments of struggle reaching out to others can bring healing and positive change, but how do those who are hurting know when or how to share their story? Perhaps you have a friend or family member that you know is struggling but you’re not sure how to be that trusted listening ear to support them.

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, it is a month where we at Nick Finnegan Counseling Center want to focus not only on the importance of spreading awareness of mental health struggles but also want to help reduce the stigma of reaching out for help.

place to start if you have experienced trauma, addiction, severe anxiety, depression, or are struggling with thoughts of suicide. Of course, you don’t need to have struggled with something major in order to meet with a counselor. When you meet with a therapist, know that while it is important to be honest, you do not need to feel pressured to share your entire story all at once. A compassionate therapist will understand if you need time to develop trust with them.

Don’t be discouraged if the first therapist you meet with isn’t the right fit. Be open to asking for other referrals or finding a different therapist you might connect with better.

If you’d like to be the trustworthy person with whom others can talk to, start with being curious and avoid making quick assumptions about what others may be struggling with.

Open-ended phrases such as “It seems like something is off” or “I’ve noticed you seem sad/worried/angry” may help get the conversation started. If the other person wants to share, try to find somewhere to talk that feels comfortable where you won’t be easily distracted.

Having conversations at work or in environments where you can’t give the other person your full attention is not ideal. Once the other person has shared, don’t feel like you have to have all the answers, most of us find comfort in just being able to get our feelings out. If the other person agrees to it, offer to checkin on them from time-to-time or send them encouraging messages. A supportive community is very important to a person’s overall well-being. Finally, be honest if you’re not sure what to do next, or don’t have all the answers, a professional can help with the next steps.

When we share our own story, it can bring healing not only to ourselves but can also encourage others to seek help.

It can feel challenging to know how to share our stories of struggle or when to know if it’s time to seek professional help. If professional counseling feels scary or overwhelming, starting with a trusted friend, loved one or mentor may be a good option. Talking to a trusted person may be a good idea if you are going through a life change or transition.

Changes can bring increased stress and uncertainty, and it can be helpful to talk to others who’ve walked a similar journey or who have more life experience. If you’re experiencing mild symptoms of anxiety or depression or are burdened by other emotions, opening up to a trusted person can help relieve some of the emotional burdens.

Sharing our emotional struggles is a personal and vulnerable act, and it’s not information that is meant for just anyone. Choose a trustworthy person whom you believe would keep your story to themselves. Ideally this person should be able to listen with compassion, understanding and give advice only when you ask for it. A trusted person should also encourage you to make healthy decisions and support what is best for you and others.

Sharing our story with someone we don’t know well, who tends to gossip, encourages us to take revenge, or act out in dangerous ways isn’t the best person to turn to.

When others share their stories of struggle and we respond with openness and support, we help reduce the stigma of mental health. When we share our own story, it can bring healing not only to ourselves but can also encourage others to seek help.

If you don’t have a trustworthy person in your life, a professional counselor can help. A professional counselor may also be the best A note from Nick Finnegan Counseling Center: May is Mental Health Awareness Month. The information in this article will be available as a reference card, along with a green lapel pin, at stations throughout the church. We’ll also have some available in the lobby at our counseling center. Please feel free to take one and share with someone you know.

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Pastors' Sunday School Class Resumes June 2 9:55-10:45 a.m.

Fellowship Hall

If you've been interested in Sunday School, but your schedule would only allow you to attend every now and then or you've found it hard to commit, we'd love for you to join us this summer. This large lecture-oriented class is open to all adults and primarily taught by Rev. Thomas Harper and Rev. Katie Montgomery Mears.

In June, Rev. Thomas Harper will lead a five-week series looking at a collection of some of John Wesley’s most famous sermons and see what is distinctly Methodist about them in their theology. Wesley preached hundreds of sermons, many of which have influenced the Methodist Church throughout its history. Stop by Pastors’ Sunday School in June to see what Wesley had to say on topics such as sin, salvation, and perfection.

"One small step for man, one giant leap for mankind."

Man on the Moon

A Family Celebration of the 50th Anniversary of the Lunar Landing Sunday, July 14 | Fellowship Hall 5 p.m. | Dinner 5:30 p.m. | Interview with members of the St. Luke’s Community who were involved with NASA’s Mission to the Moon 6 p.m. | Screening of Apollo 11 Details to follow Contact Mary Schuler: 713-402-5008

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Miranda), fun returns to the household in celebration of things possible… and impossible. Bring your friends and grandkids to this fun family movie! Popcorn and snacks provided. Reservations not required but appreciated.

Evening Trip: Summer Chills at the Alley – Murder on the Orient Express Tuesday, July 23 | 5–10:30 p.m. | $50 per person (dinner at Birrporetti's and theater ticket included)

A refresher course for drivers aged 50+ taught by an AARP rep. Cost: $15 for AARP members; $20 for non-members.

Registrations required: stlukesmethodist.org/events, 713-402-5087, or reservations@stlukesmethodist.org.

(Does not qualify for ticket dismissal.)

Leave the driving and the parking to us! Join in on dinner at Birraporetti’s and a trip to the Alley Theatre to see Agatha Christie’s classic, Murder on the Orient Express. Enjoy this classic thriller that features renowned detective Hercule Poirot and a cast of characters sure to have everyone in the audience guessing just who did it. Advance registration and payment required by July 10. Price includes three course dinner and theater ticket. Register and pay online at stlukesmethodist. org/events, call 713-402-5087 or email reservations@ stlukesmethodist.org.

Day Trip: Vincent van Gogh – His Life in Art Thursday, May 23 | 10 a.m.–2:30 p.m. | $17 Lunch at Cleburne Cafeteria (on your own)

Senior Adult Summer Picnic Thursday, August 8 | 11 a.m.-1 p.m.

Location: TBD

AARP Safe Driving Class Tuesday, May 14 | 12:30- 4:30 p.m. | EN207

Pulling together over 50 masterworks by Vincent van Gogh, the MFAH exhibit takes viewers through the career of this iconic artist. With artwork not previously seen outside of Holland, this exhibit is a “must-see” for Houston this spring!

Registration required. Register online at stlukesmethodist.org/ events, call 713-402-5087 or email reservations@stlukesmethodist.org.

Dinner and a Show: St. Luke’s Tapestry Players presents Barefoot in the Park Thursday, June 13 | Dinner at 6 p.m. | Show at 7:30 p.m. | Price: $25 payable by June 10 (dinner and show included)

Combining our monthly program and trip into one evening of fun, enjoy a candlelight dinner with friends. Following dinner, move to the Rotunda Theater for the opening night of the Tapestry Players’ summer musical, Barefoot in the Park, Neil Simon’s romantic comedy about newlyweds learning to cope with life and each other. Register and pay online by Monday, June 10 at stlukesmethodist.org/events, call 713-402-5087 or email reservations@stlukesmethodist.org.

Afternoon at the Movies: Mary Poppins Returns Monday, June 24 | 1:30 p.m. | Rotunda Theater The magic continues in Disney’s classic as Mary Poppins (Emily Blunt) reminds the Banks family of the joy of being a child. With her friend, Jack the lamplighter (Lin-Manuel

Enjoy an indoor picnic with friends and live entertainment by some of St. Luke’s very talented musicians. Advance registration required for lunch ($10). Register online at stlukesmethodist.org/events, call 713-402-5087 or email reservations@stlukesmethodist.org.

Day Trip: George H.W Bush Presidential Library and Museum Thursday, August 22 | 8:45 a.m.-4 p.m. | $6 Lunch: TBD (on your own)

Spend the morning exploring the George H. W. Bush Presidential Library and Museum in College Station followed by lunch at a local restaurant. Registration required. Register and pay online at stlukesmethodist.org/events, call 713-402-5087 or email reservations@stlukesmethodist.org.

Bridge Group | 1:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. | EN205

All are welcome at this growing, informal group interested in learning or brushing up on bridge played by Goren rules.

Contact Kathy Austin, 713-252-6727. No reservations needed.

Gethsemane Silver Circle Wednesday, May 22 | 9:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.

Enjoy a morning of games and conversation with lunch and birthday celebrations at noon. Cost for lunch is $5.

Reservations: Betsy Evans, 281-565-0348. Silver Circle will take off for the summer and resume on Wednesday, September 25.

Savvy Caregiver Class | Six-sessions on Sundays | June 9- July 28 (off 6/16 and 7/7) | 3:30-5:30 p.m. | ES301 It’s just so hard. You want your parents and loved ones to be safe and to grow old surrounded with dignity, but you just don’t know how to help. It feels like you are failing them.

The Saavy Caregiver Class@ offers insights about changes loved ones are experiencing and training to identify solutions. For more information and to register for this free program, contact Sharon Cantrell, Caregiver Educator with Amazing Place: scantrell@amazingplace.org or 713-440-8177.

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During Coffee with the Pastor, Senior Pastor, Dr. Tom Pace, will share his spiritual journey and invite you to examine your own. You will learn more about St. Luke’s structure and vision and discover how to be a part of the community and mission of the church.

Thirsty for Theology Monday | May 20 | 6:30 p.m.

Black Labrador (4100 Montrose)

Join other young adults for a frank conversation about spiritual topics.

Led by Rev. Thomas Harper tharper@stlukesmethodist.org

Sunday, June 2 | 4-6 p.m.

Sunday, August 4 | 4-6 p.m.

Register: stlukesmethodist.org/new-here/#cwp

See how you can help with Summer Clubhouse and make it a great summer for children in the Sharpstown/ Gulfton area!

Contact Juana Tavico at 713-357-4474 or jchavez@stlukesmthodist.org

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Celebrating Lives

GETHSEMANE EARLY CHILDHOOD PROGRAM In Honor of: Miriam and Herminio Aguila by

Mr. and Mrs. Bill Jee Mr. and Mrs. Jim Snell on the occasion of their wedding anniversary by

Mr. and Mrs. Bill Jee In Memory of: Martha Loyd by

Nancy Walker

Pam Hutchins

Karen Johnson

Linda Burch

Nancy Stephenson

Dana Gill

Eileen Scott

Nancy Barziza

Susan Silvus

Sharon Stiver Johnnie L. Horton by

Mr. and Mrs. Bill Jee and family Stephanie Chin by

Mr. and Mrs. Bill Jee Gloria Goolsby by

Mr. and Mrs. Bill Jee

ST. LUKE'S EASTER OFFERING FOR AVDA In Honor of: Betty Brown on the occasion of her birthday by

Elinor Hart

Pat Deckert

Bobbie Wisecup

Nancy Stephenson

Pam Howard

Susan Silvus

Linda Burch Bobbie Wisecup on the occasion of her birthday by

Elinor Hart

Linda Burch

Susan Silvus

Pam Howard

Nancy Stephenson

Betty Brown

Pat Deckert Karen McCarver by

Shelley and James Quillin ST. LUKE'S OUTREACH AND MISSIONS In Memory of: Melva Lanier by

Johnette and Keith Dodson

CARING MINISTRIES In Memory of: Martha Loyd by

Lonnie King

Bobbie Wisecup

Ginger Yarbrough by

Laura and Bill Denham CELEBRATION OF LIFE GUILD In Honor of: The Celebration of Life Guild by

Hulda Schubert

CHILDREN'S MINISTRIES In Memory of: Martha Loyd by

Laura and Bill Denham Virginia Melville by

Laura and Bill Denham Pamela Ruth Eversmeyer by

Laura and Bill Denham STUDENT MINISTRIES In Memory of: Gregory Scott Lyon by

Laura and Bill Denham GETHSEMANE CHILDREN AND YOUTH MINISTRIES In Honor of: Sarah Fruth by

Chicky and Corky Fowler In Memory of: Martha Loyd by

Johnette and Keith Dodson CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY SERVICE CENTER In Honor of: Pat Deckert on the occasion of her birthday by

Pam Howard

Bobbie Wisecup

Susan Silvus

Elinor Hart

Betty Brown

Linda Burch

Nancy Stephenson In Memory of: Martha Loyd by

Holly and Bob Musemeche

Val Dean and Jack Read FRIENDS OF MUSIC In Honor of: Ann Yeoman by

Anne and Doug Culver Laurie Kereluk by

Jan and Don Wagner Karen McCarver by

Jan and Don Wagner

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In Memory of: Fred Schubert by

Melinda and Pete Matter

Sue Ann and Freddie Streit

Charlotte and Greg Sullivan

Cindy and Steffen Van Keppel

Pin Oak Caregivers

Barbi and Dale Francis

Stephanie and Brad Tucker

Jane and Richard Walla

Mary Hill

Merrill Peterson

Maria and Christopher Pappas

Patsy and Mickey Sharp

Cathy and Larry Wheatley

Mary Hale McLean

Betty Bailes

Lynda Aycock

Britt Dawson Juanita Cole by

Ed Cole Susan Sadler by

Mary Hale McLean Mary Catherine Hart by

Laura and Bill Denham Effygene Bull by

Analyn and Mark Lee David and Jan Conrad by

Analyn and Mark Lee

ST. LUKE'S BUILDING FUND In Memory of: Morgan Lee Copeland by

Laura and Bill Denham Virginia Melville by

Laura and Bill Denham

PRAYER MINISTRY In Memory of: Martha Loyd by

Jennifer and Rich Gould ST. LUKE'S ORGAN FUND In Honor of: Rob Landes by

Ed Gerlach Joan and Don Holcombe on the occasion of their anniversary by

Cynthia and A.J. Harper WOODSHOP MINISTRY In Honor of: St. Luke's Woodworkers by

Nancy Harper Don Mitchell by

Nancy Harper Paul Renner by

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Val Dean and Jack Read

Bobbie Wisecup

Gail Nash

Susan Sponenberg Richard Jaks by

Gail Nash

Lefa Moore

Bobbie Wisecup Jim Weatherly by

Gail Nash RANDY SMITH BIBLE STUDY CLASS In Memory of: Martha Loyd by

Barbara Finney GENE DECKER STUDY CLASS OUTREACH FUND In Memory of: Craig Burns by

Clyde and Bill Crook

Carla and Calvin Click Valerie Burns by

Clyde and Bill Crook

Carla and Calvin Click Opal Rainey by

Gene Decker Study Class

Betty and Bob Geary

Jane and Charles Szalkowski

Judy Bolling Steve Mims by

Jimmy Disch

Mr. and Mrs. William Merriman

Laura and Bill Denham

Betty and Bob Geary

Kristin Field-Macumber

Rita Griffin

Peter Pierce

Elizabeth Eikenburg

Con and Lynn Mims

Malcolm and Mary Louise Mims Chesney

Debbi Chesney

Jerry Loftin

Trent Loftin and family

Trey Loftin and family

Kristen Miner and family

Paula Howe

Barbara and Bob Collie

Susan and Mike Yancey

Sally and James Winfrey

Jeff and Loni Londa

Sally and Larkin Matthews

Joanie and Don Haley

The Contemporaries Book Club

Marcia and Victor Shainock

Karen and Thomas Ray

Gale and Lewayne Evans

Gene Decker Study Class

Sonja and Richard Finley

Diane Nizza and Federico Zegarra-Ballon

Maureen Alsup

Sheldon and Robert Thompson

Jane and Charles Szalkowski

Jane and Hunt Bergen

Tina Lundy Melo

Judy Bolling

Peggy Roe

NICK FINNEGAN COUNSELING CENTER In Memory of: Shane Hargis by

Bonnie Mayor ST. LUKE'S MEMORIAL GARDEN In Memory of: Melva Lanier by

Carolyn and Jack Vandiver

Yanci and Vladimer Dydik

Nancy and Richard Miller

ST. LUKE'S UNITED METHODIST CHURCH FOUNDATION In Honor of: Michael Stryker on the occasion of his birthday by

Mary and Lance Schuler Dr. Hooper Haygood by

Sherra and James Babcock In Memory of: Martha Loyd by

Peggy and Craig Diebel

Caroline Callery

Betty and J. Wade Taylor

Agatha and Erich Brann

Gene Graham

Sherry and Jerry Ritcheson

Jeri and Mark Johnstone

Kim Hooks Mauldin

Dorothy McCaine

Mary and Lance Schuler

Mrs. Bruce M. Harrington

Pamalah and Stephen Tipps

Wes and Margaret Puckett and family

Hal and Paula Turney and family

Lela and Jim Windham

June and Jim Moore

Orlando Cadena

The St. Luke's Prayer Team

Margaret Ann Hodge

Nancy Johnson

Linda and Fred Knapp

Mary Bodenstein Tressa White by

Melinda and Pete Matter Kathryn Fraser Johnson by

Sallie and Herb Baggett

Richard Dawson

Tina Melo

Anne and Richard Morse

Deborah Winter

Heather and Cogdell Bradshaw

Britt Dawson

Carol and Jonathan Reeder Susan Sadler by

Eloise Rowan

Elaine Riviere Faye Earline Williams by

Myra and Frank Brhlik

Savanna and Albert Franklin LaVera Noles Sanders by

Tina and Robert Westerkom J. Victor Neuhaus by

Laura and Bill Wheless William R. Lloyd, Jr. by

The Daniel C. Arnold family Dot Huddleston Haddock by

Susan and Gene Vaughan William Burress Head by

Mr. and Mrs. Reece Brooks Anderson Morgan Lee Copeland by

Shelley and Bob Schick Ginger Yarbrough by

Steve Yarbrough

Marcy and Bill Bickley Mary Beth Haygood by

Sherra and James Babcock Judy Steadman by

Joanie and Don Haley Linda Ligon by

Joanie and Don Haley

We Pray and Worship

Prayer and Healing Services this Summer Wednesdays | June 5, July 10 and August 7 7 p.m. | Chapel

Join us at a service of prayer and healing as we lift our burdens to the Lord and fill afresh with God’s spirit. Rev. Thomas Harper will lead a time of prayer and communion where we ask God for spiritual and physical healing for you or a loved one. Contact Rev. Thomas Harper: tharper@stlukesmethodist.org.

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This summer... keep living and loving like Jesus!

Going out of town? Take us along.

StLukesMethodist.org/livestream | 8:30, 9:45 and 11 a.m.