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Contents
Departments
Christian Business Spotlight 10
Betty Scott-Owen has not gone digital
Commentary 12
Interruption or Divine Appointment?
Faith and Spirituality
18 Features
16
A Beautiful Journey
22
Healing through God
24
From Struggling to Success!
Cover Story
In the Know
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Dr. Melvin O. Marriner & Grove Church Meeting the Needs of People
Functions of the Preacher
Publisher’s Pen
The Last Word
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A Personal Message from the Publisher
Who’s Who In Your Castle?
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The Publisher’s Pen A Personal message from the Publisher
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he highly regarded modern philosopher, Søren Kierkegaard, in his Attack Upon Christendom, wrote: “The Christianity of the New Testament simply does not exist. Millions of people through the centuries have little by little cheated God out of Christianity, and have succeeded in making Christianity exactly the opposite of what it is in the New Testament.” So each of us needs to prove what we believe by really studying the Bible. We need to accept what the Bible says rather than reading our own pre-conceived ideas into the Bible. Think for a moment. Why is professing Christianity divided into more than 400 competing denominations and sects? Why do churches calling themselves Christian have so many differing beliefs and practices? Could it be that God is the author of confusion? Or might there be another explanation? Many shall deceive consider the warning Christ Himself gave: “For many shall come in my name, saying [that] I am Christ; and shall deceive many” (Matthew 24:5, KJV). Jesus did not say here that only some few would come in His name, but rather that “many shall come”! They come as “Christian” preachers, proclaiming Jesus as the Christ—yet deceiving many! In other words, there was to be a mass deception based on the false teachings of the many who would claim to come “in Jesus’ name.” Frankly, it is easy for religious teachers to appropriate the Son of God’s name as a cloak for their personal doctrine, whether or not what they say has any relationship at all to the real Jesus’ life or teachings! That is why the Apostle Paul tells us: “Prove all things; hold fast that which is good” (1 Thessalonians 5:21, KJV). Each one of us is responsible to “check up” on the doctrines we are taught—whatever the source. Do not make careless assumptions! Be
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sure you know what the Bible really says! Paul further admonishes: “For if he who comes preaches another Jesus whom we have not preached, or if you receive a different spirit which you have not received, or a different gospel which you have not accepted; you may well put up with it!” (2 Corinthians (11:4). In other words, Paul feared that some of the Church members of his day would fall prey to “counterfeit” ministers and would come to accept a false gospel about a false Christ! What about you? Is it possible that you have putup with “another Jesus”? Might you have been deceived into believing in a false portrayal of Christ—along with a false message merely purported to have come from the true Jesus? How can we know what is true—and what is not? Again, we need to truly study the Bible to attain genuine understanding. We need to be willing to open-mindedly consider if we have been following the “traditions of men” rather than the commandments of God (Matthew 15:3). How to Study As we study the Bible, we need to learn to let the Bible interpret the Bible. In other words, if something seems unclear, then we should let the plain, clear verses help us understand those that are not clear. We need to learn also to study the Bible straight through like we would any other book. Many people simply skip around here and there and read sentimental verses of encouragement. While this may help at times, it does not give genuine understanding of the whole plan and purpose of God which He reveals in His instruction manual for mankind—the Holy Bible Begin by studying the Gospel of Matthew—the first book of the New Testament. Read right through Matthew slowly, marking what you
feel are the important verses. Then, next day, review these verses you have studied and read slowly—meditating and marking—a few more chapters. In this way, you will become familiar with what the Bible actually says— not what misguided men may tell you that it says! In fervent personal prayer, ask God for understanding. Be willing to follow the Christianity of Christ no matter what. Always remember the Apostle Paul’s vital statement: “I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me” (Galatians 2:20, KJV). Through the promised Holy Spirit, will Christ live the same kind of life in you that He lived more than 1,900 years ago in the human flesh? Hebrews 13:8 tells us: “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” Did Christ keep the Ten Commandments while He was in the human flesh? John 15:10 tells us, “I have kept my Father’s commandments.” So, where did you get your religion? How did you come to believe the things that you believe? Did you find your religious concepts in the Bible? Or did you get your religious ideas from family and friends? Frankly, most people do not get their religion out of the Bible. It may hurt to have to admit that. But it can easily be proved in the vast majority of cases. Will You Change? It is very difficult for most people to admit they have been wrong. Human pride just does not want to do that. Yet, according to the inspired Word of God, that is the beginning point of true Christianity. When Jesus Christ began His ministry, He told His listeners over and over, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand” (Matthew 4:17). And the Gospel of Mark tells us: “Now after John was put in prison, Jesus came to Galilee, preaching the
gospel of the kingdom of God, and saying, ‘The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.’” (Mark 1:14–15). Again, Jesus later said, “I tell you, no; but unless you repent you will all likewise perish” (Luke 13:5). The word “repent” means to change. Yet, again, most people are not willing to admit they have been wrong and they certainly do not want to change! Read the article, “Will God Bless You and Your Finances?” on page --of this issue. And will you follow Christ’s command to “watch” as end time prophesied events begin to be fulfilled at an ever-faster pace, as we approach the time of Christ’s return? Read every article in this issue, and study the scriptures each author cites. Scripture is the very mind of God in print, and as you become more familiar with the Word of God, and learn how to apply it in your life, you will grow closer to your Savior and experience His blessings as never before. So, do not miss this great opportunity that God is giving you to learn and change and grow! As we walk in his newness day to day, may God help you genuinely study His inspired Word and prove what you believe from the Bible. Then, you will be on a solid foundation. And you will come to genuinely know God—and the resurrected Jesus Christ at God’s right hand—in a way you have never experienced before. God Bless and Good reading! “I want to dedicate this issue of Christian Leaders HR to my mother, who went to be with our father on Feb 21, 2015. I know she is looking down on me with a smile only a mother has.”
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PASTOR’S CORNER
by Rick Whitter How can you know if you are where God wants you to be, doing what He wants you to do?
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You are stretched: If you are really comfortable in your position or responsibility, chances are, you need a change. If you can do your job with your eyes closed, change jobs. God wants you to grow and the only way to do that is to be challenged. If your duties require that you expand your abilities, congrats – you are right in your sweet spot. You are fulfilled: f you find a sense of satisfaction simply from doing what is expected of you, that is a good sign. Completion, peace of mind, and contentment can’t be manufactured. Additionally, these emotions are very rare. If you are enjoying them, kudos to you for finding your groove. You are succeeding: One of the best ways for God to get the attention of one of His people is to allow them to fail. Failure is a great motivator. God wants you to succeed. I know this is a generalization and it is way over-used in some television preacher circles, but it is true nonetheless. If you are enjoying a season of success, it is probably a “thumbs up” from God. You are reliant: If your duties are requiring more than you feel you can possibly give, it may be a sign that God has you right where He wants you. Of course, it is possible to just be in over your head. However, God expects great things of you–and you can’t do it without Him! Learn to lean on Him. You are not looking around: If you spend zero time thinking about your next move; if your plans are focused on your current appointment only; if you wouldn’t accept a change even with a pay increase, you’ve found a home. Enjoy it.
There a few greater joys than knowing you are fulfilling your God-given purpose. Until you find that, keep pushing until you do so. Once you do find it, you’d better stay put – until and unless God changes His mind.
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CHRISTIAN BUSINESS SPOTLIGHT
Betty Scott-Owen
has not gone digital. By Glen Mason Contributing Writer
NORFOLK – Betty Scott-Owen has not gone digital. The concept of digital photography is not alien to her, nor is she afraid to try it. It’s just that she taught herself to take 35-millimeter photography to a whole new level. Scott-Owen’s fine arts photography borders on the whimsical, but when you view her work you’re looking at reality that’s embellished by nature, not by a computer. Is Betty Scott-Owen’s style fooling the eye? Not really. What it does is focus the eyes on what it doesn’t see. It’s her technique and perspective that’s lures you into her work. She sees what we see, but the images that she captures comes from an artist’s perspective. Scott-Owen just uses light as her media. Betty’s influence is a style she’s developed on her own. Photography is a passion to her, a passion that former Look magazine photographer Robert Lerner describes as “creative and unique.”
Scott-Owen’s method has won her awards from one side of the Elizabeth River at the Stockley Gardens Art show in Norfolk, to the other side of the Elizabeth at the Gosport Art Show in Portsmouth. With her work being added to corporate and private collections national attention is eminent. She has already shown at the Alpan Gallery in Huntington, Long Island in New York, the Limner Gallery in New York City, the Arts and Design Society of Fort Walton Beach, FL. and the Touchstone Gallery in Washington D.C. Her work has been exhibited at the White Canvas Gallery in Richmond, the Portlock Gallery in Chesapeake, the Courthouse Gallery in Portsmouth and the Pea Island Gallery on the Outer Banks of NC. Betty Scott-Owen was born in Norfolk, VA. She says she never set out to be an artist or a professional photographer for that matter. Her latent talents were dormant until she retired from the hustle and bustle of corporate America. She says she did not make a decision to go into photography.
”It chose me,” said ScottOwen, whose platinum to blond hair frames an attractive face with a cherub-like beauty. She added that her sojourn into photographic art, and into herself, began after she released herself from the constraints of living in the business world. “I went down to the river across from where I lived in West Stockbridge, Massachusetts to contemplate my next move in life - what am I here to do? What is my mission? It’s time. Let’s do it!” she exclaimed. “So I sat down on the riverbank and took a moment to look around, and then looked in the river. What I saw amazed me! Without any mental process I ran home to get my camera, raced back to the river and began photographing the reflections that excited me.” Scott-Owen’s husband, John, gave her first camera. She remembered it was an Olympus point-and-shoot. “Any camera today will take a pretty good picture - I prefer to use Fuji film, as do many of the professional photographers
I know. As for digital (cameras), I am not familiar with them,” said ScottOwen. Give her that old 35-millimeter any day. “I use color film even though some of my photographs appear to be black and white or even sepia.” Artistically speaking, ScottOwen’s abilities with lenses and light seem to channel fine art photographic pioneers Ernest Haas and Andre Kertesz. Considered a master of the photographic medium, Haas’ mastery of movement and color will often appear to creep into her work. Self-taught Hungarian photographer Kertesz, noted for “taking pictures only to suit himself,” thus freeing him of constraints, provides an innate veneer that’s reflected in different aspects of ScottOwens’ imagery. She says the masters - Dali, Van Gogh, Renoir, Monet, and Picasso, inspire her. Like her photographs, ScottOwen’s art is a reflection of her passion for selfexpression.
“I don’t believe there is a perfect picture, as so many elements are involved in making a good photograph,” said Scott-Owen. “The viewer sees it through the lens of his eye which is influenced by his life experiences. I believe a photograph is really good when its message, whatever that may be, is acknowledged on some level by those viewing it. “Currently I am working on abstracts, although I photograph anything that looks inviting,” said ScottOwen “I am amazed at the life and energy I see in water and feel so fortunate to be able to commune with it and present its message. “Because of all the synchronicities involved, I know this is my part, my gift to the world. I don’t have any expectations - I anticipate the best to happen when it is supposed to, like pieces of a puzzle coming together. I feel so fortunate to have received the recognition I have in such a short period of time. When you are doing what it is you are supposed to be doing, everything you need to succeed will be presented to you.
“Photography represents an avenue to share my perspective of the world to the world. It is a means to capture images that go unnoticed in our hurried lives and allow them to be seen and felt,” said ScottOwen, easily slipping into her philosophy of art mood. “There are no manipulations of these images - the natural world is seen as it is in the natural process of changing. That is a message we need to pay attention to. Through change, growth is achieved. “Yes, I converted my living room and porch into my studio. It is wonderful to be able to be in my studio at 3 a.m. doing what I love when I am moved to do it. Time really doesn’t exist when I am in my studio - everything flows. It was about a year ago that Scott-Owen’s work first caught the attention of Lerner. She was showing at the Cristallo Gallery in Williamsburg, and Lerner was judging the submissions. Scott-Owens
was picked Best In Show. “Some amateur photographers are as good as professionals,” Lerner remarked. “When I saw the entire selection I was stunned. I saw something I had never seen before. It was moving. “I’ve shot photos all over the world I thought I had seen everything. You expect still life. You expect attempts at capturing moments of everyday life. I had a million questions as a photographer. “She’s obviously talented. Her process of creativity has many twist and turns,” said Lerner during an interview in Virginia Beach. “In explaining her work, Betty said some things I had not heard from an artist or photographer before. “Scott-Owen’s work is the most unique and creative I’ve seen in a long time,”
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COMMENTARY
Interruption or Divine Appointment? H.B. Charles, Jr
Knowing the difference has more to do with your soul than your schedule.
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t feels like it happens every week, doesn’t it? You start the week with great ambitions. This week will be twice as productive as the last, you tell yourself. Study blocks won’t get cheated. Your sermon will be finished early. You will be prepared for this week’s staff meeting. That special project will finally get your needed attention. Then the week starts. And your well-laid plans fly off the desk, as if a strong wind just blew through the office. It did. These sudden, powerful, and schedule-destroying windstorms are called “interruptions.”
This week will be more productive. Your sermon will be finished early. Then the week starts and your well-laid plans fly off the desk. Someone shows up at the office with an emergency. And they must talk to you. Only you. Staff members keep knocking on the door for your input. An upcoming event is not ready and requires all hands on deck. Quarrelling leaders drag you into their conflict. A longtime member is hospitalized. A beloved member passes on. Some seemingly random but pressing need is dropped in your lap. You have goals to reach. The schedule is set. But your dream of a balanced life and organized ministry never happens. You almost can’t get out of bed without stumbling over the day’s clutter. How can you distinguish between unnecessary interruptions and divine appointments? Pastors have important work to do every week. We also have urgent matters that arise unexpectedly that we need to address. The challenge is not all things are both important and urgent. It requires wisdom and practice to determine what is important or urgent—and what can be safely ignored. But I believe there’s something deeper we need to do, something both simple and profound. It is the key to being marked present when and where the Lord wants you. Do this, and you will have a compass to guide you through busy days, weeks, and months of pastoral work.
The key is to guard your daily devotional time. We know a healthy quiet time is essential to communion with God and spiritual growth. And we press the importance of the spiritual disciplines on our congregation members. We readily tell our members they should spend time with God before they spend time with other people. But we don’t always practice it. As a result, we often find ourselves overwhelmed by hurry, noise, crowds, deadlines, and interruptions. Nothing can lift this burden and simplify our lives like guarding and growing our time with God. There are times when ministry is an unspeakable joy. Other times, not so much. Some days, I can’t wait to get to work. Other days, I can’t wait for my next vacation. I lay down some nights feeling like I have made a difference. Then there are sleepless nights, when I cannot stop my mind from downloading more work to do. The interesting thing is that these conflicting moods rarely have anything to do with my schedule. It has everything to do with the attitude of my heart. You cannot guard your schedule if you do not guard your heart (Proverbs 4:23) A quarterback is still working, even when the defense is on the field. He doesn’t just chill out and rehydrate. He talks to the coaches in the press box. He reviews pictures of the previous set of downs. He receives instruction on how to attack the defensive schemes. The unnoticed “devotional” work on the sidelines enables the quarterback to perform better on the field. The same goes for pastors. Check in with the Coach in the press box before you lead the team on the field. Doing so will make all the difference when you’re deciding which play to run. H.B. Charles, Jr. is pastor of Shiloh Metropolitan Church, Jacksonville, Florida. Christian Leaders Magazine | June 2015 - 13
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Jada Jackson uses her roles as model, counselor & communicator to help others unlock hope by Belinda Elliott
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he wowed audiences as a model on runways around the world — including the apex Ebony Fashion Fair. Now she is helping television viewers take charge of their lives. As a licensed mental health counselor, author and speaker, Jada Jackson ’10 (Psychology & Counseling) may appear to have the perfect life, but the counselor and TV host wasn’t always the confident woman people see today. As she says herself, Jackson has been on “quite a journey” — one in which she is quick to credit God’s faithfulness and always thinking big in fulfilling her calling. Jackson grew up in a home filled with alcoholism and abuse, which led to insecurities that would take years to overcome. Outside the home, her life resembled that of any other By Renyatta L. Banks pre-teen girl. At age 12, friends and family told Jackson she should pursue modeling because she was tall. Though she was initially more interested in trying her hand at basketball, the modeling world soon captured her attention when she was invited to model for a Macy’s shoot. “I jumped in and started modeling, and the rest is history,” she says.
“I always wanted to be on television,” Jackson recalls. “I always said, ‘I’m going to be the next Oprah.’ It was so fascinating to me that someone would have the ability to communicate wisdom and knowledge in that way and help people.” As she was enjoying her new career, she decided to finish her communication degree. After researching various online programs, Jackson chose Regent because of its strong academics and commitment to Christian values. In addition, the online classes fit her hectic schedule. While juggling classes and her career she also discovered another passion — counseling. She often found herself ministering to other young women while touring and was able to draw from her experiences to help them. As she reflects on this time in her life, Jackson sees how God was preparing her for the future.
“During that time I just always knew God had given me a gift.”
Later, while with an agency in Atlanta, a colleague suggested she audition for the Ebony Fashion Fair — a prestigious traveling fashion show that was holding auditions in Chicago. She auditioned, was offered a position and began a 10-year career with them. This offer to travel the world meant putting her studies on hold. At the time, she was enrolled at Emerson University pursuing her bachelor’s degree in communication. She excitedly traded the college halls of Boston for runways in Paris and Rome. Soon, she was offered the position of commentator and spokesmodel for the Fashion Fair, a position that allowed her to use her brilliant communication skills and engaged her in the world of entertainment that she had admired since early childhood. 16 - Christian Leaders Magazine | June 2015
“During that time I just always knew God had given me a gift,” she explains. “It’s a gift that people trust me. The girls trusted me, and they valued my opinion. God gave me compassion and wisdom to walk them through whatever situations they were facing at the time, and He even led some of them to salvation.”
When Jackson decided to pursue formal training in counseling, she turned to Regent again and chose the M.A. in Human Services Counseling program. “I loved the integration of Christian values that were really wrapped tightly in a strong academic degree,” she says. “I felt completely academically prepared to go out and help people, but I also had that very foundational core belief system that was strengthened unbelievably.” Following her education at Regent, she pursued an M.S. in Mental Health Counseling from Palm Beach Atlantic University. Now a counselor at Total Life Counseling in Orlando, Florida, Jackson counsels individuals, families and teens but feels especially drawn to helping women. She is also a domestic violence advocate,
but says it took her years to get to the point where she was comfortable discussing her own experiences, which she writes about in her book Be-you-tiful.
life-change countdown clock. “During the time of the show we want to challenge our viewers to make a change, even if it is just a small change,” Jackson explains. Topics range from confronting life changes like divorce and job transitions,
faith in a secular environment. She fondly remembers the encouragement she received from Regent’s founder and chancellor, Dr. M.G. “Pat” Robertson after she was introduced to him through an appearance on The 700 Club.
“I always said, ‘I’m going to be the next Oprah.’ It was so fascinating to me that someone would have the ability to communicate wisdom and knowledge in that way and help people.” to dealing with relationship issues, forgiveness or stress. “We offer a fun, light-hearted twist, but also very real, applicable solutions for common, everyday life problems,” she says.
The book started with her therapist’s suggestion that she keep a journal. It began a long journey of self-evaluation in which she realized she needed to forgive herself and her parents and let go of her anger — something she had held onto since the domestic abuse of her childhood. “It was about confronting those who I felt had done me an injustice, but at the same time being compassionate enough to forgive.” Now she feels compelled to use her experiences and her faith to help other women, whether they are dealing with domestic violence, relationship troubles or insecurities. Her degrees, combined with her experience as a professional counselor, made her the perfect fit when television producers with Mojo Brands Media were looking for hosts for a new psychologydriven show. They reached out to Jackson as they were developing Emotional MoJo, a show that combines psychology, personal development and life coaching to help viewers change their lives. Jackson and two other hosts dish out advice and inspiration every weekday morning on the show that airs on the WE tv network. Each episode features a
Juggling her full-time counseling job with TV tapings doesn’t leave a lot of free time. Her hectic schedule starts at 5 a.m., but it’s a small sacrifice to do what she loves. “This is an opportunity for me to reach more people. It’s fun living out my television aspirations in a positive way.” It’s also been interesting, she says, working in a profession that is sometimes at odds with her Christian beliefs. Some respect her faith, but others are quick to bring on ungracious comments and jabs. “It’s all fair game,” she insists. “I still believe in the calling of my life to be a beacon of light in the midst of darkness.” This strong foundation is what drives Jackson, whether she is engaged in private counseling or speaking to television viewers. As a cognitive behavioral therapist, she bases her approach to therapy on the biblical principle found in Romans of renewing the mind. “On the show, I may talk about reframing or how to change negative thoughts,” she explains. “The reality is that there is a biblical principle behind that.” Jackson credits Regent with equipping her to live out her
“He was a very strong mentor. He inspired me beyond measure,” she says. “He encouraged me and said, ‘You can do anything, and you can do it for God. You can be in the midst of an environment in a secular industry and let your light shine.’” She plans to let that light shine well into the future. Currently, Jackson is working on her doctorate through Argosy University. Though she occasionally teaches college classes and hopes to one day retire as a professor, she is most focused on how God will continue using her in the entertainment industry. “I love entertainment and being able to reach people on a large scale,” she says. “My prayer is that God will open more doors later on in my career. I’m thinking big,” she quips. “Maybe I’ll move to New York and have my own show.” Wherever God takes her next, Jackson’s mission remains the same. “I’ve worked in very secular arenas, and God has given me strength, wisdom and power to continue to believe in Him and to share His Word. I will continue to do that whenever I can.”
COVER STORY
Dr. Melvin O. Marriner
& Grove Church
Meeting the Needs of People By Shelia Harrison
Staying on F.I.R.E “Dr. Melvin O. Marriner is senior pastor of Grove Church, located in the Churchland Section of Portsmouth. For more than 25 years, he has led, taught, and inspired a congregation that now numbers almost 4,000. In addition to three Sunday services, Tuesday noon and Wednesday night Bible Study, Grove houses several life ministries under the umbrella of Visions of Truth Ministries (VOTM). These ministries serve any persons of need throughout their various life stages. In addition, Dr. Marriner is Chief Administrator of Marriner Christian Academy: Early Learning and Family Education Center—a pre-school that serves children ages two to five. Active in the Hampton Roads Community, Dr. Marriner serves on several boards and holds leadership positions on committees that influence and affect change. He currently serves as President of the Dr. Martin Luther King Leadership Steering Committee, and is a member of Portsmouth Notable, Portsmouth Rotary, Rotary International, the Tidewater Metro 18 - Christian Leaders Magazine | June 2015
Ministers’ Conference, and Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc. He serves on the boards of the Portsmouth Partnership and Portsmouth Community Foundation and is Chief Executive Office (CEO) of Visions of Truth Community Development Corporation. He is also the Chaplain for the Portsmouth Fire Department. He has received numerous honors and awards because of his dedication and service to the community. –Dr. Marriner holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science from Norfolk State University, a Master of Divinity degree from Virginia Union University School of Theology, and a Doctorate of Ministry from United Theological Seminary. Christian Leaders talked recently with Dr. Marriner about the changing role of the church, Grove’s history and future, engaging young people, and what it means to stay on F.I.R.E. What does it mean to be a Christian Leader?oooooo I think that Christian maturity and leadership is distinct because of the nature of a leader’s position as a servant and
partner with the Holy Spirit. Christian leadership is often marginalized when it is reduced to charisma and spiritual gifts, without a direct invitation from God to assume the mantle of greater responsibility. Submission to Christ’s authority and model of leadership is one of the hallmarks of Christian leadership. Christian leadership is a gift…and is discovered and developed in the same way as other spiritual gifts, that is, through life experience, training and the maturing process, which must be seen holistically. Even though it is the product of the Spirit’s presence and God’s grace, this privilege requires diligence, faithfulness, hard work, and commitment if it is to be exercised effectively. There is general belief that many young people are “churched out and religioned out.” What has Grove done to engage young people?0000000000 Perceived youth flight and involvement from mainline traditional churches is not based on perception, but true reality. Grove Church, like most progressive churches has struggled and been stretched in order to bridge the disconnect and absence of the “millennial” generation in today’s church. Grove realized early on that the youth were not the “church of tomorrow” but the group that has current existential realities that could not be ignored. We decided to shift our traditional methodologies that had become irrelevant to the transformation of lives, without diluting Christian ordinances or diluting the Gospel message. My generation, the “baby boomers” were taught not to ask questions and made to feel that almost everything was a sin. The millennial generation
seeks answers to practical and spiritual questions. We’ve incorporated multiple music styles and “remix” ministries that speaks the contextual language of the youth and young adult audience that we are trying reach. I have empowered their peers to lead and share with me vision and direction. I have deliberately hired young adults to our full and part time staff to ensure the minimum amount of avoidance and the maximum amount of participation. A recent study issued by the Pew Research Center says that Americans
are becoming less Christian, and more secular. What must the church do reverse that trend? It is undeniably happening across America, but compromising and weakening the power of the cross of Christ and projecting a false perception of prosperity isn’t the answer. The message of Grace does not extinguish the fact that there are some moral and biblical absolutes. Having said that; “what really does secular mean?” Jesus was seen as a nonconformist and perhaps secular. I contend that everything secular isn’t necessarily sin.
The church has alienated people and at times done a disservice by making every secular act a sin. The local church, as seen by some, has become synonymous with lengthy services, boredom and business minded pastors who have become super stars of the pulpit. Consequently, many have become disenchanted with such a dogmatic approach without the flexibility to be human and partake in “sinless” events. We are three dimensional beings made up of “Spirit, Mind and Body.” All three have distinct appetites and an environment to thrive in without becoming of the sin nature. The church has to intentionally address the whole person and not simply request their presence, talents or money. As one of the largest-if not the largest church in Portsmouth--Grove Church is often looked upon as a “leader” in the community that makes things happen. What are your thoughts on that?ooooooooo Well by nature of our growth and attendance, we are able and should be required to do more and give more. “To whom much is given, much is required.” The church by nature of Christ’s headship should be leaders engaged in translated theology into social and psychological constructs that has measureable affects on its community. This is our “reasonable service” and should be viewed as such. It is our prophetic mandate to serve. Grove Church is celebrating its 175th Anniversary in 2015. What are some of the church’s highlights during your 25-years as pastor that you are most proud of? Indeed this is a divine orchestrated celebration of the Holy Spirit’s work
and the ancestors’ labor and prayers. We have done our best to enhance what twelve previous pastors have led the former members of this church to accomplish. Grove has a strong first-time homeownership program, an academic academy, debt reduction classes, debt free church, employment opportunities, millions in constructions, over 45 acres of prime real estate, weekly tutorial, health conscious environment, the only faith-based flagship sponsor for the American Cancer Society, a much requested suspension program for suspended school students and
difference in the lives of people in the Hampton Roads community. There are many, but the most recent was to share our financial and morale support for the Portsmouth Cavalier Manor Spartans Mitey Mites football team that was selected to represent the Mid South Region at the 2014 Pop Warner Super Bowl at ESPN Wide World of Sports at Walt Disney World in Orlando but could not afford the trip down to Florida. Most of these kids had never been out of Hampton Roads, and this was a great moment to demonstrate God’s love and our compassion as a local
for vision to meet those needs. We propose to partner with other agencies throughout our city and the Hampton Roads area to provide adequate afterschool and summer activities that focus on the total triune being of Spirit, Mind and Body. We want to address youth obesity, depression, educational disparities and spiritual apathy. We are open to suggestions, partnerships and financial support.
continuous emphasis on the power and love of God. I’m very proud that I have been able to witness positive change in thousands because of the gospel and the ministry here at Grove.
church. We were able to witness the joys, smiles and tears on the faces of players, parents and coaches. Over $10,000 was contributed, and they won the championship. They all had tremendous fun at Disney World as a part of their trip. It was a remarkable outpouring of love from our congregation.
fulfilled. I want to see people who desire to overcome obstacles and become “walking, talking, breathing and living miracles.” I want to see people made whole through the gospel of love. I want to see more in the black community live out their radiant power in a way that demonstrates the utmost respect for our past.
Grove is launching a fundraising campaign to build a new Family Life and Youth Center. What does Grove want to accomplish with the Center and how can the community get involved. Throughout America, there are many cities struggling economically and many social programs and recreational centers are closing down. Our responsibility as a church is to assess the needs and seek God
What is your vision for Grove Church’s future? 000000000000000 To continue to follow the script and path as God reveals it to each generation. My vision for Grove is the same as God’s. That is to stay on F.I.R.E., our core value of being FAITHFUL, with INTEGRITY, building RELATIONSHIPS with a spirit of EXCELLENCE.
Grove’s motto is “Meeting the Needs of People.” How does Grove do that? Simply, by “becoming all things to all people, that we may gain them to Christ.” Being willing to meet people where they are and helping them to live out the “image of God” on a daily basis. It means teaching the difference between “needs” and “wants” and being honest about our limitations. Using our resources to empower others and not being self-serving as to put self before those that we are called to serve. Give us an example of a time when Grove “stepped up” and made a 20 - Christian Leaders Magazine | June 2015
What are you most passionate about in regards to ministry? I am passionate about helping others to become holistically complete and
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FAITH AND SPIRITUALITY
By Renyatta L. Banks
Shannon Bellanca It is not too often that a person can find a friend, Sister in Christ and, most importantly, someone who understands and loves to share the power of healing though GOD. Shannon Bellanca is such an inspiration.
RB: Shannon thanks so much for allowing me to interview you about such an important issue. Can you please share a little bit about yourself? SB: I am a Navy wife and mother of two wonderful children. I am currently attending Liberty University pursuing my Bachelor’s Degree in Christian Counseling. I am also a Certified Lay Counselor and member of the American Association of Christian Counselors. RB: Shannon please explain the power of healing? SB: Healing is the ability to disallow a past hurt to negatively affect one’s present or future any longer. Healing allows one to use trauma from the past as a stepping stone to better his or her own future, as well as that of others.
RB: Is the healing process mostly for person forgives another, they allow women? God to move. God is the only one who is really owed a debt, and we SB: No, healing is available for the all are equally indebted. The Bible taking for all of God’s children, male tells “for if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your and female, young and old. heavenly Father will also forgive RB: What steps can a person can you” (Matthew 6:14, NIV). take to heal?
into believing you’re not healed. He would have you dwelling on the “buts.” “But,” I still hurt. “But,” I’m still angry. Those are emotions you must let go, and with true forgiveness comes true healing. Instead of dwelling on those things, God calls us to think higher. “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, We are required to forgive repeatedly: whatever is noble, whatever is right, Then Peter came and said to Him, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin whatever is admirable--if anything against me and I forgive him? Up to is excellent or praiseworthy--think seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do about such things.” (Philippians 4:8) not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven. (Matthew Best Advice 18:22).
SB: Step One - Asking God what the real issue is and then being honest with oneself in regards to that issue. Deep down there is a still, small voice which is consistently speaking truth. That voice is the Holy Spirit. It can take praying out loud to quiet all the Through it all, having someone voices of pride, injustice, fear, etc. to hear that voice, but it’s worth it. Sometimes the one we have to forgive in whom to confide and keep you is ourselves. accountable is an important part of the process. Be it a lay counselor, Search me, O God, and know Step Three - Claim it!! Speak it professional counselor, pastor or my heart; test me and know out loud: “I am healed!” Proclaim even just a trusted friend—having it! “By your wounds, I am healed!” someone to redirect you when you’re my anxious thoughts. 24 Point out anything in me Whether it’s physical, emotional, feeling negatively about the situation sexual…whatever the trauma; is a must.
that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life. (Psalm 139 23-24)
whatever the abuse, you are healed. “But he was pierced for our rebellion, crushed for our sins. He was beaten so we could be whole. He was whipped so we could be healed.” (Isaiah 53:5) And most importantly, Step Two - Act in obedience believe it. Believe that God came according to the voice of the Holy to do a work in you, and won’t stop Spirit. This often requires forgiveness, until he’s finished. which is one of the most difficult steps in the healing process. Forgiveness Lastly, keep pressing on and find means to release someone from their an accountability partner to help debt. Forgiveness benefits both the you along the way. You have a slick, forgiver and the forgiven, as it allows clever enemy who wants to fool you each person to grow. When one
RB: What church do you attend? SB: I serve as the Host Team Coordinator and Community Group Leader at Upward Church in Norfolk. My church leader is Pastor Jesse Melendez. RB: Shannon, thanks again for sharing with us. I pray that this article reaches and teaches a sea full of people.
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Everyone loves a good play but a good play that relates to real life situations is even better. I have been blessed to have spoken with the Founder and CEO of NJ Productions: Neisha “NJ” Jones. NJ thanks so much for sharing with our readers, you are truly an inspiration.
From Struggling to Success!
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By Renyatta L. Banks
RB: Please share a little about your background and how you first were introduced to theater. NJ: I grew up in Queens, New York. I started exploring theater back in high school. I wrote my first play when I was 15. I have always participated in creative arts like poetry and song writing. I even tried my hand at being a rapper. Believe me;if you asked me back then, I was going to be the next Salt & Pepa. RB: Can you please explain the genre of plays that you produce? NJ: Many will say my plays are considered 24 - Christian Leaders Magazine | June 2015
Christian plays. I beg to differ. I never could find an appropriate definition that satisfied me for what they call gospel or Christian plays. I must declare I am a Christian and I love GOD! My works are unconventional, even untraditional. I write so that in every show my messages uniquely speak to people the way they listen and reach people right where they are. In doing this, I am able to weave in my life’s testimony & theme-I Believe GOD-without compromising my integrity or intent. We reach both the Christian & secular communities this way and, more importantly, use these works to bridge that gap. By this design, I am able to go where gospel shows cannot or just do not go. We’ve performed at places such as school
auditoriums, public theatre venues as well as churches. I am just a Christian who writes plays—simply put. RB: Please share your testimony with our readers. NJ: Queens, New York is where I found out about GOD, but Hampton Roads, VA is where I met Him almost 7 years ago.I went from being comfortable in my finances, to not having any finances at all. I went from driving a Mercedes-Benz to catching a ride. I went from over paying bills to not paying bills at all. I went from being the lender to being the borrower. I went from giving away money to not having enough money for gas, to get the money others were sending me.
the doors” of the church at one of my plays. Not only was the show a success but fifty-five people gave their lives to Christ in Weldon, NC. It was there that my perception of my life changed. RB: What inspires you? NJ: The unexpected blessings of those who encounter my work are what truly inspire me. This includes my talented cast and staff I’ve been fortunate to have assembled. They see my vision as I do and have the gifts, individually and collectively, to bring it to fruition so I can focus on writing and creating.
The hardest thing about my situation was I had never struggled like that before in my life and what hurt the most was knowing that Hampton Roads was the placewhere GOD had told me to be. It got so bad that I packed all my stuff and called the moving company in New York, the same company that moved me, because I wanted them to move me back. The mover agreed to pick me and my stuff up that Saturday. This was a Wednesday I will never forget. About 30minutes later the Pastor at the church I was attending called me and told me the “Lord said: Don’t you move I promised you that this would be a land of milk and honey.” That was the same quote GOD spoke to me when I moved. I went New York for my birthday, not really feeling like celebrating when my phone rang. It was a college representative I had called a month ago to rent space to have a play. They took so long to call back; I didn’t have the money to rent the space. The college representative and I started to talk and found out we were both from NY and knew a lot of the same people. After, we hung the representative called me right back and asked me to partner up with the college, that was the beginning of my life turning around. It was the first time I ever “opened
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IN THE KNOW
by Frank Damazio
The greatest power ever known is the spoken word of God. It has called worlds into being, toppled empires, healed and comforted the sick, shaken the proud, and resurrected the dead. Yet in far too many pulpits and in far too many individual’s lives, that powerful word lies unopened, unspoken, and therefore uncomprehended. Preached or understood poorly, the word of God has more power than your opinions preached powerfully.
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The Puritans made such an impact in their time and continue to influence our day with their writings, largely because they insisted that the preacher’s task is to feed their congregations with the contents of the Bible, not the dry husks of their own fancy, but the life-giving words of God. Here are five biblical functions of the preacher.
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The preacher as a steward. A steward is the trustee and dispenser of another person’s goods, one who manages the household affairs, property, and accounts. This steward must be trustworthy because he is given a great level of authority. Titus lists the qualifications for a bishop, a high ranking leader, one of which is to be a “steward of God” (1:7). Stewards do not cut corners, they do not spread rumors about the family they serve, but they live absolutely above reproach.
The preacher as a guardian. The preacher is to carefully guard the Scriptures from harm and be faithful to dispense them. He or she is a watchperson devoted to keeping something well protected, as a watchman protects a city.
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The preacher as a herald. A herald is a proclaimer of a message given to him by the one who he is under, a messenger sent to announce. This messenger stood before kings, military commanders, and ambassadors, conveying official messages. In the ancient world, the herald must be a person of integrity and character, since he would faithfully make all public proclamations. The king had to trust the herald to speak truth
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The preacher as a treasure house. This is one of the great benefits of studying God’s word. Jesus taught that the kingdom of heaven is like “treasure hidden in a field” (Matt 13:44), and Paul writes that we have “treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us,” meaning that God’s power, His truth, His wisdom and knowledge, and His Spirit are all given to us, especially as we pursue it. We are therefore a treasure house, containing the immeasurable riches of God!
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The preacher as a workman. Throughout the New Testament, believers are encouraged to “be diligent” in studying the Scriptures, presenting themselves to God as approved (2 Tim 2:15). To study has a much broader meaning than learning from a book. It also means to be eager, zealous, and diligent, making every effort to do your utmost. Studying is not so much about the process as it is about the spirit behind it. You are a treasure house of God’s riches!
You are given an important task – to preach the word of God. Be faithful to the message, study hard, and dispense the treasure that God has imparted to you.
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he alarm would wake me from a fitful night of sleep on the couch. I slept there frequently on Saturday nights so I wouldn’t wake my family in the early morning when I left. In a few hours they would be worshiping at another church while I took my post in the pulpit of a church searching for a permanent pastor. I was serving as “the interim.” The interim pastor plays a pivotal role in the life of a congregation. As the word
suggests, interim pastors are called to provide leadership during the time of transition, the interval, the gap, the inbetween, the time that extends from the departure of one leader until the arrival of another. By definition an interim’s calling is short-term and intentionally temporary. While there are exceptions, most interims enter their role fully aware that their time of influence will be short-lived While some sense a call to spend their
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entire ministry as an interim, I was not one of them. My offer to assist a church as an interim, as it often does, came suddenly and amidst controversy. There had been allegations of a moral failure on the part of the previous pastor. When an investigation was conducted, the pastor surrendered his credentials of ordination and refused to travel the long road of repentance and redemption offered by his peers. The flock needed a shepherd and I offered to help. A weekend of pulpit supply became two, and then three. Finally, at the end of a long wooden table over lunch I was asked by a weary group of men and women to be their interim pastor. Of course they emphasized that I was “just the interim.” That phrase, “just the interim,” was repeated throughout my stint as the church’s provisional leader. Sometimes it was like a balm for my weary mind, a gentle reminder that this season in life was not permanent. At other times it served as a guardrail, an important cue that kept my vision and plans
in check, quietly reminding me that this was not ultimately my church. Usually it was used with the best of intentions. People wanted to remind me that my status as an interim provided me with a unique kind of leadership latitude; a freedom that afforded me the ability to minister in ways unique from the pastor before me, or the one to come. In many ways, I agreed. Indeed, amidst the litany of difficult decisions many interims are forced to make, the title of “interim” offers some protection from fears about job security.
Challenges of the role My first Sunday behind the pulpit turned out to be the last Sunday for the previous music director. Then, within a month, I needed to let the youth pastor go and the newly hired music director threatened to quit almost as soon as he began. The church leaders were divided about whether or not to keep the associate pastor, and it was soon discovered that some of the deacons were secretly attending a new fellowship started by the previous pastor just a few miles down the road. Budgets needed to be cut, but hiring was necessary. Healing needed to start but more surgery was required first. Many wanted to simply “move on,” while others were still stuck in an earlier stage of grief like anger or denial. Such trials are not unique to the experience of an interim. Nearly all of my colleagues in ministry have similar stories to tell. But facing them all as an unknown and impermanent member of the church’s leadership forced me to face these circumstances differently. On one hand I was removed from the troubles of this church. I was not there when the issues originated, so I was not viewed as the root of the problem. This outsider status enabled me focus on forward momentum, with the work that lay ahead. The title “interim” reinforces the notion that time is ticking. It reminds the team to distinguish the important from the trivial. And yet an interim often still faces enormous challenges. In my case I needed to engage contentious issues at a time of low morale, declining attendance, and the fear of an uncertain future. There are generally two different scenarios into which an interim is called. Both present opportunities and pitfalls. In one scenario an interim is used to navigate the transition after the long-tenure of a beloved pastor who has retired, moved
on, or passed away. In these cases, the interim becomes the bridge between a nostalgic past and a foggy future. In the second scenario, an interim is called in because the previous pastor has either been removed because of a moral failing or for some other reason. Both scenarios call on interims to engage in the paradoxical tasks of tearing down and building up, bringing together and taking apart, championing truth and dispensing grace. As such an interim is called to act as repairman and hatchet man, a hero and a villain. To some in the community, the interim may be viewed as a white knight figure. They expect the interim to sweep in and save the kingdom from chaos and collapse. These followers will refuse to use the term “interim” and beg you to stay forever. They long for stability and equilibrium and see you as the one who can bring it. They trust you and are the first to support your decisions, regardless of how controversial they may be. They are not merely “yes men” or “yes women,” but optimistic and visionary individuals who long to put the past behind and forge a new future. Then there are those who will silently vow to stand in opposition to you from the moment you arrived. Often their defiance stems from fact that you will always represent the removal or departure of a pastor they loved, their real pastor. Even if you have success, it will only highlight weaknesses of the previous leader and make them like you even less. Your weaknesses will cause them to pine for the glory days.
Lead like an Interim I learned valuable lessons as an interim; ones I’ve found useful beyond that specific role. My work as an interim changed my perspective on pastoral identity. It has allowed me to ponder how we might conduct our ministry differently if we all viewed ourselves as interims. Would we preach more boldly? Confront more sin? Tolerate less gossip?
Every pastor serves as an ambassador of Christ. We are called and commissioned to our community for a season. For some that season may be months or years. For others it may be decades. In all circumstances the call is only temporary. Ambassadors never make a permanent home of their host country. They always remain citizens of another land. Pastors tend a flock that is ultimately not their own. Though we may speak of a congregation being “our church” the people in the pews are not a possession. Our role is one of a vassal in service of the King. Thinking like an interim empowers pastors to preach with greater boldness. At least once each week I was told, “You are able to say things that could never be said before.” The role of the preacher is to present the fullness of God’s word, so the Spirit can do his work—and confrontations with the Holy Spirit are frequently unsettling. When our proclamation is not tempered by fears by long-term considerations or job security, we are freed to proclaim the word more boldly. If we can embrace our identity as interims, success will be defined more by faithfulness than legacy. We should be most concerned with protecting our primary charge of cooperating with the Spirit to transform the lives of parishioners. For an interim pastor, building campaigns and programming take a back seat to the essential work of serving Word and Sacrament to the hurting and the hungry. Interims know new leaders will eventually emerge. They understand that their time of leadership will recede into the annals of a church’s story. They will have played a character in a tale whose final chapter is the wedding of Christ and his bride. Yes, all pastors are interims, bound to a place and a people for a certain amount of time, committed to the same task for decades, years, or mere months. Whatever the duration, our goal is the same—to let people see Jesus. Steve L. Woodworth is the associate coordinator of the International Theological Education Network (ITEN) and a chaplain and professor of practical theology and ministry at Montreat College. He lives in Clarksville, Georgia.
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Who’s Who In Your Castle? W ho is the primaryinfluence in your home? The choice is simple; it is either (A) God the Father or (B). satan the deceiver. Raise up a child or the child will raise you. There are parents who actually fear their children. I see them on Dr.Phil all the time. Lately there seems to be a rise in incidents concerning children killing children. Initially it centered on gang violence, however it has expanded its influence to negative internet directions, immoral television shows, and demonic online games. A recent report on the news was that two thirteen year old girls were arrested for stabbing another girl to take over her spirit. Allegedly, a fictional online character guided them. Obviously someone taught them to read, nevertheless I imagine they were absent on the day comprehension of what is real and what is not was explored. A couple years ago, a boy went to Sandy Hook elementary school murdering numerous children while his mother had no idea that he had guns in her house. Recently a well-to-do California young man killed six people before turning the gun on himself, but that is the waysatan works. He will use you to do his deeds then with no regard, he will kill you too. There was an eighteen-year-old girl who attempted to sue her parents. She refused to follow their house rules and moved out of the family home, so she sued them for support and school fees.
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God has given us the responsibility and privilege of raising His children regardless of what the Supreme Court, or society norms are trending. Our first and most significant ministry is at home. That same resurrection power that raised Jesus from the dead works in you. You are a chosen generation, a royal nation, a holy nation. 1Peter2:9
Growing up I had a praying grandmother who walked the hall of our tenement apartment late at night while we slept. The next day in school just before the pledge of allegiance to the flag and country, we could hear that booming fire and brimstone voice of the assistant principle, Mr. Barrow praying everydayover the entire assembly; this continued throughout grade school. Shortly after that the American Civil Liberty Union (ACLU), began working its way to the Supreme Court to outlaw prayer in public schools. Initially most people did not complain, but as time went onparents began to take issue with the new lawhowever, by that time it was too late. The mantra was, “That’s why children are so unruly and disrespectful because they took prayer out of school.” It seemed like an easy thing to do to blame someone else for your out of control child, so now they issue drugs and a label. The only one who benefits from this is the doctor and pharmaceutical companies. Often times it allows the teacher a more controlled environment if the student is on medication, howeverlong-termuse of these medications have proven unsuccessful since children grow older and refuse to takethem. You may wonder where is God in all this. How could he allow this to go on? What you need to remember is that your children
are your responsibility. Prayer, life lessons, family values, hero worship begins at home. That old school way of doing things where prayer was overtly spoken, and grandmas walked the halls laid foundational principles for what is appropriate for this time. God has called for us to do more, be more, and exercise the power He has given us. The ultimate solution is not to hide out in Christian or home schools. Someone has to stand. Stand on the word of God. Get back to the old time way of doing things anointing your home, pleading the blood over your children at night while they sleep, at noontime when the sun is high, and in the morning before you order your Starbucks. The effective fervent prayer of the righteous avail much. James 5:16 The word of God is active, operative, effective, and more powerful than anything living or past; we are more than conquerors Rom.8:37. What can separate us from the love of God? If you believe it for yourself, why not believe it for your children. Stop reassigning your responsibilities; speak God’s power into existence. He has given you the power to call those things that are not as though they were Rom. 4:17, no weapon formed against you or your children will prosper. Isaiah 54:17. Plead the blood of Jesus! It will never lose its power. Faith without work is dead James 2:17. Get back to that old time religion. Get down on your knees, do it again, it works! Restore King Jesus to the castle in your home. Remember Stay Focused, Stay Connected and Remain Faithful to the one who first loved you.