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10|Lifetime Effects
Let me count the labels
Concussions hurt
32|peace unearthed
16|Not just jitters
Holidays tips for a blended family
Anxiety disorder signs
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22|toxic dilemma
Gifts for everyone in the family
Are pesticides killing us
38|verizon tech picks
26|extraordinary woman
Presents for the techy
Dr. Kanika Tomalin
every month 06|Letter From The Editor 10|health and wellness 20|what's happening
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lifetime effects Concussions hurt By Cloe Cabrera
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The 10-year-old regularly plays soccer, basketball and baseball every chance he can. “I love that he is athletic,” says his mother Carlinda O’Neil of Largo. “But I’m always worried about him getting hurt.” Two years ago, during one of Eric’s soccer games, Carlinda watched as her son endured an elbow to the head as he tried to kick the ball to another player. Carlinda immediately removed him from the game. “It didn’t look that serious, but he told me he had a headache,” recalls Carlinda of that summer day in 2012. “My son never gets a headache. I thought he may have a concussion, so I took him straight to the doctor.” Luckily, a CT scan confirmed Eric hadn’t suffered a concussion, but Carlinda says it was enough for her to sideline the young athlete several days. “He got mad, but I didn’t care,” she says. “When you play sports there is going to be physical contact no matter how careful you tell them to be; it’s going to happen. As a parent, I have to do my part to protect my child. I’m just glad that it wasn’t as serious as it could have been.” A concussion is a type of traumatic brain injury (TBI) that results from a bump blow or
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jolt to the head that causes the head and brain to move rapidly back and forth, damaging the brain cells and creating chemical changes in the brain.
If a parent or coach witnesses a child suffering any type of blow to the head, no matter how small, immediately remove them from the game.
Concussions among professional football players have made headlines around the country. But concussions among children are on the rise and can lead to devastating consequences if left untreated.
Concussions affect children differently. Some will have symptoms that last a few days while others can last for weeks or months. These symptoms may not only affect the child on the field but in the classroom as well.
“Children’s brains are still developing, so they are more susceptible (to concussions) than adults and they take longer to recover,” says Dr. Kevin Elder, a family and sports medicine physician with BayCare Medical Group. “Children can’t verbalize how they feel and what’s going on with them. They can’t describe what’s happening, which can make treatment a little more challenging.”
“Parents need to be very alert to any changes in their child’s behavior,” says Dr. Elder. “Any signs of dizziness, nausea, vomiting, headaches, blurred vision, difficulty concentrating or paying attention or if a child begins to act strangely or different than usual, immediately take them for an evaluation.”
An estimated 30 million children and teens in the United States play organized sports, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Last year, 1.24 million children were seen in emergency rooms with sports-related injuries, according to Safe Kids Worldwide, a global organization dedicated to preventing injuries in children. Dr. Elder says parents need to stay vigilant and make sure their children wear the proper safety gear when playing sports. Parents and coaches also need to make children aware of techniques to avoid on the field, such as leading with your head in a football game.
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When needed, Dr. Elder sends his patients to St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital for further evaluation or treatment. Sports injuries in children cannot be completely eliminated, but they can be lessened. “We need to focus more on [playing] technique and wearing the proper equipment,” says Dr. Elder. “And we need to make sure we get a child help immediately if we think he may have suffered a concussion.” For more information on concussion prevention or to find a sports medicine doctor for your family, visit StJosephsChildrens.org. This content is sponsored by Baycare Health.
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Prevention While nothing can prevent every concussion, all kids should wear properly fitting head gear and safety equipment when playing any type of contact sport or participating in activities like bicycling, rollerblading and skateboarding to reduce the chances of severe head trauma.
Signs & Symptoms Early symptoms of a concussion include headache, dizziness, disorientation, changes in memory or concentration, tiredness, nausea and vomiting. Persistent symptoms include a headache that won’t go away (even with OTC pain relievers), memory and concentration problems, poor attention span, sensitivity to light or loud noises, ringing in the ears, depression and irritability. Your child does not have to lose consciousness to suffer a concussion. In most cases, a person who suffers a concussion never loses consciousness. Even a mild concussion can cause symptoms.
When to Seek Treatment It’s important not to overreact or underreact. If you are unsure whether your child requires medical care, call your pediatrician or take your child to a pediatric emergency room. Symptoms (as noted above) that do not go away — or a blow to the head that results in loss of consciousness — require evaluation by a physician. Symptoms that reappear also should be evaluated by a physician. The American Academy anything more than a light bump on the head. Learn more about seeking treatment for head injuries on the of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that you call your pediatrician for advice if your child receives AAP’s website.
Infants & Toddlers Because infants and toddlers cannot communicate how they feel, concussions can be challenging to diagnose. If you suspect that your young child has a concussion, following are nonverbal clues to keep an eye out for: • Listlessness, tires easily • Unusually irritable, cranky • Changes in eating, sleeping habits • Loss of interest in favorite toys • Trouble walking It is important to remember that children may be sleepy because they have exhausted themselves crying. Even so, they should be easy to rouse. Seek medical attention if your child will not awaken easily, seems disoriented or exhibits the symptoms above when awake. Source: www.jcl.com
Healing After a Concussion Ensure the child get plenty of rest and keeps a regular sleep schedule, including no late nights and no sleepovers. Ensure the child avoids high-risk and high-speed activities, such as riding a bicycle, playing sports, climbing playground equipment, or riding roller coasters or rides, that could result in another bump, blow, or jolt to the head or body. Children should not return to these types of activities until their healthcare professional says they are well enough. Give the child only those drugs that are approved by the pediatrician or family physician. Talk with their healthcare professional about when the child should return to school and other activities and how the parent or caregiver can help the child deal with the challenges that the child may face. For example, your child may need to spend fewer hours at school, rest often, or require more time to take tests. Share information about concussion with parents, siblings, teachers, counselors, babysitters, coaches, and others who interact with the child helps them understand what has happened and how to meet the child’s needs. Source: cdc.gov/concussion
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Not Just Jitters Anxiety disorder signs By Brittany Zern, Psy.D
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magine that while you are taking your morning walk, a long, slithering snake suddenly crosses your path. Or maybe a car unexpectedly comes to a screeching halt in front of you while driving. Undoubtedly, you will experience the unpleasant sensations of anxiety. Your heart begins to pound rapidly. It’s difficult to breathe, and you may begin to sweat or shake. Anxiety is a normal reaction that can serve as a warning sign for dangerous situations and can be critical for survival and life skills. But what happens when you experience these same unpleasant feelings consistently in ordinary life situations? Anxiety disorders are among the most common mental disorders in America. While we often associate these disorders with the stress that comes with the responsibilities of adulthood, children can suffer from anxiety disorders. In fact, anxiety disorders affect one in eight children in the U.S. For some children, anxiety can become excessive and lead to thoughts and behaviors that negatively impact daily living for everyone in the home.
Warning Signs
Many times, parents do not realize their child’s behavior is a direct result of an anxiety disorder. The words “anxiety” or “nervous” usually trigger thoughts of a shy, timid child hiding behind his mother in a crowded room of children. While this is a form of anxiety, there are many other presentations that are common among children of various ages. For instance, David may begin to scream, cry and throw himself on the floor because his toy isn’t working the way he wanted or his macaroni and cheese looks different than normal. Or Julie may have an outburst when asked to do her homework or take a shower. Many parents interpret these behaviors as defiance or anger and may even blame themselves, thinking they have done something wrong in their parenting techniques. All of these are possible scenarios in which it may actually be anxiety creating or exacerbating
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a child’s negative thoughts and behaviors. It’s helpful for parents to know the warning signs of an anxiety disorder in order to respond to their child in the best way possible. Depending on the disorder and the child, anxiety may present itself in a number of ways, including: Irritability: This is a common symptom of anxiety in children, stemming from their difficulty understanding and expressing their feelings. Also, children with anxiety are often attempting to cope with anxiety-provoking situations constantly throughout the day, resulting in feelings of irritability or even anger. Avoidance of Social Situations: If your child never wants to attend her classmates’ birthday parties or she stays close to you during social outings rather than playing with other children, social anxiety may be the reason. Extreme Reactions to Minor Events/ Situations: Children with anxiety disorders may have more extreme reactions – crying, throwing things, hitting and yelling – than most children have to minor nuisances/inconveniences. For example, if your son expects to go to the park in the afternoon and then learns he cannot go because it’s raining outside, his crying and yelling may be spurred by the anxiety of an unexpected change in his schedule. Or your child may become tearful and/or angry while furiously erasing his writing over and over because he can’t seem to make his sentence read the way he wants. Tics: Some children with anxiety disorders develop tics – specifically facial tics – at a young age. Tics are a quick tensing of muscles, usually a couple times in a row. If your child frequently shuts his eyes tight or his mouth often tenses into a grimace, these may be facial tics brought on by anxiety or stress. Repetitive throat clearing also is a common tic in children with anxiety. There are many causes of tics, and a thorough evaluation should be conducted to rule out underlying medical conditions.
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Physical Complaints: Some children experiencing anxiety will often complain of minor stomachaches or headaches. They may be fearful of becoming sick while at school or in public places and even experience panic about becoming sick. Physical symptoms are a common expression of anxiety (especially in children) and even though there is no medical cause for their complaints, the symptoms are very real to your child. Repetitive Behavior: Repetitiveness can be a coping mechanism for children who have anxiety, which is more commonly associated with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), but also can occur with other forms of anxiety. Children with anxiety have a tendency to repeat things, engage in the same routine over and over, and/ or talk again and again about specific events or topics. They may also be very attached to objects they carry around or play with, and have extreme reactions when these objects are not present. Picky Eating Habits: A child who is very picky in his or her eating habits may be exhibiting symptoms of anxiety. For example, he may not want to try new foods, will only eat one or two kinds of food, or will only eat foods with certain textures, colors or smells. Tantrums/Aggression: Tantrums and aggression are more commonly caused by anxiety when
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children also have attention deficit-hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) or difficulty with impulse control. There is a difference between defiance and anxiety. If your child seems to have tantrums more frequently than most children his or her age, and if the tantrums seem to have clear triggers – such as when there are changes in routine, during transitions or when they are working on homework/projects – anxiety may be a factor.
Common Anxiety Disorders
Among the most common anxiety disorders in children are generalized anxiety, social anxiety, separation anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). These disorders typically become more apparent when a child goes to school and is confronted with the pressure of teachers, homework, friends and transitions/flexibility. Social anxiety also may be associated with selective mutism, which is an inability to speak in certain situations, such as in front of the class or to an unknown adult. And children with separation anxiety experience significant distress when away from their caregivers. They may excessively worry about their parents’ health and refuse to go to school or otherwise be away from them. If your child is exhibiting any of these warning signs, the best thing to do is make an appointment with a mental health professional. This may include a clinical psychologist (Ph.D. or Psy.D.), licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) or licensed social worker (MSW or LCSW). It’s important to find a professional who specializes in working with children with anxiety and related disorders. Research shows the most effective treatment plan for children with anxiety disorders is a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy and medication. However, in instances where therapy alone is enough, medication may not be needed. It is generally recommended that your child begin therapy first, and if the therapist believes that medication may be needed in conjunction with therapy, he or she can recommend a consultation with a medical professional as needed. As the name implies, cognitive behavioral therapy is comprised of two parts. For kids with anxiety, the behavioral component of therapy includes systems that reward them for engaging in activities that may be difficult for them. It may also include exposure therapy, which involves slowly introducing the child to feared situations and making that scenario rewarding rather than scary. Because our thoughts are what cause us to become anxious in the first place, cognitive therapy helps children recognize and understand their feelings. For kids younger than 6, cognitive therapy may be basic or limited in the treatment plan. But for older children, cognitive therapy helps them gain awareness of the thoughts that lead to their feelings of anxiety, and then gives them the ways to cope with these feelings. Research shows that, left unchecked, anxiety disorders in children may lead to problems in school and increased risk of substance abuse, depression and other mental-health problems. Of course, this is largely determined by the child, the disorder and the intervention to address the anxiety disorder. While it’s normal for kids to feel jitters and express worry from time to time, children with anxiety disorders believe their fears are earth shattering and will react in that way. Remember, the symptoms listed above are not always an indication of an anxiety disorder; however, if you feel your child’s behavior is interfering with daily functioning – having consistent behavioral outbursts, difficulty socializing/making friends, constant expression of worry/fears – a mental health professional can help you diagnose and treat the problem. Brittany Zern, Psy.D., BCBA-D, is a licensed psychologist and board certified behavior analyst for Engage Behavioral Health in Tampa. She specializes in the assessment and treatment of developmental and behavioral disorders in children and adolescents.
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hillsborough choice expo Learn about Hillsborough County Public School’s Magnet and School Choice Attractor programs from 3-7:30 p.m. Dec. 12 at the Florida State Fairgrounds. All elementary, middle and high school magnet programs will be on hand to help parents choose the right magnet school for their child and to help educate parents on the different programs that magnet schools have to offer. There will also be fun activities for kids. The event is free with free parking as well. www.sdhc.k12.fl.us/doc/613/choice-dates
Busch Gardens' Christmas Town Experience the bay area’s largest Christmas celebration. Beginning Nov. 28 and running through Dec. 31 on select nights, guests at Busch Gardens can enjoy a winter wonderland with lights, elves and Santa Claus himself. Guests will also enjoy special entertainment, live music and Christmas and holiday treats. This year’s event is included with any annual pass, Fun Card or daily admission to the park. ChristmasTown.com
new year's events New Year’s Eve is coming up, which means fun New Year’s Eve parties are happening for the whole family. Since not everyone can stay up until midnight, the Glazer Children’s museum is hosting Noon Year’s eve with balloon drop, party hats, and noisemakers. The Lowry Park Zoo will also be hosting a Noon Year’s Eve celebration with live entertainment and juice toasts. For the grown-ups, the Florida Aquarium will be hosting New Year’s Aqua Eve with live music and a fireworks display at midnight. For more New Year’s Eve events, visit TBParenting. com/NewYears2015
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Toxic Dilemma Are pesticides killing us? By Andre Leu
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umerous scientific studies show that current regulatory systems around the world have failed to protect unborn and growing children from exposure to a massive cocktail of toxic pesticides. Dr. Theo Colborn, a leading expert on endocrinedisrupting chemicals and co-author of Our Stolen Future, published a peer-reviewed study in the scientific journal Environmental Health Perspectives that examined these issues. The study reviewed many of the scientific papers and showed the widespread extent to which children and the unborn are exposed to numerous pesticides. Multiple pesticide residues have been found in semen, ovarian follicular fluid, amniotic fluid, maternal blood, placental and umbilical cord blood, breast milk, meconium of newborns and in the urine of children. She writes, “It is fairly safe to say that every child conceived today in the northern hemisphere is exposed to pesticides from conception throughout gestation and lactation regardless of where it is born.” The Environmental Working Group found up to 232 chemicals in the placental cord blood of babies in the U.S. The fetus and growing children are the most vulnerable to the harm caused by chemicals. As young children they have the highest levels of pesticide exposure due to their food consumption in relation to their body weight. Of particular concern is that the fetus and newborn possess lower concentrations of protective serum proteins than adults. A major consequence of this vulnerability is a greater susceptibility to cancers and developmental neurotoxicity, where the poison damages the developing nervous system. A number of studies show the link between chemical exposure, particularly exposure to pesticides, and the increase of cancer in children. The United States Presidents Cancer Panel report states, “Cancer incidence in U.S. children under 20 years of age has increased. Leukemia rates are consistently elevated
among children who grow up on farms, among children whose parents used pesticides in the home or garden and among children of pesticide applicators.” This report, written by eminent scientists and medical specialists from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, the National Institutes of Health and the National Cancer Institute, clearly states that environmental toxins, including pesticides, are the main causes of cancers. Studies conducted by researchers at the Columbia University Center for Children’s Environmental Health, the University of California, Berkeley, and the Mount Sinai School of Medicine show that prenatal exposure to organophosphate insecticides (OPs) adversely affects the neurological development of children. Each study was conducted independently, but they all came up with very similar results: fetal exposure to small amounts of OPs will reduce the IQs of children. A study of farm worker families in California has shown that by age three and a half, children born to mothers exposed to OP insecticides have lessened attention spans and are more vulnerable to attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Male children were more likely to be impacted. Parents should have considerable concern that the Columbia University study found no evidence of a lower-limit threshold of exposure to organophosphates in the observed adverse impact on intelligence. This means that even very low levels of exposure could lead to reductions in a child’s intelligence. The study by Rauh et al., published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, has confirmed the findings of the previous studies and shown a large range of brain abnormalities present in children exposed to chlorpyrifos in utero through normal, nonoccupational uses. Exposure to CPF in the womb, even at normal levels, resulted in “significant abnormalities in morphological measures of the cerebral
surface associated with higher prenatal CPF exposure” in a sample of 40 children between 5 and 11 years old. The researchers stated that the current regulatory safety limits and testing methodologies are inadequate for determining safe exposure levels for children. One of the great concerns is that many chemicals, including pesticides, become endocrine disruptors at very low levels — lower than the levels commonly found in our food. According to a meta-study by the World Health Organization and the United Nations Environment Program, the fetus and growing children are more vulnerable than adults to the effects of endocrine disrupters. This is because their tissues and organs are still developing and rely on balanced hormone signals to ensure that they develop in orderly sequences. Small disruptions in these hormone signals by endocrine-disrupting chemicals can significantly alter the way these body parts and metabolic systems develop. These altered effects will not only last a lifetime; they can be passed on to future generations.
A large body of published, peer-reviewed scientific research shows that pesticide exposure in unborn and growing children is linked to: • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Cancers, including in adulthood Thyroid disorders Immune system problems Lower IQs Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder Autism spectrum disorders Lack of physical coordination Loss of temper — anger management issues Bipolar/schizophrenia spectrum of illnesses Depression Digestive system problems Cardiovascular disease Reproductive problems (as adults) Deformities of the genital-urinary systems Changes to metabolic systems, including childhood obesity and diabetes
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Extraordinary
Woman
By Angela Ardolino
Mastering the art of motherhood, work and community.
Deputy Mayor Dr. Kanika Tomalin serves the city of St. Petersburg, working in partnership with Mayor Rick Kriseman to strategically advance the city toward its vision of standing as a city of opportunity that honors its past while pursuing the future. As the fifth generation of her family to call St. Petersburg home, advancing the city is a mission close to her heart. Her extended family includes more than 200 relatives in St. Petersburg. “I love living in the Sunshine City with [husband] Terry and my children Kai and Nia.” Professionally, Tomalin has served in a variety of leadership roles with healthcare organizations, most recently for Health Management Associates as the regional vice president of public affairs for the Bayfront Health Network.
What do you think is the secret to your family's success?
It’s no secret. Mutual respect and celebration of each other and the purpose we bring to the world and each others’ lives keeps my family, connected, focused and moving forward in ways that serve not only our individual interests, but also amplify our shared goals.
What is your biggest fear?
Honestly, I don’t subscribe to too many fears. This is mainly because I believe that faith and fear cannot coexist. I also believe that there is purpose in everything that transpires, and, armed with this certainty, I meet the world with expectation of opportunity and possibility as opposed to fear and trepidation about those things I cannot control. That said, I do have concerns, but I am comforted by our ability to do something about most of them. My chief concern is that I leave a world for future generations that is better than the one we inherited. We’re blessed to live in a country and community of abundance and opportunity, but those blessings come at a cost of service and commitment from each of us. The work we do today determines reality for souls yet born. I am honored to play such a significant role in this chapter of St. Petersburg’s history. The example I am working to set for my children is one of servant leadership. I am proud of the things we, as a community, can accomplish together while always recognizing that there is more to be done.
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what advice would you give to other women? Find your voice and follow your bliss. This advice is not gender specific but a necessary endeavor we all must master to live our best lives. We will only truly experience our best lives if we are living fully with honor and recognition in the purpose for which we first drew breath.
what is your proudest moment?
One of my proudest moments was at the mayor’s swearing-in last January. The mayor and I, standing on the steps of City Hall, drafting the first lines of the city’s next chapter, was a very special moment. I knew it was a first step in a long journey to support the mayor’s honorable effort to move this city I love forward, building a city of opportunity where the sun shines on all who come to live, work and play.
what is your biggest achievement?
My biggest achievement, without a doubt, is raising two healthy, happy, compassionate children who are values-driven and clear on their obligation to make the world a better place.
What makes you happy?
I am most often happy because this is a wonderful life filled with amazing possibilities. As happiness relates to work, I love collaborating with committed community partners to achieve successful outcomes, even when processes take a little longer than is ideal. We work hard every day to identify the right answer that will serve the most people for the longest time. That is not always the expedient or easy answer, but it is always what we believe to be right. We work at identifying great partners to help us get there – government rarely succeeds alone. And when we nail it, people’s lives are made better. There’s no greater reward.
How do you relax and take time for yourself?
This is always a challenge. With so many demands for my time and attention, it’s sometimes hard to make space and time to care for myself. Fortunately, I have a strong support system at home and work. My relaxation never involves anything extravagant. It usually involves a great book, lovely music and an indulgent glass of boss wine.
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What kind of message would you like to give women?
St. Petersburg is truly a city of opportunity for all. The diverse faces – many of them women – that you see in City Hall are a mere reflection of St. Petersburg itself. From pioneers who paved the way for our worldclass arts community to local entrepreneurs, sports and entertainment leaders and public servants, women are leading the way for advancement in our city. It is important to note that the women who are making a difference every day in our community are not just the select few leaders we read about in magazines like this. They are our mothers, sisters, wives and daughters who transform the world, one impactful act at a time. These women are the integral thread that holds together the fabric of our society.
what else would you like to share?
My life is fortunate and blessed. I have a wonderful husband, amazing children and I am surrounded by family and friends who delight in helping each other create our best lives. This chapter of service to the city is a privileged opportunity for me to demonstrate my appreciation and gratitude to all things and people that make this such an awesome community.
how do you enjoy or draw information from the magazine?
I enjoy both the print and online editions of the magazine. It’s always great to read and get insights on local parents doing great things and extraordinary children who are already making a difference.
what is your favorite thing to do in tampa bay?
To spend time in the Sunshine City, one of the best cities in America! We say it a lot, but it is more than just rhetoric. St. Petersburg is a city on the rise. There are too many things to do to list them all. Visit www.StPete.org to find upcoming events. My husband Terry is the outdoors and fitness editor at the Tampa Bay Times. With more than a quarter century of adventure under his belt, he keeps our family’s spirits in high gear and our bodies in motion. You may find The Tomalins enjoying the natural splendor of our 150 parks, at one of the 17 city recreation facilities or simply out and about in the city.
Dr. Kanika Tomalin Deputy Mayor Dr. Tomalin at the St. Petersburg City Hall Council Room.
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om. Once you become one, the word truly starts to define who you are.
Think about it. Do you ever not use the word to describe yourself (if you’re a mother)? When asked to describe yourself you say, “Oh, I’m a mom.” Then you go on to other details (usually involving the kids not yourself). When asked why you have bags under your eyes, milk on your shirt and stickers on your dashboard? “I’m a mom.” When accused of being late, forgetful or having crayons in your purse, you explain it away by saying, “I’m a mom.” It’s what we are. It’s what we do, and it is amazing. Once you are a mother, you suddenly have this one thing in common with every other woman who has a child. You’re all moms. So when it comes to this word, why do we find ways to separate and divide ourselves? As a mom, I think we all should have camaraderie. We have a very hard job. We make people! We turn these small humans into the best adults we can. We feed them, cloth them, teach them and, above all, love them. That alone should create a bond and connect us. But still we find ways to divide ourselves. Mom — adoptive, step, breastfeeding, bottlefeeding, cloth diapering, baby wearing, home schooling, stay at home, work at home, full time, single, first-time and the list goes on and on. No matter how you try to categorize it, we are all still moms. So why use so many labels? Is it simply to find ways to bond with other likeminded moms, or is it to set yourself apart from those who are not of the same school of thought? I wondered about this as I sat at a play date with my daughter. The moms started using all these titles to define themselves within their role of motherhood and as one breastfeeding mom found another and began to nurse, I saw the mom feeding her baby from a bottle slowly lose her hold on the conversation until she moved away having been left out. I watched the homeschooling moms section themselves away while the baby wearing moms started trying on each other’s baby wraps. It’s great to find a kindred spirit. One with the same parenting ideals and values you hold, but if you look only for likeminded mommy friends, you may be missing out on someone with an amazing point of view and style all their own! We seek out other moms to find someone who gets it. Or more specifically who gets us — just one person who has been there or is going through it. But when we are in a group, we still seek one of our own. We find ways to be divided. No longer is the title of “mom” enough. I, being a mom of three with kids from 4-14, didn’t really fit into many of these smaller groups.
I wasn’t breastfeeding my preschooler nor would I be toting her around in a sling unless I wanted to be on a heating pad the rest of the day. As the first-time moms cooed and purred about all their babies’ firsts, I was long past the stage of getting excited about my girl rolling over. (In fact, I’d be excited if I could get her to sit still.) It’s hard not to feel judged when we are among other moms who do not share our views. Do the breastfeeding moms think I don’t love my baby because I feed from a bottle? Do the cloth diapering moms think I’m single-handedly trying to destroy the planet with my disposable diapers? Maybe the stay-at-home moms think the working moms don’t love their kids enough to sacrifice their income and maybe the working moms think their at-home counterparts sit around and drink mojitos every day or worse, clean and cook and throw women’s lib back decades with their antiquated ways! I was a first-time, single, non-breastfeeding, fulltime working mom. I’ve been a stepmom, a work at home mom and a stay-at-home mom. I’ve seen motherhood from a lot of angles and have been at several points on t h e mommy spectrum. But does it matter? I am a m o m . No matter what title or description I throw in front of it, I am always a mom. So sure, I’d love to find a sarcastic mom of three in her early 30s with kids around 4, 12 and 14 who likes to craft and loves Bon Jovi, but I don’t plan on missing out on the fun I have with the other moms who, not only show me a different point of view, but also respect me for mine. I’ll never be the mom who would have breastfed past 1 (OK, 2 if she would have let me), and I am too lazy to use cloth diapers so I appreciate those who do it. I won’t ever be happy about working full time and missing moments with my kids. I’ll always, in a way, be sad about leaving a corporate job and sacrificing a second income to stay home. I’ll never buy everything organic, and I will always feed my kids junk. But I will never look down on another mom for her choices as long as I know she is making them with her families’ best interest at heart, even if they are choices I myself wouldn’t make. After all, even though finding a mom friend you really connect with and have lots in common is fantastic, connecting with other moms is as easy as recognizing what we have in common. What makes us moms — our kids.
mom Let me count the labels By Susan Margolis
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peace unearthed Holiday tips for a blended family By Gayla Grace
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he holidays descended upon us quickly after my husband and I married in midOctober and began our new life together. My expectations of a joyous holiday season faded as the reality of combining two households with different traditions settled on us. I wasn’t prepared for the chaos and heartache that accompanied our first Christmas together. Blending four young children, managing a harried schedule with two former spouses and competing with the other households for time ignited a simmering blaze that burned throughout the season, leaving behind a trail of hurt feelings and unmet expectations. I learned some valuable lessons on negotiating with others and compromising on details. I also resolved to take proactive steps to help relieve some of the turmoil and division that occurred among family members. Here are a few suggestions for a more peaceful get-together that will enable your family to enjoy one another and create lasting memories instead of simply surviving another holiday season. Consider your children’s needs. Children don’t choose to join a stepfamily and they don’t deserve to be pulled between family members. Allow them the freedom to go to each parent’s home without a guilt trip. Help your children buy gifts for other family members. And don’t set a lot of rules about where gifts are kept or played with. If your child receives a gift he’s asked for all year and leaves for dad’s house that afternoon, it’s likely he will want to take the gift with him. Be proactive. Plan your schedule early. Have a family meeting and talk about the logistics of
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the season – when to decorate, what to eat, how to do a gift exchange (including who to include) and special events (school programs, work gatherings). Ask each family member to participate in the planning and decision-making. Negotiate the visitation schedule early to allow time for input from all parties. Set aside unrealistic expectations. Accept that there will be unhappy moments. Children experience fluctuating emotions as they cope with the loss of their nuclear family and accept their new family. They may act out or withdraw during periods of grief. When my stepchildren lost their mother, holidays became especially difficult for them. Memories of past holidays sometimes prevent them from enjoying our family celebrations today. However, a difficult day or period of unhappiness doesn’t have to ruin the entire holiday season. Be flexible and agreeable when possible. Be willing to make sacrifices to fit everyone’s schedule. Offer alternatives and recognize that Christmas can be celebrated on a day other than December 25 and still be a special day. We have altered our gift exchange many years to allow everyone to be together. Try to be fair to all parties involved and commit to do your part toward peaceful interaction with your ex. Separate old marital issues from parenting issues and rid your heart of resentment or bitterness that might be preventing friendly communication. Start new traditions together and continue to celebrate old ones that fit. Traditions offer a sense of belonging to family members and cement relationships. Talk to your children about what traditions are important to them and brainstorm ideas for new traditions to start.
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Soon after we married, we started a tradition of reading the Christmas Story to our children on Christmas Eve to remind them of the reason we celebrate. We also enjoy special church services and a light show together. We like to decorate the house and bake special goodies for those we love. Traditions are a great way for blended families to create bonds with one another that are strengthened every year. With the right attitude and proactive steps, holidays can be enjoyable and memorable as a blended family. There may be bumps along the way, but don’t give up on a joyous holiday season. Gayla Grace is a freelance writer and a wife and mom to five children in her blended family. She loves helping parents find success in their blended family relationships.
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Create placemats with your kids to show off during dinner. Play table games, like “Truths and TeeWaddies” or “ABC’s of Gratitude”. Let your kids create centerpieces and place-cards. Make a conversation jar with a variety of topics to use throughout dinner. Try to celebrate with foods and traditions from other cultures.
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History Center Hosts Charlie Brown for Holidays Whether it’s Linus and his blanket, Charlie Brown’s heartache over the Little Red-Haired Girl, Schroeder’s devotion to Beethoven, Peppermint Patty’s prowess in sports and failure in the classroom or Lucy’s self-declared knowledge of everything, the Peanuts Gang is among the most celebrated in American comic strips. For millions of Americans, the holidays aren’t complete without a viewing of A Charlie Brown Christmas. The Tampa Bay History Center is honoring this time-honored tradition by hosting Merry Christmas, Charlie Brown, a traveling exhibition stopping in the bay area through Jan. 11. The exhibit examines the making of the animated classic and celebrates the anticipation, joy, and pitfalls of the holiday season. It consists of 50 Peanuts daily and Sunday comic strips, more than 50 vintage Peanuts-themed seasonal novelties, a Santa letter writing station, and a photo opportunity for children of all ages. Also included is a video featuring Charles Schulz, producer Lee Mendelson and animator/ director Bill Melendez that details the sometimes magical and often madcap making of A Charlie Brown Christmas. Throughout December, children can participate in Kids, Cocoa, and Crafts, a free Peanuts-themed activity (included with general admission) on Dec. 6, 13 and 27. Visit www.tampabayhistorycenter.org to learn more.
Coast Bike Share rolls into Tampa The wheels are officially in motion for Coast Bike Share. Tampa’s new bike sharing program held its founding membership launch, and will hold a full system launch Dec. 7. Founding membership sales will continue through Dec. 6. Once registered, founding members will have access to bikes at 30 hub locations throughout downtown, historic Ybor City, Hyde Park and the Channel District. “We are extremely excited to be transforming the way we all navigate the city,” says Coast Bike Share Program Director Eric Trull. “Coast is about making it easier to get around town, making it easier to visit business, restaurants, our amazing parks, and family and friends.” The Dec. 7 launch will include a launch party at Water Works Park with food trucks, live music and an escorted ride through downtown Tampa. The ride will begin at 10 a.m. with all bikes welcome. Coast bikes will provide an alternative transit option for residents of Tampa as well as visitors to the area. “Implementing bike share is a big step toward Tampa becoming the city we want to be – a city where it is not only safe, but encouraged for people to walk and bike. We’re proud to be one of the first cities to launch a large scale, fourth generation bike share program,” says Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn. The bikes, designed by NYC based Social Bicycles, are three-speed, step-through style bicycles equipped with GPS technology that allows the user to easily locate the bicycles from a mobile app as well as track their mileage, carbon offset and gas savings. Tampa will be among the first large-scale implementations of this bike share technology, which also allows users to lock the bike to public bike racks in addition to Coast hubs. Go to www.coastbikeshare.com for information about the new program or membership.
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dates: Dec. 5, 7 p.m. Holiday Parade in Plant City Set up chairs along the route through downtown Plant City as part of Celebrate the Season 2014. Arrive by 6 p.m. if you signed up to participate in the parade. www.plantcity.org
Dec. 6, 8:30-11 a.m. Breakfast and Pictures with Santa Bring the kids for a chance to get their photo taken with Santa and check out the jolly one’s workshop at this fundraiser at All Children’s Outpatient Care Center in Brandon. Morning includes breakfast. Tickets: $5 for breakfast or a photo and $8 for both. Call 813-352-3522.
Dec. 7, 10 a.m. – 3 p.m. Fresh Market at Hyde Park Village Check out organic products, gourmet foods and handcrafted items from more than 70 vendors. Listen to live music and browse The Kids Market to support young entrepreneurs. Free admission and parking. www.hydeparkvillage.net
Dec. 9, various times MOPS Meeting Join Mothers of Preschoolers at Hyde Park UMC for fellowship, support and resources. Meetings are 9:3011:30 a.m. or 6:30-8:30 p.m. Child care is available. No RSVP required. www.facebook.com/hydeparkmops/ info
Dec. 13, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. Rappel for Lung Cancer Research Remember Jillian Miller, who lost her battle with lung cancer at 28, during this fundraiser at Island Center Building in Rocky Point. www. unitingagainstlungcancer.org
Dec. 15, 3:30-4:15 p.m.. Wee Artists Let’s Create! Enroll your little Picassos ages 3-6 for an afternoon of fun at SouthShore Regional Library in Ruskin. Advance registration required. Adult must be present. Artists will take their project home. Call 813-273-3652.
Dec. 20, 5:30 p.m. Patel Conservatory Presents Winter Fantasy Catch talented Patel Conservatory performers (fourth graders through adults) in a festive show of seasonal classics and themes at the Straz in Tampa. Tickets start at $20. www.patelconservatory.org
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BayCare urgent Care opening Near You In an effort to increase access to convenient, cost-effective alternatives to emergency room care, BayCare Health System has renamed its Morton Plant Mease Immediate Care Centers to BayCare Urgent Care and is opening four more Urgent Care locations through January. BayCare Urgent Care Centers are planned for Carrollwood (11921 North Dale Mabry Hwy., Suite 7); Westchase (6909 West Waters Ave.); Valrico (2016 State Road 60 E.); and Northeast St. Petersburg (2331 Fourth St.). “Our Urgent Care plan is part of an ongoing BayCare commitment to connecting people in our communities to the most appropriate level of care in a convenient setting,” says Tommy Inzina, COO of BayCare Health System. “BayCare’s emergency rooms are well known for providing expertise that’s critical in emergency situations. However, when health issues are not life-threatening, but need prompt attention, we want to be there with convenient urgent care resources.” BayCare’s Urgent Care locations will build upon the services provided by Morton Plant Mease Immediate Care and extend them into Hillsborough. Each Urgent Care is staffed with a physician and is fully equipped to provide a total care experience including X-rays, lab work, EKGs and prescriptions. Among the medical conditions that may be treated without an appointment are minor illnesses and injuries, flu and colds, sprains and strains, minor cuts, stings and burns. BayCare Urgent Care Centers will also offer school and sports physicals and flu vaccines, as well as occupational health services such as post-hire physicals, drug screenings, workplace injuries, flu shots and vaccinations and corporate wellness. BayCare Urgent Care Centers will accept most insurance plans and offer extended hours. The new Carrollwood BayCare Urgent Care is open. The Westchase location is scheduled to be open this month. For more information, visit www.baycareurgentcare.org or call 855-2528453.
dates: Dec. 6, 8 a.m.. Miles for Hope 5K Run and Survivor Walk Lace up for this Brain Tumor Alliance fundraiser at Al Lopez Park, which is open to all ages and fitness levels. Portion of the proceeds will benefit All Children’s Hospital. Call 727-781-4673.
Dec. 6, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Pediatric First Aid and Child CPR Learn to handle childhood emergencies and prevent injuries as part of this seven-hour American Heart Association course held at St. Joseph’s Hospital North in Lutz. Cost: $70. Register online. www. baycare.org.
Dec. 7, 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. Westchase Holiday Market Hosted by the Westchase Artists Society at the Westchase Golf Club in Tampa, the market will feature original paintings, photography, ceramics, jewelry and sculptures. Net proceeds and drawing ticket sales will benefit Autism Speaks. Santa will be available for photos. www.westchaseartists.com
Dec. 8, 5-8 p.m.
Tampa Y Celebrates the Giving Spirit The Tampa Metropolitan YMCA recently announced that is has joined #GivingTuesday. Taking place Dec. 2 – the Tuesday after Thanksgiving – #GivingTuesday was established to harness the power of social media to create a national movement around the holidays dedicated to giving, similar to how Black Friday and Cyber Monday have become days that have become synonymous with holiday shopping. The day is designed to inspire people to take collaborative action to improve their local communities and give back in better, smarter ways to the charities and causes they support. “As a Charity Navigator four-star nonprofit organization, we welcome the opportunity to celebrate generosity and giving,” says Communications Director Lalita Llerena. “Every dollar donated to the Tampa Y on #GivingTuesday, and throughout the year, goes toward helping local families become closer, children grow and blossom, seniors discover new energy and those with disabilities find new abilities and new hope.” Since its inception in 1889, the Tampa Y has focused on strengthening the foundations of community, either by opening its doors to those in search of leading healthier lives or through community outreach activities. To learn more about the initiative, visit www.tampaymca.org/ givingtuesday.
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Holiday Open House Shop till you drop with your girls at this event hosted by the GFWC Temple Terrace Junior Woman’s Club at Omar K. Lightfoot Recreation Center in Temple Terrace. Evening includes fashions, accessories, refreshments, door prizes and a silent auction. Free admission. www.ttjuniors.org
Dec. 14, 9 a.m. – 2 p.m. Seminole Heights Sunday Morning Market Browse fresh, locally-grown and handmade goods at this monthly market held on the front lawn of Hillsborough High in Tampa. Shop the Kids Market and support young entrepreneurs. Free admission. www.tampabaymarkets.com
Dec. 21, 2-3 p.m. The Elves and the Shoemaker Relive the classic Brothers Grimm story as ACT for Youth brings it to the Carrollwood Cultural Center stage with original music featuring traditional holiday melodies. Tickets: $6 members, $7 general and $24 family four-pack. www.carrollwoodcenter.org
Lamb Chop After Dark with Mallory Lewis January 30 • 8 p.m.
A G-rated comedy show for adults who grew up with American icons Shari Lewis and Lamb Chop.
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Wednesday, January 28 and Tuesday, February 24, 2015 at 8:30 a.m. or Contact the Office of Admissions for Your Personal Tour
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Sea of Lights to Illuminate Gulfport Check out this year’s boat parade or participate in this annual event that benefits the Gulfport’s Police Department and its Operation Santa program. The parade, coordinated through the Boca Ciega Yacht Club, runs along Gulfport Beach’s Shore Boulevard from 6-8 p.m. Dec. 14. This year marks the 29th annual event. Admission is two unwrapped toys or a cash donation for Operation Santa. Toys are distributed to needy children as part of Gulfport’s communitywide annual toy drive. Sailboats and power boats are welcome to join in the parade and are eligible for donated prizes to be awarded to participants during the post-parade party at the Boca Ciega Yacht Club. For information about participating in the parade or becoming a sponsor, contact Samantha Ring at samantharing@outlook.com. To learn more about the event, go to www.sailbcyc.org.
Area Students Tap New Career resource The Pinellas Education Foundation recently announced that it received a $1.25 million grant from Helios Education Foundation to be used in the creation and maintenance of the Pinellas Education Foundation’s Future Plans program, a self-administered, online, career guidance program aimed at helping high school students and young adults discover how their strengths, interests and values align with their educational path to in-demand and globallycompetitive careers. After completing the online program, students receive a detailed report that can be used by guidance counselors and parents to help students outline coursework in preparation for postsecondary and career success.“Guiding students to make wise decisions regarding the use of their aptitudes and interests as they match with jobs in demand makes them better educational consumers and facilitates their entry into the workforce in our local and global communities,” says Pinellas Education Foundation Chairwoman Cathy Collins. Because student loan debt now exceeds all credit card debt and about 52 percent of college graduates are either unemployed or underemployed nationally, the Pinellas Education Foundation created this high school program to assist students with developing a plan for post-secondary success before they begin investing in a college education or technical training. “Future Plans not only enables students in Pinellas County to make informed decisions about coursework during high school. It also better positions students for postsecondary education success by linking their academic preparation to 21st century careers,” says Helios Education Foundation’s President and CEO Paul Luna. The program will begin its roll out to high schools this fall, open initially to juniors, seniors and second semester sophomores and can be revisited and retaken at any point in the future even after the student graduates. The program also serves as a secure vault, where students can store their transcripts, resumes, certifications and other important documents.
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dates: Dec. 4, 7 p.m. Shorecrest Prep Open House Tour the campus and get questions answered at this open house. St. Petersburg school serves students in preK3 through 12th grade. Call 727-522-2111. www. shorecrest.org
Dec. 6, 5-9 p.m. Holiday Stroll Stop by Largo Central Park to delight in the festive lights on display. Evening includes arts and crafts, live entertainment, foods and desserts, a toboggan snow slide for a $5 unlimited ride waistband and a visit from Santa. www.largoarts.com
Dec. 6-7, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. Corey Area Arts and Crafts Festival Browse art across a diverse mix of handcrafted work at this event in downtown St. Pete Beach. Art includes original crafts, functional pieces and affordable gift items. Check out a Green Market with exotic live plants, handmade soaps and gourmet sauces. Free admission. www.artfestival.com
Dec. 7, 7-9 p.m. Death by Chocolate Sample delicacies and desserts from the area’s top restaurants as part of this annual Rotary Club of Largo fundraiser at Largo Cultural Center. Guests also can enjoy holiday music at this benefit for local youth. Tickets: $25. www.largoarts.com
Dec. 11, 10:30-11:15 a.m. Wee-Time at Weedon Enroll your preschooler in this monthly nature program at Weedon Island Preserve in St. Petersburg. Kids ages 3-5 are treated to stories and activities that connect them to the environment. This month’s featured book is Ten Little Rabbits. Free with advance registration. www.weedonislandpreserve.org
Dec. 12, 6 p.m. Free Movie in the Park Take in a movie on the lawn at Largo Central Park. Movies begin at dark and evening also features a Farmer’s Market from 3-7 p.m. Coolers are welcome, but no alcohol is allowed. This month’s film: Polar Express. Call 727-587-6740, Ext. 5014.
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Seed Library Growing in popularity
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Gardening fans young and old have another source to turn to for flower and vegetable knowledge.The Safety Harbor Public Library hosts The Seed Library, developed to help nurture and support gardeners throughout the Pinellas area and to encourage others to add more gardens to the overall Safety Harbor landscape.
Dec. 2, 4-5 p.m.
The Seed Library, located in the rotunda to the right of the circulation desk, houses a variety of seeds donated by local gardeners and can be accessed by registered Safety Harbor Public Library cardholders. Seeds are arranged alphabetically by categories of vegetables, herbs and flowers. The library is seeking seed donations from area gardeners as supplies are dwindling and encourages participants to donate seeds from their finished crops to replace those previously borrowed. Seeds are checked out with a PPLC Library card just as any other library material but do not count against total items checked out on the account. Due to the current limited supply, borrowers are asked to limit check out to a maximum of seven seed packets at a time. There are no due dates or fines as seeds taken are the borrower’s to keep. But the library does strongly encourage those who frequently participate to give back in the form of donated seeds from their own harvests. For more information about this fun way to grow something beautiful in your front or back yard, visit the Safety Harbor Seed Library online at www. safetyharborseedlibrary.weebly.com.
Winter and Hope Shine Light
Dec. 3, 10 and 17, 5-6 p.m. Art by Me Sign up the kids for this weekly group activity for young artists at Cypress Forest Recreation Center in Oldsmar. Students will be guided by an instructor, with all supplies provided. Cost: $5 with Oldsmar Recreation Card or $7.50 without. www.myoldsmar.com
Dec. 10, 5:30-8:30 p.m. Santa’s Calling Surprise your little ones with a direct line to the North Pole and connect ages 7 and younger for a personal call with Santa or Mrs. Claus. Forms are available at the Dunedin Community Center and Dunedin Library and must be submitted by Dec. 9. Free. Call 727-298-3299.
Winter, Hope and the team at Clearwater Marine Aquarium have embarked on a global conservation effort. They are seeking their Tampa Bay friends’ support to save the vaquita porpoise from extinction and have launched a new petition on the aquarium website to garner support. Found in Mexico’s Gulf of California, the vaquita is the most endangered marine animal in the world, with fewer than 100 remaining. Vaquita are frequently caught unintentionally by local fishermen using giant fishing nets, where the vaquitas become entangled and die. The Mexican government is currently in discussions with local fishermen to enact a two-year ban on the use of these nets and will compensate the fishermen for their lost earnings during this time. Visit the Clearwater Marine Aquarium website to sign the online petition to support the enactment of this two-year program at www.seewinter.com.
Dec. 13, 8:30 a.m.
victorian Age returns
Old Fashioned Christmas and Holiday Parade Take your aspiring Katniss or Peeta to this celebration of the upcoming film release of the next film in the Hunger Games saga at Safety Harbor Library. Watch Hunger Games: Catching Fire and enjoy themed crafts, snacks and activities. One lucky participant will win tickets to Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 1. Free. Call 727-724-1525.
The Safford House Museum is inviting its Tampa Bay area neighbors to ring in the holidays with a stroll through the 1883 Victorian style home as part of its popular annual tradition. This year’s event is 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Dec. 19 and 5-8 p.m. Dec. 20. While there, guests can browse a holiday gift shop as they learn more about Victorian holiday traditions from Governor Anson Safford. The evening features live holiday music and refreshments. General admission is $10 and $6 for members, students and groups of 10 or more. The 19th century home has been restored to its original Victorian appearance and is on the National Register of Historic Places. For more information, visit www.tarponarts.org.
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Managing Motherhood Attend this support group designed for new moms at Mease Countryside Hospital in Safety Harbor. Participants will discuss the challenges of motherhood. Free. Register online. www.baycare.org.
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MASH 5K Spend a beautiful day at Coachman Park in downtown Clearwater to shop this popular annual arts and crafts show hosted by GFWC North Pinellas Women’s Club. Show proceeds benefit community scholarships, grants and other projects. Admission: $2 donation (kids younger than 12 free). Pets not allowed. www. gfwcnpwc.org
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Dec. 19, 6-10 p.m. 3rd Friday Music Series Shop, dine and dance as part of this monthly music series in downtown Safety Harbor. Browse arts and crafts and visit area food vendors while listening to music as part of this month’s Victorian Holiday theme. Free entry. www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
Free Family Event
Countdown to the holidays with Peg and her sidekick Cat! WEDU PBS and Glazer Children’s Museum invite you to enjoy an afternoon of fun with numbers and a special meet and greet with the stars of one of PBS KIDS’ newest shows PEG+CAT! Check out great PEG+CAT educational activities, games and videos at www.pbskids.org/peg. Attention Teachers! Visit florida.pbslearningmedia.org/collection/peg-cat to find PEG+CAT educator resources for your PreK-2 grade class. a t th e
Tuesday, December 2, 2-7 p.m. For information, visit glazermuseum.org or call (813) 443-3861. Remember, children must be accompanied by an adult and adults must be accompanied by a child.
Watch PEG+CAT weekdays at noon on WEDU+, a digital channel from WEDU PBS. (Antenna 3.4, Bright House 605, Verizon FiOS 476)
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Flu prevention Takes Center Stage Local efforts are under way to encourage healthy habits to avoid illness. Pasco County Parks and Libraries have teamed up with characters they developed, Nate and Wendy, to get the message out about flu prevention. “While a flu shot is the most effective measure against getting the flu, good prevention habits help reduce more than just the spread of flu,” says Kathleen Yeater, executive director of nursing at the Florida Department of Health in Pasco County. The school district, county government and health department are pushing out reminders to practice healthy habits for prevention, including the Nate & Wendy shows, which have been viewed by thousands to date and address a variety of topics. A recent episode focused on the importance of school children washing their hands and covering their mouths when they cough. The video is available for viewing at http://youtu.be/nPHV5mesjMY. But the message is the same for adults. “If you do catch the flu, it’s important that you stay home and fight the illness,” says Randy TeBeest, assistant county administrator for Public Safety and Administration. “We encourage our county employees not to spread the illness around by coming to work. Stay home, get better, then come back.” The team offers some suggestions for everyday actions that can be taken to prevent the spread of flu. Besides staying home when sick and covering the nose and mouth upon coughing or sneezing, avoid touching the eyes, nose and mouth, which can spread germs easily. In addition to washing hands often with soap and water, especially after coughing or sneezing, it is good practice to clean and disinfect frequently touched surfaces or objects at home, work or school. For more tips for healthy flu prevention habits, go to www.pasco.k12. fl.us/ssps/health.
Experience a Frontier Christmas Families can pack up the family and head back in time during this unique Christmas event at Dade Battlefield Historic State Park. Christmas on the Florida Frontier is 3-8 p.m. Dec. 6. This year’s event offers participants the opportunity to try a number of frontier skills, including making homemade toys, creating corn husk dolls and soap carvings, dipping candles and learning the art of punch tin crafts. Other activities include square dancing, singing carols, decorating a Christmas tree and listening to old-time music. Guests will get to sample holiday frontier treats and may purchase refreshments. Cost is $5 per vehicle (up to eight people). To take part in Christmas on the Florida Frontier activities, participants must meet a list of general requirements. These include being able to follow visual and/or verbal instructions independently, withstanding exposure to the outdoors for up to 2½ hours, traversing flat terrain (asphalt or firm and stable soil) and withstanding exposure to an enclosed, airconditioned building for up to 2½ hours. Dade Battlefield Historic State Park is a popular site for area visitors, offering scenic hiking, picnic areas, pavilions, nature trails, a visitor center and a museum, which houses a variety of historical artifacts. Events are scheduled at the park throughout the year with its best known, a reenactment of Dade’s Battle of 1835, set for Jan. 3-4.
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dates: Dec. 3, 10 and 17, 10-11 a.m. Wiregrass Rancher Kids Club Head to center court at the Shops at Wiregrass for Wednesday fun. My Gym leads activities (Dec. 3); Mr. Tommy leads sing-alongs (Dec. 10); and Drum Magic arrives (Dec. 17). Free. www.shopsatwiregrass.com
Dec. 5, 7 p.m. Magical Night Christmas Parade Pack up the lawn chairs and pick your spot along the route through downtown historic Dade City. Applications to join the parade are available online. www.dadecitychamber.org
Dec. 6, 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Fresh Market at Wiregrass Meet 50-plus vendors at this outdoor market. Shop for local, certified, organic, hydroponic and conventional produce, Florida grown plants, herbs and flowers and homemade foods. www.shopsatwiregrass.com
Dec. 6, 2-9 p.m. Zephyrhills Festival of the Lights Bring the whole family for live entertainment, a festive parade and dazzling light displays downtown. This year’s parade theme is How the Grinch Stole Christmas. www.mszi.org
Dec. 12-13, 11 a.m. - 2:30 p.m. Book Bazaar Browse gently used books and more at Hugh Embry Library in Zephyrhills. Many items priced at less than $3. Call 352-567-3576.
Dec. 14, 7 a.m. Annual Flapjack 5K and 1-Mile Family Fun Run This 21st annual event launches from the Land O’ Lakes Recreation Complex, promising family fun and fitness. www.centralpascochamber.com
Dec. 29-31, various times Dick’s Sporting Goods Tournament of Champions Watch talented high school lacrosse players from across the country and Canada compete in this national tournament at Wesley Chapel District Park. Cheer on favorites and enjoy the spirit of competition. www. ndplacrosse.com
IKEA Tampa
Kids’ Academy When school is out, get in on the fun at the IKEA Tampa Kids’ Academy! Featuring FREE activities, FREE meal and FREE IKEA Tampa Kids’ Academy t-shirt for kids under 12 years old who attend.* Kids can join each activity any time between 11-12pm or 5:30-6:30pm.
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Dec 22, 2014
Cookies, cookies everywhere! Bring your “little elves” in to decorate and devour their very own cookie.
Dec 23, 2014
Join us in the mattress studio (2nd Floor) for Story Time and see this year’s soft toys. All attendees will be entered into a drawing to win the storybook and one of this years’ toys!
Dec 29, 2014
Adorn an IKEA SAMLA box to keep your new toys organized.
Dec 30, 2014
Prepare for your New Year’s celebration. Decorate a party favor!
Jan 02, 2015
Decorate a RIBBA frame for your favorite New Year’s photo!
Jan 19, 2015
Celebrate MLK day! Hands down, this craft will bring us together!
Jan 20, 2015
Enjoy a sweet treat! Decorate and devour a delicious cupcake!
November 9th through January 3rd, For every soft toy you buy IKEA Foundation donates $1 to help children begin and stay in school. For more information, please visit IKEA-USA.com/Tampa or call 888-888-4532 1103 North 22nd Street | Tampa, FL 33605 *Meal, activity and t-shirt offer valid for children under 12 years old, while supplies last. No adult purchase necessary. Choose from 3 combo meals that are available from 11 am to 8 pm. One meal per child; dine-in only. All children must be accompanied by a parent or legal guardian. No groups please. One t-shirt per child, per 12 month period. Child must be present to get t-shirt and is encouraged to wear it at all IKEA Tampa Kids’ Academy events.
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Two New Area principals Named Superintendent Kathryn M. LeRoy and the Polk County School Board recently announced the appointments of two new principals in the area. During its October 28 School Board meeting, they named Dr. Leigh Anne Cooley as Principal of Bartow Middle School. Dr. Cooley began her education career as a teacher and Title I Specialist for the Talladega City School District from 1997 to 1999. She has taught at Bowdon High School in Georgia, Ohatchee High School in Alabama, Frank H. Peterson Academy & Technology in Jacksonville, Fla., Eagle’s Landing High School in Georgia and Collier County’s Immokalee High School and Golden Gate High School. Most recently, Dr. Cooley worked at Endeavor High School, New Beginnings Education Center, and Gateway High School, where she served as Assistant Principal of Curriculum and Instruction from 2011 to 2014. During the same board meeting, Superintendent LeRoy and the Polk County School Board also named Brian Andrews as Principal of Lawton Chiles Middle Academy. Andrews began his career as a staff counselor for United Cerebral Palsy of Suffolk County, Commack, N.Y., from 1985 to 1992. He previously worked as an advocate with Excel Alternatives and as a GED Program Instructor with Mid-Florida Tech. He served Orange County Public Schools from 1995 to 2009, including as an administrative dean and an assistant principal of instruction. Andrews was the Academic Dean/Testing Coordinator for Ridge Community High School from 2010 to 2012. He then became Assistant Principal of Curriculum for Jewett Middle Academy.
The Nutcracker Marches into Lakeland for the Holidays This month, Lakeland’s own professional dance company, the Florida Dance Theatre, brings its celebrated annual production of Tchaikovsky’s “The Nutcracker” to the stage of Branscomb Auditorium on the Florida Southern campus in Lakeland. Shows are scheduled for 7:30 p.m. Friday, Dec. 20 and 4:30 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 21. A holiday tradition for generations of families, the ballet tells the story of Clara and her magical journey with her beloved nutcracker prince through a world of life-sized dolls, colossal mice, and delicate snowflakes to the glorious Land of Sweets, home of the Sugar Plum Fairy. The timeless holiday classic features dynamic dancers from the local company in a breathtaking production which promises to feature colorful scenery, dazzling costumes, and entrancing choreography. As a special treat, children from the Lakeland community will be joining the professional dancers of the Florida Dance Theatre. Single tickets are available at the FFA Box Office for $18 adults and $9 students. For more information about this and other upcoming shows, go to www.FloridaDanceTheatre.org.
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dates: Through Jan. 4, various times Holiday Home Tour at Pinewood Estate Celebrate Christmas at Bok Tower Gardens as part of this 20th anniversary edition of the popular holiday tradition at the Lake Wales attraction. Families can tour the 20-room Mediterranean-style mansion. Tickets are $20 adults and $9 children ages 5-12. Children five and younger are free. www.boktowergardens. org
Nov. 29-30, Dec. 2-7, various times Elves Shelves Gift Shop Take the kids to this special secret holiday shop for children only at Polk Museum of Art in Lakeland. Children will be able to browse reasonably priced gift items available for purchase for family and friends. An Elves Shelves wrapping station is also available. Free admission. www.polkmuseumofart.org
Dec. 5-6, various times Orange Blossom BBQ Revue Stop by this first ever event to bring delicious barbecue and live music to the shores of Lake Wales. Evening features a Friday night BBQ kickoff party, a Florida BBQ Association sanctioned barbecue competition all day Saturday and a Florida Tastemaker’s Marketplace with artisans and vendors from across the state as well as live music from local and national talent. www.orangeblossombbq.com
Dec. 6, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. Carols in the Park Get a start on your holiday shopping at this unique event in Central Park in Winter Haven. Meet up with crafters from around the nation selling items such as stained glass, photographs, jewelry, quilts, soaps, plants and more. Listen to music from local schools and check out area food vendors. For more information, call 863-295-9422.
Dec. 20, 4-9 p.m. Derry Down Celebrates Concert Come out for a special concert celebrating the 50th year of the opening of the Derry Down venue with a fundraising concert for the Winter Haven historic musical landmark. Reserved seating is available at www.mainstreetwh.com.
Dec. 24, 1-3 p.m. Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical Relive the magic of the animated classic which celebrates 50 years since its TV debut with this entertaining adaptation to the stage at The Lakeland Center inside Youkey Theatre. Tickets start at $27.50. www.thelakelandcenter.com
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Noah and Nicole McDade, CARD Constituency Board members and Samantha Beland, USF Student and CARD Autism Champion student organization member
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Wenzel Tirheimer, MD, Florida Hospital Tampa, ER Medical Director Bruce Adams, Operations Manager, Robins & Morton Jerges Cardona, MD, Medical Director of Critical Care, Florida Hospital Tampa Joy Solomita, VP of Patient Care Services, CNO, Florida Hospital Tampa James Orlowski, MD, Chief of Staff, Florida Hospital Tampa Brian Adams, President & CEO, Florida Hospital Tampa Steven Lay, MD, President, Tampa Bay Emergency Physicians Paul Macheske, Associate Principal, Hunton Brady Architects at the Florida Hospital ER Ribbon Cutting Ceremony
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Akemi Sue Fisher and Sports Broadcaster Jenn Brown at the Mother of All Baby Showers at the Glazer Children’s Museum.
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James Ledbetter, PhD, Matthias Schueth, Rebecca Hamblin, PhD, Amaya Ramos, MD, Stephanie Eken, MD, at the Rogers Behavioral Health Grand Opening.
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High Risk Hope second annual Tot Trot held on November 15th at Gadsden Park in Tampa in correlation with World Prematurity Day. By bike, scooter, stroller or foot, over 700 Tot Trotters breezed through the 3K.
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Holiday Gift Market Co-Chairs Meg Bock, and Kristen Wilson with Junior League of Tampa president Lynette Russell with Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn at the annual Holiday Gift Market.
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Celebrating the Junior League of Tampa’s Holiday Gift Market Kick Off is Tanya Egger, Elizabeth Burkett, Sarah Kodadek, Gretchen Dominguez, Nicole Hubbard, Marlo Cervi, Heather Pavliga. Front-Danielle Post, Selena Ward, Kelly Lastra, Marlene Maseman
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Walkers from the High Risk Hope Tot Trot, Claire Barrow, Mariebelle Abrunzo, Mackenzie Mueller and Marley Abrunzo.
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Jay Kennedy, Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn, Ronna Kennedy, Charlie Kennedy, Joseph Kennedy & Alex Kennedy at the ground breaking ceremony for the new aquatic center at the South Tampa Family YMCA.
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Students from Corbett Prepatory School of IDS participated in community service by distributing food to local food banks just in time for the holidays.
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December Events
Ties and Tennis Shoes 5K Gala
Dec. 5, 6:30-10 p.m. Dress grown-up but play like a kid by pairing your evening look with sneakers for this Pinellas Education Foundation gala at Tropicana Field in St. Petersburg. Enjoy delicious cuisine, browse the Tis the Season Shoppes, visit the craft beer table, bid in a silent auction and challenge friends to a jousting duel, table tennis, baseball, slap shot hockey or basketball. Proceeds benefit the Foundation’s Take Stock in Children program. www.pinellaseducation.org Moms
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e v e n t s & f e s t i va l s Imagination playground
All Month Check out MOSI’s newest interactive experience, which lets kids engineer everything from robots to cities using cubes, bricks, cogs, curves and cylinders. Experience is included with general admission and free for MOSI members. www.mosi.org 4 & Older
MoSI Groupon Deal
Explore the universe planetarium Show
Dec. 5 and 12, 7 p.m. and 8:15 p.m. Get lost in the stars as part of this weekly Friday night activity at the SPC Gibbs. Guests of all ages can explore the night sky by visiting the “star theater,” with shows held twice every Friday night when classes are in session. Show admission is free. www.spcollege. edu/planetarium 6 & Older
Through Dec. 19 Buy a voucher online at Groupon and save 43% off MOSI general admission. Offer includes entry to all exhibition galleries, an IMAX documentary, planetarium show and 3D Printing the Future, the Exhibition. Purchase through Dec. 19. Everyone
Hillsborough Choice Expo
Merry Christmas, Charlie Brown
Tasty Traditions Week
Through Jan. 11 See this seasonal exhibit on display at the Tampa Bay History Center. The traveling exhibition features reproduction comic strips, quotes by creator Charles Schulz, photos from his boyhood and special artifacts commemorating the Peanuts comic strip’s nearly 50-year history. www.tampabayhistorycenter.org Everyone
Children's Board Free Tuesday
Dec. 2, 2-7 p.m. Head to Glazer Children’s Museum with the kids as part of this free admission promotion during designated hours. Explore the museum’s exhibits and meet up with interesting guest characters. Adults must be accompanied by a child and vice versa. www. glazermuseum.org Everyone
St. petersburg power and Sailboat Show
Dec. 4-7, various times Check out the largest in-water boat show on the Gulf Coast at this show at the Duke Center for the Arts Mahaffey Theater Yacht Basin and Albert Whitted Park in St. Petersburg. Features an impressive selection of power boats and sailboats. Admission: $14 at the gate and $12 online. Kids are free. www.showmanagement. com Everyone
World AIDS Day
Dec. 5, noon – 4 p.m. Stop by Williams Park in downtown St. Petersburg for this annual health fair that offers AIDS prevention education and services, HIV and Hepatitis testing, flu shots and general health screenings. Free. Everyone
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Dec. 12, 3-7:30 p.m. Get questions answered and take home valuable school choice information during this event at the Florida State Fairgrounds in Tampa. Free entry. www. sdhc.k12.fl.us Everyone
Dec. 21-31, various times Connect children to a variety of cultures through the food of the holidays at this annual cooking program at Glazer Children’s Museum in Tampa. Explore traditions from around the world through recipes that can be made at home. www.glazermuseum.org Everyone
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Sponsored by Early Autism Project www.EAPTampa.com
Free Home School Social Skills Group
Dec. 1, 8, 15, 22 and 29, 11 a.m. - noon Homeschooled students in grades 2-5 can participate in this free, interactive weekly social skills group offered by Hammond Psychology. Sign up online or call 813-5673253. www.hammondpsychology.com 7-10
Spice It up for Autism
Dec. 6, 11 a.m. - 2 p.m. Help taste and judge chili from area cooks at this benefit hosted by the Clearwater Y. Event raises money for Camp COAST (Children on the Autism Spectrum Together), a summer day camp. Tickets: $5 per person and $20 per family of 6. www.suncoastymca.org Everyone
Special Needs presents polar Express
Dec. 7, 2:30 p.m. Those of all ages and special needs are welcome to this family friendly viewing at Van Dyke Church in Lutz.. Seating begins at 2:15 p.m. Free admission. www. vandyke.org Everyone
Winter Camp Connect at Glazer Children's Museum Dec. 22-23, 29-30, Jan. 2 Sign up the kids for fun, hands-on educational camps through the Glazer Children’s Museum in partnership with the Y. Morning and afternoon sessions available. Students in grades K-1 and 2-4 welcomed. www. glazermuseum.org 5-9
Winter Break Camps at MoSI
Dec. 22 - Jan. 3, various times Enroll kids who love science, nature and technology in unique camps at Tampa’s MOSI. Kids can learn about the world around them and hone their sleuthing skills as junior explorers. www.mosi.org 5 & Older
outback Bowl Beach Day
Dec. 30, 11 a.m. - 4 p.m. Spend the day at the beach off Hilton Clearwater Beach as part of the Outback Bowl celebration. Join visiting players, marching bands and cheerleaders for a fun day of live music, skydivers, contests and a tugof-war. www.outbackbowl.com Everyone
ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus Xtreme
Dec. 30, 11 a.m. - 4 p.m. Experience a mesmerizing and thrilling day under the Big Top as the circus arrives at Tampa’s Amalie Arena. Tickets start at $16. www.amaliearena.com Everyone
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a r t Breakfast with Dali for Families
Dec. 6, 9:30-11:30 a.m. Attend this monthly event that introduces the artist and his museum to families with children ages 6-12. Morning includes an interactive tour led by a museum docent followed by a Spanish-themed breakfast buffet and hands-on activities. This month, guests also meet awardwinning author Ella Dayton-Yaeger (The Spy). www. thedali.org. 6-12
$5 Admission Weekend
Dec. 6-7, various times Stop by any of the Morean art museum locations, including the Chihuly Collection, Morean Glass Studio & Hot Shop, Morean Center for Clay and the Morean Arts Center during this special weekend-long promotion and pay just $5 admission to see them all. www. moreanartscenter.org Everyone
While great care was taken in compiling the calendar, it’s always best to phone ahead to confirm information.
Kids, Cocoa and Crafts
Dec. 6, 13 and 27, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. Take the kids to the Tampa Bay History Center to create a unique Peanuts-themed holiday craft while celebrating the season and the center’s Merry Christmas, Charlie Brown exhibit. A fun scavenger hunt guides visitors through the galleries to holiday crafting fun and a cup of hot cocoa. www.tampabayhistorycenter.org 6 & Older
latest version of the tale of how lives change when this bubbly young girl and a wealthy and connected businessman cross paths stars Jamie Foxx and Cameron Diaz. Running time: 118 minutes. Rated PG.
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Night at the Museum: Secret of the Tomb
Opens Dec. 19 Catch up with your favorite museum security guard as he embarks on a new adventure that brings favorite characters back to life. Film stars Ben Stiller, Robin Williams and Owen Wilson. Rated PG. 8 & Older
music, and hear favorites like The Music of the Night and Masquerade. www.strazcenter.org 12 & Older
The Wizard of oz
Dec. 20, 1 & 5 p.m. Travel the Yellow Brick Road to meet up with Dorothy and friends at this production at Hillsborough Community College Theatre Ybor Campus. Tickets, available online at www. mjpaa.com, start at $15. Everyone
music & comedy Daryl Hall and John oates
t h e at e r & d a n c e Laughter on the 23rd Floor
film The Hero of Color City
Through Dec. 14, various times Stop by the writer’s room during TV’s golden era to see comedy legends hard at work in this play by Neil Simon at American Stage in St. Petersburg. Contains adult language. www.americanstage.org Moms & Dads
Available Dec. 2 Bring home this animated, imaginative story of a magical Dirty Dancing - The Classic Story on Stage box of crayons. Features the voices of Owen Wilson, Dec. 2-7, various times Christina Ricci, Wayne Brady and Craig Ferguson. 4 & Relive the passion, music, and dancing when the 80s Older hit arrives at the Straz. Production features many songs from the film soundtrack, including Hungry 40 Weeks Eyes, Do You Love Me? and (I’ve Had) The Time of My Dec. 4, 7 p.m. Life. www.strazcenter.org 12 & Older See the first unscripted documentary to answer just about every question about pregnancy when it debuts locally at AMC Veterans 24 and IMAX in Tampa. www.40weeksthemovie.com Moms & Dads
Holiday Classic Movie Series
Dec. 7, 14, 19-21, 28, various times Usher in the season with festive flicks at Tampa Theatre. Check out Holiday Inn (Dec. 7); White Christmas (Dec. 14); It’s a Wonderful Life (Dec. 19-21); and in a special online campaign, local moviegoers can vote as part of Fans Pick the Classic to run Dec. 28. Tickets: $10 adults and $8 children and members. www.tampatheatre.org
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Grumpy Cat's Worst Christmas Ever
Available Dec. 16 One of the most famous Internet cats of all time makes her feature film debut and arrives on DVD this month. Aubrey Plaza voices the starring role. Rated TV-PG. 8 &
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Annie
Opens Dec. 19 Meet Annie, a happy foster kid who finds ways to make it through life with a smile despite a hard knock life. This
Men Are From Mars, Women Are From venus
Dec. 11-13, various times Catch this one-man show by Peter Story that combines theater and stand-up based on the John Gray book when it appears onstage at the Straz. Show is built upon a series of sexy and funny vignettes about everything from dating to marriage. Mature audiences only. www.strazcenter.org Moms & Dads
Next Generation Ballet's Nutcracker
Dec. 13-14, various times Watch a cast of nearly 175 dancers, gymnasts and guest artists as well as talented members of the award-winning dance company as part of this festive production at the Straz. www.strazcenter.org
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The phantom of the opera
Dec. 17 – Jan. 4, various times See the breathtaking production when it returns to Tampa’s Straz with new scenic design and choreography. Get lost in the haunting romance and
Dec. 3, 8 p.m. Sing along to classics by the recent Rock Hall of Fame inductees when they visit Ruth Eckerd Hall in Clearwater. The pop duo will perform number one songs such as Rich Girl, Private Eyes, and Maneater. Tickets: $49.50-$175. www. rutheckerdhall.com 10 & Older
Yo Gabba Gabba! Live!
Dec. 5, 3 p.m. and 6 p.m. Back by popular demand with an all-new show, this unique rock concert for kids and their parents at Ruth Eckerd Hall features DJ Lance Rock and the Gabba Gang and beat master Biz Markie. Tickets: $26, $36 and $46. www.rutheckerdhall.com
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Colors of Christmas
Dec. 9, 7:30 p.m. Enjoy an evening of holiday entertainment as Ruben Studdard, Peabo Bryson, Jennifer Holliday and Taylor Dayne visit the Mahaffey Theater in St. Petersburg. Tickets: $49.50-$79.50. www.themahaffey.com Everyone
The Black Keys
Dec. 16, 8 p.m. Experience the gritty and soulful rock sound of this duo when their Turn Blue World Tour stops at Amalie Arena in downtown Tampa. Tickets: $35-$75. www.amaliearena.com 12 & Older
Mix 100.7 Mistletoe Show
Dec. 19, 7:30 p.m. Train, Matt Nathanson and Mary Lambert take the stage at St. Pete’s Mahaffey Theater. Tickets: $35, $45, $65 and $159. www. themahaffey.com 10 & Older
Fleetwood Mac
Dec. 20, 8 p.m. The gang is back together for the first time in 16 years and return to Amalie Arena in Tampa. Hear rock classics like Go Your Own Way. Tickets start at $46.25. www.amaliearena.com
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93.3 FLZ's Jingle Ball 2014
Dec. 22, 7:30 p.m. Demi Lovato, Pharrell, Jason Derulo, Meghan Trainor, Calvin Harris, Jessie J and more hit the Amalie Arena stage to benefit The Ryan Seacrest Foundation. Tickets: $40-$150. www. amaliearena.com 10 & Older
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Petersburg and get a little help during the busy holiday season. Guests also can purchase a dove in memory of a loved one. Proceeds benefit the Suncoast Hospice Foundation. www.suncoasthospicefoundation.org
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Nights of Shimmering Lights
Nov. 29 – Dec. 30, various times Take a drive through this dazzling holiday light show off State Road 60 in Dover. Cost: $15 per car Monday through Wednesday and $20 Thursday through Sunday. www.nightsofshimmeringlights.com Everyone
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Christmas Couples Silver Jewelry Making Class
All month Create sterling silver jewelry at Singing Stone Gallery in Ybor City. Participants get to design and create their jewelry under the guidance of a professional jeweler. www.singingstoneonline.com Moms & Dads
Holiday Gift Drive
Through Dec. 4 A Kid’s Place will fulfill specific wishes provided by partner agencies serving foster children, families and teens aging out of the foster care system. Go online to make a donation for this year’s drive. www. akidsplacetb.org Everyone
Mickey's very Merry Christmas party
Through Dec. 19 Enjoy live entertainment, spectacular fireworks and a holly jolly parade at this festive winter celebration with Mickey and friends at Walt Disney World’s Magic Kingdom in Orlando. www.disneyworld.disney. go.com 4 & Older
Ice palace featuring Disney's Frozen at International plaza
Through Dec. 24 Experience a winter wonderland that celebrates the release of the Disney Frozen Sing-Along Edition on DVD and Digital HD. The Ice Palace will feature elements from the animated film as well as falling snow, a light show and other interactive activities. Guests end their journey with a visit to Santa and a special book. Free. www.shopinternationalplaza.com
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Symphony in Lights
Through Dec. 31, 6-9 p.m. Stop by The Shops at Wiregrass for an amazing holiday light show choreographed to the holiday music of the Trans-Siberian Orchestra. Admire a 55-foot trimmed tree as you watch over 25,000 lights on the hour at Center Court. Free. www. shopsatwiregrass.com Everyone
SeaWorld's Christmas Celebration
Through Dec. 31, various times Enjoy carols in the air, a sparkling Sea of Trees and skaters dancing on ice as part of SeaWorld’s annual
Christmas Celebration. Holiday festivities are included with park admission. www.seaworld.com/orlando Everyone
Christmas Town at Busch Gardens Tampa
Through Dec. 31, various times Stroll through Tampa’s winter wonderland and take in the sounds, sights and flavors of the season for this nighttime event — now included with admission. Experience a variety of holiday fun. www.buschgardens.com Everyone
Mason Dixon's Christmas Wish Fund
Through Dec. 31 Make the season brighter for needy families in one of three ways. Bring a gift to Parks Fiat; get a coupon book at the Shops at Wiregrass (guest services) for a $5 donation; or make a donation to a local Florida Central Credit Union to the fund’s charitable account. www. masondixonchristmaswishfund.com Everyone
Ice at Gaylord palms
Through Jan. 4, various times Join Clara and her Nutcracker Prince for a magical adventure in more than 2 million pounds of hand-carved ice sculptures and four ice slides at Gaylord Palms Resort in Orlando. Watch a carver create sculptures before your eyes and experience a full nativity as part of this unique Christmas tradition. www.christmasatgaylordpalms.com
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Tampa's Downtown on Ice
Through Jan. 4, various times Skate at Curtis Hixon Waterfront Park in the bay area’s only outdoor ice skating rink. Tickets: $10 for 90 minutes (includes skate rental). www.tampasdowntownonice.com
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Gifted Moonlight Market at Hyde park village Nov. 28, Dec. 5, 12 and 19, 5-9 p.m. Take a stroll through Hyde Park Village and tackle some holiday gift shopping. Meet vendors offering gourmet food, accessories, clothing, furniture and gift items. Free admission and parking. www.hydeparkvillage.com
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Suncoast Hospice Gift Wrapping Nov. 28 – Dec. 24, 10 a.m. – 9 p.m. Visit the Suncoast Hospice Gift Wrap at Westfield Countryside in Clearwater or Tyrone Square Mall in St.
Dec. 1-23, 10 a.m. – 8 p.m. Travel back in time at the Henry B. Plant Museum at the University of Tampa. Visit 14 exhibit rooms decorated in delicate Victorian holiday decor while sipping cider and nibbling cookies. Proceeds fund preservation efforts. www.plantmuseum.com 4 & Older
rough riders Teddy Bear roundup Dec. 1-27, various times Bring a new teddy bear to MOSI to donate and receive a child’s general admission ticket for free. www.mosi. org Everyone
Light up the Night Celebration
Dec. 4, 6:30 p.m. Attend a festive Christmas party for donors and friends of the St. Anthony’s Hospital Foundation at the St. Petersburg hospital. Enjoy desserts, libations, caroling and the ceremonial lighting of the tree on the hospital’s roof. www.stanthonysfoundation.org Moms & Dads
Home Is Where the Heart Is Holiday Stroll
Dec. 5 Join South Tampa residents as they open their homes for an unforgettable night of festivities, food and holiday merriment as part of a special Kids of Tampa Bay fundraiser. Become a sponsor and improve the lives of area foster children this holiday season. Individual tickets start at $102.75. www.akidsplacetb.org Moms
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Tampa's Tree Lighting
Dec. 5, 6-10 p.m. Kick off the holiday season at Curtis Hixon Waterfront Park with an evening of entertainment, a Christmas market, holiday treats and more. www. friendsoftamparec.org Everyone
Christmas in the Country
Dec. 6, 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. Experience a 19th century, Old Florida Christmas at Cracker Country at the Florida State Fairgrounds in Tampa. Stroll through seasonal decor, listen to music and tour a train depot, general store and blacksmith shop. Create a holiday keepsake and help with chores like churning butter. Admission is $7 adults and $6 seniors and children ages 6-12. Children 5 and younger are free. www.crackercountry.org Everyone
Winter Blast
Dec. 6, 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. Bring the family for a winter wonderland of fun at
Tampa Community Hospital. See ice sculptures and experience snow and sledding. Event also features food trucks, music and games. Free admission. www. tampacommunityhospital.com Everyone
Santa Fest & Holiday parade
Dec. 6, 11 a.m. – 4 p.m. Take in a holiday parade and explore the winter wonderland at Curtis Hixon Waterfront Park. Play interactive games, make and take holiday crafts and meet Santa. www.friendsoftamparec.org Everyone
The Nutcracker Ballet
Dec. 6, 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Catch this holiday classic presented by the Tampa Bay Triple Threat Theatre performed at the University of South Florida. The production features professional guest artists and talented young artists from the community. Tickets start at $20. www.mjpaa.com. Everyone
Snow Fest
Dec. 6, 4-9 p.m. Play in the snow at Safety Harbor City Park. Night includes live entertainment, carnival games, food, arts and crafts and snow activities for all ages. Purchase $5 wristband for unlimited rides. General admission: $1. Proceeds benefit the Elena Trest Foundation. Call 727210-1019. Everyone
Snowflake Swirl
Dec. 6, 6-8:30 p.m. Members can attend the Glazer Children’s Museum’s annual winter party and enjoy holiday desserts, photos with Santa, crafts and music. Tickets: $5. www. glazermuseum.org Everyone
Christmastime Family Fun Fest
Dec. 6, 7-8:45 p.m. Celebrate the season with the whole family at this popular annual event hosted by Van Dyke Church in Lutz. Evening includes Christmas-themed carnival games, bounce house, cookie decorating, free food and a visit from Santa. Free admission. www.vandyke.org Everyone
Wild Wonderland
Dec. 6, 12-14, 18-23, 26-30, 6:30-10 p.m. Take part in the seasonal cheer at Tampa’s Lowry Park Zoo. Meet real reindeer and stop by to see the penguins, Santa, animated holiday displays and more than a million twinkling lights. www.lowryparkzoo.org Everyone
Santa in the park & Skating
Dec. 6-7, 11-14, 18-23, various times Visit Santa in the Park and take to the simulated ice rink at this event sponsored by St. Petersburg Parks and Recreation in N. Straub Park in St. Pete. Skating is $5 for 30-minute sessions. Santa visits are free. www. stpeteparksrec.org Everyone
Santa's $5 Day at MoSI
Dec. 7 Check out all of the exhibit galleries and the Kids In Charge! science center. Admission also includes entrance to an IMAX DOME Theatre film. www.mosi.org
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Nutcracker Tea Dec. 7, 11 a.m. - 1 p.m.
Experience the magical tale of Clara and the Nutcracker Prince in a private setting while enjoying tea service and finger foods at the Glazer Children’s Museum in Tampa. Meet members of the Next Generation Ballet. Watch children learn basic moves from the dancers. Cost: $20 general admission and $15 members. www. glazermuseum.org Everyone
Holidays Around the World Concert
Dec. 10, 6:30 p.m. Hear students from the vocal and instrumental music programs at the Patel Conservatory as they showcase their talent at Jaeb Theater inside the Straz. Holiday desserts and treats are included. Tickets: $25. www. strazcenter.org Everyone
presents for primates
Dec. 12, 11 a.m. See the primates holiday celebration as they open gifts. Included with admission to Tampa’s Lowry Park Zoo. www.lowryparkzoo.com Everyone
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Dec. 13, 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. Check off a few more items on your shopping list at this holiday bazaar at The Studio@620 in downtown St. Pete. Browse leather work, jewelry, bath products, dolls and other gift items made by local artists. Free admission. www.craftheroes.com Everyone
pet photos with Santa
Dec. 13, 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. Stop by the Humane Society of Tampa Bay with your children and four-legged kids for professional photos by Norman Mark. Cost: $10. The children can create their own pet stockings and parents can bring the treats and toys to stuff them. www.humanesocietytampa.org
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Illuminated Boat parade
Dec. 13, 6 p.m. Pick out a great viewing spot at Vinoy Park for this popular boat parade. Proceeds support Rotary Club of St. Petersburg and its community efforts. Free admission. www.stpeteboatparade.org Everyone
Memorial Holiday Boat parade
Dec. 13, 6:30 p.m. Watch decorated boats assemble in Mandalay Channel off Clearwater Beach as the parade weaves its way to Coachman Park in Clearwater. No parade entry fee. Prizes awarded to the best decorated boats. Those who wish to participate should call 727-215-5730. Everyone
Trans-Siberian orchestra: The Christmas Attic
Dec. 13, 3 p.m. and 8 p.m. Listen to the haunting sounds of this exciting group of performers as they bring their latest festive rock opera to the live stage for the first time as part of their Winter Tour 2014, visiting Amalie Arena in downtown Tampa. Tickets: $30-$69. www.amaliearena.com Everyone
A Christmas Carol
Dec. 15, 7:30 p.m. Get enchanted by the timeless Dickens’ tale at Largo
Cultural Center as veteran Broadway actors bring Ebenezer Scrooge and the ghosts of Christmas Past, Present and Future to the stage. Tickets: $29.50$44.50. www.largoarts.com Everyone
The Family Blessing
Dec. 20-21, various times Watch Artz 4 Life Academy take the stage for this unique take on the Tchaikovsky seasonal classic for two shows at Mahaffey Theater in St. Petersburg. Tickets: $17-$37. www.themahaffey.com Everyone
SantaLand Diaries
Dec. 22-28, various times Chuckle along to this hilarious David Sedaris piece from the perspective of a Macy’s SantaLand helper elf, returning to American Stage in St. Pete. Tickets: $19. Mature audiences only. www.americanstage.org
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Noon Year's Eve
Dec. 31, 9:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Chime in the new year at Tampa’s Lowry Park Zoo for a midday celebration. Party includes games, arts and crafts and live entertainment. Guests will pull out the noisemakers at noon for a 2015 juice toast. Included with zoo admission. www.lowryparkzoo. com Everyone
Aqua-Eve New Year's Celebration
Dec. 31, 9 p.m. – 1 a.m. Bring in 2015 with a splash at this celebration hosted by the Florida Aquarium. Enjoy live entertainment, complimentary food, beer and wine and fireworks. www.flaquarium.org Date Night
First Night 2015
Dec. 31, 9 p.m. – 5 a.m. Join in the festivities as downtown St. Petersburg celebrates the start of 2015. Families can celebrate the New Year together amid lights, music, dance, games, fire, bubbles, stories, creative fun and fireworks. www.firstnightstpete.com Everyone
Kid's New Year's Eve
Dec. 31 Bring the family for a kid friendly celebration as the giant LEGO brick drops at 7 p.m. at LEGOLAND Florida. Catch a dance party and stay for the fireworks. http:// florida.legoland.com Everyone
New Year's Eve at SeaWorld
Dec. 31 Celebrate a special connection to the sea, sea life and the world all of us share during this musical celebration and fireworks display to usher in 2015. Included with admission. www.seaworld.com
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New Year's Eve at Busch Gardens
Dec. 31 Join in for the ultimate New Year’s party with rides rolling throughout the evening, DJs pumping music throughout the park and fireworks at midnight. Included with admission. www.buschgardens.com
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Now Registering! EC3-8th Grade
Now Registering! EC3-8th Grade
Only Middle Years IB Programme in Pasco County!
Only Middle Years IB Programme in Pasco County!
Call now to schedule a day for your child to experience the life of a BLCS student. Call: 727-862-6981 Serving 3 year olds through 8th grade Scholarship opportunities are available!
Call now to schedule a day for your child to experience the life of a BLCS student. Call: 727-862-6981 Serving 3 year olds through 8th grade Scholarship opportunities are available!
Bishop Larkin, an IB Candidate School
Bishop Larkin, an IB Candidate School
8408 Monarch Drive , Port Richey, FL 34668
8408 Monarch Drive , Port Richey, FL 34668
“Act justly, love tenderly, walk humbly”
“Act justly, love tenderly, walk humbly”
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