The Bluffton Sun • September 17, 2024

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September is Suicide Prevention Month: Here’s what you need

BY ROB PEARSON, M.S. Contributor

In 2023, suicide was the 11th leading cause of death in the United States according to the Center for Disease Control. There were 49,931 Americans who took their lives that year, the highest number in history, and higher than those who died from the flu, hypertension, renal disease or Parkinson disease. Additionally, approximately 5% of adults in the U.S. (12,860,000) had serious thoughts of suicide.

Leading public health experts agree that America is facing a mental health crisis.

“One life lost to suicide is one too many. Yet too many people still believe asking for help is a sign of weakness. We must continue to eliminate the stigmatization of mental health and make care available to all Americans.” - U.S. Health and Human Services Secretary Xavier Becerra “Loss of life from these tragedies are preventable, and everyone can play a role in efforts to save lives and reverse the rise in suicidal deaths.” - CDC Chief Medical

Officer Debra Houry

“Mental Health has become the defining public health and societal challenge of our time. Far too many people and their families are suffering and feeling along.” - U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy

WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT THIS CRISIS?

The National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention and the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline have developed five steps to

assist people from the risk of suicide and to show support when they are in crisis.

1. Ask: Asking and talking about suicide may in fact reduce rather than increase suicide ideation.

2. Help Keep Them Safe: Reducing a suicidal person’s access to lethal means is important.

3. Be There: Increase connectiveness

PREVENTION CONT. ON PAGE 3A

TAndrew Stevens, M . D. to Beaufort Memorial Pulmonary Specialists

o ensure access to top quality respiratory care services for local residents, Beaufort Memorial has added board-certified and fellowshiptrained pulmonologist Andrew Stevens, M.D., to its Pulmonary Specialists practice in Okatie.

Originally from Toronto, Canada, Dr. Stevens most recently served as a Fellow Physician at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles, where he earned an award for excellence in patient care. His tenure there nurtured a profound interest in critical care, which he regards as “the purest form of medicine,” due to its emphasis on fundamental issues affecting the entire body.

Dr. Stevens’ broad expertise includes the treatment of asthma, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), smoking cessation, lung nodule evaluation, lung cancer diagnosis, pulmonary hypertension, and interstitial lung disease. Additionally, he will provide care for patients admitted to the Beaufort Memorial Hospital intensive care unit.

Fellowship

Pulmonary Disease and Critical Care Medicine

Cedars-Sinai Medical Center

Los Angeles

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Residency – Internal Medicine

Georgetown University Hospital Washington, DC

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Doctor of Medicine (summa cum laude)

St. George’s University School of Medicine Grenada, West Indies

Bachelor of Science

Biology and Medical Science

Western University London, Ontario

Dr. Stevens joins board-certified nurse practitioners Risa Linford, AGACNP and Shawna Nievierowski, FNP-BC, and board-certified pulmonologist John Krcmarik, M.D., at the practice.

and limit isolation.

4. Help Them Connect: It’s already been proven that suicidal people who call the 988 Lifeline were less suicidal, less depressed, less overwhelmed and more hopeful by the end of calls.

5. Follow Up: After you’ve connected with a person experiencing suicidal thoughts, following up to see how they are doing will increase connectedness and support, which has proven to reduce that person’s risk of suicide.

Rob Pearson, M.S. is Executive Director of Mental Health America of the Lowcountry, providing daily adult group mental health counseling programs in Bluffton and Beaufort for clients with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, PTSD and more. Contact: robp@mhalowcountry. org , 843-415-9110

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Celebrating 20 years of progress: USCB’s growth and Beaufort County’s increasing influence

BY WESTON NEWTON Contributor

As we celebrate this month the 20th Anniversary of the opening of the USCB – Bluffton Campus and the fouryear degree granting status authorized by the South Carolina Higher Education Commission based on the local conditional funding commitment (Beaufort County agreed to invest $40 million in the stateowned higher ed facilities in the Bluffton Campuses of USCB and TCL provided the state gave USCB four-year degree granting status), I cannot help but pause to recognize how far we have come as a region in terms of state significance in recent years. Don’t misunderstand my comments. The state of South Carolina has historically enjoyed the tourism and tax dollars generated by Beaufort County and the Lowcountry, but the investments and expenditures by the state here have been in the past inequitable and inadequate. In addition, being the only area of South Carolina without a degree granting opportunity within a two-plus hour drive, our major state roadways were at failing service levels. The widening of 278 on the mainland was, in large part, funded by federal earmarks we pursued directly, not by state dollars; and while we struggled to find the funding for a traffic light at the entrance of Sun City to literally save lives, the state was building an interstate exit “beautification” fountain with lights and landscaping 100 miles up I-95. We were simply a “donor county” in all respects and our needs were largely met by local funding and local efforts. As Chairman of Beaufort County Council for more than a decade during that time, I had a

front row seat to the disparity and our donor status. Fortunately, things are different now. As a member of the House of Representatives and Chairman of the Judiciary Committee, I am proud to be a part of the strongest delegation in the state and working alongside my colleagues to ensure that this part of South Carolina gets it “fair share.” Your Beaufort/Jasper County State Legislative Delegation is, in terms of strength, second to none. The next decade or so is our time for state dollars to be “repatriated” and invested locally. As I discussed here last month, the 2024 -2025 State Budget boasts lower taxes, less state debt and lower unemployment while growing reserves, promoting economic development and adjusting for our booming population growth. Because of our forward-thinking, conservative budgeting, we were able to provide $1 billion in this year’s budget for direct tax relief for citizens, increased programs and funding to take better care of our veterans, increased funding by over $340 million to repair of our bridges, roads and infrastructure, and funding for teacher recruitment and retention. We also invested $27 million for schools to make safety upgrades to their campuses and to provide SROs in every public school and increased pay for law enforcement officers. We also invested funds to preserve

the landscape and natural resources we all enjoy. I am proud that in addition to ensuring equitable funding from the above list in this part of the state, our delegation our fought to bring home funding for several local community projects and investments in this year’s budget. Here are just a few: It is an honor and privilege to serve in the House of Representatives, if I may be of assistance, please do not hesitate to call on me.

Weston Newton is the representative for District 120 in the State House of Representatives. WestonNewton@schouse.gov

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BY GLENDA HARRIS Contributor

Here in the south, especially in the Lowcountry, we have an abundance of treesin wild forests, our many state parks and along our roads and highways. Even along our coastline, we have tidal forests, and trees in our wetlands, and yes, if you include the boneyard beaches, we have trees in the ocean. We may even take trees for granted because they are everywhere, and it seems like they always have been present. We come to expect trees. They add value to our property and are beautiful. But let’s please not take trees for granted. They

are so valuable for a variety of reasons.

There was a time from the 1600s to the 1870s when close to half of the forests of the eastern portion of America were cut down for timber and agricultural purposes. At the time, there was no effort to replenish the forests. The majority of America’s original virgin forests disappeared. Replanting of trees has occurred over the years to try and bring back the forests, and in some areas, it has worked to a limited degree.

Today, the United States is facing a net forest loss. Much of the loss is from wildfires, drought and insect infestations, and some is from the planting of invasive trees. Development for buildings, homes, etc. also erases many acres of forest land

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every day.

Many efforts are being made for reforestation, led by the U.S. Forest Service, The Arbor Day Foundation and “One Tree Planted,” a non-profit organization focused on global reforestation. There are more groups involved in this but too many to mention. Here’s a tip of the cap to all the tree warriors out there.

What would our world be like without trees? The simple answer is that eventually, our planet may not support humans, and we would have evolved into something more compatible with the present state of Earth.

Trees give us nuts, fruit, chocolate, aspirin and cough syrup, to name just a few. Forestlands provide 55% of America’s drinking water. Access to water would become a big problem without trees.

Who else needs the trees? Birds perch in the trees and build nests. They have baby birds who learn to fly by launching off a tree branch. We can’t have the birds sitting on power lines, building nests with baby birds jumping off onto the road.

The tires our cars need are made from the sap of rubber trees. Did you know that trees help absorb 40% of the sound of traffic in urban areas? And let’s not forget the shade. It’s hard to imagine being outside in the south without shade

nearby to take a break from the sun. Did you know that neighborhoods with trees are 7-9 degrees cooler than those without?

At the forefront of bringing trees back to these deforested areas are corporations, non-profits and government agencies, all doing the work to save our forests. These include The Arbor Day Foundation, The Nature Conservancy, World Wildlife Fund and Rainforest Alliance. On a slightly smaller scale is the Tree City USA initiative which is having great success encouraging cities and towns to become a designated “Tree City” by complying with a few requirements.

To become a Tree City USA, a community must have:

1. A tree board or department.

2. A tree care ordinance.

3. A community forestry program with an annual budget of at least $2 per capita.

4. An Arbor Day observation and proclamation.

I hope we all agree that trees contribute incalculable value to our lives on planet earth. On our nine acres of land, there are so many birds of all types; songbirds, owls, birds of prey, hummingbirds on their way south, etc. The many hardwood trees and pines serve as a place to rest, to hide, to build a nest. The insects living in and on the trees provide food for the birds. Everybody’s happy! (except the insects)

Thank a tree today, and y’all stay safe out there.

A former Bluffton resident, Glenda finds stories everywhere and writes about nature, travel, healthy living and books.

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Ask the expert: What is the biggest problem people face if they haven’t done their estate planning?

BY LISA HOSTETLER BROWN Contributor

Expert Answer: As we age, thoughtful planning becomes essential to ensure that our future is secure and our hard-earned assets are protected. Many seniors worry about the consequences of dying without an estate plan, but an even more pressing issue is aging without a comprehensive safety net. Without proper planning, you could face significant challenges and stress during your later years.

Without a clear estate plan, you might find yourself unprepared for unexpected health changes or the need for long-term care. This lack of preparation can lead to difficult decisions for your loved ones and potentially compromise your quality of life.

Proper estate planning isn’t just about what happens after you’re gone; it’s also about ensuring that you have the support you need while you’re still here. Effective planning using life care planning strategies can make a considerable difference in your access to care. For instance, an Elder Care Coordinator at an elder law firm that focuses on life care planning could help you secure options for free in-home care should you need assistance with daily activities. They can evaluate your home for safety and connect you to social and support activities to fill a needed emotional connection. They can guide you through choosing the right care partners or finding a

senior living community if staying home is no longer an option. This can be a game-changer, allowing you to have someone supporting you step by step as life happens and care needs change.

Moreover, estate planning plays a critical role in protecting your assets. If you ever require nursing home care, the costs can be astronomical. Medicaid, which provides assistance for long-term care, has stringent eligibility requirements, and without proper planning, you might find yourself struggling to qualify. By planning ahead, you can take steps to preserve your assets while ensuring you meet Medicaid’s criteria. This could mean the difference between having your assets protected and facing a substantial financial burden.

Going to the right professional for your situation will be the difference between getting you to the 20-yard line versus getting that touchdown. You want someone who can deploy various strategies based on your goals and assets and how that fits into your estate plan.

In essence, estate planning is about creating a roadmap for your future. It helps you ensure that your wishes are honored, provides clarity and support for your family and safeguards your assets against unexpected costs. Don’t wait until it’s too late. Start planning now to ensure that you have the protection and peace of mind you deserve as you navigate the later stages of life.

For educational purposes only. This is not legal advice. Lisa Hostetler Brown is a Certified Elder Law Attorney certified by the National Elder Law Foundation. 2 Hampton Hall, Bluffton, SC 29910 | 843757-5294 | HiltonHeadElderLaw.com

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WHY I CHOOSE TO PRACTICE AT ST. JOSEPH’S/CANDLER.”

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As an avid workout enthusiast and competitive bodybuilder, Kenneth was taken by surprise when he suddenly began feeling intensely ill. Luckily, he was just a short walk from the Candler Hospital Emergency Room – where he suffered a massive heart attack during his examination.

Literally bringing him back from death after 30 minutes of CPR, the Candler team put him on a ventilator and called Dr. William Crosland. Kenneth was transported to The Heart Hospital at St. Joseph’s Hospital, where Dr. Crosland inserted an Impella and followed it up with a coronary stent. After 30 days in a coma and 2 months in the hospital, Kenneth has made a full recovery. He’s back to working out and still in awe of the lifesaving care he received from Dr. Crosland and the entire St. Joseph’s/Candler team.

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Sharks’ hot start fueled by run game, defense

BY JUSTIN JARRETT Contributor

After a four-year run as one of the top high school football teams in the Lowcountry, the May River Sharks took a step back with back-to-back losing seasons, but a return to the program’s roots has the Sharks riding high with a 3-0 record and a top-10 ranking in Class 4A.

May River opened the season with 34-13 home win over Airport before stunning Class 5A West Ashley 28-21 on the road and routing visiting Lake City 41-6 on senior night, and the Sharks have done it with a multi-headed monster of a backfield and a dominant defense.

“Coming off a 4-7 season and the year before 5-6, it’s fun getting some wins in and being able to celebrate with your teammates,” senior center Beau Gwynn said on the LowcoSports Lowdown. “Our offensive line is having fun being able to

just basically pound dudes all day, just destroying them.”

Indeed, Gwynn and his teammates on the offensive line have paved the way for 966 rushing yards and 14 touchdowns through three games, and the Sharks are picking

up 6.6 yards per carry — and there are plenty of people contributing to the success. Asa Haskins (298 yards, 2 TDs), Sean Mitchell (247 yards, 1 TD) and Andrew Johnson (233 yards, 3 TDs) have carried the bulk of the load, but Gage Duncan has

added two rushing scores and a touchdown reception, and quarterback Tanner Macy has had a nose for the end zone with six rushing touchdowns.

When the Sharks were running the Lowco, they did it by running the ball and locking down on defense, and this year’s team appears to have adopted the same philosophy. And much like the balanced attack on offense, May River is getting the job done with a team effort on defense. Peter Nodelman, Hudson Flanagan, and Zavier Polite have been the top tacklers thus far, with Polite wreaking havoc with six tackles for loss and three sacks, and the Sharks have forced six turnovers in three games.

The similarities don’t end there. The 3-0 start is the Sharks’ best since winning their first six games en route to 10-3 record and a trip to the Class 3A Lower

State finals in 2019.

“I think a lot last year and the year before that, players were playing individually, including myself,” Gwynn said. “I was more focused on myself and not worried about my teammates, where this year it’s 11 dudes together playing football and having fun and working together.”

The Sharks host Brookland-Cayce on Friday before closing out non-region play Sept. 27 at Georgetown.

SEAHAWKS NOTCH 2ND SHUTOUT

With two shutouts in three games, Hilton Head High appears to be a potential contender in what is shaping up to be a wide-open Region 6-4A race. The Seahawks blanked Aiken 45-0 on Friday after opening the season with a 65-0 rout of Stall, and the defense did its part in Hilton Head’s only loss thus far, a 24-0 defeat against Class 5A power James Island.

With Tristen Simmons, Andrew Massey and Caleb Spangler anchoring the defense and the duo of Troy Timko and Thaddeus Czarnecki running behind a veteran offensive line, the Seahawks should remain competitive as long as they stay healthy.

The Seahawks (2-1) travel to Hardeeville on Friday and host Hampton County, the top-ranked team in Class 2A, in their final non-region game Sept. 20.

BOBCATS STUMBLE IN SAVANNAH

After a scorching start that indicated Bluffton’s high-flying offense was allsystems-go with Aedan McCarthy at quarterback, the Bobcats sputtered on a rainy night in Savannah, falling 44-16 to Savannah Country Day. Bluffton found itself in an early 21-0 hole and couldn’t establish the run game, and the Bobcats couldn’t dig themselves out.

Bluffton (2-1) hosts Hampton County for its homecoming game Friday and welcomes former region rival Lucy Beckham to The Den on Sept. 20.

Justin Jarrett is the sports editor of The Island News and is the founder of Lowco Sports. He has a passion for sports and community journalism and a ques-

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LOWCO SCOREBOARD

WEEK 2 (AUG. 30)

East Clarendon 32, Ridgeland 14

Greenwood 37, Beaufort 18

James Island 24, Hilton Head 0

Woodland 32, Colleton Co. 14

May River 28, West Ashley 21

Bluffton 35, Andrew Jackson 13

Hampton Co. 33, Allendale-Fairfax 0

Battery Creek 41, JPII 26

Whale Branch 42, Hardeeville 0

Thomas Heyward 33, Colleton Prep 0 Beaufort Academy 35 St. John’s Christian 28

HHCA 34, Bethesda Academy 14

Patrick Henry 42, Clarendon Hall 10 The King’s Academy 58, Cross Schools 6

WEEK 3 (SEPT. 6)

Philip Simmons 31, Beaufort 20

Hilton Head 45, Aiken 0 May River 41, Lake City 6

Savannah Country Day 44, Bluffton 16

Lower Richland 46, Colleton Co. 20

Keenan 26, Battery Creek 0

Hampton Co. 14, Silver Bluff 7

Whale Branch 35, Ridgeland 12 East Clarendon 36, Hardeeville 7

Bethesda Academy 12, John Paul II 3

Beaufort Academy 25, Patrick Henry 23

Thomas Heyward 39, Orangeburg Prep 0 Colleton Prep 25, Andrew Jackson Academy 8

Cathedral Academy 58, Cross Schools 8

WEEK 4 (SEPT. 13)

Goose Creek at Beaufort, 7:30pm

Brookland-Cayce at May River, 7:30pm

HHIHS at Hardeeville, 7:30PM

Hampton Co. at Bluffton, 7:30pm Colleton Co. at Stall, 7:30pm

Battery Creek at Bethune-Bowman, 7:30pm

Woodland at Whale Branch, 7:30pm Ridgeland at Manning, 7:30pm

HHCA at John Paul II, 7pm

Hilton Head Prep at Bethesda Academy, 7:30pm

Dorchester Academy at Patrick Henry, 7:30pm

Williamsburg Academy at Thomas Hey-

ward, 7:30pm Lee Academy at Beaufort Academy, 7:30pm Calhoun Academy at Colleton Prep, 7:30pm Cross Schools at Holly Hill Academy, 7:30pm

WEEK 5 (SEPT. 20)

Beaufort at Battery Creek, 7:30pm Hampton Co. at Hilton Head, 7:30pm Lucy Beckham at Bluffton, 7:30pm Philip Simmons at Whale Branch, 7:30pm Hardeeville at Lee Central, 7:30pm Burke at Ridgeland, 7:30pm HHCA at Hammond, 7:30pm Carolina Academy at Hilton Head Prep, TBA

Bethesda Academy at Patrick Henry, 7:30pm

Faith Christian at Thomas Heyward, 7:30pm

Colleton Prep at Clarendon Hall, 7:30pm Conway Christian at Cross Schools, 7pm

SCHSL 6-4A

SCHSL 4-1A

REGION OVERALL

May River 0-0 3-0

Bishop England 0-0 2-0

SCISA 2-1A

REGION OVERALL

Bamberg-Ehrhardt 0-0 2-1

Denmark-Olar 0-0 1-2

Hardeeville 0-0 1-2

Ridgeland 0-0 1-2

Allendale-Fairfax 0-0 0-3

SCISA 1-3A

SCHSL 6-3A

REGION OVERALL

Orangeburg-Wilkinson

REGION OVERALL

HHCA 0-0 2-1

Pinewood Prep 0-0 2-2

Palmetto Christian 0-0 1-2

First Baptist 0-0 1-3

2-1

Hanahan 0-0 1-2

Oceanside Collegiate 0-0 1-2

Battery Creek 0-0 1-2

SCHSL 5-2A

REGION OVERALL

Barnwell 0-0 3-0

Hampton Co. 0-0 3-0

Whale Branch 0-0 2-1

Lake Marion 0-0 1-2

Edisto 0-0 1-2

REGION OVERALL

Thomas Heyward 1-0 3-0

Beaufort Academy 1-0 3-1

Faith Christian 1-0 1-3

Colleton Prep 1-1 3-1

Patrick Henry 0-1 2-1

Andrew Jackson Acad. 0-2 0-3

SCISA 8-MAN II

REGION OVERALL

Cathedral Academy 4-0

Holly Hill Academy 3-0

Jefferson Davis 3-1

John Paul II 0-0 0-4

SCISA

1-2A

REGION OVERALL

Pee Dee Academy 1-0 3-0

Hilton Head Prep 0-0 1-1

Dillon Christian 0-0 1-1

The King’s Academy 2-1

Conway Christian 0-3 Cross Schools

Bethesda Academy 0-0

St. John’s Christian 0-0

Christian Academy (MB) 0-1

No, we can’t remodel your home in a day

BY RYAN CHOWANSKY Contributor

Ryan Chowansky

Here’s the truth. If you’re starting a home renovation and you think it’s going to be done in a day because you saw it happen on television, you’re setting yourself up for a lot of frustration. Renovation takes time.

You can have it done fast and cheap, or you can have it done right. You can only pick one.

Just like anything else worthwhile, there are a lot of moving parts, and if

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you want it done right, you’ve got to play the long game. So, here’s how you as a homeowner can set realistic expectations and avoid the headache most people create for themselves. Everyone wants to jump straight into demolition, but before a single nail is pulled, there’s an entire process that kicks off. Permits? Those don’t magically appear. Depending on the complexity of your project, your HOA requirements and the jurisdiction you live in, you could be looking at a month right there. Custom orders? You want a unique tile pattern flown in from Europe? You can’t de-

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cide on that one thing? Okay, but that’s adding to the timeline. We’ve recently had custom tile with a 16-week lead time arrive mostly broken, and when we went to order more, we were informed that it was the last order the factory made before they shut down. Thankfully, we were able to talk them into producing another order for us. Unfortunately, more broken tile was shipped, and they still re-opened a second time to finalize the order. We got lucky. Most people don’t account for these delays, and when things start slow, even while they’re still moving, they panic.

The reality of it, you need to plan for that upfront and be okay with the fact that sometimes, the waiting game is just part of the process.

WEATHER

In places like Bluffton, hurricane season is real, and rain is frequent. Weather will absolutely impact your

schedule. If you’re doing any exterior work, expect delays when it starts pouring. And look, contractors aren’t the government. They can’t control the weather, so getting upset about a storm delay is just wasting your energy. We want to get it done properly and safely as much as you do. Instead, pad your schedule with a few extra days, knowing that rain (or worse) could push things back.

LABOR SHORTAGES AIN’T NO TALL TALE

Construction is a team sport. You’ve got electricians, plumbers, carpenters—all of them need to be in sync.

But here’s where most homeowners get blindsided. Subcontractors are balancing multiple jobs. If one of them gets held up on another project, it impacts your timeline. This is why hiring a contractor with solid relationships and a reliable team is critical.

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The best thing you can do? Be like Gumby. Stay flexible. Give us and our subs room to juggle the moving parts and trust they’re trying to keep things moving as fast as possible.

CHANGE ORDERS ARE GAME CHANGERS

Here’s the biggest killer of timelines that no one talks about - you. Sorry, not sorry?

Every time you change your mind about a material, design or feature, the timeline shifts. You want a different tile? It has to be reordered. You want to add something to the project? The contractor has to recalibrate everything.

Stop shooting yourself in the foot. Make your decisions upfront and stick to them. You’ll save yourself time, money and a ton of stress. Better yet, work closely with your contractor in the planning phase to get as much right as possible from the start. Finally, remember, if you change order, you change time.

LET’S HAVE A TALK

In business, when there’s a lack of communication, things break down. Same goes for your renovation. You need regular updates from your contractor, and if something feels off or behind schedule, ask questions. Don’t just assume things are fine, also, don’t assume it’s all going to hell in a hand basket. Get in front of issues before they snowball and trust your contractor. That’s why you hired them! Look, there’s no such thing as a quick renovation. Set your expectations right and you’ll avoid 99% of the stress that most homeowners put themselves through. It’s about understanding the process, preparing for delays and staying flexible. Take your time, communicate well, communicate kindly and remember, quality takes time. Trust the process, and you’ll get what you want - just not tomorrow. Ryan Chowansky is the owner of Bluffton Builders, LLC.

Golf outing to benefit Boys & Girls Clubs

BY CHANNING HEISS

Contributor

The Bill Verity Cup golf outing to benefit the Boys and Girls Clubs of Northern Beaufort County will be held September 30 for the first time since the 2019, with golfers teeing off at the Spring Island Old Tabby Golf Links starting at 12:30 p.m.

Spokeswoman Libby O’Regan said in a media release that the organizers are working to raise $50,000 from the returning golf benefit, which was suspended in 2020 due to the pandemic. Proceeds will go toward the non-profit’s $600,000 annual operating budget.

The event can accommodate 72 golfers, or 18 foursomes, and sponsorship openings are limited. While all hole sponsorship spots have been filled, those interested in supporting the event can check remaining availability of sponsorship opportunities and the details of each package on the Boys & Girls Clubs of Northern Beaufort County Facebook page or the Boys & Girls Clubs of the Lowcountry website. Donations are welcome. An online silent auction is open for bids on the Facebook page and features numerous rounds of golf from sought-after courses in the Lowcountry including Secession, Dataw, May River and Pleasant Point, as well as several restaurant offers and a vacation. It is not necessary to be a registered Bill Verity Cup golfer to bid and win auction items.

The event is named in memory of C.

William Verity Jr., who founded the Beaufort Boys & Girls Club in 1986.

Members of his family continue to support the annual benefit competition, and his two sons will be in the field of golfers. The Boys & Girls Clubs of Northern Beaufort County currently serves over 250 youth in six schoolbased programs at Whale Branch Middle, Whale Branch Elementary, Shanklin, Broad River, Lady’s Island and St. Helena. The clubs are focused on delivering the mission and serve youth in academic programming focused on career and academic preparedness, healthy lifestyles, and good character and citizenship.

While the clubs do provide supervision and safety for participants, O’Regan emphasizes the importance of the three key areas of youth development as the elements that are most important in making the Boys & Girls Clubs so beneficial to young people. “They are more than just a safe place to be,” she said.

Speaking of the impact of the clubs on local youth, O’Regan said “It is fabulous to see what these clubs have done for them.”

Remaining sponsorship packages for the Bill Verity Cup can be purchased by visiting this link: https://secureonlinegiving.com/events/site/items.asp?eventID=2218

Channing Heiss is a freelance writer and a member of the Beaufort County disAbilities Coalition.

Mathew Epps MD, MS, DABS

Jane Epps RN, BSN

SPRING ISLAND

Spring Island hosts return of Bill Verity Cup golf fundraiser.

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BY TOM HENZ Contributor

Strategic planning is the cornerstone of successful organizations. Whether an entity is large or small, public or private, for-profit or nonprofit, strategic planning offers significant benefits. A well-crafted strategic plan that is regularly reviewed and updated allows organizations to evaluate their internal capabilities and external environment, set clear goals, allocate resources efficiently, focus their team’s efforts, and chart a course towards a desired future. To maximize effectiveness, a strategic plan should be intentional, informed, inclusive, innovative and inspirational.

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1. Intentional: Strategic planning must be intentional, meaning it requires a deliberate approach rather than merely reacting to daily events. By proactively defining goals and outlining the steps needed to achieve them, organizations ensure that their efforts are aligned with their mission and vision. This purposeful planning enables more effective resource allocation and helps steer the organization towards its desired future with clarity and intent.

2. Informed: An informed strategic plan is grounded in accurate, comprehensive data. This includes understanding internal performance metrics, competitor analysis and market trends. By leveraging this information, organizations can make decisions based on real-world conditions rather than assumptions. Regularly updated data helps anticipate challenges and seize opportunities, ensuring that the strategic plan remains relevant and actionable in a rapidly changing environment.

3. Inclusive: Inclusivity is crucial for a strategic plan to gain broad support and be effective. Engaging a diverse group of stakeholders, including employees, customers and partners, ensures that different perspectives and insights are considered. An inclusive approach not only enhances the quality of the plan but also fosters buy-in and collaboration, as stakeholders feel their

4. Innovative: An innovative strategic plan embraces creativity and forward-thinking. It encourages the exploration of new ideas, technologies and approaches to solving problems and achieving goals. Innovation helps organizations stay competitive and relevant, adapting to changes in the market and seizing new opportunities. By integrating innovative thinking, strategic planning can drive continuous improvement and long-term success.

5. Inspirational: Finally, for a strategic plan to resonate and drive action, it must be inspirational. This means articulating a compelling vision that motivates and energizes stakeholders. An inspirational plan goes beyond mere numbers and objectives; it tells a story of where the organization is headed and why it matters. By creating a sense of purpose and enthusiasm, an inspirational plan helps align the team’s efforts and fosters a shared commitment to achieving the vision.

In summary, effective strategic planning requires a deliberate, information-driven approach that includes diverse perspectives, new ideas and inspiration to light the spark. By following these five guideposts, organizations can craft strategic plans that not only navigate present challenges but also anticipate future opportunities, steering them toward sustainable growth and success. Tom Henz chairs the advisory committee of the USCB Center for Strategic Planning / uscb.edu/csp

BY JENNIFER C. WOLFE Contributor

In today’s fast-paced world, finding ways to relax and rejuvenate has become essential for maintaining mental and physical health. Two effective and accessible wellness practices that you can do at home are aromatherapy and hydrotherapy. These therapies harness the natural properties of essential oils and water to promote healing, relaxation and emotional well-being. Here’s how you can integrate both into your home routine for a truly holistic approach to self-care.

AROMATHERAPY: HEALING THROUGH SCENT

Aromatherapy is the practice of using essential oils extracted from plants to improve emotional and physical health. The power of aromathera-

py lies in the ability of scents to interact with your brain, specifically the limbic system, which controls emotions and memory. Depending on the oils used, aromatherapy can help reduce stress, uplift your mood, enhance concentration or even improve sleep quality.

GETTING STARTED WITH AROMATHERAPY AT HOME

To practice aromatherapy at home, you need a few key tools:

• Essential oils: Lavender, eucalyptus, peppermint and chamomile are commonly used oils that offer benefits such as relaxation, mental clarity and improved breathing.

• Diffuser: This device disperses essential oils into the air, al-

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lowing you to inhale the therapeutic benefits. You can choose between a water-based ultrasonic diffuser, a nebulizer or even simple reed diffusers.

• Candles or incense: For a more ambient approach, aromatherapy candles infused with essential oils or burning incense can release calming scents into your space.

AROMATHERAPY TECHNIQUES

1. Diffusion: Place a few drops of your chosen essential oil into a diffuser and let it run for 20-60 minutes. The scent will spread through the air, creating a calming or energizing atmosphere depending on the oil.

2. Topical application: Essential oils can also be applied to your skin when diluted with carrier oils (like coconut or jojoba oil). Massaging lavender oil on your temples or wrists can reduce anxiety, while eucalyptus oil applied to your chest can help clear sinuses.

3. Aromatic baths: Adding essential oils to your bath water can create a luxurious and therapeutic experience. Oils like chamomile or ylang-ylang can calm the nervous system, making this method great for relaxation before bedtime.

HYDROTHERAPY: HEALING WITH WATER

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circulation, while a cool bath can invigorate your body and help alleviate inflammation. For added benefits, you can enhance your bath with Epsom salts, which contain magnesium to relieve muscle pain.

2. Cold Showers: Starting your day with a cold shower may sound daunting, but it offers numerous health benefits, including boosting your immune system and improving circulation. It can also provide mental clarity and improve alertness.

3. Alternating Hot and Cold Showers: This technique, known as contrast hydrotherapy, involves alternating between hot and cold water during your shower. The sudden change in temperature helps improve circulation, detoxify the body and invigorate your energy levels.

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Hydrotherapy involves using water at various temperatures to relieve pain, improve circulation and promote relaxation. From hot baths to cold showers, this therapy leverages the natural properties of water to ease tension in the muscles, reduce inflammation and rejuvenate the body.

HYDROTHERAPY TECHNIQUES FOR HOME USE

1. Baths: A hot bath can soothe sore muscles and improve

One of the best ways to experience the full benefits of both therapies is to combine them. An aromatic bath is a prime example of this combination. Simply fill your tub with warm water, add a few drops of your favorite essential oils and soak for 20-30 minutes. The heat from the water will open your pores, allowing your skin to absorb the therapeutic oils, while the scent will calm your mind. Alternatively, you can diffuse essential oils in your bathroom while taking a hot or cold shower, creating a spa-like atmosphere without leaving your home.

Jennifer C. Wolfe is the Owner and Creative Director of Whisper Creek Luxury Day Spa in Bluffton. Prior to moving to Hilton Head, she ran an intellectual property law firm for more than 20 years in Cincinnati, Ohio. She can be reached at jen. wolfe@whispercreekspa.com. Her personal website can be found at www.jenwolfe.com.

“Fabulous Fakes”

The Art League of Hilton Head exhibit features “tongue in cheek” art pieces. See page 32A

Arts & Entertainment Calendar

SEPTEMBER 19

Recovery is Worth the Walk - Nexus Care of Beaufort County (Beaufort County Alcohol and Drug Department) is hosting “Recovery is Worth the Walk” to raise awareness and support for September as National Recovery Month. The walk will be Thursday, September 19, from 6 p.m. until 8 p.m., at Battery Creek High School, 1 Blue Dolphin Drive.The event is free and open to the public. The event is free and open to the public. To walk as an individual or to register a team, click this link  https://tinyurl.com/ yupzdtms.

For questions and more information, contact Nexus Care of Beaufort County at 843255-6000.

SEPTEMBER 21

Hilton Head Rotary’s Day of Service –Calling All Volunteers! Join Hilton Head Rotary Club as we roll up our sleeves and lend a helping hand to our beautiful island community. With a variety of projects taking place across Hilton Head, there’s an opportunity for everyone to get involved and make a

difference! Come experience the joy of volunteering alongside fellow Rotarians and see firsthand the impact we can make when we work together. September 21 from 9am – 12 pm. The Hilton Head Rotary’s Day of Service will include: Cleaning up the 50th Anniversary Pathway signs, beautifying the Children’s Center, assisting Volunteers in Medicine with landscaping, working with the Outside Foundation Oyster shell bagging to support local ecosystems, providing general housekeeping assistance to Pockets Full of Sunshine and also preparing for upcoming spring events.

SEPTEMBER 21

2024 Bluffton Marine Rescue Squadron Fallen Members Fishing Tournament – Saturday, September 21, 2024. In memory of Jason Flack. Captains meeting is Friday, September 20, from 5pm-7pm at the MRS Hut, 38 Confederate Ave, Bluffton. Any questions please call Bobby Heslin at 843-816-0213 or Bill Ludwig at 843-422-5881.

SEPTEMBER 22

Yacht Rock - Coastal Home Supper Club is

the popular monthly dinner and cabaret series at SoundWaves at Coligny, home of the HHSO, pairing food and music for a fun evening. Yacht Rock on Sunday, September 22, will feature vocalist Gretchen Kristine Stelzer and pianist Kenny Munshaw, covering breezy light rock hits by artists such as the Doobie Brothers, Fleetwood Mac, Christopher Cross, Steely Dan, and others. Supper for this one is provided by our neighbors at The Sandbar Beach Eats at Coligny. Doors open at 6pm, dinner is at 6:30pm, and the concert begins at 7:30pm. Tickets can be purchased at https://hhso.my.salesforce-sites. com/ticket/#/instances/a0FPb000004sw4kMAA.

SEPTEMBER 28

BlufftemberFest - The Bluffton Sunset Party Series is thrilled to announce the grand finale event, BlufftemberFest, taking place Saturday, September 28th, at The Bluffton Oyster Factory Park. A local tradition since 2012, it promises to be an unforgettable Bluffton-style Music Festival and Octoberfest Celebration on the picturesque May River.

From 3:00 pm to 8:00 pm, BlufftemberFest will captivate attendees with an incredible lineup of activities and entertainment. . Tickets for BlufftemberFest - Bluffton’s Octoberfest Celebration - are available now.  Please visit www.blufftonsunsetparty.com or contact Bear Foot Sports at 843-757-8520 for more details.

SEPTEMBER 28-29

Pickleball Tournament Promoting Mental Health Awareness - Join the fun while raising funds at the 2nd Annual Mental Health America of the Lowcountry’s Pickleball Tournament presented by The Fair Housing Institute on 12 courts at Palmetto Dunes, Hilton Head Island, SC, September 28-29. Proceeds go to the ongoing adult group mental health counseling programs at their Bluffton and Beaufort sites. Registration cutoff is September 26th and includes: pb matches, dri-fit tee, unique medals, food, beverages and more. Raffles and silent auction available. Register as a pair or single and get matched at: www.mhapickleball.com or questions: mhapickleball@gmail.com.

Hilton Head Island Camellia Sectional Tournament

November 8-10, 2024

Friday, November 8

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Stratified Open Pairs

10:00 am

Stratified 0-500 Pairs

2:30 pm

Stratified Open Pairs

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Stratified 0-500 Pairs

Saturday, November 9

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Stratified Open Pairs

10:00 am

Stratified 0-500 Pairs

2:30 pm

Stratified Open Pairs

2:30 pm

Stratified 0-500 Pairs

Playing Site & Accommodations:

Hilton Head Beach and Tennis Resort

40 Folly Field Road

Hilton Head Island, SC 29928 (800) 475-2631

Local Accommodations:

Home2 Suites by Hilton, Hilton Head

Springhill Suites, Hilton Head

Hampton Inn, Hilton Head

Marriott Courtyard, Hilton Head

Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort

Beachside Getaway

NO OUTSIDE FOOD OR BEVERAGES PLEASE. COMPLIMENTARY COFFEE WILL BE PROVIDED EACH MORNING.

Lunch will be available for purchase.

Lunch will be available for purchase. Gluten-Free and Vegetarian options will be available.

Sunday, November 10

Stratified Swiss Teams

Two Sessions: 10:00 am and TBA

Open Strats: 0-1000, 1000-3000, 3000+

0-500 Strats: 0-100, 100-300, 300-500

Destination Firefly Distillery…fun for all!

BY GLENDA HARRIS Contributor

ACBL Open Convention chart will be used for Open games. Players with 500 or fewer points (including Life Masters) are eligible for “0-500” games. Team game stratification will be according to team MP average. Table fees will be $12 per person for pairs and $96 per team for Swiss.

Guidelines regarding COVID vaccination: No proof of vaccination is required.

Tournament Chairpersons

Kerry Flom

630-842-3426 kjflom@comcast.net

Kathy Buford

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Partnership Desk

Hilton Head

Mary (Marty) Davis 843-422-3150 martyrdavis61@gmail.com

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A beautiful and spacious venue and a history-making distillery, the Firefly Distillery is known for its Lowcountry ambience and hospitality. Just north of Charleston, if you’re coming from Bluffton or Hilton Head, it truly is a fun-forall destination as a day trip or overnighter.

The owners, Jim Irvin and Scott Newitt describe Firefly Distillery as “…one big southern family. A genuine mix of scientists, craftsmen, entrepreneurs, comedians, and cooks, we’ve captured lightning (bugs) in a jar, and just like to have a real good time.” Jim and Scott founded the business which now includes several family members as key employees.

Along with their wives, Ann and Trisha, the owners were instrumental in changing state legislation to a more friendly environment for a business to distill, offer samples and sell bottled spirits from a distillery location.

Firefly created the first ever sweet tea-flavored vodka. Truly a southern beverage, it is distilled four times and then blended with local tea and sweetened with Louisiana sugarcane. It continues to be a favorite as their product line has continued to grow, now with 30 original spirits.

Every Saturday afternoon from 1-4 pm, the Firefly hosts live music from local musicians complete with food trucks and cocktails available for purchase.

An expansive 5-acre field is the setting for outdoor concerts. Coming up October 1st for you singer-songwriter/acoustic folk fans is Gregory Alan Isakov and Ray LaMontagne with special guest “The Secret Sisters”. The group “Lake Street Dive” will be on stage October 6

and Brett Young is scheduled for October 25. All tickets are general admission and handled by Ticketmaster. At this versatile family-run business with Lowcountry vibes, you can bring the kids and watch them run or kick a ball on the large open field while you enjoy a favorite cocktail. You can also book a tasting, attend an outdoor yoga event, enjoy Friday Happy Hour or even rent the venue for your own celebration or special event. Also, they have cocktail-making classes. (Must be age 21+). They are located at 4201 Spruill Avenue in North Charleston.

Sign up for their VIP Guest List “On the Fly” for up-to-date information about their latest products, concerts and other special events. They also have cocktail-making classes. (Must be age 21+)

With fall arriving soon (hopefully), the weather will be ideal for visiting Firefly. You can bring your dog to enjoy the outdoor fun. (on leash).

Enjoy and stay safe out there.

A former Bluffton resident, Glenda finds stories everywhere and writes about nature, travel, healthy living and books.

Glenda Harris

Latitude Margaritaville Communities support brand-wide day of service in recognition of Jimmy Buffett Day

On Jimmy Buffett Day, August 30, 2024, Latitude Margaritaville communities and residents rolled up their sleeves and turned out for Day of Service events to help local non-profit organizations in his honor. They joined with all Margaritaville communities, properties, resorts, restaurants, destinations, hotels, and cruises in the brandwide events.

Jimmy Buffett Day honors the beloved singer’s legacy and celebrates the way he lived his life in support of others and community. In 1995, Buffett created Singing for Change, a non-profit organization that supports inclusive, grassroots organizations, large and small,

that inspire personal growth, community integration and the enhanced awareness that, collectively, people can bring about positive change.

Latitude Margaritaville Day of Service events included beach cleanups and giving helping hands to a children’s home.

Latitude Margaritaville Hilton Head partnered with The Outside Foundation for a beach cleanup at Burkes Beach on Hilton Head Island. Latitude Margaritaville

“YEP, THIS IS A BLOCKBUSTER!”

-NEW YORK POST

This splashy, hysterical, wildly entertaining musical received 10 Tony Award nominations including Best Musical!

A mash-up of contemporary Broadway and the creative Renaissance, brothers Nick and Nigel Bottom are desperate to write a hit play but struggle to find success in the theatrical world as they compete with the crazy-popular William Shakespeare. In this history-twisting tale, Shakespeare (‘Will’ to his friends) is a leather-clad rock star who makes the ladies simply swoon in their corsets!

But amidst the scandalous excitement of their creative theatrical endeavor, the Bottom Brothers realize that reaching the top means still being true to thine own self … and all that jazz!

DIRECTED BY WHITAKER GANNON

The Cast of Something Rotten!. Photography by Gustavo Rattia

HERITAGE LIBRARY FALL EVENTS

TheHeritage Library Presents : of Ghosts & Myths Hilton Head Island

at the Zion Cemetery and Baynard Mausoleum Outdoor Learning Center

October 18, 19, 25, 26

7:00 - 8:30 pm

$15 per person

Purchase tickets at HeritageLib.org Corner of 278 & Mathews Drive

ZION CEMETERY & BAYNARD MAUSOLEUM COSTUMED CEMETERY TOUR

TUESDAYS AT 10:30AM

Visit the gravesites of four Revolutionary War heroes and find out about the bloody skirmish that was fought just steps away.

Site on the SC Liberty Trail.

Corner of Hwy. 278 & Mathews Dr.

$10/ADULT • $8/CHILD

Registration required. HeritageLib.org/Tours

Scan here to register for TOURS

Not recommended for children under 12. Tickets are limitedpurchase in advance.

HISTORIC FORT MITCHEL TOUR

THURSDAYS AT 10:30AM

Fort Mitchel contains the remains of a coastal defense battery erected in 1862 to protect the Port Royal Sound by way of Skull Creek from incursions by Confederate gunboats.

65 Skull Creek Dr., Hilton Head Plantation

$10/ADULT • $8/CHILD

Registration required. HeritageLib.org/Tours

Scan here to register for Ghosts & Myths of Hilton Head

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Hilton Head Foundation also donated funds to The Outside Foundation to support their mission to involve youth in outdoor experiences to teach them about the importance of a healthy ecosystem.

Latitude Margaritaville Daytona Beach residents partnered with Daytona Dog Beach, Inc., for a Daytona Dog Beach cleanup. The Latitude Margaritaville Daytona Beach Foundation also donated funds to Daytona Dog Beach, Inc. to help them in their mission to support and educate the public in furtherance of dog friendly beaches in the Greater Daytona Beach area.

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residents partnered with Anchorage Children’s Home, organizing their food pantry, and assisting with property cleanup. Latitude Margaritaville Watersound Foundation also donated funds to support the non-profit in its work of providing emergency shelter, transitional living, maternity transitional living, counseling, case management and outreach services to abused and homeless youth and their families. It was an all-round wonderful day of friends gathering to help friends and community — followed by a refreshing beverage concoction, and bite to eat back home at Latitude Margaritaville!

Historic Bluffton Foundation’s Gullah Spirituals Concert

The Historic Bluffton Foundation (HBF) is hosting a Gullah Spirituals Concert celebrating the life and music of Bluffton Musician Luke Peeples, (1906-1994). This special event will take place on Friday, October 25, 2004, at 6 pm. at Campbell Chapel AME Church, 25 Boundary Street.

Under the esteemed direction of Dr. Marlena Smalls– renowned Gullah singer, actress and educator - the 90-minute program will feature captivating performances by The Hallelujah Singers, the Tabernacle Baptist Choir, and Bluffton choirs including Campbell Chapel AME, First Zion Baptist, and St. John’s Baptist churches.

The concert will include reflections and poems from Bluffton community members who will share stories about the life and legacy of Luke Peeples,

the Gullah community, its culture, and spiritual life, and Bluffton in the 20th century. Speakers include Pastor Gwendolyn Greene of St. John’s Baptist, Allyne Mitchell of Campbell Chapel AME Church, City Council Member and lifelong resident Fred Hamilton, Professor and Poet Ellen Malphus, and lifelong resident Emmet McCracken. Rev. Dr. Jon R. Black of Campbell Chapel AME Church will provide the invocation. Peeples, born in Bluffton in 1906, was a musical genius with a deep love for Bluffton and its Gullah residents, descendants of freedmen and West Africans who were brought to the South Caroline Lowcountry during slavery.

The people and the Gullah music

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Bluffton Community members preparing to speak at the Historic Bluffton Foundation’s upcoming  Celebration Concert include Emmett McCracken, Beth Corry, Pastor Gwendolyn Greene, Fred Hamilton, Allyne Mitchell and Ellen Malphus.

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from Bluffton’s African-American churches inspired his life and music. While presented with other opportunities, Peeples dedicated his life to collecting, arranging and preserving the Gullah spirituals, which were traditionally passed down orally. The Spirituals and Peeples’ original compositions helped illuminate and record the Gullah culture and song traditions in Bluffton, from acts of redemption and baptism to the ring shout, dancing, fishing, and everyday life.

HBF board member Sylvia Coker is

Smalls, the artists, churches, choirs, and residents who have come together in celebration and remembrance to make this a shining moment for Bluffton.”

The Family of Luke Peeples and the descendants of the Gullah residents who inspired his original compositions have been invited to be in attendance. Following the performance, a reception will be held at the Heyward House Common Ground, hosted by the Historic Bluffton Foundation.

Tickets, priced at $25 per person,

Presents:

LIVE MUSIC around the Neptune Statue plus light appetizers & drink specials available for purchase from two Shelter Cove Harbour & Marina restaurants.

• 6 - 9 PM • FREE ADMISSION

BY DANIE CONNOLLY Contributor

Not only are the artists’ work hanging on the walls of the Art League of Hilton Head talented, but they’ve also got a great sense of humor, as well.

During the gallery’s exhibition “Fabulous Fakes”, they outdid themselves with a tongue in cheek approach.

The gallery showroom is beautifully displayed with artwork supplied by the members, complete with a fun twist. Some of the paintings are quite clever and all are nicely executed. Some look so real that the artists could have a second career as forgers! Other “masterpieces” require

the viewers imagination with the support of a reference book supplied to see the artist’s intention.

There is a Van Gogh painting that contains 3 tiny solar fans up near the mountain range, Renoir’s naked bather sports an Olympic tattoo - kudos for brilliantly timed! Munch’s The Scream’s face was hilariously replaced with the mask of the villain from the horror movie Scream. Picasso’s Bouquet of Peace with hands clasping flowers were smartly replaced with Ukraine’s blue and yellow colors. Klimt’s Mother and Child was precious with electric lights intertwined into the mother’s hair and who wouldn’t love Picasso ‘s Harlequin model with a Starbucks cup of coffee next to him?!

Van Gogh’s Blue irises was spoofed with a naughty cat behind the vase about to knock it off the shelf. Klimt’s farm garden introduced an adorable and happy audience of field flowers - each with the color-

ful grin…brilliant Frans Hals’ The Lute Player was outstanding when the artist replaced the Lute with a blue heron - beyond clever…and those eyes!!! Degas’ Little Ballerina was spoofed with the cat adorned with the infamous ballet costume on balancing on a ball of yarn. My favorite (if I could choose) is Millet’s The Gleaners. It won my funny bone award for imagination by littering the ground with tossed out rubbish. It’s so clever that I hope someone from a rubbish company slaps down some cold cash and hangs it in the office. If you can’t afford the original please buy the hilarious version and support the Art League. My apologies to all the artists that participated and weren’t mentioned. Every single one did a topnotch job but unfortunately there isn’t enough print space. And a special high five, great job, to Full Spectrum Studio

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comprised of adult artists and special needs - they also entered top notch Fabulous Fakes!

Hopefully, you’ll run right over to 14 Shelter Cove Road in Hilton head and catch this wonderful exhibit. If you miss it, rest assured that you can be guaranteed there’s always another show to enjoy. They really know how to hang a show within show. Lyndsi Caulder, the gallery manager, does a phenomenal job of making you feel welcomed and explaining the many artworks within the gallery. The jewelry cases hold some of the most unique pieces of jewelry in South Carolina as well as the superb individual members artwork!

BY KEVIN FITZPATRICK Contributor

cination with books and reading started, but I also cannot remember ever not reading. I was very lucky to have been “schooled” in the Bronx, N.Y., beginning back in 1957. I was also lucky that my parents, neither of whom had a wealth of formal education, my father joined the Navy right out of high school as part of the “greatest gen-

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eration” and served overseas until late 1945, and my mother went to work for then Bell Telephone in the secretarial pool right out of high school, were very supportive and encouraging with regard to my own and my sister’s education. I had a collection of “golden books” as soon as it was evident that I could read, well before going to school.

I remember reading comic books at a very early age, so much so that I would reserve 12 different “books” at my local candy store. While each title was released monthly, they varied with which weeks they would come out so they would hold them for me, and I would dutifully show up with my saved allowance money and bring them home. I would relish reading and rereading each one until the next came out. I also supplemented those with Classics Illustrated (you might want to google them). That was my first introduction to Frankenstein, Robinson Caruso, Treasure Island, various works of Shakespeare and

more, all of which I subsequently read in their full text forms. I wish I had many of those original editions today as they have quite the robust collectors’ market, though I read them so often that the condition they were in would not have resulted in much I suspect. Comics gave way to books. I read the entire Tom Swift series and then the Hardy Boys, often only taking a few days for each book. Then it was on to Ian Fleming and James Bond. High school brought with it Dickens, Swift, Shakespeare, Shelley, Stoker, and yes, Thomas Wolfe (not to be confused with Tom Wolfe of Bonfire of the Vanities fame) and his work, “You Can’t Go Home Again.” It was a work, a title and a frequently misconstrued phrase, “you can never go home again,” that has struck a chord most recently. I was born and raised in the Bronx, moved to Yonkers, N.Y. for a while, spent two years in Lenox, Mass. and then 43 in Conn. All places very close to each other and very similar in almost every aspect, so moving to Bluffton as we did in late August 2021 was, other

than vacation travel, the first major change of a “home base.”

At first, it seemed like just an extended vacation here. We missed friends and family and many of the things we had come to enjoy. Occasionally, I would find myself in conversation telling someone we were taking a trip home when we were going to see family and friends for various reasons. Gradually, we found our way around Bluffton without needing the GPS in the car, shopping, beaches, restaurants, golf and trails all making it feel more like home. We adjusted to the fact that, while “traffic” and “rush hour” are laughable compared to what we left, that there are certain times that hitting May River Road, or going to or from Savannah Airport or heading to or from the Island do require a bit of consideration if you are not locked into a work schedule. We now have favorite places but continue to add to the list. We have fully taken the local phrasing that we are currently in our “winter.”

Through all of this, when we travel, most recently to Conn. and Vt., it still

seems like we are walking a fine line between “homes.” What struck me this last trip though was the difference between the “extended vacation” feel we had when we first got here and how it felt coming back. This time, the trip north did feel more like a vacation and pulling into the garage (after the laughably easy and short trip from SAV) felt like coming home.

I started off by saying I disagreed with Mr. Wolfe, and I’ll wrap up with why I do. I think you can always go “home”. It’s just that the idea of “home” is fluid and it’s where you find your heart being pulled to. Perhaps Karla Bonoff said it best in her song Home

And home

Sings me of sweet things

My life there has its own wings to fly over the mountains though I’m standing still

Kevin Fitzpatrick is a retired teacher who, along with his wife Sue (also a retired teacher) is enjoying exploring life in the lowcountry and all it has to offer. BOOKS FROM PAGE 34A

Celebrating the importance of rehabilitation services during National Rehabilitation Awareness Week

BY WAYNE BOUTWELL, JR. Contributor

Imagine experiencing a stroke, brain or spinal cord injury or perhaps a complex orthopedic condition. There is hope for returning to daily life if rehabilitative care is pursued. Rehabilitation following an injury or illness allows patients to undergo therapies that specifically target their medical needs, with the goal of resuming normal life activities as independently as possible.

During National Rehabilitation Awareness Week from September 16-24 and throughout the month of September, we celebrate the benefits of rehabilitation and the successes of those who have received treatment. We also recognize and commend the rehabilitation professionals who dedicate their lives to impacting the lives of others.

Inpatient rehabilitation, offered in the hospital setting, is the highest level of physical rehabilitation a patient can receive when compared to skilled nursing, home health or outpatient therapy services. Inpatient rehabilitation has a lower length of stay and discharges more patients home than skilled nursing facilities. Furthermore, independent studies show that inpatient rehabilitation hospitals are a better setting for stroke, hip fracture and hip replacement patients. Why does this matter to Bluffton and the Lowcountry? It means our citizens can return home to their families and the communities they love and are less likely to return to the hospital for the same condition, as opposed to those patients who discharged home too soon from an acute care hospital. Today, rehabilitative services are vast with specializations such as speech, oc-

cupational and physical therapies. At Encompass Health Rehabilitation Hospital of Bluffton, our expert clinicians combine the latest technologies, real-world simulations and advanced therapies into a treatment plan that helps our patients achieve their goals. With three hours of therapy, five days per week and around-the-clock nursing care, our patients are regaining function and independence. In fact, we have discharged over 700 patients in 2024 with great success.

As we recognize National Rehabilitation Awareness Week, we celebrate the patients who have returned home. We also support those currently undergoing rehabilitation treatment. We applaud the care teams and honor the essential work they are accomplishing. Lastly, during this week, we remember why rehabilitation is important to a community. It creates hope and the opportunity for patients to return home.

Wayne Boutwell, Jr. is the Chief Executive Officer of Encompass Health Rehabilitation Hospital of Bluffton. Encompass Health Rehabilitation Hospital of Bluffton is a 38-bed, inpatient facility serving patients in Bluffton and surrounding communities. To learn more, visit encompasshealth.com/blufftonrehab.

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Privacy, bloodline trusts and asset protection

BY MARK WINN Contributor

Keeping your property out of court and in your family is the name of the game.  Leaving your assets in a “spendthrift trust” for your loved ones, instead of outright, can protect the funds you leave them from loss to creditors and divorce.  You can protect them from (1) their inability to manage the assets, (2) their eventual disability, (3) predatory spouses in divorce proceedings who try to get 50% of their assets (which could include what were your assets), and (4) their creditors.

This kind of planning can provide you with peace of mind in knowing that what you leave your loved ones will not be carelessly squandered and will not go to predatory spouses or money hungry creditors. You can also guarantee that the money will stay in your family bloodline. Many of our clients what to do this.

For instance, let us assume Frankie is a widower. He has one child, Jane, who is married to Paul.  Paul is a struggling artist.  Jane and Paul have Frankie’s only grandchild, Ferdinand.  Ferdinand loves to play soccer and video games.  Jane is a medical doctor with a busy pediatric care practice.  Frankie does not like Paul and believes Jane and Paul will divorce someday.  Frankie wants to leave everything he owns to Jane but he wants to make sure (1) Paul will not inherit it and (2) whatever is left will go to Ferdinand.  If Frankie has a simple will that says Jane is to get everything, Jane could easily lose the inherited family property in a variety of ways, namely:

(1) poor money management, (2) if Jane becomes disabled and Paul is appointed guardian by the court and he squanders the money, or commingling of funds with Paul, (3) if Jane and Paul divorce and the court rules Paul is entitled to half of Jane’s assets (including the family property Frankie left to Jane),

(4) if Jane is sued for medical malpractice and the claimants recover some or all of Jane’s assets (including the family property Frankie left to Jane).

If, however, Frankie left his assets through a trust (to avoid probate) in a “spendthrift trust” (to protect the assets) for Jane’s benefit with Ferdinand as a remainder beneficiary (to make sure the assets stay in the bloodline), these assets would be protected.  An advisor or financial trustee could make the assets grow and protect them from poor management or poor judgment. If Jane became disabled, Paul would not be able to squander that money.  If Jane and Paul divorced, Paul would not share in the assets Frankie left to Jane.  They would be protected because they were left to Jane in a trust for her benefit with a clause that directs Jane’s creditors shall not be entitled to Jane’s trust finds.  Also, if Jane were exposed for medical malpractice, the funds Frankie leaves to Jane will be protected.

Our society is litigious.  Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce.  Leaving assets “in trust” instead of outright can provide you with the peace of mind you deserve.  It can protect your family and keep your family property in your bloodline.    Mark F. Winn, J.D., Master of Laws (LL.M.) in estate planning, is a local asset protection, estate and elder law planning attorney. mwinnesq.com

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BY COLLINS DOUGHTIE Contributor

One of my very first fishing memories happened when I was around five or six years old. There was a freshwater pond not far from my house where my dad got me started on fishing, and it was at this pond that my life as a fisherman was sealed. I think it was a weekend, and I decided to go exploring around the pond looking for frogs and other creatures. I had walked about halfway around the pond when I saw it. Lying in a shallow sandy spot in the shape of a circle was the biggest largemouth bass I had ever seen. I hid behind a tree and watched that fish for a long time, and it never left that spot. At that time in my life, I had no idea that the bass was actually a female on her nest, but nest or no nest, I was going to catch that fish. All I could think was how excited my dad would be if I came home carrying that big old bass, and with that, I hatched my plan of attack.

Running home as fast as I could, I went into the garage and grabbed my cheapo fishing rod. Back then, lures were pretty primitive and like most everyone else, all I had was one of those red rubber worms that came rigged with two gold hooks and a little silver propeller in the front. I bolted back down to the pond praying that the fish would still be there, and sure enough, she hadn’t moved an inch from that white sandy circle. I had a problem though, and that was she was only about five feet away from the bank, and if I tried casting to her, she would surely see me and swim away. My heart was pounding like crazy as I

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leaned around the tree I was hiding behind and flipped the worm past her. Slowly, I reeled that worm toward her, and just as it entered that white circle, she opened that huge mouth of hers and inhaled my fake worm, but before I could do anything, she spit it right out. Over and over, I got her to grab the worm, but every single time, she would spit it out before I could hook her. This went on for nearly the entire afternoon until she finally decided to ignore that worm completely. I was devastated and went home like a fallen warrior.

I could barely sleep that night thinking about that bass. What could I do differently? As the sun started coming up the next morning, I was already heading toward the pond, and when I arrived, I crawled up toward the spot where the fish had been, and there she was just like I had left her the day before. Nervously, I pitched the worm over a bush, and on that very first cast, I snagged a branch. Pulling as hard as I could, the back hook broke off and the worm came flying toward me. I had ruined my worm! With only that one worm to my name, I had no choice but to go with what I had and cast out past the monster fish. As I twitched the worm along, I noticed it had more action, and this time, that bass grabbed the worm and held on. Hauling back, I hooked her, and immediately, she came flying out of the water with that huge mouth wide open. It was a tug of war between little old me and my very own Moby Dick. I can still remember how hard she tried to beat me as she headed for branches and other obstructions that would snap my line. I finally got her though, and she

Last week, I caught my largest flounder in years. It was too big to fit in a 52-quart cooler!

was right at seven pounds, and my dad was so proud of me. I swear it was that experience that made fishing my passion in life. So why did I recount one of my childhood experiences? Because now, sixty or so years later, I had a similar experience in one of the plantations this past week. I had told a friend of mine that lives there about the great fishing right there in his back yard, so he asked me to come over and show him how to fish there so he could take his kids at a later date. Meeting

up with him, I took him to a spot that I hadn’t fished in years, but when I did fish there, I caught some decent size redfish. In a nutshell, we hooked six huge redfish that shrugged off our light tackle with ease. Even with braided line and a very, very tight drag, it was like hooking a Volkswagen bus, but there was no stopping them. Time after time they took me into submerged tree limbs, and like that time when I was six years old, I became obsessed. These were no average redfish, and all I could think was these bad boys had done some serious growing in the six or so years since I had last fished for them.

So, this past week, I went back with the sole purpose of conquering one of these beasts. If I would have had a pair of old school Converse sneakers and maybe a bit more hair on my head, I could have been a kid again. After sitting there for thirty minutes, I saw my line jump. It jumped again, and then started peeling off the reel in a blur. Setting the hook, there was no doubt in my mind as to what it was. t had to be one of those monster redfish. Back and forth he went heading for anything and everything that might chaff my line. After fifteen minutes or so, he was in my hands and if only my dad was still alive to see that fish. For just a moment, life had come full circle for me and with that, I gently eased the big redfish back in the water and watched it swim away. It was a good day in a darn good life.

Collins Doughtie is a 60-year resident of the Lowcountry, is a sportsman, graphic artist, and lover of nature. collinsdoughtie@icloud.com

BY RABBI KEN KANTER Contributor

Dear Bluffton friends, I am sure that many of you know the old aphorism “Man proposes and God disposes,” which means even the best made plans we make may change beyond our power. My original theme for this September article was an article about the Jewish High Holydays in relation to the Jewish and secular calendar. For those of you who are familiar with the High Holy Days of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, you expect they are sometime in September,

Reflection and resilience: a new year amid tragedy

and that is usually the case. But this year, it is different when we look at our calendar. Judaism uses a unique structure for our calendar and our holy days, a lunar calendar rather than a solar calendar. The names of the Hebrew months are much older than those familiar to us, as they are Biblical in their source. The Jewish religious new year begins with the month of Tishri, in the autumn, with Rosh Hashanah always comes on the first day of the month, with Yom Kippur coming ten days later. As our secular calendar does, the Hebrew calendar also has twelve months, beginning with the first month of the calendar year, Nisan.

Nisan commences in the spring and includes our special Holy Day of Pesach (Passover). And seven months later, we arrive where we are now, with the seventh month of Tishri, and these sacred High

Holy Days. In some ways, Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur are, for our Jewish community, like Christmas and Easter for Christians. They are the two times a year when most Jewish people come to synagogue for worship, even if they rarely do the rest of the year.

Rosh Hashanah is a day to look back on the year soon ending, with the solemn yet joyful opportunity to begin the year anew by remembering special moments gone by, and the privilege of starting over again. We have the tradition of understanding that at the High Holy days, we pray to God to be inscribed in the Book of Life for a good new year.

As Rosh Hashanah means “head of the new year,” so Yom Kippur has its own Hebrew translation, the “Day of Atonement.” This is the day when those in the Jewish

community who are able will fast for 26 hours. No food or water are to be consumed. Our tradition teaches that those who cannot fast due to their physical health or need for medication are excused from this responsibility. The Bible teaches us that we fast on this special day to keep from thinking of food, but for most people, this long fast reminds you even more about food and drink! Even though these 26 hours are filled with worship, prayer, liturgy, learning and sacred song, this day does not keep you from thinking about what you are giving up! However, this year our memories on this New Year will be very different from any year for decades, because between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur this year, the Jewish community and the world will sadly commemorate the first anniversary of the tragic events in Israel and Gaza, the deaths

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of thousands of innocent men, women and children.

The mother of one of those recently killed hostages, Hersh Goldberg-Pollin, wrote these powerful and moving words that all of us, regardless of faith or tradition, can speak and understand. “I pray that your death will be a turning point in this horrible situation in which we are entangled… Now, my Hersh, I ask for your help. As we transform our hope into grief, in this new, unknown brand of pain, I beg of you, Hersh, please do what you can to have your life shine down. Help shower us with healing and resilience. Help us to rise again.”

At this approaching season of the new year and our sacred time of seeking forgiveness for all our faults and misdeeds, I hope we will keep Rachel Goldberg-Polin’s heartfelt words in our own hearts. “May we be showered with healing and resilience, and in this new year, may we rise again.”

Rabbi Ken Kanter currently serves the local Jewish congregation at the Temple Oseh Shalom in Bluffton, SC.

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SThis story is from a collection of interviews from long time locals who have generously shared their lowcountry memories with me to be saved for historical purposes and future generations

pillin’ the Tea... Tales from the Lowcountry Buck and Happy’s excellent adventure

BY PAUL TOLLEFSON Contributor

If you are reading this story, then you are probably old enough to remember the movie

“Ferris Buellers Day Off.” This story has so many twists and turns in one day, it was the first thing that I thought of after hearing it all.

This story comes to us from the mouth of Jeffery “Buck” Mitchell, a man whose family has been here, well, forever. You don’t have to know Buck to understand what a crazy story this is, but if you do know him, you can almost hear him talking through the story, with his slight Gullah dialect and fast speech. The way he gets excited when telling a story is still a thing of beauty, and you can’t help but get sucked into to what he’s saying, if you can follow along!

The other gentleman in this story is Earl “Happy” Brown, another Bluffton Native who unfortunately passed away earlier this year. Buck was a little younger than Happy, and this story comes to us from around the mid-70s, and the boys were 15 and 17 or so.

It was a summer’s day and both boys were off of school for break and in need of work. In those days there was not a lot of work to be had in Bluffton, so what most had to do was get to Hilton Head to find employment in the restaurants, hotels or landscaping businesses.

The boys, not having cars, hitchhiked

from Bluffton down into Sea Pines to the Harbor Town area. They were looking to try to get a job at one of the few restaurants down there at the time. They ended up each scoring a job, and when they had to hitchhike back out of Sea Pines, they caught a ride to the gas station/party store that was near modern day Sea Pines Circle on U.S Hwy. 278.

“We were in the parking lot of the gas station catching some shade under a nearby tree before trying to find another ride. All of a sudden, I see Happy get up and start running behind a gentleman that was going into the store, yelling his name,” said Buck.

“Mr. Ashe, Mr. Ashe,” Happy yelled as the man turned around.

“I remember him following this man into the store and I didn’t know who that man was. I thought Happy was just messing around,” laughed Buck.

After a few minutes, “Mr. Ashe” walked out of the store to his car, and out walks Happy with the biggest grin on his face.

“Happy has this look on his face, and he’s holding a 6-pack of beer as he comes walking back over to me,” Buck said. Happy looked at me and said, “That was Arthur Ashe, he bought us some beer!”

Buck asked Happy how on earth he knew Arthur Ashe, and Happy simply said, “I seent him on TV.”

So, the boys enjoyed the cold beers outside under the shade of the tree, feeling like a million bucks with a new job and some beer. But their next dilemma was getting from Hilton Head back to Bluffton.

“We walked toward Shipyard hoping to catch a ride. We see a man put his brake lights on and pull up to the light and

Happy starts sprinting for the truck. I knew the man was only stopping for the light, not to give us a ride,” chuckled Buck.

“Happy jumps on the back of this guy’s truck and is yelling for me to hurry up! I saw the light change to green, and that man floored it! Happy tumbled off that truck all bloodied up and walked back to me!”

The boys, still with no ride, decided to walk to Palmetto Dunes, as they knew a guy working at the Hyatt that would give them a ride after he got off work.

“So, we walked to the Hyatt, the slight beer buzz wearing off, and when we walked in, there was a big party going on inside. We were dressed halfway decently, and besides the little blood on Happy, we were still somewhat presentable. There was an employee party happening and everyone was having a great time, they had a DJ and everything!”

“So, I’m dancing a bit by myself, cause I have always loved to dance. Then, I heard this DJ say that the dance contest was about to start, and the winners would get $150 and a limo ride! I grabbed this girl that I saw that was cute and we started dancing!” Buck continued.

“These other couples were getting voted off the dance floor as the songs kept getting played, and wouldn’t you know it, me and this girl were the last ones left and won the dance competition!”

“I got my money, from an employee party, at a job I didn’t even work at, and me and Happy split the money! I gave the limo ride to the girl as she lived on the island and could use it more than I could,” Buck reminisced to me smiling.

The boys finally got their ride back to Bluffton, $150 richer and a story that can be told for generations!

Paul Tollefson is the Director of Tennis at Hampton Hall Club. He is a 20+ year resident of Hilton Head and Bluffton and enjoys researching and writing about the people, places, and things that have made the area what it is today. Paul is the co-creator of the Facebook page Bluffton Then and Now. He enjoys giving Bluffton history presentations to communities and in local schools and is on the board of the Historic Bluffton Foundation.

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Faith: a matter of word and deed

BY REV. SHANNON BULLION Contributor

I don’t know about you, but I enjoy some diversity in my Facebook groups. I am a member of a group for people who have a Frenchie, who own a Jeep and who practice contemplative prayer.

In the past year, I also joined a group called Atheists and Christians in debate. As someone who enjoys theology, I am interested in how people come to faith, or in this case, do not come to faith.

I have noted that the group has several circular arguments like atheists seeking proof of God’s existence and Christians suggesting that proof and faith are oppo-

sites. This is an on-going exchange and many conversations unravel here. My biggest issue with the whole scenario is that I find myself secretly wishing that the Christians on the site acted better. It seems the Christians are often quicker to devolve into name calling, or at the least, they are just as quick to fall into

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it. As a person of faith, I find myself heart-broken that we can’t be kinder to people who disagree with us on matters of faith.

The book of James reminds us that faith is a matter of “word and deed” where “faith without action is dead.” This book also brings to the fore the ac-

tion of how we use our words. We are to use our words to lift others up and give encouragement.

The word faith itself, from the ancient languages, is a gerund. English is a nounbased language and so many verbs from other languages get translated as nouns. To have faith, then, one actually has to practice faithing. Faith is not faith at all unless it is put in action. Perhaps, by extension, Christians aren’t Christians at all unless they can have a civil conversation with someone who disagrees with them. The world really doesn’t need another Christian in name only.

May we practice the faithing that is loving our neighbor as ourselves – even when they disagree with us.

Rev. Shannon Bullion is the pastor of Church of the Palms United Methodist Church in Okatie.

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FINANCIAL Recovering from job loss is possible: How to get back on your feet

BY NICK MARTIN Contributor

Whether a career change was on your own terms or came unexpectedly, it’s important to assess the impact on your family, beneficiaries and long-term plans. And do what you can to set yourself up for success as you move forward.

HERE ARE A FEW WAYS TO REVIVE YOUR CAREER SHOULD IT SKIP A BEAT.

Breathe. Don’t panic and make quick decisions you might regret, like immediately taking social security or putting everything on credit, which could land you with a lot of high-interest debt later.

Mourn. Even if the move is ultimately your choice, transitioning into an earlier-than-expected retirement means letting go of something you’ve been a part of, perhaps for decades. So, give yourself a little time to grieve. Eventually, you’ll find yourself in a clear headspace, ready to tackle the challenge of what comes next. Reach out. Once you’re ready, reach out to your industry network in person, via email and through LinkedIn. Over a million people get laid off in the United States each year. Chances are you know at least one person who has overcome a job loss or resume gap in the past who can offer advice and practical action steps. Studies show 85% of open positions are filled through networking.

Take care of yourself. As always, rest and eat well, and care for your physical and emotional well-being. Keep your sense of humor and keep busy with books, music, hobbies and social engagements.

Get health insurance. If you’re under 65 when you leave your job, your first priority may need to be finding health insurance since you likely are not yet eligible for Medicare. You may be able to join COBRA, a spouse’s plan or find private coverage. If you’re in relatively good health, ask your advisor if a high-deductible plan could make sense for you. In addition, get all the information you can about your company’s benefits (e.g., severance, unemployment compensation, retiree healthcare, COBRA, pension) as well as your spouse’s.

Don’t leave your 401(k) behind: You’ve got options when it comes to your employer-sponsored retirement plan, including rolling it over, cashing out, taking it with you or leaving it where it is. Consult your tax and financial professionals to make sure you understand applicable penalties, taxes or fees associated with these options. Create a cash cushion. While no one can truly prepare for the unexpected, hopefully you’ve already taken steps to build up a “rainy day” fund over time with at least six months’ worth of living expenses. If you’re in a position to set aside more, do so. Avoid additional debt. Assess and adjust your budget, particularly if you were laid off or terminated. With the help of your family and financial team,

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figure out your expenses, income and liabilities, including unemployment benefits or severance payments as well as healthcare premiums, to determine how much buffer you have to find a new job. Once you land a new job, avoid the temptation to splurge before rebuilding your savings, if applicable.

You’ll want to avoid draining your retirement savings if you can help it. Depending on your age, there could be tax consequences and potential penalties that may not be worth a bit of short-term relief from cash-flow problems. Ask your advisor for help.

If you have large expenses, like a mortgage, talk to your mortgage broker about refinancing options or negotiating terms, or discuss lines of credit with your financial advisor to help you add liquidity during your temporary unemployment. Disrupting your investment plan or retirement savings should be viewed as a last resort.

Diversify income. You may not find a

full-time job right away. In the meantime, apply for any and all applicable government benefits or unemployment assistance. Consider consulting, temp, shift or freelance work as options until you find the right role. The rise of the gig economy has opened up more options than ever before.

Update your resume. Weave in measurable accomplishments and quantifiable metrics to reinforce the value of your

skill set. If your previous employer offers placement service or CV writing workshops, take advantage to showcase yourself in the best possible light. Polish your skills with workshops and certifications offered at local community colleges or through a local chapter of an industry association. Even volunteering in a related field. Don’t forget to practice interviewing as well.

Project positivity. A job loss doesn’t negate your accomplishments or years of experience. Surround yourself with loved

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ones and mentors who believe in you and focus on moving toward new opportunities.

Consider all possibilities. In some circumstances, losing a job may be a blessing in disguise, depending on your financial situation. You may revel in the freedom to pursue hobbies, chase an entrepreneurial dream or volunteer with your favorite charity. Or do nothing at all, if you so choose.

Losing a job can be challenging for anyone, but there are ways to take control and move forward with the help of your professional advisors. Once you get over the shock of the unexpected, look for opportunities to make the most of your fresh start.

Nick Martin is a financial planner and the founder of Bluffton Financial Planning. Bluffton Financial Planning is not a registered broker/dealer, and is independent of Raymond James Financial Services. Investment advisory services offered through Raymond James Financial Services Advisors, Inc.

BY DR. JEAN HARRIS Contributor

Is golf really a team sport?

As you read this article, I will have just returned from watching my tenth Solheim Cup competition. I have been fortunate to travel abroad to Ireland (2011), Germany (2015), Scotland (2019) and Spain (2023). I have also been to Ohio, Iowa, Colorado, Illinois and Minnesota. I was in Virginia for this year’s competition.

How do you take 12 individuals who have been trying to beat each other all year long and call them a team? In other sports, such as football, hockey and basketball, a team plays together on the same field with other members of their team during the season. GOLF IS NOT A TEAM SPORT. Even LIV golf has tried the concept of a team sport, and I don’t think it is working too well. Don’t get me wrong. I enjoy watching the Solheim Cup, Ryder Cup and Presidents Cup. However, it is interesting that the best players for the United States, during the Solheim Cup, have not beaten the lower ranked European players the past three years.

The United States, entering the 2024 Solheim Cup competition, had players ranked number one, two and nine.

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The best players for Europe were ranked five, seven and 11. From top to bottom, the United States had the better players in the rankings. However, Europe had more vet-

erans in their line-up. Europe had six players with previous winning records in Solheim competition, while the United States had a much younger team with only two players having winning records in previous matches. So, is experience in team competition more important than rankings?

Does the captain make a difference? Suzann Pettersen is known for her fiery personality. Stacy Lewis is quieter and more reserved. So, does a captain’s personality have an effect on their players? Does the captain’s record as a player in the Solheim Cup affect her coaching? Petterson’s record was 8-6-1, and in 2019, she had the winning putt to win the Solheim Cup. Lewis’s record was 5-10-1. Location of the match seems to be a critical factor on which team wins. The United States has won seven of their nine home matches. Europe has won six of their eight home matches.

Looking at the above information, you might pick the Europeans for a four-peat. However, I am going with my heart and predicting that the United States win.

Dr. Jean Harris is an LPGA Master Professional at Pinecrest Golf Club. Jean.golfdoctor.harris@gmail.com

BY ZACH DELOACH Contributor

We have been welcomed into the month with some much-anticipated cooler weather along with the continued rainfall. This time of year, it is crucial to keep track of your turf so that we can avoid setbacks before dormancy. It is hard to predict exactly what the weather will do over the next month, but history tells us we should have another month of growth before we get to the point of stagnation.

Once growing stops, we can only expect turf density to remain the same or decrease up until next April or May when things pick up again. The largest factor leading to that decline is untreated conditions that arise at the end of season. Coincidentally, this is the time of year we see the most issues present, mainly concerning fungus and insect activity.

We have seen a very large presence of sod webworms, seeing indications of activity in nearly half of the lawns we visit.

It is amazing how quickly they work, managing to create large brown areas in the turf within a matter of days. Thankfully, the damage can typically be reversed if caught soon enough, and webworms are one of the few insects that work from the top down, leaving the root system intact to promote new growth. However, if the problem persist long enough, major setback can be a concern. Along with the webworms, we are also seeing impact from chinch bugs and mole crickets in the lawns, both of which tend to create much more significant damage.

Mole crickets predominantly target Centipede and Bermuda grass types, mainly chewing on the root system, which can allow them to go undetected until the damage becomes severe. Chinch bugs tend to effect only St. Augustine grasses, injecting a toxin that makes recovery very difficult. The damage can appear very similar to drought stress in your lawn. If you’re not constantly exposed to the turf issues, diagnosing and differentiating can be very difficult. We suggest referring to an expert or using preventative treatments at this time to keep things on track.

Along with increased insect activity, the excess rainfall and changing temperatures have created optimal fungal conditions as well. There are many types of fungus, but we are mainly seeing grey leaf spot in St. Augustine and dollar spot in zoysia and Bermuda. Pretty soon, we will be seeing large patch and brown patch as we begin to enter into the fall. Avoiding excess irrigation is a safe way to minimize chances of fungus, but keeping fungicide on hand to stop the development is also recommended at this time.

Lastly, it is not only our lawns we need to keep track of but the plants around our property as well. We are seeing a continuation of white fly activity, especially in viburnums. White flies can be very difficult to control and leave behind a black sooty mold on the plant. Early detection and a quick response is important, as well as staying on top of them until they are eradicated.

Zach Deloach is the owner of Lawn Doctor of Beaufort County.

Understanding tooth sensitivity: causes and solutions

BY KALLIE MOOREFIELD, DDS Contributor

Tooth sensitivity is a common concern among my patients, and it can significantly impact their quality of life. As a dentist, I often see individuals experiencing sharp, sudden pain in their teeth when they consume hot, cold, sweet or acidic foods and beverages. Understanding the root causes of tooth sensitivity and how to manage it is crucial for maintaining oral health and comfort.

CAUSES OF TOOTH SENSITIVITY

Tooth sensitivity occurs when the protective enamel or cementum covering the dentin, a layer of the tooth that surrounds the nerve, becomes worn down or com-

promised. Dentin contains tiny tubules that connect to the tooth’s nerve, and when exposed, these tubules allow external stimuli to reach the nerve, causing pain.

Several factors can lead to this exposure:

1. Gum Recession: Often caused by periodontal disease or aggressive brushing, gum recession exposes the roots of the teeth, which are not covered by enamel, making them more prone to sensitivity.

2. Tooth Decay: Cavities can break down the enamel and expose the dentin, leading to sensitivity. If left untreated, this can progress to severe pain and further complications.

3. Bruxism (Teeth Grinding): Grinding or clenching your teeth, particularly at night, can wear down the enamel and lead to dentin exposure.

4. Acidic Diet: Consuming acid-

ic foods and drinks can erode enamel, thinning it and increasing sensitivity.

5. Recent Dental Procedures: Sometimes, dental treatments like whitening, fillings or crowns can cause temporary sensitivity, though this usually resolves on its own.

PREVENTING AND MANAGING TOOTH SENSITIVITY

Preventive care is essential in managing tooth sensitivity. Here’s what I advise my patients:

1. Gentle Brushing: Use a soft-bristled toothbrush and avoid brushing too hard. This prevents enamel erosion and reduces the risk of gum recession.

2. Desensitizing Toothpaste: Regularly using a toothpaste designed for sensitive teeth can help block pain signals and reduce discomfort.

3. Fluoride Treatments: I often

recommend fluoride treatments to strengthen enamel and protect against sensitivity.

4. Dietary Adjustments: Limiting acidic foods and drinks can help preserve enamel and reduce sensitivity over time.

5. Regular Check-ups: Routine dental visits are crucial for early detection of issues that could lead to sensitivity, such as gum disease or cavities.

Tooth sensitivity can be effectively managed with the right care and preventive measures. If you’re experiencing persistent discomfort, I encourage you to schedule a visit with your dentist to identify the cause and determine the best course of treatment.

Dr. Kallie Moorefield is a dentist at Palmetto Dental Arts in Bluffton, SC. www. palmettodental.com

Dr. Kallie Moorefield

Facelift techniques can complement different face shapes

BY MATHEW T. EPPS, MD

Contributor

Effects of aging in the face and neck include sagging skin, volume loss, deepened folds around the mouth and nose, jowls on the jawline and excess skin and fat in the neck. Techniques in facelift surgery, or Rhytidectomy, restore a youthful appearance from the effects aging. Two common techniques for facelift surgery include SMAS Plication and Deep SMAS techniques. These methods can be tailored to the individual and combined with non-surgical intervention for optimal results.

SMAS Plication and Deep SMAS techniques lift and tighten the underlying tis-

sues by manipulating the SMAS, or the superficial musculoaponeurotic system (SMAS). SMAS Plication targets the SMAS by folding it upon itself in an oblique upward and lateral direction, while Deep SMAS techniques can go deeper, addressing the underlying layers for a more comprehensive lift, albeit with a slightly higher risk of post-operative sequalae.

Aesthetic Plastic Surgeons consider facial structure and shape of each candidate. SMAS Plication is an ideal technique for individuals with narrow faces where a subtle, more full face brings a youthful look. However, for those with wide faces, manipulating the Deep SMAS with SMASectomy is beneficial and prevents over widening of the face. Further, the excess SMAS tissue, rich in collagen, may be used to augment or fill creases in the glabella (the 11’s), lips or marionette lines.

To complement the facelift, other techniques should be incorporated. Medical grade skin care is essential to maintain healthy skin by boosting collagen and elastin production, accelerating skin renewal and correcting signs of aging such

as pigmentation and fine lines. Laser treatments such as skin resurfacing, IPL or Intense Pulsed Light therapy, offer a more aggressive and effective method for skin rejuvenation. Additionally, conservative fat grafting or use of dermal fillers can be used to restore lost volume, giving your face a natural fullness.

In a world where appearance matters, facelifts offer an opportunity to regain confidence and achieve a more youthful appearance. Whether it is by SMAS plication or Deep SMAS techniques, tailored solutions are available to suit your unique facial structure.

Mathew T. Epps MD, MS, DABS is a Triple Fellowship Trained Aesthetic Plastic Surgeon Specializing in Facial, Eyelid, and Breast Surgery. Visit https:// matheweppsmd.com or contact info@ dreppsmd.com.

Dr. Mathew T. Epps

BY DR. KENNETH HORUP Contributor

Debilitating knee pain can severely impact one’s mobility and quality of life. While surgery has long been considered the standard treatment, non-surgical approaches have gained traction as effective alternatives. Let’s explore the benefits of non-surgical knee treatment and shed some light on why it is such a reasonable choice for individuals seeking relief from chronic knee pain.

1. MINIMIZED RISKS.

Non-surgical knee treatments offer several advantages over surgical interventions. Without the need for incisions or

anesthesia, these procedures minimize the chances of complications. This translates into a faster recovery period, allowing individuals to return to their daily activities sooner. By avoiding the risks associated with surgery, such as infections or wound healing issues, non-surgical options provide a safer and more efficient path to recovery.

2. PRESERVED JOINT FUNCTION.

Non-surgical treatments prioritize preserving the natural structure and function of the knee joint. Through methods like active and resistance training, targeted exercises help strengthen the muscles around the knee, enhancing stability and reducing stress on the joint. Injections, such as corticosteroids or hyaluronic acid, may provide temporary relief, maintaining the integrity of the knee joint and possibly delaying surgery. Non-surgical treatments such as knee decompression can

extend the longevity of the joint and potentially prevent the need for more invasive procedures in the future.

3. PERSONALIZED APPROACH AND COST-EFFICIENCY

Non-surgical knee treatments offer a tailored approach to address each individual’s unique needs. After a comprehensive evaluation to determine the most suitable treatment plan, considering factors like age, activity level and severity of the condition, specific recommendations provide clarity to our patients. This personalized approach ensures that patients receive targeted care, optimizing outcomes. Additionally, non-surgical treatments tend to be more cost-effective compared to surgical procedures, which often involve hospital stays, anesthesia and post-operative care expenses. Choosing non-surgical alternatives can provide effective relief while minimizing healthcare

costs.

Non-surgical knee treatment offers numerous benefits, including reduced risks, faster recovery, preserved joint function and a personalized approach. By exploring non-surgical options, individuals can find effective relief from knee pain while avoiding the potential complications and longer recovery times associated with surgery. Treatment, however, is not for everyone. Only after a thorough evaluation can we determine who may be a good candidate. Consulting an expert is essential to determine the most suitable non-surgical treatment plan for each person’s unique circumstances.

Dr. Kenneth Horup, DC is a Chiropractic Physician at Discover Specific Chiropractic.

Dr. Ken Horup

BY ABBY BIRD AKA ALPHADOG Contributor

I love it when kids that are calm and old enough want to engage in the training process with their dogs. The child-dog bond is extra special, and having a dog grow up with children is one of the best relationships. Young children should be supervised at all times and taught by parents what is appropriate and inappropriate around the family dog. Please don’t blame the dog when parental training has not been done properly with little people. Physical boundaries are appropriate to keep everyone safe and to teach the right behavior for dogs and kids. Once a trustworthy child is ready to be taught how to engage with a dog, there are some skills that they should work on.

Come When Called

This is usually one of the easiest things for kids to do since dogs should be taught this as a play command, and who better to

Kids and Dogs

play with than the little people who are more fun than adults. Have the child learn to teach ‘Sit’ first, then ‘Wait’ while stepping back about 8 to 10 ft. Call the dog by name three times in a row in a highpitched voice, adding the ‘Come’ word followed by ‘Treat’ word. As the dog approaches, quickly add the ‘Sit’ cue again. This should be practiced three times in a row. Taught this way, it helps with dogs who jump on kids out of excitement. It becomes a routine. Come to the child and ‘Sit’ instead of jumping. With the dog sitting in front of the child, he can now earn the treat. Repetition breeds success.

Leash Walk

When a child is big enough physically, it is time to teach them to walk the dog safely. The first part would require making sure the proper walking equipment is on the dog. For some, it is a collar. Others, it is a harness. In either case there are lots of choices within both categories, and

it is important to know what works best. Under no circumstances should the child use a retractable leash! The dog needs to learn to walk by the child’s side to learn

the leadership role the child has. While the ‘Come’ ensures understanding the child can be both played with and respected by sitting, the ‘Walk’ is about leadership. The dog should not be out ahead of the child. It is both unsafe and sends the wrong message to the dog. “I can pull this kid” rather than “I have to listen and stay by his side.” Short, loose leash, praise the dog when walking and not pulling. Stop walking and correct with ‘Eh Eh’ if pulling. Change directions frequently and give the dog treats when walking properly. Have the dog ‘Sit’ by child’s side before crossing the street or when a distraction is near.

If these are started when the child can physically control the dog, it will add to their wonderful relationship. Abby Bird is the owner of Alphadog Training Academy. AlphadogTrainingAcademy@gmail.com

The right style to make us look younger

BY JOY ROSS Contributor

It’s hard to believe summer is somewhat officially over and the holidays are literally around the corner. Another year bites the dust and at a much too rapid of a rate. That means we’re not getting any younger. I know I’m full of really good news in this article, right?

Well, the good news is there of options out there so that we don’t have to look or feel older. Yes, there’s plastic surgery. It is expensive. However, a great haircut and color could take 10 years off your look for much less expense. Besides that, contrary to your beliefs, you don’t have to be a slave to the salon. If your hair is done properly, you could look younger without breaking the bank. This is crucial in so many ways, if you ask me. I know I’ve talked about this several times through the years that I’ve written this column, but I will try to rephrase it hoping that

you will understand a little clearer the little things that can be done to take years off your appearance. The shape of the haircut is of most importance. The fullness of your style must be at your eyes and cheekbones in order to draw attention there instead of the neck, chin and jowls. Changing the shape of your haircut alone will turn back time. My theory of the upside-down triangle shaped haircut stands firm. The widest part of your style needs to be at your eyes and cheekbones the narrowest part needs to be softening your chin.

If your forehead is not too small, a soft bang or side bang will also soften your look, taking attention away from those little lines that sometimes the rear their ugly head. No more Botox!

These two suggestions alone could take five to 10 year is off your appearance.

Gray hair is an absence of color washing out any kind of warmth in your skin

and aging you. I don’t understand why anyone would let their hair go gray. If highlights or low lights are added, it will grow out gracefully without the ugly stripe of grey that appears after a short time if you have your hair all one color. That’s not attractive, and it does not look natural. The more gray hair that’s hiding under the color, the sooner it needs to be re-colored. It’s understandable why you don’t want to color your hair. Many other things can be done to make it subtly warmer, brighter and more youthful. Why wouldn’t anybody want that for Christmas? A new improved you is not that expensive if you go to the right places.

Eating right, exercising and staying busy are all recommendations to stay looking and feeling your best, but the number one priority is when you look in the mirror. Add to your wish list a new look for a new you in the new year.

Joy Ross is the owner of Style It Salon.

Beaufort Memorial adds experienced physician and nurse practitioner to OBGYN practice

To enhance and expand access to women’s health care for Lowcountry residents, Beaufort Memorial has added obstetrician and gynecologist Curtis J. Elam, M.D., FACOG, and nurse practitioner Melissa Mesenburg, DNP, APRN, FNP-C, to Beaufort Memorial Obstetrics & Gynecology Specialists. The two board-certified providers will see patients in the practice’s locations in both Okatie and Beaufort.

Throughout his decades-long career, Dr. Elam has gathered expertise in general, routine and specialized obstetrical and gynecological care for women at all stages of life and has an extensive background in laparoscopic and robotic surgeries, including pelvic floor reconstruction and urogynecological treatment of stress urinary incontinence with either slings or sutures. Elam earned his medical degree from the University of Tennessee and completed his residency at Vanderbilt University

in Nashville, Tenn. He knew from a young age that he wanted to go into medicine, and after his time in the active-duty U.S. Naval Reserve – working as both a battalion and regimental surgeon with the Marines – he found obstetrics and gynecology to be a good fit and has been an OBGYN since 1992.

He joins Beaufort Memorial from a position as staff physician and OBGYN department head at the Clyburn Center for Primary Care, as well as OBGYN staff physician at Aiken Regional Medical Center, both located in Aiken.

Mesenburg graduated with a Doctor of Nursing Practice, Family Nurse Practitioner from The Medical University of South Carolina in 2020, having focused her doctoral thesis on improving women’s health through educational initiatives. After graduating from MUSC with her doctorate, she worked for four years in the

Beaufort area as a family nurse practitioner and was most recently the director of clinical operations at Friends of Caroline Hospice in Ridgeland.

An Ohio native, she previously worked as a registered nurse for 14 years, earning a position as a postpartum nurse in the Beaufort Memorial Collins Birthing Center in 2014. There, she grew to love women’s health, driving her decision to go back to school to earn her doctorate.

Elam and Mesenburg join board-certified Drs. Chris Benson, Marlena Masavage and Tiffany Bersani; certified registered nurse practitioner Maggie Bisceglia; certified physician assistant Peyton Erb; and certified nurse-midwife Catherine Tambroni-Parker, at Beaufort Memorial Obstetrics & Gynecology Specialists.

With locations in the Okatie Medical Pavilion at 122 Okatie Center Boulevard North, and the Beaufort Medical Plaza at 989 Ribaut Road in Beaufort, the practice provides the full range of women’s health services, including comprehensive obstetrical and gynecological care for patients at every stage of their lives. The latest screening and diagnostic technologies, among them state-of-the art digital ultrasound, are available in both locations. To schedule an appointment with Elam, Mesenburg or any of the practice providers, call 843-522-7820.

Elam and Mesenburg

SOAR to hold annual fundraiser

BY CHANNING HEISS

Contributor

SOAR: Special Recreation of the Lowcountry will hold its annual Cocktails on the Coast fundraiser on November 16 starting at 4pm at the Port Royal Beach House on Hilton Head Island.

Proceeds support the work of the nonprofit to promote the participation of people with disabilities in athletic competition and other recreational pursuits, advocating and supporting the participation of all residents in community life. Athletes participate in a wide variety of sports and have the opportunity to compete as a representative of Area 8 in the Special Olympics.

Single admission tickets are $250 and include cocktails and dinner accompanied by live music. Tickets can be purchased on the SOAR website. Event sponsorship opportunities are available

at bronze, silver, gold, and platinum levels for individuals and businesses to invest in the fundraiser and in SOAR. The website has a list of gifts and benefits for each sponsorship level.

For more information, visit www. soarspecialrecreation.org or call 843-4225747.

Channing Heiss is a freelance writer and a member of the Beaufort County disAbilities Coalition.

Pets of weekthe

COSMO

Cosmo is 1 1/2 years old, and he has been at Palmetto Animal League since kittenhood. He is a sweet, calm, no drama boy who has slowly learned to trust people. He developed a special bond with a black cat named Seymour, who snuggles him, giving him comfort and helping him gain confidence. Cosmo would love to go home with his best friend Seymour! They are neutered, up to date on vaccinations, and microchipped. For more info, call PAL at 843-645-1725 or email Info@PalmettoAnimalLeague.org.

DUCHESS

The word sweet doesn’t even begin to describe Duchess. This 5-year-old girl is gentle and delightfully playful. She loves adults, children, treats, toys, and snuggling. When you kneel down to pet Duchess, she leans into you gently as if to say, “I love you.” She is a calm, quiet lap dog in need of a loving home. She is spayed, up to date on vaccinations, and microchipped. For more info, call PAL at 843-645-1725 or email Info@PalmettoAnimalLeague.org.

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