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Life Can Be A Two Way Street A Letter from the Editor

According to an online dictionary, the definition of pessimism states it to be a tendency to see the worst aspect of things or believe that the worst will happen; a lack of hope or confidence in the future. Another one states that most people feel that too much pessimism is paralyzing — who will ever try anything if they believe they will surely fail? I believe that in order to love life, you must first learn how to live it.

The easiest way for someone to kill your ambition is by drowning your thoughts and your mind with disbelief and discouragement. I thank God for those who told me that I would never amount to much and also for those who cared enough to tell me that my future was bright. Even though I couldn’t see which direction I was headed in at the time, I remember the negative words hurting and the positive ones acting as a band-aid to my wounds.

We must guard our eyes and ears from dream killers. Not everyone is happy to see us succeed and a harsh reality is that those who are hurt will also hurt others.

Greatness requires one important ingredient ― ambition. If someone can steal your ambition, they are capable of stealing your hope. If your hope is compromised, your ability to survive today’s storm can seem far and out of reach. Instead of telling yourself or even someone else about the odds of failing verses succeeding, be optimistic and picture yourself in a better situation.

Sometimes our blessings flow from how we treat others. If you can only reach someone by giving, then give all that God allows you to. Who knows, tomorrow it could easily be you on the outside looking in.

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Karen Bonner & She Salon

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Home Care Health Awareness

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TB Testing

Get Out and Vote

Danny Rogers For Sheriff

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Living Healthy

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Fall Festival For The Family

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Wedding Bells Are Ringing

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More To Know About Makeup

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The Youth in You

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Sickle Cell Awareness Love & Faith Christian Fellowship Tracey McCain and Jaron Barbee Of Skin And Wellness

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Jess Tee Entertainment

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A Cutting Edge Custom Clothiers

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Home Care Workers and Tuberculosis Testing

by Terri M. Johnson Administrative Assistance, Reliable Home Cares Services Tuberculosis (TB) is an infectious disease that usually infects the lungs, but can attack almost any part of the body.

The Tuberculosis skin test is also known as the tuberculin test, PPD test or TB test.

The PPD test is used to determine if someone has developed an immune response to the bacterium that causes tuberculosis. The bacteria can remain inactive (dormant) in the lungs for many years. This situation is called latent TB. Most people in the United States who are infected with the bacteria do not have signs or symptoms of active TB. Tuberculosis is spread from person to person through the air. When a person diagnosed with TB in their lungs or throat coughs, laughs, sneezes, sings or even talks, the germs that cause TB may spread through the air. If another person breathes in these germs, there is a chance that they will become infected with tuberculosis. Infected clients may have symptoms such as chronic cough (lasting for weeks and bringing up mucus or blood), weight loss, fever or night sweats. It is important as a home care worker to protect yourself from tuberculosis infection by getting tested on an annual basis.

It is for the reasons mentioned above that home care workers must be tested and certified that they are not contagious with TB before they are placed on an assignment.

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Come out to the Fall Festival at the Greensboro location of Love and Faith Christian Fellowship on September 28, 2014. The event begins at 8:30 am and will feature gospel music artists Jekalyn Carr, Shekinah Glory and Damon Little.

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Women Empowering Women

By Torri Johnson - Photo by Torri Johnson

At the beginning of this year, I facilitated the January monthly Women Empowering Women (WE) session. The topic I decided was “Shame”. I had recently read some works by the infamous sociologist, Brene Brown and I stumbled across an article where she was discussing shame and the six different types of people not to share your shame story with. In short, the article revealed some very useful information. We all have some dark areas of our past that may or may not make us feel shameful. This article in detail, advised us of the folks who are just not worthy of hearing our shame story.

Ever since coordinating that session back in January and studying the material that I have been learning in my classes at Guilford College, as well as reading other self-help books on psychological health, spirituality, empowerment and various other subjects. I decided that I really loved every minute of those two hours I was sharing words of encouragement and planting seeds of empowerment in the lives of other women, all very different from me; different ages, backgrounds and socioeconomic status. From there with the approval of my mother, Portia Shipman, executive director of the Sherri Denese Jackson Foundation (SDJF), I was declared the SDJF Women’s Empowerment Coordinator. This opportunity fit perfectly with my life’s vision, which is to help others along their journey to have more happy, meaningful, and purposeful lives.

Since January, I have delivered a different power-packed workshop every month. Some of the topics include: Living With No Regrets: How to Regret Proof Your Life; The Power of Positive Thoughts; Forgiveness; and Success Defined. Last month in August, our topic was: How are YOU Doing? Ladies Night Edition. This session was very informative and reflective because I provided a review of all of our previous sessions and the ladies and I were able to casually reflect and talk about our lives over the first half of the year thus sort of giving ourselves a mid-year review.

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Our sessions have grown over the last seven months to just a few ladies to now over 20 - 30 active participants. We have grown so much that I have moved the WE sessions from our office conference room to hosting them at local public libraries in Greensboro. The sessions are informal and very relaxed. In my sessions, I require that every participant give themselves permission to be who they are. We have fun, we laugh, sometimes we even cry but we always inspire and love on one another.

I am only 26-years-old and do not have all of the answers but what I can do is share what I do know and I am learning with other women in hopes that the information shared will and can change somebody’s life. God has been so good to me and I know that he will continue to bless us all. I give thanks to Him for instilling a true sense of community in me and a passion to keep others encouraged. The motto of the SDJF Women Empowering Women group is: Be Lifted. Be Inspired.

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Our next session will be Thursday, September 25, 2014, from 7:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. at the McGirt-Horton Library on Phillips Avenue. The topic is Friendship: What Makes a Friend Worthy of The Name. I invite you all to attend. The ladies of WE are also traveling to Washington, D.C. from October 10 - 12, 2014, for a “Purple Love Affair,” which is a domestic violence awareness conference with special performance by national recording artist, Dwele. If you would like to travel with us, please call, Portia Shipman at (336) 510-9292.

As author Alice Walker once stated, “The most common way people give up their power, is by thinking they do not have any.” With that quote in mind, SDJF will present “A Powerhouse” Women’s Empowerment Conference at the Greensboro Public Library, Downtown on Saturday, December 13, 2014, from 11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. This event will be FREE for ladies age 18 and up — RSVP will be required. This will be the SDJF’s Women Empowering Women biggest event of the year. This event will be packed with special activities and various inspirational speakers on topics every woman should hear. Brunch will also be provided. h

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essTee Entertainment is the Triad’s up and coming source for quality concerts, events and promotions that uplift, inspire and encourage. Business partners, Jessica Williams (Evangel Fellowship C.O.G.I.C.) and Tee Walden (Minister of Music at FaithStep Ministries Church), came together in 2013 to form their budding, breakout, entertainment and promotion company, JessTee Entertainment.

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The name JessTee (a combination of ‘Jess’ica and Tee), is simply the duo’s response to their desire for providing events and opportunities in which God is celebrated and worshipped in a fun, joyous and excellent atmosphere.

“We both love Jesus and want to make sure people really know that ‘ain’t no party like a Holy Ghost party cause a Holy Ghost party don’t stop’,” Williams and Walden said.

Nevertheless, the two had to endure a process before they began to see the vision for their business venture manifest itself. There were many hardships and low points, but they both remained steadfast, faithful and determined.

By all accounts, Williams was living a decent and prosperous life. Her position as a registered nurse afforded her the opportunity to maintain a fairly comfortable lifestyle. However in 2011, everything began to fall apart at the seams when she lost her job. Everything began to spiral out of control from that point. The bills were piling up, her car was in jeopardy of repossession and her home was in foreclosure. She found herself in a position she never anticipated.

“I went through a very tough time. As a nurse, you would think it wouldn’t be difficult finding another job, but it was. I went from one lifestyle to another. I wasn’t far from being on the street. I had never been in that desolate place before,” she says. “However in 2012, God began to turn things around. I got a job, and things began to look much better. I was so grateful that the Lord brought me through all those situations.”

At the same time, Walden wasn’t fairing much better.

Many of the choices he made in his past cost him dearly later in life as he found himself often homeless and living by whatever means he could find. Through his faith and lifestyle changes, he was doing well and was on the path to graduate from college, but he ended up dealing with a blow that nearly shook him to his core. He was diagnosed with cancer. While it took a minute for the news to settle in, he resorted to what he knew—his faith in God. There was a process, but today he stands cancer free and graduated with the esteemed President’s Medal Award (the highest honor for the entire class).

“I’ve eaten out of trash cans; I’ve gone behind restaurants and in hopes that someone would throw some scraps out. So my level of trust in God is different--I trust God implicitly. There is no loophole for me; I have crazy faith. If HE said it, it’s coming to pass; I don’t care what it looks like; you can’t tell me any differently,” Walden says.

“I might have to sleep in the car again and that’s fine; I know God will sustain me. I don’t put a lot of substance in material or monetary things. It’s nice to have but I know that’s not where my help comes from. God carried us through our desert experiences, and that’s why we began JessTee Entertainment.”

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“I’ve eaten out of trash cans; I’ve gone behind restaurants and in hopes that someone would throw some scraps out.

So my level of trust in God is different ― I trust God implicitly. There is no loophole for me; I have crazy faith. If HE said it, it’s coming to pass; I don’t care what it looks like; you can’t tell me any differently”.

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Williams and Walden’s enormous gratefulness to God ignited the fire behind JessTee Entertainment. The company’s first official event in 2013, “Prelude to Homecoming 2013,” was their way of saying thank you to GOD. JessTee produced the event during the week leading up to the renowned North Carolina A&T’s homecoming. Last year’s production proved to be enormously successful. The event has grown this year to feature more artists including Grammy Award-winning producer and Stellar Award winning artist, JMoss, as well as gospel artist Christopher Lewis, neo soul songstress Avery*Sunshine and gospel jazz artist Rae Ellis.

“We both love and participate in music, and we knew we were going to be celebrating [North Carolina A&T] homecoming, so I wanted to give something back to God. I didn’t want to spend all the money He blessed me with without first celebrating him. I wanted that to be my first priority,” Williams said. “We want to continue “Prelude to Homecoming, every year.”

The events that JessTee produces will always feature uplifting and encouraging artists and messages. Patrons can expect to leave the company’s events feeling better with a more positive attitude. As Walden puts it, “we provide an atmosphere to celebrate! We praise and worship God because he deserves to be celebrated. What we do, we do it in a grand fashion. I feel like I’ve gotten a second chance in life–music saved my life. I went through suicidal tendencies and thoughts. I have a desire to use music as therapy to help others in the same situations I have been in.”

Although neither Williams nor Walden have been officially trained in promotions or event and entertainment planning, they have successfully navigated the often murky and unknown waters of promotion life. They have expertly learned every aspect of the business from dealing with booking agents, mangers, publicists and riders, to venue selection, set-up, sound management, sets, lighting, musical equipment, advertising, seating and power source management. The task has often been difficult and daunting, but with each event, the company has grown and expanded.

JessTee often fields calls and e-mails from various artists interested in working with the company simply because of the good name and reputation they have established throughout the Gospel promotions industry. In fact, last year’s headliner, Christopher Lewis, complimented and noted, the company’s excellence and preparedness.

“We both love and participate in music and we knew we were going to be celebrating [North Carolina A&T] homecoming, so I wanted to give something back to God. I didn’t want to spend all the money He blessed me with without first celebrating Him”.

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The future looks absolutely remarkable for JessTee Entertainment. The company plans to showcase more talent, including local and nationally recognized artists. The goal is to produce awesome events every three months for the community to enjoy.

“Above all else, we make sure we respect and honor God. We want to see a change in people’s lives when they leave our concerts and events,” Williams said. “We want to be able to reach this generation. We don’t want to focus on the things they can’t do, but tell them the things they can do and have fun doing it.” h

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hat initially started off as a conversation on how to serve the community at a greater capacity, in return birthed a new business venture.

In early 2013, Rev. Dr. Cardes Brown, Jr. and Miles Hurdle sat down with Reginald Woodard tossing ideas back and forth on a potential business that would impact families directly. The result of that meeting kickstarted their journey and Serenity Funeral Home & Cremations, LLC was established in Greensboro, N.C. The two partners used what they knew best to guarantee the success of the business. Rev. Dr. Cardes Brown, Jr. has served as senior pastor at New Light Missionary Baptist Church for more than 40 years and has counseled numerous families during their hard times. In addition, he has always been very active in the community serving on numerous boards and in leadership roles, including state chair of religious affairs for the N.C. NAACP. Miles Hurdle’s experience derives from his business savvy of working as a manager in the furniture industry and previous insight of the funeral home business. The pair joined forces to tackle a critical need for families and Reginald Woodard mentored them on how to get started, what services to provide and the operations of a funeral home business.

Serenity Funeral Home & Cremations was established in February 2013. The team operated in a spirit of excellence and was instrumental in finding the right facility, interior needs and developing the right services to help families in need. The funeral home offers the following services: full-service funeral arrangements, bereavement counseling to families, pre-arrangements and cremations.

Serenity Funeral Home & Cremations, LLC offers full-service funeral arrangements, bereavement counseling to families, pre-arrangements and cremations.

The mission of Serenity Funeral Home & Cremations is to provide services with a desire to make sure that every consideration and detail is given to help assist families during a very difficult hour. The staff members of the funeral home are dedicated professionals and exercise excellent customer service for clients.

The funeral home assist clients with making funeral service arrangements from casket choices to funeral flowers. In addition, the funeral director provides individualized funeral services designed to meet the needs of each family.

The funeral home also offers new features on their website: ordering flowers directly from their site; enhanced obituaries with a guest book, automatic email subscription when new notices are posted and new ways to send condolences such as food gifts and sympathy cards.

Pictured from left to right (front row)Miles Hurdle, Rev. C. Bradley Hunt, II, Cardes Brown, III, Rev. Dr. Cardes H. Brown, Jr. (Back Row) Rev. James (Teddy) Wilson, Jr., Edith Das

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During the beginning stages of the business, Reginald C. Woodard served as funeral director and embalmer. Then in August 2013, their friend and mentor, Reginald passed away suddenly. His passing caused both Dr. Brown and Mr. Hurdle to look at their reason for initially starting the business and remembering that their purpose was to serve the community and families during hard times.

Dr. Brown and Mr. Hurdle hired Rev. Dr. Benjamin Whitlock as funeral director and embalmer with over 40 years of experience in the funeral home business. They also hired Rev. C. Bradley Hunt, II as an apprentice under Rev. Whitlock. They continue to make progress towards their goal of being known in the community as a business that serves clients with the spirit of excellence.

Ben Whitlock, Funeral Director

“You never want a family going through the emotional stress of losing a loved one to not feel valued, appreciated and heard during their difficult time. It is important to us that our clients, do not regret their experience with our business but feel more at ease knowing that we are taking care of them.”

Dr. Cardes H. Brown, Jr.

“You never want a family going through the emotional stress of losing a loved one to not feel valued, appreciated and heard during their difficult time,” said Rev. Brown. “It is important to us that our clients, do not regret their experience with our business but feel more at ease knowing that we are taking care of them.”

Rev. Brown and Mr. Hurdle continue to stay motivated by the families that they serve, that constantly make them aware of their appreciation for the check-ins and services they provide. They are also inspired by the dedicated associates who commit their time and efforts to making sure that the funeral home runs smoothly. The following associates serve at Serenity Funeral Home & Cremations: their wives, Lois Hurdle and Diane Pierce Brown; Rev. James (Teddy) Wilson, Jr., Cardes Brown, III, Denise Pierce-Whitehurst and Edith Das (Spanish Interpreter).

The future goals of Serenity Funeral Home & Cremations are to continue to impact more families in the community through their services and charitable deeds. Most importantly, they want to continue reflecting a genuine love for Jesus the Christ. h

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“We serve the needs of the mental health community by providing services designed to enhance quality of life.”

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eketta Wright always knew she wanted to work in some capacity within the health field, but she wasn’t quite sure what aspect. After she did a bit of research and examined her own qualities it became clear to her that counseling and therapy was the path she should take. “I’ve always enjoyed helping others. At first when I was trying to figure out my career path I thought I wanted to be a nurse. Then I did an internship and decided against it,” she says. “I’ve always been a peace maker and have helped people find solutions to their problems. After doing research and figuring out what I wanted to do I thought counseling would be a good fit for me. I’m a pretty good listener. Of course I don’t fix people’s problems I just help them find what they already have inside them to help them find their own solutions and start their healing process.”

The Cove City, North Carolina native was determined and set her mind to accomplishing her goal of becoming a certified, licensed counselor. She obtained her undergraduate degree from Winston Salem State University in rehabilitation studies and received her graduate degree from North Carolina A&T in rehabilitation counseling. Following a long three year process, which included working at least 3,000 hands-on clinical hours in various counseling capacities, Wright obtained her official license to practice as a Licensed Professional Counselor and started her own private counseling practice—Wrights Care Services.

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When Wright began the business she started out providing one service to adults throughout Guilford County. She currently has six different programs employing four additional counselors to provide personalized care and assistance for clients. The group has more than 20 years of experience working throughout the mental and behavioral health field and has amassed several awards and recognitions.

Wrights Care Services offers marriage and family therapy counseling for everything from communication issues to infidelity; life coaching to help individuals reach their goals; intensive in home services for at risk youth; community support, which provides community resources for adults; and substance abuse services and counseling. In addition to the standard services, the company believes in providing tailored, individualized support and treatment options for all clients. Although normal business hours are Monday through Friday from 9 to 5, Wright understands people have extenuating circumstances and need flexibility especially when it comes to mental and behavioral issues.

“We work closely with individuals and organizations in the community and are often able to offer individualized hours and services in our office and we can also go out to individuals homes who can’t make it into our office or want more privacy than coming into the office,” says Wright. Her ability and willingness to go beyond the norm and work with the unconventional needs of clients also helps build and develop the necessary trust involved in a counselor/ client relationship.

Additionally, confidentiality, understanding and credibility are ultimately some of the most important factors needed. It’s no small secret that mental health and the many issues and illnesses associated with it carry a certain quiet stigma and negativity, especially within the African American community.

Nevertheless, Reketta and Wrights Care Services is intent on dispelling all the myths and ridding the community of the innuendo of receiving professional mental health and behavioral counseling.

Wright says it’s important for people to realize and understand that just because a person speaks with a therapist, for any reason, is not an indication or admittance to “being a failure,” rather it just means the person has recognized he needs help and additional support. Often times the symptoms are dismissed or completely overlooked, but she says when issues arise and one notices an increase in stress, feelings of being overwhelmed, anxiety or nervousness the time has come to seek help. “Often times in the African American community we see our pastors as counselors or therapist, but usually it’s more helpful to see someone who has been trained to counsel people in a different setting,” Wright says. “It does take a great deal of courage to talk to a therapist. However, once someone has found the right person and safe environment, they can look forward to trusting and building a relationship and have comfort in knowing everything will be okay and understand their problem may be big, but with the therapists help they can get through each step day by day.”

Wrights Care Services is in the business of helping people become better versions of themselves. They serve kids, adolescents and adults. Step by step marriages and broken families can be reunited. Through follow-up and after care services, substance abusers can maintain their sobriety and even individuals seemingly “stuck” in life can be motivated and inspired to move forward.

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Clients can find more information, make appointments and submit referrals via the company website at www.wrightscareservices.com. For added convenience and depending upon the situation telephone and Skype sessions are also available. h

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Karen Bonner

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hen Karen Bonner received her cosmetology license she immediately went to work under a great stylist, but she was itching to own her own salon. She was determined and convinced she could handle all the requirements and responsibilities of a salon owner. Even though she was encouraged to wait and get more experience under her belt, she would not be deterred. In December 2007 she opened her first salon. In less than a year the venture failed…miserably.

Although Bonner gave it her all, she simply wasn’t prepared for the immense responsibility and work required to make the business work. In the process of trying to keep the salon afloat, she loss everything she had – literally. She lost her home, car, source of income and everything else imaginable. “I should not have started and to be honest I was not ready. I had the mindset of a stylist. I did not have the mindset of a business owner.

I could do hair well, however I couldn’t manage the business,” she says. “It was beautiful, but it was in a bad location and I didn’t have any clients.”

Down but not out, Bonner allowed herself a short time to mourn the seeming defeat, but promised herself and her children that she would rise and overcome her situation. She never gave up her dream and desire to be a salon owner and she knew she would have her chance again and when she did, things would be different. She was absolutely certain of it. “Sometimes you have to suck in your pride and say I was wrong; you were right. But I just believe if you fall down you have to dust yourself off and keep going,” says Bonner.

Although she was forced to return to booth rental, she was warmly welcomed back by her former lead stylist and mentor, Shannon Williams, whom she credits as teaching her how to properly own and manage a salon and handle every aspect from dealing with clients and stylists to bill pay and continuing education. Bonner even became Williams’ salon manager at Sassy Styles by Shannon. The experience she gained proved to be priceless. Eventually, the opportunity presented itself and Bonner again had the chance to be a salon owner. In 2011 she became the proud owner of She Salon. This time she was prepared with the knowledge to make sure the venture would succeed.

Located in Winston Salem, North Carolina, She Salon is the physical expression of the passion Bonner has for what she does. She Salon has several stylists and a manicurist, most of whom have been with Bonner from the very beginning. Each stylist is properly licensed and trained. They all have a wealth of knowledge they bring to the table as well as individual expertise in natural hair care, short hair styling, weaving, braiding and everything else imaginable. Furthermore, the stylists, as well as Bonner, glean from each other and help one another. It’s what sets She Salon apart and above the crowd.

Clients continue to come because they recognize the difference at the salon. Loyalty has nothing to do with it; rather it’s the amazing family atmosphere they enjoy as well as the relationships they have built with one another. From cleanliness to the latest in healthy hair styles, options and techniques to the tranquil atmosphere and genuine friendships developed; it’s just different at She Salon.

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“We are like sisters. We get angry, but we love one another. We help each other and our clients take notice of that. We don’t hoard knowledge and love teaching each other things. If one stylist is backed up we don’t mind jumping in and helping her out without expecting a payment. It’s all about the clients and efficiency,” says Bonner.

And if you ask salon manager Fatina Matthews she will be quick to attribute the salon’s success to Bonner. “Our owner is so awesome that she pays for each stylist to take up to eight hours of continuing education classes out of her pocket and those classes can be very expensive,” she says. “Karen invests in the people she works with.” Matthews appreciates the loving but stern hand that Bonner operates the salon with. She likens it to a winepress. “It doesn’t always feel good at the time, but in the end it will be great.”

Not only do Bonner and She Salon invest in one another, they also regularly invest in the community. The stylists support Look Good, Feel Better, a partnership with Novant Health and the American Cancer Society that seeks to bring awareness to breast cancer and supports cancer patients. Additionally, She Salon established Camp She, in which Bonner and her stylists take 10 girls to the mountains for one week to receive special attention and pampering. Bonner says it’s an opportunity for the older women to be positive examples and pour into the lives of young ladies.

The resilient and positive attitude that Bonner maintains is simply her way of life and is ingrained in her being. She says life will throw you a curve ball that knocks you down, but you just have to get back up. Getting back up is exactly what she has done and not only that but she encourages her stylists and clients to do the same. Bonner says the biggest compliment she could receive is that her stylists go further than she does and accomplishes more than she has. h

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Stephen F. Walker

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tephen Walker is truly gifted in understanding what it takes to make a man or woman feel and look good in their attire. He says it all begins with a good suit and his company, A Cutting Edge Custom Clothiers, designs and produces custom clothing for men and women. The company specializes in custom clothing that includes: suits, topcoats, shirts, slacks, blouses and skirt.

In 2004, Walker started his business in the same existing place that it resides now, in his home. It happened as a result of not being completely satisfied with the styling options offered to him from clothiers within his reach. “I had purchased custom clothing from other clothiers prior to starting my business. And I realized that this would be the perfect way for me to express my unique sense of style and flair,” he says. After attending church on one particular Sunday and dressed in “a store bought suit”, Walker says he looked across the sanctuary and saw someone else wearing the same exact suit. “I knew it was time,” he explains.

Walker says he is able to create a professional look from classic to contemporary. “No matter how you define style, we provide it all. You can be your own designer and personalize your suits. Your new wardrobe will allow you to look and feel great without spending a fortune,” he says. “I love servicing the client utilizing a holistic approach by making diverse fabrics, shapes, colors and designs to make outfits that are distinctive, practical and fashionable.”

When someone buys a suit from Walker, he would be the first to say that his suits are better. Sure he uses the same fabrics as other clothiers, but what sets his suits apart from others is the quality and affordability. He says his clients are able to design their own clothing which defines their style without breaking the bank.

He credits his late mother, Mary Inez Walker for instilling in him her knowledge of business and the importance of being fair and honest. “I am inspired to provide a consistent level of unique service with the absolute highest quality clothing at excellent pricing,” says Walker. He also draws inspiration from by all the new trends and styles including slim suits and slim pants.

The typical cost of his products range between $495 to $1195 and the average turnaround time on a custom suit is four to six weeks but is usually delivered by the fourth week. Walker says his typical client ranges from the average everyday man or woman to pastors, deacons, and professional athletes.

Walker is a family man who works hard with strong determination to accomplish the task at hand. “I enjoy being a service to making people look good and feel good about themselves. Whether I am hanging out with family, friends, and co-workers, I try to remain consistent in both my personal and business life,” he says.​ h

A Cutting Edge Custom Clothiers Stephen F. Walker (336)450-6585 acuttingedgecc@yahoo.com Pictured along with Stephen F. Walker is his model Jerrell Jones. Walker is wearing Dark Grey with Chalk stripe Super 200’s - Emmanuel Este’ fabric Double breast with sinlge breasted vest.

Jerrell is wearing a Grey Glen Plaid Super 180’s Gino Matteo fabric single breast.

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What You Need To Know About Makeup

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he history of cosmetics dates back to over 6000 years ago. Some would even argue that cosmetic art began as early as 100,000 years ago in the African Stone Age as evidenced by utilized red mineral pigments found in Africa. Archaeological evidence of the use of cosmetics dates back to the ancient Egypt and Greece era. Every culture in the world has contributed to the cosmetic industry but it is of note that cosmetics in ancient times consisted of natural mineral pigments made from kohl, orche and flower extracts.

Introduction of cosmetic, mainly makeup, to the United States came in the 20th century. It became fashionable to wear makeup by way of the arts, which were ballet and theater productions. The most influential individuals for bringing makeup into the homes of American women, however, were the movie stars of Hollywood. From their re-creation of iconic images such as Cleopatra to their simple quest to appear glamorous, movie stars gave the public a look that seemed attainable by working girls. As a result, makeup pioneers immediately were hard at work to meet this new demand of the public.

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Mineral Makeup While the cosmetic industry quickly made its debut in American culture, the 1970’s came around and with it brought a change in how women wore makeup. It is during this time natural beauty became the focus for cosmetics. Wearers of makeup during this time wanted to be in a “free society,” this meant avoidance of chemicals and products that were manmade. As a result, mineral makeup emerged. In 1976, Bare Escentuals was developed. Bare Escentuals and makeup like it became popular because they did not contain emollient oils, waxes, fragrances and preservative ingredients of traditional cosmetic products.

The natural ingredients included iron oxides, talc, zinc oxide and titanium dioxide. These natural products were formulated to decrease skin reactions and offer a coverage that did not feel weighty. Mineral typically consist of fine particles that is accomplished by micronizing or ground and milled offering wearers a light to medium coverage. Benefits of mineral makeup include sun protection, it decreases inflammation, and minerals draw out impurities from the skin without drying.

Glo Minerals Glo Minerals is one of the two makeup lines that are recommended by dermatologist and skin care professionals worldwide. Glo Minerals like its predecessors was created with achieving a natural look. It is a combination of pharmaceutical-grade ingredients, natural high-pigment minerals and antioxidants. This makeup provides coverage and additionally helps correct underlying skin conditions while offering protection from UV damage. Additionally, Glo Minerals’ foundations are talc-free, non-comedogenic and free of fragrance; make it ideal for individuals with sensitive skin, acne and rosacea. Antioxidants included in Glo Minerals are Vitamins A, C, E and green tea extract. Glo Minerals is micronized and triple milled, to create fine particles that offer buildable coverage. Glo Mineral foundations are offered in a range of coverage.

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According to your peers · “I think a lot of women don’t know how to correctly match their makeup to their skin, they look two toned.” ~ Shnee · “Light blue and silver on the eyes do not work for everyone” ~ Tiffany · “Makeup does not need to match your outfit” ~ Tomeka · “Dry lips underneath lipstick make me cringe…moisturize!” ~ Mya · “There’s day makeup and night makeup. You should not always look like you club.” ~ Maisha · “You can’t cover acne, fix it.” ~ Nasasha · “I hate when women shave their eyebrows and then draw them back on wrong.” ~ Nikki At Of Skin and Wellness, we believe mineral foundations should be your base for makeup. Mineral makeup is the only foundation that should be applied after any skin procedure whether it is a simple facial, chemical peel or reconstructive surgery. We offer a full array of foundations from the Glo Minerals line that included pressed bases, tinted moisturizers, liquid foundations and bronzers to name a few.

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On November 4, 2014, Vote Danny Rogers for Guilford County Sheriff WHY

By Tonya Dixon Photos by Howard Gaither

Danny Rogers is committed to building better relationships between law enforcement and the communities they serve. A native of High Point N.C., he knows the lay of the land and is a familiar fixture throughout the community and he is running for the Office of Guilford County Sheriff.

Can he count on your vote?

Danny has the unique distinction of having significant hands on experience. He understands all the different aspects of the local criminal justice system. He has worked as a Guilford County detention officer, and was formerly a patrol officer for both the City of High Point as well as the Office of Guilford County Sheriff. Rogers also has experience working in vice and narcotics.

Rogers has the experience and insight to effect change.

If elected, Rogers promises he will evaluate the state of Guilford County through internal and external probes and begin a campaign toward implementing needed departmental changes. Likewise, community partnerships, programs and initiatives will be evaluated for effectiveness.

What Change?

Rogers believes the county is in need of a great deal of reformation, yet the task is not insurmountable. He believes the agency must set specific goals and not lose focus. · · · · ·

Greater commitment to community engagement and relationships Develop a more comprehensive rehabilitation plan Increase community and school safety Give more attention to officer training and innovation Institute a more accountable system for departmental procedures.

Rogers says just putting criminals behind bars isn’t enough. In order to fix the crime issue he knows the key is to be proactive, which means crime prevention. For Rogers, becoming sheriff would mean more than simply fighting crime. He understands in order to successfully fight crime at all levels, the agency must be unified and determined not to allow infighting or other internal disruptions to affect the common goal. Additionally, he is interested in fighting against the intangible. He refers to departmental areas in dire need of repair and restructure.

“A change from the ground up must occur. That is not to say people would be eliminated. That is to say that the way of thinking must change,” he says. “I don’t ever want anyone to ever be afraid to respectfully speak their mind. My goal is to look at, evaluate and assess the department’s structure ― then restructure as needed. The old regime needs to change.” He adds the agency must take the lead.

When the agency changes for the better, the community will see a noted difference.

For Rogers, becoming sheriff would mean more than simply fighting crime. He understands in order to successfully fight crime at all levels, the agency must be unified and determined not to allow infighting or other internal disruptions to affect the common goal.

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Roger isn’t afraid to point out the problems he has witnessed firsthand. It’s that very fact that he is willing to put his hand to the plow in order to make a positive and verifiable difference. He adds that fairness must extend beyond the offices of the department. It must be incorporated when arrests are made, crimes are investigated and punishments are imposed. It’s a touchy subject but he believes he is mentally tough enough to handle what may come his way.

Likewise, rehabilitation and repeat offenders is a major issue for Guilford County. It’s a serious problem that affects more than just the incarceration rates and prison overcrowding. While the issue affects more than the youth, the solution lies with them. He says whether it’s a 13-year-old or a 21-year-old, the county must develop a passion for children. We combat it with quality education, concerned parents, dedicated teachers and schools, and an involved community.

Rogers spends a great deal of time with Guilford County youth.

He listens to them and talks to them. It is from those real and honest conversations that he knows what will truly work and be beneficial.

“It may appear that most criminals prefer the lifestyle they live, but I’ve discovered most kids and young adults want to do and be better. They want to be productive,” he says. “They simply feel they don’t have any other alternative. They don’t see a means for college and don’t have the skills necessary for today’s technological and skills driven jobs. We need to offer them training. When I was young we had a shop program, mechanics program, and electrician program. Everyone isn’t college material nor do they want to go to college but we must work together to educate our youth and young adults for success in life.”

Roger’s hopes to accomplish most of what he proposes with the support of willing citizens and businesses prepared to mentor and provide financial assistance. He says when people have something productive to do they won’t have the time or energy to do the negative things that result in incarceration. In addition, he believes all citizens have common goals. No matter the party affiliation, he says everyone wants to feel safe, have educated children; and want to be productive citizens. Moreover he says, if just one link is left out, the plan won’t work.

Danny Rogers has the passion and ability to lead Guilford County toward becoming safer and stronger for all citizens; a community where everyone has the opportunity to achieve and become BETTER. “I invite you to hold me accountable. Listen to where I’m coming from. Check to see if I’m doing or trying to do what I say I will do.” h

Experience

Randolph County Juvenile Daily Reporting Center Asheboro, NC Criminal Justice Intern High Point Police Department: High Point, NC Patrol Officer Guilford County: Greensboro, NC Detention Officer, Patrol Officer Deputy II

Organizations:

Friends of John Coltrane Board Member (Executive Board Member) North State Law Enforcement Furniture City Chapter (Former Member) BNI - Business Networking International (Former Member)

Community Involvement:

Member of Love and Faith Christian Fellowship

HIV Ministry

Transportation Ministry

Rotarian High Point Furnitureland Ambassador for Domestic Violence Programs Carl Chavis YMCA Board of Directors High Point YMCA Association Guilford County Senior Democratic Party Guilford County Democratic Party African American Caucus Chair-High Point Vice Chair North Carolina State Democratic Executive Committee Sherri Denese Jackson Foundation Against Domestic Violence Boy Scouts Troop Leader Ragsdale YMCA / Jamestown Youth Basketball Coach Parents Involved in Education / North Carolina A&T State University

To learn more about Danny Rogers, please visit the campaigns website www.dhrogersforsherriff.com To donate please visit www.democracy.com/Danny-Rogers-2014

“A positive change for all citizens of Guilford County.”

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Tracy Darden The Live Life Foundation

By Jeuron Dove Photos by Live Life Photography

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eceiving the news that you’ve been diagnosed with a potentially life-threatening illness is a tough blow for anyone to overcome. It’s a scenario that Greensboro native, Tracy Darden knows all too well. She was diagnosed with lupus in 2006.

“I began feeling intense fatigue and a loss of appetite.

Eventually, it escalated to the point where I had temporary loss vision in my left eye,” says Tracy. “It came as a complete shock.”

Lupus is a chronic, autoimmune disease where the body’s immune system becomes hyperactive and attacks normal, healthy tissue. Common symptoms include inflammation, swelling, and damage to joints, skin, kidneys, blood, the heart and lungs. Historically, lupus caused people to die young. Today, with regular treatment and follow-up, the majority of people with lupus can expect to lead a normal, productive life.

According to data from the Lupus Foundation of America, it is estimated that at least 1.5 million Americans have lupus with more than 16,000 new cases being reported annually across the country.

Having a condition of this magnitude would seem like a license for continual pessimism, but you will be hard pressed to find anyone with a more infectiously optimistic outlook on life than Tracy. Her husband of 20 years, Miles Darden, is a constant source of support who she describes as being her best friend, nurse and biggest cheerleader.

While some days are better than others, Tracy doesn’t consider herself a victim. “After finding out I had lupus, I asked God where I fit into the grand scheme of things. He instructed me to inspire myself and others.” Tracy realized that the best way to follow God’s instructions was to create an outlet to help others affected by lupus.

In 2012, Tracy founded the Live Life Foundation, an organization that strives to uplift, inspire, and encourage those diagnosed with lupus by providing positive strategies to help them deal with the health issues, mental challenges, and emotional struggles that the disease sometimes causes. They participate in health fairs for the Lupus Foundation of America’s Winston Salem/Triad chapter and North Carolina A & T State University’s Delta Sigma Theta chapter.

The foundation will host its Suite Life Charity Fashion Show: Fashion Forward for Lupus!, on Thursday, September 11, at the Revolution Mills Studio in Greensboro. The black tie affair will feature live music and entertainment with all proceeds going toward lupus research. The event merges health and wellness with Tracy’s lifelong appreciation for fashion. She is putting 100 percent of her energies into making it a success. Just as she has done over the last several years, Tracy refuses to let lupus get the best of her. “If there is one piece of advice that I could give to encourage those going through similar situations then it would be for them to use whatever God-given ability they possess to slay the enemy in their lives.” h

For more information on the Live Life Foundation’s Suite Life Charity Fashion Show visit www. livelifefoundation.com

“After finding out I had lupus, I asked God where I fit into the grand scheme of things. He instructed me to inspire myself and others”.

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Dr. John H. Walker From The Pulpit To Prison

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“Prison centers a man because it allows him to see the most important things in life, that he could not see when he was caught up in the busy parts of life.”

By Alana Allen - Photos by Dr. John Walker

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he road to redemption has not been an easy journey for Dr. John Walker, but by faith he has continued to stay on his path. He has been in ministry for more than 30 years and has served for more than 20 years as senior pastor of Macedonia Baptist Church in Charlotte. However, within the midst of his ministry, he endured a difficult setback that not only tarnished his reputation, but affected his family and congregation.

Walker is a native of Good Water, Ala. and met his wife, Rosie K. Walker, who is also the co-pastor of the church, in high school. After graduation, he served in the army for three years and then he moved to North Carolina to become a firefighter in Greensboro, and served for 10 years. In addition, he earned his diploma in bible and theology at Greensboro Bible Institute and graduated magna cum laude from Shaw University’s Divinity School. Also, he earned a doctorate of ministry in Christian leadership from Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary.

Dr. Walker first stepped into ministry under the mentorship of Dr. Cardes Brown of New Light Missionary Baptist Church. In addition, he served in several roles in ministry and pastored from 1987-1992 at Zion Hill Baptist Church in Winston-Salem. Some of the challenges he faced as a young minister included navigating his way through the church, maintaining his integrity and resolving conflict. Then in 1992, he became the senior pastor at Macedonia Baptist Church.

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During his tenure at Macedonia Baptist Church, Dr. Walker built the ministry into a strong pillar of the community by establishing ministries that impacted lives inside and outside the pulpit. His church specializes in a food ministry that provides 200 families with groceries a week, and ministries that cater to men, youth and families. Throughout his leadership, he always remained a visionary that challenged his congregation to sow into various projects. However, his decision to fund a $3 million building expansion did not sit well with a few members. This resulted in some of his members banding together and reporting him to the IRS for tax evasion. In 2007, he was indicted and sentenced to serve five years in federal prison.

Dr. Walker’s time in prison allowed him to reassess his priorities and put his attention back on God. He became very active within the prison system by conducting bible study, group and one-on-one counseling sessions with other inmates. One of his favorite quotes by an unknown author states, “Prison centers a man because it allows him to see the most important things in life, that he could not see when he was caught up in the busy parts of life.”

Dr. Walker has been married to Rosie Walker (pictured above)for almost 36 years, and they have three children; Latarvis, Janetta, and John II; and three grandchildren.

Dr. Walker spent four years, two months and four days in a federal prison. Through it all, it made him and his family stronger. His wife pastored the church in his absence, honoring the commitment and vision of her husband. Even after everything he endured, his congregation received him back with opened arms and forgave him. Though the situation was frightening at times, his faith never wavered and the joy of ministry never left him but only grew deeper.

The Journey Of A Prophetic Preacher (From Pulpit To Prison) a book written by Dr. John H. Walker

In late 2013, Dr. Walker released a book titled, “The Journey of a Prophetic Preacher…from Pulpit to Prison,” which is a true testimony of his road to redemption. In addition, he is the author of three other books: “The Role of the Church in Reclaiming the Black Male,” “A Fresh Look at the New Testament Deacon” and “Pearls in the Pew.” Dr. Walker has been married to Rosie Walker for nearly 36 years, and they have three children; Latarvis, Janetta, and John II; and three grandchildren. Macedonia Baptist Church is located at 1300 Hateras Ave., Charlotte, N.C. and has worship service every Sunday at 10 a.m.

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LifewithDr.J Dr. Jillian Morgan Dr. Jillian Davis Morgan holds a Ph.D. in pharmacology with a focus in oncology. She is a researcher, motivational speaker, professor and medical science liaison for an international biomedical company.

Bold Lips for Sickle Cell Challenge Hello my Healthies! September is National Sickle Cell Awareness Month.

Sickle cell disease is an inherited disease of the blood that, in the United States, mainly affects African-Americans. The National Heart, Lung and Blood Institute of the National Institutes of Health (NIH) estimates that approximately 100,000 people in the U.S. have sickle cell disease. More than two million Americans have the sickle cell trait and one in 12 of those individuals are African-American. The disease occurs in more than one out of every 36,000 Hispanic American births.

Sickle cell anemia, the most common form of sickle cell disease, affects cells in the blood called red blood cells (RBC). Red blood cells contain an iron-rich protein called hemoglobin and this protein carries oxygen from the lungs to the rest of the body. An individual with sickle cell anemia has red blood cells that are “sickled” or have a crescent-like shape, whereas normal red blood cells have a disc-shape, similar to a donut with no hole in the middle.

This simple change in shape causes major problems with the ability of red blood cells to function properly. When those cells are sickled in shape, they become “sticky” and are unable to move freely through blood vessels. In turn, they block the flow of blood to limbs and other organs in the body. It is this blockage that leads to the pain and other medical complications those individuals with sickle cell disease experience.

Being that sickle cell is an inherited disease, it means that a person diagnosed with sickle cell received one sickle cell trait from their mother and one sickle cell trait from their father. There are some individuals that are just carrier of the sickle cell trait. Carriers of the trait do not actually have the disease; however, they can pass the trait to their offspring. If a person that is a carrier of the trait has a child with another person that carries the trait, there is a 25 percent chance that their child will have sickle cell disease. Prior to having children, a person can be tested to see if they carry the sickle cell trait. I was tested several years ago just out of curiosity and found that test is a simple blood test that can be done anytime you go to the doctor. You can just simply ask the nurse to add the sickle cell test to your blood work.

In the United States, all babies are tested for sickle cell at birth. This early testing is important for the proper management of the disease in young children. While there is no cure for sickle cell, there are treatment options

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to help manage the disease. The goal of treatment is to minimize the symptoms and complications of the disease. Treatment options include: over-the-counter and prescription medications for pain, as well as the administration of oxygen and fluids to lessen other symptoms. Many individuals with sickle cell will require regular blood transfusions during their lifetime to minimize their risk of life-threatening complications like stroke and to minimize “crisis”, by removing the sickled cells from the blood stream.

The symptoms of the disease can vary from patient to patient; however, almost all people with sickle cell disease experience what is known as “crisis”. An acute sickle cell crisis is characterized by severe pain. This is the event that most often requires hospitalization. Other symptoms and complications of sickle cell disease include shortness of breath, dizziness, headaches and coldness in the hands and feet. The disease can cause complications in several organs including the lungs, spleen, and kidneys, and can increase the risk of infections.

However, there is something we all can do to help support people with sickle cell disease; donate blood. It is important that people receiving blood transfusions receive blood that is as closely matched to their blood as possible. Matches are most quickly and accurately found from blood donated from persons within the recipient’s race group. So for people with sickle cell disease, blood donations from African-Americans are imperative.

Some branches of the American Red Cross have a program, “The Blue Tag”, specifically designed to collect blood for sickle cell patients. When giving blood through your local blood bank, ask if they participate in the Blue Tag program. They will then put a blue tag on your donation and it will be set aside to specifically aid someone with sickle cell disease.

In an effort to raise awareness and money for sickle cell disease, social media has been buzzing with the #BoldLipsForSickleCell Challenge; asking ladies to put on their favorite BOLD and bright lipstick color and post their pics with the hashtag #BoldLipsForSickleCell. Men are getting involved too with pics of ladies’ kisses all over their faces! The challenge is to post a picture and donate. To make a donation, go to www.sicklecelldisease.org and click DONATE! Tionne “T-Boz” Watkins, a member of the iconic singing group, TLC, has sickle cell disease and has been extremely vocal in raising awareness about the disease and discussing her methods for managing the illness. She has also been a part of the #BoldLipsforSickleCell movement. Actor Larenz Tate, who garnered fame from movies like “Love Jones” and “Dead Presidents”, utilizes The Tate Foundation, an organization he founded with his brother, to discuss lifestyle choices and encourage healthy living for those, like him, with sickle cell disease. Other notable individuals with sickle cell disease include former NFL running back, Tiki Barber, and Prodigy, member of the legendary rap group, Mobb Deep.

While there is no cure for sickle cell disease, there are ways to manage the symptoms to help make living with the disease more comfortable and life more fulfilling. So, GET YOUR LIFE this month by getting tested for the sickle cell trait to know if you’re a carrier, and donate blood to help those individuals living with the disease. If you have sickle cell disease, I encourage you to make health-conscious choices with lifestyle, diet, etc…and ladies, put on your BOLD lipstick and post pics to raise awareness!

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t 3:30 in the afternoon, on Saturday, August 9, 2014, WFMY News 2 Anchor Tracey McCain and Jaron Barbee, Assistant District Attorney, Guilford County joined together in wedded bliss during a breathtaking church ceremony in Greensboro, N.C.

Rev. Alvin Brown, pastor of Collins Grove UMC officiated over the ceremony, witnessed and celebrated by the bride’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. Leonard E. McCain, the parents of the groom Mr. and Mrs. John A. Barbee and four hundred of the couple’s family and closest friends. Small bundles of stunning white gardenias added the perfect touch of decorative class and elegance to each pew. With two tall, gorgeous arrangements to greet the bride and groom at the altar; the ambiance was a joyous accompaniment to the couple’s lovely union.

“It was classic, it was beautiful, it was perfect,” said McCain.

“Our wedding was everything I dreamed it would be.”

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“It was classic, it was beautiful, it was perfect,” said McCain. “Our wedding was everything I dreamed it would be.”

The traditional and personal ceremony was followed with an elegantly decorated cocktail hour and reception at Starmount Forest Country Club.

McCain looked stunning in a striking Casablanca wedding gown and veil at the ceremony and switched into a remarkable off the shoulder Vera Wang gown for the reception.

Barbee, an alumnus of Wake Forest University and the North Carolina Central University School of Law asked McCain to be his bride 14 months prior with permission from her father. “I was shocked. I looked at him like, what are you doing on your knee,” said McCain.

“It finally hit me, he was proposing and I started screaming with excitement.

Each and every day afterward has been just as exciting.”

McCain, a graduate of the University of Connecticut, Storrs and Quinnipiac University, anchors the Good Morning Show on WFMY News 2. She was introduced to Barbee by his parents on a double date in downtown Greensboro. After a few more dates, the couple knew they had finally met their soul mates and were meant to be. When asked about their favorite wedding memory, McCain reflected on their first dance. “I had a problem with trying to take the lead. We got professional help and boom; I was cured,” said McCain. “My husband took the lead in our dance. I learned to trust him not only in dance but with my heart. I look forward to having him take the lead for the rest of our lives.”

“Seeing my bride come down the aisle was amazing. That’s when I realized all my dreams of love and happiness were coming true.”

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Barbee agreed, but added, “Seeing my bride come down the aisle was amazing. That’s when I realized all my dreams of love and happiness were coming true.” The newlyweds spent their honeymoon in Las Cabos, Mexico and have made their home in Greensboro where they are both employed. h

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Darius Graves Senior Football Standout James B. Dudley High School Greensboro, North Carolina

Member of The National Honor Society 2 Time Metro 4A All Conference Team NC Preseason All State Athlete “I plan to graduate with honors and play collegiate football at a Division 1 University. My greatest academic accomplishment to date happened when I was selected into the National Honor Society (ranked 99 out of 360 students in my current class).

While in college I plan to major in Hotel Business Management.”

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“I am so afraid to take the next step.”

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his was my thought as I marched down the aisle to make my first commencement speech. There were too many people in the auditorium, and if I messed up, the entire world would know. My heart raced as fear flooded my brain. I wanted to run back to my car.

Fear almost robbed me of a thriving speaking career before it even began. I could have ruined my future and killed my extraordinary dreams if I would’ve left the auditorium that day. And I’m not fear’s only victim.

In the coaching community, we find that fear often dictates our next steps in life or keeps us stagnate in dead-end jobs we hate. However, these feelings don’t have a place in a life of transition and growth. You can’t grow as a person if you don’t step out and stretch yourself. If you are comfortable doing everything, you aren’t growing as a person.

I consider F.E.A.R to be an acronym for “Fake Evidence Appearing Real.” If we look at this feeling from this stand point, it’s easier to take a chance and face our fears. Here are some tips that will help you move past fear into your dreams.

First, create a list of goals you would like to accomplish. Think of the things you always wanted to do and didn’t. Or things you started and never finished. Today is the time to start doing things you are passionate about.

When listing your goals, make sure these are personal S.M.A.R.T goals. S.M.A.R.T is an acronym for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Timebased goals. These types of goals will help you create a plan to get to the next level. If you need help crafting the details of these goals, contact a career coach who can help you.

Demetra Moore is a certified professional career coach and the founder of Moore Out of Life, Inc

Second, prioritize your list of goals. Prioritizing your list allows you to put the necessary efforts and energy into each project all the way to completion.

Lastly, enjoy the journey by fully experiencing the process.

During this time, do not compare your progress to anyone else’s. You are learning and developing the character you need to grow and transition.

Don’t go through life saying, “I wish I would have” or “I should have done…” You only get one life to live, so live it to the fullest. h

For more information, contact Moore Out of Life at (704) 565-9608 or visit www.mooreoutoflife.com

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