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The Start of a New Season 37° 45’ 16.79” N And -87° 07’ 3.60” W, the coordinates of the city of Owensboro – a city that captures the magic and beauty of all 4 seasons. In western Kentucky, on the banks of the Ohio River, March and April mark the end of the coldest temperatures, hibernation habits, bare branches, and the chances of snow. In these two months, Owensboro transitions. Temperatures begin to rise. Daylight begins to last longer. The warmth of this new season brings new life. Easter lilies and tulips have survived the winter and have pushed up through the cold ground. Dogwoods, Bradford pears, and azaleas are covered with buds that promise a landscape full of white, pink, and purple blossoms, followed by full green leaves and summer breeze. Swings will creek and playgrounds will be filled with laughter as kids play in the city parks. Here, March and April usher in a season of fun and festivities that celebrate all things Owensboro. Visit the Dogwood-Azalea trail, the city parks, the riverfront, and food and music festivals as you come out of hibernation and into the city that has so much to offer, and that we are lucky enough to call home.

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W H AT I’ M R E A D I NG The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson In order to understand our present, we must learn about, and confront, our past. With The Warmth of Other Suns, author Isabel Wilkerson traces the history of The Great Migration by telling the stories of individuals that experienced it firsthand. From 1915 to 1970, nearly six million black citizens fled the South with hopes for a better future. Facing racism and limited opportunities, these brave Americans left their homes in search of a brighter tomorrow for themselves and their families. In doing so, they shaped the course of our country’s history. ON THE COVER Burger Week is coming! The drool-worthy burger featured on our cover was created by talented local chef Matt Weafer, with a fresh brioche bun baked right in Niko’s Bakery & Cafe, ground chuck from Hill View Farms, Vermont white cheddar, sweet pickled peppers, lettuce, tomato, onion, and aioli. Staff Photographer Jamie Alexander worked her food styling magic to put the burger together while David Grinnell took a break from his video work to become our official hidden burger-holder.

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Contents

MARCH/ APRIL 2022 TRENDING 6 BEHIND

THE SCENES

A note from our editor.

10 N E W S W O R T H Y

The real people, places and events that shape our community, brought to you by the Owensboro Times.

CULTURE 12 A R T

Serendipity Farm 1856: Turning Accidents into Art

16 M U S I C

We Banjo 3

LIFESTYLE 34 W E D D I N G

Personalized Service for Your Perfect Wedding Registry

36 H O M E

A Little Piece of History— sponsored by Ryan Rutman Real Estate Group.

44 S E N I O R

LIVING

The Value of Grandparenting—Then and Now

FLAVOR 66 R E C I P E S

Party Bites! Semi-Homemade Appetizers

62 R E S TA U R A N T

FEATURES

18 NATURE TO NURTURE

Local Wildlife Rehab Center Makes a Name for Itself on Social Media B Y M A R LY S M A S O N

SPOTLIGHT

Owensboro Karen Restaurant: Sisters Bring Burmese Flavors to Owensboro

22 SHERIFF KEITH CAIN

70 D I S H

Daviess County’s Retired Sheriff Reflects on a Lifetime of Public Service

What we’re eating now: Local dishes we can’t live without!

B Y J O H N K I R K PAT R I C K

SPECIAL SECTION

20 DREAM RIDERS OF KENTUCKY

Making Dreams Come True One Stride at a Time B Y M A R LY S M A S O N

26 BURGER WEEK 2.0

After an amazing turnout for the inaugural event, Owensboro Burger Week is back for round two – much to the delight of Owensboro restaurants and their customers. BY STEVEN WILSON

47 HOME AND GARDEN

TIPS AND ADVICE FROM LOCAL PROFESSIONALS

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Trending N E W S W O R T H Y

5 things we’re talking about now

2 Sassafras Plans Spring Opening Brothers Matt and Dennis Weafer plan to offer a unique take on Kentucky-inspired dishes at their new restaurant, Sassafras. Slated to open this spring in downtown,

BREW BRIDGE

the upscale casual eatery will be housed at 420 Frederica

Photo provided by

Street, formerly Bill’s Restaurant. The menu will include new takes on old dishes, like

Brew Bridge Adds BBQ

After successfully bringing their brand of craft beer to downtown Owensboro, the owners of Brew Bridge are adding Texas-style barbeque to their menu. David Haynes, Max Garvin, and William Gomez have partnered with renowned chef and pitmaster Mike Pace to revitalize their menu. With major kitchen renovations and their partnership with Pace, the group hopes to propel their kitchen to new heights.

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smoked meatloaf and smoked chicken and dumplings. The pair will also offer charcuterie boards and utilize the freshest local ingredients available.

Brought to you by O W E N S B O R O T I M E S

Photo by RYAN

RICHARDSON

Lip Sync Battle a Huge Success

Held in January , the fifth annual Owensboro Lip Sync Battle,

Opening of the Cupola Club Photo by AP

IMAGERY

Chef Bill Hughes and his team have breathed

the primary fundraiser for Puzzle Pieces, raised $136,457 for

new life into the

the nonprofit. Sponsorships, team fundraising, and ticket

former Campbell Club,

sales from the event lead to Puzzle Pieces’ largest amount

renovating the space

raised from the Lip Sync Battle event — adding up to $25,000 more than the last event. The “Mom Squad,” a group of moms

and introducing a new

and friends of Puzzle Pieces, was voted Owensboro Lip Sync

private dining experience – the Cupola Club.

Battle’s Overall Champion.

Open Tuesday through

Saturday for lunch from

Potter Authors Book for Grieving Children

11 a.m. to 2 p.m., and for dinner from 5 to 9 p.m., members can peruse a menu chock-full of steaks, chicken, seafood, burgers, calzones, hot browns, meat pies, and

Caleb Potter has worked at

more.

Hospice and Palliative Care of Western Kentucky for the last 10 years, most of those as a grief counselor. He just published his second book of his “Caring Bears” series, written for children dealing with the loss of a parent. Hospice gives the books as a gift to completely

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ART: SERENDIPIT Y FARM 1856 p. 14

IN THE KNOW: 9 EVENTS TO PUT ON YOUR CALENDAR p. 15

MUSIC: WE BANJO 3 p. 16

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Serendipity Farm 1856 TURNING ACCIDENTS INTO ART

Written by J O S H K E L LY

herry Dickens finds her art inspiration in several places. It first started watching her artistic family paint and craft things before her eyes. Her dad was a ceramicist, her mom and aunt were oil painters. Each of her sisters painted alongside their parents. While her family was painting canvases, she would color in pages of her art books with her aunt’s oil pastels. “From there, I did that and it just kind of stuck with me. Then I would just dabble in it a little as a young girl,” Dickens said. The craft never left her as she

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continued into high school, and she always tried to have at least one project on her schedule. Unfortunately, she switched her passion for visual art to the backburner when she graduated, and didn’t pick it back up until she turned about 26. By day she would be a graphic designer for the MessengerInquirer, and when she would clock out, Dickens would do commission work out of her bedroom, painting homes for homebuyers with a real estate agent. After putting 35 years into the newspaper industry as a graphic designer in both Owensboro and

Nashville, she was laid off unexpectedly. Longing to go back home and to start focusing intently on her art she said she heard a familiar voice. “God was pushing me. I felt His small voice pushing me to do what I love to do. Yes, graphic design is a love, but with painting, I was always wanting a studio - a bigger one where I could teach,” Dickens said. Relying on nothing but that voice, she moved back to Owensboro and started her own studio. When it came to naming it, she found inspiration in the small accidental things that come

about.“I thought ‘serendipity.’ It is these accidents that happen — and they do happen in my studio all the time,” Dickens said. So Serendipity Farm 1856 tries to take the little accidents and turn them into works of art as people come into the studio. These accidents happen anywhere from on a canvas to moments she couldn’t call even slightly happenstance. One day in her studio, Dickens was talking with friends just after experiencing the deaths of three uncles all in under 10 months. “While we were talking, the sun came through the door window and through the top of my easel, it made the sign of a cross on my landscape painting,” Dickens said. “I felt God & my uncles there.” From that point on, she poured into her art and her studio, filling it with classes, small group lessons and commissions. During her classes, she lets her students take the wheel entirely on their subjects, and when a so-called accident arises, that’s where she pops in to the rescue. After they’ve brushed every color along on the canvas, she said many students come back for more classes. Almost all of them recount how the previous class made them view color differently in their day-to-day lives. “[They tell me] they look at things different. They look at a tree different; they look at the sky different; they look at color different. Everything,” Dickens said through tears. “And if I’ve done that for people, I feel blessed.”

In the future, she hopes to take a trip to back Ireland and Scotland and find some inspiration from the last time she visited. But the future doesn’t stop there. She also wants to take her talents to live painting at events with a twist. Combining her gift with another secret talent, she also hopes to paint wedding receptions,

funerals

and

other

events while also playing the bagpipes. “Those events mean a lot to people, and I’ve already been requested to do one, but I’m not quite there yet,” she said. When she is ready for an event, it will not be by accident, but it will surely provide an opportunity for more of those cherished serendipitous moments. OL

IN THE KNOW 9 EVENTS TO PUT ON YOUR CALENDAR

HAIRSPRAY M A R C H 1 0 @ R I V E R PA RK C E N T E R

Broadway’s Tony Award-winning musical comedy phenomenon that inspired the blockbuster film and live television event, is back on tour! Join 16-year-old Tracy Turnblad in 1960’s Baltimore as she sets out to dance her way onto TV’s most popular show. Can a girl with big dreams (and even bigger hair) change the world? Don’t miss this exhilaratingly funny and warmhearted musical comedy.

OWENSBORO HOME & GARDEN SHOW M A RCH 11-13 @ OWE NSB OR O C O N VE NT I ON CE NT E R

Homeowners, get ready to plan your spring and summer projects! The Home Builders Association of Owensboro will have over 44,000 square feet of exhibitors showing the newest innovations in home design and remodeling ideas! All aspects of building and remodeling will be on display!

PIGTAILS & COWLICKS CONSIGNMENT SALE M A R CH 18 -19 @ OWE NSB OR O CONV E NT I ON CE NT E R

500 families will be selling new or gently used children’s items at amazing prices at the Pigtails & Cowlicks Children’s Spring Consignment Sale! Clothing, toys, furniture, books, baby gear, shoes, boutique, and more. All for kids – from babies to teens! No admission fee to shop, and open to the public! Cash and debit/credit cards accepted.

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We Banjo 3 Written by D A N N Y M AY

Photo by B R I A N D A LT H O R P

ROMP FAVORITES WE BANJO 3 RETURN TO OWENSBORO WITH A STOP AT THE BLUEGRASS MUSIC HALL OF FAME AND MUSEUM ON MARCH 18 DURING THE NORTH AMERICAN LEG OF THEIR SPRING TOUR.

IN THE KNOW 9 EVENTS TO PUT ON YOUR CALENDAR

COLOR BLAST 5K M A R C H 1 9 @ M O RE L A N D PA RK

The Color Blast 5K is a fun community run/walk color celebration to recognize the positive impact individuals with special needs have on our lives while promoting acceptance and inclusion! The Color Blast 5K is brought to you by four Owensboro nonprofits — Puzzle Pieces, GRADSA, Dream Riders of KY, and Team Karlie.

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ARTRAGEOUS A P R I L 2 @ R I V E R PA R K CENTER

ARTrageous takes you on a unique visual journey packed with wild inspiration, creativity and fun! The ARTrageous troupe of artists, musicians, singers and dancers pay tribute to a variety of art forms, pop icons and musical genres culminating in a gallery of fabulous finished paintings.

OWENSBORO THOROUGHBREDS BASKETBALL A P R I L 8 AT OWE NSB OR O SP OR TSCE NT E R

Come cheer on our local pro basketball club as the Thoroughbreds face off against the Indiana All-Americans at 7 p.m. General admission tickets are $10 for adults and $5 for children. Visit their website at owensborothoroughbreds.com for more information about the upcoming season.

“We Banjo 3 has something entirely beautiful at its heart. What they do, they do better than anyone else.”

ometimes described as “Celt-grass,” David Howley said in a 2021 interview We Banjo 3 is a fun and energetic with American Songwriter. “We feel blend of Americana, Bluegrass, and Celtic our role as musicians is to create a influences. The quartet consists of two space for people to congregate and sets of Irish brothers. So there are actually come together, despite the current four members, not three as the name circumstances.” implies. We Banjo 3 are known among All four members are musical fans not just for the energy of virtuosos. David Howley is the lead their live performances, but also vocalist and guitar player, who has a for their unique covers of popular commanding voice and the unique ability songs. Google their modern to strum rhythm and play the bass line on guitar at the same time. Mandolist bluegrass version of the blockbuster Martin Howley holds seven “all Ireland” “Ghostbusters” theme song, for titles, and is the first Irish banjo player example. Or check out their latest to play at the Grand Ole Opry. Fergal single, “A Lovely Day,” which offers Scahill plays fiddle and percussion, but is a fresh take on Bill Withers’ classic. a highly sought musician who has played - WALL But to get a feel for what you on over 40 albums and performed in 30 might experience at a live show, countries in numerous bands. Enda Scahill check out their videos for “Light in the primarily plays banjo in the band but is a Sky” or “Haven,” which has 1.7 million 4-time national champion on banjo and streams on Spotify alone. mandolin. Together, they will be bringing their The band formed in 2012 and Irish-infused party to the Bluegrass Music quickly became festival favorites with Hall of Fame and Museum on Friday, performances at ROMP (2018), Merlefest, March 18th as part of their 2022 spring Summercamp, Wintergrass, and more. “Awakening” tour. The “Awakening” With a solid core of banjo, tour marks the band’s 10th year C O N C E RT D E TA I LS: fiddle, mandolin, guitar, and making music together, and T IC KE TS A RE ON percussion––lead singer David according to the band’s press SA L E N OW AT Howley’s voice cuts through kit, these live shows will lend B LU EG RASS H ALL until the band crescendos into O F FA M E . V IP themselves to reflect on what’s been, celebrate what’s ahead, and honor life’s always evolving and ever-renewing rhythms. “Our music is focused around hope and bringing people together,” lead vocalist

WAITRESS A P R I L 1 1 @ R I V E RPA RK C E N T E R This hit mustical tells the story of Jenna Hunterson, a waitress in an unhappy marriage to her husband, Earl. When Jenna unexpectedly becomes pregnant, she begins an affair with her gynecologist, Dr. Jim Pomatter. Looking for ways out, she sees a pie contest and its grand prize as her chance.

S E AT IN G IS $45, A N D RES E RV ED S E AT I N G IS $3 8 . D O O RS O P E N AT 6 : 0 0 P M , A N D T HE C O N C E RT B EGI NS AT 7 : 0 0 P M .

catchy choruses with pitch perfect harmonies. Their infectious energy on stage has earned enthusiasts of almost every genre of music. You can find out for yourself at their show March 18th. OL

DARIN & BROOKE ALDRIDGE WITH JOHN COWAN A P RIL 23 @ B LU EG R ASS M U SI C HA LL OF FA M E & M U SE U M

Husband and wife duo Darin & Brooke Aldridge draw on the traditions of their native North Carolina, the savvy of a young, gifted band and their own dedication to ingenuity to create the most adventurous album of their career with their latest critically acclaimed release, Inner Journey. Joining Darin and Brooke is John Cowan, also known as the Voice of Newgrass.

STREET JOURNAL

A DEEP DIVE FOR LO N G T I M E FA N S

“Inside the Banjoverse” Podcast We Banjo 3’s ‘Inside the Banjoverse’ podcast connects with the unique journeys of music’s most celebrated roots artists - delving into the thoughts, emotions and experiences that drive and inspire them to art and to greatness and is hosted by the band’s Enda Scahill––Ireland’s four-time banjo champion and a selfconfessed technophobe and recovering perfectionist. Listen to the podcast now where you listen to all great podcasts,

GRILLIN-N-CHILLIN BACKYARD BBQ COOK-OFF A P R I L 29 @ D I A M OND L AKE RES O RT

Looking for a great way to get into competition cooking? Look no further than the Diamond Lake Grillin-n-Chilli BackYard BBQ Cook-Off. A $100 entry fee gets you into the competition. Prizes will be awarded for best chicken, ribs and Boston butt. There will also be a dessert contest with a $25 entry fee. For more information visit diamondlakeresort.net.

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Nature to Nurture LOCAL WILDLIFE REHAB CENTER MAKES A NAME FOR ITSELF ON SOCIAL MEDIA Written by M A R LY S M A S O N

Photos by J A M I E A L E X A N D E R

relatively unknown Owensboro nonprofit has joined the TikTok scene, and boasts over 2.9 million followers. Nurture to Nature Wildlife Rehabilitation Center founder Kristin Allen is as surprised as anyone that people follow what the center does to rescue and rehabilitate injured or orphaned animals. Twenty years ago, Kristin rescued her first squirrel, and she believes God put it in her path. “And God kept putting them in our path,” she said. Of the Allens’ four children, son Grant became the most interested in his mother’s mission, and the two of them began the nonprofit center. In the beginning, they would host 50 to 100 animals a year, but have grown exponentially to 1,000 a year, which is when they realized they needed to become a nonprofit to receive donations. Kristin said her family jokes about how she used to tell them they would not eat if the animals were going hungry – and they didn’t.“We never get as many donations as we spend,” she said. “But something always happens to let us be able to continue.”That something is her husband and the people who send items from their Amazon Wish List, and who donate to the nonprofit.“They’ve been awesome. They can’t physically help, but they want to do something,” she said of the donors. For over 11 years, Allen and her family have held the necessary state and federal licenses to care for animals – mostly mammals – but now, they are

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also taking in birds of prey as Kristin is the executive director of the Western Kentucky Raptor Center. For three seasons, Kristin and her family were part of National Geographic Channel’s “Bandit Patrol,” a show that followed the dramatic stories of nurturing injured and orphaned animals. When the show decided to go in a different direction, one of the film crew members told the Allens they needed to try filming for social media, and suggested YouTube or TikTok. Kristin, who admits that she had no idea about the content on TikTok and was not sure what viewers would want, relied on Grant and his wife, RaKara, to share the content. In April 2020, they posted their first video. They had used their social media to promote the videos to their “Bandit Patrol” followers. “It got some views,” Kristin remembered. “Let’s see what happens.” The goal was not monetary gain then – they just wanted to get the word out,

which, Kristin says, has been a blessing in other ways. Grant had researched how to make videos that would keep people interested, and he began sharing the rehabilitation efforts of Nurture to Nature. They started with a barred owl, which Grant and Kristin said people were immediately invested in. “We try to get their [the viewers’] attention first by asking a question – ‘Have you ever seen an owl’s ear before?’” Grant explained. Then they used the video to show how the owl’s ear was bleeding from its injuries. Kristin said that through their videos, they are able to “shine a light” in this dark world we are living in. “There are people out there that can help this animal,” she said. “We are doing what we are called to do.” Kristin admits that while some of their stories are happy, there are some that don’t end the way they want them to. But, through the viewer comments, such as, “You give me hope in a dark world”

and others that come in, Kristin said she

winter, they will do videos that answer

that if they want to see me, they are

is doing exactly what she needs to do.

viewers’ questions.

going to have a bottle in their hand.”

For some, all you can do is give comfort…hospice care,” she said.

“TikTok

helps

the

information and keep the center going,”

They do some things on TikTok for monetary gains – like using a requested

she said. “It really helps provide for medicine and rehab costs.”

song while they film a deer playing – but

Kristin said there are not a lot of

Kristin said they keep it all lighthearted

options for injured animals as other

and “PG-rated.”

agencies are full, but Nurture to Nature

“I want kids to be able to see it and

always takes them. Their property is in

watch for the pure joy,” she said of her

the country, where they have an outdoor

no-foul-language rule.

facility with enclosures, but they also

Another animal that pulls in viewers are fawns, both Kristin and Grant said. “People really love the fawns,” Grant said, recounting the rehabilitation of a fawn whose leg had been amputated. Followers were able to watch its progress all the way to its release to its herd. Another educational opportunity for Nurture to Nature viewers was following

fox

who

had

mange

have some animals housed in incubators

Kristin about the nonprofit and said that one day she and Grant hope to take over the center. Kristin isn’t ready to give it up – or pass on the responsibility to the young couple yet as people call 24 hours a day for help with injured or orphaned animals. “When the blood quits pulsing

at their house for those that need to be

through my veins…or when I don’t find

bottle-fed.

joy in it anymore,” is when Kristin said

The

Western

Kentucky

Raptor

Center is housed at Yellow Creek Park. March is when mating usually starts, and from spring until winter, they are rehabilitating animals. One daughter helps with social media,

one

works

elsewhere

full-

from eating an animal that had been

time, and one is in college for pre-

poisoned. Information was shared with

veterinarian, but all help feed when they

viewers about what happens when the

can. Grant also has a full-time job, but

fox continues to scratch his body, what

he and his wife do this, as well.

happens to the fox’s immune system

RaKara, who “married into this”, as Kristin said, gets just as excited as

“It’s a crazy life,” Kristin said.

she will retire. But as long as she still finds joy in a squirrel’s yawn, which she does, she will dwell on the positive. And Kristin now creates some of the videos, as well, although she said hers are different from Grant’s. “Grant gives the information about the animals; I tug on the heartstrings,” she said. “We are not wanting fame…we are in it for the animals.” Follow

along

Tik

Tok

“My husband is up at 4 a.m. to feed the

nurture2nature, give them a call at 270-

RaKara said that when they don’t

animals, works his day job and comes

993-6022 or 270-704-3532, or visit

have a lot of stories or animals in

home to do this. Everyone knows from

their website at www.nurturetonature.

rehabilitation, which is usually in the

April to July I am sunk. Everyone knows

org to learn more. OL

and how all animals have mange.

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Features DREAM RIDERS OF KENTUCKY

Making

Dreams Come True One Stride at a Time

Written By M A R LY S M A S O N Photos by B O N N I E N A N C E Despite the negative effects of the pandemic on many organizations, one local nonprofit is thriving under new leadership, and with a renewed focus on helping clients and engaging volunteers. Dream Riders of Kentucky continues to see growth in its programming and volunteers, both of which Sandy Webster, who has been at the reins of the program since 2020, says is not surprising.

as a plan for serving veterans in the

County Lions Club Fair Grounds, where

Webster said that with the current

future, Walker is also looking for the

they hold a 30-year, ongoing lease.

mental health crisis, clients and volunteers

nonprofit to be a Professional Association

are able to find socialization and new skills

of Therapeutic Horsemanship (PATH)

riders are volunteers who have a place of

while at Dream Riders.“One of the biggest

International center.

inclusion, a safe place to socialize and give

Assisting

the

weekly

classes

things is this special environmental

“This is the safest standard of

haven,” she said. “Owensboro is lucky to

accreditation that exists, and we are

“The volunteers do not need to have

have animal-assisted therapies.”

already following it,” she said. “It is

any horse experience. They just need to

also how some of our partnerships have

be willing to learn, be non-judgmental,

evolved.”

believe in equality and live the Dream

With

the

mission

provide

individuals with physical, cognitive, social and/or emotional needs an opportunity to

back to their community.

Webster, who has over 30 years

Riders’ mission to help improve the lives

experience

of participants,” Webster said.

experience the therapeutic value of horses

and the joy of riding, Webster believes

horsemanship industry, currently holds

All volunteers are trained monthly

the almost 20-year nonprofit is in a firm

certification as a PATH International

in safety procedures and emergency

position to continue its growth.

the

therapeutic

Master Instructor in Therapeutic Riding,

procedures, and all new volunteers go

Under her leadership, Dream Riders

along with being an Equine Specialist in

through an orientation.

has seen an increase of over 460%

Mental Health and Learning (ESMHL),

“They are super faithful because

in therapeutic services, with over 90

an Interactive Vaulting Instructor and a

they are paired with a specific team and

participants per week with visible and

Therapeutic Driving Instructor.

rider, and they know the client’s goals,”

invisible disabilities in riding alone, and

Dream

Riders

was

founded

and

Webster said.

an additional 30 participants who are

created in 2003 by Mike Clark, Suzy

Webster said the 70-plus volunteers

served from partnerships in behavioral

Higdon, Nancy Woodward and Benny

know their client’s goals and know the

and mental health with Daviess County

Clark,

dream

efforts it takes to achieve these goals. For

Public Schools and River Valley Behavioral

to provide services for people with

example, in the last 10 months, she said

Health.

disabilities in Daviess County and the

that six children have spoken for the first

surrounding area.

time and that these breakthroughs affect

With

three

therapeutic

equine

services currently being offered, as well

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who

had

collective

The facility is located at Daviess

everyone.

“The team surrounding the client sees these small miracles,” she said, adding that many also tell her they get in 8,000 to 10,000 steps in walking and helping each time. Other client miracles include an adult trading their walker for a cane and a teenager who feels respected and learns self-worth. “We serve those with all abilities. We focus on strengths and accomplishments and work slowly but surely with positive reinforcement and teaching to all learning styles,” she said. Callie Gruman, 9, attends Dream Riders as a supplement to her physical therapy. “Since she started riding, her balance, strength, and coordination have all improved. As examples, she can now stand on one foot for a couple of seconds, and she can attempt a simple yoga routine for up to 15 minutes,” said Alysia Booth, Callie’s mother. “I think her brushing and helping with her pony… helps build confidence to attempt things for herself. Callie now says ‘No, do it’ when she wants to try doing something herself first. Callie loves her time with Pixie and the excellent volunteers, and we are grateful for such a high-quality program in our area.” Interested individuals submit a confidential participant application which discloses their condition and therapeutic need along with their physical, cognitive, social and emotional goals. A doctor’s recommendation is also included. All of

this information is used to determine their class in the program, which holds classes Tuesday and Thursday evenings and Saturday mornings. Richard Mason, an adult with Parkinson’s disease, said that he learned of Dream Riders while in a nursing home for two years and put riding a horse on his bucket list. After researching therapeutic riding, he learned that it could help loosen his stiff hips, but he also gained much

therapeutic value that has lasting effects at home and other aspects of my life.” Built on kindness, Dream Riders relies on volunteers who want to make a difference, and is led by caring, certified professionals in the therapeutic equine services industry. “We have a special gem in our own backyard for anyone who has a need to improve their lives either as a volunteer or a participant – together they make Owensboro a better place

learn,

improve,

reach goals and give back and embrace a sense of purpose in a wonderful environment,” Webster said. Three events

are

fundraising scheduled

for

2022 – Dream Riders is partnering with Puzzle Pieces for the Color Blast on March 19. On May 7, a Kentucky Derby benefit is being held called “Big Hats and Fancy Pants” where Derby food will

served,

demonstration

special

Dream

Riders participants will be more. “It has allowed me to walk further, enhanced my confidence, and increased my quality of life,” Mason said. “Riding has helped with my balance, so much so that I can do upper body exercises with my feet out of the stirrups, while my horse is carrying me at a walk. I love the bond and friendships I have made at this safe, effective, and fun therapeutic riding facility. Dream Riders gives me

performed and a silent auction will be held. On Sept. 24, a dinner will be held with the Lanham Brothers playing Bluegrass music and showcasing clogging. A special demonstration of Dream Riders will also be performed, and a silent auction will be held. “Come out and watch what we do at Dream Riders and see Dreams Come True …. One Stride at a Time!,” Webster said. OL

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DAVIESS COUNTY’S RETIRED SHERIFF REFLECTS ON A LIFETIME OF PUBLIC SERVICE Written by J O H N K I R K PAT R I C K Photos by J A M I E A L E X A N D E R

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fter dedicating 47 years of his life to public service, retired Sheriff Keith Cain now spends most of his days enjoying his family and tending to his horses. Cain entered the department in 1974 and served in several capacities before being elected to the office in 1999. Cain has always aspired to live a life of significance, serving for the U.S. Marine Corps for four years, including a tour in Vietnam, before venturing into the world of law enforcement. After brief stints in construction and agriculture, and despite his mother’s desire for him to enter into ministry, it was the camaraderie of the Marine Corps that propelled Cain to his lifelong career. “People still enter this profession for the same reasons I did. It’s not just a profession and paycheck; it’s a passion; I’ve always believed that,” Cain said. “Service has always been the focal point of my efforts. I like the saying ‘your sheriff,’ much better than ‘the sheriff.’ This office has never belonged to me or anyone else – it belongs to the people that put us in office.” During his tenure, local and national entities have paid homage to the Daviess County Sheriff’s office for their proactiveness and professionalism. Cain’s primary focus was juggling law enforcement and constitutional responsibilities while serving the community and encouraging and supporting the deputies and staff internally. He said he’s equally proud of his tenure as a Marine and Sheriff, and attributes much of his success to his faith and upbringing. With service at the forefront of his moral compass, Cain and company developed a reputation for being creative with their resources and providing service that exceeded expectations, often despite limited personnel and funding. “I was very fortunate to have been raised in a

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Christian home with wonderful parents who stressed the importance of traits such as honesty, strength, character, and a genuine empathy for others,” Cain said. “Just as every minister was called to be a preacher, the Lord calls men and women into the field of law enforcement.” Cain referenced the beatitudes, specifically “blessed are the peacemakers,” and related it to the field of law enforcement. While keeping peace often presents a unique set of challenges, he considers the title of peacekeeper as the highest of accolades. Cain said the tireless and collaborative efforts of the men and women on his team that wear the 5-pointed star are responsible for his longevity and the long-standing success of the office. With stints serving on executive boards for the Kentucky and National sheriff

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legislation, Cain is adamant that his team is the “best you’ll find anywhere.” “I’ve traveled and interacted with law enforcement professionals the world over, and the DC sheriff’s office can stand shoulder-to-shoulder with any of those institutions,” Cain said. “We had and have a cohesive staff of professionals that works as a team to achieve goals.” When elected, Cain created a departmental policy with proven standards and mandates that enabled the office to gain accreditation through the Kentucky Association of Chiefs of Police. His tenure also saw the criminal investigation division grow from two individuals to six detectives and one supervisor. The same division consistently maintained case clearances at or above the national rate. More recent accolades include

creating a firearm training that was so effective it was acquired by a national magazine, and crafting an active school shooter training adopted by many school districts across the nation. “The successes that we’ve enjoyed aren’t the result of any individual,” Cain said. “They are the tireless collaborative efforts of the dedicated personnel wanting the sheriff’s office to succeed in its mission to protect and serve everyone.” Cain paid homage to the tax division department, citing them as one of the finest in the state, and complimented the bailiffs and judicial security officers for their resilient efforts to keep the building safe. He also commended the many men and women on patrol that, regardless of weather, “cover for each other, take calls, share intelligence, and back

each other up.” Under Cain’s leadership, the office emphasized their relationship with other departments and entities, including Daviess County Dispatch, Kentucky State Police, the Owensboro Police Department, and the Daviess County Detention Center. They also maintained a strong alliance with federal partners, ranging from the FBI and U.S. Marshall Service to the DEA, Secret Service, and a host of others. “During my tenure as sheriff, we were determined to have a place at the table when it concerned local issues,” he said. “A crucial element to our success was our community involvement. I believe that to be truly effective in the community, we have to have the support and engagement of the community. We’re very thankful for those partnerships.” Cain’s crew – led by Cheryl Purdy – created a Cyber Forensic Department in keeping up with the times. He said Purdy’s initiative and skills played a crucial role in taking their investigations into the 21st century. “I’m tremendously proud of our organization and what we’ve built,” he said. “My people and my staff made me love going to work. It’s been a wonderful and rewarding experience.” Cain leaned on his faith to determine when the time was right to retire. He said he would have decided himself but loved the job entirely too much to ever know if it was time. “God answered my prayers – it wasn’t any specific thing. It was with a heavy heart and some trepidation that I decided to leave,” Cain said. “I think we’ve left a legacy that ensures and facilitates continued growth within the organization.” Forever grateful for his family’s support throughout the years, Cain is excited to spend more quality time at home. “I’ve been absent at several events in their lives; if I have any regrets about my career, that is the only one,” he said. “If the pandemic has taught me anything, it’s that life is indeed precious, and we must cherish the time we spend with the ones we love.” On November 30, Cain gave his last 10-7, which officers use to sign off from duty. His granddaughter is a dispatcher at Owensboro 911 and took the call. Seeing her emotional reaction is when it hit him – after 47 years, his time in the sheriff’s office had ended. “It was a difficult decision, but the right one – the office is in incredible hands,” Cain said. “This office has bever been about one person and never should be. The office will continue to do as we have always done – provide the quality of service that members of this community deserve.” OL

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Left: Beef O’Brady’s // Below: O’Bryans Bar and Grill

BURGER WEEK 2.0 BACK AND BIGGER THAN EVER

Written by S T E V E N W I L S O N

/ / Photos by J A M I E A L E X A N D E R

After an amazing turnout for

huge success. According to Kirk,

purchased from each participating

the inaugural event, Owensboro

11,606 burgers were sold for $6

restaurant and an independent

Burger Week is back for round

each in 2021. The 24 participating

group of judges will score each

two – much to the delight of

restaurants saw an average of 245

burger

Owensboro restaurants and their

percent growth in burger sales for

numerous categories, with the

customers.

the week, and over $69,636 were

best score being declared “Burger

spent in just five days on burgers

Week Best Burger 2022.”

“Burger Week is back and bigger than ever. We’re so excited

sales alone.

that even more restaurants are

This year, the complete list of

participating this year than last.

all participating restaurants, along

You’ll have plenty of options to try

with a description and picture

all sorts of different burger

when taking a picture of you eating restaurants the or

week

Instagram

will also be entered into a prize drawing for two (2)

of Owensboro, is excited to

great prizes thanks to our

confirm 33 local restaurants

sponsors.

participating in the second

First place will

receive a Mini Green Egg Max

Burger

from Green River Appliance,

Week taking place March 1-5.

hashtag #owensboroburgerweek,

Facebook

partnership with the City

Owensboro

“Burger customers also have a

throughout

Management.

annual

shot to win. Customers who use the

participating

Visit Owensboro Destination Owensboro,

based

a burger at three (3) or more

creations,” said Dave Kirk,

Visit

experience

and second place will receive

Each restaurant will

a BBQ grilling meats package

offer a featured burger for

from Hill View Farms,” said

just $7, including tax, during

Tim Ross, City of Owensboro

this special culinary week

Public Events Director.

to showcase an American

An event of this magnitude

classic.

wouldn’t be possible without

So what was the inspiration

participation

from

local

behind the event? According to

of their featured burger, can be

Kirk, “I was really just looking for

found at owensboroburgerweek.

something positive to bring to the

com. And be sure to check out our

community during the pandemic.

map, displaying all of the locations

generous

I knew the restaurant industry

where you can get your hands

Owensboro Burger Week is made

was hurting, and thought burgers

on one of the tasty featured $7

possible thanks to great support

would be a good way to jumpstart

burgers during Burger Week.

from local and state sponsors

some business for them, especially

The 33 participating restaurants

restaurant owners, the people of Owensboro, and, of course,

including

donors.

the

This

Kentucky

Beef

will compete for burger bragging

Council,

And if jumpstarting business

rights. Throughout the week, the

Green River Appliance, and Hill

was the goal, the mission was a

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year,

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Tucked away on Freeman Avenue, just off

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Pat McFarling, bought the home from Ella’s

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nlike traditional open-heart surgery, which is more invasive and requires a lengthy recovery time, TAVR patients go home the next day. Patients are back to everyday life with a few days of rest – typically with more energy and easier breathing. The procedure itself happens very quickly. Interventional/Structural Cardiologist Ashish Rastogi, MD and the Owensboro Health heart services team insert a catheter (a small tube) into the patient’s right femoral artery in the groin area. They advance a wire up into the blocked heart valve through that tube by following it with an x-ray. Then an artificial valve - which is flattened and attached to a balloon - is sent over the wire and positioned. When inflated, the balloon expands the new valve, and the calcium buildup inside the old valve works to hold it in place. According to Dr. Rastogi, once the balloon is deployed, it’s a matter of seconds before the new valve is in and working, and there’s no need to stop the heart or use a bypass machine. TAVR’s minimally-invasive approach makes it a good option for older patients who may not be candidates for traditional open-heart surgery. Studies show that 1 in 8 people over age 75 could have some form of aortic stenosis. Symptoms may include fatigue, chest pain, heart flutters, dizziness and shortness of breath. Dr. Rastogi said that many people accept these conditions as normal aging and do not realize they have a treatable disease. “Some patients don’t realize they feel bad,” he said. “They develop symptoms over the course of five years and don’t realize it, or they think ‘this is just how you feel when you turn 80.’ For many, the procedure increases their life expectancy and helps them feel better right away.” Dr. Rastogi also offers alternative mitral regurgitation and atrial fibrillation treatments, which work similarly to the TAVR procedure. For mitral regurgitation, he’s able to go in the same way and put a clip over the mitral valve to stop the leak. For a-fib, a condition where patients typically use blood thinners to prevent strokes, he can place a plug inside the heart in the area where clots develop, eventually eliminating the need for blood thinners. Owensboro Health has launched a series of innovations within the heart program over the past year. In addition to recruiting an interventional/structural cardiologist (Rastogi), Owensboro Health Regional Hospital has expanded its cardiac imaging and electrophysiology capabilities, renovated the catheterization lab and partnered with Cincinnati Children’s to provide advanced pediatric cardiology services close to home. To learn more about heart care at Owensboro Health, visit OwensboroHealth.org/Heart. OL

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HEATHER BLACKBURN IS RUNNING FOR DISTRICT COURT JUDGE IN 2022. In 2000, I took a job as a

primary experience with the

My commitment to serving

defense attorney in Owensboro

court system. By working with

our community is why I am

after

defendants in this system, my

running for the District Court

wanted to practice law in the

experience

Judge

field of medical malpractice

would give me the skills needed

husband returned to active duty

defense, but it was there that

to sit on the bench as a District

after 9/11, he was gone for seven

I realized public service was a

judge.

years.

originally

believing

calling for me. I

discovered

district

court

position.

When

Owensboro

supported

A judge is there to make

and lifted my daughter and

that

sure the person’s rights are

me when Jim had to parent

representing indigent people

protected, and that both parties

and be a husband from afar. I

can be sometimes frustrating

have their say. Judges have to

hope to repay the strength and

and sometimes exhilarating. I

apply the law as it is intended.

friendship Owensboro gave us

ended up falling in love with the process.

COVID shook up the court system and as a result, backed

As a public defender, I am actively

representing

clients

by working tirelessly as your District Court Judge.

up many cases in the books.

As a candidate, my courtroom

If elected, I would work to see

experience

in District Court on a regular

defense

For over two decades, I have

basis. District court handles

attorneys

resolve

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traffic

misdemeanor cases in the early

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misdemeanor

stages, so cases could be closed

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prosecutors

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Outside of the courtroom,

resolution. I have represented

may also hear the beginnings of

I love to stay involved in this

individuals facing involuntary

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community. I’ve served on the

hospitalization or drug and

I have been serving in the

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alcohol

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worked in district court and

20 years, but I’ve especially

League of Owensboro, and on

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the board of the Owensboro

cases involving child support

the largest docket district court

Youth Hockey Association and

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y brother and I were able to spend weekends, all our holidays, summer and spring breaks with our grandparents. I’m sure they mischief-proofed their homes before our arrival, but I think back on some of the stunts we pulled and still wonder how we didn’t seriously injure ourselves. I’m not sure if our parents were aware of all we got by with, or if they needed the break so badly that they just prayed for the best! Either way, going to Grandma’s for spring and summer meant laughter, exploration, cousins, homemade desserts, and no place to be except where our bare feet could take us! Memaw (Mom’s mom) and Grandma (Dad’s mom) showed up in tandem to help take care of us whenever Mom and Dad needed them. I heard stories about my Memaw, who after listening to a colicky me cry relentlessly for hours, demanded that my mother “Hand that baby over!” My mother relinquished me without question to be tightly rolled in blankets and warmed by an old drum stove, putting me instantly to sleep.

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Fast forward 25 years - marching in as a one-person army, my mom was the same. She stayed with me each time I came home from the hospital until I could manage on my own. In the years that followed, Mom showed up with all the essentials to help me with the latest childhood sickness; many times, taking them with her to give me time to recover from whatever ailed me. Without me even asking, she set about folding mounds of laundry, washing stacked up dishes … whatever she could see we needed. Like her, I never questioned it – just appreciated the help and thought that’s how people grand-parented. That’s why 26 years later when I joined the glorious “Grandparent’s Club,” I had a whole How-To video in my heart ready to put into action. Geography hijacked my plans. It never dawned on me that I might be a grandmother from a distance. Nor did I consider we would have to schedule when I would come, and where I’d be when he was born. Based on my experience, my role was to come to her house and take

over for as long as necessary. Slow down, Speedy! My daughter had redefined the role and yes, she would like me to come help the week she came home from the hospital with her husband’s parents coming the week after. Okay – well at least I got to be there when he arrived. With a familiar element to my role reestablished, I was content. They live out of state, so getting the call to action meant biting my nails for 10 hours instead of pacing the floor of labor and delivery. Longest. Drive. Of. My. Life. We arrived just after he was born. Perfect timing! Nope. So there’s this thing now where parents get some bonding time with the baby without anyone else around. You probably already knew this. I did not know this. Thank goodness our daughter and son-in-law are great communicators and told us very gently that he was here, she was fine, and that they were spending time alone with our new grandson. As soon as they were ready, she would text me. I’m not even kidding, I literally heard the sound of my grandparent brakes screeching to

a halt, “Okay – just keep us updated.” In hindsight, as busy as their lives are, those minutes with that little one where time stood still were the most precious of all. I’m so glad they had them. I don’t know how long it was – maybe an hour, but it seemed like forever before they finally invited us to see him. With caution, I was careful to use hand sanitizer and look at him through tears in his bassinet. I heard my daughter say, “Mom, you can pick him up!” I remember asking if I could kiss him as I was lifting the warm little guy up. Ya’ll, it matters. Please don’t just assume you can kiss all over babies – their parents are nervous enough without having the added concern of potential illnesses. It’s been such a learning curve for this somewhat southern Nana. What I thought I would be doing isn’t anything like what it’s evolved into. We’ve learned that no matter what we want to do, we have to respect their parents and not over-buy when it comes to presents. We’ve learned to ask them what they’d like us to buy – or not buy. That was a hard one to swallow. We offer our ideas and sometimes they mesh, other times they send us an Amazon Wish List to pick

from. Grandparents get pure joy from giving the grands tasting new foods. I was caught chocolate-fingered giving my grandson a taste of icing. “Mom, please don’t give him anything new to eat without telling us, because we’re introducing new foods selectively, so that we’ll be able to tell what it is if he has an allergic reaction to something.” Whoops. I’m glad that Pop Tart his granddad snuck him didn’t raise a reaction! Refusing to let this child live without knowing the taste, I used fruit as the appeal and asked her to put chocolate-covered strawberries on the menu for the next day. He didn’t like them as much as we did, but we’d found a great compromise! We’ve always agreed on sleep schedules. Naps can’t be a variable. Making sure the kiddos stay on their sleep schedule makes for a much better visit for everyone. Work any schedule you have around theirs. Also, if you get the chance to get up with those grands in the morning and let Mom and Dad sleep in, do it! Not only will their parents be eternally grateful, but it’s also a precious time of day that makes for special bonding and snuggles!

Prioritize your own health. Grandkids want their grandparents around for a long, long time. Our grandson now has a two-year-old little sister. It went all the way to my soul when she, still holding her daddy’s hand, asked ME to carry her down the stairs at a restaurant! The little stinker, refusing to sit on my hip, dangled herself two-thirds down my body the whole way. Two or three steps from the bottom, I had to put her down to let her walk by herself. I made myself a promise that I’d be strong enough to carry her all the way next time. Workouts have commenced! I share all this because we’re approaching spring, where so many grandparents get the privilege of caring for their grandchildren during the breaks. If you’re like I was, what you thought that would look like may not be how it’s turned out. As long as you keep the lines of communication open, respect their parenting decisions, not taking them personally, everyone wins! Today, the much-coveted call came: “Mom, I need you on the calendar for June – can you come watch the kids?” I may have danced a little! OL

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Before designing your home and

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banks are happy to work with you in the beginning and walk you through the pre-approval process for a construction

loan. This information is vital to know

before moving forward with the process.

Finding the Right Location/Lot

Finding the perfect location for

your future home can sometimes be a

challenge. Before designing your home,

we always suggest finding the lot first. The layout of the lot may greatly affect

the size or style of the home you can

build. Be sure to reach out to family, friends, realtors, and builders you have in mind to see if anyone has a lot for sale that fits your needs and budget.

House Plan Design

Once you feel confident in the

location of your home and have an ideal

budget in mind, the fun truly begins! Our suggestion is to start looking at

plans online to get ideas of what you like and do not like. Once you feel ready to start the designing process, it is

time to choose who you trust to design the home. You can research different

architects or ask builders opinion. Rick Bivins, owner of JMJ Custom Homes, has been creating custom floor plan designs for his clients for over 30 years. The design of your home is vitally important and you truly need to work with someone you trust to guide you in the right direction to bring your vision to life.

Choosing the Right Builder

The most important step when preparing to build a home is choosing the builder you feel confident working with and can bring your vision to life. Building your future home is a huge deal and lengthy process, so you want to find someone you trust entirely and enjoy working with. Communication, trust, and honesty are the most important factors to consider when choosing a builder. Living in a smaller community like Owensboro gives you the advantage of getting opinions from people around you who have built in the past. Finding a team with a great reputation is essential! The other side of choosing a builder is also finding a contractor who uses quality sub-contractors and suppliers throughout the entire project. Here are a few questions we recommend asking when meeting with future builders. • How long have you been in

business? What types of homes do you prefer to build? •

How do you communicate with your homeowners during the building process? How do you communicate with

your

sub-contractors

and

suppliers? •

Are there specific sub-contractors and suppliers you work with? Why have you chosen to work with these people/businesses?

•

How do you provide a bid estimate for the home or project? Is this an average ballpark based on square footage or is the home actually bid per the client’s specifications?

Signing the Contract

When the time comes to sign the

final contract for your home, be sure you know exactly what is included in the final bid price. Every builder has a slightly different process, and it is smart to ask the questions up front before work begins on your home. You will be given a specifications sheet that shows exactly what is included in the price. We advise to read over the contract thoroughly and make sure all questions are answered before moving forward with the contract signing. Once you feel confident in the contract price and specifications, the building can begin! OL

JMJ Custom Homes has been in business for over 30 years. Following these steps when building a custom home will help make the process more enjoyable and run smoothly. We are so thankful for the team of businesses and employees behind us, giving us the opportunity to offer top quality homes and customer service for the Owensboro community. Please feel free to give us a call with any building questions or needs you may have at 270-683-7100. M A R C H / / A P R I L 2 0 2 2 Owensboro Living

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How to Create the Perfect Outdoor Space While Working from Home Content Provided by Bassemiers Over the last couple of years,

working from home has become the norm for many people. In fact, a study from

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Since the start of the COVID-19

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you can end up with back or neck pain

comfortable outdoor space to work in.

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furniture for your outdoor workspace is

Staying inside can be comfortable,

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Going outside can help fuel your

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outside can strengthen your immune

system - which is something we could all use on a regular basis. So, how do you set up an ideal outdoor workspace?

Take Care of the Necessities

If your laptop battery has a long life,

you can work from your porch, patio, or anywhere you like. But, if your laptop

requires a power source, you’ll need

to set it up near an electrical outlet.

You can use an outdoor extension cord to reach a table or comfortable chair outside.

Find the Right Furniture

If you use the wrong chair or table,

at your indoor desk. Having comfortable key to preventing that.

If you haven’t already, it may

be time to invest in the best quality outdoor furniture available. You’ll need something that is durable, comfortable, and practical for both a workspace and

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support will keep you comfortable and

productive. Or, if you need room to spread out papers or books, you may

a push of a button. And, by restricting the amount of natural sunlight that hits your home, they can also lower the indoor temperature of your home by as much as 15 degrees (which could save you up to 60% on the cooling portion of your energy bill!). Another (more portable) option for shade is a tilt umbrella. It can be set up and adjusted as the sun moves, allowing you to stay in the shade all day. Tilt umbrellas are great options if you have a smaller space.

want to opt for a table & chairs set.

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finding patio furniture and creating an

It can be hard to stay under the

shade and still in the range of a wifi

connection unless you have an awning or umbrella. The sun can glare on your

computer screen, making it difficult to see things. A retractable awning can be

a game-changer for your outdoor space. Retractable awnings keep your outdoor

space cool & comfortable. They allow you to be protected from the elements with

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Getting Ready to Buy GETTING PRE-APPROVED

Before you can go out looking for just the right home, you need to find out if you will be able to get qualified to finance that home with a mortgage specialist. K N O W I N G YO U R C R E D I T

Part of the pre-approval process will be getting credit qualified for home financing. Find out at this time what is on your credit. If you don’t qualify, develop a plan to build your credit and get qualified in the near future. C R E D I T R E PA I R P R O C E S S

When a new file is received for credit repair, the steps are as follows: •

•

Credit report is reviewed by the certified credit counselor. Simulation is run to see how much the score would increase if certain accounts are paid down/off. The simulation also gives us an idea of the timeframe it will take to get to the target score. The credit counselor will reach out to the client to discuss a plan. Credit counselor will follow up to make sure the client is staying on track, and to answer any questions the client may have.

SELECTING THE RIGHT FINANCING

There are going to be a lot of choices when it comes to financing with varying down payments, terms, fixed or adjustable rates, qualifications, and monthly payments. Go over all of your options and decide which program best suits all of your

financial needs and goals.

How to Find the Right Home for You CONSIDER THESE QUESTIONS

•

• •

•

• • •

What makes you comfortable in your current home? Is there anything in particular you’d like to duplicate? What is your primary reason for searching for a new home? Do you have children? What are their ages, interests, and activities? Do you entertain a lot? What areas of your home will you primarily use to entertain? How long do you expect to live in the home? Do you have any pets that stay in the house or outside? Would you consider yourself to

•

be more casual or formal? When you imagine your dream home, what do you see? What images come to mind?

Found Your Dream Home? MAKING AN OFFER

Once you have found the property you want, you will write a purchase agreement. While much of the agreement is standard, there are a few areas that you can negotiate. N E G O T I AT E T H E P R I C E

What you offer on a property depends on a number of factors, including its condition, length of time on the market, buyer activity, and the urgency of the seller. While some buyers want to make a very low offer, just to see if the seller will accept, this often isn’t a smart M A R C H / / A P R I L 2 0 2 2 Owensboro Living

choice, because the seller may be insulted and decide not to negotiate at all. Typically you will not be present at the offer presentation; it will be presented to the listing agent and/ or seller. The seller will then do one of the following: • • •

Accept the offer Reject the offer Counter the offer with changes

By far the most common is the counter offer. In these cases, a realtor’s experience and negotiating skills become powerful in representing your best interests. OFFER IS ACCEPTED

After your offer has been accepted the first thing you want to do is set up a home inspection. You can get a recommendation from your loan officer or your agent, but it will be

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up to you, who you would like to use. They will be able to identify any repairs or major defects that would demand immediate attention.

beginning of your new life! To make sure your closing goes smoothly, you should bring the following: •

for closing costs and down

G E T T I N G Y O U R L OA N A P P R O V E D

One of the first steps of the loan approval process is ordering an appraisal on the home.

A certified or cashier’s check payment.

•

Make the check payable to the attorney or title company that will be closing your purchase.

The appraiser will confirm the value of the home, based on similar homes that have sold recently in the surrounding area. The home must appraise for the purchase price, as determined by the purchase agreement. If the home’s value is determined to be below the current purchase price of the home, the price will have to be renegotiated with the seller.

•

Closing

of real estate. At the end of closing,

P R E PA R E F O R I T

Closing day marks the end of your homebuying process and the

Photo IDs.

OWN IT

Transfer of title moves ownership of the property from the seller to you. The check or wire funds is provided by your lender in the amount of the loan and delivery of your deed, the document that transfers ownership the deed will be taken and recorded at the county clerk’s office. It will be sent to you after processing. OL

Find Peace in Your Spring Garden

our spring garden can be a delightful addition to your meditation practice. It can be very simple to design a special space that will appeal to all your senses without requiring much time-consuming maintenance. These are some ways to create a garden that can improve your peace of mind come rain or shine.

Designing a Spring Meditation Garden SELECT LUSH PLANTS.

An abundance of green plants helps to create a relaxing atmosphere. Any variety of mint or other herbs will add a pleasing scent. If you live in a warm climate, you can enjoy the rustle of bamboo or look for an ornamental grass that’s suited to your region. I N C O R P O R AT E O B J E C T S O F M E D I TAT I O N .

Depending on your faith tradition, you may want to include a statue or another meaningful image. A simple arrangement of rocks or weathered wood can add extra appeal. Many people also find it helpful to rake gravel or sand. Many specialty stores sell these readymade “Zen Gardens.” I N S TA L L S O L A R B I R D B AT H S O R F O U N TA I N S .

The sound of running water can stimulate your mind while it masks background noises. With solar devices, you can enjoy the effect and be good to the environment. You’ll also delight in the song and company of the birds you attract. A R R A N G E F O R C O M F O R TA B L E S E AT I N G .

If you prefer to sit on the ground, you may just want to keep a spot clear so you can bring a cushion or mat outdoors with you. If you use a chair, ensure it promotes good posture so you can keep your back straight and your feet on the ground.

B U I L D A PAT H .

Even in a small garden, a path can enhance your sense of space and exploration. You can contemplate a

trail of stones or diversify your practice with some walking meditation.

Spending Sunny Days in Your Spring Meditation Garden C L E A R AWAY D I S T R A C T I O N S .

Put aside internal and external distractions when it’s time to meditate. Depending on where you live, it may be helpful to meditate early in the morning when there’s less traffic and other background noise. MAKE

DISTRACTIONS

PA R T

YOUR

PRACTICE.

If external distractions persist, welcome them into your practice. Use the sounds of car horns and people talking to train your mind to stay focused on your meditation object instead of pursuing other thoughts. Note the interruption and bring your mind back to your contemplations.

WA R D AWAY B U G S . There are many ways to steer clear of insects without killing them. For wasps, keep a look out so you can stay away from their nests. Avoid the things that attract them like perfume, bright colors, and food. For natural ant repellent, try planting some mint or cucumber.

PROTECT YOURSELF FROM EXCESSIVE SUN EXPOSURE.

You get just as much sun whether you’re exercising or sitting down. Use a sunscreen with full spectrum protection and wear a hat, especially if you meditate at midday when the sun is strongest.

Enjoying Your Spring Meditation Garden on Rainy Days D E V E L O P S O M E S H E LT E R E D S E AT I N G .

Spring showers are a natural part of the season. By building a gazebo, you can stay outdoors and enjoy the sound of the rain without getting wet. If you’re working with more limited space, install a large umbrella over your chair. It will help protect you from the sun as well as the rain. D E S I G N A R O O M W I T H A V I E W. When stormy days keep you inside, you can still keep your garden in sight. Meditate by a window where you get a good view of your yard.

Your spring garden can make your meditation practice more pleasant and productive. No matter what the weather brings, use the natural beauty of the outdoors to help calm your mind. OL M A R C H / / A P R I L 2 0 2 2 Owensboro Living

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Why should a person consider adding professional outdoor lighting to their home?

eing able to see your house and landscaping in the dark is not the only reason to light up your home. Lighting does so much more for your home than just provide visibility, although that is important too! There are many reasons to add lighting to your home, starting with curb appeal and property value. A well-lit home and properly designed lighting can increase your home’s beauty and value. An emphasis on design is important. When considering outdoor lighting, avoid a cookie cutter design that does not consider the uniqueness of your home and your lifestyle. A few generic lamps

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in the ground will never do your home justice. Look for a company who will create a custom design for your home with a variety of high-quality lamps and fixtures and who will take your needs and opinions into consideration. Another important reason to light your home is safety and security. This includes your own safety as you light your stairs, driveways, pools, and other outdoor areas of your home. It also includes preventative measures against burglary. Studies have shown that most burglars would move on from a well-lit home and choose another house. Design is also essential in safety. A company

must be able to see the needs of a

homeowner and be able to design a safe, practical lighting system while not sacrificing artistry and beauty.

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Prepare for Spring with Your Pet’s Safety in Mind Content Provided by Kentuckiana Animal Clinic

pring is quickly approaching,

most plants tend to cause nothing

forms of pest control to be aware

and with a change in seasons

more than oral irritation or mild

of. If you are treating pests in

just around the corner, several

gastrointestinal

there

your yard, house, or garage, or

people will be sprucing up their

are a few that can cause serious

having someone come treat your

homes. Whether reaching for new

health problems. It is always

home, be sure to check for pet-

plants for the garden, treating

best practice to be sure all your

safe products or be sure your pets

the yard for pests, or cleaning

house plants are either in areas

are out of the environment for an

up the house, it is important to

where your pets cannot access

appropriate amount of time for

remember the safety of our pets.

them, or be sure they are pet-

their safety.

Garden/Plant Safety

upset,

safe before bringing them home. Some specific plants you should

Rat/Mouse Bait

Plants are a beautiful way to

be aware of bringing into a pet’s

freshen up your home or office

environment are Lilies, Sago Palm,

rodenticides. The first, and most

space. They provide color and

and Azalea/Rhododendron.

common, are the anticoagulant

brightness to any space, while also helping to purify the air. If

Pest Control

There are two major forms of

rodenticides.

These

types

baits block the vitamin K channel,

Most people are already aware

preventing animals from being

be sure to do your research before

of the dangers of rat bait/mouse

able to clot their blood. This

reaching for that new plant. While

bait, but there are several other

disruption of the vitamin K channel

you have pets, though, you should

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will eventually lead to internal bleeding and death. The other form is the neurologic rodenticides. These two products are much more challenging to treat, as there is no antidote, so are more likely to be fatal. It is very important

Essential Oil Toxicity

respiratory

rise in popularity over the past few

pawing at the face and mouth,

Essential oils have made a big

years. Although they do tend to be relatively safe, they can cause issues in our furry friends. It is important

distress,

changes/respiratory

lethargy,

drooling

skin rashes, burns on the lips/ tongue/gums, and even vomiting. It is important not to diffuse

to remember that essential oils

in an area that will come into

that you keep all the packaging

are a very concentrated form of

direct contact with your pet and

if you are using any of these

a natural product, meaning it is

it is recommended not to apply

products to be sure your pets are

easier to see toxicity with these

essential oil products directly to

treated appropriately if accidental

products than with the naturally

your pets. It is also important to

ingestion

Immediate

occurring products (i.e. oranges

remember that pets like birds,

intervention is essential, so if you

are not toxic to dogs and cats, but

rabbits, and rodents are more

suspect your pet ingested some

the concentrated form of citrus

sensitive to respiratory irritants,

form of rodenticide, please call

oil could lead to irritation). Signs

so it is imperative not to diffuse

your veterinarian immediately.

of essential oil toxicity include

near these pets. OL

occurs.

R ESOU R C ES If you suspect your pet may have come into contact with a toxic substance, contact your veterinarian immediately. You should also proactively reach out to a pet poison control hotline. By reaching out to these hotlines, you will speak directly to a veterinary toxicologist, who will then be able to formulate a specific treatment plan for your pet. These hotlines do typically come with a fee, but will provide your veterinarian with the exact treatment plan for your pet. The most common hotlines include the ASPCA Pet Poison Control Center (888-426-4435) and the Pet Poison Helpline (855-764-7661).

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Where to Start?

hen it comes to potential home renovations, there are all kinds

of possibilities available to you. The question is, where do you begin with your remodel, and which renovations take priority? Two of the most popular home renovations to consider starting with are the kitchen and bathroom. Before you get in touch with professionals who specialize in kitchen and/or bathroom renovation take some time to decide

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which of these renovation ideas you want to tackle first.

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What if I Want to Renovate My Kitchen?

your cabinets new colors, or even

just keep in mind one important

installing a whole new lighting

detail - your bathroom will probably

system for maximum visibility as

your home transformation with a

you cook up some great meals for

are underway, so make sure your

the family.

spare bathroom (if you have one)

Thinking

about

starting

off

nice kitchen renovation? This can be a cinch. All you need to do is determine what kind of kitchen design you want for your home. That may mean going with a modern

If you decide instead to go

while

renovations

is stocked with your bathroom essentials so you can use it while your

main

bathroom

under

renovation.

layout, or it might be a vintage one

instead with a simple bathroom

When it is all said and done, all

that makes more sense for the style

renovation, there are plenty of

that is left for you to do will you be

of home you have. Of course, trying

possibilities

Most

to move all your toiletries back into

out new colors can bring beauty

renovations for bathrooms start by

your newly renovated bathroom

and life into your kitchen, too! Once

tearing out old countertops, sinks,

and enjoy the new additions.

your general plan is figured out,

and flooring. Then you can consider

you can get started on the actual

new options such as replacing

changes you would like to see.

certain parts of the shower or tub

Don't forget to consider all the little things that you might

here,

too!

It is That Easy!

Armed with only some ideas and

with a whole new setup that can

a renovation budget, you can easily

provide an entirely different look.

have local professionals for kitchen

your

or bathroom renovation give you a

That includes changing out your

bathroom is going to look like after

hand in making your space look and

counter tops and floors, painting

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want to change in your kitchen.

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Take Your Inside…. Out! Content Provided by Integrity Outdoor Living

round this time of year, we’re

friends and family feel comfortable

be full of delays, shortages and

all ready to start climbing

there? Is it cozy? Or vibrant? Is

who knows what else. But don’t let

the walls with cabin fever! Winter

it “lived-in”? Formal? Fun? Keep

weather, gloomy days and safety

these concepts in mind as you

that stop you! Just assess what’s

concerns have had us sheltering

move outside, because they… are

inside for what feels like forever.

YOU! And they’re what will make

But if you’re worried that socializing

your outdoor space an extension

and entertaining at home have

of your home’s unique personality!

become things of the past, think

You want to create a flow, inside

again!

to outside. Where your home’s

Spring is almost here, and that

signature charm spills out onto

has me thinking “outside” of the

the patio and your personal style

box! When I feel a little sunshine

shines all the way through! If your

on my shoulder, I start dreaming

friends settle in and say “oh, this is

about new outdoor spaces. Spaces

so ‘you’”…. You’ve done it right!

where we can relax, where we can

Next, think about how you use

play… where we can safely socialize

the inside of your house. What do

again. And trust me, as soon as you

your friends and family love to do

realize that an outdoor space can

there?

be an extension of yourself and

what they’re going to enjoy outside,

an extension of your home, that’s

too! Do they like to lounge around

where the fun begins!

and visit while sipping a glass of

You can do so much outside, everything

from

dining

playing

Because that’s probably

wine? Then focus your outside

cooking

and

attention on a big, comfy outdoor

sports

and

sofa (and I strongly recommend

watching movies. And you can

cushions that are stain resistant!).

enhance

with

Or do they like to stay active and

big-screen

busy? Maybe skip the furniture and

TVs, wet bars, water features, and

consider a sport court or (my new

even outdoor kitchens. Spending

favorite idea) a putting green! Do

time outdoors is fun and exciting in

your friends love to come around

a real and usable living space. It can

because you’re an awesome cook?

be a place where family memories

Put some real thought into an

are made, a place for friends to

outdoor kitchen! Seriously! Figure

hang out, or maybe even a place

out what’s working for you inside….

where (dare I wish it?) there are no

And take it outside!

furniture,

that

experience

fireplaces,

work distractions! Here’s how to start taking your inside… out!

And

finally,

hiccups.

And be ok with that. This dreamy outdoor space is supposed to be

really important to you: where you can compromise and what’s worth waiting for. I know I can’t be the only person who is ready to flip another page on the calendar and to get closer to those bright, sunny spring days! So I highly recommend that you stop by Owensboro’s local Integrity Outdoor Living where we are already gearing

for

the

upcoming

“outside” seasons! Our showroom is full of outdoor furniture, rugs, firepits and all things outdoor! And there’s just as much still coming! This year probably will still be a wild ride! But to stay ahead of shortages and delays, we’ve majorly increased the amount of furniture, fountains and other items that we will carry in-stock.

(Hello,

on-your-patio-

by-tonight!). And our Plant Pros have spent months curating trees and shrubs from across the nation to secure enough stock for the season. Next door at Integrity Backyard Builds, the Pool Pros are ready with more ideas than you can imagine! Our crews are booking out jobs all over the tristate area for pool installations, decorative concrete, artificial turf, pergolas, kitchens and so much more! By being an allinclusive company, our backyard

First, really think about the vibe

fun—or relaxing—or whatever vibe

projects are able to flow more

inside your home. What do you

you’ve chosen! Don’t let it become

seamlessly and with fewer logistic

love about it? What makes your

a stressor. This year will inevitably

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RESTAURANT SPOTLIGHT: OWENSBORO KAREN RESTAURANT p. 72

WHAT WE’RE EATING NOW: DONUTS p. 76

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Flavor R E C I P E PARTY BITES!

Semi-Homemade Appetizers Recipes and photos by J A M I E A L E X A N D E R

Wedding season is approaching, which means that some people are in the midst of planning bridal showers and engagement parties (not to mention bachelor/bachelorette parties). With so many events to plan now that we are slowly being able to safely gather, it can be easy to run out of ideas for food. Some people think that making the food is the best part of planning, while others would rather invest their energy in thinking of entertainment. Either way, we all want our guests to be happy (and what better way than with food?!). If you’re planning a shower and have a long “to-do” list, here are some treats you can make by simply combining ready-made foods (no oven involved). Even with the minimal effort, these recipes are a guaranteed hit.

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Bite-sized Chicken and Waffles INGREDIENTS: Your favorite chicken nuggets (from a restaurant or frozen) Waffle mix or miniature frozen

INSTRUCTIONS: 1. Bake your chicken nuggets according to the package (unless you got them from a restaurant)

2. Make your waffle batter and pour

them into your waffle maker. You can either pour small portions (1-2 tablespoons) to create miniature waffles, or make a full-sized waffle and cut it to size once they are made. If you are using frozen mini-waffles, toast them and set them aside for assembling!

waffles

3. Using a toothpick or decorative

Mango Habanero jelly

by layering a chicken nugget on top of

1/2 oz. Rosemary simple syrup*

skewers, thread each bite-sized treat each waffle.

4. Warm your mango habanero jelly to

Rosemary and/or cranberries for

thin it out a bit, before drizzling it on

garnish

top of each treat. Serve warm!

Easy Elote in a cup INGREDIENTS: 4 ears of corn (or 3 1/4 cups of canned corn) 2 tablespoons melted butter (unsalted) 1/4 cup mayonnaise 1/3 cup cotija cheese (or queso fresco) 1 tsp Tajin seasoning 1 tsp chili powder chopped cilantro to taste salt/pepper to taste INSTRUCTIONS: 1. Cook 4 ears of corn brushed with melted butter until charred. You can

grill, boil (and brush on the melted butter after), cook on a stove top or even use drained canned corn. 2. Cut the corn off the cob and pour into a medium-sized mixing bowl. Stir in mayonnaise and top with crumbled cotija cheese. 3. Mix in salt, pepper, Tajin, and chili powder until combined. Separate into small serving party bowls, alongside chopped cilantro, lime wedges and hot sauce for garnishing. In miniature bowls, this makes enough for about ten small servings.

Watermelon Feta Skewers INGREDIENTS: Seedless watermelon, cut into cubes Fresh mint leaves Balsamic reduction or glaze 3-4 blocks Feta cheese (depending on how many you’ll make) INSTRUCTIONS: 1. Cut your watermelon into 1-inch cube pieces. Repeat with the block of feta.

2. Thread a piece of watermelon onto a skewer,

followed by a feta chunk and a mint leaf. Repeat until you go through all your ingredients. These can be stored covered in a refrigerator overnight. 3. Drizzle each skewer with balsamic reduction right before serving! OL

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SPOTLIGHT

OWENSBORO KAREN RESTAURANT

Sisters Bring Burmese Flavors to Owensboro Written by L A U R A M U R P H Y

Photos by J A M I E A L E X A N D E R

When sisters Hser Wah and Tee Moo opened Owensboro Karen Restaurant in 2020, they didn’t know what to expect. What they found is community support and growing interest in their authentic Burmese and Thai cuisine. Over 20 years ago, their family fled Myanmar (formerly Burma) as refugees, and then spent the next 10 years at a refugee camp in Thailand. Upon moving to Owensboro in 2010, Moo says the community was an immediate improvement for them. “Everything is better over here— we love Owensboro. We feel like it’s a safe place.” Their first year was the hardest, with only knowing how to say “hello” and “good-bye,” and not being able to communicate with their new peers at school. “I could read and write a little bit, but not speak at all. It felt like no one could speak our language. We didn’t have any friends to drive us, take us to do the laundry or get groceries,” Moo said. After graduating from Owensboro

the customers as the main spokesperson for the business was something Moo looked forward to and gladly embraced. “My favorite part of the job is talking to the customers. When I see their

High School in 2014, the sisters knew

smiling faces and they love the food, I

there must be a job for them to do

am happy,” Moo said.

something they loved.

When

local

customer

Jeremiah

Wah, who enjoyed cooking, had the

Hinson first tried the restaurant, he said

dream to open her own restaurant and

he was there to support a local business

Moo would join to help. Interacting with

and try something new.

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“I really enjoy Owensboro Karen because the food is phenomenal and everyone there is very friendly. I love authentic food and they definitely come through on that end,” Hinson said. Enjoying a menu that includes everything from egg rolls and samosas to Pad Thai and Bubble Tea, many customers

have

become

regulars. “The variety of dishes is what I like the most because I keep trying new things and want to come back for more. I’m also happy to support a family business, especially one sharing their culture and love with each plate,” Hinson said. The restaurant has truly become a family business, with

Wah’s

husband

assisting with the cooking when he’s not working his other job, and their parents coming in to help when they can.

“My favorite part of the job is talking to the customers. When I see their smiling faces and they love the food, I am happy.”

As far as future goals, Moo says she would love to see more people come in to try all that they have to offer. “We

just

want

our

restaurant to get busier and

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SPOTLIGHT have more customers to come and try our food. For people who have never had Thai food, we have a few Burmese dishes that are here that they can try,” Moo said. Although they had to close down for a while during COVID, when they reopened in person, they were thankful to continue serving the community. “People always see me because I’m in the front all the time and my sister is in the back all the time cooking. I love getting to know the customers,” Moo said. Owensboro Karen Restaurant is located at 7046 KY-56. Their hours are Tuesday-Friday 10:30 AM 7:00 PM and Saturday and Sunday 10:00 AM - 7:30 PM. For more information, visit their Facebook page — Owensboro Karen Restaurant. OL

E DITOR’S RECO MMENDATIO N: First of all, if you haven’t tried Owensboro Karen Restaurant, I suggest you go immediately! Second, once you’re there, be sure to try the Tea Leaf Salad. After watching Anthony Bourdain rave about it in his Myanmar episode of “Parts Unknown,” Summer and I had to sample it ourselves, and it didn’t disappoint. It’s savory, salty, fresh, a little spicy, and the crispy peanuts give it the perfect crunch. After you’ve tried it, shoot me an email at steven@owensboroliving.com to let me know your favorite dish, or post your pictures to our Facebook page.

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What we’re eating now Here in Owensboro, we do a lot of things well. Visitors from out of town know us for our bluegrass and barbeque, but the locals know that nobody does donuts better than our bakeries.

Rolling Pin

CHOCOLATE LONG JOHN A true Owensboro staple, the chocolate long john is synonymous with Rolling Pin. With fluffy golden dough and that famous chocolate frosting, it’s a can’t-miss.

Koehler’s

CHOCOLATE DONUT HOLES Looking for a bite-sized treat? Look no further than Koehler’s, where their chocolate donut holes are always a hit. In a hurry or have a car full of kids? Try their drivethru window for fast and friendly service.

Gramps

STRAWBERRY DONUT Owensboro’s newest donut shop is quickly becoming a local favorite. Their unique and tasty pastries include this donut with a fresh strawberry glaze, topped with a dusting of powdered sugar.

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FROM THE ARCHIVES

Spring Cleaning Written by L O R A W I M S AT T

he season of Spring was welcomed to Owensboro with open arms 100 years ago, both on the community

and

individual

levels.

Following

the dreary, cold winter months, the promise of warmer weather, blue skies, colorful flowers and festive activities served to brighten the spirits of all. As early as February 1922, the Daviess County Department of Health and the local Women’s Club joined forces to announce a partnership with the City of Owensboro to promote “spring cleaning” on a citywide level. The

clean-up

campaign

emphasized the benefits of whitewash and paint in beautifying homes, while “careless householders” were warned

cans and rubbish of all kinds mar

that complaints regarding unkempt

the appearance of the city and invite

properties would be taken seriously.

disease.”

music and attractive costumes.” Easter

lilies,

roses,

violets,

sweet peas, lilies of the valley and

Scavenger department wagons were

Speaking of disease, the spring

carnations lent their fragrance to

scheduled to make regular trips to

cleaning campaign was also intended

the happy atmosphere. Echoing the

collect ashes and garbage, “but the

to wage war on flies. Local physician

spectacular colors of nature in full

time required in which to do the work

Dr. Duvall said “stables, alleys and

bloom, ladies of Owensboro were also

is lengthened by ashes being dumped

piles of filth and rubbish should be

excited to show off their new frocks.

on the side walk so the collector has

cleaned, the earlier the better, as

The newspaper noted “… there

to shovel them up instead of simply

one fly killed in the spring prevents

are few souls, feminine at least,

emptying a receptacle.” Likewise,

the propagation of millions in the

who are too dead to the influence

“papers and pasteboard boxes mixed

summer.”

of the season to wish something

in with ashes fly over the streets and

Duvall warned that flies presented

new to wear today. And so old and

detract from the cleanliness of their

“one of the greatest mediums of

young, men and women are ready to

appearance.”

conveying typhoid fever germs and

appear in new Easter costumes, for

the summer complaints so fatal to

which stores have been searched and

babies.”

the bountiful stocks of Owensboro

City officials bemoaned the fact that many households dumped ashes and trash on their lawns, “and so

Once those pesky matters were

merchants depleted.”

destroy the beauty of the plots.”

addressed,

Officially, the use of galvanized cans

Owensboro could move on to more

They

was required, but the newspaper

joyous topics – including the annual

hosiery, wraps, sweaters, millinery,

article of Feb. 26, 1922 noted that

Easter Parade.

blouses,

many wooden

people barrels,

used lard

“washtubs, cans

and

anything convenient, while empty

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however,

residents

And oh, those merchants’ stocks! included kimonos,

dresses,

skirts,

petticoats

and

Sunday, April 16, 1922, promised

bloomers. Suits of tweed, jersey,

that Frederica Street would be filled

poiret, tricotine, twill cord and serge

with

– “in all high colors, mixtures and

“fragrant

flowers,

beautiful

solid, including navy, tan, sand and black” – boasted prices starting at $10. And for those who traveled to town from the far reaches of Daviess County to shop for those bargains at Levy’s (“an exclusive shop for better dressers”), there was the added value of knowing “We refund railroad fares.” Meanwhile, Salinger’s, located at 114116 E. Main St., declared itself “Owensboro’s only

strictly

cash

dept.

store”

and

“Owensboro’s greatest underselling store.” Not to be outdone, McAtee, Lyddane & Ray lured shoppers with the reminder that “No hat goes now but a new spring hat” – and their “smart and becoming” selection

featured

shades

blossom,

spark, periwinkle, bluebird blue, dove, putty, vatican, navy, brown and black – with prices ranging from $2 to $25. Ah, Spring! The season of renewal, hope, promise and parades! May Owensboro and all its residents of 2022 blossom with happiness, health … and a fly-free summer. OL

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