The Key to Happiness and Fulfillment?

WRITTEN BY Ally Nelson ART & LAYOUT BY MICHELLE GOLDMAN

It’s common for the heaviness of complex things we encounter to take over our thoughts and actions. We often lose sight of our most important values and what we actually want to get out of life. Some people have so much going on that they may believe it’s not possible for them to live fully and happily. However, there is a way we can become more fulfilled in life despite the seriousness and routine. The key? Be dumb.

Hear me out. Do you know those people that are just a little dumb? Those that constantly make impulsive decisions that seem to go against rationale and logic? These same people also have a sense of lightness and freedom to them. It may not always be apparent, but it’s there. When it comes to their method of doing life, they may not actually be so dumb. We can all take some advice from our fellow “dumb” people.

When I say “dumb,” I don’t mean stupid. I don’t mean just straight-up unintelligent and asinine. What I do mean is stop using your brain so much. Nine times out of ten, our thoughts get in the way of doing something delightful. We tell ourselves, “I’m too busy,” “What if it doesn’t go well,” or “It’s not doable.” What would happen if you told yourself to just shut up and do it? If you stop thinking about all the things that could go wrong and think about what could go right? Perhaps, you would finally get yourself to do all those things you’ve been telling yourself aren’t practical. Think of a vacation you’ve been putting off, a new hobby you’ve been scared to try, or something you’ve wanted to tell someone but were too anxious about. What is fueling your reluctance to do these things? Your thoughts. Your mind gets filled with “what ifs,” and before you know it, that thing that has the potential to bring joy to your life is on the back burner and completely out of your mind. Yes, better safe than sorry, but you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.