Sept./Oct. 2024
Volume 3 Issue 4
Latorra Garland
Kristen Boisrond
Dr. Katie Chadwick
Kenisha Henderson
Keisha Sanchez
Chavonn Johnson
Sha Metcalf
Terri Alford
Pastor Tammy Dozier
Let Your Actions Offer Hope To Others
A Letter From The Editor
There Are No If, Ands, Or Buts About It!
You never know who is watching. In everything that we do in life, regardless of whether an audience is present or not, we must know that someone is always watching. While some may be in the form of support or encouragement, others may show up just to learn. I would describe myself as a learner.
A Letter from the Editor
What if tomorrow didn’t arrive? All of your plans, hopes and dreams wouldn’t have a street to park on. What if everything that you decided to put off until tomorrow never happened? There would be no reason to save for a rainy day, and you could spare someone the trouble of making promises. What if your last opportunity seemingly expired today? What would you do?
Throughout my life, the answers and solutions I’ve needed to survive haven’t always come from those who I would expect them to. Often times I didn’t have what a young and impressionable male needed to grow and maneuver, and because of this, I failed and made many mistakes. Yet, I thank God for grace and for placing help along my way, to ensure that what He has planned and purposed shall be done.
I’ve been told that I often seem like I do too much. Honestly, I feel like I am not doing enough and I’m a firm believer in knowing that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t handle. I sometimes wonder how life would be if I chose to sit idle and accept what it presented to me. I have found that to be very boring. In my opinion, opportunity is a blessing that isn’t afforded to everyone. A challenge to me is an adventure. What is the worst that can happen? If I do nothing, I fail, and if I try I don’t, but instead learn something new about myself. Relinquish your pride and in return acquire life.
I recently celebrated a birthday. It was cool. I didn’t make a lot of noise, but instead, I enjoyed the blessing of being alive. It was also around this time that the Olympic games were taking place in Paris. As Simeon Biles captivated the world with yet another remarkable performance, my interest was consumed by what American Runner Sha’Carri Richardson accomplished. As many may recall, a few years ago, Sha’Carri made headlines for her mistakes off the track. As I watched the Olympic games, I celebrated her victory, but I also celebrated her determination and her perseverance. Sha’Carri has proven to her naysayers and critics that she can block out distractions and lock in what is most important.
Watching Sha’Carri fueled my fire in some ways. It also reminded me to appreciate the opportunities that God gives us to correct a mistake. As I always say, “no one is perfect, except God’ and life throws a few curve balls here and there, we must stand firm and erect at the plate, always ready to swing for the fences. The greatest opportunity to exhibit our strength happens on our way back up.
The best advice ever given to me happened when someone told me to make my tomorrow happen today. In doing so I have pressed my way through doors with a key that only hope provided. I have also learned the difference between what God blesses me with and what life can burden me with as well. I compare it to knowing when to be confident and when to be quiet, because someone may get it confused with being arrogant.
Make you tomorrow happen today, but most importantly make it count. Life is but a whisper and we must put ourselves in a position to hear what it is telling us.
I want to encourage everyone to keep moving and believing that our greatest days are still yet to happen. God has given all of His children purpose, and has also provided provisions to see them occur. As we continue along our journey’s, let’s do it with a heart of faith and assurance, because you never know who is watching. We must allow our actions offer hope to others.
Terry L. Watson Editor/Founder
Terry L. Watson
Innovative Partnerships for Schools
Paul Quinn College
Dallas, TX
A Staple in Their Community
The Willie B. Johnson Center
Caring For My Mother
Becoming A Caregiver
SoWright Theater Company
Sabrina Wright
Dr. James M. Griffin is the Chief of Parkland Anesthesia Services. Learn more about him. Dallas, TX
He is Huami Magazine’s Cutest Baby. Introducing one cute kid. His name is Jaylen Hardy.
Top 100 Nurses
Lanisha Hunter
ToBeReal
Melissa Williams
Group Against Crime Alvin Brooks
Paschal Construction Chuck Hildreth
Crowley ISD and Paul Quinn College Announce New Innovation Partnership for Middle School Students
Crowley ISD and Paul Quinn College announced a groundbreaking Texas Innovation Partnership aimed at advancing educational excellence and improving student outcomes across all four Crowley ISD middle schools.
Texas Innovation Partnerships, established by Senate Bill 1882, give school districts like Crowley ISD the opportunity to collaborate with institutions of higher education to create tailored educational solutions that meet community needs and equip students for future college, career and military success.
The 2024-2025 school year will serve as a dedicated planning year for this partnership as Crowley ISD and Paul Quinn College collaborate closely to design and implement innovative educational strategies for Crowley ISD middle school students. The planning year will include a series of community meetings and workshops to gather feedback and ideas, ensuring that the partnership reflects the needs and aspirations of this community. Detailed information about these events will be shared in the coming months.
Dr. Michael McFarland, Superintendent of Crowley ISD, said this transformative partnership with Paul Quinn College is possible because of the visionary Crowley ISD Board of Trustees and its commitment to excellence while making Crowley ISD the top in Tarrant County.
“We’ve seen the power of collaboration many times before in Crowley ISD,” Dr. McFarland said. “But this new partnership between two institutions with proven track records of innovation and success will make what before has been only possible actually tangible for our students. With Paul Quinn in Crowley ISD, our students will graduate from high school with more than just a diploma. They will leave with choice and opportunities to thrive.”
Texas Innovation Partnerships allow public school districts to identify a need, choose the right partner to address it and enter into a multi-year agreement. The district retains control, setting success criteria and holding the partner accountable for academic, financial and operational outcomes that align with community priorities.
Dr. Michael J. Sorrell, President of Paul Quinn College, said his team is thrilled to collaborate with Crowley ISD: “Our goal is to provide students with the training, resources and experiences needed to create the life they desire to live for themselves and their families. Together, we can create change agents, equipped to solve complex problems, who will serve and lead effectively and impactfully in our community.”
Once the 2024-2025 planning year is complete, Paul Quinn College will continue collaborating with Crowley ISD as part of a fiveyear contract to manage day-to-day operations at the district’s four middle schools: H.F. Stevens Middle School, Crowley Middle School, Summer Creek Middle School and Richard J. Allie Middle School.
James Griffin, M.D. Willie B. Johnson
Parkland
Anesthesia Recreation Center
Information obtained from online source
James D. Griffin, MD, is Chief of Parkland Anesthesia Services. Dr. Griffin is also Vice Chairman of UTSW Department of Anesthesiology for Parkland Hospital Affairs.
Dr. Griffin had been on the faculty at UT Southwestern in the Department of Anesthesiology and Pain Management since 1990. Education has been the hallmark of his academic career, providing leadership as Director of Medical Student and Resident education for two decades. The UTSW Department of Anesthesiology has applauded the education contribution of Dr. Griffin by naming the annual faculty medical student awarded in his honor. He has research and academic interests in non-opioid analgesics, airway management, neuropathic pain syndromes and healthcare disparities. Dr. Griffin also served as Chief of Anesthesiology Services at Zale Lipshy University Hospital.
He has been elected to two exclusion medical societies: the National Medical Honor Society - Alpha Omega Alpha and the UT Southwestern Academy of Teachers.
Dr. Griffin graduated from the University of Texas at Austin. He obtained his MD degree from UT Southwestern where he was the Fred Florence Scholar. He completed four years of anesthesiology residency with subspecialty track training in Anesthesia for Neurological Surgery.
Information obtained from online source
One of the most active community leaders in the Hamilton Park community was a woman named Willie B. Johnson. Mrs. Willie B. Johnson and her family moved to the Hamilton Park community in 1956. Mrs. Johnson worked diligently to improve the sports and recreation programs for the youth in this community. In 1983 this recreation center was constructed and named after a woman dedicated to her community. This facility is located in North Dallas just south of I635 and East of Central off Forest Lane.
In 2022 the neighborhood recreation center was renovated from a small 6,400 square foot facility that had 2 small program rooms and an outdoor gymnasium to a 28,400 square foot state of the art facility. The expansion includes a technology center, senior center, and indoor gymnasium and upgrades to the existing fitness center, kitchen and program rooms. h
Latorra Garland
Kristen Boisrond
Dr. Katie Chadwick
Kenisha Henderson
Keisha Sanchez
Chavonn Johnson
Sha Metcalf
Terri Alford
Pastor Tammy Dozier
HEALTHY CONNECTIONS WELLNESS EXPO 2024
By Terry L. Watson
The month of September is Childhood Cancer awareness month and Jacob Way Organization, led by Latorra Garland, held their Healthy Connections Wellness Expo 2024, a Childhood Cancer Awareness & Community Outreach Event designed to inspire, support, and help individuals thrive. The event took place on September 21st in Dallas, TX, and featured a diverse range of activities and resources aimed at promoting wellness and building a strong, connected community.
There was a Blood Drive held that was intended to support the shortage of blood products and those that need it most during a medical crisis. Their Wellness Program was designed to engage in activities that promote physical, financial, mental, and emotional well-being. Their Fitness Demo allowed participants to join in a dynamic demonstration of fitness and self-defense techniques.
There was also kids activities for children, as well as live music and food. The event also inlcuded various vendors that offered health and wellness products. While focusing on community, the event provided local resources that supported health and well-being. There was also a networkig component, raffles, and giveaways. Networking: Connect with like-minded individuals and organizations.
Latorra is very appreciative of the support of everyone who helped to make the expo successful. She says, “I would like to thank everyone who attended and supported the Healthy Connections Wellness Expo. Your presence and enthusiasm made a significant difference. A special thank you to our incredible presenters who shared their knowledge and passion in the areas of Financial Education, Grief Support, Fitness and Mental Health Wellness. A special thank you to my family, who has supported me on this journey with Jacob Way since the day it was created. This event helped us raise awareness about childhood cancer and the critical need for blood donations in our community.”
The expo sponsors include BlueCross BlueShield of Texas, Carter BloodCare, Epic Waters Indoor Waterpark, Raising Cane’s, Dallas Wings, 4imprint, Chicken N Pickle Grapevine, Frisco RoughRiders, and the Texas Rangers.
Photos Provided by Latorra Garland
Latorra Garland
Currently residing in Dallas, TX, Latorra is a wife and mother of two beautiful children. Latorra was raised in Memphis, TN, and is the oldest of seven children and a leader by nature. “I love all things Southern Cooking and Old-Fashioned Desserts. My love led to me publishing my first Dessert Cookbook, “Mama’s Banana Pudding’, she shares. Latorra has a degree in Health Care Administration and has worked in the healthcare field for over 20 years. As the Co-Founder and Executive Director of Jacob Way Organization, she remains dedicated to making a positive impact in her community and for families of children battling Cancer. “Whether it’s through healthcare initiatives, family support, or other philanthropic endeavors, I am dedicated to making a difference in the community and inspiring others to follow their purpose.”
Understandably, Latorra is mostly inspired by her son, Jacob. She shares, “He was a fighter and a believer. He was the strongest person I knew. Because of his fight with Cancer, I know that I can do anything with God’s help. God does not leave your side through trying times. Losing my son really took a lot from me, and there are some bad days, but I know God has never left my side, and He’s always with me. Grief and loss are hard to deal with, especially when it’s your child. I am still here because of God’s promise to me, and I am forever grateful for that. I just want to do whatever God’s purpose is for my life and be reunited with my son in heaven. My purpose is to be a helping hand to those families that are battling Childhood Cancer and leave a legacy in honor of Jacob. I must stay focused on God because I know He will help me get through anything.”
Keisha Sanchez is a true luminary in the Arlington business scene, known for her roles as a Networking Facilitator, CEO of Eye Am Radio, and the visionary behind Arlington Merch n Mix. Her remarkable journey includes being an Urban Specialist Collaborative Community Changemaker, dedicated NAACP member, Founding member of DivaDance Arlington, multi-community award winning recipient –embodying an exceptional and vibrant spirit.
Over the last three years, Keisha has dedicated herself to empowering local business owners and creatives through international media interviews and curating the dynamic Arlington Merch n Mix. Her philosophy centers around connecting individuals with people, ideas, and opportunities, showcasing her unwavering commitment to building bridges.
Hailing from Michigan and a devoted mother and grandmother of four beautiful girls, Keisha’s passion for studying religion, philosophy, and naturopathic methods of healing adds profound depth to her multifaceted persona.
Terri founded TNA Financial Group ™ - a financial services company specializing in helping business owners develop, grow, and protect their retirement. The company serves clients in over 22 states. As a highly sought after consultant and coach, Terri is committed to build, grow, and protect her clients’ wealth from financial infirmities and inflation changes. She educates with proven strategies and financial principles to provide solutions to her clients. She personally has over 300 clients to date- most are business owners and entrepreneurs.
Before transitioning into full-time entrepreneurship, Terri served as a STEM Academy principal and instructional coach. She has a Masters degree in education with a concentration in STEM and a Small Business Institute Certificate in Entrepreneurship from Southern Methodist University. Terri graduated from Christian Brothers University with her undergraduate degree in Finance.
In 2023 Terri created a community called Business Women Building Wealth ™ to educate, empower, and equip business women on their wealth building journey. She is an transformative speaker, dynamic leader, energetic event host, and affectionately known as The Women’s Wealth Strategist.
Chavonn Johnson, is the owner of Our Serene Minds LLC. “I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor Intern and Certified Case Manager. I received my Master of Social Work from the University of Texas at Arlington. I hold a Bachelor of Science degree in Criminal Justice from the University of North Texas in Denton. I have more than 10 years of experience working with children and adults,” she says.
Her concentration is working with adolescents and adults experiencing depression and anxiety. Therapy will be comprehensive and individualized using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy and Skills Therapy.
“I strive to provide an environment of compassion and support to help individuals and families overcome obstacles to move forward and thrive. I am excited to have the opportunity to collaborate with clients in accomplishing their therapeutic goals.”
Terri Alford
Chavonn Johnson
Keisha Sanchez
Kenisha Henderson, a Chicago native, is an Ambassador for Whole Health. She holds an undergraduate degree in Social Welfare & Justice and Criminology & Law Studies from Marquette University. After graduating from the SOMA Institute for Clinical Massage Therapy, she became a licensed clinical massage therapist. She has extensive experience in medical and sports massage, working with at-risk communities, schools, assisted living communities, and social services.
Kenisha furthered her education at Aurora University, earning a master’s degree in social work and obtaining Clinical Social Work licensure. Studying abroad in South Africa during her undergraduate years deeply influenced her career path and clinical practice philosophy, embracing the Ubuntu philosophy: “I am who I am because of who we all are.”
She is currently in private practice, providing counseling and massage therapy at Anna’s Coco Wellness Spa, Murphy’s True Haven Therapy, and Princeton’s Princeton Health Collective. She also works with the senior community, offering therapy at an assisted living home through IHEARU, which provides mental health services for the senior population.
Kenisha’s previous work includes roles at Jesse Brown Veteran Affairs Medical Center, nursing home case management, and case management for children with disabilities at Aetna Better Health. Her massage therapy experience spans personal injury clients, chiropractic offices, NFL combine players, wellness events, post-surgery care, infants, and aromatherapy.
I am Kristen Boisrond. I was born and raised in Texas. I absolutely love traveling and trying new restaurants, I love trying almost every cuisine. I also enjoy great music; gospel, jazz, and R & B are my favorites. When I have quiet moments, I enjoy binge watching movies. I spent most evenings and weekends watching my sons play sports or attending my church on Sundays.
After being an at home mom for over 12 years, I began to work at Texas Presbyterian Hospital Denton, TX in August of 2016. Initially, I was a PRN Care Transition Manger; however, I quickly fell in love with medical case management and decided to purse my MSW, after being in this position for only nine months. With the help of great leadership, I received my MSW in only three semesters. Considering, that I was a graduate of Prairie View A & M University and held a Bachelor of Social Work and a Master of Counseling and Leadership Education; I was able to enter the program with advanced standing.
While working towards my MSW, I completed an internship at Texas Presbyterian of Plano, shadowing wonderful social workers and team leaders, I gained experience in the ICU, NICU, and orthopedic departments. Prior to working for THR, I was a medical social worker with Harris County Hospital District-Community Health Choice, Health Maintenance Organization. Following, I worked as a patient advocate with an Employee Assistance Program. However, after having my oldest son, Noah I decided to focus on family. While home opened a case management company, KB Consulting & Family Services and provided case management for families, pregnant women, and children. I also contracted with varies family and health care agencies to interview and approve families seeking adoption. As well as provide home assessments for home health and hospice. I begin my social work career ay Texas Protective Family and Adult Services (TDFPS). Initially, I was an investigator and later transition to conservatorship, where I worked closely with teens to prepare them for adult living.
The last and longest position I had with TDFPS was a FAD worker, in which I oriented new employees and families wanting to adopt and/or provide foster care as a PRIDE instructor. I have worked in many areas of social work, and I am also a certified dispute resolution specialist. However, I absolutely love my current position, as a CTM, at Presbyterian Hospital of Dallas, where I work on an oncology unit. I love the challenges, learning opportunities, and growth, it creates when working with directly patients who have medical complexities, and mental health needs.
Kenisha Henderson
Kristen Boisrond
Dr. Katie Chadwick is a Licensed Psychologist and Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor. She earned her Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Texas A&M University and her Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from Texas Woman’s University. She completed her Doctor of Philosophy in Counseling Psychology from the University of Oklahoma in 2014. Throughout her graduate training, Dr. Chadwick’s clinical training focused on a specialization in treating individuals of all ages with traumatic life experiences.
Dr. Chadwick has extensive experience and training in crisis intervention, as well as treating a variety of disorders including eating disorders, mood disorders, dissociative disorders, substance use disorders, trauma, and complex co-morbid disorders. She is most passionate about tailoring treatment to the specific needs of her clients, treating the whole person and complex presentations of symptoms, and empowering clients to achieve their goals.
Dr. Chadwick currently serves as the Regional Director for Center for Discovery in the Central Region, overseeing both residential and outpatient facilities. She also teaches as an adjunct professor at Southern Methodist University in the Addictive Disorders track of the Master of Science in Counseling program.
Dr. Chadwick’s mission is to cultivate safe and empowering treatment environments for clients and their families, by supporting and training treatment teams founded on hope, authenticity, and integrity who will walk with you on your journey to recovery.
Shurretta Metcalf is the IBF Inter-continental Bantamweight Champion. She has been boxing for 11 years and will be fighting for the World Title soon. She has been a boxing instructor for eight years and has really enjoyed it. Shuretta has two boys whom she loves very much, with one being autistic.
“Having the platform that I have I wanted to use it positively and decided to start a non profit. My organizatin helps young girls and battered women with self defense and resources that assist them with getting on their feet,” she says.
Shuretta is very happy to be part of this event.
Pastor Tammy Dozier, of Texas, is a native of Kansas City, MO. She is an ordained pastor and the founder of both Minding My Own Grief, LLC, and Created for Destiny Ministries. Renowned for her exegetical and transparent approach to ministry, Pastor Tammy is a highly sought-after preacher, public speaker, facilitator of “Table Talk with Tammy,” and monologue presenter.
She is the author of the critically acclaimed four-part series “Death of a Bag Lady,” which chronicles her personal journey through overcoming grief, childhood molestation, addictions, and failed marriages. Her work underscores her faith in the transformative power of God, encapsulated in her motto, “He’s a do-over God.”
Pastor Tammy holds certifications as a Grief Educator, trained by Dave Kessler of Grief. com, and as a Belief Therapist from the Therapon Institute. She is also an alumnus of the Southern Bible Institute in Dallas, TX. Currently, she serves as an Associate Pastor at Koinonia Christian Church in Arlington, TX, under the leadership of Dr. Ronnie Goines. Her previous leadership roles include women’s director, ministry team leader, and core leadership team member.
She is happily married to retired Sgt. First Class Matthew Dozier, and together they cherish their family, including their children and grandchildren. Her overarching goal in ministry is to play a significant role in God’s expansive plan for His people.
Dr. Katie Chadwick
Shuretta Metcalf
Pastor Tammy Dozier
Alvin Brooks AdHoc Group Against Crime
By Terry L. Watson
Provided by Alvin Brooks
At 92 years of age, Alvin Lee Brooks continues to be very active in his community. A native of North Little Rock, AR, Alvin moved to Kansas City at a young age. He attended Lincoln High School and graduated from the junior college on campus. In 1954, after not being able to join the United States Air Force, he joined the Kansas City Police Department. He served in various roles, including as a Detective with the Gang Unit. After leaving the department, Alvin went to work for the school district in Kansas City.
Alvin Brooks is a distinguished figure whose career has left an indelible mark on Kansas City’s political, civic, and business landscapes. Elected as the Sixth DistrictAt-Large Councilman in 1999 and re-elected in 2003, Brooks quickly rose to prominence, serving as Mayor Pro Tem under Mayor Kay Barnes. His leadership extended to chairing several city council committees.
Alvin’s influence in these roles has helped shape the policies and safety of Kansas City, ensuring a legacy of community-focused governance. Beyond his political achievements, Alvin’s dedication to social justice and community activism is unparalleled. In 1968, shortly after the city’s riot, Brooks was appointed the first Black Director in Kansas City Government and established the Human Relations Department. In 1977, he founded the AdHoc Group Against Crime, a grassroots organization that has since become a cornerstone of Kansas City’s efforts to combat violence and crime.
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I have spent so much time with my community that I was adopted as the “Community’s Father, Grandfather and GreatGrandfather”.
In 1977, after the death of ten women in Kansas, the community believed there was a serial killer amongst them. Along with Sergeant Alvin Lomax, Alvin and others studied those cases very strategically and carefully, and determined that there was no evidence of a serial killer, but instead, the deaths were happening at the hands of “Johns”, drug dealers, and pimps. The one common denominator that all of the female victims had in common was that they were drug users and prostitutes.
Under his leadership, AdHoc has empowered citizens, fostered police-community relations, and served as a model for civic engagement across the nation. Alvin’s work with AdHoc was brought to the attention of President George H. W. Bush, and appointed Brooks to a three-year term on the National Drug Advisory Council. In 1990, President George H. W. Bush came to Kansas City to meet with Brooks and see the work of AdHoc. Bush named Brooks one of America’s “Thousand Points of Light,” highlighting his relentless fight against crime and drugs.
Brooks’ educational background is as impressive as his career, with degrees in History, Government, and Sociology from the University of Missouri—Kansas City. His commitment to education is further evidenced by his role as a reserve teacher and visiting instructor at several local colleges. His professional journey is equally notable, spanning roles from police officer and detective to Assistant City Manager of Kansas City, Missouri. Brooks’ deep understanding of the community’s needs and his strategic vision have made him a sought-after consultant for business leaders and government agencies alike, particularly in matters of diversity, civil rights, and community relations.
Alvin’s influence extends to numerous boards and committees, where his leadership has driven initiatives in education, civil rights, and public health. His accolades include honorary doctorates from multiple institutions, recognition from national civil rights organizations, and prestigious awards. Among those are the Board of Governors, Avila University, Board of Directors, Midwest Center for Holocaust Education, and Charter Member. Community Anti-Drug Coalition of America (CADCA), Board of Visitors, Park University, Advisory Committee, Missouri Supreme Court, Board of Regents, CMSU, Board Member, Prime Health Foundation, KCMO, Board of Police
Commissioners, (President 2 years), Board of Directors, Hickmills Schools Board Mills C1 School District (currently) Rockhurst University recently honored Brooks by establishing the Alvin Brooks Center for Faith-Justice, a testament to his lifelong dedication to social justice and equity. This Center will serve as a hub for faith-based initiatives and diversity programs, further cementing Brooks’ legacy in the community. The Center is expected to be open Spring 2025.
Alvin Brooks’ life and work are also the subject of a film by Academy Award-winning filmmaker Kevin Willmott. This documentary, alongside Brooks’ memoir “Binding Us Together,” chronicles the struggles and triumphs of a man who has shaped not only Kansas City but also offers lessons for the nation on community building and social justice. The film premiered on Juneteenth Day 2024.
Married at a young age, Alvin and his wife, Carol, had six children together. His wife passed away in 2013 after 63 years of marriage. When asked if there is anything that he would change about the way things have happened in his life, Alvin says that he would have spent more time with his wife and family. “I have spent so much time with my community that I was adopted as the “Community’s Father, Grandfather and GreatGrandfather”. My wife told me to take care of the community and she will raise the kids. With the AdHoc, I was called on day and night to speak with the families of homicide victims. We were a liaison between the police, the FBI, ATF, and the courts. In 1993, we had 153 homicides in our city, and I spoke at 43 funerals for young black men,” he says.
Today, Brooks spends time promoting his autobiography, Binding Us Together. Published in 2021, Alvin’s book was a best seller in Kansas City for a number of weeks. With all of the decades of service to his community, it is only fitting that Alvin is given the opportunity to relax and enjoy the fruits of his labor. Kansas City is a better place because of Alvin Brooks, and even more, the world is as well.
ToBeReal
By Terry L. Watson
Photos Provided by Melissa Williams
Melissa Williams of Greenville, SC, describes herself as a woman who is deeply committed to living authentically and helping others do the same. Her journey has been shaped by an insatiable need to break away from the constraints and limitations society has imposed on her as a Black woman and a mother. She shares her experiences, both personal and professional, that have guided her toward creating a life and career that aligns with her true self.
ToBeReal. This is the brand that Melissa has produced. She says, “I delineate it as a brand because it is a lifestyle, not limited to a product or service. At its core, it is an ideological stance and a resistance to assimilation. We are also a community created with the intention to empower others to live from a place of authenticity and self-awareness.”
ToBeReal offers free wellness resources via its website. Melissa also conducts workshops in casual or corporate settings designed to help individuals connect with their authentic core. She also focuses on creating an environment where people can explore who they truly are and take actionable steps toward living in alignment with their values. Melissa has also published a book, How to Thrive in Winter, and it is available on Amazon.
“There’s something incredibly powerful about helping someone peel back the layers and connect with their authentic core.”
“Parenting my son has pushed me to reparent the child in myself and give her permission to be who she is.”
Co-authored with Lauren E. Smith, How To Thrive in Winter is a workbook designed to help individuals understand and manage the effects of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and other forms of depression. The workbook aims to provide readers with tools and strategies to identify and understand how authenticity is connected to wellness. It includes exercises and prompts to reflect on habits, feelings, and goals, offering practical tips for positive change. The book encourages the readers to have an open mind and a willingness to grow, emphasizing that wellness is rooted in truth, joy, gratitude, and creativity. It outlines various strategies to enhance mental wellness, focusing on boosting the “happy chemicals” (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins).
In the book, Melissa shares her personal journey of dealing with depression and the realization that “winter” can metaphorically represent challenging periods in life. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and accepting oneself as a powerful tool in overcoming mental and emotional challenges. The workbook encourages readers to trust their journey and process the information in ways that suit them best.
More than anything, Melissa shares that she loves witnessing the moment when people connect with themselves. “There’s something incredibly powerful about helping someone peel back the layers and connect with their authentic core. When I see participants embrace their truth and take off their masks, I know they will overcome identity challenges and create lives that truly reflect who they are,” she says.
ToBeReal began as a book club under the name Melevation517. Melissa, that was a ridiculous name. She adds that the Covid pandemic made mundane thoughts seem so grand. Her vision gravitated to being a podcast, which only had five episodes, mainly due to Melissa being too busy to commit to consistently recording. She would eventually arrive at the place where ToBeReal was established as her brand. “It’s who I am, and even if I don’t produce something every day or every week, I don’t feel the pressure to perform,” she says. “ I focus more on staying grounded in my ideologies and seeking support when needed. Whether it’s through mentorship, continuous learning, or simply taking time for self-reflection, I’ve found that staying connected to my “why” helps me navigate the ups and downs.”
Melissa says that being a mother has had the biggest impact on her life. She adds that motherhood has been the best mirror, and it has helped her understand who she is and what she needs. “Parenting my son has pushed me to re-parent the child in myself and give her permission to be who she is,” she says.
Building her brand has come with a few challenges. However, Melissa appreciates how things have happened. She says, “There isn’t much I would change about how my journey has played out. Every challenge and misstep has taught me something valuable and has ultimately led me to where I am today. If I could offer one piece of advice to my former self, it would be to trust the process more and not be afraid of taking risks or failing.”
Melissa says that it’s easy to get caught up in what others think you should do, but the most fulfilling path is the one that resonates with your true self. She says, “Don’t be afraid to ask for help and always be open to learning. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and challenge you to be your highest self, but most importantly, who listen to you.”
Melissa says ToBeReal’s future will be focused on expanding its reach and deepening its impact. She says, “I’m excited and proud of my book, How to Thrive in Winter. It will be the blueprint for future offerings. I also plan to host an annual retreat starting next year. On a personal level, I’m excited to continue growing alongside the brand, exploring new ways to connect with my community, and staying committed to the mission of helping others live authentically.”
SoWright Theater Company
By Terry L. Watson
The SoWright Theater Company (SWT) is a nonprofit organization, and SoWright Productions, LLC (SWP) operates for-profit. SWT is designed to provide performing arts education to inner-city youth and adults, promoting social awareness through accessible creative arts programs, workshops, and performances that inspire, educate, and entertain. Their vision aims to revolutionize the arts community by empowering local artists, breaking down barriers faced by innercity youth, and elevating the general level of culture through thought-provoking art in diverse forms. That is done while focusing on Arts Education, Community Engagement, and Accessibility of Theater.
With their Art Education component for SWT, Sabrina and her team create customized workshops, classes, and after-school curriculums that target schools, community centers, organizations, and underserved populations. With their Traveling Theater Company, they produce and tour one-act plays that can be performed in various venues, including schools, community centers, and festivals. These can be tailored for educational purposes, possibly focused on themes relevant to the audiences. With their Outreach Programs, they engage their community through special events, partnerships, and free performances to enhance access to the arts. They also collaborate with local authors and artists to adapt their work into stage plays (one-act productions) through their SWT Community Artist Showcase Program.
SWP Productions, LLC. is committed to producing high-quality theater and film that captivate and engage audiences. Sabrina says they aim to promote awareness of significant community issues through original stage plays, film adaptations, and partnerships with local artists. “We are restoring faith in theater and film, one production at a time. We also strive to create meaningful experiences that inspire conversations.”
“With my parents unable to afford expensive programs, I became resourceful, seizing every chance to express my creativity through school productions, art competitions, and debates; each experience was a vital stepping stone that deepened my passion for the arts.”
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Sabrina is a multifaceted individual who wears many hats. She is a dedicated mother, daughter, sister, and aunt, alongside her professional roles as a supervisor and realtor. Besides being the founder of SWT and SWP, Sabrina is also a passionate playwright and director. However, at her core, she is an artist and more. “I see myself as a conduit for emerging artists, creating a safe, professional space where they can nurture their talents and discover their unique voices,” she says.
My vision for SoWright began during a brainstorming session at Exalters of Christ Ministries, where we were exploring ways to enhance the impact of our women’s conference. In a spontaneous moment, I raised my hand and offered to write a skit despite my lack of experience. This pivotal moment opened my eyes to the immense power of using creative expression to address real issues within the church. The journey has evolved from church productions to community stage plays, and now the creation of a traveling theater company dedicated to bringing meaningful storytelling to diverse audiences. Sabrina’s journey into the arts began like many inner-city youth, as she only had access to creative opportunities through elementary and high school programs. She says, “With my parents unable to afford expensive programs, I became resourceful, seizing every chance to express my creativity through school productions, art competitions, and debates; each experience was a vital stepping stone that deepened my passion for the arts. This love for storytelling ultimately led to the founding of SoWright Productions, LLC., which happened in early 2009, along with a group of visionary creatives. We dedicated ourselves to organizing successful events that celebrated the art of storytelling. In 2023, we took a bold step forward by restructuring into SoWright Theater Company, a nonprofit focused solely on live theater, while our original LLC pivoted to concentrate on film production and adaptation. This evolution not only reflects our commitment to the community but also allows each branch of SoWright to thrive in its specific artistic domain, all while remaining united under the SoWright brand.”
While Sabrina wasn’t able to recognize everyone for their support, she says their impact has been invaluable from the very beginning. In addition to Sabrina serving as President, she leans on the assistance of her Board of Directors, which includes Kristle Wiley-Collins, who serves as Vice President; Andrea Smith, Secretary; Deverylyn Davis, Treasurer, and Directors; Ameria Jones, Beverly Simes, and Anthony Hampton. Other members who help make things happen at SWT are Jocelyn Houff, Erica Carey, Jaleah Davis, Sandra Carroll, Aun Robinson, and Larry Jenkins, Jr.
With SWP, Sabrina and her team produce Full Two-Act Stage Plays. She says, “We produce main-stage performances that are ticketed and intended for wider audiences. These can include original stage plays and original productions written and produced by me. With our film productions, we create film adaptations or original films based on stage plays or new content.” She adds that there are plans for a streaming app, Wright4YouOnline Training Programs, a Wright to Evolve Academy, and Act Wright.
While Sabrina’s goal is to produce products and services for anyone who seeks her, SWT’s typical clients are Churches, Conferences, Organizations, Businesses, Theaters, K-12 Schools, Colleges and universities, Summer Camps, After-School Programs, Events, and Festivals.
Sabrina shares that there isn’t much she would change about her experience as a business owner. She says that she has come to understand that the entrepreneurial journey is inherently unpredictable, filled with both victories and setbacks that impart valuable lessons. “Each phase presents unique challenges and insights, emphasizing that growth and success often defy our preconceived notions. Embracing the journey itself, rather than fixating solely on outcomes, has taught me to appreciate the process, trusting that what I truly need will manifest in its own time.”
What does the future look like for SWT? Sabrina says she is excited to expand their creative reach into film with SoWright Productions, LLC. “Our guiding principle encapsulates our purpose: to ignite conversations that continue long after the curtain falls and to delve deeper than just the lines.” h
Learn More About My Experience of Being A Caregiver For My Mother
By Terry L. Watson
CHAPTER SIX: Caring and Love Go Hand in Hand
As a young boy growing up with my other siblings, I watched my mother wear so many hats. Now, as a full-grown man, I am even more amazed at how she did so much with it only being her. My mother was everything to a whole lot of people, and by being so, I watched how it wore her down. Still, she never spoke about how tired she was. She just kept pushing and moving, and pushing, and moving.
What I learned more than anything from watching my mother was that she had a heart the size of Jupiter, and she shared her love with anyone. It was like she never met a stranger. It didn’t matter if it was a neighbor at church, a stranger in the grocery store, or a co-worker. My mother always seemed to attract new friends and treat them all the same: with love, compassion, and empathy.
I’ve always wondered why Mama was so loving and giving. I didn’t get my answer until I was a lot older. One of her neighbors who had known her as a young girl told me that my mother reflects the upbringing that her grandmother gave her. My mother was raised by her, and when I heard this, it made perfect sense. My grandmother was so classy and so loving. She was the sweetest person I knew, next to my mother, of course. My mother’s neighbor also shared that as a young girl, my mother was taught how to care for others. My mother was a caregiver, but not just for the sick and ill; she cared for everyone.
Fast-forward to today, I think it makes perfectly good sense for me to care for her. Out of all of the traits and qualities I reflect on my mother, it’s my ability to care and love for her that I am able to connect with. In order to effectively care for her, I must love her. I also believe those two traits go hand in hand; they must be present in all capacities when attempting to meet the needs of others with dependencies such as hers.
During a trip to a rehabilitation session for my mother, I observed how healthcare professionals interacted with other patients. As my mother received physical and occupational rehabilitation, there were others present who also had suffered from similar ailments as her: stroke, brain injuries, motor vehicle accidents, and more. Their degree of disability varied, but what they all had in common was a need for the assistance of others. I witnessed how the therapists managed each individual. It was obvious that the goal was to improve their client’s quality of life and lessen their dependence on assistance, but getting to that place required some work.
I learned that it required a genuine love for people. I believe that the therapist must have really loved their work and, most importantly, loved and cared about their clients. I also felt as if I was in a familiar or sort of friendly and accommodating environment. Possibly because I embody those same qualities and depend on them daily while caring for my mother.
As I continue to care for my mother, I am at peace knowing that not everyone is equipped to be a caregiver. It is not for everyone. It doesn’t mean that I am better or greater than anyone; it only means that I have decided to allow my heart to lead me. I am so grateful for the opportunity to show my mother how much she is appreciated and that all of her hard work didn’t go unnoticed. She deserves to be loved each and every day. h
I decided to share my experience as a full-time caregiver for my mother to consult, console, and inform other families who may be going through a similar situation. As a son, caring for my mother never feels like work; if so, it is a labor of love. Please continue to follow this message, Becoming A Caregiver, in Huami Magazine.
I hope that sharing my experience will help others. From one caregiver to the next, God Bless You!
“The Evolution of A Family Business”
Paschal Construction & Project Management Charlton Hildreth
By Terry L. Watson
Chuck Hildreth is a man on a mission. The Memphis, TN, resident keeps his family and his brand the focal point of his life. In regard to family, Chuck has three amazing kids, Drew, Tayler, and Sydney, all of whom embody his passion for entrepreneurial success.
Chuck owns several businesses, with Paschal Construction & Project Management being at the forefront and laying a foundation that makes the others possible. He also owns Paschal Hildreth Entertainment and has published a series of books under the Daddy Books Bundle compilation.
Chuck began working as a Disc Jockey in the 70’s. He was only a teen. He would eventually get into concerts and clubs along the way. Currently, with Paschal Hildreth Entertainment, they have a one hour television special in the works.
Daddy Books, which is Chuck’s favorite, is a collection of stories about times spent with his kids while they were growing up. “Chuck says, “The unique thing is once you read the book, you begin to see yourself in the dad character. Even moms find joy and comparisons in these stories. That is on purpose because there are strong mother figures throughout the stories portrayed through Mom and Grandma.”
Paschal Construction was birthed in 1960 by Chuck’s late uncle, John Paschal. “I was blessed to have worked under him as a teenager and gained vast experience during that tutelage. Paschal Construction has come a long way from building and remodeling houses to now maintaining commercial sites such as Wendy’s and other large chains,” he says.
Just like his uncle, Chuck has been able to bring his family with him. “I have resurrected the company and rebranded it. Now it will be up to my children to take this to the next level,” Chuck says. Paschal Construction is a full-service construction company that began with home remodeling and repairs. The company built its reputation on giving older homes a fresh new look. Eventually, the company grew from the residential sector to servicing commercial clients. One major client was Fitzgerald Casino. Chuck says that opportunity really opened some huge doors for Paschal Construction.
Another commercial client, Wendy’s Restaurants helped to change the way Chuck’s company operated. “We went from just painting homes to laying commercial roofs, as well as plumbing, electrical, and HVAC.,” he says. Now, the company has also included Project Management into their portfolio.
Photos Provided by Chuck Hildreth
Chuck grew up in the small town of Hot Springs, Arkansas. His roots can be traced to a neighborhood of educators or entrepreneurs. That blend provided him with a unique perspective on the future. “I learned to combine my education with my entrepreneurial spirit. My mother was a teacher, my aunts were teachers, and my uncle was a teacher and business owner. So after high school, college, and the military, I came back to the family business,” he says. “I was introduced to entrepreneurship as an early teen. This goes all the way back to when my mom purchased a lawn mower to cut our Grass. I took the mower and a neighbor and began cutting our neighbor’s yards. That was my first business, and having my own money felt good. After that experience, my uncle began taking me with him, though I wanted to be out playing with the boys instead. Looking back, I can see how I developed this strong work ethic and ability to manage my time well. People wonder how I keep up this hectic schedule, but they do not realize that I was trained to do it. I have been running and running from my youth to now!”
Chuck credits his mother for instilling drive and vision into him. He says, “My mother was a single mom, and she somehow never allowed me to think, feel, or realize that a single mother was raising me. She surrounded me with strong male mentors in my community and family. When I was young, I saw her standing out in her community and the school system. She was a teacher that her students and their parents always acknowledged. Additionally, she was one of our city’s first groups of integrated teachers. This also allowed me to not be struck with the stigma of racism. I was very comfortable around Blacks and Whites. My mother had some entrepreneurial endeavors and supported my own as a youth. She also pushed me out in the community, and by doing so, it helped to develop strong confidence within myself.”
Understandably, Chuck also acknowledges his wife for having a huge impact on his life. He says that most married men have to acknowledge that when you are out there fighting your fight in the world, there is a wife in the home supporting you. “I could not have done the things I did, the way I did, without the support of a strong woman at home!”
When asked what he loves most about what he does, Chuck says it is the opportunities he has to make his customers happy. “All of my businesses have a customer service factor. My construction company allows us to fix our customers’ construction problems. The entertainment company gives the customers some time out to enjoy a concert or comedy, which takes them away from the issues of home and life, if only for a moment. Daddy Books allows parents to reflect on their own time with their kids or just live out that experience through these kids and dad,” Chuck shares.
As a Black man in the field of businesses that Chuck is in, there are always going to be challenges. These can be not enough money, not enough education, not enough experience, and so on. “You must be up to the challenge. If it were easy, everyone would be doing it. For me, I believe the difference maker is that I am actually built for adversity. I’m good at damage control and dealing with organized chaos, so my coping skills are deep,” he says.
As a man of faith, Chuck believes that everything in his life has happened for a reason and that he is where he should be in life. He says that God brought him right here and this way for His reasons. “I don’t question God. I have seen both good and bad and learned all along the way.”
As his community has played a significant role in his life, Chuck is very intentional in giving back and helping others. He serves as a mentor for young people, especially boys. He also offers jobs to unskilled youth, which exposes them to construction and entrepreneurship. He adds, “Oftentimes, our young men may not see business owners in their communities. I speak at events as well as host events to train youth to speak. I believe that learning to speak in public is important, so I give them that opportunity whenever we have events.”
Chuck concludes by sharing, “I have owned clubs and other businesses. I have done concerts and events. I have run a substantial construction company. Now that I have done all that I wanted to do, my own kids are able to fulfill their dreams!”
Huami Magazine Community Awards 2025
Charlotte Marriott Center City - Charlotte, NC
We are coming to the Queen City of Charlotte, NC.
Please mark your calendars for June 7th, 2025, as the Huami Magazine Community Awards will take place at the Charlotte Marriott City Center. Following up on our first gala of 2023, we are excited for the opportunity to present Black Excellence from various parts of the Huami Magazine network, which covers more than 23 states around the country.
Community Leaders, Business Leaders, and NonProfit Organizations will be honored and recognized for the great work they have done and continue to do in their respective communities. There will also be some great speakers, good food, and entertainment. This a formal, black tie event, and one that you don’t want to miss.
The evening will begin with a Red Carpet Reception at 5:30 pm. The Gala Reception will start at 6:30pm
For more information, please call 336-340-7844. Seating is limited and group packages are available. Tickets are on sale and can be purchased at the link listed below. Sponsorship opportunities are also available. For sponsorship information, please send a detailed email to mykelmediaco@gmail.com h
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Nurses LanishaHunter
Voted one of NC’s Top 100
By Terry L. Watson
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“Leap
and the net will appear!”
Lanisha Hunter of Greensboro, NC, describes the feeling of being named one of NC’s Top 100 Nurses to that of winning a Grammy award for nursing. Out of a group of nearly 153,000 nurses, being selected as one of the 2024 Great 100 is quite remarkable.
Since 2015, Lanisha has served as a Director of Nursing for Cone Health, which is also located in Greensboro, NC. Her responsibilities include nursing director of a general surgery, trauma, and palliative care unit. “I like to say it is a nice “gumbo” of things,” Lanisha shares. “I manage over 60+ employees who vary in roles. I’ve also had the opportunity to open a trial department and worked as an interim leader for several other areas in the past couple of years.”
The field of nursing requires compassion, kindness, empathy, and love; qualities that Lanisha exudes without effort. “I am a humble, God-fearing, and thoughtful individual who is passionate about my work. Most importantly, I try to do all things with a spirit of excellence. Though I am short in stature, I have a big personality and an even bigger smile,” she says.
Lanisha’s character has a lot to do with her upbringing. Her father is a pastor in Statesville, NC, where she spent most of her childhood years. She is one of four children, and along with her sister, she still sings on the praise team at her church every Sunday. Most recently, her life was made complete when she married her love, Bryon Long, in May of 2024, and together, they are learning and growing in this new chapter. Lanisha is also active in her community and enjoys being a part of a wonderful sisterhood.
Lanisha’s journey in nursing began nearly 18 years ago. After obtaining her undergraduate degree in nursing from the distinguished North Carolina A&T State University and began working at Cone Health in 2006. Amazingly, Lanisha never thought of herself as a leader. She was always a quiet and timid person, but she says that nursing has taught her to have a backbone, speak up when needed, and advocate for what is right. She is also thankful for someone recognizing her potential and pushing her to do more. Additionally, Lanisha has obtained her Masters and Doctorate in Healthcare Administration.
I am a humble, God-fearing, and thoughtful individual who is passionate about my work. Most importantly, I try to do all things with a spirit of excellence.
Being named one of NC’s Top 100 Nurses has also refreshed Lanisha’s love and passion for serving others and provided a sense of confirmation on why she chose this career. She says, “One of the most rewarding things about being a nurse is making a difference in the lives of others. I love seeing the light bulb come on in a new nurse and the appreciation of patients for receiving great care. My cup is often filled when I can help others see the potential that lies within, supporting them to foster it and watching them walk in their purpose. When you hear people say nursing is a calling, I believe that wholeheartedly. It is more than a profession. Even on the hard days, there is usually a moment or action that brings me back to my why. You do the work with integrity and only hope and pray that you are making a difference. This award has shown me that I have done just that. I have tried my best to strengthen the nursing profession in my circle of influence. I hope the seeds I have planted in others will continue to blossom in the years to come. I am blessed to be a part of this sacred work.”
Lanisha credits her parents with having the biggest impact on her life and career. “Neither of my parents went to college but always wanted more for my siblings and me. Growing up we always had what we needed and were taught to value the relationship of family. My father is one of the most resilient people I know,” she says. “He has truly defined what it is to be independent, a hard worker, and to strive to always do your best. My mom is a kind and gentle soul and has taught me to treat others with respect, to not give up on my dreams, and to always keep God first. I have learned many life lessons from them both, and I hope that I have made them proud.”
While Lanisha has enjoyed her career in nursing, it hasn’t come without a few challenges. One of the biggest challenges she has encountered as a nursing leader has been recovery after Covid. She says, “As we know, Covid turned life upside down for many, and working a job where I could not run from it shifted how I looked at healthcare. We really rallied through the pandemic together. The aftermath has been staff retention, burnout, and competition with competitors. As a leader, you have to be flexible, listen to your team, and get creative to do things differently. Allowing the staff to have a voice and become a team of problem solvers has really helped with managing such difficulties.”
For those who may follow a path similar to hers, Lanisha offers some sound and encouraging advice. “Experience is your best teacher. The more you work at your craft, the better you will get at it. Someone is always watching, so make sure that you give them something to see. My father often says, are you going to be a thermostat or a thermometer? Be a thermostat so that you can create the atmosphere around you. I pray that I will have added value and richness to the lives of those I encounter.”
As Lanisha plans for her future, she states that she doesn’t want to look back with any regrets. Besides traveling and spending time with her family, she also intends to work on her nursing craft. Lanisha would also love to create a scholarship for other future medical professionals, open up an adult day center, and continue to mentor future nurses. As stated previously, she isn’t afraid to leap and is more comfortable with taking a leap of faith in life and in nursing.” h
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