Owensboro Parent - May / June 2019

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Contents

Super

MaOnMd S DADS!

33 Super Moms & Dads Meet the six parents we chose for our SUPER Moms & Dads contest

IN EV ERY ISSUE

8 From the Editor 9 Around OBKY 10 Student Spotlight 12 Parent Profile

KE EPING IT REA L

44 Pet Photo Contest Winner Meet Daisy Mae—you won't want to miss her hilarious interview!

14 Hashtag Momfail I wish my kids could be pool rats 16 Your dog, your protector Real life with Lora Wimsatt 18 Insight from an Ordinary Dad Snoopy meets a brontosaurus

MAK ING IT

20 Being Intentional Simple parenting resolutions for the overstressed and overstretched

23 Mother's Day & Father's Day crafts This year, try these handmade alternatives for a heartfelt gift 26 Mother's Day Treat What mom doesn't deserve breakfast in bed?

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28 Cookin' Up Some Fun You have to check out this one-of-a-kind playhouse that only cost $200.

PAWS-ITIV ELY PERFECT PETS

46 Sit, Stay, Smile Check out some of our favorite pet glamour shots 48 DIY Planter Recycle an old soda bottle for this adorable, cat-themed planter 52 Will Work for Bones Meet Watson, CASA’s emotional support dog 58 Homemade Dog Treats Your pooch is sure to love these snacks 62 Local Options for Adoptions Where to adopt cats and dogs 66 Bring Fido Learn all of the pet-friendly restaurants in OBKY

D ISCOV ER

71 The Reading Nook There is nothing better than reading with your child. Here is a must-read list for the season.

74 Drink More Water Expert advice from pediatrician Dr. Shanna McGinnis 76 Parental Control We answer your most difficult parenting questions

OUT & ABO U T

77 Calendar 11 things to do this summer 84 Kids Meal Deals

FROM THE REA D ERS

86 Best Buddies Photos submitted to our Facebook page.

89 Say What?

We asked: If you could go anywhere over summer break where would it be?

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WHAT ARE YOUR PARENTS' SUPER POWERS?

EDITORIAL DESIGN & PHOTOGRAPHY

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EDITOR

My dad's superpower is speed. When he's in work mode, he's like the Flash.

And my mom's superpower is definitely listening.

My whole life I've seen so many people confide in her and come for advice or a listening ear.

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Ashley Sorce CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Christina Dalton Jamie Johnson Scott Kenworthy Danny May Shanna McGinnis Melody Ann Wallace Lora Wimsatt COPY EDITOR

Ashley Gleason Do you have a story idea? We want to hear from you! Email your suggestion

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

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Andrea Roberson

My mom's super power is healing— she was the best at taking care of me when I was sick. My dad is the hardest worker I've ever known, so I'd say his powers are strength and courage.

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Jamie Alexander

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Some of Taylor's favorite things: from the publisher “Okay, but we’re not going to make any rush decisions and we’re definitely not bringing a dog home today.”

Those were my words to my wife, Katelyn before we got out of the car at the Owensboro Humane Society.

I don’t remember exactly when we started entertaining the idea of getting a dog, but this particular Sunday we decided to go take a look at the available pups. If you ask Katelyn, she’ll be the first to tell you that I’m a classic overthinker. I almost never make a decision without sleeping on it, and something as big as this was going to be no different.

I’ll save you the suspense—not even two hours later we were home with our new 70-pound, 2-year-old, whoknows-what-breed-mix, Harvey. So much for sleeping on it.

My dog's face. On socks. Probably the coolest gift my wife has ever given me.

Katelyn said all she had to do was upload a picture to the website, pick a style, and they took care of the rest. I may not be able to take my dog to work, but oh, I can wear him. My coworkers may or may not have caught me wearing them two days in a row...

Katelyn and I discovered this game a few months ago on a trip to Denver to visit some friends. Between any two cards there is always one and only one matching symbol and the first one to spot the match wins. I recently made the mistake of teaching my 5-year-old niece how to play. She's gotten so good I'm convinced she lets me win every now and then.

“Okay, but he’s not sleeping in our bedroom,” I said when we were deciding where he should snooze at night. We settled on letting him sleep in the hallway outside our door. Two nights later he was snoring on the floor right beside our bed.

“Okay, but no way is he going to be allowed in our bed.”

You can probably see where this is going. As I sit here writing this, my feet are propped up on a sleeping Harvey who is—you guessed it—taking up half our bed.

I’ve turned into a total dog dad, and I’m proud of it. I joke that dog hair is now my favorite accessory and appetizer—if you see me out and about there’s a 100% chance I have white dog hair on me, and I’ve given up trying to get all the hair off my dinner plate. For all you other proud pet parents, we hope you enjoy our special pet section where you’ll find plenty of wag-worthy photos, homemade treat recipes, and stories about miraculous animals.

Not necessarily one of my favorite things, but definitely one of Harvey's. He found this ball in our backyard the first day he came home with us. The past owners of our house must have left it when they moved out. It’s old, dirty, and barely bounces anymore, but it’s still the only toy Harvey shows any interest in (or hasn’t destroyed).

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This issue we also feature three moms and three dads whose family and friends nominated them as SUPER parents. Each with their own powers and sources of strength, these heroes stop at nothing to protect and care for the ones they love.

Whether you’re raising furry family members or little humans at home, Happy Mother’s and Father’s Day from all of us at Owensboro Parent Magazine. Thanks for letting us celebrate with you.

Ever since I took photos of beekeeper Jeff Hagan for last year’s June issue of Owensboro Living, I’ve been stung by a fascination of bees. I think I’ve read about every book the library has to offer on bees and honey and I’m currently working through The Beekeeper’s Bible. I don’t have any hives of my own yet, but I’m hoping to change that soon!

AROUND OBKY

DCHS INDOOR WINDS ENSEMBLE CAPTURES WORLD CHAMPIONSHIP

The Daviess County High School indoor winds ensemble was named Independent Worlds Champions at an international competition on Sunday, April 14.

DCHS competed against 35 ensembles from across the United States and world in Dayton, Ohio, capturing first place with a score of 92.35 in the finals.

Photo provided by DCPS

The ensemble is made up of 39 students from the larger DCHS Band of Pride. Indoor winds is a division of Winter Guard, which is an indoor version of marching band. Winter Guard International also includes indoor color guard and percussion.

Ensembles and groups advance to this level through success at regional competitions.

Ensemble director Nathan Clark said that in addition to class time, these students rehearse eight hours a week outside of class from November to April to prepare for this prestigious event. “These students have worked hard all season long and have really elevated their rehearsal etiquette, personal practice habits and leadership skills to grow our performing arts culture at DCHS to the world stage,” Clark said.

Photo contributed by Brad Rhoads

FIRST ANNUAL OHS JOB FAIR GIVES STUDENTS OPTIONS BEYOND A FOUR-YEAR DEGREE

The job fair at OHS focused on assisting students with a variety of possible career options after high school graduation. Faculty and staff members reached out to 15 different companies, giving students the opportunity to talk to local employers about their future. Many companies even provided job applications for students who attended.

Companies who set up shop at the fair were AK Steel, Aleris, Alorica, Daramic, Ernie Davis Plumbing and HVAC, Kroger, Mizkan Americas, Owensboro Health, Ross Medical, Sun Windows, TTMA, Tyson Foods, US Bank, Dairy Queen and Envision Contractors.

“I think it’s wonderful because some people are just not made for college,” said Envision Human Relations Specialist Robin Phillips. “This is the perfect opportunity for them. We tell them, ‘It’s a career.’ You can start as a laborer and move your way up to superintendent.”

Chad Grubb, Project Engineer at Envision, said there’s the potential for more money in jobs that don’t require a four-year degree, and that it’s important for students to have knowledge about those options.

“We need more operators, plumbers, HVAC technicians,” Grubb said.

“Those guys can charge whatever they want, so what would you rather do?

Would you rather go to school for four years, go work at a job five days a week and make…down here, or go straight out and get an apprenticeship and maybe open your own business down the road?”

REGISTRATION OPENS FOR DCPS DRIVER EDUCATION PROGRAM

Registration is now open for Daviess County Public Schools’ Driver Education program.

DCPS Public Relations Officer Lora Wimsatt said the class is open to all students who meet eligibility requirements, not just DCPS students. However, space is limited and spots will be filled on a first-come, first-served basis.

Although this enrichment class does not count toward graduation requirements or as part of the student’s GPA, State Farm Insurance Agent Drew Cunningham said that it qualifies for the driver training discount for those that complete the course.

The program is held June 3 through June 21 at Daviess County High School. The daily schedule and expectations are listed here.

Students must be 16 years old and have a driver’s permit to enroll in the class.

Registration is open online and will close on May 10. There is a $100 registration fee. No refunds will be made for students who begin this class and then drop from the program.

Photo provided by OPS

Payment of $100 made payable to Daviess County Public Schools should be mailed to Alexa Woosnam at Daviess County Public Schools, 1622 Southeastern Parkway, Owensboro KY 42303.

Payment should be mailed on the date that online registration is completed.

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Student Spotlight:

SARAH RICE is a seventh grader at Burns Middle School. She participates in cross country, track, and basketball. On the basketball team, she is a starter and a defensive specialist. Sarah consistently makes the A/B honor roll at BMS. Recently, she made the all A honor roll. Often chosen as a peer tutor in class due to her kindness and willingness to help other students, Sarah is a special young lady who truly exemplifies leadership at BMS. We’re proud she is a part of our Fox Family!

Submitted by Burns Middle School

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MADISON DOWDY has a heart of gold.

Madison gives of her time to regularly volunteer at Puzzle Pieces. Madison works with a special friend there named Jamie Hardin. Madison and Jamie spend time talking, doing art, watching movies, and playing games together. Madison’s father is a pastor here in Owensboro.

Madison regularly asks her dad if she can go visit people with him because she wants to brighten their day. Madison also goes above and beyond when it comes to acts of service at Sorgho School. Madison is a member of the Student Lighthouse Team and a student leader in Fellowship of Christian Athletes.

Madison actively participates in all the many service projects these clubs do.

She always has a smile on her face and is ready to serve others in need.

BROOKLYN WILLIAMS represents the best of the best at OMS-North. She is an Honors student who has maintained straight As in all of her classes which includes two high school level classes (Spanish I and Geometry), Honors Language Arts, Advanced Science, and Advanced Social Studies. She is involved in chorus, varsity volleyball, track and the 8th grade basketball team that just won their regional tournament.

Brooklyn is also involved in her church youth group and is a member of the National Junior Honor Society. Brooklyn is a quiet student who always does the right thing. She is extremely intelligent and talented, but what sets her apart is her impeccable character. She truly is the best of the best!

Submitted by Sorgho Elementary School

Submitted by Owensboro Middle School North

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PARENT PROFILE

Mario Vizuet TEL L US A B O UT YO U R FAM I LY?

I have been married for three years to Nicollette Vizuet, who works for the Owensboro Catholic Schools. We have our 1-year-old son, Braxton, and our second little boy due in September. Last, but not least, we have two dogs, Beasley, our English Bulldog and Harlow, our Boxer.

WHAT D O YO U D O A N D HOW LO N G H AV E YO U BE E N IN TH AT PO SI TI O N?

I am a Relationship Banker with Old National Bank. I am responsible for producing consumer loans, business and personal checking accounts and mainly building long-term relationships with customers. My goal is to make recommendations and to ensure their personal and financial needs align. I have been in banking for four years and in my current role for about two years.

HOW D O YO U FI N D B A L A N CE B ETWE E N WO R K A ND H O ME?

I rely on having a routine and a great partner like my wife. We make a great team! For example, I’m usually up by 4 a.m. to go to the gym, and while I’m at the gym my wife gets Braxton ready. By the time I get home from my workout, Braxton is ready to go to his grandma’s.

After 5 p.m., we spend time with Braxton and our dogs going on neighborhood walks and having family time. We have been so blessed to have amazing families.

Nicollette’s family is here in Owensboro and we are so thankful her mom keeps Braxton while we’re at work. When Nicollette’s family can’t keep Braxton I can just call my parents and they won’t hesitate to come all the way from Texas and watch him as long as we need.

WHAT I S YO UR FAVO R I T E FAM I LY ACTI V I T Y?

Our favorite family activity is our Sunday dinners. We get the whole family together, play outdoor games and cook our favorite meals.

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AN Y T IP S FO R OTHER WOR KING DADS? I feel like as a man, I struggle a lot with communication. I bought a couple of big calendars to write down any important dates for everyone to see and make sure we are all on the same page. Trust me, this helps a lot!

WH AT IS YOU R FAVORITE FAM ILY SPOT IN OWENSBORO? My favorite family spot is Smothers Park.

We are a very active family, and when weather permits we love to take our dogs and Braxton for a stroll downtown and then have some lunch at Mellow Mushroom, Bar Louie, Colby’s or Famous Bistro because they have a nice patio area.

YOU AR E R EL AT IVELY NEW TO OWEN SB OR O—CAN YOU T EL L U S H OW YOU CAME TO R ELOCAT E H ER E AND WHAT YOU T H IN K OF OWEN SBORO AS A FAM ILY-FR IEN DLY TOWN? My wife and I met about six years ago in College Station, TX. We moved to Chicago after I graduated from Texas A&M. After a year of living the city life, we decided to settle down and start a family. We couldn’t think of a place better than Owensboro. Three years in, we can honestly say moving to Owensboro has been one of the best decisions of our lives.

Owensboro has great schools, great people that care about the community and is definitely very family-friendly. I have been fortunate enough to join the executive board for the Chamber of Young Professionals, which has been an immense resource in finding friendships and connections in our community.

FU N N IEST PARENTING MOMENT? My funniest parenting moment would have to be the first time I changed Braxton’s diaper.

I was trying to clean him up and as soon as I reached for a new diaper, he proceeded to potty all over me and himself! I had to learn really quickly to have the diapers ready as soon as I change him!

Keeping it Real

R E L ATA B L E S T O R I E S F R O M L O C A L PA R E N T S A N D G R A N D PA R E N T S

Anna Lucy, age 4 • Photo by Jamie Alexander

All you need is love.

And lots of ice cream.

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KEEPING IT REAL • HASHTAG MOMFAIL

I Wish My Kids Could Be Pool Rats

By Jamie Johnson

Summer break is here! The kids and teachers are all cheering, and the stay at home moms are bracing themselves for three months’ worth of whining. Hence, why I could never be a stay at home mom. You all really don’t get the credit you deserve.

When I was younger, summer break meant one thing: the pool. That was back in the day, when you went to either Paddock, Darnek, Town & Country, Splash, Atlantis or the Country Club dependent on the location of your house and how far you were allowed to ride your bike without your parents finding out.

My family went to Darnek, then Atlantis after it closed. I remember my mom dropping my older sister and I off at the pool with approximately $3 in quarters and some beach towels. That was legal then. My sister was probably 9 or so and I was about 6.

We would spend the entire day swimming, sans sunscreen, and meet mom outside around 5 p.m., where she would pick us up after a day of watching soap operas, talking to her mom and sisters on the new cordless phone, and tanning in our backyard, away from the annoyance of kids. I would get in the back seat of the station wagon and my wet

skin would sizzle on the hot seats.

Now, if I said I was going to do that with my kids today, I would probably be arrested or at least get a few calls reporting me to child services.

Luckily, I work full time and don’t have to worry about entertaining my kids on summer break. My husband gets to do that because he is a teacher.

Disclaimer: I know that according to Pinterest, I should be upset that I can’t make arts and crafts with my two little boys and take them on a tour of the best places to go in Owensboro in melting heat. But I’m not upset. I’m totally OK with spending nights and weekends keeping them entertained.

I personally think that when weekends come around, I’m going to try and get my kids to do it old school like I did. I am going to confiscate all screens and throw them in the backyard with two bikes, a sprinkler, a water hose, a baby pool and $2 in quarters. I will also add in sunscreen because it’s 2019.

Will they survive? I honestly don’t know. I’m hoping they will embrace the freedom. Maybe pick up the other neighborhood kids for a late

night game of kickball. Run through the sprinkler over and over and over again. Make mud pits in the back yard and get into a screaming match about something completely ridiculous. Possibly ride their bikes to the closest McDonald’s to order cheeseburgers and Cokes with their quarters. (I’m just kidding on that one, they are only 4 and 1 and the youngest can’t even ride a real bike yet.)

But honestly, will someone open up our swim clubs again? I want my little boys to be pool rats. Those were the best days of my life. There was nothing like going off the high dive at Atlantis for the first time or watching the City/County Swim Meet on Channel 8.

So all you Oregon Trail parents like me, I suggest you throw the screens out the window – just joking, hide them in your closet because we know they were expensive to buy. Give your kids some freedom this summer and when they come outside and try to complain, yell at them to get outside and stay outside because you are trying to clean the house. When in all reality, you too are enjoying your freedom by binging on Netflix.

Until next time, Jamie OP

JAMIE JOHNSON is a full-time working mom to two little boys, wife to Logan, and part-time writer. Her pieces have been featured in HuffPost Parents, Motherly, Today Parents and PopSugar Moms. You can follow her blog at HashtagMomFail.com!

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KEEPING IT REAL

Your dog, your protector,

your teacher, your friend.

By Lora Wimsatt

H

e was by your side when you fell asleep at

around his neck absorbed your tears on those

night—and there when you woke up again in

lonely days when nobody else understood.

the morning. Even when your mom hollered, “Get

that dog off the bed!” you just patted the mattress

more time with friends—the two-legged kind—he

to encourage him to hop up and snuggle close to

still waited patiently for you to return home from

your side as the house grew dark and quiet. You

ball games and sleepovers. When you shoved him

slept peacefully, knowing your guardian would

out of the room when your friends came over, he

keep you safe from whatever monsters might be

took up his faithful post right outside your closed

lurking in the closet.

door, his snout resting on the rug as he pondered

what this new word “allergic” might mean.

He was right there when you learned to ride a

As the years went by and you started spending

bike, hovering alongside back in those days when

it took all your concentration to make the pedals

long hours at the window, listening for the sound

go around in the right direction and steer away

of your car from miles away.

from the parked cars. When you fell to the sidewalk

in a slow-motion, wobbly crash, he worriedly

the occasional weekend, he couldn’t jump as high

licked your skinned knee...and his eyes shone with

as he used to, but he still wriggled with excitement

encouragement as you untangled yourself from

and yelped with joy as you came through the door,

the spokes and got up to try again.

suitcase banging against your legs, and when you

reached down to scratch his ears, the look you saw

He darted excitedly ahead as you explored the

Then you went away to college, and he stood for

And when you came home for the holidays or

woods at the far end of the subdivision, dashing

his eyes was love, pure love.

excitedly after the bunnies and squirrels and

splashing with wild abandon through the shallow

home. He wasn’t getting any better. The vet had

waters of the creek, but always darting back to your

done all he could.

side as you picked your way through the weeds and

The time had come.

wildflowers.

You drove home. Your throat was tight and the

road was blurry.

He nestled close to your feet under the dinner

Then came the day when you got a call from

table, dutifully cleaning up any accidental spills

You opened the door. Your parents were

of peas and carrots, and happily snapping up the

standing close together. Your dog—your friend—

occasional reward of meat loaf.

was lying on his old familiar blanket in the old

He zoomed in ecstatic circles, leaping to

familiar corner. Your dad described how his tail

impossible heights when you came home from

started to wag—slowly, weakly—as your car

school every day. He didn’t care about your algebra

pulled into the driveway; you’ve never heard your

grade; it didn’t matter that your ceramics project

father’s voice sounding so hoarse.

collapsed in a heap; and never mind that all your

books fell out of your locker in an embarrassing

of comfort. Those gentle brown eyes looked up at

avalanche just as your crush walked by. He was just

you, the pain replaced for a moment with gratitude

happy to see you, the most wonderful person in all

just for your very presence.

the whole wide world.

the meaning of unconditional love, a love that lasts

Those floppy ears always perked up, ready

to listen to your secrets, and that thick ruff of fur

You knelt down on the floor, murmuring words

And for the first time, you began to understand

forever.

OP

LORA WIMSATT is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.

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KEEPING IT REAL • INSIGHT FROM AN ORDINARY DAD

Snoopy Meets a

Brontosaurus

By Danny May

Y

ou can learn a lot from a 9-year-old.

bottles. And the twos weren’t terrible at

I need to do better at responding

The other day Beau was explaining to

all for me. Having teenage boys (in a few

because I want more than anything

me that a Brontosaurus was never really

short years) doesn’t intimidate me a bit.

to model appropriate behavior and

a thing. Which blew my mind because the

But I’m straight struggling with these

responses, ESPECIALLY as my little guys

Brontosauras was my favorite dinosaur

tween years.

approach middle school.

when I was a kid. But I did some research

and Beau is right: apparently the guy who

on myself when the “family life” guy who

“discovered” the Brontosaurus actually

writes a dad blog can’t even figure his own

put the head of a Camarasaurus on the

kids out. But that’s just my own stinking

body of an Apatosaurus and claimed

thinking.

it was a brand new species he dubbed

“Brontosauraus,”

“thunder

were meant to be—perfect for our kids.

lizard.” The name was too cool to go away

Because we’re not perfect people to begin

that my oldest will be in sixth grade

even after scientists found and corrected

with.

next year is messing with me a little

the mistaken identity.

And that’s okay, as long as we’re

bit too. Sixth grade was my worst year

So the Brontosaurus never existed,

learning.

emotionally. So watching my son walk

even though the false image lives on so

into that world is not fun for me because it

vividly in our minds.

the information we have at the time.

brings up a lot of dormant fear. But it’s not

I can’t parent my 11-year-old the same

fair for me to project that onto Luke and I

Day coming up I’ve been thinking a lot

way I did at 5 and 7. And my reactions to

definitely don't want to parent out of fear.

about what my boys are teaching me—

some tough situations at home recently

about the world and about myself.

have not been ideal. So lately I feel like I’m

failing more than I’m winning.

feels confident. In that way, we’re sort

meaning

I mention this because with Father’s

I’m realizing this image we have in

And it doesn’t help the pressure I put

The truth is we can’t be—and never

All we can do is the best we can with

But at least I can honestly say I’m

It helps when I realize that in this case

true power also lies in recognizing that God is still fathering me as I’m fathering my boys. I have a lot more to learn, but He isn’t done with me yet.

Subconsciously, I wonder if the fact

I want to appear confident so Luke

of walking through this together and in

our minds of being the perfect parent for

our kids is just like that Brontosauraus; it

doing my best and trying to do a little

never existed in the first place.

better everyday. One day at a time.

This parenting thing is a moving

target. These little people are constantly

the other day. It was a picture of Snoopy

changing, which means we as parents

with a quote that said “When you can’t

must constantly ”up our game” to stay

control what is happening around you,

my 11-year-old, too—about myself, which I

ahead of them. Every few years is a

challenge yourself to control the way in

can only hope is exactly what he needs in

different stage with new situations and

which you respond. That is where your

the long run.

issues.

true power lies.”

Maybe that makes me perfectly

I was pretty good at diapers and

imperfect after all.

A friend of mine texted me a screenshot

Now that’s a clever dog.

some weird way I’m parenting my inner sixth grade self (who still feels scared sometimes) at the same time I’m parenting Luke.

So it turns out I’m learning a lot from

OP

DANNY MAY is a regular contributor to Owensboro Parent. He and his wife, Kelly, are raising two very active boys, 11 and 9.

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KEEPING IT REAL

BEING INTENTIONAL

Simple Parenting Resolutions for the Overstressed and Overstretched

By Scott Kenworthy • Photo by Jamie Alexander

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"The days go by slowly, but the years

well as with our son. It also helps us be

night with him monthly, and a father-son

pass quickly." If you had to capture the

intentional.

retreat with him annually.

emotional rollercoaster of parenting in

›› Keep my word.

one sentence, that might be it. The stress

helps us keep track of our weeks with a

›› Be present, especially for meals,

of any given day can leave parents feeling

jar of marbles. It’s a gift given to all new

bedtime, and events.

defeated. The pressure of the years can

parents. We set our jar in our son’s room

make us overwhelmed.

and since he was born on a Wednesday,

›› When I mess up, say, “I’m sorry.”

every Wednesday we remove one marble.

The best parenting advice I have

The community we’re a part of

›› Make him laugh, give him a hug, and tell him, “I love you,” at least once each

received is to fight against getting

too high or too low and instead be

time you have left?

intentional with the time I have. That

same person encouraged my wife and I

prepared to give birth to our first child,

not to think of parenting as a stretch of

I came up with a list of resolutions I

year on his birthday that casts a vision

unending days or a set of limited years,

wanted to guide my parenting. These are

for his future.

but to look at it as a series of manageable

inexpensive or even free commitments

›› Talk regularly about my faith.

weeks.

anyone can do. A year later, I’d like to

What are you going to do with the Last Father’s Day, as my wife

day. ›› Identify and develop shared interests. ›› Give him a hand-written letter each

share that list with you. While these are

you’ll have with your children between

written from a father to a son, they could

this list as points of accountability for

the time they’re born and the time they

easily be adapted for any parent-child

my relationship with my son. Of course,

graduate high school? Nine hundred and

relationship. There simply my way of

my list isn’t exhaustive. You can borrow

thirty-six, give or take. That’s…

being intentional with the limited time I

some of these or come up with your own.

›› 936 Saturday morning cartoon

have.

Parenting isn’t a one-size-fits all job and,

Do you know how many weeks

sessions. ›› 936 Sundays at church.

›› Pray with and over him daily.

›› 936 Wednesday pizza nights, Friday

›› When speaking, always look him in

movie bonanzas, or whatever else you

eye and never be condescending.

like to do as a family.

›› Love his mother in such a way that if one day he treats his wife the same, I will

I don’t know about you, but for

be proud.

I have and hope to continue using

of course, no two kids are the same. But in every case, the stakes are high. You are shaping a life and you have a limited, but manageable, window to do so.

So, hang in there. The days certainly

go by slowly, but the years pass quickly.

me and Sarah that helps put time in

›› Speak value, strength, and courage

Be intentional. What can you do this

perspective. We no longer have to panic

into him each day by affirming

week to invest in your child? You have an

over a bad day, nor stress about how

something I already see or proclaiming

awesome responsibility. I hope you have

fast the years fly by. Perspective allows

something I believe to be possible.

an equally awesome Mother’s Day and

us to be gracious with one another, as

›› Have breakfast with him weekly, man

Father’s Day.

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SCOTT KENWORTHY has served as the lead pastor of Owensboro Christian Church since 2013. He and his wife, Sarah, were born and raised in Indianapolis, 10 miles apart, but met in Knoxville, TN. In his free time, he enjoys sports, reading, movies, board games and quoting 90s sitcoms.

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Making it Mother's Day gift?

Nailed It!

By Ashley Sorce • Photos by Jamie Alexander

This Mother's Day craft is sure to make mom's heart happy! Not too time intensive, this art piece will take some help from an adult.

CRAFTS, RECIPES, AND ACTIVITIES FAMILIES CAN ENJOY TOGETHER

WHAT YOU NEED:

INSTRUCTIONS:

›› piece of wood—whatever

Hammer the brad nails about 1/4

dimensions you want

inch apart around the perimeter.

(pictured is 12-inch by 12-

Make a heart shape out of scrap

inch)

paper and place in the center to use

›› white paint

as a guide. The nails for the heart will

›› brad nails (pictured are

be closer together—just eyeball it, no

3/4 inch)

need to be perfect. This does need

›› hammer

to be done by an adult.

›› yarn in whatever colors you would like

Wrap the yarn around the nails,

›› scrap paper

alternating colors as desired.

MOTHER'S DAY IS SUNDAY, MAY 12

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FATHER'S DAY IS SUNDAY, JUNE 16

From Dad's

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Trace your little super hero's hand along the crease of a folded piece of paper. Cut out the hand outline so to make a card. Decorate the hand like super hero of your choice.

ASHLEY SORCE is the staff writer for Tanner Publishing Co. and editor of Owensboro Parent. She enjoys everyday adventures with daughter, Avery (7), and son, Reed (4).

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Mother's Day Breakfast Tart Photo and recipe by Jamie Alexander

W

ith Mother's Day approaching,

This recipe can be made with small

DIRECTIONS:

it's good to have a plethora

hands, as long as they get help from

›› Preheat oven to 350°

of breakfast ideas for the woman

a guardian when it comes to the food

›› Add oats, coconut, nuts, and seeds

that deserves breakfast-in-bed. If that

processor and oven! That makes this

to a food processor, and pulse until

a perfect breakfast treat for mom (that

crumbled.

the kids are sure to enjoy as well).

›› Add in honey, coconut oil, vanilla

woman is you, prepare to do some heavy hinting because this healthy recipe is absolutely delicious! Call it a granola tart, a breakfast pizza, or a

extract, and salt, and pulse again until WHAT YOU NEED:

combined.

CRUST:

›› Press your crust mixture into tart

fit any diet. If you're vegan or can't

›› 1 1/2 cups rolled oats

tins (I used mini-tart tins, but you can

have dairy, just replace honey with

›› 1/2 cup shredded coconut

also just use one large one. If you

pure maple syrup and use a dairy-

›› 1/2 cup nuts

don't have the type of tins that have

free yogurt. If you're watching your

›› 1/2 cup seeds (use another 1/2 cup

removable bottoms, make sure to

carbs, replace the oats with more nuts

nuts if preferred)

lightly grease the tins first to make it

and seeds and try a stevia nectar or

›› 4 tbsp honey (or pure maple syrup)

easy to remove). Make sure you've

another sticky sweetener that is lower

›› 1/4 cup coconut oil, melted

tightly pressed the crust into each tin -

›› 1 tsp vanilla extract

about 1/2 inch thick.

›› pinch of salt

›› Bake for 15-20 minutes. You want

yogurt pie. Whatever you want to call it, this tasty recipe can be adjusted to

on the Glycemic index.

The toppings and crust can both be matched to your preference. Any type

your crust to be golden brown, but TOPPINGS:

not burnt.

›› 1 1/2 cups Greek yogurt, plain

›› Remove and let cool.

any type of nut or seed in the crust, as

›› 1 tbsp honey

›› Mix your Greek yogurt, honey, and

long as you keep the same amounts. I

›› 1/2 tsp vanilla extract

vanilla before topping the mixture

used chia seeds, hemp hearts, pecans,

›› Any extra add-ons (fruit, chocolate,

onto the cooled crusts.

and almonds in mine.

etc)

›› Add any "extras" that you'd like!

of fruit or topping can be used with your yogurt, and you can switch out

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JAMIE ALEXANDER is a nationally-published portrait and commercial photographer, Tanner Publishing Co. staff photographer, and owner of JAA Studios.

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MAKING IT

Cookin' Up

Some Fun!

By Ashley Sorce • Photos by Jamie Alexander

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hen Brent and Jamie Elder saw a house come on the market in Hancock County that was near family,

they jumped on the chance to move in 2017. They lived in Owensboro and this move would allow them to not only be close to Brent’s family, but also raise their son Tennyson, now 4 years old, in Hancock County, which is where they both grew up. Jamie is a registered nurse with Owensboro Health Medical Group Maternal Fetal Medicine under Dr. Tabb, and Brent is a supervisor at Aleris.

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Their new home in Hancock County had two sheds

chalkboard menu and tons of play food and dishes give

in the backyard, one of which was going to need some

countless menu options. And the entire converted

work if they were going to continue to use it. The

shed is pulled together with a 50s diner feel—a

Elders decided to tear it down. But Jamie said they had

white and black checker floor and stools and a bar for

just visited The Children's Museum of Indianapolis

outdoor seating.

and they had some pretty cool play places for kids

that Tennyson—who they call Tenny—loved. One in

Brent used an old swing set for the frame of the cofee

particular, an ice cream parlor, was Tenny’s favorite.

“Brent got the idea that instead of just tearing

down the old shed, we could tear down the bad wood and turn the rest of it into a playhouse for Tenny,” Jamie said. “Tenny liked to pretend to serve us food in the house and we had a ton of play food so Brent decided to give the playhouse a diner theme.”

Transforming the old shed into “Tenny’s Diner”

only took a couple of days less than $200, Jamie said.

About a year after the diner, came the Starbucks.

shop structure. And the rest came from scraps of other projects.

“We were going through a Starbucks kick at the

time,” Jamie said. “Tenny loves the Vanilla Bean Crème Frappuccino, which he calls ice cream in a cup. So we thought he would get a kick out of having a Starbucks to go along with the diner.”

Outside isn’t the only place the Elders encourage

Most of the materials were scraps from other projects.

their son to use his imagination. When it's rainy

outside, they have Tenny Toymart in his playroom, set

“Brent was the creative mind behind it, but his dad

was probably more of the carpenter,” Jamie said.

up like a toy store ready for his parents to shop.

Tenny’s Diner has a built-in booth to sit at plus an

“We have a little metal shopping cart and a

additional table, which Brent upcycled from an old

checkout counter that Tenny will ‘ding us out’ at,”

Lego table. Features like the counter, complete with a

Jamie said. “At Halloween, Brent turned the playroom

cash register, phone, and quarter machine give Tenny

into a haunted house. There is always something

plenty with which to pretend. Kitchen details like the

going on here!”

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S M MaOnd !

S D DA In the almost eight years of magazines, Owensboro Parent has recognized a lot of kids. This issue, in honor of Mother's Day and Father's Day, we decided it was time to acknowledge Mom and Dad. We took to Facebook, asking our loyal readers to nominate the SUPER Mom and Dad in their lives—a friend, a neighbor, a co-worker, their own mom or dad or even their children. We received an overwhelming amount of nominations, each Mom and Dad with an amazing story. It was tough, but the Owensboro Parent staff narrowed it down to these top 3 SUPER Moms and Dads. Thank you to those who nominated and thank you to the nominees—you're all SUPER in our book! Thanks also to the sponsors listed below who donated items to the prize packages!

Sponsored by

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SUPER MOMS & DADS

MANDY BLYTHE BAM! day job: Stay at home mom. Formerly a 5th grade teacher

son. She is amazing at juggling everything that life has

at Deer Park Elementary, Mandy resigned from her job to

thrown at her.

stay at home and care for her daughter with cystic fibrosis.

Superpower:

She is literally Superwoman, according to

Sidekicks: Brantley, 2.5 and Hensley Rose, 6 months

her nominator. She has overcome so much in the short

Mission: Mandy's passion for people is very inspiring. She

six months since her daughter was born. She was hit hard

thrives to be the very best at everything she does.

with the news of her daughter's diagnosis—not knowing exactly what it was at first and then finding out that there

Source of Strength:

is currently no cure for CF. She prayed and has never lost

system. Her strength comes from the power of prayer by

her faith in God. Not only does she have to care for a child

all of her loved ones. She may not realize it but so many

with special needs, she also has to care for her 2-year-old

people find their strength from her.

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Mandy has an awesome support

day job: Firefighter/EMT for Owensboro Fire Department,

Mission: His passion is to always work hard to provide for

owner of trucking company, and small farmer

his family and show his children how important a great work

Superpower: His super power is being able to multi-task so

ethic is and provide a loving home to for their families in the far future as well.

well between family and work.

Sidekicks: Emma, 2.5 years old and Oliver, 4 months old.

Villains faced: After trying many other entrepreneurial journeys, Patrick began a trucking business while on his off days at OFD, and it has sprouted over the past seven years. He

Source of Strength: According to his wife, Courtney, Patrick thinks very highly of his dad and grandpa. This is because his father is a businessman who has worked hard to provide for his family. He has always been there to support Patrick's crazy ideas, she said. His grandpa was a very hard-

continues to run the business with the help of his wife while

working, hands-on type of man that provided for his family.

also being on the fire dept. There have been lots of obstacles

He is who Patrick learned his farming and building skills

like any business, but he always finds a way to do what's best

from. Patrick ended up with both of those amazing men's

for his family and keep his wife from stressing so much.

traits and more, Courtney said.

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day job: Children's targeted case manager with RiverValley

her life she finds a way to remove barriers to be successful in

Behavioral Health and home study caseworker for All

both her family and career life.

Blessings International

Superpower:

Mission:

To help make the world a little brighter. She

The uncanny ability to motivate her children

naturally inspires others to see their potential by encouraging

to do chores. Perhaps it's telepathy in that she uses her mind

them to follow their dreams. She models gratitude for all you

to communicate with theirs to see the value in hard work. Or,

have, and in that, helping those who are less fortunate than

maybe it's that she's super at displaying leadership.

you. She's incredibly passionate about serving orphans of the world because, as she says. "Every child deserves to go to bed

Sidekicks: Hensley and Hollis Hannah. In 2010, she became

at night knowing that they are loved and wanted."

the adopter to her first child, Hensley who was born in her heart in Ethiopia. While finalizing his adoption she would see

Source of Strength: Draws from those around her. Hensley,

another child, a girl, Hollis, also in Ethiopia, who would also

Hollis, family, friends and co-workers. This is because she

steal her heart and would bring her home a few months later.

feels lifted up on a daily basis and she wants to pay it forward and do the same for others. She looks up to many successful

Villains faced: She faced the villain of complacency. If she's

and passionate women, especially those who have a zealous

not pleased or satisfied with an outcome or circumstance in

love of life, and wants to share that with others.

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JEREMIAH NOVEMBER day job: Foreclosure department at U.S. Bank

ZAP!

Mission: After losing his dad at a young age and just recently losing his father-in-law, his biggest mission is to give his kids

Superpower:

Jeremiah is The Joker. He always keeps his

the best life he can give and to leave them with a legacy. He

family laughing and makes everything fun. He loves to play

loves that his kids look up to him as a role model and because

around and have fun with the kids but he is a firm believer in

of that, he strives to be the best husband and father he can be.

“work hard, play hard.� Anytime he is left alone with his kids there is always music, dancing and laughing.

Sidekicks: Son, LaDainian, is 10 and daughter, Emerie is 5.

Villains faced: Jeremiah was a adopted as a young boy and

He is a firm believer that a strong, loving marriage translates into a happy and secure household which will provide the kids with everything they need. He works hard to teach his kids core values that will help them succeed in life.

Source of Strength: Family gives him strength, according to his wife, Shelbi. His marriage and his children motivate

lost his dad shortly after. He focused on school and sports

him to be the best that he can be every day. His main focus

throughout his childhood and joined the Navy after finding

is to provide his family with the best life that he can which

out he was going to be a father at a young age. He was

keeps him strong through everything that life throws at him.

honorably discharged a few years later and has worked at U.S.

"He is definitely the rock of our family and we all rely on him

Bank now for six years.

even more than he probably knows," Shelbi said.

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POW!

SUPER MOMS & DADS

CHRIS CHRIS NUGENT day job: Owensboro Insulaters

spirit and a smile that melts hearts. Chris has stayed by her side without fail. He has loved her, protected her, cherished

Superpower:

Chris has the uncanny ability to be able to

focus on what needs to be focused on and not worry about what is happening in the moment.

Sidekicks: Gabriel, Caleb and Hannah Nugent. "From the

her, and honored her in the most amazing ways."

Villians faced:

Chris has fought against the enemy,

literally. He has done four tours in Iraq and Afghanistan. He has faced fear and death in the face and fought to prevail.

moment we found out we were expecting Hannah to now,

Mission: Chris stands for freedom and the hope of a better

Chris' hard-core Marine heart has never been the same,"

tomorrow.

said Chris' wife, Felicia. "You see, when God gave us Hannah he gave us an adventure that only few get to experience.

Source of Strength: Chris gets his strength from Christ.

God gave us a medically complex little girl with a warrior

He looks up to his dad and admires the man his father is.

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day job: Super server and dancer at Texas Roadhouse Superpower: Making everyone feel as if they are the most important and loved people in the world.

Sidekicks:

Her Fantastic 4 (Jackie, Tracy, Krissy, Jessica),

her Trusty Dozen (Jordan, Dylan, Emily, Amanda, Brennan, Griffin, Peyton, Kasey, Travis, Kailey, Hayden and Mayson),

working two jobs to support them)

Mission:

Making others happy; she strives every single day

to make a positive influence on everyone she meets. She has invested herself into all of her children rather they are her biological children or her adopted children from her job, her kids friends, etc. She has a passion and love for animals and is just a gentle, loving, soul who cares for everyone and everything.

and her Half Stacks (Addison, Treyce, Maddux, Maxleigh Jo, and Fatu) and of course, Isabella Sunshine aka The Diva Bella.

Villains faced:

Source of Strength:

Her mother. Her mom was also a

superhero who passed down the crown to her. She finds Dr. Death (losing her own mom), Agent

Knockout (raising four daughters as a single mother and

continued strength in her children and grandchildren, they are her Sun and Moon.

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Gift Ideas

from our sponsors 1 Studio Slant is a one-of-a-kind lifestyle boutique located in the heart of Owensboro next to Wesleyan Park Plaza. They offer a bridal registry with popular brands such as Kate Spade, Juliska, Mariposa, Waterford and Happy Everything. Plus Studio Slant offers monogramming, free delivery and free gift wrapping, which is sure to send you away looking like a gift giving rockstar.

2 Peacocks & Pearls offers beautiful, fun ladies' clothing, accessories and jewelry, in a relaxed and serene atmosphere. Timeless style and affordable fashion for women of all ages. You are sure to find the perfect gift for any mom. Not sure what to get her?

A Peacocks & Pearls gift certificate will allow the special mom in your life to pick out exactly what she wants.

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3 Hill View Farm Meats is a hometown business that prides itself on producing the highest quality meat products. The dad in your life will love Premium Black Angus products that were raised on a farm right here in Daviess County.

4 Shoe Stop Does your dad need to ditch his old or worn-out work boots? Does your mom need the perfect heels to complement her new party dress? Step out of the box by visiting Shoe Stop this Mother's Day or Father's Day.

5 Old Hickory What dad doesn't like BBQ? Old Hickory's awardwinning BBQ sauce is a perfect gift for dads that like to grill. Your dad not a chef? No worries—gift cards make a great Father's Day gift. Either way, dad can enjoy some of Owensboro's best BBQ.

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SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION

PAWS-ITIVELY

PERFECT PETS

Photo by Jamie Alexander

Pets hold a special place in a family's home. Our fourlegged friends become less like pets and more like a member of the family. That's why we were excited to offer the first ever Owensboro Parent Magazine Pet Photo Contest presented by Kentuckiana Animal Clinic!

In this year's contest, we had 41 total entries—38 dogs, two cats and one pig. We put their adorable photos online and had over 1,200 votes come in.

Meet our winner, Daisy Mae, and her family on the next page.

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How old are you?

Not that it’s any of your business, but I’m seven in human years.

In your winning photo it looks like someone caught you snoozing. Do you take a lot of naps?

Oh definitely. I’d say I sleep at

Meet Daisy Mae

Winner of our pet photo contest!

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least 20 out of 24 hours a day.

What’s your favorite thing about your family?

They accommodate my picky eating habits. Wet dog food, warmed up in the microwave. Just the way I like it.

And your least favorite thing about your family?

They know I don’t like to exercise yet they always make me walk up the stairs. Pick me up already!

But I have to have my sock monkey friend beside me. No sock monkey, no snoozles.

Do you have a favorite place to go in Owensboro?

I usually like to stay close to home. A walk around the neighborhood is just fine with me.

What’s something you wish you could tell your humans?

I do NOT like to be held like a baby. I’m talking to you, Kinslee.

You’re quite the model. Do your humans take a lot of photos of you?

Gosh, yes! Mom’s always using Snapchat filters on me.

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SIT, STAY, SMILE!

Come on, how can you not love these adorable faces?!

Here are some of our favorite pet glamour shots from our photo shoot at Kentuckiana Animal Clinic.

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DIY Soda Bottle

Cat Planter

If you're a cat-lover that also needs more houseplants on the windowsill, look no further! These cute DIY planters are easy to make and look great in your home. Not only can you and your kids customize these planters to look like your favorite feline, but they are also a great way to reduce waste by upcycling old soda bottles! Once you follow the first steps in the instructions, you can hand the planter over to your kids to let them draw a face or color the cat planter in any way they choose. If you do have a cat in the house, make sure to use plants that are safe and non-toxic for your pet!

SUPPLIES: ›› ›› ›› ›› ›› ›› ›› ›› ›› ››

soda bottle (can be any size - I went with 2 liter and 24 oz) spray paint Sharpie marker paint pens scissors Xacto knife cat-safe house plant gravel/soil optional: acrylic paint optional: sandpaper

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INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Peel the label off of your soda bottles, then draw the outline of your cat with a sharpie. ›› Cut out your planter using an Xacto and/or scissors (whatever is easiest for you). I recommend cutting below the sharpie line since it might show through the paint. Make sure to cut a small hole out of the bottom of the planter for drainage.

Check MEOWt!

›› Once you have the shape cut out, check to make sure you didn't leave any sharp edges. You can sandpaper the edges to make them smooth. ›› Use the spray paint to paint a base coat on your planter (may take two coats). If your bottle was clear, you should only have to paint the outside. ›› Now that your planter is prepped, children can draw on their own faces with paint pens, or even paint more patterns using acrylic paints. ›› When your planter is finished and dry, pour a bit of gravel at the bottom of the planter before adding your plant and any extra soil the plant may need.

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ADVERTORIAL

Unique is our Middle Name

By Bernie Hale, OCTC

O

wensboro Community & Technical College is unique in that we are one of the youngest of the 16 community and technical colleges across the state, and as an organization, we pride ourselves on being unique and innovative. In our region, state, and even nationally, we have several programs exclusive to OCTC. These programs include, Healthcare Facilities Leadership (HFL), Tech X, GO Careers, the Alternative Fuels Initiative, the Advanced Manufacturing Technical Education Collaborative (AMTEC), and Veterinary Technology.

HFL was developed in conjunction with the American Society of Healthcare Engineers and has degree, certificate, and diploma credential options focusing on support systems at healthcare facilities. Tech X is a short-term program focusing on adult learners who need skills upgrades to gain employment in the manufacturing sector. GO Careers is a business program in a “work and learn” format. The alternative fuels initiative is taught in the Automotive and Diesel Technology programs. AMTEC provides a nationallyrecognized training and certification solution that can lead to improved processes, reduced operational costs, greater efficiency and productivity for employers.

The OCTC Veterinary Technology program is the only one of its kind in the Kentucky Community and Technical College System.

Technical programs are expensive to fund as start-ups and OCTC was fortunate to be awarded a Coal Severance grant in 2015 to support those initial expenses to launch the Vet Tech program.

Housed at OCTC’s Downtown Campus, the Veterinary Technology Teaching Hospital is second to none, boasting an array of x-ray, dental, and surgical equipment for a variety of animal species. This teaching hospital was a long-held dream of program coordinator, Dr. Eddie Leach who began his second career, teaching, after more than 28 years working in the field as a veterinarian. Completing the team are Jacqueline Siljander, and Tara Groves, Licensed Veterinary Technicians who bring a myriad of experiences to the team.

In addition to the teaching hospital OCTC has a Large Animal Facility on the main campus, currently home to two retired thoroughbred horses, Dunny and CJ. Having access to the horses allows the students to gain additional hands on experiences.

Accreditation was an important step in building the programs credibility and accountability. The OCTC program is accredited by AmericanVeterinary MedicalAssociation (AVMA), and it is a selective admissions program, with a competitive admissions process, and a limited number of seats available. A unique opportunity presented

itself back in September of 2018 when Harrison College, a private for-profit college in Evansville, Indiana unexpectedly closed, leaving the students in the veterinary technology program without a way to complete their education.

The OCTC Vet Tech program hosted an open house for former Harrison College students in the Veterinary Technology and 23 of those displaced students are now enrolled in OCTC’s Veterinary Technology program.

“These were students that through no fault of their own found themselves in a position with limited opportunity to complete their degree. We were excited that our faculty and administrators were able to accommodate them. The fact that they will all have the opportunity to finish their degrees is a testament to everyone working together” commented Dr. Scott Williams, OCTC President.

Four former Harrison students moved from the Indianapolis area to Owensboro. Those students along with five others from the Evansville campus are all on track to graduate in May 2019. The other 14 students joined the first-year student cohort and will work to complete the program by May 2020.

While both programs were accredited by the AVMA, the process was not a simple one. The OCTC Vet Tech program faculty and department head worked to review each course individually and met with a subject discipline expert to ensure the students had the knowledge and experience needed for credit conversion.

Dr. Stacy Edds-Ellis remarked, “It was a very tedious process, but worth the time and energy to serve the students who are so excited about their future profession. I am proud of how we worked together to meet this need.”

“We are fortunate that we have the lab and classroom space to accommodate two full cohorts running simultaneously. We have seen increased interest from southern Indiana and from the Louisville area, since we are now the only accredited 2-year option for veterinary technology in a 100-mile radius,” added Dr. Eddie Leach, Program Director.

With the addition of the former Harrison College students, the OCTC Veterinary Technology program has students from more than (12) counties in Indiana and (15) counties in Kentucky.

OCTC’s Veterinary Technology program classrooms and the teaching hospital are located at the Downtown Campus, 1501 Frederica Street.

For more information about the admissions requirements or the OCTC Veterinary Technology program, please contact jacqueline.siljander@kctcs.edu or eddie.leach@kctcs.edu.

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Will Work for Hugs (and Bones)

By Melody Wallace • Photo by Jamie Alexander

MEET WATSON, CASA’S EMOTIONAL SUPPORT DOG

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hat child doesn’t love cuddling a stuffed animal when they are feeling lonely or afraid? But what if that stuffed animal came to life and provided

genuine affection and real cuddles at that child’s most stressful and emotional time? At CASA of Ohio Valley, Watson, the nonprofit’s emotional support and therapy dog, does just that.

About CASA Founded in 1996, CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) of Ohio Valley is a nonprofit child advocacy program that focuses on serving the children and families of Daviess County by recruiting and equipping caring community members to become child advocate volunteers.

According to their website, CASA “exists to promote

and protect the best interest of children who have been abused or neglected by providing trained, court-appointed, adult volunteers to advocate for their safe, permanent and loving homes where they can thrive.”

Choosing Watson Rosemary Conder, executive director for CASA, is constantly in search of forward-thinking ideas and practices that can ease the family court process and best meet the needs of the children involved.

Two years ago, Joelina Merritt, former bookkeeper

turned Goldendoodle breeder, began bringing in photos to the office of the puppies they were breeding at familyoperated Brook and Bay Goldendoodles. Rosemary said this opened up a conversation about the disposition of these particular dogs, who tend to be docile and loving, as well as loyal and beneficial to those with allergies.

Joelina and her husband donated a puppy for a CASA

fundraising event, which one of the board members was able to purchase. Again, this sparked conversation about how wonderful and loving this particular breed of dog was.

However, it wasn’t just the breed itself that Rosemary was drawn to, when she first saw a photo of Watson, she knew that was the dog for CASA.

“I just had an immediate connection to him,” Rosemary

said. “He just had the sweetest face. I said, ‘What if we got him and trained him to be a CASA therapy dog for kids in court?’ So, of course, my board was all on board for that.”

Rosemary said the team began doing research about

therapy dogs and how they were used in courtrooms

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across the country. One particular story in Florida stood out to Rosemary, about a judge that had a therapy dog under the desk where children would testify so the dog could lay with the child for emotional security. She said a tremendous number of articles began to surface of children having emotional support and therapy dogs in the schools to reduce some of the stress and trauma they experience in schools.

“We just really felt like it was the right timing,” Rosemary

said. “And Judge Gordon was very, very responsive to having a dog in her court.”

Watson at Work

Lovingly described as “a rug,” Rosemary said Watson’s

primary job may be a comfort to the children in family court, but he also has a secondary effect on everyone involved in the courthouse process.

“It’s funny to walk into the courthouse and immediately

get a response from the security officers checking you in, to the perpetrator sitting out in the hallway, to the attorneys and social workers just gravitating toward him and loving on him,” Rosemary said. “You can just see them kind of relaxing by touching him and petting him and talking to him. And then, of course, when he goes and plays with the kids or lays down by the kids, there is just something so calming about a calm dog. He’s just got such a sweet disposition.”

When he was about a year old, Rosemary began taking

Watson to the waiting area of family courtroom. She said that small children, who had been waiting with their foster mom for hours, immediately got down on the floor with Watson and began to play with him, and the environment in the whole room changed.

“I really think it’s a real thing,” Rosemary said. “It’s not

just for dog lovers. I just think that dogs have that unique connection to humans that has been going on for centuries.”

Rosemary said that there are always small children in

the courtroom that she feels a heartache for, but the one situation that touched her the most involved a 14-year-old girl who had been in and out of foster care her entire life.

She said that when she and Watson entered the family court waiting area, the young girl sat slumped down in a waiting room chair with her headphones on, disengaged from the world—until Rosemary offered for her to pet Watson.

“She was very jaded, very angry and very stand-offish

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Watson out of the corner of her eye.

“There was something in the way that he looked at her

and she looked at him—there was just this connection of calmness between them,” Rosemary said. “She sat up, took her headphones out and got down on the floor with him and he just laid his head across her leg. She put her headphones back in and just laid her head back—so serene. I don’t know that it changed her day—but it changed mine.”

Watson at Home

Although Rosemary knew instinctively that Watson

was the right dog for CASA and maintains the role of Watson’s handler at the office, she does not play the role of Watson’s parent or caregiver once he goes home for the day. While he may not live at home as part of Rosemary’s immediate family, caring for Watson has still become a family affair.

Rosemary’s sister Cindy and her husband, retired city and airport manager, Bob Whitmer, are Watson’s caregivers at home. Cindy and Watson share a birthday as well as a special connection.

“She has always just had this incredible emotional

connection to him, and him to her—he loves her like nothing I’ve ever seen,” Rosemary said. “They are actually his caregivers—he lives with them and they take care of him and love him. So he is a pet to them and therapy for the kids in court.”

Rosemary’s son Troy Ratliff is the owner and operator

of On the Go mobile pet grooming studio. So all of Watson’s grooming needs are provided free of charge as a donation to CASA.

Service vs. Emotional Support

Watson has been trained in both basic and advanced

obedience commands, is PAL (Purebred Alternative Listing) certified, has passed the canine good citizen test and has met all of the criteria needed to serve as a therapy dog. However, there is not a certified instructor in the area to submit the final test. Rosemary said, the test is not required and is more “bragging rights” than anything.

When most people see Watson in his blue CASA vest,

they assume he is working.

“It’s hard to take a walk with Watson because every

10 steps someone says, ‘Can I pet your dog?’” Rosemary said. “I love that everyone is so respectful, but there is a difference in a therapy dog, an emotional support dog and

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a service animal.”

a nursing home or hospital where

Not only has Owensboro proved

She said a service animal that has

they can go room to room and offer

to be pet-friendly, the Goldendoodle

a vest on is actually working for one

emotional support. Therapy animals

breed has found its way into both

person, so you are not supposed to

are not protected by ADA rules, so if

interact or talk with them while they

they go into an establishment, it is

are working. That animal also has

because they have permission to be

ADA (Americans with Disabilities

there.”

Act) rights in public places such as

She added that she feels very

the schools, aside from Watson,

airports, restaurants and stores—

fortunate that so many Owensboro

have come from Brook and Bay

anywhere that person can go.

businesses welcome dogs, yet, as

Goldendoodles, and Joelina thinks

Rosemary said an emotional

a rule of thumb, she does not take

that is the way it was meant to be.

support dog or therapy dog does not

Watson to places that serve food

have ADA rights and they are for any

just out of respect for the restaurant

person.

owner, unless they offer outdoor

seating.

“Watson is as much for you as

the City and County school systems.

Several

therapy

and

emotional

support dogs in the area and in

“He's [Watson] just a great dog,”

Joelina said. “He was just meant for CASA and Rosemary. It worked

he is for me,” Rosemary said. “They

“It’s a very pet-friendly town, so

out just perfect. Dogs are just good

are service animals in a different

we as pet owners have an obligation

therapy all the way around. I call

respect. You could take them into

to be respectful,” Rosemary said.

them therapy on four legs.”

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MELODY WALLACE is a former middle school language arts teacher and now works with Owensboro Times, sharing stories about the community she has come to call home. She has been writing since she was old enough to hold a crayon.

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Homemade

Dog Treats Photos and recipes by Jamie Alexander

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Fresh Breath Pupsicles

S

ummer is is (finally) almost here! If you and your dog are

doesn't eat watermelon seeds or

blueberries, pureed

rind to avoid an upset tummy. Both

›› 1/2 cup Greek yogurt, plain

planning on soaking up some sun

of these fruits are hydrating and

(unsweetened)

together, why not bring along a

packed with vitamins and a great

›› 2 tbsp fresh mint, chopped

refreshing treat to keep things

taste that will keep your dog happy.

›› Small silicone molds

cool? The best thing about these

The fresh mint can even aid in

"pupsicles" is that they also freshen

digestion! The only species of mint

your dog's breath when they eat

that a dog shouldn't ingest is the

them (and everybody knows the

European Pennyroyal (which is not

struggle with doggy breath is REAL).

your "typical" mint plant in America).

Not only will they help with stinky

Give these pupsicles a try during

breath, but they can also be

the dog days of summer. They're

beneficial in other ways! Yogurt is

easy to make and your dogs will

high in calcium and protein, and

love them! Just make sure to

›› Evenly spoon yogurt into each

some can act as a probiotic (make

consult with your veterinarian about

mold

sure you are getting unsweetened/

any changes to your dog's diet.

›› Pour the pureed fruit into the

Directions: ›› Puree your fruit in a blender. I chose to do two different kinds— make sure the fruit you use is healthy for your dog! ›› Chop up fresh mint leaves and place them in your molds

remaining space in each mold

sugar free). Watermelon and blueberries also have a lot of health

Ingredients:

›› Freeze at least four hours (or

benefits, just make sure your dog

›› 2 cups watermelon and/or

overnight)

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Pumpkin Peanut Butter

Biscuits Although your dog is probably happy eating just about anything, it still feels good to create a treat that you know is good for them. If you focus on creating healthy food for the rest of your family, why should your dog be any different?

W

hen you own a dog that has allergies, needs to meet specific dietary requirements, or you just want to know exactly what you're feeding your pet, you can't go wrong with homemade. Sure, making your own treats isn't as convenient as a stop to the pet store, but these treats are still incredibly easy to make and give your dog a nice nutritional boost. Keep in mind, every dog's nutritional needs are different. So while these treats have ingredients that are generally accepted as good for dogs, it's still a good idea to ask your vet what should end up in your pooch's bowl. These treats are specifically formulated to be gentle on your dog's system and add some great nutrients, but just like when you try 60 OWENSBORO PARENT

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out any new treat, you'll want to keep

Directions:

an eye out to make sure it agrees with

›› Preheat oven to 350°

your own dog's digestion! The most

›› Whisk together egg, pumpkin, and

important thing to watch for with this

peanut butter until smooth.

recipe is that you don't get a peanut

›› Mix in flour - if dough is too dry, you

butter with sweetener. Generally peanut

can add a bit more pumpkin

butter is a fine treat for a dog, but some "sugar free" peanut butters contain xylitol, which can be toxic to them.

Ingredients: ›› 2 cups whole wheat flour or brown

›› Dust your work area, and knead your dough into a ball before rolling our on your surface, around 1/2 inch thick ›› Cut out your treats with any cookie cutter you'd like, and lay out flat on a

rice flour

cookie sheet

›› 1 egg

›› Bake for 15 minutes, then remove

›› 3/4 cup unsweetened pumpkin

the tray and flip each treat over. Bake

puree

another 15 minutes.

›› 1/3 cup natural peanut butter (no

›› Make sure they're cool before feeding

sweetener)

your dog!

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Local Options for Adoptions

H

undreds of animals in Daviess County are without a loving family. Spread out in shelters, the humane society and foster homes, so many pets are longing for a better life.

If you are looking to add a furry friend to your family, there are several local options for adoptions.

Daviess County Animal Shelter 2620 KY 81

OWENSBORO, KY 42301 270-685-8275 The Daviess County Animal Shelter takes in the most animals in Owensboro and Daviess County.

Located on Kentucky 81, the shelter is always full of animals needing to be saved.

Daviess County Animal Control Director Ashley Thompson said adoption numbers went through the roof in early spring, after a post went viral claiming that the local animal shelter was out of kennel space. Thompson said the shelter isn’t full — rather, the shelter promotes adoption awareness when animals are close to being euthanized.

Right now, around 70 percent of unadopted dogs at the shelter are pit bulls or pit mixes The adoption fee is $100, covering surgeries the animal had, as well as vaccines and any and all medical treatment it underwent while in the shelter’s care.

“That’s a pretty good package deal you’re getting there,” Thompson said.

She said those looking to adopt should schedule an appointment to meet the animals at the shelter.

“Come out and spend some time with them,” she said. “The animals are much different out of their cages.”

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Saving Paws Animal Rescue Of Kentucky 270-684-4787

SparKy is a local, nonprofit, no-kill, animal rescue that takes a unique approach to animal rescue through the utilization of foster homes. These foster homes provide the animals with a loving environment.

The main difference about SparKy compared to other local shelters is they do not have an actual facility.

John Austin, president of SparKy, said this is great because they have little overhead and can focus on medical needs for the animals.

“We get no money from any government source and all of our income comes from donors or adoption monies,” he said.

Austin said the dog population remains consistent, but the number of cats and kittens fluctuate.

Many times if people are looking for a certain breed, you can find that breed in shelters, rescues, or even national breed rescues.

“If people were to adopt more instead of buying from a breeder, fewer animals would be euthanized,” Austin said.

“Saving lives in important. Many breeders are not always scrupulous and will breed indiscriminately causing animals to suffer and causing future health issues for the animals.

We have taken in several animals over the years that came from puppy mills. These dogs have numerous health problems and in many instances are starved for attention.”

Owensboro Humane Society 3101 WEST SECOND STREET OWENSBORO, KY 42301 270-302-6813 The Owensboro Humane Society believes that all animals are adoptable and in 1999, they decided to go completely

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no kill.

According to its website, “some will spend their remaining lives in our care. Even though we are small in size, we are big at heart. Our size and fund restrictions limit the number of animals we can rescue; however, we are dedicated to help as many animals as possible.”

Molly’s Mutts Animal Rescue 248 KY 983 • DIXON, KY 42409 270-213-5002 Cori Camp, Rescue Director at Molly’s Mutt’s, said they can only keep their doors open with donations from the community.

Camp said donations pay for their growing

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vet bills, to buy dog food for the rescue, to pay for a specific or costly medical treatment/procedure for a dog, or to purchase supplies for the rescue.

While they are located in Dixon, outside of Madisonville, Owensboro plays a big part in getting dogs adopted.

“Webster County does not have any petspecific stores,” Camp said. “Owensboro is one of the closest towns with a Petsmart, and we have quite a few adopters from the Owensboro area.”

The adoption fee includes vet exam, vaccinations, microchip, monthly heartworm prevention, monthly deworming, heartworm testing and treatment and spay/neuter.

Camp said the rescue is always in need of dog food, cleaning supplies, treats, blankets, beds and toys.

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15 Pet-Friendly Restaurants According to BringFido.com, these 15

Located on Owensboro's new

PizzAroma serves up a variety of

local restaurants are happy to serve you

Riverfront, next to Smother's Park, Fetta

delicious dishes, including calzones,

and your furry friend.

serves a delicious array of pizza by

strombolis, pizza, pasta, sandwiches,

the slice, full pies, and calzones. Their

paninis, wraps, and more. Fido is

outdoor seating area is dog friendly.

welcome to join you at one of their pet-

TGI Friday's

has

dog-friendly

outdoor seating. The employees love dogs and they all come out to meet the

Overflow Cafe is a casual coffee

pooches as well as offer them water

shop and eatery that serves up delicious

and treats.

coffee concoctions along with an assortment of freshly baked pastries,

friendly outdoor tables while you enjoy your meal.

G D Ritzy's, located in Owensboro,

Colby’s Fine Food and Spirits is a

smoothies, bagels, sandwiches, soups,

is a casual diner-style eatery that serves

downtown favorite for many OBKYers.

and more. Fido is welcome to join

up a variety of American fare. Fido is

Fido is welcome to join you at one of

you at one of their three pet-friendly

welcome to join you at one of their four

their three pet-friendly outdoor tables

outdoor tables while you savor a

pet-friendly outdoor tables while you

while you enjoy your meal.

delicious chicken salad sandwich.

enjoy your meal.

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Five Guys, located in Owensboro, is a popular burger joint that serves up

Owensboro provides seven tables with

pet-friendly outdoor tables while you

dog-friendly seating.

enjoy your meal.

a variety of tasty eats. Fido is welcome to join you at one of their pet-friendly

Lic's Deli and Ice Cream on West

Dairy Queen is a dog-friendly quick-

outdoor tables while you enjoy your

Parrish Avenue is a locally-owned, old-

service food concept serving frozen

meal. Please note that table service isn't

fashioned ice cream shoppe featuring

sweet treats to Owensboro locals.

available, so your dog will need to be

gourmet deli sandwiches on freshly

Several outdoor tables are available to

baked bread. Outside, you and Fido will

dog owners with a sweet tooth wanting

find one pet-friendly table.

to indulge alongside Fido.

tied up outside while you go in to order.

Salsarita's Fresh Cantina, located in Owensboro, is a casual Mexican eatery that serves up made-to-order dishes including tacos, burritos, bowls, quesadillas, salads, nachos, 'quesoritos' and more. Fido is welcome to join you

Culver's is a dog-friendly restaurant

Rally's Hamburgers on Frederica

serving its signature ButterBurgers and

Street

fresh frozen custard to Owensboro

seating options and you are welcome to

locals and tourists alike. Culver's offers

bring your dog along. Rally’s serves fast

a few outdoor tables to dog owners

and easy items like hamburgers, chicken

wanting to dig into a heap of Wisconsin

sandwiches, wings, and hot dogs.

at one of their five pet-friendly outdoor

Cheese Curds alongside their canine

tables while you enjoy your meal.

companion.

has

12

pet-friendly

outdoor

Sonic Drive-In on Frederica Street offers carhop service and a handful of

Whether you are getting your early

Big Dipper, an Owensboro landmark,

pet-friendly tables. At Sonic, you can

morning coffee fix or fueling up for a

is a casual, fast-food-style eatery that

get burgers and hot dogs, chicken

late night, Starbucks has you covered.

serves up a variety of delicious fare. Fido

sandwiches, plus fries, tater tots and

This location on Frederica Street in

is welcome to join you at one of their

mozzarella sticks.

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ADVERTORIAL

Pet Therapy

Promotes Patient Progress F

riendly faces are always nice to see when you or a loved one are in the hospital. Dr. Roger Taylor, a former clergyman,

and his Yorkshire Terriers, Sir Bentley and Lady Betsy, hope to be those faces for patients who are facing long stays or difficult recoveries.

For Dr. Taylor, this journey started when his mother was diagnosed with a terminal illness and had an extended stay at Owensboro Health Regional Hospital. “I had a Yorkshire Terrier that I brought to visit Mom. The nurses talked to me about joining the pet therapy program.” After seeing what an impact dogs could have on the ill, Dr. Taylor knew he wanted to join OHRH as a pet therapy volunteer.

Sir Bentley started obedience training at five and a half months of age while Lady Betsy began her training at four months. “If you come over to my house and ring my door bell my dogs will bark and bark but they have never barked at the hospital,” says Dr. Taylor. “When we put on the badge and say we’re going to work they just know.” That’s not the only thing these tiny dogs seem to know. Dr. Taylor says that all of the pet therapy dogs have a connection with people that are ill, “They seem to have a sixth sense.”

Dr. Taylor comes to OHRH on Mondays while Theobe Buskill brings her miniature Dalmatian on Wednesdays. A recent addition to the program is an Aussie Doodle who will be accompanied by her owner, Amy Nix. Their schedule has not yet been determined.

Patients can request a visit from a pet during their stay and the pet therapy volunteers will do their best to accommodate. At this time, referrals are often made by floor supervisors or chaplains so that volunteers know where to go when they arrive.

While it is true that the pet therapy program is there for patients, Dr. Taylor finds that nurses and doctors benefit just as much from the program. During a stressful shift he says that many doctors and nurses will come visit two or three times. “They get as much pleasure as the patients do.”

No matter whom they are interacting with, Dr. Taylor, Sir Bentley and Lady Betsy have the same goal as Owensboro Health: to heal the sick and to improve the health of the community. Having come from a background of ministry, Dr. Taylor already believes there is more to healing and health than meets the eye but seeing the impact that Sir Bentley and Lady Betsy have on a patient’s sense of well-being confirms that more and more each day.

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Discover

A DV ICE A N D T IP S O N HOW TO MA KE PAREN T IN G A ND LIFE EA SIER

The Reading Nook All of these books are available for checkout at the Daviess County Public Library.

Be sure to check out their new children's area, where kids can find a good book and enjoy new play features.

How I Spent My Summer Vacation

by Mark Teague

Some kids spend their summer vacation at camp.

Some kids spend it at Grandma's house. Wallace Bleff spent his out west...on a ride, a rope, and a

Photos by Jamie Alexander

roundup he'll never forget.

Crustacean Vacation by Brian Benoit From out of the sea, from out of the spray, the crab family's going on holiday! And so begins a grand day out at the seashore, as a family of crabs ventures on land to picnic on the beach (yum, peanut butter and jellyfish!), play games in an arcade (not even a crab wins at The Claw), and slide and glide in a water park.

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•

THE READING NOOK

Hieronymus Tilly's Kitten's Let's Do Betts and his Staycation Summer Nothing

by Eugenie

by Tony Fucile Unusual Pets by Gillian Hibbs

by M.P. Robertson

As all of her friends embark on

Hieronymus Betts certainly has some

it hard to believe that she

very unusual pets. All of his pets

and her mother will have fun

are gruesome and disgusting, but

staying home.

Hieronymus knows of something even slimier than Slugapotamus, fiercer than the grizzly hare, and smellier than Stinker the bog hog! What could it be?

exciting vacations, Tilly finds

Fernandes

It's a rainy summer day, and Kitten is meeting all sorts of animals taking shelter from or enjoying the warm rain, including a fox, a turtle, a beaver and many more.

Frankie and Sal have already played every sport and board game invented, baked and eaten batches of cookies, and painted a zillion pictures.

What’s left to do? Nothing!

Ten seconds of nothing! Can they do it? Can they act like stone statues in the park? Can they simply hold their breath and not blink an eye?

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DISCOVER • PARENTING TIPS FROM DR. MOM

Water—it is the nectar of life. No living thing, humans not excluded, can survive without it.

Approximately 60 percent of the human body is composed of water. Water is absolutely vital to our existence and well-being. But if it is so important, why don’t we drink more of it? One of the reasons is a lack of appreciation of water’s benefits.

Drinking water helps remove waste from our bodies.

Drink More

Water!

By Shanna McGinnis, MD, FAAP

One of the main roles of urination and sweating is to remove toxins from the body. The liver is another organ that eliminates toxins. Water is critical for all of these processes to occur. It also plays an important role in the formation and elimination of stool. An underlying causes of constipation is inadequate water consumption.

Drinking water is great for teeth.

Dental health is improved by drinking water.

Not only is water better for teeth than sugary or acidic drinks, but the fluoride in tap water helps prevent tooth decay. Most bottled water does not contain fluoride; however, most refrigerator or pitcher-style filters do not remove fluoride.

Fluoride is a safe and naturally occurring mineral that is present in groundwater.

Most public water systems monitor fluoride concentrations to ensure they are maintained at an appropriate levels.

Drinking water saves money.

Everyone loves saving money. Drinking water, especially tap water, is far less expensive than soda, juices, or other beverages. Ordering water when eating out can noticeably decrease your

Drinking water is essential for exercise.

bill. One way to get your kids on board would

During exercise, the core body temperature increases and fluid is lost through sweating.

Drinking water replaces the lost fluid and helps regulate body temperature. Water is also important for the musculoskeletal system. In addition to lubricating joints, properly hydrating during exercise can lead to prevention of muscle fatigue and cramps. In severe cases, poor hydration during exercise can result in more significant heat illness.

time they choose water at a restaurant. Use the

Drinking water prevents and aids in treatment of many health problems.

Dehydration can lead to tension headaches and migraines. Some research has shown that drinking water can diminish the severity of headaches. Nasal congestion due to allergies or infection is improved with proper hydration.

Drinking plenty of water can help prevent urinary tract infections and kidney stones. As previously mentioned, water is important in the prevention and treatment of constipation.

Drinking water as an alternative to sodas, juices, or other calorie-filled drinks can aid in losing weight or maintaining a healthy weight.

Adequate hydration is also important for promoting healthy skin and hair. Consuming water can even help with halitosis (aka bad breath) by preventing dry mouth.

be to start collecting the money saved each savings for a fun family outing or new toy.

Some kids complain that water is boring or they do not like the taste. I (lightheartedly) remind my patients that sometimes boring is good and they do not have to like water to drink it. The same is true of food, by the way. I also encourage them that they will probably learn to like water the more they drink it. In the meantime, adding fresh fruit makes plain water more palatable by providing some natural flavor. This alternative is superior to the powder packets that can be added to bottled water.

It is worth noting that there is a place for beverages that contain added electrolytes, particularly during sports. However, choosing ones with low sugar contents is best.

drink plain water or watered-down breastmilk or formula since their less mature kidneys are not yet ready to regulate fluid and electrolyte balance.

As the summer sun heats up, think before you drink. Make the decision that your family will commit to drinking more water this summer.

SHANNA MCGINNIS is a board-certified pediatrician with Owensboro Health Pediatrics. She is also the mother of three children.

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addition, infants under 6 months old should not

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parental control { Q&A with Christina Dalton, MSSW, CSW }

My 2-year-old is Queen of Tantrums “ and I feel that I have tried everything. I am

exhausted from dealing with the tantrums and nothing works. We have a family vacation planned this summer and right now, the terrible two’s are making me want to change it to a staycation! Help!

”

a:

You got this! The first thing you need to

understand that they cannot always have it their way.

remember with tantrums...Don't give her an

An excellent tip for when a child is having a tantrum

audience! When a tantrum happens either in

is to keep your voice calm and even bring it down to a

public or at home, remove your child from the audience.

whisper. This will force the child to be quiet and listen

Tantrums lose power when you take away the audience.

if they want to hear what you are saying. Something

You can always put the child in her room and tell her

else to keep in mind for children of this age is that they

she can come out when you give her permission. It

have very limited ability to control their own emotions.

is important to make sure her room is safe and then

Our job as parents is to teach them how to handle their

when she is calm, you can tell her she can join you. A

emotions, especially when they are upset or mad. Take

strong willed child can push you to your breaking point,

that baby out, enjoy the sunshine and have a fantastic

waiting for you to give in. Children at this age do not

vacation!

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CHRISTINA DALTON, MSSW, CSW is a Family Resource Center Coordinator for Daviess County Public Schools.

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EVEN T S AN D ACTIVITIES FOR OWE NSBORO FAMILIES

Swim, Bike, Run,

Photo by Taylor West

Have Fun!

July 27th at the Owensboro Health Healthpark For the first time, the 4th Annual Owensboro Parent Magazine Kids Triathlon presented by Independence Bank will be held at the Owensboro Health Healthpark—the race’s Official Health Partner! The fun, family-friendly event atmosphere draws approximately 200 participants ages 4-14 each year.

For more information and to sign up, visit owensboroparent.com/triathlon

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10 Things to Do

This Summer

OWENSBORO REGIONAL FARMERS’ MARKET The 2019 Market season will open Saturday, April 20 and run through November 2 at the corner of Triplett Street and Parrish Avenue at 1205 Triplett St. Hours for the Market: ​April 20 - November 2, Saturdays 8 a.m. – 12 p.m.

June 4 - October 31, Tuesday and Thursday 6:30 a.m. – 12 p.m.

Thursday Evening Market, June 13, July 11, August 8 from 4 p.m. – 7 p.m.

May 15 - August 28, a satellite market is also located at the Owensboro Health Regional Hospital, 1201 Pleasant Valley Road, on Wednesday from 1:30 – 5 p.m.

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Shrek the Musical, Jr. June 14-16 at The Empress Theater This youth version of the popular musical features students of grades 3-12 in a fun-filled production sure to be a hit with families!

Wacky characters, colorful costumes and music by Jeanine Tesori combine for a delightful trip to fantasyland. Shrek the Musical, Jr. will be performed at The Empress Theater: June 14 and 15 at 7 p.m., Sunday, June 16 at 2 p.m., and again June 21 and 22 at 7 p.m., and Sunday the 23 at 2 p.m. Tickets are now on sale online or by calling TWO box office (270) 683-5333. Advance tickets are $20 adults and $18 students, $2 surcharge for all tickets purchased at the door.

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2019 Dazzling Daylilies Festival With Balloons In The Garden June 20 - 29 Owensboro Botanical Garden invites the community to the Dazzling Daylilies Festival, a week-long event that's fun for the whole family. Running from June 20 - June 29, this year's the festival will celebrate with Ten Dazzling Days for the Tenth Anniversary. The theme is “Under The Big Top: Daylilies On Review, The Greatest Blooms On Earth.” Garden Director

FESTIVAL OF FLOWERS TRUNNELL'S FARM MARKET May 4 from 11 a.m. – 6 p.m.

Trunnell’s will be blooming with color during this festival, perfect for the entire family with activities for the young and old. Adult guests can watch and learn how to plant a beautiful pot of flowers or how to grow and cook with herbs. Adults will also enjoy sampling at our cheese bar, savory dip bar, and Trunnell’s special fresh herb recipes. Kids will learn how plants grow while planting a flower seed and painting a decorative pot to take home. And as always, children can play on the farm at the Family Fun Acre, ride on the pedal carts, bounce on the bouncy balls, slide on the giant slide, have their face painted, and more! The Animal Barnyard will be filled with all new spring baby animals for the kids to pet and

Susie Tyler gave Owensboro Parent a rundown of all the events that kids will especially love this year.

June 21 @ 5 p.m. - Dogs By The Daylilies—Calling all canines! Youngsters, bring your four-legged companions for a fun day out at the Garden.

June 22nd from 5 - 7 p.m. - The Garden will host a variety of children’s activities, including various circuslike entertainment to fit this year's theme. And kids are sure to love a tethered balloon ride and balloon glow.

June 25 - Photography In The Garden - Fun for all ages!

June 26 - Guided Hike For Kids—In, out and around, kids can enjoy a guided tour through the daylilies.

feed. Trunnell’s will serve FREE hotdogs! Adults and children under 36" are FREE. Children 36" and over are only $7 each includes flower seed planting and painting a pot to take home.

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Take a Kid Camping & Take a Kid Fishing May 31 and June 1 Sponsored by the Daviess County Conservation District, this is the perfect time to get your family outdoors! Hosted at Panther Creek Park, event check in/set up begins at 5 p.m. at the Feather Landing Shelter. Programs will include bingo, 4-H programs, campfire with s’mores provided, and more. This is a pre-registration event only, due by May 29. Cost is $5 per campsite and $2 per person. Open to all ages, all children must be accompanied by an 18 or older legal guardian at all times.

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ROMP FESTIVAL June 26-29 This June, ROMP Festival will return to Owensboro for it’s 16th year of music and memorable fun! Held at Yellow Creek Park, the festival is nestled in the rolling hills of the 150 acre spacious grounds. Most notable to the park are the serene surroundings, complete with a small lake for fishing, beautiful nature trails, and a rustic pioneer village.

Aside from the very best in bluegrass music ROMP offers a plethora of other activities for the whole family. Families can enjoy free events daily throughout the duration of the festival.

Unique interactive musical workshops, local food trucks, craft vendors, and Kentucky Proud products highlight the three-day event.

ROMP ESSENTIALS FOR KIDS: Sunscreen Hat, bandana, or visor Swim suit / trunks Sandals (Comfort first! These should be equipped for mud and play!)

Sunglasses Towels Backpack Water bottle Bubbles Frisbee Hula hoop Hammock Camping chair Clothesline to dry towels and suits (if camping)

ROMP offers free admission to kids 12 and under and is a family-friendly festival, so there is much to see and explore.

The park’s splash pad is always a hit during the warm summer temps, and kids can also investigate the inclusive “ROMP Kids Zone.”

The “Kid Zone” is equipped with daily entertainment and fun for children of all ages! This year the area will feature a songwriters workshop where children can write and record their own songs and a family “Uke” jam from Rebecca Smith of The Melody Garden, a nature-based music and movement performer. Kids can also enjoy a variety of crafts daily ranging from ribbon wands to painted rocks. A live banjo demo is scheduled where children are invited to “build their own” afterwards, and harmonica and kazoo lessons will be available from Art the Dude complete with a free instrument. Hootie the Owl of the Western Kentucky Raptor Center, a nonprofit organization dedicated to the conservation of birds of prey is set to make an appearance as well.

Randy Lanham will provide fiddle lessons in addition, and hopes to inspire young musicians to consider taking up a fiddle of their own! Lanham currently leads the Bluegrass Music Hall of Fame and Museum “Saturday Lessons Program.”

ROMP is the perfect time to camp with your family since the festival offers family-friendly campsites with quiet hours from 10 p.m. to 7 a.m.

Y’all come! It’s certain to be a fun filled festival for the whole family!

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PORCHFEST 2019 June 8 from 3 - 8 p.m.

This one-day open air music festival will take place down Griffith Avenue between Frederica and Robin Road on Saturday, June 8. PorchFest 2019 will celebrate community togetherness and music. This event is free and open to the public and suitable for all ages. PorchFest will focus on highlighting the friendly neighborhood and local musical talent. There will be dancing and listening as music lovers stroll down Griffith Avenue to enjoy multiple acts on “stages.” PorchFest invites the audience to stroll freely from “stage” to “stage” to enjoy great musical talent. Bring your own seats, find your spot, sit and enjoy then simply pick up your chairs and take a short walk to the next welcoming stage!

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Tractor & Implement Show at Diamond Lake June 15 This event will bring the best tractors and implements from all over! Come see the “Show ‘n Shine” with both stock and modified tractors. Judging will be optional. There will also be some “rodeo” type events and a parade through the park.

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LIVE ON THE BANKS Every Saturday evening, May 18 through September 28.

A FREE outdoor concert series at the Overlook Stage at Smothers Park in Downtown Owensboro. Music will be provided by some of the finest local and regional performing artists and entertainers. Live on the Banks is a family event, open to the public, for all ages, and is presented by the City of Owensboro.

Family! Fun! Free! Friends!

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Family Guide to the

2019 INTERNATIONAL BAR-B-Q FEST FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH PICNIC PAVILLION

ARTS & CRAFTS

Hosted by First Baptist Church of Owensboro, the Family

Friday, May 10 from 5 – 10 p.m. & Saturday, May 11

Pavilion is a Festival tradition. This year they will be

from 10 a.m. – 10 p.m. Veterans Boulevard and North/

providing a rest area to enjoy your foods, visit with friends and family and to just relax.

PIE EATING CONTEST

South Streets from Veterans to Second Street The International Bar-B-Q Festival provides a tremendous opportunity to find unique, hand-made arts & crafts as gifts for friends and family—or yourself.

Saturday, May 11 at 12 p.m. at Smothers Park Overlook

Talented crafters offer a wide range of items, including

Stage

jewelry, decorative items, clothing, bows, candles, purses

Participants show their skills to consume gooey, sweet

and other leather goods, wood carvings, paintings and

concoctions. These participants definitely demonstrate

numerous other works of art. Many artist and crafters

why this is a “Festival of Food and Fun!” There are cash prizes for the first three winners.

are completing items during the Festival, providing an entertaining demonstration of their talents.

BENCH PRESS & DEADLIFT COMPETITION

Registration/Entry: The Pie Eating Contest is open to

Saturday, May 11 at Owensboro Convention Center –

anyone 12 years old and under. There is no registration

first floor (501 West Second Street)

fee.

Weigh-In Sign-Up: 8 – 9 a.m. Lifting Begins: 9:30 a.m.

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Events: Best Raw Bench Best Equipped Bench Best Dead Lift Plus Special Awards Registration: Sign up and weigh in on the day of the event

5K RUN/WALK Saturday, May 11, 2019 at 8 a.m. at McConnell Plaza (100 St. Elizabeth Street) Produced by the Owensboro Family YMCA, there is no better way to work up an appetite or work off a meal than to participate in the Annual International BarB-Q Festival 5K Run/Walk. Join the fun and exercise!

Proceeds benefit the scholarship programs at the Owensboro Family YMCA—have fun, be healthy and help others while enjoying the BBQ Festival weekend!

THE 2019 MUTTON GLUTTON SPONSORED BY KENTUCKY LEGEND Saturday, May 11 at 4 p.m. at the Festival Plaza Stage Joey Chestnut returning to defend his record! A Guinness Book World Record was set with the first national competitive mutton sandwich-eating contest held in Owensboro, KY in May 2017. Joey Chestnut was the winner again in 2018! Prize winning competitors will join us again on stage to see who can set the record in this category. The big question can Joey Chestnut’s 2018 record be broken in the food competition world?

SPECIAL NOTES ABOUT THIS YEAR’S FESTIVAL: Stroll through the concessions area for your favorite treats (snow cones, funnel cakes, popcorn, hot dogs and of course—BBQ) Families can enjoy music of all types at various stages throughout the festival.

A family favorite—carnival rides—will be provided by Casey’s Rides, with a specific area for younger children.

Be on the look out for WBKR’s RV Contest!

What family wouldn’t enjoy winning?

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kids

meal deals

EVERY DAY

O’Charley’s – Free kids meal (ages 10 & under) with the purchase of adult entrée

MONDAY

Grandy’s – 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult meal TGI Fridays – Free kids meal (ages 12 & under) with the purchase of an adult entrée

Firehouse Subs – Up to 2 kids eat free (12 & under) all day with purchase of an adult meal Donatos – Up to 2 free individual 1-topping pizza/per child (12 and under) with the purchase of a large pizza; dine-in only from 5-8pm Burger Theory (located in the Holiday Inn Owensboro Riverfront) – Free kids meal (ages 12 & under) with purchase of an adult meal; breakfast, lunch & dinner

Zaxby’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult meal from 5-8pm

Dairy Queen (Frederica Location) – Up to 2 $1.99 kids meals

Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entrée

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with the purchase of a signature sandwich

TUESDAY

Denny’s – Up to 2 free kids meals with an adult meal purchase Fazoli’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult entrée Pizza By the Guy – 1 free kids buffet for (ages 10 & under) with an adult purchase with a drink on Tuesdays from 5-8pm Pizza Hut (South Frederica location) – 1 free child buffet with the purchase of an adult buffet from 4:30-7pm

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McDonald’s – $1.99 Happy meals; dinein only from 4-7pm

Moonlite Bar-B-Q Inn - Up to 2 kids eat free (ages 10 & under) from 4-9pm with adult buffet purchase

Beef ‘O’ Brady’s – Free kids meal (ages 12 & under) with the purchase of an adult entrée from 4-8pm

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WEDNESDAY

THURSDAY

SATURDAY

Lure Seafood & Grille – Free kids meal with purchase of adult entrée Wheatgrass Juice Bar – Free kids smoothie with adult purchase Long John Silver’s – $1.99 Kids meals all day

SUNDAY

Briarpatch – 1 free kids meal (10 & under) per adult entrée Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée; dine in only Texas Roadhouse – 1 free kids meal per adult entrée from 11am – 3pm

Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée; dine in only

Pizza By the Guy – 1 free buffet for kids (ages 10 & under) with adult purchase with a drink from 11:30am-2pm

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with the purchase of a signature sandwich

Firehouse Subs – Kids eat free (12 & under) all day with purchase of adult meal; up to 2 kids per adult

Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entrée

Bar Louie – Kids eat free 11am - 7pm up to 2 kids per adult entrée; dine-in only

on the honor roll?

Bring your report card to these local restaurants & businesses for additional deals!

Orange Leaf – Bring in your report card and receive $1 off yogurt; a report card with straight A’s will receive a small cup free.

Ritzy’s (Both locations) – Ritzy’s has a “Scoops for Scholars” program.

Students can bring in their report card each grading period to earn treats for each “A.” 1A = flavored soft drink (cherry, vanilla, or chocolate) 2 A's = single scoop of ice cream 3 A's = your choice of a hotdog,

coney, hamburger, or cheeseburger 4 A's = double scoop of ice cream

movie/game rental for every A (or equivalent) they received in a core class for the year.

McDonald’s – All five Owensboro McDonald’s decided this school year that they will award a free Happy Meal to any student who gets straight A's on their report card.

Family Video (1212 JR Miller) – For a limited time during the summer, you can take your end of the year report card to Family Video. Your child will receive a voucher for a free

Chuck E. Cheese in Evansville – A child can receive 10 tokens with a purchase if they bring in their report card.

Sky Zone in Evansville – All A’s= 1/2 off any jump.

A & B’s= $5 off any jump. Weekdays & Friday 2-7pm.

*This list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation.

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Say What?

Our readers asked their kids following question:

"If you could go anywhere over summer break where would it be?"

"I would stay at home with my mommy"

"Disney"

"Disneyland and LEGO Land"

- Abby, age 14

- Athena, age 4

- Sydney, age 4

"Go 4 wheeler riding through the mud then jump in a big swimming pool to wash off."

- Payzlee, age 7

"Jurrasic World and Hogwarts at Universal Studios"

“Washington DC” - Carter, age 8

- Collin, age 6

"L A" - Max, age 8

"Virginia Beach" - Blair, age 4

"New York City" - Emarie, age 7

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