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Contents

IN E VE RY ISSUE

34 Sew in Love with a Mission Bella is a teenager who has created her own business, donating all profits to a Guatemalan orphanage.

8 From the Editor 9 Around OBKY 10 Student Spotlight 12 Parent Profile

KE E PIN G IT REA L

14 Hashtag Mom Fail The Four Types of Christmas Cards 16 An Attitude of Gratitude Real life with Lora Wimsatt 18 Introducing Children to the Christmas Story When it comes to the Christmas story, children may have an easier time believing than adults.

MAKIN G IT

38 Cruise-in in Style Meet Owensboro's 8-year-old classic car owner and enthusiast.

21 Fun Holiday Lunch Box Idea Win some cool parent points by being creative with your kids' lunchbox. 22 Don't be a Turkey! Keep your leftover turkey and mashed potatoes! Check out these creative recipes utilizing your favorite holiday foods.

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26 Christmas Cracker Toffee This easy-to-make candy recipe is a great addition to a Christmas gift.

OUT & A BO U T

61 Christmas Light Adventure Get into the holiday spirit with these must-see light locations

28 Throw a Kid-Friendly New Year's Eve Party Watching the ball drop is not that exciting for little ones. Check out this party idea that OP Editor Ashley threw for her kids. She says it was a huge hit!

62 Calendar 10 local things to do this holiday season

D ISCOV ER

68 Fall Break Photos submitted to our Facebook page

66 Kids Meal Deals When and where to take your kids to eat for the best deals

FROM THE REA D ERS

51 The Reading Nook Discover the holidays with these seasonal books, all available at DCPL. 54 Parental Control Christina Dalton answers your most difficult parenting questions 56 Healthy Holidays It's easy to neglect safety during the holiday hustle and bustle. Check out these tips for a healthy, happy holiday season.

72 Say What? We asked: If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

SPECIA L A DV ERTISIN G SECTION

43 Shop Local. Shop Owensboro. Your guide to the Greater Owensboro Chamber of Commerce's Shop Owensboro event on Nov. 30.

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WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE CHRISTMAS MOVIE?

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The Nightmare Before Christmas is a movie that can be enjoyed on TWO holidays (if you have a spooky side like me)! I've known all the words to the songs since I was a kid and still sing (horribly) along.

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Every Christmas you’ll find me watching the 24-hour marathon of A Christmas Story on TBS. Be sure to drink your Ovaltine!

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Ashley's : s g n i h T e t i r o v a F from the editor I have always been very honest with the parents that read this magazine. I think as parents, we have to support each other and have each others’ backs and for me, a big part of that is sharing my story. Three years ago, I opened up about my divorce. It was a difficult time and learning to be on my own was tough. The holidays were especially hard because of the pressure to maintain the perfect holiday season for two amazing kids. It’s no secret that I can’t cook. My kids tell everyone that the best thing I cook is Chick-fil-A. Despite my lack of culinary skills, I was determined to make my grandmother’s peanut butter fudge. I had tried in years past and failed miserably. (A fail so epic it turned out like dried Play-Doh.) Last year I succeeded though and while it still wasn’t as good as Memaw’s, it came pretty close.

We got through it together, with a lot of love from our village of family and friends. Our new life became our new normal, until two years ago. I began dating someone and our normal changed a little more. And this holiday season, I may be looking forward to more than any before because…I’m married! This Thanksgiving and Christmas will be spent in our new home with our newly formed family of four, keeping alive traditions Avery, Reed and I have made in the past and making new ones together that we will continue in the years to come.

My kids each have their own small tree they get to decorate for their rooms. Avery’s has pink lights and Reed’s has blue. They picked out a cheap set of decorations in the same color scheme — beaded garland and various small plastic ornaments. But each year, I let them pick out one ornament they can add to their tree, encouraging them to pick something they love at the time. Last year, Avery chose this unicorn and Reed chose Pickle from Blaze and the Monster Machines.

My husband, Drew, is the answer to so many prayers. We have actually known each other since we were 14, but found each other later in life after the paths we thought God intended for us were, in fact, not the final destination. My kids love him and he completes our family in a way that I didn’t think was possible.

Each year, I have my kids make an ornament for our tree. I usually let them pick them out after a quick “easy ornaments kids can make” Google search. These snowmen were the winners last year. We took a quick trip to Hobby Lobby for supplies, coming in at under $10 for everything, and made them the same afternoon. I help with the hot glue gun and Avery helps Reed when scissors are required. Family time and a new ornament — win-win!

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This season, for me, is more about spending time with those that we love. Drew and I hope to focus a little less on the “perfect” Christmas and more on why we celebrate the season in the first place. It is the eternal love and grace of Jesus that held me together after divorce, and just as He was with me in that valley, He is the reason we are now celebrating Christmas as a family of four. This year, I encourage you to think less about presents and more about presence. Worry less about checklists and the perfect holiday, and live in the moment, making memories with family and friends. Until next year, happy holidays from all of us at Owensboro Parent!

Each year we read “The Night Before Christmas” on, you guessed it, the night before Christmas. I feel this is an obvious Christmas tradition, but I had never read it until I read it to my kids. And, if I’m being honest, it isn’t my favorite. It’s not an easy read and it always results in more questions than I can handle. What’s a ‘kerchief? What’s a sugarplum? Why is Santa smoking a pipe? But tradition is tradition, right?!

AROUND OBKY

YOUNG ENTREPRENEUR STARTS BASEBALL APPAREL BUSINESS

Photo by Jacqueline Jordan Photography

Owensboro’s youngest-known entrepreneur recently created his own online store, craftily named BaseballKid Apparel. The online store, which launched three weeks ago, carries athletic t-shirts for both kids and adults. Nolan Johnson, a sixth-grade student at Burns, decided to combine his passion for the sport with his love for baseball fashion to create BaseballKid. He created a business plan, obtained investors and launched a full-scale social media campaign. “I love baseball t-shirts,” Johnson said. “It was my goal to bring the sport to life through creatively designed t-shirts.” Johnson was a member of the Owensboro Southern Little League program that made a deep run in the post-season this past summer. The many memories he’s created playing baseball serve as inspiration for his t-shirt designs.

ONE YEAR LATER: OLLER FAMILY REFLECTS ON CHANGED OUTLOOK

When Daviess County High School junior Grant Oller was admitted to Owensboro Health Regional Hospital on Sept. 24, 2018, his family was unaware of the long road that was in front of them. Two nights before his admittance, Grant had been enjoying the evening at a school dance, but by Sunday, he had fallen extremely ill.

The online store presently boasts four designs, a number he hopes to grow in the coming months. Additionally, he hopes to add other apparel options. “Right now we are focusing on t-shirts,” he said. “We hope to expand to other items and other sports.” Photo by Jacqueline Jordan Photography

According to Nick Oller, Grant’s dad, the care they received locally was excellent, and he said without the quick move to action, which included transporting Grant to Louisville, Nick said his son may not be alive today. Doctors at Norton diagnosed Grant with Acute Respiratory Disease. His stay at Norton spanned a total of 60 days. The Oller family describes the care they received under the physicians and nurses there as exceptional. Beyond grateful, the Ollers believe the whole experience has changed their outlook on life. Going through a medical scare has encouraged them to give back and help others in this community. It also changed the way they view day-to-day tasks and feel blessed to have their son well. As for Grant, he says he’s getting stronger every day. He has been meeting with a personal trainer since May, and according to his mom is stronger than ever before. As a senior baseball player at DCHS, Grant is working hard to finish his baseball career strong. He does not take this experience for granted. “It was all pretty surreal. I was a regular teenager at a high school dance and then a few days later I’m on life support,” Grant said. “It makes you appreciate life more. I thank God every day I get to wake up in my bed even if it’s just to go to school.”

NEWTON PARRISH STUDENT THANKS CUSTODIAN FOR FRIENDSHIP

First-grader Owen Bracelin has a special friendship with Newton Parrish Elementary School custodian Eric Lloyd. To celebrate National Custodian Appreciation Day, Owen took a candy bouquet to “Mr. Eric,” as Lloyd is known to the students. Owen, who was absent due to several surgeries during his kindergarten year, said he was nervous to come to school each day. That's when Lloyd stepped in. He asked Owen to help him each morning when he arrived at school, and Owen reacted positively and has been going early ever since. For two years, Owen has arrived early at Newton Parrish to spend time with Lloyd. Beyond the morning time, Owen said Lloyd also helps him open his lunch, among other things.

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AROUND OBKY

Student Spotlight:

"ADDISON BELL is not only a champion at lifting weights, she is also a champion in the classroom. She is kind, respectful, responsible, and is a strong role model for her peers. She is such a powerful asset to our Fox family." - Robin Ebelhar, Reading Teacher "Addison is hardworking and always giving 100% effort to every task. She is patient and supportive of her peers and is a true leader. I am proud of her accomplishments in and out of the classroom!" - Hadley Boaz, Social Studies Teacher

"DVIA HINTON is a student who is always thinking about ways to help others. She recently went through her book collection at home and decided that she wanted to donate the books that she has already read to the Little Free Libraries here at Cravens and also to the one at Foust to share with others who may be interested." - Cortney Inklebarger, Principal, Cravens Elementary

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PARENT PROFILE

Brad Osborne TELL US A B O UT YO U R S E L F. I am a Commercial Loan Officer at Evansville Teacher's Federal Credit Union / Liberty Financial. I have been married 14 years to my wife, Robin. We have three daughters â&#x20AC;&#x201D; Conleigh (14), Lanie Ann (12) and Isabeth (10).

WH AT I S I T LI KE BE I N G A DA D TO A LL G I RLS? It is humbling, to say the least. I've learned I am raising someone's future mothers, wives, friends, and leaders. However, I want to model to them what a good father and husband looks like too. Unconditional love, being accessible, and being available to them are the most important things! With all the seriousness that comes with being a father, we do have a lot of fun and jokes!

DO YO U E V E R F E E L OU TNUMB ER E D? Always! But, it is a good feeling. Though it may be a little tough work now, I know one day I will be really well taken care of.

DO YO U D O A N Y T H I N G SPE CI A L WI TH YO U R G I RLS? H AV E A F U N TR A D I TI O N? We enjoy the outdoors and being very active. We all play golf together often and enjoy spending quality time together. I also take each girl out for special one-on-one time, which is a fun tradition for us.

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WH AT'S T H E H AR DEST T H ING ABOUT B EIN G A DAD TO ALL GIRLS? Learning each of their individual communication styles. Each girl is respectively different in their own way. As a man/father, sometimes I believe we want an instant resolution to an issue or problem. Knowing exactly how to communicate with each of them helps. And with the teenage years here and around the corner, being able to adjust to their current needs is very important.

MOST R EWARDING? I love to see them being successful in the classroom and in their athletics. However, the most rewarding thing is to witness they are evolving into good human beings.

WH AT PAR EN T IN G ADVICE DO YOU HAVE? Always be available and listen. I feel God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason. Reassure your children it is all right to come to you no matter what the situation may be. FU N N IEST PARENTING MOMENT? One time, I was racing all three girls in the school parking lot when I fell to the ground, broke my glasses, ripped my dress pants, and skinned my knees. It was both hilarious and, once again, humbling!

L O C A L PA R E N T S A N D G R A N D PA R E N T S

Photo by Jamie Alexander

Keeping it Real

R E L ATA B L E S T O R I E S F R O M

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KEEPING IT REAL • HASHTAG MOMFAIL

The Four Types of Christmas Cards By Jamie Johnson

ith the holiday season peeking around the corner, it’s time to get

out your digital address book and get those Christmas cards in the mail. As a self-proclaimed slacker and

card and send it to your friends and

Target, and make threats through

holiday season procrastinator, I

family. They love those pictures and

a smiling face. The card will go out,

have to admit that I have never once

will land you a front and center spot

you will breathe a sigh of relief and

sent out a Christmas card.

on the refrigerator.

you will land a spot in the middle of the fridge. At least at your mom’s

Considering I have two young

YOU HAVE YOUNG KIDS, so

children, that is a bit of a holiday no-

you have to get the entire family

no. So, I am going to be a big kid this

in a picture together, smiling,

year and send out Christmas cards.

fully dressed and standing still.

COOP and you get to send out a

This is me putting it in print, so now

No problem, right? Wrong! Huge

Christmas card of you and your

I have to.

problem. You will spend an entire

spouse living your best life while

week planning this photo shoot

traveling through Europe because

I would like to personally thank all

down to the exact minute. You will

you actually saved for retirement

the people that still send my family

have it timed perfectly after the

and Social Security is still a thing.

a Christmas card even though I have

toddler’s first nap but before the

You will get the middle of the fridge

never reciprocated the kindness.

kindergartener melts. You will pick

spot from no one because they are

out clothes, have them ironed and

jealous.

house. YOUR KIDS HAVE FLOWN THE

There are four different types of

ready, and will most likely start

Christmas cards I receive each year,

the day with some sort of bribe

and they are always classic.

breakfast – like doughnuts, so the

You don’t get a middle of the fridge

kids have less reason to scream. It

spot. You are me.

YOU JUST HAD A BABY OR GOT

YOU DON’T SEND OUT A CARD.

will take 30 minutes to get a photo

MARRIED. Use it to your advantage

with everyone looking and smiling.

So get out that address book and fire

and use those photos you already

You will yell at a couple kids and the

up your VistaPrint account. It’s the

paid for again! Slap that baby on a

dog, bribe everyone with a trip to

holiday season.

JAMIE JOHNSON is a full-time working mom to two little boys, wife to Logan, and part-time writer. Her pieces have been featured in HuffPost Parents, Motherly, Today Parents and PopSugar Moms. You can follow her blog at HashtagMomFail.com!

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KEEPING IT REAL

AN ATTITUDE

of Gratitude

By Lora Wimsatt

hanksgiving never works out quite

leaves just turned brown and fell off

the ham and filling up on cookies, so you

the way you planned and certainly

the trees, and nobody had time to rake

might as well get this over with.

not the way you want it.

so they are scattered all over the lawn

as if someone had spilled a giant bag of

you forgot about napkins so there is a roll

In your imagination, you dream of

Paper plates and plastic forks, and

a beautiful day – clear blue skies and

brown potato chips.

bright sunshine bringing out the golds

Nobody cooks anymore and you

and oranges and ambers and reds of the

aren’t even sure you have a baking pan

autumn trees.

that will accommodate a turkey, and

You picture family members coming

turkey is such a mess and the kids fight

up the sidewalk carrying casserole dishes,

over the drumsticks and the wishbone

the front door swinging wide as they are

so maybe we ought to just go with a

football and the kids want cartoons

greeted with warm smiles and hugs as

ham this year, and while we’re at it why

and Grandma wants the parade and the

they are swept into the living room to

don’t we just pick one up at the grocery

cousins are arguing again about who

mingle with the rest of the relatives.

deli along with a couple of plastic tubs

gets to sit in the big chair and you just

Children play happily underfoot,

of potato salad, along with a package of

want peace and quiet and for someone

giggling and whispering as they share

those sugar cookies with the sprinkles,

to explain why in the world you even go

their toys, as the fragrance of turkey,

and call it a day.

through this circus every year.

ham, mashed potatoes, green bean

Aunt Bess and Aunt Marie aren’t

casserole and rolls mingle with the spicy

speaking again – nobody knows why,

scent of desserts that show up only at

again – so you have to endure strings

Thanksgiving.

of furious text messages as everyone in

A voice – tinged with pride – rings

the family takes sides, and if this one is

out, announcing that dinner is served!

going to be there, that one isn’t coming,

And everyone gathers around the big

and by the time it’s all said and done, you

when a couple of forks, full of food and

table, covered with the fancy tablecloth

don’t even want to be there yourself –

halfway to open mouths, are lowered,

and cloth napkins and best dishes that are

and you’re the hostess.

and everything falls silent – well, except

brought out only for the most special of

But everyone does show up – of

for that little voice singing “Daddy shark

special occasions. Grandpa stands quietly

course they do, you think darkly to

doo doo …”

as everyone cheerfully shuffles into place

yourself; they always show up for a free

“Bless us, O Lord …”

around the table, and then everyone falls

meal – and the kids are squabbling with

Words we don’t say as often as we

silent as he bows his head and begins to

one another and running through the

pray in a voice that is so warm, so familiar,

house and one is crying because another

not only to the beloved family who fill that

won’t share his toys and another one is

room, but also to the Lord to whom he

driving everyone crazy singing “Baby

speaks.

shark doo doo do do do doo” over and

over and over.

“Bless us, O Lord,” he says … and your

of paper towels over by the sink, not that any of these slobs know what a napkin is for anyway, but they jostle into line and load up their plates and then move into the living room where the guys want

But just then, just as you are ready

to pick up your plate and go hide out in the laundry room until everyone leaves – someone says, “Well, let’s say grace.” There’s

that

awkward

moment

should, a sentiment we don’t embrace as deeply as we could …

And you wipe a tear from your cheek

with a square of paper towel, and you look up around the crowded room at

heart overflows with the knowledge that

“Well, come and get it,” someone

your family, these people who come

you are, truly, truly blessed.

finally says, frustrated, and why not

together at least once a year no matter

But it doesn’t quite work out that way.

because everyone has been going in and

what, and you realize how very truly

The dry summer means that all the

out of the kitchen anyway nibbling on

blessed you really are.

LORA WIMSATT is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.

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KEEPING IT REAL

F INTRODUCING CHILDREN TO THE

Christmas Story By Scott Kenworthy

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or over 40 years, Russ

centers, universities, publishing

Blowers

the

houses, and nursing homes. We

senior pastor of East 91st Street

care for our clients from birth to

Christian Church in Indianapolis.

death. Our original Organizer owns

One afternoon, at the local

all the real estate in the universe.

Rotary Club, he was asked to

He knows everything and lives

introduce himself. Instead of the

everywhere and determined from

predictable, “My name is Russ

the outset that our product would

and I’m a minister,” he said:

always be free. Our CEO had a

Hi, I’m Russ Blowers. I’m

nondescript upbringing. He was

with a global enterprise. We have

born in a hick town, worked as a

branches in every country of the

carpenter, and didn’t own a home.

world. We have representatives

He was misunderstood by his

boardroom

family and hated by his enemies.

and parliament on the planet.

He was put on trial for crimes he

We're into motivation and life

didn’t commit and condemned

transformation. We run hospitals,

to death, but later arose from the

feeding stations, crisis-pregnancy

dead. I talk with him every day.

nearly

served

every

Now, you tell me, do you think

begins with, of all things, Jesus’ family

All four of these are lessons any

anyone there ever forgot Russ Blowers?

tree. He reminds us that Jesus came to

of us, child or adult, need to hear. In

I was reminded of this story,

a broken world and was even born into

recently, when someone asked how I

a broken family. And Mark technically

would explain the Christmas story to

doesn’t tell the Christmas story; he

a child. To be honest, I was surprised

gets right down to the business of why

believing than adults. G.K. Chesterton

Jesus came.

once said, “The world will never starve

Each of these introductions can

for wonders, but for the want of

how difficult it proved to come up with a helpful response. But then I realized, Christmas, in its simplest form, is about God making a first impression. We have four biblical books that tell us about the life and ministry of Jesus, which means in a sense we have four “first impressions” of him. John lets us know that the God who created everything loves the world so much He chose to become part of it. Luke gives us the most historical data about the first Christmas, reminding us that God cares about facts and figures. Matthew

prove helpful in Jesus in explaining Christmas to a child. According to John, Christmas lets us know God is near. For Luke, Christmas tells us God is true. For Matthew, Christmas shows us God is gracious. From Mark, we’re reminded God is active in the world.

fact, when it comes to the Christmas story, children may have an easier time

wonder.” Children, naturally, embrace the wonder of the Christmas season while many adults fall into cycles of bitterness and cynicism. As a parent, you have the wonderful opportunity to introduce your child to the Christmas story. Relish it. But as you explain Christmas to your children, let their wonder help explain it to you.

SCOTT KENWORTHY has served as the lead pastor of Owensboro Christian Church since 2013. He and his wife, Sarah, were born and raised in Indianapolis, 10 miles apart, but met in Knoxville, TN. In his free time, he enjoys sports, reading, movies, board games and quoting 90s sitcoms.

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Making it

CRAFTS, RECIPES, AND ACTIVITIES FAMILIES CAN ENJOY TOGETHER

Fun Holiday

LUNCH BOX IDEA

You don't need to be a Pinterest queen to make some extra-fun school lunches for birthdays, special occasions, or holidays! It's as easy as using cookie cutters or "sandwich cutter kits" found in grocery stores. Watch for more lunchbox themes and inspiration in

By Jamie Alexander

upcoming issues!

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MAKING IT

Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be a Turkey, USE UP THOSE THANKSGIVING LEFTOVERS!

Photos and recipe by Jamie Alexander

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Let's face it, sometimes Thanksgiving leftovers taste even better than the original feast. However, if you cook enough for a small army and start to get tired of eating the same meal again and again, you'll want to start thinking of ways to get creative. Here are a couple of recipes using some popular Thanksgiving foods in new ways! They're easy dishes that the kids are sure to love.

TURKEY CRANBERRY SLIDERS WHAT YOU'LL NEED:

INSTRUCTIONS:

and Worcestershire sauce

›› 1 sheet Hawaiian rolls (12 ct)

›› Mix cranberry sauce with

before pouring mixture over the

›› 3 cups leftover turkey (or more

mustard and set aside

sandwiches.

to preference - sliced or shredded)

›› Preheat oven to 350°.

›› 1 cup cranberry sauce

›› Cut entire slab of rolls in half

›› Cover with foil and let sit up to

›› 1/2 cup whole grain mustard

lengthwise (don't pull rolls apart).

›› 5 tablespoons butter, melted

Place bottom slab in a casserole

›› 1 tablespoon Worcestershire

dish.

sauce

›› Layer the bottom slab with

›› 1 round of brie

turkey, cheese, and the cranberry/

›› Top with optional extras (salt &

›› Optional (to taste): Parmesan

mustard mixture. Top with the

pepper, parmesan, parsley, and

cheese, salt & pepper, parsley,

other slab of the rolls.

chopped onion) before slicing into

dried chopped onion

›› Whisk together melted butter

individual sliders. Serve warm!

10 minutes before putting into the oven and baking for 20 minutes. ›› Uncover and cook an additional five minutes.

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MASHED POTATO BALLS

NOTES: This recipe is based off preference and "eyeballing." Adjust the measurements according to your taste and how much leftover mashed potatoes you have left! If your leftover mashed potatoes are too dry/crumbly, try heating them up again and adding a bit more milk. If you can't get them to the correct consistency, you can also try adding an egg. WHAT YOU'LL NEED: ›› 5 cups leftover mashed potatoes ›› 1 cup cooked bacon, crumbled ›› 1 cup cheddar cheese, shredded ›› 1/4 cup green onions, chopped (more for garnish) ›› 2 eggs (beaten, for egg wash) ›› 1 cup breadcrumbs ›› Oil for frying (your preference - I used avocado oil) ›› Optional: Italian seasoning, cayenne, garlic powder, salt & pepper (mix in with breadcrumbs - to taste) INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Add the mashed potatoes, bacon, cheese, and green onions in a bowl and mix until combined. ›› Roll the mixture into 1-2 inch balls, then chill them in the refrigerator for 15 minutes. ›› Heat your choice of oil (around 1.5-2 inches deep) in a deep pan to 350°. ›› Put the egg wash in one bowl, and the breadcrumbs (mixed with your choice of seasonings) in another bowl. ›› Dip each mashed potato ball in the egg, before rolling in the seasoned breadcrumbs and placing in the oil to fry. Don't overcrowd your pan with too many of the mashed potato balls at once. Use tongs to flip the potatoes after around 2-3 minutes (until brown) to cook the entire ball evenly. ›› Once the entire mashed potato ball has browned, lay them on a baking rack or a paper towel-lined plate. Serve warm with optional garnishes (I used shredded parmesan and additional green onion). OP

JAMIE ALEXANDER is a nationally-published portrait and commercial photographer, Tanner Publishing Co. staff photographer, and owner of JAA Studios.

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MAKING IT

This recipe should be familiar to you, and if it isn't you'll want to put it on your list! It's easy to make and a great addition to a Christmas candy gift. It stores well sealed at room temperature for 1-2 weeks! WHAT YOU'LL NEED: ›› Salted crackers of your choice (enough to line a pan) ›› 1 cup brown sugar ›› 2 sticks of butter (unsalted) ›› 2 cups chocolate chips (your preference - I used semi-sweet) ›› Optional: Your choices of toppings (I used Christmas M&M's. Sprinkles, nuts, toffee, and other candy bits taste great!)

Photo and recipe by Jamie Alexander

Christmas Cracker Toffee

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INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Preheat the oven to 350°. Line a jelly roll baking sheet with parchment paper. Grease the parchment paper with cooking spray ›› Line the greased parchment paper with a layer of salted crackers. Try to fill in any gaps. ›› Combine butter and brown sugar in a saucepan and bring to a boil. Constantly stir the mixture while it boils for three minutes. Pour the mixture over the crackers immediately after. ›› Bake for five minutes in the preheated oven. ›› Remove the pan from the oven and immediately pour your chocolate chips evenly over the top. Let them sit for a couple of minutes to melt, then spread the chocolate into an even layer. ›› Before the chocolate cools and hardens, add your additional toppings (push them in slightly to make sure they'll stick when it's cooled). ›› Let the toffee chill in the fridge for at least two hours before cracking it into small pieces! OP

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MAKING IT

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THROW A

kid-friendly N E W Y E A R ' S E V E PA R T Y By Ashley Sorce-Wedding // Photos by Jamie Alexander

Since my kiddos are finally old enough to make it to midnight, I decided to throw a little New Year’s Eve Party for them last year. No guests and no real plan, just a night of hanging out with a little organized fun. It was a huge hit with them and the grown ups had fun too.

T H E SET U P

The main part of the night centered around a balloon countdown, which I created on the mantle. (A wall would work just fine too!) The balloons served as an hour-by-hour countdown until midnight. I blew up a balloon and slid a small piece of paper inside, each with a fun activity written on it. I tied the balloons and taped them to the mantle after writing a time on each one with a marker. We started at 6 p.m., meaning we had seven balloons/ activities until midnight, but you can have as many as you want.

6 P.M.

WINNER, WINNER, CHICK-FIL-A DINNER It’s no secret that my family loves Chick-fil-A. My kids tell everyone they meet that it’s the best thing I cook. So why wouldn’t we start off a party with some CFA?!

7 P.M.

SLIME STATION My kids love slime. They had been dying to make floam — slime with styrofoam balls in it. For months I told them no, not wanting to deal with the mess. So when they saw that we were making that on New Year’s Eve, they were super excited.

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8 P.M.

CRAFT Y CREATION The next activity of the night was a homemade noisemaker. I bought some cheap noisemakers at the dollar store and paper plates. The kids busted out all the supplies from the craft cabinet (it’s basically a small Hobby Lobby) and made noisemaker creatures. Googly eyes, pom poms, pipe cleaners, markers — use whatever you have on hand. They loved them. Note: If I had it to do all over again, I would make this a later activity so you don’t have to hear the noisemakers the whole night — or deal with the kids blowing them in each other's faces!

9 P.M.

FAMILY GAME TIME I had some timethemed minute to win it games ready for them. Their favorite was moving M&M’s from one plate to another by a straw in their mouth. They had to place each candy on an hour on the clock I drew on a plate.

10 P.M.

COOKIE MONSTERS I basically love any excuse to make cookies! We made chocolate chip cookies from scratch — and by from scratch, I mean the cookie mix you just add a few ingredients to.

11 P.M.

GLOW DANCE PART Y While I was getting the noisemakers at the dollar store, I picked up a variety of glow sticks — bracelets, necklaces and glasses. We turned out all the lights, turned up the Kidz Bop and danced away the last hour of 2018.

12 P.M.

BALLOON DROP I wanted something special to end the night and remembered the balloon drop event that the Owensboro Museum of Science and History has each year. For $4 with a balloon drop bag from Walmart, I created the same thing at home — just a much smaller scale. The kids loved it and was the perfect ending to a fun-filled night! OP

ASHLEY SORCE-WEDDING is the staff writer for Tanner Publishing Co. and editor of Owensboro Parent. She enjoys everyday adventures with daughter, Avery (8), and son, Reed (4).

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SEW IN LOVE with a

MISSION By Melody Ann Wallace â&#x20AC;¢ Photos by Jamie Alexander

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ver the past year, the '80s trend of

go towards my (and my mom’s) trip to

fabric hair scrunchies has regained

Guatemala.”

new life. From hair to wrists, the

Bella said her first customers were

fashionable accessories have increased in

friends and students at Daviess County

popularity among young women as well as

High School. But as word began to spread

young men. Daviess County High School

across

junior Bella Sailors not only recognized the

herself shipping orders to Indiana, Illinois,

trend, but made the decision to use her gifts

Tennessee, South Carolina, Georgia and

to create scrunchies for a cause near to her

Texas.

heart.

In the summer of 2018, Bella began sewing

mission trip with a small group of students

and creating scrunchies and drawstring

and leaders from Owensboro Christian

bags as gifts for friends and family members.

Church to assist an orphanage in Guatemala.

After receiving an overwhelmingly positive

response about the quality of her work, Bella

kids and had breakfast with them before

decided to use her talents in order to raise

they went to school,” Bella said. “After they

funds for an upcoming church mission trip.

packed into their bus and drove off, we

Within a year, she had created her own small

spent five to six hours working on projects

business.

around the grounds until the kids got back.”

“I made ‘3 B’s and Scrunchies’ at the end

social

media,

she

soon

found

On July 13, 2019, Bella went on her first

“Every morning, we woke up with the

While the children, ages 2 through 17,

of May with the intent of using the money

were at school, the group worked on projects

to help pay for my trip,” Bella said. “As it

from painting, mowing and landscaping to

turned out, I underestimated just how much

hand-digging 3-foot by 3-foot holes for light

business I would get. Within two months

posts and clearing brush in order to build

I had fundraised approximately $600 to

a wall for protection. Once the children

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returned to the orphanage, Bella said they were able to play

error at first, once she was able to master the technique for

games, make crafts and bond with one another through

scrunchies, Bella was able to try her hand at other things

conversation.

such as headbands, keychain chapstick holders, and Apple

“The one thing that took me by surprise the most was the

Watch bands. She said she has filled approximately 160 orders

amount of pure unfiltered joy that radiated from the kids and

since she started 3 B’s, and estimates that she’s sold 150-175

the orphanage as a whole,” Bella said. “They didn’t have much,

scrunchies alone.

but you wouldn’t know it just by talking to them. They were all always smiling, and their heart for Jesus was evident in everything they did.”

She said it was that joy that inspired her to not only

continue selling scrunchies to raise funds for future trips, but to sell them to help raise money to support the orphanage as well.

“It didn’t feel right to keep excess money that I didn’t need

when it could be helping kids that I now have bonds with go

“From time to time, when I am super backed up on orders,

my mom helps me with some of the steps so that I can get more done,” Bella said, adding that she often customizes the drawstring bags and scrunchies per customer request based on pattern and color scheme. Recently, she offered to create coordinating scrunchies made of the same fabrics students wore to Sadie Hawkins. Bella is planning on returning to the Guatemalan

through their day-to-day lives,” Bella said.

orphanage in April with her entire family. In order to raise

Since returning from her trip in July, Bella has donated

funds for this trip, she will be increasing her social media

$135 to the orphanage, with plans to continue donating

reach to Facebook, as well as Instagram, and will have a

monthly. She said she makes the entire scrunchie herself,

display at The Spot Coffee & Finery in Williamsburg Square.

from picking out the patterns and fabrics to hand-stitching

Currently, the best way to order from Bella’s shop is through

it closed. Although she said it took a little bit of trial and

her Instagram page @3bsandscrunchies.

MELODY WALLACE is a former middle school language arts teacher and now works with Owensboro Times, sharing stories about the community she has come to call home. She has been writing since she was old enough to hold a crayon.

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CRUISE-IN

in Style By Melody Ann Wallace

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Photo by Jamie Alexander

Before Bella Braden was born, her mother was informed that Bella had a kidney that was not developing properly. At just seven months old, Bella was sent to Kosair Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Hospital to have her kidney removed. Eight years later, Bella is a happy, healthy young girl, as well as a welltraveled classic car owner and enthusiast.

“Since she was little she has always

do just about anything — always has,”

been excited about going to car shows

Keith said. “She asks to go to one just

and interacting with the people,” said her

about every weekend. I’m just glad she

mother, Brandy Magan. Brandy’s father

got tall enough that I don’t have to pick

and Bella's grandfather, Keith Magan,

her up to look in all the cars anymore.”

said he has been fixing up and driving

During the Saturday night cruise-

various cars his entire life. He rescued

in in downtown Owensboro on Sept. 7,

and restored a 1924 Custer electric

Sunset Cruisers President Joe Anderson

vehicle when Bella was just 3 years old.

arranged for Bella to be the guest of

"It is small, but it was street legal in

honor. “She is a fixture,” Anderson said.

1924," Keith said of the car which was one

“A lot of people know her and recognize

of several manufactured from 1920-1965

her.”

in Dayton, Ohio by Custer Car Specialty

Company. Because of its size, Keith said

passion for classic cars that he often

his granddaughter claimed the car as

jokes that she is the only person to

hers and would consistently check on its

ever walk up to him at the McDonald’s

progress each weekend.

playground and say she couldn’t wait

until the Cruise-In season started.

“She thought she was going to be too

Anderson has been so taken by Bella’s

big to drive it before I got it done,” Keith

said. “That was pretty good motivation

were cleared for her and her Custer to

[to get it finished].”

cruise down before she was presented

Bella has been participating in car

with a special gift and signed card as

shows for the past five years and drove

a token of appreciation from Sunset

the Custer to a show for the first time

Cruiser club members.

three years ago. She has 33 trophies to

show for her efforts and, according to

thing,” Brandy said. “She has been going

her grandfather, is “a car show kid.”

to the car shows for so long — it was a

big night for her.”

“She’d rather go to the car show than

As for her special night, the streets

“She was just excited about the whole

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PAID ADVERTORIAL FOREMAN, WATSON, HOLTREY, LLP

Why should you choose a local attorney? I

f you spend any time driving around Owensboro, you have probably noticed more and more billboards advertising the

services of law firms. Many of the law firms who advertise in Owensboro do not have offices in Owensboro, nor do they have any connection to Owensboro. This means many of the law firms advertising in Owensboro are doing nothing to contribute back to our community. While that fact alone should be enough to motivate people to choose local attorneys, there are many other reasons to choose local attorneys.

SAVE MONEY When your attorney is from out of town, it will cost more for your attorney to travel to hearings and other court appearances. In a case where court appearances are required multiple times before the case has concluded, this can mean the difference in thousands of dollars for legal fees and expenses. If you are inclined to hire an attorney from out of town to handle

attorney as well as the attorney’s reputation. You can find out what activities the attorney is involved in within the community and better acquaint yourself with the pros and cons of the attorney and his or her staff.

your legal matter be sure you inquire about what that attorney charges for travel time and whether they charge you an hourly

In conclusion, it is important to remember that choosing an

fee on top of travel expenses.

attorney is an extraordinarily important process. Most often,

FAMILIARITY WITH JUDGES AND COURT

when someone needs to retain legal counsel it involves a matter that will result in life changing or life altering consequences. As a consumer, choosing an attorney, you have the right to know

Every court and every judge have peculiar rules, methods and

the answers to many questions. One question that you should

procedures for conducting court business. The attorneys in the

not have to worry about is whether there will be added expense

same town as the court and the judges will have a much better

because your attorney is out of town and is not familiar with the

feel for preferences and efficient methods for dealing with the court and its staff. Attorneys in the same town often have worked against each other many times and are able to work together to achieve a result quicker and more efficiently then

do’s and dont’s of the local courts. So, the next time you or your loved ones need to retain an attorney, you are best served by starting your consideration with local attorneys.

working with attorneys from out of town. The attorneys at Foreman Watson Holtrey are proud to offer

CREDENTIALING

legal services of all types to residents of Owensboro and

If you use a local attorney, it will be much easier for you to find

surrounding counties. Our award-winning law firm practices in

other people in the area who have also used that attorney’s

the area of personal injury law, civil litigation, family law, real

services. This will allow you to do your own credentialing of

estate and estate planning, workers compensation law, as well

the attorney to find out the strengths and weaknesses of the

as other types of business law.

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SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION

SHOP LOCAL.

SHOP OWENSBORO. The Greater Owensboro Chamber of Commerce is proud to present Shop Owensboro 2019 powered by Independence Bank! This is the sixth year for the event and it’s sure to be the best yet! Shop Owensboro is a banner day for many local businesses as Owensboroans have adopted the mentality that shopping small is a big deal for our community.

"Independence Bank couldn't be more excited and appreciative of our partnership with the Chamber and their Shop Owensboro campaign. As a bank, we recognize that local businesses are what drives our community forward, which is why we support them through our "Local Love" initiative. We strive to promote local love year round, incorporating customers and local businesses in all of the markets we serve so the Chamber's Shop Small campaign is the perfect complement to that. We share the Chamber's vision that our community is stronger when we all succeed, especially as a local business ourselves. We are grateful to the Chamber and their team for the investment they make in supporting local businesses."

Over 50 local Chamber Member businesses will be participating in the event on Saturday, November 30. Boutiques, gift shops, restaurants and retailers of all kinds will be providing discounts and shopping incentives throughout the day. “Shop Owensboro is our local version of Small Business Saturday. It has grown from a moment to a movement,” said GO Chamber President and CEO Candance Castlen Brake. “There is not a better way to celebrate all that is Owensboro than to do business with the local people who have invested their lives in our community. There is so much excitement and fun. And each dollar we spend that day, turns over in our community four times!”

The Shop Owensboro kick-off takes place at Independence Square on 2425 Frederica Street and the Independence Bank 54 location at promptly 9 a.m. on November 30. Pick up your FREE official Shop Owensboro bag at either location! The shopping bags are filled with maps of the participating stores, hours of operation for the day, store information, Shop Owensboro BINGO cards to win door prizes, — Kyle Aud, Senior Vice President, Independence Bank coupons, special offers and discounts and hidden gift certificates. The kick-off at Independence Bank is an open house format where shoppers can pop in to pick up their shopping bags, win door prizes and fuel up on Starbucks coffee and donuts. Last year 500 shopping bags were given out in less than 15 minutes, so you are encouraged to arrive early! The Chamber prides itself on promoting their Members and all the great things they have to offer this community and Shop Owensboro is a great way to do that. The locally owned and operated businesses in the Greater Owensboro area are to be envied and valued and this event is truly a showcase of how special our community is. Shop Chamber Members…because we believe in Owensboro!

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SHOP OWENSBORO

1 WELBORN FLORAL

920 E 4th St // Owensboro, KY 42303 S A L LY B A R K E R , O W N E R

Why shop local?

What is your favorite item/service you are offering this holiday season?

Shopping locally should be a priority for everyone in our community. Local business owners take pride in our customer base and go above and beyond to ensure service that only a personal connection can accomplish. This canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be found at big box stores.

What is your favorite holiday movie?

Elf hands down. Spreading Christmas cheer is what we do!

One of our favorite items we are carrying this year is our pet theme. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s fun for everyone!

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? Our holiday tradition begins at open house on November 1. We are lucky to enjoy and celebrate longer than most. For myself and our employees....we know that when we lock up December 24, everyone is decorated and ready to celebrate, including us!

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4399 Springhill Dr Suite C // Owensboro, KY 42303 L A R RY MY L E S , O W N E R

Why shop local? When you purchase at a locally owned businesses more money is kept in our community and you are supporting local families and the local economy. Purchasing at a locally owned business will generate new and supporting businesses to open in our community.

What is your favorite item/service you are offering this holiday season? We provide an array of safety lighting for yourself and your bike. Services include flat tire changing and bike wash. Gift cards are also the perfect gift for anyone that has a bicycle.

What is your favorite holiday movie?

National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? Decorating the Christmas tree, family, gathering with family and friends and sipping on eggnog.

3 HILL VIEW FARMS MARKET 5024 Lee Rudy Rd // Owensboro, KY 42301 JIM GILLES, OWNER

Why shop local? It supports people within your community. You know who you are shopping with and that they represent quality products or brands and will stand behind them.

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What is your favorite item/service you are offering this holiday season? Reindeer Treats

What is your favorite holiday movie?

Up for debate, but Home Alone or The Polar Express.

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? Christmas parties with friends and family.

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SHOP OWENSBORO

4 STUDIO SLANT

624 Emory Dr // Owensboro, KY 42301 M A RY-K AT H E R I N E M A D D OX , S I S T E R O F S L A N T

Why shop local? Studies have proven that shopping local keeps your money invested in your community. When local businesses succeed, that means more jobs, more donations to local non-profits, and something we are also personally proud of which is unique merchandise that creates a fun atmosphere to bring visiting friends and family. You’re also working with people who are passionate about what they do. This provides a much more enjoyable experience for you!

What is your favorite item/service you are offering this holiday season?

What is your favorite holiday movie?

We gotta show love to our tried and true brands like Mariposa, Waterford and Happy Everything, but we are pretty pumped about this new line called Glitterville. It’s the perfect vibe of funky bright modern colors and vintage designs. Magic wands, rainbow ribbon ruffle tree skirts (say that 10 times fast,) molded glass ornaments and glitter galore! Definitely not something you’ll find a big box store.

Home Alone ya filthy animal!

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? It’s not the holiday season until we switch our signature gift wrapping ribbon from hot pink to red!

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3333 Frederica St #8 // Owensboro, KY 42301 R E B E C C A B I C K E T T A N D L I Z FA U G H T, C O - O W N E R S A N D C R E AT O R S O F P O S S I B I L I T I E S

Why shop local? To support small businesses and families in our community that keep our city unique.

What is your favorite item/service you are offering this holiday season? Festive and unique candles, books, journals and more!

What is your favorite holiday movie?

Toss up between National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation and Elf.

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most? Going to the Christmas tree farm with family to pick out a tree and decorating it! We also enjoy selecting angels off the tree at school and church to buy gifts for.

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S A N D R A M E N D E Z , E V E N T S A N D M A R K E T I N G C O O R D I N AT O R

Why shop local? When you shop local, you invest in your community in a way that big box stores will never do. Gene's will never have a self check out because personal contact is important to us. And if I were to give that practice a critique, why would you eliminate the job from the community when it’s so important to keep people employed? Fewer jobs means fewer people spending. 46 OWENSBORO PARENT

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What is your favorite item/service you are offering this holiday season? Gift certificates to Gene's Health Food are a great gift. We also have a great selection of hand poured candles and handmade jewelry.

What is your favorite holiday movie?

What holiday tradition do you look forward to the most?

I love so many Christmas movies but I think my favorite is White Christmas with Bing Crosby and Rosemary Clooney.

We are a family that really enjoys cooking together and teaching our children how to cook and the importance of using real ingredients. My favorite part of the holidays is cooking together and feeding our families.

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PAID ADVERTORIAL • CASA OF OHIO VALLEY

Change the life of a child. I

n the '90s a group of concerned community leaders and Junior League of Owensboro came together to brainstorm on how

to bring a much needed service to Daviess County. A local judge had heard of a national organization that taught adult volunteers how to be a voice for abused and neglected children. CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) was showing great promise in helping the court system make better decisions for the best interest of innocent children. Throughout those early years, many caring volunteers came together to form CASA of Ohio Valley.

adult can do it! It only takes a few hours each month to change

Since that time, hundreds of local committed, caring

the life of a child - a bold statement but true. CASA volunteers

individuals have volunteered to be a voice for abused and

receive special training and program support to do the work of

neglected children, and many hundreds of our children have

getting to know the child and helping the family court judge

experienced a caring adult in their lives.

have a better perspective on the situation each child faces.

The numbers of

child abuse and neglect cases are continuing to rise each year. Hopefully this means more reports of abuse are made to protect the children.

CASAs only have one case at a time, giving them the unique

opportunity to get to know their child, how they are doing in school, in relationships, and with their family situation. CASAs

Tragically, Kentucky has the distinction of having the

work closely with social workers, attorneys, therapists, teachers

highest rate of child abuse and neglect in the country. This

and other professionals to make recommendations for services

rate is largely due to the increase in substance abuse, especially

the child needs. CASAs have diverse and unique life experiences

methamphetamine, and the resulting neglect surrounding

that help them see the child with a lens of compassion and

the parent’s loss of concern for the child. As these children

caring, while using their national CASA training and CASA

experience the trauma surrounding their abuse, they have no

supervisor guidance to be a strong voice for the children they

foundation for stability or trust in adults. Yet studies prove

serve.

that having one caring adult can help break the cycle of abuse and trauma for these children. This fact is proven in the child cases where a CASA is appointed by the court to be aware and advocate for the child.

Each CASA volunteer advocate commits to keeping the court

informed of the child’s needs and desires. CASAs provide the “human story” to an otherwise legal and often cold process. CASAs remind us that these children are innocent victims,

As a 501c3 organization, CASA depends on the support of

caught up in a system through no fault of their own. And CASAs

the community, fundraisers and grants to continue the work of

help the children understand that they are more than their

advocating for innocent child victims of abuse and neglect. It

circumstances, worthy of love with the potential for a bright

takes a very special person to be a CASA. But most any caring

and positive future.

For more information on how you can change the life of a child, visit www.CASAov.org or contact CASA of Ohio Valley at 270-683-2138 or director@CASAovKY.org November // December 2019 . OWENSBORO PARENT

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Discover

ADVICE AND TIPS ON H OW TO M AKE PARENTING AN D L IFE EASIER

The Reading

Photo by Jamie Alexander

Nook

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DISCOVER • THE READING NOOK

This is the Turkey

Squirrel's New Years Resolution

by Abby Levine

by Pat Miller

Max is excited about the big turkey he has picked out

Squirrel's New Year's Resolution is a 2010 Children's picture book

for his family's Thanksgiving dinner. He and his sister

written by Pat Miller and illustrated by Kathi Ember. It is about Squirrel

help prepare the fixings, and soon his friends and

who wants to make a New Year's resolution but initially doesn't know

relatives bring their own dishes and merriment.

what it is, then helps her friends with theirs but is unable to think of one

At last, it's time to bring in Max's turkey. But watch out!

for herself.

Mom steps on a toy car and the turkey goes flying — landing in the fishtank! How can there be Thanksgiving without a turkey?

One Cozy Christmas

The Best Thanksgiving Ever by Teddy Slater A sweet story about the importance of family, being thankful, and love—

by M. Christina Butler

as told by a family of turkeys, with a hilarious surprise at the end!

Little Hedgehog and his friends are so excited to spend Christmas together. They pick out a tree and decorate

Santa's Story by Will Hillenbrand

it, then happily go to bed. But the next morning,

Santa is ready to leave on Christmas Eve, but he can’t find the reindeer

everyone is grumpy! "You stepped on my paws!" cries

anywhere. Dasher is busy dashing, Donner is dozing, and Cupid is

Fox. "I can't find my socks!" moans Rabbit. "Who was

crooning. It isn’t until Santa remembers their annual tradition—reading

snoring all night long?" grumbles a tired Badger. And

a Christmas story together—that the reindeer are ready. Reindeer

someone even ate one of the cookies that had been

merriment abounds in this charming yuletide tale about honoring the

hung on the tree! Is their Christmas ruined?

celebration of holiday customs with those you love.

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DISCOVER

parental control { Q&A with Christina Dalton, MSSW, CSW }

I have 4-year-old twins, a boy and a girl. I am â&#x20AC;&#x153;consistent with both of them. My son's behavior is very frustrating. Nothing seems to faze him. My daughter, on the other hand, I can put her in time out or take something away and she acts as if the world is ending. How can I keep consistency when something only works for one and nothing works for the other one?

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This is one of the best questions I have received. I feel like I see this a lot in the classrooms too. I think it is very important to remember that all behavior serves a purpose. It is easy to be caught up in routine too because we preach that kids need consistency and routine. I agree that is a true statement, but sometimes what works for one child is not going to work for another child, especially in the same home. When looking at what works best for your daughter, you have to figure out what works best for your son and it is perfectly ok that those are different supports. Some kids need more supports in place to control their behaviors. When it comes to behavior I want you to remember whatever you feed, will grow. What we pay attention to is what we will see the most of. Think about your son's behavior and how much time and attention it

sounds like you have to put into his negative behavior. When I say that, please do not misunderstand me. I am not saying there are no consequences. You have to have consequences in life for bad choices. I am saying that when things are going well, these are the times that you are giving the most attention and praise for what he or she is doing right. Going back to that statement, whatever you feed, will grow. If we are spending 80% of our time letting our kids know what they are doing great, those behaviors will grow and flourish. It is not as much fun to throw a fit or blow up if no one pays attention to it. Great question. Just some food for thought to think about. Every child is different and therefore has different needs to support them to be successful and it is our job as adults to help figure out what those look like. OP

CHRISTINA DALTON, MSSW, CSW is a Family Resource Center Coordinator for Daviess County Public Schools.

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DISCOVER • PARENTING TIPS FROM DR. MOM

elicious

home

cooked

meals,

twinkling lights, bedtime stories

by the fire, and a trip to the emergency room. This could be your list of holiday memories if you fail to take the proper precautions this season. It is easy to neglect safety during all of the hustle and bustle, but proper preparation can make the difference between a hectic or a happy holiday.

Holiday decorations are beautiful,

but they can become a safety hazard for young children.

Artificial spray

snow can severely irritate the lungs if inhaled so keep these out of reach. Avoid

using

breakable

sharp

decorations and use caution with sharp ornament hangers. Also avoid decorations that resemble candy or food because small children may try to eat them. Popcorn or cranberry garlands can be a choking hazard for little ones. Bubble lights are less common these days, but they contain a fluid that is poisonous if ingested. Certain seasonal plants, such as mistletoe, holly, and poinsettias are also potentially poisonous if ingested. Contact the National Poison Center at (800) 222-1222 if you have concerns regarding an ingestion.

Add the

number to your phone’s contact list so it is handy if you need it.

Healthy

Holidays By Shanna McGinnis

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When traveling or visiting other

homes for holiday events and parties, remember to keep a very close eye on your children. If the party host does not have kids, the home is probably not child-proofed. Be aware of accessible stairs,

uncovered

outlets,

and

cabinets that could contain hazardous chemicals. Although you may avoid them at home, candles or fires in the fireplace are common at holiday gatherings. For older children, teach them the importance of steering clear

of open flames. Our family mantra when visiting others is “We look with our eyes, not with our hands.” Speaking of hands, this is a good time to review and enforce good hand hygiene practices to prevent the spread of cold and flu viruses.

Caution should be exercised when it comes to food

and drinks at parties as well. If your children have food allergies, be sure to inquire about ingredients used. Seasonal baked goods contain some of the most common food allergens - milk, eggs, nuts, and wheat. If you are not able to get ingredient information, err on the side of caution and choose a different food. When in doubt, leave it out. If you have been advised by your doctor to carry an EpiPen, make sure you have it with you, not just during holiday parties, but all the time. Also be attentive to bowls or trays of food or candies left on tables during “open house” style events. Although this is a practical strategy for easy entertaining, it can get little ones into trouble if they eat foods that are choking hazards or allergy risks. If alcohol is being served, ensure that your child’s beverage is nonalcoholic and they are not sneaking sips from other cups.

One of the most fun parts about this time of year is

gift giving, but nothing will ruin the fun more quickly than a toy-related illness or injury. Ensure that the toy is age appropriate. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, and other family members (at least in my family) are notorious for purchasing toys that are too advanced. A toy that may be appropriate and safe for a 10-year-old may not be for a 5-year-old. It probably will not be fun for the younger child either. Be sure that art supplies, such as crayons, markers, paints, and clay, are non-toxic. Painted toys should be covered in lead-free paint. Lead paint has been banned in the United States since 1978; however, it may be found on vintage toys or products imported from other countries. With so much online shopping these days, it is becoming easier to receive a toy that contains lead paint. For more information on toy safety, visit the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission website at http://www.cpsc.gov/.

The holidays are a great time to gather with friends

and family, but don’t leave safety out of your celebration. We hope you have a happy and healthy holiday this year!

SHANNA MCGINNIS is a board-certified pediatrician with Owensboro Health Pediatrics. She is also the mother of three children.

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PAID ADVERTORIAL • DRAKE'S

Drake's Restaurant Opens in Owensboro D rake’s, a family-friendly restaurant, opened on October 21

find families on a turf-lined game patio playing cornhole, giant

in the Highland Pointe Shopping Center. Drake’s partnered

Jenga and connect four. The restaurant also has shuffleboard

with Goodfellows Club on their grand opening to raise $2,000

and weekly trivia nights. The year-round indoor patio features

for the organization.

a fireplace to cozy up to during the winter months and large

“The Goodfellows Club of Owensboro has been serving

garage doors that will open when it gets warm creating a lively

children in our community for 103 years,” says Bob Clark,

open-air atmosphere. Guests have a choice of high-top tables

Goodfellows Club of Owensboro president-elect. “We serve

and booths or traditional table seating, with plenty of high

the children with the greatest needs by working with family

chairs to accommodate families.

resource and youth service centers to provide clothing,

emergency dental care and an annual Christmas party. The

unwavering commitment to hospitality and an atmosphere that

board relies on the generosity of the citizens of this community

invites people to have a lot of fun,” Thornburg says.

to provide the funding we need each year during our Roll Call between Thanksgiving and Christmas. One hundred percent of the funds raised through contributions support the needs of children in Daviess County. We are also very grateful to have Drakes help us out with our ever growing need for funding so that we are able to continue our mission and ensure that no child is forgotten.”

Drake’s servers donated their tips during the restaurant’s

soft opening and Drake’s matched all donations.

“When you come to Drake's you can expect exceptional food,

The menu includes enormous griddle-pressed burgers, steaks, mini burgers, shareable appetizers like nachos and BLT tots, build your own tacos, hearty salads, and a slew of sandwiches. Drake’s also serves a full sushi menu offering sushi lovers rare flavors and perfectly-executed classics handrolled to order in a window open to view from the restaurant. Children will enjoy favorites from the kids menu including mini cheeseburgers, chicken fingers and grilled cheese.

Parents will be glad to hear Drake’s incentivizes achievement

“It’s important to Drake’s to support the local community,”

in school by offering a free ice cream for students who bring

says Mark Thornburg, Drake’s chief operating officer. “We

in a report card with an A. The restaurant also offers free kids

have a soft spot in our hearts for children and love what the

meals on Daviess County snow days: kids twelve and under eat

Goodfellows Club is doing for kids right here in Owensboro.”

The new restaurant embodies its “come play” tagline. You’ll

free with the purchase of an adult entrée (dine-in and kids menu only.)

Visit Drake’s at 3050 Highland Pointe Drive in Owensboro or online at drakescomeplay.com. The restaurant is open daily at 11am. November // December 2019 . OWENSBORO PARENT

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Out & About

EVEN T S AN D ACTIVITIES FOR OWE NSBORO FAMILIES

Christmas Light Adventure

Grab some hot chocolate, turn up your favorite Christmas music and pile in the car. A Christmas light adventure is a great outing for the whole family to get in the holiday spirit. Here are a few must-see light locations around town! CHRISTMAS IN STONEGATE While a majority of the neighborhood joins in on the holiday lighting, the Lashbrookâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s house, which has been featured on the hit show the Great Christmas Light Fight, is the crown jewel. Using about 200,000 lights, the Lashbrooks certainly have a display you won't want to miss. They even unveiled a 20 foot snowman last year, which to the family's knowledge is the tallest in the world. Santa Claus and his helpers will be greeting visitors during the season, handing out hot chocolate and candy canes. Check the Owensboro Christmas Lights Facebook page for details on dates.

5627 HIGHWAY 405 Just a little drive out in the county, but worth it! This house is just a little way down 405, which is just before you get to Yellow Creek Park. You can even pull over across the house in the Yellow Creek Baptist Church back driveway in order to get a better look! GRIFFITH AVENUE Many houses along both sides of Griffith Avenue have elaborate decorations.

By Ashley Sorce-Wedding // Photo by AP Imagery

3104 HARNESS LOOP Decorations surround this house, filling the front yard, both side yards and the back yard as well, which can be seen off Fairview Drive behind CVS. Pull into Harness Loop off Stirrup Loop and tune into the FM station on the sign in the front yard to experience the synchronized light show.

INDEPENDENCE BANK MAIN BRANCH If you need some Christmas spirit during work hours, just walk inside the Independence Branch main branch. The giant Christmas tree in the lobby is a jaw-dropper! It stands 28' tall (just 2 feet shy of the outdoor tree in Smothers Park) and holds 10,000 lights. The decorated window displays in the entryway are nice as well.

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OUT & ABOUT

10 Local Things to Do

This Holiday Season

43rd Annual Holiday Forest Festival of Trees N OV. 9 - DE C. 31 OWE NSBORO M USE UM OF F INE AR T

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The 43rd Annual Holiday Forest Festival of Trees opens at the Owensboro Museum of Fine Art on Nov. 9, 2019 and continues to Dec. 31, 2019. Fifteen monumental Christmas trees designed to celebrate the traditions of holiday art and food. OMFA Hours: Closed Monday; Tuesday thru Friday noon-5 p.m.; Saturday and Sunday 1 p.m.-4 p.m.

FROZEN AT THE EDGE! NOV. 10 FROM 1– 4 P.M. THE E D G E IC E C E N T E R

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The Edge Ice Center will be celebrating everything FROZEN during its Frozen at the Edge public session on Sunday, Nov. 10, from 1-4 p.m. with featured special guests, Anna and Elsa! Bring your family and friends and “let it go” while skating along to all your favorite songs from the movie. In addition, there will be frozen themed crafts and prizes. Admission is $6 per person and includes skate rental. The Edge Ice Center is located at 1400 Hickman Avenue, next to the Owensboro Sportscenter. For more information, please call the Edge Ice Center at (270) 687-8720 or visit our website at owensboroparks.org.

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Owensboro-Daviess County Christmas Parade 2019 N OV. 23 F R OM 4:30 – 8:30 P.M. DOWNTOWN OWE NSBORO

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The 2019 Owensboro-Daviess County Christmas Parade

DRUMLINE HOLIDAY SPECTACULAR LIVE!

theme is Christmas Memories! Bundle up, bring some hot chocolate and watch the floats travel through Downtown Owensboro, a local tradition.

NOV. 16 FROM 7 – 9:30 P.M. R I V E RPARK C E N T E R

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The DRUMLINE LIVE HOLIDAY SPECTACULAR takes you on an unforgettable musical journey through the most beloved chart-topping holiday classics. Imagine the festive sounds of holiday cheer combining Gospel, Jazz, Soul, Motown rhythms, and The Nutcracker Suite mixed with a hip-hop beat and the driving force of a Historically Black College and University (HBCU) marching band. You have to see the DRUMLINE LIVE HOLIDAY SPECTACULAR to experience the magic and musicianship! Tickets are now on sale online at OwensboroTickets.com or by calling the RiverPark Center Box Office at (270) 687-2787.

Holiday in The Park N OV. 27 - J AN. 2 L EGION PA RK

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Holiday in The Park is a Holiday Tradition! Legion Park will be lit with festive dancing trees, holiday displays and Jolly Ole Saint Nick in his sleigh! Take a stroll with family and friends, you may even want to sing along to your favorite holiday carols!

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OUT & ABOUT

5th Annual Care Net Reindeer Run/Walk D EC. 7 S M OTHER S PA RK DOWN TOWN R I V E RF RONT

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Join Care Net for the 5th Annual Reindeer Run/Walk. This fun event is open to runners and walkers of all types. So grab family members, friends, or co-workers and join the fun to kick off the holiday season! New this year, The Reindeer Dash, for ages 7 and under, is a separate event starting at 9:30 a.m. See registration website for details. The race will be a timed event for the purposes of awarding winner divisions. There will also

be door prizes and best-dressed awards.

HOLIDAY STROLL DOWNTOWN OWENSBORO

Participants are encouraged to come

D E C. 7 F RO M 3 – 7 P.M.

dressed in Christmas attire (ugly sweaters,

DOWNTOWN OWE NSBORO

Santa hats, bells, fun socks, etc.). Visit with

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Santa, enjoy hot chocolate, and win prizes

Join in the kick-off of the Holiday Season in Downtown Owensboro

as we kick off the Christmas season. The

for the Holiday Stroll! Enjoy downtown dining and Christmas

Reindeer Run/Walk entry fee of $25 includes

shopping at our local shops and Christmas caroling and fun activities!

a long sleeve t-shirt and entry for door

Participate in the “Elf on the Shelf” Scavenger Hunt with a chance to

prize drawings. Visit RunSignUp.com for

win tickets and don’t forget the Christmas tree lighting in Smothers

registration details and deadlines.

Park at 5 p.m. It’s a delightful holiday family fun time!

CHRISTMAS AT PANTHER CREEK N OV. 29 - J AN. 2 FR O M 6 – 9 P.M. PA NTH E R CRE E K PA RK

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Panther Creek Park, located at 5160 Wayne Bridge Road, brings a lighted holiday tradition as you drive through the park to enjoy over 500,000 display of beautiful lights. Wagon rides will also be available nightly if weather permits. Christmas at Panther Creek is one of the community’s holiday favorites! Fee contributions sponsor Daviess County non-profits throughout the year! For more information, please contact the Daviess County Parks office at (270) 685-6142!

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THE NUTCRACKER PRESENTED BY OWENSBORO DANCE THEATRE D EC. 7 AT 7 P.M. R I V ERPARK C E NT E R

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Find the joy of Christmas through the beauty of music and dance with The Nutcracker! Owensboro Dance Theatre is still bringing new and innovating tricks and technology to the stage. The audience will enter Marieâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dream, experiencing all the magic and wonder through dance with a flying bed, levitating Arabian dancer, and more special flying effect from ZFX. ODT also welcomes back professional dancers from Giordano Dance Chicago and Kentucky Ballet Theatre. Mark your calendars for this performance.

Cirque Dreams Holidaze D E C. 12 AT 7 P.M. RIVE RPA RK CE NTE R

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Cirque Dreams lights up the 2019 holiday season with its acclaimed holiday stage extravaganza! CIRQUE DREAMS HOLIDAZE is a new cirque show, Broadway musical, and family Christmas spectacular all in one. Be amazed by this holiday performance with over 300 costumes, 20 acts and 30 artists. Many of these acts have been featured on Americaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Got Talent and similar TV shows in other countries making CIRQUE DREAMS HOLIDAZE the greatest variety show on the planet! Witness snowmen, penguins, angels, reindeer, toy soldiers, gingerbread men, ornaments and of course Santa. Tickets are on sale now online at OwensboroTickets.com or by calling the RiverPark Center Box Office at (270) 687-2787.

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OUT & ABOUT

kids

meal deals

EVERY DAY

Firehouse Subs – Up to 2 kids eat free (12 & under) all day with purchase of an adult meal

MONDAY

Donatos – Up to 2 free individual 1-topping pizza/per child (12 and under) with the purchase of a large pizza; dine-in only from 5-8pm

Grandy’s – 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult meal TGI Fridays – Free kids meal (ages 12 & under) with the purchase of an adult entrée Moonlite Bar-B-Q Inn - Up to 2 kids eat free (ages 10 & under) from 4-9pm with adult buffet purchase Zaxby’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult meal from 5-8pm Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entrée

TUESDAY

Beef ‘O’ Brady’s – $1.99 kids meal (ages 12 & under) all day Denny’s – Up to 2 free kids meals with an adult meal purchase Fazoli’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult entrée

THURSDAY Dairy Queen (Frederica Location) – Up to 2 $1.99 kids meals Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with the purchase of a signature sandwich

SATURDAY Lure Seafood & Grille – Free kids meal with purchase of adult entrée Wheatgrass Juice Bar – Free kids smoothie with adult purchase Long John Silver’s – $1.99 Kids meals all day

SUNDAY Beef 'O' Brady's – Free kids meal (ages 12 & under) with the purchase of an adult entrée from 4-8pm; dine-in only

Pizza Hut (South Frederica location) – 1 free child buffet with the purchase of an adult buffet from 4:30-7pm

Briarpatch – 1 free kids meal (10 & under) per adult entrée

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with the purchase of a signature sandwich Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entrée McDonald’s – $1.99 Happy meals from 4-7pm; dine-in only . November // December 2019

Burger Theory (located in the Holiday Inn Owensboro Riverfront) – Free kids meal (ages 12 & under) with purchase of an adult meal; breakfast, lunch & dinner

Pizza By the Guy – 1 free kids buffet for (ages 10 & under) with an adult purchase with a drink on Tuesdays from 5-8pm

Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée; dine in only

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WEDNESDAY

O’Charley’s – Free kids meal (ages 10 & under) with the purchase of adult entrée

Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée; dine in only Pizza By the Guy – 1 free buffet for kids (ages 10 & under) with adult purchase with a drink from 11:30am-2pm Firehouse Subs – Kids eat free (12 & under) all day with purchase of adult meal; up to 2 kids per adult Bar Louie – Kids eat free 11am - 7pm up to 2 kids per adult entrée; dine-in only

on the honor roll?

Bring your report card to these local restaurants & businesses for additional deals! Orange Leaf – Bring in your report card and receive $1 off yogurt; a report card with straight A’s will receive a small cup free. Ritzy’s (Both locations) – Ritzy’s has a “Scoops for Scholars” program. Students can bring in their report card each grading period to earn treats for each “A.” 1A = flavored soft drink (cherry, vanilla, or chocolate) 2 A's = single scoop of ice cream 3 A's = your choice of a hotdog,

coney, hamburger, or cheeseburger 4 A's = double scoop of ice cream

movie/game rental for every A (or equivalent) they received in a core class for the year.

McDonald’s – All five Owensboro McDonald’s decided this school year that they will award a free Happy Meal to any student who gets straight A's on their report card. Family Video (1212 JR Miller) – For a limited time during the summer, you can take your end of the year report card to Family Video. Your child will receive a voucher for a free

Chuck E. Cheese in Evansville – A child can receive 10 tokens with a purchase if they bring in their report card. Sky Zone in Evansville – All A’s= 1/2 off any jump. A & B’s= $5 off any jump. Weekdays & Friday 2-7pm.

*This list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation.

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