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dec 17 // jan 18 Publisher/Creative Director Jason Tanner jason@tannerwest.com

from the editor

Has it been a crazy 2017 or what? While you might not feel this way, I most certainly do. 2017 has been a year of change. I spent most of the year pregnant with twins, who were, by the way, born in September (the same week as the October/November issue of Henderson Family Magazine came out). The last issue's success wouldn't have been possible without the stunning work of Editor in Chief, Danny May. Danny will be leaving the magazine/publishing business at the end of this year, taking on a new role with the Diocese of Owensboro – I hope readers will help me in wishing him the best of luck! He has been a stellar colleague to work with, being patient with me through the craziness of my life as a new mom of twins (which you will hear about more in my extended letter on page 48). With all of that said, I want to let you all know that this issue is AMAZING! We’ve got stories about Matthew 25 and their role in the Henderson community, background on Christmas in the Park (along with tips from Santa on how to keep your kid’s visit with Santa a positive experience), and a cool “is my nature” article on Tamika Johnson, owner of Kidz World. We’re also featuring local shopping options in our special advertising section. Don’t miss out on Henderson’s Black Friday and Small Business Saturday events in downtown Henderson following Thanksgiving this year. Let’s keep it local! As always, thank you to everyone who submitted story ideas, keep them coming! Most importantly, thank you to all of the businesses/people who advertised with us, as it allows Henderson Family to continue to be a FREE magazine. We will see you again soon. Brittany Ross

Editor in Chief Danny May danny@tannerpublishing.com Managing Editor Brittany Ross brittany@tannerpublishing.com Advertising Sales Brock Quinton brock@tannerpublishing.com Robert Williams robert@tannerpublishing.com Layout Design Andrea Roberson Graphic Design Jamie Alexander Taylor West Contributors Laura Acchiardo Ron Burkins Breeanna Cox Shawna Evans Erika Henderson Donna Stinnett Amanda Waggener Contact Information Henderson Family Magazine PO Box 9503 Owensboro, KY 42302 (888) 304-5416 facebook.com/ hendersonfamilymagazine twitter.com/hendersonfamily issuu.com/hendersonfamily Advertise Henderson Family is a FREE magazine because of community support. Thank you to the great group of businesses & organizations who advertise with us.

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This is Henderson Family's tip of the Santa hat to artist Haddon Sundblom's vintage 1963 Coca-Cola advertisement (pictured here, left). Sundblom's depictions of Santa were inspired by 'Twas the Night Before Christmas. Special thanks to Santa for courteously pausing on his way to Central Park for this photo shoot, and to Kenny King at Dream Copy Photography for recreating and capturing the scene for our cover.

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SECOND DIVERSITY PARADE TAKES TO THE STREETS IN SEPTEMBER The second-annual Yes We Can Diversity Parade hosted by Backyard Games took to the downtown Henderson streets in September. Parade participants included a wide variety of groups including marching bands and drum lines. One of the drum groups included the Boom Squad of Evansville, a youth development group that offers homework help and mentoring programs along with the percussion program. Participating groups ranged from the Justice

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Coalition and NAACP, church groups, school groups, the WARM Center, and civic clubs. A crowd favorite was a gymnastics and tumbling group from Chicago. At the conclusion of the parade, participants and spectators gathered in Audubon Mill Park for more music, food and activities, including a “battle of the bands” and a demonstration of a traditional dragon dance.

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City cuts the ribbon on new Municipal Service Center After a 10-year journey of formulating a plan for a City of Henderson Municipal Service Center, a ribbon-cutting hosted by Kyndle on Wednesday, Oct. 18, celebrated the move into the transformed former Hugh Edward Sandefur Training Center building.

on Zion Road. But cost estimates based on design, which also would have included the Henderson Water Utility offices, were more than $25 million and prohibitive. That tract has since been sold, except for the tract on which Springhill Cemetery lies.

The 51,358-square-foot main building, which is located in Henderson Corporate Park, now houses multiple divisions of the Public Works and Gas departments, the special projects office, a central garage, and other services. It has a large training room for testing, Human Resources programs and other activities.

In late 2014, the City was approached about the possibility of acquiring the Sandefur property. That organization was looking for a smaller and more manageable building, so it turned out to be a good fit for both organizations.

The renovation of the building began in April 2016. Originally, the City had pursued a plan to build a new Municipal Services Center from the ground up on a tract of land it purchased

The project was needed because the Public Works office on Outer Fifth Street, constructed in the 1960s, was outdated and had been through “so many floods” before improvements were made to the Canoe Creek drainage system. The City has been looking to build a new public works facility for more than 20 years.

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Spooks and Legends tour was filled with myths, murders During the traditional “spooky” time of year, guests on The Depot Community Room’s annual “Spooks and Legends Tour” at the end of October were not surprised to hear stories from Henderson’s darker past. Those stories included a love triangle that had a bloody ending, the question: “Who shot the Mayor?” (perhaps it was because he was about to become Sheriff), poltergeists in the tavern, spirits in the playground and places the dogs fear to go. Tour guides led groups through the streets of downtown Henderson, telling stories that were surprisingly grisly, and sometimes downright gory. Most were true, some were legends or myths, and some were ghostly.

PHOTO BY DONNA STINNETT

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This tour was voted best in Kentucky by Kentucky Living Magazine in 2016.

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the buzz

CHURCHES, AUDUBON KIDS ZONE, JOHN F. KENNEDY CENTER TEAM UP FOR HALLOWEEN EVENT

PHOTOS BY MARK SUTTON

Community collaboration can be a beautiful thing. For three years, a group of community churches has come together to organize and offer a neighborhood Halloween party at the John F. Kennedy Community Center on the Saturday before the holiday. But this year when the Audubon Kids Zone and the JFK Center started talking about a pre-Halloween festivity on the same weekend, the wheels starting turning. Why not join forces and have events on the same day at both locations and connect the dots between the two? The result was a free Community Trunk or Treat Extravaganza on Sunday afternoon, Oct. 29. A trick-ortreat trail started at Audubon Kids Zone and progressed along Powell Street to Alvasia Street where it turned and ended at the John F. Kennedy Community Center. In addition to the churches and community center, groups and individuals handed out candy and a group of drama students from Henderson County High School interacted with trick-or-treaters. 10 HENDERSON FAMILY

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The Henderson Police Department, Henderson Fire Department, Henderson City-County Ambulance Service, and the bookmobile from the Henderson County Public Library were also present on the trail. At the JFK Center, Greater Norris Chapel Baptist Church, First Missionary Baptist Church, Seventh Street Baptist Church, New Jerusalem Baptist Church and New Race Creek Baptist Church hosted events that included chili and hot dogs, games and prizes, inflatables, a photobooth, face painting, and other things for kids to do. “This trunk or treat event is an excellent opportunity for our churches to make a connection with our community using a platform of faith and fun,” said Nai Jackson, a representative of the church planning committee. Organizers are calling it a win-win for the community. “The churches’ powerful event and AKZ’s and the JFK Center’s new idea could have stayed separated, but that’s not how great ideas work,” said Rob Carroll, AKZ board member and principal at the neighborhood’s school, South Heights Elementary. “Collaborations are powerful especially when they are focused on kids." HendersonFamilyMagazine.com

GRADD names Henderson 2017 Community of the Year The City of Henderson was named 2017 Community of the Year on Oct. 2 at the 49th-annual Green River Area Development District annual dinner. Mayor Steve Austin accepted the award on behalf of the City of Henderson, which was nominated for its Vision Henderson project and the entire community’s ongoing work to put that plan into motion addressing some of the issues identified in the process that began in late 2014. In just the last year, the work of the Vision Plan has resulted in: • A study to evaluate our sports and recreation needs, including the creation of a new sports complex and the viability of a community meeting space. • The opening of a new park and splash pad in the East End that serves as a complement to programs at the recently launched Audubon Kids Zone. The park contains a 48-foot by 5-foot mural designed and created by art students at Henderson County High School. • The addition of accessible playground equipment in both Central Park and Newman Park in a collaboration of the City and a Henderson Leadership Initiative project. • The launch of a new brand for Henderson: “Discover Your Nature.” Several sub-groups of the Henderson Branding Board are at work on projects to incorporate the brand in such

initiatives as a new guide for tourists, a complementary guide for newcomers and a hospitality certification program. • The opening of a new nature trail within the city limits along Canoe Creek and bordering Henderson Corporate Park. • The creation of a networking group for the arts called “Create Henderson.” • The launch of a Community Calendar Hub that serves as a “master calendar” for events. • Regular meetings of a “synergistic” group with representatives of the City, Kyndle, Henderson County Tourist Commission, Henderson CityCounty Planning Commission, Downtown Henderson Partnership, Henderson Area Arts Alliance, Henderson Board of Realtors, Rotary and others that is working on building community collaboration skills. • New events in downtown Henderson including a summer weeknight Farm and Artisan Market and a First Friday pop-up arts event with food trucks at lunchtime. New City ordinances also paved the way for sidewalk dining, food trucks and relaxed alcohol sales during permitted events. Henderson’s Vision Process was previously showcased and won an award for excellence from the American Planning Association, Kentucky Chapter.

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GOVERNOR MATT BEVIN VISITS HENDERSON Kentucky Gov. Matt Bevin

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toured Audubon Kids Zone in early October during a visit to Henderson. During the tour, Bevin heard the story about how AKZ got its start in Henderson’s East End and what its goals are for contributing to community revitalization. Mayor Steve Austin greets Gov. Bevin in this photo.

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POW! names its three finalists for $15,000 grant The Partnership of Women (POW!) named three finalists in its annual grant award cycle and announced that it would select a finalist in November. The top vote-getter will receive $15,000 and the two runners-up will each get $3,000. The 2017 finalists are as follows: City of Henderson: The city is requesting funding for a shelter to be located in the East End Park. The shelter will provide a further enhancement to the existing East End Park which currently includes a splash park and playground equipment. Marsha’s Place: Marsha’s Place has requested funding for a new ultrasound machine. The ultrasound machine will provide enhanced capabilities and replace an aging piece of equipment essential to their organization. St. Anthony’s Hospice: St. Anthony’s Hospice has requested funding for education in their new Palliative Care program (specialized medical care for people living with serious illness). The Palliative Care education is targeted toward medical providers, the community, and Hospice patients. This marks the fifth year for POW! raising more than $30,000 each year through individual and group memberships and supporting operational sponsorships. The organization has put $70,000 to immediate work in the community in the past four years. The other portion is placed in an endowment to grow the organization in perpetuity, increasing future giving. Donna Stinnett is the Public Information Officer with the City of Henderson. December 2017 // January 2018 . HENDERSON FAMILY

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amika Johnson: entrepreneur, mother, business owner, and early childhood education advocate.

For the past 12 years, Johnson's been the Director and

CEO of Kidz World Childcare in Henderson, Kentucky. A Henderson native, "Ms. Johnson" as she is affectionately called by all who know her, attended Henderson Community College and earned a degree in both Early Childhood Education and Sociology at the University of Southern Indiana. Johnson began her career working with children through a position in social services. Although she helped many Henderson families and children through that job, she dreamed of being more of a preemptive force for child advocacy. "Early on, I always seemed to work with children," Johnson recalls. "I wanted to do something with kids on a happier level, which lead to me to being a Childcare Director at First Baptist Church in Henderson. I loved it. I loved working with the kids, and the leadership responsibilities that it gave me.”

Finally, the passion that Johnson had for the children

that she taught and cared for morphed into the dream of owning her own child care facility. She decided to obtain her Master's Degree in Business Management from Oakland City University. Through her educational journey in Early Childhood Education and Business Managment, Johnson says she developed the skills needed to start her own business, Kidz World. Johnson says she and her staff apply the holistic approach to child care, to ensure that not only the physical needs of a child are met, but that they develop the child physically, mentally, and emotionally. PHOTO BY DARRIN PHEGLEY

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"The old-school childcare facility is styled as a babysitting service... the thought was simply bringing my child to be taken care of," Johnson says. "The new concept that our staff has embraced at Kidz World is that we are an educational institution for children six weeks to 12 years of age. We teach age-appropriate curriculum throughout the whole center, so we aren't just watching children; we are educating children from the beginning to the end.”

The people at Kidz World have integrated this culture

of early learning and development wholeheartedly. Johnson says having fun and learning go hand-in-hand for Johnson and her staff. "My staff has compassion, commitment, and a genuine desire to see children succeed," she says. Tamika Johnson has devoted her time, energy, and focus nurturing and advancing children, and that is why developing Henderson's children is her nature.

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atthew 25 began as a parish nurse project in 1996 through Zion United Church of Christ in Henderson. "We had four

individuals within the congregation who were dying from AIDS, and they had absolutely no support," Cyndee Burton, Matthew 25 Administrator recalls. "I was a parish nurse, so I helped train others on how to care for them, and we got together some care teams that would help provide the love and care these individuals needed in order to pass away with dignity and peace."

In 1999, Matthew 25 separated from the church into a nonprofit

501(c)(3) organization so they could apply for government funding to enlarge the services offered and provide a full-time paid staff. The first grant they received was the Ryan White Planning Grant in 2000 to evaluate the need for clinical services in the area. They also received a Housing Opportunities for People with AIDS (HOPWA) grant to assist with housing needs, and in 2001 they were awarded a Ryan White Part C Grant for Early Intervention Services to open their medical clinic in Henderson. Their mission is to support, educate, and treat those infected and affected by HIV/AIDS.

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Get Tested The Center for Disease Control and Prevention recommends that everyone is tested at least once in their life. Those with high-risk behaviors should be tested more often. Free testing is available at the clinic (452 Old Corydon Road) Monday through Friday and according to Cyndee, only takes 20 minutes to receive results. During the testing, there is a risk assessment and a finger prick. If the results are positive, an appointment to see the nurse practitioner will be made and medication treatment will follow. "AIDS is no longer the death sentence it used to be," Cyndee says. "If we can retain them in care and keep them taking their medications regularly, then we can suppress the virus to undetectable levels. Once we reach undetectable levels, then they can’t infect others. So, we try really hard to remove any barriers that might prevent them from taking their medications. We do a good job with a 95 percent success rate, but it takes a whole team of focused people to accomplish it."

Services and Support Housing program advisors, mental health counselors, nurse practitioners, and volunteers all work together onsite to make sure each patient has what they need to suppress the virus successfully. Staff and volunteers take turns providing transportation for those who need it, and the new addition offers space for social HendersonFamilyMagazine.com

events, support group meetings, a fully stocked food pantry, and a complete kitchen. Numerous offices and exam rooms are available for comprehensive care. Matthew 25 has its own lab to draw from and send out to an outside laboratory. They have electronic health records, and they can even help individuals get the insurance they may need. "Each patient is unique, and they each have to be treated as an individual," Cyndee states. "If they have literacy problems, then we try to help with that. If they don't speak English, then we provide an interpreter. If they are drug users, we provide substance abuse classes. If they have mental health issues, we provide care for that as well. We offer care that will not be found anywhere else. I just really have a passion for this group of people, and we want them to feel comfortable and loved. We want them to know we are here for them."

Education and Prevention Education, awareness, and prevention of the disease are only possible with community involvement. Matthew 25 attends health-related events to get the word out and be seen in the community. "We are not here to judge," Cyndee adds. "This is about health care, and we are trying to do what we can to prevent the spread of this disease." Cyndee stresses the importance of having a cautious and safe life. "Up-to-date information is readily available at several places around the community," Cyndee says. "Prevention is

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everything when it comes to dealing with this epidemic, and everyone has to live a cautious and safe life to prevent it."

For I was hungry and you

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me, sick, and you cared

gave me food, thirsty, and you gave me water, I was naked, and you clothed

Matthew 25 will hold for me, in prison, and you their open house and visited me. For when you ribbon cutting ceremony do it to the least of these, on December 1, which is World AIDS Day. Six panels my brothers and sisters, will be on display from the you do it unto me. AIDS memorial quilt, the - Matthew 25:35-36, 40 largest art project in the United States. Each panel was created to remember and honor someone who has passed from AIDS. They will also read the names of those who have passed. Also, stay tuned for the date of the upcoming Runway Red Fashion Show in the spring where volunteers become models and boutique stores become designers. Please contact Matthew25clinic.org to donate or volunteer. HF

Erika Henderson is a freelance writer and life-long resident of Henderson County. She's a nature lover and enjoys cooking, baking, and growing her own food.

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Using Horseback Riding Therapy for those with Special Cognitive Needs

usan Nance developed a love for horseback riding in her 20’s, but by the time she turned 45, she was completely blind. Nance’s disability left her wondering if she would ever ride a horse again, but from her disability, a new idea was born in Henderson County. "It was a hard adjustment to lose my sight, especially as an adult,” she said. “I was used to driving and being independent.” After moving from Kentucky to Texas for college, Nance led trail rides on horseback and raised thoroughbred horses for seven years. “That’s where I got a real handle on working with horses,” she said. “I had a very good first instructor, and I think to this day that is the only reason I can sit on a horse without falling off. She was very accomplished and strict about proper riding.” Horses became an everyday part of Nance’s life, but her sight began to worsen, and she was diagnosed with the genetic disorder familial exudative vitreoretinopathy or FEVR. “It’s not very common,” Nance said. “I was hoping I would keep one eye working, but it wasn’t meant to be.” Once she completely lost her sight, Nance went to a HendersonFamilyMagazine.com

rehabilitation center for the blind, a place she describes as “blind boot camp.” “As you can imagine, I was so stunned and so scared,” she said. “I stayed there for about three months. It was very difficult, and still to this day I’m not very good at braille.” In 2004, Nance moved back to Henderson after her husband passed away. It was around that time when she met Stacy Denton, one of the owners of Blue Moon Stables. “I looked all over for a place to ride,” said Nance. “I wanted to keep riding because it was a mental and physical piece of me. It is so important to me because it was something I did when I could see. When you lose everything you can do, you finally think at least I can do this one thing, not like I used to but I can still ride.” According to Nance, Denton had never worked with a blind rider or any disabled rider before Nance walked through her doors. Even with her lack of experience, Denton undertook the challenge of taking on a blind rider. “She was glad I could at least sit on the horse and not fall off,” said Nance with a laugh. “She probably didn’t have any idea what to expect. I told her about my background with horses, and that made her feel a lot better." Denton and Nance worked together with Denton December 2017 // January 2018 . HENDERSON FAMILY

Don’t miss Christmas on the Farm benefiting Healing Reins on November 25 (10 a.m.-5 p.m.) and 26 (1-5 p.m.) at Blue Moon Stables (8124 Hwy 268 in Corydon). To learn more about Healing Reins, visit healingreinsky.org.

helping direct Nance around the arena as she rode. From her experience with Nance, Denton formed the idea for a nonprofit therapy riding program in 2015 that is today known as Healing Reins. “(Nance) is one of my inspirations,” said Denton. “She is on a fixed income and wants to ride, but Blue Moon is for profit. She helped me come up with the idea and inspired me to create a nonprofit for therapy riding. In this area, there are other barns with therapeutic lessons, but I wanted to make ours more accessible and affordable. With Healing Reins we try to give people a rhythm in their lives with the program.” Healing Reins offers horse therapy for those with special cognitive needs, such as autism, cerebral palsy, and anxiety disorders. According to Denton, Healing Reins has about 20 riders with a variety of needs, but is not prepared to offer services for children with severe physical disabilities at this time. “From my background, I've found there is a different side of ourselves that connects with an animal, and there’s something special about getting people to reach out and use animals,” said Denton. “Allowing individuals to connect with animals gives them a potential and helps it come out. It brings something out of a person that others might not have seen before, and horses help to do that.” Therapeutic riding through Healing Reins offers a combination of speech, physical, and relationship-building therapy which builds balance, coordination, flexibility, core muscle strength, self-esteem, and self-confidence, according to their website. However, therapeutic riding differs from Hippotherapy in that Hippotherapy is physical or occupational therapy, which is approved by a physician and implemented by a team that includes a licensed therapist. Therapeutic riding, on the other hand, is recreational horseback riding lessons adapted to individuals with disabilities. Healing Reins is operated through two stables: Blue Moon Stables run by Denton, her husband Chad, and their daughter Melissa, and Rolling Hills Equestrian Center run by Peggy and Bill Fidler. “It’s unique to have the two barns working together,” said Denton. “This is a nice push for the industry and area. We’re able to make something big happen together and help it grow. Collaboration is a big part of our mission and is huge for recognition.” As a nonprofit, the therapeutic riding program depends on donations and volunteers. Kali Basham has been riding at Blue Moon for a little more than a year and has dedicated some of her time to volunteer with Healing Reins. She is currently working toward her Professional Association of Therapeutic Horsemanship or PATH certification. “My passion for horses and what they’ve done for me made me want to volunteer with Healing Reins,” said Basham. “I want to give back and help it be successful. I also wanted to help those with disabilities to do what they want. Happiness isn't about what you get. It's about what you receive. It's hard to put into words what horses do for people. It's magic. They challenge you, and it's a unique relationship between horse and rider.” Healing Reins has a mission to assist individuals with special needs in meeting their full potential through interaction with horses and hopes to continue furthering that mission for the future. “Horses can give people this sense of freedom,” said Nance. “They don’t judge you by how you look or what you do. They judge you by how you behave towards them and by how you handle them. It’s so liberating.” HF

Laura Acchiardo is a freelance writer. She is a Henderson transplant who spoils her dog Doodle, even though he doesn't appreciate it.

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o say that handling your loved one’s assets (and health care decisions) in the face of a need for long term care is “difficult” is a tremendous understatement. The daughters, sons, wives, husbands, and, many times, grandchildren and in-laws that have either undertaken this task or tried to assist someone else to do the same can affirm that this is one of the most difficult and emotionally exhausting journeys that a person is likely to encounter in life. So to all of those caregivers and stand-in financial quarterbacks – we want you to know – WE HEAR YOU. We understand how time consuming this project can be, to manage the income, bills and resources of an entirely separate household in addition to your own. We understand how exhausting it is to work a full-time job and still have to make sure that home caregiver shifts are covered, medicines are correctly distributed and doctor appointments are scheduled and attended as needed. With all of this on your plate, the added stress of the extreme cost of long term care for your loved one – whether they are in a nursing facility or at home – can be overwhelming.

Hear Me? It is important to seek out support from groups and advisors who can identify with your unique struggles and also offer advice and counsel that will lift your spirits and lighten your burden. Helen Keller once said, “Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.” This is also true of the struggle of this extremely difficult time in life, caring and planning for a loved one. It is at this time of the year, when things are already busy and hectic, that the true nature of a loved one’s illness and/or needs for assistance can really be brought to light. Perhaps it is out-of-town family visiting for the holidays or a particularly tiring holiday party that seems to shine a spotlight on the difficulties that are present in day to day needs for living. You may be wondering who to call or where to turn. We understand. I tell my team often that our mission in our business is not simply to “do a job” or “earn a fee”, but to change lives. The work that we do will make the difference, at times, between a family losing everything (including their minds, maybe) or saving everything. Often, the result is somewhere in between. Yet, we will persevere. We know what is necessary to help you, and we know that you are tired. WE HEAR YOU. HF

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The Holidays are for Shopping, Dining & Enjoying Life…

that’s our nature in Henderson, KY!

Shop Small Saturday began in 2002 as an initiative to strategically motivate people to buy from local merchants in their community. Henderson has been involved with Shop Small Saturday the last 10 years marketing and promoting on behalf of local merchants to attract shoppers to downtown Henderson, KY. Falling in between Black Friday and Cyber Monday, Shop Small Saturday has become a big deal for small businesses because it helps boost sales for local entrepreneurs.

Jayme Floyd, owner of J’Petals, says Shop Small Saturday is intended to encourage shoppers to “love local, shop local, and build community pride and awareness of what their town has to offer!” As a result, shopping small helps the local economy, which in turn promotes growth city- and county-wide while luring people to the community to live, work, and play. “As a store owner myself, I think shopping local offers more unique gifts than the big box stores,” Floyd says. “You find hand-crafted or unusual one-of-a-kind pieces rather than the cookie cutter mass-produced items at the big box stores. You can't beat the customer service and hospitality you get when shopping small; it's heartfelt! To me, it's just where I live. I want the community to grow and thrive and by spending my dollars whether it be on shopping for a gift, eating dinner, or recovering a piece of furniture, I'd rather do it locally because I love Henderson!” Downtown Henderson has a variety of specialty and one-of-a-kind shops with unique gifts, apparel, home furnishings, children & baby clothes, furniture, vintage, art, and hand-crafted original items through more than 25 merchants in the central business district. These shops, merchants, businesses and boutiques are Henderson originals and are not to be found in neighboring or other communities. Greg Gibson, interim Downtown Henderson Partnership director, says it is important to shop local for a number of reasons. Here are Gibson's top six reasons: You’ll help create jobs in the community. Money spent in the Henderson community will go back

into Henderson in the form of creating employment opportunities. When you make a purchase at a small business, you are doing your part to stimulate the local economy. Your tax dollars stay local. Shopping at small Henderson businesses helps keep money within the neighborhood. A series of studies by research firm Civic Economics found that 48% of purchases at local independent businesses go right back into the community, compared to less that 14% of sales made at chain, big box stores. Your tax dollars stay locally, going toward public services, better schools, and libraries. Small businesses give back to the neighborhood. Small businesses go beyond writing a check to a local cause. They’re more likely to develop partnerships and strengthen ties with people in the neighborhood. Brick and mortar establishments can serve as community hubs, such as Planter’s Café and Coffee Bar. Shopping at one local business helps other local businesses. By shopping at a business in downtown Henderson, you’ll most likely stop by other independent retailers in the vicinity. On top of that, some small businesses tend to offer products that are made locally, like Lucia Soaps Etc., creating a ripple effect in the local economy. Small businesses offer more unique products. Shoppers can get away from the mass-produced items found at big box chains by choosing to shop at an independent, local retailer. You’ll be able to find locally made gifts that are perfect for your significant other or enjoy a one-of-a-kind specialty drink at places like Commonwealth Bar & Kitchen. It helps keep communities diverse. Sure, we grew up going to the mainstream retailers, but can you imagine what it would be like to live in a place with nothing but non-descript strip malls? By shopping local, we’re making sure independent businesses thrive by adding to the vibrancy and uniqueness of the Henderson downtown community. It’s difficult for businesses like Just Plus Just Chic, BB Rues and Wild Child Collection to stay afloat without all our patronage.

The Downtown Henderson Partnership is a nonprofit 501(c)3 entity whose purpose is to promote and drive traffic, individuals and residents to live, work, play, shop and dine downtown. Through various events, campaigns and promotions, DHP endeavors to attract individuals to patronize local businesses in the central business district (CBD) in Henderson, KY. 24 HENDERSON FAMILY

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J'Petals egin your holiday shopping season with a little sparkle and joy at J'Petals in downtown Henderson! If you missed

our annual Christmas Open House, don't miss out on Small Business Saturday at J'Petals on November 25 (the Saturday following Thanksgiving).

Enjoy J'Petals custom holiday creations, unique gifts,

giveaways, and storewide sales. We are stocked with brands such as

Vera Bradley, UK items, Mark Roberts Elves and

Santas, Mariposa items, and JUliska entertaining ware and more!

Show your

by shopping local and by bringing in a

canned good to help needy families of Henderson. All who bring in a canned good will get 30% off! Next is J'Petals Countdown to Christmas Sale from December 18 to 23 where there will be a different special each day! And of course, we will start the new year with a bang at our New Year's blowout sale on January 2!

J'Petals looks forward to serving our valued customers

and meeting new shoppers, too, this holiday season! #SantaStopJPetals

BB Rues

B Rues Children’s Boutique, named after owner, Natalie Reynolds’, two daughters, Berkley Beth (BB) and Ruby (Rue) is one of Henderson’s newest children’s boutiques. BB Rues (213 First Street) is located in the heart of downtown between Simon’s Sales Shoe Room and Alles Brothers Furniture. This premier children’s boutique features fashionable, affordable, and quality clothing and shoes for boys and girls. You'll find sizes preemie to 7/8 in boys and up to size 14 in girls. Need a baby gift, blanket, bibs, belt, bows or bow ties? BB Rues has you covered! Along with many more accessories and gifts, this is your one-stop shop to dress your little love from head to toe. BB Rues even offers baby registries for expectant mothers. BB Rues is open Monday through Friday 10am-5pm and Saturdays 10am-3pm. Like them on Facebook or Instagram to keep up with new arrivals, in-store specials and upcoming holiday hours and events. Not on social media? No problem! Call 270-205-4199 and Natalie will be more than willing to help answer any question and update you on any new BB Rues news. HendersonFamilyMagazine.com

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Lucia Soaps L

ooking for unique specialty shops in Henderson? Check out LuciaSoapsEtc LLC at 105 N Main St!

Lucia Felty makes her complete line of soaps and skin

care products on site. Using formulas she created, she makes soaps with an artistic flair that are gentle and moisturizing, lotions with emollient lubricating oils to soften and smooth skin along with scrubs, bath fizzies and even soap cupcakes! She also has products for men.

She makes soaps for the seasons so be sure to look

for her Christmas soaps! Lucia has been making soap for 14 years turning a hobby into a home-based business and has had a shop in Henderson for 6 years. She is a member of the Handcrafted Soap and Cosmetic Guild and has achieved her Basic and Advanced Soapmaker certifications.

She is a juried artist in the Kentucky

Crafted Arts Program of the Ky Arts Council.

Farmer & Frenchman W

e may be known for summertime dining on our sundrenched deck and patio, but Farmer & Frenchman is a great destination during fall and winter too. A modern fireplace complements repurposed elements from the old barn and handmade cedar features to create a stylish, cozy interior that is a welcome change from the hustle and bustle of the season. So come, relax, and enjoy our signature vineyardto-table cuisine featuring European-style recipes based on Kentucky ingredients like artisanal pizzas and pastas made with local products. But Farmer & Frenchman isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t just a great place to dine and taste wines from Kentucky and abroad; we also have a wide selection of gifts. Our winery cafe carries apparel, wine openers, wine glasses, diffusers, local art, wine soap, local cheeses, gift certificates and of course F&F wine! Call to inquire for our selection of holiday wine baskets. Open Tuesday-Saturday 12-9pm; reservations recommended; 270-748-1856. 26 HENDERSON FAMILY

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Wild Child Collection W

ild Child Collection is your stop in downtown Henderson for “a little bit of everything,” including

women’s and children’s clothing, school uniforms, and other items for children. We also now offer monogramming.

If you haven’t been inside the store yet, the week of

Thanksgiving would be a great time to drop by. We will be offering 15% off all women’s clothing and Young & Free (children’s) Apparel. If you’ve never experienced Young & Free, the brand features comfortable, durable children’s clothing with a modern, fun and cheerful style.

On Black Friday and Shop Small Saturday only, the

sales increase to 30% off women’s and Young & Free. We are also extending our hours those two days until 6:30pm. Stop in and we’ll help you find something your family will absolutely love.

A partial listing of specialty shops: Simon’s Shoes Wild Child Collection Abba Promotions Wilkerson’s Shoes Campbell’s Jewelry Planters Café & Coffee Bar Kitchen & Company 2nd Street Treats Sidewalk Café The Elm Consignment Shop Delkers Rookies Sports Bar & Grill Commonwealth Kitchen & Bar (CKB)

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e piled into our station wagon with wooden side paneling. My baby brother

was oblivious to what was going on as he was placed into his babyseat that was fastened in the center of the back seat. On each side of him, with the best window views, my sister and I would buckle in eager to go on a drive around town to see all the Christmas lights. My dad had already been scouting the houses with the most impressive holiday decor to put on our list of must-sees as we headed out to take a sightseeing drive around Henderson. Christmas in the Park was a new event in Henderson that year, as I recall. My sister and I werenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t quite ready for the aweinspiring sight. I remember seeing the lights from a block away, as we approached the park, and not

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wanting to blink. It was too cold to get out and walk around that night, so my parents drove very slowly around the city block surrounding the park so that we could take it all in. Each lap revealed something I hadnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t seen before on the lap prior. Rows of lights, the whimsical wood cutouts, and the giant tree lit up

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began taking our own children to

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more lap. This began a tradition of going to Central Park year after year to jumpstart our Christmas spirit. Years later, my husband and I the park. We would bundle up with scarves and gloves and walk through the park looking at the larger-thanHendersonFamilyMagazine.com

life rocking horse or stopping for a picture in a giant sleigh.

Wind Ensemble will be there to play holiday music. We will

Hearing their giggles and seeing the amazement on my

also have a group of Victorian carolers who will be singing,”

children’s faces finally allowed me to see why my parents

says Freeman.

were willing to take another lap around that park. That

Christmas in the Park features sidewalks lined in

kind of excitement is contagious and spread with every

lollipops, more than 30 holiday displays, including Santa's

turn. There is a twinkle in the eyes of everyone, child and

House and a mailbox for children’s letters to him. In fact,

adult alike, as they take in the thousands of lights adorning

on the weekends leading up to Christmas, ole’ Saint Nick

Central Park.

will be making personal appearances!

This year’s 32nd annual Christmas in the Park will offer

"We started a Sweet Shop last year," says Freeman. "It will

Henderson another opportunity for free family fun and

be open Saturday morning during the parade (December 2)

entertainment, while also helping usher in the season with a

and then every weekend and during the times when Santa

night of holiday fun.

will be at the Santa House."

Christmas in the Park is presented by the City of

Henderson, in partnership with the Henderson Breakfast

the first three weekends in December (Saturdays 11 am-3

Lion’s Club.

The event begins 6pm December 1 when

pm and Sundays 1pm-3pm). Freeman says families are

Henderson Mayor Steve Austin illuminates the 67-foot

welcome to bring children to chat with Santa. Though a

Christmas tree (the focal point of the park) during the tree-

photographer will not accompany Santa during these times,

lighting ceremony, according to Henderson Breakfast Lions

everyone is encouraged to snap their own photos of the

Club Laura Freeman. "Prior to that, the Henderson County

moment as keepsakes of the occasion.

Santa is expected to be in his house in the park during

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tips from santa for

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Henderson Family Magazine was able to chat with Santa while he was preparing for his trip to Central Park. “I’m so excited to see all the boys and girls from Henderson again this year!” Santa exclaimed. “Seeing the joy and happiness on their faces is just priceless and it really brings the meaning of Christmas to life for me,” he adds. Santa will be visiting Central Park, the Riverview School’s Pancake Breakfast, and several schools and churches in Henderson this winter, and he encourages everyone to come see him. He also wants to remind parents and guardians that this is supposed to be a happy and magical experience for all. There should be no stress or tears. Santa explains, “I want the children to be comfortable with me. I want it to be a pleasant encounter, not a stressful one. If they are not ready to sit on my lap and take a picture this year, it’s fine. There is always next year when they might feel a little more comfortable,” Santa explains.

During the day, in preparation for the evening’s twinkling lights, City employees will be there ensuring that each night is as spectacular as the night before by inspecting and repairing things in the park. With the help of other community groups, such as Habitat for Humanity and the Job Corps, Freeman says the park is kept tip-top condition each night for its guests.

Nothing quite warms the heart like Christmas. "I love the

whole holiday season," Freeman says with excitement in her voice. "I always have. I moved to Kentucky from California, and so I'm hoping for snow this year. I think that will add to the

Below are a few tips to parents and guardians bringing children to visit him this year. Let your child observe bigger kids interacting with Santa before trying to engage. Be patient and go at a slow pace. Several visits may be necessary before the comfort level is there. Don’t force. If your child can walk, do not sit them directly on Santa’s lap. Instead, sit the child down a comfortable distance away and let the child walk to him on their own free will.

ambiance of everything. I love seeing the kids come and talk to Santa. It's just a great time of year!"

While snow can’t be promised, a fun evening with loved ones

can, with a stroll through 2017’s Christmas in the Park. Central Park is in downtown Henderson, across from the Henderson County Courthouse on Main Street. Plentiful onstreet parking spots are available on all four sides of the park. To confirm times and for additional details on the event, please visit hendersonky.org/event.

Time it just right for your child. Bringing your child when they are hungry, cold, or tired only increases their discomfort. Instead, bring them when they are in a good mood and remember to bring along their favorite toy or book to help them interact with Santa.

Amanda Waggener is a blogger for the Huffington Post, author of No Grit No Pearl blog site and is a native of Henderson. She and her husband are the parents of two teenagers who they are raising with as much zeal as they can muster.

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Prepare ahead of time by telling stories about Santa, watching movies about him, and maybe even write a letter to give to him during the visit.

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Santa also wants to remind all the boys and girls to be kind to each other and obey their parents. “Show love, kindness, and respect to everyone you meet, each day of your life.” - Santa HendersonFamilyMagazine.com

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ice Editor’s Cho

top Toys for 2017

Teddy Ruxpin

Scoop & Learn Ice Cream Cart Ages: 2+ | $39.99 Kids can build their customers’ ice cream treats in the correct order with this play set to help build memory and sequencing skills, and then ring up the orders on the cash register.

Ages: 3+ | $99.99 This 14-inch animatronic bear reads to kids and features color LCD eyes with more than 40 animations and a motorized mouth. Kids can enjoy three pre-loaded stories and sing-along songs without the need for Wi-Fi, and can access additional books via the free app.

SoundMoovz Hatchimals Surprise Ages: 6+ | $69.99 New Hatchimals are arriving from Hatchtopia and they can’t hatch without kids’ help. These eggs hold a special surprise inside.

Ages: 9+ | $79.99 SoundMoovz are motionactivated musical bands that use Bluetooth technology to pair with a free app. Kids choose from more than 400 sounds, strap them to wrists or ankles, and move to make music. Multiple play modes include instrumental, robot, karate, and more.

Fingerlings Ages: 6+ | $14.99 These baby monkeys feature blinking eyes, turning heads, and realistic sounds that let kids know how they feel. With hands that grip and a curling tail, kids can swing them, pet them, and rock them to sleep.

Top 5 Christmas Books

TO READ ALOUD

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Llama Llama Holiday Drama Anna Dewdney

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Pete the Cat Saves Christmas James Dean

Who Was Born This Special Day? Eve Bunting

A Pirate’s Night Before Christmas Philip Yates

Here Comes Santa Cat Deborah Underwood

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top family christmas movies

Age recommendations according to CommonSenseMedia.org; please do your own research before allowing children to watch.

Home Alone Age: 10+

A Christmas Story Age: 8+

It’s a Wonderful Life Age: 9+

How the Grinch Stole Christmas Age: 6+

The Polar Express Age: 6+

Miracle on 34th Street Age: 6+

A Charlie Brown Christmas Age: 3+

The Muppet Christmas Carol Age: 5+

National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation Age: 13+

Elf Age: 7+

Frosty the Snowman Age: 3+

The Santa Clause Age: 9+

White Christmas Age: 8+

Top 5 Christmas Books

FOR GRADES 2-5

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When Santa Fell to the Earth Cornelia Funke

Letters from The Best Christmas Father Christmas Pageant Ever J. R. R. Tolkien Barbara Robinson

A Boy Called Christmas Matt Haig

Junie B. First Grader: Jingle Bells, Batman Smells Barbara Park

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Downtown Henderson Christmas Parade Saturday, December 2 at 10 a.m. Begins at Fifth and Main Streets; continues south on Main, then East on Washington Street, then north on Elm, and

Central Park Santa’s Workshop Washington & Main Streets Stroll through Christmas cutouts, animal and character displays and festively lit walkways. Henderson’s Central downtown park is transformed into a children’s holiday paradise with Santa available some days to meet and talk to the children.

Community Holiday Events

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ooking for a twinkling town, adorned with Christmas decorations for a special, winter weekend getaway? Look no further than Henderson, Kentucky. Located on the mighty Ohio River in the western region of the state, we do Christmas décor just like a classy down-to-earth river town should - very well. Starting around November 25 and continuing through the new year, there will be a vast offering of holiday decor throughout our friendly, festive town. Pack up the kiddos, mix up the cocoa (or pick up some at one of our local eateries) and load up the minivan for a holiday excursion to remember. Or, if you're already an empty nester, phone a friend and make a plan to visit our hospitable, historic John James Audubon river town during the holidays. There are plenty of things to do, see, and experience. From complete toyland courts dressed in twinkling toy soldier attire to a turn of the century historic mansion bathed in blue hues, Henderson is a must-see town during the Christmas holiday season. Here’s a short list of highlighted homes and events in Henderson to brighten your holiday spirits!

Zion Rd

back to Fifth Street. Floats, marching bands, clowns, Santa and more roll into town the first weekend of December. Christmas on the Farm November 25 & 26 8124 State Route 268 Corydon, KY 42406 (Geneva area on the west side of Henderson County) It's Christmas country style with hayrides, pony rides, petting zoos, pictures with Santa, beautifully decorated barns, and so much more. A must-experience event in its third year.

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Must-See Homes 1 Higgs Home 973 Frontier Drive The Griswold’s have nothing on the Higgs family when it comes to holiday lights. This fantastic, must-see display will have the kiddos wide-eyed and wanting to take another loop around the block.

5 Rudy Rowland Funeral Home 604 Center Street Elegant traditional décor adorn this historic turn of the century funeral parlor. 6 Keen Home at Highlander Acres 352 Bittersweet Lane Holiday lights and festive décor will surely put you in the perfect holiday spirit.

2 Colonial Court Toyland

1-6 Colonial Court (Colonial at North Main Street) A magical white twinkle light street where six neighbors coordinate their lighting décor to create an enchanted Toyland holiday destination.

7 McConnell Home

1882 South Green Street A classic, southern home with traditional décor including spotlights and many evergreens. 8 Fulton Home 2223 Wentworth Ave Described as the "Griswold’s on Wentworth,” thousands of lights line the roof of this fun-filled holiday home display. There are also inflatables, loud Christmas carols, lights-a-plenty, animated snow globes, and a new addition each year.

3 Radiant Blue Gradient Home

626 N Main Street A brilliant display of cool blue LED lights adorn this historic Main Street mansion in a vibrant exhibition of the grandest scale.

additional tips for

holiday seekers:

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4 Peace on Earth, musical Priest/Gibson Home 330 N Water Let there be peace on Earth is the theme of this multicolor dancing light display. Don’t forget to roll your windows down for this stop to get the full effect.

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Most light displays illuminate at dusk (in late November, approximately 4:30pm.) Watch for children and pedestrians as you drive looking at lights. Be cautious of other vehicles in front of and behind your automobile. Tune into your favorite local or satellite holiday radio station to enhance your experience. • Enjoy quality time together with your family and friends by continuing or beginning an annual holiday light tradition. For additional holiday venues, events and activities check out the calendar section on page 55 or the Henderson County Tourist Commission’s website hendersonky.org. HF

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Co-Parenting at Christmas

How to Keep Christmas Merry for Separated and Blended Families { by: melody ann wallace }

hristmas is often referred to as the most wonderful time of the year. However, when you have experienced a separation, divorce, or are in the process of blending a new family together, Christmas may look a little different and may not always seem so wonderful. Mom and Dad may be in different homes trying to decide which one of them the children will wake up with on Christmas morning. There may be a new stepmom or stepdad that brings with them children of their own. So, how exactly do you acclimate to all of these changes while still making sure that your children experience the joys of a family Christmas? Keep it Child-centered The most important thing to remember is to keep your children at the center of all your holiday decisions, rather than your own feelings. Despite how you and your former spouse feel about one another, do your best to enjoy the time you have with your child(ren) and create new memories. If you still have little ones, this may mean that the two of you spend Christmas morning together, for the sake of the kids. It may also mean that you arrange for the children to wake up on Christmas morning in the house

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they are most comfortable in, for consistency or sentiment’s sake. Little ones just want to see you both happy (separately and together) and be assured that Santa can locate them at either house. Communication without Competition Clear communication is important in any relationship, whether you are under the same roof or not. Take time to discuss your child’s wish list together and determine what each of you will buy, setting spending limits as necessary. Do not try to outdo one another on gifts or time as this puts more stress on the child to choose sides. It’s not one parent’s job to fulfill all of the child’s Christmas wishes; it is their job to ensure their children enjoy a healthy and balanced Christmas. Also, keep in mind, this new situation is different for everyone, including grandparents. Do your best to include grandparents when purchasing gifts and making arrangements for visits. That family will always be family to your child, regardless of the relationship between the two of you, so it is important to respect that dynamic. Create a Consistent Schedule Planning ahead, and having a consistent schedule each

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year can help the holidays to flow more smoothly. However, you may need to keep in mind not everyone is a natural planner, and may find yourself needing to extend a little grace. When creating your schedule, decide who will have your child on Christmas Eve and where they will wake up Christmas morning. Set times in advance for drop off and pick-up and stick to them. It is important to be respectful of one another’s time and the time you have with your children. According to Dr. Alan Ravitz at Child Mind Institute, “How you divide up the holidays depends on the age of the kids. Before children are 4 or 5 years old, what they’re going to primarily respond to is the emotional tone of the situation, so what matters is what feels fair, to them and both parents. Kids from 5 to 10 or 12 are pretty literal, so they might be most comfortable spending equal amounts of time with each parent.” Keep it Traditional – Old and New

It is no secret that routine and consistency bring

Creating New Traditions There may be times that familiar traditions need to be blended or new traditions need to be added. Ever since my son was two years old, he has asked that we leave small dog bones for Santa’s reindeer along with cookies for Santa on Christmas Eve. My husband and his daughter have always prepared reindeer glitter that they sprinkle on the lawn before heading off to bed. Our children are now in high school and college, but I still make sure to put both items on the preparation list so the reindeer have a bright, sparkly path to our home to get their bone treats. This year you may want to try combining some of your family traditions, or creating some unique ones of your own. The most important thing is that your children feel loved while you are creating special memories together.

comfort to children. Maintaining childhood traditions

during the holidays can aid with that comfort. There may

RECIPE INGREDIENTS:

be times you have to get a little creative with the way you

½ cup oats (a packet of oatmeal will work fine too) Cookie sprinkles of your choice (red and green glitter work great)

celebrate, or even blend old and new traditions together. Do your best to let go of ideals and high expectations, and accept the new norms that come along with your new family dynamic. Your children want your time, love, and attention more than anything else. (There are some fun suggestions for ways to create new traditions with your children in the sidebar.) Keep Yourself Busy - Fill the Time

Make plans in advance for the time the children are

away. When you are not caught up in decoration and assembly, arrange an evening celebration with friends. Take the time to visit grandparents, or family members you don’t often see. Use that time to give back by volunteering at a nursing home or shelter. Sign up to ring the Salvation Army bell and encourage others to fill the red kettle (this is a fun family idea as well). Enjoy the quiet before the chaos, and grab your favorite carry-out meal and watch a movie you’ve been wanting to see.

Regardless of how you decide to spend the holidays,

remember to put your personal differences for the other parent aside, so that your children can create happy, longlasting memories.

Make reindeer food

DIRECTIONS:

1. Mix oats and sprinkles in a small bowl until combined. 2. Sprinkle on lawn from bowl, or seal in a Ziploc baggie for later. Bake cookies for Santa This allows you to make the most of your time and create new memories while preserving the tradition of leaving cookies for the Big Guy. Christmas movie night Wrap the Christmas movies you currently own and have children choose one or two to unwrap and watch on the nights leading up until Christmas. Dress in your pj’s, serve milk and cookies, or popcorn and movie theater snacks. See our list of Christmas movies on page 33. Christmas breakfast On Christmas morning, create a DIY pancake bar complete with chocolate chips, and assorted toppings, to eat after opening gifts.

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season brings to mind nostalgic images of simpler Beloved Modern Thetimesholiday with the family smiling around the Christmas tree. But, the modern reality is that our hectic lifestyles and our love with our glowing screens have caused us to adopt some new Traditions with an affair traditions. If you are feeling the need to get back to basics this check out some of these tweaks to rein in those “modern Old-Fashioned Twist year, traditions” and infuse a little more memory-making, old{ by: katie albers }

MODERN TRADITION

fashioned Christmas spirit.

OLD-FASHIONED TWIST

Sit for an expensive family photo shoot for Holiday cards.

Feature a family portrait drawn by one of the kids to wish everyone a Happy Holiday!

Spend five hours creating a Pinterest board of Christmas crafts that you are too busy to make.

Gather some basic craft supplies, all the kids, and all your creativity, then make it happen!

Order all your gifts online and get tons of cheap items!

Shop locally and give fewer but more meaningful gifts.

Listen to one of the Christmas-music-allDecember radio stations.

Randomly break into Christmas carols with your family, even better if someone plays an instrument.

Buy gift cards for all the kids’ teachers.

Handwrite Thank You cards to your kids’ teachers. Go ahead and stick that gift card in there too!

Watch 15 “favorite” Christmas movies.

Have the family act out your favorite Christmas movies. You can quote them all from memory already!

Gain 10 pounds from all the holiday parties and treats in easy reach.

Cause food “treats” to live up to their name by waiting to enjoy them on the actual day of the holiday.

Stuff the stockings with candy!

Stuff the stockings with oranges, apples, and pears, and a shiny new toothbrush!

Text “Merry Christmas” to your family members that are far away. Document every moment of your holiday festivities on Facebook Live and Instagram.

Use your phone to actually call your family that lives far away to catch up and wish them a Merry Christmas. Plan a specific time to take family photos and then put the phones and cameras away to be fully engaged with your family.

No matter how you enjoy this holiday season, do not let our modern conveniences distract you from the opportunity to share time and love with family and friends. Memories are the result of unique experiences. Make this Christmas a little more old-fashioned, and it will be one worth remembering! HF

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5 ornaments

little hands can make Salt Dough Handprints

This is the perfect way to preserve your little one's hand print. Each year when you get the ornaments out of the attic to decorate the tree, your child will be able to measure how much they've grown. INGREDIENTS:

4 cups all purpose flour 1 1/2 cups warm water 1 cup salt DIRECTIONS:

Preheat oven to 325ยบF. Mix flour and salt well. Gradually add water, stirring with a large spoon. Finish mixing with hands. Knead until soft and pliable. Roll out on floured surface about 1/8 inch thick. Cut shapes with cookie cutters. Decorate with hand prints or let kids design something special. Place on cookie sheets. With a toothpick or straw make a hole in the top of the ornament for threading ribbon. Bake at 325ยบF until hard, about 1 hour.

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Crafty Cuteness

Let your child pick their favorite thing about Christmas and create an ornament together! Avery went through a big Rudolph phase last year, so this little popsicle stick reindeer was perfect for us!

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Make a Memory

Rather than buying a new ornament each year, why not make one as a family? To make it extra special, make an ornament to remember a special memory that happened that Christmas season. For us that has been Avery's first sled ride, Reed's first snow, Avery's first cup of hot chocolate.

Don't throw it away

DIY ornaments can be made from just about anything. This is the piece of wood cut from our very first Christmas tree. All I did was drill a hole in it for the ribbon and used puffy paint to write out the occasion. You could make an ornament out of a house key, a cork, a special card, an old toy...the ideas are endless!

Use what you have

Don't worry about going to the craft store, simply use what you have around your own house to make adorable handmade ornaments with your kids. This gingerbread man ornament is as simple as it comes. Simply cut out a gingerbread man shape out of sand paper and paint on decoration. Buttons would also be a cute addition!

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DIY felt

christmas tree

What could be more adorable than this felt Christmas tree? My kids love pulling this out each year. There wasn't a day during the Christmas season that they didn't decorate and redecorate this simple felt tree. And before you all say, wow, how did you have time to make this?! I didn't. My amazing friend Lexie gave this to my kiddos as a gift two years ago. (Isn't this a great idea for an inexpensive, fun gift?!) Lexie swears it is easy to make. DIRECTIONS: SUPPLIES:

1 yard of green felt Squares of craft felt (in assorted colors)

Scissors Card stock Marker (for candy cane stripes) Glittery puffy paint (optional - not used in this example)

Fold the green felt in half. Draw the outline of the Christmas tree along the fold, then cut out the tree shape. Draw the shapes of ornaments, candy canes, star, etc. on card stock, then cut them out. Use the card stock ornament as a template to cut shapes out of the colored felt. To hang the tree on the wall, use tape or adhesive strips. The felt shapes will stick to the felt tree on their own.

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happy holidays

ere we go again! It’s holiday time. Bring on the Christmas cards I never send out, pictures of

children crying in Santa’s lap, and the excitement of getting to watch your kids open presents on Christmas morning.

The holidays are fun, but they can also be extremely

stressful, at least for me.

Let me start by saying that I consider myself a

good parent. I do everything I can to make sure I am raising kind and loving children, but let’s be real, no one is perfect. I have fed my kids their fair share of fast food and have lost it over their inability to pick up after themselves.

One thing that used to bring me extreme anxiety

was how my kids acted at holiday parties and family gatherings. My expectations for them to be tiny delicate angels and play quietly with one toy at a time were farfetched and laughable.

My husband and I are lucky enough to have a

good deal of family in town, so our Christmases and Thanksgivings are more like turkey-fueled minimarathons. I used to overly apologize when my toddler would have a meltdown or when my newborn would spit-up on someone’s fancy Christmas dress.

But here is what I have learned about the holidays.

THERE WILL ALWAYS BE CHAOS. Embrace it. Love it.

Your kids will only be this little once. You will only get to

Embrace the Chaos

Surviving the Holiday Season with Kids { by: jamie roby johnson }

enjoy seeing their faces light up on Christmas morning so many times. Holidays are about making memories, not frantically chasing your toddler around. Let it fly for once and relax.

This year, I will have a three-year-old – nicknamed

Hurricane Henry for a very good reason – and a sixmonth-old. And I plan on embracing the chaos and thoroughly enjoying the holiday season.

Even though most of or all of the following scenarios

will occur, I will not lose my cool. There will be sugar. So much sugar. Every grandparent, aunt, uncle and fourth cousin will be sneaking my child an icing covered cookie when they

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think I’m not looking. I will not get upset. I will not attempt

I will not freak out when they miss their naps. I love a

to pry the fifth cookie from Henry’s slobbery little toddler

good routine but it’s okay to stray from the plan every once

hands. I will let him eat the cookies. I will not lose my cool.

in a while. And when they meltdown because they missed

One of my kids will open a present that contains at least 7,523 pieces in the living room with 12 of their cousins sitting next to them. Pieces will be lost. Adults will step on

their naps, I will hand them to their grandparents that said they don’t need naps on holidays and pour myself a glass of wine. Because I will not lose my cool.

Legos and endure extreme pain. But I will not lose my cool. I will let them stay up past their bedtimes. We only get We will be in a rush to make it to church on time to

to spend quality time with the entire family ever so often.

get a seat. Henry will insist on wearing his rain boots with

I will let them play with their new toys and run off their

his nice outfit. Simon will spit up all over his adorable

sugar highs with their cousins. Yes, I will pay the price the

embroidered one piece outfit with matching hat that I swore I would never dress my kid in. But I will not lose my cool. Their church outfits will be completely destroyed –

next day but I will not lose my cool.

The holidays for the Johnson family can be total chaos.

I am sure they are for every family. So embrace it. Enjoy it.

except for the rain boots – by the end of the night. There is

Eat the icing covered cookies. And enjoy making memories

also a large chance Henry will get another sucker stuck in

with your little ones. Because they don’t stay this little

his hair. But I will not lose my cool.

forever.

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happy holidays

Let the Countdown to Christmas Begin! Although it is supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year, the holidays can quickly become a never-ending to-do list. Christmas cards, buying presents, preparing for the family gathering… a lot is required to make this the hap-happiest season of all. It takes planning. And strategy. Here are our tips on how to eliminate the holiday stress, leaving time for what matters most this Christmas.

Shop NOW Grab a pen and paper or try out a list app on your phone and start thinking of gifts for your loved ones. Don’t overdo it. Keep it simple. Think about handmade gifts your kids could make for those people that are tough to buy for. Sentiment is better than amount spent. For those gifts you do need to purchase, consider buying local. It eliminates the headache of shopping in a big store, supports your community and allows you to give a unique gift. See our Shop Local section on page 23.

Photos & Cards Christmas cards can be a daunting holiday task. But if you plan ahead, sending cards isn’t really that bad. You first need to decide if you want to send a family photo with the card. Schedule a family photo in early November. Don’t stress about this though. Have a friend snap a fun photo of your family in the back yard or add humor to your card that will be sure to make your family laugh. It doesn’t have to be professional or even color coordinated. Make it real. While you are waiting on the photos to be returned to you from the photographer or for your photo cards to be processed, take the time to update your mailing list. You can even address the envelopes and stick a stamp on them – just don’t seal them. Then slide your photos in once they are ready.

Timeline to the

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Nov. 25

Nov. 28

Dec. 1

family photos done

Small Business Saturday (great time to buy gifts)

party menu made

decorations up

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Wrap ‘Em & Hide ‘Em Plan a day for your kids to be out of the house so you can wrap and hide their presents. Plan a day for your children to hang out with friends of family – you can always return the favor and watch their kids another day. Be sure you have all the necessary supplies – boxes, scissors, tape, and two different kinds of paper (one for your gifts and one for Santa’s gifts). Now where to hide them? How about in totes in the garage marked as something they’d never touch? Or better yet, hide them at someone else’s house!

Mail Those Packages

Plan Your Party

Don’t forget to mail packages to out of town loved ones by the deadline. USPS: First Class – Dec. 19 Priority Mail – Dec. 20 Priority Mail Express – Dec. 22 FedEx: FedEx Ground – Dec. 15 FedEx Home Delivery – Dec. 18 FedEx Overnight – Dec. 21 UPS: UPS 3 Day Select – Dec. 18 UPS 2nd Day Air – Dec. 20 UPS Next Day Air – Dec. 22

Whether you are hosting or going to someone else’s house for your Christmas celebration, you can never plan too early. Plan the menu first. Assign dishes to other family members coming to take the stress off of you just a bit. You can have non-perishable things purchased after Thanksgiving when stores restock the shelves. Save the other ingredients until closer to the event. Be sure to have your decorating done in early December so you can focus on just the meal when time gets close.

Dec. 10

Dec. 12

Dec. 15

Dec. 15-22

Dec. 17

Dec. 18

Christmas cards mailed

party food and supplies purchased

gift shopping done

out of town gifts mailed

all gifts wrapped and hidden

stocking stuffers bought

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PHOTO BY GEORGE HENDERSON

Twinning:

A PERSONAL STORY ABOUT MY JOURNEY TO PARENTHOOD { by: brittany ross }

s I sit down to write this story for Henderson Family Magazine,

the deal. With a smile, I often say something like, "No, twins don't

in my view are two little bundles of joy, my twin daughters,

run in the family. We were shocked." But were we really shocked?

Penelope Faye and Ava Louise Ross. Born September 14,

Not really.

2017, I can’t remember what life was like without them here. In

the early weeks of their lives, our world changed dramatically.

insemination (IUI) due to me having polycystic ovarian syndrome

Our living room is full of baby gear. Our kitchen is full of bottles.

or PCOS. The doctor had explained to us that with this procedure,

Our laundry has become significantly cuter with baby socks and

we were more likely to have multiples. My response? Something

onesies. Our vehicle has recently become a van (something I

like "I don't care how many babies I have, I just want a baby." My

thought I would never buy). As I sit in my living room converted

husband nodded. Little did we know…

to a nursery, I hear cute (and mildly gross) baby sounds and music

coming from their bassinet. Who knew that this would be what

elated! The excitement lasted for a short time, as I quickly became

parenthood looked like? A change in identity, for better, for worse.

very ill due to "morning" sickness. (Morning? I laugh. More like

At 27 (three years ago), my husband and I thought we were

all day every day.) I thought, do women get this sick? Due to

ready to be parents. (Side note: is anyone really prepared to

having double the hormones, with double the baby, I found out

become a parent? Now that I am one, I think not.) We didn't

quickly that twin moms are often sicker than their pregnant with

realize how long the process of trying to have children would

singleton baby-counterparts.

take. For some, it may be instant, but for my husband and I, our

journey took almost two years. With twins, people often ask me,

having twins was a moment to remember. At first, I started

"do twins run in your family?" While that question initially was

laughing uncontrollably. As my husband celebrated out of what

an uncomfortable one for my husband and me, it is now part of

was pure joy, the first thing that popped out of my mouth was “we

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In January 2017, my husband and I went through intrauterine

A few weeks later, we found out we were pregnant. We were

I would love to say my reaction when finding out we were

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are going to have to get a van… two car seats, two cribs, a bigger

4 Take advice sparingly. I know people mean well when they share their own experiences, it can be overwhelming. I usually only take the advice of my pediatrician to heart. No

house, double of EVERYTHING!”

one knows your baby better than you do, so trust your gut.

While the pregnancy started out rough, for carrying twins,

(It's that trial by fire thing I talked about).

it was a relatively good pregnancy. We knew beforehand I wouldn't go full term (40 weeks) with twins. At 32 weeks, I went into preterm labor and was put on hospital bedrest, then at-home bedrest, and somehow, was lucky enough to make it to

5 Don’t

more (aka my baby's persistent hiccups could be anything

my scheduled cesarean-section at 37 weeks and five days. It was

from a strong diaphragm to stomach cancer according to the

a grueling last few weeks, though, as it was in the middle of the

internet). If you're really worried about something, contact

hot summer and everything hurt. I quickly realized that any

your pediatrician.

woman that has gone through the pregnancy journey is a rock star – as it was the hardest thing I've ever done – until the girls got here, of course.

Recovering from a C-section and taking care of two babies,

6 Don’t feel pressured to breastfeed. With twins, people often

(weirdly) ask how the breastfeeding process works. Well, it doesn't. I decided early on I would exclusively pump

even with help, is no joking matter. It was hard. Fully healthy,

breastmilk so that other people (my husband) can help me

it still is hard, and I have a sneaking suspicion that it will

feed the girls via a bottle. Though pumping is incredibly

continue to be hard for the rest of my life. After 30 years of

difficult to fit into my already busy schedule with twins, it's

thinking about myself, I found out that parenthood is going to

what works for us. Do you want to feed your baby formula?

be a lifetime of thinking of someone else (or two someones elses,

Do it! Do you want to breastfeed? Go for it! Don't let anyone

in my case). The babies don't know if I am sick with a cold, tired

pressure you into something you're not comfortable doing.

and rundown, or busy writing an article for Henderson Family Magazine. They need to be fed, changed, rocked, etc. regardless of what I have on my to-do list. As we left the hospital, I couldn't believe the doctors and nurses trusted me and my husband to

7 Try not to use the phrase "I can't wait until…" In my mind,

I often think "I can't wait until they are old enough to sleep through the night." Or "I can't wait until they can feed

keep these beautifully perfect, tiny humans alive.

themselves." I try really hard to live in the present – I can

Nothing prepares you for your first few weeks at home.

wait. They will only be this little once, and I don't want to

Though we took pregnancy to parent classes, read “What to

wish away quality time I can spend with them right now. It's

Expect When You're Expecting,” and talked to other parents,

incredible how quickly they have already grown in just two

learning to be parents is truly “trial by fire.” And with two of

short months.

them, it only made it more interesting. Though I am new at parenthood, I have put together a list of things I have learned throughout this process.

8 Last, but certainly not least, don’t be too hard on yourself.

Having children is hard! I often end the day by patting

1 Spend time with your significant other before you have

myself on the back for keeping the girls fed, mildly clothed, and somewhat happy.

children! My husband and I take care of the girls in shifts

and sometimes go days on end without seeing much of each other. I miss him!

2 The time you do have with your significant other, make sure you communicate. And cuddle. We may not have a lot of good things to say when thoroughly sleep deprived – so nonverbal communication helps.

3 Get out of the house! Even though it's difficult to pack everything up (but the kitchen sink), going for a walk or

just getting out of the house with the girls is helpful to my psyche.

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Google things. Just…don’t. Though it can be

somewhat helpful in a pinch, its mostly just makes me worry

I feel like I have learned 1,000 more things as a new parent,

but these are the ones I feel apply to my experience. Everyone's experience is different. If you are in the early days of parenthood, keep your head up. It's an exhausting journey, but I am so lucky to be on it. I am aware that many women may be unable to have children and struggle even more than my husband and I did to get pregnant, so I feel blessed beyond measure to take on this grueling, but fantastic parenthood journey. I've heard it gets easier…

Brittany Ross is Managing Editor and a regular contributor to Henderson Family Magazine.

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r parental

control

A: I think the decision to respond

drop off situation for you and your

to the baby’s cues or set a routine is

child, make sure you both know and

the parent’s decision, and depends

stick to the plan. If she is upset,

on the child and family.

you will just need to go on and leave at the decided manner. The

If mother and child are more

school staff, especially kindergarten

comfortable with a routine, that’s

teachers, will know how to help

the answer for your family. What

your child redirect once they are at

works for one child won’t necessarily

school. You may also want to make

work for another.

a plan on how you will see them when school is over. The first few

Q: I have a 7-month-old baby boy. I

If another parent feels that imposing

days you may want to do something

get many questions about how I am

a schedule is stressful and their

special after school if the morning

child prefers to go without, that

goes as planned. Soon your child

could be the right answer for their

will enjoy school and things will

family. You make the rules for your

be much easier. Remember if we

child.

are anxious they can feel it. Assure

too strict on his routine. I have to keep that routine or he will not sleep and I

need sleep. What are your thoughts on

them you - and she - will be just fine.

sticking to a schedule? Breeanna Cox is the Family Resource Center Coordinator at South Heights

Q: I am getting really frustrated

Elementary School.

with repeating myself over and over. I have twin boys age 6. I do not

Q: My kindergartner is still having a terrible time going to school and experiencing separation anxiety. I know that I am not helping her, but it is so hard to leave when she is screaming, crying and does not want me to leave. I feel terrible the rest of the day. What else can I do to make this go smoother because it is killing me?

The more I have to tell them, the more frustrated I get and the same bad behavior continues repeatedly. I hope you have something that can help me. A: As parents, we all go through the time in which we repeat ourselves over and over. The key to not repeating is to follow through with the consequences when they don’t

A: This is a tough one. It is hard to see our children upset. If you and your child talk about the day and how it will go that may help. Go through the plan in an excited positive way. Have a very structured routine that starts at bedtime the night before.

think they listen to anything I say.

Knowing what to

do what you have asked. Sometimes the punishment will not be easy for us. However, to make them understand they need to do what you ask, you may not have a choice. If they lose a privilege or miss an activity that is important to them, next time they will be more likely to listen.

expect will help a child that is

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unsure. Do this same routine each

Shawna Evans is the Youth Service

night and each morning. Once you

Center Coordinator III at Henderson

have decided on the best morning

County High School.

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you asked, we listened. Owensboro Health brings more high-quality healthcare options in Henderson

wensboro Health is bringing expanded healthcare services

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The Henderson Healthplex is one of three Healthplexes

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Having brand new buildings has a lot of advantages. We

researched and planned the layout of these buildings for the best possible healthcare and patient experience. We also were able to fully equip the Healthplexes with the state-of-the-art technology, rather than try to update or renovate an older building for new equipment.

Specially designing and constructing a new building also lets us

put many different services in one place. The Henderson Healthplex will include a wide range of capabilities (see the bulleted list included with this story to learn what will be in the Healthplex when it opens and what is planned for the future). This is to make accessing healthcare

Diagnostic radiology: X-ray, CT (Computerized, Tomography)

HIGH-QUALITY HEALTHCARE

I’m from Henderson, and I’m proud to be a part of the process

that is making the Henderson Healthplex a reality. The patients and the communities which we serve expect the highest quality of care that can be provided, and the Healthplex is our response to that desire. I take great pride in this new facility.

Better still, we don’t intend to stand still. We’re already planning

the future of the Healthplex and its services. We're actively recruiting to expand services, and when the Healthplexes open in January, we're

easier and more convenient for our patients and their loved ones.

going to keep listening to the people in our communities.

SERVICE-ORIENTED

a long distance isn’t an option. We don’t want distance to be a barrier. If

The Henderson Healthplex will be home to a wide range of

Traveling for healthcare isn’t always easy, and sometimes driving

we can make your access to healthcare more convenient, we see that as

services. These include primary care, specialist services, diagnostic

a worthwhile, important objective.

imaging, laboratory services, urgent care, occupational medicine and

more. The Henderson Healthplex also includes a service Owensboro

community, and so am I. When the Healthplex opens in January 2018,

Health has never offered in Henderson before: Pediatric healthcare.

I will be listening to the people in our communities. I'm interested in

Thanks to a new pediatrician joining the health system, we’ll be able to

what you want to say. If we can improve existing services or bring new

care for you and your children, right here in Henderson.

ones, let us know. We want to give you every advantage to get you well

and help you stay healthy.

Here are just a few of the other providers and specialties that will

Owensboro Health is committed to the health of the Henderson

Gary Lee is a regional clinic director for Owensboro Health. He oversees the health system’s outpatient services and operations in Henderson, Hopkins and Muhlenberg Counties. If you would like to make a comment or suggestion on services at the Henderson Healthplex, visit www.owensborohealth.org/contact-us and send us your feedback. For more information about Owensboro Health or to make an appointment with one of our providers, call 844-44-MY-ONE (844-446-9663) or visit www.owensborohealth.org. HendersonFamilyMagazine.com

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the

kids eat free list

*The Kids Eat Free list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation. Restaurants, please contact brittany@tannerpublishing.com with additions or corrections.

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Sunday

Thursday

Tumbleweed 1 free kids meal for every adult entree

Captain D’s 2 free kids meals with adult meal purchase. Kids drinks are .99.

Monday Rookies Sports Bar & Grill Kids under 8 eat free 4-10pm Grandy’s .99 kids meal with adult purchase

Tuesday Golden Corral Ages 4-12 $1.99 5 - 9pm Ages 3 and under eat free Denny’s 2 free kids meals per adult entree ($6 or more) from 4-10pm (Kids drinks not included. Kids drinks are .99.) Fazoli’s .99 kids meal with adult purchase 5-8pm

Saturday Tacoholics $1.99 kids meals all day 11am-10pm

On-going Brown Bag Burgers 1 free kids meal with purchase of 2 adult meals – breakfast, lunch, or supper. Shoney’s Kids under 4 eat free with adult purchase. Kids drinks are .99. Wendy’s $1.99 kids meals after 4pm promotion certain times of the year. Call for details.

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Informing Hendersonians about fun, local events is a priority for Henderson Family Magazine. Our magazine compiles events with help from the community calendar found at several online locations, including the City of Henderson and the Henderson County Tourist Commission's websites. Want to include your event? Visit hendersonky.org/event.

Ĩ ONGOING EVENTS

READ, SING AND PLAY Mondays @ 6-7pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Read, sing, and play are three of the best early literacy practices for young children. Join us each for fun stories, songs, crafts, and playtime for the entire family. Contact: 270.826.3712 AEROBIC KICKBOXING CLASS Mondays, Wednesdays, & Saturdays The Dance Hall 1014 N Green Street Kick-boxing class at the Dance Hall! Mondays: 5:30-6:15 pm Wednesdays: 6:00-7:00 pm Saturdays: 9:00-10:00 am Contact: 270.577.9807

GAME ON! TEEN GAMING CLUB Tuesdays 4-6pm Henderson County Public Library Multi-Purpose Room 101 S Main Street Join us for the coolest library night in video gaming history! Play against fellow teens as you race across the Rainbow Road, build a mansion, shoot arrows at your enemies, or deal the ultimate combo breaker! Open to all teens ages 12-19. Must have video game consent form signed to participate. Contact: 270.826.3712 CREATE HENDERSON First Tuesday in Dec. & Jan. @ 4:30-5:30pm Thelma B. Johnson Early Learning Center 631 N Green Street The purpose of these monthly conversations is for collaboration and celebration of every aspect of the arts. Each month, time is allotted for professional development in the arts, networking, and information

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sharing. EVERYONE is invited to attend this FREE event. Contact: Kyle Hittner 270.826.3128 FREE TAEKWONDO CLASS Tuesdays and Thursdays @ 7:30pm John F. Kennedy Community Center 515 S Alvasia Street Classes will lead by instructor and Henderson resident, David Petrie. Kids and adults are both encouraged to participate (though all adult can expect to undergo a background check for safety reasons). It is not required to be at every single class, come and go as you please. Participants must pay for their own uniforms, but uniforms are not required to participate. For attire, plan to wear comfortable clothes and tennis shoes. The classes teach disciple and respect as well as balance, self-defense, and self-assurance. It helps condition the body, mind, and spirit while promoting an active lifestyle. Contact: JFK Center 270.831.1261 TODDLER TALES Wednesdays @ 10-11am Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Toddlers are little people in a big world, and they are constantly learning and developing as they grow. Join us for a fast-paced storytime, with stories, puppets, flannel boards, music, and movement. Then following storytime, you and your toddler can play in the various play centers set up around the children's department. Contact: 270.826.3712 RIVERBEND TOASTMASTERS Wednesdays @ 12pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Henderson, KY official Toastmasters. We meet weekly in the Henderson County

Public Library downstairs meeting room. All are welcome to come and try our local Toastmasters group. Contact: Nibby Priest 270.631.2121 LIL’ EXPLORERS PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AND MORE Thursdays @ 10-11am Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Talking, singing, reading, writing and playing is what a Lil' Explorer does! Each week we will explore various themes while we read, talk, sing, write, dance and even play our way through our stories. Contact: 270.826.3712 MINECRAFT Thursdays @ 4-5pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Did you know we have Minecraft at the library? Join us each Thursday, from 4-5pm. Registration is required, and space is limited. Contact: 270.826.3712 DANCE WORKSHOP Sundays in Nov., Dec. & Jan. The Dance Hall 1014 N Green Street Fall & Winter Class Schedule 2017-2018 Daily: Walk-ins $15/class per person Sundays in Nov.: Cha Cha (Basics), 5:30– 6:45pm – $35/month/person Sundays in December: N/C 2 (Basics), 5:306:45pm – $35/month/person Sundays in Jan.: West Coast (Basics), 5:306:45pm – $35/month/person Contact: 270.577.9807 “INKS” WITH LYNN BUCKMAN Through Nov. 30 John James Audubon Museum 3100 US-41 The Audubon Museum foyer will host a

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vibrant variety of Ink paintings. Contact: Kim McGrew-Liggett, 270.827.1893, kim.mcgrew@ky.gov THE ART OF RECYCLING Through Dec. 14 Preston Arts Center 2660 S Green Street Ohio Valley Art League present biennial exhibit of artwork created with “found object” and recycled materials. Contact: 270-844-2330 GREG POWELL MEMORIAL EXHIBIT Through Jan. 18 Citi-Center Gallery 230 Second Street Ohio Valley Art League present exhibit of Greg Powell’s art and poetry. Contact: 270-844-2330

Ĩ DAY-BY-DAY EVENTS

mini-exhibit with Lynn Buckman and her

FREE PARKINSON'S DISEASE SUPPORT GROUP Nov. 16 @ 10:30am–12:00pm Methodist Hospital, Therapy Services, Lower Level, North Tower 1305 N Elm Street Methodist Hospital Therapy Services will host a quarterly support group that is devoted to individuals with Parkinson’s Disease as well as their family members and/or caregivers. Led by Susan Marsch, MS, CCC-SLP, the group will focus on sharing experiences and various current and informational topics related to Parkinson Disease. Join others to find positive ways to cope with the challenges of this disorder. Contact: 270.827.7593

ADULT ARTIST RETREAT Nov. 17 @ 9am–3pm John James Audubon Museum 3100 US-41 Any beginning to Advanced Artists are invited to join us at the John James Audubon Museum for our monthly Adult Artist

Retreats. All beginning to advanced artists are welcome to attend as we network our ideas and creativity. Bring your own artwork and supplies. Cost: $15 Contact: Kim McGrew-Liggett Audubon Museum 270.827.1893, kim.mcgrew@ky.gov TRAILING THE EDGE OF AUDUBON Nov. 17 @ 10am–5pm John James Audubon Museum 3100 US-41 Exhibit open at Audubon Museum through Jan.30. Trailing the Edge of Audubon is an exquisite exhibit of nature and birds with an Impressionist twist. Angela Eveslage loves capturing the atmospheric qualities of light and color in her birds and landscapes. Eveslage has loved and studied Audubon’s Art for over 40 years and has won several awards. Don’t miss these amazing paintings. Contact: Kim McGrew-Liggett Audubon Museum 270.827.1893, kim.mcgrew@ky.gov PANCAKES WITH SANTA CRAFT & VENDOR FAIR Nov. 18 @ 9am-1pm Spottsville Elementary School 9190 Us 60 E, Spottsville, Kentucky 42458

CHRISTMAS AT PANTHER CREEK Open nightly Friday, November 24 – Monday, January 2; 6 – 9pm Panther Creek Park, 5160 Wayne Bridge Road, Owensboro, Kentucky Enjoy Daviess County’s premiere Christmas lighted display nightly at Panther Creek Park. $3 per vehicle. Free wagon rides are available each night. Supporting the following agencies: St. Benedict Joseph’s Homeless Shelter, Sorgho Elementary PTO, New Beginnings Sexual Assault Support Services, The Arc of Owensboro, Inc./Opportunity Center, and K. of C. Bishop Soenneker Council #10725. For more information, contact the Daviess County Fiscal Court Parks and Recreation 270-685-6142 or rleigh@daviessky.org.

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Join us for Pancakes with Santa! Eat breakfast and have your photo taken with Santa. While your here, get some Christmas shopping done at our craft & vendor fair and join in on our basket auction! Contact: 270.831.5136 PET PICTURES WITH SANTA Nov. 18, 10am-2pm Gabbi's Pet Boutique 801 N Green Street

TURKEY TROT Nov. 23 @ 9am Presbyterian Church of Henderson 100 S Main Street Family Fun Event-run, bike, walk, push a stroller, walk your dog- just come out on Thanksgiving morning for a fun event for the entire family! Cost: $30. Proceeds will to benefit the Brain Injury Adventure Camp. Contact: runsignup.com/Race/KY/ Henderson/TurkeyTrot5K

Pay It Forward Animal Welfare Network will be taking Pet Pictures with Santa at Gabbi's Pet Boutique. Receive two 5x7 pics and the digital file for $20. Proceeds to benefit homeless pets in our community. Children and families welcome! Contact: 270.827.1567 DIABETES AWARENESS MONTH EVENT Nov. 21 @ 9am–5pm Methodist Hospital Prevention and Wellness Services 110 Second Street Methodist Hospital Prevention and Wellness Services will offer free, non-fasting Hemoglobin A1C and on-site interpretation during a Diabetes Awareness Month event. Screenings will be completed by finger stick. No appointment is necessary. Contact: 270.826.4646

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BLACK FRIDAY IN DOWNTOWN Nov. 24 Downtown Henderson Help the small businesses of Henderson by shopping small and shopping locally (see special section on page 23). Contact: Downtown Henderson Partnership 270.827.0016 SMALL BUSINESS SATURDAY Nov. 25 Downtown Henderson Help the small businesses of Henderson by shopping small and shopping locally. Contact: Downtown Henderson Partnership 270.827.0016 CHRISTMAS ON THE FARM Nov. 25, 10am-5pm & Nov. 26, 1pm-5pm Blue Moon Stables 8124 State Route 268,Corydon Friends and family celebrate a country Christmas on the farm! The annual benefit for Healing Reins Therapeutic Riding 501c3 includes pony rides, Hay Rides, Pictures with Santa, Petting Zoo, Santa's Stables, shopping, and food. $2 admission per person, Infants under one free.

Contact: Healing Reins Therapeutic Riding 636.751.4835 HIRING BLITZ Nov. 28 @ 1-5pm Henderson Community College 2660 S Green Street No cost to employers but must be hiring immediate positions. Contact: 270.826.7505 CHRISTMAS IN THE PARK Dec. 1-31 Central Park 10 S. Main Street Christmas in the Park offers a fun, free place for children to view Christmas lights and decorations, ride in Santa’s sleigh and meet Santa himself. A tree lighting ceremony in the park will take place Friday evening, Dec. 1. Children can see Santa beginning on Saturday, Dec. 2 after the Christmas Parade. Santa will return each Saturday from 11am to 3pm and Sundays 1pm to 3pm in December. Contact: Trace Stevens 270.831.1274 LITTLE REMBRANDTS-REINDEER ON CANVAS Dec. 1 @ 10:30-11:45 Personalize your Reindeer on canvas using your child’s hand and footprints. A memory to cherish for years. Children ages 3-8, along with a parent or adult are invited to attend. Sign up today. Cost is $8. Fee includes the canvas and all materials. Pre-registration is required. Contact: Kim McGrew-Liggett Audubon Museum 270.827.1893, kim.mcgrew@ky.gov

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calendar OPEN HOUSE/RIBBON CUTTING: MATTHEW 25 Dec. 1 @ 11am-1pm (Open House, Ribbon Cutting @ noon) Matthew 25 452 Old Corydon Road, Henderson Contact: 270.826.0200

members in the holiday season. After nearly eight decades, the service still takes place on the first Sunday afternoon of Dec. and highlights local music talents to celebrate the holiday season. Contact: Donna B. Stinnett, Public Information Officer 270.831.4934

GENEALOGY LUNCH BUNCH Dec. 1 @ 12-1:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Come join us for a monthly brown bag discussion group with occasional speakers and webinars. Bring your brick walls, questions, tips and tricks, and genealogy knowledge along with your lunch and spend some quality “genealogy time” with us. Contact: 270.826.3712

TASTE OF CHRISTMAS Dec. 4 @ 5pm Rookie's Banquet Hall 117 Second Street Start your Christmas festivities with dinner delicacies provided by local restaurants. Fun and exciting silent auction items to bid on for your Christmas giving. All proceeds support the projects of the Volunteer and Information Center. Cost; $20 in advance. Contact: Volunteer and Information Center 270.831.2273

HENDERSON CHRISTMAS PARADE Dec. 2 @ 10am Downtown Henderson It is time to ring in the 2017 Holiday Season. First on the Christmas agenda is the Henderson Merchants’ Annual Invitational Christmas Parade. The Parade is sponsored by the Henderson Shrine Club and is supported through donations of the Henderson City and County Merchants. This parade has been going on for over 5o years and always is the first Saturday in December. Contact: Ethan Evans 270.830. 0105 or hendersonchristmasparade@gmail.com

FAMILY MOVIE NIGHT: CHRISTMAS Dec. 4 @ 5:30-7:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Join us for a Christmas themed movie night with popcorn and pajamas! Doors open at 5:15. Contact: 270.826.3712

"ALL DECKED OUT" GALA Dec. 2 @ 6:30–10pm Henderson Country Club 1030 Country Club Drive The Henderson Regional Hospital Foundation presents "All Decked Out" Christmas Gala (black tie optional). Heavy hors-d'oeuvres, band/dancing, silent and live auction, and a cash bar. Contact: 270.831.7889 ALICE P. TAYLOR CANDLELIGHT SERVICE Dec. 3 @ 4:00pm St. Paul's Episcopal Church 5 S Green Street One of the Community's oldest and most beloved events, the Alice P. Taylor Candlelight Service was originally started by the now-defunct Henderson Music Club as a way to showcase the talents of its HendersonFamilyMagazine.com

MONDAY MOVIE Dec. 4 @ 10am-12:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Have you heard the news? The library is showing a free newly released movie on a big screen. No registration is required, but seating is limited. Doors will open at 9:45am. Popcorn and drink will be provided. Contact: 270.826.3712 WINDOWS 10 Dec. 6 @ 2-4pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street HCPL will offer a Windows 10 class to help you become more familiar with navigating the start menu, personalizing Windows, working with the desktop, files, and folders, as well as accessing the Internet using Microsoft Edge. There are a limited number of spots, so reserve your seat today. Feel free to bring your own device. Contact: 270.826.3712 DROP-IN DIY: NO-SEW T-SHIRT PILLOWS

Dec. 7 @ 4:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Did you outgrow your favorite t-shirt? Turn it into a comfy throw pillow! Bring a t-shirt that you would like to turn into a decorative keepsake pillow, and we will provide all other materials. Contact: 270.826.3712 HOLIDAY BASH LADIES NIGHT OUT Dec. 7 @ 5-8pm Ellis Park Racing 3300 US Highway 41 N We are excited to have partnered with Ellis Park Racing to bring to you a fun night out of sipping, socializing and shopping LOTS of local businesses just in time for the holidays! And a few surprises as well! The very talented musician, Casey Williams, will be entertaining us this evening! His soulful voice and skilled guitar work come together to create a unique take on classic rock, blues, and soul, mixed with modern stylings! Contact: karen@housewivesinthecity.com CREATIVE WRITING GROUP Dec. 7 @ 5:30-7pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street We will explore creative writing such as fiction, poetry, etc. All skill levels are welcome. We will participate in writing prompts and sharing and critiquing personal work. Sharing one's own work is not required, but is highly encouraged. Please bring your own materials; please do not bring any personal work over five pages. Contact: 270.826.3712 CHRISTMAS MOVIE Dec. 8 East Heights Elementary 1776 Adams Lane Movie night at East Heights elementary with a special visitor. Contact: Staci Asher 270.577.2687 4TH ANNUAL AB CHANDLER PTA CRAFT FAIR/BURGOO Dec. 9 @ 10am-2pm AB Chandler Elementary School 11215 US-60 Join us for our 4th Annual Craft Fair and Burgoo. Over 45 vendors on hand, silent auction, photos with Santa, and Burgoo! December 2017 // January 2018 . HENDERSON FAMILY

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Admission is free and open to the public. Burgoo cost is $20 per gallon, and we provide containers and carrying bag. Burgoo pre-sale begins at noon. Pre-orders will be accepted beginning Nov. 1. Contact: Rachel Trout 812.629.6609

time for your tree. Students 3-8 must be accompanied by a parent or an adult. Pre-registration is required. Cost is $7. All Materials included. Contact: Miss Kim at the Audubon Museum 270.827.1893 or kim.mcgrew@ ky.gov

WHAT’S NEW IN GENEALOGY? Dec. 9 @ 10am Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Stay up-to-date on genealogy news and resources with this series designed to highlight new happenings each month. Each class will cover different topics from tracing your tree and organizing your information, to exploring genealogy websites, and more. Contact: 270.826.3712

TEEN TAKEOVER: KEEP TALKING AND NOBODY EXPLODES Dec. 9 @ 2pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Play one of the most exciting games around! Can your team disarm the bomb by communicating verbal instructions to your teammate? You have to keep talking, so nobody explodes! Contact: 270.826.3712

HOLIDAY ORNAMENTS AGES 3-12 Dec. 9 @ 10:30–11:45am John James Audubon Museum 3100 US-41 Sign up today for the annual "Holiday Ornaments" at the Audubon Museum. Design your Holiday ornament just in

CHRISTMAS AT THE LIBRARY Dec. 11 @ 5:30-7:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street It's the most wonderful time of the year and our favorite! We will have a scavenger hunt, crafts, a cookie decorating station, free

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books and of course Santa and Mrs. Claus! Bring the entire family for an evening of holiday spirit! Contact: 270.826.3712 BEYOND THE BOOK- DISCUSSING THE LUSTER OF LOST THINGS BY SOPHIE CHEN KELLER Dec. 11 @ 6-7pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Join us to discuss books you otherwise might not find yourself reading from the New York Times Best Sellers list. This program is free and open to the public. Contact: 270.826.3712 BINGO @ THE LIBRARY Dec. 14 @ 11:30am-12:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Is BINGO your GAME-O? Adults are invited to a lively bingo session at the library where you can socialize, make new friends, and get ready to yell, "BINGO!" Contact: 270.826.3712

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GENIUS HOUR: CHAIN REACTION CHALLENGE Dec. 14 @ 4:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street Can you make a machine that causes a balloon to pop? Create a working mechanism out of provided bits, pieces, and tools, and see what simple tasks your invention can accomplish! Contact: 270.826.3712 WHAT’S NEW IN GENEALOGY? Dec. 14 @ 6pm Henderson County Public Library (See Dec. 9 What’s New in Genealogy? Description) HOME FREE Dec. 16 @ 8–10pm Preston Arts Center 2660 S Green Street All vocal country band Home Free returns to Henderson for their A Country Christmas Tour, a follow up to their chart-topping holiday album Full Of (Even More) Cheer. Join the Henderson County High School a cappella choir in the lobby before the show, starting at 7:30pm! Santa will also be paying a special visit before the show! Presented by Field & Main Bank, the Raymond B. Preston Family Foundation, Old National Bank, Subway, and 104FM WIKY. Contact: 270.831.9800

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NOON YEARS EVE CELEBRATION Dec. 29 @ 11:30am-1pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Green Street 5,4,3,2,1 Happy New Year! Parents bring your kids to the library for our “Noon Year’s Eve Party”! We will have crafts, a countdown to noon with a balloon drop, and snacks

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to follow. Do not forget your cameras and your festive new year’s attire! Registration is strongly encouraged. Contact: 270.826.3712 COMPUTERS MADE SIMPLE Jan. 3 @ 2-3:30pm Henderson County Public Library Multipurpose Room 101 S Main Street Have you made a resolution to become more techno-savvy? We have a beginner’s class to give you “hands-on” basics! Contact: 270.826.3712 KEYBOARDING MADE SIMPLE Jan. 4 @ 2-4pm Henderson County Public Library Multipurpose Room 101 S Main Street Ready to progress past hunting and pecking on your computer keyboard? This session will help you memorize the keyboard to gain speed and accuracy. Contact: 270.826.3712 CREATIVE WRITING GROUP Jan. 4 @ 5:30-7pm Henderson County Public Library (See Dec. 7 Creative Writing Group Description) FREEDOM FROM SMOKING PROGRAM Jan. 4 @ 5:30–7:30pm Methodist Hospital Prevention and Wellness Services 110 Second Street A Freedom From Smoking™ smoking cessation program will include an introductory session followed by eight weeks of the comprehensive program. The program is designed to offer the group support and encouragement to quit smoking for good. An addiction-based model is used to help smokers understand their addiction and ways to break the habit. $15, includes a book and CD of relaxation techniques. Contact: 270.826.4646 GENEALOGY LUNCH BUNCH Jan. 5 @ 12-1:30pm Henderson County Public Library (See Dec. 1 Genealogy Lunch Bunch Description)

BEYOND THE BOOK- DISCUSSING MRS. SAINT AND THE DEFECTIVES BY JULIE LAWSON TIMMER Jan. 8 @ 6-7pm Henderson County Public Library (See Dec. 11 Beyond the Book Description) BINGO @ THE LIBRARY Jan. 11 @ 11:30am-12:30pm Henderson County Public Library Multipurpose Room (See Dec. 4 Bingo @ the Library Description) MICROSOFT EXCEL MADE SIMPLE Jan. 11 @ 1-3pm Henderson County Public Library Multipurpose Room 101 S Main Street Spreadsheets will let you store, organize, and analyze data. Learn how to make the most of it! Contact: 270.826.3712 WHAT’S NEW IN GENEALOGY? Jan. 11 @ 6pm Henderson County Public Library (See Dec. 9 What’s New in Genealogy? Description) GENEALOGY: AN INTERVIEW WITH FRANK DELKER Jan. 13 @ 2pm Henderson County Public Library Multipurpose Room 101 S Main Street An Interview with Frank Delker is a living narrative about Henderson's Delker Brothers Manufacturing Company, organized in 1902 after the death of Frank's grandfather, George Delker. This is a Bonnet video by Carmin Pinkstaff, a former student at North Middle School. Contact: 270.826.3712 WHAT’S NEW IN GENEALOGY? Jan. 13 @ 10am Henderson County Public Library (See Dec. 9 What’s New in Genealogy? Description)

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IPHONE AND IPAD MADE SIMPLE Jan. 17 @ 5-7pm Henderson County Public Library Multipurpose Room 101 S Main Street Become a pro without getting lost in the technobabble! You will learn everything from the basics to some of the cool new features. Contact: 270.826.3712 CREATIVE WRITING GROUP Jan. 18 @ 5:30-7pm Henderson County Public Library (See Dec. 7 Creative Writing Group Description)

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ADULT COLORING @ YOUR LIBRARY Jan. 18 @ 5:30-6:30pm Henderson County Public Library Upstairs 101 S Main Street Coloring isn't just for kids. Join us every third Thursday from 5:30-6:30 for a quiet, stressfree time to relax and release your inner child. Feel free to bring your own supplies or use ours. Coloring within the lines is optional. Contact: 270.826.3712 STEP-BY-STEP GENEALOGY: GETTING STARTED Jan. 19 @ 2pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S Main Street If you have New Year’s resolution to learn more about your family history, this is the series for you. Each class will focus on a different skill in doing genealogy. The first lesson will cover the basics of genealogy research including using generation charts and filling out family group sheets to keep your research organized. You will also be introduced to records that genealogists use to discover fascinating facts about their

ancestors! Learn the basics of recording your family history by using generation charts and filling out family group sheets. Contact: 270.826.3712 WINDOWS 10 MADE SIMPLE Jan. 24 @ 5-7pm Henderson County Public Library Multipurpose Room 101 S Main Street Explore the changes brought about by Windows 10. Make it work for you! Reserve your seat today. Contact: 270.826.3712 GET YOUR CRAFT ON Jan. 25 @ 6-7:30pm Henderson County Public Library Multipurpose Room 101 S Main Street Make handmade and homegrown art projects that you can complete in one session. Let your creative side shine at the library! No experience necessary. Bring a friend! Registration is required. Contact: 270.826.3712

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