Owensboro Parent / August - September 2021 by Tanner Publishing

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Contents

44 Behind the Scenes We take you behind the scenes of our events, photo shoots, cover shots and more in this throwback section!

48 Owensboro Parent Hits & Misses Not every idea is a winner! Reflecting on the last decade, we share some of our biggest wins and some things that didn't turn out as we expected

IN EV ERY ISSUE

8 From the Editor 9 Around OBKY 10 Parent Profile

KEEPING IT REA L

12 Real Life with Lora Wimsatt It goes by so fast.

MA KING IT

16 Recipe Celebrate with this easy banana cake with cinnamon cream cheese frosting from Becca Bakes. 18 Digital Scrapbook Preserve your kids' childhood through a digital scrapbook.

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20 Birthday Party Ideas Reader submitted birthday theme ideas sponsored by The Party Space Place

THEN & NOW

SPECIA L A DV ERT ISIN G SECTION

53 Anniversary Celebrations

OUT & ABO U T

26 Called To Serve Harralson Family

60 Events Calendar Our list of fun things to do around town this season!

30 #BeadsForBaby 2.0 Jackie Smith

64 Kids Meal Deals Check out these local kids meal deals!

32 Proving them Wrong Tristin Crusenberry 34 Center Stage Shealyn Mason 36 From American Idol to the Courtroom Jenny Beth Willis 38 Staying the Course Ke'Asha Phillips

FROM OU R REA D ERS

66 Birthday Celebrations Photos submitted to our Facebook page sponsored by Owensboro Health! 72 Say What? We asked: “What would be the BEST birthday present ever?”

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BEHIND THE SCENES

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING ABOUT WORKING FOR OWENSBORO PARENT?

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Sharing the experience of parenthood with my community. I love telling your stories and offering advice to make being a mom and dad a little easier.

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I love getting to interact with our readers on social media and seeing all the great photo submissions we get on our Facebook page for each issue!

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Having the opportunity to interact with members of the community.

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EDITORIAL DESIGN & PHOTOGRAPHY EDITOR

Ashley Wedding CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

John Kirkpatrick Laura Murphy Elizabeth Muster Jacqueline Jordan Russell Lora Wimsatt COPY EDITOR

Ashley Gleason

ON THE COVER Tanner Publishing Co. staff members' children: Tate & Hattie (Brock Quinton) Lincoln (Ashley Gleason) Avery, Reed & Mason (Ashley Wedding) Collin & Olivia (Andrea Roberson) Emmie Kate, Wilson, Finley & Gray (Robert Williams) Ella, Ethan, Lydia & Levi (Jason Tanner) Photo by Jamie Alexander GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Andrea Roberson Monica Smith

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Versatility! I might be designing layouts, working a community event, brainstorming cover ideas, lettering an entire cover with chalk or throwing confetti at a photo shoot— it keeps the job fun and exciting! It also doesn't hurt to work with such a great group of talented people!

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STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER

Jamie Alexander Do you have a story idea? We want to hear from you! Email your suggestion to ashley@tannerpublishing.com

DISTRIBUTION

DISTRIBUTION MANAGER

Dave Mackey

ADVERTISING ACCOUNT DIRECTORS

Brock Quinton Robert Williams Owensboro Parent is a FREE magazine because of community support.

To add your business or organization to our distribution list, give us a call at 888-304-5416.

ONLINE

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Thank you to the great group of businesses and organizations who advertise. For more information about advertising call 888-304-5416 or email brock@tannerpublishing.com.

PUBLISHER

Jason Tanner PO Box 9503 Owensboro, KY 42302 888-304-5416

TANNER PUBLISHING CO.

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Being able to work somewhere that I get to use my creativity every day! Also, writing the recipes (because then I get to have an excuse to eat treats that are clearly made for children).

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FROM THE EDITOR

from the editor It seems like just yesterday that I sat down with Jason, our publisher, at Overflow Cafe. It was the first time I met him. I was a couple of years out of college with a journalism degree and expected to have a conversation about writing for this parenting magazine he wanted to start. We grabbed drinks and he explained the concept of Owensboro Parent and asked if I was interested in helping start it. My reply was, "Yes, I would love to write!" I was halfway into my pregnancy with Avery at the time and was so excited to write about my experiences as a new mom.

One of my contributions to the magazine has always been the kids craft. My kiddos love making them. Avery still has these Valentine's Love Bugs!

Jason said, "Actually, I want you to be the editor." That was 10 years ago. Now, with 75 issues published, Owensboro Parent is a piece of our community. Back then, we were hustling to get our magazine into local businesses for the public to pick up. Now businesses call us and ask to be a pick up location. Ten years ago, we had to sell ourselves to advertisers, hoping they would want to partner with us so that we could print Owensboro Parent and offer it to readers for free. Today, businesses trust our reputation and know that our publication is a proven platform to get in front of the audience they are trying to reach.

Not only do I volunteer at the Kids Tri, but I also run it with my kids. In 2019, I had to run it twice!

Avery loved her first Kids Triathlon with her cousins and fellow Tanner Publishing kids, Jude, Finley, Wilson and Emmie Kate.

For me, this issues marks 10 years of me being a mom. We put out our very first issue when I was eight months pregnant. By the time we were preparing our second issue, I was holding my daughter in my arms. Owensboro Parent turns 10 this month. Next month, my sweet daughter celebrates her first double digits birthday. (I'm definitely not crying as I write this.) Owensboro Parent has brought me so much joy. I have been able to share my story—the births of my children, my divorce, my wedding, my career changes. And I have been able to tell your stories as well. The challenges you have overcome, the incredible ways you give back to your community, the love you have for your families. The reason we started this magazine 10 years ago was to bring parents together. There is nothing more life-changing than becoming a parent. It changes everything instantly and forever. And those experiences—wondrous, worrisome, unique and universal—are the things that Owensboro Parent and our readers share with each other.

When coming up with ideas for the magazine, I always try them with my kids first. The New Year's Eve party idea we came up with a few years ago is now a yearly tradition!

Reed had to test drive the convertible before the epic helicopter photo shoot!

I am thankful for the amazing experiences my kids have had thanks to Owensboro Parent! This is Avery playing a fiddle at ROMP.

Here's to a decade of Owensboro Parent and to 10 more years of this community's favorite family magazine! I literally became a mom as we launched Owensboro Parent. I was editing the second issue days after Avery was born.

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Avery has been my little helper from the beginning.

ks Ashley's Top Pic

Favorite Story: March 2013 we highlighted Disability Awareness month and the Color Blast 5K. As a part of the feature, we interviewed six individuals with disabilities that represented the local nonprofits hosting the race. Their stories were amazing, but it's what happened after the magazine released that makes this a favorite story. When Color Blast participants picked up their race bibs prior to the event, the six people we featured in the stories were present and signing autographs. We love when our community can come together for a bigger cause!

Favorite Covers: Jan/Feb 2018 and June/July 2021 I think I am obligated to pick these two because my sweet kiddos are on the covers. But in all seriousness, I am not a part of many cover shoots. Our talented team (photographer, Jamie, and designer, Andrea) are the brains behind these detailed photos. But for these two, I got to be a part of the magic and see just how much work and effort goes into a single shot.

Favorite Pet Contest Winner: Hands down... Hazel the goat, from our July 2020 issue. It was all we could talk about around the office for a week. Congrats, Hazel!

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Biggest 🏻 moment: On the cover of our April 2012 issue, I didn't catch a misspelled word. ON THE COVER. (Avery was seven months old and probably teething and not sleeping well... at least that's what I tell myself.) Don't forget to check out those "6 tips for heatlhier eating." Nine years later and this still keeps me up at night.

Favorite Cover Kid: They have all been adorable, but I am going to have to go with Sinny from our August/September 2020 issue. Her smile lit up the room and her story is nothing less than inspiring.

Favorite Section: This has to go to our Kids Takeover. It is way more work than actually doing the magazine ourselves, but we love when local kids provide the content. Whether they are giving their advice, illustrating a story, or informing you on an important topic, their perspective is so unique and we love sharing each piece with our readers. Personally, I love that Avery and Reed (and Mason in a few years) get to participate. Avery takes her letter from the editor very seriously. Looking back, it's so fun to see how she has grown. August // September 2021 . OWENSBORO PARENT

AROUND OBKY

PARENT PROFILE

Jason Tanner OWN E R O F TA N N E R P U B L I S H I N G CO. A N D TA N N E R+WE S T

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We spent a lot of time in Nashville when our oldest daughter needed openheart surgery almost 13 years ago. She was just 2.5 years old, and Natalie and I were brand new parents. It was the most challenging time of our lives. Our baby girl, who seemed so healthy to us, had a significant heart issue that could only be repaired with this invasive surgery. To say she's a miracle is an understatement. We saw firsthand the gifted team of specialists and God's faithfulness restore our baby girl. Within just a few days, she was ready to return to Owensboro. She played at the park just five days out of the surgery, and she hasn't slowed down yet. Today she's going into her sophomore year at Grace Christian Academy, she's a talented singer, and she's finishing up a summer job at a local orchard. And who knew that all those trips would inspire this magazine. But that's what happened. We'd pick up a Parent magazine for Davidson County with each trip to Nashville for pre-op and post-op. We loved it. Things to do, places to visit, great stories—the kind of thing I thought would be a perfect addition to our community here in Owensboro. As a graphic designer and photographer, I set out with the help of my wife, siblings, and friends Robert Williams and Ashley Wedding to create Owensboro Parent magazine. And ten years ago, we launched the very first issue. From that first magazine, we made a decision that we only wanted to create what we felt were the highest quality publications. We put all our energy into creating a product that we were proud of and felt represented our changing and growing town. And with its success, we added Owensboro Living magazine a few years later. After that, it was Henderson and Bowling Green, and Owensboro Chamber, and on and on. Today, we produce publications for partner organizations like Owensboro Health and Independence Bank. And we partnered with the Bluegrass Music Hall of Fame and Museum to relaunch Bluegrass Unlimited magazine. It ships to subscribers all over the world. As we grew, we were also able to start an Advertising and Design agency from the need created by our magazine advertisers. They loved what we did in the magazines for them, and now we develop websites, branding, marketing campaigns, and even Emmywinning video productions. Today, we are also part of Owensboro Times, daily news for Owensboro. Looking back at the hardest point in my life, Ella's open-heart surgery, and seeing what has grown from that experience is truly humbling. Who would have imagined. Certainly not me. There are so many people to thank that I'm afraid that I could leave someone out if I started listing them. But I hope each of them knows how grateful I am. Grateful that they believed in what we were doing enough to join our team of employees. Grateful that they chose to advertise in our magazines. Grateful that we've become friends through this business. OP

Keeping it Real

R E L ATA B L E S T O R I E S F R O M L O C A L PA R E N T S A N D G R A N D PA R E N T S

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KEEPING IT REAL

It Goes By So Fast By Lora Wimsatt

he 10th anniversary of Owensboro Parent magazine happily

have been to read about other

did go by just that fast.

families and their experiences,

whether

overcoming

Owensboro Parent magazine on

10-year

challenges, embracing adventures,

their 10th anniversary, wish my

oldest

creating fun ways to spend time

best wishes for many years to

grandchildren – giving me the

together or making a difference in

opportunity to contribute from

the lives of others.

come. And best wishes also to every

the perspective of an abundantly

blessed and overflowingly happy

has connected to the heartbeat of

Granma.

our community and its residents,

I am guessing that most

sharing stories about our friends,

readers of this publication are

our neighbors … our families …

young people, around the age of

ourselves.

my own children, who are just

I would like to close with just

beginning the lifelong adventure

experience as a young parent, I

a few verses of a poem by Alice E.

known as “parenting.”

realize that there were times when

Chase that I featured in one of the

I wish there had been a resource

the days seemed so long, as if that

first articles I ever submitted to

like Owensboro Parent available

season of life would never end. My

Owensboro Parent magazine:

when my kids were little. Written,

kids would always be little, always

edited and published by people

making a mess, always needing

“My hands were busy through the day,

who were walking along the same

more time, energy and attention

I didn’t have much time to play

path, each issue features articles

than I had to give.

The little games you asked me to;

and photographs designed to uplift

Then again, there were times

I didn’t have much time for you. ….

and support families in a positive

when the days seemed to fly by.

way, and bring our community

How could it be possible that my

For life is short, and years rush past.

closer together as one big family.

little baby was already walking …

What a relief it would have

clambering onto that big yellow

been for me as a young mother

bus on his way to kindergarten

to have read Christina Dalton’s

… playing sports and having a

column every month, discovering

life completely independent of

that other parents were struggling

mine … getting a driver’s license

with the same questions, concerns

… graduating from high school …

and problems I faced. What a help

going away to college … getting

it would have been to find snack

married … telling me I would be a

Do those little things, Moms

recipes, craft ideas and a calendar

grandmother.

and Dads. Do them today. Ten

of family-friendly things to do.

The days were long, but the

years, then 20, then a lifetime, go

What an encouragement it would

years were short, and time really

by all too quickly.

coincides

with

birthdays

the

two

was

For 10 years, Owensboro Parent

think

back

celebrate

and

applaud

parent who reads this magazine. Trust me, these are precious days. With all my heart, I encourage you to embrace every moment and cherish the treasure that has been given to you.

A little boy grows up so fast. No longer is he at your side, His precious secrets to confide. … My hands, once busy, now are still. The days are long and hard to fill. I wish I could go back and do The little things you asked me to.”

LORA WIMSATT is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.

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Making it

CRAFTS, RECIPES, AND ACTIVITIES FAMILIES CAN ENJOY TOGETHER

CELEBRATIONS ARE

Photo by Jamie Alexander

BET TER WITH CAKE!

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MAKING IT

Easy Banana Cake with Cinnamon Cream Cheese Frosting Recipe by Rebecca Westerfield // Photos by Jamie Alexander

CAKE: ›› 1 box yellow cake mix ›› 1 teaspoon baking soda ›› 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon ›› 1/4 teaspoon nutmeg ›› 1 teaspoon vanilla ›› Water, oil and eggs per directions on box ›› 3 large over-ripe bananas mashed

CINNAMON CREAM CHEESE FROSTING ›› 2 sticks butter (I use salted butter) ›› 1 2lb bag of powdered sugar ›› 1/2 block of cream cheese ›› 1 teaspoon of vanilla ›› 1/4 teaspoon of cinnamon ›› 1/4 cup of water (may need a little more depending on the thickness of frosting) INSTRUCTIONS ›› Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease 2 (8" round pans) or a 9 x 13 pan. ›› In large bowl whisk together dry box mix, baking soda, cinnamon, nutmeg. Add water, oil, vanilla and eggs as directed on box and add in vanilla. Beat on medium speed until well blended. Stir in mashed bananas. ›› Bake for 25-30 minutes (8" round pans) or 30-40 minutes (9 x 13 pan) or until toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Cool completely. ›› In medium bowl using mixer, cream butter and cream cheese. Beat in vanilla extract and cinnamon. Beat in powdered sugar about 1 cup at a time. Slowly add water as needed to thin out frosting to a spreadable consistency. ›› Make sure cakes are completely cooled. Spread over 8" cake and then top with the other 8" cake. Frost top and sides of cake. If using 9 x 13 pan, frost in the pan. ›› Store cake in refrigerator. OP

REBECCA WESTERFIELD is the owner of Becca Bakes. She has been married to Mason, her high school best friend, for 25 years. She has son, Grant, 20, and a daughter, Cailyn, 15. During her free time, she loves to spend time with her family and her dog, Chief.

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Preserve Their Childhood with a

Digital Scrapbook Written by Jaqueline Jordan Russell

ust like with growing children, our 10 years as Owensboro Parent magazine has flown by! While we love celebrating big milestones, we also recognize how important it is to cherish the everyday moments. I’ve got a sweet—and FREE —way to collect memories and give your child an amazing gift. Create a permanent, digital scrapbook for your kids by creating an email address in their name and sending them snapshots of their childhood to treasure forever. The best part? They don’t get the password until they turn 18, and by then they’ll have a treasure trove of sweet memories to sort through. 18 OWENSBORO PARENT . August // September 2021

What a gift! Once the email is set up, it takes just moments to send them a short note, photo or video.

TIPS FOR SETTING UP THE EMAIL ADDRESS I suggest creating a Gmail account through Google, since they likely aren’t going anywhere. They also have massive storage capabilities. Use your child’s full name for the address. They’ll thank you one day when they don’t have to add 007 or the year they were born when they go to create one for themselves. Remember, this is a great way to

make sure your photos are secure somewhere else. If you were to lose your backup or hard drive, it’s nice to know you have them safe in another place. Email accounts can expire due to inactivity, so make sure to log into the account every couple months to keep it in good standing.

WONDERING WHAT TO SEND? Thinking about all the things you’d like to share might seem like a herculean task, but don’t overthink it. Remember, you can easily send a note, photo or video from your phone.

Here are some ideas to get you started:

Recap a conversation you had that

Milestone achievements Photos or videos from birthdays Photos of certificates from school or church Video of their first time playing a sport or after winning a game Notes about the first night they slept in their own bed or a story about their first friend Photos from their first sleepover Photos of birthday card inscriptions from grandparents and family Photos of notes from the Tooth Fairy

day A video or note of funny things they say Photos of them doing something silly An audio clip of their laugh when they’re little A photo of their favorite toy A video of them on the slide at their favorite park A selfie of you and them eating ice cream Photos of their drawings and crafts A recipe and photo of you making cookies together

Day-to-day moments A photo of the sweet way they sleep in their crib

Including family Photos/videos of them playing with

each parent Photos with siblings Videos of them with grandparents Photos of cards or notes from family members and close friends The sky's the limit for what you can share with them, and just imagine how incredible it will be to browse through these memories with them one day! If you’re still stuck for ideas, think of things from your childhood that you’d like to remember more clearly. That might be a favorite toy that you just can’t remember the name of, childhood friends you’ve almost forgotten or cherished moments shared with your grandparents. Take a second to capture those moments and relive them for years to come! OP

JACQUELINE JORDAN RUSSELL is a marketing specialist, freelance writer and photographer. She has a passion for celebrating every day moments and basically leaves a trail of confetti wherever she goes.

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MAKING IT

LET'S PARTY!

Year after year we plan a birthday party for our kids, but finding a theme and coming up with party decorations can be difficult. We asked our readers to submit their party themes — here are some of our faves!

T H R E E- R E X

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SPONSORED BY

Don’t mess up your place, let us be your party space!

AT THE CIRCUS

SWEETS & TREATS

TA R G E T L OV E R

A TRIP AROUND THE SUN

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MAKING IT

LITTLE FISHERMAN

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MERMAID BASH

CONSTRUCTION ZONE

IN THE WILD

H A P P Y B E E- DAY

BY DOLLY SHE'S FIVE

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Then & Now

REVISITING THE PEOPLE & STORIES O F PA S T I S S U E S

When we first started Owensboro Parent in 2011, it was just three of us—Jason designed the magazine, Robert sold the ads and I dreamed up the content. Now, our staff has grown to nine people, all dedicated to putting together the best magazine possible for Owensboro parents. And a growing staff means we have added a lot of little ones to the ranks.

Photo by Jamie Alexander

We had such a great time recreating this photo at Reid's Orchard from our first anniversary in August 2012. Seeing how much our kids have grown and how many have been born along the journey really puts a decade into perspective. Here's to 10 more years!

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THEN & NOW

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Called to Serve Written by Laura Murphy // Photo by Jamie Alexander

Faith and Steve Harralson have not travelled an easy road, but they are using their pain to propel them to a place where they can help others along similar journeys. After battling infertility for a few years, they faced heartbreaking loss and several unexpected challenges on their journey to

foster care, and domestic adoption. The last time we shared their story, the Harralsons had just finished an eight-year journey that ultimately led to bringing home their infant daughter, Olivia Joy, through an open adoption. In June 2017, after her birth, the family was overwhelmed with

home,” Faith said. While there are certainly parallels between the children’s book storyline and the path to grow a family through adoption, the Harralsons have much more to share about their experiences. “I had originally planned to have a publishing company, but

create their forever family. “We tried embryo adoption. We had three embryo attempts and one time it stuck, and we lost the baby. There was so much pain with the heartache,” Faith said. “After this, we decided to do foster care to provide a home for those who needed a place.” The Harralsons opened their home to seven different children over the course of three years including two girls who were with them for 18 months before returning to their birth mom. Through the years, the couple gained a wealth of experience from their journey, including fertility consultations, embryo adoption,

both gratitude and a sense of compassion for the birth family. Because of their experience with open adoption, the Harralsons want to help advocate for others walking a similar path. Today, they are turning their challenges into an opportunity to reach out to families on this journey, through Faith’s three children’s books, and more recently the launch of a website. One of her children’s books, Gracie’s Journey Home, is a true story about a homeless cat finding its’ forever home. “The cat started lingering at our house from all the attention it got, so we adopted it and gave her a

felt called to offer coaching and consulting for foster and adoption,” Faith said. In addition to faith-based coaching and resources for open adoptions, their website will include blogging with weekly updates about their current journey. “We want to walk people through our journey to see what it’s like to uncover some myths about this process. We want to bring awareness that everyone can have a place in the process and support it in some way,” Faith said. Recently, the couple has become “Prepare and Enrich” premarital and marital coaches, consulting

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THEN & NOW

with and assessing couples.

“The program just created a

foster and adoption wing. The

assessment

highlights

growth areas that couples can work on to help them in their marriage, so that when they foster and adopt they are more united as a couple,” Faith Harrelson said.

The couples take an assessment

and our goal is to get them on the same playing field. If you have, it will bring it to the surface in your marriage even more. We help them to get on the same page,” Faith said. The Harralsons acknowledge that not every family is called to foster or adopt, but believe they can still get involved in some way.

“It looks different for everyone.

Some have money, some have time, some may actually be able to do it,” Faith said.

As far as a husband’s perspective,

Steve recognizes the value of taking one day at a time, even in the middle of the toughest storms.

“I have learned as a husband

to be vulnerable,” he said. “As men, sometimes it’s hard to do that. It helps you to be a strong head of the household. Some of the things we’ve gone through that I thought would happen, did not go that way.”

Even with all the unexpected

events he and his wife faced, he knew he had to let go of trying to control their outcome.

“You think it will be one way,

and it’s not,” Steve said. “Take it one

day at a time. You can’t control it. Especially as the husband, you want to make it happen, but you can’t.” Faith adds that when people allow the pain to push them to purpose, it changes their outlook during each trial. “Any infertility is very painful. If you can trust the Lord that he does have a plan, try not to push the pain away. Let the pain allow it to unfold what he really wants and intends for your life -- it’s not what you expect,” Faith said. While each loss felt like it challenged their plan for a family, Faith and Steve never gave up. “I wanted all these children. I would never have become a foster mom if not for infertility, never adopted this sweet gift if it wasn’t for that. It pushes you to see what God has for you -- bigger and better than you thought.” Perhaps most importantly, Faith

urges others to stay connected to a community of encouragers who don’t let their friends walk these trials alone.

“Don’t shut yourself off. You

need a tribe around you,” she said.

Sharing their story is part of

their healing. The couple urges other families to seek guidance during the entire process.

“At first, Faith and I didn’t want

to share with anyone. We wanted to keep it quiet, but you create your own prison when you do that. Not just immediate family can serve as this tribe, but also friends who are like family. It’s such a nontraditional thing we went through, but what a big relief to have a close community surrounding us,” Steve said. For more information, visit their website atfaithandwonders. com.

LAURA MURPHY is an eighth grade LA teacher at Daviess County Middle School. She has three kids who keep her life interesting; Jonah, Lily and Josiah. She survives on Grape Spark, Jon Gordan books and all things Grumpy Cat.

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#BEADSFORBABY 2.0 Written by Elizabeth Muster • Photo by Jamie Alexander

hen I interviewed Jackie and Zach Smith in the spring of 2016, they were raising money for egg donation and IVF (in vitro fertilization) in order to have a baby. Jackie’s jewelry-making hobby had become a side business, selling items in local boutiques, on Etsy, and through social media to raise money for the high costs. Five years later they are parents to two precious girls, and Jackie’s #beadsforbaby campaign has become her career. The Smiths’ infertility journey began when Jackie was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure at age 29. With only a 5% chance of ovulating and a strong desire to carry a child, Jackie searched for an egg donor. While reconnecting with a sorority sister on Facebook, Jackie found someone willing and able. “I thought choosing an egg donor was choosing my replacement,” she explains. “Turns out, I was choosing a soul sister and a friend. I was choosing family.” After two unsuccessful egg transfers in 2016, Jackie became pregnant in January 2017. She recalls, “In the grand scheme of things, our process went pretty quickly. When you're in the middle of it, though, it seems like a lifetime.” Every time, Jackie agonized over the two-week wait between the procedure and

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the bloodwork. For the first two transfers, a line would appear on a home pregnancy kit, and then it and the Smiths’ hopes would fade away as the appointment drew nearer. The third time, the line grew darker each day, the bloodwork confirmed a viable pregnancy, and Channing Michelle Smith was born on September 30, 2017. Jackie’s mother, Shelley Schmitt, says what a blessing it has been to see her daughter become a mother. “Watching her plow forward with all the obstacles makes our love and appreciation for these babies even stronger. But even more so I saw a side of my daughter I somehow missed, and I’m just in awe of her!” After Channing was born, the Smiths moved into Shelley’s neighborhood. The proud grandmother only has to travel six doors down! In 2020, Zach and Jackie decided they wanted Channing to have a sibling, someone who could share her story and her genetics. Jackie explains, “Our longing was just as strong, but the cost was less, our lives were busier with a toddler, and we felt more confident in what needed to be done to prepare my body.” This meant three shots a day for the first ten weeks of pregnancy, and then two shots a day until Sylvia Richey Smith was born on May 3, 2021. As the Smiths’ family grew, so did Jackie’s jewelry business. Three more women joined Jackie’s team to help with marketing and creating. In January 2020, they launched their website jackiebluehandmade. com. This streamlined the process of taking orders, so Jackie had more time to focus on the creative aspects.

The jewelry can also be custom-ordered online or purchased at Shelley & Friends, Bella Ragazza, or Farmhouse Handmade. Jackie’s #beadsforbaby reaches beyond her own journey. Over the past couple of years, she has created three different infertility bracelets. Two of them served to raise money for other couples; the third was to bring awareness. Jackie explains, “The financial piece of infertility treatments and adoption are daunting. If we can help in even a small way, we want to do it! We have been able to raise several thousand dollars to help couples and more importantly, we continue to bring awareness to a topic that is often taboo.” Besides financial support, Jackie is always willing to lend an ear to those in similar circumstances. “By sharing my story, I hope that other women (and men) realize that they are not alone. It's always

nice to talk to someone who gets it, and I want to be that person for others.”

Needless to say, the past five years

have been busy for Zach and Jackie, but the biggest -- and best -- change is how much their hearts have grown. The success of Jackie’s business allows her to work from home. Zach also changed jobs and now works in Owensboro at Danco Construction. This allows him more time at home with his wife and daughters.

Jackie says, “It has been a dream

come true to raise my girls and grow my business all under one roof. It just doesn't get any better! And honestly, it wouldn't have been possible without the support of this community buying my jewelry and loving my family. And for that, we are forever indebted!”

ELIZABETH MUSTER is the mother of a four-year-old, the wife of a funeral director, the library media specialist at Burns Middle School, and an aspiring author of children’s books.

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THEN & NOW

Tristin Crusenberry

PROVING THEM WRONG Written by Laura Murphy • Photos by Jamie Alexander

he last time we caught up with Tristin Crusenberry in Owensboro Parent magazine, he was a student at Country

Heights Elementary School. Today, he is a 2021 graduate of Apollo High School, gearing up to play baseball in the fall for Olney Central College in Olney, Illinois.

While baseball is his passion, part of his mission is sharing with

others that he does not have a disability, he simply has a hearing loss. At just 15 months old, Tristin lost his hearing due to Meningitis.

“I do not like the word disability. I’m just like everybody else,

I just lost hearing. That has not stopped me at all. I have so many

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people doubting me and my favorite thing to do in the world is prove them wrong,” Tristin said. Thanks to parents who are willing to go to bat for him, his success is still unfolding. “He was just 18 months old when he was fitted with his first cochlear implant,” his mom, Christy Crusenberry, said. “We wanted to make sure he had the best of what was out there while he was still growing.” Tristin thrived in elementary school, receiving training to use an interpreter early on. After forming a great relationship with his interpreter, Tristin viewed her almost as a mother figure. As Tristin transitioned to College View Middle School, he had another great support system, including a new interpreter. “This time his interpreter was a girl straight out of college. During the transition to a new school, he cried a little bit. She would say, ‘Dude, you’ve got to quit crying or they’re going to make fun of you.’ He went from having a momma to having a big sis looking out for him,” Christy said. After making the baseball team at the end of seventh grade, Tristin was on his way to seeing his baseball dreams come to fruition. “High school is a time that Tristin experienced growing pains with more kids and more competition. His goal was to go to Apollo and play baseball for Coach Mantooth,” Christy said. Making the team meant a move for the family, who says their house was only on the market for two days before it sold. “We had been so involved with him in school up to that point, it just fell into place,” Christy said. “We are very grateful for him to get to play under Coach Mantooth for a few years before he retired. He saw potential in Tristin and worked with him.” Tristin played baseball for Apollo all the way through his high school career,

some of his best high school memories. “The reason I played baseball ever since I was a young kid, was because I had a hard time being deaf and baseball helped me. Through the sport, I learned who I was and became myself. Now I feel more comfortable,” Tristin said. His senior year, he made the decision to play with the younger guys on the team, an experience he says he will not forget. “I play with a lot of great people. Playing baseball helped me to be a better person. I enjoyed last summer, one of the most fun summers I’ve ever had. I love working with the younger guys on the team and I love to help them. I also want to teach them lessons, not just baseball, but life,” Tristin said. While Tristin says his biggest dream is to play professional baseball, he says he plans to take it one season at a time. “Last summer, I got offered a scholarship to play baseball at a junior college, after two years I can try to transfer for a bigger school. I plan to try out year after year for professional baseball or transfer to another college," Tristin said. The Crusenberry family feels blessed that Tristin has been able to have the best technology available, upgrading cochlear implants every few years. “We’ve never had to finance the upgrades. We had a close family friend purchase it. They told us ‘We have been following him, we are invested. We want to make sure he has the best of what’s out there.’ Huge upgrades equal huge improvements for him,” Christy said. Most recently, his upgrade includes the ability to use his phone to track his settings. With Apple compatibility, the

device can connect to an app, a laptop and even make it easier for him to hear on the phone. As for the advice the family would give others facing the unknowns of a medical condition like Tristin, it’s to keep advocating for your child, no matter what. “Ride the wave one day at a time and don’t ever be afraid to ask questions. You have to push. The world is not going to stop for him because of what he deals with. I don’t know how people do it without hope. There’s not one time I look back and see the Lord not at work in his life,” Christy said. His sister, Chaney, 11, added that she has a very good brother and she enjoys helping him when he can’t see someone to read their lips. “He takes me in the drive thru and has me help him order sometimes, it’s like a brother-sister bond thing when we need it. I help him when he can’t hear somebody and I help explain it,” Chaney said. While Tristin’s family is proud of his heart and the way he is so kind to others, they are also proud of the way he takes everything he’s dealt with and uses it to show empathy to others. “I see him in the dugout encouraging his teammates and cheering them on. I feel like God put him here as a bridge builder to bridge the gap between getting the word out and educating people,” Christy said. OP

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THEN & NOW

CENTER STAGE Written by Laura Murphy Photo provided by Shealyn Mason

he last time we saw Shealyn Mason in Owensboro Parent, she was living it up at Smothers Park on the August 2013 cover. Now she’s ready to take the spotlight in a different way, using the confidence she’s gained through pageants to propel her through college as she works towards her future career. Mason knows the value of hard work. While a student at Daviess County High School, Mason played basketball, soccer and was a cheerleader. A member of the National Honor Society, she completed the early college program, graduating with her associate degree. While her high school resume is impressive, the 2020 DCHS graduate says some of her greatest lessons came from the stage. After holding many pageant titles, including most recently, Miss Daviess County 2020, her greatest trophy of all is the accomplishment of confidence and being prepared for the future. “Being in pageants opened so many doors of opportunities for me. Whether it was community service or my own personal growth, it helped me network. Pageants taught me many life skills -- feeling confident to ace any interview, whether it’s for a job or a pageant,” Mason said. Mason has found success when it comes to pageants and has held numerous titles through the years including Miss Teen Daviess County 2015, Miss Teen McCracken County 2016, Miss Kentucky Teen Festivals 2016, Miss Junior Teen Kentucky United States 2018, Miss Daviess County 2020, and Miss Owensboro Teen USA. “I’ve done pageants since I was a little girl and I always enjoyed them. After winning Miss 34 OWENSBORO PARENT . August // September 2021

Teen Daviess County, I learned there was a whole world of pageants out there,” Shealyn said. After Mason won the title in 2015, her involvement outside of Daviess County began to take off even more, taking Mason across the Bluegrass State and eventually bringing home a title that meant even more to her. “I remember when I won Miss Teen Daviess County and I had the goal of becoming Miss Daviess County one day. When that came true this past year, it was such an honor,” Mason said. She will finish her year as Miss Daviess County in August, a title year much more unorthodox than she would have hoped, due to the pandemic. “It was difficult to do typical service projects with COVID. It limited what we were able to do this past year,” Mason said. “Recently, we did get to go to Friday After 5, announce some of the bands, and listen to the music. This was one of the only events we got to do,” Mason said. A service project that is near and dear to her heart is Coins for Kids, a way to raise money for an organization she cares so much about. “The last few years I’ve gone into elementary schools and helped lead coin drives. It all goes to Norton’s Children’s Hospital. We were unable to go last year with COVID, but we are looking to start back up,” Mason said. At Western Kentucky University her first full year after graduating high school, Mason decided to work towards her degree in nursing. Now a caregiver at Home Instead, she will complete her CNA and will already be a senior in the fall of 2021. Mason’s favorite aspect of the pageant life is all the girls she meets. “Because of pageants, I have met and made friends with so many amazing girls. I now have friendships in my own county, across the state of Kentucky, and even girls I met across the country competing at nationals,” Mason said. As far as what has helped her to grow as an individual, Mason finds value in experiences that build her confidence and push her from her comfort

zone. She recommends pageant involvement for this reason. “Pageants provide so much growth in a person to have the confidence to get on stage. Even getting up there, everyone should be proud of themselves, it empowers you. Having that confidence is something that is important to grow,” Mason said. Mason says for those interested in pageants or any other endeavor in life, it’s important to remind yourself that it’s just as much about the lessons one takes away as the experience itself. “It’s not about winning,” Mason said. “Just having the courage to get up there and getting yourself out of your comfort zone is how you grow. Most people don’t feel comfortable on stage but once you do it, you’ll have fun with it.” Mason, who will be aging up soon, hopes to return to the stage in the Miss division to compete within the next few years. "What fuels my passion is growing as a person, into the women I’ve always seen in myself. When I reach checkpoints and make progress, adding up to my final goal, each little victory on my journey is what drives me,” Mason said. OP

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THEN & NOW

Jenny Beth Willis

FROM AMERICAN IDOL TO THE COURTROOM Written by John Kirkpatrick // Photo provided by Jenny Beth Willis

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enny Beth Willis first appeared in Owensboro Parent when she made a deep run on American Idol as the only Kentuckian to become a top-20 finalist in 2013. That experience instilled a sense of confidence in her that propelled her to another milestone accomplishment — graduating from law school. What began as a sporadic trip to Bowling Green with her father for auditions, transformed into a demanding months-long experience of rehearsals and performances — not unlike law school. As Idol continues to look for the next singing sensation, 25-year-old Willis is eight years removed and eagerly awaits to begin her career as an attorney. “Law school is a grueling experience … Experiences like American Idol gave me confidence; if I’m in the courtroom or meeting with a client, nerves don’t really get to me like they might someone who hasn’t been on stage,” Willis said. “Law school has been my life for the past three years.” While she will occasionally sing at a wedding or perform the National Anthem at events, Willis spends much of her time now studying for the Bar Exam. She will have taken the exam by late July and will

then begin her career in business law and corporate litigation at a firm in Louisville by the end of August. Willis completed her undergraduate studies at Trevecca Nazarene University in Nashville, where she obtained a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration. During her tenure there, she found joy in participating in a singing group called Redeemed. She graduated from the esteemed Brandeis School of Law at the University of Louisville. While her stage experience prepared her for some of the challenges ahead, she attributes much of her success to her parents Jeff and Mary Beth Willis, and her brother Clay. “My family has always supported

me with every endeavor whether it be law school or singing … Without them supporting me, I wouldn’t have been able to get through it,” she said. “They’ve supported me with everything I’ve ever done and I think that’s a huge display of who I am now — it’s hard to do anything without the support of your loved ones.” As Willis reflects on her young life, she struggles to envision a world without singing. She traces her start to the Daviess County Fair when she was six years old performing “Tomorrow” from the hit musical Annie. Thankfully someone was recording because a clip from that performance was featured in her official background and introduction video on American Idol. “I grew up singing. As far back

as I can remember, I was performing at church and other events — it’s always been a part of my life,” she said. “American Idol is something that my family and I always talk about … It was the experience of a lifetime.”

As the stage transforms into a

courtroom, the experiences gained and the relationships formed during her youth transcend time.

“It was an amazing experience

that I’ll never forget — I met a lot of interesting people,” Willis said. “My experiences singing and being on stage gave me the confidence that I have now both personally and professionally. Singing on stage gave me confidence in every facet of life.”

JOHN KIRKPATRICK is a special education teacher at Daviess County High School and a contributing writer for Owensboro Parent, Owensboro Living, GO Chamber, and the Owensboro Times. He enjoys spending time with his wife, Tara, and daughter, Laney.

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THEN & NOW

Staying the Course Written by John Kirkpatrick // Photo by Jamie Alexander

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e’Asha Phillips was featured in

academic team honors and recorded

went to Hawaii — I’m blessed to have

Owensboro Parent in 2017 as a

a career-best sixth place in the MAC

been able to visit all of those places while

decorated golfer with strong ambitions.

Preview.

doing something I love.”

Fast forward four years and the Owensboro

High School graduate has earned four

it was different from high school because

her success both on and off the course to

letters and a Bachelor’s Degree in Social

we had seasons in the fall and the spring,”

her parents David Phillips and Tiresha

Work from Xavier University.

she said. “We also had an indoor facility so

Hall, and younger sister Alicia who were

The NCAA granted athletes another

it was nice to be able to practice indoors

“beside her every step of the way.” Seeing

year of eligibility due to the COVID-19

while there were three inches of snow on

her dad interact with local youth through

pandemic, affording Phillips and several

the ground outside.”

his roles in the school system ignited her

“I enjoyed my time at Xavier a lot —

Phillips attributes a large portion of

others the opportunity to further their

passion for helping young people through

education while playing the sport they

social work.

love. She will attend Akron University

this fall in pursuit of a Master’s Degree in

roles in my success — from taking me to

Social Work and join the golf team.

tournaments, praying before rounds, and

“With COVID it was difficult to meet

being my biggest support system,” she

coaches and players when I went on visits

said. “My dad has always been my world

— Akron was one of the few places where I

— witnessing the impact he’s had on kids

was able to visit and meet the whole team

in the community and seeing reactions he

— it felt a little more normal,” Phillips

gets when he’s out is priceless.”

said. “Right now my goal is to play golf

during the first year of the program and

backup plan, Phillips remains adamant

possibly be a graduate assistant during

about chasing her long-time dream of

the second year.”

competing professionally in the LPGA.

under

Akron’s

coach;

While social work remains a solid

Her first step following graduate school

Phillip’s coach at Xavier actually

studied

“Both of my parents have played major

will be to enter Q (Qualifying) School and

that

connection also played a pivotal role in

earn a spot on Symetra Tour.

the decision-making process. She also

Similar to the Korn Ferry Tour for

men, the Symetra Tour offers women an

added that she loved the home course at Akron, but was heavy-hearted about being

Phillips also developed a special bond

opportunity to qualify for LPGA events by

further from home.

with her teammates and enjoyed being

winning tournaments or finishing in the

able to tour the country for the sake of

top percentage.

women’s golf team won the Big East

golf.

Conference Tournament twice, toppling

“I’ve loved being a part of this program

going to try for the tour — I’ve put in too

several esteemed universities in the

and my teammates,” she said. “Being able

many reps not to try,” she said. “It’s always

northeast.

to travel has also been enjoyable — we

been my passion and a dream of mine.”

During her tenure at Xavier, the

Phillips

also

earned

all-

“After grinding out grad school, I’m

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trunnells

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PAID ADVERTORIAL TRUNNELL'S

Visit the Most Beautiful Sunflower Field in the Ohio Valley this Fall A Sunflower field is one of life’s breathtaking pleasures that everyone should experience. There is something magical about these blooms. These bright beautiful flowers have the ability to evoke feelings of warmth and happiness, and they are even more amazing when they’re growing as far as the eye can see. When you visit a massive field of sunflowers with rows and rows of them on display, it is a truly awe-inspiring experience. If you've never visited a sunflower field or sunflower farm, put it on your early fall bucket list. Luckily, we have one of the most beautiful sunflower fields in the Ohio Valley planted right here in Daviess County, Trunnell’s Sunflower Experience located at 9255 U.S. HWY. 431 Utica, KY. If you and your family are looking for a unique and delightful event this fall visit Trunnell’s 4th Annual Sunflower Experience Sept. 4th - Sept. 30th. This Event is so much more than just a field of sunflowers. Trunnell’s has proudly planted 65+ different varieties of Sunflowers with over a million blooms (that is 15 more varieties than last year) for you and your family to enjoy. All these beautiful blooms bring pure happiness to all ages while wandering through the field and admiring all the different kinds. Every bloom is so unique it is hard to decide which ones to cut and take home. Remember your camera or photographer because the Trunnell’s have added a ton of picture ops throughout the field making this experience one of Kentucky’s most insta-grammable events. In addition to the viewing pleasure of the huge stretch of yellow, red, and orange sunflowers, make sure to experience some of the delicious food at the farm, play on the 30+ Attractions, visit the baby animals in the animal barnyard, grab a glass of wine or brew from the farm bar and enjoy all the SUNSHINE and HAPPINESS that Sunflowers Bring! MORE SUNFLOWERS, MORE FUN, MORE MEMORIES! OP

Special Events at Trunnell’s Sunflower Experience DINNER IN THE BLOOMS September 4th & 11th: A Delicious Farm to Table Dinner with Live Entertainment in the Sunflowers SIPS & SUNFLOWERS September 10th, 17th, & 24th: An evening sipping wine and beer with friends, live entertainment amid a gorgeous sunflower field SUNFLOWER BRUNCH September 9th & 19th: Enjoy a delicious brunch while sipping mimosas or wine amongst the Sunflowers SUNFLOWER HARVEST, HOPS, & HOUNDS September 18th: An outdoor dining event in the Sunflowers with your favorite furry friend. Proceeds benefiting SparKY Animal Rescue. August // September 2021 . OWENSBORO PARENT

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Ten Years of OP

BEHIND THE SCENES, HITS AND MISSES OVER THE YEARS

10 YEARS. 75 ISSUES. HUNDREDS OF STORIES.

As we celebrate our 10-year anniversary of Owensboro Parent, we wanted to share some memories from the last decade. We take you behind the scenes of making the magazine and share some of our biggest hits and misses. Our staff has had so much fun reminiscing as we have put this issue together. And the one thing we realize now, more than ever, is that none of this would have been possible without the support of our amazing community.

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10 YEARS OF OP

BEHIND the SCENES

Left: Jason and his family at our first promotional event, East Bridge Arts Festival, where we debuted our very first issue. Photo by Dream Copy Photography. Above: When Owensboro Parent first launched, we held a Birthday Bash at RiverPark Center each August. We celebrated another year of the magazine alongside our loyal and supportive advertisers who manned booths offering fun activities for families.

When a bush caught fire outside of our old office, Publisher Jason Tanner, jumped into action and quickly extinguished the flames!

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The staff surprised Jason for Halloween and dressed up like him, complete with glasses, plaid, bottles of water with MIO and "Apple Watches."

Kids Triathlon

Tanner Publishing staff at the Chamber Works Expo, hosted by the Greater Owensboro Chamber of Commerce

Jason on Midday with Mike promoting our 5th anniversary issue.

Former Accounts Director Bo Alexander's kiddos at our first Chamber Works Expo.

The Tanner Publishing team was among the first to test out the Thunderbird roller coaster at Holiday World.

photographer, Jamie, brought a copy of Owensboro Parent on her trip to Norway.

Andrea hand painted all of the signs for Arctic Adventure. The event may not have been a huge success, but the signs were incredible! August // September 2021 . OWENSBORO PARENT

10 YEARS OF OP Setting up photo shoots may be one of the most fun parts of our job! Here are some of our favorite shoots from over the years.

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When setting up for photo shoots, Jamie typically borrows a coworker to test the lighting setup before the subject arrives for the shoot. This makes for some interesting behind the scenes shots of our team!

Light Tests

Monica showing off both covers of our January 2020 double issue of Owensboro Parent and Owensboro Living, the only time we have printed both magazines together.

Photographing kids can be challenging. Jamie learned that pets can be even more interesting when she photographed our 2020 Pet Contest winner, Hazel the goat, who jumped on top of her during the shoot!

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10 YEARS OF OP

Owensboro Parent

HITS & MISSES

It's hard to believe we have been doing this for 10 years. That's 75 issues, people! In that time, we have done some great things. But not everything has been a success. In this little section we are affectionately calling "Hits and Misses," we are detailing some of our greatest accomplishments and the things that just didn't turn out like we expected.

HIT: Owensboro Parent Kids Triathlon This event was dreamed up by our ad sales rep, Robert. He had seen events like this in other states and wanted to bring something similar to Owensboro. With our friends at Independence Bank and Owensboro Health, we were able to make it happen. Our first year, we had nearly 200 sign up and have had over 800 kids sign up in the five years we have been hosting the event. Not only was this a win for Owensboro Parent, but a win for Owensboro kids who are learning valuable lessons of lifelong healthy habits.

HIT/MISS: Henderson Family and Bowling Green Living With Owensboro Parent doing well, publisher, Jason Tanner, decided to expand Tanner Publishing and launched Owensboro Living in 2014 with great success. Building on that momentum, Tanner Publishing released Henderson Family in 2016 and Bowling Green Living in 2018. While Henderson continues to be a strong publication, serving our sister city to the west, Bowling Green Living proved too far away to make successful. 48 OWENSBORO PARENT . August // September 2021

HIT: Lane Goodwin Cover

MISS: Arctic Adventure Don't remember this one? That's ok. It didn't last long. Seeing a need for family fun in the winter, Owensboro Parent set out to create an epic event of indoor fun. In 2015, we hosted Arctic Adventure at the Owensboro Convention Center. Basically, we fit as many winter themed inflatable attractions as we could into the Convention Center. It was fun, and certainly gave families something to do on a cold January day in Owensboro. But it was very costly. We brought it back for a second year in 2016, but ultimately declared it a fail, and moved on to a better event -- the Owensboro Parent Kids Triathlon!

HIT: Helicopter shot Our August 2018 issue featured end of summer family adventures. We wanted a unique cover that we hadn't seen done before. Naturally, the answer to the cover dilemma was a helicopter! We borrowed an old red convertible, asked a family to drive it across the bridge (no fewer than 12 times) and got the shot from a helicopter! Go big or go home, right?

In the fall of 2012, Owensboro Parent was planning the ever-popular Cover Kids contest for our October issue. At the same time, a wave of thumbs up photos took over social media, all in honor of a western Kentucky boy battling what would be a losing battle with cancer. Garth Brooks and Tricia Yearwood, Anderson Cooper, the St. Louis Cardinals baseball team, and Paula Dean were amongst the thousands that posted photos in support of 13-year-old Lane Goodwin. A Facebook fan challenged Owensboro Parent to delay our Cover Kids contest and feature Lane instead. Nearly 2,500 people agreed within a matter of hours. We agreed too. In a whirlwind of a few days, we commissioned local artist Aaron Kizer to paint Lane's portrait. I connected with Angie, Lane's mom, and had an interview that changed me forever. Our editor, Ashley, spoke to her for an hour, mother to mother, as she prepared for her son to leave this Earth. Not long after our interview, Lane passed away. We were so moved by the sense of community Lane's story created and the awareness for childhood cancer, that our team found as many stories of children battling cancer in the greater Owensboro area as we could. We are proud to say that we shared 12 additional stories of brave children battling what Lane called, "the monster." To this day, this issue still means just a little more than the rest. August // September 2021 . OWENSBORO PARENT

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PAID ADVERTORIAL T H E W O M E N ' S PAV I L I O N P. S .C .

Transitioning from Pediatrics to Adult Primary Care Written by Kaitlin M. Wells, DNP, APRN

enior year has ended and your baby is suddenly no longer a baby. Your once kindergartener is now heading to college or entering the work force. Cue the dorm packing lists, the tearful goodbyes, hunting down the nearest grocery store, or helpful nagging to wear the shower shoes. The high school chapter has officially closed and adulthood ensues. This transition to adulthood brings new responsibilities and exciting opportunities for your young adult. Another important transition to remember is healthcare. Transitioning out of the pediatrics office and into an adult office can be a scary but necessary next step in young adulthood. This developmental stage is characterized by self-awareness and new independence. According to recent studies, almost half of adolescents do not have a primary care preventive visit within a 12-month period (Rand & Goldstein, 2018). The American Academy of Pediatrics and American Academy of Family Physicians recommend adolescents to have preventive visits annually. Primary care serves as a home base for the patient. Primary care providers treat common illnesses such as respiratory infections or urinary

tract infections and chronic illnesses such as asthma or diabetes. Establishing primary care with an adult primary care provider ensures continued screening, immunizations, and assessing for risky behaviors. Seeing a primary care provider also helps to improve the health and wellbeing of a patient, manage complex or chronic diseases, and reduce emergency department visits. Additionally, an adult primary care provider can help coordinate adult specialists or behavioral health specialists for chronic conditions. In order to make this transition smooth, one can consider these helpful tips. Remember to look for a provider that is taking new patients, who accepts your insurance, and is accessible. Some will offer telemedicine options for follow up appointments or rechecks. Make sure to bring a list of current medications, allergies and reactions, and a history of any health problems or conditions. This fosters an environment of selfadvocacy and makes it easier to talk about healthcare needs. These steps will build the foundation for the provider to get to know you and make a plan of care. Working with a new provider should have open and honest communication. This

collaboration should offer shared decision-making. Don’t forget to bring a list of questions for the provider and keep in mind multiple visits may be necessary depending on the chief complaint. Many offices now offer patient portal websites or apps to communicate with your provider and expedite the check in process. Ultimately, initiating care with an adult primary care provider is a big step when transitioning from pediatric care. Although your young adult’s health may be in great shape now, establishing care early in adulthood helps them to build a relationship with their provider as they grow older. Primary care providers can assist in individualized care and health maintenance. The primary care provider serves as a navigator and advocate when collaborating with other specialties, when leaving the hospital, or transferring facilities. When your young adult’s health status changes, they will be there. Making the timely transition to adult primary care will allow for earlier detection of illness and optimal wellness for your young adult. OP

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Ryan Rutman Ryan Rutman has been serving the real estate needs of the Owensboro community for 13 years. In that time, he has cultivated relationships with each of his clients, putting their needs first as he helps them buy and sell homes. Ryan understands that purchasing a home is the biggest investment a family will make and offers the patience and expertise to make the home buying process the best experience possible. As a husband and father of two daughters, Ryan also understands the memories a home can hold and is able to help families through the sometimes emotional process of selling a home. Ryan has built a team of four Realtors at the Ryan Rutman Real Estate Group that hold the same values and believe in the same mission -- it's not about the houses, it's about the client and building relationships! Visit ryanrutman.com today to connect with the Ryan Rutman Realty Group, see the latest home listings and read the latest 5-star reviews from past clients.

Red Wing Shoes Next month, the Ehrlich Corporation will celebrate its 46th year in business. While they opened the Owensboro Red Wing Shoe store in 2017, their family roots in the area run deep. Four generations ago, Leonard Smith began working for S.W. Anderson department store, right here in Owensboro, where he was the shoe department manager. Leonard later worked at Dawson's Shoe Store, where he became store manager in downtown Owensboro. This began a love of the shoe business for Smith, which was passed on to his son, Ehrlich, who eventually established the first Red Wing Shoe Store in Evansville, Indiana in 1976. Today the company has eight stores across Indiana and Kentucky, including their location on Highway 54 in Owensboro. They offer a wide selection of footwear and accessories for all of their customers' needs. Visit the store at 2928 Heartland Crossing Blvd. or visit their website at redwingshoes.com.

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Integrity Mark & Charlotte Thompson started Integrity as an Owensboro lawn & landscape business in 1984. In 2002, they took a giant leap of faith and opened the home & garden center you know today. Since then, in that same spirit of growth & change, Integrity has renovated & expanded its property, increased its product lines, and recruited specialized staff from across the country! It now spans over 8 acres of retail, greenhouse & nursery space. Co-owner Christopher Thompson says, “Owensboro has allowed us to grow & evolve since the beginning! And we're excited to keep getting better & better!” What started as a small local landscape business is still true to its roots, but Mark says, “On top of just the plants that started Integrity nearly 40 years ago, we now install in-ground pools, decorative concrete, outdoor kitchens, and fireplaces!” Christopher goes on to explain, “Our challenge is to identify new outdoor living trends and then bring those to Owensboro! We’re fortunate that our community has been incredibly receptive & supportive of those ideas!" Integrity stocks unique trees & shrubs, seasonal flowers, stylish patio furniture and home & garden décor! In the colder months, they even transform into The Christmas Store! But their staff emphasizes that none of this adventure would be possible without the love & support of the Owensboro community. “Our town is such a wonderful place to live & work!” says Charlotte. “We have loved building friendships with our customers through the years! It’s really about those relationships!” She says it’s fun to see new faces & meet new shoppers, and it’s humbling to have loyal customers who “have been with us since Day 1!” Christopher adds that “our staff is really our most valuable asset. We have a top-notch team that believes in our mission and loves each other like family. And that’s what allows us to keep moving forward!”

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Kentucky Wesleyan College This year, Kentucky Wesleyan College is proudly celebrating Owensboro being our home for 70 years! KWC attracts students to and from Owensboro to pursue a quality education, and the Owensboro community keeps them here to put that education into practice. We are proud to not only be a college in Owensboro, but a college for Owensboro. We are also excited to celebrate our anniversary year with Owensboro Parent’s 10th and look forward to future decades of Panther legacies from our amazing community. Learn more about academic program offerings and exciting new investments in our students’ success, including the Commonwealth Commitment and textbook tuition model, by visiting www. kwc.edu or calling 270-852-3120.

Daviess County Teachers Federal Credit Union Congratulations to Owensboro Parent on 10 years! Daviess County Teachers Federal Credit Union is also celebrating 50 YEARS of service to the Daviess County community and school system! What began as a small organization right here in Owensboro has grown into a full-service financial institution expanding in membership and growing to meet the needs of our community. We strive for excellence in member service and believe one of our biggest strengths has always been our care and concern for members and their families. From the convenience of mobile and remote banking to the endless benefits of free financial literacy tools, we are constantly listening and evolving to create the best overall banking experience. We are local, not-for-profit and owned by our members. When you stand behind a credit union, you are standing behind a financial institution that you have ownership in and we wouldn’t be here without you.

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Ruoff Mortgage The Owensboro branch of Ruoff Mortgage is celebrating their 3rd anniversary this year! Their team philosophy is to be active, present, and supportive of our community. They love to support Owensboro, and are involved in many non-profit organizations in the area. The Owensboro team is made up of 13 dedicated loan officers led by Mark Gentry, the Branch Manager. Aaron Strawn, Brent Nichols, Courtney VonGunten, David Crowe, Dustin Bennett, Jordan Plunkett, Lisa O’Nan, Peter Perrone, TJ Smith, Tyler Sook, Samantha Brown, and Tiffany Henning make up the rest of the team. They focus on establishing and nurturing relationships with their clients, which is obvious in their combined customer satisfaction rating of 98.2%. In 1984, David Ruoff decided there was a better way to meet the financial needs of his community. The Dave Ruoff Mortgage Company was started in Fort Wayne, IN. Since then, Ruoff has become one of the fasted-growing companies in the country and is ranked the number one mortgage lender in the Midwest. With over 37 years in business, Ruoff Mortgage is proud to be a family-owned business. We’ve grown from a single location in northeast Indiana to 67 branches spread across Indiana, Ohio, Michigan, Kentucky, and Florida. Our Owensboro team understands that buying or refinancing a home is never a small or straightforward task. As seasoned experts, Ruoff Mortgage educates homebuyers and provides professional guidance at every step. By sharing knowledge and showing support, Ruoff helps people see the potential and excitement in the homeownership experience. Ruoff knows that when you’re ready to get started, you want to keep things moving. From the moment you send in an application or make an offer, we make sure the process moves swiftly, often twice as fast as other lenders, so you can close quickly and settle in sooner. Call us at (270) 240-2828 or come see us at 234 Frederica St, Owensboro, KY 42301

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Out & About

EVEN T S AN D ACTIVITIES FOR OWE NSBORO FAMILIES

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OUT & ABOUT

6 local things to do

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Downtown ROMP: Air Show After Party AU GU ST 14 F ROM 12 - 8 P.M. BLU EG R A S S M US IC H ALL OF FAME & MU S E UM

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Head to the Bluegrass Music Hall of Fame & Museum for some high flying music and fun! On Saturday, August 14th, we’re thrilled to host Downtown ROMP: Air Show After Party. Presented by Owensboro Health, the event will feature Wolfpen Branch, Airshow, Fireside Collective, and The Barefoot Movement.

OWENSBORO AIR SHOW AU GU S T 13 - 15 DOWNTOWN OWE NSBORO

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All eyes will be on the skies over the Ohio River in downtown Owensboro as performers showcase vintage warbirds, aerobatic demonstrations, and military jets.

Gates will open at noon. The Owensboro Air Show, featuring the Blue Angels, will begin over the skies of the riverfront at 1 pm. Music will begin at the conclusion of the air show. With premium lawn seating, craft beers and a full bar, food trucks including Fresh by Gene’s, the Downtown ROMP Air Show After Party will be the place to be for all the action. Tickets are $20 each. Bring your own chairs and blankets for a fun-filled event. Kids 6 and under are FREE!

Coming back to headline this year’s show are the U.S. Navy Blue Angels joined by the following performers: F-35 Lightning II Demo Team SOCOM Para-Commandos. Be sure to see the spectacular events on Friday afternoon and evening at the Owensboro Regional Airport. Visit the Owensboro Air Show website for complete details for the show and all the information you need to know!

OWENSBORO HYDROFAIR AU G U ST 20 - AU G U ST 22 | OH IO RIVER

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50 teams will travel from across the country to compete in “nonstop racing action” on the Ohio River on August 20-22. Die-hard fans from as far as Texas, New York, and Washington are already booking their hotel rooms, and tens of thousands of viewers are expected. These boats are fast, powerful, and loud, reaching up to 160 MPH and spraying water high into the air as they rip through the river. The engine’s thunderous noise is many hydroplane racing fans favorite component!

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Owensboro Multicultural Festival

Concert On The Lawn: A Tribute To The Circus AU GU S T 28 @ 7 P.M.

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AU GU ST 21 10 A.M. - 4 P.M. F I R S T PR ESBY T E RIAN C HUR C H

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The 22nd annual Multicultural Festival at First Presbyterian Church is free for the whole community. They hope to foster understanding and respect for our similarities and differences so that we may build a stronger community.

Pack a picnic for a night under the big top with the Owensboro Symphony, featuring Laura Dickinson performing Never Enough from The Greatest Showman. Four-time Grammy® and three-time Emmy® winning music producer and contractor Laura Dickinson is best known for her extensive work for Disney on eleven animated Disney Channel hits, including Phineas and Ferb, Sofia the First, both Frozen films, Elena of Avalor, The Little Mermaid Live, Phineas and Ferb: Candace Against The Universe, Ralph Breaks the Internet, Lady and the Tramp (2019) and Mulan (2020). Join the Symphony for a free concert celebrating the Circus. Gates open at 5:30 p.m. and food trucks will be on-site. Visit OwensboroSymphony.org for more information.

ROMP SEPTEM BER 15 SE P TEM BER 18 Y EL LOW C RE E K PARK

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Produced by the Bluegrass Music Hall of Fame & Museum, ROMP Festival is scheduled for September 15-18th at Yellow Creek Park in Owensboro, Kentucky. 2021 marks the 18th year for the event, which is a great place for families to relax, unwind and take in some Bluegrass music. Visit the Hall of Fame website for a full lineup of this year's festival.

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PAID ADVERTORIAL OWENSBORO HEALTH

Kids’ Fun Run Promotes Health and Fitness

he morning of September 25 is all about family fun and promoting wellness as the Run For Your Life 5K road race, sponsored by the Owensboro Health Healthpark and the Junior League of Owensboro, and Kids’ Fun Run, presented by Owensboro Health Foundation, take over the area around the Owensboro Health Healthpark. The 5K race starts at 8 a.m. and is followed at 9 a.m. by the free half-mile fun run for kids up to age 12 to encourage exercise, health and fitness to children. The Junior League makes the event a real party with plenty of fun kids’ activities, balloon twisters and more. Participants in Kids’ Fun Run receive a free t-shirt and finisher's medal. In addition to those items, they have a chance to win one of eight new bikes with helmets and a $500 wellness grant for their school for physical education and gym equipment. Celebrating its eighth year, the race day is a great family activity and way to encourage exercising together. In 2019, 265 kids participated in the event and organizers expect this year’s event to be even bigger. This year's Kids' Fun Run is FREE but limited to the first 300 kids. Online registration is required to participate and must be completed by September 8. Early 5K registration is open now for $20 and will increase to $25 on September 8. Be sure to register before September 8 to be guaranteed a shirt in the right size. Register for both events today at OwensboroHealth. org/Race. August // September 2021 . OWENSBORO PARENT

OUT & ABOUT

kids

meal deals

EVERY DAY O’Charley’s – Free kids meal (ages 10

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with the purchase of a signature sandwich

& under) with the purchase of adult Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when

entrée

you spend $6.99 or more on adult

MONDAY

entrée

Grandy’s – 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult meal

McDonald’s – $1.99 Happy meals from 4-7pm; dine-in only

Moonlite Bar-B-Q Inn - Up to 2 kids eat free (ages 10 & under) from 4-9pm with

WEDNESDAY

adult buffet purchase

Donatos – Up to 2 free individual 1-topping pizza/per child (12 and under)

Zaxby’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with

with the purchase of a large pizza; dine-

the purchase of an adult meal from

in only from 5-8pm

5-8pm Burger Theory (located in the Holiday Inn Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when

Owensboro Riverfront) – Free kids meal

you spend $6.99 or more on adult

(ages 12 & under) with purchase of an

entrée

adult meal; breakfast, lunch & dinner

TUESDAY

THURSDAY

Beef ‘O’ Brady’s – $1.99 kids meal (ages

Dairy Queen (Frederica Location) – Up to

12 & under) all day

2 $1.99 kids meals

Denny’s – Up to 2 free kids meals with

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with

an adult meal purchase

the purchase of a signature sandwich

Fazoli’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with

SATURDAY

the purchase of an adult entrée

Lure Seafood & Grille – Free kids meal with purchase of adult entrée

Freddy’s – Free scoop or cone with the purchase of a kids meal on Family

Wheatgrass Juice Bar – Free kids

Night. Kids can enjoy coloring pages,

smoothie with adult purchase

crayons, balloons and stickers! Long John Silver’s – $1.99 Kids meals all Pizza By the Guy – 1 free kids buffet (ages 10 & under) with an adult purchase with a drink on Tuesdays from 5-8pm

day

SUNDAY Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée;

Pizza Hut (South Frederica location)

dine in only

– 1 free child buffet with the purchase of an adult buffet

Pizza By the Guy – 1 free buffet for kids

from 4:30-7pm

(ages 10 & under) with adult purchase with a drink from 11:30am-2pm

Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult

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Bar Louie – Kids eat free 11am - 7pm

entrée;

up to 2 kids per adult entrée; dine-in

dine in only

only

on the honor roll? Bring your report card to these local restaurants & businesses for additional deals!

Orange Leaf – Bring in your report card and receive $1 off yogurt; a report card with straight A’s will receive a small cup free. Ritzy’s (Both locations) – Ritzy’s has a “Scoops for Scholars” program. Students can bring in their report card each grading period to earn treats for each “A.” 1A = flavored soft drink (cherry, vanilla, or chocolate) 2 A's = single scoop of ice cream 3 A's = your choice of a hotdog, coney, hamburger, or cheeseburger 4 A's = double scoop of ice cream McDonald’s – All five Owensboro McDonald’s decided this school year that they will award a free Happy Meal to any student who gets straight A's on their report card. Chuck E. Cheese in Evansville – A child can receive 10 tokens with a purchase if they bring in their report card. Sky Zone in Evansville – All A’s= 1/2 off any jump. A & B’s= $5 off any jump. Weekdays & Friday 2-7pm.

*This list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation.

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FROM OUR READERS

Say What? Our readers asked their kids the following question:

"What would be the BEST birthday present ever?" “My own house.” - Ben, age 6

“A pink baby Alicorn with a rainbow mane.” - Anna, age 9

“A silicone baby that weighs 8 pounds!” -Ellie, age 8

"Some sort of small animal, like a pet…a hamster or bunny." - Annesleigh, age 9

e “A doll hous that’s big me enough for .” to go inside ge 5 - Annalynn, a

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“Going to Disney World!” -Victoria, age 9

“A Motor c

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e.” - Jenson, age 6

“Meeting Blippi.”

- Edward, age 6

“A Barbie dream house.” - Shelby, age 6

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Owensboro Parent / August - September 2021

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Anniversary Celebrations

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