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8 GIRLS ESCAPE Great getaway to Naples
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25 ARE WE HAVING FUN YET Hot birthday party tips
5 LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
every month
11 RUNNING AWAY Reconnecting with oneself
32 LETTER TO MOM Letting her know you appreciate her
13 SUMMER PROGRAM GUIDE Dance to sports, everything is here
35 RIDING SAFELY Tips on bike helmets
27 NORTH HILLSBOROUGH NEWS 29 SOUTH HILLSBOROUGH NEWS 37 NORTH PINELLAS NEWS 39 SOUTH PINELLAS NEWS
22 PARTY GUIDE All you need to plan a great party
41 PASCO NEWS 43 AROUND TOWN
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44 CALENDAR OF EVENTS 46 FAMILY GUIDE
On the cover: Mei Lin Maseman of South Tampa. She is wearing Tea Collection from Seedlings.
Dear Mom, I remember how you were teaching me to swim and you kept secretly backing up. The first day of school that you wiped my tears and nudged me into my classroom-and hid around the corner to make sure I was okay (I knew you were there.). There was the day after a break up you insisted that I go to school. I recall the time you steadfastly refused to bring me my lunch after I had forgotten it for the fourth time. I laugh as I remember the week I wanted to quit track and you insisted that I finish the season. That Spring when I was ready to ditch my dance date for “Mr. It” and you wouldn’t let me. The times I wanted to stay out just as late as some others and you said no. I remember that my rather small clothing budget didn’t allow for $60 t-shirts.
Photography by: Bob Thompson Hair and Makeup: Horacio Espinosa and Estrella Gonzalez of Asonipse Spa & Salon.
I laugh as I recall the times you placed a stuffed crab in our pants-and your own- when we were grumpy. The times you said “I am sorry” when you lost your temper. I can still see the steps you made us sit on while holding hands and saying, “Sisters forever. Sisters forever. Sisters forever. “after a fight. You placed the computer in the kitchen, asked all those never ending questions about my friends and insisted on taking down the information of those driving me. Making me leave notes about where I was going, when I would be home and who I was with. Making me invite Suzy over when no one else liked her. There was the punishment for arriving two minutes after curfew. There were the many thank you notes you insisted that I write. We were constantly reminded of the yes ma’ms and no sirs to adults all while looking them in the eye when speaking. You seemed to know just when I was hesitating to tell the truth and you would assure me that telling the truth is often less painful in the end than telling a lie. Making me apologize to the neighbor for picking all of her flowers and insisting on restitution-raking her entire yard. Making me cut blades of grass in the heat with scissors when you knew I had a hangover.
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Angela L. Ardolino Editor-In-Chief Lisa A. Metzker Managing Editor Diana Miklowski Copy Editor Contributing Writers Tim Fath Sandra Parrish Christie Ardolino Kat Sidler Lisa Black PJ Goetz Joezette Hite Amy Gall Lauren Hoyt Elyse Cohen Graphic Artist Susan Margolis Advertising & Marketing Director Todd A. Varde Account Executive Candace Street Account Executive
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Wow, a year has flown by for us already! It has been 12 months since the first issue of Tampa Bay Parenting Magazine was printed. We have enjoyed hearing the wonderful responses from our readers as we continue to grow. I also want to thank our fantastic advertisers for believing in us and for continuing to provide great products and services to our readers. And to all of the mom’s keep up the good work! It may seem at times like a thankless job, but when your child grows into a happy, healthy, independent person you will be rewarded for your efforts. You shape our future and it is greatly appreciated. Happy Mother’s Day and we look forward to another amazing year! Please feel free to write us if there is anything you would like to see in the magazine. We value your feedback.
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Me pictured with the Easter Bunny at The Florida Aquarium. As a small child, he’s either: a) the cutest, neatest thing ever; or b) big and scary bunny monster!
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everything 4 the baby baby show & expo
Everything changed the moment you found out. you only have one chance to do it right! So Start Today!
sunday, may 18, 12-4pm Quorum Hotel - Tampa 700 N.Westshore Blvd.
Informative speaker sessions 4D ultrasounds performed onsite by LOOK WHO’S KICKIN Free mommy massages by All About M.E. - Mobile Spa Parties Drawings every 1/2 hour for thousands of dollars worth of prizes Nursing and diaper changing station by Babies R Us! Photographers, natural childbirth instrructors, community resources, first aid/cpr info, financial professionals, babymoon planners, fitness experts, cord blood banking, consignment & retail stores, mom pampering, medical & health information, strollers & baby gear, toys, furniture, play sets, belly casting, unique gifts and much, much more!
For more info or to Purchase tickets: www.Everything4TheBaby.com Online tickets - $10 At the Door - $12
A portion of the proceeds will go to the Children’s Cancer Center www.childrenscancercenter.org
Some exhibtors include: Save a Life Today, ViaCord, A Running Stroller, Mary Kay Cosmetics, Childrens Cancer Center, Child Abuse Council, Family Support & Resource Center, Zero Exposure Project, Babies R Us, Look Who's Kickin’, Jessica Dana Studios, American Red Cross, Baby’s First Impressions, All About M.E. Mobile Spa Parties, Cottontail Baby, The Bradley Method, Arbonne International, Touched By An Angel, Jessica Adkins Photography, Infant Swimming Resource, Yoga Waves Tampa, Mended Little Hearts, Seedlings, Ashleigh Faye Photography, Totally Chiropractic, Le Leche League,Vemma, Aging Backwards, Born To Shop, Baby Bottoms
Girls Escape
Grab your mom or some girlfriends and head to Naples for a weekend of great food, shopping, art and spa treatments
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BY SANDY PARRISH
eed a getaway weekend with the girls? You deserve it and you can’t find more fun in the sun than wandering down beautiful Fifth Avenue in downtown Naples. It’s only a couple of hours to drive from the Tampa Bay area, so gather up a gaggle of girlfriends, or your mom, and head out for a weekend away! Visit the beautiful Mediterranean inspired Inn on Fifth, a luxurious boutique inn whose doors open onto the bustling main street of Old Naples. Nestled into a quaint and charming avenue known as Florida’s Rodeo Drive, the street is lined with upscale shops, art galleries and fine restaurants. The Inn’s prime location allows you to surrender your car keys to the valet and forget about driving again until checkout time. Once a prominent Fifth Avenue Bank Building, the Inn was renovated into a boutique hotel in 1998. Designed in the spirit of popular 1920’s Palm Beach architect Addison Mizener, the Inn’s Mediterranean archways are a delight to the senses. Many of the elegantly appointed rooms offer a terrace, outfitted with comfortable rattan rocking chairs, so when it’s time for a shopping break, you can kick back with a glass of wine and get a bird’s eye view of Fifth Avenue from your balcony. For you fitness buffs, the hotel offers a state of the art fitness center along with a beautiful pool and waterfall Jacuzzi located on the 2nd floor deck. The Inn offers just 87 rooms and suites, making your stay feel much more intimate and personal than the usual large chain experience. Now for the best part, The Spa on Fifth is located on the third floor of the hotel. This day spa offers a tranquil Asian feel with babbling water fountains, grass cloth lined walls and delicate bamboo beaded curtains. With subtle lighting and soft décor, your relaxation experience begins the moment you enter the spa. Each treatment room is luxuriously decorated, creating a comfortable space in which to relax and renew. They offer dozens of treatment options, but I would highly recommend the Restore Package- the sublime combination of a 90 minute therapeutic massage and a 90 minute facial. Trust me. This is a very good way to spend 3 hours of your precious vacation time.
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The Inn on Fifth 699 5th Avenue South
McCabe’s Irish Pub & Grill 699 Fifth Ave. S.
888-403-8778 www.innonfifth.com
239-403-7170
The Spa on Fifth 699 5th Avenue South
Sugden Community Theatre 701 5th Avenue South
239-280-2777 www.spaonfifth.com
239- 434-7340 www.naplesplayers.com
To get started, ask for a glass of wine and go relax in the steam room for a few minutes to warm up your muscles before your treatments. Dolores Kastler, LMT, gives a wonderful therapeutic massage which can be adjusted to a soft or firm touch, depending on your personal preference. The treatment consists of an hour and half massage using warm lavender oil, with exquisite attention to every sore and tired muscle you may have. I have never nodded off during a massage, and I did just that a few times during this one. By the way, this is the highest possible compliment I could pay Dolores. Just when you think it can’t get any better, your body is draped with hot steaming towels - an incredible sensation. Karla Bradis LMT, Esthetician, and CRT Specialist, provided the incredible Seaweed facial treatments. Each facial comes with a custom assessment of your skin’s condition, gentle cleansing, steaming and extractions, a custom mask, herbal oil massage, vitamin C and E serum and oxygen treatment all designed specifically for your particular skin type. All of the products used are derived from the Dead Sea mineral bed that has documented health benefits dating back for centuries. Karla also includes a CRT (Cranial Release Technique) in her treatments. This incredible stretch delivers an advanced cranial unwinding to eliminate stress and restore the nervous and skeletal systems. After being massaged, buffed and pampered for what seemed like days, Karla performed a gentle hand and foot reflexology massage to top off a perfect afternoon spent at the spa. Now that you are perfectly relaxed, it’s time to see the sights. Since the Inn is located just a few blocks from the best beaches in Naples, you can take a leisurely stroll towards the beach, passing another wonderful shopping and restaurant mecca on 3rd Street South. This quaint area is also loaded with shops, galleries and more fine restaurants. Check out the amazing windmill artwork across the street from the shops. You will be transfixed watching the wind create the illusion of blooming flowers and kaleidoscopes.
Vergina Restaurant 700 Fifth Ave S.
Kilwin’s 743 5th Avenue South
239 659 7008 www.verginarestaurant.com
239-261-9898 www.kilwins.com
The Weatherburn Gallery 452 Bayfront Place
Tommy Bahama’s Tropical Cafe 1220 3rd Street South
239.263.8008 www.weatherburn.com
239-643-6889 www.tommybahama.com
Before heading down to the beach, it’s worth a detour for lunch at Tommy Bahama’s Restaurant on 3rd Street to try the Sea Scallop Sliders and enjoy some live music. In a nutshell, this appetizer consists of two grilled jumbo sea scallops nestled inside miniature buns, and topped with asian slaw, roma tomatoes, fresh basil, chipolte aioli and crispy tobacco onions. Incredible. Another short walk and you are at the beach. Luckily, since we are pretty spoiled by our own Gulf beaches and their pristine confectionery sugar sand, Naples beaches do not disappoint, being every bit as beautiful as our own. Now for the Naples nightlife. If you are a theater buff, you’ll be happy to find that the Inn is located adjacent to the beautiful Sugden Community Theater, home to the Naples tbparenting.com
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Players. The facility is impressive and the production of Cabaret was excellent. The performers and sets were incredible. Sugden has a gorgeous courtyard entrance with huge Oaks wrapped with thousands of tiny white lights making it a very magical place in the evening. There are many incredible restaurants on Fifth Avenue, so I will only highlight a few of the best. Located adjacent to the hotel lobby, McCabe’s Irish Pub & Grill serves an excellent seared tuna aptly named Tuna on 5th. Prepared in an orange glaze sauce with oven roasted potatoes and a mix of garden vegetables, it was excellent. Don’t miss the Molten Chocolate Cake for Dessert. As the name implies, lots of hot fudge in the center. Think chocolate lava. Vergina, a fine dining Italian restaurant is located across the street from the Inn. This establishment has a beautiful old world elegance and offers al fresco seating, as well as indoor dining that still incorporates the open air feel and flavor of a beautiful Naples evening. Dramatic bronze columns and soft lighting complete the warm ambience. They serve a spectacular dish called Cavatelli Aragosta, which is simply the most amazing lobster treat ever created. Served over pasta, it is overflowing with large pieces of fresh lobster claw, sautéed with tiny asparagus tips and sun dried tomatoes in a white truffle butter sauce. Whatever you do, do not miss this. For dessert, try their cheesecake. It’s heavenly. For after dinner entertainment, Vergina also has a great little bar and dance floor nestled into the back of the restaurant. This place was hopping every night with a fantastic retro band playing the best R&B hits of the 70’s. They cover songs that you never hear from a live band- everything from Chaka Khan to the Temptations. The Bar at Vergina seemed to be “the” happening place for Naples nightlife. Another spot to check out is Kilwin’s Chocolate Shoppe, a few blocks down from the Inn. As you walk through the front door, the intoxicating scent of sugar, butter and chocolate could drop any candy lover to their knees. Try the Nutcracker Sweets, a fantastic caramel popcorn treat. Think Cracker Jacks--- on steroids. From one end to the other, Fifth Avenue offers countless high end fashion boutiques, art galleries, antique shops, restaurants and bars just ripe for exploring and everything is just steps from the hotel. All in all, Old Naples has enough to give you and your girlfriends all the pampering, shopping, and dining you need for a wonderful weekend away from it all!
running away
BY CHRISTIE ARDOLINO
reconnecting with oneself in a single weekend
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n a world where we have triple booked our schedules because we know everyone else has and cancellations are inevitable, god forbid we should have uncommitted, non-productive time as we race through our lives, it is easy to see how time flies by. Add children and family to the mix and it is obvious how we end up feeling ragged and tired and confused about where time and life has gone. Recently, I decided to run away from home! I was tired, I was what I can only describe as “lost” in my world filled with rules and deadlines and commitments, oh my. I knew where I was supposed to be at what time for how long and with whom, BUT I had no idea why. I had all these rules in place to more easily sift through people, things, and decisions, BUT I cannot remember why I made the rules. I was a fully indoctrinated competitor in the rat race we accept as “life”! Finally, I paused and asked myself: “Why am I doing this? Why does everything seem so hard? Am I happy?” I could not answer any of these questions, so in a self preserving ADULT way, I ran away from home. I have subsequently convinced most of my friends to do the same. It is my belief that if people did this more often, we would have significantly fewer divorces and conflicts and job changes and depression. It is easier to just blame and extricate people and jobs rather than take time to be “selfish”! I contest, it is not selfish BUT responsible for your own stuff and happiness!
Christie swimming with Stormy
A child would run away and leave everything behind and have no responsibility. I, however, made sure that everyone had what they needed to get by without me and made sure I asked for time away from work. I did not simply disappear. After I made the decision to “run away”, I set aside the time by making provisions for my family, figuring out how much time and money I could afford to spend, and most importantly identifying a destination that would help me to relax. I needed to choose a place that would help me feel like I did before I was this rule making and following rat racer. Then I informed my friends and family where I would be and how to reach me, but asked that they not contact me unless it was an emergency. Then I ran away! For me, in nature is where my soul is most at ease. I knew I wanted to be near the water and if possible to see the sunrise and sunset, living in Florida that option is possible. I chose Islamorada in the Florida Keys. I stayed at the Chesapeake Resort for three days. I made arrangements to stay at a resort even though it was pricier because as a woman traveling alone I felt that I would be safer there. I knew I wanted to float on the water somewhere and just be Christie without all of my “supposed to’s”. While I was driving to the Keys I had the radio blaring and was singing my heart out. I already felt 50 pounds lighter because I knew I was taking care of myself. When I passed a sign advertising “Swim with the Dolphins” I thought, “Hmmm, I might enjoy tbparenting.com
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that”. So I pulled over and signed up. The swim was scheduled for the next 2 mornings. I travelled on to my hotel and settled in. Immediately went to the waters edge to watch the sunset. As it did I felt like I would cry, and I did. It had been such a long time since I had actually seen the sunset, really took the time to focus on that and nothing else. I walked along the beach and felt the sand between my toes and the water cover my feet, and the breeze tossing my hair about. I think I walked on the beach for about an hour and then returned to my room. I showered and treated myself to a shi-shi meal, which is not easy to do in the Keys on account of the ultra laid back atmosphere. It was a fusion restaurant called Ziggy and Mad Dogs. The food was scrumptious and I actually enjoyed the time alone, savoring the food that I did not have to prepare. That night I slept with the windows open so that I could hear the waves crashing. I slept amazingly well. I awoke rested very early the next morning so that I could watch the sunrise. Mother nature put on a spectacular show for me and the sheer beauty and quietness of it all moved me. I went back to the room and got dressed for my date with the seal, Mimi and Stormy, the dolphin. As I put on my wet suit I realized I was the only one who was there by themselves. Before you feel sorry for me let me impart a valuable life lesson. For some unknown reason a woman traveling alone is treated like a goddess. It could be out of pity, or amazement, or “wow, I wish I could do that”. Whatever the reason, on this day it afforded me much joy. The
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result of my aloneness was that the trainers had decided to allow me the entire time to swim with Mimi, alone (normally split into 4 people). All I can say is Aaaaaaahhhhh, and three cheers for the unconditional love of animals, and hooray for the peace of floating! I felt as though I floated right on through the rest of that day and into the next when I swam with Stormy. What I did do was reconnect with myself, throw out the rule book, and the time restraints and vowed to feel buoyant in all things. I did write a lot and let out a lot of stress, pain, and anxiety on paper that I could then let go. I decided not to have rules that I could not define why they were in place, and that that definition was a rational and logical one. To not do anything that did not serve me and my family’s greater good. And to never do anything that I believed in my heart was wrong. Now I move more slowly through life, I spend my free time with those people that I cherish. At work, school for me, I do the absolute best that I can, and then I leave it there so that I have real time for me and my family. I do occasionally spend time just for me because I believe I am of no use to anyone if I am not happy and at peace. Since my return, life has been much more enjoyable. I make a point to notice the sunsets and really revel in their beauty. There exist countless things, feelings, moments that can snap us out of the everyday ruts we find ourselves in, we just need to remember to notice them and then embrace them.
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Dance Theatre Voice Cheerleading All come togetherAcrobatics for the Hip Hop perfeccture. Broadway Dance Movie routines and artwork
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Party Time! At your favorite attractions!
Did you know that you can have your kids next birthday party at one of Tampa’s favorite attractions? Well you can, and they make it easy and each offers unique fun! BUSCH GARDENS - GET WILD It’s their favorite day – their birthday. Only a few places are special enough to host a child’s big day, and Busch Gardens takes the cake. Kids can get up-close to animals, play in the new attraction, Jungala and in Land of the Dragons, ride Cheetah Chase, explore Edge of Africa and indulge in cake and pizza, to boot. Busch Gardens offers three animal themes for an educational and exciting birthday experience unlike anything else. Birthday Jun-Gala offers play among Tree Top Trails of Jungala, educates about forest friends and creates photo opportunities with an unusually tall character bug. With the Dragon Birthday Bash, kids will learn about reptiles and amphibians and join Dumphrey the Dragon for play time in Land of the Dragons. The Savannah Celebration lets kids explore lions, hippos, meerkats and more, meet Hilda the Hippo and Gina the Giraffe costume characters and ride Cheetah Chase. Parties are 2 ½ hours and are hosted by the Busch Gardens education team. Parties, available for ages 3 and older, include a birthday cake, pizza snack and drinks, a birthday gift, a visit from a Busch Gardens costume character and a photo. Parties are available for 20 to 50 participants. The cost begins at $400 for 20 participants; the cost does not include park admission. For more information about hosting a birthday party at Busch Gardens, visit www.buschgardens.org. FLORIDA AQUARIUM - PARTY WITH THE FISHES Birthday party guests are greeted by one of the Aquarium’s SCUBA Divers at the Coral Reef exhibit to start the fun. Or they can get wet at the Explore a Shore. All parties include a close up with a creature, a special gift for the birthday child, goody bags, admission, decorations, supplies and cake. Food and Beverage is also available. Party Times are Saturday and Sundays 10am-12:00pm and 1:30pm - 3:30pm. When it gets hot out, the Aquarium is a great place to party. Call (813) 273-4015 or email: education@flaquarium.org. KID CITY Your child and their friends and family can enjoy lots of hands-
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on fun in our special private birthday party room, complete with a throne for the birthday child. Guests can continue their day exploring our “City”. Make your child’s next party an event they’ll never forget. We host parties on Saturdays (10:30am, 12:30pm, 2:30pm) and Sundays (by special appointment and incurs an additional charge of $30) and there are several packages to choose from with customizable options to fit your needs! Themes include: Playdough Party Birthday Crowns for Prince and Princesses, Dinosaur Party, Super Heroes, Balloon Twisting, Super Sundae Party, Picture This, Handprint Bash, Space Travel Party, Something Fishy and Scavenger Hunt. Call (813) 935-8441 or email ddansby@cmtampa.org MOSI, HAS PARTIES DOWN TO A SCIENCE Reserve your party now in MOSI’s beautiful new party rooms! The new party rooms are located inside Kids In Charge!, the newest and largest children’s science center in the nation. Relax and enjoy the party as our experienced staff takes care of all the details. All parties include a party room for an hour and a half, party host, choice of a party theme, and admission to the exhibit galleries. MOSI provides the decorations, paper goods, vanilla ice cream, and drinks. Cake, pizza, party trays, and goodie bags are also available. Party Times: 10 a.m., 11 a.m., 12:30 p.m., 1:30 p.m., 3 p.m., and 4 p.m. Many themes to choose from, like Butterfly Boogie to Dino-mite Dinosaurs from Rocket Racers to CSI-MOSI for older kids. The Science Store has themed, pre-packaged party bags that you can purchase for your guests. Don’t know exactly how many you’ll need? Party bags are fully returnable if unused. Call (813) 987-6000 or 1-800-995-MOSI (6674) for more information or to make reservations.
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A birthday kids won’t forget. And you’ll always remember. Surprise your child with an Awesome Birthday Party Bash at The Little Gym. We close the whole gym down just for parties. Kids love the games, music and gym activities under the supervision of our trained staff. You’ll love that we take care of everything from invitations to clean-up. All you have to do is watch your child make memories that will last a lifetime. FREE Book your party today! Class
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are we having fun yet hot birthday savings tips
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BY C.G. BARRET
ecently my younger daughter turned the ripe old age of one. Wanting her special day to be memorable but not wanting to take out a second mortgage, I scoured the Internet for children’s birthday party planning tips. Being the magnanimous type, I’ve cobbled together the wisest advice just for you. Since that wisdom amounted to a single sentence (“At age one, a child doesn’t fully understand the concept of Birthday Party.”), I’ll also throw in my own hot birthday savings tips – for free. In true party planning, the first real question everyone tackles is the number of guests to invite. The established rule of thumb is to add two to your child’s upcoming age and invite that number.
Hot Birthday Savings Tip Number 1:
For big savings on guests, home school your children. They will have very few friends other than that nice lady in the mail jeep. If you are forced for reasons of personal laziness to send your child to real schools and he has undermined you by actually meeting other people, remind him that for each friend he invites, he’s psychologically scarring two to three others he’s overlooked. Rest assured, however, that this is simply not true. The uninvited kids won’t notice. It’s their mothers who won’t ever talk to you again. When you are shopping for your child’s party, most financial planners advise you to leave the credit cards at home and bring only the cash you wish to spend in a large suitcase.
Tip Number 2:
If you bring only Monopoly money and Gasparilla beads, you’ll be less likely to make impulsive purchases. All parties today must be unified with a single theme. The purchase of themed “Star Wars” or “Strawberry Shortcake” paper plates, paper cups, paper napkins and paper tablecloths can be jarringly expensive, however. Hot Birthday Savings
Tip Number 3:
To trim costs, six months before the party, work hard to convince your child that the theme of his or her party should be “White Paper.” Film a brief home video featuring a heroic white paper napkin to convince them of this fine idea. If you have a son, have the napkin do Kung-Fu moves; if you have a daughter, call it a Princess Napkin. The child should view this video once a day for four months. During this
time, also take great pains to pick up plain pieces of white paper in their presence while exclaiming, “This is so cool!” Even your gifted child will enthusiastically embrace the White Paper Party. If you decide you cannot live without a real party theme, it is essential that you select one that will make your child’s party the talk of the town and cause all the other mothers to secretly resent you. This does not have to be an expensive or difficult undertaking. It simply requires some creativity. Bag the Disney princesses and the Spiderman themes. Instead, consider a prison or a potty theme. Army Boot Camp is a cute and perfect idea for the raging, lunatic child. If your child just insists on having a TV or movie theme, why not consider “CSI Miami” or “Saw XIV”? Every child’s party I’ve recently attended has featured a piñata beating contest. This is quite a change from my childhood, when we made piñatas in arts and crafts and then simply stared at them. Piñatas, however, are now widely available for sale at your local pre-fabricated concrete factory. While convenient, they’re indestructible. By the time the children at the party are on the fourth round of swings, all the adults are thinking, “Oh, for gahwdsakes, stab it with a knife!” Unfortunately, this thought does not occur to the enthusiastic birthday dad until he gets whacked in a tender area.
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Buy a piñata but don’t bother filling it. After allowing all the kids three or four whacks, loudly announce, “Well, you didn’t break it, so you get nothing. Too bad! Now go sit over there and Jacob’s great grandmother will pretend she’s an accomplished magician.” Then return the piñata to the store or stuff it in the attic crawlspace until next year. Another option (and a great party stress reliever) is to string up the loudest and pushiest child at the party and encourage everyone to give him a couple of good whacks. The other parents will love you for it. One of the biggest costs associated with parties is food. Parents spend hundreds of dollars on chips and pizza. Is all this really necessary? After all, the focus should be on your child opening her gifts, not on the guests’ unreasonable expectations.
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Another increasingly expensive birthday albatross is party bags. For those who have not
recently attended a child’s party, these favors consist of decorated plastic bags filled with choking hazards. An intense party bag competition has recently sprung up among mothers everywhere. Some are now including things like pre-paid college plans and ponies in them. Since all loot bags really hold only sugar and plastic, just place a large scoopful of bulk sugar in a Ziploc bag and throw in a twirly straw. And if you give into party convention and decide to serve cake?
Final Hot Birthday Savings Tip: Let’s get real. Kids don’t eat the cake part. Simply frost a large sponge, cut it up and serve it. After the kids lick off the icing, clean up will be convenient and handy! C.G. Barrett is a freelance writer and workat-home dad. For more of his insanity, check out writercgbarrett.blogspot.com.
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Did you know that asthma is the number one cause of children missing school? Do you have questions about your child’s asthma but are not sure where to go for the answers? There is a new local organization that can help - the Tampa Bay Asthma Coalition. TBAC is a group of dedicated professionals that have joined together to provide the community with FREE resources for those affected with asthma. Various organizations participate in asthma awareness. In order to simplify the process of who-does-what, TBAC was formed. TBAC is funded through a grant from the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency. Coalition members include the University of South Florida, the Environmental Protection Commission of Hillsborough County, the American Lung Association, Hillsborough County Health Department, St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital, Take Charge Lifestyle Management, Suncoast Pediatric Asthma Coalition, Steps to a Healthier Hillsborough and Hillsborough Community College. It is through this collaborative effort that TBAC was able to assist a family in their struggle of placing an air purifier in their asthmatic child’s classroom. This was the first time the team was called into play as a group of experts. To summarize the joint effort, TBAC received a call from the parents of an asthmatic child who attends a Hillsborough County middle school. The mother was asking for help and support from the TBAC team with a school situation involving her child having increased asthma episodes since the beginning of the school year. The TBAC team met with the parent and made recommendations for support.
Wednesdays 10 am “We are Little Amigos” Kidz Club, 15315 Amberly Drive FUN and interactive, parent and child, Spanish learning playgroup for toddlers and preschoolers, conducted by local mommy Maribel Suardy Call (813) 615- CLUB to register Toddler Storytime Bring your little one in to hear an exciting new story at Learning Express Toys of Westchase. 12950 Racetrack Road #109 www.westchasetoys.com, (813) 818-8697 May 3 - May 24 Swim Lessons at Bob Sierra YMCA All age levels and skill levels. Register by calling (813) 962-3220 May 22, 23, 24 & 25 Disney’s High School Musical Performed by The Community School of the Arts, Independent Day School Call (813) 961-3087 for ticket prices and showtimes May 24, 4p - 6pm Waterpark Island Luau Bring the family and friends to enjoy dinner and a night of family-fun activities at the Bob Sierra YMCA Waterpark in Carrollwood. Activities include swimming, face-painting, games, bounce houses and more. The event is FREE and open to all. For more information, contact Maggie Beaumont at MBeaumont@tampaymca. org
The parents met with the school nurse, principal and school liaison to address the issue. TBAC made recommendations on an air purifier and the parents decided on a model that they themselves would supply the school for their child’s classroom. After negotiations between the family, school and TBAC, the child was allowed to place an air purifier in his classroom. The child had already been placed in another school during the negotiation process; however, this was the first time an air purifier was able to be placed in a single classroom in Hillsborough County. If you or a person you know has been diagnosed with asthma, please contact the Tampa Bay Asthma Coalition at 813.627.2600, ext. 1008 or tbac@epchc.org. One call may be all you need to start breathing healthier.
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Guidelines For Bounce House Rentals Many parents are unaware of the danger their children may be in when playing in some inflatable structures. It is unfortunate, but the state of Florida is one of the only States that does not regulate or require inspection of inflatable play structures. This means that there is no one overseeing the companies who rent these units, nor is there any standard for safety, sanitation or a requirement for liability insurance. Amazinflates® of Tampa offers these guidelines when renting a bounce house: 1. Having proper supervision. Having a trained attendant on site is a MUST. Running an interactive inflatable without an operator is akin to having a pool full of kids and no lifeguard/supervision. 2. Insurance. Because liability insurance for inflatables can be pricey, many companies are operating without any form of insurance. The lack of insurance allows these companies to offer low rates on their rentals. However, these companies are sacrificing children’s safety for price. This also means that if there is an injury to your child, you may not receive any compensation even if the injury was caused by the company’s negligence. Many home insurance policies do not cover accidents in inflatables. If the event is at a park the rental company must have either the city or county as an additional insured. 3. Operation procedures. The delivery staff should provide verbal and written instructions to parents explaining proper operating, safety and emergency procedures. The staff that delivers the equipment should be knowledgeable of the unit and be able to answer any questions a parent may have about the use of the inflatable. 4. Inspection and maintenance. The inflatable should be cleaned and sanitized before and after each rental by the rental company. Clean and sanitized inflatables help protect your children from harmful viruses and bacteria and ensure an enjoyable play environment. 5. Securing the inflatables. The inflatable must be properly secured by the rental company with a stake or weight at each and every anchoring point to prevent the unit from tipping over with high winds. Unit must not be used with high wind speeds over 25 MPH. Improper weighting and staking is one of the most common causes of inflatable accidents. Why? It is labor and time intensive. Just remember, without it your inflatable amusement may end up more of a hot air balloon than a play structure. 6. Followed standards. It is important that the rental company follows the standards for proper use and operation of inflatable amusement devices. (ASTM) American Society for Testing and Material has specific rules and regulations for the proper use and operation of inflatable amusement devices. Organizations like (NAARSO) National Association of Amusement Ride Safety Officials help enforce these rules.
dates: May 3, 10, 17, 24 & 31, 9am - 10am Family Naturalist Program Camp Bayou Outdoor Learning Center, a 160acre Hillsborough County preserve located on the Little Manatee River in Ruskin, offers free “Family Naturalist” workshops this spring, scheduled each Saturday, April 5 through June 28 from 9-10 a.m. Join the fun each week as a new ecological concept is explored through hands-on activities, freebies and group discussions for the whole family! May 11 Freedom Playground Clean Up Day Now that Freedom Playground is officially open, we will be having monthly clean-up days the Second Sunday of each month. Please call 254-3804 if you are interested. Children are welcome. Bring work gloves, rakes, shovels and small gardening tools. Drinks and snacks will be provided. Located at 1700 N. MacDill Ave. May 13, 9:30am - 11am Sacred Heart Academy Open House Located at 3515 N. Florida Avenue in Tampa 813-229-0618 or sha@sacredheartfla.org May 28, 6pm Hyde Park Village Live Music Series Join in the celebration of 21 years of live music in the Village. Shout performs to benefit the Epilepsy Service Foundation, Inc. www.oldhydepark.com Jun 1, 1pm - 4pm Open House at The Little Gym of South Tampa - Now Open! Classes for children ages 4 months - 12 years 4251 Henderson Blvd., Tampa www.TLGSouthTampaFL.com 813-282-8547
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letter for mom all the gratitude you hope for from your children
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everal years ago, I sat with the Kleenex clutched in my hand and tears streaming down my cheeks as a pastor’s wife read aloud a letter she had received from her daughter on Mother’s Day. The daughter, now away at college, expressed that she now understood. She now understood and appreciated the endless rules, boundaries, adventures, questions, spankings, support and the importance of her Mom just being there. I have long forgotten the exact wording of this letter, but I have never forgotten the emotional impact of the letter on me and the other Moms that day. I dream of receiving a hand written letter like that someday from my daughters on Mother’s Day. The accolades aren’t important. The gratitude is secondary. It is the understanding that I most seek.
write. We were constantly reminded of the yes ma’ms and no sirs to adults all while looking them in the eye when speaking. You seemed to know just when I was hesitating to tell the truth and you would assure me that telling the truth is often less painful in the end than telling a lie. Making me apologize to the neighbor for picking all of her flowers and insisting on restitution-raking her entire yard. Making me cut blades of grass in the heat with scissors when you knew I had a hangover.
I remember those “boring” Saturdays where we cleaned other’s yards or delivered meals. There were the holidays you required us to shorten our lists in order to give bikes to other children. There was the time we bought that extra sandwich for the homeless man outside the restaurant. You insisting that part of our allowance be placed in the offering plate—and another 10% to savings. The relief I felt when you picked me and my friends up So, I started thinking. What would I hope they would say? And late that night with no questions asked. so, I decided to write it. Bugging me to always take a coat, have some cash on hand and Dear Mom, to always travel with water. Dragging me to church and insisting that I go to youth group-no excuses. You encouraged me to I remember how you were teaching me to swim and you kept speak up and out in family discussions, but that you and Dad had secretly backing up. The first day of school that you wiped my the final say. For not talking to my coach when you knew he was tears and nudged me into my classroom-and hid around the cor- being unfair. For encouraging my friends to always come over to ner to make sure I was okay (I knew you were there.). There was our house. You chaperoned dances and overnights and worked the day after a break-up you insisted that I go to school. I recall the high school snack stand all so you could know just what was the time you steadfastly refused to bring me my lunch after I had going on in my school. forgotten it for the fourth time. The times we sat alone at the table over a piece of cake ponderI laugh as I remember the week I wanted to quit track and you ing my heartache. I remember all the cookies we baked and crafts insisted that I finish the season. That Spring when I was ready to we made-and the laughter in between. You placed notes of inspiditch my dance date for “Mr. It” and you wouldn’t let me. The ration in my backpack. I treasure those many shopping hours for times I wanted to stay out just as late as some others and you said the perfect prom dress. I remember you going with me the time no. I remember that my rather small clothing budget didn’t allow I had trash detail for a punishment. for $60 t-shirts. You were in the front row on awards day and in the bleachers I laugh as I recall the times you placed a stuffed crab in our for my sporting events. Sometimes when I asked for your advice, pants-and your own- when we were grumpy. The times you said you offered it and sometimes you posed the hard questions back “I am sorry” when you lost your temper. I can still see the steps to me. Sometimes you said a great deal and others you remained you made us sit on while holding hands and saying, “Sisters for- silent. ever. Sisters forever. Sisters forever.” after a fight. Mom, I now know it wasn’t easy. We often weren’t easy! But now You placed the computer in the kitchen, asked all those never I know…I really know. All these things were for us. It wasn’t just ending questions about my friends and insisted on taking down your words. It was your actions. You rarely missed a moment to the information of those driving me. Making me leave notes teach us something-big or small. You were and are the greatest about where I was going, when I would be home and who I was teacher I have ever had. with. Making me invite Suzy over when no one else liked her. You’ve been right there for me through it all. Moms offer a speThere was the punishment for arriving two minutes after cur- cial kind of love like no other…now I understand. May 2008 tbparenting.com few. ThereTampa wereBay theParenting many Magazine thank you notes you insisted that I
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riding safely The day you buy your child his first bicycle is sure to be a milestone in your life. But it’s important to remember that bicycles are more than just a toy; they are associated with more childhood injuries than any consumer product except the automobile. In 2004, nearly 275,000 children were treated in hospital emergency rooms for bicycle-related injuries, and 132 children ages 14 and under died as a result of a bike-related crash. You can greatly reduce your children’s risk of injury and death simply by setting some limits. A single rule – wear a helmet or don’t ride – can reduce the risk of head injury by as much as 85 percent. Kids, especially 11- to 14-year-olds, are sometimes reluctant to wear helmets. They may insist they’re good riders who don’t need helmets anymore, complain that helmets are uncomfortable, or point out that none of their friends wear them. Your child may be especially mature for her age; he may be a particularly skilled rider; or it just might feel easier to give in. But experts at St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital urge you to resist that temptation. Requiring your children to wear a helmet every time, everywhere they go, is the best thing you can do to protect them. If your child rides a bike, then he probably also enjoys skateboards, scooters or in-line skates. Make sure that whenever he “wheels” around, he’s wearing the right gear.
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Stock up on Hurricane Preparedness Know-How Hurricane season will be here before we know it, and it only takes one storm to make a bad season. Member libraries of the Pinellas Public Library Cooperative will host a series of free, fun and informative sessions on how to prepare for the season. Those offerings are: • Becoming Storm Savvy: While we are still in the hurricane preseason, it’s an excellent time to learn how you can prepare yourself to prevent panic if we are affected by a storm. From learning how to put together a survival kit without busting your budget to planning ahead for evacuations, tips are offered for everyone. • Hurricane 101: What is a hurricane? How do they form? What are their effects? Get the basics on these dangerous tropical storms. • Busting Hurricane Myths: Learn the dangers of some commonly held beliefs when hurricanes approach. Not only will you find the real story, you may also save your life if the big one comes. • Hurricanes for Kids: Hurricane season can be a very frightening time for younger family members. By using experiments and easy-to-understand language, your youngsters can find some control over these scary situations. The times, dates and locations for these seminars are: • May 3, 10:30 a.m. – Hurricane 101 East Lake Community Library, 4125 East Lake Road, Palm Harbor (727) 773-2665 • May 8, 10:30 a.m. – Busting Hurricane Myths East Lake Community Library, 4125 East Lake Road, Palm Harbor (727) 773-2665 • May 10, 11 a.m. – Becoming Storm Savvy Oldsmar Library, 400 St. Petersburg Drive, Oldsmar (813) 749-1178 • May 17, 11 a.m. – Busting Hurricane Myths Oldsmar Library, 400 St. Petersburg Drive, Oldsmar (813) 749-1178 • May 19, 6:30 p.m. – Hurricane 101 Largo Library, 120 Central Park Drive, Largo (727) 587-6715 • May 22, 2 p.m. – Becoming Storm Savvy Pinellas Park Library, 7770 52nd St., Pinellas Park (727) 541-0718
Pinellas County’s Hurricane Education Effort Nets National Award Pinellas County works hard year-round to educate residents, businesses and visitors about the threat of tropical weather. The National Hurricane Conference’s award committee recognized the county’s public education efforts as the best in the nation during its annual awards luncheon last month in Orlando. The contest committee featured Dr. Neil Frank and Dr. Max Mayfield, two former directors of the National Hurricane Center.
dates: May 3, 9am - 5pm Pinellas Living Green Expo A free, educational event focusing on resource conservation solutions. Join us at the Harborview Center in downtown Clearwater. Participants will learn how to save money, save natural resources, and protect our environment for future generations. The event will provide families and residents information, ideas, resources, products and motivation to live more sustainable. www.PinellasLivingGreenExpo.org May 9, 8:30pm showtime Movie in the Park Safety Harbor Middle School Track- infield Bring a blanket or a lawn chair and come enjoy a family friendly movie under the stars. Please call the week of for movie title. 727-724-1530 Free Admission, Concessions Available May 16, 6pm – 10pm 3rd Friday Music Series, Main Street Safety Harbor Featuring shopping, dining and entertainment, this FREE street festival offers live music at the John Wilson Park Gazebo and at local venues throughout town. Each month features a different theme and some of the area’s hottest local bands and quality arts & crafts vendors. Step into one of Safety Harbor’s many unique downtown shops and restaurants. Proceeds of the events benefit a different local charity every month. May 17, 8am Costal Clean-up: Dunedin Causeway Call 727-812-4545 for details May 31, 7pm - 9pm Music on the Beach - Sunset Beach Blind Rage Classic Rock. Bring chairs and blankets; don’t bring pets or alcoholic beverages. On-site concessions. FREE but donations help support the program. For more information call 727-942-5628
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Four-Year Old Heart Recipient Now Needs a “Forever Family” As All Children’s 100th heart transplant recipient, four-year old Anthony has already overcome long odds to get his life-saving surgery. Now he needs a permanent home.
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Family fun with face painting and other activities at The Pier, 800 2nd Ave. N.E. Free. www.stpetepier.com or 727-631-6443 May 3, 10am - 4pm Weed and Seed Family Fun Day Educational and informative family fun day. Health screenings, agency presentations, carnival games dancers, puppet show, jazz, arts and crafts, games and much more. Featured entertainer B.K. Jackson, saxophonist from noon to 1p. James B. Sanderlin Center. 727-892-5087. May 10 Feet on the Street. Midtown, 22nd St. S. between 9th and 13th Ave. 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. A festive day of local performers filling the air with music, arts, drama and dance to get your feet on the street!. Enjoy great food, arts and crafts, vendors, children’s activities and much more. Free. 727-892-5087 or 727-893-7894. May 17, 8:30am - noon Pier Aquarium’s Kids’ Fishing Tournament. The Pier, 800 2nd Ave. N.E. Kids 12 and under learn to fish. Trophies and ribbons awarded. $1. www.pieraquarium.org or 727-895-7437
Jeff Rainey, President/CEO Hillsborough Kids, Inc. states, “We are grateful to the surgeons, doctors and staff of All Children’s Hospital for providing Anthony with a new chance at life. We are immensely thankful to Anthony’s foster parents for providing the love and support Anthony needs. We look forward to his complete May 23 - 26 recovery at which time he will be available for adoption.” Tampa Bay Marine Super Show Anthony’s foster parents, Melody and Ben Rodriguez, are looking forward to getting back into a routine for his care at their Tampa home. For the time being, that will include twice-weekly trips to All Children’s Hospital in St. Petersburg for continued monitoring of Anthony’s progress. They hope that Anthony will be medically ready for a “forever family” within six months.
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Hillsborough Kids, Inc. currently has more than 600 children in its System of Care available for adoption. . Families interested in details about adoption or becoming a foster parent should contact Hillsborough Kids, Inc. at (813) 643-KIDS. Hillsborough Kids, Inc. assists nearly 4,000 abused and neglected children. When completed in 2009, the new All Children’s Hospital will represent nearly a million square feet of space dedicated to state-ofthe-art pediatric healthcare.
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2008 “Best Places To Work” in Tampa Bay Tampa Bay Business Journal has named Premier Community HealthCare Group, Inc. as one of the “Best Places to Work in Tampa Bay.” The award recognizes the company’s achievements in creating a positive work environment that attracts and retains employees through a combination of benefits, working conditions and company culture. Dade City, Florida: The 2008 Best Places to Work Award recognizes companies in Hernando, Hillsborough, Manatee, Pasco, Pinellas, Polk and Sarasota counties who have been nominated by their employees. Hundreds of companies were nominated and Premier was named to the winning list of top 48 based on benefits, programs and employee surveys. Employees responded to questionnaires, addressing pride in the company, company encouragement, support and recognition of achievement, open communication, fair compensation, and relationships between co-workers and supervisors Premier scored high with work-life balance, respect and caring for employees, recognition of accomplishments, feeling empowered, good teamwork and team spirit and commitment to community service. Premier was in the Biggest Category (101 and more employees) top 10! Other winning companies were: Microsoft Corp., Pulte Homes, Amscot Financial to name a few. “The best part of receiving this award is that our employees valued Premier enough to vote us into the winning circle. We recognize our reward every day working with such a dynamic and talented staff. “ comments Kim Schuknecht, CEO, Premier Community HealthCare Group, Inc. “As the Health Safety net of the county, this staff supports on every level our vision and mission. It’s a pleasure to advocate for Premier. They do so much good for this community.” responded Susan Hutson, Director of PR & Marketing, PCHG “We work at being open and innovative,” said Jackie Florez, Director of HR, PCHG, “and we’re proud to be recognized for our efforts, and are honored by this award.”
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May 1, 2, 3 Model Train Expo Large modular train will be set up and running for the public to enjoy. Patrons can watch, ask questions and even play conductor. Cosponsored by Tampa Bay Modular Railroad Club. FREE. Land O Lakes Community Center, 5401 Land O Lakes Blvd May 11, 4pm 2008 Miss Wesley Chapel Pageant The Performing Arts Center at Wesley Chapel The annual Miss Wesley Chapel Pageant is a time of fun and excitement, while making new friends in the community! The goal is to instill in each girl an appreciation of her own special qualities and abilities, leading to increased selfconfidence. May 17, 10am – 12pm Pee Wee Olympics Young children age three to five will participate in a variety of non-competitive sports events. Each child participating will receive a medal for their efforts. Space is limited and preregistration is required so it is suggested that you call for details and sign-up at 813-9291220. FREE May 17, 5pm - 10:30pm Moonlight Adventure Adults $36.00, Children $18.00 The Moonlight Adventures are fun for the entire family. Enjoy a fabulous hayride lit only by the soft glow of a full moon through the flatwoods and cypress heads of Starkey Ranch. After your ride, settle down in front of a roaring bonfire and enjoy roasted hot dogs and toasty marshmallows, along with our melt-in-your mouth S’mores. www.superior-events.com May 30, 7:30pm - 10:30pm Summer Kick-Off Dance V You’re invited to dance and party with our D.J. This is an “end of school year and beginning of summer” party. What a great way to start summer vacation Shady Hills Community Center, 15840 Greenglen Lane 727-856-7831
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around town
Magic 94.9 Eggstravaganza Hosted at TBPAC
Will Curtain, 2, from Orlando and visiting his grandparents in Tampa, is happy to have his picture taken with the Easter Bunny
Eco-Walk of Tampa Bay
The petting zoo was a big hit with the children (and their parents too).
Inspired by the Aveda Corporation and executed by a group of local salons, over 200 professionals held the first ECOWALK in honor of Earth Month and in support of The Gulf Restoration Network (gulfrestorationnetwork.org), whose work
protecting the wetlands in the Gulf of Mexico benefit everyone in the state of Florida. These beauty industry professionals really show that Beauty is as Beauty Does!
Magician Greg Suarez performs close-up for some intrigued kids. How did he do that?!
Easter Days at The Florida Aquarium The team from Asonipse Spa and Salon in Riverview. From left: Wanda, Veronica, Estrella, Ceasar, Horacio, Sebastian, Aisha, Iris, Erin, and Angel
Chase Rice, 6, and sister Carlyle Smith, 7, of Tampa enjoying the day at the FL Aquarium with their cousin Alexis Vanhorn, 7, who was visiting from Ohio
Isabella Quintero, 2, with mom, Tara from Whole Salonspa in Oldsmar
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may calendar of events EVENTS/FESTIVALS MAGIC: The Science of Illusion @ MOSI Through May 26 Designed around four main magical illusions: mentalism, levitation, transformation, and the disembodied head. The exhibition explores basic science concepts that make magical illusions possible and shows how these science concepts relate to our everyday lives. www.mosi.org Clean Air Fair 2008 May 1, 11:30a - 1:30p Join the Environmental Protection Commission of Hillsborough County, Lowry Park Zoo and others to learn more about our environment and how to protect and enjoy Tampa Bay’s natural treasures. Live entertainment, prize drawings and complementary ice cream top off the event! Poe Plaza, Downtown Tampa (Pedestrian mall between Hyatt Regency and One Tampa City Center on Jackson at Franklin Street). 813-627-2600 Disney on Ice - Princess Wishes May 1 - May 4 Believing is just the beginning in Disney On Ice presents Princess Wishes! Dreamers from the Tampa Bay area will witness the magic when Ariel, Cinderella, Belle, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, Jasmine and Mulan all make their wishes come true in this collection of celebrated tales wonderfully told through artistic skating and acrobatics. www.stpetetimesforum.com www.disneyonice.com Tampa Bay Dragon Boat Races & Asia Fest 2008 May 2, 8:30a - 6p Asia Fest is a community event that has a goal to share Asian culture with the public and promote the bond of friendship and better understanding between the East and the West. The event is FREE to the public and supported by sponsors. Asia Fest presents colorful, festive celebration that features
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cultural entertainment and Asian ethnic food representing China, India, Japan, Korea, Laos, Myanmar, Philippines, Sri Lanka, Thailand, and Vietnam. Asia Fest is held annually during the same day and time as the International Dragonboat Race. www.asiafest-tampabay.com www.tampabaydragonboats.com Free First Fridays May 2, 5p – 8p (Bike Safety) Kid City, The Children’s Museum of Tampa. FREE admission. 813-935-8441, tampachildrensmuseum.org Summer Safari Nights May 2, after 5p The Zoo is open late with FREE rides after 5p. Guests can also enjoy special animal encounters, live entertainment and food and beverages from all the zoo’s restaurants and snack stands. The Summer Safari Nights series is included in regular Zoo admission prices and is free for Zoo Pass holders. www.lowryparkzoo.com Sea Grapes Fine Wine and Food Festival May 3, 7p - 10p Sea Grapes Fine Wine & Food Festival - now in its seventh year - includes a tasting selection of more than 100 truly fine wines, the best of the Bay area’s premier restaurants, live jazz throughout The Aquarium and unique and exciting auction items. An adult only night. www.flaquarium.org AirFest 2008 at MacDill Air Force Base May 3 & May 4, 8a - 5p One of the largest Air Shows in the Country AirFest at MacDill AFB will be a two day, high soaring event. Featured through-out the two days will be the Canadian Forces Snowbirds along with several civilian and military aerial performances. AirFest will also feature WWII demonstrations and displays. www.macdillsairfest.com tbparenting.com
Happy Mother’s Day May 10 - May 11 Free Admission to The Florida Aquarium for Mom with the purchase of a paid admission. www.flaquarium.org Free Museum Day May 17 Six downtown St. Petersburg museums and attractions are open free to all Pinellas and Hillsborough residents. The Dali Museum, Florida Holocaust Museum, Great Explorations Children’s Museum, Museum of Fine Arts, Museum of History and Sunken Gardens are all open for free, in addition to galleries offering gift store discounts at the Florida Craftsmen Gallery and the Arts Center. During the day, drop in to the Progress Energy Center for the Arts’ Mahaffey Theater for a discounted Florida Orchestra concert (price TBA). 727-551-3250 Child Safety Expo at The Florida Aquarium May 17, 9:30a - 5p Providing parents and children with vital IT’S DIFFERENT DOWN HERE. information regarding their safety. Child Protection Education of America provides FREE child identification kits, along with many vendors sharing information throughout the day. Each child’s admission is half off the full price, with valid coupon. www.flaquarium.org The Wizard of Oz May 17, 6p (film begins at 8p) Friends, Families, Picnics, Frisbees, Sunsets, Movies and Stars. All will be welcome and expected at Sunset Theater, Tampa Theatre’s Traveling Outdoor picture show. Cotanchobee Park Downtown Tampa on the River, 601 Channelside Drive, Tampa www.tampatheatre.com $5.00 Day at Lowry Park Zoo May 18, 9:30a - 5p Visit more than 2,000 animals from around the world and learn about endangered wildlife for only $5.00 a person. www.lowryparkzoo.com Big East Baseball Championship Games May 20 to May 24 2008 Play Ball!! Bright House Fields BIG EAST
Baseball Championships featuring the top 8 qualifying schools such as USF, Notre Dame, University of Connecticut, Louisville, Rutgers...and more. Winner automatically qualifies for the NCAA Tournament. www.bigeast.org Memorial Day at the Florida Aquarium & Lowry Park Zoo May 24 - May 26 Free Admission for any active duty, activated, retired or drilling reservist, or National Guard. www.flaquarium.org, www.lowryparkzoo.com Taste of Pinellas May 30 - June 1
Vinoy Park, Bayshore Dr. and 7th Ave. N.E. Fri. 5p - 10p, Sat. and Sun. noon - 10p. Sample the best cuisine from over 40 restaurants, enjoy music and children activities. Proceeds benefit the All Children’s Telethon and will help fund the construction of a brand new All Children’s Hospital. www.allkids.org, www. tasteofpinellas.com or 727-767-8831. Hurricane Expo 2008 at MOSI May 31, 10a - 4p Are you ready / Know your Zone / Make a Plan. The purpose of the Expo is to educate our residents on the importance of knowing their evacuation zone and making an effective plan in the event of a hurricane. The Expo will be a family-friendly, multi-cultural event featuring vendors, live entertainment, educational seminars, and giveaways. www.tampabayhurricaneexpo.com
THEATER
Dashaun Young as “Simba” and the Ensemble singing “He Lives In You” from THE LION KING National Tour. ©2007, Disney. Photo Credit: Joan Marcus.
Disney’s Lion King at The Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center May 8 - June 22 Experience the phenomenon of Disney’s The Lion King when Tampa’s best-loved musical
returns to TBPAC’s Carol Morsani Hall. Visually stunning, technically astounding and with a musical score like none you’ve ever heard. Giraffes strut, birds swoop, and gazelles leap. As the entire savannah comes to life and as the music soars, Pride Rock slowly emerges from the mist. See the Tony Award-winning Broadway sensation that Newsweek calls “a landmark event in entertainment.” The New York Times says, “There is simply nothing else like it.” www.tbpac.org, 813-229-7827
MUSIC Gulf Coast Youth Choirs Spring Sing 2008 May 10 All choirs of the Gulf Coast Youth Choirs, Inc. program – Cadet Choir, Children’s Choir, Girl Choir, Voce di Vita and Le Petit Choeur – present an evening of choral music. www.tbpac.org, 813-229-7827
Star-Spangled Pops: Florida Orchestra Super Pops Annual American Stage in the Park presents May 24 The Pirates Of Penzance. Progress Energy Center for the Arts’ Mahaffey May 4 - May 23 Theater, 400 1st St. S. 8 p.m. Memorial Demens Landing, Bayshore Drive and 1st Day salute with patriotic tunes by American Ave. S.E. Park opens 6 p.m., play begins at composers. $21 to $56. 8 p.m.Wed., Thurs, Fri., Sat. and Sun. A www.floridaorchestra.org, www. swashbuckling musical theatre under the stars mahaffeytheater.com, or 727-892-5767 for the whole family by Gilbert and Sullivan. $11 - $27. ART www.americanstage.org or 727-823-7529 The Patel Conservatory presents Orlando Ballet School Spring Show Rumpelstiltskin May 7 Orlando Ballet, Orlando Ballet II and dance students from the Orlando Ballet School at the Patel Conservatory will present Rumpelstiltskin, a narrated children’s ballet that features music by Versailles composer Francois Couperin and original choreography by Peter Stark. The ballet shows how a young woman outsmarts the clever gnome Rumpelstiltskin, who has the magical ability to turn straw to gold. Pre-Professional Division ballet students in grades 2-12 help to tell this lovely fairy tale, which is a great introduction to classical ballet and features dynamic dancing and spectacular sets and costumes. Ferguson Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Cener, www.tbpac.org, 813229-7827 Renaissance Flair May 10 Step back into the days of the Renaissance… of knights, nobles, jesters, peasants and minstrels gathering throughout the land. Hear sounds of trumpets and madrigals, while the drama of our tale unfolds. Sung magnificently by the Ruth Eckerd Hall Children’s Choir, Teen Troupe and Teen Choir, this visual and aural experience is a must see performance! www.rutheckerdhall.com tbparenting.com
Dali Family Fun Saturdays Hands-On Activities every Saturday from 11:45a - 4:30p Salvador Dali Museum, 1000 Third Street South, St. Petersburg 727-823-3767 salvadordalimuseum.org
For more event listings visit tbparenting.com ABOUT THE CALENDAR Tampa Bay Parenting strives to bring readers the most complete listing of activities for families. However, last minute changes and errors do occur. Some programs are subject to change without notice. We strongly suggest you double-check the details before setting out on your outing. And please be sure to pre-register when required. TO SUBMIT ITEMS E-MAIL: calendar@tbparenting.com FAX: 813-315-6688 MAIL: Tampa Bay Parenting Magazine P.O. Box 82255 Tampa, FL 33682 Include the name of the event, location, address, date, time, brief description, price and a telephone contact for the public. Preference is given to nonprofit or community based events and events of broad appeal to families Please check all events listed, as some may have changed due to weather.
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family guide dance:
after school guide programs:
Brucie Klay’s Dance Center 3601 S. Manhattan Ave. www.brucieklays.com
City of Tampa Parks & Recreation 813-274-8615 tampagov.net/parks
Ms. Lisa’s Dance & Co. 3805 W. San Miguel Street, Tampa 813-259-1040
Kids Scope After-School Program Recreation and Fitness 813-818-9997 www.kscopekidz.com
www.mslisadance.com
music:
MOSI Science and Art After-School Program 4801 E. Fowler Avenue, Tampa 800-995-MOSI www.mosi.org
Excel Music 10353 Cross Creek Blvd., Suite 1, Cory Lake 813-991-1177 www.excelmusic.us
martial arts:
Tampa JCC Second Home After-School program 13009 Community Campus Drive, Tampa 813-264-9000 www.jewishtampa.org
Ingrams Karate 4116 Little Road, New Port Richey 727-372-7673 www.ingramskarate.com
YMCA Swimming, sports, dance, karate and more. Many locations throughout Tampa Bay www.tampaymca.org
Premier Martial Arts 24038 State Road 54, Lutz 813-948-4844 www.pmatampa.com
specialty programs:
Tiger Schulmann’s Martial Arts Carrollwood, Clearwater, Hyde Park www.tsk.com
Hillsborough County Libraries Many classes available. 813-273-3652, ext. 2 www.hcplc.org
performing arts: John Robert Powers Modeling, and Acting 813-281-8880 www.jrptampa.net The Acting Studio Music and Acting 122 Flagship Dr., Lutz 813-679-4810 or 813-962-2229 theactingstudio.net Patel Conservatory Music, Dance and Acting Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center 813.222.1002 www.patelconservatory.org
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Berean Academy 17951 North U.S. Hwy. 41, Lutz 33549 813-932-0552 www.bereanacademy.org Carlton Academy Day School 205 N. Brush Street, Tampa 33602 813-944-2856 www.carltonacademy.com Carrollwood Day School 1515 Bearss Avenue, Tampa 33613 www.carrollwooddayschool.org 813-920-2288 Independent Day School 12015 Orange Grove Dr, Tampa 33618 813-961-3087 www.idsyes.com Odessa Christian School 19521 Michigan Avenue, Odessa, 33556 727-424-6001 www.odessachristianschool.org
gymnastics: Lightning City 14214 N Nebraska Avenue 813-558-0035 www.lightningcity.com
St. Mary’s Episcopal Day School 2101 S. Hubert Avenue, Tampa 33629 813-258-5508 www.smeds.org
The Little Gym Gymnastics, dance, karate, sports and more 4 months to 12 yrs. Palm Harbor, North Tampa and South Tampa www.thelittlegym.com
St. Johns Episcopal Parish Day School 906 South Orleans Avenue, Tampa 33606 www.stjohnseagles.org 813-849-4200
swim schools:
The Cambridge Christian School 6101 N. Habana Avenue, Tampa 33614 813-872-6744 www.tcslancers.com
Seal Swim School Lutz: 229-7946 S. Tampa: 879-7946 www.sealswimschool.com
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Academy of the Holy Names 3319 Bayshore Boulevard, Tampa 33629 813-839-5371 www.holynamestpa.org
Sacred Heart Academy 3515 N.Florida Ave., Tampa, FL 33603 813-229-0618 www.sacredheartfla.org/academy
Tampa Area YMCAs Swim Lessons for all ages at most locations www.tampaymca.org
Mary Jo’s Performing Arts Academy Dance, Acting, Voice, Music 15906 Mapledale Blvd., Tampa 33624 813-969-0240 www.mjpaa.com
private schools
Academy at the Lakes 2331 Collier Pkwy, Land O’Lakes 34559 813-909-7919 www.academyatthelakes.org
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