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from the publisher This issue marks our one year anniversary. One year ago to the release of this issue we introduced Owensboro Parent magazine to the community. We didn’t know how people would react, but we believed in the message and we believed in the method. As a team, we felt strongly that if we produced a publication with unwavering commitment to quality and honesty that others would join in our vision. And they did. So today, let me take a moment to say “thank you.” Thank you to each and everyone who has read an issue and shared it with friends and family. Thank you to all who have contributed to our online conversations through our website and our Facebook page. Your voice is heard loud and clear. Thank you. Thank you to each of the advertisers who believed in us and supported us through the past twelve issues. Thank you for allowing us to represent your businesses while helping us build our platform. There is no way Owensboro Parent is possible without you. Thank you. To the families that were featured in months past. Thank you for allowing us to tell your story. Your lives and life experiences have inspired our town. To some, our hearts were broken for you. And to others, we have rejoiced for you. Thank you. Let me not fail to thank the Owensboro Parent team. Ashley, Jeff, Robert, Jodi, Jonathan and Taylor, you guys are the best! And to all the writers, photographers and printing staff, thank you. Lastly, I want to thank my wife. Natalie, you fully embody what it is to be a parent. The love you show our children is unconditional and selfless. You are the driving force behind this magazine. Thank you,
Editor Ashley Sorce ashley@owensboroparent.com Account Executives Jeff Sorce jeff@owensboroparent.com Jodi Tanner jodi@owensboroparent.com Jonathan Tanner jonathan@owensboroparent.com Robert Williams robert@owensboroparent.com Graphic Designer Taylor West taylor@owensboroparent.com Contributors Christina Dalton Casey Hamilton Danny May Jaime Rafferty Christy Ramey Lora Wimsatt Contact Information Owensboro Parent Magazine PO Box 23237 Owensboro, KY 42304 (270) 314-5240 www.owensboroparent.com facebook.com/owensboroparent twitter.com/owensboroparent issuu.com/owensboroparent Cover Photography Jason Tanner
Publisher, Owensboro Parent Magazine jason@owensboroparent.com P.S. Wondering who that cute group of kids is on cover? Those are the little ones of the Owensboro Parent team. They are the inspiration and the research department. And don’t let those smiles fool you, this was one tough photo to take!
This issue dedicated to
Jordan Grace Hayden March 21, 2012 - July 12, 2012
Jordan passed away after more than three months of battling complications caused by HLHS, a rare heart defect. Jordan Grace touched so many people in her short life, including us at Owensboro Parent. We were honored to feature her story in our magazine. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Hayden family.
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august features back to school [8]
[24] vision and eye exams
college days! [10]
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pop quiz [12] ready or not [14] family adventure [16] reduce allergies and asthma [18] single mothers [20]
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parent talk This month Owensboro Parent is celebrating our first birthday! That’s why we asked you how you celebrate birthdays in your family. Here are a few of our favorite Facebook responses and winners of tickets to Malco’s Summer Kids Film Fest. We always have ice cream for breakfast for a birthday. Birthdays are very special in our family!
- Meghan Spurrier
With four kids and three birthdays so close together and right before Christmas, we don’t have huge parties. Each child gets to help bake and decorate their own cake--whatever flavor they want and
At our house it is all about the birthday boy or girl. They pick out their
homemade! They get to choose what’s for dinner on their special day
special birthday dinner for Mamaw’s house and we spend the day
and have a friend over to spend the night. They love decorating their
doing the things they love best. The kids love staying at a hotel and
own cake so much and get more creative each time!
they have choosen a little weekend vacation in lieu of a big party for
- Lou Ann Bearley
the past couple years.
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family life
back to
school { by: lora wimsatt }
A
nd children across the Owensboro / Daviess County
gently encourage their sons and daughters to excel in the area of
community are filling their backpacks with sharp pencils,
“mathematics” – but not the math that has anything to do with
new crayons and smooth, clean paper.
numbers and calculators and algebra.
Parents remind their children to do their best this year … to put
An anonymous poem says it best:
forth their best effort, to explore and learn and grow.
“A friend should be mathematical –
Most children have a “favorite subject” in school.
It’s easy to build on their natural enthusiasm for that subject, whether it’s reading, science, social studies, music, art, physical education or anything else. Academic growth is important! But school involves so much more than a child’s progress from learning his ABC’s to understanding the nuances of classic literature. The classroom is also a “garden spot” for a child’s social development as well. Students of all ages – from the 3-year-old preschooler to the high school senior – learn
Academic growth is important! But school involves so much more than a child’s progress from learning his ABC’s to understanding the nuances of classic literature.
He should multiply the joy, Divide the sorrow, Subtract the past Add to tomorrow. Calculate the need Deep in your heart And always be bigger Than the sum of your parts.” Help your child learn a lesson that will have
important, lifelong lessons at school in areas that
more of a positive impact on his or her life than all
don’t show up on any report card. These are the
the homework in the world.
lessons involving relationships.
So as children of all ages and all grade levels are preparing for
wins the race in gym, compliment the kid with the amazing science
“back to school,” Moms and Dads can take this opportunity to
fair project, celebrate with the student who knew that polar bears
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Teach him to multiply the joy – to congratulate the kid who
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are invisible to infrared cameras because of their transparent hair. Encourage your child to divide the sorrow – to speak to the shy new kid who just moved to town, cheer on the kid who always strikes out in kickball, take the seat next to the kid who is sitting alone on the school bus.
Urge her to subtract the past – to not remind anyone at high
school about the kid who threw up in kindergarten, make an effort to be friends with the kid who wasn’t easy to get along with last year, and invite everyone to her birthday party – even the girl who stole her BFF.
Teach him to add to tomorrow – to offer to be a “study buddy”
for the kid who never gets 100 on the spelling test, meet for extra practice with the kid who is their main competition for “first chair” in orchestra, look for opportunities to share genuine compliments and words of encouragement to those who need it most.
“Back to School” is the perfect opportunity to remind your
child – sometimes the most valuable lessons we learn in life are those that are not graded.
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Lora Wimsatt is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.
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family life
college
days!
{ by: kelly moore }
Everyone at our house loves this time of year (well, everyone but my husband David). It’s not because of the weather or going to the pool, but rather because it’s “Back to School” time. Although my daughters, Kaitlyn, 22, and Kendall, 18, no longer need to load up on school supplies, we still anticipate the displays and crowded aisles filled with paper, pencils, folders, and all of the latest Crayola crayon products.
However, this year back to school looks quite different for our family. Kaitlyn, who graduated from college this past spring, is returning to continue her education in a masters program and is thrilled to have her first apartment. Kendall, on the other hand, just graduated from high school and will begin a new adventure as a college student in a few weeks. Needless to say, our school supply list has changed from markers and folders to comforters and towels, college-size refrigerators, and a plethora of storage bins.
Being the parent of a child who is graduating
brings mixed responses from others.
The most
often heard is “Oh, how sad that your daughter is leaving home!” On the contrary, I feel we must have a positive attitude and view this as a developmental milestone for our children, much like learning to walk, talk, the first day of school, and getting a drivers license. Each of these stages evokes precious memories, but we know as parents that we can’t freeze time. Although separation is difficult for both the parents and child, we must embrace this amazing
“To educate a person in mind and not in
opportunity for our children. Just as I was thrilled to watch the girls climb on that big yellow bus as they
morals is to educate a menace to society.”
entered kindergarten, I know that it was equally
Theodore Roosevelt
exciting to get a phone call from Kaitlyn about an awesome grade on a mid-term or being elected as
Kaitlyn, Kelly & Kendall Moore. Photo by Jason Tanner.
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are having a blast searching for items to make her dorm room feel
could not be farther from the truth. While Kaitlyn and Kendall
like home. Because her dorm is in the same part of campus that
are technically considered adults, they will agree that we still take
I lived in my freshman year at UK, this seems like a trip back in
any available opportunity to teach a lesson or discuss important
time. I know that my perspective will definitely influence the girls’
issues. Solicited or not, once a parent, always a parent. Obviously
attitudes about being away from home. Therefore, I choose to see
our children are not physically with us, but hopefully those lessons
the glass as half full!
that parents have instilled since birth will continue to be with them
when they are making important decisions.
When each of our daughters entered high school, I remember
the principal making a very important point that I feel is applicable
to college as well. The importance of becoming involved in some
Although this is certainly a bittersweet time – no games or tennis
type of club or activity was highly encouraged. Because David
matches to attend, fussing about too much Facebook or Twitter
and I both had outstanding college experiences, largely due to
time, or worrying about whether projects made it to school - we
our involvement on campus, we could not agree more. Since most
must think of how fortunate we are to have two exceptional
college students will become a little fish in a big pond, I see this
daughters who have the opportunity to attend college. Yes, you will
as an exceptional piece of advice. The options are limitless: bible
see me shopping for school supplies in the days to come. However,
studies, Greek life, intramurals, service clubs, philanthropies, etc.
my basket will be full of shower caddies, hangers, desk accessories,
There is something for everyone, and this is the best way to connect
and laundry baskets. With all of the fun we are having decorating,
with others who have similar interests and a great way to make new
we must not forget‌girls, you are going to college to learn! Adding
friends!
in some notebooks, pens, and binders will also be a must for our
school supply list.
Although friends are important, they in no way fill the void
College is definitely a bridge between childhood and adulthood.
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of not having your parents. Many will argue that once a child graduates from high school, their job, as a parent, is complete. This
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Kelly Moore and her husband, David, have been blessed with two wonderful daughters. She is the Staff Developer at Sorgho Elementary School.
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qui z POP family life
I
t has been one year since the inception of Owensboro Parent Magazine.
Correct Answer: C
What a fantastic year for this magazine. Don’t you sometimes think…
{ by: christina dalton,
mssw, csw
}
If you answered this correctly then you have been trying some of the
how did I ever know what was going on before?! I know I do. I would
new parenting techniques offered through Owensboro Parent Magazine.
like to take this opportunity to thank Owensboro Parent Magazine for
Love and Logic parents use very few words when things are going bad
allowing me to be part of such a wonderful collaboration of community
and lots of words when things are going well. Love and Logic is all about
partners and providing this magazine to our parents.
making your life easier by adding empathy with a heavy dose of love.
I have been writing for Owensboro Parent Magazine for almost a year
Daviess County Public Schools has partnered with Owensboro Public
and on their special one-year anniversary, I thought it would be only fitting
Schools to offer you a variety of parenting classes all year long. All classes
to mention that in terms of anniversaries, the first year is traditionally
are free to the public. All you have to do is register. It’s never too late to
paper. I love all things technology, but I also love paper! I love the feel of a
make a change for the better.
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crisp newspaper or a brand new issue of Owensboro Parent in my hands. I hope they have many more anniversaries to come!
Summer can be a time when my tried and true parenting techniques
leave my mind. Schedules become more relaxed, bedtimes become later
September 4th to October 2nd (Tuesdays) Becoming A Love & Logic Parent® • 8:30 a.m. to 10 a.m. Tamarack Elementary No childcare provided. Please call 852-7561 to register.
and mornings are a thing of the past. My child informed me that she couldn’t go to bed when it’s still daylight outside…point child. Pop Quiz: (There are no “wrong” answers, but there is a better answer). 1. Your child refuses to put their dirty clothes in the hamper but instead spreads them all over the house. A You follow the path of destruction and pick up their dirty clothes for them. B You tell the child, “This is the LAST time I’m picking up your dirty laundry!” C You pick up their dirty clothes, pile them on their bed and tell them, “I’ll be glad to do the laundry that makes it in the hamper….AND I’m
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treated with respect.” D You leave the dirty clothes out until they are standing up on
Christina Dalton, MSSW, CSW is the Family Resource Center Coordinator
their own.
for Daviess County Public Schools.
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THURSDAY
• 7:20 Lonesome River Band
• 5:00 Snap Jackson and the Knock on Wood Players
• 8:40 The Deadly Gentlemen
• 6:00 Some Rye Grass
• 10:00 Punch Brothers
• 7:00 Jesse McReynolds & Friends,Tribute to Jerry Garcia,Songs of
• 11:45 After Party: Bawn in the Mash, Belfry Fellows
the Grateful Dead • 8:15 Vince Gill • 10:00 Greensky Bluegrass • 11:45 After Party: Farewell Drifters, Renegade String Band
SATURDAY • 10:00 County Line Bluegrass • 11:00 Kentucky BlueGrass AllStars and Arnold Shultz Revival • 11:45 Snap Jackson and the Knock on Wood Players
FRIDAY
• 1:00 The Expedition Show
• 10:00 Grandview Junction
• 2:15 Newtown
• 11:00 Higher Ground
• 3:30 NewFound Road
• 12:00 Don Stanley & Middle Creek
• 4:45 Bearfoot
• 1:00 Renegade String Band
• 6:00 Pokey LaFarge and the South City Three
• 2:15 Belfry Fellows
• 7:20 The 23 String Band
• 3:30 Monroeville
• 8:40 Carolina Chocolate Drops
• 4:45 Town Mountain
• 10:00 Old Crow Medicine Show
• 6:00 The Farewell Drifters
• 11:45 After Party: The Deadly Gentlemen, The 23 String Band
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discover
readynot! or { by: christy ramey }
“M
om, where’s my book bag?” “Mom, have you seen my
World if he had a certain number of AR points by the year’s end. It
shoes?” “Oh, by the way, I need a paper signed and $10
worked!
today!” Does any of this sound familiar? These questions along
with shouts of, “Hurry up! You’re going to be late!” or “I can’t
which extra-curricular activities fit in to everyone’s schedule
believe you’re not ready!” can all be a part of your morning routine
and budget. Remember, the more activities, the greater amount
when school starts – or maybe not? Maybe there is a better way!
of planning needed in order to eat supper together or have clean
With some forethought and preplanning, school mornings do not
clothes.
have to become shouting matches. Here are some strategies that can get your school year started on the right foot – Ready or not!
Before school starts – Talk! Communication is key.
Discuss when homework should be completed. Also consider
Get Organized!
Clean out drawers and closets of outgrown or unworn clothes and shoes. This will make enough space for the new things and a way
Ask questions about classes your
to see it. Pick out clothes ahead of time and put them in a drawer
children will be taking, clothes they will wear, and specific needs
or on a shelf so decisions each morning are simple. Make sure the
and supplies (each school has a list at local stores). Give them
entire “outfit” and accessories are together.
choices. Sometimes it might be necessary to narrow those choices
due to price or because they can be overwhelmed by all the possible
a space where school work can be completed. Experts differ on
selections.
whether music can help or hinder the homework, but your child
Set some ground rules. As parents, we are aware that success
probably has a preference. Provide resources such as a dictionary,
takes discipline and now is the time to help children develop self-
thesaurus, calculator or computer to accomplish their assignments.
discipline.
Let them be creative with their space or shared space for homework.
Explain your standards and expectations to your children.
During this conversation, rewards could be discussed for meeting
The first few days of school are the worst, so help your child be
certain goals. One year my son and I decided on a trip to Holiday
responsible with these forms by asking them to put the papers in a
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Also organize a study area for each child. They should have
Organize a central location for papers that need your attention.
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tray or folder you have labeled for this purpose.
Make
sure
Of course, there is one very
Organize a supply shelf at home. Tape, glue, paper, stapler and
everyone knows
important element to all
staples as well as extra pencils and a pencil sharpener are all
what time the bus
necessary for school assignments and projects. Keeping a few
runs, or the car has
sheets of poster board, colored paper and markers handy could save
to leave.
you a midnight run to the store, which I learned from experience in
management starts at an early age
1994! Extra batteries of various sizes might also be helpful.
and is a necessary life lesson.
When school starts Get Up! (on time)
Training in time
this preparation - get up on time!
Being prepared mentally and physically can help those
first few days of school go much smoother. Send your child to
Of course, there is one very important element to all this
school knowing you have communicated expectations, encouraged
preparation – get up on time!
responsibility, and organized your home for a successful school
Give each child an alarm clock and let them be responsible for
year. Yes, you will still get into an occasional panic situation, but
their own time management. I once had a professor who told the
planning ahead, getting up on time, and positive encouragement
story of delivering his first-grader to school in pajamas because
will go a long way toward keeping the school mornings peaceful!
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she didn’t get up in time to get dressed. Guess what? It never happened again!
With the alarm clock comes the discussion about when the
Christy Ramey is the Daviess County Extension Agent for Family and Consumer Sciences. She has been married for 38 years and have three children and three grandchildren.
bathroom will be available and how many people will need it. Younger children typically require less time than teenagers. Note: Beware of bad hair days. This phenomenon can disrupt event the
Educational programs of Kentucky Cooperative Extension serve all people regardless of race, color, age, sex, religion, disability, or national origin.
calmest of days.
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discover discover
adventure family
{ by: ashley sorce }
W
hen local lawyer David Johnson saw an overwhelming population of juvenile delinquency and teens serving court appointed programs for a variety of first offenses, he knew something needed to change. Fully believing that these teens needed better foundation and a relationship with God, Johnson sought out help. When a college roommate put him in touch with Chris Dillbeck, the idea of Greater Owensboro Young Life was born. For some teenagers, a series of bad decisions can lead them down a path they may never be able to change. For other teenagers, bridging the gap between their church life and their every day life can be difficult. Young Life, a high school missionary organization, is attempting to help teens find better pathways and balance in their lives by speaking the teenage language and earning trust. It is this trust that
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will allow YL leaders into these teens’ lives to talk about God and their relationship with Him. Chris Dillbeck, now the Area Director of Young Life of Greater Owensboro, stresses that YL is a part of the church—not just one church, but all local churches. “Young Life is the feet on the ground to help empower churches,” Chris said. According to Chris, “We all fight for significance.” He believes this is why some teens make bad choices. “But the only way to [find significance] is giving back to who created us.” Through a mentor-based program, Young Life is present in Apollo High School, identifying juniors and seniors as leaders and helping them mentor freshman entering high school. Only established in Apollo, YL hopes to be in every area high school in the future.
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Chris believes that Young Life leaders help find where their mentees are “looking for life” and find opportunities to help support or change that search in a nonjudgmental way. “Every person desires real, authentic relationships,” Chris said. “We are wired to be connected to something greater than ourselves.” But Young Life serves more than just high school aged students. Any child’s foundation and set of values begins at home. That’s why YL promotes Timber Wolf Lake Family Camp, a Labor Day weekend retreat in Michigan, aimed at bringing families closer together through adventure, fun and solidifying relationships with Christ. At Family Camp, Mom and Dad are leaders of their family, but they are leading them in being fun. Chris says this is different than the typical family vacation, where dad plays a round of golf, mom reads a book, and a put-put night might be the only true family time with the kids. Family Camp promotes the entire family having adventure together. Chris says it’s important to stress that this camp is not mosquitoes and bad food. “Parents have been blown away after Family Camp,” Chris said. “The kids are always ready for the next year.” Lori Brubaker took her two children, Xander, 7, and Raylee, 5, to Family Camp last year. “The camp itself resides on hundreds of acres of land and the minute you turn into the drive you feel Gods presence around you,” Lori said.
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“Children and families ate together, prayed together and enjoyed many activities together as well,” Lori said. “Each night we had club, which would begin with gathering songs, comedic skits, prayer and then break-out sessions where the children would get to do fun things just for them while the parents received good Christian leadership by various presenters and ministers.” Lori plans to return to Family Camp this year with her children and husband, who was unable to go last year. Last year the Brubakers enjoyed zip lines, go carts, ropes courses, a giant swing, tubing, fishing, canoeing, family Olympic games, carnival night, hoedowns and much more. But for Lori, it was something else that she remembered most. “God spoke to me at YL camp,” Lori said. “He showed me what is truly important in my life. He brought me closer to my children and closer to my friends and neighbors that share in my same values and beliefs.” Last year, five local families made the trek to Michigan for Family Camp. This year Chris and Lori hope to have at least 12 families attend. If you want more information, please feel free to contact Chris Dillbeck at Young Life directly. younglifeowensboro@gmail.com Want more information on Timber Wolf Lake? Visit: timberwolf.younglife.org. OP
Ashley is a first-time mommy, a not-so-newlywed, an organizational freak and the editor of this awesome magazine. (Which is, of course, a totally unbiased opinion.)
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discover You can help relieve some potential allergens that may be affecting your child’s allergies or asthma during school. •Before school starts, schedule a meeting with teachers and the school nurse to discuss your child’s allergic condition •Remind your child about his/her allergy and asthma triggers. Encourage children to ask teachers for help when symptoms worsen. •If your child is allergic to certain foods, ask school cafeteria staff and teachers to avoid those and suggest safe alternatives or have your food-sensitive child bring a bag lunch to school each day. •Make sure auto-injectable epinephrine is with your child for
reduce your child’s allergies and asthma
emergency situations, and that teachers and the school nurse know how to use it properly. •Inform physical education teachers and coaches about asthma and warning signs of an exacerbation that could trigger exerciseinduced asthma. It is important to have good communication with school personnel about your child’s condition, but it is also important for your child to see an allergist/immunologist for an evaluation before the school year begins. Allergy & Asthma Specialists PSC is proud to be the only
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office providing board-certified allergy and asthma care in the Owensboro area. A Louisville native, Dr. Lee S. “Stant”
Going back to school is a fun and exciting time for children and parents. However, it is also an important time to remember that children with
Clore, Jr. began the practice over ten years ago and added Dr. Kelly S. (Hagan) Brauer, an Owensboro native, in 2008. Julie Crowe, a longstanding employee of our practice, completed her APRN degree and began seeing patients in our office in 2011.
allergies and asthma face challenges in the
Both doctors are diplomates of the American Board of Allergy
classroom. These challenges can range from
and Immunology and are skilled in allergic and non-allergic
discomfort that makes it hard to concentrate
nasal problems, asthma, food allergies, eczema, and other
on schoolwork, to symptoms that reduce a child’s ability to participate in recess or physical
skin conditions. We provide care to patients of all ages, both pediatric and adult.
education class, to life-threatening reactions
Please call our office today to schedule your appointment with
from food allergies or insect stings.
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discover { by: jamie rafferty }
single mothers:
together
strong
Throughout history, women credit motherhood as one of the most rewarding roles they play in life. However, it can also produce challenges for moms who, by circumstance or choice, are raising children solo.
According to the Child Welfare League of America, nearly 32% of children
live in single parent homes. Though Daviess County numbers are slightly better at 25%, research suggests these children have increased risk for poor self-image, comprehension difficulties, emotional disruptions, behavioral challenges, educational setbacks and more.
Some might assume, regardless of the quality of the parent in the home, the
child/children are destined to fail, but that simply isn’t true. Churches and organizations across Owensboro disagree with the idea that mothers and their children are defined by statistics or are destined to become one, especially if the Together Strong (TS) ministry has anything to say about it.
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TS formed from a concerned group at Macedonia Baptist Church seeing
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the need for outreach and support for single mom families. This group hopes to help by sharing a hope with an eternal impact on the lives of mothers and children open to the message of a God who cares, sharing time with others experiencing the same plight and coping with the demands while keeping your sanity and a smile.
Local mother, “Kimberly” asked not to be fully identified, but
shared her story with Owensboro Parent. Kimberly didn’t enter into parenthood alone; she was married but now finds herself a divorced, single mother. Trying to find the balance of mothering in what Kimberly feels is a “couple’s world” is exhausting, lonely and self-sacrificing so that the child’s needs can be met. In an ironic transverse, Kimberly initially joined Together Strong to minister to single moms. She didn’t imagine that in a matter of months she would be the one needing the group’s support.
This group of women, including Kimberly, transformed what
began as a heartfelt burden into an opportunity to help single moms find their place in the Lord. Their ultimate goal to help their children find a peaceful place, a place that leads them away from being another single parent statistic.
Together Strong researched Arise Ministries and saw that God
had a plan for them to help mothers lighten the load of being a single mother by offering a two-day conference designed with their specific needs in mind.
With determination, this committee secured Arise Ministries
co-founder Pam Kanaly along with Shelley Pulliam who will both provide these mothers with insight and words of encouragement for this conference, which will be held at Macedonia Baptist Church. Single Mothers’ Survive ‘N’ Thrive Conference 6:30 p.m., Friday, September 28 and continue Saturday, September 29 until 1 p.m. The conference includes: Door prizes Decadent desert reception Catered lunch Special gift Child care for kids up to 5th grade
For just $10, Mom can attend with her children and have a
day devoted to her growing spiritually; so that she may help her children beat the statistical odds. Scholarships are available thanks to local business owners and individuals, who also see the importance of getting of this event. Through the kindness of others, the barrier of cost has been removed. www.OwensboroParent.com
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Kimberly is already registered. She would not have chosen this
path of motherhood, but is thankful that single moms will have
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a weekend for soul-searching and growing closer to God. She’s looking forward to connecting with moms dealing with similar life
To send donations:
Jaime Rafferty enjoys writing, as
circumstances.
Together Strong
a hobby. She lives is Owensboro
Kimberly says, “We (single parents) feel that we are the only
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others who understand.” That’s just one of many reasons Together
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with her husband, Paul and their two children.
Strong answered the call to provide this event. From the conference, Kimberly hopes to have a deeper connection/walk with the Lord and will take time to reflect on what God has planned for her and her son.
Together Strong anticipates that moms will walk away with
a renewed spirit of surviving and thriving that positively impacts their children and future generations to come.
The time to register is NOW! If you are a single mom,
don’t miss this opportunity. Registration deadline is September 21.
You can register online at
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vision & eye examinations are
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ugust means it is back to school time. School supplies, clothes, physicals…..check! But what about “Can your child see?” About 75% of the school day is spent in visual activities, mainly reading and writing, and 80% of what a child learns is through the sense of sight. The Kentucky General Assembly identified problems with vision as one of the major factors in limiting a child’s ability to learn and succeed in schools. So therefore, Kentucky law (KRS 156.160.8 [g]) was passed in 2000 requiring proof of a vision examination by an optometrist or ophthalmologist. This form has to be submitted to the school no later than January 1 of the first year that a child is enrolled in a Kentucky public school, public preschool, or Head Start. So when should children have a comprehensive eye exam by an Optometrist? The American Academy of Pediatrics has recently begun recommending annual eye examinations for all children, which the American Optometric Association (AOA) has recommended as well. The AOA says a child should first visit an optometrist for an initial comprehensive eye exam at 6-12 months of age. The optometrist will check for symptoms of eye disease, crossed-eyes, lazy eye, opacities that would hinder light from reaching the back of the eye and developmental problems. The child should have another eye examination at age three. The doctor will check eye health, eye movement skills, focusing abilities and whether or not common vision problems like nearsightedness,
farsightedness, or astigmatism are present. Up to 13 % of kids 0-5 years of age have some type of vision condition. The child should then have another eye examination at age 5. At this time up to 25% of kids have some type of vision condition compared to 13% at age 3. All parents are encouraged to have their children’s eyes examined for amblyopia and other problems that may not be obvious to you or even you child’s teachers. After age 5, children should have yearly eye examinations to maintain good binocularity and 3D vision while their depth perception is developing. One survey of more than 7,000 children 6-11 years of age showed that 9.2% had an eye muscle imbalance, a disease condition, or other abnormality in one or both eyes. Another recent study found that 15% of those students entering high school had nearsightedness. So what if your child doesn’t mention any problems? What are some signs to look for? If your child loses place while reading, avoids close work, holds books closer than normal, tends to rub their eyes, has frequent headaches, turns or tilts the head, squints, uses a finger to maintain place while reading, omits or confuses small words when reading aloud and/or consistently performs below academic potential, then they could be suffering from an undiagnosed vision issue. Most children don’t know what “normal” vision is and just assume how they see is how the world should look. So let’s make our children’s future brighter by making sure they don’t miss out on the important things today. OP
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hope floats
always appreciate the small things Lee, Gina & Dylan Goatly. Photo by Jason Tanner.
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ina and Lee Goatley of McLean County know how important it is to always appreciate the everyday small things they get to do with their son Dylan. Gina says that even if her kitchen is dirty or other tasks needs to be completed, if Dylan wants to play a board game, she stops everything to sit and play with him. This is because Gina and Lee know that their time with their son is precious. Dylan, age 19, was born with DiGeorge syndrome (also known as 22q deletion syndrome) and doctors told the Goatleys that he would never walk or talk or be normal in any way-- that he wouldn’t live to see his first birthday. At age one, doctors informed the Goatleys not to expect Dylan to live to be 5 years old. So his parents definitely cherish all the time they have with their son.
What is DiGeorge Syndrome?
DiGeorge Syndrome is caused by a missing piece of chromosomal material on the 22nd chromosome and passed on by parents with the disease. However, it can only be detected through genetic testing. This genetic disorder occurs in one in 2000 live births. No two people are known to have the same symptoms. Over 180 anomalies may accompany a diagnosis of DiGeorge including heart defects, feeding and swallowing issues, breathing issues such as asthma, gastrointestinal disorders, hearing and orthopedic impairments, autism spectrum disorders and learning differences. Dylan was diagnosed at the age of 6 weeks, and Gina quickly learned that few resources were available to parents of
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children with the disorder. When she researched in a medical library, she was only able to locate one paragraph in a book that addressed this syndrome. This paragraph also indicated that the ultimate outcome of DiGeorge was death. Even today there are few physicians who are familiar with the disorder, so Gina and Lee must drive Dylan to Nashville monthly to see a doctor at Vanderbilt Hospital. But Gina knows that with appropriate medical intervention, DiGeorge does not have to be a devastating diagnosis. However, despite the fact that there are now three Facebook pages along with conferences, support groups and medical information on the Internet, many people are still unaware of the existence of DiGeorge Syndrome.
Missing Pieces
Therefore, in an effort to educate parents and build awareness of DiGeorge in our community, Gina joined Ashlee Hamby of Henderson, who has a four-year-old daughter with DiGeorge, to form “Missing Pieces,” a support group for parents and families of people with this syndrome as well as other genetic disorders. At their monthly meetings, the group invites guest speakers who help parents understand IEP’s (a student’s specialized education plan for school), Michelle P waivers (a program allowing individuals with developmental or intellectual disabilities to remain in their homes rather than be institutionalized), and other issues parents with special needs children face on a daily basis. Gina also likes to share the successes of her son and other children in the group so that parents can see that there is a
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light at the end of the tunnel, and she wants people with younger children with DiGeorge to know that there is help available to them, as well as things their children can do to flourish and be involved in our community despite their exceptional needs. One thing she is most proud of is that Dylan goes daily to the Hugh Edward Sandefur Training Center (HESTC) located in the Wendall Foster Center where he attends a work program for people with mental and cognitive disabilities and is paid for the work that he accomplishes. This serves to build Dylan’s self esteem and confidence. The group welcomes and invites anyone who would like to attend their meetings the fourth Tuesday of each month at 6 p.m. in the Cigar Factory Mall complex, room #199.
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Missing Pieces will be holding a free public event on Saturday, August 25th from 4 - 7 p.m. at Panther Creek Park. Many different community resources will have representatives present to answer questions and offer information on a number of special needs issues. Nailed Too, a contemporary Christian/Southern rock band will entertain while attendees and their children can play in the bounce house, have their faces painted, or participate in the cake walk. Food and refreshments will be provided free. At 6:30 p.m., environmentally friendly balloons stuffed with information about DiGeorge syndrome will be released in the hopes that someone will find the information and contact the group with questions or pass the information on to someone who needs it. Everyone is invited to be involved by coming out and making it a family-fun evening. Remember to bring your lawn chairs to comfortably enjoy the band. Last year they had about 100 attendees and they hope to greatly exceed that number this year. OP
Dedicated to Awareness Ashlee Hamby, one of the founders of “Missing Pieces” successfully lobbied to make the week of August 25th “DiGeorge Syndrome Awareness Week” in the state of Kentucky. A mother in the state of Colorado quickly followed Ashlee’s example and was able to have the same week designated in her own state.
Casey Hamilton is the mother of two blessings, a daughter and son (ages 10 and 6). She is the Education Coordinator and an instructor at Owensboro Community & Technical College.
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the all-new
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smothersPARK Smothers Park Grand Opening Schedule Be a part of the biggest event in downtown Owensboro! Thursday, August 23, 2012 7:00 p.m. Col. Shelton Freedom Memorial Rededication Ceremony A small portion of the park will be open for this ceremony to honor the men and women who have fought to ensure the freedom that we enjoy today. Friday, August 24, 2012 5:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Smothers Park Grand Opening Live entertainment featuring Mudd River Union on the River Overlook at the west end of the park 5:30 p.m. Playground and Spraypark Opening Celebration Don’t miss the chance to be a part of the celebration as Smothers Park is opened for the first time. We will kick-off the festivities at 5:30 when the spraypark is officially opened for kids of all ages to enjoy. 6:00 p.m. Launching of the Fountains To kick off Friday After 5, the Mayor will launch the signature fountains on the west end of Smothers Park for the first time.
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6:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Friday After 5 presented by the City of Owensboro at the RiverPark Center Experience the best of FA5 with the Louisville Crashers on the RiverPark Center patio, Woodabenz in the UniFirst Courtyard, and displays by the Owensboro Police Dept., Owensboro Fire Dept., and Owensboro Public Works Dept. down the new Veterans Blvd. Saturday, August 25, 2012 8:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m. Static Displays and Open House at the Owensboro Regional Airport Get up-close and personal with the aircraft and enjoy the opportunity to meet some of these amazing pilots. 1:00 p.m. Owensboro Air Show All eyes will be on the skies over the Ohio River in downtown Owensboro as performers showcase vintage aircraft and amazing aerobatic maneuvers.
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facebookphotos It’s our birthday-- the big ONE! We asked you to send us photos of your child celebrating his/her birthday. Covered in cake? Opening their presents? Perfect! These are a few of our favorites!
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behind the billboards A story about the Buckle Up for Megan Campaign
{ by: danny may }
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ife for the family of Megan Miller was forever changed in
10,000-member milestone, which is quite an accomplishment,
an instant. Now, six years later, the Miller family remains
because it means the Millers can now accept donations through their
committed to their seat belt campaign in hopes of saving others from
Facebook cause. But first they need to file the paperwork to acquire
going through the same pain they endured.
a Federal I.D. number for non-profit status to be officially known as
By now you’ve seen the “Buckle Up for Megan” billboards along
Buckle Up For Megan Miller. Inc.
the bypass, down Frederica, and all over town. You may have even seen the Millers featured in the Kentucky Office of Highway Safety’s
The Beginning
commercials on TV or noticed one of the 2,000 or so stickers on the
back of cars and trucks.
morning. Megan and her younger sister Morgan had just left
“All of those things,” Mischelle Miller, Megan’s mother, says,
church and were heading toward Hwy 54 on the bypass when the
“are meant to be little reminders for people to buckle up. We just try
car suddenly started swerving and flipped several times. Morgan had
every way we can think of to get that message out. The way we see it,
her seat belt on and only suffered minor aches and pains. Normally,
if one person sees a billboard or a sticker or a t-shirt or whatever and
Megan wore her seat belt too. But for some reason she didn’t have
remembers to wear their seat belt, then we’re making a difference.”
hers on that morning. Consequently, she was thrown from the car
One of the earliest efforts to spread the “buckle up” message
and suffered fatal head injuries.
was setting up a cause on Facebook. With the support of Megan’s
Daviess County High School, where Megan was a junior,
friends and family, numbers skyrocketed, recently surpassing the
immediately started urging their student body to remember to
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The morning of March 19, 2006 started as a normal Sunday
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buckle up. Megan’s friends started handing out “buckle up” stickers
schools and out in the community. Partnering with Keith Todd, the
and t-shirts at school and the campaign was born.
media director for the Kentucky Transportation Department, and
Making a Difference
Cory King with the State Police really took things to the next level. That’s what got them access to rollover simulators and crash
Just one month after Megan’s wreck, another DCHS student
test dummy suits they use at their events. The newest thing is a
wrecked and flipped her car. This time, though, the student did have
“texting and driving” simulator to raise awareness about the dangers
her seat belt on. Amazingly, she had a “buckle up” sticker on her
of texting while driving. Recently, they set up a mock crash in
car, which flew off during the wreck and landed in her floorboard.
Whitesville and took the rollover and texting simulator to Union
The administration had that car brought to the school lawn and
County High School. There was also a mock crash set up at Apollo,
displayed “saved by the belt” on the marquee.
but it was canceled because of a bad storm, which gave Mischelle the
Mischelle’s first “event” happened purely by circumstance.
opportunity to speak to the entire senior class.
Mothers Against Drunk Driving (M.A.D.D.) had a booth set up at DCHS to hand out key chains and bracelets,
Community Involvement
but they also had some seat belt information as
well. Someone called Mischelle and told her she
up booths at Reid’s Orchard Apple Fest for
should come sit at the booth too. Soon after, the
the past six years, Friday After 5 several times
group that became known as “Lifesavers” formed
and sponsored a float in the Christmas parade.
with the help of Carrie Kimbrell as the faculty
They’ve also presented at the Noon Optimists
advisor.
Club and the Big Rivers Safety meetings.
Beyond school events, the Millers have set
“Lifesavers really took off in 2008, the year
“The thing is, people my age and older, we
that Megan would have graduated,” Mischelle
were raised not having to wear our seat belts,”
recalled. “There were a lot of members that year,
Mischelle explains. “It wasn’t a law in Kentucky
mostly Megan’s friends and of course Myles
until the month Megan died. So anytime we can
and Morgan (Megan’s brother and sister), so we
talk to adults it’s just as important because they
started planning lots of events.”
can take the message and be an example to their
Those events grew to include seat belt checks, mock crashes,
kids, grandchildren, nieces, nephews or whatever. If we can touch
rollover simulators and information booths at community events.
just one person, then we’ve made a difference. And then they take
This year the Lifesaver Club has a core group of around 40 students
it home.”
who help plan events, make giveaways and handouts and volunteer
The Millers hope to continue to find new ways to partner with
to work the booth at events.
other community organizations to remind people to buckle up. A
Eventually, the Lifesaver Club began scheduling events in other
yard sign campaign is also in the works.
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Recognition
It’s easy to see how focused and determined the Millers are about
their cause. Because of their relentless effort, the Office of Highway Safety has recognized them for several state and national awards. The first was the “Public Advocacy Award” in 2007, just one year after Megan’s death. Then in March of 2009, they were presented with the “Drive Smart Kentucky Highway Safety Award.” The most prestigious came in 2011, when they received the “Outstanding Public Service Award” plaque from the National Highway Safety Administration at halftime during a UK Football game.
Another great honor came as a complete surprise to Tim and
Myles, who were treated to pit passes at Kentucky Speedway for last summer’s NASCAR Truck Series race at Sparta. Tim sells parts to a company called Flexco, who is a sponsor for Kyle Busch Motorsports. The owners of Flexco arranged for Kyle Busch to meet Tim and Myles, and then used their advertising spot on the side of Kyle’s truck to display a picture of a “buckle up for Megan” billboard instead. Kyle told them he was honored to drive for their cause and that night his wife even tweeted about being touched by the Miller’s story.
The buckle up campaign is obviously a love-driven passion for
the Miller family. But six years into it, I get the sense they are just getting started. The awards are nice, but it’s not about that. It’s about constantly reminding people to make a life-saving decision. It’s also a way to find purpose, meaning and closure.
“I miss her like crazy,” Mischelle concludes, “but I’ve found peace
because of what we’ve done. It’s helping me grieve. Somehow it helps me get past it. I know that she’s by my side. And we can’t quit now.”
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Danny May is a husband and father of two boys. He is also the youth minister at Our Lady of Lourdes, where his family sits two pews over from the Millers every Sunday.
Get involved! To learn more about Megan Miller’s story and find out how you can contribute to the cause, visit: http://www.causes.com/ causes/131734-buckle-up-for-megan
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character
counts Hoping to instill such qualities as responsibility, respect, fairness, and citizenship, these officers have designed and implemented several programs for local kids. { by: ashley sorce }
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or officers Sean Schlachter and Jeremy Henry, a day on the job
successful person,” Officer Schlachter said.
can be spent with little guys, not bad guys. As crime prevention
Brett Conder, 8, is a student as Owensboro Catholic K-3 campus.
officers and D.A.R.E. instructors, Officers Schlachter and Henry
He has been in OPD’s Officer Friendly program since kindergarten
lead awareness and character programs aimed at local students.
and has been impacted by these two OPD officers.
“These students are our future leaders,” Officer Henry said.
“They teach us how to be safe and healthy,” Brett said. “I’m
“They will become city council members, business owners and
trying to be a role model and help others.”
medical professionals.”
program, but more than that, he remembers time spent with the
Hoping to instill such qualities as responsibility, respect, fairness,
Brett remembers the lessons he learned in the Officer Friendly
and citizenship, these officers have designed and implemented
officers as fun.
several programs for local kids at Owensboro Public Schools and
Owensboro Catholic Schools.
gave up their time to help teach us.”
“If they have these characteristics, it will mold them into a
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“It means something really special to me,” Brett said. “They It is responses like these that make these awareness programs
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worth it for Owensboro Police Department.
local police officers focusing on character and leadership.
According to Michael Hathaway, Public Information Officer, no
taxpayer money or departmental funds go to these programs. The
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department relies solely on the D.A.R.E. Golf Scramble to fund all
A police-training program, where students volunteer their time
of these youth programs.
to train in real life situations that local police officers face. This
But Hathaway contends that these are some of the most
program gives them a first hand opportunity to see if becoming a
important programs the department can provide.
police officer is something they wish to pursue.
“We are building character, but also allowing kids to get to know
law enforcement in a good way,” Hathaway said.
LAW School (Learning Athletics Wellness) This is an afterschool program, allowing OPD police officers to
Character Counts
connect with 4th graders, showing that officers are the good guys
OPD implemented this program last year for the first time, highlighting six pillars—responsibility, trustworthiness, respect,
and are there to help them.
fairness, caring and citizenship. The program stresses interactive
Juvenile Diversion
activities like role playing to help teach lessons based on these six
Designed to help kids age 12 – 15 that have been charged with a
pillars.
minor offense, this program promotes lessons on bullying, anger management, decision making, drugs and suicide. Completion of
D.A.R.E. (Drug Abuse Resistance Education)
this program wipe the teen’s slate clean for their first offense.
A police officer-led series of classroom lessons that teach children in 5th and 7th grade how to make better decisions, resist peer pressure
Officer Friendly
and live productive, drug- and violence-free lives.
For elementary age students, this programs puts police officers in schools to promote recognition and awareness.
Camp Kops (Kids Obtaining Positive Structure) OPD officers host a camp for 25 – 35 kids from 4th to 7th grade interested in law enforcement. Typically, these students come from
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an underprivileged background and get to spend a few days with
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august 2012 Informing parents about fun, local events is a priority for Owensboro Parent. Our magazine compiles events from across the city and county. So when your family is looking for something to do, check out the Owensboro Parent calendar, where you will find information on local events, including event descriptions, locations, dates, times and price. Want to include your event? Contact the editor at ashley@owensboroparent.com.
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 1
FRIDAY, AUGUST 3
family. Two teams of 20 will race each other
MINI MOVIE – IMPACT EARTH Come to
MINI MOVIE – THE BODY CODE Come to
roughly 100 meters down the Ohio River in
StarLab and learn about comets, asteroids and
StarLab and learn about DNA and how our cells
Dragon Boats; 11 a.m. - 5 p.m.; English Park;
meteors at the Science & History Museum;
function at the Science & History Museum;
For more details contact (270) 926-1100 or
11 a.m.; 122 E. 2nd Street; (270) 687-2732 or
11 a.m.; 122 E. 2nd Street; (270) 687-2732 or
owensborodragonboat.com.
owensboromuseum.com.
owensboromuseum.com. FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE!
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
Visit the library every Saturday morning from
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
activities with a focus on literacy and school
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
THURSDAY, AUGUST 2
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Legally Wired (Pop Rock &
“ALMOST, MAINE” See event description on
MINI MOVIE – ICE WORLDS Come to StarLab
Dance Band) on the BB&T Plaza; Heath and Molly
Friday, August 3.
and learn about ice on Earth the its role in the
Eric in the Courtyard; Street Fair: Dragon Boat
eco-system at the Science & History Museum;
Festival Preview; 6 -10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or
11 a.m.; 122 E. 2nd Street; (270) 687-2732 or
fridayafter5.com.
SUNDAY, AUGUST 5
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
SATURDAY, AUGUST 4
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
OWENSBORO DRAGON BOAT FESTIVAL
FREE OWENSBORO PARENT BIRTHDAY BASH Come help us celebrate our first birthday! It’s hard to believe that we will soon be printing our 12th issue, celebrating one year in business serving the Owensboro community. What better way to celebrate than with a one year birthday bash? We want everyone to join in the party. Join us at the RiverPark Center from 4 p.m. to dusk. We will have fun events for the whole family, including a magician, balloon animals, inflatables, face painting, sidewalk chalk, birthday
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Come one, come all! The second Owensboro
cake and vendor booths.
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
Dragon Boat Races will be fun for the whole
We will also be announcing the winner of OPM
owensboromuseum.com. “ALMOST, MAINE” Romantic comedy set in the U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
mythical town of Almost, Maine at Trinity Center
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
by Theatre Workshop of Owensboro. Shows Fri
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
& Sat evening at 7 p.m., Sat & Sun matinees at 2
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
p.m. 270-683-5333
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
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Family of the Year as well as signup forms for the
TUESDAY, AUGUST 7
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 After Midnight (Classic
next CoverKids contest.
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
70s Rock Dance Band) on the BB&T Plaza; Darby
Plan to end the night with the Sunday Movies On The River hosted by the RiverPark Center. FREE SUNDAY MOVIE ON THE RIVER “Cars II” on
Haas in the Courtyard; Gospel on the River with Stillwater Quartet, Sons of the Father, and Jeremy Calloway; Street Fair: Ag Night. 6 -10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or fridayafter5.com.
the BB&T Plaza at RiverPark Center; 8 p.m.; 101 Daviess Street; (270) 687-2787 or riverparkcenter. org.
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 8
Bike Trails at Ben Hawes Park host their first race.
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
The Kentucky Point Series race is included in
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
MOUNTAIN BIKE RACES The new Mountain
SATURDAY, AUGUST 11 FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational activities with a focus on literacy and school
determining the State champion; contact Richard.
readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Dixon@bwplmp.com
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
“ALMOST, MAINE” See event description on Friday, August 3.
THURSDAY, AUGUST 9 FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
LANHAM BROTHERS JAMBOREE an interactive
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
might become part of the show. Tickets are $10
MONDAY, AUGUST 6 FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
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family show with lots of music, dance, skits, and crowd interaction. You never know when you for adults, $5 for 6 to 12 years old, and 5 and
FRIDAY, AUGUST 10
under are free. All tickets are general admission and sold on our website www.lanhambrothers.
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always
net or at the door. Our show is at the Diamond
free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255
314-4331.
Lake Resort theater, 7301 Hobbs Road; 7 – 9 p.m.; Group tickets may be purchased by calling (270)
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family fun MONDAY, AUGUST 13
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Bone Pony (High Energy
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
Rock) on the BB&T Plaza; Straight Laced in the
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
Courtyard; Street Fair: Date Night. 6 -10 p.m.;
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
(270) 687-2787 or fridayafter5.com.
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. AUDITIONS FOR OWENSBORO DANCE JOHNSON’S DANCE STUDIO REGISTRATION
THEATRE, INC. COMPANY AND APPRENTICE
SATURDAY, AUGUST 18
Kids Inspired will be there both days with all
COMPANY for the 2012-13 30th anniversary
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library
your dancewear and shoe needs. Classes
season. Audition is for intermediate to advanced
every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00
begin Tuesday September 4; Registration
dancers 11 years and older, be prepared for ballet
for self guided fun and educational activities
from 1 – 6 p.m.; For more information email
and jazz class; 4 – 6 p.m.; at company school,
with a focus on literacy and school readiness;
johnsonsdance@gmail.com or call 270-684-
Johnson’s Dance Studio; For more information
Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.;
9580.
email odt1982@gmail.com or call 270-684-9580.
dcplibrary.org.
TUESDAY, AUGUST 14
FREE MULTICULTURAL FESTIVAL A unique
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
THURSDAY, AUGUST 16
blending of cultures come together to educate
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
the public through dancing, music, ethnic
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
fashions, food, arts and more. A celebration of
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
our diversity; First Presbyterian Church lawn,1328
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
Griffith Avenue; 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.; (270) 684-1467 or visit www.firstpresbyterianowensboro.com.
JOHNSON’S DANCE STUDIO REGISTRATION
FRIDAY, AUGUST 17
THE BIG O MUSIC FEST The best time in
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
Owensboro, will feature Country Superstar Blake
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 15
Shelton, Tracy Lawrence, Gloriana, Joanna Smith
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
and LoCash Cowboys. Tickets can be purchased
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
through the website; Gates open at noon, with
See event description on Monday, August 13.
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
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family fun performances beginning at 1 p.m.; Held at Reid’s
Sunday evenings at Bellevue Baptist, 4950 State
6 - 8 p.m.; Owensboro Christian Church, 2818
Orchard, 4812 Highway 144; bigomusicfest.com.
Route 56 (past Southern Star).
New Hartford Road.
FREE CONCERT ON THE LAWN Join the OSO
THE BIG D (DIVORCECARE FOR TEENS) was
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
for a night of movie hits featuring vocalist Rick
created to promote a teen’s journey in healing,
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
Bartlett. Event is FREE, although reserved tables
identifying the hurt from divorce, and then
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
for eight can be reserved in advanced for a
challenging them to find the strength to confront,
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
charge; Pre-show activities start at 5 p.m.; (270)
accept and heal from those hurts. Through
684-0661 or theoso.com.
challenging the denial often associated with
SUNDAY, AUGUST 19
their parents’ divorce, and helping the teen push
TUESDAY, AUGUST 21
through anger issues, the Big D can help lead
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
teens into the freedom necessary to understand
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
DC4K (DIVORCECARE FOR CHILDREN) is a
and experience true forgiveness. The Big D is for
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
13-week program designed to help children of
teens aged 13-18. For more information, email
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
parents going through a divorce to begin the
Amber Survant at rsurvant@aol.com or Bellevue
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
healing process and move forward in their lives.
Baptist Church at 685-5103. Sessions will be held
DC4K provides your children with a safe and
at 5:30 p.m. on Sunday evenings at Bellevue
neutral place to recognize and learn to share their
Baptist, 4950 State Route 56 (past Southern Star).
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 22
feelings. Each session is filled with motivating
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
and exciting activities which include games,
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults
role playing, discussion times, and journaling.
MONDAY, AUGUST 20
Music CD’s, snacks, and stories help children
WORLD’S GREATEST BABY SHOWER All new
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
relax as they find help and encouragement in
and expectant mothers are invited to attend
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
each session. DC4K is for children 5-12 years of
on August 20! Car seat safety checks available,
age. For more information, contact Tami Neel at
prenatal and newborn care tips, special guest
tgn2247@gmail.com or Bellevue Baptist Church
speakers, local exhibitors, refreshments and door
at 685-5103. Sessions will be held at 5:30 p.m. on
prizes. Mothers are welcome to bring one guest;
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family fun Parks Department re-opens the beautiful
at Yellow Creek Park; Alumni & Friends Tent City
raise awareness about 22q/DiGeorge Syndrome;
riverfront Smothers Park. The park will contain an
Meet & Greet in the Corporate Center parking
Panther Creek Park; 4 p.m. – 7 p.m.
iconic fountain, Lazy Dayz (an outdoor children’s
lot; and an Extravaganza on Saturday evening
museum & playground), a spray park, and the
at The Hines Center. For more information, visit
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library
new home of the Shelton Memorial. Included
FoundationForDCPS.org.
every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00
in the festivities will be an exciting Air Show. For
for self guided fun and educational activities
more information, contact the Park Department
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 The Louisville Crashers
with a focus on literacy and school readiness;
at (270) 687-8700 or visit owensboroparks.org.
(All-Round Party Band) on the BB&T Plaza;
Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.;
See page 28 for an exclusive look at the park!
Woodabenz in the Courtyard. Street Fair: Grand
dcplibrary.org.
Opening of Smothers Park; 6 -10 p.m.; (270) 687FREE STORYTIME WEE READ for ages 2 and
2787 or fridayafter5.com.
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
BANJOS & BRUNCH Fundraiser for Habitat for Humanity held at the Southern Star headquarters,
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
FREE SMOTHERS PARK GRAND RE-OPENING
4700 Highway 56. Call 270-684-3955 for more
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
See event description on Thursday, August 23.
information.
FRIDAY, AUGUST 24
SATURDAY, AUGUST 25
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
OWENSBORO AIR SHOW As a part of the Grand
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
Re-Opening of Smothers Park, the Owensboro
DCPS ALUMNI & FRIENDS FEST 2012 See event
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
Air Show will have displays of the aircraft at the
description on Friday, August 24.
always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
airport before putting on a thrilling show over
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
the Ohio River. For complete performance information, visit owensboroairshow.com.
DCPS ALUMNI & FRIENDS FEST 2012 The
FREE SMOTHERS PARK GRAND RE-OPENING See event description on Thursday, August 23.
MONDAY, AUGUST 27 FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
Foundation for Daviess Co. Public Schools
2ND ANNUAL HOPE FLOATS Hosted by Missing
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
sponsors an Alumni & Friends weekend.
Pieces Support Group. Enjoy a cake walk, bounce
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Beginning at Friday After 5 on the 24th, and
house, face painting, food, a live band and a
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
continuing on Saturday the 25th with a 3K Run
balloon release. Bring a lawn chair and help us
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family fun TUESDAY, AUGUST 28
Lunch and snacks will be provided. Entry fee
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 2
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
$50 per player, $200 per team; Ben Hawes Golf
FREE SUMMER MOVIES ON THE RIVER “Puss ‘n
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
Course; Contact Officer Henry at 687-8825 or
Boots”, on the BB&T Plaza at RiverPark Center;
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
Officer Schlachter 687-8826.
8 p.m.; 101 Daviess Street; (270) 687-2787 or
always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must
riverparkcenter.org.
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 29 U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
are free, unless they are the only child, adults
MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 3
always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
FREE STORYTIME WEE READ for ages 2 and
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 The Velvet Bombers
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
(Classic Rock & Soul Party Band) on the BB&T Plaza; Jubalson in the Courtyard; Gospel on the River in Cannon Hall with Crossmen Quartet,
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 6
THURSDAY, AUGUST 30
The Greesons, and Firm Foundation; Street
FREE STORYTIME WEE READ for ages 2 and
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Fair: Brescia Bash; 6 -10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
fridayafter5.com.
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 1 FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE!
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 7
FRIDAY, AUGUST 31
Visit the library every Saturday morning from
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 The Rigbys (Beatles group)
D.A.R.E. GOLF SCRAMBLE An event benefitting all Owensboro Police Department youth prevention programming. Prizes will be awarded for first place, second palce, logest drive, longest putt.
10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational
on the BB&T Plaza; Andy Brasher & Guests in the
activities with a focus on literacy and school
Courtyard; Street Fair: Pet Night 6 -10 p.m.; (270)
readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020
687-2787 or fridayafter5.com.
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