Bulletin Blurb Welcoming TBE’s New Assistant Rabbi, 1987
Cover of Installation Program, 1992
Kabbalat Shabbat Service for June 21, 2024
Rabbi Joshua Hammerman and Cantor Katie Kaplan
Musicians: Chris Coogan and Jason Terry
Speakers (scheduled)
After Lecha Dodi:
Sol, Julie and Sean Rose
Adam and Gabriela Pollack
Jami (Shapiro) Fener and Lauren (Shapiro) Chitalia
Allan and Roni Lang
After The Shabbat Psalm: Keith Brewer
Rebecca Rakowitz
Mitch, Kyle, Brandon, Anya and Eliana Nadel
Rae-ann and Scott Allen
After the Sh’ma:
Senator Richard Blumenthal
Rev. Mark Lingle
Rev. Winton Hill
Rev. Ann Schmidt
After the Silent Amida:
Jewels and Nathaniel Harrison (including Musical Selection)
Cantor’s Musical Selection
Ethan, Vivian and Eric Kaplan
Diana (Kalter) Binger and Lauren (Kalter) Ha ss
Evan, Tina and Sophia Cwass
Kiddush by Judy Aronin
Peter Kempner
Elissa Garber-Hyman
Concluding Comments and Blessings: Rabbi Hammerman, Cantor Kaplan
From Rabbi Hammerman’s Final High Holiday Sermons at TBE
(From First Day RH Sermon)
True, none of us will be here at Temple Beth El in 6242 – hey, I won’t be here in 2024 . But whether or not this synagogue is standing, something, something inside me – some gut feeling tells me that there willbe a Torah, a Judaism and a Jewish people. In 4,000 years, there will still be Jews, just as the Jewish idea and Jewish people came to this world around 4,000 years ago.
How could our people not persist through the millennia? We’ve just survived genocide. If we can survive that, we can survive anything. If we can survive the Romans, Inquisition, Cossacks, Czars and Nazis, we can survive synagogue shootings, or secularization, or the Protocols of Zion, or BDS or the judicial coup. From a God’s eye view, the Jewish people will be here in thousands of years because we’ve already proven that we can last thousands of years.
For a hundred generations, our ancestors prayed to return to Jerusalem three times daily. Ahundred generations! If just one generation had stopped facing Jerusalem, we wouldn’t be here. Each person mattered. Each prayer recited by each person – it mattered. I wouldn’t bet against the Jewish people, despite the great challenges we face now, here and in Israel. I wouldn’t bet against us, and not because of God (which I can say from this God’s eye view) but because of each of you. Each of you matters. And I know you’ll come through. Why? Because you are here today! Something mysterious has drawn you back here today.
And that’s why our little speck of time along this journey, this journey that we’ve taken together –matters. These 37 years we’ve been together – they’ve mattered . And that’s why your life matters, and my life, they’ve all had a purpose, and all those who are buried next door at Beth El Cemetery, their lives did too.
Teachustocountourdays. To look at time from God’s perspective and see the big picture. The huge picture. For that’s the key, not just to our relevance, but to our immortality, which rests on the indestructibility of the Jewish people and the Jewish idea.
(Adapted from Second Day RH sermon and In This Moment, 11/30.2023) https://www.joshuahammerman.com/2023/11/ect-in-this-moment-authenticity-is-word.html
I have always looked at religion from the prism of the humanities, not as doctrine but as lived experience, not as something supernatural, but something very down to earth.
LoBashamayimhee – it says in Deuteronomy. “It’snotintheheavens.”“Thisthingisvery closetoyou,inyourmouthandinyourheart.”
Religion is right here– in your heart. That’s what’s real – and our sacred wisdom reminds us of precisely that.
We are not in the business of keeping a dying religion on life support just because it’s been around for a few thousand years and some people feel guilty about eating a ham sandwich. It’s been around so long because it helped human beings who happen to be Jewish to become better human beings. It has helped us to make the world a better place, for all people. To be Jewish, in other words, is to be fully human. To be fully human is to be fully engaged with the universe and with the epic saga of unfolding Creation.
To be Jewish is to be radically authentic, trusting and being trustworthy, being fully present and true to our commitments, trusting sources of inherited and inner wisdom. Jews are covenantal beings. We are tethered to something greater than ourselves. That is what keeps it - and us - real.
Perhaps we’ve grown to intuit this difference between the virtual and the real. Perhaps that is why people keep on coming back to their houses of worship, to find guidance as we engage in God’s sacred labor. If we can be the locus of the real, that point of light where “I” meets “Thou,” we will be fulfilling a sacred mission that we are uniquely qualified to do.
And perhaps that, in the end, will save Judaism, as it guides us through that most dehumanizing of locales, the real-life battlefields of Gaza. And if through all this, through the fighting and infighting, the real suffering and the propaganda, the feverish emotions and those few moments of measured reflection, if we can just cling to the ideal of our common humanity, that we are all created in Go d's image, we can get through this. If Israel can thread that needle that separates machismo from menschlichkeit , maybe we can win this war on our terms.
If we do not allow ourselves to fall victim to dehumanizing the other, turning the other into an object, a facsimile of the human - even when the other acts in barbaric, inhuman ways - we will have taken the first step toward a real victory and toward the eventual possibility of real peace.
(From Yom Kippur Day Sermon)
And now, 37 years after I spoke to this congregation for the first time and saw seedlings, I now look out and see 37 fully grown gardens. One stacked on top of the other. And each pew is stacked 37 times, like planes over La Guardia. Circling. Circling. I see them all, the dead, the living, the not yet dreamed of. It feels like that last scene from LesMisérables(which opened on Broadway one month after my opening night here).
And, as I see you, marking this moment, I’m taking a mental snapshot right…now… and will carry it with me for the rest of my days, wherever I find myself, next Yom Kippur, and the one after that, and God willing, beyond. And as I look out, I see a reflection of what I could only imagine 37 years ago, shimmering through our windows and sparkling in your eyes – and as I look very closely, squinting in the dimming light, running my fingernails into the dirt, I think I may have spotted what I’ve been searching for all along.
Selected Letters, Posts and RSVPs
Rabbi Hammerman and Mara,
How can I summarize our 35 years together in a way that does justice to everything we’ve been through? Rabbi, you were one of my first Stamford friends when we moved here in 1989. I was a shy 12-year-old, prepping for my Bat Mitzvah in a new city where I knew no one. I soon met Mara, and later became a loyal Monday night babysitter to Ethan and Daniel. I vividly remember Daniel in his high chair, and how Ethan would adorably chat himself to sleep at night.
Through those early years, I saw you around the temple all the time. Lauren and I were here for junior choir rehearsal with the Hazzan every Sunday morning, as well as for those Kabbalat shabbat services. I also worked at the religious school for many years, and frequently participated in Shabbat services. Early on, we learned that we shared a mutual connection to Camp Ramah, and I have always loved that the temple’s first outdoor Friday night service was during my Bat Mitzvah weekend- or at least that’s what my dad always told me!
You and the Hazzan also married us, and it meant so much to Scott and me that you and Mara were there to celebrate with us…
…and to be sad with us. You supported our family through the losses of both my parents, 8 years apart. I was so moved by how respectfully you navigated my father’s deeply personal request to out him at his funeral. My father asked this of you in his last days living with AIDS, a tragic ending to a lifetime he spent hiding his true self, even from his own family. His wish was that in telling his story, he could inspire others to live more authentically, in a way he just couldn’t. You and my father together taught me that it is always worth finding a way to be our unmasked selves.
Looking back, it should come as no surprise that many years later we ended up as coworkers as well. At your encouragement and maybe also a little push, I began working here as the Young Families Coordinator and later the Engagement Coordinator. Those three years working here meant a lot to me; to reconnect to this place that holds so many beautiful family memories. This temple, this congregation, and you leading it, have been my lighthouse through so many of my life stages, and so many hard times.
It will never be the same without you on this pulpit. But I know this isn’t the end for us- just the end of another chapter of our story together. I look forward to the next one!
All my best,
Jami Fener
Dear Rabbi Josh,
I am sorry to miss your special final Shabbat service at Temple Beth El where you are being honored and recognized by your congregation, and your community, one in which you have been instrumental in shaping over the past 3 plus decades. I have a good excuse though – as you have often emphasized the importance of family, I will be in Oregon with my extended family to celebrate my nephew's marriage.
I am honored to represent the Family of Mann, most importantly my parents, Norma and Milton Mann, of blessed memory. Temple Beth El was the congregation where our family shared many life cycle events, and you became a central part of them as we “grew up”. You were my parent’s Rabbi and in turn, you became my Rabbi, our Rabbi, even though I had my congregation in the Boston area where I raised my family. I am aware that my parents were instrumental in helping to seal the deal in bringing you to Stamford from Peekskill, NY, as they were half of a reconnaissance team sent up to Peekskill one Friday night to “see you in action”. Despite your request that they try to blend in and not be too conspicuous, you have shared many times, how my mother ended up holding court, serving coffee, and asking your congregants if they were having a good time.
My parents both had a special and unique relationship with you Rabbi Josh be it through their collaborating with you via their leadership roles in the congregation or the community at large, or when they were hosting the Scholar-in-residence with you and fellow congregants or hosting a conversion in the river behind their home. Yet what stands out the most to me, as their adult daughter, was how much you meant to each of them as they aged, became ill, and ultimately passed away. Your ongoing compassionate pastoral visits to the house when Mom was bedbound were extraordinary. The visits with Dad who was bereft and feeling unmoored, were grounding. And, the way you comforted and supported me, my sister, and our children during their respective funerals left a lasting impression of a truly caring and dedicated Rabbi who could help to ameliorate our emotional pain.
I could go on, but I know these comments are meant to be brief so I will wrap up by offering my deepest gratitude to you and your family for allowing you to be the mensh that you are, offering insightful and thought-provoking sermons that I still read, and for being you. I wish you all the best in your next chapter of life, may your days be filled with fulfillment, health, joy, and peace. My parents would join me if they could in saying, “Thank you for your dedicated time as their Rabbi, our Rabbi, Toda Rabah and Mazel Tov on reaching this exciting point in your career, retirement time!”
With love and gratitude, Pamela Mann
Dear Beth El Congregation,
While I was one of the Rabbis at Agudath Sholom from 1986-1993, I was privileged to welcome your talented and spirited Rabbi, Joshua Hammerman, to the nearly exclusive fraternity of Associate Rabbis in Stamford. From day one, as well as from the first Stamford Board of Rabbis meeting that he attended, it was more than clear that this was not your ordinary humdrum rabbinic school graduate who felt himself constrained by the usual job specs of a second rabbi in a congregation. On the outside, Josh was a handsome and energetic professional who was easily capable of sermonizing and teaching and officiating with dignity and kindness at Jewish life cycle events. But on the inside, if one could accurately x-ray this new and then 8th member of the Stamford Board of Rabbis, there was a leader and scholar and social changer and pied piper to the young and a sensitive and empathetic support to the veterans of Temple Beth El. Josh Hammerman was, in my eyes, not in any way a diamond in the rough, rather, he was already a polished gem only gaining luster and a sparkling Shine of the Divine. And that shine has, thank God, blessed all of you across several decades.
As Associate Rabbis, when we saw each other, we needed only to give each other the "look" to understand what each of us was feeling as we pondered our limited roles. We both had the privilege of working with esteemed rabbis of national renown, me with Rabb i Joseph Ehrenkranz and he with Rabbi Alex Goldman. I was in an orthodox congregation and Josh was in a Conservative congregation, and we each modeled admiration and respect for each other, knowing that from each of our perches we had so much to contribute, especially when we worked together. We always enjoyed being together and laughing together and hoping each of us would get the opportunity to become Senior Rabbi of our respective synagogues. I was so proud of Josh when he became your Senior Rabbi, as you were blessed with a compelling speaker and writer, intense listener and a leader with impeccable character and wisdom, who was inclusive with a fierce desire to bring the margins into the center of the Beth El tent. When I left Stamford in 1993, I served two congregations in Baltimore, one as the Senior Rabbi of my own congregation for 9 years prior to making aliyah in 2010. So, the two Associates achieved their goals, and now your Senior Rabbi is retiring and leaving huge shoes to fill. I suspect two shoes may not be enough.
To Josh and Mara and your loving family, I wish you bracha v'hatzlacha, abundant blessings and success in your next chapter. Whatever you do, and wherever you go, may you be blessed with "sipuk hanefesh," deep and soulful satisfaction, along with good health, happiness, and continuing to contribute in new and singular ways.
Mazal tov!!
Rabbi Elan Adler
Efrat, Israel
Dear Rabbi Hammerman
Unfortunately, I cannot attend your final service as I have to pick up my youngest son, Ethan, from sleepaway camp in PA on Friday. I did make it a point to come to services a few weeks back to say an official goodbye (and was thrilled that Cantor Jacobsen was there as well that evening). I couldn't pass the opportunity to write a tribute to show my appreciation for everything you have done for me and my family. I feel like I have three chapters with TBE and you have been part of all Three:
Chapter 1: Being a member under my parents’ membership:
I was lucky to have met you back in 6th grade and have you at my bat mitzvah back in 1989, my confirmation in 1992, and as a Merkaz teacher in High School. I remember thinking it was cool to have a younger Rabbi and learning about more thought-provoking topics at Merkaz like Euthanasia. One of my strongest memories from this chapter is your support during my father's sudden passing in January 1999. You came to the hospital and immediately consoled me and my devastated mother and brother. I will forever be grateful for your unwavering support in the days, weeks, months, and years to follow.
Chapter 2: Becoming an Adult Member
In 2003, I moved back to Stamford as an adult and you conducted my son Jordan's bris, and my daughter Jasmine's baby naming. I cherished bringing them each on the bimah during the blessing of the newborn children and was blessed to do this alongside my brother with his newborn babies. You helped me make a critical decision regarding the future of my family at a time when I really needed someone like my dad to help with me that decision. This set me on my path to Chapter 3
Chapter 3: The FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) Years
In 2013, I moved to Westport and lived 2 minutes from The Conservative Synagogue (TCS) in Westport. As much as I wanted to continue with the TBE membership, I knew I needed to build a community around the local synagogue. Often during the high holidays, tears would stream down my face as I missed TBE during these special days. I made it a goal to come to services on my father’s yartzeit every year. This helped me feel closer to my father and gave me a minimal annual reason to come to TBE.
Chapter 4: The post Rabbi Hammerman Years
This Chapter is yet to be written, Other than for a few short years early in my life, I haven't really known TBE without Rabbi Hammerman, I'll still have FOMO because the community is so special, I'll still make it an effort to come for my father’s yartzeit, I know I'll shed tears at both TCS and TBE because I will greatly miss the Rabbi who has become a moral compass for me, especially in these unimaginable times.
Wishing you the best in your well-deserved retirement and I look forward to continuing to learn from you and I know I can lean on you for your support in the future.
All the best, Pegah Hendizadeh Rosenthal
From Steve Hoffman
From Cantor Deborah Jacobson
Temple Beth El, my cherished community of friends, was my first full-time pulpit after graduating and being ordained from The Jewish Theological Seminary in 2002. Rabbi Hammerman set a high standard for me, inspiring me to work only with rabbis who are true mensches a nod to his excellent book, ‘Mensch-Marks’, and who are wise, collaborative, and inspirational partners. He, his wife Mara Hammerman, and their sons Ethan Hammerman and Dan Hammerman have been a blessing in my life and the lives of countless others.
From Darah Golub
Throughout my life, aside from my father, Rabbi Mark S. Golub z"l, Josh Hammerman has been my rabbi. In all the years growing up in Stamford, anytime there was a simcha or a ceremony outside of my father's chavurah, in my memory it was always at Temple Beth El with Rabbi Hammerman. And that was not by default or by accident.
The connection they shared as dear colleagues, as Stamford rabbis going through all of life stages together, sharing a love of the Jewish People and Jewish Tradition, that was a bond that transcends description.
For my own sense, Rabbi Hammerman created a sanctuary that was not only a haven for so many fortunate congregants, but it was the only synagogue home away from chavurah-home that I and my family knew. From hosting joyful musical celebrations or hard-hitting debates centered on shared values of pluralism, to offering a comforting embrace during the most brokenhearted moments of all, Rabbi Hammerman was a gift to my father, and is a gift to my family. Temple Beth El has always been our place because it is indelibly imbued with the unique gifts of wisdom, humor, inspiration, and quiet strength of Rabbi Hammerman.
But Rabbi Hammerman is as generous with his insights outside of temple as he is inside.
My father and Rabbi Hammerman shared a mutual passion not only for the Jewish Tradition, but for expressing that passion through media. Rabbi Hammerman was a frequent guest of L'Chayim, my father's long-running talk show, where Rabbi Hammerman would often come on to discuss his latest book, debate the meaning of God, or his choice to be a rabbi. Always with Rabbi Hammerman's signature calm, composure, and wisdom.
How my father and Rabbi Hammerman gave to each other through their rabbinate and in life is forever. The bonds they forged were the best you can hope for in a career not only warm, supportive, and mutually beneficial, but I believe also transformative for them both. And I'm certain that's the same kind of impact Rabbi Hammerman had on every single person who called him their rabbi.
Mazal Tov and Kol Hakavod to you, Rabbi Hammerman.
In my father's words, "Mitzuyan, Mitzuyan!"
And on behalf of the entire Golub family, Todah L'Chah.
With love and warmest wishes, - Darah Golub
We appreciate that Robbi Hammerman had the confidence to encourage congregants to fully participate in all aspects of Shabbat and holiday services. He is a “mensch”!
- Maryl and Hank Silverstein
Dear Josh,
I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to you for being there to support me and my family over the past 34 years through all of my highest and lowest moments…. From the time I first met you when you officiated Jarad’s Bris in 1990, I felt how you welcomed me and also educated me about all of the nuances of Jewish ceremonies and rituals which I had not really experienced as an adult. I was a newcomer to Stamford and TBE and so appreciated your guidance and teaching about traditions.
I learned early on that you were there for me in whatever way was needed and you could take the front role or step back as needed to make things work… Over the years you officiated at Jarad and Spencer’s Bar mitzvahs and as you did at the many bnai mitzvot ceremonies I attended, you always found the way to find the personal connection to the child and formed a bond with that child and made the service itself so much more personal and meaningful with that added touch.
Of course you know how much you were there for me to guide me and support me through what was the darkest moment of my life, my brother Michell’s untimely death at the age of 43. I will always feel tremendous gratitude to you for your being there to lead me through this tragic moment, educate me on the ways of Jewish mourning and speak in a heartfelt personal away officiating Michell’s funeral. Your way of connecting to Mitchell who you did not know after hearing about his death on “the Fan” prior to finding out about the forthcoming funeral and then taking that extra step to contact Chris Russo to find out more about Mitchell was above and beyond what anyone could hope for and expect from their Rabbi. You have not only always been there for me but you have always been there above and beyond, adding that extra touch, stepping further to make everything more personal. There are no words to express my gratitude for this. I think of it now and my eyes well up thinking about your Neshoma…
Thank you for coming to my home during Covid to visit with my father in his final days… Thank you for bringing his death to life with your words…. Thank you for being so supportive ago and kind to my mother… Thank you again and again….
Josh, from the time I met you, I have always felt you were “one of us”. Having children the same ages, Dan attending school with Spencer, Jarad and Ethan a year apart at BCDS, I’ve felt your understanding of the issues of concern for “us” over the years as I have grown with you. Your sermons have always touched me on many levels- your words speak to me… I have each year looked forward to your High holiday sermons….
I will greatly miss you. I wish you and Mara and your family the best of life always… I hope our paths continue to cross. Please always know how much your kindness, wisdom and dedication have strengthened and supported me and my family. You hold a very special place in my heart…. Best always, - Robin Evans
Dear Rabbi Hammerman, As we approach your final Shabbat as TBE Rabbi this Friday, I wanted to let you know how much your words of wisdom, comfort and humor have meant to Jerry, Elana, Helene and me throughout the years. We have truly been blessed to have had so keen an observer of human nature and so spiritual, eloquent and learned Rabbi for our entire time in Stamford. Thank you for everything - your stirring sermons, your sense of place and history, your unswerving dedication to the welfare of this
congregation, your commitment to indelibly etching a love of Judaism in its members young and old and your comforting presence when it was most needed. We wish you and Mara the greatest joy in your retirement. Enjoy the sea and the shore and write some inspiring articles and books. Best wishes, - Belle-Ann Abrams, Jerry, Elana and Helene Leichter
Dear Rabbi Hammerman,
It is amazing that you have been with four generations of our family. We are so thankful that we have been able to celebrate, learn, work and pray with you and Mara. We are truly going to miss you! Here are a few words that we feel describe you:
Reliable Accepting Big-Hearted Benevolent Illustrious
Humanitarian Affable
Married to Mara Memorable Enthusiastic Red Sox Fan Moral Altruistic Nostalgic
We hope to see you soon, - Nancy, Jeff, Jacob, Mollie and Owen Herz
Hi Josh,
I've called a few other rabbis by their first names, but it never stuck the way it did with you. I never expected to be comfortable in a conservative synagogue. I grew up in a non-religious house where science was the only higher power. I still believe that today, but what you created at Temple Beth El was something connected to, yet going beyond, faith. You made TBE a center of goodness. You could always be counted on to do your very best at being truthful and wise. Not a pedantic wise, a search-for-thetruth kind of wise.
That is the part that made me comfortable within the walls of the community you formed. Though Esta and I, and our family too, didn't come to weekly services, you could count on us being with you for the High Holidays. and in our hearts.
And of course, when we have needed you in times of sorrow, you have always been there. You cradled our loved one's memories and made it clear that whatever spirits were available would do their best to celebrate our loved one's eternal memory. We know those wishes and prayers were sent off in the right direction by your presence and your words.
Like so many others, your departure will be an incalculable loss. Quite simply, you wear special shoes that will never be filled. Others will walk in your footsteps, but things will never be the same. It will always be different, even when it is great.
I know a thing or two about retirement from a job that is loved. Retirement opens doors, sometimes unexpected ones. I know you will write essays and you will help others. And you'll have time for other things too.
I hope you will keep a newsletter or blog from time to time that reaches us. I hope when we pass by Madison, or wherever you may be, we can stop by and say hello. You never know, we might still call on you when we need a connection to the warmth of humanity or a hotline to whatever higher powers are listening.
Esta and I wish you and your family all the things you might wish for yourselves. You have earned enough love around here to catapult you to whatever comes next with so many wishes and prayers that your satisfaction is guaranteed. 100%. Thank you,
- Jeff Price & Esta Berman-Price
Subject line: Your early sermons changed my life and held me to Judaism
I hope this message finds you well. As I reflect on my spiritual journey, I am reminded of two of your early sermons that profoundly influenced my life and helped shape who I have become as an adult.
The first sermon that stood out to me was about imagining what aliens might say if they landed on Earth today and observed Judaism and humanity. As a teenage sci-fi fan, I was captivated by your perspective and understood the importance of stepping back to see the larger picture. This lesson has been invaluable in my professional event planning work and public servant volunteerism. The concept of Shabbat, taking a moment to pause and reflect, has been a crucial practice in my life. My parents and grandparents were initially puzzled by the alien analogy, but I appreciated your point about evaluating our actions without preconceived notions.
The second impactful sermon came during a holiday when you discussed the challenges of growing up Jewish in a predominantly Christian area. You shared insights from a study about the appeal of Christianity, I think you called it the "Lovefest of Christianity" and why it led to so many Jewish people leaving the faith. I resonated deeply with this as I had often compared the sermons I heard about postWW2 persecution with the more uplifting messages my Christian friends experienced. They had fun Young Life meetings, dinners, ice cream and bowling nights ...all faith wrapped with laughs. Your sermon emphasized the joy and positivity in Judaism, advocating for music, poetry, and inclusivity, even towards those who married outside the faith. This message was a revelation to me. It reinforced the idea that Judaism could be joyous and accepting. When I moved away from the area, I searched until I found a Temple that embraced these same values. I raised my children to know the type of Judaism you preached with a positive and inclusive approach to our faith that they should be proud to be Jewish and not hide. Thank you for these profound teachings. They have left a lasting impact on my life and continue to inspire me.
- Tammy A. Meltzer-Kaufman (Granddaughter of William and Sally Tandet)
Hi Rabbi Hammerman and Mara,
It's hard to believe that it's time to say goodbye after being in our lives at Temple Beth El for nearly 31 years. You married Greg and I on September 5, 1993, just one year after your installation. I remember you made everyone laugh during the ceremony (our request you made good on) and you said we were the smiliest family. Five and eight years later you officiated over our baby namings of Sarah and Shayna and then you and Mara (their favorite teacher) guided them through Hebrew school and their Bat Mitzvahs. You kept them involved for years afterwards with their Yom Kippur afternoon sister/sister Torah readings. You were both very supportive of my move into local politics. And then most recently you provided comfort after the unexpected loss of Greg's beloved mother. You have been with us for an entire life cycle and we will always cherish these memories. We wish you many happy, relaxed years ahead on the peaceful CT shore. You will be very missed.
My parents still speak very fondly of their years at TBE with you and Mara. No other Rabbi has held up to your high level of sermons and services in their eyes. They loved returning to TBE each year for your High Holiday services. Much love,
- Robin, Greg, Sarah, Shayna Druckman and Belle and Ron Agronin
Dear Rabbi Hammerman and Mara,
I remember some 35+ years ago when you first arrived at Temple Beth El as assistant Rabbi, my late husband Steve and I were hired by TBE to plan and run a 6-8th grade retreat. We took 30+ kids to Camp Eisner for a Shabbat. Late Friday evening a few kids were entertaining themselves by sliding down the old wood hallways in their socks. This fun activity quickly came to an end when one boy ended up with a very large splinter right through the top of his foot. Needless to say, it was very eventful. My husband ended up in the ER with the young boy that night.
I developed the utmost respect for you as a rabbi and a leader over the years and when Peter and I decided to move to Stamford, there was no question that we would join TBE. Thank you both for your leadership and friendship. We wish you much health and happiness together as you embark on the next chapter of your lives.
- Best, Lisa and Peter Raider.
Dear Rabbi Hammerman and Mara,
Thank you for instilling Judaism into our family over the decades. Your wisdom, guidance, and dedication, especially in assisting with Roni and Russell’s bat and bar mitzvahs, have greatly enriched our lives. Mara’s 1:1 tutoring for Russell’s BM was truly a life saver. He now wears a Jewish star on his neck and is truly so proud to be Jewish! Who would have ever thought?! Your leadership and warmth will be deeply missed. Wishing you both a joyous and fulfilling retirement. With heartfelt gratitude,
- Leslie and Michael Moskowitz
Josh,
When we arrived in Stamford in 1998, I was in London on business. Michele attended the outdoor Shabbat service and felt so welcomed that when I got home she convinced me she had found our spiritual home. In our years at TBE you were so supportive of us way before Keruv became fashionable. You made us feel so welcome. I enjoyed serving on the Board and my two terms of Men’s Club President.You introduced us to so many people who became our dear friends. Because of you I was inspired to become one of the first Keruv Consultants joining Chuck Simon at the outset of the initiative. Of the six Conservative Temples we have belonged to in the last 40 years. It was because of you that we
felt TBE as our home. I hope you will be taking the “Boston” sports memorabilia with you as a reminder of the Kanarek’s. - Barry Kanarek
Dear Rabbi Hammerman and Mara,
Thank you for being such a big part of my childhood. Both of you are a huge part of my Jewish Identity. Thank you for that. Good luck in the next chapter!
- Best, Ronnie Minkoff
More than ever, we recognize how fortunate we have been at Temple Beth El during the past 37 years. We look forward to a new continuing relationship. Best wishes for a Happy Anniversary on the 28th.
- Barbara and Paul Schultz
Rabbi Hammerman,
Thanks for being there through the darkness and the light. We wish you and your family every joy in the next chapter in Madison. With gratitude and deep appreciation,
- Vivian and Don Wishingrad
Thank you for your extraordinary leadership and scholarship, which has had rippling effects through the congregation and the community. Your daily presence will be missed.
- Marc Teichman and Caroline Temlock Teichman
We have shared a lot of things over the last 37 years with laughter, tears, travel experiences and serious discussions galore. It has been a privilege being able to call you "our Rabbi" and "our friend". We wish you and Mara happiness, good health and continued fulfillment in the future and look forward to visiting you in Madison.
- Scott & Rae-ann Allen
Happily looking forward to celebrating Rabbi Hammerman's tenure at TBE. Sadly, however, we will miss him and having him on our Bema.
- Sandy and Alvin Siegartel
Dear Josh and Mara,
We are so grateful for all you have done for our community, temple, and family. You both, as well as Dan and Ethan, are important people in our and our children’s lives. We are so glad to celebrate you and grateful to be beneficiaries of your legacy here!
- Beth, Brad, Aliya, Josiah, Elias Boyer
We have thoroughly enjoyed your 37 years at TBE and we wish you nothing but the best for the future.
- Mel and Amy Bloomenthal
Thanking you for all the special blessings you have given to the Ditesheim family.
- Lorraine (Binnie) Ditesheim
We've enjoyed your services very much and will miss you. - Moss Roberts and Beverly Frank
Dear Rabbi and Mara: I wish you lots of happiness and health in retirement. It’s been an honor to know you for all of the 37 years and I appreciate everything you’ve done for our family! We particularly love
traveling with you to Eastern Europe and Israel. we love our walking tour of Jerusalem and as always learned a lot from you! Thank you for everything!
- The Frieden family
We are looking forward to being there, though also very sad to be saying so long to Josh and Mara as our Congregation’s leaders. You two both helped educate our children and you’ve been with us through so many events, happy and sad. We will miss you at TBE very much.
- David Friedman and Meira Rosenberg
Wonderful to celebrate a lifetime of dedication to all of us, but sad to say goodbye.
- Rob and Suzanne Fruithandler
Dear Rabbi,
As you prepare to embark on this new chapter of your life, we want to express our deepest gratitude for your thirty-seven years of dedicated service to Temple Beth El! You have been more than a spiritual leader, you have been a guiding light, a source of comfort and helped us navigate both joyous and challenging times with resilience! Thank-you for everything, Josh! You will always hold a special place in our hearts! With love,
- Heidi, Harrison, Evan, Jordan and Ashley Ganz
We look forward to celebrating a distinguished career and a wonderful and thoughtful spiritual leader. We will miss these guiding lights.
- Marshall and Joanne Goldberg
Wishing you the all the best in this next chapter of your lives. Denise and Dave Greenman We look forward to celebrating and honoring Rabbi Josh and Dr. Mara Hammerman’s dedication to our synagogue for over three decades.
- Juli Harris-Sekular and Scott Sekular
Dear Rabbi - We have been blessed with you being our Rabbi and spiritual leader over the last eight years. We admired your intellectual and spiritual look at the world, as well as you being a real "Mensch"! Wishing you and Mara Mazal Tov on starting your next exciting chapter of life, and I can assure you that "there is life beyond TBE...". I hope our paths will cross in the future, and till then, Be Well! - Yaffa and Pinchas Gross
It’s been a wonderful journey knowing you and Mara all these years. We have felt privileged to consider you not just our Rabbi, but our friend. We hope that the years ahead will provide you with a new exciting path. We look forward to seeing you both in Madison!
- James Hyman and Elissa Garber-Hyman
Wishing you the best of luck on the next part of our journey. Thank you for being there for us here in Stamford. We know you will continue to be a blessing for others. Big hugs to "my boys"!
- David and Elissa Kaplan
Thank you, Rabbi and Mara, for all your years of love and dedication to all of us. I wish you all the joy your hearts can hold.
- Ellen Krinick-Porto
Thanks - we look forward to honoring Josh and Mar and their service to TBE. This celebration is well deserved. - Jodi Maxner and David Rauch
Thanks to you both for your erudition, commitment, passion & compassion… So appreciative, Rabbi Hammerman of your always remembering throughout the years the wolves pervading Travis’ Bar Mitzvah! Warmly & to your new adventures,
- Gwendolyn (Morris) & Travis (Kahn)
Thank you for being in our lives all these years....I am so thankful and wishing you the very best in everything to come.....words seem so inadequate.....sending love and good fortune.......
- Bill Nabel
Looking forward to a hearty celebration of everything that Rabbi Hammerman and Mara mean to us all!
- Jonathan and Cheryl Phair
We wish The Rabbi & Mara Health & Happiness & a wonderful retirement. They will be truly missed!
- Fran and Bob Plansky
Wishing you both much joy and excitement in your new adventures!
- Sue Plotzky
Yashar Koach to Rabbi Hammerman and Mara. We will miss you! - Beverly and David Stein
Far too many memories to share here but I will try to do some of them. All the birthday parties for the boys, rides to funerals where you included my comments in your remarks, so many classes, chairing Chanukah Concerts with Mara, organizing services, ritual committee meetings, connecting with the children. I will miss both of you and I wish you the joyful retirement I am having. Time to do whatever you want including doing nothing, reading and traveling., enjoying the beach and the dogs.
- Eileen Rosner
Josh and Mara: You have both been there for me and the kids through everything. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for going beyond the call of duty. Congrats on your retirement and wishing you both the best life has to offer … Sending you both hugs filled with love and appreciation. - Liz Kirshner
Wishing you good health and happiness as you pursue your next endeavor. Thank you for your caring and support of me over the years.
- Maddy Shapiro
Carol and I, Sara, Josh and their families thank you. You had a large hand in both our children’s Jewish education. Your dedication, care, concern and guidance was appreciated and is ingrained in our Jewish identities. Enjoy your deserved retirement. - Richard Cohen
Josh, I can’t believe how the years have flown by. We are so grateful for all you have done to make TBE our sanctuary. - Rivka Wasserman Lieber
Two of our proudest moments as parents were watching Ali and Rach become Bat Mitzvahs on the bimah; the TBE constants before, and after, were Rabbi Josh and Mara. Sprinkles of lifecycle events on top of heapings of normal TBE activities, remind us that we’re grateful for your decades of religious,
Spiritual and academic leadership, and personal engagement with the Wolffs!
- Cheryl and David Wolff
From strength to strength, old friend! Here's to the next chapter! Mazal Tov! - Rabbi David Wolfman
From my poignant first visit to TBE, when I came as a non-member to recite Kaddish for my father, to the many significant milestones we’ve shared since. Steve and I are so grateful for your presence in our lives. Your support, from that first heartfelt gesture following up with me after I said Kaddish and inviting me to the Oneg, to standing by us through our son’s bris, our children’s Hebrew School experiences, and offering solace during times of loss and illness, has been a source of great comfort and strength for us. Your leadership and legacy in our community have left an indelible mark, shaping the lives of many, including ours. Your unwavering commitment to building a warm and inclusive environment have made a profound difference in the lives of countless people. As you start this new chapter, we want to extend our heartfelt wishes for all the best. May your journey ahead be filled with joy, fulfillment, continued blessings and of course, lots of poodles.
- Sharon and Steve Katz
Best of luck on your retirement and you did a great job. Mara, me and the boys will miss your smiling face. You made it fun to go to Sunday school. Good luck to you guys.
- Shelley Zielinski
Mazal tov to you and Mara. It was great having you as our family rabbi from your first day at TBE, through the girls’ bat mitzvahs and for many years since then. Even after we moved away from Stamford, thanks to email, I’ve been able to enjoy and learn from your teachings in the TBE bulletins and Shabbat announcements. I know that in 37 years at TBE your teaching of Torah (in the widest sense) has influenced a lot of lived and I wanted you to know that I was one of them. Your love of Israel, Judaism, ethics and standing up for what’s right was an example to all. And among the many things I think that you should be most proud of is the fact you were, and taught others to be, a mensch.
- Neil and Peggy Perlman
Yasher Koach. It has been an honor and pleasure working with you these last three yrs. Thank you for all your help with Sophie. Best of luck in the next phase.
- Eric Sigman
Josh, just want to say that you have been the best. TBE has benefited greatly for all your years there and I know the members all appreciate them. I wish you the best in health and happiness with wonderful memories
- Peter Weissman
You did really good Rabbi Hammerman! Thank you for everything and the difference you made in my life and so many others.
- David Shepard
I'll really miss you!! Happy retirement! And I look forward to continuing to read your insightful writings!
- Beth Madison
It would take volumes to write what the Rabbi has done for each of us , during happy and sad times. We will surely miss him, but happy for him to enjoy his family Keep well rabbi and we will always think of you.
- Carol Brewer
It’s hard to imagine Temple Beth El without you and Mara. You will be missed!! - Mary Harrison
Josh, your retirement is well deserved. You have put an enormous amount of yourself to your congregation and the results are evident. I personally thank you for your welcome of me and allowing me to give the d'var on erev Rosh Hashanah. I hope we can stay in touch, now that you will have (hopefully) some more time! Congratulations - all the compliments are well deserved!
- Rabbinic Pastor David Daniel Klipper
Josh, I appreciate you and our collegial friendship. Will never forget Learning & Latte , the Confirmation Class visits to Temple Bethe El , World AIDS Day Interfaith services and your impactful leadership in the Stamford community. All the best in retirement
- Rev Douglas McArthur
Well-deserved for a wonderful Rabbi & friend. You will be very missed. - Samantha Klein
Dear Rabbi Hammerman, I am writing to express my sincere gratitude for your guidance and service. Your wisdom and compassion have been a source of strength and support for me, especially after the death of my grandmother. I particularly appreciate you always including me in all things “TBE” even though I am not Jewish. Your insights have helped me to learn so much, not only about Judaism but the human spirit. Thank you for being such a wonderful and compassionate leader. To say I will miss your leadership, guidance and intellect is an understatement. - Melissa B. Fahey
Josh – by coincidence we attended the Friday night service when you were guest rabbi. We were there for the same purpose. To check Temple Beth El out. Can’t say for sure you influenced our decision to join, but …. Thank you for being there for our family, the bar and bat mitzvahs, helping with Lauren’s wedding ceremony and all the other life events we’ve experienced. Glad that you still remember the tour of ESPN Seth gave you and Ethan We wish you and Mara only the best on your new adventure.
- Maxine and Rick Brody
Congratulations! Wishing you and the family all good things in Madison! - Debbie Zieses
Josh, For nearly three decades as our rabbi, you have been our spiritual leader, our solace, our teacher, and often, the source of our laughter. You've coached our children through their B'nai Mitzvah, weaving your wisdom and humor into these pivotal moments in their lives, which has left a strong mark on our family. As you embark on this next chapter of life, we have no doubts that you'll continue to inspire and uplift those around you, spreading your wisdom and making the world a better place. Your impact has resonated not just within the walls of Temple Beth El, but in the hearts of everyone you've touched. We are grateful for your years of dedication. As you enter this next phase, know that the seeds you've planted in our Stamford community and beyond will flourish for many years to come. We eagerly anticipate the wonderful adventures that await you and Mara hope that our paths will cross again soon! With all our love and immense gratitude, - Renee and Sam, Adam, Dan, and Elizabeth Judd
Our family has known Rabbi Joshua Hammerman as a spiritual leader as well as a dear family friend for 35 years. We will miss both Josh and Mara as Josh retires. My husband and I joined TBE as a young couple, and had our first child, Adam, 7 weeks before Mara had Ethan. Josh presided over Adam’s Bris and has been there for our family for all of our life cycle events through the years. Josh was there for the baby naming for our wonderful twin daughters, Emilie and Lauren, and while Mara was a teacher to them at TBE. Josh was the rabbi at the Bar Mitzvah and B’nai Mitzvah for our 3 children. More recently, Josh tutored and presided over the conversion to Judaism for our wonderful daughter-in-law, Gabriela, and then was the rabbi at Adam and Gabriela’s wedding. Josh was there for our family in sad times as well, leading the services at the funeral of Lillian Pollack, who was with us until the age of 99, and just recently, I asked Josh to say Kaddish for Judy Winthrop, my older sister who just passed away this month. We know that Josh is more than the sum of his rabbinical duties. He is, of course, a moral guide, a brilliant writer and oralist, a man of great compassion and understanding, as well as a keen sense of humor- he is a mensch, and we are all proud to call him our friend. Even though he is retiring, his writings will continue to serve as a guidepost for all who want to live a fuller and more meaningful life. Thank you, Josh for being you- we love and respect you.
- The Winthrop Pollack family.
Rabbi Hammerman has been my Rabbi my entire adult life. While my parents Susan and Larry Holzman knew him on a much deeper level, it is a bittersweet so-long for a person who has elevated what it means to have a life of purpose. Life is messy, complicated but often beautiful and the Rabbi has been able to make sense of a world for me that often doesn't. When I listen to him interpret a passage from Torah, I often think the world wasn't that much different when there were only 100 people on it. Same problems...theft, adultery, famine etc. Most often it just changed mediums. And that is what makes Rabbi Hammerman extraordinary as a writer, speaker and teacher. There was always a way the Rabbi told the story of the human condition with pop culture references. I still incorporate lessons of his into my daily life from his high holiday sermons, like the challenge of not gossiping for 7 days or don't eat standing up. Sitting in the synagogue, I can still visualize the earth ball he passed around during one of his earlier sermons. I will miss him and I hope he knows how much I adore him. I wish him the best of luck enjoying the stillness and quiet reflection that retirement hopes to bring him.
- With much love and devotion, Dara
The Rome Family wishes Josh and his family much love and happiness in their future endeavors. He has officiated so many life cycle events and milestones for us. We want to thank him for his outstanding years of community service and wish him well. - Michael and Lisa Rome
Dear Rabbi and Mara, Thank you for all your dedication. Mazel Tov! - The Teich Family
I recall the first service the young, confident Rabbi Hammerman came to Temple Beth El. He was a breath fresh air that only the oldest in the congregation can possibly remember. I'm not certain the date, but it was somewhere around 1980-81. I hope he has always been welcomed with open arms. May he go from strength to strength, and may the Hammermans remember Stamford with great fervor.
- Marcia Braunstein
Dear Rabbi Joshua and Mara, Both of you have touched, influenced and bettered the lives of so many at Temple Beth El and beyond. We wish you all the best and a hearty mazal tov on this next exciting chapter of your lives. With love and gratitude,
- The Staines Family: Marcia & Mark, Andrew & Marisa, Michael & Err
I would be honored to attend Rabbi Hammerman's final Shabbat Service on Friday 6/21. I am the CoPresident of Congregation Shir Ami in Greenwich and am the Vice President of the Interfaith Council of SW CT on which I served with Josh many years. Josh also was one of the Rabbis at my Bet Din in 1994. Thank you for allowing me to attend this sacred service. - Marie Orsini Rosen
We wish them ALL The BEST in their lives in the future with all their Years of Service and Dedication to TBE!!! - Howard Friedberg
So many memories come to mind about you and Mara…Thinking about when we went away with our discussion group to a camp in Massachusetts and passing baby Ethan around to give you two a little respite. Sitting next to you on the bimah as TBE President with your wholehearted support. Learning from you in countless classes as you imparted your wisdom. Sitting opposite you on the choir loft on High Holiday and listening to your brilliant and thoughtful sermons. Reading all your books and always being so impressed with what you write and how you write it. Wishing you two the best in the next chapter of your life. I will miss you.
- Rosalea Fisher
The personification of the word ‘Mensch’! You will be missed both in the sanctuary and the community. All the best as you move onto your next endeavor. - Susan Schwartz
Dear Josh,
Where has the time gone? You’ve officiated at family weddings, my dad Ed’s funeral, Sammi’s baby naming and Bat Mitzvah, Grant’s brit and Bar Mitzvah, visits to out-of-town hospitals (New York City and
New Haven) as well as Stamford Hospital. As TBE president from 1997-1999, we worked together side by side and learned from each other. It’s hard to let go, but the next chapter in your “book of life” continues. As we say in the Coast Guard, we wish you “fair winds and following seas” (blessings and good luck) to you, Mara, Ethan, Dan and your “fur babies” on this journey.
We look forward to seeing you all many times in the future and following your many more successes as a superb clergyman, writer and certainly all-around super-mensch!!!
להיתרות!!!
- Fred & Sandy Golove
Rabbi Hammerman,
Thank you for your leadership of Temple Beth El for so many years. You will be deeply missed by many of us who have been with you for all these years in our synagogue. Since interviewing you when I was on the rabbi search committee until this very day, you have been the intelligent, caring and highly respected leader of Temple Beth El. I wish you and Mara and your family all the good health and fulfilling lives you so deeply deserve. The Magida family will remember you always and we wish you the very best in what ever you do going forward.
- Beverly, Steve, Danny and Jennifer Magida
Dear Rabbi and Mara. I am thankful for all of the memories of our family’s trip to Israel, Passover seders with your mothers, my adult B’nai Mitzvah and Lowell’s Bar Mitzvah. All were made meaningful.
Because of you. May the next chapter of your lives be as memorable and wonderful as your 37 years at TBE were.
- Judy Schneiderman
Dear Rabbi
I am so sorry I cannot be there Friday night. I will be in Montreal for the weekend. I did want to tell you how much your guidance, love and support has meant to me. You have seen us through our milestones–happy and sad–with words of comfort and wisdom. I will always be grateful for your friendship with my uncle Bruce Martin. You always treated him with kindness and patience. You and I shared compassion for individuals with disabilities (like our Fragile X). Thank you for that. I wish you and dear Mara all the joy in the world. I will miss you!
Love and peace,
- Barbara Aronica
June 21, 2024 15, Sivan 5784
Dear Josh,
With eternal gratitude for decades of collegiality and friendship! You have inspired us, while creatively addressing issues of our time, often before we knew they were issues. You have also helped mend our fragile hearts. Wishing you and Mara everything you wish for yourselves !!
With love,
- The Romanowitz / Dolan family
Rabbi - I hope this email finds you well. I want to congratulate you on an amazing and impactful career and wish you all the best on your well-deserved retirement! For so many, including me, you are synonymous with Temple Beth El - it is truly the end of an era.I always enjoyed watching you connect with everyone at TBE functions; looked forward to when you were the guest in a Hebrew school class (I think the running joke after a lecture was “does anybody know what holiday comes next? - Shabbatyou got us every time); and enjoyed your sermons - particularly the one about the size of the seats at Fenway and bagels. I marveled at how you wrote my Bar Mitzvah speech in the weeks after 9/11 about the knish street vendor in lower Manhattan never looking back and I appreciated your hospitality when we came for a baby naming for our first daughter. If not for Covid, we would’ve come back for the second.
But above all, I’ll remember you for your confidence. At a TBE sponsored trip to Yankee Stadium in 1997, you defied all logic and threw caution (and personal safety) to the wind as you wore a Red Sox hat in the Bronx. To this day, I assume you had a divine protection granted only to rabbis because there is no other sane reason to walk through the Bronx with a Red Sox hat when the Red Sox aren’t even in town. Perhaps I am a weaker man, but in a similar situation in at Citizens Bank Ballpark, I told my 8 month pregnant wife that we don’t wear Mets stuff in Philly. Thank you for everything and making our community better. Also, my good friend and fellow TBE Hebrew School classmate Josh Kanter also sends his regards and commends you on the impact you made on the Stamford community. Best Wishes, - Eric Weinstein
Good morning Rabbi. I’m sure you are hearing this pretty much all the time right now, but in our deepest hour of need, you came into our lives. You have been nothing short of heroic when it comes to
being my family’s spiritual leader. I wish you and your family nothing but good health, success and happiness. You and Mara, are simply, the best!
- Dave Rich
Dear Josh,
A quick note to let you know how much the entire Blomberg family is grateful for your kindness, advice, and humor in good and bad times. The years pass quickly, and it takes an event such as your transition to Emeritus Rabbi to prompt us to reflect on shared experiences. You were always there for us when we needed you, and it was and is much appreciated. We wish you and your family only the best of health, happiness, and prosperity and hope to see you from time-to-time when you are in the area.
- Richard Blomberg
Dear Rabbi,
Just as I have saved most if not all of your High Holiday sermons and Your Top 40s, so will I save your heart warming, meaningful and memorable message below. It is not just your beautiful words but your sincerity, understanding and caring that is who you are and has made you the "special" rabbi that you have for TBE and its congregants. May Mara and you share many many more years together in good health and enjoy and be fulfilled in your next phase of life.
With love,
- Suzanne Stone
Dear Rabbi;
Our family wants to wish you and your family the best life has to offer in retirement. We want to thank you for being an important part of our family’s life events. When Sabrina was going to get married there was no one but you who we wanted to perform that service. Remember when Sabrina went to kiss Evan prematurely, you’re not yet made everyone laugh. We will greatly miss you and want you to know that we never held it against you that you are a red sox fan! Be well and thank you again for everything.
- The Malen Family
Dear Rabbi Hammerman
Congratulations on your fantastic career at TBE!! You’ve obviously done an amazing job and are loved and respected by your entire congregation! Although I only got to know you through my parents as I had already left CT on my own journey and career path elsewhere, I feel like I know you as a true friend of our family. The funeral that you orchestrated for my mom Frieda back in 2003 with several hundred in attendance was a true celebration of life for a woman who gave of herself and was loved by many in the congregation and the community at large. She was truly “a piece of work.”
Then there were your check ins on my dad while he recovered from his bout with cancer at the house until he recovered and miraculously beat it at the ripe old age of 93! Then the hospital and finally the Atria visits as life was winding down at the even riper old age of 96…culminating with you and I by his side saying “last rite“ prayers as we knew he was on his last leg…when all of a sudden he perked up as if he knew you were there…and you said to me, “maybe we shouldn’t be doing this right now?” We both smiled and kept going. He so much valued your friendship and your visits and as you told me on several occasions, he truly was the sweetest man! He did pass the next day and the beautiful small graveside service that you led with his fellow US Navy Soldiers presenting the flag and playing taps was a very fitting send off and the way he would have liked it…low key and without a lot of hoopla!
Although you were there for them and our family as their lives came to an end, I know there were many happy occasions all along the way at temple with you at the helm which they were always grateful for…so thank you for everything and for being an important part of their and ultimately our family’s lives!! Betsy and I wish you and your family much good health, happiness, and success as you enter this new and well deserved chapter of your lives. I hope you’ll keep in touch and keep us informed on how you’re doing and obviously if there is anything I can do to help you along the way, I hope you’ll reach out! God speed and as you said, Shalom is the very fitting parting word here! Take good care and be safe! ❤
- Hal and Betsy Kravitz and Family
Dear Rabbi Hammerman, You and Mara have been part of the fabric of our lives for so many years. You helped guide Ariel and Matthew in not only their Jewish education but their ethical life as well. You supported me through some hard times and celebrated our joys. Just this month you showed up for us once again to guide us through my mom's passing. I have alwas appreciated your writing and have learned a lot from it. We are wishing you a beautiful and peaceful retirement, filled with joy.
- Vicki Kobliner, Ariel, Matt and Sal
Really value and appreciate the last 14yrs or so that we have been connected to TBE and to you and Mara… I have always found comfort in your services, sermons, writings and teachings….I am proud to be a member of TBE and call you our Rabbi and friend. Shalom to you and the family. See you Friday night. Thank you, - Adam Tronick
Dear Rabbi Hammerman,
It is with so much admiration for your ability to make Judaism come to life even for someone like me not raised in a Jewish home. But, from our first conversation at the Temple your kindness and understanding of my past when we first discussed my interest in perhaps converting meant so much to me & I will always treasure the memories of those Sunday meetings. When Alan asked me to marry him. he said he wanted you to marry us & you could only do that if I converted. It’s the reason you & I met and as difficult as the making the decision could have been you guided me through every step. I know I very likely would not have converted if it wasn’t for you. I even have my Hebrew name because you remembered Alan calling me “Angel” and you told me in Judaism they’re called Messengers of God and In Hebrew Angel is Arella and that is my Jewish name. I treasure the friendship we’ve had and cherish the memories of Alan & I at your home and how you & Mara made us feel like family. I write this with a heart filled with gratitude for having you in my life & pray your boys are and will stay safe, healthy and happy wherever life takes you. Thank you again Rabbi Hammerman for being the reason when I enter TBE I feel I’m home
- Peggy Kalter
Dear Rabbi,
We very much appreciated your support on our good as well as not so good special occasions. It made the good times that much more enjoyable and provided much needed comfort during the challenging times. We especially will treasure Fay and Zac's wedding ceremony which you did over Zoom in June of 2020. We were initially very concerned about how the technology would work, but after a few minutes the technology faded into the background, and everyone enjoyed the positive and very moving emotional experience. Thank you for creating such a special day for all of us which we will forever treasure! We wish you and Mara a long and enjoyable retirement.
- Bracha and Jerry Silber
Dear Josh,
We are sorry we will not be able to attend the Shabbat Service honoring you and Mara tomorrow. Thank you for the outstanding contribution you have made to our community. We wish you and your family many more enriching and beautiful new chapters in the future. Fondly,
- Harley and Steve Osman
From Loralee and Phil Granowitz
Thank you both for the wisdom, guidance, and support over the years. You have been part of every big life event for us. Dash, Bris, bar mitzvahs, funerals, shivas and everything in between. Wishing you all the best as you start the “next chapter.”
- Michael and Risa Pollack.
Dear Rabbi. Thank you for creating such a warm and wonderful Jewish community at TBE. We thank you and Mara for helping Noah and Max become Jewish men, and for guiding our moms and all of us during our times of sadness. We look forward to your future writings and hope that you both have lots of fun and happiness in your next phase. We will miss your presence at TBE.
- Ron and Nicole Zussman
Dear Rabbi Hammerman, Good luck as you embark on new adventures, but TBE won't be the same without you. I hope you will return occasionally for a service or special program. Thanks for inspiring me to write.! remember when you invited the whole congregation to submit prayers? I don't know how many took you up on that invitation, but it led to my” Tefillat Geshem – The Missing Verses” - First of many creative efforts. So thank you for opening up that world for me. I wish you and your family all the best in your new life. To paraphrase a real poet: “May you be blessed as you go on your way. May you be guided in peace. May you be blessed with health and joy. May this be your blessing. Amen. May you be sheltered by the wings of peace. May you be kept in safety and in love.... May this be your blessing, amen.” (D.Friedman). Couldn't say it better myself. � I won't say Shalom, just l’hitraot
- Karen Hayworth Hainbach
Thank you for being there for us during good times and not so good times. Period. It's hard to imagine TBE without you at the spiritual helm. Best wishes to you as you embark on the next chapter of your lives. You will be missed.
- Kathy, Josh and Sarah Mandel
We are very grateful to Rabbi Hammerman for being our Rabbi from the day we arrived at TBE He officiated for five weddings, two conversions to Judaism, one pidyon haben and one bris for our family. We could always count on his support during the sad events. Wishing a very big Toda Rabba, good health and happiness.
- Gary and Phyllis Gladstein
Wishing you lots of love and good health and happiness. You have stood by and supported me through both good and bad moments in my life. There were times. That you are my strength. I can't thank you enough for all you have shared with me. Sending much love.
- Linda Kopel
Will always remember our Temple trip to Israel with you and Mara leading the way! So special for my family.
- Jeannie Kasindorf
What special memories, both happy and sad. I will miss you both tremendously.
- Melanie Massell
We thank you both, and remain forever grateful for all the support, guidance, and inspiration, all these years. You have both truly changed the trajectory of our lives, and we cherish these blessings every day. May your next chapters be filled with warmth, out love and sweetness ahead. With love,
- The Cwass Family
Thank you for all your love and support of our family for the past 11 years period. We wish you nothing but. The best in retirement!
- Mitchell Nadel and Jill Swartz Nadel
Thank you for expanding our knowledge of Judaism through your classes, sermons, writings, and services. You are responsible for us becoming more engaged members of TBE. Thank you for supporting and guiding us through the saddest times and helping make the good times even more joyous. We appreciated our talks about traveling, our shared NCC experiences, and dinners. We are grateful to you
for all you have done for our families, the temple, and our community. We wish you the best life has to offer.
- Jeffrey and Sharon Turshan
Dear Mara and Josh. Our family's life has been enriched through our involvement with TBE and all of us Ways you’ve strived to impact people, teaching us, encouraging us and supporting us through life's many ups and downs. Now it's your turn for some Peace and time at the Beach.! Wishing you much Joy and Happiness as you start the newest phase in your lives together. Love from
- Marlyn, Rich, Alex, Madison, Lara and Noah Agatstein
From Susan Schneiderman
Thank you from the Weisman family. For 37 years of spiritual leadership. You have inspired us with your impressive sermons, and your community outreach. Best wishes to you and Mara as you enter a new phase in your lives.
- Joan Weisman
Thank you both for all that you have done for our family, for TBE, and for the Jewish world during these amazing. 37 years, with all best wishes for a wonderful retirement!
- Gerry and Fran Ginsburg
Dear Rabbi Hammerman.... You have given my family a spiritual home for so many years. You will always be OUR Rabbi and I appreciate the strong Jewish presence you have had in our lives. I shall always remember Allen’s and my beautiful wedding in the chapel with the kids., a lace chuppah and your beautiful ceremony. With love,
- Carol and Allen Krim
Wishing YOU and MARA a farewell filled with new spiritual adventures. All things good and best for your future endeavors.
- Ron and Olga Goldstein
Josh and Mara. Wishing you only the best of everything in your next chapter!
- Caryl and Peter Poser
Thank you for all you have done for our family. We wish you a wonderful retirement. Enjoy your welldeserved new adventure.
- Robert Sofer and Marilyn Galler Sofer
Rabbi & Mara ~
Wishing you all good things on the start of something exciting ~ with gratitude to your unparalleled dedication to Temple Beth El and making it a special place! Warmly,
- Lynn Villency Cohen
Josh It is truly a momentous yet melancholy day, not only for you and Mara, Ethan and Daniel, but for Temple Beth El and the Stamford Jewish Community as well. You have left an indelible legacy of liturgy, learning, scholarship and writings, from which we have all benefitted and for which we are all grateful. Howard, Taylor, Skyler and I wish you and Mara much love, laughter, joy and good health as you embark on your next adventure. Warmly,
- Abby Ross
Dear Josh and Mara We are picturing you up in Madison, on the beach with your blanket, chairs, great books and yummy food - Casey, Cassidy and Cobie at the house chillin' - looking at each other and saying, "It's AMAZING here!! We picked the best new home!" The 'kids' will now be going for walks at the Long Island Sound - they'll love the briny shells! Josh, we have felt so loved and cared for under your rabbinic leadership. Rabbi, you embody spiritual leadership just by being you. It's clear to both of us that this was your calling, and we have reaped the benefits! We talk a lot about how blessed we feel to have hit the mother lode with you as our rabbi. Mara, we know that every child that you taught at TBE was beyond lucky. You emanate wisdom, joy, playfulness and love, and you are so adored. Because of you guys, we have our beautiful Delilah and her bro Thunder. We literally left your house that day, after seeing Casey, Cassidy and Crosby and called Joan from your driveway to put in our request. We Love & Appreciate You Both.... more poodle fun to come.
- Hope Stanger & Brian Steranka
Can’t believe I’m not there - but I’m there in spirit!!! Sending massive thank yous from across the pond
- Alana Kasindorf
Rabbi Hammerman. Although I am no longer a physical member of Temple Beth El, I feel connected to you and the space you created there now more than ever. Moving away from my hometown also meant moving away from the comfort of community, which I never thought too much about until it was time to rebuild.
Connecting with you from afar to handle my father’s funeral arrangements was a comfort, as we laid my father to rest near my late mother at Temple Beth El’s cemetery. Newly pregnant at the time after a previous loss you were well acquainted with, you gave me the wise advice to stay home amid a snowstorm and not get on that plane, while allowing me to create a truly meaningful service for my father and be “present”.
While that pregnancy ultimately ended in miscarriage shortly after my father’s passing, the next one resulted in Meadow Helenna, named after both my parents, and named in Hebrew at our beloved Temple Beth El. I wouldn't have had it any other way. Thank you for all you do for your community, near and far. You have truly shown me that community is not about proximity, as I’ve connected with my TBE community during my family's lifecycle events. Tonight’s final service is sure to be spectacular and although I can’t be there in person, I wanted to wish you a happy retirement! Warm Regards
- Hope Carr
I wanted to take a minute to thank you for your years of service at Beth El. Through three Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, funerals and holidays, you were there for us. We totally appreciate all you have done for us and for the larger Jewish Community - we thank you.
- The Swidlers
Hi, Rabbi,
We want to thank you for a wonderful 19 years as our rabbi and spiritual advisor. The journey that you have shared with us has taken us through many highs and lows, but we are so happy that as it comes to a close, we were able to share one of our brightest days, the recent B’not Mitzvah of Ilana and Madelyn. The “k’vellers in residence” are still k’velling at the beautiful and meaningful service that you and Cantor Katie conducted with the girls. It will be a day we never forget! We will say so long for now to you and Mara. We hope our paths will cross again in the future. Enjoy this next chapter! Best wishes,
- Jennifer, Harris, Ilana and Madelyn Meth
Dear Rabbi and Mara, It has been an honor and privilege to get to know you over the past 15 or so years. I wish you all the love, health, well-being, peace and happiness in your retirement. My family is equally as grateful as I am at how you turned a rather dramatic funeral into a sacred event. We will never forget that day in Staten Island as long as we live! We are proud to say that the tombstone is now fully intact and my mom's is on the way to being set.
Having your presence at minyan and your heart has also been a highlight for me and I will always cherish the moments of prayer together. There is no other like you when it comes to sermons and
journalism. You are simply magnificent, and you will surely be missed by all. Thank you again for your many years of service and dedication. Your heart is huge, and I am grateful that I got to be a part of TBE while you were still there. Bless you and your family always,
- Pamela Tinkham
Dear Josh and Mara, Since the interview we requested with Josh in 1995 prior to our joining TBE to make sure that the rabbi wasn't a jerk (like the rabbi who married us and questioned our Jewish identity), to Adam's bris and Rebecca's naming, to the 7th grade religious schoolteacher extraordinaire, to Adam's bar mitzvah and Rebecca's bat mitzvah, to the present and everything in between, we know we made the right choice in joining TBE! Josh's sermons, including the Red Sox jokes (Go Yankees), were always Dave's favorite part of the service. You were both integral in teaching our children and helping to instill a (delayed) love of Judaism in them. Beyond the synagogue we have fond memories of those long-ago Halloween parties at the Rubins, the not as long-ago New Year's Eve parties at our house and the Hanukkah parties at the Pollack's. I also remember my coffees and lunches with Mara. Of these four couples, we're the last ones standing in Stamford - but we plan to relocate to the Denver suburbs within the year. We wish you the best in your new home and your retirement chapter. I just passed the one year "anniversary" of my retirement (Dave is at 2 1/2) and we've never looked back! You only live once - so go and do all those things you couldn't get to because work got in the way! Cheers to a fulfilling retirement! We'll miss you. Love,
- Cathy and David Satz
Dear Rabbi Hammerman & Mrs. Hammerman, I wish you both the best of luck in retirement! Thank you both for everything over the years. All the best,
- Sam Teich
Dear Rabbi Hammerman, I just wanted to wish you well! Congratulations & Good Luck! Sincerely,
- Craig Weinstein
Congratulations on your well-deserved retirement! We joined when we were looking or a Hebrew School all those years ago and never looked back. You and Mara have always been there for our family. Wishing you both happiness and heath as you embark on this next chapter of your lives.
- Michelle, Alan and Ethan Moskowitz
Rabbi-
Throughout my life (a mere 56 years), I have only had two Rabbis-Lazowski and you. I truly consider myself fortunate in that regard. You have overseen and officiated at several Broder life cycle eventsboth sad and joyous.
Mia’s naming in 2008
My mother’s passing in 2010 (Sherry Broder)
Sarah’s Bat Mitzvah in 2015
Melissa’s father’s passing in 2019 (Stanley Epstein)
And I just wanted to say THANK YOU for all that you have done! I’m glad I was able to attend Friday night’s service but sad that I never was able to say thank you to you directly. Melissa and I wish you and Mara well on the next chapter of your lives in Madison. Again, thank you!
- Ken, Melissa, Sarah and Mia Broder
You have been our Rabbi through four generations of our family. You’ve shared b’nai mitzvot, weddings, happy and sad times, grandchildren and more. Mara was a wonderful teacher to our grandchildren. I’ll never forget one time when I was in the hospital. It was about 4:30 erev Rosh Hashana and you arrived shofar in hand. I asked if you didn’t have a better place to be. You said that everyone should hear the shofar on Rosh Hashana. We enjoyed sharing last night with you and wish you well on your next adventure.
- Lynn Pearce
Dear Rabbi Josh,
Our family joined the Temple in close proximity time-wise to your arrival. You said the blessings at our home for 2 bris ceremonies, and 3 at temple Bar/Bat mitzvah services. Lisa, Samuel and Michael Rosenfeld grew up to be the wonderful, caring and sensitive adults that they are in part because of the experiences they had working with you (and 3 different cantors!) over the formative years leading to 13! And they have enjoyed watching the last few years' TBE high holiday services on Zoom from way afar! Alvin and I have always respected and admired you for your intelligence, wit, and courage. And we are so grateful for the many, many sacrifices you, your sons and Mara have made to keep up with the needs of your many congregants' life-cycle needs. As physicians we know all too well how hard that is.
We are unsettled (selfishly) for our loss at your leaving, particularly as Israel's situation feels so precarious now. But we are both very happy for you and your family that you can now spend time entirely as you'd like to! We are sure you'll be busy, and look forward to following your work and thoughts on Substack.
Love and much gratitude for all you have shared spiritually, and intellectually. Please know you will be missed!
- Dorothy Levine and Alvin Rosenfeld
When it comes to Jewish coming-of-age rituals, bar and bat mitzvahs get a lot of attention. But it was studying for my confirmation at Temple Beth El not long after I moved from California to Connecticut when I really became a Jewish adult. It was then that I started taking Jewish study and tradition and peoplehood seriously. And that’s because it was the first time I got to learn with and from Rabbi Hammerman.
Your wisdom in the years since imparted in and beyond your High Holy Day sermons has had a profound impact on my life.
You taught me to recognize sacred “Sheheheyanu moments.”
You taught me the importance of taking principled stances. I’m thinking of your Stew Leonard’s sermon here.
You taught me about the complexities and contradictions that come with being human. I’m thinking about the “kosher pig” sermon here.
You taught me about what really matters in the end. Here, I’m thinking of your sermon right after 9/11, when you chanted the victims’ final calls to loved ones.
Thank you for those lessons.
Thank you for always cheering on a fellow journalist.
And thank you for being a guiding presence throughout the years. You were there for simchas, officiating at Jeremy and my wedding, and at our son’s bris . I remember how you brought a tiny kippah fit for a newborn. You have also been there at moments of profound sadness and loss, and I am grateful.
But you are more than a rabbi to me. You are also the father of two adorable boys I babysat for in the 1990s. I remember watching “Jeopardy” with them and being astounded at how many of the answers a then 4-year-old Ethan knew. “What is Ottawa?” I remember him calling out correctly in response to a clue. These smart, sweet boys are going to be extraordinary people, I remember thinking. And they are. I’m proud of them. I’m proud of Mara. I’m proud of you.
Yasher koach, and mazel tov on your retirement.
- Gabrielle Birkner
Dear Rabbi,
I didn’t grow up at TBE, nor am I from Stamford originally, but I’ve come to call TBE home in no small part because I feel like family, and the warmth that you and the congregation emanate resonates with me. Has it really been 14 years since I wandered into the sanctuary one Saturday morning in June; not knowing a soul here after moving here upon graduating college? I still recall how you came over to welcome me that morning and then suddenly my feeling of homesickness and longing to be at my own family’s services started to melt away.
How lucky I was to find such a place; I had thought about going shul shopping but continued to be drawn to services and activities at TBE. Before long I had spent my first High Holidays in Stamford and knew that I wasn’t going anywhere else. I had met many new friends - and even remember you having dinner with us one night at Cappricio’s in downtown Stamford. I hadn’t even officially joined yet but was so happy that “my Rabbi” was able to speak with me and a group of other young professionals about the upcoming days of Awe.
Not too long after (in the grand scheme of things) I met Jamie and there wasn’t any hesitation to bring her along to see Jewish life here. I had a little hesitation because Jamie had grown up in Reform Judaism - but luckily our first foray together was for Purim and she felt right at home with the energy and family services as well as the hilarious adult ones. Then one of your High Holiday sermons really sealed the deal. It has always been one of her highlights to listen to your insightful, relevant and from the heart lessons. Having had an English minor in college she has always been amazed at all the sources you so seamlessly weave together into an engaging and enriching sermon. We’ve both grown so much into TBE that we could never really extract ourselves - even if we wanted to. Between our involvement in Men’s Club, Religious school, classes on Jewish life, Shabbabimbam and just being there - you have helped us make this place such an important part of our lives.
When we became engaged and started planning our wedding - one choice was never in question: we wanted to have you officiate and have the wedding here. Jamie’s home synagogue had long since merged and mine had a new Rabbi who started once I had moved away. We knew you and you knew us:
we were so lucky and blessed to have you and George be there on that special day. When Hannah and Melody joined us you were there to joyously welcome them to the family too. How blessed we and they are - despite the craziness of the world - to have someplace so safe to be.
We keep up (as best we can) on your writings and admire how you find all the time to put it together. We hope that in this new chapter you can focus on enjoying life without the burdens placed on you that I can only begin to imagine. There have been times I know you must have been incredibly torn inside but have been there for other congregants and the community regardless. We wish you only the best and lighter times ahead. Thank you for all you have done for us and this community. We truly feel we are better people because of you and are thankful for your time as our Rabbi. Sincerely,
- Matt Miller & Jamie Morvitz
(From comments made at the service Friday night):
Josh, you and I have come full circle tonight. I was on the search committee that brought you here and among the presenters at your installation as Senior Rabbi. You provided wise counsel during my divorce, helped mediate during those proceedings, officiated at 2 of my sons’ bar mitzvahs, and co-officiated at my marriage to Pam. I worked in the Brookline, MA synagogue where your father had been the Cantor for decades and you almost went to work at the synagogue in Atlanta where I grew up. You accompanied me and other family members to Israel to bury Pam, led graveside services in Jerusalem and provided consolation to me during my grieving. You welcomed Rae-ann with affection and warmth when we started dating and subsequently married. Mara, Rae-ann and I taught together in the Religious School and she was always ready to offer advice and guidance to us in how to be better teachers. You have been our rabbi, friend, teacher, and advisor and we are grateful for your steadfast presence in our lives. We wish you good health, happiness and joy in this next phase of your life and look forward to visiting you in Madison in the future. Thanks for everything.
- Scott and Rae-ann Allen
Dear Rabbi Hammerman,
When we moved to Stamford in 1985, we visited all the synagogues in town and, although we joined Agudath, in our hearts, we never belonged. So, when word about the young wonderful new Rabbi at Temple Beth El spread within the Stamford community, we came to TBE for a second visit and, finally, found our spiritual home.
We are so grateful for the integral part you have been in our family simchas. You made each of our children feel so special and welcomed into the community starting with Michelle’s fully egalitarian Bat Mitzvah. I wonder if you remember her and her friends revolting at their second-class status at Bicultural morning prayers. With your support, they opted instead to come to morning minyan at TBE. Even the boys supported and joined them. I can’t remember how it ended but what a wonderful liberating experience it was for those teen girls, and it set them on course for all they have achieved since.
Neal too enjoyed wonderful teen years at TBE after his Bar Mitzvah – as a madrich on Sundays and wonderful Temple teen activities. He also really enjoyed the time he spent with Ethan and Daniel. We are so grateful for the beautiful wedding you conducted for him and Natalie at our home during Covid at such short notice.
Your fan club even included my parents, who came from South Africa, and later London, every year to join us for the High Holidays. They loved the services, the music, the decorum and, of course, the
sermons which generated much discussion. It was all so different from the very traditional orthodox South African services.
For me, the joy of Judaism came fully alive when Cantor Jacobson joined you on the bimah and, together, you made Friday night services a highlight of the week. It inspired me to become a Bat Mitzvah too – something girls just did not do in South Africa. I learned so much studying with you. Barb and Cantor Jacobsen and it was an experience I still treasure.
As a Zionist, I am so grateful that you made Israel such an important part of being Jewish at TBE. I know that is not true at many other synagogues, where Rabbis are too afraid to even mention Israel. I am also grateful that you were part of my installation as President of AJC Westchester Fairfield, attended AJC Global Forum and hosted so many AJC events at the Temple.
We wish you and Mara everything of the best as you embark on the next stage. For me, it was a time to discover new interests, activities and passions. We hope it will be as joyous a journey for you and Mara. With deep thanks for being “my rabbi”, - Stephne Behrend (and Kerrin)
Dear Josh & Mara, You've been involved in my life, one way or another, since Rosalea and I attended a service in Peekskill in my position as a Board member.
Mara. you're leaving Stamford and I sincerely regret not having more of a connection with you. I know very few people with such a sterling reputation as you have. Our community is losing a treasure with your move.
Josh, over the years my respect for you has deepened. Your intellect shines through in your writing and your sermons/talks. I love your humor and especially the off-the-cuff one-liners.
I was fortunate to work with you and your mother and learn of your family and your background. That background comes out with the feelings for our family and for the families of your congregants. In my work I attend too many funerals and your eulogies cannot be surpassed; they always are personal and show your feelings.
I still have questions about my belief in God but appreciated the talks we had and continue to recall them.
I was proud to say you are my Rabbi with regard to your involvement in the community and especially the connection with the Black community.
Josh & Mara, both of you are still "young" and I know you will make a new life for yourselves. Enjoy this new Life!
All my best, - Dick Fisher
Rabbi Hammerman,
Thank you for coming today so we could honor and celebrate you, together as a family, as you have been so much an integral part of our lives. Obviously, a bittersweet moment, not just because you are such an amazing rabbi but also as this marks the passage of time, a long time. I’m happy for you, Rabbi Hammerman, to have some time for yourself as you have given so much of your life and time to the community. Your retirement is well deserved.
So many memories over the many years. Of course, my Bar Mitzvah in Israel and your help and guidance through my portion and speech will always stick with me. I still remember you leading our small procession, carrying the torah through the old city, to the roof of the Burnt House, where we had the Bar Mitzvah ceremony. You were very kind and patient with me through the preparation and that was much appreciated. Looking back and thinking of the personalities in my Hebrew school class, it couldn’t have been easy.
You have been there for me during the happiest times like Bar Mitzvah, Gina and Brian’s wedding, Jared’s bris and Bar Mitzvah. Also, honoring Laura and me when we married, and even giving us private guidance. Through all the holidays and events, you always made the effort to say hi to me and make me feel special. You have been there for the hard times. Bobby Silberman’s funeral is still etched in my mind, and even in that very dark moment, you provided us with comfort and community.
It's funny how life works out as I was able to work with Ethan in the early days of his career, and hope I was able to give him some guidance. He is doing so well at Twitch, so you should be very proud!
Lastly i just want to comment on how much respect and admiration I have for you, particularly around your commitment to progress, equality and peace. It could not have been easy at times to speak your truth. It may have been easier to keep your views to yourself. However, you were able to be true to yourself in a respectful way to other views and opinions but challenge those who may have, what I call, old-fashioned views. I believe you have shown these other views to be on the wrong side of history. You were able to do this while still being true to your faith and commitment to the values of the torah, and understanding the passage of time and progress cannot be stopped, no matter how much we all may want to go back to the way things were at times.
So a sincere thank you for everything you have given of yourself over the years. Let’s toast to Rabbi Hammerman, one of the best!!
- Keith Brewer
Josh,
With mixed emotions we joined as your congregation and friends said “shalom” this past Friday night to you and Mara. You and I connect in two ways, from our activities in the interfaith community as well as at TBE. As our rabbi, you supported us through our various medical challenges. You will be missed, Rabbi. The Stamford community – Jewish and of other faiths - has been greatly enriched by your presence. However, I will be among the many who look forward to reading your future inspiring articles and books on a myriad of topics. As you and Mara leave Stamford and Temple Beth El after 37 years, we wish you both peaceful ( time to listen to the water) enjoyable and productive days, and years, in your new home in Madison.
L’ hitraot and warm wishes, - Debby and Jack Goldberg
Elissa Garber-Hyman
It’s been a long and emotion-filled night, so I’ll try to keep my comments short. My name is Elissa Garber-Hyman, I’m co-chair of the committee to organize the Rabbi and Mara’s last Shabbat at TBE.
First of all, I want to thank a number of people who have made this evening possible: The entire committee for helping Pete and I put this event together. There are too many people to thank, but a few people have really stood out Carol Krim and Aviva for the gorgeous Oneg, Carol Brewer and the Brewer family for donating the beautiful orchids, Eileen and Shira for creating a book for the Rabbi, Mindy and Linda for their fantastic communications and the booklet, the Cantor for these amazing musicians. Alberto and Rad for working late hours to do all the set up. Scott Krowitz, you have been an incredible support. We literally could not have done this with you, the Board and of course, Steve Lander. And last but not least, I want to thank Pete, my co-chair, for being my rock throughout this entire event.
Rabbi, I wasn’t here when you began your journey in 1987, but I have seen how you have guided us through many celebrations and challenges.
For me, I was fully drawn into our community on 9/11. On that fateful day, I felt lost, unsettled as to where I should go, and I wanted to feel protected. I knew that TBE was the only community where I felt safe. Your sermon had a huge impact on me. You seemed to say all the things I was feeling inside. It was your sermon that catapulted me to become an active member of this synagogue, and the Jewish community at large.
And I know it wasn’t just me that felt that way. When I reflect on your legacy, your influence extends far beyond the walls of our synagogue. You’ve created an extended family. You can see how you’ve impacted lives just look at all the people that are here.
There is so much more for me to say, but I promised this would be short. So, it is a privilege to present this special gift from the community a detailed map of Jerusalem (in the 17th C). Why Jerusalem? There are a number of reasons:
Like the safe place that I sought so many years ago, Jerusalem is a place for us all to feel safe, cherish our faith and community.
And Jerusalem’s meandering, historical paths represent the spiritual journey you have led us on. When you embark on your new path, I hope this map reminds you of the countless lives you’ve touched along the way.
Finally, as we say at Passover, “next year in Jerusalem”, we hope that TBE will be a frequent place for you and Mara to return.
Mara, thank you for all your years as an inspirational teacher at our Hebrew School. You have deeply touched the lives of so many in our community. You deserve a medal for having to deal with tired and kvetchy students seeing you at the end of their school day and on the weekends. You must have a lot on your plate preparing for your upcoming move. So, with those things in mind, we would like to present you with metal on a plate.
Thank you, again, Rabbi and Mara for 37 years of your being there for me, my family and the congregation. We wish you both, joy and peace in your next adventure.
- Elissa Garber-Hyman
Lauren Hass and Diana Binger
SHABBAT SHALOM. I’M LAUREN AND THIS IS MY SISTER, DIANA. WE GREW UP IN THIS SHUL.
IT IS JEWISH TRADITION (HAKARAT HATOV) TO EXPRESS GRATITUDE THROUGHOUT THE DAY FOR ALL KINDS OF GOOD THINGS - BIG AND SMALL - BY NOTICING, APPRECIATING, ACKNOWLEDGING, AND SHARING BLESSINGS. FOR THE CONFIRMATION CLASS OF 1993 (AND LIKELY MANY OTHER CONFIRMATION CLASSES), YOU HAD EACH OF US WRITE A BLESSING. TONIGHT, WE WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS OUR GRATITUDE FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE BEEN TO OUR FAMILY THROUGH THE YEARS. HOWEVER, INSTEAD OF SHARING IT IN A BLESSING, WE ARE SHARING IT IN SONG. TO THE TUNE OF JACOB AND SONS, FROM JOSEPH AND THE AMAZING TECHNICOLOR DREAMCOAT...PERFORMED ON THIS VERY BIMAH: WAY, WAY BACK IN ’87 OR SO ABOUT THE SAME TIME THAT OUR DAD WAS AT THE HELM A YOUNGER RABBI MOVED TO ROXBURY ROAD BETH EL JEWS WERE HIS NEWEST REALM.
RABBI HAMMERMAN, WITH YOUR WISDOM AND GRACE, YOU HAVE ALWAYS HAD A MOUSTACHE ON YOUR FACE MY-BATMITZVAH-AND-OUR-WEDDINGS, BRISMILOT AND NAMINGS TOO, THE KALTERS HAVE SHARED GOOD AND BAD TIMES WITH YOU!
WITH A VIBRANT ENERGY, YOU INSPIRED OUR YOUNG SOULS, CONNECTING VALUES AND TORAH, WHILE PASSING A BEACH BALL. AN AVID WRITER, YOUR WORDS HAVE LIT THE WAY, SERMONS REPORTING SPORT SCORES MADE US WANT TO STAY.
DIANA BABYSAT YOUR BOYS WHEN THEY WERE VERY YOUNG YOU JOINED US IN OUR ORANGE SUKKAH, THAT WAS SO MUCH FUN. OUR MOM ON TONIGHT’S COMMITTEE, SERVING WITH DELIGHT, OUR PARENTS’ VOLUNTEERING HERE HAS LED US TO THIS NIGHT.
RABBI HAMMERMAN, THIS SONG'S FOR YOU, FOR ALL THE LOVE AND BLESSINGS, FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO. RABBI HAMMERMAN, WE’RE GRATEFUL TO YOU… RABBI, RABBI, RABBI..HAMMERMAAAAN.
- Lauren Hass and Diana Binger
From Rev Ann Schmidt
My dear Rabbi Hammerman, my dear Mara, I remember and cherish…
Your commitment to being a voice of those without a voice, for seeking justice and helping smooth the way for peace.
The mutual respect, understanding and trust we developed over the years.
Your installation, your vision of what and who Temple Beth could be, how transformation might take place, and the gifts of new worship books.
Ministry together for all these years.
Being together as the Hospice Clergy Team: Rabbi Elan Adler and, may they rest in peace, Rev. Mark DeWolf and Father Joe Russo
The evening Jeff spoke at Temple Beth El, his courage and his wisdom.
Being on a panel with you for a TV program and being asked ‘What do Christians believe about circumscision?’ You have found that memory amusing.
Joys, sorrows and pitfalls of ministry.
Sitting at my desk at Hospice, I was wondering how I could begin hospital visits one week after my husband’s death. You called and said, ‘Would you make a visit to someone?’ I was so thankful to have a reason to get out of my chair.
Interfaith gatherings at Borders, growing trust of Muslims, Christians and Jews who gathered and shared.
‘Dear brothers and sisters,’ A letter from a very small Lutheran congregation in Bridgeport, about to close, to the Jewish community in Stamford, sharing our prayers as threats continued here and other places.
You trusting and teaching me to keep the Temple kitchen kosher
Hospice Memorial Services. Let us remember…together.
The Zen Book of The Dead
Hospital and Hospice visits, sharing the valley of the shadows, holding hands, blessing and praying and being present.
Paperwork and more paperwork. ‘Just sign your name, Rabbi.’
Remembering Pam and Lori, Hazzan Rabinowitz, your beloved mother and so many, many more. Giving thanks and saying their names.
You and Mara inviting me to share Seder with your sons and your mother.
9/11 and the Service you lead. Where else could I go for solace?
Standing next to you in black dress and clergy collar, you explaining to EL AL Security why I was flying with you to Jerusalem.
Standing together with sacred places behind us, holy moments, holy places. And such a bond between us.
Inviting me to High Holy Day Services.
‘Mi Sheba Rach’ being prayed so many times, my name included for months, as I waited for my heart transplant.
Your courage to speak, when it would have been easier to be silent or to be at home; speaking truth to power on behalf of those with none.
You inviting me to be stand on the Bema with Rabbis to offer a blessing
The opening of the Hospice residence and you singing, ‘Bless this House’ as you remember father sang.
Hazzan Rabinowitz and I weeping in the cemetery, as you prayed.
The care and nurture you gave when I was Director of Pastoral Care at Stamford Hospital, the wonderful and diverse chaplains, the CPE Supervisor, David Daniel Klipper and all the interns, including Rabbi Ginsberg and Suzanne Horn.
When asked by my Bishop, to say who was my ‘pastor’, confessor and emergency contact for support, it was your name I wrote.
The Pastoral Care Advisory Board for Stamford Hospital. ‘You want to increase the staff? Again? More? And you said, ‘Go ahead.’
Having Temple Beth El be my religious home.
Members of Temple Beth El gathering around my bed, knowing you were praying, as I went to receive my heart transplant 02/24/2011.
Speaking at services here at your gracious invitation.
Celebrating.
Mourning.
Praying.
Singing.
The Temple Garden vegetables, grown and delivered with love to the shelter.
Rolling our eyes about politics when it wasn’t ‘appropriate’ to speak at the moment.
A Service of Healing here.
The AIDS Day Services as the community gathered in front of quilt panels, naming names of those who died, and praying for those who live.
The sound of dirt being shoveled in the cemetery.
Weeping with those who weep and rejoicing with those who celebrate.
Clergy coming to Stamford, and some retiring, a number of is staying for many years, you much longer than I. But I am much older, and not so wise as you, dear Rabbi, and we are much grayer than when we started.
Always, open arms, dear Rabbi, dear Mara, your precious family, members of Temple Beth El. Always love and acceptance. Unending love and joy be with you. With my love and deep respect.
- Ann Schmidt
Eric Kaplan’s Comments at the Final Service
Earlier this morning Rabbi Hammerman made a post on Facebook about his “Last Dance.” While not trying to compare himself directly to Michael Jordan, I do think there is a basis of comparison for greatness. I think we all agree over the past 37 years at TBE we have been blessed to benefit from the greatness of the Hammerman family. While probably not as great a basketball player as Michael Jordan, if we do comparisons by position, I think there is some room for discussion. Rabbi Hammerman, I truly believe you are one of the all-time greats in the Rabbinate. I think you are the Derek Jeter of rabbis. Let me put it another way. If being a rabbi is like being a football player, then the high holidays are the Superbowl and the sermon is the crowning moment for the rabbi. Rabbi Hammerman, you have always delivered and never disappointed. You are like the Eli Manning of high holiday sermons.
Just like the great Bulls dynasty you alluded to earlier today, greatness is often complimented with greatness and the Hammermans are no different. Leading a congregation is not an individual sport and it requires teammates who are up to the task. When I think of all the accomplishments our congregation has experienced over the years, the pride of our b’nai mitzvah program nears the top of the list. That would not be the case if we did not have an amazing hall of fame worthy educator as the backstop of the program. Mara, you are without a doubt the Mariano Rivera of our congregation.
As I stand here on behalf of The Kaplan and Gartner family, it is my honor to express to you both how grateful we all are for the countless memories etched in our hearts that you both played such a pivotal part of. Mazel tov.
Ethan Kaplan’s Comments at the Final Service
Hello TBE
I am very proud to say that Rabbi Hammerman has always been my Rabbi. Whether it was advice, humor, or pleasant conversation Rabbi Hammerman never ceases to captivate us with his sermons and cultivate our lives here at the temple. Seeing him leave is like losing a part of this temple. I will always remember your kindness, your wisdom, and the witty comments. You can always expect a fun conversation if he's around.
Mara Hammerman was always there for me in seventh grade and beyond. She is Caring and kind and she puts thought into her lessons and conversations so that everyone enjoys them. Knowing her has been an honor and a pleasure. Her light can shine even in the darkest times as it did for me.
We hope you enjoy your retirement and that we will see you again. Although it's hard to let go as they say when one door closes another one opens. I hope our next Rabbi can live up to the legacy left behind by Rabbi Hammerman and Mara Hammerman. We love you and will miss you so much.
From Stephen and Gail G. Trell
Dear Rabbi and Mara,
With the quick passing of 37 years, you have touched the hearts and souls of five generations in our family: my grandmother Sylvia April; our parents Mary and David Gruber, as well as Mollie and Max Trell; us; our children Julie and Jeffrey; and our grandchildren Max and Hailey. Mara, you had the honor of having Hailey in your class what fun times that sleepover was! Rabbi, you coached them with their outstanding Mitzvah speeches especially with Max talking about wrestling.
We also had something special in common: our love for standard poodles, ours being JayJay and Vegas. Way back in the 80s, there was a poodle named Max at Courtland Gardens that Jeffrey handled for pet therapy, where you mentored that teenager for community service outreach. Of course, the life cycles of joy and celebrations of life were handled with memorable and meaningful respect.
One of our favorite first memories was the bouncing beachball across the entire congregation from the back to the front and all around at a High Holy Day service. It was our impression Rabbi Hammerman expressing innovation, creativity, and truths that we all needed to pay attention to. There was the pride we felt when the community became part of our congregation as we shared in Pride occasions, racial and interfaith occasions, immigration events, and food insecurity missions. Our congregation was opened up to the world around us more than ever before because of you.
Your sense of humor, wonderful essays/articles, and sermons have left fond, meaningful memories with us. We will continue following you with our subscription to Substack.
We are thrilled you have chosen to give yourselves the time you deserve to pursue the many opportunities of travel, journalism, study, hobbies, entertainment, and even just leisure days, thus more time to be with family, friends, associates and scholars to seek new adventures.
Lastly, it is now time for TBE to begin anew to find treasure in an experience of an exciting new life of spiritual endeavor. It's all good.
Wishing you both nachas and good health. Mazel Tov.
Fondly with love,
- Gail G. and Stephen Trell
Having read through many of the notes in the tribute book, it is wonderful to see the benefit of three decades of service to so many families within the congregation. Grandparents, children, grandchildren found their lives intertwined with the ongoing presence of a singular rabbi. This is in notable contrast to the typically much shorter appointments here in the US.
You have well earned the years ahead where you will be able to continue to pursue your interests and not have to carry-on the very extensive duties of the Senior Rabbi of a large conservative congregation.
I anticipate there will be many beach walks in the future for you and Mara and many, many writing opportunities for you!
Best - Allen Krim
Ed and I were away during your wonderful farewell Shabbat. Everyone was saying how warm and meaningful it was. We are so sorry we could not be there.
I remember when I first met you – you came either in 1986 or 1987 to a Federation Long Term Planning Committee Meeting and you said you were representing Temple Beth El as the new Assistant Rabbi. You looked so young and so earnest, and we were delighted to have you there.
I was a Board member of UJF at the time but in 1998, I became the Executive Vice President of the Federation as a Professional. I was in that position for 7 years and you were always there to support me and the Federation during exciting times for the community and for Israel. I also remember that when you spoke at our Annual Meeting along with the other Rabbis, you always respected my request to “keep it short” as you often said at the meeting!
While I and my late husband were members of the Chavurah under Rabbi Mark S. Golub, you were gracious and respectful of our membership there. And since Mark was very precious to Bernie and me, it was wonderful that you and Mark had a mutually respectful relationship.
I will miss your presence in Stamford and so will the entire community. Your wisdom and commitment to Jewish values, often expressed in your relationship with the Interfaith Council will also be missed and I hope someone will take over your leadership in that role.
Ed and I hope that Mara and you and your family will find meaning and joy in the next stage of your lives. And you will remain committed to the larger Jewish world-wide community as you had for your entire rabbinical life.
Warmly,
- Edith Samers
Dear Rabbi Joshua and Mara Hammerman, We joined TBE when Hannah was just18 months old and have celebrated so many milestones at TBE over these past 25 years under your leadership! Our
introduction to the TBE community was through Tot Shabbat programming and carried on through the Hebrew School and two wonderful Bat Mitzvah's that you both contributed to so meaningfully. We also have so many wonderful memories from the Israel tour that you and Mara led. You have both provided such wonderful guidance through these transitions, and we appreciate everything you have done to help facilitate our involvement in our Jewish life. We wish you all the best as you move onto your next adventures in life and wish you many more years of fulfillment and contribution.
- Cathy, Bud, Hannah and Charlotte Freund.
Dear Rabbi,
We are ten days out from your beautiful Shabbat service. I was at the door greeting as people streamed in and there were so many faces I had not seen in quite a while. What a grand testament to the years you spent with your TBE flock! I have rewatched the video and enjoyed seeing you react to all that was going on around you and for you. Quite an emotional evening for everyone.
As Lauren and Diana said, you carried them through all their life cycle events …except their own baby namings. (Lauren’s was in Whitestone and Diana’s was the first Thursday after her birth, at minyan with Rabbi Goldman.) According to my upbringing, just the fathers went to Shul and named their daughters, while moms stayed home and recovered. In those days I would never have attended minyan or had an Aliyah. You have brought me full circle, although I still do not wear a Tallis or wear a kippah. I guess I am just too old school. You brought all of your congregation to a full egalitarian standard for which we are all thankful.
I have some particular memories which I appreciate so much. Your sermons were a highlight of every high holiday service. My family couldn’t wait to hear what you would talk about and were riveted until the end. As long as I can remember my daughters sat through all of them and never asked to leave and I always found your extensive sources impressive and intelligent. They seemed liked college courses but with messages of ethical behavior and Israel at the forefront.
Your writings during covid were thoughtful but I don’t think I could have managed to make it through the last nine months without your daily writing about Israel. I shared many of your pieces with friends and neighbors and they said to keep them coming. You did amazing and smart work every day and I shall always be thankful that we had the benefit of your thoughtful commentary and judgment.
One sweet memory happened during covid. You were leading services from the chapel and you scanned the Torah and then put the camera on the memorial plaques. You stopped in front of the plaque we donated in the 1980’s so that I could see names of my father, mother and stepfather. It was so emotional. Every week I sit in that row so that I can feel close to them.
Rabbi, I wish you and Mara a wonderful move as you walk the beach and breathe in calm. I know the dogs will give you lots of healthy exercise as they chase the ball along the shore. Be well and lots of love.
- Carol Krim
Although this may seem late, Leon and I would like to share our gratitude to you and Mara. We came to Temple Beth El because of you and your impact on all of us as a family will last a lifetime. Your leadership and constant ability to help us expand our views, thoughts and learning. You challenged us through your writings and sermons to understand Judaism through varying and dynamic lens. You
supported us to grow. Your commitment and involvement in the community was of particular importance because you provided a critical voice and partnership to the multi-cultural fabric of Stamford. It always made me so proud that you could be counted on by Interfaith Community Leaders. You shared in our family joys and always left an indelible mark on each celebration. Danielle and Adam still talk about Mara and her patience, compassion and invaluable way she had to make learning fun and interesting. It was a gift that they both had each of you to guide them to develop their Jewish identity. Temple Beth El will not be the same for us without you. We will always remember and be grateful. May your next journey in your life be fulfilling. You both deserve that.
Fondest Wishes,
- Deb, Leon, Danielle and Adam Shapiro
Hi Josh and Mara
So hard to believe so many years ago before children we both walked into Temple Beth El in Stamford, you as the Rabbi, Mara as the Rebbitzin and me as the youth director. Very fond memories were made one of our favorites were family get togethers for New Years Eve and play dates with our children along with many birthday parties for all of the kids before time marched on as we moved to Greenwich and became involved with the community here but you always made us feel welcomed in your community with a wedding, baby naming for our children, niece, nephew and now grandchildren….. we are also grateful for your support and guidance with my dad’s funeral before you ended your chapter at Temple Beth El as Rabbi.
Mara, I could never forget you as through the years you have always been there for me in your own special way and a friend to just talk with I look forward to seeing you soon…. (I still remember you telling me to put my nephew in your brand new double stroller a week before you were taking a trip to Israel even knowing he might throw up sitting in it and thankfully he didn’t) � We hope you enjoy your next chapter and look forward to hearing about it….
- Rhonda Goldenberg
God’s Place: The City
The following address was delivered by Rabbi Hammerman at a joint service between Temple Beth El and Bethel A.M.E., held at the church on December 19, 1993. The service was the second in a series of cooperative ventures between the two congregations, aimed at strengthening the bonds between the Jewish and African American communities of Stamford. The full text can be found at https://www.joshuahammerman.com/2008/03/gods-place-city.html
I am so happy to be here at the invitation of your spiritual leader. As we've gotten to know each other, Reverend Winton Hill and I have come to realize that there is so much more that unites us than divides us. We are so fortunate to have Winton Hill in our community. He is, in every way, a soulmate and friend.
The Beth El - Bethel relationship was forged by a dream. Several dreams, really. The
dream of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., to be sure, and of generations of Jews and African Americans who have worked together, suffered together and grown together in their efforts to build a more just, more compassionate America for their children.
But there is one more dream that we share, one embedded in our very identity, our name, and our Bible. It was Jacob's dream that occurred in the place he called Beit El, Beth-el, the House of the Lord. And in Jacob's dream, a ladder was set on earth with its top stretching forth unto heaven, and angels of God were ascending and descending on it.
When Jacob awoke, he understood what he hadn't before, that God's presence could be felt in a place utterly ordinary, seemingly earth-bound, and a simple place, cluster of stones, really, became holy.
Our dream today is nothing less than to make Jacob's Beth-el a living concept in our living city. We stand together, as Stamford's two Beth-els, committed to transforming Stamford into a house of God. We must build a ladder to heaven. Right here. Right now.
Ancient holy cities, Jerusalem, Mecca, Benares, all were built around sacred spaces, which allowed for a feeling of intersection, where the horizontal plane could meet the vertical. Where people could remove their shoes in the knowledge that this place was God's place. In those days, the city came to symbolize hope, reaffirmation, and resolve. In recent times, cities have lost their ability to build those sacred ladders, choosing instead to build secular palaces of concrete and glass, to be centers of commerce rather than compassion, coming to symbolize corruption, confrontation, and despair.
But Stamford does still care. Stamford still puts people first, or at least it can. And Stamford has two very different Beth Els who wish to bring the entire city to an understanding of how we can build that ladder to heaven.
We can become a healing city, a place where all citizens feel sustained and nurtured in its midst.
We can become an organic city, not of disparate neighborhoods and conflicting groups, but a collage where the whole is far greater than the sum of its parts. The great cities of the past all felt organic and whole, down to the last detail, the restaurants, the sidewalks, the neighborhoods, the gardens, the walls. In Jerusalem, for instance, there is not a single stone that is not tear-stained, whether it adorns an ancient shrine or a modern cafe, it is all Jerusalem, all reaching up to the heavens. Our city can reach heavenward too, but only if we provide the tears, the laughter, the kindness, and imprint them on every stone and girder.
It all comes together today. Today we are not African American and Jew, we are
Stamford. And if we can come together, the rest of the city will have to follow. If they see that we can care for one another, we who are so different, we who still have somewhat differing agendas, but we who do care for one another, if they can see us holding hands, if we can pull this off, the rest of the city will take notice. Like the Maccabees and martyrs of old, we can change the world.
This city can care for its homeless, for its sick, for its downtrodden, for its living and for its dying. And we can help it.
The writer James McPherson noted that there has been of late an unfortunate tendency among Jews toward greater racism and among Blacks toward greater antisemitism, and that it can be traced to same thing: each group is trying to join the majority. The rest of the world hates, so we'll hate too. We can't deny these trends, nor can we deny that the temptation exists to hate.
There may be comfort in numbers but we, as two peoples who have seen the results of senseless hatred, we've got to fight it. We've got to love each other, even if that is just one more thing that places us against the tide. Today, right here, right now, we each are adding one rung to Jacob's ladder. And together, we stretch forth to the heavens, as our city becomes a House of God.
