God Never Runs Out of Options
A Letter From The Editor
There Are No If, Ands, Or Buts About It!
There is one thing that I know for sure will happen in life, and that is tough times will come. Yet, I have learned that tough times will not always last. As difficult as life can be at times, we are blessed to know that we don’t have to go at it alone. Even when we fall to the lowest of places, God promises us by His word that He is always willing to help bring us back up.
A Letter from the Editor
What if tomorrow didn’t arrive? All of your plans, hopes and dreams wouldn’t have a street to park on. What if everything that you decided to put off until tomorrow never happened? There would be no reason to save for a rainy day, and you could spare someone the trouble of making promises. What if your last opportunity seemingly expired today? What would you do?
It is also refreshing to know that regardless of how many times we fail, God’s grace never runs out. With this sort of insurance policy intact, our ability to conveniently seek repentance and forgiveness for our shortcomings might become well utilized. All I can say is thank God for grace.
Everything that happens in life is often associated with a lesson. There is something we must have to learn, or the difficulties we face may actually be preparing us for something bigger and a whole lot more challenging ahead. Even though giving up and walking away feels like an easy and appropriate answer, that may not always be what is best. If you ever feel like you have run out of options, just remember that God hasn’t.
I’ve been told that I often seem like I do too much. Honestly, I feel like I am not doing enough and I’m a firm believer in knowing that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t handle. I sometimes wonder how life would be if I chose to sit idle and accept what it presented to me. I have found that to be very boring. In my opinion, opportunity is a blessing that isn’t afforded to everyone. A challenge to me is an adventure. What is the worst that can happen? If I do nothing, I fail, and if I try I don’t, but instead learn something new about myself. Relinquish your pride and in return acquire life.
During the moments when I felt like God might not be listening, I tended to lean toward my own understanding. My reasoning was more aligned with what the world thinks instead of what God has promised. It’s all spiritual, and in those moments, surely my behavior couldn’t have pleased Him.
As confusing as it may sound, I’ve learned to stay patient in my unrest, as God does some of His best work there. We don’t have to come up with all of the answers, and even when the light can’t be seen at the end of the tunnel, it will make its appearance at the right time. I know that God’s timing is a lot more meaningful to me than what I think I need. I thank God for grace.
The best advice ever given to me happened when someone told me to make my tomorrow happen today. In doing so I have pressed my way through doors with a key that only hope provided. I have also learned the difference between what God blesses me with and what life can burden me with as well. I compare it to knowing when to be confident and when to be quiet, because someone may get it confused with being arrogant.
Make you tomorrow happen today, but most importantly make it count. Life is but a whisper and we must put ourselves in a position to hear what it is telling us.
Terry L. Watson
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Three Principals Announced for Guilford County Schools
Shannon Peeples will become the principal at the new Visual and Performing Arts Elementary, set to open in August 2025. Peeples has served as principal at Cone Elementary since 2018, and during that time student proficiency increased both pre- and post-pandemic. In 2023-24, Cone Elementary exceeded growth and was among the top 20 percent for growth in the state.
Prior to her time at Cone Elementary, Peeples was an assistant principal at Western Middle and Jackson Middle and has held various central office roles in curriculum and human resources-based initiatives. She holds a bachelor’s degree in middle grades education from Greensboro College, a master’s degree in school administration, a specialist in education and a doctorate in education from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro (UNCG).
Darrick Bracy will become the next principal at Southwest High. Bracy has been the principal at Dean B. Pruette SCALE Academy in High Point since March 2022. In that time, the school’s accountability status has moved from Needs Improvement to Excellent Progress. Bracy launched a student ambassador program, increased community partnerships and streamlined the enrollment and transition process for students.
Bracy has been an assistant principal at Southeast High and Page High and a human resources manager in the district’s central office. He holds a bachelor’s degree in health and physical education, a master’s degree in school administration from North Carolina A&T State University, and a doctoral degree in educational leadership from High Point University.
Vanneisha Black will be the principal at Union Hill Elementary, where she has served as assistant principal since 2021. In that time, she designed in-house professional development for staff, coached multi-classroom leaders and collaborated closely with instructional teams. She also established a One School, One Book initiative and an employee recognition program.
Black has worked as a multi-classroom leader at Washington Montessori, a principal intern at Foust Elementary and Kiser Middle, and a fourth- and fifth-grade teacher at Foust Elementary. She holds a bachelor’s degree in elementary education from the University of North Carolina, a master’s degree in reading education from UNCG and a master’s degree in school administration from North Carolina A&T State University. h
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The Triad Celebrates the Life of Former Greensboro Mayor, Yvonne Johnson
Miriam Dance Academy Offers All Boys Hip Hop Dance Class
Miriam’s Dance Academy was established in 2017 by Regina Covington as a dance program that offers quality dance education in a faith-based environment for the community. Miriam’s Dance Academy trains students from ages 2-21 and offers dancers the opportunity to grow in a holistic way in body, mind, and spirit. The academy strives to grow, inspiring dancers to work hard while instilling life lessons, scripture, and prayer, and building relationships with its dance family. They also provide outreach dance performances to serve the community through dance and worship.
Miriam is excited to announce their new All Boys Hip Hop Dance Class. This 45-minute faith-based hip hop dance class is designed for boys ages five and up interested in learning the fundamentals of hip-hop dance while incorporating faith-based values and themes. To register, please visit their website or call 336-937-0422 h
On Saturday, December 14th, 2024, citizens from across the State of North Carolina and abroad united in the Bennett College Chapel to celebrate the life of former Greensboro Mayor Yvonne Johnson. She passed away on December 4th, 2024, at the age of 82. Johnson was the first person of color to serve as mayor of Greensboro. She devoted her life to serving her community and was often seen on the front line, ready to serve whenever duty was called.
Johnson graduated from James B. Dudley High School in Greensboro, Bennett College, and North Carolina A&T State University. She served as the executive director of the nonprofit organization One Step Further, focusing on offering mediation and alternative court programs for the city’s youth. She also served on the board of directors for the Malachi House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization committed to providing a safe and trusting environment where men can recover from life-controlling issues, such as drug and alcohol addiction. Additionally, Johnson was the first president of the Women’s Resource Center in Greensboro.
Johnson was honored with a horse-drawn funeral procession and parade that began at 11:00 am from the grounds of Perry J. Brown Funeral Home on East Market Streer in Greensboro.
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Just ice4Pain
By Terry L. Watson
While many accomplished individuals have accredited their success to that of pulling up their own bootstraps, that is not the case for Chimeaka White. Looking from the outside, it may appear that her ascension to becoming a prominent attorney came about from her following the traditional path that most lawyers do. Yet, that is far from Chimeaka’s reality. Her story expresses her faith in God, love and support from her family and friends, and an unwavering determination to win. More than anything, Chimeaka’s story is that of someone who is “Proven”. Chimeaka has proven not only to others but even to herself that regardless of what circumstances she may face, regardless of what life throws at her, nothing will stop her from reaching her goals.
Attorney Chimeaka White of Greensboro, NC, is the mother of two amazing adults, Harmony and Sincere. Chimeaka is a graduate of James B. Dudley High School. She also graduated from North Carolina A&T State University with a Bachelors Degree in Chemistry. She also received a Law Degree from North Carolina Central University. Today, she owns The White Law Firm, PLLC, located in High Point, NC, the first black female-owned and operated personal injury law firm in the Triad area. Her motto is “Justice4Pain”.
Chimeaka comes from a long list of strong women. She says that her success can be attributed to several key factors, including her upbringing, which instilled strong values in her, and the mentorship I received throughout her career. “I am inspired by my maternal great-grandmother, Evelyn Watson, who taught me the power of love and patience. She lived slowly and simply. My maternal grandmother, Margaret Hardy (Momo) taught me the importance of cultivating a spiritual practice. She has a strong relationship with God and taught me how to pray deep, strong prayers. My paternal grandmother, Lois White (Mama White), taught me not to have anything that I don’t plan on using. When you bring one thing into your house, remove three things from your house.”
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I started my personal injury law firm in a spare bedroom in my home in 2017, immediately after passing the NC State Bar. I was doing everything. I was getting the cases, answering the phone, case management, and even responding to discovery requests after filing suit. My clients never knew that I did not have a physical office as I would meet them at coffee shops near their homes.
It should come as no surprise that Chimeaka is an attorney. As a child, she wanted to become a prosecutor. While attending NC A&T, she thought about pursuing a career as a dentist. Prior to law school, she worked as a paralegal at a personal injury law firm. I worked alongside experienced paralegal Teresa Burney, who taught her how to manage car accident cases from the intake process to closing the file. This is where she gained her passion for the law. “I started my personal injury law firm in a spare bedroom in my home in 2017, immediately after passing the NC State Bar. I was doing everything. I was getting the cases, answering the phone, case management, and even responding to discovery requests after filing suit. My clients never knew that I did not have a physical office as I would meet them at coffee shops near their homes,” Chimeaka explains. After a few months of juggling so many things, her sister, who had just finished paralegal school, came on board to help. Today, she is a full-time employee at Chimeaka’s firm.
Chimeaka went to law school 10 years after obtaining her undergraduate degree. During those 10 years, she started several businesses, including Whitehouse Development Company, LLC, a real estate business, Sparkles Hair Studio, LLC, and Who’s That Lady, a costume jewelry company. She also subleased a space to another hair salon, managed a casket company, managed a student housing project for Livingston College, and worked as a paralegal. As a result of running those companies, she learned to read financial statements such as balance sheets, income statements, cash flow statements, annual reports, and calculating gross revenue. All of those skills are essential in her practice. “I am financially literate, and it has taught me how to have a clear actionable purpose that drives every decision and strategy. It also creates a solid framework for success, growth, and exceptional value to clients.”
Chimeaka says she made the decision to become an attorney because she genuinely loves to help people. “After being bullied in middle school, I learned how to stand up for myself and others. One of the most defining experiences in my life occurred when I was just 18 years old. I was seven months pregnant with my daughter, Harmony, when I was involved in a serious car crash. I was driving a pickup truck, and a lady T-boned the truck on the driver’s side. My stomach hit the steering wheel extremely hard. Harmony was prematurely born two weeks after the crash. The insurance adjuster came to the hospital and convinced me to settle for pennies on the dollar. That traumatic event instilled in me a deep sense of resilience and a relentless drive for justice, and it has never left me. I know how it feels to be voiceless, to endure pain due to being afraid of standing up for yourself. This is why I became an attorney to fight for the rights of others. I do not allow people to be taken advantage of. I am a voice for the people,” she says.
Chimeaka also comes from humble beginnings. She is a fighter, survivor, mother, and friend. She is the third child born to Yvette White and Benjamin White, Jr. She has a younger sister, Crystal, and two older brothers, Darian (Dada) and Benjie. When Chimeaka was just four years old, her parents divorced, and with no permanent home, she, along with her mom and sister, depended on the love and support of relatives. “We hardly ever had reliable transportation. We walked everywhere. We walked to the grocery store and took a cab back home. We also lived in Lexington, NC, and I remember pulling dirty clothes in baskets on a wagon to the laundry mat a three-mile walk from our apartment. When I was 11 years old, my mom purchased a car for $500 from the auction, only for the car to catch a flat tire on the highway. That is when I learned how to change a tire,” she says.
Prior to moving to Lexington, Chimeaka attended Foust Elementary School in Greensboro. There, she learned to play the flute in the 4th grade. “My aunt Evelyn found me a flute at the Salvation Army thrift store,” she says. After school, she attended the Boys and Girls Club and learned how to shoot pool, cheer, and double-dutch. Her grandmother, Momo, lived four miles from the Boys and Girls Club and would walk to sign Chimeaka and her sister out. Together, the three of them walked back to Momo’s house.
“Although we did not have much, my mom taught us to be presentable,” Chimeaka says. “By the time I was eight, I ironed my clothes daily. Despite being poor, my mom made sure I had books to read. After accumilating so many books, my mom bought me a bookcase. Presently, I have a bookcase in my home and in both of my offices. I love to read.” Another request Chimeaka’s mother made was for her to attend church. Chimeaka shares that she enjoyed attending church and even sang as a soprano at Godly Love. At the young age of 12, Chimeaka began cleaning toilets and office buildings with Southside Cleaning Company. At 15 years old, she walked into McDonalds located on Highway 52 in Lexington and began working. She adds, “I wiped off tables and trays before a manager asked what I was doing. My response was that I needed a job.” Chimeaka was offered a job that same day.
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had reliable transportation. We walked everywhere. We walked to the grocery store and took a cab back home. We also lived in Lexington, NC, and I remember pulling dirty clothes in baskets on a wagon to the laundry mat a three-mile walk from our apartment.
Chimeaka’s mother and her children’s paternal grandmother, Ann Eaton, played a tremendous role in helping her raise her kids while attending college. During the summer months of college, Chimeaka worked three jobs, two full-time jobs during the week, and mowed grass and cleaned bus stations on the weekends. While attending law school, and due to the distant commute back and forth, Chimeaka’s mother moved into her home to offer even more assistance. “I am who I am today because of my mom and my children,” she says.
Chimeaka also credits Chris Stewart and Daedrea Fenwick, sexual assault attorneys in Atlanta, GA, for teaching her how to try and win her first case. “We successfully tried a sexual assault case in Forsyth County, NC, where a Residence Inn/ Marriott clerk gave a key card to an unregistered guest. That person used the key to enter our client’s room to rape and sodomize her. The trial lasted four days, and the jury deliberated for 90 minutes before giving us a $16M dollar verdict.” Chimeaka adds they also gave her three pieces of advice that she will never forget and will always live and work by: One, your name is your reputation. Do not let anything that has your name on it go out of the office without reviewing it first. Two, never stop working to improve your legal writing; it is a dying art, and attorneys who can write well stand out; this goes hand in hand with knowing how to argue a case. Finally, do not be in this for the money; you truly have to love what you do. “David v. Goliath is a daily battle with what we do. Just keep the faith.”
Attorney Mark Gray, Sr., of Greensboro, NC, and Attorney Harry Daniels, of Atlanta, GA, are also individuals she credits with impacting her career. She says Attorney Mark Gray, Sr. taught her never to take on a case that she would not be willing to take to trial. “He instilled in me the importance of preparing jury instructions early and using them as a roadmap for how I approach my cases,” she says. Attorney Harry Daniels inspired Chimeaka to practice Civil Rights law. “Our cases seek to acquire justice in wrongful death excessive force cases. Many of our clients would go unrepresented if we did not take their cases, as they are some of the most important in creating a free and fair society. She also thanks Attorney Erin Verdell Gattis and Attorney Sherry Ross for their love and support.
The life and career of an attorney can often be accompanied by a series of challenges. These may involve long hours and stress. Chimeaka shares that there is a lot of pressure to excel as an attorney and points out that making a mistake can cost clients dearly. That is one of the reasons she makes it a point only to accept cases she can successfully handle. “There is more to life than winning, but as a personal injury attorney, the win is important to our clients. Wins equate to providing care, treatment, and basic needs to a client after they have been injured due to no fault of their own. A win also means allowing the client and their family to recover and move beyond the incident, restoring and reviving their lives,” she says. “I work tirelessly to secure the funds my clients need to rebuild their lives following their injuries. I fight for the win. I fight for justice. My motto is Justice4Pain. Even more than that, I create relationships necessary to gain the trust of my clients. Positive client and attorney relationships are essential in successfully resolving a case.”
Chimeaka’s advice to others who may follow in her footsteps is very clear. “You can be whatever you want to be, but you will never be any more than what you think you can be. You have to create a plan; you must have discipline. Being a lawyer is challenging, but the experience is incredibly rewarding. The people you meet and the good you do make all of these challenges worth the headache. Also, don’t ever doubt your career path. If being a lawyer is what you’re passionate about, push forward with integrity and protect your reputation because that is all you have.”
Looking ahead, Chimeaka shares that it’s her goal to continue to grow her practice. “I always wanted to be the female version of trial lawyer Attorney Willie Gary,” she says. “Personally, I want true love to find me. In the meantime, I will continue to work on myself. I love working out, and I love to travel. Travelling assists my legal practice by providing additional points of connection with my clients.”
Contessa’s Home Care Agency and Staffing
By Terry L. Watson - Photos Provided by Contessa Woods
Contessa Woods of Greensboro, NC, shares that she has always dreamed of owning a home care agency. Initially, she thought her college degree would lead her down a different path. However, she says life guided her exactly where she needed to be.
With over 30 years of experience, she has worked in nearly every aspect of healthcare, gaining valuable insight and expertise throughout her career. Today, she is the owner of Contessa’s Home Care Agency and Staffing. Her company provides Companion Care, Private Duty, Respite Care, and Facility and Hospital Staffing. Their services include Feeding, Bathing, Dressing/Grooming, Laundry, Medication Reminders, and Preparing light meals.
Contessa is a devoted wife and mother of five. She has been married to the love of her life for 20 years. Contessa graduated from James B. Dudley High School in Greensboro, NC, in 1993 and began her healthcare journey by becoming a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) Levels I and II. She followed that feat by earning her certification as a Medication Technician. Contessa’s formal career began at Moses Cone Extended Care, where she worked as a CNA for two years before transitioning to their Emergency Department, working there for 11 years. While working in healthcare, she also owned a Companion Care Agency and pursued a degree in Healthcare Management. Contessa later paused her education to focus on her family and support her three sons as they graduated from high school and went off to college. She later returned to school to earn her second degree in Business Administration, with a minor in Health Services Management and a certification in Medical Office Administration. It sounds like she has accomplished a whole lot while being a wife and mother.
Contessa shares that shortly after earning her second degree, she reached out to a friend to see if they could do a free internship at her facility. “When I went in for the interview, I was unexpectedly offered a full-time position as an Assistant Business Office Manager. I accepted the role but made it clear to the director that I planned to stay for only one year. During that time, I consistently prayed, spoke affirmations, and asked God to reveal my purpose. Ten months later, while on vacation, I received a call from the director offering me a promotion. I told her I needed to pray about it and discuss it with my husband. After careful consideration, I declined the offer, even though I had no concrete plan for my next step. I simply knew I had to trust God. Two weeks later, while sitting in my office, I felt God telling me, “It’s time to move.” I immediately called my husband to ask if we’d be okay financially if I left my job. His response was unwavering: “Leave your job and do what?”, Contessa says.
“Ten months later, while on vacation, I received a call from the director offering me a promotion. I told her I needed to pray about it and discuss it with my husband. After careful consideration, I declined the offer, even though I had no concrete plan for my next step.
She eventually decided to start a home care agency, of course, with her husband’s support. The couple agreed to live on a strict budget and Contessa put in her 30-day notice that same day. From there, she committed to building her business and following the path she felt she was called to take.
Contessa says that she loves to be able to provide help to others and provide jobs in her community. She understands the importance of giving back and often contributes to her community by donating to local high schools and supporting community events. Additionally, she mentors and counsels women on leadership development and achieving entrepreneurial goals. She also appreciates the opportunity to educate families on the importance of home care and the process that it takes to get their loved one’s care. “I educate families on Long Term Care Insurance, Power of Attorney, Trust, and Beneficiary Accounts. I love being able to inspire, motivate, and push my employees to their highest potential.”
Family and the love and inspiration they provide are some of the things that are truly important to Contessa. She shares that over the years, she’s had the privilege of caring for most of her family, and it’s truly humbling how much they trust her when it comes to healthcare and business decisions. She adds, “My mother, who passed away nine years ago, had a profound impact on both my life and career. She always believed in me and reminded me that I could achieve anything I set my mind to, as long as I was willing to work hard. She often told me I was smart and a dedicated worker, and her words have stayed with me. An hour before she passed, she told me she loved me and was so proud of me. Those words are a constant source of motivation, and I’m grateful that I can continue to honor her legacy and make her proud.”
While building her business, Contessa has faced a few challenges. One was ensuring they provided exceptional care while keeping the business financially sustainable. She says, “Home care can be expensive for clients, yet operational costs like wages, supplies, and compliance requirements are high. I manage this challenge by regularly reviewing my budget and optimizing operations by using technology like scheduling and billing software. We also work to educate clients on additional funding options, such as long-term care insurance or Medicaid waivers, to make services more accessible. I also focus on managing client and family expectations because providing care does not just mean meeting medical or daily living needs but also addressing the emotional concerns of clients and their families. We provide clear care plans, regular updates, and a system for addressing concerns quickly. I also make it a point to make personal visits and truly listen to clients and their families to build trust and maintain strong relationships.”
Contessa says the next phase of her company focuses on securing staffing contracts with hospitals and facilities, including Assisted Living, Memory Care, Alzheimer’s Units, and Skilled Nursing Units. Additionally, her goal is to share her expertise by speaking on panels both locally and globally about the Home Care and Healthcare industry.
“My mother, who passed away nine years ago, had a profound impact on both my life and career. She always believed in me and reminded me that I could achieve anything I set my mind to, as long as I was willing to work hard.”
Black Boys Empowered Inc.
By Terry L. Watson
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Rashad T. Dudley is a proud Detroit native, social entrepreneur, and advocate for empowering Black boys and men. He comes from a family deeply rooted in resilience, having experienced significant personal losses, including the tragic murders of his father and brother, which shaped his understanding of the challenges many Black boys face. Rashad’s experiences growing up in Detroit and Inkster have instilled in him a unique perspective and a strong drive to create safe, uplifting spaces for others.
Rashad is a scholar and lifelong learner. He graduated from Morehouse College in 2020. He then earned a Master of Science in Youth Development Leadership from Clemson University in 2022, where he honed his expertise in designing impactful youth programs. Currently, Rashad is pursuing an MBA in Entrepreneurship and Innovation at Wayne State University, focusing on expanding his initiatives and fostering innovation within his work.
Beyond his professional and academic achievements, Rashad is passionate about family, community, and mentorship. He draws strength and inspiration from his upbringing in Detroit and remains dedicated to giving back to the city that raised him. Through his work, Rashad hopes to inspire a new generation of leaders, helping them overcome adversity and realize their full potential.
Rashad is also the founder of Black Boys Empowered (501c3). He is the author of Dear Black Boy Co., Dear Black Boy: A Guide to Self-Empowerment and Building Healthy Habits. Black Boys Empowered focuses on providing mentorship, scholarships, community service opportunities, and wellness initiatives for Black boys in Detroit. Their key programs include an Annual Scholarship Program. Each year, BBE provides Black male high school seniors with scholarships to help them pay for tuition at HBCUs. They also offer community service opportunities (including our quarterly neighborhood clean-up of our adopted road) throughout the city of Detroit. Dear Black Boy Co. is a health and wellness brand that features Rashad’s children’s books, Dear Black Boy: A Guide to Self-Empowerment and Building Healthy Habits and Dear Black Boy: Positive Affirmation Coloring Book, and wellness products and apparel designed specifically for Black boys.
Rashad says the journey of Black Boys Empowered began with my personal experiences growing up in Detroit and Inkster and my deep understanding of the systemic challenges that Black boys often face. As someone who lost my father and brother to gun violence, I know firsthand the emotional toll of loss and the lack of accessible resources for healing and growth in underserved communities. “These personal tragedies, coupled with my professional experiences working in youth development, inspired me to create something meaningful that could address these challenges head-on,” he says.
The decision made by Rashsad to launch Black Boys Empowered was centered on his desire to provide mentorship, resources, and opportunities tailored specifically for Black boys in Detroit. “My vision stemmed from a desire to create a space where young Black boys could feel supported, valued, and empowered to succeed despite the obstacles they might face. I drew from over a decade of experience in roles such as Dean of Climate and Culture, Youth Programming Director, and Director of Enrichment to design programs and initiatives that focus on mentorship, leadership development, and wellness,” says Rashad.
“My vision stemmed from a desire to create a space where young Black boys could feel supported, valued, and empowered to succeed despite the obstacles they might face.”
The idea also grew from a broader reflection on the societal narratives surrounding Black boys. Rashad says he wanted to combat the negative stereotypes often placed on them by providing a platform that celebrated their brilliance, creativity, and potential. Black Boys Empowered was envisioned as more than just a program—it was a movement to uplift an entire generation. His vision has expanded over time to include initiatives like the Dear Black Boy Co. wellness brand, scholarships for HBCU-bound students, and community service programs. The driving force behind all of these efforts has been his unwavering belief in the power of mentorship, education, and community to transform lives. “By addressing the needs of Black boys holistically— academically, emotionally, and socially— I created a legacy of empowerment and resilience.”
Rashad is also passionate about creating spaces where Black boys feel seen, valued, and understood. Growing up, he didn’t always have access to the kind of mentorship and resources he now provides, so being able to offer those to others is a powerful way for him to give back. He loves fostering environments that challenge stereotypes and show the world the brilliance and resilience of Black boys. The opportunity to rewrite narratives and shape a new generation of leaders is something that drives him every day. Lastly, Rashad takes pride in the creative aspects of his work. He loves turning his ideas into impactful realities and knowing that his efforts are making a lasting difference in the lives of others.
One of the most significant hurdles Rashad has faced in building his program has been securing consistent funding to sustain and expand programs. Nonprofits like Black Boys Empowered often operate in a competitive funding landscape where resources are limited, and Rashad has had to work tirelessly to identify grants, build relationships with donors, and creatively fundraise to support his initiatives. Ensuring financial stability while maintaining the quality and impact of the programs has been an ongoing balancing act. Another challenge has been navigating stereotypes and societal biases. As someone who works to uplift Black boys and men, Rashad has had to challenge misconceptions about what Black masculinity and success look like. Building a brand and organization that celebrates Black identity while countering negative narratives requires intentionality, persistence, and strategic messaging. Breaking through these barriers to gain broader community and institutional support has been both a challenge and a deeply motivating mission for Rashad.
To tackle the challenge of securing consistent funding, Rashad has worked to diversify his revenue streams. He applies for grants tailored to youth development and education initiatives, partners with local businesses and organizations for sponsorships, and organizes fundraisers that resonate with his community. Rashad has also leveraged his storytelling skills to craft compelling narratives about Black Boys Empowered’s impact, helping him attract donors and supporters who believe in his mission. Additionally, he is exploring creative revenue models, such as the BBE apparel line, which not only generates income but also promotes the organization’s mission.
Moving forward, Rashad shares that he envisions expanding the impact of Black Boys Empowered and evolving his personal and professional ventures to create a lasting legacy of empowerment, education, and community engagement. He adds, “One of my primary goals is to transform Black Boys Empowered into a foundation that will oversee multiple initiatives aimed at supporting Black boys in Detroit and beyond. This includes establishing a prestigious scholarship program for HBCU-bound students from metro Detroit.” Rashad also plans to launch the Dear Black Boy health and wellness brand as a subsidiary of the foundation, providing resources and products designed specifically for Black boys’ well-being.
His advice to others who may follow in his footsteps is very clear. Start with a clear purpose and build a strong network. He also advises you to stay true to your community and, most importantly, leave a legacy.
Shamily Octavia
Mama’s Makings LLC
By Terry L. Watson
When Octavia L. Shamily sets her sights on something, there isn’t much that will stop her from obtaining it!
Octavia L. Shamily is a native and current resident of Detroit, MI, who, like most women, wears many hats. She is referred to as “mother” by countless young men and young ladies, in addition to being the biological mother of one son. She is a go-getter, problem solver, encourager, author, and public speaker. Octavia earned her Bachelor of Science degree in Civil and Environmental Engineering at Wayne State University in Detroit, MI. However, Octavia is delighted that she is warmly known for her delicious brand of chicken salads, and that brand name is “Mama’s Makings”.
Mama’s Makings LLC was founded in 2018 and is certified as a woman (WBENC), minority (NMSDC), and SAM (System for Award Management) owned small business. Originally, Octavia specialized in providing consumers with everyday products that are practical for household and business use. She is thrilled to now offer healthy, ready-to-eat food items as her product.
Mama’s Makings loves producing a variety of grab-and-go chicken salads. Her line of chicken salads includes spicy, mild, dairy-free, and vegan varieties. Her vegan chicken salad is made with jackfruit and soy-free veganaise and is dairyfree. Her newest variety of chicken salad, which she perfected In 2023, is dairy-free chicken salad. Mama’s Makings brands of chicken salads are available in several Meijer grocery locations throughout Michigan; see locations at https:// mamasmakings.com. If you don’t see Mama’s Makings chicken salads in your local Meijer store anywhere in the United States, please ask for them. Octavia loves knowing that every variety of chicken salad that they produce is a healthy, delicious, grab-and-go option.
When Octavia was a little girl, cooking was what she wanted to do. Her affinity for cooking first showed itself with the mud pies that she loved making. As she aged Octavia realized that cooking was more of a calling than a love. “As a young girl, I was always in the kitchen with my godmother and great-aunts. In the early 1990’s, as I tried to figure out who I was, I began cooking with chefs. However, my journey would take me along a different path. Back then, women were expected to cook at home or for others, but not to become chefs. However, I heard God tell me, “You are going to do food differently.” I didn’t fully understand what He meant,” she says.
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As Octavia’s skills as a chef improved, demands for her prepared foods began to emerge. She was often inspired while preparing unique dishes for her family and friends, including the woman she affectionately refers to as her grandmother. “Everything I made was well-received, but the chicken salad and the adult fruit salads were truly exceptional. My grandmother and my girlfriend’s mother both loved the spicy chicken salad especially. They requested it every week and encouraged me to keep cooking. Nearly 30 years later, “Mama’s Makings” was born. Looking back, I now realize what God meant when He said that I would do food differently. My passion for feeding people whether they are picky eaters, have health challenges, or are simply committed to eating healthy – became the foundation of my small business.”
Octavia shares that she truly loves what she does. “I am a servant of God, and I appreciate each opportunity that I have to share God’s love. He has blessed my hands to prepare food that not only nourishes but also brings joy to others through His blessings. I love the process of making the salads. Everything is made with care and intention, from the front label to the chicken salads inside, and even the love under the lid. Every day, I get to relive the joy I had of making mud pies as a child by mixing bowls of chicken salad. Of course, this time, I’m wearing gloves!” she says.
Octavia established Mama’s Makings for three key reasons. The first one is to serve mature adults. “Inspired by my grandmother and other seniors, we aim to provide wholesome, healthy food that can be enjoyed at any time of the day,” she says. The second is to supply a variety of food products that can be used versatilely. The third reason is to empower the community. “Creating jobs and uplifting impoverished communities is at the heart of what we do. Mama’s Makings is committed to stopping the tears of those who open their refrigerators to find no food, as well as those who face utility shut-offs while working two or three jobs just to make ends meet,” she says.
As Mama’s Makings grows, so will their ability to rebuild entire communities by creating jobs, promoting empowerment, and sharing opportunities for everyone they serve to become self-sufficient. Octavia shares that the people she affectionately refers to as her grandparents, who weren’t actually blood relatives, instilled in her the foundations of loving and serving others. “God answered my prayers by placing Mr. and Mrs. Russel and Edith Morgan in my life, who loved me with the same unconditional love that God loves me with. The Holy Spirit inspired me to spend time in the kitchen and to create a dish that Mama could enjoy without needing to use the stove – especially when I was asleep or away. That’s how the Spicy Chicken Salad was born. Over time, it was refined into the delicious dish that it is today,” she says.
Octavia has faced many challenges as a business owner. In fact, most small business owners do face the challenge of acquiring finances and establishing a steady flow of cash. Octavia addresses her challenges with prayer and by seeking
God’s guidance and help. She says, “I turn to God’s Word for strength and direction, but most importantly, I keep moving forward. As a business owner, I have learned that the most critical thing I can do is to keep pressing onward while holding my head high. One scripture that has given me great encouragement is Isaiah 41:13 “For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.”
Things are looking really good for Mama’s Makings. Last year, Octavia added two locations from which her brand of Chicken Salads can be purchased. In October of 2024, she began including a three-word encouraging phrase under the lid of each product as her way of spreading love and positivity to consumers. One of Octavia’s goals for 2025 is to establish a way to quickly and efficiently ship Mama’s Makings chicken salads across the world. Octavia also invites consumers to submit their own three-word phrases, which may be selected in a monthly drawing. This year, she says her company is focused on increasing product awareness by conducting more demos and providing guests with samples of their four products. She also plans to enhance her product visibility on social media, showcasing many ways that Mama’s Makings Chicken Salads can be enjoyed while encouraging consumers to share their own chicken salad creations.
Hybrid Comforts by Marc, LLC
By Terry L. Watson
Provided by Marcius G. Atkinson
Marcius G. Atkinson of Greenville, SC, describes himself as an over-zealous people pleaser. Marcius is the eldest of two sons, born to James and Brenda Atkinson. He and his brother were military brats until they graduated from Florida Agricultural and Mechanical University. Marcius shares, “My parents were raised in a segregated south. They raised my brother and I in their own worldview that was guided by their past. The world that I grew up in was less difficult than my parents, and my son’s life is a little less difficult than my own. I try to begin every day by remembering my brother’s spoken word about my father, “…try to be better than you were yesterday.”
As a cook, a host, and a friend, whatever he offers of himself, Marcius tries to offer the best of that version that he can give. Pleasing and serving others are things that come naturally to Marcius. He shares, “I realize that my lineage and my life has been in service of another. No one finds that to be a high calling, but my greatest joy comes from giving something that I made to someone else and seeing their joy. I am a servant, and I want to learn how to better serve.” Through a course of curiosity, education, and life consequences (both negative and positive), he has found a vehicle through a company he founded, Hybrid Comforts by Marc LLC, that allows him to do such.
Hybrid Comforts by Marc LLC offers a natural, organic skin-care alternative. The base of Marcius’s company is one body butter. He says, “My body butter contains four butters and five oils, and is currently totaling fourteen ingredients for sensitive skin. For those who are aware, the Comedogenic Rating of my body butter is 1.36. It is topped off with a light scent of lavender and tea tree for calmness and a natural disinfectant. My product can also be scented with one of my fragrances, essential oils, or blends. Additionally, I offer a sugar scrub. Through a series of mistakes and errors, I developed an aloe whip and made a buttercream as a by-product. By infusing Ayurvedic Herds into other oils and adding those ingredients to the body butter, I created a hair maintenance line with butter and a cream conditioner/moisturizer. I also offer a non-aluminum natural deodorant.
The beginning of Marcius’s business begins with a separation. He adds that there are no kind words to describe a divorce. “The one description that rings true is that a divorce is the tearing of the soul. Once my soul began tearing, I was able to find something to hold on to. A divorce with my ex-wife and custody battle with my son’s mother were wars on different fronts, and this idea was the only thing holding me together,” he says. The idea of starting his company wouldn’t let him go, and he says that after failing countless times, he finally had a breakthrough.
“The vision began with a hobby, and it evolved into being an example for my son. Once the Covid lockdown occurred, I was working from home in close proximity to him. He aspired to be a commentator or gaming Youtuber. I had been watching and listening from afar, and I wanted to learn about the pros and cons before he got involved. Being able to stream is one thing, to do it successfully and to not incur any mishaps was another, and I wanted to be able to guide if necessary. While learning about the process of becoming a streamer for my son, I learned more about the different qualities of different kinds of butter and oils. Through a series of weeks at YouTube University, I learned about several recipes for body butter and the pitfalls of streamers,” Marcius says.
Unfortunately, he had learned the information for naught, as his son did not want to pursue that anymore. Still, Marcius had the knowledge. College and trade school talks had begun, and to Marcius’s surprise, his son stated that he wanted to be an entrepreneur. The final part of the vision came as the result of a conversation Marcius had with his brother. “In describing some of the things that I had learned over the years, and the results thereof, he asked if I had watched the television show, Shark Tank. I had heard of the show, but I didn’t watch it. As we continued to talk, I resided in being committed to being a good example to my son.”
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When asked what he loves most about his business, Marcius says it’s the opportunity to learn. “I am a true nerd at heart. Throughout the process, and even now, I am consistently learning. Because of my future aspirations, I am still learning about the different properties of different oils. As a content creator, I am learning about different picture taking and video capturing techniques. My father bought the encyclopedia Britannica for my brother and I; the old leather-bound books from A-Z. One of the things he kept stating was an old colloquial term about hiding knowledge. I didn’t particularly like everything that I was studying at the time, but being introduced to a topic that I found interesting and being able to research its origins, I found peace,” he says.
Marcius also credits his father as his first source of inspiration. He shares that his true ability of discipline and dedication comes from him. “Loving a man is hard when they were not taught to communicate as I was made to. When my father died, I had a laundry list of promises that went unchecked. It took losing him for me to understand some of the words that kept repeating in my head.”
Marcius also finds inspiration in his son. “Once he said that he wanted to become an entrepreneur, I had already started cataloging information about the inception of Hybrid Comforts. In a conversation, I remember telling him that he would have to talk to people, face his fears, and become a version of himself that he wasn’t displaying. So I decided to show him with my efforts,” he says.
Lastly, Marcius also finds inspiration in himself. “Rarely, do I recognize how far I’ve come. Goals in my life have been reduced to tasks to accomplish other goals. Once I reach the finish line of one goal, it’s the start of another. Minutes, days, and even years go by, and I never take the time to say, “Good job!” I know in my heart that I am a servant. I have served others’ objectives, desires, and pursuits. I have failed and picked myself up again. I have made mistakes. I failed to recognize that I have kept going, no matter what. So I have to look to myself sometimes.”
For those who may follow a path similar to Marcius, he offers some clear advice. He says, “Do you know that inner-voice that tells you every time that you’ve messed up? The one who reminds you of your failings when you have a great idea? Ignore it, and remember all the times that you have started from nothing for someone else. Why can’t you do it for yourself? My biggest struggle has always been overcoming myself and the overthinking that I do. If you are someone like that, why are you waiting for permission from someone else? I did that, and it’s a waste of time learning and perfecting your craft. Learn how to hone and then market your skills. Many people have skills that they are afraid to show.”
Looking ahead, Marcius shares that he is focused on shaping what he has already done. Before his formula became vegan, he came across some people who had an adverse reaction to Cocoa Butter and Coconut Oil. Recently, he has started working with an individual with a specialized formula to substitute those ingredients for Cupuacu Butter and Argan Oil. He is also working on a soap formula. His final objective is to market his products to other small businesses. “I do not wish to stop selling, but I do wish to coordinate with different crafters to provide their services,” he says. h
Loving a man is hard when they were not taught to communicate as I was made to. When my father died, I had a laundry list of promises that went unchecked. It took losing him for me to understand some of the words that kept repeating in my head.”
Learn More About My Experience of Being A Caregiver For My Mother
By Terry L. Watson
CHAPTER NINE: The Difference In Who Provides Care
For the caregivers following the “Becoming A Caregiver” series, my heart continues to go out to you. The assignment is not an easy one. Even more, regardless of any arrangement, when you are committed to ensuring that your loved one gets and receives the highest quality of care and attention, there isn’t much that will get in the way of your goal to see it happen. Any who, I am speaking for myself, and that is how I feel.
One of the most disheartening feelings I have experienced along this journey always happens when I arrive to visit my mom while she is in the care of others. As her primary caregiver for over eight years, I have a pretty good understanding of what good care looks like. I also know what slack and neglect look like.
While my mother is under my care, it has always been my goal to meet her needs first and always before mine. When she is thirsty, hungry, uncomfortable, or whatever else, I make it my goal to meet her need before it becomes a need. Anytime when I fall a little behind on my assignments, it becomes obvious, and Mama never hesitates to let me know that I am slacking.
With that said, as our family has depended on the assistance of others to provide care for my mother, finding consistency between caregivers has been very challenging. I believe it has a lot to do with how a person approaches their job. I believe that it also has a lot to do with how people feel about them. If you truly love yourself and love people, then that same level of compassion will show up with caregiving. If someone lacks compassion, they should never work in a customer service-dependent field like caregiving. Furthermore, if they lack professionalism, cleanliness, good time management skills, and good attention to detail, then caregiving is not for them as well. That is just my opinion.
Seeking the assistance of others to provide caregiving services for my mother was one the hardest decisions I have made since she suffered her stroke. While she may encounter dozens of individuals on a daily basis, there always seem to be about two or three that exhibit all of the above-mentioned qualities. I wish that I could say that it gets easier with each passing day, but to be honest, it doesn’t. For me, I find hope in being just as committed to caring for my mother today as I was when I first began this journey. I make my concerns and expectations known, and my Mama and I work together by trusting God.
I decided to share my experience as a full-time caregiver for my mother to consult, console, and inform other families who may be going through a similar situation. As a son, caring for my mother never feels like work; if so, it is a labor of love. Please continue to follow this message, Becoming A Caregiver, in Huami Magazine. I hope that sharing my experience will help others. From one caregiver to the next, God Bless You!
Huami Magazine Community Awards 2025
Charlotte Marriott Center City - Charlotte, NC
We are coming to the Queen City of Charlotte, NC.
Please mark your calendars for June 7th, 2025, as the Huami Magazine Community Awards will take place at the Charlotte Marriott City Center. Following up on our first gala of 2023, we are excited for the opportunity to present Black Excellence from various parts of the Huami Magazine network, which covers more than 23 states around the country.
Community Leaders, Business Leaders, and NonProfit Organizations will be honored and recognized for the great work they have done and continue to do in their respective communities. There will also be some great speakers, good food, and entertainment. This a formal, black tie event, and one that you don’t want to miss.
The evening will begin with a Red Carpet Reception at 5:30 pm. The Gala Reception will start at 6:30pm
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Princess Kelly
The daughter of Dominique and Latisha Kelly
