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Tammi Mac How Multi-Hyphenate Media Personality Tammi Mac is thriving during these uncertain times.

STORY BY ASHLEY YANCEY COVER PHOTO SHOOT SUITE TEAM PHOTOGRAPHER MICHAEL R. MOORE @michaelrmoore616

FASHION DIRECTOR DION DEMETRIES @diondemetries

HAIR DaRICO JACKSON @daricomagic

MAKEUP JORGE MONROY makeupbyjmonroy@aol.com

COVER DRESS BY CHRISTOPHER JOHN ROGERS Tammi beautifully flaunts in his Floral Long Sleeves Ruffle Dress Skirt SHOES BY

CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN BELT BY

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Be Free, Be Fly, Time to Step Out and Shine

SoCal Staycations: Suite Summer Destinations

Suite fashion for all types from a curated list of Black and Brown business owners.

Bruce's Beach: Discovering the Coastal Suite Life

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African American experience redemption through the return of Bruce's beach to it's rightful owners.

Romance in the Sky

STORY BY KAMEA TAYLOR PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOSHUA BERRYMON

CURATED BY AJA BROWN

STORY BY AJA BROWN

STORY BY ASHLEY YANCEY

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Flavors of the Southland: A Suite Look at SoCal’s Rich Food History

Riding It Out

STORY BY KALAISHA TOTTY

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STORY & PHOTOGRAPHY BY MONICA BELANDRES-ROOT

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Best Romantic Rooftop Destinations in Southern California

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International cultures have made Southern California their home. Californians can learn the rich histories through food.

Southern Californians rediscover the reason they reside in one of the worlds greatest climates in this list of suite destinations.

Suite Life SoCal takes a journey into Southern California cycling clubs to explore the recent growth of the sport featuring conversations and insights of two bicycle club founders and cyclists, George Turner of Penuel Bicycles of Inglewood and Ralph Alcantar of the Códigos Cycling Team of the Imperial Valley.

STORY BY EDDIE TRUJILLO GRIJALVA PHOTO OF GEORGE TURNER BY TARA PIXLEY

Quirky Stops For A Rural Southern California Road Trip A journey through rural Southern California's quirky and beautiful hidden spots. Descriptions of road trip stops that represent the awesome beauty, both natural and man-made, spanning two of Southern California's most Southerly Counties: Imperial Valley and San Diego.

STORY BY EDDIE TRUJILLO GRIJALVA

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Travel tips by Life is a Journey of Escapes publisher and avid traveler Betty LaMarr.

Refreshing Suite Summer Dishes It’s that time of year when the weather heats up and home chefs seek inspiration. Here are three recipes for refreshing summer meals and treats.

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20/20 Summer Fest: An Interview with Chantal Grayson and Emcee N.I.C.E.

Tammi Mac: “There is no Secret Sauce”

Divine Partnership – Grayson and N.I.C.E. shine a light on Christian Hip Hop.

One woman’s journey leads to community healing.

How Multi-Hyphenate Media Personality Tammi Mac is thriving during these uncertain.

STORY BY ANGELA JACKSON PHOTOGRAPHY BY MONICA BELANDRES-ROOT

STORY BY ASHLEY YANCEY PHOTOGRAPHY BY MICHAEL R. MOORE

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DJ Jiji Sweet: From Hobby to Business

Interview with Clifford & Shearl Lambert

Summer Children’s Reading List: Fun Picture Books for the Whole Family

Lambert's Misfortune turns to Community Fortune: Help for San Diego County Grandparents.

STORY BY MISCHA DUFFIE

u62 SWOOSH: Featuring the Swoosh League of Carson, California Girl Dad, Ken Calvin, talks sports for competitive youth as the country seeks to step into the new normal.

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Recent children’s books have become more diverse, with authors teaching children about self-esteem, the power of love, and even mediation through picture books. Here are eight books great for both Black and Brown kids (and adults’ inner children).

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A Special Supplement Edition in partnership with the Black Beauty & Wellness Foundation

Unconventional - Behind The Scenes with Denise Khumalo Denise Khumalo’s new documentary “Unconventional” hopes to inspire those in the film industry to push through challenges and other BIPOC representation in Hollywood.

STORY BY DONELL MOORE

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DJ Jiji Sweet has been in the music industry for over 20 years and isn't planning on stopping anytime soon. The LA-based DJ has learned a lot over her entrepreneurial career about being a female DJ in a male-dominated field.

STORY BY QUINCI LEGARDYE

STORY BY KALAISHA TOTTY PHOTOS BY DENISE KHUMALO, JOHN D STARLING III & JACQUELYN NYTES

Cryptocurrency Trends for Hopeful Investors

STORY BY MISCHA DUFFIE

Kai EL’ Zabar, Executive Editor Margo Wade LaDrew, Publisher Gloria Coulanges, Staff Writer Tanya Lyda, Graphic Artist Ÿ Getaways: Why Be A Playa Fan? Ÿ Beauty N Politics: High Beauty Marks Hurt Female Politicians Ÿ Health: Walking Away 2020 Ÿ Your Man's Health: Prostate Cancer

from the publisher

Turning up the heat!

Are you ready for Summer?

Are you ready for some Football?

How does a trip to Dubai sound?

Or stay closer to home and chose a fabulous Staycation!

If you've had cabin fever and just want to feel normal again, we got you. This issue is dedicated to suite side of summer from planning your post-pandemic makeover to enjoying the company of a loved one by moonlight at one of our featured 'Romantic Rooftops' or taking a road trips to nd quirky stops along the way.

There are many serious and heart-heavy things happening all around us, we know, but hope springs eternal and taking a moment to connect with things that bring us a smile is good for the soul.

What brings joy to my soul is having the abundantly-talented Tammi Mac as our cover feature. As our trusted on-air personality at 102.3 FM KJLH Radio and talk show host on her entertaining and thought-provoking Fox Soul’s, The Tammi Mac Late Show, we felt that she is one of LA's prominent voices who daily speaks directly with the people.

It is our honor to spotlight and celebrate her achievements.

With the release of this issue, we are delighted to launch a number of activations that will make this a summer like no other. See our ads in the front of this issue for more information about our Dubai 2022 trip in partnership with Overton Travel and Life is a Journey of Escapes; and our "Ultimate Los Angeles Rams VIP Experience" giveaway!

Thank you to Jest Masters for their amazing contest creation. We're turning up the heat, so get ready!

As always, I would like to thank our growing team of contributors, especially our cover photographer Michael R. Moore for providing the vibrant shots that help set the tone for our exuberance for this issue and to match Tammi's vivacious personality. We had a ball at the photo shoot!

Thank you to our fashion director Dion Demetries, hair stylist DaRico Jackson and makeup artist Jorge Monroy.

There is much more to come. Follow us @suitelifesocal on all social media and sign up for our newsletter at suitelifesocal.com to stay up-to-date.

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Capturing the Spirit of Summer 2021 This summer I welcome the heat and connecting with community like never before. In this issue the staff and myself were happy to turn our attention to more hopeful topics as you will read in our Heritage, Life & Style, and Travel & Leisure sections.

Myself and our publisher found great pleasure in working with our feature, Tammi Mac. She is the epitome of what a Suite Life summer looks like. Her condence, beauty, and commitment to community shine brightly and photographer, Michael Moore eloquently capture her many sides.

Summer 2021 is here and appreciated by most more than ever. As the world begins to open back up to a new normal we are crafting a new way of doing business and exchanging currency. Suite Life SoCal captures the spirit of summer 2021 in the pages of this magazine.

Enjoy!

Love & Light,

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Bruce's Beach Discovering the Coastal Suite Life

STORY BY KAMEA TAYLOR PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOSHUA BERRYMON

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lack Americans have been shunned from relishing the California dream of beach vacations since the Jim Crow era but, imagine if such luxurious places like Bruce's Beach were left to their rightful owners?

It was not until recently that the Bruce's Beach property would soon be returned to the original Black owners, Willa and Charles Bruce. This scenic parcel of Manhattan Beach estate formerly functioned as a beach resort that was unfortunately seized and condemned by the city. But now that such property is being returned to its rightful owners, the public cannot help but consider the endless and beautiful opportunities and advancements the business would have made if it had not been for the deprivation of their purchased land.

To plunge into the endless possibilities of the blissful landscape, we must rst acknowledge the racist past of the city that has made the current news worth commemorating.

In the early 1900s, many Black families were expelled out of Manhattan Beach. When Charles and Willa Bruce purchased land for twelve hundred dollars in 1912, they added other parcels to create a beach retreat that catered to Black residents. During these times, Black residents did not have many alternatives to enjoy their vacation along the California coast due to enforced Jim Crow laws. Still, such accommodation promoted inclusivity and chances for Black leisure. The elegant dance halls, cafes, and bathhouses further inuenced other Black families to purchase adjacent land and created their ocean-view retreat.

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Unfortunately, these resorts became signicant targets for the white supremacist groups and civilians of the area to compromise the safety of Black visitors. Though the Bruces remained unphased and persisted in operating their enclave, such hostility created ever-increasing pressure and difculties for their business. In 1929, their property was seized by the Manhattan Beach City Council, despite the families suing for being victims of a racially motivated removal campaign. Though having received compensation for the damages, the Bruces and other displaced families were still powerless to reopen their resort anywhere in the town. Since then, this land has been used as a city park and has borne various names over the years, though named "Bruce's Beach" as a hollow gesture toward the family.

The rich and deep history of institutional racism and its punitive suffering to families for generations makes the efforts to transfer Bruce's Beach back to the Bruce family even more fullling. Aside from the generational wealth, there are endless possibilities to which the resort would be in if not halted by the city. Would this beachfront be ourishing and lled with Black families in need of a vacation? Would Black communities enjoy the leisure of soaking up the sun while sitting oceanside? The answer is yes!

In the last ten years, there has been a dramatic upheaval in support of Black businesses and companies, so of course, such resorts dedicated to the Black families would be crowded with tourists waiting to shop and invest in longtime wealth builders. In relation, the current support of the Black resorts would also strengthen the opportunities of meaningful

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savings, credit building, and property ownership for Black communities. Fortunately, Bruce's Beach could have been one of those places! It would persist in providing for the Black beachgoers who crave to live the California dream for a couple of weeks and experience the jasmine and coastal live oak overlooking the sea. Its three acres of land would be the perfect place for many to sit on the ocean side and soak up the wonderful sun.

Bruce's Beach would obtain hundreds of thousands of dollars to develop further and improve the leisure site, particularly considering the property being worth up to seventy-two million dollars as of March 2021. The additional luxury oceanfront homes and manicured homes going for eighteen million would further attract more afuent Black families that desire a sweet getaway while driving up market value. This wealth and current cost would have only tripled if the seaside business was not seized from the Bruces.

Generations of families would get the opportunity to travel hours to experience the charming lodge, the best cuisines, and the services at the resort. Currently renowned for having the best surng waves in Southern California, Manhattan Beach would host many beach volleyball matches for visitors to enjoy. To imagine Black people laid out on the shore, enjoying virgin piña coladas, while enjoying the leisure of vacation and relaxation while Black children run across the shoreline brings joy to spring. Black people from all across the world would be able to enjoy the lavish beachfront resort, the picturesque beaches, luxurious shopping malls, and monumental buildings that were carved out for them to explore.

Allison Rose Jefferson's, Living the California Dream: African American Leisure Sites during the Jim Crow Era

further elaborates on reimaging such leisure and making it the center of conversation of the American dream that African American Californians and beyond were working towards in the early 1900s. This open and inclusive reality produces recreational CHARLES AND WILLA BRUCE sites and public spaces and marks such social spaces to broaden the understanding of Black leisure, Black life, and the struggles of integration during the early twentieth century. Portraying such fascinating yet forgotten sites, like Bruce's Beach, highlights the necessity of preserving and reclaiming these diverse African American localities that are underappreciated while demonstrating why they matter at all.

News of such property and nancial gain of Bruce's Beach is a report that many within the family and beyond have been anticipating to call their own. We can no longer restrain the California dreams and opportunities for Black Americans because they have long strived and aspired to live the life that many of their white counterparts have robbed from them. Such stories of Bruce's Beach in Manhattan Beach, and many others untold, empower Black people to discover the joy of restoration and restoring the places they were once denied. Though many of us can solely assume what such leisure would be like, it is imperative to recognize that African Americans will one day get the fun in the sun and the memories of a vacation at Bruce's Beach that they deserve! + SUITELIFESOCAL.COM | SUMMER 2021

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Flavors of the Southland

A Suite Look at SoCal’s Rich Food History STORY BY KALAISHA TOTTY

Southern California is known for its rich mix of cultures.

Maher Nakhal Le Mirage Pastry Owner

One night, you can dine for sushi, have Mexican food the next, and grab a French pastry for dessert, all while staying within a city block. The rich diversity of people also comes with history and food. Hidden pockets of international cultures are everywhere in Southern California. Journey with Suite Life SoCal as we explore Southern California’s food history.

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ext door to Los Angeles, in Anaheim, lies the tastes of the Middle East. Little Arabia is home to Le Mirage Pastry, a Syrian sweets shop. From ice cream to cakes and several kinds of baklava, Le Mirage has something for everyone.

“Syrian tastes are different, but most of our recipes are pretty traditional,” said Owner Maher Nakhal, 59. “Our baklava is very popular, but people love our cheese and cream knafeh.“ Knafeh is a pastry made with lo and soaked in syrup and layered with cheese or other llings.

Nakhal’s parents didn’t bake, but he loved it. His sister encouraged him to bake, so he attended classes at a bakery in Damascus, Syria.

Nakhal came to America from Syria in 1990. His sister brought him to California. He liked the nice weather and decided to make it his permanent residence.

He opened Le Mirage in 2006. “There are tons of Lebanese bakeries and Arabic restaurants here,” he said. “It’s nice to add the Syrian perspective to [the Southern, CA] food culture,” he added.

Nakhal wants to impress people with the variety of avors and options Le Mirage has to offer. He prepares the baked goods, so the smell and the taste of the baked goods leave them feeling completely satised.

“The bakery has changed over time, and we are becoming more recognized,” he said.

Nakhal hopes to open a Syrian restaurant nearby in the future. In the meantime, elevate your taste buds at Le Mirage Pastry in Little Arabia.

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Buna Ethiopian Restaurant and Market | Little Ethiopia, Los Angeles

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estled on the busy street of Fairfax avenue in Los Angeles is a space full of color, avor, and spice. Buna Ethiopian Restaurant and Market is one of many Ethiopian spots within Little Ethiopia. Passersby’s nostrils ll with the savory aroma of Buna’s dishes. It catches your attention pretty quickly.

Customers and even other Ethiopian restaurants stop by Buna to buy spices and other dish ingredients. Their herbs come directly from Ethiopia, quality of ingredients is essential to owner Eyob Tadesse. The owner, 46, opened Buna in 2011. Buna means coffee in Amharic.

“In our culture, when you meet someone, you take them to coffee,” Tadesse said.

“It’s a tradition for us.”

Tadesse came to the United States from Ethiopia in 1989 with his father. They settled in Fresno, CA. After he graduated high school, Tadesse made his way to Los Angeles. Cooking was a big part of Tadesse’s life. In Ethiopia, his grandmother was the keeper of traditional recipes. His family also had a restaurant in their small town.

“I would bring my friends over in high school and introduce them to different foods,” Tadesse said. His mother-in-law makes many of Buna’s recipes, and Tadesse’s wife is a chef there.

Buna offers 38 items along with two desserts. And, naturally, customers should try a cup of coffee while there.

Tadesse strives to bring his dishes to people looking for different tastes; the market plays a critical role in sparking interest in people experimenting with new foods. “We want people to feel they were served kindly when they walk into Buna,” Tadesse said. “The kitchen is open so they can see us making things; the kids watch us. We want to encourage people to cook. They can buy our spices and take them home to experiment.”

Tadesse hopes to open Buna in other places to introduce their Ethiopian avors to the world. Enjoy a little taste of Ethiopia at Buna Restaurant and Market in Little Ethiopia.

1034 S Fairfax Ave, Los Angeles, CA 90019 (323) 964-9731 | bunaethiopianmarket.com FB @BunaEthiopianMarket | IG @bunaethiopian | TW @bunamarket Check out their videos on Youtube. Search Buna Ethiopian Restaurant & Market

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PICTURED: Daughter, Beatriz Gonzalez (left) and mother, Delfina Gonzalez (right).

n the border of California and Mexico in Imperial County sits a mother-and-daughter-run Mexican restaurant. El Zarape is only one of two Mexican food stops on the block, the other being a fast food place. While customers know El Zarape by their special quesadillas, the story has humble beginnings starting with Delna Gonzalez.

Gonzalez was born in Guadalajara, Mexico, and grew up in Mexicali. In 1983 she moved her family to California with her husband, who was a U.S. citizen. Unfortunately, her husband grew ill, and Gonzalez needed to work to make ends meet. She knew people from the church that worked at a restaurant in Imperial.

“My mom started as a dishwasher at that restaurant then became a cook there,” said Beatriz Gonzalez, Delna’s daughter.

“She watched how the place was run, and once she had it down, she took an opportunity to run another restaurant, and soon after, she opened her own place in 1988, El Zarape.”

El Zarape is a long blanket-like shawl, often brightly colored and fringed at the ends, worn in Mexico. I can see how El Zarape ts the name of the restaurant perfectly. The warmth and comfort of my favorite blanket is the feeling I get when I am in this family-owned and operated restaurant.

Not as enthusiastic as her mother, B. Gonzalez was reluctant to join the restaurant business, but when her mother had a minor stroke in 2001, she came in to help. Now she’s the general manager. “I know everything from the back door to the front door,” B. Gonzalez said.

“You need to know every job. If we’re ever short, I’m there to ll in.”

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Growing up, Gonzalez’s grandmother encouraged her to cook with her. She remembers the rst thing she learned to make was salsa. She enjoyed watching her grandmother cook.

“Our genes have a lot to do with cooking,” B. Gonzalez said. “There’s tradition and history in our food. We want people to learn our avors.”

The Gonzalezes take pride in their restaurant and hope customers are happy when they arrive and leave content and satised, like friends and family when they come over to her house, Gonzalez said.

Both women look forward to retirement. The elder Gonzalez is 76 years old.

“She doesn’t want to work forever,” Gonzalez said. “We’re happy to have accomplished something and left a legacy on the City of Imperial.” Experience the aroma and taste of El Zarape.+

139 S Imperial Ave, Imperial, CA 92251 (760) 355-4435

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Suite Traditional Food Found on Southern California Food Carts A Photojournalist View STORY AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY MONICA BELANDRES-ROOT

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Fruit carts are available on many street corners in Southern California. There's nothing more refreshing than cold, sweet, fresh fruit, especially during the summer months. At least, I thought so until a friend forced me to add fresh lime juice and Tajin (chili lime seasoning) to my fruit. I couldn't believe my tastebuds; the combination is amazing! I just never understood why people would ruin the sweet avor of the fruit, but the fusion of spices brought all the avors together in a way I never imagined. Tajin is now a staple in our home.

It all began in a little town in Mexico. In my research, it seems the rst Paleteria appeared in the 1940s in Tocumbo, a booming sugarcane state in Michoacan, Mexico. The refreshing fruit paletas from Tocumbo were very popular, and it was not long before families throughout Mexico opened Paleterias across the country. The paleta made its way to the United States about 40 years ago. A paletero (roughly translates to "ice cream man").

Many paleteros are now commonly found in American cities with signicant Mexican populations.

I was lucky to interview Mr. Tavrino Ibarra. He has been in San Diego for a year, walking seven hours a day and an average of 13 miles. He says most of his customers are Hispanic. Many paleteros are now commonly found in American cities with signicant Mexican populations. On this day, I caught Skyler and Patty choosing a paleta as they cruised the San Diego Bay. Skyler said she enjoyed the distinct avors and tried the hibiscus. This was Patty's rst time, and she chose mango and said she would denitely try another avor in the future.

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I saw Mr. Lopez on another visit to Mission Bay. He said he was busier on this day.

Did someone say warm buttery corn? Alberto Lopez has leased his elote (corn) and tamale cart for two years, and his primary location is at Mission Bay in San Diego, CA. He walks along the paths with his megaphone on a loop, calling out, Elotes, Tamales!. Hot spicy tamales and corn with or without the melted butter. Mr. Lopez also sells duros de harina (crunchy wheat chips) doused in lemon juice and hot sauce.

This is a very popular snack originating in Mexico.

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Riding It Out:

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Life & Style

Be Free, Be Fly,

Time to Step Out and Shine CURATED BY AJA BROWN

As America reopens, there is an eagerness to step away from our screens and step out into the warm summer days and nights that are lled with the electric energy of people connecting, laughing, and enjoying each other’s company. From bottomless mimosa brunches to scenic rooftop views with great music to dance to, there will be no shortage of invitations to ll up your social calendar.

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How we look and feel will always speak for us in any room we enter. From the top of our crowns to the soles of our feet, there is bold and beautiful condence one will exude when their style of dress represents who they are authentically and unapologetically.

And there is no better time than now to refresh our summer wardrobe. Sometimes, all it takes are those perfect accessories or the one-of-a-kind jewelry piece you've fallen in love with that can take your look to a whole other level. Or nding those timeless staple pieces that you can remix, so it always feels brand new.

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For others, making a fashionable statement may not be the concern. Revitalizing your hair and skin to achieve that sunkissed summer glow might be all you need to have you feel like your best self.

A post-COVID makeover could sound overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be.

No matter the size of your wallet or your waistline, there is an abundance of options to explore in this curated guide of talented Black and Brown Southern California designers and business owners. Soon you will nd yourself channeling Diana Ross and Billy Dee Williams in Mahogany to Gabrielle Union and Dwayne Wade on any given day.

Adrien Sauvage (Menswear) } London-to-Beverly Hills transplant of Ghanaian descent has dressed the likes of Dwyane Wade and LeBron James.

ASAUVAGE Blue Victor City Suit

asauvage.com IG @adriensauvage

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Beatrice Valenzuela (Apparel)

The Echo Park designer, known for her feminine apparel, accessories, and minimal sandals, started the famous Echo Park Craft Fair—an annual festival devoted to Los Angeles makers—in her backyard with friend and fellow designer Rachel Craven. beatricevalenzuela.com IG @beatricevalenzuela PIN @beavalenzuela

Bephie (Apparel) } Founded by Union Los Angeles co-owner Beth Birkett, Bephie's laid-back, genderneutral garments are inspired by feminism and the Black Southern California experience. bephiesbeautysupply.com FB/IG @bephiesbeautysupply IG @bephie

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Brownhaze

(Jewelry)

The use of rocks and stones, wood, seashells, and plants give Len Brown's handmade unisex bracelets and necklaces a chunky, hewn-from-nature vibe. brownhazejewelry.com FB/IG @brownhazeshop

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Life & Style | cj's elegance (Women's Apparel Retailer) Launched by Orlean Dubuclet, one of the oldest black-owned women's retail clothing businesses in LA, CJ's recently marked a half-century in business selling “fashions for fashionable women...and other finishing touches.” cjselegance.com FB/IG @cjselegance

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CJ2w/Love (The next generation of CJ’s Elegance)

Created by Carol Jo, CJ2w/Love is globally-sourced for young contemporary fashion for the “round-the-way” girl. cjselegance.com IG @cj2wlove

Curvy Bombshells (Swimwear) } Launched by Nicole Rionne in September of 2019 with the mantra "embrace your curves," swimwear brand Curvy Bombshells specializes in women's swimsuits sizes 14 to 28 and sells online only. curvybombshells.com IG @curvybombshellss FB/TW @curvybombshells

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Cuyana

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Classic bags and simple separates designed by Karla Gallardo and Shilpa Shah with the philosophy that creating “fewer, better” quality pieces will last. cuyana.com @cuyana

cjs with love Satchel Linen Pant & Flower Power Earrings

Gentle Riot

See listing at top.

T-shirts designed to celebrate Latinas and women of color.

(Expressive Tees) }

shopgentleriot.com IG @gentleriot

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GRL Collective (Apparel & Accessories) } Clothing, jewelry, stickers, and more from the Latina lifestyle brand, founded by Kristine Rodriguez, are dedicated to ethical and sustainable practices. You can catch them IRL to celebrate with a launch party on July 17th. grlcollective.com IG @grlcollective

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Kutula by Africana

(Retailer of African-inspired Fashions) Specializing in modern African-inspired styles and run by second-generation owners Kay and Bo Anuluoha, whose handiwork appeared both on-screen and at the red-carpet premiere of "Black Panther." shopkutula.com TW @KutulaAfricana IG @kutula FB @kutulabyafricana

The Lace Lounge (Bras) } Tiffany Fitzgerald has been in the bra business for the last five years, stocking bra sizes 28-38 and cup sizes A-K and providing expert bra fittings and inhouse alterations and repairs. thelacelounge.com FB/IG @thelacelounge

Kutula by Africana model in an African print dress and head wrap

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Luna Magic Beauty (Cosmetics & Accessories)

This Afro-Latina-owned and operated beauty brand founded by sisters Mabel and Shaira Frías offers cosmetics, T-shirts, and hairpins. lunamagic.com FB/IG @lunamagicbeauty

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| Los Angeles Oils and Butters (Skincare) Licensed aesthetician Jerron "Ronnie" Mitchell launched his DTLA-based skincare line in 2017 and sells his acne-zapping, skin-toning Tea Tree Serum Kits and spot-fading Emu Serum Kits (the brand's two bestsellers), oilinfused African black soaps, and other potions and lotions online. losangelesoilsandbutters.com FB/IG @losangelesoilsandbutters

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Owner and head-fitting specialist Crystal Rogers aims to have a bra for every body type and need (including unique bridal, nursing, and postmastectomy bras) at her Long Beach boutique. If she doesn't stock it, she'll source it. lucysboudoir.com FB/IG @LucysBoudoir

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(Beauty)

Nyakio Kamoche Grieco, a first-generation American of Kenyan descent, tapped family beauty hacks for skincare line recently launched Target in partnership with Sundial Brands. nyakio.com FB/IG @nyakiobeauty IG @nyakio

One of A Kind Hats (Hats) } Second-generation owner Meeka Robinson Davis specializes in customdesigned hats worn by the likes of Patti LaBelle and the late Aretha Franklin.

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References: George Turner of Penuel Bicycles. Inglewood, CA (888) 887-7366

| Perry White

Ralph Alcantar of Códigos Cycling-Team. City of El Centro, Imperial Valley CA (760)-455-9602

(Women's and Men's Apparel) From briefs and multi zippered track pants for men to latex bodysuits and mesh dresses for women, Perry White has you covered. perrywhite.la IG @perrywhite.la FB @perrywhitela

Sana Canna } (All-Natural CBD and Herbal Apothecary) Handcrafted vegan, hemp-infused body and skincare products, and plant-based sweets by Silvana Zamara. sanacanna.shop IG @sanacanna

“Bicycles are what kept me out of trouble. I figured; if I could help someone stay out of trouble, why not."

| Selva\Negra (Apparel) Ethically sourced apparel and accessories informed by the Latina heritage of designers Kristen Gonzalez and Sam Romero. selvanegra.us IG @selvanegra

Viva la Bonita (Apparel) } Rachel Gomez's Los Angeles-based Latina lifestyle and apparel brand includes T-shirts, sweats, jewelry, and phone cases "inspired by the spirit of the women who are fearless." vivalabonita.com IG @vivalabonita FB @VivaLaBonitaShop TW @VivaLasBonitas 34

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PHOTO: EP & LP Rooftop & Restaurant on La Cienega Boulevard near West Hollywood

Romance in the Sky: Best Romantic Rooftop Destinations in Southern California STORY BY ASHLEY YANCEY

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ach summer, there seems to be a new theme to lead the charge on romance.

Who remembers watching Grease featuring Olivia Newton-John and John Travolta while they sang about all the fun and trouble they'd gotten into during "Summer Lovin"? Years later, I listened to Drake rap-sing about all the guys he was going to ex on and girls he was going to snatch in "Summer Sixteen." Most recently, I've listened to Megan Thee Stallion provide the template for living your best "Hot Girl Summer" while being careful to remind the people not to get too carried away because "my man is picking me up after."

For all of these burgeoning summer ings, romances, and forever things, there needs to be a backdrop, but it can't be just any old thing, however. Try a spot that's somewhat exclusive, perhaps a bit off the beaten path, that will speak not only to where you are today but where you hope to be in the future. "This is more than a crush…" Boyz II Men once sang to us on "Hey Lover." What better place than a gorgeous rooftop in southern California, where the sunsets take your breath away, where the leaves of palm trees wave in the wind, where even the breeze from the ocean can't cool the heat building between the two of you?

Below is a list of some heavy-hitting, vibe-setting locales to ensure your summer romance set-up is legit. Some may be more popular than others, but the key takeaway is that there is truly something for everyone. Whether you're trying to duck off in the cut, out poppin' and exin' with the best of them, or somewhere in the middle, there is a place for you.

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LOS ANGELES EP & LP Located at the intersection of Melrose and La Cienega near West Hollywood, this popular hot spot boasts gorgeous views day or night, with multiple restaurant experiences on one rooftop.

Rooftop setting is also perfect for red carpet press events and other special occasions

The main "LP" rooftop has standard California casual bar food done well with tons of plants and cozy seating to emit privacy. Next to this, on the other side of the rooftop, is Las Palmas, the restaurant's "Tulum-inspired" pop-up that debuted during the height of the pandemic. It features Mexican cuisine, Instagram-worthy props and decor, and fantastic food. Regardless of which side of the rooftop you nd yourself on, you will not be disappointed.

603 N La Cienega Blvd, West Hollywood 90069 (310) 855-9955 IG @eplosangeles eplosangeles.com

Catch LA No rooftop list is complete without this open-air seafood restaurant on the list. Sure it's trendy and can be pretty touristy, but all for a good reason. The views of Hollywood, sexy lighting and decor, delightful cocktails, and orgasmic food make it well worth it. Catch LA is best for dinner and drinks with someone you feel really great about because the likelihood someone may spot you is high. Aside from just a romantic date, it's also a wonderful vibe for girls' night. The greenery and orals also make it ideal for a mini-photo shoot session with your iPhone so get ready.

8715 Melrose Avenue, West Hollywood CA 90069 (323) 347-6060 IG/FB @catch catchrestaurants.com/catchla

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Harriet's Located in North Hollywood, this ducked-off rooftop primarily ies under the radar, except for its hearty Saturday day party vibes. If you're able to swing it, check it out on a Friday night where many of the city's athletes, actors, inuencers, and other movers and shakers can be frequently spotted. While they do serve food, it's best for drinks. Go somewhere else for dinner. It's private, moody, romantic, and sexy. Be prepared to dress well, shake hands, and be discreet. Good times await, so long as you don't arrive too late--aim for 10 pm.

Open Tuesday thru Friday: 5pm - Close Saturday & Sunday: 12pm - Close 8490 Sunset Blvd., West Hollywood, CA 90069 (424) 281-1860 @harrietsrooftop | harrietsrooftop.com

9850 Wilshire Blvd, Beverly Hills, CA 90210 | (800) 774-1500 @waldorfbevhills | waldorfastoriabeverlyhills.com

448 S. Hill Street, Los Angeles CA 90013 | (213) 802-1770 @perchlosangeles | perchla.com

The Rooftop by JG

Perch

Honestly, you can't go wrong with most of the rooftop restaurants up top LA hotels (Ace, The Nomad, The London, etc.), but that said, the Waldorf Astoria Beverly Hills rooftop restaurant, The Rooftop by JG, is truly something special. It's the perfect location to catch an LA sunset due to the ideal positioning of the dim lighting, plush couches, and chairs designed for close contact. The full dinner menu and fresh cocktails make this a hidden gem that many may not initially consider. A Jean-Georges production, the New American cuisine has something for everyone and makes it perfect for you and yours.

Downtown's skyline is incredible, and Perch is the perfect place to take it all in. While serving small French plates and great drinks, the true attraction is the views you can't get anywhere else. The seating is mixed, ranging from cozy and relaxed to dining and more straight-backed, so when it comes to romance, be sure to specify which area you desire to dine.

Brunch or dinner, either time works as the seating is spread out so you can have a bit of privacy. It is famous for a reasonthe glam downtown setting with the grand views can't be matched.

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SAN DIEGO The Nolen

453 6th Avenue, San Diego, CA 92101 | (619) 769-6536 IG & FB @thenolenrooftop | thenolenrooftop.com

A popular destination and somewhat of a tourist hot spot, this award-winning restaurant features spectacular views of Petco Park and through to the Coronado Bridge. With fantastic food, even better cocktails, and a friendly ambiance, it's best suited for a nice night out with friends or even a rst/second romantic date.

The romance vibe isn't overbearing, making it that much more comfortable for those who aren't prioritizing that sort of energy.

The best time to go is sunset, just when that golden hour glow is prime.

Cannonball

3105 Ocean Front Walk, San Diego, CA 92109 | 858-228-9304 IG/FB/TW @cannonballsd | cannonballsd.com

Located right by the beach, this sushi restaurant is technically a rooftop despite being oceanfront as well. The views are breathtaking, as the shoreline is mere feet away, and the bright sun coupled with the craft cocktails makes every visit feel like a taste of vacation. It's perfect for a casual meetup with your love as you two sit and enjoy the view. There are re pits that feature cozy seating for cooler nights, meaning you two might be out on the patio until the place shuts down. But isn't that the makings of an incredible romantic rooftop date anyway?

Level 9

453 6th Avenue, San Diego, CA 92101 | (619) 769-6536 IG & FB @thenolenrooftop | thenolenrooftop.com

Another hotel rooftop bar, this 9th-oor masterpiece at the luxe Indigo (an Intercontinental property) does not disappoint. Best for pre- or post-dinner drinks, as the menu mainly consists of bar food, cocktails, and multiple re pits, make this an incredible place to visit for simple drinks and conversation. The views are stunning, allowing you to see much of the city, and it can be easy to get lost in the evening as you sip and discuss your way through each other's lives. I recommend going on non-event days, as the sports crowd can dominate and change the energy.

PASADENA Granville

270 S Lake Ave, Pasadena, CA 91101 | (626) 360-7633 IG @granville / TW @Granvillecafe | granvillecafe.com/pasadena

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There are few options to pick from, so this famous sanctuary stands out due to the chic decor and superb layout. During the day, the sun shines beautifully, making everything seemingly sparkle (including that glint in your partner's eyes), and at night, the lighting is subtle and helps cast a glow that sets a romantic vibe.

Overall, the ambiance is incredible, the rooftop views are decent for Pasadena, and the wholesome hand-crafted recipes and libations make it a go-to destination if you're in the area. Whether you're eating a meal or just enjoying cocktails, they make it worth your while.

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“Bicycles are what kept me out of trouble. I gured; if I could help someone stay out of trouble, why not.”

— George Turner, Jr.

Riding It Out

STORY BY EDDIE TRUJILLO GRIJALVA

PHOTO OF GEORGE TURNER BY TARA PIXLEY

The bicycle.

We've all probably had one when we were young.

Though at a certain age, some of us put it down for good. Whether you put your bike down or you still cycle regularly, at the moment, cycling and cycling groups are experiencing a bit of a resurgence in the US, maybe even a renaissance. This summer, Suite Life SoCal spoke with founders of two cycling clubs from different regions of SoCal: Penuel Bicycle Club of Inglewood and Códigos Cycling Team of the Imperial Valley.

Each club has its unique style and culture. Whether they're mountain trail riders or road cyclists, each owner has the same passion for biking and outreach programs that give back to their communities, their people, and the next generation.

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Penuel Bicycle Club of Inglewood Mr. George Turner, the owner of Penuel Bicycles and Coffee Shop, can usually be found on the corner of 64th and La Brea in his shop repairing bicycles with his own hands.

During my conversation with Turner, I could see he was an old-fashioned, no-nonsense man with a heck of a work ethic.

His dedication has paid off, as his shop and club have become the go-to for the sport's elite and some noteworthy amateurs, like Super Bowl champion Ray Lewis. According to Turner, Lewis planned to ride with Turner's Penuel Bicycle Club in late May. He's a "strong rider," Turner added as he continued repairing a bike.

The critical point to Turner is giving back to his community. When I asked him, “why bikes”? He said, "Bicycles are what kept me out of trouble. I gured; if I could help someone stay out of trouble, why not." Giving back to the next generation is also the reason Turner's club, through grants and nonprot groups, are involved in programs to, in his words: "Reach inner-city kids and teach them mountain biking.”

Penuel Bicycles and Coffee Shop is a family business, with his kids helping serve coffee to clients. When I asked about the coffee aspect, Turner informed me, "The vision from the beginning was to have a coffee/bike shop...because I wanted to create a safe haven." So basically, a person can get their bike xed and hang out, grab a cup of coffee, watch their bike be repaired, by Turner himself, and maybe even learn a thing or two.

When asked how the pandemic affected his business, it was a pleasant surprise to hear Turner experienced an uptick in sales. People turned to bikes as an excellent way to stay healthy during the pandemic and a way to get the family out of the house together. The problem affecting Turner and the rest of the cycling world was the one-two punch of last year's trade wars, then COVID. It affected the capabilities of manufacturers to produce parts and bikes altogether. This created shortages, but Turner's shop and the cycling world experienced a boom. Which was precisely the same sentiment I heard from the co-founder of the Imperial Valley-based Códigos Cycling Team.

Códigos Cycling Team Ralph Alcantar co-founded the club with Sergio Valenzuela 7 years ago as “...a mountain bike club among co-workers, to help us bond." He's a man with a huge passion for cycling, as I discovered during a lively interview, where he expressed to me he felt the cycling world, surprisingly enough, grew during the pandemic. He described to me a similar experience as Mr. Turner and mentioned, "a lot of people turned to cycling for their health."

Though not a large group, Códigos expands its footprint by collaborating with many other cycling clubs and riding for several causes, like ghting cancer and highway cleanups.

The Códigos Cycling Team had weekly rides, which were postponed for the past year, like everything else in the world.

Though, triumphantly, the week before our conversation, the Códigos Cycling Team resumed their weekly rides.

The last big ride they participated in before the COVID shutdown was their annual 3:10 To Yuma Ride Against Cancer. Along within which they collaborated with the I.V. Velo Club, another Imperial Valley cycling club, and one the Códigos often collaborate with for a good cause. According to Alcantar, "It's a brotherhood among cyclists, that is the reputation of the Códigos. You don't have to be a part of the club to ride with us or be helped by us." Which is illustrated by the fact that their outreach extends to the other side of the border, as does their collaboration with Mexicali cycling clubs like Entre Fronteras Bike Team, Aerobikers, and Goya's Bike Team.

When asked what Alcantar was looking forward to the most in the cycling world, what was the next big goal? I was expecting an answer like 'oh, we're looking forward to the

Códigos Cycling Team co-founders, Ralph Alcantar (right) and Sergio Valenzuela (left).

next big ride,' like the Tour de Big Bear, which they expect to be a sold-out affair. Instead, Alcantar wished, "For COVID restrictions to lift enough so the border can open and we can ride freely with our family once again from the other side."

And in that wish, the essence of cycling is dened. A sport not only for the elite but for anyone. Anyone who loves to feel the wind on their face, anyone who wants to relieve the stress of life, anyone who wants to ride with friends and family at their back, anyone who believes in a cause and wants to make a difference, or just for anyone. + SUITELIFESOCAL.COM | SUMMER 2021

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After over a year of limited capacity and social distancing measures, restaurants across Southern California offer outdoor and in-person dining again as the hospitality industry awaits a boom. However, the pandemic has made way for a new crop of home chefs, and we’ve found there are many fantastic dishes you can try for brunch with friends or a picnic in the park. Here, Suite Life SoCal offers three recipes perfect for the summer that you can prepare for yourself and your loved ones.

We caught up with Chef Karen Blanchard, owner of Lady K Specialty Foods, who shared her favorite summer dishes, a refreshing salad to set your taste buds on re, and a avorful salmon-based entrée.

Blanchard’s “BilionAir Summer Salad,” made with dried cranberries, sliced pears, and candied walnuts, is named after her nephew, independent music artist BilionAir Carter, and was conceived when she catered his music video shoot. She describes the dish as a “beautiful, delicious entrée or side salad.” “Make sure you make enough because they will come back for more,” Blanchard warns.

PHOTO CREDIT: IMAGES OF SALMON & ASPARAGUS, RICE BOWL AND ICE CREAM SCOOPS BY ADOBE STOCK

Refreshing Suite Summer Dishes

here are two things summer always brings to Southern California: warmer weather and refreshing seasonal meals.

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Chopped romaine hearts Spring mix Persian cucumbers Dried cranberries Sliced pears Pomegranate seeds Thinly sliced red onions Candied walnuts Gorgonzola cheese (on the side) Cilantro vinaigrette (to your preference)

Lady K’s Pan-Seared Salmon

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For a quick, light, restaurant-quality meal, Blanchard suggests, grilled or pan-seared salmon is the way to go. “I prefer wild-caught sh as opposed to farm-raised,” Blanchard shared. “The pellets fed to the salmon have some unhealthy ingredients; it’s safe to go with wild-caught sh,“ Blanchard adds.

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Blanchard suggests coating the salmon with olive oil and Cajun seasoning or sprinkling some salt, pepper, and lemon.

To pan-sear, heat olive oil in a nonstick skillet over mediumhigh heat until the oil’s hot and simmering. Cook the salmon, skin side up, for about 4 minutes until it’s golden and crisp.

Then carefully ip the llet, reduce the heat to medium, continue cooking for 4 to 5 more minutes, or until the salmon is cooked to your liking. The cooking process should take less than 15 minutes, and you can freestyle your seasoning.

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The salad is easy to make. No oven required.

According to Blanchard, this is how you make this beautiful, tasty salad–“Chop up the romaine hearts into medium-sized pieces, thinly slice the red onions, and cut the Persian cucumbers and pears to your desired thickness. Then combine the ingredients. For the whole savory experience, mix the Gorgonzola cheese with the other ingredients; if you want a vegan salad, leave the cheese on the side.

Add dressing to your liking and serve!”

6 oz wild-caught salmon (per serving) Olive oil Cajun seasoning Salt and pepper

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Lemon Brown or Jasmin rice (optional side) Grilled or steamed asparagus (optional side)

In addition to the optional sides, optional garnishes that will enhance the salmon’s avor include blistered grape and cherry tomatoes or sautéed onions and bell peppers. Blanchard advises to include color in your dishes whenever possible. “We eat with our eyes rst. A lot of green, purple, and red-colored veggies have a lot of medicinal benets, so along with color, you’re getting important nutrients.”

If you’re looking for something to make to drink to go with your summer dishes, Blanchard suggests that you make a refreshing iced tea or a blueberry lemonade with a mint sprig to complete your meal. For an alcoholic beverage, a Rosé or Sauvignon blanc champagne works wonders.

Other suite dishes we recommend are the popular Southern California staples, healthy bowls, and wraps, as well as an ice cream you can make without an ice cream machine. These dishes give you the option to freestyle with your favorite varieties of each type of food. Below are the loose and customizable recipes.

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For this bowl, prepare one serving, 1 cup or more, of your favorite rice. It can be brown, white, wild, jasmine, whatever you wish.

Add 3 oz of your favorite type of grilled meat, sh, or vegan substitute, chopped into bite-sized pieces.

If a grill is not available, baked is ne. Add in corn, green peppers, and cheese, or whichever of your favorite toppings you prefer. This quick and lling meal makes for a light and healthy summer dish.

Don’t forget dessert. Want creamy homemade ice cream but don’t have an ice cream maker? The solution lies in this easy no-churn ice cream base, not made from egg custard. To make a no-churn base, whip the heavy cream with a hand mixer or hand whisk until stiff peaks form. Then fold the whipped cream into the sweetened condensed milk and vanilla extract.

You can add in desired toppings at this stage, then put the ice cream in the bread loaf pan to freeze. A metal pan will freeze faster, but a glass pan is also acceptable.

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German Chocolate Cake: cocoa powder, chocolate chips, toasted coconut, and pecans Mint Chocolate Chip: green food coloring, peppermint extract, chocolate chips White strawberry: frozen strawberries, white chocolate chips Key Lime Pie: lime juice, lime zest, graham cracker pieces Cookie Dough: chocolate chips, edible cookie dough

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arly sunrises, late sunsets, there's a magical wonderland in the mountains, deserts, luscious forests, and deep blue seas across the shores of the Pacic Ocean. The sounds of Sade's "Paradise," Jamiroquai's "Virtual Insanity," Smokey Robinson's "Crusin," and Fresh Prince with Jazzy Jeff's "Summertime" on rotation, coming through loud on the speakers. Dancing feet dangle outside the passenger side windows, and furry friends enjoy the light winds kissing their faces. Teenagers are taking seles, posting, and hashtagging to ensure their social media presence doesn't feel barren. Roads are piling up with rainbow-colored buggies, Jeep Wranglers with mountain bikes on the rooftops, Broncos trucks with surfboards, and RVs towing jet skis. The time has come to ll glasses with sweet tea, freshly made strawberry lemonade with a hint of mint and basil leaves, alongside cucumber, lemon, and lime-infused alkaline water.

She has arrived to greet us with her abundance of warmth and solstice energy. In each of us awakened is a motivation to experience new adventures and create new memories as we permit ourselves to wanderlust around the world without ever needing to board a plane or have a passport.

Summer is here.

We invite you to discover, explore and enjoy the hidden gems of Southern California that will have you thinking you have transported to the Mediterranean.

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Step into a different world with innite possibilities—one where staycations are vacations that re-energize and reawaken the mind, body, and soul. Whether for just a day, two, three, or even four, you are not on autopilot. Your routines, schedules, tasks, and never-ending to-do lists have been laid to rest and reset. New energy ignites and sparkles by new environments, scenery changes to encourage and inspire all to continue to work hard towards their life goals. However, there is a much-needed balance of slowing down enough to see heart shapes in the leaves of blooming owers or bees pollinating.

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Catalina Island AVALON, CA At the top of our list is Catalina Island, where it is perfectly gorgeous all year round for a weekend or day trip that is just an hour ferry ride out of Los Angeles and Orange County: Dana Point, Long Beach, and San Pedro. Tailor your trip according to what you would like to experience. Is it romance with strolls at the beginning of the town to Lovers Point? Relaxation at Descanso Beach, where you can enjoy a mid-day cocktail?

Touring the food scene will lead you to experience the plethora of waterfront restaurants and bars. There is also an adventurous list of excursions to partake in, such as a jeep tour of the Avalon backcountry where you'll see bison, hiking at Garden-to-Sky, ziplining, jet-skiing, snorkeling, scuba diving, paragliding, golng, island tours, sailing, and more.

The Ritz-Carlton Bacara SANTA BARBARA, CA Miles and miles of sandy shores, beautiful natural surroundings bringing you an abundance of delicious seafood, locally-sourced cuisines, tranquil beaches, breathtaking sunsets with painted skies of blue, yellow, pink, and purple.

Enjoy the luxury resorts of The Ritz-Carlton Bacara’s 78 acres overlooking the Pacic, or cocktails at the Four Seasons or The Biltmore. And when you're ready for entertainment and shopping, State Street is where you want to be in the heart of Downtown Santa Barbara.

Joshua Tree RIVERSIDE & SAN BERNARDINO COUNTY "The Park" is a massive cosmic desert. It's over 790,000 sq. acres. An essential part of the Mojave Desert ecosystem, providing habitat for numerous birds, mammals, insects, and lizards. No matter what the length of your stay is, make sure that you put the Keys Views, Skull and Jumbo Rocks, and Cholla Cactus Garden on your list.

The Parker PALM SPRINGS, CA Palm Springs, a city in the Sonoran Desert of Southern California, is known for its hot springs, stylish hotels, golf courses, and spas, which is why you will want to make sure to check out the Parker, a luxury concept full of color, designed

by Jonathan Adler. A 13-acre Eden is a splurge that will cater to all of your needs and beyond. You won’t have a need to leave.

Palm Springs is also noted for its many ne examples of midcentury-modern architecture. Its core shopping district along Palm Canyon Drive features vintage boutiques, interior design shops, and restaurants. The surrounding Coachella Valley offers hiking, biking, and horseback riding trails.

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Coronado Island SAN DIEGO, CA Within the San Diego city limits is one of the world’s largest resort hotels with beautiful beaches and delicious food. Whether you drive over the Coronado Bridge or take a boat to Coronado Island, you will have plenty of sights to admire.

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San Diego Botanic Garden SANTA DIEGO, CA There are no shortages of things to do. From visiting Balboa Park, walks along the harbor, the authentic Mexican cuisines of Old Town, enjoying a winery tour, happy hour in the Gaslamp district, to taking up some history or culture at a museum. Another must on your itinerary is to visit the magical San Diego Botanic Garden, a 37-acre urban oasis in Encinitas. It is known for its four-mile-long garden trails, blooming trees, vista views, and the nation's most extensive bamboo collection.

La Jolla SAN DIEGO COUNTY On your adventures to San Diego, be sure to pit stop in La Jolla and take in the essence of the seals jumping in and out of the beautiful waters of the cove. Don't be surprised by the sea lions, pelicans, and other coastal wildlife that pop in to say hello. This charming seaside community has all that you need from secluded beaches with massive boulders of rocks, scenic hiking trails along the coastline, upscale dining, and boutiques.

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Malibu's Surfrider Beach MALIBU, CA Stretching for more than 30 miles along the Pacic and Highway One, Malibu's Surfrider Beach has some of the most perfect waves anywhere. Just off Malibu Pier, the beach was named the rst World Surng Reserve; nearby, Zuma Beach is a sun magnet for locals and families. In winter, Point Dume, at Malibu's north end, provides an ideal perch for spotting migrating grey whales.

Victoria Beach/Laguna Beach ORANGE COUNTY aka O.C. Victoria Beach is one of Laguna's most famous beaches. It draws in locals and visitors to take in iconic sights such as the "Pirate Tower" located on the mystique Victoria Beach, accessible only by climbing over rocks. A hidden Treasure Island is worth the day trip. Ensure you also leave time for shopping and sunset dinner from a vast selection of ocean view restaurants.

San Onofre State Beach SAN CLEMENTE, CA Start your day off enjoying an excellent breakfast or brunch before heading over to the beach. The ideal destination for surf lovers and to beat the crowds for a more peaceful day by the shore. For surng and less populated beaches to enjoy peace and calm without the crowds.

Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach Resort & Club DANA POINT, CA A beautiful destination to enjoy everything from whale watching, golng, shing to beautiful yacht harbors, seafood restaurants, bars, and small boutiques for shopping. And of course, the beach!

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Quirky Stops for a Rural SoCal Road Trip PHOTOS CCREDIT: ADOBE STOCK

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fter being under a stay-at-home order for over a year, residents of SoCal, like most others, are itching to get out of the house. Though with the pandemic not quite over, it's still going to be a COVID summer, hopefully, the last one ever. So, we still need to be cautious. But we can't stand one more day in the house. What do we do? Well, Suite Life SoCal has an idea--ROAD TRIP! From the bizarre to the beautiful, rural SoCal is chockfull of quirky and interesting sights, both natural and manmade. These are a few of the out-of-the-way places you can take the family to get away from it all and get to know some of the unique places rural SoCal has to offer.

Niland Mud Pots Our journey begins near the Salton Sea, in the Imperial Valley, menacingly close to the mighty San Andreas Fault, ve miles NW of a town called Niland are the infamous "Niland Mud Pots." This place is very thermally active. These mud pots can be found throughout the area, bubbling and gurgling out mud, steam, and Co2 gas. Basically, they're geysers. They also have a distinctive smell. If you drive down highway 111, you can see the mud pot giving the state of California ts at the moment.

It's been around since 1953, though in 2007, it began to do something strange. It began to move, and in more recent times, it started moving towards the Union Pacic railroad tracks and State Route 111. It gobbled up some track and a wall that was built to stop it and forced Cal-Trans to move highway 111 one hundred feet West. So now it's gained the distinction as the world's only moving geyser.

Safety issues prohibit you from stopping to look at the "Niland geyser." Though, as mentioned before, many other mud geysers can be safely visited, provided you keep your distance and remember, it's a boiling pot of mud that can scald you or worse.

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Red Hill Island As the Salton Sea continues to recede, more mud pots are exposed every day; they're a bizarre sight to behold. Though this brings us to our next stop, a place called Red Hill or Island, in the Salton Sea, though the sea has receded so much, it's no longer an island. It looks like a mound of mud, but it's part of a volcanic system, the only one in California. A great spot to visit for the more geologically minded roadtripper, especially with the San Andreas Fault's proximity. If you're going to exit your vehicle in these parts, carrying water is recommended.

Sea Level Flagpole – Calipatria, CA Another quirky spot a few miles to the south of the Salton Sea in the town of Calipatria is the Sea Level Flagpole. Once claimed to be the tallest on earth, it's 184 ft. tall, the exact amount of feet the town itself is under sea level. With the point being, if not for a rise of land in Mexico barely above sea level itself, the Sea of Cortez would rush in, lling the Salton Sink Basin, the town of Calipatria, and most of the Imperial Valley, to the top of the pole with seawater. According to a plaque at its base, it's dedicated to, a bit ironically, "Good Neighborliness.”

Anza-Borrego State Park Our next stop takes us northwest across the low desert into the high desert, where it meets the mountains at Anza-Borrego State Park. A ruggedly beautiful part of the desert named for the Bighorn sheep that inhabit the area. With over 640,000 acres of stunning vistas, canyons, and wildowers, there's plenty of space to nd you a little piece of solitude and appreciate the dramatic beauty that California wraps us up in. It's also a great place to take the family camping, hiking, and bird watching. With elevations from below sea level to over 6,000 ft. the views are spectacular, especially the sunsets.

Recently, in 2018 the International Dark-Sky Association recognized Anza-Borrego's dark skies and the fantastic view of the Milky Way as a natural resource and certied Anza-Borrego as an International Dark-Sky Park. They have several programs throughout the year for Dark-Sky activities.

Town of Julian - Cuyamaca Mountains West and into the mountains of San Diego County is where this particular SoCal road trip comes to its terminus. In the Cuyamaca mountains, the road wraps itself around, up, and through the mountains in an exhilarating drive that is almost the main attraction. Traveling through the beautiful mountainous communities, you arrive at the small town of Julian, where you can have some of its famous apple pie and enjoy the spectacular oldtime charm of the community, which is the newest member of the International Dark-Sky community.

If you nd yourself there on July 31 from 11:00 am to 5:00 pm, enjoy their Sip of Julian 2021, a town-wide event. Enjoy samples of beer, wine, hard cider, and craft cocktails, along with a small bitefood pairings from what is promoted as “some of the best tasting rooms” in Julian! $35 per person Another treat is their annual Apple Time Teas which takes place Thursday September 23rd through Monday September 27th.

The set menu is an Apple-themed version of our four course Cottage Classic Tea, including a cup of soup with mini cheese scone, apple themed nger sandwiches and savories, scone with curd, apple butter and whipped cream, and apple themed dessert.

For the leisurely-minded folk, on September 25 from 6:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., it's their 21st Annual “Fishin’ in the Pines” at Lake Cuyamaca. Their kids shing derby welcomes back children ages 3 to 15 to compete for kayaks, trophies, bikes, shing gear and more. It's sure to be a suite time! Find details at visitjulian.com.

Santa Ysabel Indian Mission A few miles down the road is the perfect place to end a road trip--the Santa Ysabel Indian Mission. An old relic of the California Mission period was founded in 1818 to be a kind of sister mission of the Mission San Diego de Alcala in San Diego. It's a nice, quiet place to show the family or visit in solitude and collect your thoughts among both the articial and natural beauty of Southern California.

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hile it is exciting to go on vacation, I would like to nd one person who gets excited about packing.

We all struggle to pack our suitcases when it is time to go on a trip. If you are like most women, you probably overpack and carry more clothes than you ever wear. After taking many trips dragging luggage on and off planes and trains, I have learned a few things. Learning packing tips is as much about what not to take as it is about what to bring. It is a skill that you get better with over time. Of course, you might imagine that there is some psychology to this also.

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As I travel, one of the rst things I think about is my feet and wanting to be sure that I can withstand all of the airports walking. Packing too many shoes is a common mistake that women make. You don't need a different pair of shoes for each outt. Think comfort, then style. If you are going on a vacation with water sports, water shoes are a good option, along with an excellent walking shoe and a pair of sandals (neutral color). +

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hen I sat down to talk to Barbara Gunner, her warm smile and words greeted me. While she sits on an acre of land in a 5,000 square foot house with the best view in San Diego, she is the most humble, successful woman I have met. For many African American San Diegans, the military is often why their families call San Diego home. While this is true for entrepreneur and real estate investor Gunner, her story is not your typical military story.

Although Gunner has lived in San Diego for 53 years, becoming a long-time resident of San Diego was not her original plan. She came to San Diego to help her military cousin with her newborn child. When Gunner arrived, she was not fond of San Diego. “I was ready to leave (San Diego).

It was so country. When I got here, I think the El Cortez was the largest building down there (Downtown). Just leaving Detroit, it wasn’t for me.” But as fate would sprinkle its magic, something changed Gunner’s mind.

“I was in a record shop one day, and the kid’s dad came in.

We started talking, and then he got my phone number. We started to date, and then we got married.” After they married in 1969, Louis Lake and Gunner built a family and several successful businesses. Lake is best known for bringing the Muhammad Ali and Ken Norton ght to San Diego. Gunner shared exciting information about that ght and how they were able to achieve such a lofty accomplishment. She shared that this was Mr. Lakes’ idea.

“We promoted that Muhammad Ali ght… They thought Ken Norton was a nobody. Lou sent him some pictures of him boxing, ghting some nobody. But Ken fought in the Marines.

Ali thought he was coming, and he had it made.” As most boxing fans remember, Ali suffered his second professional loss to Norton on March 31, 1973.

While the two had an agreement for a series of 3 ghts with Ali, a business deal gone awry kept the deal from Gunner and Lake. Undeterred by the sometimes unrighteousness of business deals, they went on to open up several nightclubs.

The entrepreneurial bug bit Gunner when married to Lake.

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When their marriage ended after 14 years, they split everything equally, remained friends, and co-parented their four children. As a result, Gunner continued her professional career and ventured off to new entrepreneurial pursuits.

“I continued to dabble in real estate and went to work for a program called Model Ex-Offenders. I ended up marrying the guy that owned the program. He wrote contracts in the military. He knew how to write contracts, and he was the rst one to get the work furlough here in San Diego. He gave me one of the programs. That’s the program which I still have (National Crossroads),” Gunner explained.

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I'm tired. I quit; I'm tired."

National Crossroads, a nonprot, works with women who are transitioning from prison back into society. “When we rst started, they were still in prison, and they hadn’t gone on parole. When the jails got so crowded, they started letting them out earlier. We’ve got one lady there that’s been there six years, and one just left; she had been there seven years. She was an alcoholic when she came. They are afraid to leave.

Hazel said, ‘I’m not going anywhere.’”

Gunner also shared the story of a woman who came to National Crossroads after more than 50 years of heroin usage.

“One lady was on heroin. She was in her 50s. She had been doing it since she was in high school. She had been through every kind of program everywhere. Finally, when she was ready, her arms were like railroad tracks. She’d shot heroin every kind of way she could shoot it. She said, ‘I’m tired. I quit; I’m tired.’ She stayed there, and she started doing well, and she got a job at Ralphs in the meat department, and now she manages the whole meat department.”

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She also emphasized the support of her accomplished husband, retired Navy Chief and Criminal Attorney Roy Gunner. She lovingly smiled as she mentioned her appreciation for his legal advice and support over the years.

She explained that while San Diego has been “pretty good” to her as an entrepreneur, it hasn’t always been easy.

She sites the systemic racism she has encountered over the years. “One time, they (county government) took a contract from me, and I lost a couple of million dollars. They took it from me because they could. They took a program from me and gave it to a lady that wasn’t even in the area. But that’s the game they play. But we are still here. God is good all the time.”

With a smile on her face and no bitterness in her heart, Gunner agreed that weathering the storms is the bottom line to entrepreneurship. This strong Black woman has been conquering personal and professional storms all of her life.

From her birth to grade school to the loss of her eldest grandchild, Gunner has proven to be an overcomer. “I was born in Detroit. I was born with a chemical imbalance. My learning ability was zero. I couldn’t read well, couldn’t write well. Later in life, I would wonder why so many crazy things would happen to me. I was diagnosed as bipolar. I dealt with a lot of mental challenges. Through all of that, I survived it, “ Gunner shared.

Perhaps it is her story that led her to become the owner of National Crossroads. She grew up educationally challenged, undiagnosed for bipolar disorder, suffered severe depression, and felt abandoned by her father. Remnants of her story are echoed in many of those she and her staff serve. Her compassion for people who have mental illness has compelled her to continue to champion the causes that women who end up in prison suffer. Her ability to overcome allows her to continue to extend the olive branch to women transitioning from jail through her program. +

NCR Services National Crossroads (NCR) is a job readiness/job referral service for women on parole that offers many services to help women to integrate back into the community. Participants at NCR are able to access mental health services, substance abuse treatment, HIV awareness classes, cognitive life skills, job-readiness, family reunification, resume writing, parenting, anger management and education services. Modalities of treatment include cognitive behavioral therapy, relational, pathway, trauma and addiction theories.

Support Offerings National Crossroads is concerned about complete lifestyle change and strives to direct participants in the right direction to ensure success.

After completion of their six-month stay at National Crossroads, the programming does not end. Also offered is: Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ

Alumni Groups Assistance With Family Reunification Outside Referrals Extended Living/Sober Living Housing

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id you know that over two million of the nation’s families are maintained by grandparents who have one or more of their grandchildren living with them?

Did you know that of the grandparents who maintain homes for their grandchildren, 55 percent of grandmothers and 47 percent of grandfathers are not yet aged fty-ve? Did you know that foster parents receive $900 to $1500 per month per child while many grandparents receive no government or state support?

If you did not know any of these Census Bureau facts, you are not alone. I was not aware, and neither were Shearl and Clifford Lambert until twenty-two years ago when their world was upended with the unexpected arrival and permanent stay of a one-month-old baby boy and one-yearold baby girl.

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Left by their son-in-law with only a promise that he’d be right back, the Lamberts had a lot to gure out, in a little bit of time, with minimal baby-friendly resources. The fresh breeze of the empty nest they anticipated being pampered by after their baby boy nished his last year in high school was so close; they could intermittently feel it.

Then, it was gone.

“Unexpected and devastated” are the words the couple used to describe what they felt when they realized the life they were living would be no more. Our rst inclination was not to say, “Thank you, Lord. We were more confused and hurt more than anything. Who gives up his baby? That’s what we wanted to know.”

After three weeks of disbelief and a call from their daughter conrming she would not be coming to reclaim her children, followed by a letter stating that she was

SAN DIEGO, CA relinquishing custody to her parents, the Lamberts began accepting their new reality.

While the start of their new reality was lled with ambiguity and painful setbacks, the Lamberts drew strength from the support of their pastor’s prayers, a brown bag of money collected at the attorney’s ofce that the family court judge presented; and the blessing of the larger house they needed to accommodate their larger family.

Seeing what God did for them inspired them to do for others—and the Lamberts got to work. In 2003, the couple, married for 38 years, founded The Grandparents Connection in San Diego County, where over 24,000 of this nation’s grandparents raising grandchildren reside.

Since its inception, the nonprot has become an asset to San Diego County and a beacon of light for thousands of grandparents. “We partnered with the county. We met Supervisor [Greg] Cox. He loved what we were doing so much it exploded. We wrote a resource book. Initially, the County didn’t know anything about grandparents raising grandchildren. But we started going to the high schools, the churches, the parks passing out yers. Southeast San Diego eventually reached out to us.”

Partnering with the County garnered attention. The attention created additional relationships. Additional relationships yielded more resources and supplies. More resources and supplies drew more grandparents who needed the assurance that they were going to be alright. To date, The Grandparent Connection has partnered with more than 30 organizations—including Walmart and San Diego Gas & Electric, both of whom sponsored this year’s “All-White Pandemic Compliant” Mother’s Day event for 46 grandmothers at Claim Jumpers Restaurant.

Meeting some of the more critical needs of their families like housing and food insecurity means working closely with political allies: Mayor Todd Gloria, 79th District Assemblywoman Dr. Shirley Weber, and 4th District Councilwoman Monica Montgomery Steppe, and other San Diego County legislators.

When asked what brings them the most joy about what they do, Mr. Lambert replied, “Planning the events and watching the grandparents come together—seeing their faces. Seeing the grandparents feeling appreciated. My mom would always say, ‘Do it with love and without selshness, and good things will happen.’”

The selessness of the Lamberts is noticed immediately by the grandparents they lovingly serve. “They have been so helpful. It was so hard dealing with three grandkids and nowhere to go for help, and they were the ones that got me through,” shares Ms. Alma, a married Latino grandmother caring for her grandchildren since 2016. “I got into a situation I wasn’t expecting. I was referred [to the Grandparents Connection] by the kids’ other grandmother and went to the meeting and was connected to a lot of resources, i.e., gas and electric company. They helped with little things,” added Ms. Rushell, a divorced grandmother who took in her six grandchildren 16 years ago.

Decorated by countless awards and citations and grateful for everything their experience has taught them, the Lamberts are not done yet. “We’re considering becoming foster grandparents. We’re looking at getting a ve- or sixyear-old. Why—you ask? Because every child deserves to know love.” +

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In addition to the annual Mother’s Day event, The Grandparent Connection also hosts an annual Martin

Luther King, Jr. Breakfast, their Summer Picnic, a Back-toSchool Drive, and a Christmas Giveaway. They also facilitate parenting classes and co-organize the County’s Grandparent Conference.

Learn more about the organization at grandparentsconnection.org.

Follow them on Facebook at The Grandparents Connection and IG @thegrandparentsconnection.

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ere at Suite Life SoCal, you’ve heard a lot about what the pros are doing; it’s only fair we take it to the streets and show you some amazing things happening throughout this Suite summer in the Los Angeles community.

My travels for this summer takes me to Carson, California, where I had my rst opportunity to cheer on my daughter Kauri as she and her team, Gold Swoosh, played their rst game of the summer season against the Malibu Swoosh at the Swoosh Paradise Gym on 1635 East Del Amo Boulevard.

With COVID regulations changing so much of what we can do as citizens, the trickle-down has affected our youth at an alarming rate when it comes to the world of youth sports. That’s why we’ve found ourselves traveling the state to nd a way for our daughter to compete at the highest level since her school didn’t allow freshmen and sophomores to compete at their institutions.

Ladies and gentlemen, here is where I formally introduce you to The Swoosh League. An inner-city girls and boys basketball league featuring some of the best-kept secrets and untapped talent on the West Coast. From California to Las Vegas, The Swoosh League has done a fantastic job being available for a melting pot of top-tier athletes who are ready to put in work.

Over the past decade, the AAU circuit has become extremely popular. In addition to the popularity, it has become valuable due to several young superstars making a name for themselves during the summer months in environments similar to the Swoosh League. If you’re unfamiliar with the setting, let me set the table for you. Think of high school summer league in the ’90s. Where I come from, every year, the best high schools in our city allowed any player who attended the area school to participate, regardless of grades. This method led to many 66

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outstanding athletes who may not have been eligible to play for their Institutions to display their game versus some of the cities premier talent.

Often these athletes make so much of a name for themselves that some nd themselves never having to play signicant minutes for a high school to earn a look from coaches at the collegiate and professional level. Players like Lebron James & Tyson Chandler are two who immediately pop out at me as neither of these gentlemen had to take the Collegiate route based on how successful they were at the AAU and High School Level. Lisa Leslie is another Southern California Superstar who played so well at the AAU level in Los Angeles it led to her being one of the most sought-after female players in the History of Women’s High School Basketball. Reecting on the roles that players like the aforementioned had given me joy beyond measure to see the same opportunities exist for my 16 year old point guard after thinking that the chance to play would be nonexistent due to the pandemic.

With half the world anxious to get back to regularly scheduled programming, the Swoosh League has put itself in a great position to assist with revitalizing a population that for a while believed there might never be sports again. From the Swoosh Memorial Day Classic in May to the Swoosh End of Summer Classic in August, the organizers of the league have ensured these young men and women have plenty of summer fun and competition. Gratefully most young people won’t hold on to yesterday but will live in the moment. It appears the administrative team had that truth in mind when they created such a vigorous, exciting summer schedule. For the entire schedule, visit leaguelineup.com.

Looking at the upcoming summer schedule, the summer is loaded with nonstop action from California to Nevada for The Swoosh League, giving “Girl Dads’ like myself a reason to smile again as I cheer on my future superstar KC3. Since the loss of The Late Great Kobe Bean Bryant and his daughter Gianna, seeing my daughter have an opportunity to play has been a massive priority for me. Many other former athletes turned father who won’t stand idle while the world hopes we do. Pandemic or not, it’s time to allow our youth the chance to be great while building relationships that will last a lifetime through athletics. I’m grateful that the Swoosh league and our home team, “Gold Swoosh,” coached by Craig Trevino and Angela Barr, set the bar high when it comes to giving back to the community of Southern California and beyond.

You don’t have to be a girl dad to support our young athletes. The league plays throughout Southern California and even in Las Vegas. Don’t forget to go by the website and nd a convenient date and time and cheer our youth to personal and collective victory. And who knows; I just might see you there, SWOOSH! Stay tuned for more summer fun from Suite Life SoCal. +

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Cryptocurrency Trends for Hopeful Investors

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l Salvador is looking to become the first country to adopt bitcoin as a legal tender.

39-year-old President Nayib Bukele announced during the Bitcoin 2021 conference held in Miami on June 4 and 5. "Next week I will send to Congress a bill that will make bitcoin a legal tender," Bukele said.

If introduced, the bill will likely pass since Bukele carries a majority of the seats held within the Legislative Assembly of El Salvador. This will be the rst time that Bitcoin is applied as a country’s legal currency.

Over half the country’s population is unbanked, and the US Dollar is used as the native currency. El Salvador partnered with the Lightning Network payment platform, Strike, to audit and advise on this decision. "They asked me to help write a plan and that they viewed Bitcoin as a world-class currency and that we needed to put together a bitcoin plan to help these people," said Strike CEO Jack Mallers. Cryptocurrency, as a world currency, is excellent news for Crypto because it will help fuel global adoption.

What she’s saying is that the use of crypto stablecoins will eventually dismantle the US payment system, so the Fed must gure out an alternate solution. Which makes sense because why would someone use an ACH transfer that takes three days and 3% of the transaction value when you can use USD Tether, USDC, or BUSD (all stablecoins) that takes 3 minutes at a fraction of the cost?

In late May, Fed Chairman Jerome Powell announced that the Federal Reserve Bank would publish a paper this summer laying out their thoughts on the benets and risks associated with a digital US dollar. “We are committed at the Federal Reserve to hearing a wide range of voices on this important issue before making any decision on whether and how to move forward with a U.S. CBDC” (central bank digital currency).

“To help stimulate broad conversation, the Federal Reserve Board will issue a discussion paper this summer outlining our current thinking on digital payments, with a particular focus on the benets and risks associated with CBDC in the U.S. context.”

The U.S. Federal Reserve is also coming to terms with the traditional dollar's limitations, specically around payments and money transfers which can take days or weeks to settle.

Crypto transactions happen almost instantaneously and don't require a bank account, giving more Americans increased nancial access.

The Federal Reserve Board looking into digital payments is excellent news for mainstream and government adoption, perfect for the people using crypto and investing in crypto.

However, a Central Bank Digital Currency would still be different from most cryptocurrencies because it’s controlled by a central bank rather than a network.

Federal Reserve Governor Lael Brainard believes we need a “secure, central bank-backed digital currency” and a “more efcient payment system” that will expand nancial services to Americans who traditional banks have underserved.

From an investment perspective, the world of Crypto has been quite the rollercoaster ride for the past few months and doesn’t seem to be slowing down anytime soon. Stock put buying levels are among the lowest they have been in the last two years, indicating heightened belief in prices rising for stocks; however, investors are also leaving stocks at rates that haven’t been seen in the last two years and investing more into less risky bonds. Stock Market sentiment still plays a signicant role in Crypto volatility and has been mostly neutral.

I believe the Fed is ‘sharpening its focus’ on the idea of a U.S. digital dollar because of the potential threat of stablecoins.

Stablecoins are cryptocurrencies that attempt to peg their market value to an external reference such as gold, or USD making the need for a dollar obsolete; the total market cap for USD stablecoins is almost 1 trillion dollars.

Per Brainard, the threat of the increased use of stablecoins may create, “… network externalities associated with achieving scale in payments; there is a risk that the widespread use of private monies for consumer payments could fragment parts of the U.S. payment system in ways that impose burdens and raise costs for households and businesses.”

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At the time of this article, Bitcoin’s price was $39.3K. It keeps pushing after a breakout of its downtrend resistance, pushing the price down for about three weeks.

In my opinion, $41K - $42K are looking like key short-term horizontal resistance levels. Consolidation over those levels should allow us to test the $45,000-$47,000 range which is the most important resistance level for right now. If we reject those

El Salvador President Nayib Bukele speaks at the Bitcoin 2021 conference held in Miami June 4-5.

levels, things could turn bearish, and we could see Bitcoin retreat to levels around $30K, resetting the whole accumulation process. It seems, however, that we’ve found a local bottom between $34K - $35K. $41K - $42K are such essential levels that we could see a Dead cat bounce at $41K, which would send us back to $35K and potentially $30K. A dead cat bounce is a temporary recovery of an asset’s price from a prolonged decline that is followed by the continuation of the downtrend, which is often interrupted by brief periods of recovery rallies—during which prices temporarily rise.

Based on the information provided by Glassnode, an onchain data and intelligence network, the number of futures contracts has been at. Meaning interest in future bitcoin prices has plateaued, making it hard to determine if the short-term cost will move up or down. There’s been a spike in selling from coins aged 3-6 months old, which would have been bought between December 2020 and March 2021, and in selling from 1–3-month-old coins, which would have been purchased between March 2021 and May 2021. The stablecoin supply ratio indicates there is also a lot of money in stable coins on the sideline waiting to be deployed. Longterm holders continue to add to their holdings +158,641 BTC over the last week. They’ve added +305,305 BTC to their holdings over the last month now.

Whatever move comes, whether up or down, it will likely be signicant because we’ve continued consolidating between $35K-$40K for a few weeks, and all that trading volume is adding up. Per glassnode, an “On-chain market analysis” company, Bitcoin has also formed the third-largest cluster of the on-chain volume of this bull run, only behind

the one between $53K - $59K and between $7K - $11K. Over 10% of Bitcoin’s money supply has now moved between $33K - $40K. If we lose 33K as a local bottom, we do not have much distribution below aside from some at $27K, $23K, and of course $20K, so we need Bitcoin to hold at least $33K to have a chance at breaking above $40K. Bitcoin has an uphill battle for now because a large portion was bought during the consolidation a couple of weeks ago between $50K - $60K. Some of these buyers will try to minimize their losses by selling. It will likely take some more time for these coins to be accumulated, but I believe we’re on the right track.

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Long term holders are still adding to their positions, offsetting selling from short-term holders over the accumulation period.

In conclusion, we remain in limbo for the time being.

However, patience is essential now more than ever! DollarCost Averaging is an excellent way to potentially navigate uncertainty in the market regarding assets you believe will one-day payoff. As always, I hope you’re Protable! +

Disclaimer: This article is for information only to provide a prospective on the current state of cryptocurrency.

It is not meant to provide financial advice. Please discuss with your financial consultant before making any financial investments.

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Tammi Mac is thriving during these uncertain STORY BY ASHLEY YANCEY pandemic times PHOTOGRAPHY BY MICHAEL R. MOORE

M “I've been working both of my jobs from home, and that's given me [some] exibility to be able to create and work on other projects, but also to focus more on my radio show."

aybe you've listened to Tammi Mac on her #1 rated radio show, The Tammi Mac Show on 102.3 FM KJLH, where she was handpicked by none other than the iconic Stevie Wonder.

Or perhaps you've spotted her as the voice of reason in over a dozen TV commercials for brands such as McDonald's, GEICO, and Verizon, among others, over the years.

Or, nally, you may have spent your 2020 watching her in the evenings, wrapping up your day, on Fox Soul's The Tammi Mac Late Show, a show that focuses on "the business of being Black" and tackles everything within Black culture.

Either way, this multi-hyphenate three-time NAACP awardwinning writer, producer, actress, and radio and television personality has made one thing quite clear—she is a force with no intent on slowing down.

“Most of the time, I'm working Monday through Saturday. Sundays, I try to get off, but that rarely happens either," Mac says with a good-natured smile. Between her radio show, auditions, and evening television show, she has enjoyed the high demand and the opportunities that 2020's pandemic has ushered in. "I've been working both of my jobs from home, and that's given me [some] exibility to be able to create and work on other projects, but also to focus more on my radio show," she explains. "It's worked out really well for me in terms of being able to be more creative and have that exibility to do more for the shows that exist and outside projects.”

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Mac has noticed she isn't the only one seeing an uptick in demand and has taken note. "I think for Black people, 2021 is becoming better for us because now we're being seen in a different way… It's because of the whole George Floyd protests and Black Lives Matter protests that hit heavy in 2020 because of George Floyd's death or murder. It's why so many things are happening for Black people." She continues.

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“What I live to do is to heal our community with the truth. And so that's what I strive for. I think the Black community needs healing right now, and I think more than healing, we need truth. And so I always put truth in my interviews, by any means necessary.”

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INGLEWOOD, CA "Black people are getting more opportunities to be heads of corporations; Black people are getting more opportunities to develop their own movies and television shows; Black HBCUs are getting more money; Black women in tech are getting more money, and Black banks are getting more money, so I think 2021 is proving to be very different for Black people."

Mac's observations aren't unfounded. June 2020, Brother Vellies founder, Aurora James, launched the 15 Percent Pledge, a non-prot tasked with calling on several major retailers to commit 15% (the percentage of Black Americans) of their shelf spaces to Black-owned brands.

Brands such as Target, West Elm, Vogue, and Sephora have taken the pledge. There have been numerous corporate headlines announcing promotions of new Black leadership in various industries, including entertainment, media, and publishing. Numerous top-tier high school athletes have publicly amplied HBCU programs and the unique advantages they bring, such as Makur Maker and Mikey Williams. According to The Undefeated, hundreds of millions of dollars from new sources have been donated to these institutions. And nally, according to the Wall Street Journal, Black banks saw an increase in new accounts and deposits made in the wake of 2020's protests for Black lives.

u “I have access to more people” For the time being, Mac has enjoyed working from home.

The unique setup has allowed her to connect with many of the people making newsworthy headlines without the stress of managing travel logistics and complicated hair and makeup schedules. "I like doing the Fox Soul show from home because I have access to more people, so the show doesn't seem as local. I have access to people in Atlanta, Philadelphia, and Detroit. I love that the show is more international because everybody can Zoom into the studio.

When we go back in, I don't know how I'll handle doing my hair and my makeup with a 30-minute transition from radio to television," She laughs. "What I know is God is gonna work it all out! I'm not gonna worry too much about it and stress too much because history shows that it always works out."

Over the years, Mac has interviewed countless gureheads, from politicians to entertainers to actors and comedians. "I always love when Stevie Wonder comes to visit and shares the co-host seat with me. It's always fun to dig into those Stevie Wonder stories," she says with her trademark smile. "I had a really great interview with Steve Harvey when I was doing radio in Birmingham," Mac recalls. While cohosting with Rickey Smiley, she remembers Smiley having a chip on his shoulder, frustrated that Harvey never shared his comedian jobs. "By the time the interview was over, [Harvey] had answered the questions so freely and so openly that he and Rickey Smiley became the best of friends! He got Rickey Smiley his own radio show; he let us host the Kings of Comedy; that was a ip for me."

One interview, in particular, stands out. "One of my most inspiring interviews was with the [musician and singer] Lucky Daye. He was very transparent, and he talked about how his mom was a part of a cult and how he had wanted to get away from that. He ran away at an early age, lived on his own, and decided that he was going to read the entire Bible from cover to cover and speak to no one," She explained. "He kind of secluded himself after he ran away from home, to kind of learn what God was about on his own without anybody else's interpretation. He can quote any scripture."

She says as she nods her head in afrmation. "We talked for a very long time, and he said that he had shared those things with me that he'd never ever shared because most people don't do the research before they talk to him. And so they don't even know to ask any of those questions about him."

u “I feel like I was literally purposed to be LA's voice.”

“Everybody's looking for salacious stuff these days to kind of *catch you*. Every interview now is a *gotcha* interview. 'Ooh, what can I get? How can I get something where I can get a nice little bit, or a nice little slip and become viral?!'" While Mac understands it, she doesn't like it and avoids approaching her subjects that way. "It's pretty much the direction that viral podcast and radio shows are going now… I don't want those types of interviews anymore. I don't want to hang somebody out to dry or make them say something that [makes them remark to themselves] 'Damn, I shouldn't have said that.' I feel like I was literally purposed to be LA's voice and the way that LA shows me love and the way that they nurture me in the way that they guide me."

This deliberate interview approach has become Mac's trademark and is one that she embraces. "I want to uplift my Black people. I want to make them share experiences that make you feel good about life or that teach us to maybe think in a different way or have a different point of view." Even when met with a disparate story or subject, Mac is determined to nd the lesson and will turn it into a cautionary tale. "You can tell me [you slept with three different people on the same day] if you want, but I'm still gonna go in a different direction... 'Okay, so you slept with three different people. What did you learn from that? Is that something you intend to keep doing, and if so, how does that make you feel? What is it about?'" Ultimately, Mac aims to be a truth seeker and storyteller. "What I live to do is to heal our community with the truth. And so that's what I strive for. I think the Black community needs healing right now, and I think more than healing, we need truth. And so I always put truth in my interviews, by any means necessary."

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"I believe in God, and I believe once you start, everything takes off from there. Doors begin to open that you wouldn't imagine; people start throwing stuff at you." While she always wanted to be an actress and would regularly attend auditions, Mac was 15 years old when she began working at a local Houston radio station answering their phones while impersonating different characters she created, her own form of acting. "There is a genuine connection between the audience and the radio personality when it comes to radio, and I love that connection."

After a year, she managed to snag an on-air role, where callers from the phone line would dial in and recognize her, which helped boost her popularity, and from there, her love for radio was born.

"I remember Steven Spielberg said, if you want to be a director, then you should direct. I feel like if you want to be a radio personality, then you should be a radio personality. If you want to be an actor, then you should act," Mac said. "And the key is to do it. We have so many outlets now where it's absolutely 100% proof positive that it can be done. If you want to act, all you have to do is act on your social media platform. If you want to be a radio personality, then all you have to do is build you an internet radio station and become a radio personality. If you want to be a TV host, then you start your own podcast. That's how you do it; you do it by doing it. There is no secret sauce." Mac realized she had a story to tell during quarantine and began writing a movie, her rst but hopefully not her last. "We get so frustrated because we have to start that we end up never doing anything but sitting down twiddling our thumbs, mad at somebody else because we haven't lived our dreams. And that's a sad story to tell."

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When she needs to decompress from her shows, auditions, and writing endeavors, Mac is a big fan of LA's commitment to health, wellness, and culture. My 2 Cents LA, G/S Game Sports Bar Restaurant & Lounge, and Harold & Belle's are some of her favorite eateries in town.

"I make my own apple juice, I make my own orange juice, and I make my own smoothies—Mac's Motivation Mix!" Bike riding to the Porter Ranch Park and visiting Lake Balboa and Zuma Beach are some of her favorite local lowkey outdoor spaces. "There's never anybody [at Zuma Beach]! I just go there to watch the sunset or the sunrise.

And I don't have to pay for parking."

Mac's Motivation Mix SMOOTHIE RECIPE

Blended with ice, mix desired amounts of | Pineapple | Red Apple | Green Apple | Mango | Chard | Kale | Spinach | Turmeric | Ginger | Lemon | Coconut Water

Enjoy!

In the coming months, in addition to nishing her movie script, doing her radio show, and late-night television show, Mac is also acting and will appear as a recurring character in the new television sitcom, Partners in Rhyme, starring, and executive produced by MC Lyte.

While she hopes to be bi-coastal one day, sharing LA with her hometown of Houston, she admits that Los Angeles will always have a piece of her heart. "I literally feel like the city of LA has adopted me. Like, I feel so connected and so close to this city. And, and, and...I feel like it in regards to the Black community." +

You can tune in to The Tammi Mac Show daily at 102.3 FM KJLH Radio from 3-7 pm PST. You can catch The Tammi Mac Late Show, daily on all digital platforms (Apple TV, Roku, Zoomi, Tubi, FoxSoul.tv, and YouTube for live chat) at 8 pm PST / 11 pm EST. Partners in Rhyme will be premiering on UMC/AMC’s network streamer.

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Reading List

BY QUINCI LEGARDYE

Fun Illustrated Books for the Whole Family

Over the past decade, children’s literature has become more diverse, thanks to an increase in authors of color writing books geared toward Black and Brown children. These books teach children about the importance of self-esteem and love in a world that may call them different because of the color of their skin.

There are multiple benets of children seeing themselves in the books they read. The “mother” of multicultural children’s literature, Dr. Rudine Sims Bishop, wrote in a 1990 article titled “Mirrors, Windows and Sliding Glass Doors,” that children are affected by what they see around them, and that also extends to the books they read. “When children cannot nd themselves reected in the books they read, or when the images they see are distorted, negative, or laughable, they learn a powerful lesson about how they are devalued in the society of which they are a part,” Dr. Sims said. Children’s books can also be a resource to help children learn about tough topics, including racism and bullying.

Suite Life SoCal has chosen eight books that will delight the whole family, both the kids’ and each parent’s inner child. The pictures in these books highlight and celebrate diverse cultures and showcase a wide range of family structures. They also explain complicated concepts for children and show examples of challenges they will face and the happiness they will experience in the real world. Books are available at bookshop.com and independent bookstores nationwide.

Ripe Tomatoes by Angela Rena, illustrated by Kid Flvsh The book follows a daycare provider affectionately called Abuela and the children and parents she supports throughout her day. It’s an inspiring book that shows that people of all ages need nurturing and highlights the value of quality childcare.

Abuela and her husband, Papi, are an Afro-Latino couple who nurture their garden and the pre-school-age children in their community. The love poured into the crops, and the families that use their services reflect on the children’s faces and in their beautiful garden. Illustrator Kid Flvsh and author Angela Rena compliment the captivating story of all invaluable daycare providers and the families they serve.

Understanding Me

by Angela Rena, illustrated by Kid Flvsh

Akilah, an African-American pre-teen girl, goes on a trip to Detroit to see her favorite grandparents. On the trip, Akilah learns all about her African heritage and begins a self-love journey and appreciation for her culture. The illustrations go hand in hand with the beautiful story written by Angela Rena.

Those who remember how special our grandparents were to our growth and development will be pleased as this book walks us down memory lane. The illustrations and the story of Akilah and her grandparents will inspire you to connect with your inner child and your grandparents.

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Black Boy Be You

by Latoshia Martin, illustrated by Abria Das

This book is all about self-esteem and self-acceptance for African-American boys.

Isaiah loves spending Saturdays playing at the park with his friends. One day a New Kid joins his group, but the white New Kid is mean, telling Isaiah that he cannot play with the group because he looks different. This event makes Isaiah consider his various facial appearances, but he does not allow the New Kid to insult him because of them.

This book, which is directed at young black boys, depicts an unfortunately common bullying situation. However, Isaiah finds joy in the fact that black boys are special and different, and the book’s encouraging message that difference doesn’t mean bad is vital for all children.

Carmela Full of Wishes

by Matt de la Peña, illustrated by Christian Robinson When young Carmela wakes up on her birthday, she is finally old enough to join her big brother as he does the family errands. She follows him through her neighborhood until they reach the Laundromat, where Carmela finds a dandelion growing in the pavement.

Her brother tells her to make a wish before she blows, but she isn’t sure what wish she should make. Depicted through acrylic paintings, with a texture that gives an illusion where the characters nearly rise off the page, the book shows the vibrancy of Carmela’s Spanish-speaking community and the bond between her and her brother.

Do Not Disturb! Meditating…

by Adijah and Atiya Brabham, illustrated by Patrick Girouard The second picture book is a series featuring identical twins Fia and Nori, this book as the twins exploring meditation and other mindfulness techniques to manage their emotions. The book illustrates the twins practicing deep breathing and visualization meditation; their visualizations include riding a bike, flying a kite, playing games with friends, and hugging grandpa. The book is an excellent depiction of the benefits of mindfulness practice and can teach kids about the benefits of meditation.

Hair Love by Matthew A. Cherry, illustrated by Vashti Harrison A tie-in to the Oscar-winning short film Hair Love is the story of a father styling his daughter Zuri's hair before school. The book is gorgeously illustrated with numerous natural hairstyles, showing the versatility and beauty of Black natural hair. Zuri and her dad’s care of styling her hair depict the love that the two share.

The story also shows the value of both a mother and a father in a child’s life. With so many images of broken families, this story highlights the need for both parents in a child’s life and even touches on how to tackle life’s unexpected challenges. There is something magical and endearing about this book, just like its Oscar-winning short film.

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Maya’s Blanket/La Manta de Maya

by Monica Brown, illustrated by David Diaz A young girl named Maya has a beloved blanket that her grandmother Abuelita made for her as a baby. When the blanket gets old, Maya and Abuelita make it into a dress. Thus begins the book’s journey as Maya grows up and the blanket gets upcycled into various objects, each of which has a different significance to Maya.

Through the up-cycling, Maya can keep the treasured gift along on her adventures through childhood. This lovely story of a gift between a grandmother and grandchild is told in Spanish and English with a glossary of the Spanish words in the back of the book.

The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson, illustrated by Rafael López How many ways can a child be considered different in their first days at a new school?

This timeless book brings up many scenarios, from having a particular personality trait like shyness to eating non-traditional foods or having a food allergy to just being the new kid who moved from a different city or state. It also points out the beauty behind these differences and how once kids share their stories, it’s always possible to find similarities and make friends. The tale is like a hug for both children and adults who’ve ever felt different.

Reading these books is a delightful experience for parents and children alike. The heartwarming stories teach significant lessons while also being fun to read. Don’t be surprised if, after reading these books by Black and Brown authors, your child is inspired by seeing characters that look like them and becomes a life-long reader.

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When you think of Hollywood and show business, onair talent is essential. But the meat of production happens off-camera. Often editors, producers, and production support staff don’t work the usual 9-5. Their time, schedules, and pay var y widely. The word “unconventional” comes to the independent lmmaker Denise Ntombikayise Khumalo’s mind, thus sparking her new documentary lm title.

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“Unconventional is a documentary for us by us,” she said. “It talks about the trials and tribulations to stardom in [show business].” Khumalo knows all too well the challenges that come with making a name for herself with little connections in Hollywood. She moved to Los Angeles because of better opportunities in the lm industry. Having struggled through her career, she wants to inspire those currently working to receive recognition.

“I’m living proof of this,“ she said. “I’m constantly surrounded with people who are in it. I want this lm to inspire people to follow their dreams.”

Khumalo was inspired by the 2009 lm “Good Hair,” which dives into the importance of hair among the Black community.

“Unconventional” highlights Black and people of color (POC) voices behind the camera, in a time where more of these voices are at the forefront of conversations in the industry. “Since 2019, there’s been a movement where POC and immigrants are given a voice and a seat at the table,” she said. “It speaks to the lack of opportunities and exposure for these groups.”

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Denise hosting her talk show “Cultural Exchange” .

However, it’s not enough, Khumalo inserts.“It’s not as diverse as it could be,” she said.

Khumalo comes from Harare, Zimbabwe, where being a lmmaker is far from the traditional career choice. She explains her culture pushes becoming a doctor or lawyer, but growing up with a mother in TV and radio, Khumalo’s outlook on the future strayed from traditional standards.

“I remember my sister and I were playing under the kitchen table, and my mom said, ‘when they say action, you stay quiet,’” she said. “They were lming, and I didn’t really get what was happening, but we were immersed in it.”

It wasn’t until Khumalo was in college that she realized lm was her calling. “It was important to me that I show my point of view, no matter the media,” she said. Khumalo’s rst project, Khayalami “My Home”, received several awards and accolades for its unique perspective on Zimbabwe.

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She hadn’t worked on a new lm in a while, and contacts she wanted for “Unconventional” were too busy to commit.

“I had backup dancers and producers I was interested in,” she said. “Everyone was just so busy.” Then the COVID-19 pandemic hit, and suddenly everyone was available. The pandemic allowed people to participate in the lm.

“Unconventional” doesn’t have a release date. However, it has been submitted to a handful of lm festivals worldwide.

Golden Leaf International Film Festival, Emerging Artists F i l m Fe s t i v a l , a n d m a n y o t h e r s h a v e a w a r d e d “Unconventional” for best short documentary. You can view the trailer on Khumalo’s website at denisekhumalo.com.

For now, you can watch her lm Khayalami “My Home” on Amazon Prime Video, tune into her talk show “Cultural Exchange” on YouTube, and watch for her upcoming short lm “Quarantine Chronicles” documenting artists in Los Angeles during COVID-19. +

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Producers of

20/20 Summer Fest AN INTERVIEW WITH

Chantal Grayson and Emcee N.I.C.E. STORY BY MISCHA DUFFIE

Her faith carries her. Nothing she does is about her.

And this clarity allows her to keep the focus off herself and onto what she is called to put into the earth. Her name is Chantal Grayson.

Grayson is a celebrated force, and whether talking about the business consulting she provides to nonprot organizations, or her multimillion-dollar acquisitions as a real estate broker, or the books she has authored inspiring young girls of color to accept and love themselves—making God proud is the substratum of her being.

In concert with her faith, being strategic is the North Star that guides this Illinois native as she navigates spaces in the business world she doesn't usually see Black women like herself. Paying close attention to what exists, what does not exists, and what's needed to ll in the gap is something else Grayson attributes to her success.

In fact, it was what was missing that led Grayson to team up with her partner Aulsondra Hamilton a.k.a. Emcee N.I.C.E., a Los Angeles-born author and established music producer, in 2018 to create the one of its kind Christian Hip Hop digital platform, God's House of Hip Hop. And what a partnership it's been. In year one, the two visionaries showed the radio industry and the underrepresented Christian community what God will do if you trust Him. Such kindred spirits that they complete each other's sentences, Grayson and Emcee N.I.C.E. joined me for a delightful socially distant phone conversation to discuss their radio station and their upcoming 20/20 Summer Fest.

GH3 RADIO DUFFIE: I'd like to start by talking about your company called GH3.

I read that the one goal of DASH Radio, the larger entity through which your station is powered, was to provide the best radio platform in the world. Tell me about your personal goal in starting God's House of Hip-Hop Digital Radio Station?

N.I.C.E.: We wanted to create a platform that didn't exist and ll a void for the Christian population.

GRAYSON: We wanted to establish an ecosystem for Christian hip hop. We wanted to create in-roads.

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N.I.C.E.: We also wanted to educate Christian hip hop artists as well. We wanted to help them understand how publishing works so they can reach the masses with their music. We tell artists if we can't pay you, we can't play you.

GRAYSON: That's right. Subsequently, we became the rst radio station to pay royalties. But to be paid by us, their stuff has to be in order. We are a B.D.S. station.

DUFFIE: What does B.D.S. stand for?

GRAYSON: Broadcast Data System. It's what billboard uses to monitor and track who plays what and where. It's a charting system. It allows the world to know who has the number one record in the world. In the rst year, we were the rst station to receive a Stellar Award. We were deemed a station reaching out to young people.

DUFFIE: Did you feel any competition with what we've known traditional radio to be?

N.I.C.E.: No, because we had a great partner in DASH. They were already breaking the mold. They have eighty stations. Some are owned by them and some are not.

GRAYSON: DASH has seventeen million monthly listeners.

We are in every single car. We own our stations.

DUFFIE: Wow! Speaking of your Stellar Award, how did it feel to receive your rst Stella Award, and were you surprised that the station resonated so profoundly with people?

N.I.C.E.: We weren't surprised because we knew we had something special when we rst approached DASH with our plan. There were concerns, though. Does hip hop and gospel have enough artists to hold down a station was a concern?

GRAYSON: We started with eight shows and now have twenty-ve shows. We are all over!

N.I.C.E.: Including in Africa. We're in Texas, Atlanta, Boston, Philly.

DUFFIE: How did that happen?

N.I.C.E.: We just knew what we knew.

GRAYSON: N.I.C.E. is being modest. He has a sixth sense for trend. The rst eight shows were trendsetters within their own genre. We made sure our programming wasn't just music. We have a Christian Hip Hop sports show. We have Christian artists doing their own on-air shows.

N.I.C.E.: We went out and got the best of the best.

GRAYSON: Our object was to mirror secular radio from a Christian standpoint.

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20/20 SUMMER FEST DUFFIE: Let's pivot to talk about the big event, the upcoming 20/20 Summer Fest taking place September 17th and 18th at Banc of California Stadium. Emcee N.I.C.E., you are a multi-platinum music producer, actor, and author. Ms. Grayson, you are a real estate agent and business marketing and branding consultant. Why the leap into concert production?

GRAYSON: We felt like the natural evolution of a radio system is a community festival to get out there and show mainstream how live entertainment looks. We didn't want to do it in a church. We wanted to do it like the big boys. There's so much talent out there. There are so many amazing artists, and I felt it was time to leverage my relationships in LA to showcase these artists.

N.I.C.E.: Our whole objective is to create the largest Christian Hip Hop festival in the world.

DUFFIE: That's super ambitious.

N.I.C.E.: We have options to take it to Mexico in 2022 and Africa in 2023.

DUFFIE: That's awesome. You two have quite a lineup for Summer Fest. Watching the Youtube announcement, I thought this level of production takes a lot. Was either of you concerned about the heavy lifting required?

N.I.C.E.: When you operate in excellence, you don't think about that. As far as visions are concerned, we did our homework. I know the sandbox at this level. I checked out the blueprint.

GRAYSON: Which makes us very condent. We used the rst Woodstock as our example.

N.I.C.E.: We are overachievers. One of the mottos we have is, ‘for any great achievement; someone has to be the rst to do’ -- why not us?

DUFFIE: Given the pandemic, you two chose to postpone the event last year. What made you not follow everyone else's lead to cancel? And did any of your headliners give you pushback?

N.I.C.E.: Luckily, we're in a genre where the artists aren't making $100,000 a year. For us, it was just a matter of telling the artist the real situation.

GRAYSON: Being in the sandbox we're in, we knew what everyone else was doing. We couldn't do a hard stop, hard start, hard stop, hard start like the bigger folk could do. I also had family in the medical eld telling me that things were more serious than people in the festival industry were saying.

The reset gave us an opportunity to really think about options. One of the things we did was align ourselves with a streaming company. Now we have a $20 streaming option, which is very interactive and provides global access.

DUFFIE: Can we talk about the diversity of your hosts and artists? Well, there are way too many artists to start naming names, but in terms of hosts of the Summer Fest, you have Kurtis Blow, Willie Moore Jr, and Chris Chicago. You have artists across the gender and racial spectrum. How important was it for participants to represent the audience you sought to attract?

GRAYSON: That was really important. We have the most female artists in our festival than any other festival.

N.I.C.E.: Blow's stamp on this signies our value. He's now a preacher. He wanted to be involved. Moore gives it a stamp from the gospel space. Chicago gives it a stamp as a radio guy with deep faith. Making sure that we had all facets of faithbased and hip hop involved was intentional. Alex Zurdo is doing 16,000 people in his shows. He's added value.

DUFFIE: What is your prayer for the projected three to four thousand attendees of the 20/20 Summer Fest?

GRAYSON: For people to come have a good time listening to music and partying.

N.I.C.E.: To come and turn up. Like, all the way up. +

Having amassed a monthly listenership of four to ve hundred thousand in just three years, in a space that did not exist, along with being nominated for their third Stella Award, Grayson and Emcee N.I.C.E. are in full throttle. They are condent that the same God who anointed them to start GH3 will continue to use them in unique and purposeful ways to share the gospel with the world through music.

If the magnitude of this two-day event with more than forty uber-talented artists is indicative of anything, it is indicative of the immense love these two visionaries have for their God and the love they are convinced their God has for them.

To see the Summer Fest headliners and to purchase your tickets for the Gospel House of Hip Hop's 20/20 Summer Fest, visit 2020summerfest.com.

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DJ Jiji Sweet From Hobby to Business

DJ

STORY BY FAITH PETRIE

Jiji Sweet

has learned a lot in her almost 20 years in the music industry.

As an entrepreneur, sometimes you have to do things by yourself without the support and never try to be cheap when purchasing DJing equipment.

Jacinda Sweet, also known as DJ Jiji Sweet, didn't always have her eyes set on becoming a professional DJ. Born in Cleveland, Ohio, Sweet and her family relocated to the West Coast, where she grew up. At 48 years old, she can still remember what it was like growing up in Los Angeles at the peak of gang violence and community unrest.

Films depicting gang-culture in South LA like Boyz n the Hood were debuting just as Sweet lived that reality. So she decided to get away from her environment for her college years. She attended the University of Arizona, intending to play basketball and earn her degree in media arts, emphasizing journalism.

"For me, I had my own backstory, and being an AllAmerican athlete was my way out," Sweet said. "[In] Arizona, I felt like I could get out of LA and just breathe."

In college, Sweet stuck to a tight routine of working out, practicing, and going to class, but despite this, her love of music always shined through the hectic schedule.

Growing up, Sweet saw classmates donning the stereotypical DJ-look of oversized headphones and always found the practice enjoyable. However, she didn't know many women who partook in it and was content watching from the sidelines.

But in college, this onlooking became more hands-on as she began to attend clubs. Instead of spending her time on the dance oor, she would be near the DJ booth looking on as they spun their records, creating new sounds out of preexisting songs.

"I always say, you can always tell who wants to be a DJ or if they're a DJ—if you just walk in the club right now," Sweet said. "[They're] always kind of standing next to the DJ booth or trying to gure out what they're doing."

Sweet saved enough money to purchase her DJing equipment and began to mix for fun in between internships and nishing her college career. She found musical inspiration in artists including the Wu-Tang Clan, Lost Boyz, and A Tribe Called Quest, much of her music taste coming

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from the East Coast.

After nishing college, she began to take her DJing career a bit more seriously and began to spread her mixtapes to anyone who would listen. Then, in 1998, she was asked to be an on-air DJ for Hot 98.3 in Tucson, Arizona, and from there, she's only continued to grow her repertoire.

Sweet turned her hobby into a business, and since her rst major gig over 20 years ago, she's appeared in publications like The Source; shows including Rap City, The Mo'Nique Show; and countless other events and parties.

"Every time I do something new, it's like an exciting new experience," Sweet said.

Her successes haven't come without challenges. Being a female DJ in a male-dominated eld has subjected Sweet to double standards and preconceived assumptions about what she does and who she is.

To Sweet, male DJs have more leeway with their looks— gray hair is viewed as attractive and "distinguished" on a man, but if a woman were to look the same, she would be seen as old. Sweet said as DJing has evolved with the times, women are expected to know how to look more traditionally "hip-hop" and classy.

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"And as a woman, if you're a really good DJ that knows how to DJ, all that other stuff [doesn't] really matter, it's just kind of icing on the cake once you start doing your thing because they'll turn on you in a second," Sweet said. "You could be looking cute as hell with your little thing on, and that laptop will turn off, and they'll be like, 'Who's that over there?'"

In the past year of stay-at-home orders, Sweet has learned to adapt to a primarily digital age of DJing. Many DJs have turned to social media platforms, including Twitch and Instagram, to record live sets, but Sweet has leaned more towards mix shows.

Sweet noted she would usually be booked with

engagements during graduation season, summer breaks, and other functions. However, she's enjoying the time that she has to herself before she begins to perform live again.

"I'm taking the time to just kind of [relax] because when it speeds up, it speeds up," Sweet said.

Still, Sweet said that she's looking forward to this next chapter in her life and is excited to see what it may bring, especially as the world slowly begins to return to a semblance of normalcy again. Reecting on her past and her future, Sweet recalled an occurrence at a party where she was recently DJing. Sweet said a little girl asked if she liked her job. DJ Jiji pondered on it, smiled, and then responded, "Yeah, I do. Can you tell?" + SUITELIFESOCAL.COM | SUMMER 2021

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