Henderson Family - December 2019/January 2020 by Tanner Publishing

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Contents

19 Día de los Muertos Henderson residents celebrate life at the inaugural Day of the Dead festival

Answering Adoption’s Call The Suttons’ unanticipated journey to becoming a family of three

Lessons in Leadership Student Ambassadors bridge the gap between HCHS and the community

I N E V ERY ISSU E 6 From the Editor 7 The Buzz 8 Parent Profile

M A K I NG IT

9 Fun Holiday School Lunch Idea Win some cool parent points by being creative with your kids’ lunchbox. 10 Christmas Cracker Toffee This easy-to-make candy recipe is a great addition to a Christmas gift. 12 Parties with Puff Pastry Elegant dishes with little effort. 14 Throw a Kid-Friendly New Year’s Eve Party Watching the ball drop is not

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that exciting for little ones. This party idea will be a huge hit for your kids!

46 Kids Meal Deals When and where to take your kids to eat for the best deals

DISCOVER

FR OM OUR R EADERS

37 The Reading Nook There is nothing better than reading with your child—here is a must-read list for the season 39 Parental Control Christina Dalton answers your most difficult parenting questions. 40 Healthy Holidays Proper preparation & safety precautions can make the difference between a hectic or a happy holiday.

OU T & AB OU T

42 Calendar Dec/Jan Events

48 Fall Break Photos submitted to our Facebook page 50 Say What? Our readers asked their kids: “If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?”

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30 Local Love Show your Local Love all year round but especially during the holiday season.

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EDITORIAL EDITOR

Lyndi Mauk CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Jamie Alexander A.J. Casey Kaycee Garner Ashley Sorce-Wedding Amanda Waggener COPY EDITOR

Ashley Gleason Do you have a story idea? We want to hear from you! Email your suggestion to lyndi@tannerpublishing.com.

from the editor I never was a coffee drinker. In fact, I never used to even drink hot chocolate from Starbucks because I thought it had a “coffee” taste to it. The only item I would purchase would be a frappucino, and it had to be loaded with chocolate flavor. Four-years ago though, I decided to try their iced white chocolate mocha. That was such a bad idea because I loved it, and it was not good for my wallet. Now, I love a variety of Starbucks drinks. During the winter months though, you just can’t beat a white chocolate mocha or hot chocolate from Starbucks. I don’t purchase them all the time, but I like to treat myself to a hot beverage when I have been out and about in the cold, winter weather.

Sadie is 3 years old now and her baby years seem so long ago. It is so bittersweet being a parent. It makes us sad to watch them grow up yet exciting to see them enter each new stage. Call it cliché, but as sleep deprived as this mommy is right now, I wouldn’t give anything for these precious moments that will go so very fast. I love my baby cuddles, and watching my daughter be a big sister warms my heart in the biggest way. She loves to be a big helper with her little brother. Going from having a toddler to having a toddler and a newborn was a transition, but oh how my heart is so full. I never knew I could love two little humans so much.

We are wrapping up 2019, and my family has ended this year with the greatest blessing of all, our newborn son, Kaleb Gunner. Sadie loves being a big sister, and we are all in love with our newest little addition. The rest of this year was a bit challenging for our little family with our sweet girl dealing with a variety of health issues, so we are looking forward to ringing in a new year as a family of four. Christmas is my favorite holiday! I am 100% that girl who starts listening to Christmas music the day after Thanksgiving and recording all the Hallmark Christmas movies that will be premiering. Putting our Christmas tree up, decorating the house, baking cookies, attending our hometown’s Christmas parade, visiting Santa and driving around looking at Christmas lights are just several of my favorite parts of the Christmas season. This year I plan to add more fun experiences for Sadie, such as making a gingerbread house and going ice skating for the first time. Now that Brandon and I are the parents of two kids, the fun will only continue. I can’t wait to experience the joy of the holiday season with both of my kids as I watch them grow each year. Yes, we may spoil them a bit, but we will also teach them the real meaning of the season. In this issue, we are featuring a beautiful story on one couple’s journey through adoption, the Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) event that was held in Henderson’s Central Park and the student ambassador’s program at Henderson County High School. We have also featured a Christmas Cracker Toffee recipe and steps on how to throw a kid-friendly New Year’s Eve party. Thank you to all our advertisers, as you are the reason we are a FREE magazine. We hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! See you in 2020,

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THE BUZZ

Student Spotlight:

CHANGE FOR CHANGE 2nd grade students at Spottsville Elementary recently launched a project to raise money for the new addition of the Henderson County Public Library. In only one week the entire school raised $628.72, mainly through coins collected!

Holy Name School 8th grader Thomas Berger was selected to attend the McCallie Character Leadership Community Camp in Chattanooga, TN this past summer. This is a boarding camp in which participants stay on site for twelve days. They are challenged to complete activities outside of their normal comfort zone, such as spelunking with a goal of working as a team and improving leadership skills. He also had classes on budgeting, leadership, and various leadership careers as well as meeting with state lawmakers. Community service projects included cleaning farms and cleaning and completing odd jobs for widows. Berger learned of this leadership camp through a family connection and then proceeded to complete the application process, which involved obtaining reference letters. With his well-rounded background and high academic achievements Berger was accepted. When asked about his experience Berger said it allowed him to become more independent and has shown him to not be afraid to work towards the things you like and want to do in life. Berger highly recommends the camp to others and would encourage students with an interest in leadership to take part.

NEW TROOPERS JOIN KSP POST 16-HENDERSON Kentucky State Police Post 16-Henderson are welcoming three new Troopers to their ranks. Trooper Lacey Schroader, Trooper Wade D. Denton, and Trooper Wesley A. Thompson were among 48 cadets to graduate the training academy in Frankfort on Friday, October 25. The graduates consisted of a traditional class beginning on May 12 and a Law Enforcement Accelerated Program (LEAP) class, joining on Aug. 4. Cadet training consists of field study in multiple subjects such as constitutional law, juvenile and traffic law, use of force, weapons training, defensive tactics, first aid, emergency response driving, criminal investigations, homeland security, active shooter response, evidence collection, radio procedures, search and seizure, collision investigations, drug identification, traffic control, crowd control, electronic crimes, sex crimes, hate crimes, domestic violence, report writing, and encounters with individuals suffering from mental illness.

DO YOU WANT TO TAKE A DNA TEST? Do you want to find out about your DNA but have no clue where to start? This workshop, held on Saturday, January 18 from 10am-Noon, is open to four individuals who have NEVER taken a DNA test but would be interested in learning more. It will require a commitment of time to work with one of the genealogists at the Henderson County Public Library as you are assisted with interpreting your DNA results. An Ancestry DNA kit will be provided to the four people chosen to participate in the program. Applications will be reviewed by library staff and chosen based on such factors as willingness to share with other library patrons and a high likelihood that a DNA test would positively impact the individual’s personal genealogical journey. At the end of the research program, these participants will share their findings in a program for other genealogists. Contact Dylan Townsend at dtownsend@hcpl.org for more information.

“Since my freshman year in high school I have been involved in the yearly Turkey of the Year Fundraiser. This fundraiser is where several students and teachers get picked in order to raise money that goes towards buying children Christmas presents. When I was first picked my freshman year, I did not know how I was going to raise money. I knew I wanted to raise the most I possibly could, so my dad came up with the idea of selling pork chop lunches. I printed out tickets and I went around several different neighborhoods and businesses to sell them. I sold as many tickets as I could and I got a greater turnout than I expected. Over the last three years, I’ve made about $4,000 and all of the money goes towards buying children Christmas presents. This is something that I love to do and it makes me happy to see that I can make a difference in others.”

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PARENT PROFILE

Caleb May TEL L U S A B O UT YO U R FA M I LY:

WH AT H OB B IES DO YOU ALL

My wife, Sarah, and I just celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary. We actually met online. Sarah was an RN in Oncology in South Mississippi and I was just completing my undergraduate studies at Washburn University in Topeka, Kansas. We had a rather short courtship—we met in the spring, were engaged on the 4th of July, and were married in mid-October. We have six kids - Hannah (12), Abigail “Abby” (11), Noah (9), Ada (7), James (5), and Elizabeth “Libby” (3). Sarah is a stay-at-home mom, teacher for our kids, and a violin teacher. We homeschool and my hat goes off to Sarah for providing an excellent education for the six different grade levels in our home. We also have a labradoodle, Karl, and the most patient cat in the world, Penny.

We love taking walks in downtown Henderson and participating in local events and festivals, as well as, taking small road trips throughout Kentucky and the Tri-State Region. I love history and genealogy and am always interested in reading historic plaques and signs to the kids and helping history come alive. I’m a strong believer in passing history along to my kids so that hopefully they can learn from past mistakes and gain inspiration from the dreams of everyday folks from years gone by. At home, we also enjoy swimming and technology together.

WHAT D O YO U D O A ND H OW LO N G HAVE YO U B E E N I N THOSE PO SI TI O N S? I am the Director of the Henderson County Public Library District. I was hired in July of 2015 and started officially on September 1st, so I have been here four years.

HOW D O YO U F I N D BA L A N C E B ET WE E N WO RK A N D H O M E? It has definitely been a challenge at times. Between long hours at the library and keeping up with the adventures of home life with six kids, in addition to being active with church and community organizations and activities, I definitely don’t get bored.

WHAT D O YO U LOVE M O S T A BO U T B EING PA RT O F TH E H E N DE R S O N COUN T Y PUB LI C LI BR A RY? We have an awesome staff who constantly go above and beyond the regular call of duty to ensure that everyone receives a great experience at the library and wonderful support and assistance from our Board of Trustees, Friends of the Library, and Library Foundation members. We also have a fantastic facility that houses our collections, programs, activities, events, and services. The facility is also in the process of becoming even better as it is undergoing the largest renovation and expansion project in our 115-year history. With all this being said, I would have to say what I absolutely love the best about our library is our patrons. The community that we serve is what makes what we do at the library possible.

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EN J OY TAKIN G PART IN AS A FAMILY?

WH AT IS T HE HARDEST PAR T AB OUT BEING A L EADER WITHIN OUR COMMUNIT Y? I would have to say that I really haven’t encountered a huge amount of difficulty in becoming a part of community leadership in Henderson. As with anywhere, it’s a slight difficulty that I was not born and raised in the community, but Henderson has been very welcoming to my family and me. I think a big help with this process is that I have listened and learned a lot about the community and its culture and history. I think that it is impossible to truly become a part of a community if you don’t first show a respect and appreciation for the hard work of individuals and organizations who have laid the foundation upon which we now stand.

WH AT IS ONE PIECE OF ADVICE YOU WOULD L IKE TO OFFER PARENTS IN T H E COMMUNIT Y AB OU T T H E B E NEFITS OF T H EIR CH IL DREN BEING IN VOLVED IN T H E LIBRARY ’S PROGRAMS? I would encourage parents to be actively involved in helping their children to fall in love with stories and become actively involved in their community. Engaging with the materials, programs, and services of the library is the absolute best way to stimulate a child’s creative mind and set them on the path of being a happy, healthy participant in the world around them.

Making it

CRAFTS, RECIPES, AND ACTIVITIES FAMILIES CAN ENJOY TOGETHER

Fun Holiday

LUNCH BOX IDEA

You don't need to be a Pinterest queen to make some extra-fun school lunches for birthdays, special occasions, or holidays! It's as easy as using cookie cutters or "sandwich cutter kits" found in grocery stores. Watch for more lunchbox themes and inspiration in

By Jamie Alexander

upcoming issues!

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MAKING IT

This recipe should be familiar to you, and if it isn't you'll want to put it on your list! It's easy to make and a great addition to a Christmas candy gift. It stores well sealed at room temperature for 1-2 weeks! WHAT YOU'LL NEED: ›› Salted crackers of your choice (enough to line a pan) ›› 1 cup brown sugar ›› 2 sticks of butter (unsalted) ›› 2 cups chocolate chips (your preference - I used semi-sweet) ›› Optional: Your choices of toppings (I used Christmas M&M's. Sprinkles, nuts, toffee, and other candy bits taste great!)

Photo and recipe by Jamie Alexander

Christmas Cracker Toffee

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INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Preheat the oven to 350°. Line a jelly roll baking sheet with parchment paper. Grease the parchment paper with cooking spray ›› Line the greased parchment paper with a layer of salted crackers. Try to fill in any gaps. ›› Combine butter and brown sugar in a saucepan and bring to a boil. Constantly stir the mixture while it boils for three minutes. Pour the mixture over the crackers immediately after. ›› Bake for five minutes in the preheated oven. ›› Remove the pan from the oven and immediately pour your chocolate chips evenly over the top. Let them sit for a couple of minutes to melt, then spread the chocolate into an even layer. ›› Before the chocolate cools and hardens, add your additional toppings (push them in slightly to make sure they'll stick when it's cooled). ›› Let the toffee chill in the fridge for at least two hours before cracking it into small pieces! HF

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MAKING IT

Parties with

PUFF PASTRY Photo and recipe by Jamie Alexander

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If you’re looking for elegant dishes for a party but your dreams of being a master chef don’t quite match your questionable skills in the kitchen, it’s time to buy some puff pastry. Creating puff pastry can be time-consuming, labor-intensive, and finicky. It involves a turning process that results in hundreds of thin butter layers separated between hundreds of thin layers of dough, continuously chilled throughout the entire process to ensure a perfect temperature. Lucky for us, it’s sold frozen at grocery stores, so as long as you have enough skill to plop it on the counter to thaw for 30 minutes - you’re set. There are hundreds of versatile uses for the puff pastry. It’s a simple way to set the tone for your evening and transform simple dishes into luxurious hors d’oeuvres. Before you go scouring the internet for recipes for your next get-together, here are a few of my favorites to get you started (with flavors that just happen to compliment each other). Double or triple the recipes for busier gatherings!

POACHED PEARS

Nutella

TWISTS

WHAT YOU'LL NEED:

›› 2 sheets puff pastry, thawed ›› 2 cups Nutella ›› Egg wash (1 egg & 1 tbsp water beaten together) INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Roll thawed pastry sheets (on slightly floured surface) into two similar circles. ›› Place one sheet on a parchment-lined baking sheet

Baked Brie WHAT YOU’LL NEED: ›› 13 oz. wheel of brie ›› 1/2 cup sliced almonds ›› 1/4 cup honey ›› 1 sheet puff pastry, thawed ›› Egg wash (1 egg & 1 tbsp water beaten together)

and spread Nutella on the surface, leaving about a half an inch at the edges. ›› Egg wash the remaining edges (this will act as a glue) and place the other pastry sheet on top, pressing everything together. ›› Find a circular object to place directly in the middle (I used the lid from the Nutella) and make 16 slices in the sheet, starting at the lid. Then remove the lid and twist

INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Lay puff pastry sheet flat on lightly floured surface. Place the brie in the middle of the sheet to see if there is enough puff pastry to fold over and seal the cheese. If not, start rolling out the puff pastry in the form of a square until there’s enough to fold over. ›› Place the brie in the middle of the prepared puff pastry and add half of the honey and almonds to the top.

each piece that was separated by your slices. You shouldn’t need to twist more than 3-4 times. ›› Brush the entire loaf with egg wash, and bake in the oven for 20 minutes at 400 degrees (until

›› Fold up each corner of the puff pastry while brushing with egg wash to help the corners stick. Once each corner is folded together in the middle, brush the entire pastry with more egg wash.

WHAT YOU’LL NEED: ›› 4 pears ›› 4 cups water ›› 1 cup honey ›› 2 cups sugar ›› 1 teaspoon ground cloves ›› 1 teaspoon cinnamon ›› 1/2 of a small lemon ›› 2 teaspoons vanilla extract ›› 1 sheet puff pastry, thawed ›› Egg wash (1 egg & 1 tbsp water beaten together) INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Carefully peel pears and core them at the bottom (leaving the top stem). ›› Combine water, honey, sugar, cloves, cinnamon, lemon halves, and vanilla extract in a large sauce pan and bring to a boil. Once mixture is boiling, reduce heat and carefully place the pears in the saucepan. ›› Poach pears uncovered for 15-20min, occasionally basting with mixture. Once they’re tender, remove pears from liquid and set them aside to let them cool a bit ›› Lay puff pastry flat on a lightly floured surface, unfolded. Cut pastry into 1/2 inch wide strips. Brush each strip with beaten egg. Starting at the bottom of each pear, wrap pastry strips around (adding additional strips until each pear is completely wrapped). ›› Transfer to a baking pan that is 1inch deep and lined with parchment paper. Bake at 400 degrees until golden brown (20-30min). Serve warm. ›› OPTIONAL: Drizzle tops of baked pears with warmedup poaching liquid, honey, or powdered sugar.

JAMIE ALEXANDER is a nationally-published portrait and commercial photographer, Tanner Publishing Co. staff photographer, and owner of JAA Studios.

golden brown). ›› OPTIONAL: If you prefer breadstick twists as opposed to a pull-apart loaf, once your pastry and Nutella is layered, cut 1/5” wide strips the length of the pastry, then twist and bake!

›› Bake at 400 degrees for 15 minutes. Pull the brie out of the oven and quickly cover with the remaining honey and almonds before sticking it back in the oven for 5-10 more minutes (until golden brown). Serve warm! December 2019 // January 2020 . HENDERSON FAMILY

MAKING IT

THROW A

kid-friendly

N E W Y E A R ' S E V E PA R T Y By Ashley Sorce-Wedding // Photos by Jamie Alexander

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Since my kiddos are finally old enough to make it to midnight, I decided to throw a little New Year’s Eve Party for them last year. No guests and no real plan, just a night of hanging out with a little organized fun. It was a huge hit with them and the grown ups had fun too.

T H E SET U P

The main part of the night centered around a balloon countdown, which I created on the mantle. (A wall would work just fine too!) The balloons served as an hour-by-hour countdown until midnight. I blew up a balloon and slid a small piece of paper inside, each with a fun activity written on it. I tied the balloons and taped them to the mantle after writing a time on each one with a marker. We started at 6 p.m., meaning we had seven balloons/ activities until midnight, but you can have as many as you want.

6 P.M.

WINNER, WINNER, CHICKEN DINNER Why not start the night off with a delicious take-out dinner from Mister B’s? With a variety of chicken tenders, wings, pizza, salads and more, there’s something to satisfy everyone’s appetite.

7 P.M.

SLIME STATION My kids love slime. They had been dying to make floam — slime with styrofoam balls in it. For months I told them no, not wanting to deal with the mess. So when they saw that we were making that on New Year’s Eve, they were super excited.

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8 P.M.

CRAFT Y CREATION The next activity of the night was a homemade noisemaker. I bought some cheap noisemakers at the dollar store and paper plates. The kids busted out all the supplies from the craft cabinet (it’s basically a small Hobby Lobby) and made noisemaker creatures. Googly eyes, pom poms, pipe cleaners, markers — use whatever you have on hand. They loved them. Note: If I had it to do all over again, I would make this a later activity so you don’t have to hear the noisemakers the whole night — or deal with the kids blowing them in each other’s faces!

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9 P.M.

FAMILY GAME TIME I had some timethemed minute to win it games ready for them. Their favorite was moving M&M’s from one plate to another by a straw in their mouth. They had to place each candy on an hour on the clock I drew on a plate.

10 P.M.

COOKIE MONSTERS I basically love any excuse to make cookies! We made chocolate chip cookies from scratch — and by from scratch, I mean the cookie mix you just add a few ingredients to.

11 P.M.

GLOW DANCE PART Y While I was getting the noisemakers at the dollar store, I picked up a variety of glow sticks — bracelets, necklaces and glasses. We turned out all the lights, turned up the Kidz Bop and danced away the last hour of 2018.

12 P.M.

BALLOON DROP I wanted something special to end the night. For $4 with a balloon drop bag from Walmart, I created a balloon drop at home. The kids loved it and was the perfect ending to a fun-filled night! HF

ASHLEY SORCE-WEDDING is the staff writer for Tanner Publishing Co. She enjoys everyday adventures with daughter, Avery (8), and son, Reed (4).

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DĂa de los

Photos by George Henderson

Muertos Henderson residents celebrate life at the inaugural Day of the Dead festival By Kaycee Garner

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Photos by George Henderson

ía de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead, is a Hispanic holiday focusing on deceased loved ones. The holiday traditionally begins on October 31 and ends on November 2. Henderson witnessed the first celebration and observation of the holiday on November 2, 2019 in our very own Central Park. I had the chance to speak on the phone with Brad Schneider, our County Judge Executive who has taken an interest in this event as a private citizen. Mr. Schneider tried hard to think of an event that would appeal to the Hispanic people of Henderson, and based on the attendance, he did a spectacular job. When asked about the event, Mr. Schneider had plenty to say. “It’s a great cultural experience for local people and a special outreach to our Hispanic community. We hope to make it an annual thing.” The inspiration behind the Day of the Dead event comes from the Hispanic people of Henderson. “It struck me how many Hispanic people we have living and working in the community. You didn’t see them much in the community… they were cloistered and stuck to themselves, so I tried to think of an event that would speak out to them.” Mr. Schneider took

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the idea to Abraham Brown, director of Hispanic outreach of Holy Name Church, who loved it and began preparations for the big day. Day of the Dead is a day of many emotions and different aspects. “It’s fun, it’s celebratory, but there’s also some solemnness about it. It’s about acknowledging that death happens to us all and that’s not a bad thing. It’s a celebration of our relatives that are on the other side,” said Mr. Schneider. There were plots for families to set up mock gravestones for their loved ones, an “olfrenda,” which is an altar for the deceased loved ones, as well as many colorful skulls and decorations. Included in the decorations is an eight foot tall skeleton of “La Catrina,” the matron saint of Día de los Muertos, made by Eric Ridenour. The festivities included a mariachi band, traditional dancers, crafts and face painting, traditional cultural activities, food trucks, and a beer garden. There was also a candlelight procession to allow the families to mourn the passing of their loved ones and share in the

warmth they still held for them. This event was not put on by many corporate sponsorships. The people of Henderson made this happen through private donations. All proceeds, such as those from the beer garden, will be going towards next year’s event. The city is hoping to make Día de los Muertos an annual event, especially since this one turned out exceedingly well. The organization committee includes Brad Schneider, Abraham Brown, the Henderson County Tourism Commission and Abby Dixon, Downtown Henderson Partnership and Lindsay Locasto, Medina’s Grocery, Tacoholics owner Marcos Nicholas, the City and County Parks Departments, including Trace Stevens and Mitzi Weber, and more. Eric Ridenour of the Montessori Academy of Evansville also was a big help, as he and his school have put on multiple Day of the Dead events over the past few years. Mr. Schneider said of him that “he has an absolute, total enthusiasm for Day of the Dead.” Mr. Ridenour decided to move his event to Henderson and packed up all of his

Día de los Muertos equipment to bring it across the river. Brad Schneider wants to thank the director of Montessori Academy of Evansville Diane Barron for her help and support. Mr. Schneider said, “we have all these people who have latched on to this and decided to help because of how excited they are.”

Overall, the event was very well

attended. Día de los Muertos had over 400 RSVPs on Facebook. Many more showed up to have a great time and to celebrate their loved ones. I feel very thankful to have attended this event and to be able to celebrate the holiday of a different culture right in my hometown, and I am very grateful to the CIty of Henderson and all those that were involved for making November 2 such a memorable day. I can’t wait to see even more attendance next year and to see this event become one that holds a special place in the town’s heart.

KAYCEE GARNER has lived in Henderson her entire life and plans to keep it that way. She loves animals and movies, and enjoys drawing with charcoal and working on local political campaigns in her spare time. December 2019 // January 2020 . HENDERSON FAMILY

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ANSWERING

ADOPTION’S CALL

The Suttons’ unanticipated journey to becoming a family of three By Amanda Waggener // Photos by Darrin Phegley

ive-month-old Drew Michael is a tiny

for the infant in hopes of avoiding placing him

ball of energy as his parents, Andy and

in foster care.

Morgan Sutton, sit at a table in a local

café to chat about him. Interrupting the chat along the way, it was almost as if the baby was aware he was the subject of conversation and had things to add. The young couple, and first time parents, concedes that adjusting to the new little one has been challenging.

“It was a Sunday afternoon,” recalls Morgan,

“I got a call from Shawn and she pretty much asked me what I was doing for the next 18 years, then immediately asked if we would be interested in adopting her grandson.” Morgan, shocked by the unexpected offer, told Shawn

Most expectant parents have nine months

she’d need to pray about this and discuss with

to prepare for the family expansion with

her husband. “It’s not like deciding to get a

a biological child and sometimes years to

puppy,” she giggled.

anticipate an adoption. The Suttons only had

two weeks.

after we had our own kids, but it was still a

“We had talked about adopting, maybe

far-off dream,” Morgan expressed. The couple

A Surprise Phone Call

“He was born on Thursday, May 2, and we

got the call on Sunday,” shares Morgan. The biological grandparents and friends of the Suttons, Mike and Shawn Royster, had taken

reached out to a friend, who has personal experience with being a foster mom and adopting children. Their friend offered some words of wisdom. “God didn’t bring this baby into your life out of nowhere for you to say

custody of their newborn grandson, who was

no.” After serious discussions, lots of prayer

born with methamphetamine in his system.

and consulting their friend, Andy and Morgan

Already raising another grandchild, the couple

knew what to do. This baby was intended to be

felt it best to seek out suitable adoptive parents

their son.

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Party of Three

They welcomed their new son into

their home on May 17 and were awarded custody on June 13.

The biological

mother has been fully cooperative in the process as the adoption continues through the courts. Until the adoption is final, Morgan and Andy stay in contact with the biological grandparents and adhere to the social worker visits.

Having meth in the tiny body of

a newborn does pose a special set of challenges with providing care. The drug caused nerve damage, which creates unpleasant side effects.

“He has fits,”

says Morgan. She points out a bruise on the cheek of the rambunctious baby, explaining how he pulled a toy down, hitting himself in the face with it during one of his episodes. “We sometimes sit in a dark room; no lights or sounds. We have sat like that for three hours straight

people who love him, the better. It takes

she finally has.” He chuckled as he told

a village,” she notes. They are even open

her not to go anywhere and that she still

to Drew having a relationship with his

needed to hang around for a long time.

biological mother when she is healthy

and stable enough to be in his life.

always being an only child.

I think we

eventually wants a large family, both

want him to know her. If she cleans

biological and adoptive. Andy jokes with

up, we don’t want to penalize her for

her and told her “you want a basketball

her past mistakes,” the father explains

team!”

while bouncing the baby on his knee.

and speedy adoption of Drew, they

“People can change. That’s what we are

acknowledge they are trusting God as to

supposed to do.”

when these plans will come to fruition.

“It’s funny how God works; his timing,”

“We’ve talked some.

As the holidays approach, the couple

has already decided on how they will blend the families. Morgan expanded on

The Suttons don’t plan on Drew Morgan

However, with the surprise

says Andy.

the details of Christmas by adding, “We

Hope for the Future

will do like we always do. We will go to

my side of the family. We will go to Andy’s

little Drew back and forth between the

side of the family. If Drew’s biological

two of them, they begin sharing their

family invites us to their celebration

hopes and dreams for his future. Morgan

then absolutely we would be willing to

immediately becomes teary-eyed as she

be a part of that, too.” The family wants

expresses her dreams for him. “I hope

As the couple continues to pass feisty

to live as transparent as possible in effort

trying to rock him and console him,”

when he grows up that he knows we love

to prevent any shocking revelations to

she says as she looks at the baby with

him. I hope he knows that we gave him

cause Drew emotional pain as he gets

a somber look on her face. However,

the best life that we could. I hope he can

older. “We’ll tell him everything,” she

as evident with the couple’s positive

see how God provided for him and gave

continues. “I think any kid who gets

disposition she finds the silver lining by

him a chance. That he knows his story is

adopted is going to have questions. We

adding, “His pediatrician said that this is

a story of God’s protection, provision and

will tell him what we can as it becomes

very common in addict babies and that

timing.”

age appropriate for him.”

he may grow out of it. As he grows we

family

will see if any other issues develop, such

a solemn-toned, “Whatever he does, I

has welcomed Drew with the same

as being behind in milestones. So far, he’s

hope he is solid in his faith. Whatever

enthusiasm as Morgan and Andy have.

not behind at all. He’s good.”

profession he chooses, I hope he loves

Grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins

what he does and can support his family.

and

I want him to love life.”

It Takes A Village

The

adoptive

even

extended

great-grandparents

have

Andy echoes the sentiment with

celebrated the addition of the new little

Originally given another name at

one. “My grandparents are still alive.

birth, the couple immediately gave

for all the encouragement, not only from

We went over there to tell them that

him a new name once the decision was

their family and friends, but also from

we were going to adopt a baby. We had

made that they would adopt him. They

the community. They want to thank the

him with us so while she (Morgan) was

named him Drew Michael. “Drew after

people of Henderson, noting, “The love

getting him out of the vehicle. I went

his dad and Michael after his biological

that people pour over us and him has

in there and told them ‘Oh, by the way,

grandfather,” the new mom smiles as she

been overwhelming.”

he’s here!’” Andy laughs as he shares

reports. The parents want Drew to grow

his surprised grandmother’s reaction.

up knowing the truth of his adoption.

“Grandma, I’ll never forget, said that she

They want him to know both his adoptive

always has prayed to live long enough

and biological families.

to see her great grandchildren and now

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“The more

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The new family of three is grateful

AMANDA WAGGENER is a blogger for the Huffington Post, author of No Grit No Pearl blog site and is a native of Henderson. She and her husband are the parents of two teenagers who they are raising with as much zeal as they can muster.

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LESSONS IN

LEADERSHIP

Student Ambassadors bridge the gap between HCHS and the community. By AJ Casey • Photo by Darrin Phegley

It sometimes starts with a handshake. Other times a song as

meetings each week, and participate in

community/school events. As you can

being a student ambassador meant to

Freshmen enter the school for the

imagine, a lot of this time is after school

them. Matthew Mortis, a nurse with

first time. Yet, it always ends with the

hours. Each and every ambassador is

St. Vincent Health in Evansville and

same goal: representing the best that

committed to the program and they all

2012 HCHS graduate, reflects on his

Henderson County High School has to

have a sense of citizenship in regards

experience. “Being an ambassador

offer. The smile, song, and handshake

to both the school and the community.

allowed

all

The student ambassadors are friendly,

importance of good leadership and how

Ambassadors.

professional,

small groups can make big changes.

everyone they interact with.

represent

the

HCHS

Student

HCHS Student Ambassadors bridge

the gap between the high school and

the community. They give tours of the

Student

high school, speak with elementary

steady

understand

what

the

Being an ambassador provided the 2009,

opportunity for me to be comfortable

seen

with public speaking. This is such

participation

an important tool for individuals,

school students, assist with the senior

among students. In 2010 there were

especially for a nurse.” His most

citizen prom, help with middle school

18 graduates; this year they have 46.

cherished part of the program was the

scheduling, provide support for the

This year’s junior class already has 67

camaraderie he felt and still feels with

staff

applicants.

other ambassadors and the advisors.

attend

Rotary

conception

remember

day,

its

welcoming

still

have

opening

Since

and

Alumni

Ambassadors growth

and

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HCHS

teacher

ambassador

and

student

County High School. The program

coordinator,

Conner

is student led and students take

Mattingly, was actually in the first class

ownership of their role.

of graduating Student Ambassadors in

2010. When Mrs. Kellen asked him to

program’s inception, Mr. Mattingly

become a sponsor of the program he

recalls the events, “In 2008, Amy Kellen

was ecstatic. “I credit some of the life

was part of a site visit to Graves County

lessons learned in Student Ambassadors

High School. They had an ambassador

to my success today. I want to be able to give back and teach the students how to be held accountable, shake hands, advocate for themselves, and much more.”

When the program started, there

were a few non-negotiables from the outset:

4. When acting in an official capacity, you must be willing to do the right thing when no one is watching, or most challenging – when people who might want you to make different choices are watching. The program is also an excellent

opportunity for students to exemplify Henderson

County

School’s

world

class traits. You may have heard of Henderson’s

new

initiative

HCS+

Building a Better Graduate to instill certain characteristics in all students. traits

are:

communication,

bringing one to HCHS. In January 2009, Dana Guess (blue unit principal at the time) and Mrs. Kellen were chaperoning students to the inauguration in D.C., and on the bus ride home, she asked, ‘Is there anything I can help you with at school?’ this ambassador thing off the ground, and that is where this journey began. They saw it as an opportunity to reach out to the community, get people in our building, and be able to show the ‘real’ Lauren Alexander, a current Student

Ambassador says, “I decided to become an ambassador because I am passionate about what this program contributes to the culture of our school. I enjoy having the opportunity to be a representative of HCHS and take part in the behindthe-scenes work of important events that are critical to the school’s success.”

From current students of the

program, past graduates, and to Mr. Mattingly, the mission of the Student Ambassador program has resonated “serve as the face of the high school, and through outreach and our work in our schools and in our community, we are singularly focused on demonstrating what we know to be true: HCHS is full of amazing students, and we are the

collaboration, innovations, initiative,

best high school in Kentucky.”

and critical thinking. On every outing,

A.J. CASEY owns his own video production business, AJKC, and aspires to be a filmmaker. He co-hosts Jam in Henderson on WSON. He is married to his lovely and talented wife, Megan Mortis.

event, or circumstance the Student Ambassadors epitomize those traits in their representation of Henderson . December 2019 // January 2020

Ambassador

program, and Amy was intent on

3. You must learn to give proper handshakes.

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Student

HCHS.”

2. Tardiness is inexcusable.

Those

the

Amy told her she’d been wanting to get

1. You must be sincere in your belief that HCHS is an awesome school; acknowledge we’re not perfect, but choose to build on our strengths in order to diminish our weaknesses

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LOCAL Show your Local Love all year round but especially during the holiday season.

Henderson has a variety of specialty and one-of-a-kind shops with unique gifts, apparel, home furnishings, children & baby clothes, furniture, vintage, art, and hand-crafted original items through more than 25 merchants in the central business district. Lindsay Locasto, Executive Director for the Downtown Henderson Partnership, says it is important to support local businesses. Here are her top ten reasons:

HENDERSON’S IDENTITY

COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS

Take a stroll downtown and you’ll notice our community has its own unique character and charm. From Simon’s Shoes, the local attorneys, insurance agencies, Beachbum Farms, to an antiques emporium, restaurants, yoga studio and beyond, our small

Our small business owners help to build a sense of community. Their businesses tend to be people businesses, meaning they are more likely to build personal relationships with their customers, knowing many of them by name.

businesses contribute to our community’s identity.

COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT Henderson small business owners are an integral part of the community in which they live and work and tend to be involved in the local activities. For instance, they may sponsor local children’s sports teams, donate to the Audubon Kids Zone, volunteer for our biggest community events like the W.C. Handy Festival, Bluegrass in the Park, and the Sandy Lee Watkins Songwriters Festival.

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INCREASING THE TAX BASE

When we shop at small businesses within our community, our tax dollars stay within the local economy, helping to improve the community by supporting public services, the Henderson County school system, and the Henderson County Public Library. Likewise, local small businesses tend to buy locally as well, pumping more of their profits back into the community than their chain store counterparts, helping with economic development. According to the research firm Civic Economics, for every $100 you spend: • In a local small business, $68 stays in your community. • At a local branch of a chain store, $43 remains. • Online, virtually no money stays local.

LOVE 5

LOCAL JOBS

jobs. Rather than having to commute to another city, employees

INCREASE IN PROPERTY VALUES

work closer to home. A vibrant commercial center creates ample

A vibrant and busy shopping and entertainment area in a town can

opportunities for these workers to shop at other local small

drive demand to live there, boosting the value of the homes in the

Small businesses are job creators, and most of those jobs are local

businesses. They grab lunch or dinner from local restaurants, run errands on their break, and grab drinks from local bars. This keeps

neighborhoods.

money local and further creates a tight-knit community vibe.

ENTREPRENEURSHIP

Small businesses are the product of the business ownerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s entrepreneurial spirit. By starting a small business, the business owner is taking charge of his or her future. Entrepreneurship fuels Americaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s economic innovation and prosperity and serves as a

SUPPORT FOR NONPROFITS Local businesses support good work in our community, such as Habitat for Humanity, the Ohio Valley Art League, and local animal shelters. Studies show that nonprofits receive 250 percent more support from small businesses than large ones.

key means for families to move out of low-wage jobs and into the middle class.

10 7

INNOVATION AND COMPETITION

Small businesses, like any business, need to stand out from the crowd in order to survive. They must serve a legitimate need in the community and do it better than their competitors. Having multiple small businesses all striving to be unique, innovative,

DIVERSE, LOCALLY MADE PRODUCTS AND SERVICES One-of-a-kind and locally made products can attract customers to a community, bolstering our tourism and contributing to the local vibe. Locally made goods, such as soaps and lotions from LuciaSoapsEtc LCC, are attractive to residents who want to

and better can result in a healthy marketplace and well-served

minimize their carbon footprints, support local businesses, and

consumers.

keep their tax dollars close to home.

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LOCAL LOVE

1 ROCKHOUSE

212 N Water St // Henderson, KY 42420 CHRIST Y OSBORN, OWNER

Why shop local? When someone supports a local business they are creating economic development in their community. They support a family and create jobs for others to do the same.

What is one of your favorite things about the holiday season? The Henderson Christmas parade and decorations in Central Park.

What is your favorite holiday movie? Elf! I love Will Ferrell.

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? We love all things holidays! The decorations, holiday parties and most of all, time with family.

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Why shop local? To support the community that they are apart of!! Downtown Henderson has shops that offer a variety of different unique things—why not find that special something local then at a big box store. Reinvest, show support, to your community where you work, live, dine, shop, and enjoy your friends and family! Changes are happening, Henderson is thriving—lets keep it going!

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What is one of your favorite items you are offering this holiday season? I’m all about the warm and cozy this holiday season! Snuggle up in a new plush robe or blanket, stay warm with a cute scarf and hat, or sweater. Lounge in pure bliss! And of course I have lots to make your season sparkle and bright!

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What is your favorite holiday movie?

Growing up, I loved A Christmas Story — the leg lamp and Ralphie with his tongue stuck to the flagpole! I still love seeing that, but now I love The Holiday, too!

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? I love the hustle and bustle of Christmas with all that glitters, but my fave is the calm when it’s silent and absolutely love all the Christmas lights! Either snuggled up or in the snow—I love the warmth and twinkle of Christmas lights—especially when around family and friends! One of my favorite parts of the season is our Christmas Eve service at First Methodist. When it gets silent, we light all the candles and do Silent Night!

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LOCAL LOVE

3 METZGER’S TAVERN

1000 Powell St. // Henderson, KY 42420 K AT I E B E T H P R I T C H E T T, G E N E R A L M A N A G E R

Why shop local? It supports other business owners and keeps the money in the community

What is one of your favorite items you are offering this holiday season? Metzger’s annual Christmas Eve party! It’s a day full of giveaways and a huge half pot with one person taking half the pot and other half going to a nonprofit charity. Plus, everyone gets together to celebrate!

What is your favorite holiday movie? National Lampoons Christmas Vacation

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? Spending time with family and friends that you don’t get to see throughout the year. Making ornaments, gingerbread cookies and hard cinnamon candy with my mom, sister and kids. My favorite is putting up the Christmas tree and decorations with my kids.

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Why shop local? Shopping local is the best way to treat out of town relatives and friends to a truly unique and memorable experience!

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What is one of your favorite items you are offering this holiday season? In our home, we aren’t big gift givers, we like to spend on experiences — like tickets to a play, a camping trip, or just spending some invaluable time together. A big seller at F&F this year is an overnight experience gift certificate for one of the cabins. Staycations are a great way to give busy family members with children a quick rejuvenating, meaningful experience.

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What is your favorite holiday movie? Love, Actually

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? Buying a Christmas tree from George Day at Day’s Garden Center. One year we picked out one so big we couldn’t take it upstairs to our apartment so we just planted in the landscaping at F&F. Now we look forward to adding a Christmas tree to the property every year.

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Discover

ADVICE AND TIPS ON H OW TO M AKE PARENTING AN D L IFE EASIER

The Reading

Photo by Taylor West

Nook

All of these books are available for check out at the Henderson County Public Library.

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DISCOVER • THE READING NOOK

Tractor Mac Saves Christmas

How Many Sleeps ’til Christmas?

by Billy Steers

by Mark Sperring

Every year, the whole town looks forward to the Christmas

Little Pip is so excited for Christmas! “WAKE UP!” he says to Daddy

tree lighting, but this year, a blizzard has struck. The snow

Grizzle early one winter morning. “I think it’s Christmas Day!” But

starts to fall more and more heavily, and soon, Tractor

Daddy Grizzle tells him that it’s not Christmas yet. “In fact,” says

Mac and his pals are snowed in at the barn. Farmer Bill and

Daddy Grizzle, “there are four sleeps ‘til Christmas - four whole

Sibley the horse are supposed to be on their way to the

sleeps to wait.” Poor Little Pip wonders how he’ll ever make it, but

center of town with the tree, but when they get stuck in

Daddy Grizzle assures him that they still have many things to do-

the blizzard and it looks like the ceremony will have to be

they need to find a tree, send Christmas cards, and much more.

called off, Tractor Mac saves them and the whole holiday

Will Daddy Grizzle be able to keep his little cub busy until the big

celebration.

day?

Santa is Coming to Kentucky

Santa Bruce

by Steve Smallman

by Ryan T. Higgins

It’s Christmas Eve. Have you been good? Santa’s packed

Bruce is a lot of things. He is a bear. He is a grump. He is a pretty

up all the presents and is headed to the Bluegrass State!

decent cook. One thing Bruce is not? Santa Claus. But that doesn’t

With the help of a certain red-nosed reindeer, Santa

stop the whole forest from lining up to give him their Christmas

flies over Slugger Field in Louisville, Abraham Lincoln’s

wishes when he becomes the victim of mistaken identity... again.

birthplace, Daniel Boone National Forest and many more

Kids will howl with laughter as award-winning author-illustrator

landmarks throughout Kentucky. “Ho, ho, ho!” laughs

Ryan T. Higgins delivers another hilarious story about this bear who

Santa. “Merry Christmas, Kentucky!”

just can’t catch a break.

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Q parental control { Q&A with Christina Dalton, MSSW, CSW }

I have 4-year-old twins, a boy and a girl. I am â&#x20AC;&#x153;consistent with both of them. My son's behavior

is very frustrating. Nothing seems to faze him. My daughter, on the other hand, I can put her in time out or take something away and she acts as if the world is ending. How can I keep consistency when something only works for one and nothing works for the other one?

â&#x20AC;?

This is one of the best questions I have received. I feel like I see this a lot in the classrooms too. I think it is very important to remember that all behavior serves a purpose. It is easy to be caught up in routine too because we preach that kids need consistency and routine. I agree that is a true statement, but sometimes what works for one child is not going to work for another child, especially in the same home.

negative behavior. When I say that, please do not

misunderstand me. I am not saying there are no consequences. You have to have consequences in life for bad choices. I am saying that when things are

going well, these are the times that you are giving

the most attention and praise for what he or she is

doing right. Going back to that statement, whatever you feed, will grow. If we are spending 80% of our time

letting our kids know what they are doing great, those

When looking at what works best for your daughter, you have to figure out what works best for your son and it is perfectly ok that those are different supports. Some kids need more supports in place to control their behaviors. When it comes to behavior I want you to remember whatever you feed, will grow. What we pay attention to is what we will see the most of. Think about your son's behavior and how much time and attention it sounds like you have to put into his

behaviors will grow and flourish. It is not as much fun to throw a fit or blow up if no one pays attention to it.

Great question. Just some food for thought to think about. Every child is different and therefore has different needs to support them to be successful and

it is our job as adults to help figure out what those look like.

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DISCOVER â&#x20AC;˘ PARENTING TIPS FROM DR. MOM

Healthy Holidays By Shanna McGinnis

elicious home cooked meals, twinkling

lights,

bedtime

stories by the fire, and a trip to the emergency room. This could be your list of holiday memories if you fail to take the proper precautions this season.Â It is easy to neglect safety during all of the hustle and bustle, but proper preparation can make the difference between a hectic or a happy holiday.

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oliday

decorations

are

gatherings. For older children,

about this time of year is gift

can

teach them the importance of

giving, but nothing will ruin the

become a safety hazard for young

steering clear of open flames.

fun more quickly than a toy-

children.

Artificial spray snow

Our family mantra when visiting

related illness or injury. Ensure

can severely irritate the lungs

others is “We look with our eyes,

that the toy is age appropriate.

if inhaled so keep these out of

not with our hands.” Speaking

Grandparents,

reach.

Avoid using breakable

of hands, this is a good time to

and other family members (at

or sharp decorations and use

review and enforce good hand

least in my family) are notorious

caution with sharp ornament

hygiene practices to prevent the

for purchasing toys that are

hangers. Also avoid decorations

spread of cold and flu viruses.

too advanced. A toy that may

that resemble candy or food

Caution should be exercised

be appropriate and safe for a

because small children may try to

when it comes to food and drinks

10-year-old may not be for a

eat them. Popcorn or cranberry

at parties as well. If your children

5-year-old. It probably will not

garlands

choking

have food allergies, be sure to

be fun for the younger child

hazard for little ones. Bubble

inquire about ingredients used.

either. Be sure that art supplies,

lights are less common these

Seasonal baked goods contain

such

days, but they contain a fluid

some of the most common food

paints, and clay, are non-toxic.

that is poisonous if ingested.

allergens - milk, eggs, nuts, and

Painted toys should be covered

Certain seasonal plants, such as

wheat. If you are not able to get

in lead-free paint. Lead paint

mistletoe, holly, and poinsettias

ingredient information, err on

has been banned in the United

are also potentially poisonous if

the side of caution and choose a

States since 1978; however, it

ingested. Contact the National

different food. When in doubt,

may be found on vintage toys

Poison Center at (800) 222-1222

leave it out. If you have been

if you have concerns regarding

advised by your doctor to carry

other countries. With so much

an ingestion. Add the number to

an EpiPen, make sure you have it

online shopping these days, it

your phone’s contact list so it is

with you, not just during holiday

is becoming easier to receive a

handy if you need it.

parties, but all the time. Also

toy that contains lead paint. For

When traveling or visiting

be attentive to bowls or trays

more information on toy safety,

other homes for holiday events

of food or candies left on tables

visit the U.S. Consumer Product

and parties, remember to keep a

during “open house” style events.

Safety Commission website at

very close eye on your children.

Although this is a practical

cpsc.gov.

If the party host does not have

strategy for easy entertaining, it

kids, the home is probably not

can get little ones into trouble if

to gather with friends and family,

child-proofed.

they eat foods that are choking

but don’t leave safety out of your

hazards or allergy risks.

celebration. We hope you have

outlets, and cabinets that could

alcohol is being served, ensure

a happy and healthy holiday this

contain

chemicals.

that your child’s beverage is

year!

Although you may avoid them

nonalcoholic and they are not

at home, candles or fires in the

sneaking sips from other cups.

fireplace are common at holiday

SHANNA MCGINNIS is a boardcertified pediatrician with Owensboro Health Pediatrics. She is also the mother of three children.

beautiful,

can

accessible

but

they

Be aware of

stairs,

hazardous

uncovered

One of the most fun parts

aunts,

crayons,

products

uncles,

markers,

imported

from

The holidays are a great time

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OUT & ABOUT

DEC // JAN

CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Informing Hendersonians about fun, local events is a priority for Henderson Family Magazine. Our magazine compiles events with help from the community calendar found at several online locations, including the City of Henderson and the Henderson County Tourist Commission’s websites. While every effort has been made to ensure the accuracy of this information, all information is subject to change. Please call ahead to verify dates, times, schedules and prices. Want to include your event? Visit hendersonky.org/event or email lyndi@tannerpublishing.com

PORTRAITS OF THE PAST II

Through February 16 from 10am4:30pm John James Audubon State Park Museum 3100 US-41 North Audubon Museum presents “Portraits of the Past II” by five award-winning, tri-state artist, including Shirley Davis, Todd Derr, Carol Bosko, Iris Gentry and Cynthia Watson. Contact: Kim McGrew-Liggett 270826-2247 ext. 227 or kim.mcgrew@ ky.gov FREE “ART EXPO” BY

HENDERSON COUNTY GIFTED ENCORE STUDENTS

Artists Reception: Tuesday, December 3 from 5-6pm John James Audubon State Park Museum 3100 US-41 North 4th–5th grade Encore students from Henderson County schools will visit the Audubon Museum for their annual Audubon Arts Programs and create art for three full days, exploring new techniques and various art mediums such as watercolor, pastel, color pencils and acrylic paint on canvas. All artwork will be on display throughout the evening of December 3. Parents, faculty and families are invited to attend for free. Contact: Kim McGrew-Liggett 270-826-2247 ext. 227 or kim.mcgrew@ky.gov FREE GENEALOGY LUNCH

BUNCH

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Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Discussion time for genealogists, novice or experienced, who like to share ideas, discoveries, and good stories. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org

performing in a sacred setting. An organ prelude on the church’s brand-new instrument that will be consecrated on the same day will begin at 3:45 p.m., with the main service beginning at 4. Contact: 270-827-9831

FREE HENDERSON

Monday, December 9 from 1-2:15pm John James Audubon State Park Museum 3100 US-41 North Students 3-12 years old are invited to design an ornament just in time to hang on the tree. Students ages 3-8 must be accompanied by an adult. Preregistration is required. All supplies are included. Registration is $7. Contact: Miss Kim 270-827-1893 or kim.mcgrew@ky.gov

CHRISTMAS PARADE

Saturday, December 7 @ 10am Downtown Henderson One of the happiest events of the holiday season, the Christmas Parade has been a can’t-miss annual event in downtown Henderson for over 50 years! FREE INTRODUCTION TO

BABYSITTING

Saturday, December 7 from 1-3pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Learn to be the most popular babysitter in town! This class will cover basic first aid, choking safety, diaper changing, feeding and caring for children. Grades 6-12 only. Registration required. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE ALICE P. TAYLOR

CHRISTMAS CANDLELIGHT SERVICE

Sunday, December 8 @ 3:45pm Henderson First United Methodist Church 338 3rd St. Christmas music service started decades ago by Henderson Music Club continues today with musicians from across the community

HOLIDAY ORNAMENTS

FREE VICTORIAN CHRISTMAS

TREE DECORATING

Monday, December 9 from 6-7:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Sue Berry and the United Daughters of the Confederacy will discuss Victorian customs and how they relate to our current celebrations. Participants will assist in decorating a tree. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE GET FIT WHILE YOU SIT! Tuesday, December 10 from 9:30-10:30am Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. A short and simple exercise class

while sitting in a chair. Geared toward anyone who wants to stay active. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE BINGO @ THE LIBRARY Thursday, December 12 from 11:30am-12:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Is BINGO your GAME-O? Adults are invited to a spirited bingo session at the library where you can socialize, make new friends, and get ready to yell, “BINGO!” Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE CHRISTMAS SING-

ALONG

Thursday, December 12 from 6-7pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Who doesn’t like to sing Christmas carols? Join the library as they

celebrate the season with singing and snacks around the Victorian Christmas Tree. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE BOOK PUB Thursday, December 12 from 6-7:30pm Henderson Brewing Co. 737 2nd St. If you’re 21 or older and looking for a way to meet new people, discuss great books, and try out locally brewed beer, you’re in luck! Henderson County Public Library’s newest book club, Book Pub, will be meeting every second Thursday at the Henderson Brewing Company located at 737 2nd Street from 6-7:30pm. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE WINTER WANDER Saturday, December 14 @ 2pm John James Audubon State Park 3100 US-41 North This free naturalist-led hike will

wander a one-mile course through the preserve, traversing into the upland forest and descending into a pristine valley. Dress for the weather and wear sturdy shoes. Should bad weather be an issue, please watch John James Audubon State Park’s Facebook page for announcements. Meet at Warbler Rd. Trailhead near the welcome Center/Office. Contact: Lisa Hoffman at 270-826-2247, ext. 228 or lisa.hoffman@ky.gov

CIMORELLI

Saturday, December 14 @ 7:30pm Preston Arts Center 2660 S Green St. This group from California first gained popularity on YouTube singing cover music. Now composing and writing their own songs, Cimorelli is made up of six sisters & has over 1.5 billion YouTube views & 2.5 million Facebook fans. Tickets on sale now. Contact: 270-826-5916

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OUT & ABOUT

FREE MONDAY MOVIE Monday, December 16 from 1-3pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Have you heard the news? The library is showing a free newly released movie on a big screen. No registration is required, but seating is limited. Doors will open at 12:45pm. Popcorn and drink will be provided. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE ADULT COLORING @

YOUR LIBRARY

Thursday, December 19 from 5:30-6:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Coloring isn’t just for kids. Join the library every third Thursday for a quiet, stress-free time to relax and release your inner child. Feel free to use the provided supplies or bring your own. Coloring within the lines is optional. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE GENEALOGY LUNCH

BUNCH

Friday, January 3 from Noon1:30pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Discussion time for genealogists, novice or experienced, who like to share ideas, discoveries, and good stories. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE BOOK PUB Thursday, January 9 from 6-7:30pm Henderson Brewing Co. 737 2nd St. If you’re 21 or older and looking for a way to meet new people, discuss great books, and try out 44 HENDERSON FAMILY

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locally brewed beer, you’re in luck! Henderson County Public Library’s newest book club, Book Pub, will be meeting every second Thursday at the Henderson Brewing Company located at 737 2nd Street from 6-7:30pm. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE THE GENEALOGIST’S

GOOGLE TOOLBOX CHAPTER BY CHAPTER

Saturday, January 1 from 10amNoon Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Using the book The Genealogist’s Google Toolbox, explore the chapters in depth to improve the Google experience while doing family research. These will be hands-on classes with time for practice at the end. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE FIRST DAY HIKE Tuesday, January 1 @ 1pm John James Audubon State Park Museum Kick off the New Year on the right foot! Join our naturalist for a free .7mile “First Day” Hike along Audubon State Park’s beautiful wooded trails. Dress in layers, wear sturdy shoes, and watch John James Audubon State Park’s Facebook and Instagram pages for weather updates. Contact: Lisa Hoffman at 270-826-2247, ext. 228 or lisa.hoffman@ky.gov FREE ACT PRACTICE TEST Saturday, January 11 from 1-4pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. Sharpen your test-taking skills with a free, full-length practice ACT. Please bring pencils, calculator, and a bottled drink/snack. The test will last approximately three hours.

Participants will get an answer key immediately following the test and will be allowed to take home all materials in order to study and go over results. Grades 7-12 only. Registration required. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org FREE AIR NATIONAL GUARD “BAND OF THE SOUTH” PERFORMANCE Friday, January 17 from 7:309pm Preston Arts Center 2660 S Green St. The Air National Guard Band of the South is one of the most acclaimed concert bands in the country. They will be giving a free concert at the Preston Arts Center located on the Henderson Community College Campus. Canned food donations will be accepted at the door to support local food pantries. Contact: 270-831-9803 FREE TEEN LASER TAG Friday, January 24 from 5:308pm Henderson County Public Library 101 S. Main St. The library may be closed, but the fun has just begun! Join the library after hours for laser tag and pizza. Grades 6-12 only. Registration required. Contact: Dylan Townsend dtownsend@hcpl.org

MURRAY STATE FACULTY JAZZ CONCERT Saturday, January 25 from 7:309pm Preston Arts Center 2660 S Green St. The Murray State Faculty jazz band will be heating up the cold winter nights! The audience will be on stage with the band in an intimate jazz club atmosphere. $10 per person. Contact: 270-831-9803

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KIDS

meal deals

SUNDAY

Tumbleweed 1 free kids meal for every adult entree

MONDAY

Rookies Sports Bar & Grill Kids under 8 eat free 4-10pm

Grandy’s

.99 kids meal with adult purchase

TUESDAY

Golden Corral

Ages 4-12 $1.99 5-9pm Ages 3 and under eat free

Denny’s

2 free kids meals per adult entree ($6 or more) from 4-10pm. Kids drinks are .99.

Fazoli’s

.99 kids meal with adult purchase 5-8pm

Pizza Hut

1 free kids meal per adult entree (buffet only)

Wings Etc.

Kids eat free 5-8 with purchase of adult entree

THURSDAY

Captain D’s

2 free kids meals with adult meal purchase. Kids drinks are .99.

SATURDAY

Tacoholics

1 free kids meal per adult entree

ONGOING

Brown Bag Burgers

1 free kids meal with purchase of 2 adult meals—breakfast, lunch, or supper.

Shoney’s

Kids under 4 eat free with adult purchase. Kids drinks are .99.

Wendy’s

$1.99 kids meals after 4pm promotion certain times of the year. Call for details.

*The Kids Eat Free list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation. Restaurants, please contact lyndi@tannerpublishing.com with additions or corrections.

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