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Contents

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A Calling that Changed his Life D.A.R.E officer, Marty Williams, hangs up his badge after a job well done

I N EVERY ISSU E

reading with your child—here is

6 From the Editor 7 The Buzz 8 Parent Profile

a must-read list for the season

M AKIN G IT

For the Love of Horses Equestrian hunter jumper becomes national champion

9 No Bake Valentine’s Day Treats Valentine’s Day just got a little sweeter.

12 Hedgehog Valentine’s We’re “Hedge” over heels for this Valentine’s craft!

Small Beginnings A non-profit created so girls all over the world would have access to quality, sustainable hygiene and health education

35 Parental Control Christina Dalton answers your most difficult parenting questions 40 Moms of Multiples From one mom to another

DISCOVER

44 Snow Much Fun! Photos submitted to our Facebook page 46 Say What? Our readers asked their kids: “What’s the best thing about living in Henderson?”

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OU T & AB OU T 40 Calendar 8 local things to do this season

33 The Reading Nook There is nothing better than

FR OM OUR R EADE RS

42 Kids Meal Deals When and where to take your kids to eat for the best deals

27 What We Love About Henderson Businesses and individuals share the best thing about our city.

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from the editor

EDITORIAL EDITOR

Lyndi Mauk It’s 2020, and we at Henderson Family are so excited to see what this new year brings as we bring you another year of publications featuring amazing stories, recipes, crafts, events and more! Last year was by far the fastest year of my life. Between my daughter and I, we spent a lot of our time at the doctor’s office due to my pregnancy and some health concerns we faced with her, along with an ER visit by all three of us at least once. Our little family seemed to face one thing after another, but despite the trials, we ended our year welcoming our healthy baby boy. Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, so we decided to ask members of our community what they love most about Henderson, and our little town seems to be loved by so many for so many reasons. Check out the responses inside. We have featured stories on a local nonprofit, Small Beginnings, an equestrian hunter jumper who has won multiple blue ribbons and Henderson’s recently retired D.A.R.E officer. Don’t forget to check out the delicious Valentine’s Day recipes and crafts, some of the top events happening here in town this winter and so much more. We all make New Year’s Resolutions, and this year I want to commit to taking the time to slow down. Between all the busyness life brings and having two precious kiddos to keep me on my toes, I want to enjoy every moment this year has to bring.

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Jamie Alexander Kaycee Garner Ashley Sorce-Wedding Amanda Waggener COPY EDITOR

Ashley Gleason Do you have a story idea? We want to hear from you! Email your suggestion to lyndi@tannerpublishing.com.

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Lyndi Mauk Editor, Henderson Family Magazine

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With my daughter, I didn’t know these existed. I always kept extra grocery bags in my vehicle or my diaper bag in case we were out of the house and needed to throw a dirty diaper in it. However, I received these at one of my showers for our baby boy this year and wish I had them with Sadie. These are made to take away the smell until a trash can is available. Babies and toddlers have accidents, and many times it always seems to happen when you aren’t at home. Just our luck, right? Ha. These are a must-have to keep on-hand. The container is small, so it doesn’t take up any room in your diaper bag.

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There are tons of options on the market for this item. With my firstborn, I registered for a cover that was super cute, without ever considering how convenient it would be. Once she started sitting up and was able to sit in a highchair or cart, I felt like I was packing up my house when we went inside somewhere. The cover I had registered for was big and bulky. It wouldn’t even fit into my diaper bag. Honestly, it was probably about the same size as the diaper bag, and it became impossible trying to get in and out of places carrying so much on my arm. Then I found this little gem, and wow, what a lifesaver it was. It folds up into itself, so I can easily carry it inside my diaper bag. It comes with a strap to attach a sippy cup, so it doesn’t fall on the ground, and has two toys attached to keep your little one occupied while sitting. I absolutely love it.

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I can recall a phase when my daughter seemed to have one accident after another when we were in the car, or she would drop something on her clothing while we were out eating somewhere. It doesn’t take much for an outfit to be completely ruined if a stain isn’t pre-treated quickly. These on-the-go stain remover sticks are so convenient to have in your diaper bag so you can treat the stain at that moment until you can get home and toss in the washer.

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THE BUZZ

Student Spotlight:

Kynleigh Arnett is a 5th grader at South Heights

HCHS CHEERLEADERS BRING HOME STATE TITLE On Saturday, December 14th the HCHS Cheerleading team were named State Champions after competing in the KHSAA State Conference. Kentucky is one of the most decorated states for cheerleading. The team consists of 28 cheerleaders, and they competed in the Game Day Division. Head Coach, Erin Williams, said “We have worked so hard for this moment. I know that my mother, Cindy Williams, is watching over us every step of the way. Hard work truly pays off!” The team will be traveling to Orlando, FL to UCA Nationals in February. Last season HCHS Cheer placed 5th in the Nation for their Game Day routine.

Elementary. Her teacher, Rebecca Reynolds, said, “Kynleigh comes to school each and every day with an eagerness to learn. She is an exceptional student in her academics, citizenship, and athletics, always setting a positive example for her peers. She is diligent in completing her work in a timely manner and is able to be self-guided in independent study. She is kind and respectful not only toward her fellow classmates, but her teachers as well. She earned the Honor Roll for receiving all As and Bs on her report card for the first semester, an honor she truly deserves for her commitment and dedication. One fun fact about Kynleigh is she loves art and would like to pursue that in college.

Henry Porter was elected the student governor

HENDERSON FORMS NEW KIWANIS CLUB Whether you’re a young professional, a new parent or a retiree, you can make a difference in the lives of children in Henderson while expanding your social network. People who want to help children are invited to join other community members in forming a new Kiwanis club. They meet at noon on the first Monday of the month at Rockhouse on the River and at 6 p.m. on the third Monday of the month at the Henderson Library. Kiwanis understands the changing needs of today’s busy volunteers, and encourage members to give time when they can, whether that’s at a service project or at a meeting. Learn more and connect with Henderson’s Kiwanis at Facebook.com/HendersonKYKiwanis

HENDERSON COUNTY SCHOOLS INTRODUCE A “DINE & LEARN” SERIES This fall, Henderson County Schools received a Project AWARE (Advancing Wellness and Resiliency in Education) grant. A primary goal of the grant is to increase awareness of mental health issues among school-aged youth and families. Henderson County Schools is doing this, in part, by offering a series of “Dine & Learn “events. The first event took place on November 21 and focused on “Understanding Children’s Mental Health”. Plans are currently underway for a “Mental Health Matters” focused agency fair for both high school students and parents/family members after the first of the year. Additional “Dine & Learn” events will be scheduled for the spring as well. For more information, contact the Project AWARE Grant Director, Jamie Like at 270-831-8769 or email her at jamie.like@henderson.kyschools.us.

at Kentucky Youth Assembly (KYA) Middle School Conference #2 December 8-12 in Louisville, Kentucky. KYA is a 3-day expanded educational opportunity, in which students serve as part of a model state government. As one of 10 candidates, Porter was elected by 1,300 of his peers. The election process follows a traditional campaign process with public speaking, evidence of ability to lead, and voting. Porter’s platforms included: service, Camp Mariposa for children living in homes with substance use disorders, and an animal abuse registry for those convicted of animal abuse or neglect. Porter attended two previous KYAs and was a bill author as a 6th grader. To prepare for his campaign, Porter visited various businesses in downtown Henderson to deliver and practice his speech and gain constructive feedback from local leaders. All grades and ages of students at Holy Name listened to Porter and offered critical feedback. Henry will preside over the conference next year as a freshman in high school and is looking forward to the experience. “I’m looking forward to helping my class and my community as I learn about government and serve as Governor next year at KYA,” Porter said.

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PARENT PROFILE

Jeremy & Kate Baker TEL L U S A B O UT YO U R FA M I LY? We have been blessed with two amazing little girls, Ava age 7 and Eliza age 4. Our youngest wants to be a veterinarian when she grows up, so we always have a variety of pets. Currently, we have a dog, two cats and three turtles. Ava wants to be a chiropractor, so maybe someday we can pass on the family business.

WHAT D O YO U D O A N D H OW LO N G H AV E YOU BEE N I N TH O S E P O S I T I O N S? We are both chiropractors and co-owners of Baker Family Chiropractic in Henderson and Union County. Our first office opened in 2011 in Sturgis, and we opened our Henderson location in October of 2018.

HOW D O YO U F I N D BA L A N C E B ET WE E N WO RK A N D H O M E? I don’t know if there is such a thing for us. What we do for a living is so integrated into how we live our lives. We think of it more as a flow between our work and home life. When our girls were babies, we set up a nursery in the back of our office so that I could breastfeed and still see patients and we could both be hands-on parents. Having young children, we make sure we set aside certain times that are dedicated just for our family. We eat dinner together every night, we have a family board game night, and we read together as part of our bedtime routine. Fortunately, we have lots of help from our parents with childcare, and we can manage to make our crazy schedules work.

WH AT H OB B IES DO YOU ALL ENJOY TAKIN G PAR T IN AS A FAMILY? We are very active and love the outdoors. We enjoy hiking, traveling to new places, riding bikes, swimming, riding our side-by-side, and generally anything where we can be together. Dr. Jeremy helps coach wrestling in Union County, so we attend a lot of wrestling events, too. I teach yoga a few days a week, so both Ava and Eliza enjoy doing yoga with me.

DO YOU B OT H SPECIALIZE IN T H E SAME AREAS OF CH IROPRACTIC CAR E, O R DO YOU EACH FOCUS ON DIFFERENT SPECIALTIES FOR COMMUNIT Y MEMBERS? We are both capable of providing care for the general population, but Dr. Jeremy does focus on athletes of all ages. His experience as an athlete and his Master’s degree in Sports Psychology give him a great background in helping athletes meet their goals. Dr. Kate focuses on pediatrics, pregnancy and women’s health issues. She has certification in Webster

WHAT D O YO U LOVE M O S T A BO U T B EING E N TRE PRE N E U R S I N A SMA LL TOWN? We love the people and the community. Everyone has been so supportive and welcoming. I am also impressed by how willing people are to help others in Henderson. We have had patients with different needs come to our office, and we have been able to find resources and organizations eager to provide assistance. It’s been wonderful to be able to partner with places like Marsha’s Place and Goodfellows, so that we can give back to this community as well.

WHAT I S I T LI KE WO R K I N G WI T H YOU R SPO USE? I think we both had to laugh when we got to this question. We get asked this a lot. There can be some very obvious challenges working so closely with your spouse, and we have to set boundaries sometimes so that work issues don’t follow us home. But at the end of the day, it is very comforting to know that they understand exactly how you feel because they have been right there with you. In some ways it brings us closer.

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Technique, which is very useful during pregnancy, and she is an International Chiropractic Pediatric Association doctor.

WH AT AR E SOM E OF THE MOST IM P OR TAN T B ENEFITS OF CH IR OPR ACT IC CARE THAT YOU WAN T OU R COMMUNIT Y TO KNOW? Chiropractic is very helpful during pregnancy to help with normal changes that occur to a woman’s body. Regular adjustments can help babies and children with a variety of issues ranging from constipation to sleep issues. Our athletes find that maintaining their spinal health keeps them injury free and allows them to excel in their sport. Very simply chiropractic can help you reach your health goals and function at your body’s maximum potential. We see all ages from birth to patients in their 90s, the only thing that differs is the technique that we use from patient to patient.

Photos and recipes by Jamie Alexander

Making it

CRAFTS, RECIPES, AND ACTIVITIES FAMILIES CAN ENJOY TOGETHER

No Bake Valentine’s Day Treats If you’re somebody who doesn’t like baking, Valentine’s Day just got a little sweeter. Each of these treats can be made using only a microwave, are not very time consuming, and will help the recipient feel extra-special!

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INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Melt some red candy melts (or white chocolate) in a microwave safe bowl, stirring every 30-seconds until melted and smooth (if you used white chocolate, add desired amount of red food coloring and stir until completely combined).

Love Bugs WHAT YOU’LL NEED: ›› Fudge-covered Oreos ›› Red candy melts OR white chocolate with red food coloring ›› Black decorating icing ›› Candy eyeballs ›› Heart sprinkles (or other sprinkles of your choice for the “spots”)

›› Dip the fudge-covered oreos into the melted red chocolate, leaving the top quarter undipped (it’s easiest to grab the cookies by this top bit for less messy fingers). ›› Place the dipped cookies on parchment paper, and sprinkle the red chocolate with heart or circle sprinkles, to recreate the “spots.” ›› Once the red chocolate has dried completely, use black icing to add the “wing line,” and any extra spots you’d like to add to fill in the wings. Then, using the black icing as adhesive, stick the candy eye melts on the “head” of the love-bug (the area not covered in red chocolate). Let the bugs sit for 15 minutes before serving.

Strawberries & Cream Pie

WHAT YOU’LL NEED: ›› 3 oz. package of strawberry Jello ›› 8 oz cream cheese, softened ›› 8 oz. container Cool Whip ›› Graham cracker pie crust INSTRUCTIONS: ›› In a medium bowl, dissolve Jello in 1/2 cup of boiling water, then add cream cheese and mix until it’s fully combined (with no chunks) ›› Fold Cool Whip into the mixture until smoothed, then pour the mixture into a graham cracker crust and smooth out the top, ›› Chill the pie in the refrigerator until set (recommended at least four hours)

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Chocolate-Dipped Pretzels & Marshmallows WHAT YOU’LL NEED: ›› Pretzel rods ›› Large marshmallows ›› White chocolate melting wafers ›› Valentine’s Day sprinkles ›› Paper straws

INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Melt the white chocolate wafers in a microwave-safe bowl until smooth, stirring every 30-seconds. ›› Once melted, dip pretzel rods and marshmallows in the chocolate, leaving the bottom quarter clean. Place the pretzels & marshmallows on parchment paper, and immediately top them all with sprinkles of your choice. Let them dry completely. ›› Once dried, poke paper straws into the bottom the marshmallows to turn them into pops! HF

JAMIE ALEXANDER is nationally published culinary and commercial photographer working as a full-time staff photographer for Tanner Publishing. She has a knack for making tasty food and pretty art. See more of her portfolio at jaastudios.com.

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MAKING IT

We’re “Hedge” Over Heels FOR THIS VALENTINE’S CRAFT

Why buy Valentines card when you can make your own?! This one is simple and doesn’t require too many supplies. Kids of all ages will enjoy creating this happy hedgehog! By Ashley Sorce-Wedding // Photo by Jamie Alexander

WHAT YOU'LL NEED: ›› White card stock ›› Scissors ›› Washable paint (brown) ›› Paintbrush ›› Pom poms ›› Glue stick ›› Sticker eyes ›› Black marker

INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Fold the cardstock in two (hamburger fold, not hotdog fold). Cut out a hedgehog shape with the fold to the top in order to create a card that can open. ›› Paint the hedgehog with brown washable paint. We used brown paint for the hedgehog’s body.

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›› When the hedgehog’s body is complete, invite kids to decorate their hedgehog’s face. We used a googly eye, a pom pom for the nose and a black marker to draw the smile. ›› On the inside write a sweet Valentine message — we went with “I am ‘hedge’ over heels for you!”

›› Cut out the hedgehog “quills” by cutting heart shapes out of colored paper or white paper that your child paints.

›› Your hedgehog Valentine is complete!

›› Use a glue stick to secure the

ASHLEY SORCE-WEDDING is the staff writer for Tanner Publishing Co. She enjoys everyday adventures with daughter, Avery (8), and son, Reed (4).

hearts to the hedgehog’s body with

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the pointed end towards the top.

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Community

THE PEOPLE AND P L A C E S T H AT M A K E H E N D E R S O N G R E AT

A Calling that

Photos by George Henderson

Changed his life Local D.A.R.E officer Hangs Up His Badge After a Job Well Done By Lyndi Mauk

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D.A.R.E is a community program many

1992 working patrol for about 10 years

thought he would see where it took

of us are familiar with. Its purpose is

before spending the last 19 years as our

him. Marty lived next door to a school

to build relationships between local

community’s D.A.R.E officer.

liaison officer in Evansville growing up,

law enforcement and kids within the community by placing officers in the schools each semester. It is setup as a 10-week curriculum, teaching lessons about self-esteem, making good choices, how to say no to drugs, bullying, decision-making and the list goes on. Not every school system in the state participates in D.A.R.E and each county who chooses to offer this program does so differently. For Henderson County, this program is offered to 5th graders in the public-

A Calling that Changed His Life

Marty is originally from Evansville,

Indiana. He went to Harrison High School and after graduation went into the Army where he served 4.5 years in Desert Storm. Some kids know exactly what they want to do when they grow up but not Marty. Being a police officer was a career and a calling that found him.

so he had a good picture of what a police officer was. He drove from Colorado Springs all night to Henderson, took the test and got hired off that test and went into the police academy in 1992.

He had never heard of D.A.R.E, but

one of his training officers was a D.A.R.E officer. A couple of days a week they would go to different schools to teach. Marty remembered the three schools they visited, which were Hebbardsville, Robards and East Heights. He helped with a D.A.R.E graduation, and it

school system and 6th graders at Holy

The day he was getting out of

Name, along with a Poster Program for

the army, he was talking to his

back to that moment, he recalls, “I

a 2nd grade teacher at Holy Name.

grandmother on the phone about what

thought ‘man, that’s awesome. I want

For Henderson County, the D.A.R.E

he was going to do after he got out.

to do something like that when I get

program said goodbye to one of its

During his time in the army he had

a chance’, so when the opportunity

most dedicated officers thus far,

married and had two kids, so he had

came up, I decided to become a D.A.R.E

Marty Wilson. Marty officially retired

a family to support. His grandmother

officer.”

from the Henderson County Police

told him the HPD was offering the test

Department, leaving his role as the

to become a police officer the next day.

police officer, Henderson had three

local D.A.R.E officer, on November 30,

Marty had never thought about being

D.A.R.E officers within the schools but

2019. He started his journey on April 6,

a police officer prior to applying but

then decided to go with one. During

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was really touching to see. Thinking

When Marty was first hired as a

Marty’s first year as a D.A.R.E officer,

students between Henderson County

Marty gave an example about a

HPD decided to split the year between

Public Schools, Holy Name, Central

hypothetical crime happening in a

officers, so his first year was split with

Learning

neighborhood and sending the D.A.R.E

another officer and then he became the

Christian School.

officer that all the kids know and trust

official D.A.R.E officer in 2000 when

Even when Marty wasn’t in the

to investigate. He said, “They may have

they went back to one.

school buildings, he always enjoyed

seen something. They are more likely

“There were many opportunities

going out into the community and

to speak to an officer than adults would

to promote and I was advised that I

showing his support for current and previous students in the program. He

be. That is one example. When the

needed to promote, but it just wasn’t what I wanted to do. I liked working

would attend extracurricular activities,

with the kids and the schedule I had.

such as basketball games, and even

That was just my calling. I would rather

since his retirement, he will still go

do that than be a supervisor,” Marty

visit the kids at the schools. Every

said proudly.

year he would attend Holy Name’s Fall

Becoming a D.A.R.E Officer

The Kentucky State Police is mainly

in charge of the D.A.R.E program, and a KSP trooper coordinates it. There is a two-week D.A.R.E training to become a D.A.R.E officer and not everyone passes. Marty explained it isn’t an easy course and some individuals just aren’t cut out for it. “Some police training is like classroom stuff, and I think that’s what a lot of people expect, and it ends up being a whole lot more. You have to go into a classroom and teach and do lesson plans and stay up late and do skits, so it’s really tough,” Marty said. Anytime school was in session, Marty was teaching classes. When he first started as the D.A.R.E officer, the middle schools didn’t have school resource officers at the time, so when he wasn’t in the elementary schools he would go to the middle schools and teach some career classes. During the summer months, he would work patrol.

Center

and

Henderson

Festival and has always been part of Henderson’s Christmas parade, as the D.A.R.E car would lead it right behind the honor guard.

Marty enjoyed so much about his

community is happy with the police and like the police, the community is a better place to be.”

A Whole New World

Retirement has been a change for

Marty, but he is continuing to stay busy. Now that he has more time, he will continue doing more of the things he enjoyed doing when he was off

job as the D.A.R.E officer, yet there

work, depending on the season, such

were also some challenges along the

as skiing, swimming and playing in the

way. His passion for helping the kids

river, fishing and playing with remote

he had taught over the years was

control airplanes. He has so much he

made known as he stated, “I enjoy the

hasn’t been able to do, such as working

relationships I build with the kids. It

on his house. However, Marty says

really is a gratifying feeling whenever

he is pretty sure he will get another

you meet the kids years later, and they

job eventually and would be open to

remember your name and want to give

teaching D.A.R.E again in the future.

you a hug and tell you what a good job

they have done. That they are drug free,

he has built over the years with the

or they got a family and are working.

staff members he has gotten to know,

The most challenging is trying to build

such as teachers and principals he

the confidence with kids who have had

has become friends with, and his

a negative opinion of the police. They

fellow officers at the Henderson Police

have had things that have happened

Department.

in their lives or haven’t gone their way. Trying to get their trust is the most challenging part.”

Marty was D.A.R.E. Officer of the

Year in 2011-2012. He was also Vice President in 2013, President in 2014

An Officer Everyone Knows

and, in 2015, received the Past President

Marty had the opportunity to

meet and teach so many kids within

of this program is truly about the

our community over the last 19 years.

relationships with the kids. It’s a huge

He graduated an estimated 12,000

asset for the safety of the community.

award. He was active in KDA his entire career as a region representative. explained

the

importance

He is going to miss the relationships

For kids wanting to pursue a

career as a police officer, Marty said, “It’s definitely a rewarding career. I would say stay out of trouble, don’t be a follower, be a leader and follow your dreams. If that’s what you want to do, then you can do it.”

LYNDI MAUK, editor of Henderson Family Magazine, was born and raised in the Bluegrass State. She is grateful to be going through life alongside her husband and best friend, Brandon, and being a mother to their two children. February // March 2020 . HENDERSON FAMILY

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FOR THE LOVE OF HORSES Local Equestrian Hunter Jumper Becomes National Champion By Kaycee Garner // Photos by Jamie Alexander

aynie Rich is a seventh grader at North Middle

The contestants are judged on posture of

School. She is only twelve years old

both themselves and their horse, the jumps

and already has quite an impressive

themselves, the landings, and much more.

record under her belt. She is a member of

She also participates in flat classes, where

the Equestrian Hunter Jumpers and the

the participants will walk around with

Interscholastic Equestrian Association or

their horses and the judges will ask them

IEA, along with many other groups. As of

to perform various tasks, such as trotting.

December 3rd, 2019, she has over 150 ribbons,

Laynie competes in both sections, as well as,

about 50 of which are blue.

in dressage and quick recall that is related to

The Journey

Laynie’s grandmother lived down the

horse facts. She also helps with the younger girls on these days, as she is considered one of the older girls in her programs.

road from a farm where several horses

resided. As a child, Laynie saw these horses

National Pony Cup, where she won and

and remembered getting very excited about

became the national champion. The following

them. She started riding horses at Bluemoon

year, she won $250 for competing in the next

Stables in Geneva, Kentucky. “I feel like I

step up and also ranked nationally. In IEA, it

had a connection with horses. I just loved

is possible for anyone to compete. You don’t

them so much.” She now has her own horse

have to own a horse to participate in these

named “Chip” who she shares a very special

events, as part of the competition is to be

connection with.

able to ride any horse given to you without

During competition days, Laynie says

a prior meeting. The contestants have to be

there is a lot to remember and think about.

ready for anything and part of their judging

Laynie has managed to make it to the

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COMMUNITY

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is based on how well they are able to adjust to

I came into this knowing absolutely nothing

new situations and new horses.

and have learned a whole lot. It’s really a family

Laynie is part of a team of young horse

sport because it takes all of us to get her where

lovers from Henderson. She is a part of the 4H

she needs to go.” It was obvious she is very

Livestock club and several other horse related

proud of her daughter, and the family is very

organizations. She started off as the newest

supportive. Laynie told a story about getting a

member last year, but she has now proved

flat tire on the way to a Chicago competition.

herself to be a strong part of the team and has

Despite this obstacle, she and her family were

taken on a large role during competitions. She

still able to get back up and get to the show.

practices at Bluemoon two or three times a

There doesn’t seem to be anything that will

week with her horse, where she does about an

keep Laynie and her family from getting where

hour of riding each time. According to Laynie’s

they need to be.

mother, Brea, “These girls are riding in 0 degree weather. They are riding all year long with no exceptions. It’s a big undertaking.”

Laynie would like to thank her trainer, Stacy

Denton, who spends a large amount of time with her and Chip. She is very appreciative of all the help she has gotten and looks forward to

A Village of Support

her next competition.

KAYCEE GARNER has lived in Henderson her entire life and plans to keep it that way. She loves animals and movies, and enjoys drawing with charcoal and working on local political campaigns in her spare time.

Laynie’s mother also commented on how

much work it takes to get her to competitions. “It is a huge commitment for the whole family.

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SMALL

BEGINNINGS

By Amanda Waggener • Photo by Jamie Alexander

I have no training.

trip to Africa. Due to her age and health

tears. As she learned from the locals,

God, I can’t do this,” Sally Potts wearily

concerns, she was hesitant to go, but

women have very little education or

prayed during a mission trip to Africa

felt the internal tug at her heart to join

access to feminine hygiene items which

in 2016. “He answered back the word

the trip. As is the theme with much

makes them unable to attend school.

‘small’ and that’s where the name came

of Sally’s life, she trusted what her

“The humiliation. The shame. These

from.”

heart was telling her and went. While

women use leaves because that’s all that

Mrs. Potts is the founder and

in Africa, a lady pulled her aside and

is available to them. They can’t go to

executive director of the local non-

expressed to her an enormous need the

school. When they become old enough

profit, Small Beginnings. The group’s

women in her village had. A need that

to begin menstruating, they drop out.

mission is that “every girl in the world

had for years gone unmet. That need

They end up with no education. You

have access to quality, sustainable

was for sanitary pads. “In the 25 years

have generations of women there who

hygiene and health education.”

of going on mission trips, no one had

are stuck because they are taught that

The passion that led to the creation

ever said that to me. When churches

the basic human function of monthly

of this non-profit came from the

go on these trips they want to do things

periods is a curse.”

needs that were discovered during the

that make the villages self-sustainable.

numerous mission trips Sally has taken

We were there on this trip getting them

Passion for Change

with her church to remote villages in

a little chicken farm so they could have

third world countries. In 2016, she was

a food and money source,” she explains

look on Mrs. Potts face as she exclaimed

asked to preach and teach at a mission

with widening eyes quickly filling with

with hands on her cheeks, “I cried.

“I’m too old.

The passion is clear by the pained

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I’ve been crying over this for years.” Sally had a dream of developing a sanitary napkin that was reusable and discreet to distribute to women in the villages so that they could stay in school and finish their education. “I carried that seed around with me. That seed of my dream. I watered it and cried over it. Now that seed is producing fruit.”

She began speaking in front of her church and on local

radio and television stations getting the word out about this mission. Even in 2020, menstruation is a bit of a taboo topic of conversation she has found, but Sally is working to normalize that word by saying it. She explains that she tries to keep the message simple and remove any shame associated with the word. “God created women so special. He gave them the ability to have babies. Because they have babies they have special needs. Our ministry meets those needs so that they can go to school. They get their education. The life of the whole village has now changed. Women and girls can live a life with dignity.”

Making it Happen

Together with her assistant director, Amy Buchanan, and a

team of volunteers, they make kits to send all over the world. Each kit is completely handmade with high quality fabrics and are triple checked for endurance as they want these kits to last each girl several years. The kits come as a ribbon-tied, colorful fabric bag. Inside the bag are instructions on how to use and clean the contents of the kit, 2 pairs of panties, 6 flannel lined, waterproof pads and a small bar of soap. There is no waste and everything in the kit is reusable. “These kits go out to Afghanistan, Somalia, Sudan, Lebanon, Cuba and even local homeless shelters,” the Executive Director’s excitement grows as she speaks.

The distribution center for the kits is located at Zion

Baptist Church in Henderson, KY. They would like to be the hub where churches go to for feminine hygiene kits to take with them on their mission trips. Donations and volunteers are needed to continue this group’s valuable mission. For more information, please call Sally Potts at 270-313-2247 and follow Small Beginnings on Facebook.

“This ministry is about giving and receiving love,” she

explains, “and nobody leaves without a hug!”

AMANDA WAGGENER is a blogger for the Huffington Post, author of No Grit No Pearl blog site and is a native of Henderson. She and her husband are the parents of two teenagers who they are raising with as much zeal as they can muster.

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ADVICE AND TIPS ON H OW TO M AKE PARENTING AN D L IFE EASIER

The Reading

Photo by Jamie Alexander

Nook

All of these books are available for check out at the Henderson County Public Library.

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DISCOVER • THE READING NOOK

Mr. Goat’s Valentine by Eve Bunting

After reading in the newspaper that it’s Valentine’s Day, Mr. Goat sets out in search of very special gifts for his first love. But just what would a goat choose as the perfect gifts to show how he feels? Readers will be in for a surprise at Mr. Goat’s nontraditional selections. From acclaimed children’s author Eve Bunting comes a sweet holiday tale sure to warm hearts on Valentine’s Day and every day of the year.

Rhyme Time Valentine by Nancy Poydar

When a fierce gust of wind blows away her bag of unique valentines, Ruby must find a way to save Valentine’s Day, in a lively picture book that features instructions for making valentines.

Amelia Bedelia’s First Valentine by Herman Parish

The second book in the nationally bestselling series about the childhood of America’s favorite literal-minded housekeeper. School is always exciting for Amelia Bedelia, and getting her first Valentine’s Day card may be the most exciting surprise of all. But what will she do when she

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forgets her valentines for her classmates on the bus? Luckily, Amelia Bedelia is resourceful, and she doesn’t break any hearts. A lovely pick for Valentine’s Day—or any day— Amelia Bedelia’s First Valentine will have readers making room in their hearts for this charmingly literal little girl.

Little Bear’s Valentine by Else Holmelund Minarik Little Bear looks forward to giving his mother and the rest of his friends a valentine for Valentine’s Day, and to figuring out who the secret admirer is who sent him one.

A Giant Crush by Gennifer Choldenko As Valentine’s Day gets closer, Jackson has a hard time keeping his crush on Cami a secret. His chocolate hearts end up next to her lunch and he can’t hide his red face when the huge Valentine he made for her lands on her desk. Cooper thinks Jackson should just talk to her, but Jackson’s afraid she doesn’t like him. Carter Corey always makes fun of how big he is - what if Cami thinks he’s a giant, too? Luckily, Cami is not afraid to tell Carter that if she had a boyfriend, he’d be totally giant. HF

parental control { Q&A with Christina Dalton, MSSW, CSW }

am recently divorced and my 8-year-old son â&#x20AC;&#x153;hasI really been having a hard time. Sometimes he does not want to go to his Dad's house because he says that is not his bedroom. He has started to have anxiety and gets mad easily. We are trying to work together, but nothing seems to be working. Do you have any suggestions that we are not thinking about?

Change can be difficult no matter what age. Divorce is never easy for anyone involved and the time it can take for children to adjust can vary greatly. It does sound like you and your sonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father are working together to figure out the best plan for your child and that is absolutely the most important piece that you can be doing. I have worked with several different parents and kids going through this situation and cooperation between exes can be hard to achieve, but when you can do this, you are truly putting your child's needs before your own. Routine is helpful in these situations and knowing what to expect. Divorce can be traumatic for kids and we want to keep things as routine as possible. One way to do that is by your child knowing what is happening that day and night. As a divorced parent myself, there are days when you don't know whose day it is and who is picking up from school and what time are you getting them after school? Lots of questions and concerns in any given day. It can be hard enough as adults to keep up, much less an 8-year-old boy. I think it could be helpful to ask if your child wants to bring any of his things from your house to Dad's house. Try thinking about what can you do to make that bedroom feel more like his? Perhaps he can go pick out some new sheets or something decorative for his room. I am a social worker and I am always going to say that

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counseling is a good idea. This could be good idea for your child or you. You talked about how angry he can get and that anxiety is at a high. A good counselor can help your son learn some strategies that can help him control his anger and anxiety. Mindfulness and deep breathing exercises are so helpful in working with both of these issues. When we can teach our kids coping skills for when we feel like something is too much for us to handle, we are preparing them for real life. We are giving them tools that will help them cope the rest of their lives instead of turning to unhealthy coping skills later such as drugs or alcohol. I also do not think it would be a bad idea to talk to the guidance counselor at your child's school because counselors sometimes have groups that are for kids going through something like this. By being with other children going through similar situations, it can normalize what is happening to them a little and make them feel like they are not alone. At the very least, this could be another person checking in on your child too. I think it is important to explore a little more why he does not want to go to Dad's house. See if you can get him to explain that a little more and you never know it could be a very simple fix. I think you are doing great and time along with support with carry you both through this new chapter in your lives. HF

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Moms of Multiples

FROM ONE MOM TO ANOTHER

By Lyndi Mauk // Photo by LB Photography

s I have shared with you, I have recently become a mother of two. Like many, I worried how this transition would be. Would it be easier than I thought? Harder? How would my daughter handle not being an only child anymore? The questions running through my mind were endless, as I prepared to enter this new stage of life. I remember when I was pregnant with my first. I knew my life was about to change in the biggest way possible. Becoming a mommy was going to be the greatest blessing I had ever known, but I also knew I would be responsible for this tiny little human and had no idea what I was doing. But do any of us as first-time mothers? Of course not. We are all on this amazing ride together. So, I took one day at a time. I didn’t worry about the what ifs while I was pregnant. Instead, I soaked up every moment during those precious nine months. From the first ultrasound to the baby showers to the painful contractions, it was the most joyful experience I would ever go through in this life. And to God, I am so thankful for giving me the blessing of going through it all twice. In the midst of everything that happened this second time around with my daughter’s health, I still made every effort possible to prepare us for our newest little addition. Here are a few tips from my own personal experience that really helped me prepare for the transition from one child to two. EXPLAIN THE JOURNEY OF PREGNANCY. For us, Sadie is three. Therefore, when we told her mommy was going to have a baby she wondered when he/she would be here. She really didn’t understand the baby was growing inside mommy’s belly, especially in the beginning. She also didn’t understand it would take such a long time to meet her new baby brother or sister. Of course, as mommy’s belly grew, she started to understand and become much more excited because she could see her sibling was growing. 36 HENDERSON FAMILY

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INCLUDE THE BABY IN CONVERSATIONS. Since she was an only child, I would try to mention the baby most days in casual conversation because I wanted her to understand, as best she could, that when the baby arrived, he/she would be with us forever. I might say something like, “Aren’t you so excited a baby will be here with us soon. Then it will be daddy, mommy, Sadie and baby brother.” Every time I felt him kick, I would tell her so she could feel her little brother kicking. I also had the “What to Expect” app. Each week, we would watch the video explaining how the baby was growing and what was taking place during that particular week. Once we knew we were having a boy, she would say, “Look, it’s baby Kaleb,” when we watched the videos. It was so sweet. ENROLL YOUR CHILD IN A SIBLING CLASS. We were able to enroll Sadie in a sibling class to help her prepare for her new baby brother. The class was filled with kids around her age. She learned to always wash her hands before touching the baby, that she could only hold the baby with the help of mommy or daddy and to never touch the baby’s head or face. The kids practiced giving their babies a bath and changing a diaper. It was such an awesome class for her. She was so excited, and it really made her look forward to being a big helper for mommy around the house when her baby brother arrived. PLAN SPECIAL OUTINGS BEFORE BABY ARRIVES (AND AFTER). I probably stressed over this more than anything, and it was the hardest part of becoming a mommy of two after our sweet boy arrived. For 3.5 years, it had been me and my daughter. She is my best friend, and we did everything together. She is mommy’s little angel sent from Heaven. When baby

brother arrived, it was so hard because I was postpartum and adjusting to having a toddler and a newborn. I couldn’t give her ALL my undivided attention, which is all she had ever known, and I know it was hard for her, too. Before her brother arrived, we tried to take advantage of every moment we spent with our baby girl before she was no longer the only child. We planned a last-minute trip to the beach over the summer. We had an entire day my husband and I both spent with her, too. She went to her first movie at the theater, went swimming, played at the park, etc. We tried to soak in everything we possibly could. After baby brother arrived, I also planned a mommy-daughter day because it is important to still have those precious times set aside for you and the older sibling, too. This is something we try to do monthly. TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME. With a newborn, each day is a different experience. Some days they might be happy and content and other days experience a terrible little bellyache. In the meantime, you might have your little one hanging onto your leg begging for you to work a puzzle with them or running through the house dressed like a princess or superhero and wanting you to play make believe, too. It is challenging but so very special. Even when the days are long and you feel like crying at times because there needs to be two of you, just remember it goes by so incredibly fast. You learn to adjust to your new norm. I wasn’t nervous about having another baby because this time around I knew what to do. For me, it was how I was going to be the best mommy to BOTH of my babies and, I promise momma, just as motherhood came natural the first time, this too, you will figure out. A couple weeks in you won’t even be able to remember what life was like before because your heart just grew even more. HF

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Out & About

EVEN T S AN D ACTIVITIES FOR H ENDERSON FAMILIES

8 Local Things to Do

Henderson County Public Library // Photo by Darrin Phegley

This Season

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8 Local Things to Do This Season 1

MUSIC & RHYME BABY WIGGLE TIME

Henderson Lion’s Club 68th Auction

TU ESDAYS, @ 10-10:30 AM

MO N DAY, F EB R UA RY 10 -

HEN D ER S O N COU N T Y P U B LIC LIB RARY

F R I DAY, F EBR UA RY 14 @ 7-10PM

Introduce your baby to a love of books through short stories, songs, movement, rhythm, and rhyme followed by a short period of playtime. This is open to ages 0 to 24 mos and free. For more information, please contact Dylan Townsend at

(TE L E VISION/ONL INE)

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Watch on Spectrum Channel 197 or online on the Henderson Lions Club Facebook Page. Online Auction: kylions.auctionanything.com

(270) 826-3712.

ROTARY TRIVIA NIGHT SATU RDAY, FEBRUARY 1 @ 5:30-9PM HO LY N AME S C H OOL

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Don’t miss a night of dinner and fun with trivia and cash prizes held at Holy Name’s cafeteria for Rotary Trivia Night. The cost is $300 for a table

SATU R DAY, F EB R UA RY 15 (L IV E) @ 6:30PM ROOKIE S, 117 2ND ST, H E NDE RSON, KY 42420

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The annual Lions Club auction is the primary fundraiser for the Henderson Lions Club. All of the net proceeds from the auction are utilized to fund the sight conservation programs and charitable work of the club. The television/online auction is free. The live auction is $50 for 1 ticket or $75 for 2 tickets and includes a delicious meal, drink ticket and a night full of FUN! There will be lots of awesome items that will be auctioned off exclusively to ticket holders! For more information, please contact Maggie Collier at (615) 854-0285.

of 8. For questions or to purchase a table, please contact Mark Chumbler at (270) 826-3102.

Little Rembrandt’s Valentine’s Art S ATU R DAY, F E B R UARY 1 @ 10:30-11:30A M J OH N J A M E S AUDUBON STATE PA RK M U SEU M

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Bring those little Rembrandts to the Audubon Museum for a morning of Valentines ART. Your kiddos need to dress for a mess. This is open to students age 3-6 but must be accompanied by an adult. Pre-registration is required. The cost is $5. For questions or to register, please contact Kim McGrew-Liggett at (270) 826-2247 ext. 227 or email her at kim.mcgrew@ky.gov.

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TWEEN SCENE – STEM T UESDAY, F EBRUARY 11 @ 3:30-5PM HEN D ER S O N COU N T Y P U B LIC LIB RARY

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Calling all tweens! Are you in 3rd-5th grade? If so, Tween

Scene is for you. This event is free. Snacks will be provided followed by a fun filled hour of making slime. For more information, please contact Dylan Townsend at (270) 826-3712.

Youth Wilderness Survival Workshop SATURDAY, MARCH 14 @ 12-3PM (RAIN OR SHINE) J OH N J A M E S AUDUBON STATE PA RK M U SEU M

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If you found yourself in a wilderness survival situation, would you know what to do? Have you ever tried to make a fire without matches, find your way in the forest, or build a temporary shelter? This event is open to youth ages 10-16. This is a hands-on survival workshop. Hike-preparedness and basic survival skills will be discussed and practiced, as you learn to make use of surrounding natural resources. NOTE: Skills learned during this workshop may help fulfill Scouts BSA/GSUSA badge requirements. The cost is $7 per person. Pre-registration is required. For more information or to register for this event, please contact Lisa Hoffman at (270) 826-2247, ext. 228 or lisa.hoffman@ky.gov.

BIG DADDY WEAVE

The Geneologists Google Toolbox – Chapter by Chapter

WED NE SDAY, FEBRUARY 19 @ 7-10PM PR ES TON ART S C E NT E R

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Enjoy a night of worship with Big Daddy Weave for their “When The Light Comes On” tour, with special guests

SATU R DAY, MA R CH 14 @ 10A M - 12PM H E NDE RSON COUNT Y P UBL IC L IBR AR Y

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Paul McClure and Hannah McClure from Bethel Music.

Using the book, The Genealogist’s Google Toolbox, you will

Tickets begin at $19.95 and are first come, first serve for

explore the chapters in depth to improve the Google experience.

seating. For more information or to purchase tickets,

These will be hands-on classes with time for practice at the end.

please call (270) 831-9800 or visit the Preston Arts Center

For more information, please contact

Facebook page.

Dylan Townsend at (270) 826-3712.

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KIDS

meal deals

SUNDAY

Tumbleweed 1 free kids meal for every adult entree

MONDAY

Rookies Sports Bar & Grill Kids under 8 eat free 4-10pm

Grandy’s

.99 kids meal with adult purchase

TUESDAY

Golden Corral

Ages 4-12 $1.99 5-9pm Ages 3 and under eat free

Denny’s

2 free kids meals per adult entree ($6 or more) from 4-10pm. Kids drinks are .99.

Fazoli’s

.99 kids meal with adult purchase 5-8pm

Pizza Hut

1 free kids meal per adult entree (buffet only)

Wings Etc.

Kids eat free 5-8 with purchase of adult entree

THURSDAY

Captain D’s

2 free kids meals with adult meal purchase. Kids drinks are .99.

SATURDAY

Tacoholics

1 free kids meal per adult entree

ONGOING

Brown Bag Burgers

1 free kids meal with purchase of 2 adult meals—breakfast, lunch, or supper.

Shoney’s

Kids under 4 eat free with adult purchase. Kids drinks are .99.

Wendy’s

$1.99 kids meals after 4pm promotion certain times of the year. Call for details.

*The Kids Eat Free list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation. Restaurants, please contact lyndi@tannerpublishing.com with additions or corrections.

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