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saving sadie How cbd oil changes lives By Angela Ardolino and Krista Lyons
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he day that Sadie Higuera was born, something was wrong.
Although her tiny eyelashes were perfect and she had all ten fingers and ten toes, her body wouldn’t stop jerking and the doctors couldn’t tell her parents, Brian and Damaris, why. When Sadie was just a few months old, her parents took her from their home in California to the Mayo Clinic where she was diagnosed with Schinzel-Giedion Syndrome, a rare genetic disorder. She had tumors on her neck and liver, as well as epilepsy. She experienced relentless seizures; her first grand mal seizure occurred when she was just 3 months old. Her tiny, perfect eyelids would remain closed— sometimes for days—as the seizures make it hard to open them. Her face often turned a blue-gray shade. Before her third birthday, Sadie would experience 300 seizures a day. The neurologist told her parents that they would not be able to help her for a few months, but that it was unlikely she would make it to her next birthday. Sadie was put on a variety of steroids and other medications, but they caused kidney issues and whole host of new problems. “They [doctors] basically told us that we needed to give her [stronger medications], that it would definitely end her seizures but that it could end her life in just a few months,” says Sadie’s father, Brian Higuera. “They wouldn’t even give her occupational or physical therapy because they felt she was too far gone.” Higuera knew that there had to be another option. “When the medical community tells you need to end your child’s life, to be her hero and end her suffering, it is something no parent should go through. There is another option,” says Higuera. “That is when we decided to go the medical cannabis route.” Her parents decided to treat little Sadie with Cannabidiol, also called CBD oil, which has little to no THC (the part
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of the plant that gives the “high”) but has several health benefits-- one of which is treating seizures and tumors, according to Dr. Stuart Titus, an expert in medical marijuana research for HempMed. “We are very confident in the quality and safety of our CBD oil,” says Titus. “Hemp is a natural food for humans and with the huge number of endogenous cannabinoid receptors proven to be in the human body, plant-based cannabinoids can potentially supplement this large self-regulatory system. So we believe botanical CBD once tested is safe, at least by HempMed’s standards.” The Higueras had to search hard before they finally found a doctor who would treat a child at such a young age. The doctor decided to use a type of CBD oil called RHSO (Real Scientific Hemp Oil), which is CBD only, as well as a supplemental oil that contained a small amount of THC. Afraid of how her other children would react, Sadie’s mother took Sadie’s siblings, then 2 and 4, to the park while Sadie’s father gave the infant her first treatment. Within 10 minutes of giving Sadie the CBD oil through a G-tube (a tube inserted directly into her stomach because she is unable to swallow), Higuera noticed a difference. “I noticed her eyes stopped twitching. It had been six months since I had seen that. Her eyes always moved from side to side, so I almost couldn’t believe it,” Higuera says. “Her body even relaxed. It was a miracle.” When his wife came back, he didn’t tell her what he had noticed, afraid that perhaps he was seeing a change because it was something he was desperate to see. However, she noticed immediately. “She looked at Sadie and said ‘I got my baby back!’” says Higuera. Suddenly, Sadie was able to follow her parents with her eyes; she was able to focus on what she was seeing. She hadn’t been able to do these things since she was 3 months old. “All of those steroids took our baby from us, and the RHSO [CBD oil] gave her back to us,” says Higuera. “From there it has been one leap and bound after another with her.” Now, Sadie is 3 years old and is able to go to school. She still has seizures, but not nearly as many as she was having before. She has scoliosis and aches and pains, but is able to function with less difficulty than before, and her parents couldn’t be happier with her progress. “We take it day by day,” says Higuera. “But the things that were always the most lifethreatening were the seizures and it [CBD oil] has been a game changer. A life changing deal.” Sadie can communicate now; she can play with her siblings and her family can finally enjoy
getting to know their little girl. She even has normal sleeping patterns now, which her parents were not sure she would ever have. The swelling in her spine has also gone down, which means she does not have to wear a back brace full time. Her doctors have seen a major reduction in the number of tumors in Sadie’s body as well. “She is pretty much treated like a normal child now, and that wasn’t possible before,” says Higuera, his voice filled with pride. “It [CBD] has changed our lives.” Because of the restrictions on CBD oil, the Higuera family encountered quite a bit of red tape to have CBD oil administered to her in the ER. They were given a social worker when Sadie was admitted to the hospital and at first, it was difficult to receive the treatment she needed. However, after working with the state and the hospitals, now she is able to receive the oils she needs at the hospital and through doctors. If Sadie has a seizure at school, her parents have to take her off the grounds to administer CBD oil, but she is able to get back to her routine fairly quickly. Because they live in California, it is easier to purchase the oils she needs. Currently, Florida law allows the production and use of CBD oil. However, those who produce it must pay a $5 million bond to the state of Florida. This makes it increasingly difficult to obtain the oil without leaving the state. This could change in November, when medical marijuana will be on the ballot in Florida under Amendment 2, which would allow the use of marijuana and marijuana- related products to treat illnesses when prescribed by a doctor. Amendment 2 will require at least 60 percent of the vote to pass. The benefits of CBD oil and hemp products outweigh the risks, according to Titus. “Currently, no other medicine exists to effectively cure any neurodegenerative disease, according to the Institute for Neurodegenerative Diseases,” he says. “There is tremendous research going on throughout the world on the science of the cannabinoids. We believe there are potential applications for neurology including Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s. In Spain CBD has been researched to assist with depression. It is also used in Israel for bone healing. CBD seems to assist the body’s natural processes via the endogenous cannabinoid system. So people can take this to achieve improved health and wellness; we do hope to eventually have a recommended daily intake established.” Because of the changes that they have seen in their daughter, the Higuera family shares their story to prevent other children from needless suffering. “Doctors have seen us and heard our story and give our information to their other patients so that we can tell them our story,” says Higuera. “Family members who are very against drug use have seen the difference and have learned more about how medical marijuana can be a game changer for so many of us. If we can help more children to live a normal life, than all of the danger of talking about CBD is worth it.” Higuera understands that other parents may criticize his choice, but that only when you are faced with overwhelming negative odds and no other options will someone understand. “We got our daughter back,” says Higuera with a sigh. “That is all we could ever ask for.”
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hidden monsters Sexual abuse and how to stop it By Krista Lyons
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he should have been getting excited for kindergarten, her only worry what color backpack she would wear.
She should have been spending her afternoons eating apple slices and digging a hole to China in the backyard without a care in the world except the dirt caking underneath her small fingernails. Instead, 4-year-old Shana Shippee was carrying the secret that her father was sexually abusing her, and before she was 7 years old, she would be sexually abused by one of her father’s friends and a neighbor. “There was incredible shame and no support,” says Shippee, now a preschool teacher and writer. “He [father] was a monster that wasn’t easy to identify.” Now, as a 40-year-old woman, Shippee has struggled with her weight and self-esteem, but is finding ways to pick up the pieces of the childhood that was taken from her and broken. Shippee’s situation is not unique. One in nine girls and one in 53 boys under the age of 18 experience sexual abuse or assault at the hands of an adult, according to the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network. What is even scarier: 93 percent of the abusers are known to the victim. Abuse can come in many forms, but sexual abuse is unwanted sexual activity, with perpetrators using force, making threats or taking advantage of victims not able to give consent. “We know that a good portion of these terrible violations of children’s innocence take place with people who are familiar to the family, if not family members,” says Sh’nai Simmons, the clinical manager of the Corbett Trauma Center through the Crisis Center of Tampa Bay. “Kids might be scared to talk to their parents, especially when it’s a family member.” For many families, sexual abuse is something that happens to other people, until it happens in your family. In Shippee’s case, her father was well known in the community. Her mother never suspected it would happen in their home. “We became ‘that’ family,” says Shippee. “We just ate our feelings and walked around feeling like we were the ones that committed the crime. My mother was vilified. She never had any support either.”
Prevention One of the most important things you can do is talk about abuse. Simmons says that a key to stopping abuse is to encourage your children to talk about it and make sure that they know how to talk about it.
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“Talk to your children about what sexual abuse is from a young age,” says Simmons. “Talk about the difference between good touch as soon as the child understands language and make sure the child understands that nobody should touch them. Use appropriate vocabulary for the genitalia. We use so many nicknames for sex organs that often times we have learned that children don’t have the right vocabulary to communicate what’s going on. Connect it to the nicknames that you use in the home. So if a young lady’s vagina is called a pocketbook at home, make sure that even though they use that nickname, they are linking it with the appropriate language so that the child can identify that if that conversation needs to happen.” It is also important to make sure that a child knows that they can say no if someone is trying to touch them. Even if it is something as simple as a hug, teach your child that they are the owner of their body and they don’t have to hug anyone that they don’t feel comfortable hugging. Another way you can arm your children against sexual abuse is by establishing a network of vetted adults that they can talk to if they don’t feel they can talk to you, which can often occur if the abuser is a spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend, or friend of the parent. Setting up a network of trusted adults can help the child feel like they have someone who they can approach. Making sure that there are a range of people in that network is important as well to make sure that if someone in the network has the propensity to abuse their power, your child still has someone else to turn to. “Historically, families have had this mindset of what happens in our home stays in our home, and it’s not always something with sexual abuse, but people tend to be private,” says Simmons. “The kids need to know who is safe, like officers or guidance counselors-- people in the community. Those people can change across families and cultures, so it might be pastors, deacons, maybe a chief or godparent-- it just depends on the family system and your cultural dynamics.” In an ideal world, children would feel comfortable enough to come to an adult right away, but that isn’t always the case. There are some signs that you can look for if you think that your child has been abused. The most important: Trust your gut, says Simmons. “We know that oftentimes, children have attempted to disclose on a number of occasions before it actually comes out,” says Simmons. “And it could be that they’ve gotten the nerve to communicate something went on but the family member is distracted and preoccupied in the hustle and bustle of the day. So we recommend having good communication, open communication, and pay attention to the changes in the child’s behavior and temperament.”
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It is also important to pay attention if a child is highly uncomfortable with a particular individual and an environment, especially if that’s not normal for the child. For example if all of a sudden the child doesn’t want to go to grandma’s house anymore, it may be a sign that something is going on. Be patient if the child seems a little bit unlike themselves and watch to see how they act around certain individuals. Do they tense up when an uncle tries to hug them? Is someone tickling them too much and they don’t like it? These are all things to pay attention to. Another great strategy is to teach your child a code word or a buzz word to let you know when something is serious that they want to talk to you about. “Life is full of distractions and things that are really important to get done, like cooking dinner and getting the kids to their practices. But then here comes your child and they are tugging at you and you’re like ‘No, not now, not now,’” says Simmons. “But giving the child a word that they can use or a code that they can use, so that if it’s pertaining to something like sexual abuse or an emergency, something critical, then it helps the parents to know that it’s important and to stop, that dinners not that important right now and that we need to have a conversation.”
What to do if your child was abused For many victims of sexual abuse, no matter their age, talking about it can be the most important piece of trying to heal. “Not talking about it is the worst thing we can continue to do to ourselves because it perpetuates the notion that we have something to be guilty about and it gives power to those that manipulated us when we were young,” says Shippee. “We have the tools and the knowledge and the power to change this now.” Getting the right help in situations of abuse is one of the most important steps you can take. Sexual abuse can cause anxiety issues and post-traumatic stress disorder, and affects every member of the family, including siblings and parents. “One of the things that we have found to be the case is that when a child is abused, that child is not the only victim,” says Simmons. “Everyone, including parents and siblings, will feel guilt and shame and will need help to work through the pain.” While calling 911 might seem like the natural initial reaction to a child’s revelation of abuse—and should be taken if the perpetrator is nearby—other steps can be more beneficial, particularly if the child is coming to the adult after the abuse has occurred. Simmons recommends contacting their child’s doctor to conduct forensic tests to make sure that the child is physically healthy. “Particularly if it is a recent thing, we encourage a forensic exam,” says Simmons. “You want to make sure the child is healthy with no diseases or injuries. A report would also need to be made to the Department of Children and Families (DCF). You want to make sure that you are attending to your child’s immediate needs.” The Mary Lee’s House Children’s Advocacy Center (CAC), located at 2806 N. Armenia Ave. and online at maryleeshouse.org is another great resource for families looking for help after abuse. The organization has a forensic interviewing staff that supports the families of abuse victims and can give them referrals for the next steps in a child friendly environment. Although your family may feel that they can deal with it alone, getting therapy and help is important. Making sure that abuse victims don’t blame themselves will help them move past it later in life. “I never had any therapy until a couple of years ago,” says Shippee. “My family was too traumatized to ever speak of it. I just tried to pretend none of it ever happened. I convinced myself it wasn’t a big deal. Many of us do that. Many adults do that to children suffering from it now.”
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For Shippee, connecting with others and creating an open dialogue about her experiences has empowered her to help others. Through her website, OhMyAchingButtercups.com, she has been able to share her story and encourage others to seek help. “I talk about some deep things,” says Shippee. “I have addressed people who are very religious and those that don’t believe in God at all. Some that are afraid, some that are raging angry. Some that feel worthless and some that have found peace. There have been amazing conversations.” For suffers of sexual abuse, Shippee has a small bit of advice. “Know that we have no reason to be ashamed,” Shippee says. “It was not our act and it’s not our shame to carry. These crimes were committed by someone that was supposed to love and protect us at our most vulnerable, trust-building age. We did nothing wrong.” For information on the Crisis Center of Tampa Bay and the Corbett Trauma Center, visit CrisisCenter.com. To read more about Shippee’s story, visit ohmyachingbuttercups.com.
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setting the stage Parental involvement leads to academic success By Marc Lapointe
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hile the benefits of parental involvement may be a universally accepted idea, it really isn’t that straightforward. In fact, there’s much that we have always assumed about a parent’s involvement in their child’s schooling that we have either been wrong about or has been incomplete.
In a recent study conducted by Keith Robinson and Angel L. Harris for their 2014 book, “The Broken Compass,” the authors make the following observation: “Much of our analyses can be summarized as follows: Most of the ways in which parents can be involved have little impact on children’s gains in reading and math achievement.” Talk about deflating. Does it really mean that the things we do as parents to try and help our kids in school amount to very little, if anything? Why, then, have teachers, administrators and politicians been extolling the virtues of parents being involved in their children’s education for years? It’s important to reassure moms and dads that parental involvement is important and can have a positive effect on a child’s academic success. However, the question really shouldn’t be as black and white as “does it make a difference or not?”Instead, we should be asking about what kinds of parental involvement actually make a difference. Whenever we think of parent participation we usually assume that it involves things like volunteering in the classroom, attending parent-teacher meetings, maintaining regular communication with the teacher, and being involved with a school’s parent advisory committee in some way. These kinds of activities can have a lot of value by allowing parents to nurture a positive relationship with the teachers and administration and, generally, stay in the loop regarding activities and expectations. The problem is that this kind of involvement contributes little, if anything, to a child’s academic success. So what can we do that actually makes a difference? Perhaps the best analogy we can use is something Robinson and Harris refer to as “stage setting.” A child’s “life space” is like a stage where the child is the main actor and the parents are in charge of everything that goes on behind the scenes to make the production a success. They arrange the “stage” in such a way as to ensure the actor, or their child, can engage with the environment. While the actor may have tremendous ability, this potential will never be fully appreciated if the rest of the production is left in disarray, of poor quality or disorganized between acts. In the same way, parents can create the conditions where their child can enjoy real and lasting academic success. Admittedly, the notion of stage setting can be a tough one to buy into. It doesn’t feel as tangible as talking with your child’s teacher, volunteering in the school, or sitting down and helping your child with some tough math homework. Yet, if you look at some of the most successful countries in terms of international testing in math, science and reading you’ll find a very different attitude from our traditional views on parental involvement. In places like South Korea and Finland, parents and teachers simply don’t view parent volunteering as an integral part of a child’s academic success. Parent-teacher communication, while important, is minimal. But if you look more closely, you won’t find parents being disinterested or disengaged.
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Instead, you’ll discover that parents in these countries have been engaging in a type of stage setting. Let’s take a closer look at the kinds of attitudes and actions involved in stage setting.
A Supportive Attitude If parents truly place a good deal of importance on schooling, then their attitudes and actions will reflect this. A genuine interest in a child’s school-related activities – both academic and extra-curricular – is one good example. A supportive attitude can also involve parent-teacher interactions and volunteer work at the school, but these should be viewed as a part of the wider strategy, not as an effective stand-alone approach.
High Expectations Parents should expect their children to put forth their best effort. Effort alone shouldn’t be the measure of success, and it should be understood that the outcomes should reflect the effort. Effort is more than just trying really hard; it’s about finding ways to succeed, whether that means sacrificing more “fun” activities in order to master a difficult concept, getting organized and being better prepared for tests, or looking for extra help from the classroom teacher or mom and dad.
A “School-First” Attitude Parents should convey the importance of earning a good education. This can take many forms but, generally, it can come through in the way parents talk about school and the importance of college and university. While sports and other extra-curricular activities have many benefits, if parents place a greater emphasis on a child’s performance in a certain sport than on his or her academic success, the wrong message will come across loud and clear.
The Right Kind of Help This is a tough one and can be multifaceted. It’s important that young students receive the right kind of help and guidance when needed. For kids in elementary school, parents can help teach basic, essential skills in math and reading. These skills form the foundation for the more complex concepts that they’ll be taught in high school and beyond. Study and organizational skills have also proven to be of great benefit to students and this is an area where parents can teach and keep their kids accountable.
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peace of mind Creating a wellness plan for your family By Nekeshia Hammond, Psy.D.
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he school year has just begun and life may already seem overwhelming with the demands and adjustments that come with our children going back to school. One thing that can help with reducing the overwhelming stress of the school year, and increase your family’s happiness overall, is to create a wellness plan as early as possible. A wellness plan is a commitment for you and your family to be well in mind, body and spirit. Below are the four steps you can take to establish a wellness plan for your family this year.
Commit to the emotional health of your family members • Check in often and ask about your children’s feelings. It’s imperative that you ask things like “How was your day?” and “How are you feeling about school/sports/music?” Even though sometimes you may get short answers, it’s important for children to know their parents are listening to them, that they care about their feelings, and that they are willing to take the time to hear what they have to say. • Schedule times for heart-to-heart conversations with your child. Although it need not be scripted (in fact, it shouldn’t be), you could aim for one-on-one conversations daily or weekly. Set aside time in your calendar and write out how long you plan to spend on these conversations. These conversations don’t have to be at home, and they don’t need to be a grand production either. You can decide to have your one-on-one time at the park, museum, ice cream shop, home or playground. It’s also up to you whether to make it a formal or informal conversation. While you can always be spontaneous in discussions, making a plan to have these conversations helps to keep the lines of communication open between you and your child. It’s so easy to lose track of time and forget to talk with our children, but committing to it by making an appointment in your mind or in your calendar helps you ensure you’ll actually follow through. • Teach children about gratitude, and make it fun! Help your child create a gratitude journal, download a free gratitude app, or establish a gratitude ritual to help your child appreciate life’s gifts. Studies have shown a correlation between individuals who express gratitude and increased wellness, so get started with your family. When we are grateful for what we have it is easier to be happier in life overall because the focus is on the things we do get to enjoy rather than the negative feeling of what we don’t have. • If you suspect your child may have a more serious issue related to their emotional well-being, be assertive and get them the help they need. Don’t simply dismiss things as “a phase” or “something that will pass.” Serious issues left unchecked can lead to harder times in a child’s future as a teen and even later as an adult. You may decide to seek out their pediatrician or family physician for referrals to a mental health professional who can help you further. The earlier you can take care of issues, the better because it’s easier to handle them when they’re fresh and/or still small.
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Make a plan to increase your child’s academic success • Design a homework plan for the school year that includes a structure (time and place) for completing homework. Ensure all the materials are in the homework spot you create, including pens, pencils, paper and books. Doing this ahead of time will help to reduce distractions because all the child will need to do is simply sit down and get to work instead of frequently getting up for more supplies. • Be sure to attend parent-teacher conferences. These conferences are great opportunities for detailed information about what is going on in your child’s academic world. • Communicate often with your child’s teacher. Find out what method works best regarding communication with them, as teachers’ schedules and communication preferences can vary. If you have a concern, be sure to bring it up to the teacher early so you can brainstorm as a team the best ways to help your child.
Establish a routine for eating, sleeping and exercise • It is critical for your child to maintain a healthy diet for optimal health and wellness. So often we hear this statement as parents, but we all need reminders that children need healthy foods, especially a plentiful supply of fruits and vegetables. Choosemyplate.gov has a great selection of recipes and menus for healthy options for your family. • Bedtime routines are also important for your children, no matter what age. While the amount of sleep they get may vary, infants to teens all need sleep to function well throughout the day. Not only will sleep help them focus more in class, it will also help them to have the energy to make it through the day with less stress and emotional fatigue.
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• Exercise is a must for children and teens. Commit to a plan to have children engaged in some form of physical exercise. Perhaps your family could work out together – not only will everyone enjoy the benefits that come with exercise, you’ll also have a great opportunity for more bonding time.
Create family time goals • Many families juggle extracurricular activities, work schedules and sometimes multiple children’s activities, so now more than ever it’s important to get creative with scheduling family time. Again, scheduling it makes it more likely to happen instead of giving it the chance to be an afterthought that may never take place. Some families choose a “game night,” each week. Other families take turns choosing weekend activities to do together such as bowling or going to the movies. There are also some families that aim to eat dinner together as often as possible. Yes, family dinnertime around the dinner table still exists for many families! No matter which option you choose, the important thing is to create goals to spend time together. • Create a “no electronics” period. This could be as little as 30 minutes daily or weekly where the family is required to spend time together without social media, the internet or television interference. This may seem impossible, but setting aside this time will create a distraction-free zone that allows your family to connect on a deeper level and become a stronger unit over all. • Remember, spending time together as a family is important, but parents need to set their own wellness goals as well. After all, parents have a responsibility to take care of children, but they also need to take care of themselves to be effective with others. Nekeshia Hammond, Psy.D. is a licensed psychologist, speaker, and author of The Practical Guide to Raising Emotionally Healthy Children. For more parenting tips, visit: HammondPsychology.com
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What's Happening 25th annual gourmet feastival This fabulous food fest will be held Sept. 15 at the A La Carte Event Pavilion, located at 4050 Dana Shores Drive, Tampa. The event starts at 5 p.m. for VIP ticket holders and 6 p.m. for general admission ticket holders and features 40 restaurants, including Feastival favorites as well as a host of new eateries that will together offer up a scrumptious assortment of libations and tastings. The tastings are complemented by an impressive silent auction to support The Helen Gordon Davis Centre for Women. TheCentre.org
working women of florida conference With the kids back in school, working moms can refocus on their careers. What better way to do that than by attending the Working Women of Florida Conference Sept. 8 and 9 at Tampa’s Straz Center? Packed with motivation, education and inspiration, the event includes networking opportunities and a full day of keynote speakers. Register online. WorkingWomenConference.com
fashion week tampa bay Celebrate Tampa’s unique style at Tampa Bay Fashion Week. This event brings talented fashion and accessories designers to the Tampa Bay area to showcase their work for local, regional and national retail buyers, boutique owners and consumers. Happening Sept. 21- Sept. 24 at various locations around the Bay, this annual event will feature spring and summer collections. FashionWeekTampaBay.com
2016 wine fest: Caskablanca Recreate the romance at Caskablanca, Tampa Theatre’s 15th annual WineFest Sept. 16-18. This year’s event features bites from local independent restaurants, sips from the finest wineries, an exclusive evening of wine and food pairings, and a very special screening of this year’s theme film, “Casablanca.” Tickets are available at the Tampa Theatre Box Office or online. Members save $10 off Premium and Grand tickets for the Friday night Tasting and $2 off the Sunday screening of Casablanca. Patrons are encouraged to dress as their favorite character or come in a Casablanca-inspired costume. TampaTheatre.org
imagination gala You are invited to Imagination, a Gala to benefit the Glazer Children’s Museum. Please join Gala Chairs Shanna and Bryan Glazer as they host GCM’s 14th annual Imagination through the colorful and dreamlike lens of a child on Sept. 9 at 6:30 p.m. Expect the unexpected. Dip into your imagination with this vibrant and interactive party held to support the Glazer Children’s Museum. Invest in the young dreamers of our community to create the next generation of lifelong learners and leaders. GlazerMuseum.org/Imagination
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personalized nap mats Little ones can snuggle into their incredibly soft, luxe nap mat from Janiebee. Made with gorgeous details, including a fabric tie closure and an extra think minky pillowcase, Once naptime is over, simply roll up and tie closed! Personalization and custom nap mats are available. For ages 1-8. $120 janiebee.com
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hh... Summer is over and your kids are finally back at school, learning full-time. Except, of course, for all that time when they’re not at school. Afterschool can be a tricky time period. How do you keep kids engaged, with their minds active, when they’re so loudly hearing the call to munch crunchy snacks on the couch?
are nouns, white socks are verbs, and colored socks are adjectives. Lay out those socks in the order that matches the words on the page. Do the same activity with different types of snacks and, after each successful sentence, eat up your parts of speech:Then you’ve added a new sense plus more engagement.
Our team at the Museum of Science & Industry has pulled together some ideas that may help you keep the gears in your son or daughter’s head turning, even after the last bell rings at school for the day.
Engage their interests. At school, teachers are often aiming to cover a specific skill, so they look for ways to make that skill interesting. At MOSI, and at your house, we have the benefit of being able to do the opposite. Instead of focusing on the desired skill, we can focus on the thing that’s already interesting. Then we can take that interesting topic – like rockets, nature, or design – and then look for the skills that fit naturally with that interest.
Make it fun. Our experience at MOSI has found over and over again that when kids are self-motivated to learn, they’re the most likely to get engaged and stay engaged. We use a range of concepts to get their attention and keep them eager for the next steps. Keep an eye out for afterschool projects that evoke an emotion – especially curiosity, surprise or concern. Add “curiosity” by working with familiar items (like foam pool noodles) in a whole new way (as construction materials). Add “surprise” by revealing a secret word that gets spelled out with the last letters of the items gathered in a scavenger hunt. Add “concern” to a simple math worksheet by making up a quick fairy tale about how your daughter’s LEGO knight needs the answers to all 14 questions to race into the castle and rescue the LEGO king from a wicked sorcerer. Use all their senses. MOSI’s specialty is hands-on learning, but come visit and you’ll see we also mix in quite a bit of eyes-on and ears-on – and in our programs, camps and homeschool labs, we often add in noses-on with smelly substances and tongues-on with unusual foods. Why? Because it works. Engaging more senses pulls you in more to what you’re experiencing. Playing a game of “I Spy” – where you describe something that you see so your child can guess what it is – is a fun way to challenge their observation and language skills. But make the goal to dart over and touch the object, and you’ve added another sense to the mix (and some physical activity, too!). Use a song on your smartphone as part of the clue and you’re connecting even more. Print out some sentences in a font big enough to fill up a page, and then tuck it under a pile of (clean!) socks. When your kid discovers the odd pile and the strange page (curiosity and surprise), they get their mission: dark socks
After School Fun ways to keep kids engaged after school By Grayson Kamm
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If your son or daughter loves rockets, that’s your launch pad for ideas! Understanding gravity, using angles to judge the height of tall objects, and talking about how fire needs oxygen while you’re grilling dinner are all ways to engage an existing interest. And if you’re not sure about something, that’s ok! Pull out your smartphone and search for the answer together. Is art and design your kiddo’s passion? It’s time to design a dream house. Get a pad of graph paper and start laying out walls, windows and the rest of the building. Now it’s time to add in the math – what’s the perimeter of the house? How about the area of the rooms? Is that big enough for a family? Answer questions and create new questions along the way. Check out Pinterest. No, not your kids – you! If you’re not familiar with it, Pinterest is a social network where people “pin” articles, images and ideas from the internet that they want to keep and share. And it is chock full of creative activities and projects for you to do with your kids, or for your kids to tackle on their own. Search for kids’ activities along with a subject that they love or an item you have in your house, and the possibilities will start pouring in. You’ll also be able to find activity calendars, with a new idea for every day of the week. Grayson Kamm works at MOSI, they’re always ready to help keep your kids’ minds working. Their school break camps, overnight camp-ins and 300,000-square-foot science center all aim to keep the excitement of learning going outside the classroom and all year long.
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Mastering the art of motherhood, work and community. Like many women these days, Jennifer Phelps wears many hats. “My favorite hats to wear are my mom and wife hats,” says Phelps, who is mother to an analytical and fun loving 3-yearold boy, Evan, and a fiery, comedic 2-year-old girl, Sara. “I am also the wife to Justin Phelps, a handsome, analytical comedian (see where the kids get it?),” she quips. Phelps is the owner of Engage Behavioral Health and Learning for Life Academy. She is also a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Engage Behavioral Health provides Applied Behavior Analysis/ABA therapy to children, adolescents, and adults with developmental disabilities, specializing in working with children with autism. They provide services in clinics, clients’ homes, schools and in the community. Learning for Life Academy is an ABA-based school providing small student-toteacher ratios and individualized curriculums. As well as her practice, Phelps also stays busy enjoying the outdoors with family and friends. “Being a mom is the greatest gift; it is the most important role I have,” says Phelps. “However, I also love my career and although I don’t believe you can have it all, I do believe that if you set realistic expectations for yourself, your house, and your family, you can find a balance that will make your life whole.” what do you think is the secret to your family's success? I believe a collaborative team approach and communication is key to a successful, loving family! The magic really happens during our weekly “Team Phelps” meetings when my husband and I sit down with our play book (AKA planner) for the week and figure out how we are going to balance our careers, our marriage, taking care of ourselves, and giving our children the love, support, and time that they need and deserve. We take life day by day-- literally! Many impromptu “Team Phelps” meetings arise with our kids daily, sometimes multiple times a day. Sometimes it is crisis management and sometimes we get to help them learn how to work together as a team and explain our expectations for them. Often, it’s explaining how the bedtime routine is going to happen. Yesterday, my 3-year-old called a “Team Phelps” meeting to tell us that his “feelings hurt.” It gave us an opportunity to help him understand why and let him know
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that we value his feelings. At the end of each meeting everyone puts one hand in the middle for a count to “three” and a shout out of, “Team Phelps.” what is your biggest fear? Missing the little moments with my family. I get so caught up in making it all happen that sometimes it is really hard to make myself stop and just be in the moment. I don’t want to look back and not remember the special little moments along the way. Those are the moments that truly make everything worthwhile. what advice would you give to other women? Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you can do it all or feel bad about creating a support system around yourself. Try not to compare yourself to other women or what you see on social media. We all need to create a system that works for our family and career. This system is going to look different for each person. One way is not better than another; they are all just different. what is your proudest moment? I feel like it is a cliché, but nothing can top the births of my son and daughter. I believe that each mom has to choose the birth plan that works best for her. There is no plan that is right or wrong and often how our births go is out of our control. My husband and I fell in love with the idea of having a water birth. The thought of a natural childbirth is scary, especially after watching a few Lifetime movies! I am proud to say that with the support of my husband, Justin, and our Birthing Center, Breath of Life, we were able to have not just one but two successful water births. what is your biggest achievement? When I was 7, I met my nephew, Carlos, who had special needs. I fell in love with him and grew up watching my brother and sister-inlaw’s unbridled pursuit to ensure Carols and their family received the support needed. At 14, while I was babysitting for a child with special needs, I was given the book, “Let Me Hear Your Voice.” The book is about autism and the application of Applied Behavior Analysis. At age 15, I literally drew the floor plans for the clinic for children with disabilities that I hoped to create. At age 26, I incorporated my business. Today, Engage Behavioral Health provides services to families in homes and within our ABA centers throughout Tampa Bay and Tallahassee. The biggest achievement is not the growth of my business, but the countless
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families we have had the opportunity to help. what makes you happy? There are so many things it is hard to choose just one. Crossing things off my list of things to do, watching my children laugh and play together, hearing about the success one of our clients is having and eating gluten-free pizza that actually tastes good are just a few of the many things that make me happy. I believe that if you focus your thoughts on what makes you smile, your list of what makes you happy will never end! how do you relax and take time for yourself? Working with Vicki Buck at the Pilates Grup allows me to recharge my body and mind. If I could fit Pilates into my schedule every day, I would. One hour twice a week is the expectation that works for my life right now. Pilates is great for those of us with busy minds. It is virtually impossible to do the exercises and think about anything else. what kind of message would you like to give women in the area? Tampa Bay is a community that supports you as a mom and as a professional. Take advantage of all this community has to offer. Look around our community and you will find all kinds of organizations, support groups, and activities that will help enrich your quality of life. what is your favorite thing to do in tampa bay? There are so many wonderful things to do in Tampa Bay that each weekend we end up changing our plans. Our family enjoys the Busch Gardens play area, St. Pete Beach, Curtis Hixon Park, North Shore Park, Glazer Museum, and Great Explorations. what is your biggest inspiration? My biggest inspiration is my mom. There is a moment when we each figure out that our parents are actual people and make mistakes. It was then that I realized how amazing she truly is. In the face of adversity, her faith in God is unwavering, her strength and smile contagious, and her heart is always focused on the needs of others. I believe the lessons she taught me have helped shape my personal and professional success include a focus on finding the good in everything, how to forgive, and most importantly how to laugh at myself.
jennifer phelps Jennifer at her office in North Tampa. Photo by Mark Wenple
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ELC Hillsborough Supports Families with Tough Decisions Choosing an early learning program is one of the most difficult and important decisions parents will make. Traci White, Director of Communication and Outreach for the Early Learning Coalition of Hillsborough County, says the first five years of a child’s life are the most crucial developmentally, and it is critical to nurture that development. “How soon a parent places their child in an early learning program is a choice left entirely up to the family. What is important is that once a parent decides to place their child in an early learning program that they be diligent shoppers and educate themselves thoroughly about all of the child care options that are available to them in their community,” White says. “There are many different types of early learning programs and not all are created equal. Parents should understand what a quality early learning program is and how to identify it.” For families in the Tampa Bay area, The Early Learning Coalition of Hillsborough County (ELCHC) exists to ensure that quality early childhood programs are available and accessible to all families in the county. The ELCHC is a parent’s one-stop source for information, programs and resources about early childhood care and education. The Coalition’s Child Care Resource and Referral (CCR&R) services, delivered through its Family Services program, are free to all families in Hillsborough County. The team is staffed by experienced early childhood professionals to guide families in making the best choices to maximize their child’s learning potential. The ELCHC also partners with various agencies and organizations throughout the County to bring events to families including its most recent initiative VROOM™, a free app that parents can download that offers tips on how to do everyday activities like laundry as brain-building activities to prepare preschooler for kindergarten. To learn more about the ELCHC and its Family Services, call 813-906-5041, or visit elchc.org.
Swaptember Is Back for Florida Aquarium and Its partners With the arrival of September, The Florida Aquarium and its Bay area attraction partners MOSI and Tampa’s Lowry Park Zoo resume a unique reciprocal membership program which allow members at any of these three participating attractions to swap membership privileges from Sept. 1 through Sept. 30. Members should keep important information in mind as they make plans to use their “Swaptember” privileges. Members must have their membership card or temporary paperwork and a photo ID to gain access to any of the Swaptember partners. Those who do not have their membership card or temporary paperwork should contact the membership department before visiting a partner attraction. Parking is not included in Swaptember. MOSI and Lowry Park Zoo members pay to park at The Florida Aquarium and Florida Aquarium and Lowry Park Zoo members pay to park at MOSI. (Parking is free at the Zoo.) If someone is not already listed on the MOSI or Lowry Park Zoo membership, they will not receive free entry to the Aquarium. A primary member must be present when a Florida Aquarium membership is used to gain access to a Swaptember partner. Guest Passes are not honored without a primary member present. Partners also do not offer discounts on food or beverages and there is no discount in gift shops. No outside food or beverages are allowed into The Florida Aquarium including coolers. Guests with severe food allergies should contact Florida Aquarium Guest Services in advance at 813-273-4201. To learn more about Swaptember, contact The Florida Aquarium’s Membership department at 813-273-4030 or visit flaquarium.org.
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dates: Aug. 31, 9 a.m. - noon Let’s Move! Outside 2016 Summit Gather co-workers or neighbors and attend this fun, educational event led by Let’s Move Outside Tampa at the Tampa YMCA Training Center in Tampa. Learn about the nonprofit’s goal to get as many groups in Tampa to work together to get people outdoors and enjoying public lands, parks and reserves. tampaymca.org
Sept. 6, 9:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. Free Car Seat Inspection in Riverview Get valuable tips on proper installation of a car seat and a thorough check of your own seat placement courtesy of Pediatric Associates Tampa and Safe Kids of Tampa at their Riverview office. Call 813-443-3074 to schedule a free appointment. patampabay.com
Sept. 13, 3:30-4:15 p.m. Art After School Encourage your young Picassos to express themselves through art at this event held at the Thonotosassa Branch Library. Kids in grades K-5 can demonstrate their talents to make their own artistic creations and take them home. To learn more, call 813-273-3652.
Sept. 15, 11:30 a.m. – 1 p.m. Champions Lunch to Benefit Champions for Children Support building stronger families at this fundraiser luncheon at Westshore Holiday Inn in Tampa. Hear about the group’s child abuse prevention and family education programs and learn this year’s winner of the Cornelia Corbett Child Advocate Award. Tickets are $50. Register at cfctb.org/event/champions-luncheon/.
Sept. 24, 9 a.m. – 3 p.m. 2016 GardenFest Shop local vendors for all of your fall gardening needs at this annual Plant City Garden Club event held at the Union Station Depot in Plant City. Browse everything from plants, garden art and accessories to arts, crafts and antiques. Free admission. plantcitygardenclub.org
Sept. 25, 1-2:30 p.m. Sibling Class Sign up the kids for a valuable class designed for future big brothers and big sisters at St. Joseph’s Women’s Hospital in Tampa. The class will address the joys and challenges of being an older sibling and include ageappropriate information and activities to help prepare kids ages 6-10 for their new role. Cost is $10 per child. baycareevents.org
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The Museum of Science & Industry (MOSI) and Behavioral Consulting of Tampa Bay (BCOTB) have teamed up to support the museum’s mission to make learning even more fun and open to all families in the Bay area. Working under the motto “partnering toward a more autism accessible experience,” the collaboration aims to lead to more vital science and math education for a wider range of students in Tampa Bay, richer and more fulfilling time together for families that include children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), and guidelines for other museums and businesses that are looking to create a more inclusive experience.
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“At MOSI, our core goal is to make science real for people of all ages and backgrounds. By partnering with BCOTB, we are taking that pledge further than ever before,” says MOSI President & CEO Molly Demeulenaere. “Creating a more autism accessible experience means a fresh look at everything on our current campus – from the layout of our hands-on exhibits all the way back to how we let our guests know what to expect before they arrive.”
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BCOTB, a leading provider of Autism Spectrum Disorder analysis and care in the Tampa Bay area, has met with MOSI and already performed a thorough assessment of the science center’s current 300,000 square-foot facility on E. Fowler Ave. in Tampa. Some potential changes identified in the study include revising maps and signs to clearly show families what kinds of sensory information (lights, sounds, etc.) to expect in certain areas and rearranging some exhibits to allow families to bypass sections they may find overwhelming. MOSI’s new website set to launch this month will incorporate new features to improve autism accessibility. To learn more about this and other news and programs at MOSI, go to mosi.org.
Gala planners Aim to raise Funds for university Area CDC Planners and sponsors await this month’s Brand New Day Gala to be held Friday, Sept. 23 at the University Area Community Development Corporation (CDC) Community Center located at 14013 N. 22nd St. in Tampa. This is the fifth year for the event whose planners hope will raise much-needed funds for the CDC which works to improve the economic, education and social levels of the community through youth programs, adult education and resource assistance. The gala launches at 6 p.m. when guests will arrive to find the center decorated according to this year’s theme, the popular Broadway show and film, The Wiz. Patrons will be treated to a tantalizing dinner and dessert bar, followed by presentations by community speakers and live entertainment. Rounding out the evening will be the opportunity to dance to music by DJs from Ultimate Entertainment. “We’ve chosen this theme of The Wiz, with emphasis on the Brand New Day, because we wanted our fifth gala to reflect the spirit of this new era that is dawning for the university area,” says Wendy Leigh, chief development and marketing chief. “We are improving our community brick by brick. We have accomplished so much in recent years, with so many exciting things on the horizon toward the improvement of our community.” The UACDC’s primary mission is the redevelopment and sustainability of at-risk areas surrounding University of South Florida’s Tampa campus. For more information, visit uacdc. org.
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Westchase Artists Society 10th Anniversary Group Show View the work of 17 local artists for a milestone show on display at the Upper Tampa Bay Regional Library in Tampa. Art crosses a variety of mediums including oil, acrylic, watercolor, sculpture and photography. westchaseartists.com
Cigar City: The Story of Ybor City & West Tampa Learn about the area’s rich history at this event in partnership with the Tampa Bay History Center hosted by the Temple Terrace Public Library. Hear from a docent discussing the origin, growth and eventual decline of the cigar industry in Tampa. For more information, call 813-506-6770.
Sept. 10, 9:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. Free My Gym Family Fit and Fun Party Stop by My Gym of Tampa/Westchase as part of this free nationwide My Gym event marking National Childhood Obesity Awareness Month. Bring the kids for a fun morning of Zumba demonstrations and fitness classes. Free to members and non-members. mygym.com/tampa
Sept. 10, 4-7 p.m. 1st Annual Carrollwood Blues & BBQ Pack up the family for a concert and old-fashioned barbecue at this debut event presented by Carrollwood Village HOAS at Carrollwood Cultural Center. Performers scheduled include No Money Down and Troy Youngblood and the Soulfish. Free. carrollwoodcenter.org
Sept. 17, 8 a.m. 5th Anniversary Cheval Cares 5K & Family Fun Day Lace up the sneakers for a fun family event and benefit a good cause at the Cheval Athletic Club. Take part to help raise $30,000 to fund research for children battling cancer. Cost to register is $30 by Sept. 1 and $35 after for adults; $20 by Sept. 1 and $25 after for kids ages 12 and younger. Register at http://events.fastercure.org/cheval5k.
Sept. 20-21, 10:30 a.m. Mysterious Mona Lisa Meet an art student who travels back in time to find answers behind one of art’s most mysterious ladies in this original play onstage at Carrollwood Cultural Center. Young sleuths in the audience will enjoy the play’s exploration of art, science and music. Tickets are $7 members and $8 general admission with a $28 family 4-pack available. carrollwoodcenter.org
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The Mahaffey Announces a Diverse Lineup for 2016-2017 With the addition of 20 new shows, The Mahaffey Theater is delivering to Bay area patrons a diverse schedule of entertainment with its 2016-2017 season across music, dance and family performance. Among the new season’s musical highlights include the debut of a newlycommissioned work from rock legend Mike Mills of R.E.M.; violinist Robert McDuffie and the chamber music group Fifth House Ensemble; jazz guitar legend Pat Metheny fronting an all-new quartet; and the Five Irish Tenors on their first American tour. The venue continues its “Mahaffey on the Move” series, hosted by The Palladium at St. Pete College. This year’s entertainment schedule features a concert by 15-year-old PBS favorite Ethan Bortnick, the one-man theatrical show “Say Goodnight Gracie,” and a performance from the top zydeco band in America, BeauSoleil avec Michael Doucet. Families will see some familiar faces in the 2016-2017 lineup. With “In the Wild Live,” “Jungle” Jack Hanna brings a menagerie of exotic animals to the Mahaffey stage; science and entertainment combine with the lifelike, oversized puppets of “Erth’s Dinosaur Zoo Live”; PBS Kids presents the musical Odd “Squad Live!”; and the magicians of TV’s “Masters of Illusion” return to the St. Petersburg venue. Other Mahaffey favorites return during the new season including appearances by music legend Smokey Robinson, puppeteer Terry Fator and comedian Billy Gardell. Tickets for the new season are currently on sale and can be purchased online at themahaffey. com, on the MyMahaffey mobile app, by phone at 727-893-7832 or in person at The Mahaffey Theater Box Office. The venue also offers its Three for Me packages which allow patrons to purchase three or more shows and receive free parking for each (a $10 value per show), excluding performances at The Palladium Theater.
dates: Sept. 1, 10:30 a.m. Reading with the Ranger Bring the kids to share a story reading with a ranger, go on a morning hike and enjoy a snack as part of this monthly event held the first Thursday at McGough Nature Park in Largo. Cost is $5 per family. To pre-register, call 727-518-3047.
Sept. 5, noon – 4 p.m. Poolside Picnic Holiday Date Pack up the family and a blanket for a fun Labor Day event at Highland Family Aquatic Center. Nibble on goodies from your picnic basket by the pool or buy something at the snack bar. (No alcohol or glass is permitted.) Cost is $12 with rec card for group of 5 and $23 without card. For more information, call 727-518-3016.
Sept. 17, 9 a.m. The CureSearch Walk Honor children whose lives have been affected by childhood cancer as part of this event to be held at its new venue, Walter Fuller Park in St. Pete. Check in at 9 a.m. and begin walk at 10 a.m. Day includes food, music, prizes and fun activities for the whole family. Sign up and raise funds for potentially lifesaving research. curesearchwalk.org
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St. pete General Hospital Honors Its Top Nurse and physician St Petersburg General Hospital recently presented Beth Marras, RN with its annual Nurse of the Year award and named Thomas Mathias, DO as Physician of the Year at the hospital’s annual Year in Review celebration banquet. Beth Marras, RN, Post-Surgical Unit, started at St. Petersburg General Hospital as a PBX Operator before becoming a nurse’s aide in June of 2013. Two years later, she graduated with her RN degree and was later promoted to a nurse leader. Beth had previously been recognized by physicians as a Nursing Excellence Award recipient and has received over 100 patient and family compliments reinforcing the excellent care she provides to patients every day. Thomas Mathias, DO, Family Practice, opened his first practice in Pinellas County. He is well regarded by his patients and has been recognized in the past for his bedside manner. Dr. Mathias has always been involved with St. Petersburg General Hospital, serving as the chair of the Family Practice committee. He has been married to his wife Stevie Mathias for 9 years and raises Arabian horses when he is not practicing medicine. This year’s Year in Review Banquet was hosted by the Hilton St. Petersburg Carillon Park. Nurse recipients are voted on by the physicians and physician recipients are voted on by the nurses. Both are judged on providing exceptional patient care.
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Daddy Daughter Date Night / Mom Son Messy Madness Families can participate in one of two events celebrating special bonds. Daddy Daughter Date Night is 5-8 p.m. at Largo Community Center . Tickets are $39 per couple ($12 each additional daughter) and can be purchased at playlargo.com. Mom Son Messy Madness is 6-8 p.m. at Highland Recreation Complex in Largo. $25 per couple ($8 each additional son). For more info, call 727-518-3016. Register at any of Largo’s three recreational facilities.
Sept. 22, 6-7:30 p.m. Healthy Start Safe Sleep Class Get valuable information about the importance of safe sleep for your baby at this free community class hosted by All Children’s Education and Conference Center in St. Petersburg. Qualifying individuals/families will receive a free Pack N’ Play. Attendees must register at hopkinsallchildren.org. To learn more, call 727-767-6780.
Sept. 24, 7:20 a.m. – 7:20 p.m. Central Avenue Solstice Celebration Spend the day along St. Petersburg’s Central Avenue celebrating the rise and set of the sun as part of this daylong celebration of art, culture, yoga, food and live music. Trolleys will run free all day. centralavenuesolstice.com
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Clearwater YMCA Camp Leader honored Rachel Basmaci, a member of the Teen Leaders program at the Clearwater YMCA, recently received one of eight honor leader awards from the Blue Ridge Leaders School, a group that has been focusing on the efforts of Leaders Club programs at YMCAs and supporting young leaders since 1922. Every year, the YMCA of the Suncoast sends promising young leaders to the school and they come back with newfound independence, confidence and leadership capabilities. Basmaci joined the CIT (counselor in training) program in 2011 and immediately fell in love with helping people and strengthening her community. This appreciation inspired her to join the Teen Leaders program, which is where she learned about Blue Ridge. “I see Blue Ridge impacting me for the rest of my life,” she says. “It has had a huge impact on defining who I am and making sure that I stick to my morals, my motivation, dedication and especially my passion.” After college, Basmaci hopes to become a leader within the YMCA. Her goal is to “strengthen her community and be with the Y as long as possible.” Out of the 800 students that attend Blue Ridge each year, only eight are chosen for the award; four boys and four girls. Vickie Shire, who is in charge of the Leaders Club program at the Clearwater YMCA, was there to see Basmaci accept the award. “My favorite part of being on the mountain this year was finally seeing Rachel be recognized for everything she does for others,” Shire says. As an honor leader, Basmaci will return to Blue Ridge next summer and be in charge of conveying the message of Blue Ridge to the leader division, staff and those attending. The chosen honor leaders are responsible for planning the following year’s school in its entirety, including themes, words of the day and that year’s program focus.
Alex's Million Mile returns Alex’s Lemonade Stand Foundation, a nonprofit dedicated to finding cures for all kids with cancer, is challenging its supporters everywhere to go the distance as part of the September campaign, Alex’s Million Mile (AMM) 2016. Returning for its fourth year during Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, AMM participants will collectively run, walk and/or ride 1 million miles to raise awareness and funds for childhood cancer research. With firsthand knowledge of just how far families will travel for a cure, AMM is the brainchild of Foundation Co-Executive Director and running enthusiast, Jay Scott. The world-wide, virtual event invites individuals and teams to pledge to run, walk and/or ride one million miles from Sept. 1 through Sept. 30. The ambitious goal of 1 million miles is inspired by Jay’s daughter and Foundation creator Alexandra “Alex” Scott, who set out to raise $1 million through lemonade stands in 2004. The initiative provides a fun, easy and free way for people across the country to make a difference in the fight against childhood cancer. Last year, more than 15,000 participants logged over 963,000 in 24 different countries and on 6 different continents. Since its inception, AMM has raised over $1.8 million for childhood cancer research. Individuals and teams who participate can log as many or as few miles as their ability allows, with each mile contributing to the collective million mile goal. Miles can be logged manually or by using MapMyFitness or Fitbit apps during the month. The event is free to participants, but fundraising is encouraged. For more information about Alex’s Million Mile campaign and to register, visit AlexsMillionMile.org.
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dates: Sept. 10, 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. DFAC Kids Festival Bring out the whole family to Dunedin Fine Art Center for this popular annual celebration of youth and creativity in Dunedin. Kids can enjoy a morning of children’s fun including hands-on art activities, games, music and food. For more information, call the Center at 727-298-3322. dfac.org
Sept. 11, 6 a.m. Annual Kids ‘Swim Bike and Run for Freedom’ Triathlon Gear up the kids for a fun triathlon to honor those who serve in the military as well as the heroes who perished on 9/11 at this fitness event hosted by Greater Palm Harbor YMCA. Children can run a course that is safe, easy to follow and perfect for the first-time triathlon participant. Kids compete by age group: 5-6, 7-10 and 11-15. suncoastymca.org
Sept. 13, 20 and 27, 3:30-4:30 p.m. BMX S.T.E.M. After School Enroll the kids in a fun program offered through Cypress Forest Recreation Center in Oldsmar. Participants can learn the Science behind BMX bicycles over an 8-week curriculum. Cost is $40 for the 8-week session with Rec Card ($60 without card). For more information, call 813749-1260.
Sept. 17, 9-11 a.m. Mommy & Me Drive-In Movie Enjoy an indoor drive-in movie with your child ages 1-5 at Dunedin Community Center. Watch a film on the big screen and make a cardboard car together to decorate. Snacks provided. Cost is $10 per parent-child pair. Families must register by Sept. 13. 727-812-4530.
Sept. 17, 10 a.m. – 2 p.m. Truck & Play Day Celebrate the city with fun games, obstacle courses, arts and crafts and a variety of different trucks for children to touch and climb aboard at Safety Harbor City Park. Event is free and open to the public. For more information, call 727-724-1545. cityofsafetyharbor.com
Sept. 23, 10 a.m. - noon Family Fun Friday Mornings Visit Brooker Creek Preserve and build your kids’ interest in the natural world as part of the Tarpon Springs center’s monthly program. Wear closed-toe shoes. Free but advance registration is required at brookercreekpreserve. eventbrite.com.
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Live oak Theatre Announces Its New Season Live Oak Theatre has announced the following productions for its 2016-2017 season. Live Oak’s season consists of a fall and spring musical production and a special Christmas celebration. This season’s productions will include: an original musical adaptation of J.M. Barrie’s “Peter Pan” (Nov. 4-5, 11-12); the return of the Merry Medieval Madrigal Feast (Dec. 9-10, 16-17); and the beloved musical “Wizard of Oz” (March 31, April 1, 7-8, 2017). “A Merry Medieval Madrigal Feast” will feature traditional Christmas music as performed by the Faith EPC Choir and Live Oak Theatre. All performances are held at the Faith Evangelical Presbyterian Church in Brooksville, located at 200 Mount Fair Ave. in Brooksville. Shows run 7:30 p.m. Friday and Saturday nights with an additional 2:30 p.m. matinee production on Saturdays. All Live Oak Theatre productions are family-friendly and feature adults and youth cast in age-appropriate roles. Season tickets are available. The Live Oak Theatre Company (LOT), a non-profit organization, is a division of YWAM (Youth With a Mission) Tampa, a not-for-profit 501c3 company focused on enriching families, individuals, and the community by providing positive, artistic experiences through the performing arts. This includes family-friendly entertainment, performance and educational opportunities for theater patrons and participants of all ages. For more information about the theatre company, contact Vince Vanni at 352-797-9199 or visit them online at liveoaktheatre.org.
Families Encouraged to Sign up for run To remember The Hernando County YMCA will host the 15th Annual Run To Remember 5K Run and 1-mile walk on Sunday, Sept. 11. This event is free and open to all members of the community. The memorial run and walk starts at 7:30 a.m. at the Hernando County YMCA located at 1300 Mariner Blvd. in Spring Hill. The event will be timed with prizes awarded to the first-, secondand third-place finishers. Each year as a show of patriotism, race coordinators ensure the U.S. flag crosses the finish line in first place. Participants can purchase a commemorative t-shirt at the event and enjoy a free continental breakfast at the Y. Other YMCA centers across the nation will take part in similar events to remember and honor those lost on Sept. 11, 2001. The Hernando County YMCA is comprised of a 27,000 square-foot facility which sits on 20 acres of property and includes an 8,000 square-foot Wellness Center, Cycling Room, two Group Exercise Rooms, an 8-lane Junior Olympic-size heated pool, kids indoor play area and nursery. The property also features lighted softball fields, basketball courts and preschool and school age playgrounds. For more information on this year’s Hernando County YMCA memorial run or any other upcoming events, contact Executive Director Amber Slusser at aslusser@suncoastymca.org or call 352-688-9622. To learn about this and other programs and events, visit suncoastymca.org.
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dates: Sept. 7, 10-11 a.m. Wiregrass Ranchers Kids Club Take the little ones to Shops at Wiregrass in Wesley Chapel the first Wednesday each month for fun courtesy of Florida Hospital Wesley Chapel. Kids meet children’s entertainer Mr. Tommy for face painting, balloon art and other activities. shopsatwiregrass.
Sept. 10, 9-10 a.m. Nature Photography for Kids Sign up kids ages 7-12 for an introductory nature photography program offered through Hernando County Photographers at Chinsegut Conservation Center near Brooksville. Each child gets a digital camera to take home and prints of their work during the program. Preregistration required by Aug. 31 with $25 fee. For info, call 352-754-6722.
Sept. 17, 4-8 p.m. Fish Fry Benefit for Pioneer Florida Museum & Village Show your support for the Pioneer Florida Museum & Village by dining in or get carryout of a delicious fish dinner from the Roy Hardy Kiwanis held at the Dade City Museum. Proceeds benefit the museum’s programs. Stick around and listen to the music of Sara Rose Bank. Tickets are available at the museum. pioneerfloridamuseum.org
sept. 17, 6-10 p.m. Magic Gala Enjoy a special evening filled with music, food and drink and beautiful decorations as part of this Morton Plant Mease Health Care Foundation fundraiser at Spartan Manor in New Port Richey. Evening will benefit Morton Plant North Bay Hospital, West Pasco’s only not-for-profit hospital. Tickets are $125. To learn more, call 727-4623508. baycare.org
Sept. 20, 6:30-8 p.m. Family Night Out Get ready for a night of games, crafts and stories for the entire family the third Tuesday of every month at Land O’ Lakes Library. Activities are designed for kids ages 5-12. Evening is sponsored by the Friends of the Land O’ Lakes Library. For more information, call 813-929-1214.
Sept. 24, 8:30-11:30 p.m. Student Survival Flick and Float Spend the night swimming under the stars and catch a fun flick poolside at Veterans Memorial Pool in Hudson. This month’s feature film is “Pirates of the Caribbean.” Event is free. To learn more, call 727-861-3033.
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polk County Celebrates State Teacher of the Year Polk County Public Schools is celebrating the recent naming of one of its own. Jessica Solano, a third-grade teacher with seven years teaching experience who also serves as the technology integration coach at Highlands Grove Elementary, was named 2016 Teacher of the Year for Polk County Public Schools in February and later in May, a 2017 Teacher of the Year state finalist. In a July Macy’s gala to honor the state’s top educators, this year’s five Florida finalists were celebrated and Solano announced as the 2017 Florida Department of Education/Macy’s Teacher of the Year by Florida Governor Rick Scott and First Lady Ann Scott. “We are fortunate to have educators like Jessica Solano in our schools,” says Polk County Schools Superintendent Jacqueline M. Byrd. “She embodies the best qualities of a teacher: the willingness to challenge her students as well as herself, desire to innovate, initiative to embrace technology, and genuine concern for the children of our community.” The winner will serve for one year as the Christa McAuliffe Ambassador for Education, touring the state to spread the word about Florida’s great success in education and the many opportunities afforded to students and educators in the Sunshine State. In addition to a $20,000 award funded by the Department of Education and Macy’s, the Teacher of the Year will receive a $1,000 wardrobe, a $1,000 check for her school and an all-expense paid trip for four to New York City to attend the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Solano is the fifth state finalist and third state winner from Polk County Public Schools in 12 years. This year’s five state finalists were chosen from more than 195,600 public school teachers throughout the state by a Department of Education-appointed selection committee representing teachers, principals, parents and the business community.
Bok Tower Gardens to unveil Largest Expansion in 87 Years After months of construction and the successful conclusion of the “Preserve the Legacy, Steward the Future” capital campaign, Bok Tower Gardens comes into full bloom this month with the opening of several highly anticipated garden areas. The grand opening celebration day for the Pollinator Garden, Hammock Hollow Children’s Garden, Wild Garden, Outdoor Kitchen and Edible Garden will be Saturday, Sept. 10. The Gardens will open at 8 a.m., and general admission will be free for this historic event. The celebration will begin at 10 a.m. with a special ribbon cutting dedication and remarks from Gardens’ president David Price, Board of Directors Chair Cindy Alexander, Board of Directors Vice Chair Dr. Tomas Bok, and Dr. Nick Place, Dean and Director of University of Florida/IFAS Extension. Keeping with the theme of celebrating the future, children will be invited to commemorate the ribbon cutting moment with a native pollinator release.
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The day will also feature culinary demonstrations in the Outdoor Kitchen with special guest Tyler Zager, a Florida native and recent winner of the Food Network’s Kids BBQ Championship along with a full schedule of special activities, music and demonstrations. For more information about the grand opening and full schedule of events, visit boktowergardens.org.
dates: Sept. 2, 6-9 p.m. Dog Days Downtown 2016 Bring the whole family (including four-legged members on leashes) to this popular Downtown Lakeland Partnership First Friday event at Munn Park. Evening will include water activities, obedience training demonstrations, live music, raffles, giveaways and more. Proceeds benefit the SPCA Florida. Free admission. spcaflorida.org
Sept. 10-11, various times LEGO® Star Wars™ Days Take your little Jedis to LEGOLAND Florida for this special themed event at the Winter Haven theme park. Kids can meet LEGO Darth Vader, learn LEGO building tips from the park’s Master Model Builders, go on a Yoda scavenger hunt and dress up as their favorite character during a fun, interactive costume parade. Activities are included with admission. legolandflorida.com
Sept. 17, 6 p.m. Cypress Gardens Water Ski Team Show Watch members of the original Cypress Gardens Water Ski Team continue wowing audiences and displaying their water skiing talents on Lake Silver in Winter Haven on the third Saturday every month. cypressgardenswaterskiteam.com
Sept. 23-25, various times Junie B. Jones the Musical See a delightful adaptation of four of Barbara Park’s best-selling children’s books brought to life on stage in a comical musical that is not just for kids at Lakeland Community Theatre. Tickets are $15 adults and $12 children ages 12 and younger. lakelandcommunitytheatre.com
Sept. 24, 8-10:30 a.m. Bubble Run Lakeland Sign up for a family run as part of this fun event at SUN ‘n’ FUN Expo Campus in Lakeland. Adults, kids and strollers can run, walk, dance and play across three miles and at each kilometer, participants will travel through colorful foam bogs to cover them from head to toe. Cost is $20-$50. Kids ages 4 and younger race for free with fully paid adult registration. bubblerun.com
Sept. 24, 5:30-8:30 p.m. Girls Night Out in Downtown Lakeland Gather your girlfriends and sisters for a special evening in downtown Lakeland. Shops, salons, spas, bars and restaurants will have specials catering to the ladies as part of this Downtown Lakeland Partnership event. Free admission. downtownlakelandfl.com
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Stevie Morgan, owner of Cater Me Fit, at the 9th Annual Back to School Fair at Westshore Plaza.
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Santa and Mrs. Claus came down to celebrate Christmas in July at St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital, where they worked to raise money and cheer for patients.
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EZ Buckle Belts staff Deb, Brenda and Sandy came to the 9th Annual Back to School Fair at Westshore Plaza.
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Tampa YMCA Governance Board Members Steve Ellis and Dena Shimberg, Tampa YMCA President & CEO Tom Looby, Bob Sierra North Tampa YMCA Board Chair Nancy Favilla and Bob Sierra Y Board Member Fred Seguiti at the ribbon cuting for their three new fitness studios.
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Tampa Bay Parenting social mom Laurie Winkles at the 9th Annual Back to School Fair at Westshore Plaza.
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Riley Moran, Charles Hobby, Walker Thomas, Kaitlyn Faulkner, Wynne Thomas, Michael Satin, Daniel Potter, Robert Bhoolai (RHS Principal), Nick Carlstedt, Paul Jennewein, Carter French, Jack Sowers, Richard Bennett, Cutter Hutson, Wilson Carlstedt, Samantha Baker taking part in the Eagle Scout project.
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St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital staff became superheroes for the day to cheer up the patients of the hospital.
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Lowry Park Zoo staff presented the sounds of Hitsville U.S.A. and Motown Madness for their annual Sunset Celebration.
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Superheroes stopped by Johns Hopkins All Children’s Hospital in St. Petersburg to host Bingo with the staff and patients.
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Annual Columbia Community Harvest
All Month Dine at your local Columbia Restaurant this month and 5 percent of your check for lunch or dinner will be donated to the charity of your choice. Everyone
Labor Day Weekend Fireworks Celebration
e v e n t s & f e s t i va l s pay for a Day, rest of Year FrEE at MoSI
All Month Try your hand at MOSI’s 450 hands-on exhibits and beat the heat and storms by paying for admission one visit and returning for free for the rest of 2016. A regularly priced MOSI general admission entitles guests to a new Discovery Passport, giving free unlimited admission to MOSI exhibits through the end of 2016 with some restrictions and blackout dates that apply. mosi.org
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MoSI Summer Games
All Month Cheer on the kids going for the gold as part of this fun series of challenges at Tampa’s MOSI. Watch them compete in 11 indoor Olympic events as they discover the science behind the sports in Rio. Play as a family and share a worldwide athletic experience. Each kid who completes MOSI’s science scavenger hunt gets a medal to take home. mosi.org Everyone
Idea Zone at MoSI
All Month Wield the power of “urawaza,” Japanese for “secret tricks,” at MOSI. Learn handy tips to solve everyday problems, such as removing stains, repairing broken items and more. Idea Zone activities are included with admission. mosi.org Everyone
Minecraft Mania
Sept. 3, 10, 17 and 24, 1-3 p.m. Learn or level up your Minecraft engineering skills in exciting educational challenges at MOSI in Tampa. Each week, participants discover new magical worlds found only on MOSI’s multiplayer server. Create wild designs, engineer marvels and make a playground for the imagination. Program fee $20, MOSI members $15. Advance registration recommended. mosi.org 7-12
Blue Star Museums Collaboration
Through Sept. 5, various times Active duty military personnel including National Guard and Reserve and their families can enjoy a free admission promotion through Labor Day at more than 2,000 U.S. museums, including MOSI in Tampa. The program is in collaboration with the National Endowment for the Arts, Blue Star Families and the Department of Defense. For a complete list of participating sites, go to arts.gov/
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Sept. 3-5 Keep the summer alive with a special fireworks celebration and later closing (10 p.m.) on Saturday and Sunday, plus extended hours to 8 p.m. on Labor Day. buschgardenstampa.com Everyone
Member Morning at Glazer Children's Museum
Sept. 4, 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. Enjoy special members-only access to the museum. Ask another family member to join (up to five guests admitted at no charge; must include an adult). Current member’s family can buy a membership for 20 percent off regular price that day only. glazermuseum.org
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Labor Day Fun at Great Explorations
Sept. 5, 10 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. Join in for patriotic-themed games and crafts all day included with admission at Great Explorations Children’s Museum in St. Pete. Day includes create-your-ownprofession paper dolls, origami stars and red, white and blue bracelets. Children can take part in the When I Grow Up Wall and Labor Day Relay. In honor of the holiday, the museum is offering one FREE admission to all first-responders and members of the military (active and retired). Please bring proper ID for free admission promotion. greatex.org Everyone
Children's Board of Hillsborough County Free Admission Tuesday
Sept. 6. 2-7 p.m. Take advantage of this free admission promotion courtesy of The Children’s Board of Hillsborough County and bring the kids to the Glazer Children’s Museum to check out its latest exhibits and meet special guests. Adults must be accompanied by a child and vice versa. glazermuseum.org Everyone
Working Women State Conference 2016
Sept. 8-9, various times Be part of this empowering 4th annual event held at Straz Center in Tampa. Hear from dozens of speakers from all over the country, network and interact with vendors and keynote speakers. Tickets are $90-$200. workingwomenconference.com Moms
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Sept. 9, 6-10 p.m. Drop off the kids with trusted staff at the St. Pete museum for a night of fun activities while taking time
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for yourself. Children can play, explore the Touch Tunnel, watch science shows and enjoy a G-rated movie. Pizza, snacks and juice are included. Advance registration is required. greatex.org/programs/parents-night-out/ 4-10
Imagination Gala at Glazer Children's Museum Sept. 9, time TBA Save the date for this annual fundraiser to benefit the Glazer Children’s Museum being held this year at the venue. Museum will be closed during normal business hours for the day. Check glazermuseum.org for gala details as they become available. Moms,Dads
Superhero Weekend at Great Explorations
Sept. 9-11, various times Tap into your own superpowers and perfect your superhero look at Great Explorations Children’s Museum in St. Pete. Earn a super certificate at the Superhero Academy, design a superhero paper doll and make a super-cool mask. Day also includes surprise superhero guest appearances on Saturday and Sunday. greatex.org
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5th Annual Fall Stampede
Sept. 10, 8 a.m. Sign up the whole family for a fun morning at Cotanchobee Fort Brooke Park behind Amalie Arena in Tampa’s Channelside District. Day includes a 5K run and 1-Mile Family Fun Walk and the addition of new activities including a Mascot Race. Proceeds benefit the Children’s Cancer Center. To register, visit fallstampede.com.
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Infant Massage Class at Great Explorations
Sept. 10, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Learn how to use massage and nurturing touch to bond with baby through Touch of Sunshine Infant Massage, LLC, available onsite at Great Explorations in St. Petersburg. Fee is not included with admission; museum admission not required to participate in massage class. For details, contact Debbi at 727-744-9411 or debbicourtney@gmail. com. greatex.org Moms, Dads
2016 Jungle Book Gala
Sept. 10, 5:30-11 p.m. Attend this celebration of Big Brothers Big Sisters Tampa Bay mentoring programs for at-risk children at this black tie-optional fundraiser at the Marriott Waterside in Tampa. This year’s theme,”The Jungle Book,” will carry throughout the evening of a seated dinner, full open bar, inspiring program, live and silent auctions and live entertainment. Tickets are $250. bbbstampabay.org Moms,
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Jack Hanna Weekend
Sept. 10-11, various times Join “Jungle Jack” Hanna for wild animal shows, autograph signings and special meet-and-greets when he visits Busch Gardens® Tampa. The internationally-known animal expert will share animal facts and tales from his travels during animal shows at Stanleyville Theater. buschgardenstampa.com Everyone
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Sept. 11, 2:30 p.m. See an amazing mentalist in action as the former America’s Got Talent finalist brings his talents to the stage for a special fundraiser marking The Florida Holocaust Museum’s 25th Anniversary hosted by The Palladium at St. Pete College. Tickets are $25 for Pearlman’s 2:30 p.m. show and $100 for 12:30 p.m. VIP private lunch reception, personal mentalist experience as well as prime show seating. mypalladium.org Moms,
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Developmental Checkups at Glazer Children's Museum
Sept. 13, 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. Meet with a child development expert to review and discuss your children’s development as part of a special museum partnership between Glazer Children’s Museum, Champions for Children and Baby Bungalow. Pre-registration is required and checkups included with general admission or membership. A caregiver must accompany child. Checkups take 15-30 minutes. To learn more, contact Denisse at ddeleon@glazermuseum.org.
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Gourmet Feastival
Sept. 15, 6-8:30 p.m. Celebrate all things delicious as this fabulous food fest at the A La Carte Event Pavilion in Tampa. VIP ticket holders may begin the feast at 5 p.m. and general admission is at 6 p.m. This year’s event welcomes 40 area restaurants including Feastival favorites and new eateries. Funds raised benefit The Helen Gordon Davis Centre for Women. Tickets are $75 VIP and $25 general admission in advance ($100 VIP and $50 at the door) and can be purchased at thecentre.org. Moms, Dads
2016 WineFest: Caskablanca
Sept. 16-18, various times Sip, nosh and mingle at this popular annual weekend of wine events at Tampa Theatre in downtown Tampa. This year’s event features bites from local indie restaurants, wines from the area’s top wineries, an exclusive evening of wine and food pairings and a very special screening of this year’s theme film “Casablanca.” For the full lineup of events and ticket information, visit tampatheatre.org. Date Night, Girls Night Out
Create your own model at this event hosted by the Armed Forces History Museum in Largo featuring professionals from the Pelikan Model Club. Cost is $14.95 youths and $9.95 adults and includes take-home model, dog tags, museum access and simulator ride. armedforcesmuseum.com 6 & Older
olli Course: Modern Florida History
Sept. 21, 10 a.m. Be a college student again (without exams) and enjoy a condensed version of the Modern Florida History class led by USF Professor and Tampa Bay History Center Curator Rodney Kite-Powell at the downtown Tampa museum. Catch three lectures exploring Florida’s 19th and 20th century history using historic maps as a guide. Cost is $30. Register via USF/OLLI. For more info, go to tampabayhistorycenter.org. Moms, Dads
Fashion Week Tampa Bay
Sept. 21-24, various times Experience Tampa Bay’s fashion scene through an exciting mix of designer presentations and events across various Bay area venues, including two runway shows at International Plaza & Bay Street with retail and student showcases; a Sip & Shop Pop-up at The Hideaway; Swanky Soiree at Nova and return of Kid Couture at The Glazer Children’s Museum. For designers and schedule, visit fashionweektampabay.com.
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Developmental Screenings
Sept. 23 Pack up the kids for free children’s health screenings for infants, toddlers and preschool courtesy of a program sponsored by Early Childhood Council and Children’s Board of Hillsborough County. Screenings assess vision, hearing, speech, language, behavior and overall development and are available at a different site each month. For September, the host is St. Mark’s Catholic Church, 9724 Cross Creek Blvd. in New Tampa. Schedule an appointment at 813-837-7723. Newborn - 5
The Illusionists – Live from Broadway
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Sept. 23-25, various times Let some of the world’s greatest magicians mesmerize as they return to Tampa’s Straz Center with incredible new illusions in a fast-paced show which broke box office records on Broadway. Friday, Sept. 23 is Broadway Family Night and offer families a free, one-hour pre-show with festivities for the kids and grown-ups. Also, the 7:30 p.m. performance Sunday, Sept. 25 will be Sign Language Interpreted. For tickets and showtimes, go to strazcenter.org. Everyone
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Museum Day Live!
Space Talk
Sept. 17, 5 p.m. Learn about cosmology as part of this special free program offered through MOSI. Take a closer look at tough questions like “What is time?”, “Are there other universes?” and “Will the universe end?” mosi.org
Sept. 19, 8 p.m. - midnight Return to the roaring 20s as part of this fun, annual costume bash at ARTpool Gallery in St. Petersburg. Don your best speakeasy attire and catch a flapper fashion show on the main stage at 10 p.m. Check out artwork and dance the night away. Tickets are $20 VIP and $10 general admission through Sept.18 and $25 VIP and $15 day of event. artpoolgallery.com Moms, Dads
Build-A-Model Camp Sept. 18, 12:30-2 p.m.
Sept. 24 Check with area museums for participation in this national free admission promotion to honor the spirit of the Smithsonian Institute facilities in Washington D.C. which offer free admission daily. For a list of the 1,300 participating U.S. museums, visit smithsonianmag. com/museumdaylive and download a ticket which provides free admission for two people. Limit is one per household and email address. Everyone
St. Jude Walk/run Tampa Sept. 24, 8-11 a.m.
Sign up for this nationwide fundraiser which returns to Amalie Arena for its second year in Tampa. Participants will take a scenic 5K chipped run or family walk along Bayshore Blvd. and enjoy family-friendly activities and live entertainment. Registration is $10 adults and children ages 6 and older. Participants are encouraged to form teams and raise funds for the hospital. stjude. org/walkrun Everyone
Thin Mint Sprint and Tagalong Trot
Sept. 24, 8 a.m. Take a trot through Safety Harbor as part of this annual Girl Scouts of West Central Florida event which launches from Safety Harbor Marina. New this year is the Samoa Challenge, where participants can run both races at a discounted price. The event promotes healthy living and benefits more than 19,000 Girl Scouts in west central Florida. For more information and to register, visit gswcf.org/spring. Everyone
Glazer Children's Museum's Sixth Birthday Bash Sept. 24-25, various times Celebrate the museum turning the big 6 this year with free admission at the downtown Tampa museum both days. On Sunday from 1 p.m. to 6 p.m., guests will get to take part in a birthday bash with special performances, games, music and more. glazermuseum.com Everyone
Hillsborough County public Schools Spirit Day at the Bucs
Sept. 25, 4:05 p.m. See the Tampa Bay Bucs take on the Los Angeles Rams at Raymond James Stadium in Tampa and support Hillsborough County Public Schools in the process as part of this special Spirit Day event. Visit buccaneers. com/krewe and enter the code HCPS to purchase tickets. Everyone
Stars and Stripes u.S.o. Show
Oct. 1, 8 p.m. Get together with family members of all ages for a unique celebration of the big band era at this special salute to the song and dance of World War II featuring the G.I. Joe Band at St. Petersburg Coliseum. Reserved seats are $26 advance and $28 night of event. VIP tickets are also available for $50. armedforcesmuseum. com Moms, Dads
spECIAL NEEDS Autism Eats Dinner
Aug. 29, 6-8 p.m. Autism families are invited to take part in a stress-free restaurant dinner at East Coast Pizza in Riverview. The event provides an autism-friendly non-judgmental
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Family Support Group
Sept. 6, 6:30-7:30 a.m. Meet with other parents of special needs kids at this monthly support group hosted by Johns Hopkins All Children’s Hospital Child Development and Rehabilitation Center in St. Pete. RSVP at 727-767-2885. johnshopkinsallchildrens.org Moms, Dads
Superhero Great Connections
Sept. 11, 10 a.m. - noon Experience the Great Explorations Children’s Museum in St. Petersburg with other special needs families while the venue is closed to the public. This month, kids can take part in superhero-themed activities including Superhero Academy at 10:30 a.m., a Kryptonite search in the Touch Tunnel at 11 a.m. and a super animal encounter at 11:30 a.m. Cost is $5 per person. greatex. org 6 & Older
Free Homeschool Social Skills Group
Sept 1, 8, 15, 22 and 29, 11 a.m. - noon Enroll kids in grades 2-5 for a free, interactive weekly social skills group with Hammond Psychology in Brandon. Register online or call 813-567-3253. hammondpsychology.com 7-10
Youth Transition Fair-pinellas
Sept. 15, 5:30-7:30 p.m. Learn about making the transition towards independent living with this event led by the Family Network on Disabilities at its Coachman Service Center in Clearwater. Fair includes professionals to discuss the transition process from high school to life after school and to empower youth and their parents as they navigate the process. fndusa.org 14 & Older
Sunshine Sunday at Glazer Children's Museum
Emerging Artists and Never Forget: 15 Years Later
A Beautiful planet
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Great White Shark
Through Sept. 3, various times View the latest concurrent exhibitions on display at The Studio @620 in St. Petersburg. See paintings by emerging artists Emily Schadow (large-format acrylic) and Konstantin Chinkov (watercolor) as well as a mixed media installment reflecting “a Personal Meditation on 9/11” by Jeff Wilcox. Free admission. thestudioat620.org
All Month Study Earth from space in this IMAX film co-produced with Disney in cooperation with NASA currently playing at MOSI. Narrated by Jennifer Lawrence, the film follows astronauts aboard the International Space Station. One documentary IMAX® film is included with MOSI general admission. mosi.org Everyone
Through Sept. 17 Check out the latest art exhibition on display at Polk Museum of Art before it closes. The collection offers a comprehensive 50-year chronology of the Lakeland museum’s permanent collection and its evolution. polkmuseumofart.org Everyone
All Month Learn about the iconic predator humans love to fear in this IMAX film playing at MOSI. The film explores the great white shark’s place in our imaginations, fears and the reality of our world with its role at the top of the oceanic food chain. Meet shark researchers and people whose lives have been changed the great white. mosi. org 8 & Older
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National parks Adventure
A Sum of Its parts Exhibit
Sept. 3, 10, 17 and 24, 11:45 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. Take the kids to The Dali in St. Petersburg to uncover their inner artist as they learn about the creative world through a variety of activities including games, puzzles and arts and crafts. Families are encouraged to stay and join in the fun. Free. thedali.org 5-12
palm Harbor Craft Festival
Sept. 10-11, 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Browse work from talented artists from across the country at a new crafts event to be held along Florida Avenue in downtown Palm Harbor. Free admission. artfestival.com Everyone
Fourth Fridays @ FMoPA
Sept. 23, 4-7 p.m. Come out to the Florida Museum of Photographic Arts in downtown Tampa for a different activity every fourth Friday. Members and the general public are invited to these events which include openings, social hours and lectures. Free with $10 suggested donation for nonmembers. This month, guests can attend the opening of the USF Department Faculty Exhibition with a faculty lecture at 6 p.m. fmopa.org Moms, Dads
Sept. 25, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Check out the exhibits and take part in fun activities at Glazer Children’s Museum in Tampa during this special access event featuring lights and sounds lowered and programming for those with special needs to experience the museum exclusively. Advance registration suggested. Free for members and $5 nonmembers. glazermuseum.org Everyone
All Month Explore the red rock canyons, traverse steep mountain peaks, and reach other-worldly realms among America’s most legendary outdoor places on the five-story screen in this IMAX film currently playing at MOSI. Filmed in more than 30 national parks, the movie celebrates 100 years of National Park Service. mosi.org Everyone
Summer Classics Movie Series at Tampa Theatre
Sept. 4, 11 and 18, 3 p.m. Catch this popular classic film series at Tampa Theatre as it wraps up. This month, see “The Wizard of Oz” (Sept. 4), “Gone with the Wind” (Sept. 11) and “Casablanca” (Sept. 18). Tickets are $10. tampatheatre. org Everyone
The Wild Life
Opens Sept. 9 Meet a friendly parrot and his rambunctious band of animal friends in this new animated film. After the group encounters a new friend on the island, Robinson Crusoe, and teaches him about island survival, all of them learn about the strength of true friendship. Running time, 90 minutes. Check local movie listings for showtimes. 8 & Older
Storks
Opens Sept. 23 Get the real story behind the lives of storks and their transition from delivering babies to packages in this new animated comedy. Film features the voice talents of Andy Samberg, Jennifer Aniston, Ty Burrell and Kelsey Grammer. Rated PG. 8 & Older
Queen of Katwe
Opens Sept. 23 Learn about a young girl from Uganda and her journey to become an international chess champion. Film stars Lupita Nyong’o and David Oyelowo. Rated PG. See area theaters for ticket information and show schedule. 8 &
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Opens Sept. 30 See director Tim Burton’s latest film adaptation of a young adult bestseller. Meet Jacob, who uncovers
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different eras and worlds, including Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children, and is introduced to some of the home’s tenants and their special powers. Film stars Eva Green, Asa Butterfield, Samuel L. Jackson and Allison Janney. 12 & Older
Sept. 9, 7:30 p.m. Sing along with the country star when she brings her Keeper of the Flame Tour to the MIDFLORIDA Credit Union Amphitheatre at the FL State Fairgrounds in Tampa. Lambert will be joined by special guests Kip Moore and Brothers Osborne. Tickets are $25-$59.75. livenation.com 12 & Older
Il Divo – Amor & Pasion
Sept. 21, 8 p.m. Get lost in the mesmerizing sounds of the classical crossover group when they take their latest tour to Clearwater’s Ruth Eckerd Hall. Get ready to move to the rhythms of the group’s latest Latin beats mixed in with some of the greatest melodies from Central and South America. Tickets start at $75. rutheckerdhall.com Date
music & comedy t h e at e r & d a n c e Good people
Sept. 7 – Oct. 2, various times Travel to Southie, a Boston neighborhood where a night on the town means a few rounds of bingo, in this first production of the season at American Stage. David Lindsay-Abaire’s drama asks the question is it strength of character or just a few lucky breaks that determines our fate. For tickets and showtimes, go to americanstage.org. Moms, Dads
The Wizard of oz
Sept. 8-11, various times Enjoy a performance of Frank L. Baum’s classic tale performed by Theatre Exceptional at Largo Cultural Center. This benefit supports Theatre Exceptional, the Theatre Arts and Education Performances program for Adults with Disabilities. Tickets are $20.50 advance and $5 additional at the door. For tickets and show schedule, go to largoarts.com.
Sawyer Fredericks
Aug. 27, 7:30 p.m. See the former winner of NBC’s Emmy Award®-winning “The Voice” when he brings his unique blend of soul and folk to TECO Theater at Straz Center. Tickets are $25. strazcenter.org 8 & Older
Jill Scott
Sept. 1, 7:30 p.m. Experience the singer/songwriter, best-selling poet and actress when she takes the stage at The Mahaffey in St. Petersburg. Hear her songs that boldly explore both erotic love and self-empowerment including “A Long Walk,” “So in Love” and “Fool’s Gold.” Tickets start at $70.50. themahaffey.com Date Night, Girls Night Out
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Heart, Joan Jett & the Blackhearts, Cheap Trick
Sept. 22, 6:30 p.m. Rock in your seats to a trio of 70s and 80s artists when they deliver an evening of classic sounds at MIDFLORIDA Credit Union Amphitheatre at FL State Fairgrounds in Tampa. Tickets are $26.45-$76.45. livenation.com 10 & Older
The purple Xperience
Sept. 22, 8 p.m. Celebrate the great Purple One as Tampa Theatre and the producers of Chillounge Night present a special Prince tribute concert live on the historic theater’s stage in downtown Tampa. This five-piece tribute band that hails from Minneapolis is led by Matt Fink, a member of Prince and The Revolution from 1978 to 1991. Tickets start at $34. tampatheatre.org 10 & Older
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mad Theatre Presents Spring Awakening
Sept. 8-18, various times Experience an electrifying fusion of morality and sensuality with an alternative rock and folk score when it returns to Tampa’s Straz Center. Set in 1891 Germany, a world in which the adults hold all the cards, the production explores the journey of teens discovering the inner and outer uproar of sexuality through trials and tribulations both illuminating and unforgettable. Please note: the show is intended for mature audiences and features brief nudity. For tickets and showtimes, go to strazcenter.org. Date Night, Girls Night Out
The underpants
Sept. 9 – Oct. 2, various times See Steve Martin’s wild satire filled with wordplay and whimsy, adapted from the classic German play “Die Hose,” when director Karla Hartley brings it to the Shimberg Playhouse stage at the Straz Center in downtown Tampa. Shows are 8 p.m. Thursday through Saturday and 4 p.m. Sunday. Tickets are $28. strazcenter.org Moms, Dads
Latin Nights
Sept. 15, 9 p.m. Savor Latin-inspired cuisine and spend time on the dance floor at Maestro’s Restaurant in downtown Tampa. Enjoy tapas and drink specials as you get lost to the rhythms of a live salsa band and DJ. Dance instructors will be on hand to offer salsa dance lessons. Tickets are $15. strazcenter.org
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