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A fter learning about the story of the young boy who was kidnapped and released after serenading his captor’s ears with gospel music, over and over again, it reinforced my belief in the power of God’s name. The story says that young, Willie Myrick was kidnapped from outside his home but was freed after he annoyed his kidnapper by singing a gospel song for three straight hours. That song was, “Every Praise,” by Gospel recording artist, Hezekiah Walker. While in the car, Willie said he sang the gospel song for hours, until the kidnapper kicked him out of the car. I can only imagine how the presence of God showed up in that vehicle protecting young, Myrick and filling the kidnapper’s heart with conviction. It proves that even the face of evil still fears God.
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I’ve found myself in troubling situations before. There have also been moments when I didn’t call on God, but instead I did what I wanted to do. That only made things worse and my mouth was a weapon used against me. I hadn’t grown to the point where patience could soothe my worries. I conformed and paid a hefty price for doing so. I believe that God puts us in such situations as a means to test our faith and for us to see who is really in control of our circumstance. Because God is faithful, He has given me opportunity after opportunity to pass the tests. Like many times before, I’ve felt pressured and really wanted to handle things like “Terry”. Yet, I sat still and prayed and conversed with God, asking Him to convene on my behalf. “God please handle this for me. Give me words to say and thoughts to think,” I told myself. Before I knew it, God fixed everything and blessed me right in the midst of my storms. I learned that I don’t burden God when I call on Him. That is what He wants us to do.
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Ella & Donald Gladney
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Also Inside.......................... Six Years Strong
Sherri Denese Jackson Foundation
A Gift of Confidence
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Living Healthy
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A Place For Kids To Learn
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Area Businesses Unite
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Marilyn Brooks
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The Youth in You
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Allergy Season Blues
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Malik Thompson of The Summit Cafe
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Join A Winning Team Six Years & Still Growing The Sherri Denese Jackson Foundation On June 26, 2008, Portia Shipman founded the Sherri Denese Jackson Foundation for the Prevention of Domestic Violence, Inc. (SDJF) along with her twin daughters, Terri and Torri. Sherri Denese Jackson was a beautiful young woman who found herself a victim of domestic violence with seemingly nowhere to go for help. Too embarrassed about being with an abusive boyfriend, Decarlo Bennett, and too ashamed to ask for help, Sherri attempted to leave on her own. In late 2006, Jackson filed for an order of protection against Bennett. He then began stalking Sherri and ultimately took her life. For 19 months, her body remained hidden until Bennett was summoned and disclosed its location as part of a plea bargain with the district attorney’s office. On June 26, 2008 at about 1:30pm, at the request of Portia, DeCarlo Bennett led authorities to Sherri Jackson’s remains in the backyard of his mother’s home. Sherri was only 27 years at the time her life was unfairly and brutally cut short. On July 7, 2008, Sherri’s body was finally put to rest in her hometown of Morganton, N.C. Bennett was convicted of second degree murder and was sentenced to only 16 years in prison. Mrs. Clara Jackson, Sherri’s mother, requested that a foundation be established in the hopes that no mother would have to feel the pain of losing their daughter so violently, and that no woman would have to suffer the same terrible fate that befell Sherri.
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Portia Shipman founded the Sherri Denese Jackson for the Prevention of Domestic Violence, Inc. (SDJF) in 2008 to help victims of domestic abuse to reclaim their lives by breaking free from domestic abuse and educating the community in hopes to save lives. In addition, to have a special place for loved ones to remember their loss family member. Since then, the Sherri Denese Jackson Foundation has expanded its vision and goals. They have had hundreds of people participate in their programs and have reached thousands through video productions, therapy session, public awareness campaigns, as well as through their website. Now Open: The Community Awareness Center (By Appointment Only) Services Offered: - Monthly Women Empowerment Sessions Meet 3rd Thursday (RSVP) Time 5:30 pm - 7:00 pm - Facilitated by Torri Johnson - 5OB/ Protection Order Clinic - No More Trayvon Program For Males age 11 to 17 years old Tues, Weds, Thurs. 11:00 am -3:00 pm - Facilitated by Kyriah Shannon - Safe Dating & Healthy Relationships for Teens - At local Middle Schools & High Schools - Wall of Remembrance for Loss Loved Ones (NEW) “Remember Me” Monthly Support Group 3rd Tuesday (RSVP) 5:30 pm - 7:30 pm Facilitated by Tabitha McGeachy - (NEW) Transportation & 24 Hour Hotline - Community Outreach and Referrals Services - (NEW) Beware of Sex Offenders - Prevention & Awareness In Memory of 7 years old Shalonda Poole Portia Shipman, Executive Director 2200 East Market Street, Suite B/C Greensboro, N.C. 27401 Tel: 1-336-510-9393 Fax: 1-336-510-1499 Website: www.SDJFNC.org Email: sdjfnc@gmail.com
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Walter Johnson ARTIST SPOTLIGHT By Terry L. Watson - Photos by Walter Johnson He is still in the process of becoming who he is. He is still finding out there are things about himself that have not changed, but some that are still in motion to change. Walter Johnson is a passionate, caring, adventurous and creative Christian who Ioves God, family, friends and people in general. He is a minister through his music and acting, and he explains what he loves most about singing is how it provides him the ability to express his love to God and man. It has allowed him to encourage himself while encouraging others. It has allowed him to cross cultural barriers and to travel around the country. “I have a talent to sing and I have been singing, according to my parents ever since I could talk,” said Johnson. He also has a talent for writing songs and plays. He has performed on national platforms and toured across the country. “I actually can teach and I believe it is a talent that not everyone can do,” he says. “I have taught music, bible principles, life skills, basic computer skills, communication skills, parenting skills, leadership and team building.” Johnson currently teaches individuals how to live healthier as a wellness coach. Johnson says his mom was the first inspiration for music to him. “She is the example I had in church as a child to sing with passion. I can remember her singing until she would almost pass out. She sang with all her might and the Holy Spirit would take over and she would lose it,” he says. As he recalls his years as a child at St. James Baptist Church, he was brought to tears. His dad and family were always there to encourage and support him. His great-aunt, Geraldine Payne, “Aunt Jelly” would be the one to push him to go sing, perform and record in front of thousands of people at the James Cleveland Gospel Music Workshop of America. In addition, Kiser Middle School teacher, Cory Williams would later push him in front of Edwin Hawkins which led him to record with Word Records. He has also recorded music with gospel great, Daryl Coley while in college. “He was a major influence that further motivated me to study music in college,” Johnson states. He also acknowledges his vocal instructor, Judith Womble Pinnix Howle-Wow for having a huge impact on his life and career as well. Without family, Johnson says he couldn’t have been able to enjoy the successes he had thus far. His children have now begun to display their talents of which is a result of Johnsons’ dedication, talents and labors. “I have to say turning 40 four years ago I was depressed, facing health issues and ready to give up on everything. My journey through this process has birthed more anointed music out of me than ever before. It has also pushed me to become healthier than I have ever been,” he says. God, family, health and music are the pulse behind his latest project that will chronicle the story for his next solo project. “Instead of just simply releasing music, I am going to release a music production (a one man play with music if you will) that will walk you through my experience to my personal encounter with God,” he says. h New Project: “Encounter” Release Date: June 20th, 21th 7:00pm Where: 709 E. Market Street Suite 200 A, Greensboro, N.C. 27401 (704)785-6753 www.goherbalife.com/wjhealthychoice www.cdbaby.com/ewj
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ost people fold under pressure. They simply give up or throw in the towel when faced with adversity. Nevertheless, there are always a small percentage of individuals that not only refuse to give in, but somehow excel in stressful situations. They get knocked down, but ultimately rise above the fray. Reginald “Malik” Thompson personifies the term “overcomer”. Life has forced him to face some very difficult and trying times, but it also forced him to find a way to make it. Thompson has been “making it” on his own since a young boy. He has always owned his own business of some sort. From the time he was able to push a broom or shovel snow, the Washington, D.C. native has always been a business man and had an entrepreneurial spirit. He was raised to be the “man of the house” by his mother, Irene Thompson and two sisters, Roachell and Angela Thompson. He learned to be a provider for himself and his family; it’s a characteristic he still carries today. “I’m kind of old school; I think a man should provide for his wife and children,” says Thompson. “That’s not to say a woman can’t do anything. It’s just that when it comes down to the wire, the man should be able to take care of things.” Thompson was always able to “take care of things.” He took on the name “Malik” because he says, at the time, it sounded cool and it means king. Kings take care of business and get the job done. Pictured left to right: Tracey Holt, Gregory Harvey, Malik Thompson, Barrington Riddick, and Nezzia Martin
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Nevertheless, his financial resources were often procured through ill-gotten means. He admits that he became blinded by the idea of quick money he could acquire; albeit often illegally. However, he maintained a legitimate business if for no other reason than for appearance. Yet the cover wasn’t enough to make him impervious to the law. Ultimately, he spent 13 years “growing up.” He had nothing but time to think about the mistakes he had made and determined within himself that when his freedom was restored he would live his life differently. He would become a productive, law-abiding, contributing citizen. He says his ambition was to get what he wanted the right way.
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“I’m kind of old school; I think a man should provide for his wife and children. That’s not to say a woman can’t do anything. It’s just that when it comes down to the wire, the man should be able to take care of things.”
His resolve was sincere but much easier said than done. He did all he could to find consistent employment, but his efforts proved to be mostly futile. Even though Thompson had become a certified HVAC technician, carpenter and brick mason, he was still competing with individuals with a clean record. He did have brief stints of employment, like when he sold meats door-to-door and with temporary services, but ultimately he was trapped. His determination prevailed and he began seeking the advice of others, like Barrington “Icy Man” Riddick, who was already succeeding as a food street vendor. Thompson took all the money he had, $800, and invested it into buying cell phones, which he would turn around a sell for a small Sunny Side-Up Eggs, Cornbeef Hash & Grits Continued on page 12
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profit. It was legitimate and profitable. The business took off and he was able to invest into more. As time passed, he began looking for other businesses to calm his entrepreneurial itch. He says whatever he wanted to do he always reminded himself he was just as smart as the next guy and had what it took to be successful. If someone else could do it, then he could too. The opportunity became available for Thompson to purchase a small restaurant he frequented. It was a great business venture. He had previously owned a restaurant in Washington, D.C., so he wasn’t a complete novice.
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I just wanted to do something to make a difference. I wanted something to pass down to my kids. It’s small, but it’s mine and it’s a place of comfort for me. I used to come here all the time. They had good food and good people.”
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“I just wanted to do something to make a difference. I wanted something to pass down to my kids. It’s small, but it’s mine and it’s a place of comfort for me,” says Thompson. “I used to come here [to the restaurant] all the time. They had good food and good people. I saw something’s that I would change and that I knew would make the place better, but at the time I was still cool with it.” Thompson realized he could turn the fledgling business around and that’s exactly what he has done. On June 07, Thompson will be having a grand opening of the new and improved Summit Café. He wants people to stop by and get reacquainted with the restaurant.
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One of the first things he improved was customer service. He notes, “I may not know a lot, but I know good customer service will make up for other things.” Additionally, he took great efforts to renovate and make much needed improvements inside the café. However, he has still managed to maintain the downhome atmosphere he fell in love with himself. Of course, the food is still delicious. They are open for breakfast, lunch and dinner; and customers should try the famous fried fish, grits and eggs combo. Thompson isn’t content with only one venture. He is currently in the final stages of opening his latest business project. In just a few short weeks he plans to open The Firm – a social lounge for business professionals. It will be strictly for businesses; a facility where professionals can meet and hold interest meetings or even give presentations. In addition to the Summit Café and The Firm, he is just as dedicated to his other business, OTG Wireless Service and Repair located in Greensboro. It’s a partnership with Derrick Leach, who handles all repairs. Customers can get on-premises repair of cellphones, computers and electronic devices. Understandably, Thompson is very proud of what he has been able to do, but he has much more he wants to accomplish. With a fiancé –Fedoria Bynum, three kids: Reggie, Rico and Ramsey-and one on the way, baby Royal; he works hard to make sure they are all provided for. “I’m not fearful of failure,” he says. “I’m fearful of not trying. I’m motivated by a desire for a better future.” h
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eventeen years ago, Donald Gladney had a fairly cushiony job with all the flexibility he wanted. The money was decent, but eventually job security became an issue. Gladney says he received a vision from God and was assured that he had the necessary skill and certainly the faith to start his own business. He says the Lord showed him that he would be successful as long as he put the Lord first; which is what he has done. He is the proud owner and operator of Triad Cooling and Heating, a residential and light commercial HVAC installation, repair and service company.
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He started the business part-time, while working as a full-time painter for two car dealerships. Known as somewhat of a jack of all trades, he can do basically anything he puts his mind to doing. From plumbing and carpentry to automotive repair, he is gifted with his hands. Gladney has a background and diploma in industrial maintenance and a diploma in auto mechanics. Additionally, he has worked with a brick cleaning business and carpenter for several years, and also has worked as a paint and body technician for 21 years at a auto body shop dealership. As if that wasn’t enough, Gladney also is experienced with operating a high pressure steam genie. Nevertheless, he was always fixing and toying with different heating and cooling systems and discovered he had knack for it as well. “My dad had an old steam genie. It’s like an oil furnace on wheels,” he says. “I kept it going by repairing it and tinkering with it. That’s pretty much how I got started.” Gladney spent more time and effort honing his craft and ability. He began servicing a few units and decided he wanted to do more. He studied, took the required tests and became a licensed North Carolina HVAC contractor. He has been servicing Greensboro and surrounding areas for nearly 18 years. Triad Cooling and Heating is more than just a business or money-making machine for Gladney. Although it is his livelihood and he is in business to make a profit, he also views it as a means to meet the needs of the community. When he first started out back in the 1970s, and even until today, he says all he wants is to be able to help people; really help people. There was a time, he notes, when there weren’t many qualified HVAC servicemen, and people were easily taken advantage of. He simply wants to get paid for an honest day’s work, be fair and treat people fairly. Continued on page 16
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Consequently, Gladney and his company have developed a reputation for honesty and fairness. He is known to go out of his way for clients. His wife and office administrator, Ella Gladney, is proud of the work her husband does, the growing business and the excellent reputation that follows the Triad Cooling and Heating name. Both Gladney’s tell stories of customers that are so loyal that they would rather wait for service availability with Gladney (if the company is completely booked) rather than call another company. Although the company is well established and maintains a consistent client base, life as a business owner hasn’t always been smooth sailing. Gladney recalls the stress and losses he endured a few years ago when the housing and construction industry collapsed. Many companies went out of business or left town without fulfilling outstanding debts. The company was often on the receiving end of those bad business practices. Even though those were discouraging times, he persevered because he was confident he could recover. Gladney says it’s not work for the faint of heart. “You will have long hours (especially in the beginning) and always be on call,” he says. Additionally, he notes that the working conditions can be very trying; from spiders and snakes under houses to extreme hot and cold temperatures. Triad Cooling and Heating has grown beyond Gladney’s expectations. He’s no longer the sole serviceman. Growth has afforded him the opportunity to hire additional employees to handle the workload. In addition, his three sons, Donald Jr., Sherrod and Ryan are a big help as well. It’s Gladney desire to retire early and pass the business down to his sons and grandchildren. For right now Gladney is content making sure he does his part providing exceptional service and using fair business practices. He’s in the business of quality and service. In fact, h quality and service is what Triad Cooling and Heating has stood upon for many years; and will continue to for years to come.
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aTonya Turner has a passion to care for children. Actually it’s more than a passion, as she puts it, it’s her ministry and Jesus is her boss.
The Winston Salem native turned Greensboro resident is the proud owner of Turner Tots. It’s a business that if left solely up to her would have never materialized. She didn’t like the dead end jobs she once held, but never thought herself capable of owning and operating her own business. However, while on maternity leave, years ago, she felt compelled to step out on faith and open her own business. “I didn’t want to go back to my current job,” she says. However, she heard the Lord say, “You have been doing everything you wanted to do; now you are going to do what I asked you to do.” Ten years later, she obviously chose to obey. With much prayer, hard work, and support from her loving husband Barry, they opened the doors on May 26,2005 with eight children in her home. She has since moved the business into a free standing center and has over 38 children. Amazingly, Turner says she has never had to advertise or market herself. All of her referrals have come through word of mouth. Turner Tots is more than just a 9 to 5 for LaTonya. She truly desires to play a part in the growth and maturation of genuinely good and respectable kids into responsible adults capable of achieving greatness. Additionally, Turner believes she can simply share the gift of love with a child who may not otherwise experience it in their home. Turner Tots is open from 6:30 a.m. to 11 p.m., which provides Turner the opportunity to offer 1st and 2nd shift options for parents with non-traditional schedules. Moreover, discounts are offered for multiple siblings. “I try to be flexible and work with parents with special situations and circumstances. Being a parent herself, she says she understands the different struggles parents face and especially crazy work hours. The center follows a daily lesson plan with a hands-on approach to learning. Kids participate in weekly cultural and cooking days and take exciting field trips. Students are also encouraged to expend all of their extra energy during the once-a-month visits from the tumble bus. Turner Tots is extremely concerned about preparedness and security, which is why the staff meets every week to review and train for emergencies. It’s something Turner says she hopes she never has to use, but recognizes it’s an absolute necessity.
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The center has grown significantly over the years and Turner certainly desires to continue to grow the business and plans to expand as necessary, but contends that she has learned her lesson when it comes to making plans and trying to do what she wants to do without first seeking direction from God. She says, “God will put the right people in your path to aid in your success and if you continue to put him first he will bless it.” h
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ord of Life Pentecostal Church of Christ (PCC) is a growing, multi-cultural ministry in Greensboro, N.C. Under the leadership of Bishop Marian Hickman, the church is dedicated to mentoring, educating and producing leaders. From numerous church ministries to the separate pre-K, after school and summer program, to well-instituted community collaborations, Word of Life is successfully fulfilling the vision. The church was established in 1993 by Bishop J. Delano Ellis, II of Cleveland, Ohio. He commuted to minister in Greensboro on a regular basis. Following the leading of the Lord, he appointed Hickman, also an Ohioan, as the senior pastor. She immediately accepted. Hickman was a perfect fit. If anyone would understand and personify the church’s vision, mission and goals it was her. Raised in the inner city of Cleveland, Hickman’s parents instilled in her the importance of quality education, productivity, and service to others. She attended private and public school, was active in many different organizations, attended neighborhood Bible groups, participated in community activities and volunteered her time. As an adult, she answered the call of ministry as a missionary, street evangelist, Sunday school teacher, parish/cell group leader, counselor and assistant pastor. Her exposure to different aspects of life and ministry was great preparation for her current position. Similarly, Word of Life has several ministries designed to bring people together, provide opportunities for personal growth and improve overall quality of life. There is a ministry for everyone some of which include, men, women, singles, married couples, seniors and children’s ministries. Many church programs focus on outreach such as the Moses Cone Congregational nursing Program and the community-based organization R.E.A.C.H-1 CDC.
“We lift people to life” Bishop Marian Hickman
Founded in 1997, the acronym stands for Rehabilitating, Educating, and Aiding our Community and Homes, One at a time. Additionally, the church uses a great deal of its resources toward enrichment and educational programs. The church sponsors a week-long summer literacy program for grades K-12, Saturday math academy, Faith in Education—a college preparation program, and Restart Life, which focuses on at-risk teens and youth. Moreover, Bishop Hickman is the visionary behind Next Generation School--the churches, highly successful pre-K, summer camp and after school program. The school is a product of Word of Life but operates as a separate entity from the church. All the different ministries and organizations associated with Word of Life are purposefully designed to be the arms or extensions of the church in an attempt to change lives, develop people and build community. “We lift people to life” is the churches mantra. It’s the foundation of Bishop Hickman’s ministry; through worship, order and leadership lives can be completely changed—mind, body and spirit. h
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armen Chatten hails from South Boston Virginia. A true Virginian by heart, also living in Alexandria, she has gradually navigated to North Carolina and established herself as a promising health and wellness expert. She has a passion for serving and helping others, and her business Of Skin and Wellness provides an outlet to do so. Chatten attended Danville Community College in Danville, VA and successfully completed their Practical Nurse Program. Later she graduated from North Carolina A&T State University in Greensboro with a Bachelor of Science degree in Nursing. Next she received a Masters of Science in Nursing from Winston Salem State University. In the infancy stages of her career she served as a Registered Nurse with various hospitals and medical care providers in North Carolina. Most notably that list
includes the Moses Cone Health System. . She later served as a Family Nurse Practitioner with Ideal Image in Charlotte, NC, Family Urgent and Family Care in Greensboro before opening her own practice, Of Skin and Wellness in April of 2013, where she also serves as a Family Nurse Practitioner. Of Skin and Wellness offers a laid back office environment. Chatten says she purposely chose a design that did not feel like a traditional medical office but much similar to a spa or salon environment. “I think it is less intimidating and allows individuals to relax and helps make health care not feel like a chore,” she says. Her typical clients are individuals who are in their mid to late twenties and early thirties. She says she would like to corner the market on younger clientele at least for preventative practice, stating that if simple measures would begin early in life, many people would not have to work so hard to erase or fix problems later. She credits her mother for planting a seed at a very young age about the importance of maintaining healthy skin. “Drink plenty of water, apply lotion when you get out of the shower,” Chatten explains. Over the years her skin care regimen evolved and she began to become passionate about it when some of her friends started asking for advice on skin care. Chatten says she realized that most individuals did not know the basics. “This business idea has been in my head since my mid twenties. I remember every so often during those years creating a rudimentary business plan based on my experiences with products, services and my experience as a nurse. I would purposely try and test different products and services on myself to see which worked the best,” she says. Of Skin and Wellness Center is similar to a medispa, says Chatten. The only difference is that owned and managed by a nurse practitioner. Her business centered around skin. It initially evolved from basic skin care and health education, as well as related practices. Her practice now offers an array of cosmetic interventions, beauty services and products, and medical evaluations focused on wellness to assist individuals who wish to obtain and maintain healthy radiant skin. Some of the products offered by Of Skin and Wellness include PCA Skin-Dermatology, a skin care line which has been tested through clinical trials. “The fact that clinical trials were conducted was important to me because I did not want products in my office that I could not stand behind with clinical data,” says Chatten. This skin care line also offers wonderful in office products that can provide skin resurfacing treatments to assist in common skin concerns such as acne, rosacea, hyperpigmentation and aging skin. . Other products include GloMinerals, a mineral based makeup line that is only sold by health care professionals. Chatten says it was chosen because it is approved and safe to use after receiving a chemical peel, laser therapy treatment or other invasive medical procedures.
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Chatten says she loves owning and operating her business because she is able to not only offer skin care advice, but is also able to address other medical concerns because of her extensive background in various medical disciplines. “I feel fortunate that I am able to empower individuals through education in regards to their health whether it is skin care and wellness or if it is something as simple as a hangnail,” she says. She is inspired by the acts of God in her life. She admits that she was once inspired by family members, instructors and close friends but now feels like she has reached the self actualization portion of her development. “I typically look to others on ideas of what to do next not necessarily as motivators to be better,” she says.
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As the warmer months approach, more people are generally concerned about their outward appearance. One of the most verbalized concerns is problems with dark spots on the face also called hyperpigmentation. Below are some suggested tips. The Problem: Hyperpigmentation is abnormal darkening of the skin. This can either be a spot or patchy areas depending on the cause. It occurs as a result of inflammation that is most commonly triggered by acne or hormone fluctuations and then further worsened by sun exposure. Darker skin types are more susceptible to hyperpigmentation than others. Preventative Measures: Don’t lie in the sun! Sunbathing causes further injury to your skin causing dark spots to become darker. Use of a sunscreen formulated for your face with an SPF of 30 or higher should be applied daily regardless if you are just running out to the store for milk. Don’t forget that you may need to reapply sunscreen if you sweat or if you are outdoors for some time. Recommended products - Aveeno Positively Radiant SPF 30, Stila Sheer Tinted Moisturizer SPF 30 or Clarins UV Plus Day Screen SPF 40. Skin Care Treatments: In office treatments by a licensed professional is necessary to combat damage already done by the sun. One of the best in office treatments to invest in is a chemical peel. Chemical peels take 30-45 minutes to complete and offers a safe effective measure to lighten dark spots. It usually takes a total of 3-4 treatments and can make a tremendous difference in your skin and skin texture. Recommended - PCA’s Sensi Peel, a superficial peel that is safe to use on all skin types and safe to use in the warmer months.
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Are your feet sandal ready? Typically when we think of wearing sandals we opt for a pedicure that can be performed at nail salons on every corner. But what happens when your feet are callused and a normal pedicure is not doing the job. Most individuals opt for home exfoliation with a pumice stone that usually takes quite a bit of time and effort to make a difference. What if there was a way to smoothen your feet without all the hassle? The Problem: Calluses are areas of toughed skin that typically becomes thick and hard as a direct result of repetitive friction, pressure or irritation. Calluses are formed by the accumulation of dead skin cells called keratinocytes that rest on the skin surface. Sometimes a callus may occur as a result of underlying skin disorder or systemic disease. Preventative Measures: Exfoliate and moisturize your feet daily. Pumice stones and/or the Pedi Egg should be used after showering and then followed with an emollient rich moisturizer. Since tough hardened skin is easier to prevent than treat, simple measures to use at home should include minimizing rubbing, avoid being barefoot and invest in supportive well fitting foot wear. Individuals with poor circulation or who have a known history of diabetes should seek advice from a health care professional before initiating any foot routine to rule out potential for complications. Recommended products - Amlactin Foot Cream, Badger Balm, Clarisonic Pedi Device Skin Care Treatments: PCA’s Smoothing Body Peel is an in office treatment that is performed for callused hardened feet. This peel is excellent not only for the feet but may also be used on other dry, hardened skin surfaces. It provides nourishing ingredients that soften, hydrate and improves the appearance of the skin. It is safe to use on all skin types and takes about 30 minutes to complete. This peel can be used instead of a foot scrub monthly or in addition to a foot scrub. h
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annie Young is not your typical college student. However, she is accomplishing her dreams at the amazing age of 58 years old.
Due to an unexpected layoff, what most would consider rejection allowed Young’s steps to be redirected for an opportunity for her to receive a two-year college degree. She pursued this opportunity at Guilford Technical Community College with the faith that believed anything was possible with hard work. She went on to continue her education at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro. Even during hard times, she pushed herself through and she received academic honors at GTCC on the President’s List and Dean’s List, and at UNCG she was inducted into the Phi Alpha Honor Society. She says during the tough times of being in college, her daughter, La’Lace Young, would always encourage her to keep going. In the month of May, Nannie will walk across the stage at UNCG as an honor student, mother and an overcomer. More importantly, she will share this special moment in her life with her daughter, La’Lace, who is also graduating this summer from Ragsdale High School with honors as well. “I am so elated because my daughter and I are sharing our accomplishments together,” said Nannie. “It feels like a dream because I never thought at my age, school would be in my plans.”
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This is truly a testimony for Nannie because she always wanted to raise a child and God blessed her with a beautiful baby that was only three days old at adoption. She honestly thought her mission was to raise her child and encourage her to go to college, but she never imagined that higher education was in the plan for her life. In the future, Nannie would love to attend graduate school; however her first priority is to seek employment and focus on getting her daughter in college. “I would love to pursue a career that allows me to work with children who have behavioral problems,” she says. “Right now, a juvenile court counselor, parole or probation officer holds my interest. I know my calling is working with teenagers, who are at-risk in society. I also believe Jesus already has that specific job for me. I have faith that I will be used to empower a child.” As for her daughter, La’Lace, her plans are to countdown the days until graduation, prepare for college and pursue a career as a lawyer. Her dreams are to work as a corporate lawyer, make partner at a well-known firm and possibly open a practice of her own. The sweetest gift she wants to one day give to her mom is to take care of her for all she has done for her. “My mom has impacted my life so much, her going back to school at her age and accomplishing everything that she has is such a wonderful thing,” said La’Lace. “I am very proud of her and watching her fly through school gives me all the hope in the world for my future plans.” h
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By Alana Allen Photo ny Mykel Media Company hen it comes to a woman’s hair, it’s one of the top priorities in the morning that sets the tone for the day. A good hair day can make any woman feel gorgeous and add a boost of confidence. However, a bad hair day can cause a woman to have low self-esteem, question herself and increase nervousness.
So can you imagine what it is like for women who are working hard to improve their lives with the hopes of securing a job or fitting in with new employment, but they cannot afford hairstyling services? This is a harsh reality for a woman focused on transforming her life but lacks the resources due to finances. However, LaTonya Warren-Couch, owner of Millennium Styling Studio and her stylists are making a huge impact in the lives of women who are moving forward in their lives with a gift of a free hairstyle. Millennium Styling Studio, located in Greensboro has partnered with the Department of Social Services’ Workforce Development program to help women who are in need of this service. The women in this program are connected to the salon through a referral system from DSS. When they arrive the day of their appointment, all clients receive excellent customer service and most importantly, they receive encouragement and wisdom from stylists who are there to help. The owner and visionary of Millennium Styling Studio, LaTonya Couch has been a stylist for more than 17 years and she is extremely passionate about helping her community. “When I was 15 years old, I lived on my own and the community helped me,” says Couch. “Ever since then, I’ve been reaching out to help others the same way people gave back to me.” Every year, Millennium Styling Studio has a theme to serve the community with free hairstyles such as helping senior citizens, encouraging voters to get out to vote and back to school drives. In the future, the salon plans to continue to support more community events and connect with women who are transitioning from the prison system. If you would like to connect with LaTonya Warren Couch of Millennium Styling Studio about impacting the community, please e-mail her at LatonyaCouch@yahoo.com. h
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ext Generation Academy, After School and summer Program began in 2008 with 45-50 students--an astounding feat for a brand new program. Vista King has been the program director from the very beginning.
Initially the program started as just a summer camp, focusing on grade level retention and growth. King and school advisors recognized the need for students to continue to stimulate their minds throughout the summer, and be prepared for the upcoming school year. The program has consistently grown over the years to include a year-round pre-K program and after school program in addition to the summer camp. Consequently, enrollment has increased to nearly the point of wait listing. Students and parents are given a weekly schedule of daily activities and instruction. Every aspect of every day is completely accounted for. It’s something that parents really appreciate and it gives the kids a sense of discipline and structure. King makes it very clear that Next Generation is NOT a babysitting service. Students from ages 3-16 years are stimulated and taught through fun and educational activities and are required to participate. The programming is so extensive it would be impossible to include it all, but students are sure to enjoy regular access to: · Leadership and character building exercises
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· Onsite tutoring and specialists (speech, reading, etc.) · Hands-on life lessons from professionals · Exposure to various cultures, including the popular, “Trip Around the Word” where students learn of different countries then visit corresponding restaurants · Various classes such as sewing (age appropriate), etiquette & karate (self-defense) · Educational day trips such as the public library (where students are encouraged to get their own library card (with parental permission); museums, and any other places of historical significance and educational value · Fun day trips including skating, swimming, movie theaters, zoos and all things FUN · Health awareness and healthy eating habits (including the new age appropriate boot camp) · Visiting the court house to see a real trial · And even service learning projects with organizations such as The Ronald McDonald House Students are always excited to discover what each and every day holds because learning is made fun. The school uses every possible creative avenue to reach every child. Completely licensed and certified, Next Generation prides itself on the fact that it employs only compassionate individuals who personify Godly principles and morals. All staff members are appropriately educated and trained. The school accepts special needs and handicap children depending upon the scope of the need and accepts vouchers from the North Carolina Department of Social Services and other social agencies. From the time the first child arrives for breakfast until the last one leaves for the day Next Generation is committed to making sure students flourish and excel. h
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ifty years ago, Jeannie and Robert Stockham went on their first date. When they returned home they were engaged. It was a warm day in March 1963. The pair rode out; not too far; somewhere near Jones Beach in New York. The details are a bit fuzzy, but the results of their date will forever be imprinted in their minds. They spent the evening talking; telling each other of their dreams and desires. They just knew. He was the one. She was the one. The months that followed were spent making introductions to family members and utilizing every possible opportunity to spend time together. Robert would be shipping out in May, only two months after their engagement for boot camp. He had enlisted in the Marines. A wedding was planned for March 1964. Theirs is a love story that truly defies the modern sense of courtship, yet their love has unflinchingly remained and grown with each passing year. It’s a feat most marriages fail to achieve. However, if not for divine intervention their union would have never been. In 1961, Jeannie was engaged to be married; but it wasn’t to Robert. The date was set for the weekend immediately following her high school graduation. An apartment had been rented, furniture purchased and all the necessary arrangements made. The date arrived, but Jeanie Mae didn’t get married that day; however, her fiancé did. Jeannie was astonished to discover that her fiancé had been seeing another woman whom he chose to marry that weekend. Her name was Jeannie too. The entire event was devastating. “Almost like the death of a loved one,” she says. Nevertheless, she responded by asking God to relieve her of the disappointment and trauma she felt. She prayed that she would not become involved with anyone else until she met the man who would become her husband.
Robert and Jeannie Stockham celebrated their vowel renewal at Stallings Ballroom of the Memorial Student Union at North Carolina A&T State University. The occasion was conducted by Bishop George W. Brooks, Pastor Emeritus of Mount Zion Baptist Church of Greensboro, NC Inc.
Theirs is a love story that truly defies the modern sense of courtship, yet their love has unflinchingly remained and grown with each passing year. It’s a feat most marriages fail to achieve.
Meanwhile, quiet and shy, Robert was busy working as a teacher’s assistant at a high school in New York. He had a steady girlfriend and was basically content. Jeannie and Robert eventually crossed paths when she decided to spend a few months visiting family members in New York for the summer before heading to Chicago for school. She found work as a seamstress at a local dry cleaner. Robert knew the manager and often stopped by on his way home. Jeannie was attracted, but Robert never showed interest and she also remembered her prayer request. Still intrigued, she sent word through Robert’s friend, (her boss), of her interest but the friend never relayed the message and decided he wanted to woo her instead. Jeannie made it clear she was smitten by only Robert. Even still, it took some time before Robert built up enough courage to approach her. “I was shy back then and was leery because she was super fine,” he says. Ultimately he asked to spend some time with her. They have been “spending time” with each other ever since that day. Continued on the next page
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They both agree their love story has nothing to do with luck or chance, rather they recognize it’s the invisible hand and plan of God that has been guiding them. They recall examples of situations in their marriage they simply can’t explain by ordinary means; situations that are just as divinely orchestrated as their marriage. They tell the story of the maid of honor from their wedding named Carol Carter, who they believe God had strategically connected them to. Following the wedding the friends lost contact. Robert and Jeannie began to build their lives and they assumed the same about Carter. However, it was Roberts’ love of movies that reconnected the friends. After a Sunday service in 1995, he decided to stop for a DVD rental. While talking to the store clerk he noticed her accent and asked where she was from (he had a habit of trying to guess someone’s origin by their accent). Jamaica Queens, she said. (Robert’s hometown) It was Carol Carter.
Over and over again they tell stories that simply signify they made the right choice 50 years ago. They reiterate it’s just the hand of God.
Well over 25 years later, from New York to Greensboro, the friends were reunited again. They have since lost contact with Carter, although it’s not because they haven’t tried to reach out, it’s because they simply believe it’s the plan of God for them to find each other all over again. They say it’s not just coincidence. It’s God. “I don’t understand why. We don’t know how she ended up here, but it’s all God’s plans. There is a connection. We know it’s something God has for us to do,” Robert says. Over and over again they tell stories that simply signify they made the right choice 50 years ago. They reiterate it’s just the hand of God. A love like theirs doesn’t come by happenstance. How have they maintained their love for 50 years? “First of all, it doesn’t seem like it’s been 50 years. I would say it feels like it might be 25 or 30 years; but it just doesn’t feel like 50,” says Jeannie. “I don’t ask anything of him that I can’t give myself.” Plus Robert jokingly adds, “I’m 100 percent domesticated. I can do anything on both sides. I can wash clothes, change diapers and cook and I do it all to this day.” They admit they don’t always enjoy the same things but that’s okay. Robert loves being outside in the yard, whereas Jeannie had enough of the outdoors when she was growing up in Alabama. They agree that doing things together as a couple is what helped them make it to their golden anniversary. They have an ongoing game of Rummy 500 they have been playing every night for 50 years. Robert says he gets beat down every time, but loves every minute of it. Jeannie says of course they agitate each other at times and usually have spats about something every day, but they calm down, make up, and then move forward. “I’ll tell you another thing that keeps you going,” he says reluctantly. “You have to always remain in love with each other.” It’s obvious the Stockhams love and adore one another. It’s the kind of love that compels others to smile, and hope and pray for a love like theirs in this lifetime. h
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Allergy Season Blues Histamine is a chemical released by the body’s immune system that
causes many of the symptoms of allergies, such as a runny nose or sneezing. When a person is allergic to a particular substance, such as a food or dust, the immune system mistakenly believes that this usually harmless substance is actually harmful to the body. In an attempt to protect the body, the immune system starts a chain reaction that prompts some of the body’s cells to release histamine andother chemicals into the bloodstream. The histamine then actson a person’s eyes, nose, throat, lungs, skin, or gastrointestinal tract, causing allergy symptoms. Pollen Count is a measure of how muchpollen is in the air in a certain area at a specific time. Pollen counts tend to be highest early in the morning on warm, breezy days and lowest during chilly, wet periods. Pollen counts are often reported in the local weather
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Additionally, your child’s symptoms may warrant the use of allergy medications. While there is no cure for seasonal allergies, but there are treatments that can relieve the symptoms. The most common treatment options on the market are medications called antihistamines. These medicines work by blocking histamine. Histamine is the chemical substance that plays a major role in many allergic reactions. It is the release of histamine that causes the symptoms we see with allergies, like runny nose, itchy eyes and congestion. Common antihistamines include Benadryl (diphenhydramine), Zyrtec (Cetirizine), Allegra (fexofenadine) and Claritin (loratadine).
Gesundheit!… This is the fourth time you’ve said “bless you!” this morning and you haven’t even finished getting your daughter dressed. You’re contemplating scheduling a doctor’s appointment because your daughter has had this “cold” for 2 weeks now. However, what may be really plaguing your little ones are seasonal allergies, also known as hay fever. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimated that roughly 6.6 million children were reported to have had seasonal allergies in the past 12 months. Seasonal allergies affect 17 percent of all U.S. children. Many children with seasonal allergies develop them by the age of 10, however the signs of allergies may appear in infancy. On the bright side, most people outgrow allergies by adulthood. There are many triggers for seasonal allergies that include pollen from blooming trees, flowers and grass. While we welcome the warm weather and the beautiful change in scenery and colorful flowers in full bloom, all these springtime changes also usher in watery eyes and runny noses for many. The symptoms of seasonal allergies can resemble the signs of the common cold including runny nose, congestion, sneezing and coughing. However, if you notice these symptoms at the exact same time each year then what your child may be experiencing are seasonal allergies. Now that the weather is warm and sunny, your little mini-me is certainly going to want to spend more time outdoors. However, to minimize your child’s symptoms and discomfort from allergies you should remain indoors when pollen counts are high (often reported on the local news), stay in an air-conditioned environment, close all windows, wash hands frequently and change clothes after being outside.
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While many of these medications are now available over-the-counter, please be mindful that you are only taking the recommended dosage. Overdose is rare but can occur with symptoms that can consist of extreme drowsiness, heart palpitations, rapid heartbeat, headache or seizures. If your child experiences any of those symptoms seek immediate medical attention. If these behavioral and over-the-counter remedies don’t resolve your child’s symptoms then your little one may benefit from regular allergy shots. Your child’s pediatrician may refer you to a specialist like an immunologist or allergist to evaluate whether regular allergy shots are needed. So, as you prepare to enjoy picnics, afternoons at the playground, and baseball and soccer games please be sure to “Get Your Life” this spring by minimizing your exposure to seasonal allergens like pollen from trees, grass and flowers by staying inside in the AC when pollen counts are high, closing all windows, and changing out of pollen covered clothing. If these preventative measures still don’t eliminate the itchy eyes and runny nose then perhaps a visit to the doctor and an OTC antihistamine may help your child get back to enjoying their highly anticipated spring and summer breaks. h
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ince 2011, Huami Magazine has partnered with local businesses and professionals to produce an event designed to feed, entertain and unite Greater Greensboro and surrounding areas; better known as The Huami Magazine Community Cookout.
The growing and highly anticipated event draws crowds of more than 2,000 individuals. Every year business men and women, families, friends, co-workers, kids and everyone in-between converge on the spacious lawns at Festival Park in downtown Greensboro. Attendees pour into the area with lawn chairs and blankets in tow ready to experience a day of fun and excitement.
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Everyone knows from previous years they can look forward to several hours of food, music, information and lots of fun; all for free. The community cookout began as an idea of Terry L. Watson, who is also the editor-in-chief, founder and publisher of Huami Magazine. He was looking for another avenue to connect his community-focused publication with actual members of the community. He wanted everyone to be able to come together in one place to have a great time and receive a practical taste of what the magazine offers in every issue. Initial planning and logistics were difficult; however Watson’s strong determination was certain of one thing— everything had to be absolutely free for everyone. “The very first event was a huge challenge. As we began to set up, the smoke from the grills rose into the sky and lines of people formed,” Watson says. “I noticed that many of the people in line were homeless. There were entire families and people from all kinds of backgrounds. This allowed me to get a conscious understanding of the face of homelessness in our community and why this event is so important.”
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The Huami Magazine Community Cookout provides the perfect opportunity for everyone to give back in a tangible way. According to Watson, it takes a great deal of effort to plan and carry out the event -- everything from setup and breakdown, mounds of food purchased and the anticipation of large crowds, which has never been a disappointment. The event is completely produced through the massive efforts of countless volunteers, donations and sponsorships. This year’s event is scheduled for Saturday, June 14 and will feature even more games for the kids, live musical performances, additional vendors and of course, free food. There will be a special performance by CA Cheer & Company, and a Detriot/DC Style Stepping Crown Participation segment provided by Smooth Grooves Urban Ballroom. Huami Magazine is circulated in eight North Carolina cities: Greensboro, High Point, Winston Salem, Charlotte, Raleigh, Durham, Burlington and Salisbury. The magazine is and will forever be the source for community involvement and information. h
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arilyn G. Brooks spent years of her life in total misunderstanding and uncertainty of her life’s purpose. She was certain of her call into ministry and knew she was an educator, yet she was lost in an identity crisis. Increasingly she had a longing to know and do what she was created to do. The more she searched, the more she understood her divine purpose.
Brooks’ journey of self-discovery and purpose led to the liberation of other women through her calling. “I reasoned that if I was lost in purpose and identity then certainly I wasn’t the only one. There had to be other women going through the same thing,” says Brooks. “I started talking to other women and realized that we were all going through the same thing. We were all just regular or everyday women but we have a purpose.” She noticed women were in search of something, but didn’t truly know exactly what it was they sought. Her profound realization over 25 years ago was the foundation for the organization and empowerment workshops, Everyday Women with a Purpose. In 1999, the Greensboro native held her first workshop in her home. With just a few women and even some adolescent girls, she began having workshops with the purpose of empowering women to not only discover their purpose, but to also operate in it. However, there was a problem, she would consistently ask a series of questions—what is your purpose and what are you supposed to be doing? She noticed a pattern of hearing the same answers. The women almost certainly answered with, “I’m a wife. I’m a mother or I’m a sister.” They almost unanimously couldn’t identify themselves apart from what other people or society said about them. Somehow the women had adopted everybody else’s opinion of who they were, but never took the time to discover for themselves. Brooks decided she had to ask different questions: Who did the creator create you to be? What are your skills? What would you like to do if everything was perfect and you had your way? From there the empowerment series began to grow and swell with women in pursuit of their purpose.
Above, Brooks shares one of her custom-made puppets to encourage women as well as children during her workshops. Below she displays her book, “Come Out of Your Coocoon” which focuses on self empowerment.
Today multiple topics are covered, but one of her favorites include, The Merchant Ship Female, which probes Proverbs 31 in the Bible and focuses on the woman as an entrepreneur and leader. Additional workshop topics run the gamut from, Are You Addicted to the Need to be Loved to It’s Time to Let it Go to Take off the Mask. They are simply practical applications of Biblical principles. Her life experience and education (she has degrees from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, Greensboro College and will be receiving a Master of Theology in less than a month) is what makes her a highly sought after facilitator. Brooks has traveled hundreds of miles conducting Everyday Women with a Purpose empowerment seminars in various settings. Although she works as a full-time 3rd grade teacher, she uses every available opportunity to share with women. She is often invited to lead seminars for women’s groups, churches, schools and everything in between. Nevertheless, her purpose includes much more. Also an author, storyteller and education advocate, she knows without a shadow of a doubt that the organization is what has propelled her into other areas of her life that she was created to do. She has written two books, Come Out of Your Cocoon and another, Finding Your Voice, is slated to be released later this year. Surprising herself, Brooks who is an ordained Apostle, has become an avid storyteller. She uses custom-made puppets to encourage women as well as children; the latter of which she recognizes needs self-esteem empowerment. Her newest puppet, Sasha, hasn’t made an official debut, but when she does the only thing the life-sized “everyday woman” will want to do is tell her story. It’s Brooks’ way of encouraging women to be courageous enough to speak their own truth. Brooks plans to continue to use Everyday Women with a Purpose, her books, storytelling, puppets and every avenue possible to liberate and free women in their mind, spirit and body so they can operate in purpose. h
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“I love ministry and have a heart for God’s People”
Future plans are to continue his education and pursue a Masters Degree in Counseling and eventually obtain a degree in Seminary. He also plans to work in the educational system and inspire other young people, especially black males to be successful and pursue their dreams. If you would like to feature someone in the Youth Spotlight, please send a detailed email to mykelmedia@yahoo.com
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ay-Z has one, Diddy has one and even Kim Kardashian has one. It seems as if everyone has a brand in today’s pop culture obsessed society. However, is branding easier said than done?
As a professional career coach, I often discuss branding with my clients. Branding is defined as the “name, term, design, symbol, or any other feature that identifies one seller’s product distinct from those of other sellers.” While this concept seems easy enough, it leaves many of my clients with questions like “What is my brand? How do I create my brand? How do I promote my brand?” I approach branding a little differently than other career coaches. I believe personal branding has to be established first for any worker before they can build a business brand. Personal branding is how we market ourselves to others from the clothing you wear, how you behave and interact with other people, and your body language. It’s your reputation, the size and strength of your personal network, and the unique value you can contribute to your workplace or clients. With this in mind, what brand do you represent each day? One of the most important questions to answer when branding
yourself is, “Who am I?” Your character, passion and purpose must be the foundation of your brand. This is the very reason people don’t get the same results they may have read in business books. Your character, passion and purpose in life are what make you unique. However, we often try to build our own brand, by emulating other people. To establish your personal brand you must be consistent, reliable and authentic. These are three criteria people use to evaluate your personal and business brand. There is a process to establishing, consistency, reliability and authenticity in your life. It’s also important for us to consider the fact we equate brand to quality. Think about Mercedes Benz, Jaguar, Coach, and Michael Kors. We have never questioned those particular brands when spending our money. However, we question the single investments we make in ourselves. So my question to potential brand builders is “Are you committed to yourself?” If so, start taking the steps to build a brand that will make you proud. If you would like more information about branding, contact Moore Out of Life at (704) 565-9608 or visit www.mooreoutoflife.com. h
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