God Never Runs Out of Options
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Letter From The Editor
There Are No If, Ands, Or Buts About It!
There is one thing that I know for sure will happen in life, and that is tough times will come. Yet, I have learned that tough times will not always last. As difficult as life can be at times, we are blessed to know that we don’t have to go at it alone. Even when we fall to the lowest of places, God promises us by His word that He is always willing to help bring us back up.
A Letter from the Editor
What if tomorrow didn’t arrive? All of your plans, hopes and dreams wouldn’t have a street to park on. What if everything that you decided to put off until tomorrow never happened? There would be no reason to save for a rainy day, and you could spare someone the trouble of making promises. What if your last opportunity seemingly expired today? What would you do?
It is also refreshing to know that regardless of how many times we fail, God’s grace never runs out. With this sort of insurance policy intact, our ability to conveniently seek repentance and forgiveness for our shortcomings might become well utilized. All I can say is thank God for grace.
I’ve been told that I often seem like I do too much. Honestly, I feel like I am not doing enough and I’m a firm believer in knowing that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t handle. I sometimes wonder how life would be if I chose to sit idle and accept what it presented to me. I have found that to be very boring. In my opinion, opportunity is a blessing that isn’t afforded to everyone. A challenge to me is an adventure. What is the worst that can happen? If I do nothing, I fail, and if I try I don’t, but instead learn something new about myself. Relinquish your pride and in return acquire life.
Everything that happens in life is often associated with a lesson. There is something we must have to learn, or the difficulties we face may actually be preparing us for something bigger and a whole lot more challenging ahead. Even though giving up and walking away feels like an easy and appropriate answer, that may not always be what is best. If you ever feel like you have run out of options, just remember that God hasn’t.
During the moments when I felt like God might not be listening, I tended to lean toward my own understanding. My reasoning was more aligned with what the world thinks instead of what God has promised. It’s all spiritual, and in those moments, surely my behavior couldn’t have pleased Him.
The best advice ever given to me happened when someone told me to make my tomorrow happen today. In doing so I have pressed my way through doors with a key that only hope provided. I have also learned the difference between what God blesses me with and what life can burden me with as well. I compare it to knowing when to be confident and when to be quiet, because someone may get it confused with being arrogant.
As confusing as it may sound, I’ve learned to stay patient in my unrest, as God does some of His best work there. We don’t have to come up with all of the answers, and even when the light can’t be seen at the end of the tunnel, it will make its appearance at the right time. I know that God’s timing is a lot more meaningful to me than what I think I need. I thank God for grace.
Make you tomorrow happen today, but most importantly make it count. Life is but a whisper and we must put ourselves in a position to hear what it is telling us.
Terry L. Watson
Terry L. Watson Editor/Founder
St. Louis, MO
St. Louis County (District 66) Representative Marlene Terry
St. Louis, MO
St. Louis Housing Authority Clinton-Peabody Redevelopment
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New Year, New Look Beverly K. Johnson
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Hybrid Comforts by Marc Marcuis Atkinson
Kham’s House Pamela Davis
Representative Marlene Terry St. Louis County (District 66)
Representative Marlene “Yvonne” Terry, a Democrat, represents St. Louis County (District 66) in the Missouri House of Representatives, including Spanish Lake, Bellefontaine Neighbors, Glasgow, Village of Riverview, and Castle Point. She was elected to her first two-year term in November 2020.
As a member of the Missouri House of Representatives, Marlene Terry serves as the Chairwoman of the Missouri Legislative Black Caucus. On the Elementary and Secondary Education Committee, her assignment to this committee supports her continued and active involvement with the Riverview Gardens School District and Hazelwood district. She also serves as the Minority Chair of Corrections, the Ethics Committee, and the Committee for Children and Families.
Prior to serving in the legislature, Terry worked as an accounting clerk for BJC Healthcare for 20 years. Marlene Terry was the first African American elected to Riverview Gardens School Board. During her nine years of service, Terry served as secretary and vice president of the board, eventually leading the board as President of the School Board.
Born in St. Louis, Terry attended University City High School and UMSL. She attends Olivet Missionary Baptist Church in Florissant. She has two children and four grandchildren.
Clinton-Peabody Redevelopment Update: Phase I Funding Awards
The Missouri Housing Development Commission (MHDC) has awarded nonprofit Preservation of Affordable Housing (POAH) nearly $3.5M in a combination of federal and state Low-Income Housing Tax Credit (LIHTC) and of Missouri Affordable Housing Assistance Program tax credits plus $3M in federal funding to begin construction on the redevelopment of Clinton-Peabody, one of St. Louis’ original public housing developments. Built in 1942, Clinton-Peabody has significant challenges with existing buildings, systems and public safety and is in need of substantial improvements. The awarded Clinton-Peabody Redevelopment – Phase 1 is in partnership with St. Louis Housing Authority (SLHA), Clinton-Peabody residents, and the Clinton-Peabody Tenant Advisory Board.
In November 2022, SLHA and a committee of residents and community stakeholders chose Chicago-based POAH to lead the residentcentered redevelopment plans for the multi-phased redevelopment which will eventually create 350 new mixed-income apartments and affordable for-sale homes around a reconfigured street grid, renovated Al Chappelle Community Center and new central park.
All current Clinton-Peabody residents will have the opportunity for new housing in the redeveloped community. Temporary onsite transfers of current residents to refreshed on-site units began in 2023 to help make way for the proposed Phase I redevelopment site.
The LIHTC program gives State and local LIHTC-allocating agencies budget authority to issue tax credits for the acquisition, rehabilitation, or new construction of rental housing targeted to lower-income households. MHDC’s 2025 funding award consists of:
$1,470,000 in federal 9% LIHTCs, $1,029,000 in state 9% LIHTCs (State LIHTC Accelerated Redemption Pilot Program), $3,000,000 in National Housing Trust Funds, $1,000,000 in state Affordable Housing Assistance Program tax credits. The total development cost for Clinton-Peabody Redevelopment – Phase 1 is approximately $32 million.
“POAH is very excited to be working with such a dedicated group of partners and funders to create a development built on the vision of residents and local community members that honors the past legacy of this housing and that will allow everyone to flourish in the future and be proud to call home,” said POAH President/CEO Aaron Gornstein.
Phase I includes 89 multi-family housing apartments with a mix of one-, two-, and three-bedrooms serving households with a range of incomes, primarily households at or below 60% of the area median income (AMI). Later phases will include an additional 259 mixedincome apartments in a mix of garden-style and townhome buildings, creating a diverse array of housing options.
Although existing housing subsidy will be preserved, all apartments will be new construction with access to community amenities and designed with best practices in sustainability, traumainformed care and universal design by St. Louis-based design firm Trivers.
“SLHA is thrilled about the redevelopment, which will meet the modern needs of our families while honoring Clinton-Peabody’s legacy as a cornerstone of the community,” said SLHA Executive Director Latasha Barnes. “This historic neighborhood has been home to many of St. Louis’s most accomplished residents, and we look forward to a bright future as we work alongside our residents and partners to further strengthen this legacy.”
POAH’s property management company, POAH Communities, will manage the properties and provide service-enriched programs to residents in coordination with local partners, including financial education, youth and senior programs, health, housing stability and homeownership readiness. The development is close to employers, service providers and anchor institutions in the downtown and central corridor including the headquarters of Ameren and Purina, and will enhance other nearby reinvestment plans for Gateway South, King Louis Square, Old Frenchtown, the Brickline and the planned Metrolink expansion.
Key development partners include: POAH; SLHA; Clinton-Peabody residents; Clinton-Peabody Tenant Advisory Board; Trivers; Roanoke Construction; David Mason & Associates; Custom Engineering, Inc.; Central Energy Audits; Arbolope; Key Strategic Group; Unicorn Group; and Lamar Johnson Collaborative. Heartland Black Chamber of Commerce, Prosperity Connection, Employment Connection, St. Louis Small Business Empowerment Center and an array of leading service and economic empowerment partners will be engaged in a robust service plan focused on helping residents maintain housing stability and access new opportunities to achieve their goals for success.
“After 56 years living at Clinton-Peabody, it’s more than a home to me,” said Pamela Emrick, a long-time Clinton-Peabody resident and Clinton-Peabody Tenant Advisory Board President. “To others it may just be public housing, but it’s more than that, because we all became a family. More information on the project, visit clintonpeabodystl.org.
Amore Decor Event Planning CiaraRuffin
By Terry L. Watson
Ciara Ruffin is the owner, Event Designer, and Certified Wedding Planner/Coordinator of Amore Decor Event Planning. Amore Decor Event Planning provides wedding and event design and coordination services in the Greater St. Louis area. While weddings are their specialty, Ciarra and her team also creates unforgettable experiences for corporate gatherings, birthday celebrations, small business functions, and other private events. By partnering with some of St. Louis’ top vendors, Amore delivers a seamless and elevated client experience. Amore Decor has also had the opportunity to design in many of the city’s most sought-after venues, ensuring every event is truly memorable.
With a Bachelor’s in Accounting and a strong background in Operations Management, Ciara brings a unique blend of creativity and organizational expertise to every event. Beyond her professional life, she is a proud mother to one daughter and enjoys the unwavering support of her family, who are also integral members of the Amore Decor team.
Ciara says, “The inspiration for Amore Decor Event Planning began with my daughter, Chloe, back in 2010. As I celebrated special moments with her, I found myself deeply involved in every detail of the planning process. At the time, I didn’t realize it, but I was tapping into a creativity I didn’t know I had. From creating magical “Frozen” birthday parties to transforming our home into a kid-friendly day spa, I began to discover a love (Amore) for event design.”
Photos Provided by Ciarra Ruffin
Fast forward to 2017, Ciara was asked to decorate her friend/sister’s Tiffany & Co.-themed bridal shower. After that, she was asked to decorate for a number of other events. What started as a hobby quickly turned into a passion. Encouraged by many people in her circle, Ciara found herself becoming more and more excited about this newfound creativity. Then, Covid hit. She says the pandemic definitely shook things up, but it also gave her the time and space to focus. “I used that time to research everything I needed to start a business and in June 2020, Amore Décor Event Planning LLC was born. I realized that my passion wasn’t just in decorating events, but in creating experiences that would leave a lasting impression.”
Ciara shares what she loves most about what she does is building meaningful relationships. “For me, it’s not just about the event itself; it’s about understanding what will truly make the experience memorable for my clients beyond just the visual appeal. Whether the event is simple yet elegant or elaborate, there’s nothing more rewarding than knowing I’ve met or exceeded their expectations. Seeing my client’s or guest of honor’s smile is always the most fulfilling part. At Amore Decor Event Planning, everything starts with the person, and I let the outcome speak for itself while maintaining a level of class and elegance that matches their vision.”
Ciara says her mother has had the biggest impact on her life and career. She adds, “Watching her successfully lead people, navigate situations where she was usually the only woman in the room, and create effective processes for organizations has been truly inspiring. She was promoted over four times within an organization, reaching positions that, in today’s world, would typically require a degree. She did all of this while, at times, working overtime, yet still made sure to attend everything I was a part of. I wanted to be like her when I grew up. She is the reason for my resilience, hustle, solid foundation, and detail/goal-oriented mindset. She is the reason I understand what never giving up looks like. Her strength, determination, and ability to make things happen are the reasons I am where I am today.”
Ciara also finds inspiration in knowing that her daughter is watching her. “There was an instance where my daughter created artwork and expressed an interest in starting a business, as she is the one who sees the operational and execution side of things. As she’s gotten older, she’s developed a keen eye for details and often gives great recommendations, which is a constant reminder that I’m not only setting an example for her but also teaching her the value of creativity and hard work.”
Looking towards the future, Ciara has plans to continue perfecting her craft, while building strong relationships with clients, vendors, and venue partners. She shares, “I will always be learning and growing so that I can elevate the client experience even further. With this comes a new and improved website, so…stay tuned.”
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PamelaDavis Queen of Reslience
By Terry L. Watson
Photos Provided by Pamela Davis
Pamela Anita Mary Davis is a proud St. Louis, MO native, servant leader, and the founder and CEO of Queen of Resilience, Inc. Queen of Resilience, Inc. is dedicated to teaching resilience through mental health awareness, professional development, and mentorship. They offer workshops, empowerment programs, and speaking engagements aimed at fostering selfawareness, mental health advocacy, and growth. Pamela says, “Our initiatives include The Resilient Approach, which provides tools for navigating life’s challenges, and the Meet the Queen & King Empowerment Program, which extends our mission to youth. Additionally, we’ve launched The Dorm Exchange, an initiative designed to support college students with essential resources to thrive academically and personally. Through these services, we aim to equip others with the skills to embrace their authentic selves and live resiliently.”
Queen of Resilience, Inc. was founded in 2017 and was born from a personal need to address mental health challenges, particularly for women and college students. During Pamela’s freshman year at Mizzou, she faced a mental health crisis that changed her life. She says, “At the time, she struggled to find resources and support, which left me feeling isolated and overwhelmed. That experience planted the seed for Queen of Resilience. I wanted to create a safe space where women could acknowledge, manage, and overcome mental health challenges like anxiety and depression. It’s been a journey of labor, tears, and unwavering faith, but it’s also been one of the most rewarding things in my life.”
Pamela shares that her journey has been shaped by her family, faith, and personal challenges. She grew up in a family that instilled the values of resilience, love, and perseverance. She adds that her mother, a guiding light in her life, taught her the importance of strength and grace, and her wisdom continues to inspire Pamela’s work today. Her brother, Derrick Richard, has given her insight on how to be your authentic self and use your creativity to honor God. He is the one that pushes her to be at her best.
Education has always been a cornerstone of Pamela’s journey. She says, “I began my college career at the University of Missouri-Columbia, where I experienced my first panic attack following the loss of my uncle, Arnett Kerr. That experience marked a turning point in my life, leading me to confront my struggles with anxiety and depression. I later transferred to Harris-Stowe State University, where I found my footing and excelled academically, earning my bachelor’s degree in Healthcare Management in 2013. I went on to obtain a master’s degree in Healthcare Administration from Webster University, which provided me with the tools to make a difference in the healthcare field and beyond.”
Pamela shares that her greatest inspiration comes from God, her family, and the communities that she serves. “My late mother’s wisdom and resilience have profoundly shaped who I am and how I lead,” she says. “Her words and actions remind me daily of the power of love and perseverance. Her life was a testament of faith, resilience, adoration, and joy. She made sure that I knew the significance of having a relationship with God, being a woman of class, and having a heart to serve others. Though she is no longer on earth, I know that the prayers she prayed are being answered. I know that I am the life she wanted me to live, and she is proud of me. One of my biggest supporters and inspirations, besides my mother, is my brother. I would not be the woman you see today without his push, directness, compassion, and desire to see me succeed. My brother made a sacrifice to take care of my mother and I. His consistency has been remarkable, and he has never wavered. My love for music comes from my brother’s gift for musicality, which has a way of transforming any room. My creative side and love for non-profits came from seeing my brother’s drive and heart for caring for others. I am grateful for his love because it made me a better person who is now willing to shine their light. Because my brother shines his light daily through God, I learned the power of not letting your lamp go out.”
Pamela adds that she is also inspired by the women and youth she’s had the privilege to mentor and support through Queen of Resilience. “Their courage to confront challenges and grow inspires me to continue this work.” Lastly, she says that her faith is her anchor. “One of my favorite scriptures is 1 Corinthian 5:10, which states, “But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, though it was not I, but the grace of God that is with me.” I believe that God calls us to be resilient, and that belief fuels everything I do.”
Pamela shares that her testimony is one of overcoming and transforming pain into purpose. During her college years, she struggled with anxiety and grief after losing her uncle. Those experiences brought Pamela to her knees, but they also brought her closer to God and to herself. Through faith, therapy, and mentorship, she discovered the language for her strength: resilience. “I realized that my story could be a beacon of hope for others. Today, I stand as a testament to the power of resilience and faith, and I use my platform to help others find their voice and
navigate their challenges with courage,” she says. “When my mother passed in 2019, my world was flipped upside down because I struggled with functioning in life without her guidance. Though my mother suffered from kidney failure for the majority of my life and later was diagnosed with colorectal cancer, I was never prepared for the loss of a parent. While growing through the grief of losing my mother, within a year apart, my father passed as well. It was essential for me to restart my journey with a therapist, which is where I learned to be present in the moment.
Being present in the moment taught me the power of stillness. Before my mother left this earth, I thought resilience meant always being strong. I discovered that there is stillness at the core that is wrapped in joy. My grief journey has propelled me to run with the gifts God has given me and taught me not to second-guess myself. I remember saying out loud, “I am the answer to my mother’s prayers, and what she did not get a chance to do, I will do.”
Listening to God while grieving, Pamela says she fell in love with writing again and realized that it’s a gift that God gives for healing. “My love for writing led me to transform my journals into a book, where I discovered how to truly embrace my flaws, heal from my traumas, and celebrate my victories. This journey is at the heart of my memoir, Resilience Found Me: A Memoir of Anxiety, Grief, and Passing The Crown. The book takes you through my struggles and triumphs, offering a look at how I found strength through faith and self-discovery. I am aiming to inspire readers to confront their own challenges, embrace their unique journeys, and unlock their inner resilience. My hope is that it will provide tools and encouragement for those navigating similar battles, empowering them to turn their pain into purpose and step boldly into their calling - which is what I am doing today. Now, I stand as a testament to the power of resilience and faith, and I use my platform to help others find their voice and navigate their challenges with courage.”
Moving forward, Pamela shares her vision of expanding Queen of Resilience, Inc. nationally, reaching more women, youth, and college students with their message of resilience. She’s also excited about the upcoming release of her memoir, Resilience Found Me: A Memoir of Anxiety, Grief, and Passing the Crown, which is set to be released on Amazon this year. Additionally, she plans to grow their partnerships with schools, churches, and mental health organizations to amplify our impact. “Ultimately, my goal is to create a legacy of empowerment, healing, and resilience for generations to come.”
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“My hope is that it will provide tools and encouragement for those navigating similar battles, empowering them to turn their pain into purpose and step boldly into their calling - which is what I am doing today.”
Hybrid Comforts by Marc, LLC
By Terry L. Watson
Provided by Marcius G. Atkinson
Marcius G. Atkinson of Greenville, SC, describes himself as an over-zealous people pleaser. Marcius is the eldest of two sons, born to James and Brenda Atkinson. He and his brother were military brats until they graduated from Florida Agricultural and Mechanical University. Marcius shares, “My parents were raised in a segregated south. They raised my brother and I in their own worldview that was guided by their past. The world that I grew up in was less difficult than my parents, and my son’s life is a little less difficult than my own. I try to begin every day by remembering my brother’s spoken word about my father, “…try to be better than you were yesterday.”
As a cook, a host, and a friend, whatever he offers of himself, Marcius tries to offer the best of that version that he can give. Pleasing and serving others are things that come naturally to Marcius. He shares, “I realize that my lineage and my life has been in service of another. No one finds that to be a high calling, but my greatest joy comes from giving something that I made to someone else and seeing their joy. I am a servant, and I want to learn how to better serve.” Through a course of curiosity, education, and life consequences (both negative and positive), he has found a vehicle through a company he founded, Hybrid Comforts by Marc LLC, that allows him to do such.
Hybrid Comforts by Marc LLC offers a natural, organic skin-care alternative. The base of Marcius’s company is one body butter. He says, “My body butter contains four butters and five oils, and is currently totaling fourteen ingredients for sensitive skin. For those who are aware, the Comedogenic Rating of my body butter is 1.36. It is topped off with a light scent of lavender and tea tree for calmness and a natural disinfectant. My product can also be scented with one of my fragrances, essential oils, or blends. Additionally, I offer a sugar scrub. Through a series of mistakes and errors, I developed an aloe whip and made a buttercream as a by-product. By infusing Ayurvedic Herds into other oils and adding those ingredients to the body butter, I created a hair maintenance line with butter and a cream conditioner/moisturizer. I also offer a non-aluminum natural deodorant.
The beginning of Marcius’s business begins with a separation. He adds that there are no kind words to describe a divorce. “The one description that rings true is that a divorce is the tearing of the soul. Once my soul began tearing, I was able to find something to hold on to. A divorce with my ex-wife and custody battle with my son’s mother were wars on different fronts, and this idea was the only thing holding me together,” he says. The idea of starting his company wouldn’t let him go, and he says that after failing countless times, he finally had a breakthrough.
“The vision began with a hobby, and it evolved into being an example for my son. Once the Covid lockdown occurred, I was working from home in close proximity to him. He aspired to be a commentator or gaming Youtuber. I had been watching and listening from afar, and I wanted to learn about the pros and cons before he got involved. Being able to stream is one thing, to do it successfully and to not incur any mishaps was another, and I wanted to be able to guide if necessary. While learning about the process of becoming a streamer for my son, I learned more about the different qualities of different kinds of butter and oils. Through a series of weeks at YouTube University, I learned about several recipes for body butter and the pitfalls of streamers,” Marcius says.
Unfortunately, he had learned the information for naught, as his son did not want to pursue that anymore. Still, Marcius had the knowledge. College and trade school talks had begun, and to Marcius’s surprise, his son stated that he wanted to be an entrepreneur. The final part of the vision came as the result of a conversation Marcius had with his brother. “In describing some of the things that I had learned over the years, and the results thereof, he asked if I had watched the television show, Shark Tank. I had heard of the show, but I didn’t watch it. As we continued to talk, I resided in being committed to being a good example to my son.”
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When asked what he loves most about his business, Marcius says it’s the opportunity to learn. “I am a true nerd at heart. Throughout the process, and even now, I am consistently learning. Because of my future aspirations, I am still learning about the different properties of different oils. As a content creator, I am learning about different picture taking and video capturing techniques. My father bought the encyclopedia Britannica for my brother and I; the old leather-bound books from A-Z. One of the things he kept stating was an old colloquial term about hiding knowledge. I didn’t particularly like everything that I was studying at the time, but being introduced to a topic that I found interesting and being able to research its origins, I found peace,” he says.
Marcius also credits his father as his first source of inspiration. He shares that his true ability of discipline and dedication comes from him. “Loving a man is hard when they were not taught to communicate as I was made to. When my father died, I had a laundry list of promises that went unchecked. It took losing him for me to understand some of the words that kept repeating in my head.”
Marcius also finds inspiration in his son. “Once he said that he wanted to become an entrepreneur, I had already started cataloging information about the inception of Hybrid Comforts. In a conversation, I remember telling him that he would have to talk to people, face his fears, and become a version of himself that he wasn’t displaying. So I decided to show him with my efforts,” he says.
Lastly, Marcius also finds inspiration in himself. “Rarely, do I recognize how far I’ve come. Goals in my life have been reduced to tasks to accomplish other goals. Once I reach the finish line of one goal, it’s the start of another. Minutes, days, and even years go by, and I never take the time to say, “Good job!” I know in my heart that I am a servant. I have served others’ objectives, desires, and pursuits. I have failed and picked myself up again. I have made mistakes. I failed to recognize that I have kept going, no matter what. So I have to look to myself sometimes.”
For those who may follow a path similar to Marcius, he offers some clear advice. He says, “Do you know that inner-voice that tells you every time that you’ve messed up? The one who reminds you of your failings when you have a great idea? Ignore it, and remember all the times that you have started from nothing for someone else. Why can’t you do it for yourself? My biggest struggle has always been overcoming myself and the overthinking that I do. If you are someone like that, why are you waiting for permission from someone else? I did that, and it’s a waste of time learning and perfecting your craft. Learn how to hone and then market your skills. Many people have skills that they are afraid to show.”
Looking ahead, Marcius shares that he is focused on shaping what he has already done. Before his formula became vegan, he came across some people who had an adverse reaction to Cocoa Butter and Coconut Oil. Recently, he has started working with an individual with a specialized formula to substitute those ingredients for Cupuacu Butter and Argan Oil. He is also working on a soap formula. His final objective is to market his products to other small businesses. “I do not wish to stop selling, but I do wish to coordinate with different crafters to provide their services,” he says. h
Loving a man is hard when they were not taught to communicate as I was made to. When my father died, I had a laundry list of promises that went unchecked. It took losing him for me to understand some of the words that kept repeating in my head.”
Beverly K. Johnson NEW YEAR, NEW LOOK SERIES
By Terry L. Watson
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She is always on the move, and one should never be surprised about what Beverly K. Johnson is doing. Beverly is a Certified Personal Trainer, Nutrition and Transformation Coach, and Founder of The EPIC Academy and Genesys Fitness. She says, “The cycle of starting and stopping your healthy lifestyle journey is frustrating. If you’re overwhelmed with information and unsure who to trust, then The EPIC Academy is for you. You need more than a journal and “woosah” moments to truly transform your life and body. My mission is to disrupt the chaotic cycle of binge eating and losing weight that many women and men over the age of 40 go through.”
Beverly was raised in Mobile, on the Gulf Coast of Alabama. After she graduated high school, Beverly decided to follow in her mother’s footsteps and attend her alma mater, Alabama A&M University. Following graduation, she received her commission into the US Army. “I’ve been fortunate in my experiences, which have been invaluable in my growth as a coach,” she says.
With the new year 2025 in full swing, Beverly is eager to share one of her latest projects, the New Year, New Look Series. In a follow-up to her previous production, Shades of Hue, in which she received an overwhelming amount of support, Beverly aims to build upon the series and create more coloring books. She is also preparing for the launch of New Year, New Look in the Spring.
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Beverly shares the process of creating the new production began with one affirmation: “Taking care of myself is an act of self-love.” She adds, “It was a love letter to my clients, a way to celebrate their strength and growth. I’ve always enjoyed coloring and journaling, so I was looking for a way to combine both. In my first book, I was intentional in adding affirmations. We’re bombarded by so many conflicting messages and images. I wanted to create a book that reinforced the power of speaking life into yourself and celebrated the beauty of Black women.”
Beverly believes the ideal readers for her works are women thirty-five and up. These are individuals who usually try to balance corporate or entrepreneurial life and the needs of their home. “Because of the constant demands on their time, they cherish the pockets of quiet time in their day. The coloring book allows them to replenish their selfcare cup and navigate the day,” she says.
Beverly draws inspiration for her series from her circle of friends, clients, and women she’s met in her classes. “I see the beauty in everyone and want to share that,” she says. At the completion of her project, Beverly plans to host wellness events focusing on improving emotional wellness and understanding the importance of rest.
As the future unravels, Beverly shares her goal is to continue serving her clients and develop partnerships within her community. She also plans to expand the portfolio of her services to include motivational speaking.
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Huami Magazine Community Awards 2025
Charlotte Marriott Center City - Charlotte, NC
We are coming to the Queen City of Charlotte, NC.
Please mark your calendars for June 7th, 2025, as the Huami Magazine Community Awards will take place at the Charlotte Marriott City Center. Following up on our first gala of 2023, we are excited for the opportunity to present Black Excellence from various parts of the Huami Magazine network, which covers more than 23 states around the country.
Community Leaders, Business Leaders, and NonProfit Organizations will be honored and recognized for the great work they have done and continue to do in their respective communities. There will also be some great speakers, good food, and entertainment. This a formal, black tie event, and one that you don’t want to miss.
www.read-huamimagazine.com/awards-gala-2025 June 7th, 2025
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The son of Donte and Jennifer Hurdle
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Mama’s Makings LLC
By Terry L. Watson
When Octavia L. Shamily sets her sights on something, there isn’t much that will stop her from obtaining it!
Octavia L. Shamily is a native and current resident of Detroit, MI, who, like most women, wears many hats. She is referred to as “mother” by countless young men and young ladies, in addition to being the biological mother of one son. She is a go-getter, problem solver, encourager, author, and public speaker. Octavia earned her Bachelor of Science degree in Civil and Environmental Engineering at Wayne State University in Detroit, MI. However, Octavia is delighted that she is warmly known for her delicious brand of chicken salads, and that brand name is “Mama’s Makings”.
Mama’s Makings LLC was founded in 2018 and is certified as a woman (WBENC), minority (NMSDC), and SAM (System for Award Management) owned small business. Originally, Octavia specialized in providing consumers with everyday products that are practical for household and business use. She is thrilled to now offer healthy, ready-to-eat food items as her product.
Mama’s Makings loves producing a variety of grab-and-go chicken salads. Her line of chicken salads includes spicy, mild, dairy-free, and vegan varieties. Her vegan chicken salad is made with jackfruit and soy-free veganaise and is dairyfree. Her newest variety of chicken salad, which she perfected In 2023, is dairy-free chicken salad. Mama’s Makings brands of chicken salads are available in several Meijer grocery locations throughout Michigan; see locations at https:// mamasmakings.com. If you don’t see Mama’s Makings chicken salads in your local Meijer store anywhere in the United States, please ask for them. Octavia loves knowing that every variety of chicken salad that they produce is a healthy, delicious, grab-and-go option.
When Octavia was a little girl, cooking was what she wanted to do. Her affinity for cooking first showed itself with the mud pies that she loved making. As she aged Octavia realized that cooking was more of a calling than a love. “As a young girl, I was always in the kitchen with my godmother and great-aunts. In the early 1990’s, as I tried to figure out
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who I was, I began cooking with chefs. However, my journey would take me along a different path. Back then, women were expected to cook at home or for others, but not to become chefs. However, I heard God tell me, “You are going to do food differently.” I didn’t fully understand what He meant,” she says.
As Octavia’s skills as a chef improved, demands for her prepared foods began to emerge. She was often inspired while preparing unique dishes for her family and friends, including the woman she affectionately refers to as her grandmother. “Everything I made was well-received, but the chicken salad and the adult fruit salads were truly exceptional. My grandmother and my girlfriend’s mother both loved the spicy chicken salad especially. They requested it every week and encouraged me to keep cooking. Nearly 30 years later, “Mama’s Makings” was born. Looking back, I now realize what God meant when He said that I would do food differently. My passion for feeding people whether they are picky eaters, have health challenges, or are simply committed to eating healthy – became the foundation of my small business.”
Octavia shares that she truly loves what she does. “I am a servant of God, and I appreciate each opportunity that I have to share God’s love. He has blessed my hands to prepare food that not only nourishes but also brings joy to others through His blessings. I love the process of making the salads. Everything is made with care and intention, from the front label to the chicken salads inside, and even the love under the lid. Every day, I get to relive the joy I had of making mud pies as a child by mixing bowls of chicken salad. Of course, this time, I’m wearing gloves!” she says.
Octavia established Mama’s Makings for three key reasons. The first one is to serve mature adults. “Inspired by my grandmother and other seniors, we aim to provide wholesome, healthy food that can be enjoyed at any time of the day,” she says. The second is to supply a variety of food products that can be used versatilely. The third reason is to empower the community. “Creating jobs and uplifting impoverished communities is at the heart of what we do. Mama’s Makings is committed to stopping the tears of those who open their refrigerators to find no food, as well as those who face utility shut-offs while working two or three jobs just to make ends meet,” she says.
As Mama’s Makings grows, so will their ability to rebuild entire communities by creating jobs, promoting empowerment, and sharing opportunities for everyone they serve to become self-sufficient. Octavia shares that the people she affectionately refers to as her grandparents, who weren’t actually blood relatives, instilled in her the foundations of loving and serving others. “God answered my prayers by placing Mr. and Mrs. Russel and Edith Morgan in my life, who loved me with the same unconditional love that God loves me with. The Holy Spirit inspired me to spend time in the kitchen and to create a dish that Mama could enjoy without needing to use the stove – especially when I was asleep or away. That’s how the Spicy Chicken Salad was born. Over time, it was refined into the delicious dish that it is today,” she says.
Octavia has faced many challenges as a business owner. In fact, most small business owners do face the challenge of acquiring finances and establishing a steady flow of cash. Octavia addresses her challenges with prayer and by seeking God’s guidance and help. She says, “I turn to God’s Word for strength and direction, but most importantly, I keep moving forward. As a business owner, I have learned that the most critical thing I can do is to keep pressing onward while holding my head high. One scripture that has given me great encouragement is Isaiah 41:13 “For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.”
Things are looking really good for Mama’s Makings. Last year, Octavia added two locations from which her brand of Chicken Salads can be purchased. In October of 2024, she began including a three-word encouraging phrase under the lid of each product as her way of spreading love and positivity to consumers. One of Octavia’s goals for 2025 is to establish a way to quickly and efficiently ship Mama’s Makings chicken salads across the world. Octavia also invites consumers to submit their own three-word phrases, which may be selected in a monthly drawing. This year, she says her company is focused on increasing product awareness by conducting more demos and providing guests with samples of their four products. She also plans to enhance her product visibility on social media, showcasing many ways that Mama’s Makings Chicken Salads can be enjoyed while encouraging consumers to share their own chicken salad creations.
Denise Harmony Corner Life Coaching Tanner-Creal
By Terry L. Watson - Photos Provided by Denise Tanner-Creal
Denise M. Tanner-Creal, widely known as Coach Nene, is a wife, mother, and powerhouse of transformation. As a certified Transformation Life Coach, speaker, mental health professional, and mentor, majoring in psychology, she dedicates her life to helping others heal and find their purpose.
Denise is also the owner and CEO of Harmony Corner Life Coaching LLC. Her company offers Extreme Goal Execution 12 week 1:1 Coaching, Relationship Coaching, Trauma Recovery Coaching, Self-Love Coaching, 1:1 Grief & Loss Sessions, and free girl teen mentorship for ages 11-18.
Denise shares that she has endured a lifelong journey of overcoming challenges, each one shaping her into the person she is today. She adds, “The Vision of Harmony Corner Life Coaching was born out of deep tragic loss-the devastating passing of loved ones due to domestic violence. In that moment, I knew I could no longer stand by and let people suffer alone.”
The name Harmony Corner came to Denise says, came to her in a dream after she prayed and asked God for guidance. She says, “I also started to see harmony signs and music notes, and I immediately knew what it was with my passion and love for music and songwriting. Adding Corner symbolized a private, safe space where healing and transformation can take root.”
Born and raised in Kansas City, MO, Denise’s story began on the corner of 40th and Bellefontaine, where she was nurtured by her loving grandparents and hardworking father. Her grandmother, a woman of deep faith, instilled in her the importance of the Word of God, while her grandfather, a deacon at Rescue Baptist Church, demonstrated the power of servant leadership. Denise’s father, the youngest of 10 siblings, worked tirelessly to provide for her and her younger brother after their biological mother’s departure. Tragically, Denise’s life took a sharp turn when her father passed away at the age of 33 due to a hit-and-run accident. Following this loss, her stepmother took custody of Denise and her brother, marking the beginning of a transformative chapter. Moving to Raytown, Denise excelled academically, finding solace and purpose in her studies. Her grandmother’s influence was profound as she unknowingly helped her grandmother read the bible daily. Denise didn’t know that her grandmother could barely read, but she memorized her bible as a young girl from Southern Mississippi. This was a skill that would later shape Denise’s love for learning and teaching. Despite her achievements, Denise faced significant challenges during her teenage years. Anger and grief led to rebellion, but her resilience carried her through. Transferring schools and seeking shelter, she eventually graduated early from Central High School in 2008. Her adaptability and determination set the tone for her future. After high school, Denise chose to enter the workforce to build her independence. She discovered her passion for caregiving while working at Help at Home Inc. and pursued her CNA license. This led her to roles in mental health and developmental disability care, where her compassion and dedication shone. Working multiple public jobs and relying on public transportation, Denise embodied perseverance, proving that hard work and determination can break barriers.
Today, Denise combines her life experiences, professional expertise, and faith to guide others through their own journeys of transformation. Whether through Harmony Corner, her work as Coach Nene, she remains committed to empowering individuals to heal, thrive, and create abundant lives.
Throughout her journey, she gained valuable experience working at St Luke Hospital, Behavioral Health of Kansas City, and various nursing homes across Missouri. However, in February 2021, her life took a profound and heartbreaking turn when her dear cousin Khasheme Strother and Son Raymon Hill were murdered because of domestic violence, ending a 13-year relationship with her boyfriend in unimaginable tragedy. That loss sent her into a deep depression- a state that she didn’t even recognize at first. As someone who had always been in “go mode” constantly working, providing, and pushing forward since her father’s death in 1999. She didn’t know what it meant to slow down or grieve. For so long, she mistook her depression for stress, as many in the Black community do. For the first time, she sat in solitude, forced to confront her pain and, more importantly, herself.
It was during this dark period that Denise discovered a life-changing truth: self-love. She realized how much she had spent life people-pleasing, fearful of being undervalued or unseen. That fear left her feeling lost, unaligned, and disconnected from her purpose. Now, Denise began to reflect and acknowledge the traumas she had suppressed traumas, which included childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence relationships, and deep wounds from abandonment.
As Denise worked through these experiences, she faced the strong, resilient young girl she had been the one who had no choice but to endure and survive. She began to heal from two violent domestic relationships she had endured before finding the courage to walk away. She also addressed what she calls mother hunger and Daddy wounds, stemming from abandonment issues. This period of reflection wasn’t just about healing-it was about rediscovering herself and her calling.
In pursuit of self-love and healing, she started taking coaching classes and fell in love with the work. Time and time again, she was told she was a natural, which fueled her passion even more. Inspired by the loss of her dear cousin and son, Denise founded Harmony Corner Life Coaching in January 2023. She could no longer stand by as a survivor without using her experiences and expertise to help others.
Now, Denise stands firm in her mission to empower individuals to overcome their blockages, reclaim their lives, and walk in their purpose. Through mentorship, coaching, tools, and unwavering support, Denise helps people see that they are capable of transformation and abundance. “It’s vital that we recognize our value in this world and understand that no matter how great the challenge is, we can overcome anything,” she says.
More than anything, Denise shares she loves the opportunity to connect with beautiful people who have beautiful, unique stories. She says, “Their resilience and courage inspire me to stay committed to my own journey. Each person I work with reminds me of the power of transformation and the strength we all carry within.”
Another aspect Denise cherishes is helping individuals heal internally and uncover gifts they didn’t even realize they possessed. “Those internal gifts- the ones born from faith, perseverance, and self-discovery are treasures no one can ever take away. Watching someone step into their purpose with confidence and joy is the greatest gift of it all,” she says.
A challenge that Denise faces in her business is narrowing her focus to a specific audience. She adds, “My personal and professional experiences span multiple areas, which made it difficult to define a niche. Another significant hurdle was transitioning from offering free counsel to charging for my sessions. For someone who has been helping and guiding others most of my life, it’s not easy to put a price on what feels like a natural gift.” Marketing and asking for help has also been challenging for Denise. She has been able to manage these by first embracing the value of her work. “What I provide changes lives, and I remind myself daily that my gifts are worth investing in. I’ve also done extensive research and started collaborating with other coaches and speakers to learn and grow.”
The advice Denise offers to other aspiring entrepreneurs is very clear. She says, “Creating a business isn’t just about making money, it’s a deeply personal and spiritual journey that challenges you to grow in ways you never imagined. Along the way, you’ll need to relearn and unlearn behaviors and mindsets that no longer fit who you’re becoming. For example, I had to let go of the belief that asking for help was a burden. Instead, I learned collaboration and support are essential for success. Give yourself patience and grace, and never quit.”
What is next for Denise? She is currently working on two books and planning more workshops for 2025. She is also planning her second women’s empowerment and learning the podcast ropes. And there are plans for a merch line. “I won’t reveal too many of the details just yet, but I’m a strong believer in staying silent to preserve and protect the vision. Trust me, what’s coming will be worth the wait,” she says.
Learn More About My Experience of Being A Caregiver For My Mother
By Terry L. Watson
CHAPTER NINE: The Difference In Who Provides Care
For the caregivers following the “Becoming A Caregiver” series, my heart continues to go out to you. The assignment is not an easy one. Even more, regardless of any arrangement, when you are committed to ensuring that your loved one gets and receives the highest quality of care and attention, there isn’t much that will get in the way of your goal to see it happen. Any who, I am speaking for myself, and that is how I feel.
One of the most disheartening feelings I have experienced along this journey always happens when I arrive to visit my mom while she is in the care of others. As her primary caregiver for over eight years, I have a pretty good understanding of what good care looks like. I also know what slack and neglect look like.
While my mother is under my care, it has always been my goal to meet her needs first and always before mine. When she is thirsty, hungry, uncomfortable, or whatever else, I make it my goal to meet her need before it becomes a need. Anytime when I fall a little behind on my assignments, it becomes obvious, and Mama never hesitates to let me know that I am slacking.
With that said, as our family has depended on the assistance of others to provide care for my mother, finding consistency between caregivers has been very challenging. I believe it has a lot to do with how a person approaches their job. I believe that it also has a lot to do with how people feel about them. If you truly love yourself and love people, then that same level of compassion will show up with caregiving. If someone lacks compassion, they should never work in a customer service-dependent field like caregiving. Furthermore, if they lack professionalism, cleanliness, good time management skills, and good attention to detail, then caregiving is not for them as well. That is just my opinion.
Seeking the assistance of others to provide caregiving services for my mother was one the hardest decisions I have made since she suffered her stroke. While she may encounter dozens of individuals on a daily basis, there always seem to be about two or three that exhibit all of the above-mentioned qualities. I wish that I could say that it gets easier with each passing day, but to be honest, it doesn’t. For me, I find hope in being just as committed to caring for my mother today as I was when I first began this journey. I make my concerns and expectations known, and my Mama and I work together by trusting God.
I decided to share my experience as a full-time caregiver for my mother to consult, console, and inform other families who may be going through a similar situation. As a son, caring for my mother never feels like work; if so, it is a labor of love. Please continue to follow this message, Becoming A Caregiver, in Huami Magazine. I hope that sharing my experience will help others. From one caregiver to the next, God Bless You!
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