Huami Magazine Kansas City Jan./Feb. 2025

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Jan./Feb. 2025

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It maybe time for

to invest in Corganics Relief Cream

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God Never Runs Out of Options

A Letter From The Editor

There Are No If, Ands, Or Buts About It!

There is one thing that I know for sure will happen in life, and that is tough times will come. Yet, I have learned that tough times will not always last. As difficult as life can be at times, we are blessed to know that we don’t have to go at it alone. Even when we fall to the lowest of places, God promises us by His word that He is always willing to help bring us back up.

A Letter from the Editor

What if tomorrow didn’t arrive? All of your plans, hopes and dreams wouldn’t have a street to park on. What if everything that you decided to put off until tomorrow never happened? There would be no reason to save for a rainy day, and you could spare someone the trouble of making promises. What if your last opportunity seemingly expired today? What would you do?

It is also refreshing to know that regardless of how many times we fail, God’s grace never runs out. With this sort of insurance policy intact, our ability to conveniently seek repentance and forgiveness for our shortcomings might become well utilized. All I can say is thank God for grace.

I’ve been told that I often seem like I do too much. Honestly, I feel like I am not doing enough and I’m a firm believer in knowing that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t handle. I sometimes wonder how life would be if I chose to sit idle and accept what it presented to me. I have found that to be very boring. In my opinion, opportunity is a blessing that isn’t afforded to everyone. A challenge to me is an adventure. What is the worst that can happen? If I do nothing, I fail, and if I try I don’t, but instead learn something new about myself. Relinquish your pride and in return acquire life.

Everything that happens in life is often associated with a lesson. There is something we must have to learn, or the difficulties we face may actually be preparing us for something bigger and a whole lot more challenging ahead. Even though giving up and walking away feels like an easy and appropriate answer, that may not always be what is best. If you ever feel like you have run out of options, just remember that God hasn’t.

During the moments when I felt like God might not be listening, I tended to lean toward my own understanding. My reasoning was more aligned with what the world thinks instead of what God has promised. It’s all spiritual, and in those moments, surely my behavior couldn’t have pleased Him.

The best advice ever given to me happened when someone told me to make my tomorrow happen today. In doing so I have pressed my way through doors with a key that only hope provided. I have also learned the difference between what God blesses me with and what life can burden me with as well. I compare it to knowing when to be confident and when to be quiet, because someone may get it confused with being arrogant.

Make you tomorrow happen today, but most importantly make it count. Life is but a whisper and we must put ourselves in a position to hear what it is telling us.

As confusing as it may sound, I’ve learned to stay patient in my unrest, as God does some of His best work there. We don’t have to come up with all of the answers, and even when the light can’t be seen at the end of the tunnel, it will make its appearance at the right time. I know that God’s timing is a lot more meaningful to me than what I think I need. I thank God for grace.

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The Kansas City Black Mental Health Initiative

The Kansas City Black Mental Health Initiative’s mission is to acknowledge and work diligently to support and strengthen the Black community. We do this by expanding awareness, representation, and de-stigmatization of Black mental health within the Kansas City metro area.

In order to properly destigmatize and provide awareness to Black Mental Wellness, we must diversify the field of mental Wellness with those who represent the community and provide them access to serving their Black community.

Poverty, systemic oppression, and traditional paradigms grounded in a survivor’s mindset have led to the stigmatization of mental health within Black communities. Today, there exists a cultural trauma surrounding mental health care, stemming from America’s healthcare system’s history of exploitative practices and procedures performed with and on Black people. In addition to this, a continual lack of culturally-sensitive or supportive care for Black patients has led to a loss of confidence in the efficacy of health care systems and their practitioners.

Within the field of health care, Black mental health professionals face barriers when acquiring their credentials. While working in agencies or in private practice, many Black practitioners are unable to provide care to Black communities, serving those who can afford it, so they themselves can become, and remain, financially stable. This, in turn, stigmatizes Black practitioners by their cultural communities because of a perceived disconnect between the needs of the Black community and the “respectability politics” Black professionals are subject to.

We believe that restoring the prioritization of mental wellness in the Black community is not simply a matter of access to “safe” mental health care, but that of access to empathetic care that comes from Black mental health practitioners who understand not only the needs of a patient but also the social/cultural factors that interact with cultural attitudes. By supporting Black mental health practitioners, promoting their work, and leveraging our relationships with Black communities in Kansas City, we can remove the barriers to access for both care-seekers and practitioners.

provided by KC Black Mental Health Initiative Website

Mapping Inequality

Information provided by Kansas City Public Library

Missouri Valley Sundays, Black History

Federal and state housing policies in the mid-20th century restricted financial resources to African Americans.

In the wake of the Great Depression, the government made mortgages available to homeowners to stave off a foreclosure crisis and published color-coded maps identifying the loan worthiness of individual neighborhoods across the U.S. Those areas considered high-risk were shaded in red – referred to as redlining – disproportionately impacting communities of color and impeding Black residents from securing mortgage loans. Decades later, another historically discriminatory movement followed: urban renewal.

Historian Donna Rae Pearson makes her second appearance at the Library, this time examining how these two programs propagated residential segregation and changed communities across the nation. She talks about the lingering negative impact of redlining and urban renewal on today’s communities.

Pearson is curator at the Kansas State Historical Society. Through her consultation firm Kitchen Table History, she researches, develops, and presents historical scholarship on the Black experience in Kansas. RSVP at https://kclibrary.org/node/39924/ register.

Marvin

Daniels

Executive Director and CEO

The Hope Center

Marvin Daniels has over 39 years of experience in the non-profit sector, specializing in youth and community development, advocacy, and asset-based programming. He is the Founder of Beyond The Norm, where he serves as a trainer and consultant in conflict resolution, situational ethics, scenario planning, servant leadership, and teambuilding.

Marvin’s diverse roles include Adjunct Professor of Youth Ministries, Youth and Assistant Pastor, Regional Facilitator, Mediation Specialist, and Youth Outreach Worker across major cities such as New York, Philadelphia, Chicago, Boston, Kansas City, and Branson, MO. He is also a recognized national speaker.

He holds master’s degrees in Education and Urban Missiology, certifications in Dispute Resolution and Guidance and Counseling, and a bachelor’s degree in Journalism and Graphics Technology from Cheyney University (HBCU). An ordained minister with the Baptist General Conference and the Church of the Nazarene, Marvin serves as a trustee and board member for several organizations.

Marvin is married to Angie, and they have five adult children: Malachi, Isaiah, Micah, Imani, and Nia.

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Denise Harmony Corner Life Coaching Tanner-Creal

Denise M. Tanner-Creal, widely known as Coach Nene, is a wife, mother, and powerhouse of transformation. As a certified Transformation Life Coach, speaker, mental health professional, and mentor, majoring in psychology, she dedicates her life to helping others heal and find their purpose.

Denise is also the owner and CEO of Harmony Corner Life Coaching LLC. Her company offers Extreme Goal Execution 12 week 1:1 Coaching, Relationship Coaching, Trauma Recovery Coaching, Self-Love Coaching, 1:1 Grief & Loss Sessions, and free girl teen mentorship for ages 11-18.

Denise shares that she has endured a lifelong journey of overcoming challenges, each one shaping her into the person she is today. She adds, “The Vision of Harmony Corner Life Coaching was born out of deep tragic loss-the devastating passing of loved ones due to domestic violence. In that moment, I knew I could no longer stand by and let people suffer alone.”

The name Harmony Corner came to Denise says, came to her in a dream after she prayed and asked God for guidance. She says, “I also started to see harmony signs and music notes, and I immediately knew what it was with my passion and love for music and songwriting. Adding Corner symbolized a private, safe space where healing and transformation can take root.”

Born and raised in Kansas City, MO, Denise’s story began on the corner of 40th and Bellefontaine, where she was nurtured by her loving grandparents and hardworking father. Her grandmother, a woman of deep faith, instilled in her the importance of the Word of God, while her grandfather, a deacon at Rescue Baptist Church, demonstrated the power of servant leadership. Denise’s father, the youngest of 10 siblings, worked tirelessly to provide for her and her younger brother after their biological mother’s departure. Tragically, Denise’s life took a sharp turn when her father passed away at the age of 33 due to a hit-and-run accident. Following this loss, her stepmother took custody of Denise and her brother, marking the beginning of a transformative chapter. Moving to Raytown, Denise excelled academically, finding solace and purpose in her studies. Her grandmother’s influence was profound as she unknowingly helped her grandmother read the bible daily. Denise didn’t know that her grandmother could barely read, but she memorized her bible as a young girl from Southern Mississippi. This was a skill that would later shape Denise’s love for learning and teaching. Despite her achievements, Denise faced significant challenges during her teenage years. Anger and grief led to rebellion, but her resilience carried her through. Transferring schools and seeking shelter, she eventually graduated early from Central High School in 2008. Her adaptability and determination set the tone for her future. After high school, Denise chose to enter the workforce to build her independence. She discovered her passion for caregiving while working at Help at Home Inc. and pursued her CNA license. This led her to roles in mental health and developmental disability care, where her compassion and dedication shone. Working multiple public jobs and relying on public transportation, Denise embodied perseverance, proving that hard work and determination can break barriers.

Today, Denise combines her life experiences, professional expertise, and faith to guide others through their own journeys of transformation. Whether through Harmony Corner, her work as Coach Nene, she remains committed to empowering individuals to heal, thrive, and create abundant lives.

Throughout her journey, she gained valuable experience working at St Luke Hospital, Behavioral Health of Kansas City, and various nursing homes across Missouri. However, in February 2021, her life took a profound and heartbreaking turn when her dear cousin Khasheme Strother and Son Raymon Hill were murdered because of domestic violence, ending a 13-year relationship with her boyfriend in unimaginable tragedy. That loss sent her into a deep depression- a state that she didn’t even recognize at first. As someone who had always been in “go mode” constantly working, providing, and pushing forward since her father’s death in 1999. She didn’t know what it meant to slow down or grieve. For so long, she mistook her depression for stress, as many in the Black community do. For the first time, she sat in solitude, forced to confront her pain and, more importantly, herself.

It was during this dark period that Denise discovered a life-changing truth: self-love. She realized how much she had spent life people-pleasing, fearful of being undervalued or unseen. That fear left her feeling lost, unaligned, and disconnected from her purpose. Now, Denise began to reflect and acknowledge the traumas she had suppressed traumas, which included childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence relationships, and deep wounds from abandonment.

As Denise worked through these experiences, she faced the strong, resilient young girl she had been the one who had no choice but to endure and survive. She began to heal from two violent domestic relationships she had endured before finding the courage to walk away. She also addressed what she calls mother hunger and Daddy wounds, stemming from abandonment issues. This period of reflection wasn’t just about healing-it was about rediscovering herself and her calling.

In pursuit of self-love and healing, she started taking coaching classes and fell in love with the work. Time and time again, she was told she was a natural, which fueled her passion even more. Inspired by the loss of her dear cousin and son, Denise founded Harmony Corner Life Coaching in January 2023. She could no longer stand by as a survivor without using her experiences and expertise to help others.

Now, Denise stands firm in her mission to empower individuals to overcome their blockages, reclaim their lives, and walk in their purpose. Through mentorship, coaching, tools, and unwavering support, Denise helps people see that they are capable of transformation and abundance. “It’s vital that we recognize our value in this world and understand that no matter how great the challenge is, we can overcome anything,” she says.

More than anything, Denise shares she loves the opportunity to connect with beautiful people who have beautiful, unique stories. She says, “Their resilience and courage inspire me to stay committed to my own journey. Each person I work with reminds me of the power of transformation and the strength we all carry within.”

Another aspect Denise cherishes is helping individuals heal internally and uncover gifts they didn’t even realize they possessed. “Those internal gifts- the ones born from faith, perseverance, and self-discovery are treasures no one can ever take away. Watching someone step into their purpose with confidence and joy is the greatest gift of it all,” she says.

A challenge that Denise faces in her business is narrowing her focus to a specific audience. She adds, “My personal and professional experiences span multiple areas, which made it difficult to define a niche. Another significant hurdle was transitioning from offering free counsel to charging for my sessions. For someone who has been helping and guiding others most of my life, it’s not easy to put a price on what feels like a natural gift.” Marketing and asking for help has also been challenging for Denise. She has been able to manage these by first embracing the value of her work. “What I provide changes lives, and I remind myself daily that my gifts are worth investing in. I’ve also done extensive research and started collaborating with other coaches and speakers to learn and grow.”

The advice Denise offers to other aspiring entrepreneurs is very clear. She says, “Creating a business isn’t just about making money, it’s a deeply personal and spiritual journey that challenges you to grow in ways you never imagined. Along the way, you’ll need to relearn and unlearn behaviors and mindsets that no longer fit who you’re becoming. For example, I had to let go of the belief that asking for help was a burden. Instead, I learned collaboration and support are essential for success. Give yourself patience and grace, and never quit.”

What is next for Denise? She is currently working on two books and planning more workshops for 2025. She is also planning her second women’s empowerment and learning the podcast ropes. And there are plans for a merch line. “I won’t reveal too many of the details just yet, but I’m a strong believer in staying silent to preserve and protect the vision. Trust me, what’s coming will be worth the wait,” she says. h

Reverend

John Wesley A.M.E. Zion Church-Southfield

Reverend Austin J. Young is a native of Grand Rapids, MI, and the son of Allen & Johngerlyn Young. He is also the husband of Mrs. Aysha Young (Peterson).

Reverend Austin graduated from East Kentwood High School in 2015. He later graduated from the historic Morehouse College in Atlanta, GA in 2019. While at Morehouse College, the university afforded Austin three distinct opportunities: To Be an Oprah Winfrey Scholar, study abroad at the University of Cape Town in Cape Town, South Africa, and be a part of the graduating class that had its entire student loan debt paid by billionaire Robert F. Smith. Additionally, he obtained a Master of Divinity Degree from Wesley Theological Seminary in Washington, D.C., specializing in African American Church Leadership Studies.

Rev. Austin has served the Union Wesley A.M.E. Zion Church in Washington, D.C., as its pastoral intern. Additionally, he served the St. Paul A.M.E. Zion Church in Media, PA, as its senior pastor. Currently, he serves the great people at John Wesley A.M.E. Zion Church in Southfield, MI, as its senior pastor. In September of 2025, he will celebrate 19 years in ministry.

Rev. Austin’s journey in ministry began at the tender age of nine. He says, “There was a Sunday when my pastor was preaching about spiritual gifts and how everyone should find their place in the church. During the altar call, I strongly felt the power of God resting on my heart. I immediately ran to the back of the church, where my father was, and asked him how old I had to be in order to be a preacher. I then ran to my mother in the choir stand and asked her how I could be a preacher. The pastor typically extended three invitations during the altar call (salvation, rededication, and joining the church), but on this particular day, he extended a fourth call for those who needed to answer the call. With the affirmation of my parents, the call of my pastor, and the spirit in my heart, I went crying to the altar and told the congregation that I was called to preach. I thank God that, at times, my church supported me and celebrated me.”

- Photos Provided by Rev. Austin J. Young

As Rev. Austin progressed in life, he encountered many preachers who were amazed at his story and who commonly said that they ran from their calling at a young age and wished they had said yes earlier. “I continually thank God for allowing me to accept my call at an early age. I truly believe that saying yes to the Lord early will provide more opportunities and room for God to express His glory in you,” Rev. Austin shares.

In addition to pastoring, Rev. Austin is involved in many other roles, including the Episcopal Program & Logistics Assistant, Midwest Episcopal District of the A.M.E. Zion Church, the Connectional Community Development Team Lead, Department of Church Growth & Development of the A.M.E. Zion Church Headquarters, and the Small Group Discipleship Asst. Director, Church Growth & Development of the A.M.E. Zion Church Headquarters. He is also a Board Member for Gaining Ground Educational Services, Inc., and a Board Member for the James E. Hunter Golf Association.

Rev. Austin has faced a few challenges, both in ministry and in his young life. Within Rev. Austin’s denomination, becoming a minister is typically a 6–7-year process. Along his journey, he shares that he was told multiple times that he was too young, needed more time, and possibly that he accepted his call just for show. “I was even held back in my ministry process for a few years because there was talk and gossip about my ability to preach in my youth. Many days, I was discouraged and even questioned God’s calling on my life. I admit that there is always room for development, and I am still growing to this day to be a better minister of the Gospel. However, the opposition I encountered was not motivated by a concern of maturation but by a desire to maintain tradition, to force young people to wait their turn, and to repeat the suppression they encountered in ministry on the next generation. However, I am grateful for the Bishops and Elders in my denomination, who pulled me aside and kept reminding me that delayed doesn’t mean denied. Today, I stand as the pastor of one of our denomination’s leading churches at the age of 27,” he says.

Another adversity he faced happened to Austin as a child. Back then, he struggled greatly with asthma. Not being able to breathe or engage in a lot of physical activities and dealing with hospital visits and treatments served as a barrier to his ability to preach. Those issues do not affect him today, as he preaches two to three services each Sunday. He is also able to celebrate or practice the African American tradition of whooping without having an asthma attack. “Every time I preach, it is a testimony that God is the choir directing my lungs,” Rev. Austin says.

Austin credits his father in the ministry, Rev. Dr. Eleazar Merriweather, for teaching him the basics and foundation of ministry. He also credits his mentor, the Rev. Dr. Brian Relford, Sr., who gave him opportunities and showed him how to be a pastor. He also thanks God for Bishop Anthony Witherspoon, a big brother and mentor to Austin, whom he says helped him to appreciate the balance of ministry, life, and family. Additionally, he acknowledges preachers from near and afar whom he admires for consistently impacting his life with their preaching and leadership. These include Rev. Dr. Howard John-Wesley, Rev. Dr. Marcus Cosby, Rev. Dr. Frederick Haynes, III, Rev. Dr. Gina Stewart, Rev. Dr. Matthew Whatley, Rev. Dr. Dharius Daniels, Bishop W. Darin Moore, and Bishop Daran H. Mitchell.

While he has faced a few bumps here and there, Rev. Austin shares there is nothing he would change about the way things have happened. “I believe there is no wasted experience and that God, in his grace, allows us to grow from it, learn from it, or be blessed by it.”

Moving forward, Rev. Austin has plans to go back to school later this year in the fall, to obtain a Ph.D. in preaching or hermeneutics. “As I vacillated between a D.Min. and a Ph.D., I felt God calling me to the work of training and preparing young leaders like myself later in life.” January 11, 2025, through the hand of Bishop Daran H. Mitchell, Rev. Austin was appointed as the Presiding Elder of Trinidad & Tobago in the A.M.E. Zion Church. In this role, he will be responsible for the churches, pastors, financial oversight, and ministry work of our denomination in that country. Lastly, he is releasing a Lent Devotional Book on Amazon entitled “Put it On the Altar”, which will be released on March 1, 2025. This production will encompass 40 devotionals.

The future of John Wesley A.M.E. Zion Church is on the precipitous of greatness. JWC has a rich history, generous and kind members, and is well-positioned in a great community. While the church’s goal is to continue to be more active and involved in their community and grow their membership, they are also exploring affordable senior housing and establishing a second church campus in another location.

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Rev. Austin J. Young and Aysha Young

Attorney Beach Law Practice

Ever since the young age of 13, Raven Perry-Beach has aspired to be an attorney.

Born and raised in the small town of Cordova, AL, Raven shares that she came from very humble beginnings. She says, “I like to believe that my past has distinctly propelled me into my present.” Raven’s parents are Delmous and Sandi Perry. Raven grew up in a single-parent household and credits her mother with having the most significant impact on her life. “My mother, Sandi, worked diligently to provide a life for my sister, Violet, and me. If nothing else, she demonstrated what it means to trust God with every aspect of life. Through her, I learned that all things are possible for those who believe. Because of her faith and dedication, she raised two strong women who continue to defy the odds,” Raven says.

Today, Raven is the face and founder of Beach Law Practice. Her firm represents the culmination of a lifelong pursuit of her dreams to practice law from the greatest perspective of excellence. Beach Law Practice is available to help in the most critical and consequential moments of life. Specializing in bankruptcy, estate planning, personal injury, and Veterans law, these four practices enable Raven and her team to help make sure that her clients and their loved ones are secure.

Raven attended Walker High School in Jasper, AL, and graduated in 2000 with honors. She went on to attend the University of Alabama at Birmingham to obtain her bachelor’s degree and eventually graduated Cum Laude as a criminal justice major and Spanish minor in August 2003. “People find it interesting that I did an intensive month study in Granada, Spain, completing my final requirements for graduation there,” she says. “I began to apply to law schools upon graduation from undergrad. Despite my academic achievements, I was rejected by countless law schools. Nonetheless, I never gave up on my dream. I continued to apply until one day, a package arrived in the mail. I had relocated to Huntsville to reset after graduation. I can remember coming home and my sister excitedly saying that I had received a large package in the mail. We both were elated. As one might imagine, we exchanged hugs and tears upon confirming that the package contained an acceptance letter to Vermont Law School.”

Raven relocated to Vermont a few months later with $700 and everything that would fit into her Kia Sephia. Setting out on her newfound journey, Raven would face many challenges. She shares, “I remember having a conservation with a classmate as our first semester drew to a close. I told her that I had never worked so hard academically and that I was just so used to being the head of the class. I will never forget her response. “Raven, we were all “head of the class”. She was right. That was a sobering conversation. In my final year of law school, I began receiving letter after letter stating that, statistically speaking, I was not likely to pass the bar exam. I began to ignore those letters. I was determined that I would not allow anyone to dictate my destiny. I continued to stay the course. I graduated from law school in May 2007 and sat for the bar exam the following July, and passed on my first attempt. On December 17, 2007, I took the oath of office and was duly admitted to practice as an attorney for the Commonwealth of Massachusetts.”

Raven’s legal career began when she accepted a position as an attorney-advisor to the Board of Veterans Appeals in Washington, DC. She was 25 years old and recalls looking out the conference room window during training and realizing that she had a clear view of the White House. With a decade of hard work and determination, her dream was realized. “I look back at that era and am grateful for the faith and resilience that catapulted me into my destiny,” she says.

Her journey as an entrepreneur began in my late 20s. Though a licensed attorney, she had relocated to Tennessee with her spouse, and they agreed that Raven would be a stay-at-home mother. They divorced only a few years later, and she desperately needed to provide for her two-year-old daughter. “At the age of 28, I was forced into bankruptcy. Shortly thereafter, I made the decision to withdraw the little I had in retirement to pay the registration fees for the Tennessee bar exam,” she says. Unable to afford the cost of a bar review course, Raven was able to access materials from someone who recently passed the bar exam. She studied for six consecutive months and passed the bar on her first attempt. It was then that Raven decided to open her own practice. With the support of her siblings, Raven opened her practice, but despite her hard work and diligence, she reached a point where she felt that she’d hit a professional plateau. In 2016, she packed up her condo and children and relocated to Huntsville, where she developed a sustainable practice.

Since coming back to the “Rocket City”, Raven has surely found her footing. She has been consistently recognized for her contributions to her community. Most notably, she was named the 2023 Female Entrepreneur of the Year by the Catalyst Center for Business and Entrepreneurship. Most recently, in 2024, Raven was named the Madison County Volunteer Lawyer’s Program Volunteer of the Year after serving as the first black president of the board of directors in 2021. She was also the recipient of the NAACP Attorney of the Year Award presented at the 72nd State Convention Freedom Awards Banquet.

Raven shares that she loves serving the community that has embraced her from the beginning. She adds, “I have been so honored to give back over the years. Some of my most rewarding experiences have been via volunteering at legal clinics or pro bono representation. I can honestly say that those instances have been some of the most rewarding experiences in my legal career. I am truly passionate about helping others.”

In addition to crediting her mother for having a huge impact on her life, she also acknowledges her sister, Commissioner Violet Edwards, for inspiring her. “Violet made history in 2000 when she was elected the first black female Commissioner in Madison County. That speaks volumes about the person she is and her reputation as a leader in our community. She recently won her bid for reelection. I was honored to administer the oath of office on both occasions,” Raven says. “I am blessed to be the mother of two incredible children, Adrianne and Avery. They motivate me to be and do better with every passing day. Most importantly, I am a child of God. My life has taught me that with him, all things are possible. I sincerely believe that I am better for every challenge I encounter and overcome. My prayer is that my life and story will touch and inspire generations to come.”

Pictured with Raven is son, Avery, and daughter, Adrianne

Some of my most rewarding experiences have been via volunteering at legal clinics or pro bono representation.

I can honestly say that those instances have been some of the most rewarding experiences in my legal career.

For being the most influential person in her life, that would be Raven’s godmother, the Honorable Debra B. Winston. She says, “We had a conversation one day when I was about 13 years old. She had been a practicing attorney for some time and had a compelling story about her own road to triumph. She convinced me that day that I, too, could be like her. I had the honor of having a front-row seat to watch her career unfold as she subsequently became a municipal court judge and eventually was elected as district court judge for Jefferson County in 2016. Sadly, she transitioned to eternal rest in May 2024. She was a remarkable woman of faith, hope, and triumph and could not have been a better role model or mentor for me. I often wonder which of us was prouder.”

The most enjoyable aspect of Raven’s career, she says, is that it has forced her to continue to evolve as a person. “I have learned to use my voice and the skills that I have attained to effect change. I’ve learned never to give up. I’ve learned that people are counting on me to show up, even if no one else does. I’ve learned to stop being afraid. I’ve learned compassion and grace. I’ve learned that sometimes ordinary people are blessed with the opportunity to do extraordinary things.”

Raven advises other aspiring attorneys whose paths may look similar to hers to never allow their circumstances to dictate their future. “The road to success isn’t always linear. Whatever you do, never lose sight of your dreams. And when you get there, reach back. Be the first, but not the last.”

The future is looking bright for Attorney Raven Beach-Perry. Most recently, she had the distinct honor of being sworn in as Municipal Court judge for the state of Alabama on January 5, 2024. She adds that it’s her prayer to one day become a Madison County district court judge.

Black Boys Empowered Inc.

Rashad T. Dudley is a proud Detroit native, social entrepreneur, and advocate for empowering Black boys and men. He comes from a family deeply rooted in resilience, having experienced significant personal losses, including the tragic murders of his father and brother, which shaped his understanding of the challenges many Black boys face. Rashad’s experiences growing up in Detroit and Inkster have instilled in him a unique perspective and a strong drive to create safe, uplifting spaces for others.

Rashad is a scholar and lifelong learner. He graduated from Morehouse College in 2020. He then earned a Master of Science in Youth Development Leadership from Clemson University in 2022, where he honed his expertise in designing impactful youth programs. Currently, Rashad is pursuing an MBA in Entrepreneurship and Innovation at Wayne State University, focusing on expanding his initiatives and fostering innovation within his work.

Beyond his professional and academic achievements, Rashad is passionate about family, community, and mentorship. He draws strength and inspiration from his upbringing in Detroit and remains dedicated to giving back to the city that raised him. Through his work, Rashad hopes to inspire a new generation of leaders, helping them overcome adversity and realize their full potential.

Rashad is also the founder of Black Boys Empowered (501c3). He is the author of Dear Black Boy Co., Dear Black Boy: A Guide to Self-Empowerment and Building Healthy Habits. Black Boys Empowered focuses on providing mentorship, scholarships, community service opportunities, and wellness initiatives for Black boys in Detroit. Their key programs include an Annual Scholarship Program. Each year, BBE provides Black male high school seniors with scholarships to help them pay for tuition at HBCUs. They also offer community service opportunities (including our quarterly neighborhood clean-up of our adopted road) throughout the city of Detroit. Dear Black Boy Co. is a health and wellness brand that features Rashad’s children’s books, Dear Black Boy: A Guide to Self-Empowerment and Building Healthy Habits and Dear Black Boy: Positive Affirmation Coloring Book, and wellness products and apparel designed specifically for Black boys.

Rashad says the journey of Black Boys Empowered began with my personal experiences growing up in Detroit and Inkster and my deep understanding of the systemic challenges that Black boys often face. As someone who lost my father and brother to gun violence, I know firsthand the emotional toll of loss and the lack of accessible resources for healing and growth in underserved communities. “These personal tragedies, coupled with my professional experiences working in youth development, inspired me to create something meaningful that could address these challenges head-on,” he says.

The decision made by Rashsad to launch Black Boys Empowered was centered on his desire to provide mentorship, resources, and opportunities tailored specifically for Black boys in Detroit. “My vision stemmed from a desire to create a space where young Black boys could feel supported, valued, and empowered to succeed despite the obstacles they might face. I drew from over a decade of experience in roles such as Dean of Climate and Culture, Youth Programming Director, and Director of Enrichment to design programs and initiatives that focus on mentorship, leadership development, and wellness,” says Rashad.

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“My vision stemmed from a desire to create a space where young Black boys could feel supported, valued, and empowered to succeed despite the obstacles they might face.”

The idea also grew from a broader reflection on the societal narratives surrounding Black boys. Rashad says he wanted to combat the negative stereotypes often placed on them by providing a platform that celebrated their brilliance, creativity, and potential. Black Boys Empowered was envisioned as more than just a program—it was a movement to uplift an entire generation. His vision has expanded over time to include initiatives like the Dear Black Boy Co. wellness brand, scholarships for HBCU-bound students, and community service programs. The driving force behind all of these efforts has been his unwavering belief in the power of mentorship, education, and community to transform lives. “By addressing the needs of Black boys holistically— academically, emotionally, and socially— I created a legacy of empowerment and resilience.”

Rashad is also passionate about creating spaces where Black boys feel seen, valued, and understood. Growing up, he didn’t always have access to the kind of mentorship and resources he now provides, so being able to offer those to others is a powerful way for him to give back. He loves fostering environments that challenge stereotypes and show the world the brilliance and resilience of Black boys. The opportunity to rewrite narratives and shape a new generation of leaders is something that drives him every day. Lastly, Rashad takes pride in the creative aspects of his work. He loves turning his ideas into impactful realities and knowing that his efforts are making a lasting difference in the lives of others.

One of the most significant hurdles Rashad has faced in building his program has been securing consistent funding to sustain and expand programs. Nonprofits like Black Boys Empowered often operate in a competitive funding landscape where resources are limited, and Rashad has had to work tirelessly to identify grants, build relationships with donors, and creatively fundraise to support his initiatives. Ensuring financial stability while maintaining the quality and impact of the programs has been an ongoing balancing act. Another challenge has been navigating stereotypes and societal biases. As someone who works to uplift Black boys and men, Rashad has had to challenge misconceptions about what Black masculinity and success look like. Building a brand and organization that celebrates Black identity while countering negative narratives requires intentionality, persistence, and strategic messaging. Breaking through these barriers to gain broader community and institutional support has been both a challenge and a deeply motivating mission for Rashad.

To tackle the challenge of securing consistent funding, Rashad has worked to diversify his revenue streams. He applies for grants tailored to youth development and education initiatives, partners with local businesses and organizations for sponsorships, and organizes fundraisers that resonate with his community. Rashad has also leveraged his storytelling skills to craft compelling narratives about Black Boys Empowered’s impact, helping him attract donors and supporters who believe in his mission. Additionally, he is exploring creative revenue models, such as the BBE apparel line, which not only generates income but also promotes the organization’s mission.

Moving forward, Rashad shares that he envisions expanding the impact of Black Boys Empowered and evolving his personal and professional ventures to create a lasting legacy of empowerment, education, and community engagement. He adds, “One of my primary goals is to transform Black Boys Empowered into a foundation that will oversee multiple initiatives aimed at supporting Black boys in Detroit and beyond. This includes establishing a prestigious scholarship program for HBCU-bound students from metro Detroit.” Rashad also plans to launch the Dear Black Boy health and wellness brand as a subsidiary of the foundation, providing resources and products designed specifically for Black boys’ well-being.

His advice to others who may follow in his footsteps is very clear. Start with a clear purpose and build a strong network. He also advises you to stay true to your community and, most importantly, leave a legacy.

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Learn More About My Experience of Being A Caregiver For My Mother

CHAPTER NINE: The Difference In Who Provides Care

For the caregivers following the “Becoming A Caregiver” series, my heart continues to go out to you. The assignment is not an easy one. Even more, regardless of any arrangement, when you are committed to ensuring that your loved one gets and receives the highest quality of care and attention, there isn’t much that will get in the way of your goal to see it happen. Any who, I am speaking for myself, and that is how I feel.

One of the most disheartening feelings I have experienced along this journey always happens when I arrive to visit my mom while she is in the care of others. As her primary caregiver for over eight years, I have a pretty good understanding of what good care looks like. I also know what slack and neglect look like.

While my mother is under my care, it has always been my goal to meet her needs first and always before mine. When she is thirsty, hungry, uncomfortable, or whatever else, I make it my goal to meet her need before it becomes a need. Anytime when I fall a little behind on my assignments, it becomes obvious, and Mama never hesitates to let me know that I am slacking.

With that said, as our family has depended on the assistance of others to provide care for my mother, finding consistency between caregivers has been very challenging. I believe it has a lot to do with how a person approaches their job. I believe that it also has a lot to do with how people feel about them. If you truly love yourself and love people, then that same level of compassion will show up with caregiving. If someone lacks compassion, they should never work in a customer service-dependent field like caregiving. Furthermore, if they lack professionalism, cleanliness, good time management skills, and good attention to detail, then caregiving is not for them as well. That is just my opinion.

Seeking the assistance of others to provide caregiving services for my mother was one the hardest decisions I have made since she suffered her stroke. While she may encounter dozens of individuals on a daily basis, there always seem to be about two or three that exhibit all of the above-mentioned qualities. I wish that I could say that it gets easier with each passing day, but to be honest, it doesn’t. For me, I find hope in being just as committed to caring for my mother today as I was when I first began this journey. I make my concerns and expectations known, and my Mama and I work together by trusting God.

I decided to share my experience as a full-time caregiver for my mother to consult, console, and inform other families who may be going through a similar situation. As a son, caring for my mother never feels like work; if so, it is a labor of love. Please continue to follow this message, Becoming A Caregiver, in Huami Magazine. I hope that sharing my experience will help others. From one caregiver to the next, God Bless You!

Shamily Octavia

Mama’s Makings LLC

When Octavia L. Shamily sets her sights on something, there isn’t much that will stop her from obtaining it!

Octavia L. Shamily is a native and current resident of Detroit, MI, who, like most women, wears many hats. She is referred to as “mother” by countless young men and young ladies, in addition to being the biological mother of one son. She is a go-getter, problem solver, encourager, author, and public speaker. Octavia earned her Bachelor of Science degree in Civil and Environmental Engineering at Wayne State University in Detroit, MI. However, Octavia is delighted that she is warmly known for her delicious brand of chicken salads, and that brand name is “Mama’s Makings”.

Mama’s Makings LLC was founded in 2018 and is certified as a woman (WBENC), minority (NMSDC), and SAM (System for Award Management) owned small business. Originally, Octavia specialized in providing consumers with everyday products that are practical for household and business use. She is thrilled to now offer healthy, ready-to-eat food items as her product.

Mama’s Makings loves producing a variety of grab-and-go chicken salads. Her line of chicken salads includes spicy, mild, dairy-free, and vegan varieties. Her vegan chicken salad is made with jackfruit and soy-free veganaise and is dairyfree. Her newest variety of chicken salad, which she perfected In 2023, is dairy-free chicken salad. Mama’s Makings brands of chicken salads are available in several Meijer grocery locations throughout Michigan; see locations at https:// mamasmakings.com. If you don’t see Mama’s Makings chicken salads in your local Meijer store anywhere in the United States, please ask for them. Octavia loves knowing that every variety of chicken salad that they produce is a healthy, delicious, grab-and-go option.

When Octavia was a little girl, cooking was what she wanted to do. Her affinity for cooking first showed itself with the mud pies that she loved making. As she aged Octavia realized that cooking was more of a calling than a love. “As a young girl, I was always in the kitchen with my godmother and great-aunts. In the early 1990’s, as I tried to figure out who I was, I began cooking with chefs. However, my journey would take me along a different path. Back then, women were expected to cook at home or for others, but not to become chefs. However, I heard God tell me, “You are going to do food differently.” I didn’t fully understand what He meant,” she says.

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As Octavia’s skills as a chef improved, demands for her prepared foods began to emerge. She was often inspired while preparing unique dishes for her family and friends, including the woman she affectionately refers to as her grandmother. “Everything I made was well-received, but the chicken salad and the adult fruit salads were truly exceptional. My grandmother and my girlfriend’s mother both loved the spicy chicken salad especially. They requested it every week and encouraged me to keep cooking. Nearly 30 years later, “Mama’s Makings” was born. Looking back, I now realize what God meant when He said that I would do food differently. My passion for feeding people whether they are picky eaters, have health challenges, or are simply committed to eating healthy – became the foundation of my small business.”

Octavia shares that she truly loves what she does. “I am a servant of God, and I appreciate each opportunity that I have to share God’s love. He has blessed my hands to prepare food that not only nourishes but also brings joy to others through His blessings. I love the process of making the salads. Everything is made with care and intention, from the front label to the chicken salads inside, and even the love under the lid. Every day, I get to relive the joy I had of making mud pies as a child by mixing bowls of chicken salad. Of course, this time, I’m wearing gloves!” she says.

Octavia established Mama’s Makings for three key reasons. The first one is to serve mature adults. “Inspired by my grandmother and other seniors, we aim to provide wholesome, healthy food that can be enjoyed at any time of the day,” she says. The second is to supply a variety of food products that can be used versatilely. The third reason is to empower the community. “Creating jobs and uplifting impoverished communities is at the heart of what we do. Mama’s Makings is committed to stopping the tears of those who open their refrigerators to find no food, as well as those who face utility shut-offs while working two or three jobs just to make ends meet,” she says.

As Mama’s Makings grows, so will their ability to rebuild entire communities by creating jobs, promoting empowerment, and sharing opportunities for everyone they serve to become self-sufficient. Octavia shares that the people she affectionately refers to as her grandparents, who weren’t actually blood relatives, instilled in her the foundations of loving and serving others. “God answered my prayers by placing Mr. and Mrs. Russel and Edith Morgan in my life, who loved me with the same unconditional love that God loves me with. The Holy Spirit inspired me to spend time in the kitchen and to create a dish that Mama could enjoy without needing to use the stove – especially when I was asleep or away. That’s how the Spicy Chicken Salad was born. Over time, it was refined into the delicious dish that it is today,” she says.

Octavia has faced many challenges as a business owner. In fact, most small business owners do face the challenge of acquiring finances and establishing a steady flow of cash. Octavia addresses her challenges with prayer and by seeking

God’s guidance and help. She says, “I turn to God’s Word for strength and direction, but most importantly, I keep moving forward. As a business owner, I have learned that the most critical thing I can do is to keep pressing onward while holding my head high. One scripture that has given me great encouragement is Isaiah 41:13 “For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.”

Things are looking really good for Mama’s Makings. Last year, Octavia added two locations from which her brand of Chicken Salads can be purchased. In October of 2024, she began including a three-word encouraging phrase under the lid of each product as her way of spreading love and positivity to consumers. One of Octavia’s goals for 2025 is to establish a way to quickly and efficiently ship Mama’s Makings chicken salads across the world. Octavia also invites consumers to submit their own three-word phrases, which may be selected in a monthly drawing. This year, she says her company is focused on increasing product awareness by conducting more demos and providing guests with samples of their four products. She also plans to enhance her product visibility on social media, showcasing many ways that Mama’s Makings Chicken Salads can be enjoyed while encouraging consumers to share their own chicken salad creations.

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Huami Magazine Community Awards 2025

Charlotte Marriott Center City - Charlotte, NC

We are coming to the Queen City of Charlotte, NC.

Please mark your calendars for June 7th, 2025, as the Huami Magazine Community Awards will take place at the Charlotte Marriott City Center. Following up on our first gala of 2023, we are excited for the opportunity to present Black Excellence from various parts of the Huami Magazine network, which covers more than 23 states around the country.

Community Leaders, Business Leaders, and NonProfit Organizations will be honored and recognized for the great work they have done and continue to do in their respective communities. There will also be some great speakers, good food, and entertainment. This a formal, black tie event, and one that you don’t want to miss.

The evening will begin with a Red Carpet Reception at 5:30 pm. The Gala Reception will start at 6:30pm

For more information, please call 336-340-7844. Seating is limited and group packages are available. Tickets are on sale and can be purchased at the link listed below. Sponsorship opportunities are also available. For sponsorship information, please send a detailed email to mykelmediaco@gmail.com h

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Eliana Yelder
The daughter of Alexis Yelder

Beverly K. Johnson

NEW YEAR, NEW LOOK SERIES

She is always on the move, and one should never be surprised about what Beverly K. Johnson is doing. Beverly is a Certified Personal Trainer, Nutrition and Transformation Coach, and Founder of The EPIC Academy and Genesys Fitness. She says, “The cycle of starting and stopping your healthy lifestyle journey is frustrating. If you’re overwhelmed with information and unsure who to trust, then The EPIC Academy is for you. You need more than a journal and “woosah” moments to truly transform your life and body. My mission is to disrupt the chaotic cycle of binge eating and losing weight that many women and men over the age of 40 go through.”

Beverly was raised in Mobile, on the Gulf Coast of Alabama. After she graduated high school, Beverly decided to follow in her mother’s footsteps and attend her alma mater, Alabama A&M University. Following graduation, she received her commission into the US Army. “I’ve been fortunate in my experiences, which have been invaluable in my growth as a coach,” she says.

With the new year 2025 in full swing, Beverly is eager to share one of her latest projects, the New Year, New Look Series. In a follow-up to her previous production, Shades of Hue, in which she received an overwhelming amount of support, Beverly aims to build upon the series and create more coloring books. She is also preparing for the launch of New Year, New Look in the Spring.

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Beverly shares the process of creating the new production began with one affirmation: “Taking care of myself is an act of self-love.” She adds, “It was a love letter to my clients, a way to celebrate their strength and growth. I’ve always enjoyed coloring and journaling, so I was looking for a way to combine both. In my first book, I was intentional in adding affirmations. We’re bombarded by so many conflicting messages and images. I wanted to create a book that reinforced the power of speaking life into yourself and celebrated the beauty of Black women.”

Beverly believes the ideal readers for her works are women thirty-five and up. These are individuals who usually try to balance corporate or entrepreneurial life and the needs of their home. “Because of the constant demands on their time, they cherish the pockets of quiet time in their day. The coloring book allows them to replenish their selfcare cup and navigate the day,” she says.

Beverly draws inspiration for her series from her circle of friends, clients, and women she’s met in her classes. “I see the beauty in everyone and want to share that,” she says. At the completion of her project, Beverly plans to host wellness events focusing on improving emotional wellness and understanding the importance of rest.

As the future unravels, Beverly shares her goal is to continue serving her clients and develop partnerships within her community. She also plans to expand the portfolio of her services to include motivational speaking.

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