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CONTENTS PUBLISHERS LETTER THE MONOCLE
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A SPECTACLE IN THE GROVE GOOD SAMARITAN PROJECT
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MICHAEL WILLETT STARS IN FAKING IT ON MTV
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PUBLISHER LETTER
DID YOU VOICE YOUR CHOICE? The wait is finally over. We were so pleased to announce that over 26k votes were cast this year. That’s an increase of over 10k from last year. The 2015 VOICE Your Choice has been expanded to include so many new categories that you wanted to vote on. We have also added our Vital VOICE Editor’s Choice to this year’s line up.
On Wednesday Oct 28, join Defiance Whiskey, Pearl Vodka and Vital VOICE at Lilly’s Music and Social House in St. Louis for our “Guys and Dolls” event. You’ll be swaying and swooning to the musical stylings of Dustin Rapier, Amanda Hughey and a few others as we launch into this magical fall season.
Are you ready for one of the biggest LGBT holidays of the year? It’s Halloween time! This year, we encourage you to check out Missouri Ballet Theatre’s production of Dracula, Oct. 29 and 30. You will be transfixed on the grace and beauty of this show. On Friday night, Akasha Royale will join the cast with a fabulous drag competition at intermission. You won’t want to miss this! Get your tickets early.
Stay tuned for next month as we present our annual LGBT Wedding Issue. With Marriage Equality throughout the land, this year’s Wedding Issue will be one that you won’t want to put down.V
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IN THE GROVE
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witnessed The Grove literally come to life. The additions of several restaurants, bars, local businesses and a concert venue have all added to the charm and overall diversification of St. Louis’s “gayborhood.” IKEA has now opened down the street, and with an impending mega structure located next to the new Commerce Bank expected to consist of a brand new retail and apartment complex, it’s clear that our ‘hood is on the rise. 10
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Despite this, it’s not uncommon to witness the opening and closing of many establishments in times of such gentrification. Over the past few years, our community lost several favored LGBT hangouts: from Clementine’s to Novak’s, all in a short time. However, in some cases, the real estate is prime and inspired; so the cycle begins again with a new haunt about to become the place to be. The latest being a cabaret themed, speakeasy inspired, craft cocktail bar coined The Monocle, located at 4510 Manchester (formerly Meyer’s Grove & Nancy’s Place). “The Monocle is pleased to offer a very specific bar experience,” General Manager Harrison Roberts says. “From our ultrafresh cocktail ingredients to our carefully cultivated roster of performers, we hope to give The Grove and the city of Saint Louis something they’ve never experienced before in both a fun and stimulating environment.” With a cocktail menu developed by Ricky Bole of Chicago’s Elixir and Soho House, The Monocle offers a drink menu consisting of all fresh ingredients (including lemon and lime juice squeezed daily), vodka infusions done in-house, and all flavored syrups crafted by hand. It is clear that The Monocle’s strong concept places emphasis on the sophisticated experience of their patrons. Catering to a more cosmopolitan demographic, the chill lounge environment is perfect for intimate conversation. The owners collectively agreed early on that The Grove was lacking of a gentlemanly, mature, and contemporary place to post up. But do not mistake their modernity for minimalism. The Emerald Room is the glitzy theater and entertainment portion of the venue and is
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a nod to the past; offering a carefully curated cast of performers with true and sincere vintage appeal. “There is a very intimate relationship that develops between the audience and the entertainer in this type of environment,” Kyle Hustedt, Grand Impressario and Entertainment Director of The Emerald Room, says. “Our broad array of stage acts and entertainers is sure to please!” You can grab a performance at seven, nine and 11 p.m. on weekends, making this prime location the perfect pit stop on an evening of debauchery, or perhaps a date night destination. The diverse range of talent features a cast that includes cabaret acts, vaudeville entertainers, burlesque artists and female impersonators; performers of all kinds, including national acts as well. To top it off, the acts will be hosted by The Emerald Room’s resident Diva, Amy Armstrong. “I do just about anything,” Armstrong says. “I’ve been performing for over twenty years in Chicago and cities the world over with my outstanding piano player Freddy Allen, and I’ve opened for Phyllis Diller, Jennifer Holiday and Leslie Jordan just to name a few. From singing to dancing to keeping people in stitches with my bawdy comedy, I enjoy seeing people smile and react when I’m on stage. My life is music and making people laugh, and I believe we have something truly special and unique here at The Emerald Room.” Managing Partner Michael Vollmer has assembled his best team, hand picking each and every staff member, because they are simply the best at what they do.
“Being able to bring The Monocle and The Emerald Room to St. Louis is about sharing with our community the very best of what I believe The Grove represents,” Vollmer says. “It’s about delivering on a commitment to excellence in everything that we do. Whether in hand-crafting the finest cocktails with the freshest ingredients, developing a space with consistency of theme and substance, or even producing entertainment that appeals to a broad audience and bringing national talent like Coco Peru and Leslie Jordan, we plan to deliver a stellar experience in everything that we do and create.” “From the moment you step foot into The Monocle, or take a stroll down the speakeasy walkway to The Emerald Room, you instantaneously know that you’re somewhere special,” Vollmer continues. “My hope is that The Monocle and The Emerald Room become a recognized destination for a vintage and classy experience that will have you consistently coming back for more.” Not only is this endeavor lofty, but it takes a high level of conviction, confidence and support to open this kind of venue in The Grove - something these owners and staff have in spades. What we can tell so far is: it’s heavy on concept and rich in experience, all the while sparing no expense on a well-executed cocktail, with a commitment to above par entertainment and lavish interiors. We welcome an experience that caters to the arts and has the gall to bring something new to the table - something with substance, swagger and distinctively special. V text PAULIE GIBSON art MARK MOORE thevitalVOICE.com
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SEARCHING FOR A CITY WITH A PULSE ON THE GAY COMMUNITY?
Look for the heart. You don’t need a coast to pick a side. Equality is right here in Kansas City. And with attractions like our vibrant Power & Light District, numerous art galleries, and some of the best dining and nightlife you’ll find, there’s more to love in KC than ever before. VisitKC.com/LGBT
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Good Samaritan Project According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, more than 1.2 million people aged 13 years and older are living with HIV in the United States. Approximately one in five youth (between the ages of 13 to 25) do not know that they are infected and can unknowingly pass the virus on to others. The statistics for individuals who are affected by human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS) and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can be overwhelming when you take the time to educate yourself on what appears to be a still taboo health concern. However, the Kansas City Good Samaritan Project is taking large leaps in community engagement and education with the hope of decreasing the numbers of those infected through various programs. This year marks the 30th year that the Good Samaritan Project (GSP) has been providing advocacy, care and education to individuals who are affected by HIV, AIDS and other STIs. That makes GSP the longest running, not-for-profit AIDS Service Organization in the area. GSP was originally founded in 1985 - near the beginning of the AIDS epidemic - by a group of volunteers who gathered in a church basement which served as a hospice. To date, GSP is Kansas City’s most comprehensive agency solely devoted to the care and prevention of HIV/AIDS.
“A lot of folks don’t realize that it is still a very prominent issue that affects the lives of so many [including] their partners and their families,” Halastik says. “I think there’s still a larger sect of the population, even those who are under the LGBTQ umbrella who need more education – who need to know medically accurate, age appropriate content that affects their lives from a sexual health stand point.” David Schlomer, Chief Executive Officer, spoke excitedly about the future undertakings of GSP, which will help the Kansas CIty community with HIV primary healthcare services. “The most exciting endeavor is our partnership with Truman Medical Center (TMC), which manages an on-site primary care clinic at GSP,” Schlomer says. “We have plans to serve not only the HIV/AIDS patients, but others as well. For instance, we want to host clinic days specifically for young people who are not yet engaged in care anywhere, to have events focusing on women’s health and perhaps to develop a PrEP (Pre-exposure prophylaxis) clinic.”
Creating a foundation of communication within the community is essential in helping individuals make informed decisions regarding their sexuality. GSP is reaching out to their eleven-county region to offer various ways to initiate this open dialogue by utilizing education and community outreach in order to prevent HIV and STI transmission. GSP offers services such as medical case management for more than 700 people living with HIV/AIDS, testing for HIV and STIs, emergency assistance for individuals living with HIV/AIDS as well as referrals for mental health and other social services. Mark Halastik, Director of Development and Communications, spoke passionately about the need for people in the community - and even around the United States – to become aware that HIV/AIDS is still a very important concern that should be taken into consideration.
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According to Schlomer, this new clinic will be an invaluable resource for their Prevention Team, and the partnership will allow them to provide better care for their patients. They also hope to expand their testing efforts in the future (which currently include HIV, gonorrhea and chlamydia) to include syphilis. GSP currently operates the clinic three days a week, but hopes to bump that number to five days a week in the future. They also wish to expand their services beyond the scope of those who are not affected by HIV/AIDS and STIs. GSP utilizes the clinic to also offer additional education to the community. “We educate and bring awareness through our testing events,” Schlomer explains. “We offer walk-in testing twice weekly in the late afternoon and early evening hours. We also participate in community health fairs, and provide testing at various educational institutions such as the University of Missouri – Kansas City. We are also working with a group to promote sexual health education.” Schlomer believes their biggest impact in the community is through their case management program with which they are able to stay in contact with their patients. This allows GSP case managers to help monitor patients’ health, watch their medications and provide them with assistance whenever it is needed. Within recent years, the GSP has expanded their case management programs to include transitional case management in which the case manager helps aid incarcerated individuals who will soon be released shift from life within prison to the outside. They also have case managers who are located at the Johnson County, Kansas Health Department, the Research Medical Center campus and currently exploring options to locate at least one more case manager. GSP also offers an emergency assistance program – which has recently received an increase of use – which helps pay for patient housing, utilities and other needs. According to Schlomer, completed studies conclude that patients who have stable residence do better. GSP works with a partner pharmacy which provides home delivery to their patients who are involved with the program. What is really fantastic is their pharmacy is available to their patients 24/7 to answer any questions they may have about the pharmaceuticals they have been prescribed. The pharmacy also helps patients stay on their medications – as many people do not follow their treatments properly. “We are sitting with peoples’ lives in our hands and it matters,” Halastik says. “I think it’s important for us to be able to go out there and talk about the work that we do and be seen as relevant.” “My goals are to continue to do what we do best, that is, assist those living with HIV/AIDS in the Greater Kansas City area,” Schlomer says in closing, “and to develop new partnerships with agencies who have a similar mission.” V
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VOICE YOUR choice AWARDS opener August is arguably the hottest time of the year in Missouri, and with VOICE Your Choice happening all month long, this year was hotter than ever! More than 26,000 votes were cast during those 31 days, and your voice was heard louder and clearer than ever across the Show-Me State. This year was our biggest poll yet, with some familiar names making a return along with a few new faces and places that snagged the top spots. Congratulations to all of our winners in every category — now check out and see who you chose as the best of the best in St. Louis and Kansas City this year! thevitalVOICE.com
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Lilly’s Music & Social House
Known as St. Louis’s “most prolific bearded lady,” Siren has made a name for herself as the quick-witted, fearless bitch with a microphone. As an established performer and hostess, Siren has performed in nearly every drag show to hit the STL stages during her professional career, as well as many of the city’s finest burlesque reviews.
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DJ Karma
Stray Rescue
Pappy’s Smokehouse
Her hard work has made her one of the most sought after DJs in the industry, and since 2011 DJ Karma has consistently held residencies at various bars and nightclubs in the St. Louis area while making guest appearances at many venues. She is bound and determined to become an A-list DJ, and with her drive and work ethic, DJ Karma is well on her way to accomplishing just that.
Virtually all of the pets Stray Rescue has saved have been abused and neglected. As a no-kill organization, pets from Stray Rescue seem to understand that they have a second lease on life. Stray Rescue’s sole purpose is to rescue stray animals in need of medical attention, restore them to health and place them in loving adoptive homes.
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If you are looking for the top rated barbecue restaurant in St. Louis, the search is over. At Pappy’s Smokehouse, they serve the best Memphis Style BBQ in St. Louis’ midtown neighborhood. Pappy’s slow smokes their meats up to 14 long hours over sweet apple or cherry wood, and tops it off with a selection of four delicious BBQ sauces.
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The Fabulous Fox Theatre
Just John
More than just your “average crossdressing disco mime and palindrome extraordinaire,” Rydyr is a host, a drag king, an illusionist and a gender bender. Known for performing in various clubs and with GlitterBomb productions, Rydyr is the first winner of this new category we added to the St. Louis line up this year.
Reclaiming the top spot again this year, The Fabulous Fox Theatre has entertained St. Louisans and visitors alike since 1929. Home to award-winning musicals and plays, comedians, performers and musicians, The Fabulous Fox offers a dazzling array of talent and entertainment twelve months a year.
Known as JuJo by its loyal regulars, Just John has consistently been known as a staple in the LGBT scene in St. Louis. With Karaoke on Tuesdays and Thursdays, Trivia on Wednesday nights and host to St. Louis’s hottest DJs on the weekends, there really is something for everyone at this Grove hotspot.
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Kristen Goodman
Dining Out For Life
Former teacher Jill Aul retired three years ago to be a full-time volunteer and activist for the LGBTQIA community. As founder and president of the St. Charles PFLAG chapter, she remains heavily involved with the organization and helped launch the first ever St. Charles Pride this past year. Jill is also an active member of the Ethical Society Mid Rivers where she serves as President of the Board of Directors.
Kristen is well known as a singer and musician in the region, as she has performed at festivals, concerts, special events and bars across the St. Louis region. Her latest venture, Lilly’s Music & Social House, is Goodman’s creative vision come to life as a space for musicians and performers to gather, share and perform in an intimate and inviting environment.
Every April 30, Dining Out For Life© hosts at area restaurants where at least 25% of a diner’s check is donated to support the work of Saint Louis Effort for AIDS. In 2014, the St. Louis community raised over $240,000 to help EFA provide education on the prevention of HIV/AIDS and comprehensive support services for those affected by the disease.
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Christine Elbert
The Lab Gym
For over thirty years, Pride St. Louis has been working to raise understanding and acceptance of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender individuals in the St. Louis community. As a community-based organization that envisions a world where diversity can be celebrated and prejudice has been eliminated, PrideFest prides itself on working hard to bring about changes right here in St. Louis.
Christine works as Senior Loan Originator at GSF Mortgage, and has been a past board member of the Tower Grove Business Association and the LGBT Center of St. Louis. Christine has been involved in the LGBT community for the last 25 years in organizations such as That Uppity Theatre and The Pride Scholarship Committee.
Run by brothers Justin and Chris Thacker, The Lab is known as “the most unique gym around with the best trainers in town.” As a one stop sports performance and preventative health center staffed with certified strength and conditioning specialists, registered dietitians and massage therapists, The Lab Gym helps clients achieve their goals, both physically and mentally.
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St. Louis’ newest grown and sexy dance party consistently brings you the most gorgeous go-go girls, fantastic vendors and the jammiest dance jams ever to 2720 Cherokee every first Friday of the month. Although this event is designed with lesbians in mind, everyone is welcome at LEZ DANCE! #lezbefriends
With more than 1,700 slot machines, 60 table games and a dedicated 13-table poker room, there’s something for every gaming enthusiast at Lumière Place. In fact, there are 75,000 square feet of gaming options— from classic games to the latest favorites— for you to enjoy practically 24 hours a day.
Lilly’s is the community-gathering place designed for women and their friends, with a brunch menu that includes specialties like Build-Your-Own Bloody Marys, Bourbon Bacon Mash, Frittata Scrambler Potstickers and Breakfast Bruschetta. And when it comes to entertainment to go along with their menu items, they always include live music, cabaret, DJs, games and the friendliest staff in St. Louis.
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Rehab Bar & Grill
The Monocle
Happy Hour at Rehab is the best in The Grove, featuring All You Can Drink specials on Saturdays and Sunday Fundays, along with various weekday food and drink specials. There’s something for anyone and everyone at Rehab, with an approachable atmosphere and staff that makes it your home away from home. 4054 Chouteau Ave. (314) 652-3700 rehabstl.com
One of the signature martinis at The Monocle is the flavorfully crafted Tesla, a truly oral sensation derived from the exotic Sichuan flower. One sips the accompanying flower-based cocktail with notes of strawberry and basil to relieve the intense experience changing the flavor profile of the imbibing beverage from something ordinary to something extraordinary.
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Kate Clark strives to provide the most recent methods and techniques offered in the beauty and barbering industry to her clients. Primarily concentrating on advanced cutting techniques and Keratin Smoothing Treatments, and specializing in Deva Curl inspired haircuts and men's haircuts, Kate provides detailed styles for both men and women at the award winning KINK Hair in Clayton. 14 N Meramec Ave, Clayton 314-721-KINK kinkhair.com
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Kate Clark
4510 Manchester Ave. (314) 932-7003 themonoclestl.com
In addition to their extensive vodka list and signature burgers, Sub Zero features the best sushi in St. Louis, driven by the ever-so-talented Sushi Chef Vu Hoang. The menu offers a variety of fish delivered daily, and fresh sushi is available until last call, seven days a week. 308 N Euclid Ave. (314) 367-1200 subzerovodkabar.com
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Lindbergh
Mango Peruvian Cuisine
If you haven’t been to Mango’s new location on Washington Avenue, now is the time! Mango’s sangria is made from the original recipe brought from Peru and created by owner Nori Calvo’s family. Refreshing and not too sweet, it is Garnacha-based and spiked with citrus and cinnamon.
Lindbergh is an avant-garde menswear and apparel brand that has changed the fashion game. Stylish men rejoice! Lindbergh, a contemporary aviation brand that gives men everything they’ve ever wanted! Catering to every taste, and every occasion, Lindbergh is head-to-toe the best menswear line in North America. 291 Chesterfield Center, Chesterfield (636) 536-5338 lindberghshop.com
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A margarita is a margarita, right? Wrong. At Just John, their margaritas include Patron Silver, Grand Marnier, fresh lime juice and just a splash of sweet and sour mix. The refreshing cocktail along with their huge back patio makes Just John the perfect destination for an ‘afternoon turned into evening’ fiesta. 4112 Manchester Ave. (314) 371-1333 justjohnclub.com
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1001 Washington Ave (314) 621-9993 mangoperu.com
With over 20 years experience buying/selling real estate in the St. Louis metropolitan area, Pam has had experience working with both buyers and sellers to achieve their desired goals. Pam was born and raised in St. Louis, with a deep understanding of what this rich city has to offer you and your family. 4301 Hampton Ave Ste 150 (314) 457-6601 pamselssstl.com
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Pam Schneider
2321 Arsenal St. - (314) 312-6398 - lillyshousestl.com
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Choice Mimosa
Lilly’s Music & Social House
Susan Block
Hiro Asian Kitchen
The craft cocktail program at Lilly’s is one-of-a kind, with an array of original drinks named after famous celebrities or icons. Some of the more popular craft cocktails include The L Word, the Lily Tom-lin Collins, the Queen LaTeaFah and the Chely Oh-So-Wright, ensuring that there’s always a cocktail for every personality at Lilly’s.
Block zealously represents same-sex couples in adoption cases, estate planning matters, custody and property disputes. She is a lawyer’s lawyer, often advising other lawyers about the special issues for the LGBTQ community, and serves on PROMO’s Governor’s Council and HRC’s House Federal Council.
1405 Washington Ave. - (314) 241-4476 - hiroasiankitchen.com
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165 N. Meramec Ave. Suite 110 - (314) 727-2266 - pcblawfirm.com
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Bottomless Mimosas are something that you just do not say ‘no’ to, and Hiro keeps them coming when you come in for Sunday Brunch. In addition to the variety of specials they offer, Hiro also features other specialty mimosas like the Mango-mosa and the Lychee-tini, equally as delicious as the original.
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ON MAKING IT & FAKING IT Born and raised in California, Willett has always had a love for the arts. As a child, he would sing along with Disney cartoons and constantly perform. “My mom put me in theatre because I needed an outlet,” he says. “I was mostly drawn to music, and at some point, I realized that in order to perform a story, I needed to act and I became more focused on the acting. I sort of grew to love it and started auditioning in LA when I was 13.” In 2010, Willett moved to Los Angeles to pursue acting full time. Before Faking It, he was cast as Lionel Trane in the Emmy-Nominated Showtime series, United States of Tara, then went on to play Tanner in G.B.F. which premiered at the Tribeca Film Festival in 2013. Willett’s latest project, The Murder Pact, aired on Lifetime last month. Vital VOICE caught up with the MTV star to chat about the current season of Faking It, in addition to being gay in Hollywood and his standards on dating. We promise, none of this is a fake. thevitalVOICE.com
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What do you and your cast mates like to do during downtime?
Sometimes we have sleepovers, sometimes we go to dinner. I just like having one on one time with each of them, honestly. I’m not like a big group person. I really like each of them for their unique personality and I’d do anything with them, but it’s mostly like one on one bonding for me. So you and your cast mates have a really good relationship with each other?
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It’s been going well! People seem to be responding to it positively. It feels like no time has passed. In terms of audience, it feels like they stuck with us and the drama is only just beginning. Our characters get into a lot of trouble in the next ten episodes. How has your character evolved since season one?
I think he becomes more complex. We’re going to see that Shane is more vulnerable in this next set of episodes and he’s in a much darker place. So I would say that he evolves into a more complex character, where in the beginning he was more of Amy’s best friend. Shane has his own relationship now; his whole life is more complex. Do you still consider shane to be a lot like yourself?
I do, but he’s also sort of a more idealized version of myself. He’s more confident; he’s more talented at everything essentially. He’s sort of like a superhero version of me, but I definitely have an influence on the writing and character and how he dresses. I do have a lot of say and I do relate a lot to him.
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We do. Not because they’re not good people, but because it doesn’t always happen- to work with good people and work on a good project with good writers. I’m so blessed, really. What’s been your most embarrassing moment on or off set?
Where would you like to see shanes charachter go in a thrid season?
I would like to see his family life more. Where he comes from, how he interacts with his dad. It sounds like they have a good relationship. I also kind of have this idea that Shane sort of goes through like this abstinent period, so I wonder if that’s going to happen, but we’ll see. I just want to see him have more adventures, and the more variety the better. Outside of Faking It, what are some your career goals?
I have a deep desire to create art that is entertaining and thought provoking, so I want to continue to do that. I want to be an artist in its truest form. I work on music, I write music and I dabble in all different mediums of art. My grandpa was an artist and he’s a huge inspiration of mine, so I think that’s the larger goal. Can you give us a little more insight into your music career?
I released a single last year called “Started Over” and it’s a piece of this larger concept album that I divided up into three Eps which I should be releasing this year. It’s a way for me to express myself and my personal evolution, and that’s what it’s really about.
My whole life is an embarrassing moment after another! The other day I was on a red carpet and I didn’t know a series of popular songs and it was very apparent- just because I don’t listen to a lot of popular music. I like to listen to a lot of classic rock and my favorite artists from the 70s and 90s. So I guess that was my most embarrassing moment recently. What was Michael Willett like in high school?
[Laughs] I think he was very friendly and sweet but very introverted and very creative and felt sort of private. I would kind of go unnoticed as much as possible because I could tell what I liked other people didn’t necessarily like. That wasn’t just about my sexuality, it was on a number of subjects. I always thought what I liked was the coolest and should have been the most popular even though it wasn’t. So I sort of kept to myself and was an introverted artist. Were you out and open about your sexuality in high school?
I was, but I think everyone basically knew I was gay. Not because I was overly effeminate, but because of the things I liked and they could just sort of tell. I came out to my friends, but it wasn’t like a huge coming out for me. It was a natural progression I would say. Who was the first person you came out to?
I suppose myself [laughs]. At some point I realized this is what I like and this is who I am. But in terms of an external person, I don’t knowprobably one of my friends.
I think with anything in this industry, if you have something about you that makes you unique it sets you apart, and for me that was an aspect of who I am. For whatever reason, people appreciate it about me and it looked to my advantage. It’s pretty simple. I felt like it made munique for whatever reason. I wasn’t a stereotypical version of what people thought of as gay. I was just a person who happened to be gay. How was coming out to your friends different than coming out to your family?
With my friends, the impact is less severe because they don’t really have any preconceived notion about what it means to be gay and they just like you for you are. In terms of my family, it was about having to sort of adjust their version of my future in their head. So it’s not that it was so devastating to them, it was that they had to adjust their vision of my future slightly, and that can be difficult. You mentioned in The Advocate that being gay has given you an advantage in the industry. How so?
I think with anything in this industry, if you have something about you that makes you unique it sets you apart, and for me that was an aspect of who I am. For whatever reason, people appreciate it about me and it looked to my advantage. It’s pretty simple. I felt like it made me unique for whatever reason. I wasn’t a stereotypical version of what people thought of as gay. I was just a person who happened to be gay. Do you think it’s easier to play a gay character since you are gay in real life?
Sure. I think the best casting sometimes are people who are already like their characters, and I think especially with a television series you have to believe that these characters are real because you’re seeing them every week. I think it’s not until you are more well known that you’re able to branch off and play more contrasting characters.
When you are not onset or recording, what are some hobbies?
Have you had any embarrassing date moments yourself?
I really like to create art. Right now I’m working on my album artwork, so I’ve been working on this cool fan art project. I also like to exercise; I try to stay as fit as possible. Anything creative. I love going to museums. Whenever I’m traveling I like to go to art museums or historical museums. I also love science.
Not that I can remember. I have a knack for blocking these kinds of things out. If I embarrassed myself, I probably tried to forget about it. So I’m not saying it didn’t happen, but I don’t remember.
Let’s talk about dating for a little bit. Are you currently seeing anyone?
That is top-secret private information [laughs]. I’m just a really private person and I always say even if I worked in a cubicle, I wouldn’t put photos of my family on my desk because I wouldn’t want to give people the opportunity to say anything negative. That’s just how I am. What’s your ideal first date?
My ideal first date is to not have a first date. I would rather meet someone under the condition of having mutual friends or just casually meeting someone. I hate how Americans have to do these sit down things where they grill each other and have all these expectations. I can’t do that. I probably won’t eat if that’s happening. So my ideal first date is not a first date. It’s just a natural connection between two people. When you’re dating someone, are you the planner or do you go with the flow?
Go with the flow usually. I like there to be a plan, but I don’t want to have to date a planner.
Outside of acting, can you talk about your LGBT activism?
Tell us about your first date with another guy.
I just actually toured the LGBT youth center in Los Angeles a few weeks ago and I donated to the AIDS Life Cycle Foundation, and I’m actually going to be setting up a web page so that people can donate there to the AIDS Life Cycle with a code so they can get a discount. I feel like everyday people can do really small things to help the LGBTQ community and I don’t think you necessarily need to be doing big things to have the conversation.
It was pretty awful actually. I realized in the first few minutes that we had nothing else to talk about, so I ended up sleeping with him. Naturally, of course. There was nothing to talk about, nothing else do it. It was bad though. It didn’t last very long. Would you say that was the worst date you’ve ever been on?
Yes. That’s why I’m so against first dates now!
What are some deal breakers for you when it comes to dating?
If you’re not a feminist, don’t even bother. I’m like a huge feminist and I come from a family of
feminists. If you’re not on board with that, then that’s a deal breaker. I also don’t like people who aren’t passionate. If you don’t have something you’re passionate about, I can’t be into you. Also, if we can’t carry on a conversation or you don’t excite me verbally, then I will be uninterested.
What do you think makes the man?
Being sensitive. I think that is a quality we don’t value enough in our society in terms of men. Sensitive men are sexy. That is an attractive quality and I think that we need to have more men like that. How many drinks is too many on the first dates?
For me, any drink! I don’t drink. Not because it’s like a rule or anything, I just don’t do well. I’m a lightweight and I’ll probably get sick and I don’t have any sense of control. So any drink is bad. Who do you call first after a date?
Either my best friend, Miranda, or my older sister who I’m super close with. Definitely someone to evaluate whether or not I’m the one going crazy or if that other person is crazy. V text DENNY PATTERSON art NIKKO LAMERE thevitalVOICE.com
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Daisy Bucket
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Since 2006, Daisy has been performing all over the Kansas City area and raising money for charitable organizations like AIDS Walk KC and Wayside Waifs. Some notable venues include the Folly Theater, Broadway Jazz Club and Late Night Theatre. When she’s not belting a tune in her hometown, Daisy tours with The Kinsey Sicks, America’s Favorite Dragapella® Beautyshop Quartet.
Gay Bar
DJ
Non-Profit
Missie B’s
DJ Chad Slater
KC CARE Clinic
Missie B’s is Kansas City’s premier gay bar featuring good times, good friends and great entertainment. As the most popular drag bar in Kansas City, Missie B’s features the best in female impersonation with live shows five nights a week. And with a DJ six nights a week and karaoke two nights a week, you are sure to be entertained anytime you stop by this midtown/Westport hotspot.
DJ Chad Slater has been dropping beats and packing dance floors on the Kansas City club scene for over a decade. He blends mainstream club, circuit, progressive and disco house and produces high energy sets that are guaranteed to get any audience to dance the night away.
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The Kansas City CARE Clinic is an integral part of the health care delivery system in the Kansas City community. Formed in 1971, the Clinic provides basic health care services to people who cannot afford them and to those challenged with access to care. Overall, the Clinic helps keep the uninsured and underinsured healthy.
K a n s KANSAS a s C i t yCITY R e aREADER’S d e r ’ s C hCHOICE oice Gym
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theGYMkc is for people who want an enjoyable place to exercise. The staff and the atmosphere there are approachable, fun and understanding, and membership includes 24-hour access to all three of their locations, cardio machines, free weights, weight equipment, fitness classes and more. FYI: theGYMkc discourages bodybuilders, grunting power lifters and spandex.
Established in 2003, Bistro303 attracts a diverse, friendly and fun clientele in Kansas City. While the atmosphere at Bistro303 is upscale, it is by no means snooty. It’s a welcoming space with something for everyone, with brunch favorites that include Crab Cakes Benedict, Quiche de Jour and their classic Steak & Eggs.
A mystical, mythical theater run by a band of misfit actors, techies and drag queens from 1997 to the future, the cast of Late Night Theatre delivers wild, raw and off-the-cuff shows at Missie B’s. Epic performances of shows like “Remington Steele Magnolias,” “The Birds,” “Black Bewitched” and “Poultrygeist” have been the highlights of their 2015 season thus far.
Restaurant
Activist
Café Trio
Bill Svoboda
Dirty Dorothy
Svoboda’s bona fides include serving as the Executive Director & Producer for KC Riverfest, the region’s Independence Day celebration drawing 50,000 visitors. Now as Festival Director for Pridefest KC, Svoboda produced one of Kansas City’s most successful Pride festivals in 2015 at Berkley Riverfront Park, drawing in more than 25,000 attendees.
As an entertainment icon in Kansas City, you can find Dirty Dorothy gracing the stage at Missie B’s on Wednesdays, Saturdays and Sundays. She likes long walks on the beach, jager-bombs, and cougars, as well as playing with her German shepherd, kitty cat, and cocktatoo, all named Toto. In the words of Dirty Dorothy, there’s no place like Missie B’s!
“Pure urban sophistication.” How else would you describe the hip and glamorous mix of great food with signature martinis, blended with a splash of elegant jazz that is Café Trio? The restaurant offers a casual but elegant atmosphere that includes live music, local artwork and KC’s best outdoor dining.
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VOICE V o i c YOUR e Y o uCHOICE r c h o2015 ice 2015 Fundraiser
City Destination
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AIDS Walk KC
“The K”
Blake Dankert
The annual event held every April is huge! AIDS WALK Kansas City is the primary fundraising event of the AIDS Service Foundation, whose mission is to raise awareness and funding for local service organizations which provide shelter, medical care and emergency services to the women, men and children living with HIV/AIDS in Kansas City.
The Kansas City Royals celebrated their 43rd season at “The K” this year, and the stadium has always been one of the crown jewel ballparks of the MLB. It is currently the only ballpark in the American League to be named after a person, Royals’ founding owner Ewing Kauffman. Having hosted 74,345,705 fans since 1973, T”he K” and its signature look has proudly stood the test of time.
Dankert is known as a small town hero in his hometown of Brunswick, having established the Brunswick Redevelopment and Revitalization Committee and bringing a new vision and direction for the town. Dankert is also a member of the Mid America Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, where he works in the Ambassador Program to better understand the needs of their members.
Casino
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Vital VOICE Feature
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Trans Visibility
Matt Schulte:
In addition to being one of the largest casino floors in Missouri, Ameristar Kansas City features nine restaurants ranging from casual to fine dining, a luxury hotel and 18 movie screens. The casino also offers a variety of live events, concerts, comedic acts and free shows from rock and blues to country and more.
The topic of Transgender has been taken to an entire new level of engagement and interest this past year, and organizations like LIKEME Lighthouse, the Transgender Institute and Transas City have taken the lead in putting Transgender Visibility in the forefront. Look for this as a possible new category in our 2016 reader’s poll!
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Bold Moves, Royal Responses
The feature in the July Issue of Vital VOICE gave readers a chance to see what Matt Schulte has been up to since his dynamic coming out story following the Royals’ epic 2014 season. As marketing coordinator for the Kansas City Royals, Matt has brought to light a growing connection between professional sports and the LGBTQ community.
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VOICE YOUR CHOICE 2015K a n s a s C i t y R e a d e r ’ s C h o i c e Choice Happy Hour
Choice Martini
Bistro 303
Café Trio
Bistro303 in Westport enjoys a lively and popular Happy Hour with a strong, regular following. Happy Hour is Monday through Friday from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. and features a list of ten appetizers at discounted prices ranging from $3 to $7, as well as discounted drink specials such as $3 wells and $2.75 domestic beers. 303 Westport Rd. (816) 753-2303 bistro303kc.com
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Owner Casey Adams says that he chose Nara’s modern concept “to give Kansas City something they didn’t have before; the food speaks for itself because there’s nothing to hide behind, the display is pure.” And indeed it does: the sushi at Nara is our favorite- consistently fresh, unique and a staple in the Kansas City area. 1617 Main St. Suite 100 (816) 221-6272 narakc.com
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Keep Calm and Have a Martini, Shaken not Stirred. There’s no “I” in team, but there are two in Martini. Come in and let Café Trio show you how it’s done! The restaurant boasts an extensive wine, cocktail and specialty martini list, made to be enjoyed in their beautiful dining room or their ever-popular expansive patio.
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4558 Main St. (816) 756-3227 cafetriokc.com
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Located in the Westport district of Kansas City, the Bunker is independently owned and operated by local residents. Since opening its doors in 1997, the owners and staff have served millions of customers, providing a healthy mix of urban and modern trends and with unique and local flare. 4056 Broadway (816) 561-7407 bunkeronline.com
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V o i c e Y o u r c h o i c e 2 0 1 5KANSAS CITY EDITOR’S CHOICE Choice Margarita
Choice Sangria
Zocalo
La Bodega
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Zócalo opened in October of 2011 on the Country Club Plaza, introducing Kansas City to fresh, contemporary Mexican cuisine. The restaurant is home to one of Kansas City’s most extensive tequila and mezcal offerings, with more than 90 to sample, plus an array of both traditional and specialty margaritas. 620 W 48th St. (816) 756-5555 zocalokc.com
Serving Kansas City diners a “taste of the good life” matters to owner James Taylor, and that’s exactly what they do with their sangria at La Bodega. “In essence, no one has a chance to travel and go to unique places all of the time,” he says. “We want to give them the chance to take a mini vacation, wind down, and be taken care of for a moment or weekend.” 703 Southwest Blvd. (816) 472-8272 labodegakc.com
DITOR’S
Kevin is a part of ReeceNichols Real Estate, and prides himself on creating a relationship with clients that is based on integrity, reliability and quality service while continually seeking to improve his skills and services through education and client feedback.
Mimosas at a Barbeque restaurant? Only in Kansas City! Char Bar incorporates a barbeque twist into most of its brunch entrees, and their mimosas are no different. Try their Liquid Brunch: a shot of Southern Comfort with butterscotch schnapps, a shot of fresh OJ and smoked bacon. Enough said.
KevinBryant@LocateKC.com (816) 769-9564 kbryant.reecenichols.com
Choice Realtor
Kevin Bryant
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VOICE YOUR CHOICE 2015K a n s a s C i t y E d i t o r ’ s C h o i c e Choice Craft Cocktail
Pizza Bella
The creatively named drinks and original blend of flavors in each one makes Pizza Bella a destination for craft cocktails. And with popular items like the Five Boroughs (their take on the Manhattan) and Weights & Feathers (a not-too-heavy espresso martini), it’s a great spot for a romantic evening, a nightcap or to simply stay a while.
Thanks for your votes! Until next time...
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The Mosby Model For more than 65 years, Mosby Building Arts has been the number one trusted resource for home remodeling and repair in the Metro St. Louis area. With industry-leading customer service, quality craftsmanship and a 10-year warranty, homeowners are assured that picking Mosby is the right choice. Founded in 1947 by Sam Mosby, Mosby Building Arts has been recognized as a National Top 20 Remodeling Firm, and has received a Better Business Bureau Torch Award, as well as a Small Business Administration Family-Owned Business Award. The firm is often recognized with local and national awards for design, work quality and construction methods. The company’s current president, Sam’s son Scott, is known for his candor and plainspoken explanations in building methods and technology. Beginning his career in 1969, his industry and sense of purpose delivers a message of promoting mobility and comfort in our homes. Scott has held the position of carpenter, job-site foreman, superintendent, Master Builder and building designer. Mosby Building Arts offers numerous design and remodeling services including bathroom, exterior, kitchen and garage/driveway additions and basements. Repairs are also available for roofing, door/window, siding and water management. The Mosby process is designed to take the stress out home remodeling. Clients are fully educated and informed from start to finish. Mosby only hires experienced and dedicated professionals that will deliver expected results. One of the company’s designers, Jillian Brinkman, has been with Mosby for one year. With over seven years of commercial and residential design experience, she loves to help families transform their home into spaces they can love and be proud of. “I like getting to know clients, building a relationship and collaborating ideas,” she says. “I feel lucky that I get to be creative, solve puzzles and meet interesting people every day.” Brinkman’s passion for design started when she was a child. “I was constantly rearranging my room, drawing floor plans and designing tree houses,” she explains. “I’ve always been artistic and have an affinity for sculptural art. When a career in ceramics seemed impractical, I turned to interior design and have never looked back.” Primarily working with residential projects, Brinkman usually finds herself inspired by sourcing tile. When designing, she always commits to creating balance with color and natural textures. She also finds it interesting to explore vintage or antique pieces paired with something unexpected. She lives by the motto: “Perfection is boring – it’s okay to experiment!” Currently, Brinkman is working with a family on their contemporary kitchen remodel. “The family is a lot of fun to work with and they’re not afraid of color,” she says. “We’ve selected cabinetry with a deep Agean Sea blue finish that’s going to be stunning.
Jillian Brinkman In addition to their great style, they are an inspiring couple to be around. Our goal for the project is to start construction while the couple is traveling – scheduling both around her cancer treatments. By construction completion, we all hope that she’s free from cancer and celebrating in her new beautiful space.” “Being able to work in a field that I love makes me a happy person,” she says. “This really makes for a positive, fulfilled life.” V For more information, call (314) 909-1800, or visit mosbybuildingarts.com. text DENNY PATTERSON art MOSBY BUILDING ARTS thevitalVOICE.com
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In October 1994, Rodney Wilson, a teacher at Mehlville High School, founded the now annual nationwide Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender History Month. Join Wilson and Steven Brawley, founder of the St. Louis LGBT History Project, for a discussion exploring LGBT history in St. Louis and the story of LGBT History Month. Presented in partnership with the St. Louis LGBT History Project
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are encouraged to come dressed up and decked out in their best Halloween outfit. The winner will receive some sort of prize. On Friday, a couple of well-known St. Louis drag queens will select members from the audience and pull them on stage and give them a drag makeover. The audience will decide whose makeover is the best and the winner will also receive some sort of prize. This is the first time for an intermission like this. “It will be ‘Glamorous Horror,’” Akasha says. “I’ll be glamorous and Makena Knight will provide the horror [laughs]. I’m a lot like Mary Poppins, I bring my bag of tricks with me everywhere I go. If you dig deep enough past the thirsty wigs, broken iPhone chargers, and old eyelashes you may find a hilarious moment just waiting to be made.” And when asked what she is most looking forward to about being a part of the Ballet? “Flexible men. Tight glutes,” she quickly responds. “I’m also most looking forward to interacting with an audience that isn’t accustomed to drag queens,” Akasha says in closing. “I’ve always believe that every time I pin in my wig and slip on my pumps, it’s an opportunity to change someone’s view on the gay community. I hope I make a few new fans and hopefully I find some dancers for pageants!”V So I thought, maybe now is the time. If I wait too long I’ll be too old and cranky and not want to do it. I was trying to create an organization where there would be opportunities and more opportunities available because I saw something in those young people. I wanted to create an organization that catered to dancers who wanted to work in a positive and helpful environment.” Move over Phantom of the Opera, it’s time to make way for Dracula at the Ballet. everyone goes to see The Nutcracker and Swan Lake. Eventually, you have to not only cater to young children, but also try to reach out to those who are between the ages of 18-39 who may not have children, but want to go see a story that’s interesting that doesn’t involve a fairy princess.” According to Sage, the Missouri’s Ballet Theatre’s production will follow closely to the 1992 Gary Oldman movie timeline. However, there are some components of the show that are not particularly suitable for children. “Someone gets their head cut off, another character goes insane, we’ve replaced Dracula’s brides with zombies – the show is really geared towards young adults,” he says. Not only are audiences in for a frightening good show, but they will not want to miss out on intermission. The Thursday performance will have a costume competition so all attendees
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Guys & Dolls
Dracula Dracula
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Paws For Wine Magic Chef Mansion - Strayrescue.org 10/3 With Summer over and Fall upon us, there is no better time to put life on pause, enjoy a beautiful October afternoon and help out Stray Rescue of St. Louis. Sample fine wines and explore the grounds of the magnificent Magic Chef Mansion, one of St. Louis’ premiere old-world estates.
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STLFW Boutique Hop Participating boutiques - 10/17 eventbrite.com
Harvest Festival Laumeier Sculpture Park - 10/18 Harvestfeststl.com
Josh Groban Peabody Opera House - 10/19 Peabodyoperahouse.com
Matilda Matilda TheThe Fabulous FabulousFox FoxTheatre Theatre 10/21 (Opening Night) 10/21 (Opening Night) Fabulousfox.com Fabulousfox.com
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Late Night Theatre is keeping the momentum going this fall with its twist on the spooky Halloween classic. Starring Ron Megee and Dirty Dorothy herself, Poultrygeist depicts what happens if you build a suburban house on the ruins of a chicken-processing plant.
Prost! Join in for a day filled with activities for everyone, featuring professional pumpkin carvers, live music, a bier garden, food specials, a petting zoo, face painting, balloon artists, a pieeating contest, and more.
Kristen Chenoweth & the kansas city symphony Kauffman Center 10/3 - Kcsymphony.org
The Three Muskateers Kauffman Center 10/9-18 - Kcballet.org
Brew at the zoo! Kansas City Zoo - 10/17 Kansascityzoo.org
Throw for a cure Sidestreets Bar - 10/18 Throwforacure.com
Da Vinci: The Exhibition Union Station - 10/23 Unionstation.org
JaneT JAckson Unbreakable Tour Sprint Center - 10/29 Sprintcenter.com
Screenland at the Symphony: Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde Kauffman Center 10/29 Kcsymphony.org
Running Dead KC KC Renaissance Festival - 10/13 Runningdeadkc.com
Good Samaritan Project Harvest Brunch Masquerade Event Hall - Gsp-kc.org 10/18 Join Good Samaritan Project to celebrate its 30th year in Kansas City! Because of continued support, the Good Samaritan Project continues to provide advocacy, care, and education to people affected by HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections in the Greater Kansas City area.
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SUNDAY FUNDAY!
Asian infused brunch, the best bloody Mary's & miss Leon's fried chicken From 4pm ~ close!
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Eden’s nectar 1 oz Pearl Cherry Vodka ½ oz Melon liquor Lemonade
Amber Maloney
Served over ice, garnished with a lemon.
Working at Rehab for a little over three months now, Amber has quickly become a favorite bartender at the popular Grove destination. “Saturday nights are my favorite nights to work because we have our drag shows,” she says. Saturday is the busiest night at Rehab, to no surprise, so it’s the night to catch all of your favorite bartenders at Rehab making their favorite drinks. “I love my coworkers and the atmosphere here,” she continues. “When you enjoy what you do, it never feels like ‘work.’” And when Amber’s not at “work,” she stays busy attending nursing school. So if she’s not unwinding with her co-workers, a night in to study and a snuggle session with her cats sounds just about right. “But don’t worry- I’m only like 50% crazy cat lady,” she laughs.
Rehab bar & Grill “The atmosphere at Rehab is relaxed and fun!” Amber says. “We just want everyone to have a great time and to look forward to coming back again. Rehab is an integral piece of the Grove because we accept everyone.” And at Rehab, there’s no pressure to be anyone but yourself. They are all about laughter, frivolity, and fun, so simply check the attitude at the door! That’s the philosophy of owners Jim Weckmann and Chad Fox, and a main reason why Rehab has consistently been a go-to destination in The Grove. With specialty drinks, a large selection of beer and spirits, excellent food, darts, a pool table and live entertainment, there’s truly something for anyone at Rehab.
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