The Many Steps to Understanding Our Purpose
A Letter From The Editor
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A Letter from the Editor
When a mother gives birth to her child, I can imagine her heart becoming full of joy, amazement, and excitement. With witnessing an extension of herself come into the world, the expectations, hopes, and dreams she may have for them could understandably become her new purpose for living. Like childbirth, God blesses us with a specific purpose in life. For me, the key is learning my purposes and how to fulfill them.
What if tomorrow didn’t arrive? All of your plans, hopes and dreams wouldn’t have a street to park on. What if everything that you decided to put off until tomorrow never happened? There would be no reason to save for a rainy day, and you could spare someone the trouble of making promises. What if your last opportunity seemingly expired today? What would you do?
Understanding and managing my purposes in life has also revealed the many layers they have. After obtaining confirmation from God about my purposes, I sought instructions on how to execute them. When, what, how, and where are the preliminary questions I have asked. However, I have learned there are a lot more answers needed from God. When the unexpected happens, and life doesn’t feel like what you think it should, what do you do? When all of your preparations fail, and who or what you are counting on lets you down, what do you do? When support of your purpose is revealed from places and individuals you didn’t anticipate, what do you do? These are just a few questions that align with the unpredictability that can occur with executing our purposes and God’s plans for our lives.
I’ve been told that I often seem like I do too much. Honestly, I feel like I am not doing enough and I’m a firm believer in knowing that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t handle. I sometimes wonder how life would be if I chose to sit idle and accept what it presented to me. I have found that to be very boring. In my opinion, opportunity is a blessing that isn’t afforded to everyone. A challenge to me is an adventure. What is the worst that can happen? If I do nothing, I fail, and if I try I don’t, but instead learn something new about myself. Relinquish your pride and in return acquire life.
In my quiet times, God has revealed that He expects me to keep Him at the center of my life. This means that He wants everything that I do, every concern, thought, or matter, to be run by Him first. By doing so, I believe that it lets God know that I am willing to trust Him in all matters of my life. I have also learned that when I allow myself to be patient and trust God, the impact of unpredictability can often work in my favor.
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God doesn’t give us everything that we want, especially not all at one time. There are many steps to His plan for me. More than anything, I am grateful for how He continues to extend grace and patience to me while I am fulfilling my life’s purposes. Being grateful lets God know that I am willing to do more. Yet, my willingness to do more can be enjoyable and glorious, just as long as I utilize the wisdom obtained from the lessons God has taught me.
The best advice ever given to me happened when someone told me to make my tomorrow happen today. In doing so I have pressed my way through doors with a key that only hope provided. I have also learned the difference between what God blesses me with and what life can burden me with as well. I compare it to knowing when to be confident and when to be quiet, because someone may get it confused with being arrogant.
Having patience, exemplifying a servant’s heart, being grateful, and showing God that I trust His plan by practicing faith are part of the many steps toward understanding my purpose. Whatever we are called to do in life, I believe that it will always involve many stages. That is just part of God’s plan.
Make you tomorrow happen today, but most importantly make it count. Life is but a whisper and we must put ourselves in a position to hear what it is telling us.
Terry L. Watson Editor/Founder
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The Charlot te-Mecklenburg Board of Educat ion Issues Statement About Executive Order To Dismantle US Department of Educat ion
The Charlotte-Mecklenburg Board of Education has reviewed the Executive Order (EO) to dismantle the U.S. Department of Education (DOE). We have serious concerns that this EO will have drastic funding implications for public schools. Although the federal administration has stated educational funding will continue, the EO is silent on the level of federal funds school districts will receive or how those funds will be distributed to ensure uninterrupted funding to local school districts.
Access to a free public education that serves all children is the foundation of our country. Approximately 49.5 million students in the US, 1.5 million students in NC, and more than 142,000 students Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools (CMS) rely on the promise of a free public education to achieve their goals and dreams.
According to State Superintendent Maurice Green’s March 20 press statement, federal funding provides 10.9 percent of the state’s budget for public schools. The federal government provides over $1 billion to support public school students, including services for students with disabilities, children from low-income families and Career and Technical Education (CTE) programs. Those federal dollars fund more than 14,000 teacher and other educator positions across the state.
Any potential delays or reduction in funding will have a detrimental impact on educational outcomes and required services for students.
The Charlotte-Mecklenburg Board of Education remains committed to our students’ educational wee-being. Although we recognize that only Congress can dismantle the DOE, we must speak up about the detrimental impacts we may face. And we must encourage Congress to act immediately to ensure access to much needed supplemental funding and not wait for inevitable and prolonged litigation.
City Launches New Online Tool to Help Truck Drivers Find Legal Parking
The City of Charlotte has unveiled a new Commercial Truck Parking Tool to assist truck drivers in locating legal parking throughout the city. This innovative resource is designed to provide truck drivers with convenient and reliable information to find safe, authorized parking locations.
The Commercial Truck Parking Tool offers several key features to support the trucking community:
Searchable Parking Lots: Drivers can easily find available, legal, and safe parking lots by entering an address or using their current location.
Mobile Accessibility: The tool is fully optimized for mobile devices, allowing users to access parking information on the go.
Parking Lot Availability Survey: Parking lot owners can submit their information to be included in the tool, detailing costs and amenities such as gates, showers, and security features.
Truck Parking Ordinances: The tool outlines Charlotte’s local truck parking regulations, including fines and penalties for violations.
Interactive Heat Map: A real-time map highlights commercial truck parking violations across Charlotte, helping drivers avoid high enforcement areas and locate authorized parking spaces. This feature also helps residents stay informed about commercial vehicle activity in their neighborhoods. This tool is the latest resource developed by the City of Charlotte’s Quality of Life team, which works to address top community priorities such as illegal parking. For more information, visit the CLT Community Hub at www.community.charlottenc.gov
12th Annual Charlotte African-American Festival
April 26, 2025
Get Ready Charlotte! The 12th Annual Charlotte African American Festival (CAAF) is a celebration of the rich heritage and accomplishments of African-Americans. The festival will be held on April 26, 2025 at The Carole Hoefener Center in downtown Charlotte, North Carolina.
This in-person event promises to be a vibrant gathering of the community, showcasing talented performers, delicious cuisine, and unique crafts. Don’t miss out on this opportunity to immerse yourself in the rich heritage and traditions of the African-American community in Charlotte.
The festival will include exhibits, musical performances, art, literature, food, dancers, drummers, a pageant, speakers, vendors, and special awards and recognitions. Special highlights inlcude The First One Hundred Years Exhibit, The Brooklyn Neighborhood Showcase , The Black Wall Street Exhibits , The Black Knowledge Initiative Book Drive, The Motherland Exhibit, The Out of Africa Fashion Shows, The Underground Railroad Exhibit, The Black History Walk of Fame, The Ashanti Queens Crowning, The Charlotte Neighborhoods Reunion, and The Grier Heights Exhibit.
There is no cost for admission. VIP Admission $13.42. Tickets can be purchased at www.eventbrite.com
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Life Enhancement Services Herb Gray Enhancing the Lives of Individuals, Families, and the Community
By Terry L. Watson
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There aren’t many places one could go in Charlotte, NC, where Herb Gray isn’t known. The philanthropist, community leader, and entrepreneur has made it his lifes’ mission to serve. Whether it be through his company, Life Enhancement Services, or simply being present in time of need, Herb has consistently answered the call.
Since 2011, Herb has owned and operated Life Enhancement Services, a nationally accredited behavioral healthcare agency with offices in Washington, D.C., Baltimore, MD, Dallas and Houston, TX. Serving over 3000 people yearly, Life Enhancement Services provides diverse services for trauma, grief, depression, and anger management. Their programs offer individual, family, and community-based support to enhance mental well-being. Herb says, “The vision to start LES came from my desire to help people in need who suffered from mental health issues. We help teens, young adults, adults, and their families’ overcome challenges with substance use, addiction, and mental health conditions. Our holistic approach integrates therapy, counseling, and community engagement to foster growth and resilience.”
Examples of their services are Day Rehab, which is a family-focused, culturally competent, and community-based model that provides time-limited, intensive services to help improve the lives of children with complex needs. This also reduces the need for more restrictive settings, including and especially out-of-home placements. They also offer Diagnostic Assessment, which is an intensive clinical and functional face-to-face evaluation of a client’s mental health, developmental disability, or substance abuse condition. This results in the issuance of a Diagnostic / Assessment report with a recommendation regarding whether the recipient meets entrance criteria and includes an order for Enhanced Benefit services that provides the basis for the development of an initial person-centered Treatment Plan. Additionally, LES offers substance use disorder rehabilitation, medical interventions that include assessments, prescriptions, supervision or administration of mental-health-related medications, and monitoring and interpreting results of laboratory diagnostic procedures that are related to psychotropic medications. Their TIP rehab often refers to Targeted Interventions Program (TIP) rehabilitation, to name a few.
I have a desire to help others and a longing to fight for mental, social, and economic change. Talking to the underprivileged, understanding their behavioral and mental concerns, and working at the grassroots moves me to achieve more in life.”
A native of Charlotte, NC, Herb is happily married to Felecia, and they have one daughter, Bailey Gray. Herb is a graduate of North Carolina Agricultural and Technical State University and has received many awards and accolades, which echo and confirm his commitment to serving and helping others. These include the 100 Black Men Philanthropic Advocate Award, the YMCA of Greater Charlotte Service Award, Omega Psi Phi Fraternity Citizen Of The Year Award (NC/SC), The Good Scout Award by the Mecklenburg County Council Boy Scouts of America, Johnson C. Smith University Presidential Award of Distinction, President’s Lifetime Achievement Award from President Joseph R. Biden, Jr., HBCU Living Legend award, District of Columbia Housing Authority Excellence Award, Top 50 Black Professionals and Entrepreneurs of Texas.
When asked what he loves most about what he does, Herb says it’s the opportunity to employ people in careers that are meaningful to them and impactful to the community. He also loves how LES contributes to the community by supplying clothing, school supplies, meals, educational services, housing resources, and job readiness through its monthly community events. “I have a desire to help others and a longing to fight for mental, social, and economic change. Talking to the underprivileged, understanding their behavioral and mental concerns, and working at the grassroots moves me to achieve more in life,” Herb shares. “LES provides me with opportunities to give back to society and a chance to pass on lessons learned through experience and art.”
Herb says that societal influences and economic factors have impacted his life and career. He shares these are people who gave him many gifts of understanding, empathy, and kindness, all of which he tries to model. These also include friendships that he’s developed over the years, which have shaped who he is now. These are those who Herb says listened and encouraged him as he evolved.
Like most businesses, there are challenges that will present themselves at one time or another, and for LES, this has been the case as well. There has been the challenge of navigating increased competition and ever-changing rules and regulations from government agencies and insurance providers. Yet, Herb has never lost focus on why he started. He says, “The ability to obtain and maintain adequate funding for marketing operations, clear market segmentation, sufficient systems and staying abreast on policies and procedures has helped me manage the roller coasters of business.”
While there have been a few ups and downs along the way, Herb says each experience has helped shape his career decisions. “I believe that all things work together for my good.”
Looking ahead, in addition to leading LES into greater endeavors, Herb will spend his time focusing on his love of art. He is an avid art collector, and he has built the The Gray Art Collection, which was born from his passion for art. “I am looking forward to continuing to collect art and to use art as therapy in schools and education to enhance the educational environment and cultural vibrancy of my community,” he says.
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Dr.Kia Hood-Scott Greater Galilee Baptist Church
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By Terry L. Watson
For Dr. Kia Hood Scott, life has become all that she has imagined. She has always been faithful and trusted God, and the seeds that she has planted have begun to harvest. In better words, God is showing her how much He truly loves her.
Most recently, Dr. Scott has been named the pastor of Greater Galilee Baptist Church, The Gathering Place, located in Charlotte, NC. In her new assignment, she plans to continue to answer the calling on her life which is to spread and share the word of God. “In November 2024, when I became Pastor-Elect at Greater Galilee Baptist Church, everything changed. In that moment, I felt my entire life shift, as if everything I had prayed for, worked toward, and faithfully pursued was unfolding before me. The excitement was indescribable! I was deeply honored, yet humbled, knowing that God had orchestrated this season for me to walk into a new level of ministry and leadership. My heart raced with anticipation for what God was about to do—not just in my life, but in the lives of the people I would soon serve,” she says.
Dr. Scott’s journey in ministry began a long time ago. She says, “My family has always said that I have been a preacher all my life. My passion for ministry, leadership, and sharing God’s word was evident as a child. However, it wasn’t until August 2007 that I formally accepted my calling and preached my initial sermon—a moment that forever changed the trajectory of my life. From that day forward, it felt like my life shifted into turbo mode, propelling me into a journey of purpose, growth, and unwavering faith. And for that, I am truly grateful.”
With much of her learning and grooming happening under the leadership of Bishop Sir Walter L. Mack Jr., the founder of Union Baptist Church located in Winston Salem, NC, Dr. Scott’s ministry journey has been a testament to God’s divine orchestration. At Union Baptist Church, she began as the Youth Program Director and found immense joy in mentoring and guiding young minds. From there, she stepped into leadership as the College and Young Adult Ministry Leader, ensuring that emerging generations remained deeply connected to their faith. She later served as the Director of Preaching and Worship and was able to cultivate and lead impactful worship experiences that brought people closer to God. Yet, God had even greater plans for her. Under the leadership of Bishop Sir Walter L. Mack Jr., she was called to plant a church through Union Baptist Church-Jamestown-High Point—a step of faith that she says reinforced her commitment to Kingdom work. “Each of these roles shaped me, challenged me, and prepared me for the road ahead. For 19 years, I served as a full-time staff member, pouring my heart, energy, and passion into ministry. Looking back, I see the hand of God in every transition, every opportunity, and every challenge. The journey has been fast-paced and filled with unexpected turns, yet it has been nothing short of rewarding. I am humbled by all that God has done and excited for what He continues to do in this next season of ministry.”
Dr. Scott describes herself as a country girl from Clayton, NC, who cherishes people, family, laughter, and, most importantly, her faith in God. She says, “My foundation runs deep, shaped by a community that loved God and genuinely cared for one another, leaving an everlasting impact on my life. My grandmother was pivotal in my spiritual journey, ensuring I was always active in church—from Sunday School and Vacation Bible School to the Usher Board and beyond. My family and community mean the world to me, and I am grateful for the unwavering support of my mother, father, and sister.”
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Known for her dynamic preaching, vibrant energy, engaging personality, and unwavering commitment to Kingdom work, Dr. Scott is also passionate about empowering youth and young adults. She has been married to George L. Scott Jr. for the past seven years, and she is a loving daughter, a supportive sister, and a cherished friend to many. She graduated Cum Laude from Winston-Salem State University with a Bachelor’s degree in Rehabilitation Studies, followed by a Master’s in Rehabilitation Counseling. Dr. Scott deepened her theological studies by earning a Master of Divinity from Wake Forest University and a Doctor of Ministry from United Theological Seminary in Dayton, Ohio.
Dr. Scott shares her testimony, one that mirrors her life. She says, “In life, I have learned that no matter the season, no matter the challenge, and no matter how uncertain the road ahead may seem, we must trust God in all things. For God’s timing is perfect—even when we cannot see the full picture, even when the waiting feels unbearable, and even when we question the process. Our responsibility is to trust, obey, and remain faithful in the work God has called us to do. Every experience— whether joyful or painful—is part of God’s divine preparation. Nothing is wasted in God’s plan. Every trial refines us, every setback strengthens us, and every encounter serves as a lesson that prepares us for what is to come. The key is to never lose faith. Even in the moments that test us, we must choose to stand firm, to seek wisdom, and to use every opportunity as a space for growth. Through it all, I have learned one of the most valuable lessons of my life: to never doubt who God created me to be. The hand is upon me, purpose is within me, and God’s plan for my life is greater than I could ever imagine. With this truth as my foundation, I walk boldly in faith, knowing that He who began a good work in me will see it through to completion.”
Dr. Scott says that her amazing mother inspires her the most. “From childhood, she pushed me to be my best and never allowed me to indulge in self-pity. She often reminded me no one respects a person who cannot effectively communicate. She believed wholeheartedly that cloudy communication led to unclear thoughts and unproductive conversations. Beyond her wisdom, my mother has been the epitome of strength, grace, and encouragement—not just to me but to everyone she encountered. Her words had a way of making you believe in yourself, even when doubt tried to creep in. She carried herself with confidence, led with wisdom, and gave love freely, making an impact on so many lives,” she says.
Along with many members of her family, Dr. Scott also credits her sisters for being a great source of support. She says their encouragement has shaped her into the woman she is today. “My family is the epitome of love, strength, and covering. They inspire me daily, not just by what they say but by how they show up for me. I could not do this journey without them.”
What does the future look like for Dr. Scott? She says, “Jeremiah reminds us of a powerful truth when these words were penned: “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord” (Jeremiah 29:11). This verse has been a guiding light in my life, and in this season, I have come to understand it in a deeper way. God’s plans are sovereign, His timing is perfect, and God knows exactly where I need to be—even when I don’t.”
As the pastor of Greater Galilee Baptist Church, Dr. Scott is looking forward to building relationships, growing in faith together, and leading with love, passion, and a deep commitment to the Kingdom. “Being a pastor is one of the greatest joys of my life! It is a privilege to stand in the gap, to encourage, to uplift, and to walk alongside people in their faith journey. Whether through preaching, teaching, counseling, or simply listening, I am constantly reminded that this work is not just about me—it’s about being a vessel for God’s love, grace, and transformation. Each day, I am humbled by the responsibility and the reward of shepherding God’s people. Seeing lives changed, faith deepened, and communities strengthened affirms that I am exactly where I am meant to be. I am beyond grateful for this calling, and I cannot wait to see how God moves in this next season,” she says. h
Pierre Brewton First Black Fire Chief City of Spartanburg, SC
By Terry L. Watson
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It doesn’t matter how you start; what is most important is that you start and finish the race.
Pierre Brewton of Spartanburg, SC, has dedicated his life to public service. Currently, he serves as the Fire Chief for the City of Spartanburg, SC, the first Black person to hold the position. Newly appointed to this role in March 2024, Pierre leads the department with excellence, integrity, and sound professionalism.
Pierre is the son of James Coleman and Magdalene Brewton. Born and raised in the Highland Community, Pierre has two brothers and one sister. He is also married to Denise, and has three children and five grandchildren. He has accomplished many goals throughout his career. He is a graduate of Spartanburg High School and attended Johnson C. Smith University in Charlotte, NC. He graduated from Limestone College, Western Governors, RowanCabarrus Community College, and Spartanburg Community College. Additionally, he is credentialed through the Center for Public Safety Excellence as a Chief Fire Officer and Chief Training Officer. He graduated from Texas A&M’s Fire Service Chief Executive Fire Officer Program and the International Association of Fire Chiefs Fire Service Executive Development Institute. A man of faith, Pierre is a proud member of Macedonia Missionary Baptist Church and the Epsilon Nu Chapter of the Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc.
It almost appears as if Pierre knew that leadership was in his future. He says, “My journey with the City of Spartanburg began in 1988 when I was assigned to garbage collection in the Public Works Department. In 1994, I successfully transitioned to the Public Safety assigned to the Fire Department. I rose through the ranks from entry level firefighter until retiring in January 30, 2022, as Assistant Fire Chief. I had become the highest-ranking minority within the Spartanburg Fire Department. In January 2020, I became the first black fire chief for the City of Albemarle, NC. I was there until March 2024 until receiving my new assignment in Spartanburg.”
“I have the honor of creating gateways, building and crossing those same bridges that they never thought they could. I have the opportunity to give second chances to those who have earned it. We all have fallen short.”
Pierre shares he is mostly inspired by giving seniors an opportunity to see the fruits of their labor. “I am proof that the punishment they endured didn’t happen in vain. I could not be in this position without their sacrifice. I am also inspired by children who want to become firefighters simply by seeing me. I want them to know they can be better than me,” he says.
As a visible leader in his community, Pierre is afforded the opportunity to change lives and give hope. He says, “I have the golden opportunity to open doors to the fire service that may not have been easily open to women, people of color, or other gender differences. I have the honor of creating gateways, building and crossing those same bridges that they never thought they could. I have the opportunity to give second chances to those who have earned it. We all have fallen short. I have an opportunity to help those who have, and hopefully, they will do the same for someone else as well.”
Pictured with Chief Brewton is his wife Denise, and his children and grandchildren.
Pierre’s faith in God he shares has carried him throughout his journey. He quotes a song by the gospel great Shirley Ceasar, “I had a praying Grandmother,” when mentioning his own Grandmother and reflects on how she prayed for him and his family. “My Grandmother taught us at an early age, to be respectful, to be responsible, and to forgive,” he says. Pierre’s father passed away when he was only 13 years old. His passing Pierre says left a void and my mother had to raise three boys into men. “My mother did not play.” Pierre says. She had expectations of us, and there was no negation; it was done.” Pierre was also blessed to have uncles step in and become father figures. Pierre also credits his wife, children, and grandchildren for encouraging him to continue going and growing. “They keep me grounded to what is real but uplift me to reach my best. They spoil me with their love.”
As one can imagine, Pierre has faced many challenges in their career. He says one is the opinion of others of him due to his skin color. “I’ve had to prove every day that I not only belong in this career, but I can exceed within this career despite the drawbacks and naysayers,” says Pierre. For those whose path in life may mirror that of Pierre’s, he offers the following advice. “Trust in yourself, believe in yourself, create and maintain a firm foundation, and own your moment. As long as you are doing what others think you should be doing, you will hear nothing. When you start to do better than expected, others will find fault. Most importantly, stay prayed up.”
As Pierre has enjoyed a decorated career in public service, he acknowledges that retirement is not too far away. He shares, “Lord’s will…maybe within the next six years I will retire, although I do not see myself fully retiring. I want to spend time with my grandchildren while they are still young and travel with them to show them sights around the country. I would also like to go on school field trips and be a “Schoolhouse Papa.”
After retirement, Pierre also plans to continue working within his community. This will involve collaborating efforts between his church and fraternity and helping build a more resourceful and resilient community that he says will be less dependent on government assistance during the first 24 hours of natural disasters. h
Learn More About My Experience of Being A Caregiver For My Mother
By Terry L. Watson
CHAPTER ELEVEN: Home Is Where The Heart Dwells
I could count each day since the day of my mother’s stroke experience. As life-changing as it was, the entire experience of becoming her caregiver has transformed the lives of each one of her family members. For me, it has shown me how to love someone from a different perspective.
Like most kids, when we are young and totally dependent on the care and needs of our parents, the thought of ever losing them is unimaginable and, in some ways, frightening. The person who fed me, cleaned, and wiped the dirt and gooey stuff from my face and nose; the one who taught me and corrected and caressed all of my bumps and bruises; as a child, I could never fathom the idea of losing them. However, as an adult, that is a part of life that I have grown to understand. The natural course of life requires children to care for their aging and dependent parents. It also requires us to prepare our hearts and minds for an eventual separation. Over the last nine years, I have appreciated each opportunity that God has blessed me with to be there for my mother. Whether it be caring for her in my home, taking her to doctor appointments, going to the hair salon, going out to dinner, or going to a baby shower or funeral, I have enjoyed each experience.
I remember one Sunday, I decided to take Mom on a road trip. After getting her into my two-seater sports car, which wasn’t very roomy, we made our way down the highway to Charlotte, NC, to a soul food restaurant. My mom and I have always liked livers and onions, and that particular restaurant had a delicious serving, among many other tasteful entrees. What I enjoyed most about the ride was sharing laughs with her along the way. I was also pleased to see her enjoy the ride and point out specific landmarks along the highway. Even before her stroke, Mom always enjoyed road trips, and seeing her actively participate in this one provided me with some hope and a breath of fresh air. We ate our food in the parking lot of the restaurant, and by the time we headed back home, Mom was, of course, asleep. That was a great day for us.
Today, while I am not caring for my mother in my home, I honestly feel that the love connection between her and all of my family is very much intact. I believe that she knows that we are doing the best with what God has provided. The opportunity to be constant, available, and present, whether in person or by telephone, helps keep our connections relevant.
One thing for sure is that while becoming a caregiver for my mother started the day of her stroke experience, it didn’t end with the acquisition of additional assistance outside of my home. Honestly, it instified. She continues to have the same needs and to ensure they are being met, the consistent presence of our family is required. The care and support that we provide comes from our hearts. So, no matter where my mother calls home, home is where the heart dwells.
This is my story of becoming a caregiver to my mother.
I decided to share my experience as a full-time caregiver for my mother to consult, console, and inform other families who may be going through a similar situation. As a son, caring for my mother never feels like work; if so, it is a labor of love. Please continue to follow this message, Becoming A Caregiver, in Huami Magazine. I hope that sharing my experience will help others. From one caregiver to the next, God Bless You! h
Empowering Wellness, Wealth & Wisdom
By Terry L. Watson
Dee Carter of Greenville, SC, describes herself as a product of the most high. Originally from Houston, TX, she moved to the Upstate community in 2008 with her three children, seeking a fresh start. Not long after arriving, she faced a major health scare. She was hospitalized with blood clots on her uterine wall, and doctors told her that if she had waited just one more day, she could have died. That moment changed everything for Dee.
Determined to take control of her health, Dee became a personal trainer. What started as a way to heal herself turned into a passion for helping others live healthier lives. This experience was her first step into entrepreneurship, showing her the power of guiding people toward better wellness. “Since my health scare, I have lived every day with purpose. I make sure every day counts. My kids are my world. What would have happened to them if I didn’t make it,” Dee explains.
Her next business venture came from an even more personal place. Her daughter suffered from severe eczema, and after countless failed steroid treatments, Dee took matters into her own hands. She
studied natural skincare, took courses, read books, and attended webinars. With all of the information that she obtained, Dee eventually formulated a product that worked for both her and her daughter.
In 2013, The Best Body Butter was born. Dee’s creation provides relief for eczema, psoriasis, and other skin conditions. The product was such a hit that friends and family encouraged her to start selling it. Today, her skincare line is available in local stores like Hidyas Dream in Greenville, at vending events, and online.
Dee has dedicated herself to continuous learning, and she trains with herbalists and naturalists to perfect her formulations as needed. Her skincare products are safe for all ages, from babies to adults, and she customizes recommendations for each client’s needs, and most of all, they smell amazing!
While building her businesses in Greenville, Dee also built her personal life. There, she met her eventual husband, Charles. They’ve been happily married for nine years and are raising their blended family together.
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“Now, since that ordeal, I live every day with purpose. I make sure that every day counts. My kids are very important to me. What would have happened to them if I didn’t make it?”
Despite her growing success, another realization struck her. During Dee’s health crisis, she didn’t have life insurance. The thought of what would have happened to her children if she hadn’t survived weighed heavily on her, along with the loss of her brother and seeing what his wife and daughter had to go through; Dee lost her brother in 2024 due to a violent crime. These experiences were a wakeup call that eventually led her to Carter Life Services. With Carter Life Services, Dee helps families, especially those in her community, understand the importance of life insurance. “Life insurance shouldn’t be used just to cover final expenses. It is also a proven tool that helps build generational wealth and break free from relying on GoFundMe campaigns,” she says.
In addition to her skincare line and insurance business, Dee also produces The WTH Now Show—a podcast that gives a voice to her community and tackles important topics that impact everyday life.
Reflecting on her journey, Dee acknowledges the many challenges that have occurred but embraces them as stepping stones to success. “Moving from Houston to Greenville was an adjustment. Back home, there was stronger cohesion among Black-owned businesses. I am proud of the growth in Greenville, and I am encouraged by the efforts being made to strengthen the community.”
It is obvious that Dee has a passion for empowerment, whether through financial education, wellness, skincare, or giving her people a voice. She is dedicated to leaving a legacy, not just for her family but for the entire community. “I am inspired by legacy and driven by purpose. I love us. It really inspires me to see how far we’ve come as a people. I believe we can continue to go further in life. We are survivors, we are inventors—we are the best.”
Dee credits several individuals for shaping the person she is today. One of those is her former teacher in Houston, Mrs. Potier, who instilled in her the belief that she could achieve anything. “She taught us that we could do anything and that we were more than capable,” Dee recalls. “That lesson has stayed with me and continues to guide my life and work.”
Dee also draws deep inspiration from her grandparents, whose dedication to helping others and entrepreneurial spirit shaped her values. Watching them serve their community and build their own path in life showed Dee the power of both giving and creating opportunities.
Her advice to aspiring business owners is clear and direct. She urges others to take action even in the face of fear. “Do it scared. Whatever you’re thinking about doing, don’t think about not doing it—do it scared if you have to. No one gets it perfect the first time.”
Looking ahead, Dee hopes to continue making an impact. Through Carter Life Services, she aims to help families secure life insurance and build generational wealth. With The Best Body Butter, she remains committed to providing natural skincare solutions that promote healthy, radiant skin. Through her podcast, The WTH Now Show, she will continue amplifying important conversations that matter to her community.
To learn more about The Best Body Butter, Carter Life Services, or The WTH Now Show, please visit her websites and social media platforms. h
Vice President Employee Engagement Huntsville Utilities
“It’s A God Thing”
By Terry L. Watson - Photos Provided by Dr. Harry Hobbs
“Harry Hobbs, Huntsville Utilities, how may I help you?” That is how our interview began with a phone call to Huntsville, AL, resident Dr. Harry Hobbs. For those who have been blessed to know him, one obvious thing: Dr. Harry Hobbs is committed to serving his community and helping others.
It was 1960 in Louisville, KY, when Dr. Hobbs was born in the middle of the color line to a white father and a black mother. He was abandoned by his father and was raised in the full black experience. By the grace of God, Harry was surrounded by individuals who invested in him and helped him to become the person he is today: the first person of color and vice president in the history of the largest municipality-multiservice utilities in the United States.
In his role with Huntsville Utilities, Dr. Hobbs oversees various operations such as employee engagement, hiring, firing, promotions, corrective actions, safety and security, facilities, master plants, etc. Now in his seventh year in this role, Harry shares that he loves providing people with opportunities. “When I see someone who looks like me, and I am able to give them an opportunity to have a job as a utility investor, it makes it all worth it.”
The path that he has taken in life has come with its share of highs and lows. Dr. Hobbs shares that early in life, he was exposed to racism, receiving it from both sides. What he thought was a curse would actually turn out to be a blessing. “I have been able to mediate between the races and economic levels and be a viable voice in my community,” he says.
At the age of 11, Harry became a boy scout. He became the first Eagle Scout of color in Kentucky. The skills he acquired would propel him into a successful career in the United States Army. “The military was my way out. For 30 years, I traveled around the world and was able to pick up several degrees. When I retired, I was the Senior Missle Systems Warrant Officer and was inducted into four different Army Halls of Fame,” he shares. Additionally, he served on the 5th District Military Academies selection committee for 10 years.
After 30 years of service in the military, Dr. Hobbs worked as a high school teacher in the city of Huntsville and a JROTC teacher at Columbia High School. That role mirrors the role he previously had as a college professor while in the Army. In addition to being a high school teacher, he worked as a consultant for the cities of Huntsville and Madison, AL, police and fire departments. In 2010, Dr. Hobbs was selected to be the Communications Relations Officer for the Huntsville Police Department and served until 2014. In 2011, Dr.. Hobbs was selected as the youth mentor of the year by the 100 Black Man Organization. That same year, he was selected to be a member of the 5th District State Representative’s Military Nomination Committee.
Dr. Hobbs’ recognition for his many acts of service continues. He was selected to receive the Harriett Tubman 2020 award for his outreach to the underserved communities in North Alabama. In 2021, he was inducted into the U.S. Army Warrant Officer Hall of Fame (Eagle Rising Society). He accepted a state committee nomination from Governor Kay Ivey to work on the Alabama Works Council in 2021 and the Workforce Development state board. Dr. Hobbs served on the board of Leadership Huntsville from 2022-2024 and also accepted a board position for Huntsville Bible College (Historical Black College or University) in 2022. Additionally, he accepted a board position for Leadership Huntsville in 2023.
Dr. Hobbs holds two Doctorate degrees, one in Business Administration (Florida Institute of Technology) and one in Human Resources Management (Western Pacific University, Honolulu, Hawaii); Master of Science degree in Human Services, Murray State University, Kentucky; Bachelor of Science degree in Resources Management, Troy State at Dothan, Alabama; and an Associate of Science degree in Missile and Munitions Technology, John C. Calhoun State College, Alabama. He also holds a certificate in Diversity and Inclusion from Cornell University and a Project Management Professional Certification.
“I was the only multiracial member in my family. All of my other siblings were black. I am half white and half black. My grandfather was my father figure; he raised me and was never ashamed of me. He gave me an example of what hard work looks like.”
Pictured with Dr. Hobbs, is wife of 44 years, Erica
Dr. Hobbs shares his life with his wife of 44 years, Erica. They have two daughters, Shara, a former U.S. Army Soldier, and Shauna, a Major in the Army Reserves Nurse Corps. They also have four grandchildren: Cree, Julian, Liam, and Layla.
Dr. Hobbs says that his grandfather has inspired and impacted his life. “I was the only multiracial member in my family. All of my other siblings were black. I am half white and half black. My grandfather was my father figure; he raised me and was never ashamed of me. He gave me an example of what hard work looks like. He had a lawn care and carpentry business. My grandmother cleaned homes for very affluent caucasian people in the Louisville area. I stand on their shoulders,” he says.
“I thank God that I live in America where hard work and God’s unmerited favor can take you places you never thought possible. I thank all the educators and mentors that poured into me through the years. I stand on their shoulders.” h
Dr. Hobbs’ acts of service continue today. Most recently, he was sworn in as Commissioner for the Alabama Commission on Higher Education. “I will play a small role in overseeing the curriculum and programs for all of the colleges in the state of Alabama,” he says. This role means a whole lot to Dr. Hobbs as he is reminded that his mother had a 6th-grade education and always wanted better for her children. “I thank God that I live in America where hard work and God’s unmerited favor can take you places you never thought possible. I thank all the educators and mentors that poured into me through the years. I stand on their shoulders,” Dr. Hobbs says.
Looking ahead, Dr. Hobbs will continue to seek ways to help others in his community by way of service. He shares that he has been asked to serve on the Madison City School Board and is pondering that decision. He has been asked to pursue a career in politics. Regardless of what he does, Dr. Hobbs wants to be in a position to offer solutions.
Cassey Mapp-Ahmed Village Sis Doula LLC
By Terry L. Watson
Cassey Mapp-Ahmed of Greensboro, NC, has dedicated her life to helping others. She is a holistic doula and is professionally insured, Level II background screened, HIPPA certified, adult/ infant CPR certified, and an approved Medicaid contractor. Her experience as a doula encompasses over a decade, and she brings more than 20 years of expertise in Minority Health Research. She holds a Master’s in Public Health along with B.S. Honors degrees in Biochemistry and Biology, complemented by various certifications.
She is also the CEO and Founder of Village Sis Doula, LLC, an organization dedicated to improving Maternal and Infant Health. Originally from the stunning mountains of Asheville, NC, Cassey is a proud mother of two wonderful children who motivated her to foster a nurturing community for mothers, raise awareness about maternal health, and promote overall wellness in the community. She does this by way of her company, Village Sis Doula, LLC.
Village Sis Doula, LLC offers a multitude of services that are designed to fit her client’s specific needs before, during, and after their pregnancy journey. Cassey provides gestational individuals with emotional, physical, and spiritual support throughout pregnancy, birthing, and postpartum. She also offers doula support, fertility doula services, postpartum support, antepartum assistance, doula mentorship, holistic wellness, belly binding, public speaking, and consultations.
Cassey’s mission is to offer physical, emotional, and spiritual support, as well as education, to birthing individuals, fostering an empowering birth experience. She operates with a community asset-based approach, harnessing the love and support of her village, which echoes her motto, “IT TRULY TAKES A VILLAGE!”
Cassey’s vision of Village Sis Doula, LLC stemmed from her personal journey of fertility struggles, motherhood, and a profound awareness of the challenges related to minority health disparities. Her journey began in 2014, driven by a personal and
profound motivation stemming from her own traumatic birth experience and a deep awareness of maternal health disparities in her community. Over the years, she’s had the privilege of providing support to numerous families, enriching their birthing experiences through her expertise and compassion. “I understand how crucial community support and education are in promoting personal health and wellness. This is especially important during pregnancy,” she says.
In addition to being a doula, Cassey advocates for minority health and wellness initiatives. She has mentored many birth workers to further her company’s mission of reducing Black Maternal and Infant Mortality.
Research shows that Black birthing individuals are three to four times more likely to face mortality from childbirth complications than their white counterparts. Alarmingly, 60% of these deaths are considered preventable and are not influenced by socioeconomic factors. This stark reality has been a significant driving force behind the establishment of Village Sis Doula, LLC, highlighting the importance of Cassey’s mission. “I am wholeheartedly devoted to my role as a doula, valuing the chance to assist families in exploring their birthing options and gaining the vital tools needed to advocate for themselves and their loved ones,” she says.
Understanding available choices and recognizing accessible resources, Cassey explains, can be incredibly empowering. “Such tools are essential throughout the experiences of pregnancy, motherhood, and parenting. Having been unaware of these options during my first pregnancy, I developed a passion for sharing these invaluable resources with my community and fostering safe spaces for parents to seek support.”
As a business owner, Cassey has encountered a few challenges. One she says has been the challenge of needing to carve out quality time to recharge. “It’s all too easy to feel overwhelmed by life’s demands, particularly as a dedicated entrepreneur and mother. Nonetheless, self-nurturing is essential. I counter this by embracing my vulnerability and creating a supportive community for accountability. This has been with fellow parents who are seeking therapy. I have also collaborated with a wellness coach and joined a journaling circle. Taking such measures has helped me prioritize my physical, mental, and emotional health,” Cassey says.
Looking ahead, Cassey says the plans for Village Sis Doula LLC is to further develop community and partnerships that will enhance maternal health and wellness support, both nationally and internationally. “Village Sis Doula stands as a beacon for maternal health justice. I will continue to empower my clients and community through education, helping them understand their choices, their bodies, and the strength of their voices,” she says. For those seeking guidance and support in navigating the beautiful yet challenging path of childbirth, please contact Cassey to learn more about her services.
Photos Provided by Jodie Brim Creative
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Herb Gray: Visionary Leader, Art Aficionado, and Community Champion
At the helm of Life Enhancement Services, Herb Gray is not only the CEO and founder of a groundbreaking mental and behavioral health organization but also a passionate advocate for underserved communities. With services reaching nearly 3,000 children, teens, and adults every week in Washington, DC; Houston; Maryland; and Dallas, Herb’s commitment to transforming lives is as deep as his passion for art.
Herb Gray is redefining what it means to lead with heart, vision, and creativity. Join us in celebrating a leader who brings art, innovation, and community spirit together for a better tomorrow.
Empowering Communities Through Sustainable Innovation
Herb Gray believes in the power of sustainable jobs and the strength of a diverse, united community. Under his leadership, Life Enhancement Services has created a dynamic environment where employees are not just team members—they are partners in fostering a brighter, healthier future. Herb’s dedication to bringing people together from different backgrounds to discuss hard topics and craft effective solutions underscores his belief in community unity and collective progress.
A Passion for Art and Life
When Herb isn’t busy spearheading mental health initiatives, he is an avid art collector with a discerning eye for beauty. His remarkable art collection, showcased at thegrayartcollection.com, is a testament to his creative spirit and love for visual storytelling. Each piece tells a unique story and reflects Herb’s personal journey—a journey that interweaves his passion for art with his commitment to community service.
Family, Basketball, and the Joy of Living
Family is at the core of Herb’s life. A devoted father, he cherishes every moment playing basketball with his daughter—experiences that remind him of the importance of balance, fun, and togetherness. These moments on the court fuel his drive to support and uplift those around him, both in the boardroom and beyond. Discover more about Herb Gray’s inspiring journey, his exceptional art collection, and his relentless dedication to community empowerment at thegrayartcollection.com.
