Offspring Magazine - Spring 2010 by Kelly Exeter

Spring 2010

A to Z

guide for new mums Meet the woman behind

ALEX & CHARLI

FIONA STANLEY

on vaccination

Spring fashion for kids

PERTH UPMARKET

Feature

REAL LIFE birth story

Toilet training tips

PERTH KIDS

THE CONTRIBUTORS SALLY HINCKS, JOURNALIST started journalism with the old Daily News in Perth and continues to work on WA’s rural weekly newspapers, Farm Weekly and the Countryman. “It is the best work in the world – you’re meeting people and writing their stories.” She has four gorgeous grandchildren.

LISA FERNANDEZ, RADIO ANNOUNCER is a Perth girl who is currently doing the breakfast show on 92.9 FM with Basil Zempilas and Sam Mac. As a mother, Lisa wants to nurture, encourage, teach, inspire and give my love unconditionally... “because the reward is so incredibly great”.

MHAIRI FLAY, FEATURE WRITER has worked in marketing and advertising for 11 years, and although currently on maternity leave, loves her position as Marketing Manager for Channel 9.

JENNIFER BLACK, TRAVEL WRITER was an Award Winning Travel Manager for Flight Centre and Harvey World Travel for 10 years. After years of personal travel experiences and now with two young boys in tow, Jennifer writes about ‘Family’ Travel - where to go and how to get there with minimum stress!

JOHANNA GARNETT, FOOD & NUTRITION is the owner of JVG Events and created Yum In My Tum, which is the only food festival dedicated to children in Australia. Yum In My Tum is devoted to educating children on growing, cooking and tasting food.

ARI O’CONNELL, COLUMNIST has had work published in Australia, Japan and England, and is currently completing her first novel as part of a PhD project. Ari and her husband are expecting their first baby at the time of print.

ANNIE BOURGAULT, JOURNALIST worked for 10 years in radio and TV in Canada. Now, a mother, she loves discovering and sharing new stories about ordinary people becoming extraordinary parents.

DEVON PLUMLEY, MIDWIFE believes her work is most satisfying when she can empower a woman and her partner to birth their baby naturally; and the new little human being thanks his mummy with a squeal!

EMMA SAURUS, RESEARCHER/ WRITER Before motherhood, Emma was an editor of academic books and journals. She has a Bachelor of Arts in Publishing, a two-year-old son, and “a really messy house”.

AMY FRENCH, JOURNALIST majored in Journalism and Politics at Curtin University and recently completed her Masters in Communications at UWA. It’s a bit of a joke among her “parent” friends that Amy, who has no children, writes for Offspring; but they know she loves kids, as witnessed watching “Aunty Amy” playing with their beautiful children.

MARGARET ROBSON KETT, CHILDREN’S BOOK REVIEWER has worked in public libraries in Victoria, WA and the US as a specialist children’s librarian for 30 years. She currently works for the State Library of WA’s Better Beginnings Family Literacy Program and has two teenage children who love books and stories.

BROOKE EVANS, JOURNALIST has written for home improvement, bridal and women’s lifestyle publications, but says Offspring enables her to combine writing with my new favourite hobby, being a mum to my beautiful baby boy, Caleb. She says she can think of nothing better than writing all day (and being paid for it!).

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Editor’s Note Let’s face it, nowadays most of us need to continue working even when we have kids. We might get off for a year or two when they’re babies if we’re lucky, but then we’re back on the treadmill, juggling meetings, school runs and nappies. Costs of living are high and we generally want a lot for our families and ourselves – overseas holidays, plasma TVs, a range of outfits rather than perhaps one nice outfit, a good education for our children, a couple of cars (rather than one family car) and a nice house (which often more so resembles the homes in which our parents live now than perhaps they had when they were starting a family but, hey, we’ve got high expectations!). Of course this all needs to be paid for, and given that most people tend to marry for love rather than money, very few of we women get to swan around playing tennis and eating cucumber sandwiches! And nowadays, by the time we get around to having kids, we’ve already had a good dose of what it’s like to earn our own money, recognition and stimulation from following our own ambitions, and are not necessarily prepared to give all that up when it comes time to spawning the offspring. The modern mother wants it all: a family and her own life of some sort, just as men have traditionally had for a very long time. But how do we do that? Have our family, be there for them, and work? There’s a new breed of women out there who are indeed etching out a life for themselves that does involve the best of both worlds – they’re known as WAHMS (Working at Home Mums). These women are like most of us – have had some form of formal education and/or employment experience, are creative, keen to earn some cash for themselves and, most-importantly, are multi-tasking savvy! These are women who have discovered a niche business or creative pursuit and are developing it within the comfort of their own homes in between breast-feeding and mopping floors. Having children has unlocked their creativity and, drawing upon skills and knowledge they’ve learned in the

workforce prior to having children, they are rediscovering their talents whether it be sewing, designing, cooking, painting, taking photos or writing. In our editions to date we’ve covered the occasional WAHM story but in this issue we’re elevating it to a new status with both feature articles about Perth mothers who have constructed careers for themselves at home, while child rearing. Romelie Grayson, the talented designer behind the successful alex & charli children’s fashion label, and Rebecca Hall of Kidzabuzz have allowed us a glimpse into their family homes, from where their creations were cultivated. This issue showcases boutique items from more talented women, in a special feature on Perth Upmarket as well as our regular features including a hilarious recount of Ari’s experience as a “blossoming” pregnant woman. (A huge congrats to Ari who has recently given birth to a darling little boy, Gabriel.) Please also take advantage of the great advertising discount offers in the magazine and support our advertisers because without them the magazine wouldn’t be free and subscription wouldn’t be so affordable. And please subscribe for a chance to win a getaway at the beautiful Riverglen Chalets.

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LETTERS TO THE EDITOR I am enjoying the winter edition of your fab mag. Dixie Marshall article was a cool surprise and had good laughs from all the birthing articles. There is one article however, that has me a little puzzled and a little upset too - Perth mum Sperm Insemination. I am upset because it was not something that I thought I would read about in Offspring or a family magazine. What I read - a story promoting single parenthood - by choice! Undervaluation of fatherhood, and a total disregard of a future child’s right to grow up knowing about or having a relationship with his/her father or extended family, or even knowing if he/she has half siblings! ..to

do this on purpose....I do not understand. This article is out of place I think being in your mag, and it sounds like Donna or Ms Bright have vested interest in a fertility clinic or something like that. It really did read like a big fat advertisement to me. Is Donna Cheron part of your team? I don’t see her pictured as one of your contributors. The good news is now I have an idea for a future article - Fostering or Adoption in WA (there are children already born in this world that need love and care). Ta, and thanks for your magstill loving the glossy pages-and for free! (did not know it was a possibility). Anonymous

I love your magazine! I’m a home-birthing, extended breastfeeding, non-vaxxing, natural and crunchy mama and I must admit that the first time I picked up your magazine (Autumn edition) I was waiting with baited breath for something to make me shake my head in disbelief. And it didn’t happen! And then again, your winter edition was just as good – if not better! I love that your magazine is so incredibly unbiased and is something that a mainstream mum can read and learn from. Well done! I am mother of Jedd is 3yo, and Sage is 19mo whose favourite activities are painting and eating playdough! Thanks and keep up the great work, Alicia, Baldivis.

Born to Birth I was really inspired by your “born to birth” article. It was interesting to read about the process of labour and how she went through the stages of contractions. It put my mind at rest to read that labour could be handled at home for some time before needing a midwife. I had a lot of anxiety about labour and now I feel more relaxed that I may even be able to laugh through some of the first stages. Thanks so much. Kristy, Yokine, WA

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I just wanted to offer my congratulations on Offspring - it is a truly unique and inspiring magazine. The first issue was enough to get me interested and the second issue, enough to get me hooked. Offering open information on vaccination is a really important issue, which mainstream media often shy away from, so I commend you for taking the stance to provide information about the pros and cons, which facilitates true informed consent and also allows us to push for more research. Home Birth is almost as controversial and your article on an actual experience was beautiful. As someone who always thought she would elect for caesarean section and ended having an incredible home water birth with an independent midwife, I can see how important providing stories on all birthing options, is crucial in empowering women. I love that you take an approach of judging nobody and accepting each the decisions that each family makes. Thank you! Gina Cacho, Applecross

This issue’s front cover model was Jaye Hazell Dalkeith. Jaye is mother of two-year-old, William, and runs her own mortgage broking business from home, Mortgage Providers Australia. She also won this year’s 92.9FM Yummy Mummy competition. Photographer: Johannes Reinhart

ISSUE 3 SPRING 2010 Offspring magazine is produced and published by Family Life Publications ABN: 55 398 258 346 PO Box 724 Claremont 6910 Contact Phone 08 6161 8832 Fax 08 6161 8832 Website www.offspringmagazine.com.au Editorial enquiries editorial@offspringmagazine.com.au Advertising enquiries advertising@offspringmagazine.com.au Subscription enquiries subscription@offspringmagazine.com.au Publisher & Editor Kate Durack Art Director Kelly Exeter, Swish Design Contributing writers Sally Hincks, Devon Plumley, Brooke Evans, Amy French, Kate Durack, Jennifer Black, Annie Bourgault, Ari O’Connell, Lisa Fernandez, Margaret Robson Kett, Johanna Garnett, Katie McGrath, Mhairi Flay Graphic Designers

I had a lot of anxiety about labour and now I feel more relaxed that I may even be able to laugh through some of the first stages.

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CONTENTS 6

Letters to the Editor

Feature articles 12

At home with alex & charli

Perth children’s fashion designer Romelie Grayson shares what inspires her range 16

Life’s a buzz Mumpreneur, Rebecca Hall, takes Kidzabuzz to new heights

Off the air, with Lisa Fernandez - Comic Relief 92.9FM breakfast radio host pushed out of her comfort zone

Garden Tea Party Fashion Feature Spring Fashion for Kids

Perth Upmarket Special Feature Take a glimpse into some of the special items for Mum and Junior Upmarket

Funny mummy - Size Matters Ari O’Connell talks about struggling with pregnancy weight gain

Subscription Competition Your chance to win a getaway at the divine Riverglen Chalets

Pregnancy & Birth 36

Birth Story Real life recount of a water birth

My Poor Fanny, will it ever be the same again? Perineal Trauma and life after birth by midwife Devon Plumley

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29 32

Babies 42

The Guessing Game A pop vox: do you find out your baby’s sex or not?

Internet Feature Useful websites to help with your online shopping

Offspring’s A to Z guide Helpful tips to help you with your new baby

Early Childhood

Emotional intelligence Important information to help develop emotional intelligence in your child

Transition to Toileting – tips and tricks Find out if your child’s ready and discover ways to make the process easier

Primary Years

61 66

Children’s theatre company celebrates 30 magical years Spare parts puppet theatre has a special show

A special school A Yallingyup mother talks about what makes her child’s school extra special

Storytime Better Beginnings’ Margaret Kett reminds us why sharing stories with children is so important

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CONTENTS Family Life 61

Fairytales in 2010??! Mhairi Flay creates a humorous take on traditional fairy tales

Something to Skype about

Skype helps bridge the gap for a Perth family 66

WA Darlings Photos of our children from around WA

Health 68

Vaccination benefits outweigh risk Fiona Stanley confirms the science of vaccination is proven

Living with Evan: When a baby step is a milestone A Perth couple talk about how they have remained a strong family in the face of adversity

Food & Nutrition - Breakfast like a king Johanna Garnett reminds us of most important meal

Are we there yet? Travel Feature Travel writer Jennifer Black recommends Spring holiday destinations

Featured Charity - Telethon

Parenting Forum 80

Oh Boy, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a girl!

Calendar of Events Events for WA families this Spring ring

84 85 86

Directory - Parties Directory - General Useful Contact Numbers

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at home

with alex and Perth childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s fashion designer, Romelie Grayson, shares with us how she gets inspired to keep creating beautiful products, season after season, while maintaining a healthy balance between business and family.

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ROMELIE is an ordinary woman, yet she has an extraordinary imagination, which has guided and shaped her to become one of the country’s standout boutique children’s fashion designers. Romelie seems to have it all: three gorgeous girls and a thriving business, which she operates from her charming Mosman Park home. However, Romelie jokes that is wasn’t always so beautiful but it is easy to assume that, if she has injected as much effort into her alex and chali range, as she has into her home, she has the ability to transform a blank canvas into something truly magical. alex and charli is a fabulous children’s clothing range which was dreamt up six years ago when Romelie moved back to Australia from England and discovered her inner passion for fashion. As a former very good student with an inquisitive desire for art, she decided it was now or never. “I have always loved art, fabrics and fashion, and alex and chali was an opportunity to

charli BY KATIE MCGRATH

explore that side, so I thought I would give it a go as I had nothing to lose,” she says. Since this seed of enthusiasm burst into a flower, Romelie has never looked back with her business continually growing, and it can only get better for this small town girl from Lesmurdie. As the girls run around her feet, Romelie’s mind searches for new concepts and designs for the range, which emulate childlike, ‘girly’ and fantastical themes. Romelie draws on her own childhood memories and, in particular children’s books for inspiration. “My philosophy is to keep children looking like children,” Romelie says. Her designs echo this notion with cute bunnies, bluebirds, ‘the Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe’ and the ‘Big Bad Wolf’. Romelie confides that she is a lover of colour and trimmings and gets particular joy from creating quirky designs and diverse trends. Furthermore, her home and ‘work shed’ are just as inspiring, as they provide escapism: a sanctuary in which she can concentrate on her work and from where she derives peace. Un-coincidentally perhaps, and similar to

PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOHANNES REINHART

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accountant by trade, he masters the paperwork and keeps the business in check. alex and charli is a huge venture, although, it is one in which Romelie has ultimate control. She is able to work around being a mother and a wife. Romelie also admits that the support she has around her means her designs, her work shed is the

brief moments when it all gets too

she can run a very tight ship and

epitome of childhood surrealism.

much and she is close to admitting

do things her way which, in turn,

Just as Alice escapes down the

means the business runs very

hole to find wonderland, Romelie’s

smoothly.

“I have always loved art, fabrics and fashion so alex and charli was an opportunity to explore that side, so I thought I would give it a go as I have nothing to lose.”

secret door at the bottom of the garden leads to her own magical land, where the parameters swell with imagination, adolescence and innocence. All this, compounded with her regular attendance at art class, are vehicles which serve to stimulate her creativity. The alex and charli range is ever growing with at least 60 stockists, 20 of which are located here in WA. She also has an agent in England and,

simultaneously,

she

has

Consequently, it only takes her four weeks from the design stage to

sourcing

fabrics,

getting

them made up and placed into the catalogue. Romelie confesses that the business is definitely profitable, but insists that for her, it was always merely about the journey. And what a journey: her range has come a long way since the foetal stage, and is now an identifiable name. With increasing demand, production is dramatically reproducing in vast

expanded her range through the

quantities.

Internet and receives many orders

defeat. Nevertheless, she says these

Romelie’s advice for starting up

from oversees. With her down-to-

moments are short-lived as she

a business, especially with young

earth attitude and love for fashion,

enjoys her work so much.

children at home, is to start small, be

it is simple to see why people fall in love with her work, as her designs

strong. She believes you shouldn’t Romelie’s

three

completely mirror her attitude and

well-behaved

personality.

are obviously a big

girls

Romelie admits she is “A bit of a

part of her life; in

design freak” and she often has 15

addition, they make

different designs in a number of

the

different colours just for one top.

She also finds herself so caught

Romelie as they enjoy

up in the business that she forgets

getting involved. The

people actually wear her range.

girls love the factory

business enjoyable

even for

“I get embarrassed when I see

where she encourages

children wearing my clothes but I

them to make up their

also find it incredibly rewarding,”

own designs. “I have so

she admits.

much fun!” she says.

Romelie is undoubtedly a very

R o m e l i e ’ s

busy woman. However, like all

supportive

women possibly feel at some point,

Jamie, also plays a part

she openly admits she does have

in the business. An

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husband,

“Toughen up, not everyone will like your products but don’t take it personally, you can only fail at the end of the day, who cares?” get down-heartened if people don’t

adopts high hopes for the future in

to balance her Cinderella work ethic

like your designs.

her intent for “the business to grow

whilst being a fantastic role model

internationally.”

and mother.

“Toughen up, not everyone will like your products but don’t take

We leave Romelie playing in

it personally, you can only fail at

the garden with her lovely family.

the end of the day, who cares?” she

Her

says.

transparent – the relaxed

contentment

This aphorism is obviously one

smile and the creative

that has guided her successfully

glint in her eye. After all,

in business. She does not scare

she has everything she

easily and isn’t afraid of rejection,

wants in life. Women

such is her belief in her products

and mothers all over

and, in turn, that really is the key

can only look to her as

to success.

an inspiration, as she

For now she is satisfied and happy

independent,

raising her children and enjoying her

strong,

successful

achievements.

woman that manages

However, Romelie

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Life’s a PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOHANNES REINHART

This was the beginning of her journey as a business woman, and the dawning of a new landscape for WA families looking for ideas in children’s entertainment.

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BUZZ BY KATE DURACK

Every now and again we stumble across a great product and might wonder to ourselves, “What a fabulous idea!” or better still, “Why didn’t I come up with that??” Meet one Perth woman who has indeed come up with a unique idea and developed it into a must-have resource for WA families – creator and owner of Kidzabuzz, Rebecca Hall.

IT all began as a light bulb moment. Four years ago

activities, services and products.

in the kitchen of her Bassendean home, new mother,

Kidzabuzz is a discount voucher book with a

Rebecca Hall, was at a loss with what to do with her

difference. It is a voucher publication designed to

seven month old baby, Ethan. We’ve all been there. We’re

provide WA families with options for activities, which

excited, new mothers eager to take our new babies out

are both wholesome and subscribe to healthy living.

to introduce them to the world. Where’s somewhere fun

Bec takes responsibility for ensuring the book pertains

and exciting, yet suitable, for a young child?

to healthy living, even if in doing so has meant turning

Well, the obvious place for Bec was to look through

down potentially lucrative advertising opportunities

the Yellow Pages under “Children” or “Babies” to find

from fast food outlets. Parents can use the book knowing

such activities but alas, or rather, fortunately as the case

the hard work’s been done for them – they don’t have

was for Bec, no such section existed. She wondered why

to sift through the vouchers to find “appropriate” dining

there wasn’t an activities book for families and, drawing

options for example.

upon her extensive experience in media sales, decided

“KidzaBuzz is about families spending quality time

“Let’s do it!”

together, being active and healthy,”

This was the beginning of her journey as a business woman, and the dawning of a new landscape for WA families looking for ideas in children’s entertainment. Kidzabuzz was born. Four editions later, Kidzabuzz, has become a highly-valued resource for WA families, providing a wide range of activities and options for children’s

Bec says.

“I’m not the sort of person who could be a stay at home mum, I need to work”

The 2010 edition is perhaps their most comprehensive, comprising more than 260 pages and 380 discount vouchers over 12 sections, ranging from birthday party ideas, to animal farms and photography. Bec attributes her success with the business to being very well

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In addition to the books

parents that she would like for

being available at the usual

herself: a resource “full of healthy,

stockists

through

fun and affordable ideas for the

fundraising, the Halls have

and

family.” It’s a book she herself loves

recently received the go-

to use with Glenn and her two boys,

ahead to distribute their

Ethan, five, and Jacob, three.

books through Australia

“We went to Outback Jacks the

Post shops, a development

other night with the kids and saved

that further consolidates

$35, while I saved $67 the other day

an important place for

at Toyworld,” she said.

the voucher book within the WA market. Regardless

the

success

her

venture, Bec, like many women of

the

who have high work demands and

positive growth of their

a young family, sharing herself

enterprise, the owners

between her work, her children and

want to maintain the

her husband is a juggling act she is

accessibility

still trying to master.

the

book to all families so, despite organised and

Despite

“It’s hard work, I don’t have a

suggestions

lot of spare time for myself and

to increase the price, the book

sometimes, like many mothers, I

receiving fantastic support

feel guilty that I have to spend time

from family and friends; not to

away from my family to get the

mention great support from her clients, 80 per cent of whom have advertised in the book since (its inception). While Bec is the “face” of the business, her husband, Glenn, is equally committed to Kidzabuzz, involved in business development, marketing and accounts. The couple has also taken on a marketing manager to help grow the business to new heights, and employs several staff members on a part time basis to assist with design and production. And their company

She never set out to create a multi– million business, but wanted to create a book for other parents that she wanted for herself – a book full of healthy, fun and affordable ideas for the family.

work done,” she says. “But it’s all worth it because my children are happy and healthy, I have a great marriage and I love what I do. I’m not the sort of person who could be a stay at home mum, I need to work.” Bec works from home which is great for her in that she can be with her children, but she admits it can be isolating at times. Still she wouldn’t have it any other way. As the mother of two points out, she can work while “preparing dinner or putting on a load of washing”,

is indeed reaching further echelons

and

with the recent development of

advertising space in her book while

she

first

started

selling

several corporate alliances including

will continue to be available for

new relationships with prestigious

$20, a value that can be quickly

Bec’s a great reminder to any

entities including Telethon and

redeemed by using only a few of the

woman, or indeed anyone, that

Australia Post.

breastfeeding her baby.

discount vouchers within the thick

dreams can metamorphise into

This is the first year it has been

book. 10,000 copies of the latest

reality, and having children doesn’t

affiliated with Telethon, with part

edition will be available from mid

need to get in the way of that.

proceeds of the books going to

September.

Her advice to other women with

Telethon. Bec says she is “delighted

Bec says she never set out to

an idea who’d like to take it further?

to be able to be involved with the

create a multi–million business, but

“Don’t think about it too much, just

iconic WA charity”.

wanted to create a book for other

do it.”

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OFF THE AIR with Lisa Fernandez

Comic relief Lisa opens up about her secret desire (and fear!) of doing stand-up comedy

Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;VE got a question for you. Whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s

Why, in my mid-30â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s with a

the most embarrassing thing you

perfectly good career and an already

could think of doing in a public

hectic life would I want to push

Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve asked myself that question

place and in front of more than 100

myself to the limits of exhaustion

many times since I said yes to the

people (some of whom are good

sitting up after the baby goes to bed

comedy gig and sadly, the answer

friends)? Would it be having sex?

writing what I suspect are mildly

still hasnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t come to be. But what I

Maybe going to the toilet? Now think

amusing jokes? And what would

will confess, is that stand-up comedy

drive me to want to perform those jokes to a room full of strangers?

about actually DOING that one thing

has always been something I have

and then multiply those feelings of

wanted to try, at least once anyway.

horror and embarrassment by one hundred million. Because I imagine that is how I am going to feel in a few days time. Intrigued? Well by the time you read this blog I will have either suffered the worst humiliation of my entire life or discovered a brand new career path. Because in a few days time I will be performing a 10 minute stand-up comedy routine in front of 100 people. Am I out of my mind? Obviously. But thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not the point. The point is (for me anyway).... why would I want to take on such a

â&#x20AC;&#x153;Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m still paralysed with fear at the thought of a roomful of people NOT laughing at anything I say but after a little reďŹ&#x201A;ection I realised that Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m also a different person to who I was nine years ago.â&#x20AC;?

challenge now?

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Funny Mummy by Ari O’Connell

Size matters “You know, you sure are big. You positive you don’t have more than one in there?” NOBODY ever tells you the awful truth about your

but, as people said, you can never be too sure about

belly when you’re in the early stages of pregnancy.

these things, their neighbour’s half sister’s best friend’s

They say it’s beautiful, neat even, as if carrying a baby

nephew’s second wife from Uzbekistan thought she was

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“The scans and I were pretty sure there was only one but, as people said, you can never be too sure about these things”

entering rooms minutes ahead of

then and there in front of the blocks of Rocky Road. Would they, they asked, be obliged, in a hilarious twist of fate, to help deliver my enormous hungry baby, who was sure to emerge and demand Rocky Road and After Dinner Mints without so much as a please or thank you, or would I be able to hold on for another hour or day, or even a week? Mostly, these people decided, I

me and striking up conversations

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lurch from side to side like a deranged disco dancer from

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and water. I put a couple of packets

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PREGNANCY & BIRTH 36 Offspring | spring 2010

birth story

MY daughter, Ashanti, was born

contractions were irregular and a

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and

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naturally at home in a birth pool.

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was sure and being the first time, I

sound of birds chirping and gazed

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my arms, I knew I would never be

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PREGNANCY & BIRTH

Michelle’s yoga background, being in water and being at home all helped her “be in the moment” when birthing her first child at home.

Shall I call Tarryn?” I felt really calm and in control and felt I didn’t want

“Within minutes of her birth I asked, ‘Can we do it again?’”

anyone around to distract me and was happy to wait for Tarryn to come check on me at 3pm as arranged. Rob went off to bring in the bins and stopped for a chat with the

room had been transformed to

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very own birth pool. I had candles

Around lunch time I called Rob

ready, essential oils and burners,

at work and my midwife, Tarryn, to

distraction. I felt like a cat going

blankets and towels and wraps for

give them notice that something

off to have kittens. I was alone and

a baby. When my labour began my

was happening.

completely able to do exactly what I

I didn’t want to

anticipation

and

was

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Fri

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didn’t want to know. I was not interested in stages of labour. I just wanted to be present. I was wearing a mala bracelet and was visually focusing on a certain bead through each contraction. I was intent on not pushing my baby out. I wanted to breathe the baby down and out – breath by breath. Twenty minutes after Tarryn arrived my baby was in my arms. wanted. There were no distractions

of my birth pool I felt completely

Elements of my yoga practice,

and no sense of fear.

in control, safe and secure and at

being at home, and being in water,

My contractions were getting

peace. No-one could physically

meant I was able to be truly in the

stronger and I was asking to get into

enter my space without my consent

moment and very present within

the birth pool but Rob was trying to

and, most evident to me, was the

the process. I had an enormous

hold me off wondering if it was too

ability to draw within and focus on

faith in the natural process and

soon. I had a show and my waters

the task of birthing my beautiful

was surprised how unattached I

broke within a few contractions of

child. The sedative of the warm

felt to the baby. I felt my role was

each other and I was working really

water eased the sensations of

to let my baby birth. The absence

hard to take my contractions and

contractions almost instantly and I

of any involvement meant that I

energy ‘down’ and not tense up.

was so relaxed as my body became

was able to move forward exactly

This was the most uncomfortable part of the birth. At this point, Rob realised things were happening and taking matters into his own hands declared, “That’s it!

I am calling

Tarryn”. I heard him talking to her

the way it was intended. My mind

“What! She’s not already in the pool?”

on the phone and asking if I could

was free to be. I was not distracted in any way and there was nowhere to be, nowhere to get to. I was not in control nor was I out of control. There was no right or wrong. There just was.

get into the pool and I remember

virtually weightless. The softening

The opportunity to birth my

thinking how ridiculous it sounded.

effect of the water on my skin

daughter, Ashanti, in a peaceful

She said, “What! She’s not already

assisted with a pain-free delivery.

home water-birth was incredible.

in the pool?” and he finally relented and filled the pool for me.

Tarryn arrived and immediately

To be in my own environment and

asked me to feel the head and I

be free to be intuitive and trust in

Entering the birth pool was like

was confused and asked, “Whose

the natural process of birthing has

entering a sanctuary, drawing a

head?” I had a quick feel and said

been empowering. I feel blessed to

protective force field around me

I felt nothing and remember not

have been allowed this beautiful

and my baby. Within the confines

really wanting to feel because I

experience.

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From the Midwife with Devon Plumley RN, Dip Ed, MPH

My Poor Fanny, will it ever be the same again? Perineal Trauma and life after birth AS a midwife I have heard just about every conceivable comment about pregnancy, labour and birthing, the vagina, stitches, pooing... you name it, I’ve discussed it! There are no boundaries when it comes to birthing questions, nor the venue in which they are asked (birthday parties, bus stops and bars to name a few.) Pelvic floor and vaginal damage during pregnancy and birth tops many women’s (and their partners’) fear list and provokes many queries. Let me expel some of the myths and explain all you need to know when it comes to birth and your vagina.

Types of vaginal trauma There are four types of perineal tears that can occur during childbirth:

1 2 3 4

First degree tear - involves only the skin of the perineum and vagina and can be left un-stitched if not bleeding. Second degree tear - extends into the pelvic floor muscles - stitching is usually recommended. Third degree tear - involves the skin, muscle and external part of the anal sphincter. Fourth degree tear - involves all of the above and extends through the sphincter and rectal lining.

First and second degree tears can be stitched by a qualified midwife or doctor. Third and fourth degree tears occur very rarely and should be stitched by an experienced obstetric doctor.

Other damage that could occur Episiotomy - this involves a surgical cut through the perineum to facilitate a quicker birth in times of suspected baby distress or if you have been advised to have a vacuum or forceps birth. It is similar in severity to a second degree tear but has been known to extend further into the anal sphincter (3rd or 4th degree tear.) Grazes or small tears to the labia, urethral and clitoral region. These can usually be left un-stitched. Research supports naturally-occurring tears of the perineum over routine episiotomy, however, if episiotomy is required, your midwife or doctor will explain the procedure and rationale for its use, and of course will obtain your consent.

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Post birth care of your vagina

Five facts about vaginal/perineal tears

1 2

Many women will obtain no vaginal tears during vaginal birth.

3 4

Many second (and third, forth, fifth) timers will not sustain any tears at all.

Approximately 70-80% of first timers will sustain some degree of damage, though not all require stitches.

The weight of the baby, uterus and amniotic fluid can cause weakened pelvic floor, urinary incontinence and sexual changes. This can therefore still occur whether you birth vaginally or via caesarean, which emphasises why pelvic floor exercises are vital! Research shows there is little that can be done to prevent vaginal tears during vaginal birth.

Ensure your midwife informs you of any little tear you may have sustained. Stitches dissolve, yet ask your midwife about the type of tear and healing time.

Regularly change your sanitary pads and wash regularly (this goes for vaginal and caesarean birth.) Thoroughly clean the stitches in the shower. The idea of touching them may seem strange but good hygiene practices will avoid you getting any infection.

Look at the stitches in the mirror. Know what everything looks like so that you can ensure things are healing well. You’ll be amazed how quickly everything goes back to normal.

Drink plenty of water and eat a diet high in fibre. This will keep your bowels soft and alleviate any fears you have of doing your first poo post birth.

As for sex, give yourself six weeks to allow time to heal.

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Tips to Minimise Vaginal Trauma

1 2

Perform your pelvic floor exercises pre-birth to strengthen the muscles in preparation for pushing and post birth to hasten your vagina’s recovery to its prebirth state.

3 4 5 6 7

Eat well and don’t smoke! Good skin integrity is enhanced by good nutrition, a well-oxygenated body and good genes.

Research suggests that birth position has little effect on damage. However, lying on you left side is anecdotally associated with fewest tears, whereas birth stools are associated with a greater risk of tears. Ultimately, you should birth in the position most comfortable for you.

Consider perineum ‘stretching’ devices such as the ‘Epi-No’. This device is used antenatally to stretch the vagina and perineum. It claims to shorten the 2nd stage of labour and perineal tears. It can then be used post birth to re-strengthen the vagina.

Be relaxed about what you ultimately cannot control. Tears happen. It is no big deal, especially when your little miracle is lying against your breast for the first time. Allow your midwife to check for tears and if stitches are needed, concentrate on babe whilst the repair is being performed. Remember, vaginas are designed to stretch, sometimes do tear, and heal very quickly.

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Top 10

There is evidence that perineal massage twice a week from 35 weeks pregnant reduces the risk of tears and need for episiotomy in first-timer mothers. Perineal massage in labour is not associated with fewer tears and may only cause discomfort.

Birth the baby’s head slowly! The slower the head is birthed, the more time the vagina and perineum have to stretch. Be guided by your body, instincts and your midwife. Use a mirror to watch the birth of the baby’s head. Because you can see everything stretching, you will be inclined to slowly control the birth of the head. Do not be afraid to look, it is an amazing sight to see! Birth baby into your own hands. This will also aid you to slowly guide baby’s head out.

Ask your midwife or doctor to press a warm or cool compress (depending on your preference) to your perineum whilst you are pushing. Many women feel this eases the stinging or burning sensation experienced during this stretching phase.

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The Guessing Game Whether you delight in the suspense or want to organise everything right down to the pink or blue socks, there is no right or wrong answer when it comes to finding out the sex of your baby. Here, mums share their experiences:

Aimee, mum of one

Bec, mum of two

“My husband wanted to find out, I was undecided.

“We found out the sex of our first. I told everyone

We found out we were having a girl and had every

because I wanted to be able to set up the nursery,

intention of keeping it a secret but that didn’t go

buy the relevant clothes and nappies and be able

according to plan – we were so happy we just blurted

to pick a name – but really it was because I’m a

it out to anyone that would

control freak and I really wanted to have a girl

listen. We did everything

(lucky for me it was a girl!). Being pregnant can

pink and it wasn’t until the

make you feel a little out of control as your eating

night before I had her that I

habits change and are held at ransom by cravings,

thought ‘What if they were

you’re less mobile, sleeping habits change... so it

wrong?’. I was happy we

was my way of feeling like I could do something

found out but want to keep

proactive.

the next one a surprise.”

For our second I decided that we wouldn’t find out, but I think I instinctively knew that I was having a boy. I had painted and decorated the nursery in quite a masculine theme and my husband and I could only agree on a boy’s name. People are still convinced I found out the sex and just didn’t tell anyone, but that’s probably because they don’t believe

couldn’t

stand not knowing.

I loved the feeling

of not knowing and

when they put him on my chest and we saw he was a boy – indescribable!”

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Simone, mum of two “I was more than happy to wait until the birth to find out but my husband was adamant he wanted to find out. Between 20 weeks and 36 weeks I had three different scans, two in Kalgoorlie where we were living (with an older machine) and one in Perth with a brand spanking new machine. The two in Kalgoorlie told us a boy, the one in Perth told us our baby ‘looks more like’ a girl. Turns out the older, dodgy Kalgoorlie machine was the more accurate and this was confirmed finally at another ultrasound in Perth just before our son was born! So for the majority of my pregnancy we both had our way, knowing but then again not knowing what baby number two would be!”

Ma-an, mum of two “We found out the sex of both our babies mostly because I’m too impatient. I think we were just too excited that the thought of having to wait to find out if we were having a son or daughter and waiting to name them for 9 months was just too much for us!” (Ma-an, mum of two).

Amanda, mum of one “We didn’t find out when we had Tate as we both wanted to have a surprise after the painful labour, and when Tate was eventually born we actually forgot to ask. The midwife and the obstetrician didn’t say “Congratulations you have a beautiful healthy boy” like we expected – it took us about five minutes to ask what we had. I think that most people find out now so the doctors don’t think to let the new parents know. We are not sure what to do for the next one. I want to find out, but my hubby is keen for another surprise, so we’ll have to wait and see when the time comes.”

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offering it. Generally the intention behind the advice

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matter how your body changes,

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after your baby is born,

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D is for doctor. If

and

try

to ďŹ nd someone local (you do not want to be driving long distances with a sick infant).

E is for exercise. It is important to seek medical advice before taking up a new exercise regime during pregnancy. Swimming, yoga

H is for homecoming. It is such an exciting

BABIES

time to bring your new baby home, and it is important to give yourself time to recover

and walking are all popular forms of exercise

from the birth and time with you baby without

for expectant mothers. Classes speciﬁcally for pregnant

worrying about housework. Remember, a well rested

women are great to meet other mums too.

mum is much more important than a spotless house. To make life easier, why not cook extra at mealtimes while

E is for Epi-No. An Epi-No is a birth training device that

you are pregnant and freeze them so you have a stock of

is used to prepare the perineum for childbirth, with the

ready-to-go meals when you get home from hospital?

aim of decreasing the need for an episiotomy or the risk

I is for individual. It’s something the books will not tell

of tearing. It consists of a special balloon that is inserted

you, but every pregnancy, birth and baby are all going to

into the vagina and inﬂated a couple of weeks before

be different – after all, none of us are the same! Use the

expected due date. Every day in the lead up to the birth,

books as a guide and always ask your doctor if you have

you gradually increase the inﬂation of the balloon until

any concerns.

you can reach 10 centimetres. Talk to your obstetrician if the Epi-No is right for you. Go to www.starnbergmed. com for more information.

J is for jargon. Sometimes it seems like parents have a language all to their own! Some

common

ones

F is for First Aid. It is a good idea now to do

listen out for include EBM (expressed

a First Aid course or have a refresher. All new

breast milk) and dream feed (feeding

parents should learn CPR and general First Aid.

the baby at around 10pm while they

Go to www.stjohn.org.au

are still asleep, which for some babies, helps them sleep longer).

G is for grandparents. A grandchild is such an exciting time (think about how excited you are to meet your baby, take away the

night feeds and nappy changes and you have what your parents are looking forward to – no wonder they’re thrilled!). Grandparents can be a wonderful support and fantastic babysitters but remember it has probably been many years since they have looked after a baby, and as recommended parenting advice has changed over the years, be sure to let them know what you want for the care/routine of your baby so there are no misunderstandings.

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K is for Keepsakes. Babies are only tiny for a second, so make the most of Keepsakes. There are various pregnancy and newborn

photographers around Perth – and these photographs

N is for names. This is probably one of the hardest decisions you will make – because it is one you are going to be reminded of every day for the rest of your life! Traditional

will be something you treasure for many years.

or unique, family, celebrity or biblical, the inspirations

Additionally, if you want to

for names are endless – so a good Baby Name book, a

go beyond inking your

pen and a notepad are essential (keep it on the bedside

baby’s hand or foot for

table in case inspiration hits in the middle of the

their baby book, their

night!). Be prepared, if sharing your name ideas before

hand

footprint

your baby is born for comment, no matter which name

can be created into

you choose there will always be someone who has an

a piece of jewellery

opinion about it.

through

Smallprint,

www.smallp.com.au

L is for lists. When you

have your labour

O is for outings. The ﬁrst outings with a newborn can seem daunting at ﬁrst but it

bag and hospital bag to pack, aws well as

is much easier if you are organised.

trying to get things organised for your baby,

Get a bag that is easy to carry and

making lists can be a great help. Remember to also make

include some clean nappies, nappy

a list of anything you need to grab for the hospital and

bags, baby, wipes, bottle if formula

stick it on the fridge with the number of the hospital so

feeding), and a few changes of

it’s easy to ﬁnd when you go into labour.

clothes, wraps, bibs or burp cloths and baby wipes. An antiseptic hand gel is a

m their

good idea for nappy changes. Once you M is for morning sickness. Some women get

get used to going out, there are all sorts of

it throughout the day, some in the evening,

activities to do with your baby, including

some

Gymbaroo, Mums and Bubs movie sessions

throughout

pregnancies

and

and exercise classes and mother’s group.

others not at all. If you are

suffering

morning

with

sickness,

talk to your doctor for recommendations. Some that

women eating

ﬁnd regularly

P is for pelvic ﬂoor exercises. They can make a big difference to recovery after childbirth and can prevent things like incontinence, so try and remember them throughout your

pregnancy as well as after the birth. (A woman once told me she remembers to do hers when she walks past the

can help – ginger also has

incontinence pads in the supermarket). For information

anti-nausea properties.

go to www.pelvicﬂoorexercise.com.au

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Q is for questions. There is no such thing as a stupid question when it comes to

U is for ultrasound. These are the most precious ﬁrst glimpses of your baby so enjoy

pregnancy or taking care of a new baby.

them! However, be sure to remember not

No one should expect you to know

to go crazy with the water before your appointment.

everything, no matter if

Contrary to belief, you do not have to be almost bursting

this is your ﬁrst baby

for an ultrasound to be taken (ask when you book about

or your ﬁfth.

their water intake recommendations).

your

Ask

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obstetrician,

your clinic nurse or

your GP.

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is important to ensure that your car seat

about the best pregnancy vitamin supplement for your

or capsule is installed correctly and that

needs and remember, vitamin supplements should

they have somewhere safe to sleep. However, it is never

never take place of a healthy diet.

too early to childproof the home, even though your baby will not be mobile for some months. Ensure any chemicals and cleaning products and medications are out of reach, preferably in a locked cupboard. Go to the KidSafe WA website and check out the Online Safety Demonstration House for some valuable tips. www.kidsafewa.com.au

T is for travel. You might want to enjoy a short trip away before your baby arrives, commonly known as a ‘babymoon’. This is not a holiday to pack with activities – but to enjoy some

quiet time and pampering. If you want to go interstate or overseas, check with your obstetrician to check if it is safe for you to ﬂy depending on how far along you are in your pregnancy.

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BABIES

W is for the World Wide Web. Welcome to online for parents! There are fantastic websites for everything for you and your

Y is for you. Your whole world changes when you become a mum â&#x20AC;&#x201C; so it is very important to take some time out for you. Enjoy some

baby. There is a wealth of parenting forums

sleep-ins before the baby arrives. Once you

if you are after advice from women going through the

have the baby, even simple things like asking someone

same thing, as well as online shops. Check out Bambini

to hold the baby so you can enjoy a long uninterrupted

Pronto www.bambinipronto.com.au and The Natural

shower or a short walk will be good for you.

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X is for xylophone. Babies love music, and

Z is for ZZZZ. It is important for expectant and new mums to get as much sleep as possible. Although it is incredibly tempting to

while it will be some time before they will be

complete all those jobs while baby sleeps, try

interested in a xylophone (or a set of drums!)

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itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s great to introduce your baby to music as

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Developing Emotional Intelligence in Children Several major problems such as low selfesteem, family-induced stress, and stress from environmental inďŹ&#x201A;uences, depression, suicidal behaviour, eating disorders, teen pregnancy, HIV and violence threaten the emotional well-being of todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s youth. The last decade has seen a steady rise in emotional ineptitude, desperation and thoughtlessness in families and communities.

BY SELVI MUTHIAH

DANIEL Goleman, Ph.D., is a well-known psychologist

own feelings. They should be able to manage their

who has written broadly on the subject of Emotional

emotions effectively.

Intelligence. He has identiďŹ ed ďŹ ve basic elements of Emotional

Intelligence:

self-awareness,

Research that widely addresses the growing problem

managing

of bullying in schools today reveals that many of

emotions, motivating oneself, empathy and social skills.

these youngsters are less equipped to â&#x20AC;&#x153;readâ&#x20AC;? peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s

According to Goleman and other Emotional Intelligence

expressions and often misunderstand facial clues, which

experts, these elements are not automatically formed

results in their feelings hurt, belittled or insulted.

at birth, but can be taught and enhanced throughout a personâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s lifetime.

Holding a mirror and encouraging children to display different facial expressions to suit different scenarios

In schools for example, bullies generally fail to

are just some ways to help young children express

recognise their own feelings of insecurity or unhappiness

their feelings and to better understand the expressions

and display aggressiveness towards other children.

of others and to respect their feelings. Self-awareness,

Schools should include in their curriculum ways for

being able to recognise and identify a feeling is so

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to be able to manage their emotions,

Motivating oneself is another

and even trying to go to sleep.

they need to ﬁrst know what it is

important element of emotional

These preschoolers who had the

that they are feeling. Stories and

intelligence for it builds on managing

resistance skill were rewarded with

dramas are especially useful in

one’s emotions to the extent that

two marshmallows. However, the

helping children name emotions

they

immediate

more impulsive ones grabbed the

and in giving them language to

gratiﬁcation of an impulse and can

one marshmallow almost within

express their feelings

maintain a positive outlook.

seconds of the experimenter leaving

can

delay

the

Children can be taught various

A group of four-year-olds at

strategies from a young age to

a preschool was presented with

When the children were tracked

effectively manage their emotions,

the challenge to either resist or

later in their adolescence, the

such as taking a deep breath,

succumb to the impulse to take

children who were able to delay

counting to 10 and controlling one’s

the marshmallow when told not

their

desire to tell someone off.

to. They were instructed to wait for

intellectual potential. This study

their marshmallow reward as the

demonstrates

the

experimenter left the room.

intelligence

Sharing stories and books is a wonderful way to help children

the room.

impulse

emotional

had

greater

importance and

understand themselves, the people

Some of the children were able

also demonstrates that it can be

around them and the world in

to wait and in order to sustain

cultivated. Emotional skills can be

which they live. Sharing books and

themselves they undertook various

learned from a young age.

re-enacting a life experience with

strategies such as closing their

puppets provides children with a

eyes, playing with their ﬁngers,

range of words that they can use to

resting with their hands in their

for young children. Parents and

express their feelings.

arms, talking to themselves, singing

educators need to work together.

52 Offspring | spring 2010

Literature is an excellent source inspiration

and

motivation

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These are just a few of the serious

years to try and put themselves in

problems in our society today

someone else’s shoes and examine

that raising children’s emotional

their feelings in that situation.

intelligence can address.

Stories such as The rainbow ﬁsh

Good books, puppets and role-

and Marvin wanted more provide

modelling

ample opportunities for educators

role to play in helping children to

to teach young children how to

manage emotions. They create role

handle relationships or social skills

models for them to look up to and

such as sharing, interacting with

characters to avoid. Developing

others and what is admirable and

emotional intelligence in young

what is shameful behaviour.

children helps them to become

have

important

While emotional intelligence is

more intelligent human beings

certainly not a cure-all for all the

and puts them in touch with their

problems that exist in the world

humanity.

today, it is undoubtedly a crucial factor in many global personal issues today such as road rage, child abuse, bullying in schools, school shootings and juvenile crimes.

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months

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For many parents the decision as to when to start toilet training their

much

â&#x20AC;˘ That your child has the ability to

behaviours.

toddler depends on many external

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The key when toilet training

hold on, feel a full bladder and

events such as:

your toddler is to look for signs of

then pass a large amount of urine.

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readiness for toileting. When these

You will know this is happening

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signs are present the process will

for your toddler if their nappy is

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Most toddlers will display these signs of readiness

â&#x20AC;˘ Have spare clothing readily available for your toddler

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may prefer to be independent with this â&#x20AC;˘ Have access to and encourage your child to wash

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their hands with soap and water and towel dry every time they go to the toilet â&#x20AC;˘ Let your toddler know when you are going to the toilet as this will provide a valuable role modelling opportunity â&#x20AC;˘ Let your toddler know to come and get you if they

toileting: â&#x20AC;˘ Set up a step or a toilet seat frame so that your toddler

need a hand with their toileting however avoid

will feel that their feet are placed on a firm surface

reminding and asking them to go

while they are on the toilet.

Night time toileting is usually achieved much later

â&#x20AC;˘ Offer your toddler the choice between either disposable pull up pants (chose the designs that enable them to feel wet) or underpants

than day time toileting and your child may be closer to five or six years of age before this occurs. Readiness to remove nappies at night is usually seen

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PRIMARY YEARS

Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s theatre company celebrates

centre from October 28, 29 and 30.

Barlow, The Birthday is a

Suitable for everyone but perfect for ages 3 to 8, the

growing up story for the

50 minute show will be presented during the school

whole family from a very

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unexpected point of view.

famous School of Puppetry Workshops are also on offer

Everything is ready for a

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bookings are advised as the companyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s shows sell out.

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PRIMARY YEARS

A SPECIAL SCHOOL A Yallingyup mother shares why she believes her child’s school is so special. I LOVE it that my child wants to

pastel

serenity,

natural

textiles,

Tales of Folklore and Festivals

go to school each day and can’t wait

stained glass windows and bright-

rich

to go back by the end of holidays. I

eyed happy children dressed in all

invite warmth, a sense of being and

love it that his eyes light up when he

the colours of the rainbow, eagerly

strengthen the spirit.

sees his teacher, excited to tell him

engaged in black boards covered

Our school acknowledges the four

what he has learnt outside of school

in colourful prose and drawings

points in the yearly rhythm of the

.I love it that his world is filled with

of mythical legends, astronomy,

sun: the two solstices in June and

colour, nature, creativity, music and

measurements and German poetry.

December and the two equinoxes in

enthusiasm for learning. It fills me

Away from the hustle and bustle,

March and September.

with such a sense of security that I

the noisy, commercial reality is this

made a right decision for him.

magical little world.

meaning

Festivals

and

include

tradition

Autumn

“Michaelmas” Archangel Michael,

We are blessed to live in the

Outside children are climbing all

encouraging children’s development

beautiful Yallingup region, alive with

over the big old “Grandfather” tree,

of courage and practice of good

bush tracks, jarrah trees, gumnuts,

playing in wooden cubbies and tree

deeds. “St. George and the Dragon”

frogs, lizards, wattles, creeks and

houses, imagining and pretending.

represents the slaying of the dragon,

stunning beaches. Like a little Hobbit

Circus skills and surfing lessons

the triumph of good over evil, while

Land, the Yallingup Steiner School is

keep their active growing bodies

“Maundy Thursday” celebrates an

nestled in amongst it. A little arched

lythe

develop

ancient reverent Easter tradition,

entry leads students on a mosaic

confidence. Using their hands wood

in which teachers wash and anoint

stone trail in between each little

building and carving, sculpting clay,

children’s feet, humbling themselves

wooden cottage; the classrooms.

wool felting and knitting develops

in the manner of Christ during the

the senses.

Last Supper.

Inside, the cottages are filled with

58 Offspring | spring 2010

and

helps

them

rite of passage for these children. These same yearly festivals weave

Solstice, held on the shortest day

a strong sense of tradition, culture

our

children

and longest night of the year, June

and meaning into the children’s

with

mainstream

21st, helps the children develop a

inner world, filling them with

requirements, all these wonderful,

reverence to those cosmic powers that govern the movements of the heavenly bodies through space. Our little community gathered, rugged up, each child holding their unique hand made lantern, singing winter songs into the atmosphere while walking the spiral of vines the children created. As our school is on Noongar land we were privileged to be told the story by candle light of the Noongar Dreamtime Creation by

the

grandson

the

area

of all things. Our school is special because learn,

along

PRIMARY YEARS

Spring Fair is vibrant and lively, the celebration of new life. Winter

educational

exciting and interesting things;

“It is just so fun to me and I am lucky to be here. I love Yallingup Steiner School. It is special because we build tree houses and climb trees” Porter Olds Class 4

Matriarchial Elder. After the final

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bio-

dynamic

ancient prose, farming

and

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year students light the bonfire,

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Reading stories is great and easy â&#x20AC;&#x201C; despite predictions of the death of the book, libraries and bookshops are full to bursting with them. Your child will begin to choose Stories are the way we explain to ourselves

their own favourites early and you will be reading and

and others who we are, where we are and

re-reading over and over. Repetition is important as the

what we value. Stories enable children to

unchanging story makes the child feel secure.

experience life from someone elseâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s point of view and travel the universe â&#x20AC;&#x201C; all without leaving the

Your own stories are important too. Scraps

safe circle of their parentâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s arm and voice.

of stories, as anecdotes and extended jokes, weave themselves into a familyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s collective

Talking is nothing without storytelling. The importance of talking with your baby and

memory. Looking at family photos is a great story starter.

child is well documented â&#x20AC;&#x201C; it is the way that speaking and listening develop. Listening

Television is a great storyteller which

to stories builds vocabulary, which will help them when

works best when an adult is in the room.

they learn to read.

As well as sharing the charactersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; laughter and tears â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Pingu became a member of our

Once upon a timeâ&#x20AC;Ś.those magic words

family! â&#x20AC;&#x201C; the parent can strictly control what is seen and

which take us to other worlds and other

heard, and for how long.

times

instantly.

Traditional

tales

are

important in all cultures as touchstones â&#x20AC;&#x201C;

Illustrations which are painted, drawn,

in our Anglo-Celtic heritage, these include stories like

collaged, photographed all help to tell a

The Three Bears and Little Red Riding Hood.

story. Most good picture books extend the written story or tell another in its own right. Talk about the pictures as you read them aloud.

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Make time for stories. Bedtime is the

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traditional time â&#x20AC;&#x201C; but parents and children can have long tiring days. The best time for your family might be after lunch or while youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re waiting for an appointment. Listening together to a talking book in the car is good too.

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Fairytales in 2010?! BY MHAIRI FLAY

This would probably be what would happen to our classic fairytales if they were to occur in 2010.

dont worry beasty almost done

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Cinderella Cinderella would certainly not be scrubbing the ﬂoors and cleaning all day for free. She would have joined a Union and demanded the minimum wage!

Beauty & The Beast There would be no ‘beast’ as he would have been a prime candidate for the ‘Extreme Makeover’ TV show. His ‘beastly’ looks would have been transformed after hours of plastic surgery, dental work and IPL hair removal treatment into a handsome man, good looking enough, in fact, to make him eligible for a position on the hit dating TV show ‘The Bachelor’!

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The Little Mermaid

Goldilocks

Mermaids would either be ﬁshed out, killed from oil

Goldilocks would ﬁrst check the porridge for its fat

spills or turned into a commercial tourist attraction

and salt content, ensured that it was gluten-free,

where you can go on an overpriced touristy

there were no traces of nuts and that it had the

mermaid-spotting boat and later buy Little Mermaid

Heart Foundation tick of approval prior to eating it.

mousepads, glasses, keyrings, t-shirts, coffee mugs,

She would then sue the three bears for ‘negligence’

etc from the gift shop!

for leaving out one that was too hot and would not eat the one that was ‘too cold’ out of fear of listeria poisoning.

Ah....Hi can I please order a fire engine and cute prince to Unit 2 Scumbag Prince’s tower?

The three bears would then countersue Goldilocks and press charges of ‘breaking and entering’ and ‘trespassing’, that’s if bears have any legal rights in today’s society!

Well doc all the issues started when I used to run this stressful puppeteers business...

Rapunzel As well as having chronic split ends in her extremely long hair she would be ﬁling a large lawsuit against she may not have been imprisoned in today’s society

Pinocchio

as she would have had a mobile phone and wireless

The little lying wooden puppet boy would today

internet so she could have called her handsome

have a few shrinks to talk through his issues with to

prince to come and rescue her or been an independent

ascertain why he lies. Is it his fear of acceptance? Did

woman and Googled how to get out of the tower.)

something happen to him in his childhood? Is it an

the witch for imprisonment in the tower. (Mind you,

addiction? Is it genetic? Is it a chemical or hormonal Rapunzel would then make lots of money appearing

imbalance in his body? After hours of counselling he

on talk shows, giving interviews for woman’s

would then do courses so that he could visualise his

magazines and writing a tell-all autobiography.

future without lies.

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Jack & The Beanstalk Jack would be charged for trespassing and theft for stealing bags of gold and the hen that laid the golden eggs from the castle at the top of the beanstalk.

Little Red Riding Hood

Little Red Riding Hood would not be allowed to go into the forest by herself, full stop! Too many freaks out in today’s society let alone big bad wolves that dress up in grandma clothes!

Agricultural researchers would swiftly contact Jack in order to patent a GMO strain of such a fast growing and durable beanstalk, earning Jack a fortune!

Captain Hook

I just cant seem to intimidate people any more with this damn prosthetic...

Captain Hook would be ﬁtted with a prosthetic hand.

Sleeping Beauty Sleeping Beauty today wouldn’t be pricking her ﬁnger

Pied Piper of Hamelin

on a spinning wheel needle and falling asleep for 100

The Pied Piper of Hamelin would be convicted for

years as a 16 year old girl today wouldn’t have the

kidnapping the children from the village and would

time, patience or interest to spin yarn. Instead she’d

also be suspected of paedophilia. Mind you, with his

be on Facebook or Twitter, or out at the movies, or

amazing pipe playing ability he would probably be

down at the beach perving on boys, or shopping, or

encouraged to appear on a reality TV show like Idol or

having her nails done. Making yarn? Whatever!!

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FAMILY LIFE

Something to about BY SALLY HINCKS

New parents, Jonathon and Sheela, are separated for up to 10 weeks at a time leaving Sheela at home alone with a young baby, but Internet communication technology, Skype, means they can catch up daily while Jonathonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s away.

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FAMILY LIFE for Jonathonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s contact â&#x20AC;&#x201C; he has a lunch break around noon â&#x20AC;&#x201C; and sometimes they communicate around 3pm, depending on Jonathanâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s watch aboard the Stormpetrel. (Incidentally, the eight ships in the Project are named after birds that migrate from Japan to the Northwest. Besides Stormpetrel there are the Sanderling, Swift, Swallow, Snipe, Shearwater, Sandpiper and Sea Eagle). They average an hour a day on Skype with Jonathan asking how Sheelaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s day has been and how they are both doing. â&#x20AC;&#x153;It is a good thing in many ways and lovely to see each SKYPE is an amazing way to keep in touch when loved ones are far away - just ask Mosman Park couple Jonathan and Sheela Achariam.

other, but it makes me wish he could be here. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s so close and yet so far away,â&#x20AC;? Sheela said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I can also ask Jonathon for advice.â&#x20AC;?

Jonathan is an officer on Shell Tankers Australia

Though the separations are difficult, Sheela said she

vessel, the Northwest Stormpetrel, which carries

would rather Jonathan was away at Zacharyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s present

Liquefied Natural Gas from Dampier to Japan, a job he

age.

loves but which means heâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s away from Sheela and their son Zachary, mostly for six-week stints but sometimes up to 10 weeks.

â&#x20AC;&#x153;Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d rather he was away now rather than later. A boy growing up needs his father,â&#x20AC;? she said. Today, the North West Shelf Venture is supplying 7.3

Zachary was born on March 4 this year, but five weeks

million tonnes of LNG annually, providing power and

later Jonathan left to take up duties as deck navigation

gas for Japanâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s major industrial regions and for some 90

third officer on the Northwest Stormpetrel for almost

million Japanese people.

two months. In his work he is away from home for six months of the year. So the decision was made to install Skype on their home computer, enabling Jonathan to speak with and see Sheela and Zachary. And vice versa, of course. Shell is part of the North West Shelf Shipping Project involving eight ships, with some of the companies involved having Skype facilities. It was implemented by

Shell last year. â&#x20AC;&#x153;It is quite expensive because itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s by satellite but is useful to the company in other ways â&#x20AC;&#x201C; weather tracking for example,â&#x20AC;? Jonathan said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Skype has been awesome for us and it is most important for seafarers because we can stay in touch with our families. Skype makes it so much easier for me when Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m away.â&#x20AC;? Before Skype, keeping in touch was by satellite phone at a cost of $2 per minute. Presently,

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Vaccination BeneďŹ ts Outweigh Risk BY AMY FRENCH

When hundreds of children in WA suffered adverse reactions to the CSL flu vaccine earlier in the year, many parents were fearful to vaccinate their children against other diseases. Founding Director of the Telethon Institute for Children, and Australian of the Year in 2003, Fiona Stanley reassures Offspring that the science of vaccination is proven.

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;We see this big picture of vaccination. I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t expect all parents to be across this but they have to understand

Fiona Stanley believes passionately in the welfare of

that we are across it and we know that these vaccines

children and in the advantages of vaccination, but

are effective against these major life-threatening

Professor Stanley fears that parents will decide not to

infectionsâ&#x20AC;?, says Professor Stanley.

vaccinate against serious illness due to anxiety about the

Professor Stanley has recently had her flu shot and

flu vaccine, where hundreds

believes firmly in its merits

but she also understands

children

hospital

presented

with

adverse

reactions to the vaccine. Professor Stanley says that it was possibly a matter of bad timing that a Brisbane child died shortly after being given the flu vaccine and that despite many bad reactions to it, it was introduced in the best interest of children, in response to the three

â&#x20AC;&#x153;We see this big picture of vaccination. I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t expect all parents to be across this but they have to understand that we are across it and we know that these vaccines are effective against these major lifethreatening infectionsâ&#x20AC;?

flu deaths that occurred in

HEALTH

AS the founding director of the Telethon Institute for Children and a mother and new grandmother, Professor

the fear of parents and why they might chose not to vaccinate their children against flu. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m not saying this is all easy and Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m trying to give the best information. You donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t necessarily have to give a flu vaccine to your kid, at the risk of flu. Ok go with that, but donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t stop vaccinating for these other really important diseases

Western Australia in 2007 and several more that occurred

which could cause such adverse effects in your kid. That

around Australia in the past three years. However, she

would be my message,â&#x20AC;? says Professor Stanley.

insists that, â&#x20AC;&#x153;We have to get to the bottom of it, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s

â&#x20AC;&#x153;I wouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t blame a parent for not vaccinating their

absolutely crucial. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s crucial for the parents and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s

child against fluâ&#x20AC;?, says Professor Stanley, â&#x20AC;&#x153;but I would

crucial for us to know about this particular vaccineâ&#x20AC;?,

feel desperately unhappy if they didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t vaccinate their

Professor Stanley says. â&#x20AC;&#x153;It is of great concern to usâ&#x20AC;?, says Professor Stanley, â&#x20AC;&#x153;not only because it has turned people off vaccination but because we need to get to the bottom of it, because we need to know whether it was something wrong with the vaccine, which ... I think, sounds as if there was, or if there is another reason why these children had a high rate of complicationsâ&#x20AC;?.

At the Telethon Instituteâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s recent seminar on vaccination, Dr Peter Richmond, the head of the Instituteâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Vaccine Trials Group that tested the flu vaccine prior to its administration, said they were working very hard to work out what went wrong. Dr Richmond says that the reaction in children, where up to 9 in 1000 children suffered high fever and febrile convulsions, was a reaction to one particular brand of flu vaccine manufactured by pharmaceutical company CSL and there have been no similar reactions in children in New Zealand or Australia to any other brand of flu vaccine. According to Dr Richmond, in the USA, where over 2 million doses of flu vaccine were given to under

fives in 2008 and 2009, no similar situation occurred. Busy parents put their trust in their GPs and organisations like the Telethon institute for Children to advise them on how to best care for their children and whether or not to vaccinate, and Professor Stanley assures me that this is how it should be.

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kid against bacterial meningitis,

part of the schedule of vaccinations

intervening on healthy people ... but

whooping

for infants in Australia.

when the benefits so outweigh the

cough,

measles

and

mumps rubella”, as these diseases

Asked whether there will be a

“are the cause of major defects

day

and

compulsory,

the

cause

death,

the

immunisations [are] not.”

when

disadvantages in this area, I feel very

vaccination

becomes

confident about saying to parents

Professor

Stanley

you must vaccinate your child

says she believes that it’s best for

against these important infections

Mr Bruce Langoulant, father of

parents to have choice in these

because it’s a parental responsibility

21 year old Ashleigh and Chairman

things. “I’d rather ... parents got the

and you just don’t remember the

and

information and made the decision

times

the Disability Services Board has

The

Meningitis

and that we hoped that it was the

around and I don’t want to get back

campaigned globally on the benefits

right one for them and their child,

there to prove it to you”.

of vaccination, since his daughter

rather than forcing them to do it”.

was

“It somehow seems wrong” to make

struck

Centre

pneumococcal

meningitis just over 20 years ago.

it compulsory, she says.

Ashleigh was only six months old at

Professor Stanley believes that

the time and although she survived,

public health interventions are not

she has never walked or talked. Mr

easy and says that she does wake at

Langoulant’s efforts have meant that

night worrying. “I do worry about

the meningitis vaccination is now a

getting things wrong when you’re

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when

vaccination

wasn’t

For more information on the merits of vaccination please visit: http://www.ichr.uwa.edu.au/ newsandevents/events/vaccination

living with evan When a baby step is a milestone BY ANNIE BOURGAULT

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HEALTH

Lydia Gallant, Russell Harvey and their three children are an excellent example of how vibrant family life can be even in the midst of extreme adversity. In 2005 they had been happily married for more then 10 years and had two beautiful healthy boys: Kaden, three, and Evan six months. Besides a few common childhood illnesses nothing had prepared them for what can only be described as any parent’s worst nightmare.

LYDIA vividly remembers the day

After nearly six weeks in hospital

Evan became sick: “It was the 23rd

they finally brought their baby

had opportunity to challenge our

of July 2005 and my whole life came

boy home. “He was still there but

existing patterns of behaviour and

apart at the time.”

within

each

person.

have

the ‘presence’ of a person in him

build knowledge to help ourselves

Saturday

wasn’t,” says Lydia. Their boy’s body

and our family.”

morning. The brothers had finished

was completely floppy and he had

playing cars and Evan suffered with

no focal attention.

was

beautiful

Now, five years old, Evan has been diagnosed with spastic quadriplegic

a sudden high temperature spike.

But Lydia was determined to bring

cerebral palsy, as well as epilepsy

Lydia reflects, “I remember picking

Evan out. “We decided to focus on

and is considered to have a ‘global

up the phone to call the medical

what could be achieved rather than

development delay’. He is completely

centre and hanging up because I felt like a panicked mother.” At that point Evan had been sick for only three to four hours. After waking from a short sleep Lydia noticed his eyes were glazed, at which point, her husband rushed him straight to the doctor. It wasn’t until in the doctor’s room that the “rash”, so often characteristic

meningococcal

reliant on assistance from others for

It wasn’t until in the doctor’s room that the “rash”, so often characteristic of meningococcal illness, suddenly appeared.

illness, suddenly appeared. “The

all care, feeding and mobility. But Lydia asserts, “He is very much aware, present and able to interact – all far from the ‘vegetative’ state that doctors assumed would persist. He just needs the tools that allow him to interact the way a “normal” child is able to.” She adds that she has become accustomed to thinking outside the square to be creative in modifying activities for playtime

worst part was there were no tell-

and learning.

tale signs – at least none that a six

what couldn’t. And it’s been like that

It is unlikely Evan will ever walk

month old baby could tell us – in

ever since. I remember thinking; this

but Lydia says that she is continually

the few hours leading up to when

is what we’ve got to deal with! How

motivated by the interest of what

the rash appeared at the doctors,

can we best care for our son now?”

can be possible, and that with a

{the same time as} Evan’s system collapsed,” recalls Lydia. Evan never recovered. He suffered

learning

child who has no mobility control or

curve. Their son suddenly required

They

faced

steep

spoken language, any improvement

physiotherapy, speech

is a milestone.

pathology,

cardiac and respiratory arrest in

occupational

and

It is in the search for knowledge

the local doctor’s surgery, and the

hydrotherapy, as well as neurology

and support for Evan’s development

ambulance was immediately called

and paediatrician reviews.

that

therapy

she

found

Conductive

but could not get him to Princess

Over the years being a mum to

Education (CE), a unique education

Margaret Hospital in time before

Evan also meant being a pseudo-

that incorporates all therapies into

irreversible damage had been done.

therapist in every allied health

a holistic educational approach for

discipline,

the minds and bodies of children

The result: severe brain damage

medical

practitioner,

– cerebral palsy. A few days later

nurse and advocate for services and

meningococcal

care that he requires.

septicaemia

was

with motor/physical disabilities. This year Evan attends Melville

confirmed as the cause. Doctors

Lydia believes that caring for her

Primary two days per week and

told Lydia and Russell their little boy

son, Evan, has drawn out her natural

spends the other three with a CE pre-

would remain in a vegetative state

skills. “Before someone is a mother

primary group run at Carson Street

for the rest of his life.

there are many skills left untapped

Primary School in East Victoria Park.

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Russell and Lydia say that their son has improved immensely since starting CE at the age of two and that without the program, Evan’s ability to swallow for eating, vocalise for communicating, observe, move deliberately and even pat the cat would be highly limited. One would think that the mother of three who works as a freelancer in public relations and marketing would have enough on her plate already. However, a few years ago she decided to volunteer her help to Conductive Education Centre of WA (CECWA). To ensure its continuation she has assisted in growing the profile of CE and the charity, raising funds, and lobbying for greater Government support. The Gallant-Harvey family also finds the time to do a great number of activities together as a family and on an individual basis. They try to keep a balance between Evan, who is included in everything they do, such

workshops as well as care for the

talk and have empathy for others

as, going camping and eating out,

inner athlete in myself – I love to

and realise that not everyone sees

while also giving Kaden, eight, and

keep active.”

everything from your point of view”,

Sienna, three, individual time. “We

And after 16 years of marriage

want to give them the opportunity

Lydia and Russell appear happy and

to be the kids that they are.”

adds Lydia. Their

philosophy?

It’s

quite

very much in love. Their experience

simple really: “We haven’t started

Even with such a busy schedule

has made them realise how much

to write a different book – it’s just a

Lydia takes time out for herself.

they need each other. But it isn’t

new chapter in a dynamic life.”

“I draw, read, write, and take art

always easy. “You need to stop,

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Breakfast

Like a King BY JOHANNA GARNETT

Yum in My Tum founder, Johanna Garnett, reminds us to give the kids a good brekkie; and shares with us some simple, yummy recipes

LAST week I met up with friends and the hottest topic at the table

spend the rest of the day in a state of slumber.

was Jamie Oliver’s ‘Food Revolution’ which showed children in America eating pizza for breakfast. As a group of self-confessed Foodies, we began discussing the reasons why breakfast appears to have lost its importance in this modern age. The old saying is ‘Breakfast like a King’, so why do we not appear to be following this old adage? I know how important breakfast is in contributing to the welfare of children and in facilitating their

daily battle we face. But as parents we need to make the time to give our children the

Without a good breakfast to get the metabolism going, children can suffer physical symptoms including stomach pains, headaches, muscle fatigue and sleepiness.

learning processes, based on my

best start. Without a good breakfast to get the metabolism going, children can suffer physical symptoms including stomach muscle

pains, fatigue

headaches,

and

sleepiness.

Not to mention apathy, irritability, confusion

and, in

some

cases,

anger. Here are some brekkie ideas for you to try that are designed to be quick to create! If you have a slow cooker, utilise it by filling it with oats and milk. By

experiences of teaching. I used

the time you get up in the morning

to have pupils arriving at school

However, as a mother I also know

you’ll have beautiful porridge to

eating fresh cream buns “for brekkie

that trying to bundle a number of

which you can add a number of

Miss…” They would then proceed to

children out the door for 8:30am is a

different toppings or fruit.

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Domestic Destinations Spring in the Valley: A very affordable weekend escape. So you’ve been to the Swan Valley for lunch, but have you considered taking the kids for a weekend break? There is so much for families to do including visiting wildlife parks, picnics, supa golf, cycling trails, a chocolate factory & the maze – to name a few. Many of the restaurants and breweries are family friendly and even have playgrounds to allow you to enjoy your meal! Imagine how much fun you could have staying in a caravan or cabin or experiencing a farm stay with your ‘city kids’. Plan your itinerary at home online before you go, with the kids helping to choose the families’ activities for the weekend. Spring in the Valley – how lovely!

Sample itinerary; Friday night: Dinner at Mash brewery wery – kids under 12 eat a main meal free, just for fun un stay the night at The Swan Valley Tourist Park in a caravan. Saturday: visit the WA Reptile Park, picnic lunch by the Swan River, visit a couple of wineries/breweries (for mum and dad) then head to The Vale B & B Cuddly Animal Farm for an overnight farm stay. Sunday: Enjoy morning tea at The Margaret River Chocolate Factory and then head home via Caversham Wildlife Park. All this family fun and without the cost of airfares! www.swanvalley.com.au

A tranquil forest retreat in the heart of Margaret River Riverglen Chalets offers 4 star self-contained accommodation, interspersed amongst 7 acres of stunning forest, manicured lawns and gardens with orchard. Only 10 minutes stroll from the heart of the lovely Margaret River town site, Riverglen Chalets prides itself on providing clean and comfortable accommodation for guests, with warm friendly hospitality. Guests are offered the choice of charming timber, Couples, Family and Luxury Chalets, several with wood ﬁres and spa baths, creating the ambience of a by-gone era with modern facilities. Booking methods are available by telephone, e-mail and on-line.

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Cairns; October School Holidays Tropical north Queensland has an abundance of activities for the family to enjoy and the October school holidays are a good time to go before the wet season. There are fabulous family hotels that offer plenty of activities to keep the kids busy between sightseeing trips, while y you muster y your energy gy for the next one! Experience the majestic rain forest Ex Ex by b train, take a ferry out to the edge of the Great Barrier Reef, or ed ed enjoy a hot air balloon ride over e en the Atherton tablelands, as we did, t th what an amazing experience. You w can fly there through Alice Springs c or o via any of the East Coast cities. Why W not add a city stopover to your itinerary? i it

Sample Pricing – family of four; Stay five nights in a two bedroom apartment with the Essentials Packages at The Lakes Cairns Resort. Guests will receive return transfers between Cairns Airport and The Lakes Cairns, resort passport voucher with savings of $100.00 on resort services per room, a Full Day Green Island Reef Cruise including a BBQ buffet lunch, choice of snorkelling gear or glass bottom boat tour with return coach transfers, a full Day Kuranda Tour - includes Skyrail Rainforest Cableway, Kuranda Scenic Rail and a half day tour with Hartley’s Crocodile Adventures. Five nights priced from $1557 per room, sleeps four. Includes bonus inclusions worth over $975. Valid until 31 March 2011.

Planning ahead for the Summer school holidays Kangaroo Island, SA Kangaroo Island is a great family holiday and I would thoroughly recommend it. Hidden away in the Southern Ocean off Adelaide it is not that well known to West Australians. The island has beautiful beaches, an abundance of wildlife, delicious local seafood and wines, and plenty of fun-filled, action-packed day tours for the kids. The island is famous for its Little Penguins, Australian Sea Lions, New Zealand Fur Seals and Pelicans, which you see pretty well most places you go. There are great day trips for the kids all offering, ‘up close and personal’ experiences with the wildlife. Guided Penguin tours leave daily from several points and the seals can be seen in the wild at Admirals Arch or on a guided tour of beautiful Seal Bay. (We toured a lighthouse, visited the old colonial community in Kingscote, went snorkeling, sand boarding, fishing and exploring. It really was one of the best and ‘easiest’ family holiday we’ve had.)

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PARENTS FORUM

Oh boy, Its a girl! FOR as long as I can remember, I

I felt like something was missing.

level, so I ended up with a long list

always wanted a little girl. I always

Now with two beautiful and much

on my fridge of what I could and

had visions of myself with daughters

loved little boys, we decided we

couldn’t eat.

and for some reason never pictured

would try again but this time I

The way we had sex (or position)

little boys as part of my life, but as

wanted to research specific gender

was also important as well as the

many things go in life, this wasn’t to

conception and see if there was

fact that I couldn’t orgasm as doing

be – well not for a while anyway.

anything I could do to try to increase

so would have affected my PH level

my chances of finally having a

in favour of a boy.

When my husband and I found out we were expecting our first

baby girl!

And lastly, I just kept thinking

child and up until my 20-week scan,

When I looked into things, I

thoughts were constantly in my

discovered there could be reasons

head about what sex our baby was.

why I had conceived boys and that

After five months of trying to

When the sonographer told me it

perhaps if I changed things I could

conceive, I was finally pregnant. At

was a boy I was disappointed but

indeed conceive my girl.

my 12 week scan, the sonographer

positively and saying to myself, “This will work, I will get my baby girl”.

after a few days I got used to the

So I began a four part plan to

told us he was 90% sure we were

idea and was very excited to meet

hopefully put the odds in my favour.

having a girl. We were both very

my little man. Jake was born in

The first part concerned ovulation

excited and seven weeks later it was

August 2005.

and timing of intercourse. I had to

confirmed. It may have just been

With our second pregnancy we

get in tune with my body and know

luck or what was meant to be, but I

were again told we were having a boy

exactly when I ovulated because I

believe all that I did played a big part

and those same feelings returned, as

found out that there are certain days

in it. My beautiful princess Alyssa

well as quite a few tears, but when

in relation to ovulation when either

Jade was born on 7th January 2010.

Ashley arrived in October 2007 it

a boy or girl may be conceived.

all didn’t seem to matter so much.

Then came the diet. To try

I always thought we would only

to conceive a girl, apparently I

have two children but after a while

needed a diet high in calcium and

I started to think, “What if I never

magnesium and low in sodium and

have a daughter?”

potassium to change my body’s PH

JOANNE BARNES, FERNDALE.

Share your interesting parenting experiences with us. Email editorial@offspringmagazine.com.au

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS WEDNESDAY 1 SEPTEMBER SPRING TALK ON THE BIBBULMUN TRACK Special guest, Lead Guide for the Bibbulmun Track Foundation, Steve Sertis will cover a wide range of topics, including history of the track; preparing for a day, overnight or end-to-end walk; maps and guidebooks; and appropriate food and equipment. COST Free TIME 6.00-7.45pm VENUE Kalamunda Library, 7 Williams St, Kalamunda CONTACT Bookings essential. Contact the Kalamunda Library on 9257 9969

STEVE BIDDULPH SCREENING SECRETS TO HAPPY CHILDREN COST $18.00 TIME 7pm for 7.30pm start VENUE Technology Park, Brodie Hall Drive, Bentley CONTACT MINI MASTERS Jodi Shaw to reserve your seat jodi@minimasters.org.au or 0408 913 326

THURSDAY 2 SEPTEMBER STEVEN BIDDULPH SCREENING RAISING BOYS COST $18.00 TIME 7pm for 7.30pm start VENUE Technology Park, Brodie Hall Drive, Bentley CONTACT MINI MASTERS Jodi Shaw to reserve your seat jodi@minimasters.org.au or 0408 913 326

22 SEPTEMBER – 12 OCTOBER ACT-BELONG COMMIT PHOTOVOICE EXHIBITION COST Free TIME 9.00am – 4.30 pm Monday to Friday VENUE Gary Holland Community Centre, Kent Street, Rockingham CONTACT Jessica Diggins, 9528 0435 or Jessica.diggins@rockingham.wa.gov.au

THURSDAY 23 – 29 SEPTEMBER BASSENDEAN VISUAL ART AWARDS COST Free TIME 10am – 4pm most days VENUE Cyril Jackson Recreation Centre CONTACT Gabriella Filippi 9377 8000

SUNDAY 3 OCTOBER WALK THE ZIG ZAG – ANNUAL 3KM WALK COST Free TIME 9.00am – 12.30pm VENUE Access to event by Park and Ride only (there is no parking at either the top or bottom of Zig Zag Scenic Drive). Park and Ride locations at Maida Vale Reserve (Ridgehill Rd, Maida Vale) and Stirk Park (24 Kalamunda Rd, Kalamunda). Buses will take people to the top Zig Zag Scenic Drive in Gooseberry Hill. The last bus leaves for the top at 12.30pm. CONTACT Vanessa Robinson on 9257 9833 or vanessa.robinson@kalamunda.wa.gov.au

FRIDAY 10 SEPTEMBER TIME 5.30pm to 9.00pm VENUE Nexus Theatre, Murdoch University, Murdoch COST $20 per person (18+ event) CONTACT City of Melville Customer Service 1300 635 845

SUNDAY 12 SEPTEMBER PERTH UPMARKET ~ ORIGINAL AND HANDCRAFTED Perth Upmarket brings together over 140 of Perth’s talented designers, artists, craftsmen and gourmets all under one roof. Showcasing products such as handmade clothing, wall and paper art, jewellery, handbags, cupcakes, skin care products plus lots more. Including a dedicated Junior Upmarket with Original Designs for Kids. Free parking, free kids activities, free entry and ATMs on site COST Free TIME 10am-4pm VENUE University of Western Australia’s Winthrop Hall, Stirling Hwy, Crawley CONTACT www.perthupmarket.com.au

SUNDAY 19 SEPTEMBER TREK THE TRAIL COST Free TIME 9am - 3pm, cyclists depart at 9am and walkers at 9.30am VENUE Railway Reserves Heritage Trail, Parkerville, Perth Hills CONTACT www.trekthetrain.com.au or call 9295 0202

SATURDAY 23 OCTOBER MARANATHA CHILDCARE CENTRE OPEN DAY COST Free TIME 10am – 2pm VENUE Childcare Centre, Gnangara Drive, WAIKIKI CONTACT Catherine Jones, Maranatha Childcare Centre on 9527 9980 or childcare@maranatha.wa.edu.au

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CALENDARCALENDAR OF EVENTSOF EVENTS SUNDAY 24 OCTOBER MUSIC IN THE FOREST COST Gold Coin Donation TIME 10.30am to 12noon VENUE Baldivis Childrens Forest, 1398 Mandurah Road, Baldivis CONTACT Mary Rayner, 9524 1150 or mary.rayner@det.wa.edu.au

PLAY DAY IN THE PARK FOR NATIONAL CHILDREN’S WEEK 2010. Suitable for Pre-school age children and their families.The playground is fully accessible COST Free TIME 9.30am – 12pm VENUE Mueller Park Play Space, corner Coghlan and Roberts Road, Subiaco CONTACT City of Subiaco on 9237 9216

SUNDAY 24 OCTOBER LITTLE HANDS FESTIVAL COST Free TIME 10.00am to 2.00pm VENUE Quarantine Park, Bicton CONTACT Kate Schilling - 9364 0286

31 OCTOBER – 5 NOVEMBER BENDIGO BANK SENIORS WEEK 2010 COST Free TIME Various VENUE Various within the Town of Bassendean CONTACT Tim Clark 9377 8000

OCTOBER 2010 – 28 NOVEMBER BEACH TO BUSH FESTIVAL COST Free TIME Various VENUE Various venues across the City of Wanneroo CONTACT Communications & Events 9405 5362 or events@wanneroo.wa.gov.au or www.wanneroo.wa.gov.au

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SATURDAY 6 NOVEMBER BALDIVIS COUNTRY FAIR COST Free TIME 10am – 4.30pm VENUE Baldivis Oval – Corner Fifty Road and Baldivis Road CONTACT Leonie Burnett on 0413 625 456 or leonie.burnett@gotalk.net.au

LET’S CELEBRATE BELMONT FESTIVAL TWILIGHT CONCERT COST Free entry TIME 6pm to 9pm VENUE Garvey Park, Fauntleroy Ave, Ascot CONTACT Marielle Azzopardi 9477 7248 or Marielle.azzopardi@belmont.wa.gov.au

KITE FESTIVAL (PART OF THE FREMANTLE FESTIVAL) COST Free TIME 12 – 4pm VENUE South Beach, Fremantle CONTACT Rachel Clowes City of Fremantle 9432 9786

SUNDAY 7 NOVEMBER 2010 CHILDREN’S FIESTA (PART OF THE FREMANTLE FESTIVAL) COST Free TIME 10am – 3pm VENUE Samson Park, McKenzie St, Sellinger Ave and McCombe Ave, Samson CONTACT Rachel Clowes – City of Fremantle 9432 9786

MARKET GIRL – BOUTIQUE MARKET Market Girl is the newest-not-to-be-missed boutique children’s market. Handmade & boutique products for BOYS & GIRLS from talented designers across Australia. We would love to see you at our next market

COST Free TIME 10:00am – 4:00pm VENUE Joondalup Reception Centre CONTACT Emma and Teneille marketgirl.info@gmail.com 0402 427 667

DOG’S BREAKFAST COST Free TIME 9am – 1pm Venue Kingsway Sporting Complex, Madeley CONTACT Communications & Events 9405 5362 events@wanneroo.wa.gov.au or www.wanneroo.wa.gov.au

1 NOVEMBER – 7 NOVEMBER RAWW – ROCKINGHAM ACTIVE WOMEN’S WEEK COST Varies TIME Various VENUE: Varies CONTACT Andrea Clark, City of Rockingham 9528 0479 or andrea.clark@rockingham.wa.gov.au

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at Lake Monger Wednesday 1 December 2010 Lake Monger, Wembley 4.30pm – 7.30pm Lots off FREE rid des and entterrtaain nmen nt foor fam miliiess, in ncllud din ng a viisitt frrom m Saanta..

CALENDAR CALENDAR OF OF EVENTS EVENTS FRIDAY 12 NOVEMBER CITY OF GOSNELLS MULTICULTURAL FOOD FAIR COST Free entry, free stage entertainment and free children’s activities with community groups charging to sample their diverse cuisines. TIME 5pm to 9pm VENUE Langford Oval – corner Langford Ave and Wingrove Road, Langford CONTACT Community Development 9397 3121 or visit www.gosnells.wa.gov.au

SATURDAY 13 NOVEMBER ARMADALE HIGHLAND GATHERING & CYCLE CLASSIC COST Free TIME 11AM - 5PM VENUE Minnawarra Park, Cnr Armadale Road & Orchard Avenue, Armadale

SUNDAY 14 NOVEMBER LET’S CELEBRATE BELMONT FESTIVAL – JAZZ IN THE PARK COST Free entry TIME 4pm to 6pm VENUE Tomato Lake, Oats St, Kewdale CONTACT Marielle Azzopardi 9477 7248 or Marielleazzopardi@belmont.wa.gov.au

LITTLE FEET FESTIVAL The Little Feet Festival is an afternoon of free family fun and excitement. This year will see the festival in its 19th year Explore a world of possibilities with games, rides, animals, music, Perth Upmarket is pleased to be showcasing Junior Upmarket at this year’s Little Feet Festival, with 50 retailers. COST Free TIME 1.00pm – 5.00pm VENUE Edith Cowan University, Joondalup (near the Pines Picture Gardens) CONTACT 9400 470 or www.joondalup.wa.gov.au

FRIDAY 19 NOVEMBER LET’S CELEBRATE BELMONT FESTIVAL – MOVIE UNDER THE STARS COST Free entry TIME Approximately 6:45pm Start VENUE Garvey Park, Fauntleroy Ave, Ascot CONTACT Marielle Azzopardi 9477 7248 or Marielle azzopardi@belmont.wa.gov.au

SUNDAY 21 NOVEMBER ROCKINGHAM SPRING FESTIVAL COST Free TIME 10am onwards VENUE The Village Green CONTACT Malcolm Barbera, 0412 945 177

THURSDAY 25 NOVEMBER CLAREMONT CHRISTMAS CARNIVAL COST Free TIME 4.30pm – 8pm (Santa Parade at 5.30pm) VENUE Claremont Town Centre (Bay View Terrace and St Quentin Avenue) CONTACT Laura Kendall on 9285 4326 or lkendall claremont.wa.gov.au or Betina Lay on 9285 4328 or blay@claremont.wa.gov.au

SATURDAY 27 NOVEMBER LET’S CELEBRATE BELMONT FESTIVAL – FESTIVAL FINALE COST Free entry TIME 6pm to 9:30pm VENUE Faulkner Park, Cloverdale CONTACT Marielle Azzopardi 9477 7248 or Marielle azzopardi@belmont.wa.gov.au

SATURDAY 27 NOVEMBER HULLABALLOO Hullaballoo is an event for children and families with stalls of face painting, games, things for sale and educational facilities. COST Free TIME All day VENUE Cottesloe Town centre CONTACT PROCOTT, Cottesloe

SUNDAY 28TH NOVEMBER 2010 PERTH UPMARKET ~ ORIGINAL AND HANDCRAFTED Perth Upmarket brings together over 140 of Perth’s talented designers, artists, craftsmen and gourmets all under one roof. Showcasing products such as handmade clothing, wall and paper art, handbags plus lots more. Including a dedicated Junior Upmarket with Original Designs for Kids. Free parking, free kids activities, free entry and ATMs onsite COST Free TIME 10am-4pm VENUE University of Western Australia’s Winthrop Hall, Stirling Hwy, Crawley CONTACT www.perthupmarket.com.au

SATURDAY 20 NOVEMBER BEACH TO BUSH CONCERT COST Free TIME From 7pm VENUE Wanneroo Showgrounds, Ariti Avenue, Wanneroo CONTACT Communications & Events, 9405 5362 events@wanneroo.wa.gov.au or www.wanneroo.wa.gov.au

WEDNESDAY 1 DECEMBER CHRISTMAS AT LAKE MONGER Lots of FREE rides and entertainment for families, including a visit from Santa. COST Free TIME 4.30pm – 7.30pm VENUE Lake Monger, Wembley CONTACT 9347 6000, mail@cambridge.wa.gov.au, www.cambridge.wa.gov.au

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