An exclusive publication serving residents of Lake Manassas, Virginia Oaks, Morris Farms, Saranac, Glenkirk Estates and surrounding areas.
DECEMBER 2020
Frank Sinatra Meets Mariachi:
The Zodda Family
Photo by The Little Photo Shop
ALSO INSIDE:
Two Stars and a Wish—Reading the Report Card Pg. 20 Charity Supports Athletes Impacted by Childhood Cancer Pg. 18 Ask the Librarian - Giving the Gift of Reading This Holiday Pg. 12
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FOOD PANTRY NEEDS Please help us feed the hungry in NoVa! We need: Fresh vegetables, fruit, dairy and meat (if delivered directly to HoM). To help keep the food pantry stocked all year, please donate: Cans of tomatoes, chicken, tuna, vegetables, soup, beans, fruit and corn; macaroni and cheese; olive/vegetable oil; pasta and sauce; cereal. Check out the link to our website for an Amazon wish list as well: www.houseofmercyva.org Food Pantry / Donation Center / Thrift Store 8170 Flannery Court, Manassas, VA 20109 Monday - Saturday, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. info@houseofmercyva.org | (703) 659-1636
PUBLICATION TEAM Publisher........................................... Michael & Debbie Wykowski Content Coordinator......................................... Marianne Weaver Designer..........................................................................Jody Zipp Contributing Photographer.................................Melinda Ratcliff The Little Photo Shop
Happy Holidays!
Although this holiday season promises to be different than all others, we’ve found some events to help you get into a festive—even while socially distanced—spirit. Some neighbors spent their quarantine time creating intricate light displays. At some this month, my family will fill up their travel mugs with hot chocolate and we’ll tour a few nearby neighborhoods taking in the sights (and some sounds) of the season.
Debbie and Michael Wykowski, Publishers
Marianne Weaver Content Coordinator
ADVERTISING Contact.............................................. Michael & Debbie Wykowski Phone......................................................................703-203-9130 Email............................... mwykowski@bestversionmedia.com or dwykowski@bestversionmedia.com
If you’re in for something a bit more elaborate, the 2020 Bull Run Festival of Lights and the Meadowlark Botanical Gardens Winter Walk of Lights are open nightly. Mount Vernon offers a different take on lights during their Winter Glow, which features local carolers. Check out our calendar of events for times and ticket information. I’m not sure how holiday shopping will happen this year. I doubt it will involve hours at the mall. We found a few options to help you find the perfect gifts while supporting local small businesses. Old Town Manassas is holding its annual Christmas Market and Holiday Craft Fair Saturday, Dec. 12. That same day, the Phoenix Irish Dance Academy is hosting Christmas in Dublin. Again, see the calendar for further details. Have a happy—and safe—holiday!
Debbie and Michael Wykowski,
PUBLISHERS
Marianne Weaver, CONTENT COORDINATOR
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EXPERT CONTRIBUTORS DESIGN BUILD – KITCHEN AND BATH REMODELS AND NEW HOMES Golden Rule Builders, Inc. Joel Barkman 540-788-3539 www.GoldenRuleBuilders.com www.facebook.com/GoldenRuleBuilders Joel is the President/Owner of Golden Rule Builders, Inc a design build firm in Catlett, VA specializing in kitchen/bath remodels and custom homes. Joel has been named the Builder of the Year by the Northern Virginia Building Industry Association (NVBIA), and Business Person of the Year by the Fauquier County Chamber of Commerce.Joel and his wife Patty have five children and are active members of the Dayspring Mennonite Church. He also serves on the boards of Good Life Ministries in India, New Horizons Ministries in Colorado, Lord Fairfax Community College and Fauquier Hospital.
EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION Primrose School of Haymarket Georgia P Wiley 703-754-2800 Team@PrimroseHaymarket.com www.PrimroseHaymarket.com Georgia, owner of the Primrose School of Haymarket, also owns and operates the Primrose School at Ironbridge Corner. Because of the Wiley’s struggle to find quality care for their own three children, Georgia knew exactly what she was looking for when she opened a child care center - a school like Primrose. Georgia says, “As the owner, ... I recognize the importance of creating a safe, nurturing and healthy environment for the children. I also seek to create a work environment that allows our educators to excel in their passion for teaching young children, and the Primrose curriculum offers just that opportunity.”
ESTATE PLANNING Hometown Estate Planning Richard Phillips 571-208-0425 www.hometownestateplanning.com Richard Phillips is an experienced attorney who has practiced in bankruptcy and commercial litigation since 2000. Today, he specializes in estate planning law and assisting families discover the right approach to their inheritance and incapacity planning needs. “I started my own practice because of a desire to have the law degree be a positive impact in people’s lives,” he said. “What I do now is help families efficiently pass their wealth onto their kids and grandkids.”
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FAMILY MEDICINE Lifetime Family Medicine 703-754-0425 www.facebook.com/LifetimeFamilyMedicine Lifetime Family Medicine, a proud member of the Privia Medical Group, is based in Gainesville. They have three doctors, two physician assistants, and one nurse practitioner, including Dr. Theresa Shupe, voted a 2017 Top Doctor by Washingtonian Magazine. Comments from their patients include “definitely the best doctors’ office I have been to,” “always so friendly and helpful,” and “They make the experience as quick and easy as possible.”
HEATING, COOLING AND PLUMBING Appleton Campbell Featured Employee: Stuart Deary 540-347-0765 appletoncampbell.com “Appleton Campbell is a fantastic company to work for and I thank everyone for the support and training I have received as I strive for excellence for me as well as my customers. I look forward to many more great years with them.” – Stuart Deary, HVAC Install Technician 1 ½ years. Appleton Campbell is locally owned and operated with masters in HVAC, Plumbing, Gas Fitter & Electrical. To learn more please visit appletoncampbell.com
HOSPITALITY & RECREATION Stonewall Golf Club / Brass Cannon Restaurant Gary Huebner, PGA 703.753.5101 | 703.753.6140 www.stonewallgolfclub.com Stonewall Golf Club and its Brass Cannon Restaurant offer recreation and hospitality in an unparalleled setting overlooking the picturesque Lake Manassas. Often mistaken as a private club, our facility and all its amenities are open to the public, and all are welcome! The recently updated Magnolia Room and adjacent Terrace provide an expansive space for private events, weddings or meetings. The Brass Cannon offers quality casual dining with indoor and outdoor seating overlooking the course and lake. Our award-winning golf course challenges your game as you play along the shores of Lake Manassas. We welcome you to visit us!
INSURANCE Puffenbarger Insurance & Financial Services Jennifer Puffenbarger 703-352-0707 | jennifer@pinsfs.com www.pinsfs.com Puffenbarger Insurance & Financial Services is locally owned Insurance company who specializes in Home, Cars, Business, farms, wineries, Life, Financial and much more. The leadership team includes three generations of the Puffenbarger family. Being a family-run business, we’re well aware that each family has its own specific needs when it comes to insurance. Owner Keith Puffenbarger started the business in Gainesville, Virginia in May of 1989, and now has locations in Fairfax, Warrenton, and Culpeper serving clients in the District of Columbia, Virginia, South Carolina, North Carolina, Maryland, West Virginia, and Pennsylvania.
ORTHODONTICS TEEM Orthodontics Dr. Madueke Ekoh 703-753-4777 | teemortho.com Dr. Ekoh’s journey started in Nigeria, obtaining his Pre-Bachelors in Dental Surgery before emigrating to the U.S. He received his Doctorate in Dental Surgery and Orthodontist certificate at Howard University. To keep up with the advances in orthodontic care, Dr. Ekoh regularly attends numerous seminars, and is an active member in several professional associations, including the American Association of Orthodontists. He lives in Haymarket with his wife and four children. “My vision is to make advanced, high quality and cuttingedge orthodontic care available and affordable to everyone. I believe that great orthodontic care should not only improve the smile, but help people experience the joy of living better.”
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PERFORMING ARTS Lasley Centre for the Performing Arts Kalie Lasley 540-905-2782 | klasley@lasleycentre.com www.lasleycentre.com Kalie Lasley is an American Ballet Theatre (ABT) Affiliate Teacher and the Executive Director of Lasley Centre for the Performing Arts in Vint Hill. Ms. Lasley has an extensive background in dance, including time as a professional dancer at the prestigious San Francisco Ballet. Lasley Centre opened in 2011, growing into a 9,000 square foot, state-of-the-art facility where students from pre-ballet to pre-professional train to be technically sound artists in a nurturing environment.
PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION OmniRide 703-730-6664 omniride.com OmniRide has provided mobility services for Northern Virginia for over three decades. This includes Local bus service in Prince William County, Manassas and Manassas Park; Express service for commuters between Prince William County and employment centers in Northern Virginia and Washington D.C.; and Metro Express which connects riders with Metro Stations. OmniRide also offers assistance to carpoolers and vanpoolers and coordinates a variety of employer services. For more information visit OmniRide.com.
REAL ESTATE Ashley Tauzier Berkshire Hathaway Home Services PenFed Realty Cell: 571-469-0901 | Office: 703-396-6000 ashley@mynorthernvarealtor.com Ashley Tauzier is a realtor and 19-year military spouse. Her knowledge of NoVA neighborhoods, builders, schools and community amenities contributes to her value. She prides herself in being attentive and responsive to her client’s needs – striving to make your real estate transaction stress-free, whether you are a first time home-buyer or a seasoned seller. Ashley looks forward to helping you reach your real estate goals!
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RESIDENT FEATURE
Frank Sinatra Meets Mariachi:
The Zodda Family
By Marianne Weaver | Photos by The Little Photo Shop Danny and Selina Zodda met as undergraduates at Florida State University in 1998. “One crisp fall evening in Florida, we had a fire alarm in the sophomore dorm. I was taking a shower and had to run out in my bathrobe,” said Selina. “This smooth guy with gelled up hair, black leather jacket, and New York accent rolled up in his Jeep and lit up a cigarette. I was smitten!” So was Danny. “I asked my friends who the hot girl in the robe was,” he said. “The next day we happened to walk in at the same time and I held the door for her. The rest is history. (She still loves my hair!)”
“Football was a way of life on campus, the entire weekend revolved around the games, the tailgates, and the celebrations afterward,” said Danny. “We attended every single home football game. We had friends who lived a block away from the stadium and they would set up a great tailgate, and we would park cars on their grass and charge $20 each. Baseball was huge too, in the spring. We are pretty loud and proud Seminole fans.” Danny studied meteorology. Selina majored in English/ communications. During their Christmas break in 2000, Selina visited Danny on Long Island.
Danny invited her to dinner. Not just any dinner, and not just any restaurant.
“I had never seen New York City before, and we took the train in to Penn Station for a day trip. The huge city when you walk up from the subway, Times Square, the food, Central Park, Rockefeller Center, FAO Schwarz,” she said. “It was like a dream!”
“I used to cook a lot in the dorm for my friends: Sunday Italian Dinners,” he said. “One night, I had to do a complete 4-course gourmet set up, because my new lady was coming over. I’ve been cooking her dinner for 22 years now.”
A NEW NAVY FAMILY Upon graduation, Danny was commissioned an Ensign in the U.S. Navy. The couple moved to California while Danny completed a master’s program at Naval Postgraduate School.
GARNET AND GOLD Danny and Selina attended Florida State University from 1997 to 2001. Danny was in the Navy ROTC program and Selina made a successful run for Student Senate.
Next stop: Rhode Island.
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“We were living in Rhode Island for a few months for Navy training,” he said. “I took a trip to Providence ‘just to look’ at rings and decided to go for it. We had talked marriage, but
with my upcoming Navy sea time, I was not sure if Selina really knew a ring was imminent. The big night was pretty simple and unassuming, though.” Selina recalled coming home from work to find their tiny apartment covered with rose petals. Her first thought: Who is cleaning up these petals? “He did the one-knee and I said yes,” she said. “Then he took me to a romantic dinner. At Chili’s.” “Fajitas and El Presidentes!” added Danny. They were married in December 2004 at San Fernando Cathedral in downtown San Antonio. Their reception was held at the Palacio Del Rio by the Riverwalk. “My family is from San Antonio, and Danny’s family all had to fly in from New York and Florida,” she said. “It was a great mix of cultures, for sure! Think ‘Frank Sinatra Meets Mariachi Music.’” A good time was had by all … to say the least. “We had to pull cash from our gift envelopes to finish paying the bar tab,” said Danny. “Didn’t realize our two families could party that much. Seriously, it was a storybook wedding.” Danny’s next assignment brought them to Norfolk, Va. Danny spent four years at sea. While he was gone, Selina earned
her master’s degree at Norfolk State University. After leaving the Navy in 2006, they moved to Northern Virginia, where their daughters—Annelise, 7, and Emmie, 3—were born. Danny has worked with Booz Allen Hamilton as a cyber project manager for 15 years. “I’m currently a ‘domestic engineer’ until Emmie is ready to take her place at school,” said Selina. Her resume includes lifeguard supervisor, production assistant with MTV: Latin America, California middle school librarian, business development coordinator for Strayer University, real estate marketing manager and acquisition analyst at Jacobs Technology. “Boy, have I seen my share of jobs!” AT HOME IN GLENKIRK They moved into a townhouse Fairfax in 2006. Both girls were born at Inova Fairfax. “We would take weekend excursions out to the Gainesville area for church and to look at the big houses,” said Selina. “After Emmie was born, we outgrew our Fairfax townhouse and found our house for rent in Glenkirk Estates. After two years, we knew we had to buy it and have never looked back. This is probably it for us until the kids leave. Danny is now on the HOA
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board, and we both spend lots of time out on our cul-de-sac with the neighbors.” Annelise is a second grader at Glenkirk Elementary. She likes math and art. Recently, she started creating her own toys using paper, tape and whatever she can dig out of the recycling bin. She has her own YouTube channel called “Annelise’s Stuffed Animals,” and is a huge Beatles fan. “She has started getting into robotics and now she’s getting excited about soccer with her friends in the neighborhood,” said Selina. “The pandemic has been tough on her and being inside so much, so we bought the Lego Boost robotics set, and she loved it. She uses her iPad to program it to do tricks.” Emmie is a third-year preschooler at 4Rs Preschool in Haymarket. “Emmie loves her Play-Doh! She makes ‘shamiches’ (sandwiches), ‘hangaber’ (hamburger), and rainbow cakes while sitting at the table for hours,” said Selina. “Kindergarten cannot come fast enough!”
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This past summer, both girls attended Bull Run Academy of Gymnastics (BRAG) and had a blast participating in a week-long gymnastics camp, said Selina. Although summer 2020 was a bust, Danny said the family usually loves spending time at the community pool. “We love Glenkirk: the pool (when it reopens in 2021), the privilege of working in our own yard and garden, walking our dogs, and taking pride in our community,” he said. “I have been bitten by the yardwork bug and will spend my entire weekends doing lawn and landscaping. Selina takes care of the flower gardens and décor. We also live on a cul-de-sac block, so the kids and families are outside a lot. The kids ride bikes, scooters and play sports while the adults sip on beverages.” Selina said their yard has the best views of the Gainesville sunsets. “We recently had our deck built this past spring and so we can sit out there for hours watching the runners, families walking, and the wildlife (birds, squirrels, bunnies, turtles),” she said.
“Unfortunately, we also have a front row seat of the car accidents on Rollins Ford.”
Especially when the ‘Boys play his team. Thanksgiving can get a bit awkward.”
Danny is part of a monthly card game with “the boys.” Selina joined Burn Boot Camp.
It’s not much better during basketball season.
“When Burn opened up in our neighborhood shopping center, I knew I found my sisterhood,” she said. “I was hooked!” FAMILY FUN The Zoddas added three pets to the family. The oldest is Beansie, a 10-year-old Chihuahua mix. Annelise has a grey cat named Popcorn “And we also have our ‘foster fail,’ Cooper, who is a 2-year-old Boxer/ Lab mix,” said Selina. “We fostered him during Thanksgiving 2018 and couldn’t let him go after he stayed for a week.” Some things haven’t changed: The Zoddas are still huge college (Seminoles) football fans. “But I didn’t believe that Danny, Mr. New Yorker, would be a Redskins (Washington Football Team) fan,” she said. “I am a COWBOYS FAN! Sundays are difficult in the Zodda house now.
“Being from San Antonio, I enjoy cheering my SPURS on,” said Selina. “During college, Danny visited me in San Antonio when his Knicks played my Spurs in the NBA Finals. I made him hide his jersey under another shirt when we went out to watch games that week!” “I used to be the kid who cried when his teams lost,” said Danny. “I’ve done a lot of crying lately.” New York Mets baseball, he said, is his real passion. “Selina and I can at least agree on them,” he said. Regardless of team loyalties, at the end of the day the Zoddas have two family mottos: No whining … and always kiss each other good night. Do you know a family that have an interesting story to share or who owns a business and might like to be featured in the magazine? Let us know! Send an email with the contact information to dwykowski@bestversionmedia.com.
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The Ambassador/Writer and His Dog Live Haymarket By Marianne Weaver
Haymarket resident Scott H. DeLisi served as the Ambassador to the Republic of Uganda, the Federal Democratic Republic of Nepal and the State of Eritrea. Now he is sharing a special moment from his journey in a book. “Over the course of my career I told the story of America and of our beliefs and our values,” said DeLisi. “And then, as I was trekking to the ancient walled city of Lo Mantang on Nepal’s border with Tibet, I found another story that I just had to tell.” That is the story of a Bhote Kukur — a mountain dog, a Tibetan Mastiff from the Tibetan Plateau in Nepal. The puppy waited on the side of the trail. When the two locked eyes, DeLisi said there was something compelling about the dog’s blue eyes that felt “right.” “In the years that followed, I told the story of this meeting often — explaining how this puppy had come to be part of
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my life,” he said. “My wife told me, again and again, that his story deserved to be captured. And so ‘The Ambassador’s Dog’ followed.” “The Ambassador’s Dog” —printed on fine textured paper with museum quality ink with a silk wrapped cover and a gold bookmark—is a story that unfolds in a remote corner of the Himalayas. “It’s much more than just a ‘man meets dog’ tale,” said DeLisi. “It’s a story of the power of unexpected connections. A story of promise and determination and of dreams coming true.” The book is illustrated by Virginia artist Jane Lillian Vance. “It is a work of love and it shows. It is a book to be cherished,” said DeLisi. “I know from reading it to my own grandchildren that this is a story to experience together. To read aloud again and again. It’s that kind of a tale.”
That dog, named Lo Khyi (pronounced low-key) has traveled with the ambassador from Nepal to the Uganda and finally to their home in Haymarket. The publisher in Nepal expected to have the book ready by December, barring any new COVID lockdowns in Nepal. Pre-order at https://the-ambassadorsdog.myshopify.com/ (our online shop). It will be also distributed on Amazon. For more information, contact theambassadorsdog@gmail.com.
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ASK THE LIBRARIAN
Gift
Giving the of Reading This Holiday Season By Tammy Hinkle, Librarian One of my favorite holiday traditions that I started when my oldest son was born was to give my boys a box of books for Christmas. On Christmas day, that box of books sat unread, pushed to the side in favor of the toys Santa bought for them. But as the day wore on and their excitement over their new toys settled down, it was that box of books that made a lasting impression. Bedtime always involved those books, long after the holiday season was over. Reading should never come across as a chore, it should be presented as the gift it is to children. When my boys were younger, I selected the books they received, but as they got older, they provided me with a list of books they wanted to read. I was more than happy to buy that To Be Read list for my boys. As a librarian, I am often asked for book recommendations. So here is my list for this year.
PICTURE BOOKS “Shh! We Have a Plan” by Chris Haughton. In this story four friends are walking in the woods when they spot a bird. The smallest of the four calls to the bird, but the bigger friends shush him because they have a plan to catch the bird. Author/Illustrator Chris Haughton’s visual humor adds to the simple repetitive story. “The Donkey Egg” by Janet Stevens and Susan Steven Crummel. In this story, Bear is tricked by Fox into believing that a watermelon is a donkey egg. Bear takes care of his donkey egg, but when disaster strikes, find out what Bear does. “When Grandma Gives You a Lemon Tree” by Jamie Deenihan. How should you respond when Grandma gives you a lemon tree for your birthday? Well, you should definitely not drop it off a bridge. This is a beautiful story of finding joy in an unexpected gift. “Just Add Glitter” by Angela DiTerlizzi and Samantha Cotterill. What would you do if someone sent you a box of glitter? This sparkly story follows a little girl find creative ways to use glitter. The book is beautifully illustrated with a generous helping of glitter. Don’t worry….it won’t end up in your house! “Hair Love” by Matthew Cherry. This a beautiful story of a young girl named Zuri who’s hair lets her be as unique as her personality. Zuri has a special day coming up and it’s her dad who helps her do her hair. Though some mistakes and a lot of love, Zuri and her dad bond in this wonderful story. “Dude!” By Aaron Reynolds. In this story, two friends head out for a day of surfing, only to run into a shark! At first the friends react as you would expect, but it only takes one act of kindness to make a new friend. Dude! Run, don’t walk to get this single word book, Dude! “After the Fall” by Dan Santat. Did you ever wonder what happen to Humpty Dumpty after his famous fall from the wall? Dan Santat wrote and illustrated this wonderful story that has a happy ending.
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CHAPTER BOOKS “Song for a Whale” by Lynne Kelle. From the publisher, “Iris is about to go on a grand road trip to make sure the loneliest whale in the ocean is finally heard.” Iris is a tech genius but finds it hard to fit in at her school since she is the only deaf person there. When she learns about Blue 55, a whale who is unable to communicate with other whale, Iris set off on an adventure with an unlikely partner, her deaf grandmother, to communicate with Blue 55. Lynne Kelle, who is a sign language interpreter, created a beautiful story of family and acceptance. “Because of the Rabbit” by Cynthia Lord. Before school starts, she goes on a call with her Game father who is the Game Warden, and they rescue a pet rabbit. Emma is starting fifth grade after being home schooled all her life. She is excited about her new adventure and is looking forward to finding a best friend. Things do not go as planned. The kids in this small Maine town have been together since kindergarten and relationships have already been established. Emma must figure out how to fit in and make friends with unlikely people. “Dragons in a Bag” by Zetta Elliot. From the publisher, “When Jaxon is sent to spend the day with a mean old lady his mother calls Ma, he finds out she’s not his grandmother--but she is a witch! She needs his help delivering baby dragons to a magical world where they’ll be safe. There are two rules when it comes to the dragons: Don’t let them
out of the bag and don’t feed them anything sweet. Before he knows it, Jax and his friends Vikram and Kavita have broken both rules! Will Jax get the baby dragons delivered safe and sound? Or will they be lost in Brooklyn forever?” This is the first book in a trilogy. “Klawde: Evil Alien Warlord Cat” by Johnny Marciano and Emily Chenoweth. Klawde has been exiled from him planet because of his evil ways. He finds himself on planet Earth living with Raj who thinks he is just another cat. This story is filled with hilarious cat puns! The illustrations bring the story to life. I actually listen to the audio book and found it wonderfully done. “Max and the Midknights” by Lincoln Peirce. If your child loves Big Nate, then they will adore this book. In this heavily illustrated story, Max is a troubadour during the middle ages who would rather be a Knight. When Uncle Burick is turned into a goose, Max is joined by a band of brave companions on a quest to save Uncle Budrick. But wait… there is twist in the story! The audio book is awesome, and I recommend following along in the book as you listen to the audio book for the full experience. No matter what book you select for your child this holiday season, as long as it is selected with love, you cannot go wrong.
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Happy Holidays and Happy Reading Follow me on Twitter @Hinkle_Tammy
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KIDS CORNER
Snapshot: Girl Scout Troop 90088 By Liv Martin, Troop Leader 9088 Girl Scout Troop 90088 is a 2-year-old, multi-level troop made up of kindergartners through third graders from schools throughout the Gainesville area. There are 18 girls in the troop: four Daisies, and 14 Brownies. Many of the girls have been with the troop since it started in fall 2018. We’ve never limited our troop numbers, proudly following the lead of our girls by welcoming other like-minded families and girls. As a result, we have a thriving troop of closely knit families and girls. Since March of this year we have recruited five new girls into our troop.
Troop 90088 is very active, working constantly throughout the year on multiple badges, patches and awards from a variety of different places. The girls complete a minimum of three Girl Scout Journeys (leadership focused programming) each year, in addition to several official Girl Scout badges and Council Patch programs. We also do a lot of ‘fun patches,’ which are more attendance focused or awarded for specific accomplishments. Recently, we started collaborating with a local patch company, Patchwork Designs, who have provided beautiful, fairly priced patches. SHUTDOWN ACTIVITY Despite the COVID-19 shut down in March, the troop has stayed active, transitioning -- fairly smoothly and immediately -- to virtual meetings. In the early weeks, we sent badge programs to the girls to do at home. I created and provided each girl with a fun game kit that included things like GS BINGO, camping themed charades, matching games, etc. We used these during our meetings and the girls used them at home with their families.
“Miss Liv is the foundation of Troop 90088. The creativity that she pours into the activities keep the girls engaged; take for example the Harry Potter-themed virtual camp out. To this day, Julia still talks about how much she loved making ‘potions’ and how funny and great Miss Liv was in the videos, especially when she transformed from troop leader to a witch (with the help of a little camera trick). For my part, I am very happy to witness her development as a scout; it was a proud moment for me to watch her light a match and start her first fire. I am seeing first-hand her confidence growing.” – DJ, Brownie parent “I love my troop!” – Julia, second grade Brownie “The best part about our troop is that we persevere regardless of the circumstances. Our troop families have joined with our leader to make the best possible experience for the girls in a virtual environment. They continue to meet and talk, work together virtually, earn badges and patches, and even have virtual activities like bridging and camping. The girls don’t let distance stand in the way of fun and learning. “– Meredith, Troop Co-Leader and mother of second and third grade Brownies
We held important ceremonies during quarantine. At our virtual Bridging ceremony, we welcomed three new Daisy girls—who were recruited during the shutdown— and celebrated girls who bridged from Daisy to Brownie. I put together little ‘kits’ for the girls that we then used during the ceremony. They contained things like scrolls with their certificates, unicorn dust (our troop crest is the unicorn), patches earned during the shutdown, and membership pins.
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SPECIAL DELIVERIES Since the shut down, I have started doing more deliveries to the girls: patches, badges, new uniforms, supplies, activity kits, …. We call this ‘Brownie Elfing.’ I wear my leader vest, troop shirt, and the special face mask that I created using our crest and troop number, as I visit each of our 18 girls’ homes, leaving deliveries in mail boxes or porch steps. Depending on the family’s preference, I usually ring the bell and waive to the girls as they look out the front window. As they’ve gotten more used to this, they now leave me fun pictures and notes, doing a ‘reverse Brownie Elf’. The troop added a new mascot: The Rainbow Cupcake. She takes turns visiting each family for a little over a week. She travels with a journal in which the girls create pictures and tell stories about their adventures. After a visit, she returns to my house for a decontamination week before venturing out to visit another family. A small group of girls completed the World Of Girls Brownie Journey this summer, again completely virtually. They completed the Journey by doing a video recording PSA for how to solve various technical issues during a Zoom meeting, in an amazingly fun creative way. We recently completed the Women’s Suffrage Centennial Patch program offered by our Council and will next move onto learning about the Election (how it works) and learning about Democracy. THE GREAT OUTDOORS Our Troop LOVES outdoor activities like hiking and camping. Many of our girls had never camped prior to joining our troop, but now it’s become a family past time.
“We are a high-risk family and when COVID struck it turned our world upside down. My two little girls (6 and 8) were so sad when their lives changed so abruptly. Girl Scouts has been a light in a very long and dark tunnel for our family. Having weekly Zoom calls have given us a sense of normalcy and a feeling of connectedness. My youngest daughter was able to officially join the troop and participate in many of the fantastic virtual experiences that were thoughtfully put together by Liv Martin. I am so thankful that we were able to address COVID as a troop and the girls were given a safe space to share their worries and questions. This experience allowed the families in this fantastic troop to feel bonded, as we tackled this unprecedented year together! Our family is eternally grateful for our troop and its amazing leader! Girl Scouts will always, always hold a special place in our hearts, for generations to come!” – Kat, mother of a first grade Daisy and third grade Brownie “ I love the consistency of the troop meetings, even if it’s just virtual. I feel that it gives the girls a sense of responsibility and commitment.” – Joy, Brownie parent
Previously, we’d host two ‘Girl Scout’ camp outs a year, meaning minimal adult-to-girl ratios during the overnight portion following safety guidelines from GSCNC (our local GS Council). We also held at least one ‘Family “We are a high-risk family Camp Out’ a year, where we invite and when COVID struck it all the families to join us. This year, turned our world upside down. however, we had to adjust those My two little girls (6 and 8) were so sad when their lives plans. I created a virtual camp out changed so abruptly. Girl program with prerecorded videos Scouts has been a light in a (by myself and a couple other very long and dark tunnel for families who led activities) and our family. Having weekly fun activities all themed around Zoom calls have given us a sense of normalcy and a Hogwarts. Families brought their feeling of “We have a lot of daughter’s camp kit (cat litter bins fun in our work. We just kind the girls decorate to contain all of of mix it up and it’s really their camping gear) and donated fun. We get to do all sorts of supplies for all the different ‘classes’ activities and don’t even really that were held throughout the know or understand that we’re working. That’s what weekend. We opened the event with a live Zoom, which all the girls attended. They were sorted into their different houses and learned how the event would unfold. Classes Saturday and Sunday morning were pre-recorded videos uploaded to our Facebook group at different times throughout the weekend. After uploaded, families could do the different activities at their leisure. Girls were award a patch and charm set from Patchwork Designs as well as Girl Scout badges.
makes my troop so amazing. My troop are all really good friends, and the parents all know each other. I love that after some of the meetings we get to stay online and chat and play. That’s what makes my troop so awesome.” – Alyssa, third grade Brownie
“My daughter joined Troop 90088 last month and quickly received a warm welcome from her sister scouts. The very next weekend, they held a virtual campout and together (virtually) they worked all weekend earning badges and learning important life skills. She had an ear-to-ear smile glued on her little face all weekend!” – Laura, mother of a second grade Brownie
It so much fun to see all the pictures of the girls doing the different activities. Many of the girls set up forts or tents inside and outside their homes so they could ‘camp. I was very proud of my families as they worked along with the videos, gently nudging several of them outside of their comfort zones a little bit. Do you know a youth with an interesting story to share, a business venture, academic or athletic achievement? Let us know! Send an email with the contact information to mweaver@bestversionmedia.com.
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AGING IN PLACE Means Living in Your Home Safely, Independently and Comfortably EXPERT CONTRIBUTOR By Joel Barkman Golden Rule Builders, Inc. Many of us have heard the terms “ADA compliant” or “universal design.” The National Association of Home Builders (NAHB) prefers the term “aging in place.” Millions of Americans are living longer and more active lives. Because they are embracing newly found changing lifestyles, they need to revitalize their home environment. When it comes to aging Americans, NAHB has been training its members to create “livable homes,” whether it is new construction or remodeling your existing residence. Everyone can use universal design! It does not matter if you are young or old. You could be short or tall, healthy, or ill. You might have a disability or be fully mobile. Because of universal design, people who are very different can all enjoy the same home. And that home will be there for all it is inhabitants even when their needs change. The idea of designing new or remodeling your home, and considering all the changes that need to be made can be daunting. Remember that the most important goal is to create a safer, barrier-free home.
The checklist below contains features you may want to consider for your next new construction or remodeling project. Changes in the kitchen typically include: • Upper wall cabinetry three inches lower than conventional height • Base cabinets with drawers, roll-out trays, or lazy Susan • Open shelving for easy access for frequently used items • Side-by-side refrigerator/freezer • Raised dishwasher with push-button controls • Lower, side opening oven • Multi-level work areas to accommodate cooks of different heights • Open under-counter seated work areas Changes in the bathrooms, the #1 place for accidents in your home include: • Tub and shower controls moved closer to entry point • Lever handles and faucets • Slip-resistant flooring • Adjustable/handheld showerheads, 6-foot hose • Curbless shower – nothing to step over and can be rolled into if a wheelchair becomes necessary later. • Higher toilets -- two and a half inches higher than standard Other ideas: • No steps from the garage or main entry into the home • No steps between rooms/areas on the same level • Wider doors that accommodate wheelchairs and walkers • Placement of task lighting in appropriate work areas • In multi-story homes, laundry chute or laundry facilities in master bedroom • Main living on a single story, including a bedroom and full bath These are some examples of universal design. Virtually all rooms of your home can be improved, even closets and garages. Feeling safe and comfortable in your home has little to do with your age. Many who benefit from Universal Design features are either aging or are concerned about a parent who is aging. But the ideas behind the universal design concept cater to people of all ages – children and adults alike.
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Alex’s Army Update: Supporting Athletes Impacted by Childhood Cancer By Marianne Weaver Alex’s Army has taken the first steps to establish the Green & Gold Athletic Spirit Scholarship in memory of two local athletes: George Mason University All-American center fielder Nakoma Sours (#3) and Alex Green (#41 / #52). The scholarship will recognize athletes whose lives are forever changed by a childhood cancer diagnosis and who inspire those around them every step of the way through their love for sport, their determination, strength, courage, and athletic spirit. “Nakoma and Alex continue to inspire our community and this scholarship will honor their shared love for athletics and competition,” said Jeff Dunn, director of Alex’s Army. The goal is to award the first scholarship next year. Alex’s Army is a 501c3 nonprofit whose mission is to fund research with focus on Wilms, raise awareness for all childhood
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cancers, and provide support and encouragement. The Christian-based organization is focused on providing funding for research and to provide support for families affected by childhood cancer. ALEX GREEN The foundation was founded in memory of Alex Green, who will be memorialized through the scholarship. “Through our Alex’s battle with cancer, we were always amazed at how he persevered with incredible determination, strength, and courage,” said Jenni Green, Alex’s mom and cofounder/president of Alex’s Army. “From an early age Alex was motivated by competition and was a natural athlete in every sport he tried. Whether it was soccer, flag football, basketball, or t-ball (and he tried them all), he never ceased to amaze those around him at how natural of an athlete he was.”
After paralyzed at age 7, one of the first things he did when he arrived at the rehabilitation hospital was get in a sled to test out sled hockey. While there, he tried adult rugby, lacrosse, sled hockey and wheelchair basketball – pretty much anything they could offer. He had an undeniable passion for sled hockey and wheelchair basketball. Green competed in national tournaments, travelling to New York, Kentucky, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and several other neighboring states. “Often, sports were his motivation through treatment,” she said. “Whether it was scheduling chemotherapy treatments early so he could make basketball in the afternoon, or setting his alarm to do 20 pushups every day to keep in shape so he could compete, Alex had an incredible athletic spirit, a love for sports and his teammates which was evident to everyone who met him.” NAKOMA DAWN SOURS Nakoma Dawn Sours is an American Indian from the Chickahominy Indian Tribe who lived her life with a passion for competition and an unbreakable will to push toward excellence. She was killed in a car accident in 1995. As a star player on the George Mason University women’s softball team, Sours inspired others to be better and pushed her teammates to excel. She achieved many accolades as a GMU Patriot, and still holds the single season record in runs scored and walks. She placed second in on-base percentage and third in slugging percentage. Despite playing only two seasons at GMU, Sours is fourth in school history in career stolen bases. She was ranked amongst the nation’s top five all-time in stolen bases and had national honors in on-base percentage. “Nakoma Dawn means Great Warrior before Sunrise. Nakoma was just that—a Warrior,” said Billie Sims, a GMU softball teammate whose son was a good friend of Green. “Her competitive spirit and drive was contagious. She was adored and respected by all of her teammates that donned the Green and Gold at GMU.” The scholarship was introduced Wednesday, Sept. 30, the 25th anniversary of her passing. For more information, visit http://alexsarmyccf.org. NEIGHBORS OF LAKE MANASSAS
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A Path to Learning and Literacy is an informative and excellent read for secondary students and their parents. This easy-to-read guide informs students on the basics of successful learning with topics such as: getting organized, time management, active listening, study strategies, testing and feedback. Each chapter contains FAQs and checklists that ask students to reflect on their personal learning and studying habits. These sections help students identify the methods that work best for them. A Note to Parents at the end of each chapter is a personal message to help parents encourage and support their children in learning, studying, and doing well in school. With the 2020 pandemic placing a heavy burden on parents and students with online learning, the topics in A Path to Learning and Literacy are valuable and important to all learning.
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Two Stars and a Wish READING THE REPORT CARD By Claire Johnson Machosky BA, MS, SAS “The report card is a built-in measure of progress…Your child owns it … ask for his/her reactions to the report card grades.” It’s report card time! Your child has completed the first term of the school year and the teachers are giving you feedback on your child’s performance. And it is in the midst of a pandemic! Attending school is always a big deal and today being online in some form gives an entirely new dimension to learning. Students and teachers are facing unknown challenges; parents are looking for guidance. Still, the report card comes, so let’s take the time to review, reflect and renew! REVIEW – It is your child’s report card! He/she should be the first to review the results earned. As a teacher, I would supply my students with a list of their grades for the quarter and ask them to inform me of any grade that was in error, or they did not understand. I asked them to sign the report and told them I would share it with their parents during the parent-teacher conference. I wanted my students to own their grades. Let your child own his/her grades. Actively listen! Let your children discuss their highs, lows, anxieties, their complaints about the long hours at the computer. Intrinsically, your children are aware of the level of their performance and when you give them the opportunity to share their knowledge and feelings, they know and appreciate how much you value their opinion. REFLECT – Parents realize your children’s primary desire is to please you. A Gallup Poll reported that 81 percent of men and 72 percent of women believed that parents are the most important factor in a student’s learning. Giving constructive feedback is a skill. As a teacher, I learned from the educational
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Claire Johnson Machosky holds a Bachelor of Arts in History and Government from Adelphi University, and a Master of Science in School Administration from Long Island University. Her career includes teaching at Our Lady of Mercy School in Hicksville, N.Y.; teaching social studies in the Hewlett-Woodmere Public Schools, where she also served as social studies department chairperson and school dean. She was nominated by her students for inclusion in Who’s Who Among America’s Teachers. As an educational consultant she has worked with Long Island School Districts, Teachers Centers, and the New York State Department of Education on student performance and assessment. In 2012 she received the Distinguished Alumni Award from her alma mater, Adelphi University, for her accomplishments and dedication to her work in education. Currently, she is a Teaching with Primary Sources Coach with the Eastern Region of the Library of Congress’s TPS Program.
leader, Dr. Paul Black to use “Two Stars and a Wish” when giving feedback. This is a wonderful tool for parents. Begin the conversation about report cards with two items that exemplify the effort your child put forth. They are the STARS! It could be doing the online homework after a long day on Zoom classes. When you actively listen to your child, you’ll see more and more stars to compliment them on. Then parents and child together make a wish. Identify the area that needs more effort,
or a different approach, then set a goal – a wish to do better in the next quarter. Positive and constructive feedback raises the learning bar and promotes motivation.
RENEW – Each new term in school is like each new season of the year – it is filled with positive anticipation, excitement and challenge. A new chapter is about to begin, so take inventory of the key elements of successful learning. For online instruction reinforce the “school” location at home, to promote efficiency reassemble all supplies and resources so they are within reach when working. Most important - record all upcoming assignments in an agenda book or planning calendar. Stay current with all work. My TWO STARS include praise for the student who perseveres and is learning to master online classes; admiration for the teacher who finds creative ways to communicate meaningful lessons. My WISH is for patience and understanding to forge a stronger bond between home and school that benefits our children.
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CALENDAR of EVENTS
Monday, Nov. 9-Wednesday, Dec. 30
2020 BULL RUN FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS
@ Bull Run Regional Park, 7700 Bull Run Drive, Centreville The Bull Run Festival of Lights is a 2.5-mile drive through of festive light displays. Time: Monday-Thursday nights 5:30pm-9:30pm Friday, Saturday, Sunday and holiday nights 5:30pm-10:00pm Holiday nights include November 26, December 24, December 25, December 31 and January 1. Cost: $20-$50 • www.eventbrite.com/e/2020-bull-run-festival-of-lightstickets-123002861871 Wednesday, Nov.11-Friday, Jan. 1
WINTER WALK OF LIGHTS 2020-2021
@ Meadowlark Botanical Gardens, 9750 Meadowlark Gardens Court, Vienna Beauty, conservation, and discovery flourish at this 95-acre oasis featuring ornamental and native gardens and private event venue, The Atrium. Timed tickets required. Time: Wednesday, Nov. 11 – Friday, Dec. 11, 2020 5:30 p..m-10 p.m., Saturday, Dec. 12- Sunday, Jan. 3, 2021 5 p.m.- 10 p.m. The last admission is at 9:15pm. • Cost: $9-$16 www.eventbrite.com/e/2020-meadowlarks-winter-walk-of-lightstickets-123058389957 Friday, Dec. 11
PRINCE WILLIAM BUSINESS CONNECTIONS HAPPY HOUR
@ Out of the Blue Crabs & Seafood, 5005 Wellington Road, Gainesville Prince William Business Connections happy hour hosted by SpeedPro Imaging Centreville (Manassas, VA), Out of the Blue Crabs & Seafood and Prince William Business Connections. Time: 4 p.m.-7 p.m. • pwbc.wildapricot.org Saturday, Dec. 12
OLD TOWN MANASSAS CHRISTMAS MARKET AND HOLIDAY CRAFT FAIR
@ Harris Pavilion, 9201 Center Street, Manassas From arts and crafts to jewelry and baked goods, to body and hair care, vendors have everything to surprise your loved ones! Time: Noon-4 p.m.
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Saturday, Dec. 12
BREAKFAST WITH SANTA
@ 9500 Technology Dr, Manassas Hosted by Kena Shriners, kids of all ages are welcome to visit with Santa. Food and fun for all! This breakfast is free for all children 12 years of age or younger. Time: 8:30 a.m.-11 a.m. • Cost: $7 per person RSVP@Kena.org • https://bit.ly/2SaXys0 Saturday, Dec.12
WINTER GLOW
@ George Washington’s Mount Vernon, 3200 Mount Vernon Memorial Highway, Mount Vernon See the estate illuminated with soft lights and holiday patterns while listening to Christmas carolers. Visit an 18th-century winter encampment. Time: 5:30 p.m.-8:30 p.m. • Cost: $25-$45 www.mountvernon.org/plan-your-visit/calendar/events/winter-glow Saturday, Dec. 12
NORTHERN VIRGINIA REPTILE EXPO
@ Prince William County Fairgrounds, 10624 Dumfries Road, Manassas Reptiles, books, supplies, feeders, and more! Time: 9a.m.-3 p.m. • Cost: $8; Children 2-9 $3 www.mdreptilefarm.com/shows/va/nva.asp Saturday, Dec. 12
CHRISTMAS IN DUBLIN
@ Urbanna Swim Club, 8030 Urbanna Road, Manassas With its twinkling lit streets and festive atmosphere, Dublin is one of the top places in the world to spend Christmas. “Christmas in Dublin” is a family-friendly festival and market that brings a piece of that Irish Christmas magic to the historic city of Manassas. The proceeds from this event will support the Phoenix Irish Dance Academy and their dancers. Irish dancers, games, crafts, handmade items, a bake sale, and more. Time: 4 p.m.-7 p.m. • Cost: Free • phoenixidacademy.com Event information may be out of date due to the COVID-19. Confirm details with event organizers.
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