The Bluffton Sun • June 18, 2024

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Backyard Pool Safety Measures

BY CINDA SEAMON Contributor

Thinking about getting a backyard pool or already have one? Here are some water safety tips for your backyard pool.

BACKYARD POOL SAFETY MEASURES

Many cities and states require certain safety measures for in-ground and aboveground swimming pools. But if your area doesn’t have specific laws in place, you should still implement safety measures to keep your backyard pool safe.

You can control access to your pool by:

• Installing and maintaining barri ers that surround all sides of the pool, such as fencing.

• Using a self-clos ing and self-latch ing gate. Ensure the latch is high enough that a young child can’t reach it.

• Using locks and alarms to alert you when some

one enters the backyard pool area.

• Removing above-ground pool ladders when they aren’t being used.

• You can also remove all toys and floats from the pool when they aren’t being used. These objects can lure a child into the water.

OTHER WAYS TO KEEP YOUR BACKYARD POOL SAFE

It’s important to review pool rules with your family periodically and ensure you’re practicing backyard pool safety regularly.

• Never swim alone, even if you’re an adult. More than one person should always be present in case of an emer-

• Adults should be actively watching any time a child is using or playing near the backyard pool.

During backyard get-togethers, designate an adult to be the pool monitor and ro-

tate responsibilities frequently.

• Teach your children to stay away from danger zones, such as pool drains and other openings in the pool. Clothing and hair can get stuck in these openings and trap swimmers. Make sure everyone knows how to quickly shut off filters when necessary.

Every backyard pool owner should also create a pool emergency kit that is within easy reach during an emergency. Include a standard first aid kit and a floatation device to throw to struggling swimmers.

ADD SWIM LESSONS AND CPR CLASSES TO THE TOP OF YOUR LIST

One of the best ways to prevent backyard pool accidents is to enroll children in swim lesson classes. They’ll learn how to swim, but they’ll also learn to respect the water and to recognize water safety concerns on their own.

You can also take a CPR, AED and First Aid class as a family. You’ll learn important lifesaving skills for a variety of emergencies. Classes are available in-person, remotely and in a hybrid-format.

Cinda Seamon, Fire & Life Safety Educator, Hilton Head Island Fire Rescue

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New Ice Cream Shop Comes to Bluffton

BY KAT RICE Contributor

A new ice cream joint just opened up in Bluffton on June 15th, and they have a fun approach to keeping us cool during the summer months. ChillN’s four step ice cream-making process was developed to ensure you get it totally fresh.

While most ice cream shops get their inventory shipped in from a truck, ChillN makes the ice cream right there in front of you. They start with a base of 12 percent cream and from there customers pick a cream like milk or alternative milk. Next, you choose a flavor from the dozens of options, then select your favorite toppings. To bring it all together, a server blends and flash freezes the mixture to -325 degrees, instantly freezing the milk so your ice cream is ready on the spot.

Owner Derek Cohen, a retired Marine,

and his fiancé, Samantha, an active-duty Marine, have been in Bluffton for two years. After retiring last year, Derek worked for the Department of Commerce and felt the work becoming redundant. He says, “one day we went to mini golf and wanted ice cream after and realized there was nothing open. We thought it would be good to have a place with more options and open later.”

ages two and eleven who he’d like to hand the business to when he’s ready to retire for good.

Derek’s inspirations are his two kids,

Like so many parents, Derek wants to give more to his family than what he had growing up.

“I have a level of excellence I want to provide that I didn’t get when I was younger,” he explains.

But running a business isn’t easy and there have been struggles alongside of the fun. Dealing with small business loans and self-doubt alone could have derailed the venture, but the

corporate structure at ChillN has been a huge asset to Derek and his family. In dealing with banks or inventory issues, he says, “they’ve treated me like family. With larger franchises, I wasn’t sure if that support would exist.”

The long-term plans are to open a second location in Savannah next year, with the location still to be determined. But for now, Derek says they want to focus on making the best experience possible here in Bluffton. Having felt welcomed when they moved here, it’s important to them to give back to this community.

“The product is going to be great; it’s just making sure the experience is just as good. The experience is what makes people come back.”

ChillN is in Brixmor Plaza next to Indy Karting & Amusement, stop by to watch the magic of nitrogen descend upon your favorite flavors. Follow ChillN on Instagram at chilln_bluffton.

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Historic Judicial Appointment Amid Calls for Reform in South Carolina Legislature

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As previously reported in this space, the South Carolina General Assembly adjourned sine die at 5 p.m. on May 9 in accordance with the law, meaning that other than conference committees and a handful of specific items agreed upon by the House and Senate the 125th Legislative Session is essentially over. Specifically included in the agreed upon matters to be addressed were the filling of a vacancy on the South Carolina Supreme Court attendant to the retirement of Chief Justice Beatty and resolving the differences between the House and Senate budgets.

We returned to Columbia on June 5, and in a historic vote, elected the Honorable Letitia Verdin of Greenville as only the third woman to ever be elected to South Carolina’s highest court. I have never been a member of the South Carolina Judicial Merit Commission, but as a member of the House and Chairman of the Judiciary Committee, I believe it is time to reform the judicial election process, and I am hopeful that the House and Senate will work out our differences in the Judicial Election Reform legislation pending in a conference committee of which I am a member.

I am an advocate of reforming the way in which we screen and elect judges in South Carolina to bolster public confidence in the state judiciary, reduce potential conflicts of interest and eliminate the opportunity for cronyism. However, I do not believe, and no evidence was presented during the judicial election reform ad hoc committee hearings, that the existing process has resulted in unqualified or unethical judges being elected; this most recent election is no different.

Six sitting judges from various South Carolina courts applied for the position. The Judicial Merit Selection Commission, operating under the law enacted in 1997, conducted an investigation into each of the candidate’s professional, personal and financial affairs and held public hearings during which each candidate was questioned on a wide variety of issues.

With the assistance of SC

Bar Association and local citizen committees, the screening commission investigated and issued its publicly available written report focusing on the following evaluative criteria: constitution qualifications, ethical fitness, professional and academic ability character, reputation, physical health mental health and judicial temperament.

All six candidates were found to be qualified; with three being nominated as provided by existing law. We are scheduled to return to Columbia on June 18 to consider the expected Budget Conference Committee Report along with any of the other matters pending in House/Senate conference committees for which the negotiation/compromise process has been completed.

Aside from the budget and Judicial Election Reform, Judiciary Committee bills granting a safe harbor for human trafficking victims, addressing organized retail (smash and

grab) crime and relating to coroner qualifications are pending in conference committees.

Finally, we are tentatively scheduled to be back in Columbia on June 25 to take up any budget vetoes from the Governor as necessary.

Next month I will provide updates on the final budget and conference committees as well as begin an overall review of the 2024 Session, which included the introduction of 687 general bills and joint resolutions, 837 concurrent & House/ Senate resolutions and 132 bills being signed into law.

While we may not be in Columbia on a regular basis any longer this year, constituent service is always at the forefront of what we do as legislators. Please call on me if I may be of assistance. It is an honor and privilege for me to serve the citizens of Beaufort and Jasper Counties in the South Carolina House of Representatives.

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Pro to Coach: Kieran McArdle Leads Lacrosse Surge in the Lowcountry

BY JUSTIN JARRETT Contributor

Every now and then, a national sports outlet will report on a former pro athlete who has turned to coaching at the grassroots youth level.

It’s hardly an anomaly in the Lowcountry, where retired pros across the sports spectrum hide in plain sight and occasionally get the itch to pass it on to the next generation. Former Cincinnati Reds stalwart Dan Driessen has lurked around batting cages and dugouts sharing his wisdom for decades. Former AllPro linebacker Keith Brooking could be seen coaching t-ball and youth football in Bluffton for years, and former Vanderbilt star and pro hooper Matthew Fisher-Davis led the Cross Schools girls to a SCISA 1A state title last winter. But young lacrosse players in the Lowcountry are benefiting from some-

thing even more rare — even around here.

In between his Premier Lacrosse League games with the Philadelphia Waterdogs, star attacker Kieran McArdle is passing on his knowledge and bringing world-class training to Lowcountry kids.

McArdle is a lacrosse legend on Long Island after starring at Connetquot High School before becoming the most decorated player in program history at St. John’s, where he was a three-time All-American and two-time Big East Player of the Year. The Major League Lacrosse Rookie of the Year in 2014, McArdle was a three-time MLL all-star before the league merged with the Premiere Lacrosse League and the Water-

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dogs selected him seventh overall in the 2020 Expansion Draft, leading to a league title in 2022, when McArdle was an All-Pro selection.

So, the guy has a track record.

McArdle made Bluffton his full-time home last winter and hit the ground running with the Lowcountry Rush lacrosse club, aiming to replicate the Long Island Rush program and continue the sport’s push into the South.

“For myself, growing up on Long Island, every kid knows about the sport and basically plays the game from an early age,” McArdle said on the June 5 episode of the LowcoSports Lowdown. “Moving down here six months ago, it’s been cool to spread my knowledge and introduce the game to a lot of kids and take the kids who have been playing and coach them up and really give them the tools and knowledge to be a good player.”

Lowcountry Rush launched with a clinic and tryout in January and formed travel teams for older age groups and a developmental team for younger players, providing an option for area kids who have often had to travel to Charleston, Savannah or beyond to find high-caliber club teams.

“I think a lot of it was they were traveling to those areas for a little bit better

coaching,” McArdle said. “My main worry coming down here was if I’m going to grow this thing, I want to have good coaches in place. I thought I was going to have some trouble finding that, but I honestly haven’t. It’s been great having the help because I can’t do this thing on my own.”

Among those coaches are Brooks van Esselstyn and Andrew Dromsky, former May River High School standouts who are playing at the next level and enjoying the opportunity to learn from a lacrosse legend while paying it forward to the next generation.

“I think it’s a big blessing for all the kids down here, for sure, and especially for guys like me and Brooks,” said Dromsky, who recently completed his second year playing at NCAA Division II Wingate University. “Kieran has been a great influence for us. We’re always actively learning, so his insight has helped a lot for my personal game and Brooks’ personal game, as well. The kids are learning how to play and learning how to play fast. It’s been a really good opportunity for everybody.”

Justin Jarrett is the sports editor of The Island News and is the founder of LowcoSports.com. He has a passion for sports and community journalism and a questionable sense of humor.

Town of Bluffton Celebrates Back-to-Back Groundbreakings for Two New Projects

NEW RIVER LINEAR TRAIL

On May 30th the Town of Bluffton celebrated the groundbreaking of its first phase of trail enhancements, which includes paving half of the more than 3-mile trail from Bluffton’s New Riverside area to the Sun City community. Thanks to a $2 million grant from the Lowcountry’s Legislative Delegation, this multi-million-dollar, multi-phase project will create a trail accessible for all and create more ways to enjoy this nature-rich trail, by foot or bicycle.

“THE MAY,” TOWN OF BLUFFTON’S PUBLIC-PRIVATE PARTNERSHIP BREAKS GROUND FOR AN AFFORDABLE HOUSING COMMUNITY FOR 12 FAMILIES

On May 30th the Town of Bluffton & Workforce State of Mind, LLC broke ground on a 12-home affordable housing community at 1095 May River Road. The town purchased this parcel in 2018, reserved for affordable housing.  The request for proposals for a development partner were issued in 2020 and the town signed the partnership in August 2022.

What You Don’t Know About Probate Can Hurt You/Your Family

BY LISA HOSTETLER BROWN Contributor

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With proper elder law planning, almost everyone can avoid the court process known as probate. Probate is a court-supervised process that is required after the death of an individual who owns probate assets. A Will provides instructions for how probate assets should be distributed. If you are planning to use a Will at your death, that means your family will have to go to court. If a deceased person doesn’t have a Will, probate assets will still be distributed through the probate process, but state law (and the judge!) will decide who receives those assets and who will be responsible for managing the estate. The probate process generally takes a year or more to complete after death and requires the filing of a significant amount of paperwork with the Probate Court. There will also be court fees which must be paid and possible court hearings. Skilled elder law attorneys design a plan for their clients that completely avoids probate court. By creating a plan that utilizes various techniques and strategies, assets can pass much easier and more efficiently.

In the majority of cases, it is better to move assets into a trust than to add a

family member directly to an asset. While adding a family member may avoid probate (if the asset has the proper survivorship titling), it can cause unintended consequences, including, but not limited to, having a lifetime interest in the sale process and proceeds of a house, gifting considerations related to Medicaid, increased creditor claims and the influences that divorce may bring.

A trust can be utilized to maximize benefits and minimize the potential issues. Trusts allow Settlors (the persons who create the trust) to create ongoing rules, requirements, and stipulations which will dictate a beneficiary’s access to trust assets. For example, a Settlor may decide to hold funds in trust for a child who is too young to be responsible with a large sum of money, or the Settlor may opt for a longer trust term to protect assets from the spouse of a beneficiary in case of divorce.

A comprehensive elder law plan that includes a thoughtful combination of trusts and asset titling can avoid the hassle and risks of probate. If you are interested in avoiding probate for the ones you love, reach out to a qualified elder law attorney for a consultation.

For educational purposes only. This is not legal advice. Lisa Hostetler Brown is a Certified Elder Law Attorney certified by the National Elder Law Foundation. 10 Pinckney Colony Rd, Ste 400, Bluffton, SC 29909 | 843-757-5294 | HiltonHeadElderLaw.com

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Bluffton Fifth Graders Craft Kindness: Students Make Toys for Shelter Dogs as Part of Service Project

BY MELISSA MCCULLOUGH

As they wrapped up their time at Bluffton Elementary, Ms. Bergman’s fifth graders decided to leave a legacy of kindness. They embarked on a service project that was not only a fun activity but also a lesson in compassion. The project involved transforming old t-shirts into braided pull toys for dogs at local kennels.

Sebastian Muller Renteria, one of the students, shared a bit of wisdom about the ripple effect of their efforts: “Service helps service go forward. The person you serve might help serve another person.”

The process was a team effort. Each student played a crucial role: some were ‘encouragers,’ keeping spirits high and ensuring the project ran smoothly, others served as ‘holders,’ providing a sturdy base and securing the braids, and the ‘braiders’ worked their magic to make the toys as durable as possible for their furry friends.

Coleman Loader, another student, said, “Our class loves animals, so it was a blast to make pull toys for the rescue dogs.” The toys they created help keep the dogs entertained and prevent them

from developing health issues due to stress behaviors like excessive chewing or scratching.

The project sparked conversations among the students about previous service experiences, sharing stories of helping at home and in their community. Lilly Callahan reminisced about her first taste of serving others in kindergarten. “When kids would need help with drawing, they would come to me and ask how to draw things. I was happy to teach them because serving others makes them feel loved and makes you feel needed,” Lilly said.

It turns out, this project also ticked a box for the Summer Bucket List Challenge by JustServe, an organization that matches community needs with volunteers. This was a happy surprise for the students, who learned they could continue doing service projects over the summer.

Lucas Perkins summed it up nicely, saying, “I think service is important for both you and whoever you serve. It helps both of you.” It’s clear that these young students are not just learning about service; they’re learning about life.

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A Brain Doctor’s Amazing Story

A remarkable nonfiction book, “My Stroke of Insight,” was first published 10 years ago and became a NYT best-seller, staying on the list for 63 weeks. It is a fascinating, near-unbelievable story. More importantly, the medical knowledge gained has been of great value for the continuing study and future of stroke treatment.

In 1996, a 37-year-old woman suffered a massive and rare stroke. It would take 8 years for her to fully recover from the stroke which took place over a period of 4 hours. That woman, Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, was a Harvard-trained neuroanatomist and her research “…specialized in the human brain and understanding how our brain creates our perception of reality.”

Dr. Taylor explains in her book what was happening during her stroke and how this was even possible. “As the damaged left side of her brain-the rational, grounded, detail and time-oriented side- swung in and out of function, Taylor alternated

between two distinct and opposite realities: the euphoric nirvana of the intuitive, kinesthetic right brain, in which she felt a sense of complete well-being and peace; and the logical, sequential left brain, which recognized Jill was having a stroke and enabled her to seek help before she was lost completely.”

Quote from the book: “Jill Bolte Taylor got a research opportunity few brain scientists would wish for: She had a massive stroke and watched as her brain functions—motion, speech, self-awareness— shut down one by one.

The information she was able to share about it was evidence that either confirmed or disproved current hypotheses about the human brain and advanced research, by giant steps.”

Dr. Taylor responded to inquiries about prevention of and screening for stroke, pointing out that “equally as important as prevention is recognition.”

RECOGNIZING STROKE:

S = Speaking problems

T = Tingling in your body

R = acute problems with remembering

O = acute off-balance

K = Killer headache

E = Eyes/acute problems with vision

PREVENTING STROKE:

- No smoking

- Eat quality food

- Prioritize sleep

- Be physically active

SCREENING FOR STROKE:

Dr. Taylor advises contacting your nearest hospital for information on any screening tests that may be available. This would be of special interest for anyone with a family history of stroke.

For Taylor, her stroke was a blessing and a revelation. She stated on her website, www.drjilltaylor.com, that “My Stroke of Insight” provides a valuable recovery guide for those touched by brain injury and an inspiring testimony that inner peace is accessible to anyone.

Of note, this author has written a related book, “Whole Brain Living,” which was published in 2021 and is available on Kindle and in audio format.

The Importance, Evolution and Safety of Sunscreen

BY JENNIFER C. WOLFE

Contributor

Sunscreen, a crucial component of modern skincare, protects the skin from the harmful effects of ultraviolet (UV) radiation. Its importance extends beyond cosmetic concerns, encompassing vital health benefits like reducing the risk of skin cancer and preventing premature aging. However, recent concerns about potential health risks associated with certain sunscreen ingredients have sparked debates. Understanding the composition, safety, and proper use of sunscreen can help

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UNDERSTANDING UV RADIATION

The sun emits two primary types of UV radiation that reach the Earth’s surface: UVA and UVB. UVA rays penetrate deeply into the skin, causing long-term damage like wrinkles and age spots. UVB rays affect the outer layers of the skin, leading to sunburn and playing a significant role in

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the development of skin cancer. Effective sunscreens protect against both types of radiation.

TYPES AND COMPOSITION OF SUNSCREEN

Sunscreens are broadly categorized into chemical and physical types. Chemical sunscreens contain organic (carbon-based) compounds like oxybenzone, avobenzone, and octocrylene, which absorb UV radiation and convert it into heat. Physical sunscreens, also known as mineral sunscreens, use inorganic compounds such as zinc oxide and titanium dioxide to reflect and scatter UV radiation.

Recent innovations have led to hybrid sunscreens combining both chemical and physical ingredients, offering enhanced protection and aesthetic appeal. These formulations are often lighter and less greasy, addressing common complaints about traditional sunscreens.

HEALTH CONCERNS

1. Oxybenzone and Hormonal Disruption: Oxybenzone, a common ingredient in chemical sunscreens, can penetrate the

skin and enter the bloodstream. Some studies suggest it may act as an endocrine disruptor, potentially interfering with hormone function. However, the evidence is not conclusive, and regulatory agencies like the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) continue to deem it safe at specified concentrations.

2. Retinyl Palmitate: This form of vitamin A is used for its antioxidant properties. Some animal studies indicate it might speed up the development of skin tumors and lesions when applied in the presence of sunlight, but these findings are not directly applicable to humans, and more research is needed.

ENVIRONMENTAL CONCERNS

Certain sunscreen ingredients, particularly oxybenzone and octinoxate, have been found to contribute to coral bleaching and damage marine ecosystems. This has led to bans on these chemicals in places like Hawaii and parts of the Caribbean. Opting for “reef-safe” sunscreens, which avoid harmful ingredients, can mitigate environmental impact.

THE SCIENCE OF SPF AND PROPER APPLICATION

Sun Protection Factor (SPF) measures how well a sunscreen protects the skin from UVB rays. An SPF rating indicates how long a person can stay in the sun without getting sunburned compared to unprotected skin. For instance, an SPF 30 sunscreen theoretically allows a person to stay in the sun 30 times longer without burning. Proper application and reapplication every two hours, or more often if swimming or sweating, are crucial for maintaining effectiveness.

The benefits of using sunscreen to protect against UV radiation and skin cancer far outweigh the potential risks associated with its ingredients. By choosing safer formulations, such as physical or “reef-safe” sunscreens, and following best practices for sun protection, individuals can enjoy outdoor activities while maintaining healthy skin. Ongoing research and regulatory oversight continue to ensure that sunscreens remain both effective and safe for widespread use.

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A Youthful Face in Three Steps

BY MATHEW T. EPPS MD Contributor

WHAT CAUSES A TIRED, AGING APPEARANCE?

As we age the quality of our skin, volume and structure of our face declines. As collagen, elastin and oil production diminishes and skin cell turnover rates lengthen, the texture and quality of skin declines and is further compromised by sunspots arising from sunlight damage over the years. The volume and fullness in our face is affected by loss of subcutaneous fat especially in the midface areas, bringing the muscles closer to the surface creating and accentuating the formation of lines and wrinkles and producing a hollowed appearance. The structure of our face is obscured by sagging skin because at some point in our forties, gravity wins and hides strong jaw lines, a youthful position in the brow and open and awake- looking eyes.

Restoring a youthful appearance requires three steps – addressing the quality of our skin, structure, volume and quality of our skin.

STEP 1: IMPROVING SKIN QUALITY

Tailored medical-grade skin care is the first step to healthy skin and incorporating non-surgical treatments can have a profound effect on signs of aging. Advanced medical grade skin care can help restore, protect and correct signs of aging with replenishment of lost nutrients, protection from sun, free radicals and intrinsic factors of aging and brightening skin from dyspigmentation and facilitating an increased turnover rate, producing healthy, youthful skin. Fine lines, wrinkles, and brow position (chemical browlift) are markedly improved with Botox, Dysport, and Xeomin when injected properly. Skin Peels, Hydrafacials, Microneedling, Lasers, and Intense Pulsed Light (IPL) accelerates correcting signs of aging and can be tailored to the individual and their budget.

STEP 2: VOLUME RESTORATION

Dermal fillers are the most modern addition to the plastic surgeon’s toolbox. Restoration of volume using fillers or fat-grafting adds volume and fullness to the face to improve and strengthen its structure affected by aging and factors of heredity. Dermal Fillers brands vary in their composition, qualities, areas of injection, requirement for treatments, and duration of efficacy. Some brands names include Juvéderm, Restylane, Sculptra, and Revance.

Using dermal fillers to restore a youthful appearance may delay the need for surgical intervention for some time, such as with a “liquid facelift.”

Dermal Fillers bring fullness to the cheeks, plump lips and improve dark circles under the eyes, soften lines around the mouth, strengthen the jaw line and can improve hollowing in the temples while elevating the lateral brow.

STEP 3: ENHANCING STRUCTURE

The most effective way to restore a youthful structure to the face with a strong jawline, youthful brow and alert appearance is achieved through surgical intervention. A Facelift elevates and repositions skin in the midface and improves the appearance of the jawline and re-creates a firm neck. Browlift re-establishes the natural eyebrow shape and placement at a height just slightly above the bony rim of the eyes.

Eyelid or blepharoplasty is possibly the biggest bang for the buck in plastic surgery with minimal operative and recovery time –modern eyelift reliably restores youthfulness of ten years or greater especially when combined with lower eyelid lift and facelift. Approach restoring a youthful appearance by addressing the following steps: improve skin quality, restore volume and the structure of your face.

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BY MARK WINN Contributor

“Trust but verify” is a practical reality-based point of view on how to deal with foreign powers. Ronald Reagan made the statement well-known when he was describing the United States relationship with the Soviet Union back in the 1980’s. In essence, he was saying we trust in the Soviet Union, but we require proof that our trust is not misplaced.

And so, it goes with estate planning. Let’s say you have directed your assets, once you and your spouse are gone, to go to your daughter “in trust”. You have given your daughter the role as trustee and beneficiary. The standard she has to follow in making distributions is for her needs related to health and maintenance in reasonable comfort and for her accus-

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tomed manner of living. You have also inserted a spendthrift clause which will serve to insulate the trust assets from attack in the event she is sued for anything from a car accident to divorce. Let’s further say that you have dictated that upon her passing, what is left will go to her children. You also direct that if her children are under age 30 when they inherit, that they will have their share held in trust until they attain age 30.

Now, you are confronted with the question: Who will serve as trustee for that grandchild? If you name the biological parent (the in-law) which we probably do in 90% of the cases where the issue applies, then it may be wise to consider naming a “trust protector” who will look over the biological parent’s shoulder, so to speak, or impose the obligation to report to someone else for purposes of accountability and oversight.

So, consider that Max and Marla have one child named Linda. Linda has one child named Benjamin. Linda’s husband is Bryan. Max and Marla could state that

if Linda passed, her share would go to Benjamin in trust for his health and education until he turns age 30. They could also direct that Bryan would be the trustee, but as trustee he would be obligated to report bi-annually to an independent third party of all receipts and disbursements from the trust. Let’s say they have required Bryan to report bi-annually to their lawyer whose name is Marvin. Now, that is a situation of trusting Bryan but also wanting to verify his actions are faithful to the terms of the trust.

Here, Max and Marla have chosen to trust Bryan in that unlikely circumstance, but they have also built into their plan a check against his authority. This check is oversight. Since Bryan needs to report bi-annually of all receipts and disbursements to Marvin, the odds are increased dramatically that Benjamin’s funds will be properly managed for his benefit. That’s good planning.

When there is no oversight, then power can become absolute. When power becomes absolute, there can be corruption. When planning your estate, the moral of the story is that you can trust your inlaws and you can trust their judgment, but it is wise to be realistic like Ronald Reagan was with the Soviet Union in the 1980’s.

Mark F. Winn, J.D., Master of Laws, LL.M. in Estate Planning, is a local tax, asset protection and estate planning attorney.

Mark Winn

Arts & Entertainment Calendar

JUNE 12 – JUNE 22

Bluffton Branch Library Special Programs. Nature Adventures at Your Local Park, with Passive Park Naturalist Destiney Rains on June 12 from 2 - 3 pm; and Adventure Film for Adults & Families on June 18 at 1 pm. Then & Now, Bluffton Library Services: An Adventure Through Time, with Grace Cordial on Saturday, June 22, from 11 am - 12:30 pm; Gardening in the Lowcountry: Plant to Attract! on Saturday, June 22, from 2 - 3 pm. For more information about this and other events/programs at the Bluffton Library, call 843-255-6503.

JUNE 17 – JULY 26

Summer Camps - summertime fun is ahead for ages 6 and up with the Arts Center’s creative, action-packed summer camps. Pre-registration is required for all camps. Register online at https:// www.artshhi.com/arts-education/camps.

JUNE 20 & 21

Palmetto Quilt Guild’s next membership meeting on Thursday June 20. Members, please bring your quilts that were displayed at our Quilt Festival in March so we may share them one more time. You will have the opportunity to tell us about your inspiration, construction techniques and experience participating in the festival. Meeting location is Island Lutheran Church on Main Street, Hilton Head Island; doors open at 11:15, meeting starts at 11:30. Then on Friday, June 21, there will be a Sew-In for Community Service, Quilts of Valor (QOV) and Boutique items for upcoming fall events. Please see the Palmetto Quilt Guild website at palmettoquiltguild.org for more details.

JUNE 25

LIVE – IN Person! Master Class: “Master Your Message!” Pick Up Your Mic, We Need To Hear Your Voice! Tuesday June

25, 2024 from 10am - 12pm EST. Presented by Dr. Jonas Gadson, DTM known as “Mr. Enthusiastic!” At the Don Ryan Center for Innovation. 7 Venture Drive #100 Bluffton, South Carolina 29910. You can reach them by email at: jonaswiththebonus@outlook.com and/or by telephone at (585) 703-9547.

JUNE 25

Jazz in the Park, from 7PM – 9PM at Celebration Park at Coligny, 94 Pope Avenue, HHI. The Hilton Head Symphony Orchestra presents six free outdoor concerts featuring the region’s finest Jazz performers, including faculty and students from the Junior Jazz Foundation’s Hilton Head Jazz Camp. Join us us Tuesday, June 25 in Celebration Park for The Tuffus Zimbabwe Quartet.

JUNE 30

Town of Bluffton 3rd Annual Independence Day Celebration, from 5PM – 9PM.

Fireworks will be launched from a barge in the May River at 9PM and will be visible from Wright Family Park, Oyster Factory Park, or by boat. Festivities include a brass band, games, patriotic prizes, concessions, food trucks, rock wall, bungee jump, and a bounce house. For more information contact: Lyndee Simoneaux at lsimoneaux@townofbluffton.com.

JUNE 30

Bluffton Independence Day 5K, 9AM, at Martin Family Park, 68 Boundary St, Bluffton. This race benefits the Mayor’s “Stay Safe, Bluffton!” campaign and student scholarships to encourage mindful driving on Bluffton and Beaufort County’s roads as well as reward students who are safe driving ambassadors. This 5K, professionally timed by the Palmetto Running Company, will also introduce

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the “Mayor’s Cup,” a trophy which will reside at Bluffton’s Town Hall and list the female and male top race winners each year. All ages and skills levels are welcome. Strollers and dogs are also welcome – the top 3 dogs receive an award. First 400 runners will receive a Bluffton Independence Day 5K race shirt. Race Packet Pick Up will be on Saturday June 29th at Martin Family Park from 3:00 pm – 5:00 pm. Martin Family Park 68 Boundary Street, Bluffton S.C. 29910. 5K After Party features local food trucks. Register online at runsignup.com/Race/SC/Bluffton/ BlufftonIndependenceDay5K.

JUNE – AUGUST 26 (MONDAYS)

Turtle Talks, from 8PM – 9PM every

Monday at Lowcountry Celebration Park, 94 Pope Avenue, HHI. Bring something to sit on and come learn about the nesting sea turtles in HHI beach and how you can help protect this endangered species. Free to the public, no registration required.

THURSDAYS THROUGH AUGUST 15

Sea Pines Dolphin Dash 5K - Join us at the Sea Pines Beach Club for the Sea Pines Dolphin Dash five-kilometer run/walk taking place along our beautiful hard flat beach - the perfect running experience on Hilton Head Island! Registration is online only and cut-off for registration is race day at 7:30am. $30/adult, $20/child (ages 12 and under).

Chicago is the one musical with everything that makes theatre shimmy-shake! This satirical tale of fame, fortune, and all that jazz has one showstopping song after another. The slick and sexy show is permeated with the genius of Bob Fosse and his signature dance style.

See why Chicago has been celebrated with 6 Tony Awards, 2 Olivier Awards, a Grammy, and thousands of standing ovations.

Summertime fun is ahead for ages 6 and up with the Arts Center’s creative, actionpacked summer camps!

Jamie Karen (Velma Kelly) in Chicago. Photography by Gustavo Rattia

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Explore the Surreal: Anthony Collichio’s ‘What Dreams Are Made Of…’ Debuts at SOBA Gallery

Get ready for a mesmerizing journey through the surreal and cubist world of Anthony Collichio at the Society of Bluffton Artists Gallery. His upcoming exhibit, “What Dreams Are Made Of…,” promises to captivate with its vivid exploration of dreams clashing with reality. Mark your calendars for the opening reception on July 12 at 6 p.m., happening in Old Town Bluffton at the SOBA Gallery. Dive deep into the unique blend of the imaginary and the real that defines Collichio’s style. Just a heads up, though—this exhibit is geared toward an adult audience, with some themes and imagery that might not be kid-friendly.

Anthony’s art takes you on a deep dive into his subconscious, starting with simple drawings that bloom into colorful canvases. Each piece reflects his intense

dream experiences, offering us a window into his innermost thoughts and emotions.

From a young age, Anthony was inspired by the likes of Salvador Dali and Picasso, thanks to his mentor Mr. Eades. This early exposure during a sabbatical in Spain clearly influenced his bold and sometimes surreal artistic expressions, which he finds liberating.

“What Dreams Are Made Of…” showcases not just his paintings but also his skill in sculpting with wood and bronze. Now living in the Lowcountry and immersed in an active arts community, Anthony continues to fuel his passion for creativity.

Don’t miss out on this unforgettable display of Anthony Collichio’s life’s work. Join us for the reception to meet the artist himself, enjoy some light refreshments and perhaps get a little insight into his creative process. It’s a perfect evening for art lovers looking for something truly original and inspiring.

Anthony Collichio

The Forest of Vanishing Stars

BY GLENDA HARRIS Contributor

This historical fiction novel by Kristin Harmel, published in 2022, tells the amazing story of a young girl, stolen from her parents as an infant (to keep her safe) and raised in the forest by her kidnapper, who had been a child of the forest herself. Intriguing, yes?

The theme is survival, the setting the dense forests of Poland during and right after WWII. At this time in history, the Nazis were scouring the forests for Jews who had fled the cities and towns. Traveling in groups both large and small, the many ways they manage to survive, especially during the harsh, frozen winters, is extraordinary.

Some of these refugees were lucky enough to encounter this young woman, Yona, who was left to fend for herself after her guardian died. An astute learner and armed with a keen knowledge of the wildlife, plants and terrain, she knew many of the forest’s secrets, including how to disappear into it.

Upon meeting these desperate people, Yona was compelled to help them. Although at first met with suspicion, she quickly won their confidence, teaching them to catch fish in the winter, identify plants and mushrooms and store berries for the winter. She showed them how to quickly build and tear down

temporary shelters, leaving no trace behind.

Meticulous details, both historical and as it relates to survival in harsh and high-risk environments, give this action-filled novel a stamp of authenticity, bringing to life the terrifying conditions endured. If you have read this author’s previous novels, you will know it is high praise indeed to suggest this may be her best work yet.

Recommended for fans of Kristin Harmel (other books include The Book of Lost Names, The Paris Daughter and The Room on Rue Amelie) as well as anyone who loves historical fiction and stories about survival and WWII.

ZION CEMETERY & BAYNARD MAUSOLEUM COSTUMED CEMETERY TOUR

TUESDAYS AT 10:30AM

Visit the gravesites of four Revolutionary War heroes and find out about the bloody skirmish that was fought just steps away. Site on the SC Liberty Trail. Corner of Hwy. 278 & Mathews Dr.

$10/LIBRARY MEMBERS • $12/NON-MEMBERS • CHILDREN 12 & UNDER FREE Registration required. HeritageLib.org/Tours

HISTORIC FORT MITCHEL TOUR

THURSDAYS AT 10:30AM

Fort Mitchel contains the remains of a coastal defense battery erected in 1862 to protect the Port Royal Sound by way of Skull Creek from incursions by Confederate gunboats. 65 Skull Creek Dr., Hilton Head Plantation

$10/LIBRARY MEMBERS • $12/NON-MEMBERS • CHILDREN 12 & UNDER FREE Registration required. HeritageLib.org/Tours

Chicago

Scandal, satire, and sizzling choreography are the tantalizing hallmarks of the Arts Center’s summer production of the iconic musical Chicago, onstage June 26 – August 18.

Under the experienced direction of Russell Garrett, who returns to the helm of this beloved production, audiences are in for a theatrical experience that echoes the energy and excitement of Broadway itself.

With a record-breaking run on the Great White Way, Chicago has secured its place in theatrical history as a theatrical powerhouse. As the longest-running American musical and the second longest-running Broadway show, this darkly comedic piece first captivated audiences in 1975, but it was the 1996 revival that catapulted it to legendary status. The musical’s blend of catchy songs, Bob Fosse’s signature choreography, and a razor-sharp critique of celebrity culture has proven irresistible – and relevant, perhaps now more than ever -- with generations of theatergoers.

Set amidst the roaring decadence of the Windy City in the 1920s, Chicago follows the trials and tribulations of the cynical and sexy duo of Roxie Hart (Dana Winkle) and

Velma Kelly (Jamie Karen) – two ambitious women who find themselves on death row for murder. With the help of their cunning lawyer Billy Flynn (Eddie Egan), they transform themselves into media darlings – and rivals –

while twisting their trials into sensationalized spectacles. The Arts Center’s summer production promises to honor Chicago’s venerable Broadway legacy while captivating patrons with its iconic numbers like “All That Jazz,” “Cell Block Tango,” and “Razzle Dazzle.” Garrett’s experience with the show ensures a deep understanding of its nuances, promising a production that will thrill both newcomers and longtime fans.

Beyond its dazzling entertainment value, Chicago offers a timeless exploration of the fleeting nature of fame and the manipulation of justice within a media-driven society. The satirical story invites audiences to consider the cost of ambition and the seductive power of the spotlight.

Prepare for an evening where captivating storytelling, dazzling dance, and a wicked sense of humor collide.

The musical will run June 26 through August 18. For more information, visit the Arts Center’s website at www. artshhi.com or call the box office at (843) 842-ARTS (2787).

Please note: Do not purchase tickets from third-party sellers, as they may not be valid, and will be overpriced. Call the box office or visit the Arts Center’s website (noted above).

The Understated Magnificent Meal

BY DANIE CONNOLLY Contributor

Promise yourself that you’ll find HogsHead Kitchen and Wine Bar. I’ll give you the address at the end of this column, but instead of telling you where it is, let’s talk about why you need to find yourself there. Early in his career, owner/Chef John Robert Pashak Jr. surrounded himself with people that love food as much as he does. A graduate of Johnson & Wales (formerly in Charleston), he knew Lowcountry and Southern food well. There’s an oath great chefs take…It doesn’t matter if it’s a tenderloin you could cut with a spoon or a simple focaccia bread that is made gently enough that it wouldn’t dare be tough. Everything on the plates gotta sing. (He’s been invited to The James Beard House more times than he cares to admit. They don’t roll out the red carpet for just anyone.)

Everything and everyone matters in this restaurant. With his partner and life mate, Alexis Dunham, they have made the commitment that once you enter their restaurant you can feel the warmth of their intention to be the best. It’s been quietly serving the public Tuesday through Saturday for the past 11 years. It’s not pretentious, but reminds you of entering an old friend’s home and realizing you never should have stayed away that long. Everything about it just feels right.

They are situated in the Moss Creek Village just before you leave the mainland onto the Hilton Head bridge. There is nothing ostentatious on the outside of their front door, but the moment you enter, it’s a little like Dorothy waking up in Oz.

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John Robert runs the back of the house and Alexis is host, decorator and wears a million hats depending on the day. It’s got a great stooled bar, themed with hogs, curled tailed pigs and is seriously fun, charming and whimsical. The restrooms have their own charming, sophisticated look, and the dining area is large and cozy and comfortable all at the same time. You may choose to eat atop a refurnished 300-year-old barn door in the bar area or a butcher block table in the dining room.

Additional outside seating under a gigantic open-air patio is available if you’d like to dine al fresco and enjoy your meal. The restaurant is subtly dynamic, and at the same time, dynamically subtle.

The bar has a martini worthy of the gods. It arrives swiftly, chilled to perfection and accompanied by top notch olives. The wine selection is second to none. They recently changed their house wine to a magnificent French wine from Languedoc. John Robert understands that the wine must hold its own as a partner to the steak, pig, lamb, chicken and fish.

Fortunately, the HogsHead has found expert bartenders to pour a drink the way they were destined, and that, my friend, is a tall order.

The quality of the meat is revealed when the steak lover makes the first cut. Success brings it further with the accompanying flavorful sauces, once again simple, yet unique. A superb steak is rare now-a-days, but finding a chef that knows

how to grill it is even more so. That probably accounts for John Robert’s relaxed personality.

Every morsel on the menu is a brilliant pick. You can enjoy a delicious casual salad or a burger that’ll blow your socks off. The prime rib is as tender as the filet mignon. The cuts are generous and varied, and the sides are what sides should be - shareable and classic.

Craving a soft-shell crab? If they are in season, this is the place to have yours! Roasted Oysters done superb? Yup! Ahi Tuna steak tartar? Yes, please.

As the meal winds down, you’ll need to tell yourself, “No matter how stuffed I am, I will order the dessert.” Relying on their sweet tooth waitstaff, they will steer you in the right direction, and if you haven’t finished your dinner yet, don’t worry; that’s why they invented doggie bags.

Try a savory bourbon anything. Every one of their desserts is homemade. Your palate will never be bored because HogsHead Kitchen and Wine Bar menu is always evolving.

The promise you need to make to yourself is to memorize this address and never forget it - 1555 Fording Island Road. It’s in the Moss Creek Villages. Walk-ins are always welcome but reservations are encouraged - 843-837-4647. And the best news about parking is that most businesses are closing while HogsHead is opening its doors. Get a group together, grab a pal or go there by yourself. There’s no better time to start enjoying a great meal.

“Fills the theatre with the sound of laughter.” – The Sunday Express

Rarely Seen Century Plant Blooming on Hilton Head Island

In the vast tapestry of flora that blankets the American landscape, few plants command the attention and admiration quite like the American Agave (aka “century plant”). With its striking rosette form, formidable spiny leaves and a legacy entwined with culture and tradition, this succulent is more than just a botanical specimen—it’s a symbol of resilience.

LOCAL CENTURY PLANT TOWERS AT THE GREENERY’S GARDEN CENTER

The Greenery Garden Center on Hilton Head Island currently has an American Agave plant that has a stalk that has reached over 17 feet tall (as of the end of May). The century plant at the Garden Center, estimated to be around 20 years old (believed to have been planted in its current location for 15-16 years), has been growing several inches each day throughout the spring.

And the staff at the Garden Center has eagerly been tracking its growth. In the beginning, they had to get out the Christmas tree measuring stick. But eventually, it reached the point where the staff couldn’t even measure the actual stalk anymore – it’s grown that tall!

“Our century plant is kind of like a local celebrity,” quips Erin Carpenter, Master Gardener at The Greenery Garden Center. “Guests stop by just to check the progress of the plant every few days. It’s been really fun to watch the excitement this plant has created among our patrons and staff.”

A SPECIMEN OF BEAUTY

The century plant boasts a symphony of structural marvels, characterized by its robust, sword-shaped leaves forming a majestic rosette. These fleshy, spiky leaves, imbued with a dull grayish-green hue, serve as nature’s armor, protecting

against harsh elements while lending an air of architectural elegance to the landscape.

The American Agave, known scientifically as Agave Americana, belongs to the Agavaceae family and is native to the hot and dry regions of the Americas, primarily Mexico and parts of the southern United States. The word agave comes from Greek and means “noble” and “marvelous.”

LIFE CYCLE OF THE CENTURY PLANT

The common name “century plant” was given to the plant because it was once thought to take 100 years for it to flower. However, it doesn’t typically take that long – closer to 10-25 years. So perhaps the common name is a little misleading. American Agave plants are known for

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their fatalistic life cycle. Just like most plants, they grow, bloom and die. But unlike typical plants, century plants usually die just shortly after blooming. They leave

duce via pollination and seeds. At maturity, the century plant produces a towering inflorescence stalk of blossoms, a stunning spectacle to behold. Rising skyward like a lush torch, the flower stalk can reach staggering heights of 15 to 30 feet tall or more and approximately 6 inches wide. The blooming period generally for the American Agave lasts about 3 to 4 months. Individual flowers on the stalk last for about a month, after which they will fade and wilt towards the ground. After blooming, the plant generally dies shortly thereafter usually leaving behind clones or themselves via

KEY ROLE IN ECOSYSTEM

Beyond its ornamental appeal, the American Agave plays a vital ecological role as a keystone species, providing sustenance to a myriad of creatures. One of its most remarkable contributions is the production of nectar-rich flowers, which serve as a crucial food source for pollinators such as bats, bees and hummingbirds. In fact, certain species of bats have co-evolved with agaves, relying exclusively on their nectar as a primary food source—a testament to the intricate web of interdependence in nature.

CARING FOR YOUR OWN CENTURY PLANT

Embracing the century plant in your garden requires a minimalistic approach, as it thrives in arid conditions and welldrained soil. Basking in full sun, this hardy succulent flourishes with minimal intervention, making it an ideal choice for low-maintenance landscapes. In addition, the plant is virtually disease free. Occasional watering during prolonged droughts and protection from extreme

cold are essential to safeguard its vitality. Pruning spent flower stalks not only maintains the plant’s aesthetic appeal but also promotes healthy growth for future generations.

The famous century plant at The Greenery’s Garden Center is definitely worth seeing in person. Make plans TODAY to visit the Garden Center and embark on a journey to discover the captivating allure of the century plant in person.

FUN FACTS ABOUT AGAVE:

• Agave is native to the Americas, originating in Mexico and also found in Central and South America, and the Caribbean Islands.

• Agave is closely related to other plants - onion, garlic, pineapple and asparagus.

• Agave nectar has a neutral taste and can be used in both sweet and savory dishes.

• Agave plants rely on bats to pollinate their flowers and reproduce, so without bats, there would be no tequila.

• The type of soil agave is grown in can have a big impact on the flavor of tequila.

BY CINDA SEAMON Contributor

According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA), more than half of all vehicle-related heatstroke deaths in children are cause by a child accidentally being left in the car, and 29% are from a child getting into a hot car on their own.

Kids left too long in hot cars can have deadly results and these deaths are preventable. Here are some helpful tips to make sure it doesn’t happen to you.

Never leave a child alone in a parked car, even with the windows rolled down or the air conditioning on. A child’s body temperature can heat up 3 to 5 times faster than adults. Heatstroke begins when the core body temperature reaches about 104 degrees, and 107 degrees is lethal.

Heatstroke can occur in temperatures as low as 57 degrees. On an 80-degree day, temperatures inside a vehicle can become deadly in just 10 minutes. Rolling down a

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window does little to keep a car cool.

Heatstroke fatalities have occurred even in vehicles parked in the shade when the air temperatures were 80 degrees or less.

If dropping a child off is not part of your normal routine, then come up with a

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SLEEP!

Whether you are recovering from an injury, dealing with a chronic condition, or simply looking for a comfortable and convenient chair, Zecliner® is the ideal choice that provides you with the support and assistance you need.

way to remind yourself that the child is in the car. Place an item that you keep on you, like a briefcase or purse, or even a shoe, in the back seat next to the child. Other helpful reminders might be to have your daycare call you if your child doesn’t show up. Write a note and place it

on the dashboard of the car. Or set a reminder on your cell phone or calendar. You can also download the Baby Reminder App for iPhones.

Always lock your vehicle doors and trunk, and keep the keys out of a child’s reach. If a child is missing, quickly check all vehicles, including the trunk. Teach kids that a vehicle is not a play area. The same rules apply for your pets. Never leave your pet in a parked car. Beating the heat is extra tough for dogs because they can only cool themselves by panting and sweating through their paw pads. If you see a dog in a car and in distress, take down the car’s color, model, make and license-plate number and have the owner paged if you believe they are in a nearby store or business, or you can contact the police.

Remember for kids and pets – look before you lock!

Cinda Seamon, Fire & Life Safety Educator, Hilton Head Island Fire Rescue

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SATURDAY, JUNE 29TH

7:00 AM - 10:00 PM

Beaufort Memorial Breast Cancer Genetics & High-Risk Program to Welcome BoardCertified Nurse Practitioner

To enhance breast cancer prevention services for Lowcountry women, Beaufort Memorial is adding a board-certified nurse practitioner to its Breast Cancer Genetics & High-Risk Program. Susanne Remynse, FNP-BC, will work with the hospital’s board-certified and fellowship-trained breast surgeon Tara Grahovac, M.D., to assess patients at above-average risk for breast cancer and counsel them on screening, surveillance and treatment options. She will see patients at Beaufort Memorial Breast Health Center – Okatie, 122 Okatie Center Blvd., Suite 150.

The Michigan native earned a Master of Science in Nursing from Chamberlain University in Addison, Ill., with a family nurse practitioner concentration and a Bachelor of Science in Nursing from Western Michigan University in Kalamazoo.

Before coming to Beaufort Memorial,

Remynse was a nurse practitioner at Fairfield Memorial Hospital Urology Clinic in Fairfield, Ill. There, she worked with physicians to manage cancer care, assisting with surgeries and acting as a patient advocate. Earlier, she served as a registered nurse in the float pool and in the medical-cardiac and neurological-neurosurgical step-down units at medical centers in Illinois, Georgia and Pennsylvania.

The Beaufort Memorial Breast Cancer Genetics & High-Risk Program prioritizes both the physical and the emotional aspects of breast disease. Among the services provided by the program are genetic counseling as well as surveillance and treatment as needed for those at above-average risk of developing breast cancer based on their personal or family history.

To make a Breast Cancer Genetics & High-Risk Program appointment, call (843) 707-8085.

Susanne Remynse

BY BARRY KAUFMAN Contributor

Is it me, or are people really into being miserable these days? Everywhere you look, it seems like someone has their dander up about something. There are people out there who can’t even remember what they feel like when their dander is down (or whichever position dander is supposed to be in).

What seems really odd to me, though, is what people are angry about. Right now, we’re dealing with inflation, corruption, massively inflamed international tensions and all manner of issues that can feel a little apocalyptic at times.

But what do we get mad about? Things that don’t matter, never have and never will.

If a trans kid wants to play sports at a high school you’ve never heard of, why does that bother people? Why do we care if a store we never shop at has gone

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“woke” by daring to include different types of people in their advertising? I’m telling you; one Little Mermaid gets some melanin and suddenly people are ready to go to war.

But there is a reason why we have so many non-issues to get angry about. And as always, it’s money. There are entire industries predicated on keeping us frustrated. When you’re frustrated, you doom scroll through social media. You keep your TV tuned to the propaganda of your choice, afraid to look away and miss the latest outrage. Your anger is driving revenue and making a lot of people very rich. This isn’t a right or left thing. Those are just two divisions of the same company. Just two different flavors of rage bait. Fortunately, I have the solution to all this. It won’t work for everyone, but it will work for you if you let it. On the odd

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Tuesday and Thursday, I get the privilege of spending a few hours a day gazing out on the May River from the wide porch at the Garvin-Garvey House.

From this vantage point, I get to see the rich tapestry of people with whom I share this town. A grandfather and grandson, dressed in identical PFG shirts, putting in on a center console where that child’s favorite memories will be born. A group of local old-timers circling the golf carts for an afternoon spent talking about everything and nothing under a haze of skunky smoke. Tourists – tourists! – walking down to the end of the dock to take in everything this place offers that their home doesn’t.

I don’t know any of these people. But I like to think if I sat down with them, I’d find out that they were kind and decent people, all in awe of the fact that we get to call this amazing town home.

You spend enough time just sitting on the porch, faced with the heartbreaking beauty of the world around you, and eventually none of those non-issues matter. Even the bigger issues shrink to something more manageable. It might cut into the profit margins of the gloom and doom corporation, but they’ll survive.

It is possible to let all of it go and step off the rage cycle. You just have to join me on the porch.

Stitching Together Charity and Creativity: God’s Goods Thrift Store Hosts Second Annual Fabric Fair in Bluffton

BY MELISSA MCCULLOUGH

Ready to snag some incredible deals and help a great cause?

God’s Goods Thrift Store in Bluffton is gearing up for their second annual Fabric Fair, and it’s shaping up to be bigger and better than last year. Circle your calendars for June 19-21, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., at 15A Centre Drive.

If you’re a craft enthusiast, you won’t want to miss this. Imagine rows upon rows of vintage and modern sewing machines, fabrics of all kinds—from quilting to bridal—and all the sewing accessories you could dream of, like patterns, books, cutting boards, and delicate trims and lace. And let’s not forget the antique quilts that might just add a touch of history and charm to your home.

Last year’s event was such a hit that they’ve extended this year’s fair to three full days of shopping bliss. More time means more treasures to discover! What makes it even better is knowing that every purchase you make supports a wonderful cause. God’s Goods is 100% volunteer-operated, and all proceeds go to charities - local, national, and international charities through The Church of the Cross’s Mission Board.

Whether you’re a seasoned sewer looking for unique materials or a beginner eager to start your first project, the Fabric Fair at God’s Goods has something for everyone. Don’t miss out on the chance to find some fantastic deals and help make a difference with every dollar you spend. See you there!

June Gardening Guide: Essential Tips for Lawn and Garden Care Amidst Rising Temperatures

BY ZACH DELOACH

Contributor

Happy June, so far, we have been off to another hot month. Along with the warm weather we are seeing growth all around us. Both in the lawn and in our flowerbeds. If things are not growing aggressively at this time, it should raise some red flags and may need further investigation. By now at least 1 round of fertilizer should be applied to the lawn, if not we would recommend doing so. As providing those nutrients will continue to sustain growth in the plants without depleting the soil. If nutrients have been applied and problems are still presenting themselves the following article should help narrow down those issues.

The first problem that we run into this time of year is the heat. It’s important to make sure the grass does not go too long

without water in the summer sun. 1 to 2 good soakings each week should be sufficient but newer lawns may require more. It is important that we are watering heavy and infrequently as opposed to every day, which may present another issue, fungus. Fungus can come about in many different shapes and sizes, but it typically shows in areas that remain moist or have heavy foot traffic. Most fungus this time

of year is visible in the grass blades through discoloration and spots. St. Augustine gets a fungus called gray leafspot that creates dark circles on the individual grass blades. When you see a fungus developing it should be treated with a fungicide to stop the spread. Avoiding excess traffic and reducing watering will also aid in the recovery.

Insects are also very active this time of year. The two insects that we see do the most damage to lawns during the summertime are mole crickets and chinch bugs. Mole crickets will attack all grass types by burrowing and chewing on the root system. Centipede and Bermuda tend to experience the most difficulty with the mole crickets and should be treated preventively each season. Chinch bugs are primarily found in St. Augustine during the season and can cause significant damage in a short time span. Often time the

presence of chinch bugs looks a lot like drought stress and occurs in the warmer areas of the lawn (near sidewalks and driveways/ full sun areas) Chinch bugs should be preventatively treated and you should keep a close eye out if you have a St. Augustine lawn.

Not only do we find insects in the lawn this time a year, but we also experience greater pressure on our trees and shrubs as well. Specifically white flies (aphids) have already begun to find homes in our ornamentals. Viburnums tend to be the favored host of the white flies, covering the leaves and leaving behind a sooty black mold. Often times multiple applications of insecticides are necessary in order to keep them under control. Zach Deloach is the owner of Lawn Doctor of Beaufort County.

Maximize Your Summer Break

Everyone wants to stand out from the crowd of other applicants to their favored college. Summer break offers a valuable opportunity to engage in activities that can enhance college applications, academic readiness and personal growth. Here are some ways that college admission reps suggest to make the most of your summer break.

SUMMER PROGRAMS AND COURSES

Participating in summer programs and courses can provide valuable learning experiences and exposure to new subjects or fields of study. Consider enrolling in academic enrichment programs, pre-college courses or specialized workshops offered by colleges, universities, or educational organizations. These programs can help you explore your interests, strengthen your academic skills, and gain insights into college life. Taking courses offered at local colleges or your high school can help you boost your GPA and add college

readiness classes to your transcript.

INTERNSHIPS

Internships offer hands-on experience in a professional setting and provide valuable insights into potential career paths.

Look for internships in industries or fields that align with your interests and career goals. Whether it’s working at a local business, nonprofit organization or research institute, an internship can help you develop valuable skills, build your resume and make meaningful connections in your chosen field. It also shows admission reps that you are pursing important career opportunities and laying the groundwork for future study. JOBS Taking on a part-time job during the summer break can help you develop essential workplace skills and earn extra income. Consider opportunities in retail, hospitality, food service or other industries that offer flexible schedules for students. A summer job can teach you valuable lessons in time management, responsibility and teamwork, which are essential for success in college and beyond. It also lets you start saving for college expenses.

VOLUNTEERING

Volunteering is a meaningful way to

give back to your community while gaining valuable experience and skills. Look for volunteer opportunities with local nonprofits, community organizations or service-oriented groups. Whether it’s tutoring students, assisting at a food bank or participating in environmental cleanup projects, volunteering allows you to make a positive effect while developing empathy, leadership and communication skills.

PERSONAL PROJECTS

Summer break is an ideal time to pursue personal projects or passions that may not fit into your regular academic schedule. Whether it’s starting a blog, launching a small business, performing with a musical or drama group or working on a creative endeavor, personal projects allow you to explore your interests, express your creativity and develop new skills. Use this time to pursue activities that inspire you and reflect your unique talents and aspirations.

BY COLLINS DOUGHTIE Contributor

Gators and Consequences

I realize that my last column dealt with my passion for helping newbies to our area to catch fish or learn to navigate our waters, so they don’t find themselves high and dry for six or so hours until the tide comes in and once again floats their boat. I had planned on writing about something totally different until that is a really neat thing happened to me this past week that falls into that realm of helping that y’all might find pretty darn neat. But before I tell you that tale recent news stories dealing with aggressive alligators got me thinking about my over sixty years dealing with these ancient reptiles especially while fishing. Have I ever been chased by a gator while hauling in a fish? Heck yes! It hasn’t happened to me in quite some time but that is only because I have a pretty good handle on how these monsters with a walnut size brain think and react. I am sure many of you have been seeing videos on the news lately of gators charging out of a lagoon to snatch a fish some guy just caught but I can give you some tips on how to avoid such incidents by using common sense and a few tricks that will leave aggressive gators totally perplexed. What really got me thinking about this subject was something I witnessed a week or so ago. Killing some time, I decided to wet a line in a lagoon I have fished since I was knee high to a grasshopper, I noticed a gentleman relatively new to the area fishing about 50 yards down the bank from me. There was a small incline on the bank and right there below him was a 7-8-foot gator who no doubt was attracted by his bait that made splashes every time he reeled in. Top water baits that pop or sputter plus fishing corks are sure to attract any gator so I avoid using them in places that might be home for one a gator. Getting back to that fellow fisherman, he hooks into a nice redfish and my jaw dropped when he tried to land it right by the watchful eyes and sharp teeth of that spectator gator. Needless to say, that redfish didn’t stand a chance as he grabbed it, swam to the far bank and devoured it headfirst. The guy was really hot, so I walked

over to him with some advice learned from years of outwitting gators. In situations such as this as the hooked fish gets close and the gator is just waiting, open the bale on your reel and let the fish swim free as you walk a thirty or so yards down the bank away from fired up reptile. Only then do you reel it in. Gators are all instinct, and that little brain has no idea where his potential meal went. It works every time. Secondly, letting a gator get your fish only makes them more dangerous because they begin to associate fisherman with food. Another major no-no is dog walking close to lagoons because gators, especially male ones around seven feet long, seem to be the ones I really keep my eye on. I guess they are equivalent to 18-year-old boys just full of vim and vinegar. During the springtime mating season these males are double trouble as testosterone roars through their bodies. So, there you go, a bit of gator 101.

On a completely different subject, I received a surprise call about fishing from a young man I met while fly fishing in the Davidson River over a year ago. On that day I was crushing the trout and just ahead on me were two teens, Connor and his pal Harper and I could tell they weren’t having much success, so I walked up to them and struck up a conversation. Looking over their rigs, especially leader and hook size, I decided to help them by changing over both these things to a lighter leader and smaller hook size and immediately they began catching trout. I gave him my contact information and I’ll be darned if a week or so ago he gave me a call saying he and his bud were vacationing on Hilton Head and could I give him some advice about fishing down here. I was relatively free so I picked up the two of them and took them in search of redfish or anything else that might bite. Talk about hitting the jack pot, I put them on redfish and even better, sight casting for reds that had their backs and tails out of water. I usually never take redfish but being out-of-towners, I let them keep three slot reds. It felt good helping the next generation of anglers and I guarantee that is one experience they’ll never forget!

Fatherly Cat Comforts Newcomers at Local Animal Shelter

BY AMY CAMPANINI, PALMETTO ANIMAL LEAGUE PRESIDENT

“A father doesn’t tell you that he loves you. He shows you.” - Dimitri the Stoneheart

Father’s Day at Palmetto Animal League reminds us to pause and appreciate the “cat dads” at our adoption center. These quiet, stoic, compassionate cats act as surrogate fathers to the younger cats at PAL. When we see these father-son bonds start to form, it’s a beautiful thing to witness. One such cat, named Seymour, has all the qualities of a devoted, fun-loving father.

“Seymour is a very sweet and outgoing cat,” says PAL Animal Care Technician Emma Pereida. “He’s goofy, in the best way, and he loves to play. But he also likes to sit and snuggle.”

Seymour was found as a stray and has been at PAL for nearly a year. He makes it his duty to help those in need of reassurance.

“Any cat room Seymour goes into, he seems to attract the nervous, younger cats and kittens who just need

some comfort,” says Pereida.

The cat care techs at PAL have been watching a bond form between Seymour and a timid, young cat named Cosmo for quite some time.

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“Cosmo is very sweet but nervous of new people,” says Pereida. “He loves Seymour, follows him everywhere, and snuggles up to him when it’s time to rest.”

Perhaps Seymour and Cosmo’s intrinsic bond stems from a shared experience. You see, they both came to PAL as kittens and watched as all their siblings got adopted. For some reason, they were overlooked.

“I don’t think they necessarily need to be adopted together,” says Pereida. “But it sure would be nice.”

Fathers come in many forms. At PAL they don’t wear dad shorts; they wear fur! And while “cat dads” don’t speak traditional words, they show love simply by being present with others just when they need it most.

If you’d like to meet Seymour and his Cosmo, pay them a visit at the PAL Adoption Center, located at 56 Riverwalk Blvd in Okatie, Monday through Friday from 12 p.m. to 6 p.m.

Amy Campanini is the President of the Palmetto Animal League

For a Better Score – Know Your Wedges

BY DR. JEAN HARRIS Contributor

In order to score better in your golf game, you need to know your distances with wedges from 100 yards in, as approximately 60 percent of all shots in a round of golf are taken from those distances. The distance and height that you get from your wedges depends on your golf ability and equipment.

Most boxed sets that you buy have only two wedges: the sand and pitching wedge. To score better in golf you really need at least three wedges that have a degree difference of around 4 to 5 degrees. I recommend getting fitted for your wedges. The club fitter should ask you a number of questions. Do you take divots with a steep angle of attack? Or do you pick at your wedges with a shallow angle of attack? Do you play on a course with forced carries over bunkers to elevated greens? Or do you play at a course with large, fairly

flat greens? There are several golf shops that can do wedge fittings. If at all possible, a wedge fitting outside off turf would be the best.

A lot of golf manufacturers don’t even

show you the degrees loft on their wedges. I believe that they should put the degrees loft on the wedge instead of just labeling them pitch, gap, sand and lob.

Below are some suggestions for choosing wedges:

• Pitching Wedge – has a loft around 44 – 48 degrees. Can be used for full swings and long chips

• Gap Wedge – has a loft around 50-53 degrees. It is good for short pitches and median chip shots.

• Sand Wedge – has a loft around 54-58 degrees and can be used in bunkers and short pitches to elevated greens.

• Lob Wedge – has a loft around 57-65 degrees and is a great club out of thick rough and steep bunkers.

The more lofted wedges have bounce. Bounce is the angle between the leading edge of the clubface and the sole. High bounce wedges make it easier to glide through sand (a number of golf manufac-

turers put the bounce number on their wedges).

Knowing your distances with your wedges can also help you when laying up on a Par 4 or Par 5 hole by leaving you a distance that you are best at. Sometimes hitting a 60-yard shot is easier than a 30yard shot.

Finally, when choosing the wedges you want in your golf bag, think about the course you are playing. Are the greens small or large? Do the bunkers have high lips and what is the texture of the sand? You need to practice different lengths of swings with each of your three wedges and different trajectories. Write down your results and keep them on your golf bag.

Dr. Jean Harris is an LPGA Master Teaching Professional at Pinecrest Golf Club. Jean.golfdoctor.harris@gmail.com

Free Summer Meals for Coastal Kids & TeensThanks to Lowcountry Food Bank

BY ANNE FELDMAN Contributor

School’s out for summer, and while it’s a wonderful break from studies, many Lowcountry students are not able to access food service programs offered during the school year, when national breakfast and school lunch programs play a pivotal role in fighting childhood hunger.

Lowcountry Food Bank’s (LCFB), Summer Food Service program, operated through the USDA, aims to provide free nutritious summer meals and snacks for children and teens who may not have access to other meals. Thanks to the LCFB, which serves South Carolina’s 10 coastal counties, children 18 and under are eligible to access the no-cost summer meals from any of the summer meal sites participating in the program.

Locations in our area include the

Agape Family Life Center and Healing Waters Mission and Wellness Center, both located in Hardeeville, Love House Ministries in Beaufort, and Jasper County Hunger Free Zone in Ridgeland, which provides meals the second Saturday of every other month. The next service is on Saturday, August 10th.

“The people we serve are very appreciative,” shares Carolyn Smith, chair of the Jasper County Hunger Free Zone.

“We generally serve 200 at a time. It’s quite a challenge. We’re a non-profit and there are about 10 of us. I’ve been with them for 15 years and I really enjoy serving the people.”

The eight-week program began on June 11th with food distribution sites across the 10-county area, helping close food service gaps to serve children who need it most. From recreations centers to public libraries, day camps and faith-

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based organizations, the Summer Food Service program is instrumental in meeting the needs of our communities.

The LCFB has a wide reach in the coastal Lowcountry. Last year they provided over 42 million pounds of food via distribution to more than 230 partner agencies, including on-site meal programs, homeless shelters and emergency food pantries. Their data shows food in-

security remains a serious problem in coastal South Carolina, impacting nearly 10% of our neighbors.

Text and website resources make it easy to locate sites for Free Summer Meals, on the LCFB website at lowcountryfoodbank.org and through the No Kid Hungry’s text tool. Simply text the word “FOOD” or “COMIDA” to 304-304 to find a nearby meal site.

Grace in the Unenforceable: Cultivating a Christ-Centered Character Beyond the Law

BY REV. DR. JON BLACK Contributor

Recently, we celebrated Father’s Day. This reflection flows from one of my father figures. He encouraged me to live a life enforced by the unenforceable.

In the intricate world of human existence, character emerges not from what is enforced upon us, but rather from the choices we make in the realm of the unenforceable. This notion reflects a deeper truth: character isn’t merely about adhering to laws or regulations but is sculpted by the boundaries we choose to respect, the actions we permit and those we do not.

The interplay between our will and our choices lies at the core of character. We are not merely defined by what we are compelled to do, but by what we choose to do. Our daily decisions, often made in the

quiet recesses of our hearts where no external force compels us, are the building blocks of our character. The concept of living a life restricted by the unenforceable underscores the profound significance of personal integrity. It’s easy to do what is right when there are clear consequences for doing otherwise. However, true character is revealed when there are no external consequences to enforce the right path. It’s about the choices we make when no one is watching; when there’s no fear of punishment but a genuine desire to do what is right.

In the scriptures, we find guidance on nurturing such character. Proverbs 4:23 advises, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Here, the emphasis is not on external regulations but on internal vigilance. The heart, the seat of our desires and intentions, is where character is formed. It’s about cul-

tivating a disposition toward goodness, even when it may not be legally mandated.

Living a life enforced by the unenforceable invites us to recognize the grace inherent in true character formation. Character formation embodies values such as compassion, honesty and integrity. The aim is to cultivate an interior life that causes these traits to naturally outflow from us to the world. It’s about recognizing that our self-imposed boundaries are pathways to flourishing.

Moreover, character is not static; it is dynamic and continually evolving. Each decision we make, each boundary we respect or transgress, shapes the trajectory of our character. It’s a lifelong journey of growth and refinement, marked by moments of triumph and moments of failure, yet always guided by the compass of God’s grace.

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In our interactions with others, our character shines through in how we treat them and in the respect and kindness we extend with no urging of reciprocity. It’s about choosing empathy over apathy, love over indifference, forgiveness over resentment.

Ultimately, living a life restricted by the unenforceable affirms our capacity to choose, to transcend mere compliance with external laws, and instead embrace the deeper call to moral responsibility. It’s about recognizing that true character is not imposed from without but cultivated from within, through the grace-filled choices we make each day.

The Rev. Dr. Jon R. Black is senior pastor at Campbell A.M.E. Church in Bluffton.

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Rekindling Bonds: Rediscovering the Father-Daughter Connection

BY MELISSA MCCULLOUGH

As Father’s Day slips into the past, the common narrative reminded us to celebrate the dads in our lives with gifts and grand gestures. But for some, it was a time of reflection on relationships that might have slipped through life’s cracks, highlighting the universal truth that it’s never too late to reconnect.

For me, the journey of rekindling the bond with my dad was like unfolding a road map that had been tucked away in the attic of my memories for over two decades. But one thing is certain: the moments we’ve shared since reconnecting have been some of the most poignant of my life.

I vividly remember my dad clapping the loudest at my college graduation. His pride was a tangible presence, buoying me through that milestone day. Years later, when he first met his grandchildren, the

joy and love in his eyes were mirrors of the emotions I felt deep within. Each moment, no matter how small, was a stitch in the tapestry of our restored relationship.

Reconnecting after 20 years isn’t a journey devoid of awkward pauses and tentative steps, but it’s paved with moments of unspoken understanding and shared smiles. One memory stands out: a day at the beach, seemingly mundane, yet deeply symbolic. Watching the waves, our conversation ebbed and flowed with them, catching up on lost years, laughing over old family jokes, and just being in each other’s company without the weight of past silences pressing down on us. This process of coming back together has taught me that time doesn’t erase the fundamental bond between a father and child. It might become frayed or hidden under life’s detritus, but it’s resilient.

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Each shared experience, each rediscovered commonality, has been a step toward understanding the man who contributed to the person I am today.

For those out there pondering a similar reconnection, let this be a gentle nudge. Reach out, not with the expectation of immediate restoration, but with the hope of beginning a conversation. The narrative of your relationship might have chapters written in silence, but the pages are there to be filled with new memories.

Father’s Day isn’t just about celebrating dads as they are now or as they were—it’s also about embracing the possibilities of what your relationship could become. It’s about finding joy in the journey of reconnection, realizing that sometimes, the best gifts aren’t wrapped in ribbons, but in moments spent together, relearning the rhythms of a bond that life could never truly sever.

Beaufort Memorial Expands Urology Practice to Okatie

To increase access to much-needed urology care in the Lowcountry, Beaufort Memorial Urology Specialists will begin seeing patients in the Okatie Medical Pavilion on June 18, in addition to the practice’s Beaufort office.

The practice expansion comes amid a simultaneous nationwide increase in demand for urology care and decrease in supply of urology providers, according to the American Urological Association.

“Beaufort Memorial is making enormous progress in our goal of increasing access to quality medical care for our growing community,” said Beaufort Memorial President and CEO Russell Baxley. “As we examine the needs of our patients, it’s plain that urology is a high-demand specialty area. Expanding our excellent urology practice to Okatie is a significant step forward in ensuring we meet that demand.”

Board-certified urologist Dr. Louis Remynse will lead the new office. He will be joined by board-certified physician assis-

tants Matt Baker and Kristin Callaghan. Dr. Remynse brings nearly four decades of clinical and surgical experience to Urology Specialists, where he diagnoses and treats a wide range of chronic and acute urological disorders, among them benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), kidney stones and urinary incontinence. A member of the Society of Urologic Oncology, Dr. Remynse specializes in robot-assisted surgical treatments for bladder, kidney and prostate cancers. In total, he has performed more than 1,250 da Vinci robotic surgeries.

Baker, PA-C, PharmD, a self-described “Lowcountry boy,” is experienced both as a physician assistant and as a pharmacist. He works with the clinical team to assess and manage treatment for acute and chronic urological disorders that most frequently can be addressed with medication rather than surgery. He recently joined Urology Specialists after seven years at a urology practice in Bluffton, where he gained expertise in cystoscope

From left to right: Matt Backer, PA-C, PharmD; Kristin Callaghan, PA-C; Louis Remynse, M.D.

procedures and active monitoring of patients with an elevated PSA level and those at the conclusion of their prostate cancer treatment.

Callaghan, PA-C, has a combined background in emergency medicine and urology. She worked in emergency medicine in Charleston and then for a urology practice in Savannah, Ga., before coming to

work at BMH as an emergency medicine physician assistant. After seven years in the BMH emergency department, she joined Coastal Carolina Urology Specialist and then rejoined the BMH family when the practice was acquired by BMH in 2023. Her clinical interests include the treatment of kidney stones, urinary incontinence, urinary tract infection (UTI), benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) and prostate cancer.

Beaufort Memorial Urology Specialists offers patients expertise and experience in the diagnosis and treatment of urinary system diseases and conditions, including those affecting the kidneys, bladder, adrenal glands, ureters, urethra and male reproductive organs. The practice is located in Suite 300 of the Beaufort Memorial Okatie Medical Pavilion, 122 Okatie Center Blvd., Okatie. To make an appointment, call 843-524-7607.

BY GLENDA HARRIS Contributor

This story is set in Georgetown, South Carolina, and is another great read by the author of over 20 novels. “Dreams of Falling” is a multi-generational tale of three women and the promises they made back in the 1950s.

Ceecee, Margaret and Bitty grew up best friends in a small southern town and spent much of their time on Margaret’s family-owned rice plantation. In one of the many live oaks on the property is a special tree with a crevice: They call it the wishing tree. Upon graduating high school, the three friends, brimming with optimism and dreams for the future, each write their most fervent wishes on a ribbon and place them in the tree. “Forever friends” was their mantra and their promise to each other.

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Over 50 years later, Margaret’s granddaughter, Larkin, returns to the family’s long-abandoned plantation when she receives word of her mother’s disappearance. Beginning with the search for her mother and ending with the discovery of a letter written by her grandfather, Larkin discovers secrets that open her eyes to how strong the bonds of friendship can be.

This novel comes a year after Karen White’s “The Night the Lights Went Out” published in 2017 to great reviews. Both of these books are perfect summer reads. Check out her Tradd Street Series, comprised of five novels set in Charleston with supernatural elements, history, romance and humor.

You can find Karen White’s books at your local independent bookstore, on Amazon or at Barnes & Noble.

Beach Hair Beware: How to Tame Your Mane in the Salty Air and Scorching Sun

BY JOY ROSS Contributor

Unfortunately, there are some negative effects on our hair caused by living near the beach. The drawback of having salty air, causes frizz, dehydrated dryness and requires much more TLC.

The other, even more, issue is our intense sun and heat.

This also wreaks havoc on our hair. Obviously, it will strip our hair of moisture, our color fades more rapidly and a less known fact is that our perspiration is very acidic which causes our hair color to fade faster. This is a problem because wearing a hat could be just as counterproductive if it causes your head to sweat more. A straw hat is the most beneficial because there is ventilation.

So, is our hair health doomed? It is definitely in need of more attention in our summer months. Most of what we do (besides work) is outdoors.

My mantra is...a little of something good is a million times better than a lot of something that is not as good. Just try to think of your hair like a sponge. When a sponge is dried out, it takes a bit for it to begin to absorb water. Therefore, it takes some extra moisture to penetrate dry hair before it actually accepts the moisture. When the sponge has accepted the water, it becomes full. The same is true of your hair. So, if the hair is saturated it cannot take in the bad stuff in the air or anywhere external. This is why you’ve heard to wet your hair before going in the pool so it cannot take in any chlorinated water. If it is already full of good, it cannot take in the bad.

Most important, when you squeeze the sponge after it’s been wet, it’s the most absorbent. Keep this in mind when conditioning. Towel dried or wrung out it will be the optimum time to penetrate and suck in the good ingredients (and the

bad). Be mindful of this when buying those inexpensive products and when going outside in the sun.

The most important is salon shampoo and conditioner. I’ve said this so many times, but it is so true. Even when an inexpensive brand says it is for color treated hair or dry hair or extra volume, etc. it may not have an iota of an ingredient that allows it to claim it’s supposed benefits. However, the rest of the bottle has wax, oil, and filler that makes it inexpensive and useless. It truly has no positive benefits. It will build up on the hair, strip the color and moisture. But it smells great!! No no. The time and money spent on good color is defeated by using inexpensive shampoo and conditioner. Professional styling products are not as imperative if the shampoo is doing what it is supposed to do.

One of the best tips I can share besides using good shampoo and conditioner is to

spray your hair with a good leave in conditioner before going to the beach, pool, gym or any outside sports. This alone will help protect your hair from the intense sun.

Also, a styling cream or laminate based product will help protect the hair.

It’s a beauti ful place we live in. Just look out the window and stay inside. Just kidding. Enjoy! Joy Ross is the owner of Style It Salon, styleitsalon.com

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WINKLER (CAT) is a fun, chatty, affectionate 8-year-old girl. She’s a little silly in the best possible way. If you’re looking for a beautiful girl who doesn’t take herself too seriously, come visit Winkler at Palmetto Animal League. She is spayed, up to date on vaccinations and microchipped. For more info, call PAL at 843-645-1725 or email Info@PalmettoAnimalLeague.org.

LIONEL (DOG) is a big, handsome boy who loves to snuggle! He is affectionate, sweet, and playful. This 5-year-old LOVES playing in the yard with his toys, but he’s also happy to take a nap with you. He is very gentle and kind with other animals, and we hear he’s great with kids too! Meet Lionel today at Palmetto Animal League. He is neutered, up to date on vaccinations and microchipped. For more info, call PAL at 843-645-1725 or email Info@PalmettoAnimalLeague.org.

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