Southern Oklahoma Living Magazine-Holiday Edition 2014

Fashionable Fall Decor TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HOME LOOK THE PART IN AUTUMN Pg. 12

Alternative Christmas Trees: Not your average holiday look Pg. 20 Festival of Lights shines bright after humble beginnings Pg. 40

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Contents

Happy Holidays from the Publisher

By Kim Benedict

Features Keep the Kids Learning While on Break

By Laura Eastes

Fall Fashions: Table Decorating for the Fall

By Laura Eastes

Switch up your Christmas tree with these fresh ideas By Marsha Miller Bowl Bound: How far are you willing to travel?

By Micah McVickers

Festival of Lights comes from Humble beginnings By Michael Pineda

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Other Items

Picture Perfect: Nail that Christmas Card photo this year ........................................................... 22

Holiday Calendar ............................................... 8

Chickasaw Nation: Ready for the Holidays: ....... 36

Cross Timbers: Past to Present ................... 16

Holiday on the Hardwood: Ardmore Holiday Tournament fast approaches ............................ 38

Outdoors: ‘Hunters in the know let young bucks grow’...................................................................... 19

About the Cover

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ALT get a ‘Clue’ for next show ....................... 42

Holiday 2014

Vol. 1, No.

PUBLISHER Kim Benedict ADVERTISER DIRECTOR Natalie Cockran ADVERTISING SALES Ashley White Tracey Aviles STAFF WRITERS Marsha Miller Michael Pineda Scott Joiner Micah McVickers Laura Eastes CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Harry Galoob Rick Baggett Kaye Seeliger Andrea Anderson Leila Lenore Trevor Potts Kristy Crutchfield Cox Gene Lehmann Kevin Kerr Leslie Christian GRAPHICS/PRODUCTION Julie Chamberlain Cathy Roberts Amanda Wyatt LAYOUT/DESIGN Kevin Kerr STAFF PHOTOGRAPHY Michael Pineda Laura Eastes Marsha Miller Scott Joiner COVER PHOTOGRAPHY Charrie Shockey CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHY The Chickasaw Nation Charles B. Goddard Center Metro Creative Services

DISTRIBUTION Charlie Ammons CIRCULATION Arlene Austin BUSINESS OFFICE Kathy Worley Kathy Keeton

THE ARDMOREITE

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oon it will be Christmas, and Santa is gearing up to travel around the world once again.

But this year, he’ll have a few extra helpers with him.

These three pitbulls posing with Santa Claus are from the Ardmore Animal Shelter and were nominated to be Santa’s honorary reindeer. These three are helping Santa raise awareness of the need for good homes for the countless other animals that come through the Ardmore Animal Shelter’s doors every day.

If you are interested in adopting this holiday season, visit the Ardmore Animal Shelter at 321 Carol Brown Blvd. in Ardmore.

Established 1893 117 W. Broadway P.O. Box 1328 Ardmore, OK 73401 (580) 223-2200

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From the Publisher

So many holidays, in such little time, for southern Oklahoma

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t’s a boo-licious time of year, leading into Thanksgiving, then Christmas, Hanukkah and Kwanza and the end of this year and the beginning of 2015.

It doesn’t seem quite fair that we pack so much fun and festivity into the last three months of the year, but that’s just the way it is and in southern Oklahoma we make the most of it.

As the air turns crisp and cool, outdoor activities require jackets and the ubiquitous hoodies, generally adorned with our favorite high school or university name or mascot. Water elements in our gardens and parks are quieted and fire pits and bon fires take center stage for quiet conversations on the deck or an after-the-game gathering.

Summer’s colorful annuals make way for fall perennials and colorscapes move from hot pinks and purples to autumn’s gold and Kim Benedict burgundies. The beauty of our area doesn’t dim, but revels in the change of seasons. And while some may think our Christmas cover is a little premature, this is our last edition of the year and we wanted a cover that would carry us through the holiday season.

Time has passed quickly this year and it’s hard to believe we’ve put out four editions of this magazine that celebrates our region and our residents. The positive feedback for Southern Oklahoma Living has been gratifying and there’s been such an over-the-counter demand in our office that we’ve included a mail subscription form in this edition for out-of-towners that don’t subscribe to The Ardmoreite, but want to take advantage of the advertising offers and quality content that speaks to our mid-western values and quality of life.

The calendar of events on pages 8 and 9 provides entertainment opportunities for everyone. The volume and diversity of activities is almost as amazing as the talented organizers, performers, artists and volunteers that make so many things possible.

If you have a small space or just aren’t up for a large Christmas tree this year, check out some stylish and unique alternatives on page 20. We also have some simple decorating ideas on page12 that will take your table from everyday, to holiday.

Our columnists, as always, will make you laugh, smile and provide questions and concepts that may provide a springboard for thought and discussion.

Thank you to everyone that has participated in the journey this year – our advertisers, contributors, the amazing staff at The Ardmoreite and you, our readers and supporters. I look forward to what next year brings as Southern Oklahoma Living continues to evolve. If you have comments or suggestions, please email me at kim.benedict@ardmoreite.com.

Best wishes to you and yours for a safe and happy holiday season!

Kim Benedict, Publisher Southern Oklahoma Living magazine

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all is officially here.

Cold weather enthusiasts look forward to snow and the Christmas season. However, some of us are already looking forward to spring and next summer. We have put on a few pounds, our body is not as fit and we are a year older. We look in the mirror and a sense of dread and concern arises. “OMG- I see a wrinkle”… “I don’t remember that flab on my stomach”….. and… “How in the world am I going to fit into that new swimsuit next year? “ You should plan your strategy for next summer before it gets here. Cosmetic surgical procedures such as breast augmentation, breast lifting, liposuction, tummy tuck, facelifting, eyelid plasty and skin texture improvement are commonly performed during the cooler “off “ season.

The kids are in school, vacation is over and now is the time to have those rejuvenating procedures. Since many procedures require some recovery, fall and winter is the “best” time for some “body remodeling”.

■ Breast augmentation — placement of an implant to fill out and enlarge the breast.

■ Breast lifting — molding and shaping the native breast tissue to make it perkier and higher on the chest.

■ Breast reduction — women with very large breasts may have neck, back and shoulder discomfort because of large breast size. A proportional reduction in the breast with lifting of the nipple area can dramatically improve discomfort while making the body look slimmer and more fit.

■ Liposuction —a small tube that is soft on the end is placed into the fatty area and excess fatty tissue is removed. (Be careful with laser liposuction.

Irregularity and injury is not uncommon.)

■ Tummy tuck — excess skin 6 Southern Oklahoma Living ◆ Holiday 2014

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How to be sure you look as good as you can look

Dr Harry Galoob MD has been in the practice of Cosmetic and Reconstructive Surgery for more than 30 years. He is board certified by the American Board of Cosmetic Surgery. Most procedures are performed in a private AAAHC certified facility. He also has hospital privileges at Mercy Hospital in Ardmore and Southeastern Medical Center in Durant. All procedures include the use of platelet rich plasma. Adipose derived stem cell therapy is available.

on the stomach is removed, the belly button is reshaped and the stomach muscles are tightened ■ Facelift —facial and neck skin is smoothed and tightened.

■ Eyelid and Brow rejuvenation —excess skin on the eyelids is trimmed, the brows and forehead may be tightened.

■ Skin rejuvenation and resurfacing — irregularities in skin coloration, dark spots , sun damage, wrinkles and some skin laxity can be corrected with peels and lasers. Deeper wrinkles can be treated with fillers or wrinkle smoothing (a simple release of the deepest part of the wrinkle) and platelet rich plasma.

Platelet rich plasma skin peels are available. Procedures are performed in our accredited office setting.

■ Fat grafting — fat is harvested from the stomach using a special liposuction procedure (yes, you also get a little liposuction included). The body’s healing materials are added to the fat to enhance growth (platelet rich plasma, stem cells extracted from fat).

The super-charged fat cells are injected to plump up deficient areas of the face and body.

All of these procedures can be performed in ambulatory settings. In my practice, they are performed in our private AAAHC accredited Surgical Facility using special local anesthesia techniques and sedatives. General anesthesia is avoided. Platelet rich plasma is used in all surgical cases to

enhance healing, reduce recovery time and improve the final result. In selected cases, we use Stem cells extracted from the patient’s own fat.

FINANCES Most cosmetic surgeons accept some financing through third party payers (Visa, MasterCard, American express, Carecredit). Some sort of convenience fee may apply.

New technology makes many of these procedures more affordable with faster recovery.

PLAN FOR RECOVERY Most cosmetic surgical procedures will have some recovery period after the procedure.

Plan for at least two weeks of reduced activity (a little longer for some of the larger body procedures) Many patients have much less down time.

The good news is that this is the best time for recovery since our bodies are covered due to the cold weather. This is also a great time to have skin resurfacing since sun exposure is at a minimum.

IMPORTANT POINTS ■ Set aside preconceived notions and stories of complications from the past. Find out the facts yourself.

■ Get your questions answered. Make an appointment for a consultation with a physi-

cian who is trained and experienced in cosmetic surgery.

■ Ask to see photos of other patients, and if possible, speak with other patients who have been treated.

■ Speak with the doctor personally. Decide if he or she is someone you want to have a relationship with. If most of your visit is with an assistant, the post operative care may occur in the same manner.

■ Check with your state medical society about the physician’s qualifications and certifications. Oklahoma State Board of Medical Licensure (405) 848-6841 www.osbmls. state.ok.us/ ■ If your physician is board certified, make sure they are board certified in an appropriate specialty, (ie. Cosmetic Surgery, Facial Plastic Surgery, Dermatology, Plastic Surgery, etc.)

■ Verify that the facility you will be treated in is approved by a national certifying organization.

■ Be wary of non surgical procedures performed in a spa.

There are various machines that claim to change body contour and skin using heat, cold, mocrowave and various kinds of lasers. These procedures are unproven (but well advertised), expensive and in some cases are potentially harmful.

■ National Organizations to verify qualifications of Physicians and facilities: — Accreditation Association For Ambulatory Healthcare (847) 853-6060 — American Board of Cosmetic Surgery, www.americanboardcosmeticsurgery.org (708)474-7200 — American Board of Dermatology, www.abderm.org (313) 874-1088 — American Board of Facial Plastic Surgery www.aafprs. org (703 549-3223 — American Board of Plastic Surgery. www.abplsurg.org (215) 587-9322

The Holidays T

he seasons of Thanksand by being still and reverent. giving and Advent and The holiday season is so many Christmas are times for different things. Stores are full of human grace — for goodwill colorful ribbons and paper and and for support of person by snow and candy canes and glitter person. Christmas is also, and of every kind and color. Homes first of all, the celebration of are filled with decorated trees, God’s grace. It is a time to stockings, wongreet our loved ones and even derful aromas, our larger community with and converthe hopes that our lives will be sations of made merry and strong by His gathered friends providence. and families.

There is a wonderful promChurch memise from the Old Testament bers are orgaprophet, Jeremiah of a righteous nizing caroling, Branch coming (33:14-16). What preparing gifts Rick Baggett for the needy, excitement, joy, anxiety, wonder, and speculation that news rehearing the would bring. One wonders if, in Scriptures leading to the birth the minds of Jeremiah’s hearof Christ, and practicing special ers, preparations began when music that gets into our very he spoke those words. People souls. could have begun preparing Thus, the task of the Thanksby thinking of joyous celebragiving and Advent season is tions, or of thankful and sacred preparation. As we approach times, or both. Perhaps a feast the Emmanuel moment, we and gifts were in order. Perhaps busy ourselves with the task of repentance and soul-searching preparing for the great promise felt right. And probably, as today, of Scripture, the coming of the there were both.

Christ. But every year, during Today, we prepare for the this season leading up to Christevent of Thanksgiving and the mas Day, we come home and birth of the righteous Branch. gather together with our family But today we know that righand loved ones. We reconcile and teous Branch as the Christ reunite. We share our joys and Child, and we respond by feastsorrows at this time. We feast at ing and giving gifts, by prayer, this time. We praise God at this time. We come home.

The holiday season is a time of homecoming. It is a time 14 for mothers to be “‘The days are coming,’ declares the Lord, ‘when I will fulfill the good mothers, fathers to be fathers, brothers to promise I made to the people of Isbe brothers, sisters to rael and Judah. be sisters, old friends to be old friends, and 15 “‘In those days and at that time for all of us to be children remembering I will make a righteous Branch the Christmas of our sprout from David’s line; childhood, its joy and he will do what is just and right in sometimes its pain. the land.

The holiday season is also a time for making 16 “‘In those days Judah will be saved great memories. May that be so for you and Jerusalem will live in safety. and for me this year.

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MARK YOUR CALENDAR NOVEMBER

NOV. 14-16........................................

NOV. 1....................................................

■ Fall Festival Arts & Craft Show: Ardmore Convention Center, Ardmore

■ Oklahoma Wine Walk: Brookhaven Village, Norman ■ National Weather Festival: National Weather Center, Norman

■ Duncan Art Guild Holiday Art Show: Stephens County Historical Museum, Duncan

■ Kenny Rogers & Ronnie Milsap in Concert: WinStar World Casino, Thackerville

■ Carter County Arts & Crafts Festival & Food Fair: Hardy Murphy Coliseum, Ardmore (Ends Nov. 15)

NOV. 5 - DEC. 15........................

Nov. 20 .................................................

NOV. 27-30......................................

■ Rising Stars Calf Roping Finals: Stephens County Fair & Expo Center, Duncan

NOV. 28 ...............................................

■ Ringling Christmas Parade, Ringling

DECEMBER

DEC. 1 ....................................................

■ Annual Silent Christmas Tree and Wreath Auction: Duncan

March for Babies: Sulphur

NOV. 7-8..............................................

■ Holiday Stroll: Duncan

DEC. 2 ..................................................

■ Crafts, Arts & Hobbies Show: Stephens County Fair & Expo Center, Duncan

■ 19th Annual Ardmore “Chigger Chase” 5K through Christmas lights: Ardmore

■ Dashing to Durant Christmas lighting and parade: Durant

■ Cleveland County Craft Show: Cleveland County Fairgrounds, Norman

NOV. 22 - DEC. 30

NOV. 9...................................................

■ Veterans Day Blue River Trout Derby: Blue River Fishing area, Tishomingo

NOV. 14-15 ............

■ Christmas in the Barn, Marietta

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NOV. 22 ..............................................

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■ Ardmore Festival of Lights: Regional Park, Ardmore

NOV. 26-30......

■ World Jr. Team Roping Championship, Hardy Murphey Coliseum, Ardmore

■ Christmas Parade of Lights: Pauls Valley

■ Parade of Lights for Shop with a Cop, Ardmore ■ Davis Christmas Parade and Chili cook-off, Davis

DEC. 3 .....................

■ Christmas Tree Lighting & Living Windows Walk: Tishomingo

DEC. 4 ............

■ Pat Taylor Memorial Parade of Lights: Ada

DEC. 5 .....................

■ Atoka Craft Show: Atoka ■ Brian White in Concert: Jack A. Maurer Convention Center & Theatre, Duncan

Thunderbird State Park, Norman, OK. Dec. 21

DEC. 31....................

■ John Legend in Concert: WinStar World Casino, Thackerville

DEC. 6 .....................

■ Atoka Christmas Parade: Atoka ■ Southern Oklahoma Children’s Christmas Parade, Ardmore

DEC. 7 ......................

■ Altus Christmas Parade: Altus

DEC. 11 ...................

■ Johnston County Christmas Parade: Tishomingo

DEC. 13....................

■ Duncan Christmas Parade: Duncan ■ Waurika Christmas Parade: Waurika

DEC. 21 ..................

■ Eagle Watch: Lake

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■ First Day Hike at Robbers Cave State Park & Lake Thunderbird State Park: Wilburton, OK & Norman

JAN. 4......................

■ Jennifer Fugate Run: Atoka, OK. Jan. 4

JAN. 23-24...........

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■ Chocolate Festival: NCED Hotel & Conference Center, Norman

CHICKASAW NATION ■ Nov. 20 – 22: “A Christmas Carol: A Live Radio Show”: McSwain Theatre, downtown Ada. ■ Nov. 22-23: Chickasaw Cultural Center Thanksgiving Celebration, Sulphur ■ Dec. 1: Third annual “Up Go the Lights!” Christmas lights tour: Chickasaw Cultural Center, Sulphur. (6 – 9 p.m. throughout December) ■ Dec. 3: “Chickasaw White House” historical Christmas light display/tour: Emet ■ Dec. 13: Chickasaw Cultural Center Christmas Celebration: CCC, Sulphur.

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By Laura Eastes he holidays of November and December, along with classes ending for a semester break, prompt days of no school.

While students eagerly look forward to those breaks from classroom time and homework, parents might be scratching their heads wondering what to do when the kids are home from school.

Families can use the time off from school to take a tiny day trip, traveling to one of the many great museums not far from the Ardmore area. Just because it is a school break, does not mean learning needs to be on a break.

Here are some of the many great museums and education spaces geared towards youngsters.

One of the premier museums in Oklahoma, this is a great place to go for better understanding of natural history, archaeology, fossils, geology and Oklahoma’s natural resources. While it might be best for teens and older, there is the discovery room, which can be great 10 Southern Oklahoma Living ◆ Holiday 2014

for entertaining and educating the younger children in a family.

The Discovery Room exhibit is a place to explore artifacts and scientific specimens in a hands-on environment. Think excavating dinosaur bones and touching artifacts, which is typically not allowed in the rest of the museum.

The room is also home to weekend programming designed for kids.

First at 11:30 a.m. Saturdays, reptiles, amphibians and fish are brought out for feeding time and staff invite the children to join them as they explain the animals.

At 2 p.m. Saturdays and again at 2:30 p.m. Sundays, Discovery Time takes place for preschool and elementaryage children. Programs vary each week but may include story time, crafts and touching specimens.

For more information, visit www.snomnh.ou/edu or call (405) 325-4712.

This is a place designed for family fun and one where adults will likely let their inner-child run wild. The Oklahoma City museum, which is also home to the Kirkpatrick Planetarium, will have guests enthralled from the moment they walk in the door.

There are a variety of exhibits, providing unique opportunities through an interactive learning style. New to the museum this year, is the Tinkering Garage, a space inviting all to investigate, experiment, design and create.

Visitors will be exploring science, engineering, math, art and technology all at once as they “tinker” around testing and interacting in the exhibit.

Other popular exhibits include “Gadget Trees,” “Eye on the Sky,” and “Mind Games.”

For more information, visit www.sciencemuseumok.org or call (405) 602-3760.

About 40 miles from Ardmore, lies a small zoo that is home to 130 animals. Known as the “best little zoo in Texas,” the zoo is open year round in its

location in Leonard Park. Highlights at the zoo include the giraffes who are fed daily at 10:30 a.m., weather permitting.

The zoo was recently nominated for Best Place for an Animal Encounter in DFW Child’s annual Best for Families awards.

The zoo is closed on Thanksgiving and Christmas Day, but is open through April with 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. hours.

For more information, visit www. gainesville.tx.us or call (940) 6684539.

A family might think a U.S. National Park is great for a summer visit with fishing, swimming and camping

options, but don’t forget hiking, bird watching and ranger-guided programs take place throughout the year.

A brisk but sunny day can be a great time to explore a hiking trail, which serves as an easy avenue to learn more about nature. Trails are marked with display boards, pointing out animals to be found and plants to be identified.

To make sure kids get the most out of the park, visit the Junior Ranger Station and learn about the Junior Ranger program for all ages. An activity book is distributed to kids which has different activities, games and puzzles kids can partake in while exploring the national park. Once the book is complete, a junior ranger will take home a badge, patch and certificate.

For more information, www.nps. gov/chic or call (580) 622-7234.

— laura.eastes@ardmoreite.com

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Home Decor

Fall Fashions Simple Chic and natural; Table decorating Photos, decor by Laura Eastes 12 Southern Oklahoma Living â—† Holiday 2014

in the Fall

By Laura Eastes

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utumn is a great time of the year to have folks over and entertain. Creating a fall table that is festive and bright is quite simple with so many natural items easily accessible that will produce a fitting table decor for the season.

First look to a local produce stand or garden center for loading up on pumpkins, gourds and even, squashes for creating an autumn tablescape. Think outside traditional orange.

Pumpkins come in a variety of shades, not just orange.

Green and white pumpkins mixed with a bright orange pumpkin have the making of a vibrant arrangement. Variety will create a unique look and don’t shy away from those pint-sized pumpkins. While small in size and cheap in price, those tiny pumpkins can be perfect for completing the finishing touches on your table. Uses for minipumpkins are countless.

Consider it for place cards,

“Green and white pumpkins mixed with a bright orange pumpkin have the makings of a vibrant arrangement.” cut a slit in the top for placing a flat card with a party guest’s name. Placing the pumpkins around the focal point of the table will give it the eye-catching looking as well as tie the table decor together.

With colors like orange, yellow, and white, mums can be a pop of color on a fall table. Nothing represents fall like pumpkins and mums. Like pumpkins, mums come in a variety of colors that correspond nicely with pumpkins and gourds.

For a simple and casual main centerpiece, cut a circle around the stem of a pumpkin. Make sure the opening of the pumpkin is SEE ‘FALL,’ PAGE 14

Used wine corks can make excellent placecard holders with a simple slit cut in the top.

“With colors like orange, yellow, and white, mums can be a pop of color on a fall table.”

FALL, FROM PAGE 13

at least the size of a salad plate, possibly more depending on mums. Scrape out the pumpkin seeds and wipe out the pumpkin’s inside. Next, place the mums inside the pumpkin to create a vase.

The end-result will be a natural, but beautiful centerpiece.

With a focal point created for a table, and gourds and minipumpkins ready for arranging, next look to decor items used throughout the year and already in the home. The mums, gourds and pumpkins will serve as the color. Therefore adding traditional candlesticks and white candles will complement the arrangement nicely.

For table linens, think simple and look to items already in the home. A traditional white table can be utilized, but if a table top is wood, consider having that natural-brown shine through.

Burlap is a trendy and cheap alternative to a tablecloth, table runner or as an overlay to a table cloth. Burlap table runners are easy to find at stores during the fall months, but purchasing the fabric and creating one can be a simple project.

When trying to determine a table linen, look to other clothes.

An infinity scarf can be used as a square overlay on a table. Traditional scarfs can also be deployed as table runners or as an accent.

With the elements selected, begin creating the table. If you have access to already changed and fallen leaves, be sure to place under plates, bowls and around the table for accents. The same is true of acorns. Home decor stores tend to sell fabric leaves and decorative acorns, as a back up for those of us in warmer climates.

There really is a variety of ways your fall table can transpire.

While the end result may vary, the table is sure to look seasonal, natural, chic and ready for entertaining.

— laura.eastes@ardmoreite. com 14 Southern Oklahoma Living ◆ Holiday 2014

CC Arts & Crafts Festival and Food Fair celebrating 43 years More than 200 booths

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xcitement is building as we prepare for the 43rd annual Carter County Arts & Crafts Festival & Food Fair, sponsored by the Carter County Association for Home and Community Education. The committee has been hard at work meeting and planning for this year’s festival. All spaces are filled with a variety of items and we are expecting many handmade items for sale such as jewelry, clothes for adults and children, candles, woodcrafts, canned goods, wreaths, western items, gourmet food items and more.

You will just have to visit Hardy Murphy Coliseum to see what is new in the world of arts and crafts as we are always amazed at how creative our craft people are. Over 200 spaces are filled and six food vendors are coming. You don’t want to miss the roasted almonds, Root Beer and home made soups that are always big sellers.

This year the committee consists of Barbara Swindell, chairman along with Kaye Seeliger, Phyllis Turner, Leasa Chandler, Angie Rowe, Judith Scholfield and Julie Maher. There have been many people over the years that have contributed to the success of this festival and Barbara, Kaye and Phyllis have seen this grow from the very first workshop. And how did this all begin? In the early 70s, with the arts and crafts craze hitting full force, Carter County Extension Homemakers held several craft workshops and also a “Show & Tell Workshop.”

People expressed an interest in buying these items.

on display Nov. 14-15

Our Home Economist at the time, Clara Kelley, suggested that the homemakers sponsor an Arts and Crafts Festival.

The first festival was held in November 1972 at Hardy Murphy Coliseum. The first show had only 23 booths but it was an immediate hit. It gave local crafts people and artists a place to show and sell their Kaye Seeliger handiwork and it gave people in the community a place to buy handcrafted goods.

After the first small show in 1972, interest grew and in 1976, the fifth year, all three rooms of Hardy Murphy Coliseum were filled with 136 booths being rented and a long waiting list of people wanting a space. In 1985, the 14th year, the demand for booth space was so great that the arena of Hardy Murphy Coliseum was opened and was filled with over 75 more booths.

In 1990, the food fair was added with food vendors setting up outside the coliseum.

In 1992, the name of the sponsoring organization was changed from Extension Homemakers to Carter County Oklahoma Association for Home and Community Education.

Over the years, there have been many people around Ardmore and surrounding areas that first sold their items

at our craft festival and then went on to open a business of their own. Without the support of the Carter County Association for Home and Community Education our Arts & Crafts Festival & Food Fair would not be the success it is now and has been over the years. Besides the festival, this organization helps the 4-H program with 4-H camp and scholarships, works very hard to support the Carter County Free Fair with workers, provides a kitchen for the Carter County Fair, the Carter County Livestock Show and the crafts festival, sponsors educational motor coach trips each year and offers a variety of educational programs and workshops.

This is a very successful festival for both the crafts people and the public. There are many people in the area that have not missed attending this festival and look forward to it every year and we have lots of shoppers from all over Oklahoma and North Texas.

Admission is free and parking, handled by the Carter County 4-H clubs, is $3 a car.

Door prizes are given away every hour of the festival.

Doors open at 9 a.m. on Friday and close at 8 p.m. and on Saturday the hours are 9 a.m. until 5 p.m.

You will find the crafts people especially friendly and the prices very affordable.

We extend a warm welcome to everyone to come and browse, visit, shop and take home his or her special discoveries from an event that truly is unique. We look forward to the future.

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By Andrea Anderson, Cross Timbers Hospice marketing director

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ospice is a special approach to care that combines medical expertise in symptom and pain management with emotional and spiritual support for those suffering with life-limiting illness. Each member of the hospice team is specially trained to meet the physical, social and emotional needs of the terminally ill and their loved ones.

Together this team develops a plan of care that enables special moments and memories at the end of life that would have otherwise been lost to invasive treatments and surgeries.

THE EARLY DAYS OF CROSS TIMBERS Cross Timbers Hospice was founded in 1981 by a

group of Ardmore citizens looking for a compassionate means of caring for those with terminal illness. The first staff of Cross Timbers Hospice consisted of two nurses that took care of patients in Ardmore. Because hospice was a relatively unknown philosophy of care, it was almost a year before Cross Timbers cared for its first patient.

“When I first started with Cross Timbers in 1983, there were only a handful of patients,” said Dr. Joe Hamill, medical director. “Myself, the social workers, and counselors had all volunteered our time.”

Cross Timbers Hospice, like most hospices at the time, was set-up as a nonprofit with the goal of providing the best care regardless of the patient’s ability to pay.

From the very beginning, the citizens of Ardmore helped make this goal a reality. The

(Left) The original Cross Timbers HQ was a converted home in 1981. (Below) Now, it’s a modern facility that has seen more than 5,000 patients and families come through its doors.

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original money needed to get started was given by an anonymous donor. Ardmore Little Theater and other area groups held benefit performances with proceeds going directly to Cross Timbers. Benefit garage sales and car shows were regular events in Ardmore. In June of 1986 Cross Timbers hosted its first salad luncheon with salads and desserts donated from area church and civic groups. These benefit events along with memorial gifts and donations allowed for the steady growth of Cross Timbers Hospice through the years.

CROSS TIMBERS TODAY What began as a dream for a small group of people in 1981 is now the premier hospice provider in Southern Oklahoma. The Cross Timbers Hospice service area now extends beyond Ardmore to care for patients in Carter, Love, Murray, Johnston, Garvin, Stephens, and Jefferson counties. Since caring for its first patient in 1982, over 5,000 patients and their families have benefitted from the care provided by Cross Timbers Hospice. Staff now includes two full-time medical directors and over 80 nurses, bereavement counselors, social workers, hospice aides, two chaplains, and support staff.

Cross Timbers is also supported by over 60 volunteers who gave over 1,500 hours of service in 2013.

Since its founding Cross Timbers Hospice

has striven to be at the forefront of hospice care in Southern Oklahoma. In 2013 the organization earned the Joint Commission Gold Seal of Approval by demonstrating compliance with national standards for health care quality and safety in home care.

Many members of the nursing and care team have also since earned national hospice care certifications. In keeping with its vision to provide the most-up-to-date care possible, Cross Timbers is in the process of equipping its care teams with mobile documentation technology. Having information visible across all locations of care supports timely decision-making and documentation which then leads to safer, quality patient care.

While Medicare and private insurance now pay for part of hospice care, the level of care for which Cross Timbers is known would not be possible without support from the people of Southern Oklahoma.

“As an organization we have been blessed beyond measure by the people of Southern Oklahoma.” stated Mark Dodge, executive director. “Without them we could not provide the level of care or amount of care that we do.” Due to tremendous community support, Cross Timbers is now able to provide over $1 million annually in indigent care.”

Now in its 28th year, the Annual Salad Luncheon is more than just a fundraiser for Cross Timbers Hospice. The salad luncheon has become an annual event that people from across Southern Oklahoma look for-

ward to each year. Many people come to the luncheon to thank us for caring for a friend or family member. For our staff and volunteers it is also a time to thank them for allowing us to care for their loved one.This year’s luncheon fed almost 500 people.

Preparations have just begun for what Cross Timbers staff hope will become its annual kickoff to National Hospice Month in November. The Inaugural CTH Memorial Scramble will be played at Dornick Hills Golf & Country Club on November 3. Registration for each 4-man team will be $500 with a shotgun start at 9 a.m. According to Anderson, “This is uncharted territory for us. We’ve never done a scramble but we’re getting great help and feedback from various people in the community. That, in itself, is exciting to us.”

Founded in 1981, Cross Timbers Hospice continues to operate. While much has changed over the last 33 years, the mission of Cross Timbers Hospice remains the same: to provide quality hospice services that give those with terminal illnesses and their families the opportunity to live each day to the fullest, with choices and dignity. With the support of the communities it serves, Cross Timbers Hospice will continue to be the area leader in hospice care.

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Goddard Center is Mosaic of Cultural Opportunities

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recently ran across a simple 18-word poem about the seasons by American Poet Stanley Horowitz, “Winter is an etching, spring a watercolor, summer an oil painting and autumn a mosaic of them all.” Poetry, like life, doesn’t always have to be dramatic, complicated or life changing. Sometimes, it’s the simplicity of the art, like Horowitz’s 18 words, to which I am most drawn. If you feel overwhelmed at the idea of getting out and enjoying Ardmore and the local art scene, I encourage you to just take in one event at a time as you build your own mosaic of experiences.

November is a great place to start by visiting our newest exhibit, “The Dark Side,” which will run through Nov. 23. This exhibit features fun and creative sculptures, paintings and photography by regional favorites Rudy Ellis, Natalie Garrison, Michele Mikesell, Nicole Miller, Yenphi “Mimi” Le and Barbara Weidell. There will be a free gallery talk about the exhibit at noon Nov. 6 given by Murray

State College art instructor, Alan Burris. A courtesy lunch will be provided at the talk.

It’s a wonderful opportunity for you and a friend or co-worker to squeeze in a little free art education.

The December contemporary exhibit (Dec. 2-31) will feature many familiar artists from Ardmore including LEILA LENORE Joann London, Zama Dexter, Madeleine Dodge and Ellen Van Eaton- Gilespie. An opening reception in their honor will be held from 6 to 7 p.m. on Dec. 2. There will also be another gallery talk and complimentary lunch with Professor Burris for this exhibit at noon on Dec. 4. Both events are free and open to the public.

Your cultural mosaic masterpiece won’t be complete until you’ve experienced a live performance in the Goddard theater. We’ve really strived this season to have something for everyone, every age and every genre. In December, we have two Christmas shows, one for adults and one for children. An Ardmore favorite, pianist Mac Frampton, returns to the Goddard stage on Dec. 2 to tickle the ivories with some of his holiday favorites. For our younger audiences we are bringing in the highly acclaimed Casa Mañana Theater out of Fort Worth to perform, “Junie B. in Jingle

Bells, Batman Smells” based on the highly popular Junie B. Jones series of books by Barbara Park. We expect both of these events to sell out very quickly so mark the box office dates on your calendar. The membership box office opens on Nov. 4, for both shows and the public box office opens a week later on Nov. 11. The box office number is (580) 226-0909.

December is also the time to get creative with your holiday gift shopping by stopping by the Goddard art studios and supporting your local artists. What a great opportunity to purchase your loved one something special while supporting local artists at the same time.

The holiday sale will be on Dec. 13 from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Dec. 14 from noon to 5 p.m. Our art studios facility is located on the corner of 1st Ave. and E Street SW (directly west of the main building).

The Goddard Center is located at 401 1st Ave. SW. Gallery hours are Tuesday through Friday 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. and Saturdays 1 to 4 p.m. The center is closed on Sundays, Mondays and major holidays. A complete list of activities, dates and times is available on our website at www.goddardcenter.org. To receive box office updates in your email please send me your name and email address to me at, Leila@goddardcenter.org and I’ll personally make sure you always know what’s going on at the Goddard Center.

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he Oklaharvest increased homa Dedrastically for sevpartment eral years during of Wildlife Conthis campaign and servation recently the overall philosocoined the phrase phy has taken hold above to help and it is here to spur a movement stay. The ODWC among Oklahoma obviously wanted hunters to protect Trevor Potts to continue the young bucks and momentum from advocate sound this accomplishmanagement decisions by ment and chose to target harvesting bucks in older the protection of young age classes. This is a phibucks. Statistics show that losophy which is widely in the 1980s, yearly bucks accepted among wildlife accounted for nearly 70 management professionals percent of Oklahoma’s tofrom across the country. tal buck harvest. Since this The ODWC used a similar time, the state’s yearling phrase, “Hunters in the buck harvest has dropped KNOW, take a DOE,” to about 25 percent of the several years ago to help overall buck harvest. This educate Oklahoma huntalone is an incredible imers as to the benefits of provement, but as we have harvesting does. This was all been told, there is still a really tough concept to much room for improveunderstand as generations ment. of hunters in this state It is a well known fact remember times with a that deer hunters long for terribly low deer populalarge antlers. We spend tion when harvesting a doe many dollars on gear and was a sin as they were the weapons, and countless fawn factory. The state was hours managing our huntin a rebuilding period due ing land. However, the to extreme over-harvesting statistics show that oneand commercial hunting. fourth of hunters are still Luckily for today’s deer not waiting on an older hunters, this is not the case deer, but settling for a and we are able to experiyounger deer. This statistic ence healthy and high deer only takes into account the populations. This original harvest of one-year-old phrase, accompanied with bucks, but there are still several other avenues of many two-year-old and education and managethree-year-old deer harment proved to be very vested every year. There successful for the state’s are a much smaller numdeer hunters and ultimate- ber of four-year-old bucks, ly the overall health of the and the number harvested deer herd. drops significantly for fiveDue to this success, year-old — and older — the ODWC knew that bucks. This skewed trend Oklahoma hunters were of harvesting younger not only open to learning bucks creates an unhealthy about deer management overall deer herd. The buck strategies, but passionate age structure is skewed toabout implementing them ward younger deer and the on their hunting grounds. buck-to-doe ratio is also The average annual doe SEE BUCKS, PAGE 25

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A change THESE AREN’T YOUR STANDARD CHRISTMAS TREES

By Marsha Miller

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he Christmas tree is a mainstay in holiday decorating.

This year the trend setters include multiple trees, either grouped in a single room or scattered throughout the house, and alternatives to the traditional tree.

What’s the purpose of an alternative to the beloved Christmas tree? Lots of reasons — from a desire to step out of the traditional holiday decorating box to those living on their own for the first time without space or the cash needed for a full-blown decorated tree. Then there are those who want the combination of the traditional and the out of the ordinary.

The good thing about alternative Christmas trees is just about anything goes. But one of the hottest looks this

season is trees sketched on a painter’s canvas turned chalkboard. Painter’s canvases come in a wide variety of sizes, allowing the individual user to decide how much of a size statement they want to make.

The canvases are easily turned into chalkboards by simply applying multiple coats of chalkboard paint and allowing sufficient curing time.

Additionally, chalk has been upgraded from school-house white and pastels to a full range of colors and is readily available.

The best part about creating a chalk board Christmas tree is it can be recreated over and over and over, giving each member of the family and or friends the chance to design their own tree. In fact, multiple boards could be grouped together to combine this year’s other trend, caroling. The more trees, the merrier.

ge from tradition Artist canvas chalk boards can easily be reused for other holidays but their ability to add a decorative touch doesn’t rely on holiday themes. The boards can become a part of a family or great room with the addition of a bowl or pail of chalk at the ready to offer endless family/friends doodling entertainment and an ever changing art piece. Those who want a more traditional look can place the canvas in frames.

Plain suits styles ranging from modern and minimalistic to rustic.

Artist canvases are also the background for Christmas ball ornament trees. Again the canvases come in a wide range of sizes and prices, and Christmas balls can be found in a variety of prices from high dollar vintage and designer selections to price savvy choices. Canvases can be painted or left plain. Trees begin with rows of large or medium size balls to create a basic triangle tree shape.

Dimension is achieved by gluing smaller balls on top of the basic shape to fill in spaces and build up texture.

Since such trees are personal works of art the designer can express themselves by using a

single color in a variety used to support a large tree of textures and sizes branch decorated with one or or a variety of color more Christmas tree decoraand patterns. Fintions. Other ideas would be “The ished projects to use the pail to hold a can be framed fragrant rosemary plant best or not. Hung trained in the shape of on a wall, a tree or even a small leaned evergreen tree. Kept against a watered and given hearth, light, the roseused mary or evercreating a chalk with green can be an planted in the yard after the holidays. recreated over and over A

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holiday mode. It’s just one more example of stepping outside the box and finding new ways to celebrate the holidays with alternative Christmas trees.

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look around the house will also bring to light a number of other items that can be used as alternative Christmas trees, such as a tripod.

Placed on a plaid blanket tree skirt, topped with a big holiday bow, and surrounded by gifts a tripod easily slips into simplistic

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Picture Pe

Tips for the perfect Christmas Card photo

By Marsha Miller

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t never fails, every year at least one appears in the mailbox — that picture perfect family photo Christmas card.

A single glance at those relaxed, smiling faces posed against a delightful backdrop sets the mind reeling with but a single question. Is it really possible to capture such a photo or is the card some sort of trickery intended to make other families feel guilty because they can’t manage to achieve that perfect holiday magic?

The answer? Yes, (fill in your name), you too can take the

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perfect Christmas card photo. How? Local professional photographers, Steve Biehn and Charrie Shockey, say it all starts with advanced planning.

“The ideal family Christmas card photo doesn’t necessarily have to be taken during the holiday season. I know one family that keeps Santa hats in their car all year long. When the family is somewhere all together they put the hats on and snap

some photos — like if they’re visiting Washington, DC, they might put the hats on and take a photo in front of the White House,” Biehn said.

If the family includes small children and/or pets Shockey’s advice includes making sure little ones have had naps and have been fed to avoid cranky or woeful faces. She also suggests enlisting the aid of an assistant.

“You really need someone, preferably someone the children or pets are familiar with, to hold the squeaky toy that will get the kids to smile or laugh and get the pet’s attention,” she said.

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But avoid direct sunlight and be sure to watch for shadows and streaks of light that might come through trees.

Once the picture is planned it’s time for the actual photo shoot. Make sure everyone’s hair is combed, faces are clean and everyone is in their place. Here are some more tips to help achieve that perfect photo: ■ Take the picture at eye level and have everyone look directly at the camera and smile ■ Check for the unexpected — does it appear a tree limb is growing out of a family member’s head or are other objects claiming the limelight. Always take a second and even a third look at the background ■ Make sure the photo is slightly off center. It’s the number one rule that will turn a good picture into a great one “I call it the bulls eye factor,” Biehn explained. “The picture should not be perfectly centered and don’t just think horizontally, think vertically.”

Shockey’s and Biehn’s final tip? Be prepared to take lots and lots of shots, just like the professionals do, in order to achieve that picture perfect photo that will make your holiday card memorable.

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Ardmore history kept alive during the holidays

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or many, the fall means a trip to the Ardmore Main Street Authority to purchase a new Christmas ornament. Of course, not all ornaments are created equal and there is something near and dear to Ardmoreites when it comes to purchasing ornaments at the authority.

Each year, a design committee chooses a historical building to be highlighted for the year.

Once a building is selected, ornaments are ordered and arrive at the beginning of November.

Those ornaments are sold for $15 and, this year, the Veterans Home is one of the top options being considered.

“It’s a wonderful project for the design committee,” Dixie Harper, committee member said. “It keeps alive some of the history of Ardmore. It’s a very popular project and many former Ardmoreites are enthusiastic about having a memento

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of their hometown.”

Stephanie French, Ardmore Main Street Authority administrative assistant, said some years are more popular than others and once the particular ornament is sold out, they are out of circulation for good.”

“We are completely out of eight ornaments,” she said.

“They are limited and if you don’t get them when they come out, you will miss out.”

In addition to the new build-

BUCKS, FROM PAGE 19 typically skewed toward a higher doe population. It has been shown to also create a longer fawning season the following year, which puts more fawns at risk for predation during the critical days after their birth.

Needless to say, the take-home point is

ing, the authority keeps the unsold ornaments on display and for sale. The cost for those ornaments is $5. Among the featured buildings that are beginning to dwindle in stock are: ■Tivoli Theatre — 50 ■Central Park Pavilion — 45 ■St. Philips — 47 ■First United Methodist Church — 60 ■First Presbyterian — 57

that harvesting young bucks has a negative impact on the deer herd. In addition, harvesting young bucks obviously takes hunters further away from their goals of harvesting older deer with large antlers.

A whitetail buck spends the majority of its early years investing in the health and size of its body, not its antlers. Once its body has reached maturity, many believe at four or five years old, it naturally starts to show its true antler-growing potential. Most deer management professionals agree that an average buck does not show its true antler-growing potential until very late in life. If Oklahoma deer hunters truly want to manage their land for healthier deer and a more balanced buck age structure, then they need to follow the advice of the ODWC. Harvest does to

“The reason we keep them on display year-round is we have people that come in and want them,” French said. “They make really good gifts for staff members and those organizations that have a building featured.”

In addition to some ornaments that are low in number, there are some readily available. French said the authority has 300 ornaments featuring an Ardmore High School building.

“They would be great for high school reunions and could be made readily available in bulk,” she said.

French said the authority has varied how many ornaments they order each year but now orders between 200 to 250.

And although some are out of circulation, it is never too late to start a collection or make an effort to find the extraordinary gift or stocking stuffer.

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promote a balanced sex ratio and healthy population, and protect young bucks to allow these deer to reach maturity.

One thing to remember is that every deer hunter, beginner or veteran, is at a different point in their deer-hunting careers. No matter what the management strategy may be, we all have to start somewhere. Deer management professionals understand it and try to stress this point, but also advocate for each hunter to think about this before they decide to harvest a deer. Is this deer the right one for me? Is he older than last year’s buck? Will I really be happy after I make the shot? Should I harvest a doe and wait for a more mature buck?

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Seen on Scene

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Seen on Scene

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n the stands for all of his son’s events since the fourth grade, Stillwater is no exception for Mike Muncrief.

Neither, in fact, are road games.

An employee of the Oklahoma Department of Transportation, Muncrief is the father of Oklahoma State junior wide receiver — and 2012 Madill graduate — Caleb Muncrief. As a member of the traveling team, Caleb gets four tickets to every football game.

Whether it’s in Stillwater, or Tucson, Ariz., Mike Muncrief said it’s important to him to support his son.

His employer is gracious.

“They’ve never not let me go,” Mike Muncrief said.

“Wherever he’s been, I’ve been. It’s just part of it.

“They’re up there paying the price that they’re paying, sacrificing, the commitment it takes at that level, then I want him to know that I support him. Whether he’s on the field playing, or whether he’s playing a less significant role, I’m going to be there.”

Whether the playoff is better for OSU and OU fans is obviously unknown.

In contrast, college football is volatile.

Should the Cowboys earn a spot in the playoff, AT&T Stadium will host the national championship game, which is a good thing for OSU fans. Expenses to attend the semifinal game

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may be a little more palatable since the championship game is essentially in their backyard.

“Regardless of where it was at,” Mike Muncrief said, “should Oklahoma State make it through that gauntlet, — obviously, the closer the geographics, the better it is financially and time-wise — you figure a way to be there.”

Nonetheless, those college football powers-that-be would benefit themselves to make further changes. For instance, have the higher-seeded team host the playoff game. The onus is already on schools to challenge themselves in a non-conference slate. What better incentive can you give college kids than the chance to play in front of many of their own fans — with the stakes somehow higher than they are during the regular season?

“I would like that,” Kenneth Muncrief, grandfather to Caleb, said regarding playoff games at home. “I think if it expanded to eight teams, I would especially like (it).

“I’ve been for a playoff for years,” he said. “I guess we’ll have to wait to see if it works out.”

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Lee Daube is also uncertain concerning the current model — one semifinal is at the Sugar Bowl in New Orleans, and the other is at the Rose Bowl in Pasadena, Calif.

“That’s like a vacation you have to take, to travel that distance,” he said.

“I went to the (bowl game) at Cowboys Stadium two years ago, but after we went to back-to-back championship games, I guess in ’03 and ’04, my wife said, ‘No more bowl games.’

“I just wish I would’ve gone (to the Sugar Bowl) this year.”

Daube doesn’t have as direct a connection with his favorite team, Bob Stoops’ University of Oklahoma Sooners.

That doesn’t mean his fanhood is any less. Saturday, he attended his 30th consecutive Red River Rivalry game.

His mind outstrips those in charge. He told me Oct. 2 that the playoff should double its current size — with a twist.

“The playoff would be better if it does expand — which I’m sure it very well could expand to eight teams — they need to have the top two teams have a home game for the first round,” Daube said. “That would be a crazy environment like you’d see in the NFL. In college, it’d be just as good.”

The antiquated Bowl Championship Series is finally history. Bowl games will obviously continue to occur outside of the playoff. But if your favorite team is among the four selected to participate, that opens a Pandora’s Box, a dilemma that also occurred during the BCS era.

Traveling is not a worthwhile expenditure for all fans.

Empty stadiums would be much less of a concern if the higher seed hosts the game. And that’s what drives this wagon: Money.

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Seth Nightengale, Ardmore “Scrooged”

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Darion Allen, Dickson “How the Grinch Stole Christmas”

Area High School Seniors

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Kanyon Knapp, Sulphur “A Christmas Story”

Grayson Sralla, Sr., Ardmore “Elf”

Hunter Sowders, Dickson “Elf”

Joey Sins, Sulphur “The Nightmare Before Christmas”

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Ken Grace “Home Alone”

LaDonna McAninch “A Christmas Story”

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reams. Those lucid images emergBut what about other dreams? of so many who work hard to creing from our subconscious; wishes Dreams that do not have a ate the life we enjoy in this small and hopes, passing thoughts blueprint or mortar and stone to town. of “what if ”, barely whispered words of be built by. No architect to design I declared this year to “get it “could I make this happen?” Living in the floor plan. What about the done.” Of taking a step much largsmall towns, we often times tell ourselves dreams of wishing for something er, a leap of faith, hope, and hard that certain more, to be crework. Of submitting myself to the dreams can only ative and find an eyes of those who judge literary This is my dream, to happen if you outlet for which merit, creative ability, and leaderKristy live somewhere one’s hidden ship potential. be a published writer. else. Once upon words can be read. Crutchfield Cox I entered one of the most coma time, in this This is my petitive writing conferences there town, no one thought a coffee shop stood dream, to be a published writer. is, “A Room of Her Own.” This conference a chance. We have Main Street Coffee and Some dreams start humble, finding fuel heralds the theme of Virginia Wolfe’s book Starbucks. Some dreams come true. We in the steps we take. Several years ago, I and life philosophy; that if a woman had have had dreams emerge of girl empower- started writing for the Wilson Post, small room and resources to write, she could ment programs such as “Girls on the Run”, town paper, readership over a thousand. create and manifest. I spent over a week dreams of a healthy community, and now Folks like to stay connected and I enjoyed talking myself out of self-sabotaging, we have Crossfit, American Ninja training, covering the local hopes and creations of the inner critic that questions my ability and even Fit Camps in the park. Seems our citizens. I became “published” for the shouted slurs to intimidate and diffuse my like dreams reshape our community and first time. A year and a half ago, I started confidence as I typed away. I created both lives. We now have a brewery, wine bar, writing a blog for The Ardmoreite. I wanan interactive art project and an essay revintage wear shops, upscale boutiques, big dered the streets, capturing moments and sponse to the theme “Writing Against the box stores and small business owners. We stories of our down town merchants and Current,” I read and compared the have arts and symphony, even the MET. townspeople. Honoring the dreams SEE ‘DREAMS,’ PAGE 45

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ast year, I jumped back into something that was very important me when I was still in school… I started singing again.

From the time I was very young to the end of my college career, I had been in choirs or music organizations of some kind. But once I graduated, all of that stopped for work.

Adulthood, right?

A few years ago, I was working for The Ardmoreite and got the chance to cover Ardmore’s Community Chorale and their annual Christmas Concert. I was astounded at the quality of sound and technicality of the group.

Most of what I had been a part of in college involved

scholarship students and already-proven music educators. But I can honestly say, this group performed at the same level with passion and dedication.

I had to take part, so when the opportunity arose last winter, I jumped at the chance.

I developed great camaraderie with all of the men in my section, and eventually the whole group, including director David Hobbs, whom I’ll get to in just a moment.

I was set. I had a great group of people to sing with again, a venue to do it in and a way to step away from the hustle and bustle of real life… my own getaway.

It was a pleasure to walk in every week and get those

full recovery. I have to think goosebumps once or twice that the will of those around a rehearsal — to challenge him, including this myself, and work with choir, were of great those around me, help to him. from both a teaching I don’t remember and learning standthe exact quote he point, was so refreshgave me, but when ing.

I asked him about Everything worked returning to directas a cohesive unit, as it Kevin Kerr ing the chorale, I should, and it was all remember this huge held together by one grin slowly stretching from man… our director. ear to ear, as if he wanted to I met Dr. Hobbs when savor that moment in time I covered my first chorale once again. concert in Ardmore, and It was apparent he loved was blown away by the directing this group as much man. He holds a position as I loved to be in it. as a respected eye doctor This year is no different in Ardmore, which in itself from the last few, but unforis already demanding. But tunately, time didn’t allow when he finishes his day at me to take part in this year’s work, he then goes to work Christmas concert. But I did on music. talk with Dr. Hobbs about His musical library must be vast, because he was pull- the selections he’s made, and you can bet, I’ll be right ing out stuff even I hadn’t there in the audience hangheard of, and I grew up ing on every note. with two music teachers as The people who dedicate parents. He knew theory, their time outside of their diction, phrasing… there normal work to do this was no doubt in my mind wouldn’t if they weren’t pasthat he was meant to be the sionate. As such, their shows leader of a choir. are a direct reflection of Then he informed me their love of music and perthat a few years prior, he formance. was diagnosed with an illI would be remiss if I ness, and it didn’t look didn’t ask each and every good. He missed a lot of person reading this to clear work, rehearsals, and even their evening plans for Sunshortened the chorale’s performances to just the Christ- day, Dec. 7, and/or Monday, Dec. 8 to come and hear this mas concert.

He told me some specifics group sing at Northwest Baptist Church in Ardmore. about his battle, and withEven if you’re not the “choir” out embarrassing him too much, I’ll just say that he’s a type, at least come hear what these people have been strong man and has made a working on for what will have been almost 3 months.

Dr. David Hobbs has been leading the Ardmore Community I can honestly say, you won’t Chorale for years, even through be disappointed. an illness that nearly sidelined him for good. Photo provided

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hile Oklahoma and Texas are in for a cold winter if the Old Farmer’s Almanac prediction hits the mark, that won’t slow the pace of people in Chickasaw Country.

Halloween is at bat, Thanksgiving is in the on-deck circle, and anticipation is building for a grand slam Christmas season with a full slate of fun, fiestas, galas and celebrations including:

A CHRISTMAS CAROL AT THE MCSWAIN The Chickasaw Nation will kick off the holiday season with “A Christmas Carol: A Live Radio Show” Nov. 20-22.

The Charles Dickens classic will be presented at the McSwain Theatre in downtown Ada and will enjoy a partnership cast of Natives and non-Natives alike, according to the show’s director James Wallace.

The play will be presented as a radio program circa the 1940s, complete with sound effects. Last year, the Na-

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tion presented “It’s a Wonderful Life” as a live radio performance to several sold out crowds at the McSwain. Shows on Nov. 20-21 will begin at 7 p.m. each night, while a 2 p.m. matinee and a 7 p.m. main show are planned on Saturday, Nov. 22.

UP GO THE LIGHTS DEC. 1 The Christmas season will be brighter for thousands of people in southern Oklahoma thanks to the third annual Christmas lights tour at the Chickasaw Cultural Center.

The twinkling Yuletide show is slated to begin Monday, Dec. 1, at the CCC in Sulphur. Dozens of displays featuring traditional Christmas themes and Chickasaw greetings are included in the dazzling drive-thru display. The free drivethru

light display will be open every evening from 6-9 p.m. during the month of December. More than 3,500 people visited the attraction last year.

The halls and walls of the Artesian Hotel, also located in Sulphur, will also be decked in holiday cheer.

CULTURAL CENTER CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION, DEC. 13 His schedule is hectic, but Santa has booked a return visit to the Chickasaw Cultural Center for Dec. 13. The annual event will include celebrations of several significant holiday traditions. A new tradition will be entertainment by the Chickasaw Community Choir this year.

Photos with Santa will be available in the Anoli Theater Lobby and a children’s Christmas workshop is planned as well.

The Chickasaw Press and White Dog Press will be unveiling four new books hot off the presses and authors will be there to autograph copies, a perfect present for the book lover in the family.

In addition, four Christmas movies

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are slated at the CCC. Movies include: ■ “Four Christmases” Dec. 6 ■ “Elf,” Dec. 13 ■ “A Christmas Story,” Dec. 20 ■ “The Holiday,” Dec. 27.

Cultural center officials offer patrons a special gift this season in the form of the world-class exhibit “Dugout Canoes: Paddling through the Americas.” The exhibit is on display at the cultural center through May and features ancient artifacts, information, interactive displays, paddles and other features concerning the art of crafting dugout canoes by Native Americans centuries ago.

A 400-year-old dugout pine canoe is awaiting viewing and a 525-year-old dugout cypress tree found in Mississippi also is on display as a special exhibit to the cultural center.

CHICKASAW WHITE HOUSE Make plans to venture just a few miles from Tishomingo to the small hamlet of Emet. There, in all its Christmas grandeur, will be the Chickasaw White House, home to Chickasaw Nation Governor Douglas Johnston who served the Chickasaw people from roughly 1898 to 1939. Restored to its brilliance — with period furnishings and appointments — plan to attend Dec. 3 when Tishomingo celebrates its annual Christmas tree lighting and living windows walk.

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Holidays on the Hardwood

By Scott Joiner

years. That team went 25-3 and got beat in the state finals. That was our

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he 32nd Annual Ardmore Holiday Festival is quickly approaching with the Tigers in search of the first tournament title since 2009 and the Lady Tigers’ first since 2001.

With a large number of alumni in town for the Christmas holiday, the tournament draws a big crowd that normally wouldn’t be able to see the teams.

“It’s awesome,” Ardmore boys coach Mark Wilson said. “It’s been going on now for about 29 years. It’s a community event. The people in the community look forward to it and do a good job of supporting it. The kids love playing in it.”

The tournament offers a good value for basketball fans with $5 admission granting access to four games on the first day and eight contests the second day.

“It’s a great deal,” Wilson said. “You could watch eight games if you wanted to in a day. It’s good and we get a bunch of kids that come out since they don’t have much else to do on Christmas break.”

New Ardmore girls coach Debra Manley has brought her teams to the tournament in the past and hopes to bring in more Texas teams in the future with her contacts built coaching there over the years. In the past, the first round has featured Texas teams facing Oklahoma squads.

“I brought my Paris High team quite a while ago,” Manley said. “I know it’s a big exciting thing for the community and I hope we can build that back up this year.”

As a visiting coach, Manley’s teams stayed in Ardmore and it offered a team building opportunity early in the season.

“Ardmore was always the big favorite, they were good in the 90s when coach Cliff Cotton was here,” Manley said. “It’s always been a great thing and was a great experience for our kids. I’m looking forward to being on the other side of that being the hosts now.”

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Two years later, the Tigers beat a talented Putnam City West team in the finals that featured two future Division “One played at TCU and another played at Oklahoma,” Wilson said. “We ended up beating them in overtime.

They hit a three at the buzzer to tie it Jermaine Gresham, best known for his football career in Ardmore, was a “He was good, really good,” Wilson Wilson’s 2014 boys team has a large group of talent returning, including leading scorer sophomore Marvin JohnArdmore Boys Baskerball Head Coach Mark Wilson

This year’s field includes girls and boys teams from Western Heights, Durant, Idabel, Witchita Falls Hirschi and Guthrie.

Girls squads from John Marshall and El Reno, along with boys from Carl Albert and Midwest City are also slated to compete.

“On the boys side, probably the biggest name is Midwest City,” Wilson said.

“They’ve been in the Class 6A finals in two of the last three years. We’ve got Guthrie coming back. They were in it for a while and got out of it for a few years. Returning from last year, Western Heights is going to have a pretty good team and we have Durant coming back. It’s a pretty good field.

“There are three or four teams that have a chance to win it — we’re definitely one of them.”

Wilson’s team won the tournament in his second season at Ardmore, which he remembers fondly.

“In my second year here we beat Bishop McGuinness in the finals,” Wilson said.

“That was one of the big wins over the

“We’ve got everybody back from last year except one,” Wilson said. “I’ve got five or six seniors that played a lot of minutes as sophomores and juniors.

We’ve got all of them back and our leading returning scorer was a freshman last year. On paper, we look like we ought to have a pretty good year.

“We should be better than the last two years. We were pretty young and inexperienced. They’ve got a lot of experience now.

We had a really good summer. Team camp went well.”

Johnson, at 6-foot-2, poses match-up problems and can get to the rim with ease.

He had a strong AAU season and is garnering attention from college scouts.

“He gets letters here and there — he’s getting some looks,” Wilson said. “If he goes and gets better he’ll get some more.”

The Lady Tigers should also be strong, losing just one senior on last year’s team.

“We didn’t lose a lot,” Manley said. “But, anytime you have a new coach and a new system it’s slow going. The kids are doing well. We have some athletes. I’m looking forward to it. If we can get them all on the same page and get it together by then, I’m excited to see what we can do.”

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Deer Creek — 2013 Ft. Smith Northside, Ark. — 2012 Ft. Smith Northside, Ark. — 2011 Ft. Smith Northside, Ark. — 2010 Yukon — 2009 Tulsa Edison — 2008 Ft. Smith Northside, Ark. — 2007 Ft. Smith Northside, Ark. — 2006 Rogers, Ark. — 2005 Wylie, Tex. — 2004 Mustang — 2003 Mustang — 2002 Ardmore — 2001 Ardmore— 2000 Ardmore — 1999 El Reno — 1998 Star Spencer — 1997 Lawton — 1996 Ardmore — 1995 Del City — 1994 Norman — 1993 Mustang — 1992 Star Spencer — 1991 Mustang — 1990 El Reno — 1989 Lawton — 1988

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Festival of Lights now one of southern Oklahoma’s premiere holiday events

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rom humble beginnings, the Ardmore Festival of Lights has grown from an exhibit of 10 displays into one of the premiere holiday destinations in the state.

Spanning 1-1/2 miles in Ardmore Regional Park, the lights offer an opportunity to take in the holiday spirit with loved ones with a dizzying array of Christmas displays designed for holiday cheer.

The origin of the festival came through the Festival of Lights Auction in which funds were raised to light up downtown buildings. Funding was run through the Chamber of Commerce Foundation of which Bob Bramlett was a board member.

And it was Bramlett who is credited with

having a vision for something bigger.

Assistant City Manager Kevin Boatright, who served as the Parks and Recreation Director until this past year, said Bramlett approached him about something bigger.

“The lights were for downtown but he asked around to see if they wanted to do something bigger,” Boatright said.

At that time, there was $30,000 available to start the Festival of Lights. Boatright said he sat down with Tammy Townley, who was with the chamber, and they decided to move forward with the project.

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e Beginnings... to a couple of displays in Texas and showed them what we were talking about,” Boatright said.

The trip left a big impression as a consensus was formed to develop a display in Ardmore.

“The Ardmore Regional Authority kicked in some funding and we looked at the oval drive by the softball fields,” Boatright said. “We bought 10 displays and had to do all the electrical infrastructure.

“It was something. We got the word out and we basically had it open weekend evenings.”

The display left advocates of the Festival of Lights wanting something grander. And within a year, the authority had spoken with several foundations seeking to secure additional funding to take the Festival of Lights to the big time. Boatright said Jeff Snodgrass, a civic leader representing a number of foundations, helped make the dream a reality.

“Within two years, $150,000 in additional money was added,” Boatright said. “We had to run electricity to access the road leading to the lake in Regional Park and purchased 80 additional d i s -

plays. That is when it took off.”

Boatright said the regional park board went to the chamber that year to solicit volunteers and each group would receive a percentage of donations from the night they worked.

“The first year, we really had to work to get volunteers,” he said.

Times have changed as community and non-profit groups have filled the volunteer ranks for the Festival of Lights, which runs from the end of November until Dec. 30. Mita Bates, Ardmore Chamber of Commerce president & CEO, said over $9,000 was awarded to groups from donations gathered in 2013.

“We have had numerous nonprofit organizations contact us to volunteer,” Boatright said.

“They realized it was an opportunity to have a fundraiser.”

Fundraising is an important part of the Festival of Lights and the annual auction in the fall serve as the signature event.

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e’ve all played it, most of us have seen the movie, and at least once in our lives, we’ve referenced it when placing blame on someone.

“Clue,” the popular boardgame, turned movie, has also been turned into a stage show, and is the next presentation from Ardmore Little Theatre.

The show, which is a musical, is filled with every element of both the board game and the movie combined.

There’s comedy, drama, suspense, and even an interactive element where the audience picks the cards each night to determine the outcome.

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BOWLIN’, FROM PAGE 31 most electric atmospheres he’s experienced as a sports fan.

Isn’t that what everyone wants?

The national title game won’t occur in Arlington, Texas, annually. The contest to decide college football’s champion won’t always be in Texoma’s backyard.

Until Daube’s requested expansion comes to fruition, fans have to make a choice: If OU or OSU make the playoff, do fans choose to attend the semifinal game at the Rose Bowl in Pasadena? Or do you gamble that your favorite team wins and reaches that national title game?

The college season still has several weeks remaining. A lot could happen.

Despite that volatility, Kenneth Muncrief has not begun to plan for any scenarios for the Cowboys’ involvement in the playoff.

As a grandfather, he says he doesn’t need to spend much time to plan to attend his grandson’s

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games.

“I told (Caleb) his freshman year that if he made the traveling squad, that I’d go to all his games,” Kenneth Muncrief said, “and it wore me out.”

Of course, not everyone’s grandson has the opportunity Caleb earned.

Since the Associated Press poll began in 1936, Oct. 4 was the second time that four of the nation’s Top 6 teams lost in the same weekend.

Despite the Week 6 tumult that befell teams ahead of it in the rankings, OSU coach Mike Gundy’s team is a young one.

“It would be a stretch,” Kenneth Muncrief said of the Cowboys earning a playoff berth.

“By the end of the year, young players are not rookies anymore — they’ve played 10 games.

“There’s always a chance that they could be there.”

The No. 16 Cowboys’ only loss was the much-hyped game against Florida State at AT&T Stadium in Arlington, Texas, on Aug. 31 and “they played them pretty tough.

“It’s sure not out of the question that they could be there.”

DREAM, FROM PAGE 34 works of Maxine Hong Kingston and Virginia Wolfe’s famed “Orlando.” I perused the feverish written words of many years in the making; poems and short stories, long narratives, social commentary, thousands of words I have culled from the abyss of my writer’s mind. On October 1, 2014, I was selected to not only attend, but to be a Program Contributor for my Studio Hour “Currents” and a consultant for “Organizing the Writer’s Mind.”

One hundred and eighty four women applied, 35 are chosen for this honor. A total of one hundred women will attend.

Seeing the words “We are pleased to inform you that you have been chosen…”.

I immediately cried, laughed, and found myself suddenly a bit frightened. I cannot write here the words I actually spoke, but religious poop was a term I used. I suddenly doubted what I had done, of my ability, of if they

even made a mistake. They asked for a bio and a picture, luckily I have a good friend, Robert Smartt, who captured an image I sometimes forget exists, of me with hair and makeup. My friend Jill Daugherty slapped my hands as she sprayed and blended, taking my face from naked and raw, into something smooth and accented. I typed words of my life; husband and dogs, southern mornings, and taking risks.

Next summer, August 2015, I will spend a week at Georgia O’ Keefe’s Ghost Ranch in Abiquiu, NM. I continue to write a blog for The Ardmoreite, “Adventures in my Hometown”. I also have a personal blog at: “patriotichippie. blogspot.com”. I appreciate the readers who have supported me, friends (Katie Tremblay, Jodie Morris Valcasara and family who have kept me from climbing the walls, and The Ardmoreite (Melissa Mangham) for giving me that stepping stone.

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“Displays are supported by sponsorships, auctions and through the total resource campaign,” Bates said. “It has become very expensive to maintain the displays.”

Bates said the chamber foundation underwrites expenses for updating the displays and repairs.

“We also pay for overtime expenses and promotion,” she said.

The city pays for payroll and the light bill,” Boatright said.

During the last count conducted, 19,000 vehicles visited the Festival of Lights with an estimated 80,000 individuals. And with each year, a number of new displays are added.

“Midwest Display works with us,” Boatright said. “We have

displays sent back for repair or we trade out for part of their inventory. That way, we get some new displays for little cost. We start setting up at the end of September and once the Festival of Lights is closed, we take them down and are done by the end of February.”

And it is free of charge to the public. Donations are accepted; however, the desire to not charge was part of an effort to make the holiday spectacle available to everyone.

“When talking to the foundations, we wanted to try and keep it at no charge to make it available to families with children,” Boatright said. “I thought it was real important and it’s worked out.

“Many traveling through Ardmore said it is one of their favorite displays.”

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