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Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party Bring your family and join some of your Disney Character friends on select nights through December 18 at the Magic Kingdom. It’s the celebration of the season, featuring a special parade, festive fireworks, a castle covered in thousands of lights—and even snow falling on Main Street, U.S.A. !

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8 RITALIN’S DANGEROUS SIDE EFFECTS Drugs are not the answer to learning disabilities

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20 PRAISE THE EFFORT The new psychology of success

6 LETTER FROM THE EDITOR 8 HEALTH AND WELLNESS

10 WINTERIZE YOUR SKIN Exfoliate, Hydrate and Protect

26 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE What they wish for this season

14 HAPPIER HOLIDAYS Try more togetherness

34 TAKING CARE OF YOU Holiday survival tips to stay stress free, in shape and in spirit

16 AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAMS

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20 EDUCATION 38 NORTH HILLSBOROUGH NEWS 40 SOUTH HILLSBOROUGH NEWS 42 NORTH PINELLAS NEWS 44 SOUTH PINELLAS NEWS 46 PASCO NEWS 48 AROUND TOWN 50 CALENDAR OF EVENTS 56 PARTY PAGES

On the cover: Gabriella Pierre is wearing a holiday lounge set from Silly Dilly Tot Spot and holding an Adorable Kinders rag doll, Julia Toledo is holding her favorite stuffed Hello Kitty from Julianna’s Fun Shoppe and Austin Hubbard is wearing adorable holiday pajamas from Gigglebox as he reads the Horton Hears a Who pop up book.

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Letter from the Editor Angela L. Ardolino Editor-In-Chief David E. Estevez Executive Assistant Contributing Writers Amy Gall PJ Goetz Mark Heller Joezette Hite Lauren Hoyt-Williams Sandra Parrish Patricia Wise Guarch Chris Kuhn Calendar and Neighborhood Stories Elyse Cohen Graphic Artist Susan Margolis Marketing Director Todd A. Varde Sales Director Nicole Puglisi Sales & Special Events

December already?!? It feels like only yesterday that I was just putting the final touches on the Summer Camp issue and now here I am writing the final “Letter from the Editor” for the year. WOW! But what is it that really makes this time of year so special? The answer depends on the person. For me, December means seeing friends and family come together at large meals telling great stories and having a good time. But December also gives me an opportunity to challenge myself for the next year. Every year I make one New Year’s resolution and stick to it! Now, that is not to say that my New Year’s resolution is always something grand or huge. I like to set a personal goal that is S.M.A.R.T. My goals are Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-bound which helps me stay focused on the final prize. So, this year I invite you to make a smart goal for yourself that you can achieve. You can do it with your friends, spouse and/or even include your kids! My goal for 2010 is to make Tampa Bay Parenting Magazine even better! We are creating new and exciting partnerships, sharing great ideas, creating more great family events, and increasing the number of magazines we print to prevent running out of magazines at Publix each month. We are going to launch and expand new important sections in the magazine like; Family Fitness, expanded Family Eats section with the best family friendly and “date night” restaurants, healthy recipes, expand the home and garden section with everything you may need or want to make your house a home. All of these features will include contributions from experts, interviews with prominent Tampa Bay area specialists and professionals to help you and your family lead happier and healthier lives. And that’s just the beginning! I can’t wait for 2010 and I can’t wait to share it all with you, our amazing readers! Join me as we ring in the new year at Aqua Eve at the Florida Aquarium! TBPM readers get a special discount (see page 55 for offer code). Thank you all for a wonderful year and I wish you all the happiest of holidays!!

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ritalin’s dangerous side effects Drugs Aren’t the Solution to Learning Disabilities BY TONY PANACCIO

After years of speculation and rare case reports, a recent FDAfunded study by The National Institute of Mental Health claims that drugs such as Ritalin – widely used to treat Attention Deficit Disorder in children – increase the risk of sudden death by five hundred percent among children and teens. “Drugs are not the answer,” said Etta Brown, a licensed educational psychologist, veteran social worker and author of Learning Disabilities, Understanding the Problem and Managing the Challenges from Langdon Street Press (www.understandingld.com). “ D o c t o r s a n d pharmaceutical companies are quick to tell parents there is a pill that will fix their kids, but it’s a false bill of goods. In many cases, these drugs – like Ritalin – will serve only to dull their kids’ senses and create health risks the parents could never have imagined.” The irony of Ritalin, Brown added, is that it actually damages the neural connections needed for learning. While it may calm a hyper-active child, so that he is less of a problem in the classroom and can sit still for longer periods of time, it does not create the ability to learn. “Another well-documented side effect of Ritalin is that it may cause a permanent tic of the face, head and neck,” Brown said. “There is a long fifty-year history of false advertising by drug companies that sell drugs with known side effects that are more damaging to the developing nervous system of children than the condition they are designed to treat.” Between two to 18 percent of American children are thought to be affected by ADHD, and Ritalin remains one of the most prescribed drugs for the behavioral disorder. This suggests that the medical approach to poorly nourished children who aren’t getting enough exercise is to dose them with a drug that is known to interfere with the development of their brains, cause permanent ticing of the face, head and neck, and increase the likelihood of sudden death by 500 percent. And the FDA is not looking. “As with ADHD, the incidence of learning disabilities has also been growing at a rate of 10-20 percent every 10 years since WWII,” said Brown. “The difference between a learning disability and attention deficit disorder, she says, is the professional who

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diagnoses it. The Department of Education refers to the condition as a learning disability, and the American Psychological Association looking at the same set of symptoms labels them Attention Deficit Disorder. Add these two percentages together and 12 to 38 percent of the nation’s children have learning problems.” Kids live in a world full of toxins, limited exercise, a lack of sleep, fast foods, and loads of time alone caused by the need for parents to work two jobs to make ends meet. The consequence is severe allergies to a toxic environment, obesity from a lack of exercise, an inability to learn due to a lack of sufficient nutrients to keep the brain functioning properly, and limited emotional security in 38 percent of our children. Brown says that proper diet, exercise and adequate sleep are the key to helping a child overcome learning disabilities and improve his ability to attend. “There is no easy solution, no pill, no magic wand, or special education program that is going to make a child a better learner,” Brown said. “Learning disabilities and ADHD are not the fault of the children, or failure of the school. But, the schools have to teach each child that comes to them. “ Learning disabilities should become as much a concern for public health as it is for education, according to Brown. “Instead of medicating kids into oblivion because they can’t sit still, parents should be encouraged to cut the sodas and junk food, provide opportunities for their kids to exercise, ensure they get 6 to 8 hours of sleep each night, and take the time to interact with them on occasion,” she added. “There is no substitute for parenting, and there is no replacement for proper diet, exercise and good sleep habits to enhance a child’s readiness for learning.” (Tony Panaccio is a staff writer for News & Experts Syndicate.) Etta Brown, author of Learning Disabilities, Understanding the Problem and Managing the Challenges from Langdon Street Press (www.understandingld.com), provides a clear course of action to successfully address this problem at home and in the classroom. This is a guide for parents who desire to make a difference in their children. She received her undergraduate degree from Ohio State University in Health Education, her Masters from South Carolina State University in Special Education, an Educational Specialist Degree at Kent State University, and she has a major in School Psychology.

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winterize your skin Exfoliate, hydrate and protect BY BARBIE WINTERBOTTOM As the seasons change it is important to recognize that skin care needs can change too. Depending on your geography, these seasonal changes can be drastic. In Tampa Bay, where the winters are mild, the need to change up products and routines can often be overlooked. Typically, as the winter months approach, the days are shorter, the temperature drops, the air is drier and the holidays have us running in circles and often eating and drinking a lot more than our normal patterns. All of these factors can contribute to changes in our bodies, which are reflected in our skin. So…what should we do? First, although it may seem counter-intuitive, exfoliating frequently will stave off that dry flaky “winter” skin. Exfoliating can be done in a number of different ways both chemically and manually. Chemical exfoliation includes acid peels, such as glycolic, lactic, mandelic and azaelic acids and even daily moisturizers containing AHA’s (alpha hydroxy acids) or BHA’s (beta hydroxy acids). Acid peels, performed by a professional on a routine basis can lighten, brighten and re-texturize skin and even help undo the sun damage received during the summer months. Microdermabrasion and the fabulous Clarisonic Skin care brush are forms of manual exfoliation. Using a daily moisturizer containing AHA’s or BHA’s helps to gently slough off dead skin cells, allowing any products applied to penetrate deeper into the epidermis, leaving skin soft and supple. Consistently exfoliating dead cells also speeds up the cellular turnover rate (the process through which the body makes new healthy tissue), which slows as we age. Secondly, applying a moisturizer to hydrate and nourish the skin is a must. Exfoliating without proper hydration can cause extreme sensitivity and irritation. However, when an appropriate moisturizer is used, the results can be fantastic. Look for a moisturizer containing Alpha Lipoic Acid, Alpha Tocopherol (Vit. E) or Hyaluronic Acid. These ingredients will plump and hydrate the skin. Lastly, don’t forget the sunscreen! Using an effective sunscreen everyday is the single most important treatment you can do for yourself. Look for a sunscreen containing at least 4% or more of at least one or more of the following ingredients; Titanium Dioxide, Zinc Oxide, Octinoxate, Avebenzone, Homosalate and Octisalate. A thorough listing of sunscreens, ingredients and more can be found at the EPA website. It’s important to know that the skin is the largest organ of the human body and should be treated as such. Just as we take care of ourselves through eating lot’s of green leafy vegetables, exercising and drinking plenty of water to ensure our internal health, we also need to care and protect our skin on the outside to keep that healthy glow.

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happier holidays Try more togetherness BY AMY GALL

Forget the sugarplums. As the holidays approach, today’s kids are more likely to have visions of heavily advertised toys, MP3 players, and video gaming systems dancing in their heads. Most parents, on the other hand, are wishing for a budget-friendly holiday season—with less shopping and more sharing. If you want to squelch the “holiday gimmies,” now is the time to begin. According to St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital Developmental Pediatrician Eric Tridas, M.D., the key is setting limits on spending and shifting your focus to meaningful activities. “Try enjoying unhurried time together or teaching children the pleasure and responsibility of giving,” says Dr. Tridas. You might feel guilty saying “no” to expensive, trendy toys. But limiting holiday spending is healthy—not only for your family’s budget, but for your child’s emotional well-being. Research conducted by the Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood coalition suggests that the average American child receives 70 new toys a year, most of them during the holiday season. No doubt, the majority of them will lose their appeal within minutes of being opened, quietly relegated to a corner to gather dust. “There is a danger in buying kids everything they ask for,” Dr. Tridas says. Children whose every wish is granted will likely grow up expecting immediate gratification. They often lack the emotional skills necessary to cope with disappointment. “Children need to learn the difference between things they want and things they truly need.” Still feeling pressured? Keep in mind that piles of presents do not bring your child long-term happiness. “When children are deluged with material things, those things come to have little value,” notes Dr. Tridas. “Studies show that kids want more time with parents, not more things.”

Less Presents, More Presence • Give “gifts from the heart.” Help your children bake and decorate cookies, create a photo collage or make and frame special artwork. • Start family traditions. Plan an evening or two of board games, popcorn, storytelling, caroling or watching a favorite holiday movie. • Teach shopping savvy. Have them prioritize their wish list, ranking the items from most to least important—an early lesson in setting financial priorities. Explain that you’ll try your best to see that they get what they want most, but some of the rest may have to wait. • Give to others. Donate gently used toys, games, and clothing to those in need. Volunteer as a family at a food bank or homeless shelter.

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praise the effort The new pyschology of success BY MARK HELLAR “You’re so smart!” “You got an A on the test without even studying! You must be really great at math!” For over a generation parents have believed that one of the keys to producing successful, high-achieving children was praise. Repeatedly telling kids how smart they are or how great their abilities are, it was thought, would lead children to believe that they had very valuable contributions to make and that they could therefore tackle anything. Self-esteem was seen as the road to achievement and success. New research by Stanford professor Carol Dweck pokes serious holes in the self-esteem-based child-rearing theories of the past. In her book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, Dweck asserts that “Contrary to popular belief, praising children’s intelligence did not give them confidence and did not make them learn better.” Rather, children who constantly hear how smart they are take away potentially negative lessons. Too much praise can lead to greater risk-aversion, high sensitivity to failure, and an underdeveloped ethic of persistence. Excessive focus on being “smart,” an innate quality, has significant consequences. By stressing the innate, a message is sent that diminishes the importance of effort. It can lead to the belief that expending effort is something only “dumb” kids do, because smart kids don’t really need to in order to succeed. Focusing on “smarts” is evidence of what Dweck calls a “fixed mind-set.” Individuals with a fixed mind-set believe that intelligence is fixed, that there’s nothing one can do to change it or improve. “In the fixed mind-set, effort is not a cause for pride. It is something that casts doubt on your talent.” People with fixed mind-sets fear failure because they see it as an unavoidable comment on their true abilities. Those who possess a growth mind-set don’t mind failure as much, because they know their performance can improve with the knowledge they gain throughout life’s journey of successes and failures. When we focus on praising children for their intelligence, they get a message that the innate matters more than the cultivated. Instead, we ought to encourage a growth mind-set and focus on praising effort. “Emphasizing effort gives a child a variable that they can control. They come to see themselves as in control of their success. Emphasizing natural intelligence takes it out of the child’s control, and it provides no good recipe for responding to failure.”

Be Specific

Praise must be specific in order to be truly effective. That way, kids learn exactly what they did to earn the praise. The exchange becomes repeatable. “I like how you kept on trying even after it didn’t work the first

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time.” “I saw how much effort you put into studying for the test. That was awesome, and I know it will pay off down the line.” “You showed great concentration and focus during the game. It was great to see!”

Be Sincere

Praise must also be sincere. Kids are very adept at recognizing praise that is not genuine. They only accept praise at face value until they’re about six or seven years old. After that, they begin to discount frequent praise and interpret it as signaling a lack of ability. Teens rather readily believe that praise from a teacher is a sign that the teacher believes you need extra encouragement and that criticism actually conveys a positive belief in their aptitude. This is based on a not-too-mistaken belief that praise sends a message of having reached the natural limit of one’s abilities while criticism implies that there is room for performance to improve.

Use Care

Praise must be given with care and not indiscriminately. If it comes too frequently, too easily, or for the wrong reasons, it could defeat its true purpose. Too much praise can lead to quitting when the immediate rewards disappear.

Cultivate a Growth Mind Set

Strive to cultivate a growth mind-set. Teach kids that the brain is like a muscle -- the more you challenge it and exercise it, the stronger it becomes. A growth mind-set leads to openness, persistence, sustained motivation, and comfort with that most important trait of maturity, the ability to delay gratification. Mark Heller is Head of School at Academy at the Lakes, a Junior K4 – 12th grade independent school in the North Tampa community of Land O’Lakes. Learn more about Academy at the Lakes by visiting www.academyatthelakes.org.

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What they wish for...

Isabella is pushing her very own shopping cart, $49.99 from Learning Express Toys. In her cart is the famous Elf on the Shelf, $29.99, from Learning Express, 48 Piece 10” x 15” wooden horse puzzle and book with fun facts. Many themes available and “Mr. Wink”, the soft, cuddly owl doll, is sure to be every little kid’s favorite companion. Machine washable. 100% Cotton. Both at Seedlings. She is weaing her favorite “I Love Santa” with sequined heart, outfit from Smarty Pants Kids’. Aliyah and Bryce both are wearing Tea Clothing, 100% cotton clothes from Seedlings. Aliyah bounces on the adorable pink Wahoo Dog, $44.99, behind her is a child’s art Easel, $49.99 both available at Learning Express Toys. Adorable Hello Kitty Lunch Box available at Julianna’s Fun Shoppe. Bryce plays with Ecotronics lift-off rocket that introduces science and the importance of saving energy to young children. The rocket makes lift off sounds and lights up, and is powered by a kid-friendly crank on the back of the toy that neatly tucks away, NO batteries required! Many other eco-friendly and innovative toys are available at Seedlings. Julia is wearing a Valentina Dress, Luna Luna Copenhagen $120, Crystal Flower Headband $30, Vintage Necklace $75, Ballet Slippers $35 and is holding a Felted Gingerbread House, $58, and she loves the Snowdrop Doll House, $150, all available at Silly Dilly Tot Spot. Behind Julia is a green Rody available at Seedlings.

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Bryce is wearing 100% cotton, Tea clothing from Seedlings and plays with the super cool wooden Rocket playset, $120, and Chickyboom Game, $25, from Silly Dilly Tot Spot. Automoblox is an all time favorite for both boys and girls. This sporty white car is incredibly durable with its wooden body and rubber wheels. It’s also a learning toy that will improve your child’s motor skills. Automoblox and the adorable “Sit and Walk” Puppy are made out of sustainable wood. Transportation lunchbox is prefect for any child on the go. Vroom, vroom! BPA- Free Insulated lunchbox created by Dwell, a hip company for kids. All available at Seedlings. Gators Football Tackle Buddy, $24.99 from Learning Express Toys.

Don’t forget the furry “children” with these super cool collars from KakaduPet.com, Custom “Gator” dog collar made exclusively for Love That! by BB Simon $58

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Magdalena necklace by Virgins, Saints and Angels $245 (comes beautifully gift boxed!) San Benito Oval Ring by Virgins, Saints and Angels $325. Both available exclusively at Love That!

Custom “Gator” belt made exclusively for Love That! by BB Simon $298

Lolita handpainted holiday collection: “Who needs Milk & Cookies” Pilsner $32, “Hot Mama Claus” Wine glass $28 “Wild Child” mini-wine ornament $15, “Frosty” mini-wine ornament $15, “Peace on Earth” mini-martini ornament $15 All of these are gift boxed and available at Love That!

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Madame Alexander Wizard of Oz Collection: Glinda, The Wicked Witch, Dorothy, $60 each sitting in a Wicker Doll Buggy, $85, both available at Silly Dilly Tot Spot. Isabella is wearing a pink cashmere dress with matching light up cowboy boots from Smarty Pants Kids Boutique and Miranda is wearing 100% cotton Tea Collection from Seedlings. DanceDanceRevolution Disney Grooves, $69.99 The magical world of Disney hits the dance floor with an entirely new DanceDanceRevolution game on the Wii™. Books, DVD’s, music and games make great stocking stuffers. Newly released are: Diamond Edition of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs on DVD, Sponge Bob Squarepants: First 100 Episodes, $99.99, Spongebob’s Greatest Hits CD, $13.98, Local author Charlie Poe’s children’s book Life is a Playground, Gotta Catch Santa Claus on DVD, Ice Age, Dawn of the Dinosaurs on DVD, Disneynature’s earth on DVD, ABC Family’s Christmas Album, Shana Banana’s new album Banana Bedtime , $12.99, Dora’s Christmas Carol Adventure, $16.99, Dora’s Christmas CD, $11.98, , The Magic School Bus / Going Green, Teaches children how to go green, $20, Ultimate I Spy on Wii, $39.99, Toy Story Mania on Wii, , Tinker Bell and the Lost Treasure on DVD, Wii and NintendoDS, Leapster Digging for Dinosaurs Learning Game, Leap Frog Letter Factory and Talking Words Factory Learning Games, NiHao Kai-Lan Super Game Day on Wii, and the new Disney movie, The Princess and the Frog in books, games and soundtrack.

Large Handmade handbag by Princely Couture $240, small green velvet clutch $138, Metal mesh and crystal by Whiting & Davis $265, Crystal & black belt by BB Simon $425, Crystal earring by Lordane $62, Black leather Swarovski crystal cuff by Vanessa, $105, Pink, blue and crystal cuffs for babies by Vanessa, $58 (waterproof and sweatproof) and Black leather cuff with heart is by Otazu $192 all availble at Love That! Swarovski embellished sneakers by D’s Darling Designs.

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Top Left: Isabella is sitting pretty in her handmade Jingle Bell outfit with tutu by D’s Darling Designs. She sits with some of her favorite new toys; M&D Cupcake set from Learning Express Toys. Hello Kitty Tea Set from Julianna’s Fun Shoppe. Princess and the Pea, Danish Design, $98 at Silly Dilly Tot Spot, Butterfly HopScoth Board, $24.99 at Learning Express Toys. Manicure set comes with pretend nail polish, toe spacers, and a hand dryer that actually works! Webkinz Cherry Blossom Bird is a bright happy bird. No more boogie monsters! The Twilight Ladybug lights up the night with constellations and the moon. Comes with a star-gazing guide. Shut-off timer. All available at Seedlings. Top Right: Get your friends together and Rock Out! Isabella is wearing a beautiful tapestry dress from Smarty Pants Kids’ and sings her favorite songs on the LTC red and pink microphone, $40 from Learning Express. Bryce is wearing Tea Collection from Seedlings and jams on the LTC Keyboard, $35 from Learning Express Toys. Gabriella wears Mermaid Lounge Dress $54 and plays the Mermaid Student Learner Guitar, $80 both available at Silly Dilly Tot Spot. Next Page: Orange Hippo Soft Toy from IKEA (IKEA is donating $1.47 from the sale of each toy to the UNICEF Save the Children fund). Toys range from $1.49-$19.99. Random House Childrens Books A Really Short History of Nearly Everything, 50th Anniversary of The Grinch Stole Christmas and My Silly Body Book make wonderful gifts. Isabella wears an adorable red courdory dress with feather poof hairband from Smarty Pants Kid. She is hugging a pink Ugly Doll from Learning Express Toys. Sophia is wearing aby Sophie wore: Bisscottie Plaid Dress, Luna Luna Copenhagen $110, she plays with crochet prince, frog and princess, $34, all from Silly Dilly Tot Spot. ALiyah is wearing Bunny Shirt $22, Plaid Pants $32 from Silly Dilly. Other stuff toys include Giant Knit Monkey, blabla kids, $130 with astronaut suit, $49.95 from Silly Dilly. Lucy Porcupine Plush from Learning Express and Ty Beanie Babies from Julianna’s Fun Shoppe ($4.99-$9.99)

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taking care of you Holiday survival tips to stay stress free, in shape and in spirit BY STACY MCKAY With the holidays approaching, you recall those fond childhood memories of baking cookies, unwrapping gifts and playing in the snow. Now, fast forward and you’re no longer five-years old but a working mom with a “to do” list that just exploded overnight! You’re starting to feel the demands on your time, energy, attention and pocketbook? You see yourself falling into the holiday trap of skipping or cutting back on workouts, gobbling down too many hors d'oeuvres at cocktail parties, spending less time sleeping and more time wrapping gifts, mailing holiday cards, traveling and making purchases that you can’t afford. By the time the holidays arrive you are sleep deprived, stressed and broke! Okay, maybe not all of those things, but you aren’t enjoying the holiday season the way you would like. Want to make this year different? Want to keep your composure, enjoy your family and guests, stay within your holiday budget, make traveling in airports more enjoyable, feel more gratitude, not overindulge at parties, find time to exercise AND unwind? Your thinking this isn’t possible, right? Well, it’s like what they say about Santa Claus. It exists if you believe…and you make some slight changes in how you have dealt with you and the holidays past. You see, it starts with taking care of YOU! Practicing good self-care is as important during the holidays as it is all year long. Saying “no” to you and your needs when there are more demands on your time than ever, may seem like your only hope for getting it all done. But what’s the price in doing so? Is it worth giving up your sanity, the weight that you worked so hard at losing and the budget that you have worked so hard at sticking to all year long? This holiday season I want to challenge you to say “yes” to nurturing your body, your relationships, your budget and your spirit. By doing so you will have the strength and motivation to keep going especially when the going seems non-stop! And more importantly, you will experience the holidays in a way that they were meant to be experienced-with joy, love and gratitude. Here are some helpful tips for taking care of YOU this Holiday season:

Control Your Schedule & Plan Ahead

Know your priorities and stick to them. Eliminate those items that are not urgent. Ask yourself what am I doing with my time that is not absolutely necessary or can be tackled after the holidays have passed? Say “no” to any new commitments that present themselves during the holidays or say “yes” but with the understanding that you aren’t available till after the first of the year. Remember, we are trying to allow you to enjoy the holidays--not be overbooked and overcommitted. Review your schedule in advance for the upcoming week. Ask yourself what parties or holiday events do I really want to attend? What parties or events can I skip? Would participating in fewer holiday activities allow me to really be present and better enjoy myself, family and friends? In lieu of these events, do you need to workout at a different time of the day or day of the week to make sure you keep to your normal exercise routine? Write the “chosen” events/parties and workouts into your schedule. Also, beware of arriving at those cocktail parties feeling famished. Take time to grab a healthy snack before leaving your house or grab a smaller plate when hitting the buffet. If you have a hard time saying “no” to the desert tray, bring the hostess a healthy dessert that you can enjoy without the guilt and the added pounds. Plan ahead and identify what could help support you and sabotage your healthy lifestyle habits. Find solutions and put support systems in place in advance that will ensure you look and feel sensational and relaxed while enjoying good company and good holiday fun!

Honor Your Pocketbook and Others

If 2009 has been a financially challenging year for you, don’t add to your burden in 2010. Instead consider giving gifts from the heart this year vs. Tiffany’s or Nordstrom’s. Write a beautiful love letter for your spouse on nice stationary. Be honest and recount the things that they do that you appreciate. Wrap the envelope with

a beautiful red bow. Do the same for a best friend, a parent or grandparent. Include a beautifully framed picture of the both of you. Change your family’s gift exchange policy. Have each person buy a gift for just one family member. Put a cap on the amount of the gift. Encourage family members to pick a gift that really honors his or her uniqueness. Share with that person why you chose that particular gift and how special they are to you. If every family member takes five minutes to really share their gratitude and love for the person on their list, your family will have the best holiday ever. (Have tissues handy. This could be a tear fest!)

Practice Mindfulness & Gratitude

The holidays can be for many of us a time that we focus on spirit and our relationship with a Higher power. But, for a lot of us, all of the “to dos” rob us of the real joy that this season represents. However, eliminating all the unnecessary obligations, money stressors that the holidays can create, and putting a few consistent mindful practices into play, you will be better able to really connect to the “Spirit” of the season. Instead of getting frustrated that you have to wait forever in line at the supermarket check-out counter to buy your Thanksgiving ingredients or fretting over the fact that your plane has been delayed for two hours due to bad weather, spend the time taking several deep breaths from your diaphragm or closing your eyes and shutting out everything around you. Don’t worry when the supermarket line starts moving or the plane finally shows up, someone behind you or on the loud speaker will let you know. Also, the holidays are a great time to start a Gratitude Journal or Appreciative List. Here is an exercise you can do each morning, provided by Jacqueline Kelm the author or “The Joy of Appreciative Living.” Each morning write out three things you are grateful for. Then take 30 seconds to close your eyes and really be mindful and feel the appreciation. Then take two to three minutes to reflect on your answer to the following question and write it down: What is one thing I could do today, no matter how small that would increase my joy? This exercise will help bring more love and joy to your holidays. Treat yourself to a gift (that won’t cost you anything) and keep doing the exercises after the holidays have passed. Notice how much more aware you are of the things that bring you joy and how much more you appreciate your life! Stacy McKay is a certified Wellness Coach, an Empowerment Life Coach and a Personal Fitness Trainer. Stacy works primarily with women who are struggling with a variety of issues that are all too common in mid-life. To learn more about Wellness and Empowerment Life Coaching and how it can benefit you, request your free consultation with Stacy by visiting www.StacyMcKay.com.

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Carrollwood, Citrus Park, Lutz, New Tampa, Odessa, Temple Terrace, Westchase

Businesses Duke It Out over Dodgeball to Support Local Youth More than 16 teams of six to ten players each took part in Tampa’s First Annual Corporate Dodgeball Tournament on November 14 at the Temple Terrace Family Recreational Complex. Through the event, local businesses raised $7,000 for the Gulf Ridge Council Boy Scouts of America and Learning for Life. This year’s winning team, Independent Dodgeball League led by Doug Johnson, received a $1,000 cash prize and the winner’s trophy. Second place finishers were Saint Leo University’s Sigma Lambda (sponsored by Tampa Armature) and in third place, the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. Other participants in this year’s tournament included M&I Bank, BrightHouse Networks, Digital Legal, Freemon & Miller, Gray Robinson, Mission Search USA, Suntrust, Temple Terrace Recreation Center, Tocobaga Players and Class B. The event trophy will travel among the top three teams until next year’s tournament. “The tournament offered an excellent opportunity to support Tampa’s youth programs and relive the nostalgia of schoolyard dodgeball games,” said healthcare attorney and Foley & Lardener team captain, Nathaniel Lacktman. “We are happy to contribute to organizations, such as the Boy Scouts, which help young kids achieve their full potential.” Al Harrell, director of field services for the Boy Scouts and the tournament coordinator, was pleased with the community’s enthusiasm and support for the new event. “More than 170 people from area businesses, civic groups, service clubs, college clubs and groups of individuals came out to play and watch the tournament, and we’re confident that number will grow dramatically for next year’s competition,” he says. The tournament is open to all businesses as well as social and civic organizations, college groups and individuals who wish to form their own teams. Teams must be comprised of six to ten players with six players competing at one time. For more information about Tampa’s Annual Corporate Dodgeball Tournament, visit www.tampacorporatedodgeball.com or contact Harrell directly at (813) 872-2691

Visionary Women On December 10, at 6pm the Carrollwood Cultural Center will host a lecture on Dalia Condis and the famous women that she painted. Mary Ellen Bitner will present the work of Dalia Condis, the women she painted (Evita Peron, Frida Khalo, Florence Nightingale, etc), why she painted them and what she saw in each of these women’s accomplishments. The presentation will also include a discussion of the symbolism present in each of Condis’ paintings and how they tell the story of the woman depicted in each painting. This presentation will be followed by an art reception for the National Museum of Women in the Arts (NMWA) art show at 7 pm. The winter art show is a juried and judged show with ribbon award. Dalia Condis is a Cuba born artist who is now retired in Tampa. She has a series of 25 paintings of famous women. After immigrating to the USA in the 70’s, she opened her own academy of drawing and painting in New Jersey. Marie Ellen Bitner is the Art Curator at the Carrollwood Cultural Center. She graduated from the College of New Rochelle in New Rochelle, NY with a BA degree in English Literature with minors in philosophy, theology, education and history. After 30 years of teaching she went back to college and received additional credits in the Visual Arts from HCC and USF. Mary Ellen painted as a self-taught artist for many years before she followed her dream to study art on the college level and hone hers skills as a visual artist. She is the President of the North Tampa Art League.

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dates: December 5, 1pm The Santa Clause 2 Toys for Tots Drive Donate a new unwrapped toy to Toys for Tots and join Regal Cinemas Citrus Park 20 for a free showing of The Santa Clause 2. Free activities for the families begin at noon in the lobby and include games, crafts and giveaways courtesy of Lowry Park Zoo, MomsLikeMe.com, The Glazer Children’s Museum and others. www.tampa-fl.toysfortots.org, MomsLikeMe.com December 5 & 12, 9:30am-Noon Winter Magic Workshops for Children Children ages 6-12 are encouraged to explore their creativity in fun holiday workshops being held at the Carrollwood Cultural Center, 4537 Lowell Road, that share new and innovative ways to decorate for the season. $30 for Center members, $35 for non-members (advance registration required). 813-269-1310, www.carrollwoodcenter.org December 12, 4-6pm A Night in Bethlehem Journey through the village of Bethlehem recreated at Journey Christian Church, 7708 Van Dyke Rd. in Odessa, with authentic music and a bustling marketplace. Children can make their own crafts, and families can pose in historical costumes and visit a live nativity scene. 813-420-3964, www.tampajourney.com December 13, 3pm The Nutcracker Watch Clara and “Nutty” the nutcracker save the princess from evil rat king Salsabar in an original, children’s musical version of the holiday classic being performed by the Play’n Around Traveling Children’s Theater at the Carrollwood Cultural Center. Audiences are encouraged to sing along and dance and will get the chance to meet the cast. $7, members; $10, non-members; kids under 4, free. www.carrollwoodcenter.org Now - December 19, Fri & Sat 8pm; Sun 3pm It’s a Wonderful Life Watch a Christmas favorite come to life onstage as the Carrollwood Players re-create the story live at the Carrollwood Players Community Theater, 4335 Gunn Hwy., Tampa. Show runs through Dec. 19. $15, adults; $13, students 18 and under and adults 60 and over. 813-265-4000, www.carrollwoodplayers.com

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CinéBistro Offers Family Holiday Series CinéBistro, now with two locations in the Tampa Bay area, is opening its doors to the whole family this holiday season once again with its Family Holiday Series. The cinema, normally open only to adults over the age of 21, will be featuring three family-friendly holiday features throughout the month and welcomes parents to bring along the kids for a fun evening at the movies. The new animated version of A Christmas Carol starring Jim Carrey runs through December 4, followed by The Nutcracker which premieres December 5 (showing at the Hyde Park Village location only). Finally, Alvin and the Chipmunks’ latest adventure The Squeakquel debuts at CinéBistro on Christmas Day, December 25. All films begin before 6pm and require that children be accompanied by an adult or guardian to attend. “The Family Holiday Series is a part of a bigger family-friendly approach we will take with select familyoriented films throughout the year,” said Jeremy Welman, COO of Cobb Theatres. “The holiday season and the caliber of holiday children’s movies create the perfect opportunity to open up our theater to children.” The Wesley Chapel and Hyde Park Village locations also will offer a children’s menu to include a beverage and special dessert. This will be the first opportunity for residents near the newest location in Hyde Park Village to enjoy the Family Holiday Series, which has been very popular with guests in both the Miami and Wesley Chapel locations. Visitors can specially reserve the high-back, oversized, leather seat of their choice online or with the concierge desk prior to the movie. CinéBistro’s newest theater in Hyde Park Village is located at 1609 West Swann Ave. The Wesley Chapel cinema is located at 6333 Wesley Grove Blvd. in The Grove by I-75 and SR 54. For additional information, visit www. cobbcinebistro.com.

The Tampa Riverwalk is offering a unique gift idea this holiday season for that special someone who’s hard to shop for or has just about everything – a personalized 12x12 granite paver on the Riverwalk! Those purchasing a paver can commemorate a meaningful date, promote their business or celebrate a special occasion or friend. All funds raised support Friends of the Riverwalk and its efforts to complete the continuous walkway along downtown Tampa’s waterfront. Each paver can be engraved with up to four lines, with 18 characters (including spaces) per line. Personal pavers are $100 each; corporate or business pavers, $250. Go to www.thetampariverwalk.com or call 813.731.4509 for more details.

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December 1-31 After Hours Pediatrics’ Pajama and Book Drive Donate new pajamas and new books at any Tampa Bay area After Hours Pediatrics Urgent Care, including its Riverview, Brandon and North Tampa locations. Support the Pajama Program’s mission to make this holiday season warm and cozy for local children. Drop off donations 5-11pm weeknights and 1-11pm weekends and holidays. www.afterhourspediatrics.com December 4, Noon-1pm Free Adult Tap Class Take a free introductory tap dance for adults at the Patel Conservatory in downtown Tampa. Learn basic moves and how to combine them into a simple dance routine. RSVP required. 813.222.6453. www.patelconservatory.org. December 4-6 “Annie,” the Musical Bring the whole family for an exciting new production of a the classic musical, “Annie,” presented through the Florida Academy of Performing Arts and performed at Riverview High School Theater, 11311 Boyette Rd. Friday and Saturday, 7pm. Sunday, 3pm. $12, adults, $10 seniors, students and military. www.faopa.org

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December 16 (6:30pm) & December 18 (7pm) The Foolish Wiseman Celebrate the season with a special performance by St. Andrew’s Drama Team of The Foolish Wiseman, a sweet, comical tale that’s fun for all ages and being performed twice this month at St. Andrew’s United Methodist Church in Brandon, 3315 Bryan Rd. FREE, donations encouraged. 813-689-6849, www.standrewsbrandon.org. December 19, 7pm Christmas with the Boys Come see a special Christmas concert as the Florida Boychoir performs a variety of traditional English and German cathedral hymns as well as work by Felix Mendelssohn at Grace Lutheran Church, 3714 Linebaugh Ave., Tampa. Free but donations welcomed to support Boychoir’s Scholarship Fund. 877-671-7464, www.floridaboychoir.com

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Humane Society of Pinellas, Ready with Holiday Fundraisers The Humane Society of Pinellas is gearing up for the holidays and raising awareness through some creative fundraisers this month. This season, the group continues its Light the Way Home campaign, traditional holiday baskets and Photos with Santa. The Light the Way Home for Homeless Animals holiday campaign offers people the opportunity to honor or remember a loved one and help the organization care for its boarding animals at the same time. Sponsors can contribute at various levels to have different areas of the shelter lit up for the holidays from $50 to $2,500. By purchasing light strands for your favorite pets, friends or family or for abandoned, abused, lost or homeless animals, donors help fund the organization’s adoption and rescue efforts. Colored lights are used to represent and honor those who are still living and white lights memorialize those who are gone. Illumination begins at sundown on November 27 and continues daily until 11pm January 1, 2010. The Humane Society’s popular holiday baskets also return and will be on at the shelter, as well as at upcoming appearances at the Palm Harbor Fine Arts & Crafts Show December 6 and the Kiwanis Arts & Crafts Show in Safety Harbor December 13. Santa will be posing for photos with families at the Pinellas shelter on December 5, 12 and 13 between 10am and 4pm. The Human Society of Pinellas coordinates the festive set, professional photographer and Santa’s arrival. Families are encouraged to bring along the family pets to join in the picture-takin fun. Photos are usually provided within a one-day turnaround, and The Humane Society of Pinellas is continuing its additional photos and creative holiday gifts can be Photos with Santa fundraiser this holiday season. ordered. For more information, call 727-797-7722, x222 or go to www.humanesocietyofpinellas.org.

Holiday Cheer Luncheon to Benefit All Children’s Hospital The North Pinellas Guild of All Children’s Hospital is holding its annual Holiday Cheer Luncheon on December 5 from noon until 3pm at Crescent Oaks Country Club, 3300 Crescent Oaks Blvd., Tarpon Springs. Tickets are $25 per person and include lunch. For tickets or more information, call Sandra at 727-784-2588. The North Pinellas Guild also supports the All Children’s East Lake Therapy Center in Palm Harbor and is part of the All Children’s Hospital Guild, a dedicated group of volunteers and donors who assist the All Children’s Hospital Foundation, an organization with over 800 members and nine Bay area chapters.

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dates: December 1-23 23rd Annual DFAC Holiday Show,Bedazzled The Dunedin Fine Arts Center, 1143 Michigan Blvd., continues its signature seasonal showcase with work by 100 artists and a dozen exquisitely decorated trees. All displayed art is for sale. FREE admission. dfac.org December 3, 6-7pm Children’s Art & Story Hour Held first Thursday of the month at the LeepaRattner Museum of Art, St. Petersburg College/ Tarpon Spring Campus, 600 Klosterman Rd. Children ages 4-8 can enjoy book readings by the Palm Harbor Library followed by an art activity. This month’s books are Snowflake Bentley, The Christmas Alphabet and The Clever Stick. Free for children and free with museum admission for adults. 727-712-5226. December 5, 10am-4pm 40th Annual Tour of Homes Tour local homes, shop the Dunedin Youth Guild’s Holiday Boutique, and join them for a complimentary tea at First Presbyterian Church of Dunedin, 455 Scotland. $20 in advance, $25, day of event. Guests are asked to bring a nonperishable food donation. All tour proceeds benefit local students to fund scholarships and other programs. 727-734-0394. December 11, 6:30-8:30pm Kids’ Night Out Dunedin Parents can enjoy their own night out while their children take part in this unique art event held second Friday of every month at Art from the Heart Café, 660 Main St., Dunedin. Children, 8 years and up, can use supervised studio time to create their own paint-your-own-pottery piece (priced up to $14) and enjoy pizza, snacks and drinks. $25 per child. artfromtheheartcafe.com. December 12, 7-10am North Pinellas YMCA Lakefront Classic 5K Bring the whole family for some fresh air and a fun run through beautiful John Chesnut Sr. Park off East Lake Road in Palm Harbor. Participants get T-shirts, awards and a post-race party. Register at any YMCA of the Suncoast branch. Proceeds benefit its Open Doors Financial Assistance Program. 5K registration: $20 advance, $25 day of race. One-mile walk/run: $12 individuals, $25 families. suncoastymca.org

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Largo, Pinellas Park, Seminole, St. Pete Beach, St. Petersburg, Treasure Island

American Stage Theatre Awarded $25,000 American Stage Theatre recently announced that the State of Florida’s Culture Builds Florida Grant program has notified the theater that it is the recipient of a $25,000 grant for its “Write On! Pinellas” educational outreach campaign. The five-year-old playwriting program enables American Stage Theatre teaching artists to offer lessons on the art of playwriting to students in partnering schools in the area at no cost to local schools, students or their families. Drama instruction will be held during the schools’ regular curriculum. For those schools without a Drama Club or theater program, American Stage will facilitate the activity and have students write and perform their own and other students’ plays. December 4, 11 & 18, 6-9pm

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American Stage Theatre Company is a not-for-profit professional theatre founded in 1977. The company’s mission is to create the most satisfying live theatre in the Tampa Bay area, accessible to all members of the community. American Stage presents its six-play Mainstage Series on its brand new 182-seat Raymond James Theatre each year. The very popular American Stage in the Park celebrates its 25th Anniversary year. The theatre’s other programming includes: After Hours Series, School Tour, and classes and summer camp for children.

Youth Arts Center Hosts “What Is a Family?” Exhibit Local artists of all ages will display their creative interpretations of the word “family” at a special art exhibit opening being held December 12 at The PinkCricket Center for Arts Education (www.thepinkcricket. org). Launched earlier this summer, this new non-profit, youth arts center located in downtown St. Petersburg, offers diverse arts education, including its signature Arts in the Afternoon program covering visual art, literature, theater, dance, fashion, music and costume design and reaching out to students from kindergarten age to eighth grade. Each month the center has a theme, and this month it is “family.” “In 21st century America, the word ‘family’ can mean anything,” says Sarah Gerard, program director for the PinkCricket. “We want our students to think about what ‘family’ means to them, since many of them do not come from a traditional, nuclear family structure.” In keeping with their mission to facilitate community involvement in arts education, The PinkCricket asks that local artists also contribute work to the “What Is a Family?” opening which runs from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. at the center located at 534 Central Avenue in St. Petersburg. Donations are suggested ($5 for adults, $2 for children), and light refreshments will be provided. For additional information, contact Sara Turner at 727-823-PINK or the_pink_cricket@yahoo.com.

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Free Friday Nights at the The PinkCricket Children of all ages get an opportunity to have free, open art studio time to explore their creative side at the PinkCricket Center for Arts Education in St. Pete. Every Friday from 6-9pm, excluding holidays. 727-823-PINK, thepinkcricket.org December 4, 7-9pm Death by Chocolate Indulge yourself in chocolate delights from over 25 local businesses, live entertainment and silent auction fun as the Rotary Club of Largo hosts this delectable fundraiser which benefits local youth programs. Held at the Largo Cultural Center, 105 Central Park Drive. Tickets are $20 and available through Rotary members and Center’s box office. December 5, 12, 19, 26, 9am-1pm Market in the Park Stop by the Pinellas County Market in the Park being held at Heritage Village off 125th Street between Walsingham and Ulmerton in Largo. Open every Saturday through April 17, the market offers fresh produce, natural products and garden items. FREE. 727-582-2123. pinellascounty.org/heritage. December 5 & 6, 10am-5pm St. Pete Beach Corey Area Craft Festival Come celebrate the festival’s 15th anniversary by checking out this outdoor art gallery along Corey Avenue in downtown St. Pete Beach. Wrap up your holiday shopping and browse original works for sale. FREE. 954-472-3755. www.artfestival.com December 5, 7:30pm Don Quixote Exhibit Admire the work of young artists at St. Petersburg’s Shorecrest Preparatory School in a special holiday showcase that also includes a song and dance from students and faculty. The school’s theater opens at 7pm. 727-522-2111. www.shorecrest.org. December 18, 6pm Movies Under the Stars Holiday Edition Pack up the kids, chairs and blankets for a family flick in the great outdoors at Seminole City Park in Seminole. Join the Shining Waters Girl Scout Troop for holiday festivities, songs, and cookies with this month’s featured movie, Ice Age 3: Dawn of the Dinosaurs. Movie starts at 6:30pm. Snacks and drinks will be available for purchase. FREE. 727-391-8345, www.myseminole.com

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New Location for This Year’s Wesley Chapel Holiday Festival The Greater Wesley Chapel Chamber of Commerce is hosting its 3rd Annual Wesley Chapel Holiday Festival, presented by Ierna’s Heating and Cooling, on December 5 from 4-7:30pm. This year, the festival has relocated from its previous home at Wesley Chapel District Park to the Grove off Wesley Grove Blvd. at SR54 and I-75 to accommodate for anticipated growth in attendance. The festival promises to be a fun-filled day of seasonal activities for the whole family, including a children’s parade, holiday crafts, entertainment provided by local schools and churches, Santa’s signature arrival by fire truck, and a tree lighting ceremony to end the evening. Participating businesses will be offering giveaways, and local restaurants, including Saddlebrook Resort and Santo’s Pizza and Pasta, will be selling food items for $1 each and donating half the proceeds to this year’s charities, East Pasco Toys for Tots and Suncoast Harvest Food Bank. Laura Miller, a local realtor and the Greater Wesley Chapel Chamber of Commerce’s events chairperson, sees the event as a way for Chamber members to give back to their community. “The goal is to have a fun family occasion that provides local businesses a chance to say thank you for the support they receive throughout the year,” she says. For additional information about this year’s event, contact Executive Director Sheri Goldberg at the Chamber at 813-994-8534 or this year’s Festival chairperson Jeff Olsen at 813-994-9363.

Show Palace Theatre Hops the Atlantic for This Year’s Show The Show Palace Dinner Theatre in Hudson is heading to jolly old England to bring this year’s merry musical back to the Bay area and presents an all-new musical comedy celebrating the sights and sounds of Christmas in London. Holiday Hotel delivers classic British panto to the local stage which means highenergy dance, classic holiday music, dazzling costume design and comic madness. “Each holiday season, British Panto is presented at theaters all over the UK. Several of these shows feature popular English celebrities,” says Susan Haldeman, the theater company’s manager. “This Christmas, the pantomime Dame is played by Matthew McGee, well-known to Bay area audiences for his outrageous performances in A Tuna Christmas, The Producers and The New Century. He’s a favorite with Show Palace audiences.” Joining McGee onstage for this year’s Christmas production is Michael Ursua, Alex Covington, and Robert Micheli among others. The show, which opened November 26, runs through December 25 at the Show Palace Dinner Theatre, located at 16128 U.S. 19 in Hudson. Doors open two hours before each show for dinner and cocktails. Shows are 8pm on Friday and Saturday nights; 3pm on Sundays; and 11:30am matinees are available Tuesday through Thursday and Saturdays. Tickets are $48 plus tax for dinner and the show ($36.95 for show only). For ticket information, call 727-0863-7949 or visit www. showpalace.net.

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dates: December 5, 9am-2pm Land O’ Lakes Saturday Market Stop by to shop for fresh produce and support local artists and craftsmen at this weekly community event being held every Saturday through May 29. FREE. www.lolsaturdaymkt.com. December 5, 2-9pm Festival of Lights Bring the kids for a fun-filled day of games, inflatable adventures, caroling, and plenty of great food in downtown Zephyrhills. Catch this year’s lighted Christmas parade at 6pm. FREE. www.mainstreetzephyrhills.org. December 12, 8am 3rd Annual Lake Jovita 5K Reindeer Run/Walk Lace up the sneakers for a good cause and bring the whole family for a fun run/walk through the hills of Lake Jovita Golf & Country Club in Dade City. Proceeds go to East Pasco Habitat for Humanity. $20 advance, $25 day of race. Register at www.lakejovitagolfcc.com. December 12, 8:30am-2:30pm Crafty Hands for Healing Hearts Browse through handcrafted items for sale as Hers Fitness hosts its first annual holiday craft fair at its Trinity location, 7813 Mitchell Blvd. Proceeds from event benefit Fill a Heart, supporting breast cancer patients through handmade heart-shaped pillows for post-surgery recovery. 727-376-4377. December 12, 5-9pm Country Christmas Stroll Saunter down Main Street for this Downtown Dade City holiday tradition celebrating 25 years. Enjoy holiday entertainment, strolling carolers and wagon rides. Dive into tasty treats, holiday shopping and a chance to pose with Jolly Old St. Nick. FREE. 352-567-0284 December 13 Holiday Roller Skating Show See U.S. pairs, singles and dance champions perform a unique 90-minute holiday show at Spinnations Skating Center, 8345 Congress St., Port Richey. Tickets, $10 in advance; $12 at the door. Call for showtime. 727-847-4336.

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EVENTS/FESTIVALS Free Wiregrass Wednesdays December 2, 9, 16, 23, 30 10am Live children’s entertainment, from music and storytelling to face painting, balloons and arts and crafts. Center Court at The Shops at Wiregrass, Bruce B. Downs and S.R. 56, Wesley Chapel. 813-994-4010. www.theshopsatwiregrass.com. (Everyone) St. Petersburg Power & Sailboat Show December 3-6 The newly expanded boating festival is being held at Progress Energy Center for the Arts-Mahaffey Theater and Albert Whitted Park in downtown St. Pete. Attendees can check out more than 400 new and pre-owned powerboats and sailboats, and younger guests can take part in free kids’ fishing clinics presented by Hook the Future and receive free admission, a fishing rod and reel and tackle kit. Adults, $10; children ages 6-15; $5; military with ID and children 6 and under, free. See website for schedule. www.showmanagement.com. (Everyone)

organ donation. Check-in at 8:30am, walk starts at 10am. Donations encouraged. 800-927-9659. www.kidneyfla.org (Everyone) 3rd Annual Sunshine Challenge December 6, 2pm Go for a 5k fun run or one mile walk through Tampa’s Al Lopez Park at this year’s Sunshine Challenge to benefit the Pediatric Cancer Foundation. Following the race, stay for a picnic and family-friendly activities. Food and refreshments provided. $25 to enter; $15 for children 12 and under. www.fastercure.org. (Everyone) SEC/Big East College Basketball Invitational December 9-10 Catch a special men’s college basketball event at the St. Pete Times Forum in Tampa, as DePaul takes on Mississippi State at 6:30pm, followed by Syracuse vs. Florida at 9pm. Tickets, $15-$40. www.secbigeastinvitational.com (Everyone) (Dads)

Old Hyde Park Holiday Home Tour December 5, 4-7pm Tour this beautiful historic neighborhood nestled in South Tampa and see its grand homes decked out for the holidays. This year, Hyde Park Preservation, Inc. adjusts its popular Kitchen Tour to the festive side. Proceeds benefit historic preservation. $15 advance, $20 at the door. Ticket booth to be set up at Wilson Middle School on Swann Ave. day of event. For more info, email cgollier@verizon.net. (Moms)

Georgette’s 21st Annual Celebrity Fashion Show/Benefit December 11, 10am Bid farewell to 2009’s fashion trends during Georgette’s 21st Annual Celebrity Fashion Show, emceed by Gayle Sierens and Jack Harris at the Hyatt Regency, 211 N. Tampa St., downtown Tampa. This year’s show features celebrity models Tina Clayton, Raunda Williams and more. Show begins at noon, followed by lunch. $75. Proceeds benefit St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital. 813-8720979. www.sjhfoundation.org. (Moms)

Science of the Circus with MOSI December 6 Meet Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey® clown ambassadors at MOSI during a special circus demonstration at the Tampa interactive museum located at 4801 E. Fowler Ave. Clowns appear from noon-2pm, and families will have a chance to win family four-packs for Ringling Bros’ upcoming opening night. Special discounted admission, $5. For more info and hours, visit www.mosi.org. (Everyone) (Kids 4-12)

WMNF Holiday Bazaar December 12, 10am Show your support for community radio by attending this year’s WMNF 88.5 FM Holiday Bazaar being held at the Cuban Club, 2010 Republica de Cuba, Ybor City. Browse through donated CDs, books and handcrafted items donated by local artists to raise funds for the station. $3 admission day of event. www.wmnf.org. (Moms) (Dads)

2009 Tampa Bay Walk for the National Kidney Foundation December 6, 10am Take part in a non-competitive walk at St. Petersburg’s Vinoy Park to raise awareness of kidney and urinary tract diseases and the need for

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2009 Division I Women’s Volleyball Championship December 17 and 19 Cheer on your favorite college teams as the 2009 NCAA Division 1 Women’s Volleyball Championship comes to Florida for its first time ever. Watch top-ranked teams compete for this three-day series at the St. Pete Times Forum in Tampa. $60, all sessions. 813-301-2500. www.stpetetimesforum.com.

ART Dali Family Fun Saturdays December 5, 12, 19 11:45am-4:30pm Bring along the family on Saturdays for fun games, puzzles and craft activities to educate and encourage family interaction. Brochures also are available to help guide families through the collection on their own and discover the art of Dali. Free with museum admission. 727-832-3767. www.thedali.org. (Everyone) On My Block: Word & Image Elementary School Exhibition, Part 1 December 5, 1-4pm See work by Pinellas County elementary school students on display at the Morean Arts Center, 719 Central Ave., downtown St. Pete. The theme “On My Block” challenges students to visually answer the question: ‘What’s down your street that makes up who you are?’ Awards ceremony, 2:30pm. Free. www.moreanartscenter.org. (Moms)

FILM Cinébistro Family Holiday Series All Month Bay area Cinébistro locations, at both Hyde Park Village and Wesley Chapel Grove, are inviting parents to bring along the kids for three familyfriendly features running this month:. Jim Carrey in A Christmas Carol through Dec. 4; The Nutcracker, Dec. 5-24 (Hyde Park only), and the The Squeakquel starring Alvin and the Chipmunks, which starts Dec. 25. Check site for showtimes and ticket prices. www.cinebistro.com (Everyone) Gasparilla International Film Festival Childrens Film Festival December 5, 2009 CineBistro Hyde Park, 1609 West Swann Avenue The Real Ghostbusters make their dramatic appearance at 12:15, followed by the film at 1 pm.

The Muppet Movie and another children’s classic will start at 10 am. There will also be filmmaker “hands on” demonstrations throughout the day, a presentation by a children’s film and television casting director, and face painting by a movie special effects director. Vote for which film you want to see at GasparillaFilmFestival. com! Admission: Free! (donations welcome) Free Movie Series: A Christmas Story December 11, 8pm. This month, the free family movie series held on the second Friday each month showcases a holiday favorite, A Christmas Story. Catch Ralphie, Randy and the Parker family’s infamous nylon-draped leg lamp in this openair showing along the Riverwalk behind TBPAC. No tickets required or seat limits. www.tbpac.org. (Everyone) Disney’s The Princess and the Frog Opens December 11 Disney unveils its latest heroine Tiana, a hard-working waitress from New Orleans who meets up with a talking frog claiming to be a prince in The Princess and the Frog debuting this month in theaters across the Bay area. Rated G. Running time, 1 hour and 37 minutes. Check with individual theaters for showtimes and prices. It’s A Wonderful Life Weekend December 18-20 Get caught up in the special magic of Frank Cabra’s timeless holiday classic It’s a Wonderful Life, as Jimmy Stewart, Donna Reed and that lovable angel Clarence teach us the real meaning of Christmas. Nightly showings at 7:30pm; Saturday and Sunday matinees, 3pm. See website for prices. www.tampatheatre.org.

THEATER Wonderland: Alice’s New Musical Adventure Through January 3, 2010 A modern day Alice in present-day Manhattan sets out to reclaim her daughter in Wonderland and realizes a need to follow her heart instead in “Wonderland: Alice’s New Musical Adventure,” part of the TBPAC 20092010 Bank of America Best of Broadway series playing all month in Ferguson Hall. Tickets start at $38.50. See website for showtimes. 813-229-7827. www.tbpac.org. (Everyone) (Kids 10 and older) Women Want Everything December 12, 7:30pm A young man tries to answer the age-old question ‘what exactly do women want?’by posing it to his just-as-clueless three friends in this hilarious, original Jaeb Theater production at the TBPAC in downtown Tampa. Men in the audience will relate, women in the audience will laugh at the theories. Tickets, $20 and up. www.tbpac.org. (Date Night Out) (Girls Night Out) (continued: next page) TBParenting.com

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MUSIC Miley Cyrus in Concert December 1, 7pm Pack up the household’s Hanna Montana fans for a night of the teen superstar’s hits as she performs at the St. Pete Times Forum in Tampa. This year’s tour is issuing paperless tickets, so credit card and ID will be necessary to enter the venue. Portion of ticket fees benefit the City of Hope. $39.50-$79.50. www.stpetetimesforum.com. (Everyone) Patel Conservatory Youth Orchestra Concert December 6, 2:30pm The Patel Conservatory Youth Orchestra, made up of more than 250 young musicians, performs three works by leading American composers for this year’s fall concert at Carol Morsani Hall in the Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. $10-$20, advance; $12-22, day of concert. 813-229-7827. www.patelconservatory.org. (Everyone) Mannheim Steamroller Live December 13, 7:30pm The unique rock orchestra with a new age twist performs some of its seasonal favorites and instrumental classics when it visits the Bay area for a concert appearance at Carol Morsani Hall at TBPAC, downtown Tampa. Tickets, $35.50 and up. www.tbpac.org. (Everyone)

A Rockapella Holiday December 22, 8:00pm Take the unconventional sounds of a five-man a cappella vocal powerhouse and unleash them on the holiday classics, and you have a show that’s back by popular demand as Rockapella returns for a holiday concert at Tampa Bay Theatre in downtown Tampa. $31 adults, $22, children 12 and under. www.tampatheatre.org.

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Holiday Events

Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party Various Dates, 7pm-Midnight The whole family is invited for free cookies and cocoa, a magical snowfall, live entertainment, fireworks and Mickey’s Once Upon a Christmastime Parade. Visit disneyworld.com/christmasparty

Teddy Bear Round-Up December 1-15 Donate a teddy bear or other stuffed animal and receive a free child’s admission (one free ticket per donated item, good for up to six people). mosi.org A Sesame Street Christmas at SeaWorld December 1, 2009 – January 3, 2010 Come celebrate the holidays with Elmo, Big Bird and the rest of the Sesame Street gang with this allnew, fun musical review, a new attraction. SeaWorld.com

Harvest of Tampa Bay will be entered in a drawing to meet Rogers before the concert. $49.75-$79.75. 727-892-5767. www.mahaffeytheater.com. Dave Koz Smooth Jazz Christmas Concert December 3, 8pm Savor the velvety sounds of platinum-selling saxophonist Dave Koz when he takes the stage with his jazz friends to celebrate the holidays at Ruth Eckerd Hall, 111 N. McMullen Booth Rd., Tickets, $48-$83. www.rutheckerdhall.com. Wild Wonderland at Tampa’s Lowry Zoo December 4-5, 10-13, 17-23 & 26-30, 6-9pm Check out the colorful blinking lights and holiday displays while enjoying free unlimited zoo rides all evening, visiting with Santa and taking a holiday horse-drawn carriage ride. $13, adults; $11, children 3-12 (kids 2 and under, free). lowryparkzoo.com

Christmas on Ice at Busch Gardens December 1-31 Join Busch Gardens as it presents its popular holiday show, “Christmas on Ice” in Stanleyville Theater at the Tampa park. Other holiday shows included with admission: “Christmas from the Heart” in Marrakesh Theater and “Christmas Celebration” presented at the Desert Grill. BuschGardens.com

Boat Parade of Lights Holiday Spectacular December 4 & 18, 6:30pm Climb aboard the American Victory ship for the ultimate front-row seat to watch the illuminated boats in the Channel during the annual boat parade. Ship is located behind the Florida Aquarium at 707 Channelside Dr. in downtown Tampa. Tickets, $12 adults, $7, children ages 4-12. 813-228-8766. www. americanvictory.org.

28th Annual Victorian Christmas Stroll December 1-23, 10am-8pm Take a charming walk through an old-fashioned, Victorian home during the holidays at The Henry Plant Museum at the University of Tampa. Admire the exquisite detail and hand-embroidered décor while listening to carolers and sipping homemade spiced cider. $10 adults, $5 children 12 and under. 813-258-7302.

5th Annual Christmas Party at Jackson’s Bistro December 4, 10pm-3am Enjoy a night of great entertainment, giveaways and holiday cheer at Jackson’s Bistro, 601 S. Harbour Island Blvd., Tampa. Proceeds benefit the children and families served by The Children’s Home. Ladies, $10 general, $15 VIP ; gents, $15 general, $20 VIP. 813-265-1234. www.childrenshome.org.

Kenny Rogers Christmas & Hits Tour December 1, 8pm Kenny Rogers Christmas & Hits Tour visits the Progress Energy Center for the Arts-Mahaffey Theater in downtown St. Pete. Patrons who bring a non-perishable food donation for America’s Second

Special Holiday Saturdays @ the Morean December 5, 1pm to 4pm Stop by the Morean Arts Center, 719 Central Ave. in downtown St. Pete, for an afternoon of fun holiday activities, including gift wrap printing, card making, and clay ornament making. FREE. www. moreanartscenter.org. Kids ‘Holiday’ Karaoke December 6, 5:30-7:30pm Invite your little crooner to join you for a holiday karaoke celebration at Datz Deli, 2616 S. MacDill Ave. in Tampa. Parents and children, get those vocal pipes ready, prepare for some tasty holiday fare – Italian-style, and bring along a new toy to be donated to the Child Abuse Council. $22 adults, $12 kids. Register online at www.divinetampa.com. The Heralds of Harmony’s ‘A Christmas Celebration’ December 12, 2:30 & 7:30pm

Listen to the soothing sounds of one of this acclaimed men’s choruses as The Heralds of Harmony sing traditional holiday standards at Carol Morsani Hall at TBPAC in downtown Tampa. Tickets, $20 and up. www.heraldsofharmony.org. Snacking with Santa December 19, 2pm Santa comes aboard the American Victory ship via a motorboat, and the fun begins. Kids can enjoy games, prizes, arts and crafts, candy cane scavenger hunts, and snacks with Santa. $10 adults, $5 kids 4-12. Located directly behind the Florida Aquarium. Free parking on dock. www.americanvictory.org. The Nutcracker December 19, 2pm and 8pm Take the whole family to the ultimate holiday theater production as the Moscow Classical Ballet returns to the stage at Ruth Eckerd Hall in Clearwater, accompanied by the Florida Orchestra for one matinee and evening performance of The Nutcracker. $39.50-$55. 727-791-4400. www. rutheckerdhall.com Holiday Lights in the Gardens, December 21, 6pm See firsthand how over 425,000 colorful lights can turn the Florida Botanical Gardens of Largo into a dazzling holiday display. Free, $2 suggested donation for adults. www.flbg.org. Noon Year’s Eve at Tampa’s Lowry Zoo December 31, 9:30am-1pm Ring in the New Year family style at the annual “Noon” Year’s Eve daytime celebration hosted by the zoo and Radio Disney AM 1380. The party begins when the zoo opens with games, arts and crafts, live entertainment, educational displays and more. Families can ring in the New Year with noisemakers, hats and a juice toast as they watch a giant clock strike noon. Free with zoo admission. www.lowryparkzoo.com. First Night St. Petersburg 2010 December 31, 5pm-Midnight This family-friendly celebration of the arts will have various stages set up downtown to showcase music, drama, dance, art and more. Adults, $12; children, $6. www.firstnightstpete.com. Aqua-Eve Party at The Florida Aquarium December 31, 9pm-1am Tampa Bay Parenting readers receive $5 off. Adults 21 and older. See opposite page for details. Pictures with Santa Visit TBParenting.com to find out where he is for photos and for how much!

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