Let Your Actions Offer Hope To Others
A Letter From The Editor
There Are No If, Ands, Or Buts About It!
A Letter from the Editor
You never know who is watching. In everything that we do in life, regardless of whether an audience is present or not, we must know that someone is always watching. While some may be in the form of support or encouragement, others may show up just to learn. I would describe myself as a learner.
What if tomorrow didn’t arrive? All of your plans, hopes and dreams wouldn’t have a street to park on. What if everything that you decided to put off until tomorrow never happened? There would be no reason to save for a rainy day, and you could spare someone the trouble of making promises. What if your last opportunity seemingly expired today? What would you do?
Throughout my life, the answers and solutions I’ve needed to survive haven’t always come from those who I would expect them to. Often times I didn’t have what a young and impressionable male needed to grow and maneuver, and because of this, I failed and made many mistakes. Yet, I thank God for grace and for placing help along my way, to ensure that what He has planned and purposed shall be done.
I’ve been told that I often seem like I do too much. Honestly, I feel like I am not doing enough and I’m a firm believer in knowing that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t handle. I sometimes wonder how life would be if I chose to sit idle and accept what it presented to me. I have found that to be very boring. In my opinion, opportunity is a blessing that isn’t afforded to everyone. A challenge to me is an adventure. What is the worst that can happen? If I do nothing, I fail, and if I try I don’t, but instead learn something new about myself. Relinquish your pride and in return acquire life.
I recently celebrated a birthday. It was cool. I didn’t make a lot of noise, but instead, I enjoyed the blessing of being alive. It was also around this time that the Olympic games were taking place in Paris. As Simeon Biles captivated the world with yet another remarkable performance, my interest was consumed by what American Runner Sha’Carri Richardson accomplished. As many may recall, a few years ago, Sha’Carri made headlines for her mistakes off the track. As I watched the Olympic games, I celebrated her victory, but I also celebrated her determination and her perseverance. Sha’Carri has proven to her naysayers and critics that she can block out distractions and lock in what is most important.
Watching Sha’Carri fueled my fire in some ways. It also reminded me to appreciate the opportunities that God gives us to correct a mistake. As I always say, “no one is perfect, except God’ and life throws a few curve balls here and there, we must stand firm and erect at the plate, always ready to swing for the fences. The greatest opportunity to exhibit our strength happens on our way back up.
The best advice ever given to me happened when someone told me to make my tomorrow happen today. In doing so I have pressed my way through doors with a key that only hope provided. I have also learned the difference between what God blesses me with and what life can burden me with as well. I compare it to knowing when to be confident and when to be quiet, because someone may get it confused with being arrogant.
I want to encourage everyone to keep moving and believing that our greatest days are still yet to happen. God has given all of His children purpose, and has also provided provisions to see them occur. As we continue along our journey’s, let’s do it with a heart of faith and assurance, because you never know who is watching. We must allow our actions offer hope to others.
Make you tomorrow happen today, but most importantly make it count. Life is but a whisper and we must put ourselves in a position to hear what it is telling us.
Terry L. Watson Editor/Founder
Terry L. Watson
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Nashville, TN
Doris Noah
Nashville, TN Tennessee State University
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Greensboro, NC
Caring For My Mother
Becoming A Caregiver
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Learn more about Murfreesboro Councilmember, Madelyn Scales Harris. Murfreesboro, TN
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Graduate Student Doris Noah won 3rd place at Water Professionals Conference 2024 Poster Competition Tennessee State University
As an expert in the water-energy-environment nexus, graduate student Doris Noah is thrilled to share that she recently participated in the Water Professionals Conference 2024 and won third place poster presentation! This recognition is a testament to the hard work and dedication that went into this project, and she is incredibly grateful for the support she received along the way.
A huge thank you to her incredible advisors, Dr. Lin Li, Dr. Painter and Dr. Gardiner for their unwavering support and guidance. Their mentorship was instrumental in helping her achieve this milestone. Their encouragement and insights were invaluable, and she truly appreciate all the time and effort they invested in her development.
The conference was a fantastic opportunity to connect with some of the brightest minds in the industry. It was inspiring to exchange ideas and collaborate with professionals who are truly shaping the future of water management. The conversations and knowledge shared were both enlightening and motivating. Looking forward to continuing this journey and contributing to our field’s advancements. Cheers to new connections and future collaborations! Here’s to many more opportunities to learn, grow, and make an impact in the world.
Madelyn Scales Harris Murfreesboro Councilmember
Madelyn Scales Harris was first elected to the Murfreesboro City Council in 2010. Scales Harris current term expires in 2026.
As a Murfreesboro native, Scales Harris was educated in Murfreesboro City Schools and graduated in the Central High School Class of 1970. She is a graduate of Middle Tennessee State University.
She retired from State Farm Insurance as a Business Account Underwriter.
Scales Harris comes from a family of “firsts”. She was selected by her peers to serve as 1st Female Vice-Mayor, the position held by her late father, Robert “Tee-Niny” Scales, the 1st Black Male Vice-Mayor, her mother, Mary Caruthers Scales who was the 1st Black Female to serve on the Murfreesboro City Council.
Scales Harris is, and has always been, very active in her community. She loves God and the people she serves. She is a member of First Baptist Church, volunteer for Alive Hospice, and a life time member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated.
Scales Harris is involved in the Wess Morgan Recovery Fest Award, Rutherford Athena Award Recipient, Murfreesboro Breakfast Rotary, Rotary International Paul Harris Fellow, National Board of Directors of the Women in Municipal Government, League of Women Voters, Tennessee Municipal League, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Scholarship Fund of Rutherford County Board, Faith Awards Recipient, NAACP, Scales Elementary T-Shirt Sponsor, Murfreesboro Garden Club Speaker, NAACP Woman of the Year, African American Heritage Society, Friends of Linebaugh and Linebaugh Library Board, Murfreesboro Parks & Recreation, Water & Sewer, Cable, Airport, and Disciplinary Boards, Leadership Rutherford, National League of Cities, Honorable Lois DeBerry Servant Leader Award, “The Pride of the Rural Girl”, a group in South Africa Sponsor, Eastern Star Humanitarian Award, Speaker at the American Association of University Women National Convention, Joseph Peebles Foundation Distinguished Pioneer Award, Speaker for Youth and Women groups, Participate in a Youth Summer Program at Morehouse College, and various other contributions including Sorority and Fraternity recognitions.
Scales Harris is the very proud mother of son, Robert Edmond Harris, ecstatic grandmother of granddaughter, Mariah Elizabeth (Angel Doll) Harris, who has forever changed her life with the joy she brings. Scales Harris’ motto in life is, “You don’t get where you are by yourself and should never forget where you came from, because when you lose sight of your beginnings, you cease to be humble”. h Information obtained from
Stopping the Chase Counseling and Coaching
“We help you learn how to protect your passion and prevent burnout, ensuring your emotional life flourishes with longevity and vitality.”
By Terry L Watson
Provided by Montoyia McGowan
Montoyia Denise McGowan is a dynamic force of nature. She’s not just a mindset coach and psychotherapist; she’s a beacon of hope and empowerment for many. As a disabled combat veteran who was raised in Memphis, TN, she has a deep connection to her roots and a genuine passion for helping others, especially black women and working professionals. Her journey in psychology, social work and mental health has been shaped by her own experiences and a drive to make a real difference in the world.
Today, Montoyia is the owner of Stopping the Chase Counseling and Coaching. Her company offers a variety of services aimed at promoting emotional wellness and personal growth. These include individual coaching sessions, therapy intensives that span over three days, mindset coaching, masterclasses, and group sessions. She shares they are designed to help strong friends reclaim their power and authenticity.
She started Stopping the Chase Counseling in 2021 as a part-time experiment. Montoyia’s experiment led her to leave her job with the government to work for herself full-time. She has recently created Bougie Boundaries Academy, a program that teaches individuals how to establish and maintain boundaries while fostering emotional wealth and authenticity. Bougie Boundaries Academy is a space created to help others discover the secret to sustaining and thriving in their wellness journey by establishing healthy, exclusive boundaries. “We help you learn how to protect your passion and prevent burnout, ensuring your emotional life flourishes with longevity and vitality,” she shares. Montoyia has also coined the phrase “Bougie Boundaries” and shares that once you know your true value, it should be a luxury for people to have access to you.
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Some additional products and services Montoyia offers are guided meditations, yoga, and holistic healing experiences. She also has a podcast, “Bougie Black Therapist Podcast,” which serves as a platform to educate and inspire licensed professionals of color to embrace their authentic selves in private practice. Montoyia is also planning the Bougie Boundaries Academy membership and wellness retreat to Bali, which is scheduled for September 15-22, 2025.
Montoyia began her journey out of a deep-seated desire to help others live their most authentic lives. She says, “I realized that I was not the only person who had lost themselves while taking care of others.” It wasn’t a sudden leap but a gradual realization of her calling. Over time, she saw a gap in how traditional therapy and coaching addressed the unique needs of people of color, especially women who are high-achievers and entrepreneurs. That’s when she knew she had to step in and create a space for them. “The vision was birthed from my own experiences and the struggles I witnessed in others. As a black woman in a high-pressure environment, I faced challenges that weren’t always addressed in mainstream wellness spaces. I wanted to help change that narrative, creating a space where people could find both healing and empowerment.”
As a black female business owner, Montoyia has faced a few challenges along the way. These include financial and emotional exhaustion. She says, “As a black therapist, when dealing with the low pay from insurance companies, as well as the economic downturn and the high demand for authentic clinicians of color, can be challenging. I’ve managed this by setting bougie boundaries, prioritizing my well-being, and creating multiple streams of income that align with my values and expertise. Even more, my resilience and the ability to pivot have been key to overcoming these obstacles.”
When asked what she loves most about what she does, Montoyia shares it’s the clients’ transformations. “When someone comes to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, with my assistance, I get to witness them reclaiming their power and joy. It’s the most rewarding feeling. I thrive on helping others create a legacy of emotional wealth that extends far beyond them,” she says.
Montoyia shares that she is mostly inspired by her mother, who also was a teen mom. “My mother valued journaling and encouraged me to write. This is a tool that never gets old, and it allows me to learn more about myself,” she says. Montoyia finds inspiration in the resilience and strength of her own personally cultivated community, especially women who continue to rise despite the odds. She is also inspired by nature, meditation, and the peace that comes with being connected to oneself.
With the ups and downs that she has faced in life, Montoyia remains humble and says she wouldn’t change anything about how things have happened. Her personality is modest, and she only says that she would probably give herself more grace in the early stages. “I wish that I understood as a young adult that feelings and boundaries work together. I am a natural go-getter, but sometimes that comes with a lot of pressure. I would tell my younger self that it’s okay to take things one step at a time and that your feelings are part of your self-care. Self-care is a crucial part of the journey.”
Montoya has helped several clinicians and interns cultivate an authentic presence, and her advice to others who aspire to follow in her footsteps is to never lose sight of your authenticity. “It’s easy to get caught up in what you think you should be doing. However, staying true to yourself is where the real magic happens. Set those bougie boundaries. Your emotional energy is precious, and not everyone deserves access to it.”
Looking ahead, Montoyia plans to expand the Bougie Boundaries Academy and take her retreats to new heights. She’s also looking forward to deepening her work with her podcast and creating more spaces for people to connect, heal, and grow. She also plans to collaborate with others in her profession.
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“The Evolution of A Family Business”
Paschal Construction & Project Management Charlton Hildreth
By Terry L. Watson
Chuck Hildreth is a man on a mission. The Memphis, TN, resident keeps his family and his brand the focal point of his life. In regard to family, Chuck has three amazing kids, Drew, Tayler, and Sydney, all of whom embody his passion for entrepreneurial success.
Chuck owns several businesses, with Paschal Construction & Project Management being at the forefront and laying a foundation that makes the others possible. He also owns Paschal Hildreth Entertainment and has published a series of books under the Daddy Books Bundle compilation.
Chuck began working as a Disc Jockey in the 70’s. He was only a teen. He would eventually get into concerts and clubs along the way. Currently, with Paschal Hildreth Entertainment, they have a one hour television special in the works.
Daddy Books, which is Chuck’s favorite, is a collection of stories about times spent with his kids while they were growing up. “Chuck says, “The unique thing is once you read the book, you begin to see yourself in the dad character. Even moms find joy and comparisons in these stories. That is on purpose because there are strong mother figures throughout the stories portrayed through Mom and Grandma.”
Paschal Construction was birthed in 1960 by Chuck’s late uncle, John Paschal. “I was blessed to have worked under him as a teenager and gained vast experience during that tutelage. Paschal Construction has come a long way from building and remodeling houses to now maintaining commercial sites such as Wendy’s and other large chains,” he says.
Just like his uncle, Chuck has been able to bring his family with him. “I have resurrected the company and rebranded it. Now it will be up to my children to take this to the next level,” Chuck says. Paschal Construction is a full-service construction company that began with home remodeling and repairs. The company built its reputation on giving older homes a fresh new look. Eventually, the company grew from the residential sector to servicing commercial clients. One major client was Fitzgerald Casino. Chuck says that opportunity really opened some huge doors for Paschal Construction.
Another commercial client, Wendy’s Restaurants helped to change the way Chuck’s company operated. “We went from just painting homes to laying commercial roofs, as well as plumbing, electrical, and HVAC.,” he says. Now, the company has also included Project Management into their portfolio.
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Chuck grew up in the small town of Hot Springs, Arkansas. His roots can be traced to a neighborhood of educators or entrepreneurs. That blend provided him with a unique perspective on the future. “I learned to combine my education with my entrepreneurial spirit. My mother was a teacher, my aunts were teachers, and my uncle was a teacher and business owner. So after high school, college, and the military, I came back to the family business,” he says. “I was introduced to entrepreneurship as an early teen. This goes all the way back to when my mom purchased a lawn mower to cut our Grass. I took the mower and a neighbor and began cutting our neighbor’s yards. That was my first business, and having my own money felt good. After that experience, my uncle began taking me with him, though I wanted to be out playing with the boys instead. Looking back, I can see how I developed this strong work ethic and ability to manage my time well. People wonder how I keep up this hectic schedule, but they do not realize that I was trained to do it. I have been running and running from my youth to now!”
Chuck credits his mother for instilling drive and vision into him. He says, “My mother was a single mom, and she somehow never allowed me to think, feel, or realize that a single mother was raising me. She surrounded me with strong male mentors in my community and family. When I was young, I saw her standing out in her community and the school system. She was a teacher that her students and their parents always acknowledged. Additionally, she was one of our city’s first groups of integrated teachers. This also allowed me to not be struck with the stigma of racism. I was very comfortable around Blacks and Whites. My mother had some entrepreneurial endeavors and supported my own as a youth. She also pushed me out in the community, and by doing so, it helped to develop strong confidence within myself.”
Understandably, Chuck also acknowledges his wife for having a huge impact on his life. He says that most married men have to acknowledge that when you are out there fighting your fight in the world, there is a wife in the home supporting you. “I could not have done the things I did, the way I did, without the support of a strong woman at home!”
When asked what he loves most about what he does, Chuck says it is the opportunities he has to make his customers happy. “All of my businesses have a customer service factor. My construction company allows us to fix our customers’ construction problems. The entertainment company gives the customers some time out to enjoy a concert or comedy, which takes them away from the issues of home and life, if only for a moment. Daddy Books allows parents to reflect on their own time with their kids or just live out that experience through these kids and dad,” Chuck shares.
As a Black man in the field of businesses that Chuck is in, there are always going to be challenges. These can be not enough money, not enough education, not enough experience, and so on. “You must be up to the challenge. If it were easy, everyone would be doing it. For me, I believe the difference maker is that I am actually built for adversity. I’m good at damage control and dealing with organized chaos, so my coping skills are deep,” he says.
As a man of faith, Chuck believes that everything in his life has happened for a reason and that he is where he should be in life. He says that God brought him right here and this way for His reasons. “I don’t question God. I have seen both good and bad and learned all along the way.”
As his community has played a significant role in his life, Chuck is very intentional in giving back and helping others. He serves as a mentor for young people, especially boys. He also offers jobs to unskilled youth, which exposes them to construction and entrepreneurship. He adds, “Oftentimes, our young men may not see business owners in their communities. I speak at events as well as host events to train youth to speak. I believe that learning to speak in public is important, so I give them that opportunity whenever we have events.”
Chuck concludes by sharing, “I have owned clubs and other businesses. I have done concerts and events. I have run a substantial construction company. Now that I have done all that I wanted to do, my own kids are able to fulfill their dreams!”
Pictured above is John Paschal, the founder of Paschal Construction and Property Managment
Deborah Callaway Dr.
Life After NYSP and NC A&T State University
By Terry L. Watson
Photos Provided by TMFPhotography
Dr. Deborah Johnson Callaway has lived a very interesting life.
Dr. Callaway is a native of the Blandford community in Petersburg, VA. She was raised alongside two older brothers by two hard-working parents. She shares that her parents didn’t have much education; her dad worked on a produce truck, and her mother worked in housekeeping. With her being the only girl and the baby, Dr. Callaway says she got all of the attention.
Dr. Callaway says her parents were able to afford to send her to college. However, that didn’t stop her. After graduating from high school, she attended Virginia State College, now Virginia State University, and majored in Health and Physical Education. She marched in the band, played basketball as well, and was a member of the first women’s basketball team at VSU. After graduating from there, Dr. Callaway entered the workforce and worked as a middle school teacher in the Martinsville City School system. She would eventually return to college at Virginia Commonwealth University and receive her Masters Degree in Guidance Counseling before returning back to the public school sector, working as a Guidance Counselor at Amelia County High School. During this time, Dr. Callaway also served in the United States Army as a Drill Sergeant. Far from being done with her educational pursuits, Dr. Callaway went back to college at Virginia Tech in Blacksburg, VA, to receive her doctorate degree.
After graduating from Virginia Tech, Dr. Callaway began work in higher education at Barber-Scotia College in Concord, NC. “My intention at Barber-Scotia was to be a teacher on staff. However, things went a little different. The President of the college notified me that I would also be the Department Head. I didn’t have any experience, but I was told that I was selected because I was the only one with a degree. I was then notified that I was going to be the head basketball and softball coach. I had never coached a day in my life, and I had to do all of that while at Barber-Scotia,” she says. Amazingly, things would again change for Dr. Callaway.
She stayed at Barber-Scotia for about four years. While there, the school was going through the accreditation process. Dr. Callaway shared that she received word that someone was trying to reach her. It was a man who was on the state team, and eventually, he showed up at the gym where Dr. Callaway was working. “This man introduced himself as Dr. Al Walker, the Dean of the School of Education at North Carolina A&T State University. He told me that before coming on this team, he heard there was a female head of the Physical Education Department at BarberScotia. He shared with me about a position available he had at NC A&T. He invited me to participate in an interview. I was a little familiar with NC A&T but still a little hesitant about the opportunity, mainly because I had no experience in something of that magnitude, and I let him know that. He didn’t really pay any attention to what I was saying. So, I decided to go to the interview, and Dr. Walker offered me the position. I pondered over my decision for a short while and eventually made my way to the home of Aggies.”
“I didn’t have any experience, but I was told that I was selected because I was the only one with a degree. I was then notified that I was going to be the head basketball and softball coach.”
The year was around 1985 when Dr. Callaway arrived at NC A&T. She served as the Department Chair for 14 years. She would also serve as Interim Athletic Director for Dr. Edward B. Fort. She also served as a Senior Women’s Administrator and as an Interim Dean for The School of Education. On the day she arrived back at Corbett’s gym, Dr. Callaway was contacted by Dr. Stanley Battle. He wanted her to work in his office. “I had just got back to Corbett’s gym, but I couldn’t say no to the Chancellor. I would eventually work as the Special Assistant to the Chancellor until Chancellor Harold Martin would arrive,” she says.
For the most part, the most significant role Dr. Callaway has led was her assignment with the National Youth Sports Program (NYSP). At NC A&T, Dr. Fort approached her with an interest in revamping the program. “Dr. Fort shared that he wanted me to bring the program back to A&T’s campus. He didn’t like the way the program ended previously, and he wanted to have it back. He gave me full authority to run and manage the program. I told him “yes”. I left his office and, stopped by his secretary’s desk and asked her what the NYSP was. I had no clue!”
Dr. Callaway would learn very quickly what NYSP was. The program was a nationally known program, and every HBCU in the country participated. There was also participation from Hawaii. Funded by the NCAA, NYSP was intended to serve low-income families, and there were very strict rules and guidelines that were to be followed. Under Dr. Callaway’s direction, she created a program that offered summer jobs to public school teachers, and they were paid very well. To meet the criteria set by the NCAA, there had to be at least 300 kids enrolled. Each participant received a physical exam before being accepted, and that required partnering with several Black physicians to get them done. The participants also received two hot meals each day, which were provided by NC A&T’s food service department. Additionally, Dr. Callaway served as a Special Assistant under Chancellor Battle and Chancellor Martin, and led NYSP, along with an excellent staff, to five national awards.
Dr. Callaway would continue to work with NYSP for nearly six years before transitioning into the role of NYSP Evaluator, allowing her to evaluate programs at 12 other HBCU’s.
Dr. Callaway would retire from NC A&T in 2014. Since then, she continues to enjoy her life. She also appreciates the friendships and relationships that were made throughout her life and career. “I love staying at home and tending to the house, as well as making frequent trips to the beach,” she says. “Who would have ever thought that a girl from Virginia would do so much in life.” h
Learn More About My Experience of Being A Caregiver For My Mother
By Terry L. Watson
CHAPTER SIX: Caring and Love Go Hand in Hand
As a young boy growing up with my other siblings, I watched my mother wear so many hats. Now, as a full-grown man, I am even more amazed at how she did so much with it only being her. My mother was everything to a whole lot of people, and by being so, I watched how it wore her down. Still, she never spoke about how tired she was. She just kept pushing and moving, and pushing, and moving.
What I learned more than anything from watching my mother was that she had a heart the size of Jupiter, and she shared her love with anyone. It was like she never met a stranger. It didn’t matter if it was a neighbor at church, a stranger in the grocery store, or a co-worker. My mother always seemed to attract new friends and treat them all the same: with love, compassion, and empathy.
I’ve always wondered why Mama was so loving and giving. I didn’t get my answer until I was a lot older. One of her neighbors who had known her as a young girl told me that my mother reflects the upbringing that her grandmother gave her. My mother was raised by her, and when I heard this, it made perfect sense. My grandmother was so classy and so loving. She was the sweetest person I knew, next to my mother, of course. My mother’s neighbor also shared that as a young girl, my mother was taught how to care for others. My mother was a caregiver, but not just for the sick and ill; she cared for everyone.
Fast-forward to today, I think it makes perfectly good sense for me to care for her. Out of all of the traits and qualities I reflect on my mother, it’s my ability to care and love for her that I am able to connect with. In order to effectively care for her, I must love her. I also believe those two traits go hand in hand; they must be present in all capacities when attempting to meet the needs of others with dependencies such as hers.
During a trip to a rehabilitation session for my mother, I observed how healthcare professionals interacted with other patients. As my mother received physical and occupational rehabilitation, there were others present who also had suffered from similar ailments as her: stroke, brain injuries, motor vehicle accidents, and more. Their degree of disability varied, but what they all had in common was a need for the assistance of others. I witnessed how the therapists managed each individual. It was obvious that the goal was to improve their client’s quality of life and lessen their dependence on assistance, but getting to that place required some work.
I learned that it required a genuine love for people. I believe that the therapist must have really loved their work and, most importantly, loved and cared about their clients. I also felt as if I was in a familiar or sort of friendly and accommodating environment. Possibly because I embody those same qualities and depend on them daily while caring for my mother.
As I continue to care for my mother, I am at peace knowing that not everyone is equipped to be a caregiver. It is not for everyone. It doesn’t mean that I am better or greater than anyone; it only means that I have decided to allow my heart to lead me. I am so grateful for the opportunity to show my mother how much she is appreciated and that all of her hard work didn’t go unnoticed. She deserves to be loved each and every day. h
I decided to share my experience as a full-time caregiver for my mother to consult, console, and inform other families who may be going through a similar situation. As a son, caring for my mother never feels like work; if so, it is a labor of love. Please continue to follow this message, Becoming A Caregiver, in Huami Magazine. I hope that sharing my experience will help others. From one caregiver to the next, God Bless You!
Alvin Brooks AdHoc Group Against Crime
By Terry L. Watson
At 92 years of age, Alvin Lee Brooks continues to be very active in his community. A native of North Little Rock, AR, Alvin moved to Kansas City at a young age. He attended Lincoln High School and graduated from the junior college on campus. In 1954, after not being able to join the United States Air Force, he joined the Kansas City Police Department. He served in various roles, including as a Detective with the Gang Unit. After leaving the department, Alvin went to work for the school district in Kansas City.
Alvin Brooks is a distinguished figure whose career has left an indelible mark on Kansas City’s political, civic, and business landscapes. Elected as the Sixth District-At-Large Councilman in 1999 and re-elected in 2003, Brooks quickly rose to prominence, serving as Mayor Pro Tem under Mayor Kay Barnes. His leadership extended to chairing several city council committees.
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Alvin’s influence in these roles has helped shape the policies and safety of Kansas City, ensuring a legacy of community-focused governance. Beyond his political achievements, Alvin’s dedication to social justice and community activism is unparalleled. In 1968, shortly after the city’s riot, Brooks was appointed the first Black Director in Kansas City Government and established the Human Relations Department. In 1977, he founded the AdHoc Group Against Crime, a grassroots organization that has since become a cornerstone of Kansas City’s efforts to combat violence and crime.
In 1977, after the death of ten women in Kansas, the community believed there was a serial killer amongst them. Along with Sergeant Alvin Lomax, Alvin and others studied those cases very strategically and carefully, and determined that there was no evidence of a serial killer, but instead, the deaths were happening at the hands of “Johns”, drug dealers, and pimps. The one common denominator that all of the female victims had in common was that they were drug users and prostitutes.
Under his leadership, AdHoc has empowered citizens, fostered police-community relations, and served as a model for civic engagement across the nation. Alvin’s work with AdHoc was brought to the attention of President George H. W. Bush, and appointed Brooks to a three-year term on the National Drug Advisory Council. In 1990, President George H. W. Bush came to Kansas City to meet with Brooks and see the work of AdHoc. Bush named Brooks one of America’s “Thousand Points of Light,” highlighting his relentless fight against crime and drugs.
Brooks’ educational background is as impressive as his career, with degrees in History, Government, and Sociology from the University of Missouri—Kansas City. His commitment to education is further evidenced by his role as a reserve teacher and visiting instructor at several local colleges. His professional journey is equally notable, spanning roles from police officer and detective to Assistant City Manager of Kansas City, Missouri. Brooks’ deep understanding of the community’s needs and his strategic vision have made him a sought-after consultant for business leaders and government agencies alike, particularly in matters of diversity, civil rights, and community relations.
Alvin’s influence extends to numerous boards and committees, where his leadership has driven initiatives in education, civil rights, and public health. His accolades include honorary doctorates from multiple institutions, recognition from national civil rights organizations, and prestigious awards. Among those are the Board of Governors, Avila University, Board of Directors, Midwest Center for Holocaust Education, and Charter Member. Community Anti-Drug Coalition of America (CADCA), Board of Visitors, Park University, Advisory Committee, Missouri Supreme Court, Board of Regents, CMSU, Board Member, Prime Health Foundation, KCMO, Board of Police Commissioners, (President 2 years), Board of Directors, Hickmills Schools Board Mills C1 School District
(currently) Rockhurst University recently honored Brooks by establishing the Alvin Brooks Center for Faith-Justice, a testament to his lifelong dedication to social justice and equity. This Center will serve as a hub for faith-based initiatives and diversity programs, further cementing Brooks’ legacy in the community. The Center is expected to be open Spring 2025.
Alvin Brooks’ life and work are also the subject of a film by Academy Award-winning filmmaker Kevin Willmott. This documentary, alongside Brooks’ memoir “Binding Us Together,” chronicles the struggles and triumphs of a man who has shaped not only Kansas City but also offers lessons for the nation on community building and social justice. The film premiered on Juneteenth Day 2024.
Married at a young age, Alvin and his wife, Carol, had six children together. His wife passed away in 2013 after 63 years of marriage. When asked if there is anything that he would change about the way things have happened in his life, Alvin says that he would have spent more time with his wife and family. “I have spent so much time with my community that I was adopted as the “Community’s Father, Grandfather and GreatGrandfather”. My wife told me to take care of the community and she will raise the kids. With the AdHoc, I was called on day and night to speak with the families of homicide victims. We were a liaison between the police, the FBI, ATF, and the courts. In 1993, we had 153 homicides in our city, and I spoke at 43 funerals for young black men,” he says.
Today, Brooks spends time promoting his autobiography, Binding Us Together. Published in 2021, Alvin’s book was a best seller in Kansas City for a number of weeks. With all of the decades of service to his community, it is only fitting that Alvin is given the opportunity to relax and enjoy the fruits of his labor. Kansas City is a better place because of Alvin Brooks, and even more, the world is as well.
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Life is Good, Food is Great
By Terry L. Watson
Photos Provided by Fredro Star Photography
To be a successful entrepreneur, one must possess a few key qualities or traits; some are fortitude, determination, resilience, flexibility, and patience. Without these, it may be impossible to withstand the ups and downs, as well as the unpredictableness that entrepreneurship can bring. For Huntsville, AL, native Nikia Lightfoot has exhibited several of these and has built a brand that exemplifies them all.
Nikia is a twelve-year breast cancer survivor, and upon learning of her diagnosis, she responded by implementing several lifestyle changes, with one being her diet. She says, “At the age of 34, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and knew, from research, that my chances of survival were largely dependent on changing my diet and lifestyle to a plantbased regimen. After a year, I returned to eating poultry and seafood but soon developed internal physiological issues. My body began rejecting animal and dairy products, and when I stopped that practice, my internal issues disappeared. However, I was left with the burning desire to have a restaurant where I could use my culinary skills to dispel the myths about plant-based meals and help people, especially cancer survivors, learn that there are more options than baked potatoes and salads. It’s a delicious alternative with loads of potential health benefits for everyone.” That began Nikia’s whirlwind adventure in the vegan/ plant-based food industry.
At the age of 34, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and knew, from research, that my chances of survival were largely dependent on changing my diet and lifestyle to a plantbased regimen.
Food Photo Credit: Madison Vegan Eats
Today, Nikia is the owner of Vujee Vegan, an award-winning mobile food kitchen that provides a 100% vegan and plantbased menu and is known for offering its customers fast and flexible services in several locations. Vujee Vegan was birthed on September 16, 2020, during the Covid pandemic. Nikia shares that her customers can place their orders online and also utilize third-party delivery services. Vujee Vegan’s daily menu consists of burgers, including their Basic, Cheeze, Bae-K’n, Western, and Doubles. They also offer Chicken Sandwiches that come in a variety of options, such as Fried, Buffalo, and Nashville Hot. Additionally, there are Chick’n Nuggets, Shrymp Baskets and Sandwiches, Homemade Chili & Cornbread, Salads, Waffle Fries, Smoked BBQ Ribz, Mack’n Cheeze, Salisbury Steak, Homemade Cakes, and assorted cookies. Nikia also offers meal prep and catering services.
The urge to do something entrepreneurial and extraordinary has been something Nikia says she has wanted to do since childhood. She adds, “I believe I was inspired by my parents as I watched them build their successful businesses from the ground up. It was, therefore, no surprise that by age 12, I knew I would be a restaurateur. It became more apparent as I got engrossed in the art of cooking, working alongside my grandmother and mother in the kitchen. What I did not know was how it would happen. I just had a dream and knew it would be realized someday.” Unfortunately, or possibly fortunately, the catalyst for Nikia’s dream was laid out unexpectedly with her cancer diagnosis.
Nikia is the proud daughter of two amazing parents and the youngest of two older sisters. She graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of Alabama at Birmingham and from the Florida Institute of Technology with a Master of Science degree in Logistics Management. In addition to managing Vujee Vegan, Nikia is employed full-time, supporting the Department of Defense. She is a member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc., the Young Survivors Coalition, and volunteers with the American Red Cross, the Downtown Rescue Mission, and the Mommy Love Foundation. She has served on the VBD Board of Directors, an organization that provides grants to nonprofits in the community, and the Board of Directors for the KFJ Memorial Foundation, a breast cancer foundation that services the needs of women and men fighting breast cancer. In 2021, Nikia released her first book, My Breast Cancer Journey Journal. She says it was inspired by her journey and is a great tool for women who are fighting the horrible disease.
There are so many people who Nikia says have impacted her life, including her parents, and she credits her mother with being the most significant one of them all. Nikia shares, “My mother is a wonderful friend who has stood beside me through the good and bad times. She continues to love and support me unconditionally and always has something inspiring and positive to say. She prays for and encourages me and has taught me to be honest, work hard, give back, respect myself and others, and be a woman of integrity. All the advice and the life lessons she has given me continue to shape my values. I admire her strength, and I am exceptionally proud to be her daughter.”
Nikia says she loves working in the restaurant industry, mainly because of the fast-paced environment it offers. She also loves the opportunity to meet and connect with so many people from different backgrounds. “It’s so fulfilling seeing customers happy and satisfied with their meal,” Nikia shares.
The challenges Nikia has faced with managing her award-winning business involve moving her plant-based food delivery service to the next level. She says, “As a high-demand food truck system, I implement personal strategies that help attract the best quality staff who meet current and future needs. Over the previous four years, Vujee Vegan has grown from selling at farmers’ markets to renting a food trailer. We pivoted to a ghost kitchen and purchased our own food trailer in 2023. With this growth, we have hired more staff to keep up with the high demand for products”.
For other aspiring entrepreneurs who follow a path similar to the one Nikia has taken, she offers some sound advice. She says, “Find your niche and research the market, and determine what solution you are bringing. What makes you stand out? You must also write a business plan and understand your “why.” You must follow your heart. Don’t let anyone intimidate you because you are doing the same thing or something similar. There is enough room for everybody. Don’t tell everybody your dreams and visions. Everybody doesn’t have good intentions or advice, and remember, the vision and dream were given to you. Also, don’t let social media fool you. Being an entrepreneur is hard work, and you need to have thick skin. It’s an emotional roller coaster, and it takes a lot of time and money to build a sustaining business. Understand that you will make a lot of mistakes, so don’t be afraid to ask for help. Finding a mentor in the industry with a successful track record is also a good idea. Give yourself grace and network. Build a strong and supportive team. And finally, enjoy the journey!”
Looking ahead, Nikia has plans to open her first store in Huntsville in 2025. “We can’t wait for each customer to fully experience Vujee Vegan,” she shares. There is interest outside of Huntsville and Alabama, and Nikia says that she is open to all possibilities.
McGinnis Huntsville Housing Authority
By Terry L. Watson
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Antonio McGinnis of Huntsville, AL, prefers to allow the work that he does to speak for him. As the Executive Director and CEO of Huntsville Housing Authority, Antonio
Born and raised in the same community that he serves is very meaningful to Antonio. In Huntsville, he grew up in Mason Court/Sparkman Homes, a public housing community. Though he was raised in a singleparent home, Antonio says his father was very involved in his life. His father also worked for Huntsville Housing Authority, and this allowed Antonio to see his dad on a daily basis. He attended Terry Heights Elementary School and Stone Middle School and later graduated from Butler High School. At Butler, in 1991, he was an all-state basketball player. He would go on to play basketball at Texas A&M University on a full scholarship. In 1995, Antonio graduated from Texas A&M with a Bachelor’s degree in Journalism. He also obtained a Masters degree in Public Administration from Strayer University. Antonio’s life has been completed with his wife of 13 years, Mitzi, and together they have two boys, Kendell, AJ, and Ian.
Where Antonio is currently serving should not be a surprise to those who are familiar with the trek he has taken in life. Yes, he grew up in public housing and attended the Sparkman Homes Boys and Girls Club as a youth. There, he says he found out who he was going to become. “Because I grew up in public housing, my connection is a little different from that of
I know firsthand, and I can relate to members of our communities. When I was growing up, I really didn’t understand why I was in this space. Now that I am in this space, I know it was because I needed that experience to serve better.
Photos Provided by Antonio
someone who didn’t grow up in public housing and doesn’t necessarily understand the people they are serving. I know firsthand, and I can relate to members of our communities. When I was growing up, I really didn’t understand why I was in this space. Now that I am in this space, I know it was because I needed that experience to serve better. Being from Huntsville can be tough, but knowing a lot of the communities, I can’t move as others wish I could. Due to policies and procedures that are in place, I am limited in what I can do. Whenever I can provide assistance, I am going to do just that. Most importantly, I want to help members of our communities learn that public housing doesn’t have to be their final stop. My testament should serve as a testament,” Antonio shares.
As the leader of Huntsville Housing Authority, Antonio is responsible for the organization’s total operation. He manages a $16 million dollar budget, 1600 public housing units, and 2000 Section 8 vouchers that are distributed to the community to find housing for families who want to move out of the public housing sector and rent homes from private landlords. “We are a high-performing organization, and I am the face of it. When we get our report card, it says that we have checked the box. We take care of the properties we have,” he says.
Earlier this year, the Huntsville Housing Authority was awarded a $50 million dollar grant by HUD, called The Choice Neighborhood Planning Grant. This grant is given by HUD to select agencies that fit the criteria for redevelopment throughout the country. Though Antonio wasn’t serving in his current role when the application was submitted for the grant, in 2019, when he returned, he was part of a team that finalized the process. Initially, they received a $1.5 million dollar planning grant. They utilized those funds to revitalize Butler Terrace. That grant also allowed them to compete for the $50 million dollar grant. They partnered with the City of Huntsville and found a developer, McCormack Baron Salazar, based in St. Louis, MO, which helped them to connect with some social services organizations. With all of the connections that were made, they were able to secure the grant in July.
With the grant money that Huntsville Housing Authority has been awarded, Antonio shares the goal is to transform lives. “We are going to build neighborhoods where people of all demographics can live together, and provide services that will help people excel. We may have people from all walks of life living in the same community, regardless of economic status. This will be a reflection of a true community that reflects who we are,” he says.
While Antonio leads an organization that is designed to help people in the Huntsville community, he emphasizes their goal, which is to help people become self-sufficient. “I am a big proponent of one of our programs, called the “The Family Self Sufficiency Program”. It allows families to develop their own five-year action plan. In those five years, it gives them an opportunity to plan for the next five years. They are assigned a case manager to walk them through the plan, and at the conclusion of the five years, if the families complete everything they have set out to do, their rent, which is placed in escrow upon signing up for the program, is given back to them in the form of a check. They can use that money to purchase a home, clear their debt, or whatever they want to do with it.”
When asked what he loves most about what he does, Antonio says it’s the opportunity to allow others to see who he is and where he comes from. He also credits his parents for inspiring him also. “My mom raised three boys who are doing well. My dad was a solid guy and took good care of me.”
In the future, Antonio shares that he plans to do his part to position the Huntsville Housing Authority to be successful. He also wants to continue to build leaders and use his life to be an example of what can be accomplished in life, regardless of where you come from.
Fisk University to Host Renowned Political Leader Stacey Abrams for Historic Jubilee Day Celebration
Information obtained from Online Press Release
Fisk University is proud to announce that renowned political leader, business owner, and New York Times bestselling author Stacey Abrams will be the featured speaker at its annual Jubilee Day celebration on Sunday, October 6, 2024, marking a memorable moment for the Fisk community.
Jubilee Day commemorates the extraordinary journey of the Fisk Jubilee Singers, who saved our university from financial ruin through their groundbreaking performances in the late 19th century. The singers’ courage, talent, and unwavering commitment to their alma mater continue to inspire generations.
The celebration will take place at the historic Fisk Memorial Chapel and feature musical performances, tributes, and speeches. Attendees can expect a memorable experience that highlights our university’s rich history, vibrant culture, and unwavering commitment to academic excellence.
Dr. Agenia Walker Clark, President of Fisk University, expressed her excitement about Abrams’ participation, stating, “Stacey Abrams is a true visionary who has inspired countless people around the world. Her unwavering commitment to social justice and her dedication to empowering communities align perfectly with the values of Fisk University. We are honored to have her as our guest speaker for Jubilee Day.”
About Stacey Abrams:
Stacey Abrams is a visionary leader, accomplished attorney, and advocate for social justice. As a former Georgia State Representative and Minority Leader, she has been at the forefront of progressive politics, championing voting rights, economic equality, and healthcare access. Abrams is also a successful entrepreneur and author, whose work has been widely acclaimed for its thought-provoking insights and unwavering commitment to positive change.
About Fisk University:
Fsk University is a highly ranked historically Black university, according to U.S. News and World Report, and is the oldest institution of higher learning in Nashville, Tennessee. Fisk’s outstanding faculty and students continue to enhance the University’s international reputation for academic excellence. Fisk’s scholars continue to make strides in all areas of the industry from Social Justice to the sciences. A Fisk education prepares students to become beacons in servicing the community and well-rounded leaders and scholars in their respective fields. Fisk offers more than 20+ undergraduate and graduate programs in Biology, Chemistry, Physics, Clinical Psychology with a bridge Masters to Ph.D. program through a partnership with Vanderbilt University. For more information, visit Fisk.edu.
Huami Magazine Community Awards 2025
Charlotte Marriott Center City - Charlotte, NC
We are coming to the Queen City of Charlotte, NC.
Please mark your calendars for June 7th, 2025, as the Huami Magazine Community Awards will take place at the Charlotte Marriott City Center. Following up on our first gala of 2023, we are excited for the opportunity to present Black Excellence from various parts of the Huami Magazine network, which covers more than 23 states around the country.
Community Leaders, Business Leaders, and NonProfit Organizations will be honored and recognized for the great work they have done and continue to do in their respective communities. There will also be some great speakers, good food, and entertainment. This a formal, black tie event, and one that you don’t want to miss.
The evening will begin with a Red Carpet Reception at 5:30 pm. The Gala Reception will start at 6:30pm
For more information, please call 336-340-7844. Seating is limited and group packages are available. Tickets are on sale and can be purchased at the link listed below. Sponsorship opportunities are also available. For sponsorship information, please send a detailed email to mykelmediaco@gmail.com h
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ToBeReal
By Terry L. Watson
Melissa Williams of Greenville, SC, describes herself as a woman who is deeply committed to living authentically and helping others do the same. Her journey has been shaped by an insatiable need to break away from the constraints and limitations society has imposed on her as a Black woman and a mother. She shares her experiences, both personal and professional, that have guided her toward creating a life and career that aligns with her true self.
ToBeReal. This is the brand that Melissa has produced. She says, “I delineate it as a brand because it is a lifestyle, not limited to a product or service. At its core, it is an ideological stance and a resistance to assimilation. We are also a community created with the intention to empower others to live from a place of authenticity and self-awareness.”
ToBeReal offers free wellness resources via its website. Melissa also conducts workshops in casual or corporate settings designed to help individuals connect with their authentic core. She also focuses on creating an environment where people can explore who they truly are and take actionable steps toward living in alignment with their values. Melissa has also published a book, How to Thrive in Winter, and it is available on Amazon.
Photos Provided by Melissa Williams
Co-authored with Lauren E. Smith, How To Thrive in Winter is a workbook designed to help individuals understand and manage the effects of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and other forms of depression. The workbook aims to provide readers with tools and strategies to identify and understand how authenticity is connected to wellness. It includes exercises and prompts to reflect on habits, feelings, and goals, offering practical tips for positive change. The book encourages the readers to have an open mind and a willingness to grow, emphasizing that wellness is rooted in truth, joy, gratitude, and creativity. It outlines various strategies to enhance mental wellness, focusing on boosting the “happy chemicals” (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins).
In the book, Melissa shares her personal journey of dealing with depression and the realization that “winter” can metaphorically represent challenging periods in life. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and accepting oneself as a powerful tool in overcoming mental and emotional challenges. The workbook encourages readers to trust their journey and process the information in ways that suit them best.
More than anything, Melissa shares that she loves witnessing the moment when people connect with themselves. “There’s something incredibly powerful about helping someone peel back the layers and connect with their authentic core. When I see participants embrace their truth and take off their masks, I know they will overcome identity challenges and create lives that truly reflect who they are,” she says.
ToBeReal began as a book club under the name Melevation517. Melissa, that was a ridiculous name. She adds that the Covid pandemic made mundane thoughts seem so grand. Her vision gravitated to being a podcast, which only had five episodes, mainly due to Melissa being too busy to commit to consistently recording. She would eventually arrive at the place where ToBeReal was established as her brand. “It’s who I am, and even if I don’t produce something every day or every week, I don’t feel the pressure to perform,” she says. “ I focus more on staying grounded in my ideologies and seeking support when needed. Whether it’s through mentorship, continuous learning, or simply taking time for self-reflection, I’ve found that staying connected to my “why” helps me navigate the ups and downs.”
Melissa says that being a mother has had the biggest impact on her life. She adds that motherhood has been the best mirror, and it has helped her understand who she is and what she needs. “Parenting my son has pushed me to reparent the child in myself and give her permission to be who she is,” she says.
Building her brand has come with a few challenges. However, Melissa appreciates how things have happened. She says, “There isn’t much I would change about how my journey has played out. Every challenge and misstep has taught me something valuable and has ultimately led me to where I am today. If I could offer one piece of advice to my former self, it would be to trust the process more and not be afraid of taking risks or failing.”
Melissa says that it’s easy to get caught up in what others think you should do, but the most fulfilling path is the one that resonates with your true self. She says, “Don’t be afraid to ask for help and always be open to learning. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and challenge you to be your highest self, but most importantly, who listen to you.”
Melissa says ToBeReal’s future will be focused on expanding its reach and deepening its impact. She says, “I’m excited and proud of my book, How to Thrive in Winter. It will be the blueprint for future offerings. I also plan to host an annual retreat starting next year. On a personal level, I’m excited to continue growing alongside the brand, exploring new ways to connect with my community, and staying committed to the mission of helping others live authentically.”
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