The Knot Carolinas Fall/Winter 2017 by The Knot The Carolinas

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CONTENTS

contents FALL/WINTER 2017

in this issue 8 12 14 16 20 30 36 40 46 49 55 199

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let the good times roll

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get the look theknot.com editor’s letter checklist ask carley top picks 8 outdoor spots to say “I do” expert advice secrets from real couples haute hues love stories marriage licenses and wedding announcements snapshot

PHOTOGRAPH BY PAUL COSTELLO

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Experience the Legend of Happily Ever After Create a destination wedding that will inspire a lifetime of memories. Your coastal wedding as it should be With so much to do before the “I Do,” you need someone to ensure everything is perfect. With multiple stunning venues and full-service support, our team of professionals is there to make certain your wedding exceeds your dreams.

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L U X U R Y W E D D I N G S on the C O A S T START PLANNING YOUR IDEAL WEDDING TODAY | 843-839-0818 | G R A N D E D U N E S W E D D I N G S . C O M a signature community by All information is deemed reliable but not guaranteed and should be independently verified. © 2017 LStar Communities. All rights reserved. Photograph by Carl Kerridge Photography.

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CONTENTS

hot trends to make your own

fashion 150

let the good times roll High-low hems, feathers and fringe make for a fun, flirty bridal look.

160

works of art

Find the right ring for you.

style wedding themes 101 Our glossary has everything you need.

hot trends to make your own The ideas weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re loving this year.

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wedding cakes by style How to make your cake mirror your vibe and theme.

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the front-end favor A twist on the traditional parting gift.

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works of art

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FROM TOP: VICKI GR AFTON PHOTOGR APHY; YASU + JUNKO

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CONTENTS

r eal weddings 61 carrie & ryan september 10, charleston, sc

66 holly & richard july 9, sheldon, sc

72 casey & solomon september 24, travelers rest, sc

76 lizzie & nick september 19, bluffton, sc

80 nahila & bernard september 24, charleston, sc

120 yoyo & christopher may 16, new york city

125 abbie & mark may 29, leicester, nc

130 rebekah & mac october 21, weaverville, nc

166 K

happy campers

p lanning Tips to make planning from afar a breeze

148

166 happy campers

rebecca & drew

Pull off an awesome camp wedding.

173 how to actually pay for

136 lauren & jonathan

your wedding

july 30, wilmington, nc

Little things you can save on, big things you can sacrifice and how it all adds up.

140 kelly & steve november 12, winston-salem, nc

144 andy & daniel

Advice no to-be-wed should be without.

september 20, raleigh, nc

185 the big picture

146 nicole & jimmy

Ask your photographer these questions.

august 13, charlotte, nc

148

179 13 essential planning tips

190 hottest honeymoon

destinations

rebecca & drew

Pack your bags for the trip of a lifetime.

june 4, duck, nc

r eal wedding budget key $ = $10,000 or less

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W e know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!). Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.

$$ = $10,001–$30,000

$$$ = $30,001–$50,000

$$$$ = $50,001–$75,000

$$$$$ = $75,001+

FROM LEFT: GENEVIEVE STEWART PHOTOGR APHY; JEREMIAH AND R ACHEL PHOTOGR APHY

115 destination by design

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Y our perfect day begins with an unforgettable destination.

PHOTO COURTESY OF DANA CUBBAGE WEDDINGS

A world-renowned destination, The Sea Pines Resort is situated on the Atlantic Ocean and is surrounded by the stunning landscape of the South Carolina Lowcountry. Boasting beautiful beaches and brand-new one-of-a-kind wedding venues, The Sea Pines Resort offers a new beach club, the area’s top-rated restaurants on TripAdvisor and the island’s only four-star accommodations. Let our experienced wedding professionals help you create your perfect day and memories that will last a lifetime.

Plantation Golf Club

Sea Pines Beach Club

HILTON HEAD ISLAND, SC

Harbour Town Clubhouse

Contact Wedding Sales Manager Ann Goodman at (843) 842-1495 or agoodman@seapines.com. VIEW BRIDAL GALLERIES AT SEAPINES.COM/WEDDINGS

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get the look

ABOUT THE COVER

Check out more fashion-forward dresses for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.

ON HER

Dress, $4,200, Rivini at Nitsa’s Apparel, Nitsas.com (Winston-Salem, NC), Traditions by Anna Bridal Boutique, TraditionsbyAnna.com (Raleigh, NC); engagement ring, $1,580, MarrowFine.com

Dress, price upon request, Marchesa .com; headpiece, $197, SaraGabriel .com; engagement ring, price upon request, UneekJewelry.com; shoes, $795, JimmyChoo.com

ON HIM

Jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew .com; shirt, $90, pocket square, $30, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse.com; tie, $19, TheTieBar.com; shoes, $350, ColeHaan.com

Dress, price upon request, Sareh Nouri at Maddison Row Bridal Chic, MaddisonRow.com (Charleston, SC), Nitsa’s Apparel, Nitsas.com (WinstonSalem, NC); headpiece, $285, Paris by Deborah Moreland, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $1,800 (not including center stone), AJaffe.com; band, $825, CoastDiamond.com; shoes, $110, WHITE by Vera Wang, DavidsBridal.com

Jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew .com; shirt, $90, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse.com EASY RIDER Photographer Paul Costello snaps our models cruising through the French Quarter.

ON HIM

shot on location at Hotel Provincial, HotelProvincial.com

behind the scenes

MODEL BEHAVIOR Design director Tracy Everding and photo assistant Alex Darsey scout locations.

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JAZZ IT UP With its vibrant music scene and colorful architecture, New Orleans was the perfect backdrop for our fun and flirty fashion feature, “Let the Good Times Roll.” After all, what better place to shoot party dresses and statement accessories than a city known for its one-of-a-kind, celebratory vibe?

photography: Paul Costello fashion styling: Audrey Slater hair: Miok for Wella Professionals

at Judy Casey Inc. makeup: Brett Jackson using NARS Cosmetics at Sarah Laird & Good Company florals: Poppy & Mint Floral Company

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K THE CAROLINAS

EDITOR IN CHIEF

Kellie Gould

MANAGING EDITORS

DEPUTY EDITOR

Lauren Kay

Susan Berryman Kellee Kratzer

EXECUTIVE EDITOR, DIGITAL

Kristen Maxwell Cooper

CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR

DESIGN DIRECTOR

REAL WEDDINGS PHOTO DIRECTOR

PHOTO DIRECTOR

Toby Fox

Tracy Everding

Rebecca Crumley

Kathy Nguyen

SENIOR NEWS EDITOR FASHION & BEAUTY EDITOR DIGITAL EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITOR ASSOCIATE EDITOR, REAL WEDDINGS ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH ASSISTANT EDITOR, DIGITAL EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, DIGITAL SOCIAL EDITOR SENIOR DESIGNER DESIGNER REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS

Esther Lee Shelley Brown Ivy Jacobson Stephanie Cain Rachel Sylvester Maria Bouselli Katie Kortebein Andrea Fowler Farah Prince Maggie Seaver Jessica Molinari Katelyn Baker Katie Ragan Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter ASSOCIATE PHOTO EDITOR Sarah Love ASSOCIATE DIGITAL PHOTO EDITOR Barrie Tovar EDITORIAL & MARKETING COORDINATOR Toni Franchini

PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy PUBLICATION DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Daryl Wills, Katie Hover GRAPHIC DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION MANAGER Carly Steier PRINT QUALITY ASSURANCE Lois Brunnert Bethune

THE STUDIO @ XO HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig DIRECTOR, BRAND EXPERIENCE Alexis Jonnson PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj SENIOR EDITORS Cassie Kreitner, Kate Traverson ASSOCIATE COPY EDITOR Kelsey Paine VIDEO PRODUCER Jose Marmolejos SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher PROJECT MANAGER Elizabeth Smith ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelley Rowland JUNIOR DIGITAL MARKETING COORDINATOR Claire Flanagan

SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Tom Chelednik, tchelednik@xogrp.com (877) 238-2369 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Tamara Pacwa, tpacwa@theknot.com (843) 501-9630

REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE JEWELRY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF SHOWS & EVENTS SENIOR MARKETING MANAGER STRATEGY SPECIALIST DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS

Audrey Groves, agroves@theknot.com (855) 229-9544 Rhonda Haberkamp, rhondah@xogrp.com (888) 332-7815 Tricia Dixon, tdixon@xogrp.com (877) 342-9676 Kristy Newquist, knewquist@xogrp.com (877) 927-3070 Danielle Wilson, dpelletiere@xogrp.com (844) 848-4639 Jill Rothman, jrothman@xogrp.com (855) 753-4100 Susana Diharce, sdiharce@xogrp.com (866) 960-9909 Bevin Stella, bstella@xogrp.com (212) 515-3544 Nikki Martinez, nmartinez@theknot.com (877) 302-6379 Melissa Bach, pr@xogrp.com Lauren Nolan, pr@xogrp.com

COFOUNDER Carley Roney

The Knot The Carolinas is a publication of Weddingpages LLC, a subsidiary of XO Group Inc. All content Â© 2017 XO Group Inc. All rights reserved. Reproduction, either in whole or in part, is forbidden without written permission from the publisher. The Knot, TheKnot.com and The Knot The Carolinas are trademarks of XO Group Inc. The Knot is not responsible for the return or loss of, or damage to, unsolicited materials. Those submitting manuscripts, photographs, artwork and other materials for consideration should not send originals, unless specifically requested to do so in writing by The Knot. Manuscripts, artwork and other materials submitted must be accompanied by a self-addressed stamped envelope. Editorial Offices: 195 Broadway, New York, NY 10007 (212) 219-8555. Production Offices: 11106 Mockingbird Drive, Omaha, NE 68137 (800) 843-4983 please recycle after wedding

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First comes love. Then comes The wedding regisTry. BELK.COM/WEDDING

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.com/carolinas

Discover new ideas, get answers to your questions and find local wedding pros that fit your style and budget.

GO LOCAL

connect with pros and find tips

get inspired

REAL WEDDINGS

Browse top weddings from the Carolinas for the ultimate local inspiration. You’ll find amazing venues plus creative style ideas that will show your guests what a true Southeastern celebration is all about, like Christian and Jeremy’s cliffside ceremony in Asheville, North Carolina, that included stunning views of the Blue Ridge Mountains.

Here are some of our Instagram favorites.

THE KNOT BEST OF WEDDINGS 2017

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Gather your dream team of wedding vendors with the help of our Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/stateguides. Your North and South Carolina directories have everything you need to know about saying “I do,” from getting your marriage license to seasonal tips. Then, connect with planners, florists, photographers and more by searching by region and price in our ever-expanding local marketplace. Happy planning!

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EDITOR’ S LET TER

Try our savvy tips for saving without sacrificing. (p. 173) A luxe Chile eco-lodge is perfect for honeymooners. (p. 190)

When I got engaged the first thing I started thinking about was my wedding vision—something that proved much harder to settle on than I expected. I had recently vacationed in Italy and thought I wanted a family-style feast with rustic tables covered in majolica platters filled with Tuscan specialties. All of that changed the minute I walked into my dream venue: a stunning, light-filled Manhattan loft space with a glassenclosed roof and wraparound terrace. From there, everything else fell into place. To help you get your planning off to a successful start, we’ve got ideas for 15 different styles to inspire your day (p. 82). Once you’ve nailed your venue and theme, it will be so much easier to pick a gorgeous cake design (p. 104) and all the other details, as well as choose a dress that suits you and your wedding. And whether it’s a fun, flirty or straight-up sexy gown you’re envisioning, turn to “Let the Good Times Roll” (p. 150) for some seriously beautiful fashion inspo. Of course, it will be hard to pull off your day without a plan for how to pay for it. Luckily, we’ve got tips and tricks for ways to save (p. 173). Plus, there’s so much more to explore in this issue, from this year’s hottest trends (p. 94) to where to travel for your honeymoon (p. 190), so get ready to dog-ear pages and let us help you plan a wedding that’s totally you.

I love the detailing on this Hayley Paige gown. (p. 150)

This cake is a work of art, and one of my faves. (p. 104)

KELLIE GOULD Editor in Chief

A dream catcher makes for a beautiful boho ceremony backdrop. (p. 94)

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Send me questions at kellie@theknot.com or find me on Instagram @kelliegouldny

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CHECKLIST

get your customized wedding checklist at TheKnot.com/checklist

This checklist will tell you what to do, when, on your way to the altar—but make sure to flip the page for our must-have apps and the online tools that will help you get there.

12+ MONTHS

9-11 MONTHS

6-8

date: ______ /______ /______

Don’t worry, your first task is a fun one: Envision your wedding— think about the style you want and color palettes you love. Nail down a budget. When and where would you like to get married? Not sure where to start? The Knot Venue Concierge can give you personal recommendations based on a few details (see Wedding Planning Tools, p. 18). Hire any pros you just have to have, like a band or wedding planner. Start searching for the dress. Get the ring appraised and then insured ASAP.

Find a stationer and order your savethe-dates. This is really happening! Propose to your wedding party. Create your website with The Knot. Guests can also access it on the Guest List app (see Wedding Planning Tools, p. 18). Book your photographer, florist, musicians and other important pros. Order the gown and veil and schedule fittings for six weeks and one to two weeks before the wedding. Choose and order the bridesmaid dresses. Start registering—a super-fun to-do.

MONTHS

Plan the ceremony with your officiant and discuss religious requirements such as premarital counseling. Book your honeymoon. Choose the formalwear. Send out your save-the-dates. Order the invitations and thank-you notes. Hire a day-of coordinator (if you don’t have a full-service planner or a day-of planner isn’t included with your venue). Schedule beauty trials and book hairstylists and makeup artists.

SC STOCKSHOP

let the planning begin

Iron out the rehearsal dinner details, like the time and location. >>

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Home ofof Home

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CHECKLIST

4-5 MONTHS

MONTH

date: ______ /______ /______

Address your invitations or hand them off to your calligrapher. Finalize the rental list (tables, chairs, linens and so on) with the caterer or rental company. Complete your wedding cake order and order the groom’s cake, if you’re having one. Buy wedding rings. Arrange day-of transportation for yourselves and the wedding party.

MONTHS

date: ______ /______ /______

Figure out how to get a local marriage license—you need one to make it official. Finalize your ceremony with your officiant.

MONTHS date: ______ /______ /______

Compile a must-take photo list for your shooter. Keep it under a dozen so you get the shots you really want.

1-2 WEEKS

date: ______ /______ /______

Once you’ve got your final head count, share it with the caterer, cake baker and site manager, and finish the seating chart. Pass on requests from your pros, like a table for the DJ, to the site manager. Go to the last dress fitting. Designate point people for day-of tasks. Make sure all beauty appointments are scheduled.

2-3 DAYS

date: ______ /______ /______

Go to the first dress fitting— bring shoes and undergarments. Finalize the menu. Create a timeline for the weekend and share it with your attendants, planner and photographer.

K wedding planning tools Our apps and online tools for top to-dos in the first months of planning make the process easy. OUR APPS THE KNOT GUEST LIST AND WEDDING WEBSITES MANAGER Create your wedding website and guest list. Guests can access the app to get essential details and share photos. WEDDING LOOKBOOK BY THE KNOT Search for the hottest dresses and rings, and see where you can find them in your area. WEDDING PLANNER BY THE KNOT Consider this your personalized organizer: It includes the Wedding Budget Calculator and The Ultimate Wedding Checklist.

Steam the dress or suit if wrinkled. Touch base with the ceremony and the reception sites one more time to go over the schedule.

Mail your wedding invitations at the six- to eight-week mark. RSVPs should be due one month before the wedding. Work on your vows, especially if you’re writing them yourselves.

our planner app is a must-have!

DAY BEFORE date: ______ /______ /______

Give the marriage license to your officiant. Rehearse the ceremony and have dinner. Breathe—and have fun!

OUR ONLINE TOOLS THEKNOT.COM/WEDDINGWEBSITES Build your customized wedding website by choosing from unique design schemes and colors. The best part? It’s free! THEKNOT.COM/REGISTRY Register at your favorite stores and track all of your gifts. Be sure to share your registries on your wedding website. THEKNOT.COM/MARKETPLACE Research, read reviews, directly connect, then book top wedding vendors in your area, in all categories. SC STOCKSHOP

Finalize all of your flower arrangements with your florist.

THEKNOT.COM/CONCIERGE Take our quiz to help you find the perfect venue. Plus, we’ll help you schedule site tours and book for your day.

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It's All About Love The Next Step . . .Your Wedding Band

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EXPERT Q& A

ask carley Our cofounder answers your questions.

My fiancé is Hindu, and while we’ve chosen not to have a religious ceremony, I want to surprise him with a few personal touches from his heritage. Any suggestions? The best way to do this is subtly. Gold and red, both auspicious colors in Indian tradition, could appear throughout your wedding details. Choose a red stationery suite inked in gold, have your bridesmaids wear red or decorate your tables with gold-plated urns filled with red, pink and yellow blooms. Elephants (to honor the god Ganesh) could also play a role, or include a modern mandap in the ceremony.

Q A

I’m having trouble finding accessories to match my style of dress—how should I start?

SEATING STRESS

One or two accessories can complete any look (and make it your own), but try not to pile on too many pieces or you’ll be headed for a fashion faux pas. But if you want to achieve glamgirl status, feel free to add a big, bold necklace to your embellished dress, plus a crystal clutch. Is modern more your style? Then a sleek column gown with a pair of sexy metallic shoes and a haute headband will do the trick. For a more vintage look, go for lace and heirloom-like details such as gloves and a brooch.

A HAIR AHEAD

Q A

If my bridesmaids are getting their hair and makeup done, do I go before or after them?

It usually takes a pro about two to three hours to do a bride’s hair and makeup. More time may be needed if they have to make lots of adjustments or start over (which hopefully won’t happen, but you should prepare for it anyway). To save time and stress, ask bridesmaids to do their own hair and makeup, and then have your professional touch them up. Or, preferably, hire a separate person for your attendants and mom. If the pro will be working on both you and the others, you should go last so your look is nice and fresh for pictures.

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Q A

Who else sits with my fiancé and me at the reception? Do we have to sit with the wedding party?

You can sit with whomever you like. One choice is to have the honor attendants and their spouses or dates seated with the newlyweds. Some couples sit with their whole wedding party, while others choose to sit with their parents. If you go with the latter option, both sets of parents should be at your table to prevent any appearance of favoritism. If your parents are divorced, you may want to skip this and seat each set at a table of their friends and relatives (to prevent any awkwardness). Want to use dinner as a chance to steal a moment for just the two of you? You can decide on the most romantic option: the sweetheart table. >>

let’s talk stats

CINDY LEE PHOTOGR APHY

THE RIGHT MIX

20% 83% of couples incorporate ethnic elements/traditions

of bridal parties have their hair done for the wedding

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EXPERT Q& A

SOCIAL ANXIETY

I’m an out-of-state bridesmaid who can’t attend the bachelorette party. Should I still be helping the maid of honor pay for it or any related expenses? Unlike a shower where there’s usually one host responsible for footing the bill, the bachelorette party is slightly different. It’s quite common (and totally acceptable) for the maid of honor (or party organizer) to ask for contributions. Maybe offer to contribute the amount the other bridesmaids will be paying, or at least a portion. If you’re off the hook for those costs, call ahead to one of the spots where the party will be and order a bottle of champagne or some other treat for the group—on you.

DANCING FEET

Q A

My fiancé and I secretly love the “Macarena,” but will our guests hate us if we make them do it?

One of the reasons people aren’t the biggest fans of organized dances is the song seems to go on forever. If you have your heart set on doing the “Macarena,” play 60 seconds of it, then smoothly transition into 60 seconds of “YMCA” and cap it off with 60 seconds of the electric slide. Switching songs keeps fewer people on the sidelines without slowing down the party. Ask your DJ ahead of time if they can make this dance mix. Plus with you two having so much fun, guests will be happy to join in.

EXTRA HANDS

Q A

Could I recruit my wedding party to help me put our favors together, or is that expecting too much from them?

Consider your squad before seeking help. Tying dozens of tiny bows might not be everyone’s idea of a good time. But you might have a few friends who are game to help. Use the task as an excuse to get together and sip champagne, or test out your signature cocktails. Everyone will have a better time if you turn ribbon tying into a fun hangout rather than a chore.

79% 32% 78% of brides have a bachelorette party

of weddings have a guest list of 101 to 150

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of couples provide favors for their guests

How soon do we have to have our wedding hashtag? It seems couples have them ready to post as soon as they’re engaged— are we late to the game if we don’t?

Couple hashtags are the best way to see all photos relating to your wedding festivities, but you certainly don’t have to be ready with one as soon as the ring is on your finger. While some to-be-weds may have found it fun or amusing to play around with different combinations of their names before they were even engaged (don’t worry—we won’t tell), it’s certainly not for everyone. You don’t even have to have a hashtag—but if you decide you do want one, don’t stress about creating it. Sometimes couples get lucky and have the perfect names for a fun play on words, but you can always use simple phrases like #SarahAndAshleyGetHitched2017 or #AndersonPartyOfTwo. Just check the hashtag before and make sure it doesn’t already have hundreds of photos attached. Tip: Adding the date always helps separate your hashtag from the rest.

SOMETHING OLD, AND NEW

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I don’t have any sentimental jewelry—what’s another option for a “something old”?

There are so many different ways to play with this tradition, so let your creativity run wild. Second dresses are much more common these days. You can wear your mother’s wedding dress for one half and a new gown for the other. If you would rather include a passed-down dress without actually wearing it, you could use the fabric to make a stunning clutch or chuppah, or place a nostalgic patch under your own skirt. An antique family car can be your getaway transportation, or you could use your parents’ wedding cake knife. And your bouquet can be wrapped in any heirloom fabric, from a close friend’s veil to a piece of a beloved grandmother’s favorite shawl. Or get innovative with your hair accessories. A vintage hairpin can be a nice touch or replicating your mother’s wedding hairstyle would make a lovely tribute.

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Celebrate

YOUR DAY

on Hilton Head Island

Port Royal Golf Club Weddings Receptions Rehearsals Private Events & More! The Lowcountry provides the perfect backdrop for your wedding day. Our elegant clubhouse, pristine beach, and award winning chef will exceed your expectations.

843 . 681 . 1747

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tips from the pros Who better to give advice than the wedding pros who make your wedding day come to life? From your invitation suite to cake cutting snafus, these pros have seen it all.

wouldn’t otherwise pull yourself. We like to consider this your ‘curveball’—and 90 percent of the time, our bride falls in love with a look she never thought she could pull off. Natasha Duff-Cole, Owner/Style Consultant Ladies of Lineage Bridal Boutique, Charlotte, NC ladiesoflineage.com

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Don’t let yourself get caught up in posts or “pictures of other weddings. Select just a few pictures of past weddings at your selected venue, and pull them up when you feel like you might be getting away from your vision.

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Relax, breathe, enjoy the day and don’t sweat “ the small stuff! Focus on having fun, and let the experts handle details. Throughout the week take time to enjoy beach bike rides, kayaking, the spa, golf and more. It’s your special day to celebrate with loved ones and create magical, lifelong memories. Tiffany Lucca, Wedding Specialist The Sea Pines Resort, Hilton Head Island, SC seapines.com

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Callie Searles, Sales Manager Old Edwards Inn and Spa, Highlands, NC oldedwardsinn.com/weddings

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Know your budget and hire experienced professionals. That way, when your big day finally arrives, you are present, unplugged and able to breathe for the full celebration of your love. Nathan Thurston, Chef/Owner Thurston Southern Catering, Charleston, SC thurstonsoutherncatering.com

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ASHLEY SEAWELL PHOTOGRAPHY; MILOU + OLIN PHOTOGRAPHY

at your bridal appointment with an open mind. “TrustArrive your sales consultant to pull a few designs that you

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A storybook estate where dreams come true

WESTGLOW RESORT & SPA 224 WESTGLOW CIRCLE | BLOWING ROCK, NC 28605 | 800.562.0807

www.westglow.com

Fletcher & Fletcher Photography

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1 FREEZE FRAME Guide guests to their seats with the help of framed charts suspended from silk ribbons.

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2 ROCK STEADY Modern gold script pops against eye-catching agate slices that double as super-chic favors. 3 LOCK ON Invite partygoers to take their place with calligraphed cards attached to vintageinspired keys.

4 BRUSH UP Paint the town red (or any showstopping color you like) with chromatic paintbrushes marked with each guest’s name.

escort card displays

6 JUST PEACHY An edible arrangement of fresh fruit makes for a delish display that’s too tempting not to eat.

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1: LUMINAIRE FOTO; 2: ALI + JULIE; 3: RED SHOES PHOTOGR APHY; 4: EMILY STEFFEN; 5: ERIN MCGINN PHOTOGR APHY; 6: THEO MILO PHOTOGR APHY

5 BE SEATED A simple seating chart gets a charming makeover when strung between two towering wood ladders.

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All because two people fell in love.

WinMock is a place of magic, of first looks and families. A deep history of friendship can be felt in the very grass of the property, and an air of warm memory lingers in our buildings. We believe in cultivating relationships here at WinMock. Our team regularly goes above and beyond to ensure your special day is as smooth as your first dance. Welcome, lovers, to WinMock. 168 EAST KINDERTON WAY, BERMUDA RUN, NC 27006 . 336.397.2010 . WINMOCK.COM Perry Vaile Photography

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mini food pairings

1 SLAM DUNK Kick off cocktail hour with savory tomato soup served with indulgent grilled cheese bites for a snack guests won’t soon forget. 2 SIP, SIP, HOORAY Novelty treats like these spiked soda bottles are best served with tiny hors d’oeuvres and pint-size straws. Cheers!

4 DRIVE-IN DELICACY Laid-back affairs call for finger foods that are anything but fancy, like these bite-size burgers and fries. 5 SMART COOKIE End the evening on a sweet note by sending guests home with mini milk cartons and warm cookies straight from your fave local bakery.

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3 BOTTOMS UP Chase a nip of traditional margarita with a single, crunchy taco.

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2 BIRDS OF A FEATHER Monochromatic plumes put a textured twist on classic accessories for a look that’s perfectly polished. 4

3 SUIT YOURSELF A bright dinner jacket in an unexpected hue instantly elevates even the most dapper tux. 4 FORMAL AFFAIR Nothing says “timeless” quite like a white dinner jacket and black bow tie. 5 DRESS TO IMPRESS Celebrate your patriotism with traditional military duds that never go out of style.

6 FLORAL FOOTWEAR Step out in style by sporting leather dress shoes with whimsical printed socks.

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7 PREPPY PARTY Casual celebrations call for punchy pants paired with vibrant pink ties.

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1 BLUE CRUSH Show off your sharp style with a bold blue tuxedo that’s bound to elicit a few double takes.

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INSIDE SCOOP

Airlie Gardens

8 outdoor spots to say “I do” airlie gardens

the oaks at salem

palmetto brewery

300 Airlie Road, Wilmington, NC; (910) 798-7700; AirlieGardens.org These historic gardens along the coast create a whimsical atmosphere for you and 300 guests, thanks to lush cascades of wisteria and an expansive 67 acres of picturesque wedding locations. Exchange vows below a 400-year-old oak tree, inside the artsy bottle chapel (fits 150) or in the Pergola Garden. Then whisk friends and family by golf carts to celebrate on the lawn along Bradley Creek. The gardens also offer a free year membership to newlyweds who book preferred vendors.

6304 Old Jenks Road, Apex, NC; (919) 387-4158; TheOaksatSalem.com Resting on 11 pastoral acres with mature hardwoods, this estate contains several ceremony and reception sites, including a grove of ancient oaks. After saying “I do,” dine alfresco with up to 299 guests on the two-level paved patio overlooking the serene pond. Plus, golf carts and valet parking make the navigation of the expansive property easy. TIP Stressed about transportation? Several hotels nearby provide free shuttles to the venue to ease your anxiety.

289 Huger St., Charleston, SC; (843) 937-0903; PalmettoBrewery.com Located on peninsular Charleston, this local brewery offers beer connoisseurs a selection of 12 draft lines of house-made brews to serve during your celebration. After a ceremony in the outdoor courtyard, treat family and friends to beer flights in the tasting room, then utilize the outdoor space of the industrial loading dock for dinner and dancing for up to 280. And not to worry: For the oenophiles in the crowd, the brewery also has local wines on hand. >>

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ERIC BONESKE PHOTOGR APHY

Celebrate in the fresh air at one of these pretty green spaces. BY JULIETTE CHEATHAM

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DRESS BY: TARA KEELY BY LAZARO. A DIVISION OF JLM COUTURE.

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gassaway mansion 106 Dupont Drive, Greenville, SC; (864) 271-0188; GassawayMansion.com Your Gatsby-themed party just found the ideal venue: Gassaway Mansion. Not only is the eclectic residence a stunning estate built during the 1920s, it’s also a nonprofit that houses more than 1,000 pieces of art. Say your vows beneath the Doric columns of the estate’s entrance followed by a lawn party in the surrounding gardens with your guests. Plus, rental includes details like flowers and catering, making logistics a little easier.

211 New Bern Place, Raleigh, NC; (919) 832-8357; HaywoodHall.org Located downtown, this Federal-style mansion, built at the turn of the 19th century, offers couples the perfect place to tie the knot fully immersed in traditional Southern charm. Host a ceremony with 150 friends and family members on the sprawling front lawn with classic white columns as your backdrop. Then, serve signature cocktails inside the residence and among the estate’s gardens before dining in a tented reception. TIP You can supply your own alcoholic beverages.

mcgill rose garden 940 N. Davidson St., Charlotte, NC; (704) 905-9808; NectarFloralDesigns.com Once a fuel and ice company, this urban garden features more than 500 rose bushes in the two-acre space. An old freight car that sits on the property is a popular backdrop and adds some rustic flair to your nuptials. After a floral-filled garden ceremony, transform the space into an alfresco dining experience while your 100 guests are free to wander the rose-lined paths, drink in hand.

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Gassaway Mansion

falls cottage

rose hill plantation

615 S. Main St., Greenville, SC; (864) 298-0005; FallsCottage.com This late 1800s home overlooks the scenic Reedy River. Have your ceremony on the terrace overlooking Falls Park, then toast during a seated dinner outside on the multilevel patio (fits 100). Mary’s Restaurant on-site caters events from the cottage kitchen using local ingredients in classic dishes like Lowcountry boil and Southern-style barbecue. Smaller guest lists will find space for 55 inside the cottage for a cozy, intimate affair.

3815 Rose Hill Lane, Nashville, NC; (252) 459-4058; RoseHill.HerokuApp.com With space for up to 350, this antebellum plantation allows you to celebrate history along with your nuptials. Exchange vows on the front steps beneath the Gothic arches, where the current owners actually wed, then invite guests to tour the home during cocktail hour. Post a reception tent near the centuries-old oaks draped in Spanish moss—the most picturesque setting on the 12 acres.

Find more venues near you at TheKnot.com/carolinas

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haywood hall

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There’s something magical about mountain weddings, especially when they happen at Old Edwards.

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500 THE WORLD’S BEST HOTELS

2016

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828.787.2610 oldedwardsinn.com/weddings Follow us on instagram @oldedwardsevents

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EXPERT ADVICE

advice from an

executive chef what are creative ways couples can tell their love story through food and drink? Food and memory go hand in hand. The meal should be a great representation of the couple’s personalities. For one wedding, we re-created the meal from the couple’s first date. They even came back for their anniversary to have the same meal again.

what is the biggest mistake couples make with their menus? Trying to please everyone. If a couple wants to do a carnival theme, it shouldn’t matter if their cousin hates funnel cake and might be upset. If the couple loves it, I’ll highly recommend making the best funnel cake on the planet with every topping imaginable.

MEET

Nathan Beriau Montage Palmetto Bluff ABOUT

Beriau and his team take inspiration from classic Lowcountry cuisine for weddings and events at this waterfront property. ON THE WEB

MontageHotels.com/ palmettobluff

@Montage PalmettoBluff PRO TIPS

Know what you have to spend on your food and drink before you meet. It’s difficult to work backward from the planning and tasting phase. Have a clear vision of what you want and what you don’t. Meals are a gathering point, where stories are shared and traditions are passed on.

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any tips for saving on catering costs? Stick to the seasons. Ask the chef about serving different cuts of meat—not all weddings must have filet mignon. You can also host a morning wedding with brunch instead of dinner. Look at drinks too. Serve just beer, wine and a signature cocktail. since you mention drinks, what are the must-haves for a great bar? Have plenty of bars—no one wants to wait in line for a drink! And have a great specialty cocktail with personality. Then, serve drinks with proper ice, either blocks or big cubes. what makes a great signature drink? Offer something personal or reflective of the location. Since more catering teams are embracing mixology programs, ask if they have a beverage manager who can be part of the planning process. Allow the on-site team to get creative. It will almost always be a win. now, the after-party. tips for best bites? Anything that’s easy to eat. Most people will have a drink in hand with less space to set it down. Food should be one or two bites max. Find more caterers from your area in our directory on p. 204

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what’s the secret to a successful menu? Trust your chef. We want your event to be amazing, reflect your personal style and be something your guests will enjoy. If the catering team tries to steer you away from an option they feel is risky, it’s for a good reason.

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EXPERT ADVICE

advice from a

planner

what are some ways a couple can save if they’re on a tight budget? Cutting your guest list is the easiest way to work with a tight budget. Every head costs money. You can also look at other days of the week, like a Friday or Sunday—that even lets guests have more days to enjoy their visit to your wedding destination. MEET

Ashley Greene Posh Petals and Pearls

any tips for destination weddings? Utilize technology—Skype, phone calls and emails. You may not be able to see the venue before you book, but Skype in a site visit and look at real weddings from the space.

ABOUT

what are the three things a couple should do after getting engaged? Budget and guest list are the first two—they go together. After this, come up with the overall vision so you can start deciding on vendors that fit the style and budget. what’s the key to finding the venue? It has to go with your style and budget, and hold your guest list. If a venue tacks on fees for certain vendors, be cautious. You may blow your budget before you get to decorate. what about planning a wedding in just six months—doable or not? Completely doable. Be open minded. Lots of pros book up a year in advance, so it may take some searching. It’s a great way to discover a hidden gem of a vendor.

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ON THE WEB

PoshPetalsand Pearls.com

@poshpetalsandpearls PRO TIPS

Don’t hire a planner based solely on cost. Ask for references and read reviews. Don’t DIY everything. If you’re busy crafting décor, you can’t enjoy your guests. Focus on what you and your fiancé want instead of trying to please every guest.

how can a couple put a spin on an old tradition? any recent examples? Strive to think outside of the box. Use images as inspiration, and don’t ask for an exact replica. I recently had a couple that wanted to do a unity ceremony, but it was outside with wind. Candles don’t work. So they combined broken glass together, then after the ceremony, shipped the glass to a company that created an art piece out of it. Now, they can display it and have it for years to come. lastly, about you: what’s in your emergency bag? What’s not in my bag? We have the normal items—Tylenol, sticky tape, sewing kit—but over the years, I’ve found some things that are also important, like cake knives and a ring bearer pillow. You don’t want to have to use a knife from the kitchen. Eventually, I’m going to end up with a full emergency luggage kit! Check out more local wedding pros at TheKnot.com/marketplace

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This Charleston, SC–based luxury wedding planning firm specializes in full-service coordination. Greene’s favorite wedding moment is the exchange of vows.

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lanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux continues to gain popularity in the Wedding Community. Its delightful combination of taste, visual appeal and soothing color is what makes Blanc de Bleu the quintessential bubbly for the wedding toast. Its crystal-clear virgin glass bottle shows off the bubbly’s gemstone blue hue. This shade of blue symbolizes loyalty and faith, exactly how couples feel toward each other when they exchange their vows. When you combine its clear blue color with its classy label, Blanc de Bleu looks as stunning as the newly married couple ready to toast a new beginning.

A Dry, Crisp Bubbly with a Hint of Blueberry As sparkling wine continues to grow in popularity, Blanc de Bleu is also winning fans for its taste. Made with grapes grown in Northern California vineyards, known for their cool and clear breezes, Blanc de Bleu bubbly tickles the palate with a subtle hint of blueberry. “The base wine of cuvée for Blanc de Bleu is the same fruit I use in our high-end, methode champenoise programs,” explains

Bob Stashak, champagne master for Blanc de Bleu. “We add just enough blueberry flavor to make a subtle impact. People are more pleasantly surprised to find the wine dry and crisp, instead of being another overly sweet, flavored wine.” Blanc de Bleu’s beautiful blue color is different from what you will see in any other sparkling wine. The vision behind creating Blanc de Bleu was to give people a reason to celebrate. Elegant packaging for this dry, crisp sparkling wine inside a striking bottle has captured the fascination of couples everywhere. You should not be surprised when you see Blanc de Bleu at the next wedding or big celebration you attend.

Weddings Every Day, Everywhere “Every day, everywhere, someone is getting married. We want Blanc de Bleu to be the sparkling beverage of choice at all weddings,” says Fred Franzia, CEO of Bronco Wine Company, the worldwide producer and supplier of Blanc de Bleu. Blanc de Bleu is available in 750ml and 187ml bottles. www.BlancdeBleuUSA.com

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advice from a

what’s the key to a packed dance floor? We pay attention throughout the event, from the formalities at the beginning to how the couple interacts with guests—and even the music during cocktail hour and dinner. We strive for a smooth flow that gradually builds energy throughout the event. That makes the difference in 25 people or 125 people on the dance floor.

song you never get tired of playing? Not to sound cliché, but whatever makes them dance. When you feed off the crowd, at that moment, that’s the best song ever. best reception entrance you’ve seen? For NFL player Roman Harper, then on the Panthers, we used smoke machines and a stadium-like intro. It was epic. MEET

what should a couple look for and prepare when interviewing potential DJs for their wedding? A wedding DJ is the quarterback to running the flow and building the energy into a dance party. Check their reputation and true wedding experience. See what other vendors are working with them and if they’ve worked weddings at major venues. Even if you have a lower budget, that doesn’t mean you want less experience. For the first meeting, bring excitement. Couples should be enthusiastic about putting together their wedding one piece at a time. now, some quick and fun questions. any music genre you advise against? Almost any music can be played, especially if it means something to the couple. It’s just about timing. For example, Mumford & Sons is great during dinner but it’s not danceable.

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Vinny Esposito Split Second Sound ABOUT

Esposito and his wife of 23 years, Diane, run this private DJ and entertainment company focused on weddings in Charlotte, NC. ON THE WEB

great moment from a recent wedding? We played DJ Kool’s “Let Me Clear My Throat,” and when he yells “freeze,” we stopped the track and said “Mannequin Challenge!” Watching 100 people stop in their tracks was awesome. your go-to track to end the night with a bang? Eddie Money’s “Take Me Home Tonight.” We’ve also been doing a last “first dance.”

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If you dictate every song, you lose the “I love that song” moment when you hear something you didn’t expect. Journey’s “Don’t Stop Believin’ ” is a guaranteed crowd-pleaser. Hire pros. A wedding is like a choreographed dance. If someone doesn’t know the steps, it can disrupt the flow.

what’s a last “first dance?” We play a high-energy song followed by something low to get everyone outside for the exit. Then, with no one in the room but the couple and the photographer, we play a last dance song in a messed up, partied-out room. The looks on the couple’s faces say it all. what do you love about what you do? I have a job that I feel good about doing, that makes a difference in the community. To be part of someone’s life on one of their most special days is an incredible honor. It’s not taken lightly. Discover more tips and trends from your area at TheKnot.com/carolinas

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what’s your idea of the ideal playlist? Have an open mind. Explain to the DJ what you’re into. Where are your family and friends from? Where did you go to college? Ethnic backgrounds, traditions and knowing what the guests like determine the songs we’ll play at the wedding. It’s never cookie cutter.

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INSIDE SCOOP

“Consider a postwedding brunch. Everyone is finally relaxed, and it’s a nice way to cap off the festivities and say goodbye to guests.” —Manasi & Bill

—Chinny & Chike

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secrets from real couples

From phone-free wedding days to tricks on how to stress less, newlyweds share their can’t-miss tips.

“Purchase a dedicated wedding notebook and take it with you everywhere. You never know when an idea, question or concern will pop into your head.” —Ari & Nick

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“If you’re asking loved ones to travel a long distance to attend your wedding, do your best to make it easy for them.” —Rory & Kevin Find more local tips at TheKnot.com/carolinas

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SIGN UP FOR DANCE LESSONS. DANCING TOGETHER (EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL DUMB!) CONNECTS YOU TO YOUR PARTNER AND SERVES AS A REMINDER OF WHY YOU’RE GETTING MARRIED.” —Amanda & Thadd

“The morning of our wedding, I handed my phone to a friend who answered phone calls and took a bunch of candid photos and videos throughout the entire day.” —Kate & Lauren

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“Supportive vendors are key. If you’re unsure during an initial consultation, listen to your instincts and move on.”

“LAUGH AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE DURING WHAT WILL BE A CRAZY PROCESS. YOUR CURRENT SANITY IS PRICELESS.”

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Make a preppy statement on your wedding day with a balanced and classic pairing.

Set off a fun printed tie or pocket square with a fresh floral boutonniere. 7

1 Tote bag, $25, TheKnotShop.com 2 Dress, $198, Wtoo, Watters.com 3 Nail polish in Whip It, $18, DeborahLippmann .com 4 Cheek Pop blush in Plum Pop, $23, Clinique.com 5 Festive Flora invitation, $181 for 100, Oscar de la Renta, PaperlessPost .com 6 Robe, $55, TheKnotShop.com 7 Pocket square, $10, TheTieBar.com >>

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REAL COUPLES

love stories

Five supersweet proposals from the Carolinas. BY JULIETTE CHEATHAM

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jared & terry • Corolla, NC PHOTOGRAPH BY SARAH D’AMBRA PHOTOGRAPHY

One Saturday morning Terry (left) told Jared to pack his bags and hop in the car as they set off to an undisclosed destination. But when Jared saw a sign for Long Island, he teared up—it was a special place for the two of them. Once set up at the beach with wine and a blanket, Terry pulled a black ring box from his pocket. “I forgot to say ‘yes,’ ” Jared says of being so surprised he first blurted out, “Shut up!” From there, the couple drove to a nearby winery where they had spent their first getaway. “Sitting at the table were both of our families—my jaw dropped,” Jared says. The ring: MensWeddingBands.com >>

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marianne & ryan Raleigh, NC PHOTOGRAPH BY CANDI LEONARD PHOTOGRAPHY

It all started with a trip to Paris and what Marianne thought was a work photo shoot at the Tuileries Garden. Little did she know Ryan had sneakily collaborated with a photographer and business colleague to mislead her. “It was the only time I knew for sure a proposal wasn’t going to happen,” Marianne says. After the first few shots, Ryan—who had supposedly been a later addition to the shoot—turned to Marianne and dropped to one knee. “The next few moments were a blur,” Ryan says. “I was in complete euphoria.” The ring: Heidi Gibson

kristan & sherard Charleston, SC PHOTOGRAPH BY ANERIS PHOTOGRAPHY

After 10 years of dating, Sherard decided he would propose to Kristan in their home church. Enlisting the help of his father, the pastor, Sherard stood before the congregation during a service to give a testimony. “He talked about his love for the church and the relationships he developed—one of which was with me,” Kristan says. Sherard then invited Kristan to join him in the center aisle, where he popped the question. “Our spirituality has been the cornerstone of our relationship,” he says. “I had many ideas of how to do it, but this was the most sentimental.” The ring: Neil Lane >>

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annie & david Max Patch, NC PHOTOGRAPH BY ANGELA ZION PHOTOGRAPHY

Instead of exchanging gifts for their upcoming birthdays, Annie and David decided to share an adventure. David saw this getaway as the perfect opportunity for a surprise proposal. “After several blatant lies that it wouldn’t happen on her birthday, Annie woke up to a homemade breakfast and roses, and plans for a day at the spa and picnic in the mountains,” David says. During the meal, David handed Annie a letter to read, while he got down on his knee. “I was shocked and overwhelmed with joy,” Annie says. “I’m marrying my best friend.” The ring: Diamond Jewelers of South Carolina

morgan & dorian

Charleston, SC PHOTOGRAPH BY ANNA DUNCAN PHOTOGRAPHY

After months of house hunting, Morgan and Dorian were finally ready to sign the contract on their new home. The couple celebrated with dinner then headed to the house for a final walk-through with his parents. “We reached the front door and Dorian opened it to reveal a trail of rose petals leading to the courtyard,” Morgan says. He then delivered a heartwarming speech and proposed on one knee. “There were so many emotions running through my head,” she says. “I began jumping up and down and squealing with joy.” The ring: Windsor Jewelers Find more amazing photographers in your area on p. 205

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September 10 â&#x20AC;˘ Charleston, SC

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A high bun paired with long dangling earrings accented Carrieâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s off-theshoulder A-line gown with French Chantilly lace.

ryan engaged: 15 months

photography by Dana Cubbage Weddings at Patrick Properties Hospitality Group

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BRIDE Carrie Bergmans, 29, a transplant hepatology physician’s assistant GROOM Ryan Stidham, 37, a gastroenterologist HOW THEY MET During a holiday party for the research lab where they both worked WEDDING STYLE The romantic Southern plantation wedding played on the rich green of the surrounding ancient trees and gold hues to show off the best of Charleston. —Juliette Cheatham

“Given the natural beauty of the location, we wanted to focus on that for the ceremony,” Carrie says of keeping the décor subtle. Guests sat in white chairs draped with garlands made of magnolia leaves. Carrie and Ryan exchanged vows under a chandelier hanging from one of the estate’s large oak trees.

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“The focus was on the guest experience, hoping to incite a real celebratory atmosphere,” Carrie says.

Wanting the reception to create the atmosphere of an intimate outdoor dinner party, guests dined alfresco under café lighting by the water. Large white blooms of ranunculus and anemones rested in delicate gold vases, while place settings included waxy magnolia leaves adorned with gold calligraphy.

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The rich hues of the magnolia trees inspired the glamorous green bridesmaid gowns.

Guests were treated to microbrews from both Carrie and Ryan’s home states (Michigan and Delaware) as well as classics like sweet tea. Those who wanted a break from dancing could partake in provisions from the cigar rolling, Scotch bar and gelato cart stations.

CARRIE & RYAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Patrick

PHOTOGRAPHY Dana Cubbage

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Properties Hospitality Group, Charleston,

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Ceremony: Allure, Mimi’s Bridal, Ann Arbor, MI; reception: top: Watters, skirt: Willowby by Watters, BHLDN.com

SHOES Manolo Blahnik

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS

Tapper’s JEWELRY Bracelet & earrings: Givenchy

HAIR &

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BRIDESMAID DRESSES Lulus

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Invitations: Meghan Stall & Jean Canavan; place cards & programs: Meghan Stall

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DJ Jon; strings: Classical Charleston OTHER ENTERTAINMENT Cigar Row Events TRANSPORTATION Charleston Style Limo ACCOMMODATIONS Market Pavilion GUESTS 140 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 6)

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Hollyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s rustic, natural bouquet contained florals that could be found around the plantation.

richard engaged: 5 months

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Copper-colored, hand-illustrated designs inspired by the iron gate of the terrace at the venue adorned the ceremony programs.

THEIR STORY BRIDE Holly Setzer, 34, a dental hygienist GROOM Richard Maclean, 50, the founder of Frontier Capital HOW THEY MET At a Chicago Cubs game WEDDING STYLE The pair hosted a rustic Lowcountry celebration with a gospel choir and copper accents.—JC

The ceremony took place under a canopy of Spanish-moss-covered oaks while guests watched from two rows of traditional white church pews. Holly walked down the aisle to the choir’s rendition of “This Little Light of Mine” in a full-length ball gown with guipure lace and a two-tier horsehair skirt. “I loved my dress!” she says.

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The place settings included menu cards featuring a watercolor of the majestic live oak that stands on the plantation, a calligraphed leather band, copper flatware, antique-style china and hydrangea centerpieces.

Richard sported proper summer attire: an off-white linen suit with a bow tie.

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HOLLY & RICHARD SOUTH CAROLINA

The couple served a Southern hummingbird cake with walnuts and buttercream frosting.

HOLLY & RICHARD’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Brays Island Plantation, Sheldon, SC PHOTOGRAPHY Ashley Seawell

During cocktail hour, guests sipped two signature drinks named after the couple’s two English cocker spaniels: a Paloma-like Jackson’s Juice and a sweet tea vodka lemonade dubbed Dixie’s Delight. “Take a seat and relax,” Holly advises. “Eat, drink and, well, be merry!”

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PLANNER Ashley Rhodes/

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FLOWERS

OFFICIANT Bishop

Bruce Fox (groom’s uncle)

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Richard restored a vintage 1966 Ford Bronco that the couple used as their getaway car.

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September 24 â&#x20AC;˘ Travelers Rest, SC

casey &

solomon engaged: 10 months

photography by Blue Bend Photography at Cliffs at Mountain Park

Casey gifted Solomon fish-print socks to wear with his threepiece charcoal suit to honor his passion as a conservationist.

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“The chapel is gorgeous on its own,” Casey says of keeping the ceremony décor to just greenery on the altar and pews.

THEIR STORY BRIDE Casey Allen, 31, a nonprofit fundraiser GROOM Solomon David, 38, a conservation scientist HOW THEY MET While working at an aquarium in Chicago WEDDING STYLE The nature lovers hosted an elegant alpine wedding at a quaint chapel overlooking the Blue Ridge Mountains. —JC

“I instantly loved spending time with him, learning about fish and seeing how incredibly passionate he is about his work,” Casey says. The couple incorporated a subtle fish motif to balance the rustic elements of the mountain venue. For the day, Casey donned an ivory crepe column dress with a bejeweled back, which she highlighted with a sideswept hairstyle.

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An overflowing mix of colorful local blooms, including roses and dahlias, filled the bouquets and centerpieces. After dinner, the couple cut into their decadent confection featuring layers of apple spice cake, butter cake with salted caramel buttercream and red velvet. “I still dream about that cake,” Casey says.

The outdoor cocktail hour included homey furnishings, string lights and an acoustic guitar performance.

CASEY & SOLOMON’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS

CEREMONY SITE Glassy Mountain

Chapel, Landrum, SC RECEPTION SITE Cliffs at Mountain Park, Travelers Rest, SC PHOTOGRAPHY Madeleine Gillespie/

Blue Bend Photography

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Statice Floral

OFFICIANT Rev. Yesudas

Devadan (groom’s uncle) Rosa Clará, Nordstrom Haan

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SHOES Cole

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Earth WEDDING RINGS David Yurman EARRINGS J.Crew

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MENSWEAR Men’s Wearhouse

STATIONERY Rock, Paper, Scissors SIGN-IN BOOK Kate Spade New

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RENTALS Industry Event Rentals;

Professional Party Rentals The Cliffs Communities and Company

CATERING CAKE Kathy

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Danny May Music; reception: Steel Toe Stiletto

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September 19 â&#x20AC;˘ Bluffton, SC

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As part of Coast Guard tradition, Lizzie and Nick walked under a tunnel of swords after being pronounced husband and wife.

nick engaged: 16 months

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The couple re-created a church atmosphere by having guests sit in pews set on the lawn.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Elizabeth “Lizzie” Lewis, 26, a physical therapist GROOM Nicholas “Nick” Devine, 29, a lieutenant of the United States Coast Guard HOW THEY MET During a spring break trip to Mexico WEDDING STYLE The beach-loving couple combined their affection for coastal life with old-world charm for their plantation nuptials. —JC

“I wanted my wedding to be a mix of California and Southern flair,” Lizzie says of using soft florals and blush, coral, green and gold hues. The couple also nodded to Nick’s service with a custom monogram inspired by the Coast Guard’s anchor.

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LIZZIE & NICK SOUTH CAROLINA

LIZZIE & NICK’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & SITE Colleton River Club,

Bluffton, SC It was important to Lizzie that the dining tables looked romantic with lots of candlelight. Sequin tablecloths were draped over the head tables, extravagant overhead chandeliers were covered in flowers and the whole room was draped in white fabric to create an extra-dreamy ambience. The cake featured a cascade of pink and cream sugar flowers.

PHOTOGRAPHY Landon

Jacob Photography Withers Films

Spencer Special Events Affair

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PLANNER Amanda Spencer/ FLOWERS A Floral

OFFICIANT Rev. Dr. John Wall

GOWN &

VEIL Judd Waddell, Bridals by

Lori, Atlanta

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING

RINGS Custom EARRINGS BHLDN HAIR &

MAKEUP Bride’s Side Beauty

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Joanna August MENSWEAR Groomsmen: Jos. A. Bank STATIONERY Invitations & programs:

Pretty Papers; escort & menu cards: Spencer Events

SIGN-IN BOOK Spencer Events

CATERING Colleton River Club

Savannah Custom Cakes Maxx

CAKE

MUSIC The

FAVORS The Chocolate Canopy

TRANSPORTATION Old Savannah Tours ACCOMMODATIONS Omni Hilton

Head Oceanfront Resort

REGISTRIES

Anthropologie; Bloomingdale’s; Macy’s; Pottery Barn; Target; Williams Sonoma HONEYMOON Belize GUESTS 200 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 6)

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Charlestonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s premier waterfront resort, centrally located on the banks of the Charleston Harbor, with 10 inspired venues for intimate gatherings to grand celebrations of 500.

Charleston Harbor Resort & Marina

20 Patriots Point Road. Mount Pleasant, SC 29464 843.856.0028 CharlestonHarborResort.com CharlestonHarborResort CHSResort CharlestonHarborResort

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September 24 â&#x20AC;˘ Charleston, SC

nahila &

bernard engaged: 9 months

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Dreamy white orchids cascaded from the ceiling over long dining tables set with white linens and runners of greenery.

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After the ceremony, the newlyweds had a few moments alone in a classic white RollsRoyce on the drive to the reception.

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Middleton

Place, Charleston, SC

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Nahila helped design the handmade menus and place cards, which featured watercolor flowers and rose gold typeface. For the ceremony, she had an entourage of six helpers, including bow-tie-clad ring bearers and flower girls wearing cream headpieces. “One of the boys carried the arras, the set of coins we exchange in Hispanic weddings,” Nahila says of honoring tradition.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Nahila Campos, 27, a social media director GROOM Bernard Pierson, 31, a real estate developer HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE The couple drew inspiration from Downton Abbey for their garden wedding, accented with greenery and nods to their Hispanic heritages. —JC

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VIDEOGRAPHY Pinwheel

PLANNER Christine Boykin/Mac

& B. Events

FLOWERS Out of the Garden

OFFICIANT Fr. Eyleen Castro

GOWN

VEIL Atelier Pronovias, Barcelona,

Spain

SHOES Jimmy Choo

WEDDING

RINGS Nemaro Jewelers JEWELRY Nemaro

Jewelers Beauty Bar

HAIR &

MAKEUP Pink Dot

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various

MENSWEAR Lodenfrey

STATIONERY

Escort cards & menus: Pink Fries Paperie RENTALS Ooh! Rentals

Middleton Place

CATERING

CAKE ABCD Cakes

MUSIC Cocktail hour: Peter Kiral/

Charleston Virtuosi; reception: DJ Lloyd; Tartara Music Group DANCE LESSONS Arthur Murray Dance Centers ACW Limo

TRANSPORTATION

REGISTRY Zola.com

HONEYMOON Bora Bora; Napa Valley, CA GUESTS 140 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 6)

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aybe one of the hardest things about wedding planning is getting on the same page with your vendors. You may be explaining your vision of the most perfect rustic soiree, but your planner may be hearing the makings of a bohemian

bash. This could happen with any of your pros—florists, bakers or caterers. Visuals help, of course, but it’s also important to know you’re speaking the same language. Enter our wedding theme dictionary. We broke down every theme, from alternative to whimsical, with descriptions and buzzwords for each—arming you with the basics, so to speak. Remember: Style is totally up for interpretation, so these aren’t rules. Think of them as jumping-off points or guidelines. Once you know what

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Make your wedding all about you—it is your day after all. You want your guests to leave saying, “That was so them!” vintage A typewriter adds instant nostalgia to a classic guest book. art deco Sparkly dresses shout celebration. romantic Hanging florals and ambient lighting ooze romance. nautical An anchor motif paired with sailing rope sets the scene for a seaside affair. alternative A colorful celebration complete with quirky sneakers and a rainbow of blooms is sure to be remembered.

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ALTERNATIVE MEANS YOUR STYLE CAN’T BE BOXED IN WITH OTHER CATEGORIES

art deco Evoking the American 1920s, especially art deco architecture (such as the Chrysler building), this wedding theme is all about spunky glitz and glam—after all, they were the roaring twenties. Energetic jazz music was the life of every party, so we highly recommend a live band to get your guests on their feet. BUZZWORDS: flashy, metallic, opulent WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Pluming white ostrich feathers spilling from centerpieces, sequined tablecloths and geometric designs decorate any art deco soiree. Arguably, the most important detail of one of these throwback parties is a champagne tower. VENUE IDEA: historic museum (bonus points for art deco architecture)

bohemian Boho style has this way of looking incredibly chic, with minimal effort. It’s the “I woke up like this” of wedding themes. The décor is humble but eye-catching and the palette is one that can be found living harmoniously in nature. BUZZWORDS: tribal, hipster, nomadic WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Expect mismatched bridesmaid dresses that don’t look too put together and bouquets of wispy and wild florals. The reception would definitely feature a cozy lounge area, complete with tepees and poufs. The finishing touch? A naked cake covered in fresh blooms. VENUE IDEA: open field >>

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Alternative seems to have gotten a bad rap over the years, and we’re here to change that. Having an alternative wedding just means your style is unique and can’t be boxed in with other categories. These themes are often representative of subcultures such as Burning Man, Steampunk, Renaissance or Marvel comics. BUZZWORDS: quirky, creative, unique WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: The bride may wear a traditional white dress, but the bouquet or accessories would be all her own. Or she might opt for something totally different, like a multicolored gown or handmade cocktail dress. There’s definitely a themed cake with a nod to shared interests (think: your favorite Marvel character). Expect lots of quirky touches, from centerpieces to favors. VENUE IDEA: renovated movie theater

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Infuse your theme with details big and small, like a motif on your invitation or the overall vibe of your reception. alternative Let your personalities shine with a nontraditional altar or a barefoot, seaside celebration. art deco Look for a beaded gown with intricate detailing or put a twist on the signature sip with a champagne tower. bohemian Embellish your outdoor ceremony with textural elements, like macramÃ© dream catchers, and opt for unique entertainment, like a bluegrass band.

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This is your dayâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;make the details really reflect who you are as a couple. classic Upgrade elegant table settings with place cards and fresh stems, or choose timeless attire ensembles, like black tuxedos. country Pick a bucolic place to host your celebration (like an old barn) and add pastoral touches. Wildflower bouquets, antique trucks and cowboy boots fit the bill. DIY Create your own bunting using printed fabric in your wedding colors, or add DIY elements to your invitation suite.

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Imagine a venue filled with monochromatic décor, from the linens to the floral arrangements. There may be metallic or pastel accents, but overall the palette is light and airy with different textures thrown in to mix things up. BUZZWORDS: traditional, timeless, elegant WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Classic weddings are usually more on the formal side—they’re clean-cut affairs. That means there may be a champagne cocktail hour, chargers at each place setting and understated (but beautiful) décor like tealight candles or arrangements made up of a single floral variety. VENUE IDEA: ballroom

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Personifying the American West, country weddings are full of flavor and overflowing with charm. This style is all about celebrating your hometown and maybe throwing in some Americana flair for good measure. BUZZWORDS: Western, homespun, rural WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Cowboy boots will definitely make an appearance, and don’t be surprised if camo comes along with them. More traditional items might be swapped for ones with a stronger hometown spin (like pies from your local bakery instead of a tiered wedding cake), and a strong send-off is a must. We love a good vintage car getaway, and an old Ford pickup would be perfect for the job. VENUE IDEA: ranch

diy You can see the personalization in every detail of a DIY wedding. Whether it’s a hand-sewn pennant flag banner, homemade cookies or handwritten escort cards, the couple’s style shines through. BUZZWORDS: handmade, charming, personalized WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Details have a homemade, imperfect quality about them: a customized stamp that prints the couple’s monogram on each invitation, a handcrafted paper flower bouquet or favors packaged with personalized notes of thanks. Have a make-your-own food station (whether it’s in place of or supplementing a sit-down meal) at the reception. Think: sliders with a variety of toppings, a crepe bar or fireside s’mores for dessert. VENUE IDEA: backyard >>

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The ultimate inspiration for a glamorous wedding? The red carpet or awards show after-parties. Jaw-dropping outfits, sweeping hairstyles and old-Hollywood red lips pair with fancy décor for a glittering celebration. BUZZWORDS: dazzling, chic, captivating WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Glamorous weddings probably have a few jaw-dropping details that end up all over Instagram, like a flower wall, elegantly draped fabric linens or exquisitely prepared food. The décor can range from neutral minimalist to over-the-top and extravagant. Metallics are a must. And something unexpected— a live performance or fireworks show—will wow the crowd. VENUE IDEA: luxury estate

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modern A modern wedding is all about exquisite simplicity. City dwellers, urbanites and design lovers gravitate to this wedding style, which skews formal but has enough playful touches to keep it from feeling too stiff or stuffy. BUZZWORDS: graphic, contemporary, cutting edge WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Expect a mix and match of patterns in a playful but incredibly sophisticated fashion, anchored by a streamlined color scheme. The theme is reflected in every detail from the thoughtfully chosen table linens to the specialty cocktail. A modern monogram or cool logo may be used to personalize the menus and the dance floor, while the cake will be simple but extra delicious (think: foodie ingredients and crazy flavors). VENUE IDEA: loft

nautical A celebration by the sea calls for some serious Cape Cod and Nantucket inspiration. A seafood bar, like an oyster shucking station or fresh shrimp cocktails during cocktail hour, is sure to send the right message. BUZZWORDS: preppy, navel, beachy WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Nautical hues play a huge role (everything from navy to sand is free game). Breezy linens, lighthouse décor, sea shell escort cards, fishing line lighting installations and relaxed (but slightly preppy) attire make this theme really come alive. VENUE IDEA: waterfront yacht club >>

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You can have more than two wedding colorsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;really! Add an accent hue or a zesty pop to any palette. glamorous Go grand with a multi-tier cake covered in pastel sugar flowers, or opt for a more monochromatic palette of white and cream. modern Bright colors mixed with a pattern makes a bold statement, while mid-century furniture is perfect for a lounge. nautical A celebration by the ocean screams maritime, especially if you include rich blue hues and a pop of coral in your color scheme.

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Your fashion sense is a nod to your wedding style, so personalize the details. retro Short dresses in powder blue have a retro vibe, while an old-fashioned car makes for a memorable exit. romantic An elegant gown with a full skirt is ultra-feminine, and sheer heels and dangling diamond earrings complete the look. rustic Forgo bridesmaid bouquets in favor of a greenery-based floral crownâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;simple but chic. For the reception, cream-colored draping adds a softness to rustic wood tables.

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retro It’s Mad Men meets Grease in this drive-in, sock hop, American Bandstand–era celebration. Even if your guests can’t jive like dancers back in the day, that’s what the vibe should feel like—and everyone should be on the dance floor. BUZZWORDS: nostalgic, old-fashioned, moxie WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: This was a time to be bold and express your style, so a bright color scheme of teal and cherry red or neon pink and yellow sets the stage. A few throwback details like Coke served in its signature glass bottles are just right to round out the décor. Borrow an heirloom cake topper or scout one from a vintage shop. VENUE IDEA: old theater

NATURAL TEXTURES LIKE WOOD AND STONE, WILD BLOOMS AND FARM-TO-TABLE CUISINE ARE STAPLES OF A RUSTIC WEDDING

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Romantic weddings are all about celebrating romance with barely there colors, soft lighting and ethereal details like flowing dresses with airy fabrics. Elaborate cakes, candlelight (to set the mood) and tons of florals are usually present too. BUZZWORDS: delicate, feminine, luxurious WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: We love the idea of a preceremony cocktail hour kicking things off, complete with light appetizers and flutes of sparkling rosé. The final detail: A beautifully tiered cake with an elegant cascade of sugar flowers followed by a grand exit in a classic car or a horse and carriage. VENUE IDEA: castle

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rustic Rustic can mean many things, but we like to streamline it with a simple farm-to-table baseline. Textures, especially natural ones like wood and stone, are staples of this theme. BUZZWORDS: local, minimal, raw WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Low, sprawling centerpieces with flowers that look fresh from the field dress up bare wood tables. Mixed glassware styles give a hint of glamour, but the eclectic collection still feels hand-curated. Market lights create ambience while a naked cake with fresh berries tastes as good as it looks. VENUE IDEA: renovated barn >>

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southern This elegant soiree is the epitome of Southern charm. Soft florals, sweet refreshments and amazing bites like tartlets or honey biscuits are the big players in this wedding theme. BUZZWORDS: charming, traditional, enchanting WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: A formal Southern affair calls for pulling out all the stops: bow ties, gloves, craft cocktails, traditional place settings and delicious food. Old-fashioned touches, like all-white flowers, mixed with sweet personalized details, like customized monograms, bring the day to life. VENUE IDEA: plantation

THINK OF A WHIMSICAL WEDDING AS A HYBRID OF RUSTIC AND BOHO, TOPPED WITH A FLOWER CROWN

whimsical Think of a whimsical wedding as a hybrid of rustic and boho, topped with a flower crown. It’s a little more on the storybook side, but in the most tasteful way. BUZZWORDS: fanciful, enchanting, eclectic WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Think: garden party mixed with Alice in Wonderland. The invitations are the best place to introduce this theme—a quirky motif or wordplay can allude to the fun without giving the whole idea away. Day-of details like mismatched bridal party dresses, thrifted china and interactive entertainment (photo booth, anyone?) will make everything feel unique to you. VENUE IDEA: botanical garden Find more wedding themes at TheKnot.com/style

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This “of-another-time” theme is often confused with retro. The biggest differences are in the eras: Retro is more about a specific period in time while vintage alludes more to antiques and Victorian details in the general sense. BUZZWORDS: antique, throwback, heirloom WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Instead of cloths or runners, tables might be draped with delicate layers of lace. Old furniture makes the best statement, so a lounge area with classic armchairs or love seats would create the perfect ambience. A gown with lace sleeves or a three-piece suit is a nice nod to the fashion of the time. VENUE IDEA: historic courthouse

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Statement dÃ©cor and personalized touches make any wedding extraordinary. southern Customize signature sips with a nod to the region or dress your party in elegant monochromatic gowns. vintage Choose attire that hearkens back to another era, like a sleeved gown with beading. whimsical Go for a wow factor with playful statements like a wall of greenery and oversize marquee letters, or get your guests looking up with a colorful ribbon installation that hangs from the ceiling.

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hot trends to make your own From dangling décor to portrait booths and gifting lounges, here are the ideas we’re really loving for the year ahead. BY LAUREN KAY PHOTOGRAPH BY JOSEPH LIN PHOTOGRAPHY

We’re all about a personalized wedding, but we also really love a good trend. So we’ve rounded up our favorite ideas to steal for an of-the-moment celebration. And yes, a few of these trends could blow your whole budget, but there are infinite ways to pull inspiration from these ideas and spin them to match your style (and wallet).

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Animal lovers take note: The hottest wedding guests have four legs and supersoft coats. From bunnies to donkeys, couples are incorporating more than just their pets into their weddings. This is a trend to try if you’re hosting a rustic soiree or celebrating in a picturesque barn.

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Sparkly gownsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;gold, silver and metallic beadingâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;flooded the bridal runways. The ball gown is making a comeback too, perfect for a formal evening wedding. Also hot? Breezy silhouettes and airy skirts. These effortless dresses (think: flowing fabrics like tulle and organza) have an ethereal vibe and are well suited for a destination affair or even a second look. Detachable skirts, floral embellishments and off-the-shoulder styles are making their way down the aisle as well. >>

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unique invitations Get your guests excited to celebrate from the very beginning with wedding correspondence that stands out. Plexiglass invites, foil stamping and glow-in-the-dark ink are a few of the stationery trends we’re loving right now. Bespoke illustrations and bold envelopes (think: shocking fuchsia with white ink) are other ways to get noticed.

grand getaways Think of this exit as a fresh take on the classic sparkler send-off. Surprise your guests with an unexpected getaway on the back of a motorcycle, in a horse-drawn carriage or by helicopter. For a twist on the trend, have a really memorable entrance instead. Anything goes—and just think of the photo ops.

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COLOR COMEBACK

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This deconstructed welcome bag is perfect for destination weddings. Instead of stuffing and delivering a gift for your guests, let them do the work—they’ll be glad you did. Set up a room full of swag (snacks, drinks, local treats) and guests can choose their favorite things. Best of all, you (or your family or wedding party) can greet guests in person when they arrive. If your friends and family are split between a couple of hotels, set up a table of goodies at the exit of your welcome party for a truly memorable party favor.

Neutrals and pastels have paved the way for a total return to color. Expect to see pops of bold shades and bright pairings. Pantone named greenery the Color of the Year—it’s vibrant and earthy, making it perfect for all seasons. This fresh hue is symbolic of “the reconnection we seek with nature, one another and a larger purpose,” says Leatrice Eiseman, executive director of the Pantone Color Institute. We expect to see this shade of green in everything from floral arrangements to colored linens.

asking for what you really want From cash to mountain bikes and even museum memberships, we love that couples can ask for just about anything under the sun these days—including nothing at all. Charity registries are on the rise along with experiences, like a pottery class or private cocktail session with an expert mixologist. Don’t worry, you can still register for classic wedding gifts like fine china, upgraded cookware and that fancy espresso machine you’ve had your eye on for years. Or do both!

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Classic aisles will always be popular, but couples are adding twists to the traditional ceremony. A circular seating setup or ceremony in the round gives guests a more intimate connection with your vows. Cocktails before your “I dos”? Why not! Couples are mixing up the timeline and kicking things off with a celebratory sip. >>

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In an effort to entertain guests, couples are turning to the tried and true: games. From interactive Mad Lib wedding programs to croquet at outdoor cocktail hours, games are being used as a way to break the ice between guests. This playful detail will get your friends and family mingling.

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Perfect Moments deserve the perfect setting.

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Décor trends are going au naturel. If you can’t celebrate under the stars, bring the outside in. Add some oversize potted trees to a ballroom for an instant forest effect. Or incorporate natural elements like wood and stone into your table settings. Greenery (not just the color) continues to trend—it’s easy to manipulate and can give your décor an undone but beautiful look. Bouquets are getting bigger too and some old-school styles, like cascade and pageant, are making a serious comeback.

a movable feast With food trucks and passed multicourse meals, the sit-down dinner is being replaced with more interactive options. Set up stations that feature your favorite eats, like wine and cheese pairings with an on-site sommelier. If you don’t want to forgo a plated dinner, host a cool cocktail hour and serve the main meal family style for a twist on the expected.

fun food presentations Menus are being carefully curated with favorite eats and local specialties. But the presentation is almost upstaging the food. Self-serve bars and food installations, like a hanging acrylic shelf piled high with hors d’oeuvres, are instant wows. These interactive stations will give your friends and family something to do, and talk about long after the wedding has ended. >>

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A MOVABLE FEAST

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The latest in lounge seating is swings. This playground classic promises to be a big hit with wedding guests both young and old. And it’s the perfect way to stay in motion when your feet need a break from the dance floor. Seating in general is trending, with couples opting for “king” and “queen” chairs at a sweetheart table, or mix-and-match options for outdoor ceremonies. >>

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image mapping Turn your indoor reception venue into an enchanted forest without uprooting a single tree. Image mapping is a projection technology that allows you to transform a space with lighting and moving pictures. You can change scenes too, giving your ceremony and reception each its own special vibe. On a budget? Use the technology on just your wedding cake.

double-duty escorts Escort cards are like the save-the-dates of your wedding day— they don’t have to match your theme or style. They’re the perfect place to be playful and infuse your celebration with your personalities or favorite things. Create a dramatic display that can double as a photo booth backdrop or cards that are also party favors, like splits of champagne or a boxed edible treat.

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Hanging accents are an instant wow factor, and they always get noticed. Suspend flowers from ceiling beams or string market lights from barn rafters for added ambience. Hanging décor will get guests looking up too, which is handy if you’re trying to downplay the venue’s color-clashing carpet. Towering candelabras and organic centerpieces continue to be popular table décor.

translucent cakes Not quite frosted, not quite bare, the almost-naked cake is a perfect blend of two styles, and ideal for a less formal celebration. These confections are usually packed with flavor, lightly iced in buttercream and topped with fresh flowers or in-season fruits that hint at the flavors of the cake.

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party portraits We’re loving the new twist on the traditional photo booth: portrait studios. Much like a photo booth, there’s a designated space and, in some cases, props. But instead of four rapid-fire shots, there’s a live photographer asking you to “vogue” for the camera. You get beautiful images of your family and friends and they get a stellar classic portrait, perfect for their gallery wall. Vintage-loving duos might opt for an illustrator instead, who can sketch guests in their finest duds. Meanwhile, Geofilters are joining hashtags as the hottest way to be social with photos at weddings (#duh).

Give your guests an evening they won’t soon forget with unparalleled entertainment. Think outside the box with an aerialist, a live painter or a choir belting out your favorite Beyoncé song. An artist can capture the scene and commemorate the day—fun entertainment for your guests and a keepsake for you. Or go the more traditional route with music, but pair it with a performance, like a classical quartet and ballerinas in tutus. If you have a noise ordinance at your outdoor locale, host a silent disco: A DJ spins music, but instead of it blasting from speakers, your guests don a pair of headphones and dance (and sing along) in relative silence. We’re kind of obsessed. DOUBLE-DUTY ESCORTS

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Make the pièce de résistance of your celebration— the cake, of course—mirror your wedding’s overall vibe and theme.

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SUGAR STEMS Nothing says “romance” quite like flowers, especially when they’re handcrafted in sugar and entirely edible.

Add color and panache to a simple round cake with a bevy of blooms. Choose stems found in your bouquet or centerpieces, or flowers that match your wedding palette. A single cascade makes a statement, while multiple floral sprays are a total wow. CAKE BY MADISON LEE’S CAKES

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classic A white cake is the perfect canvas for an eye-catching design. Guarantee yours steals the show by choosing a bold print, like this timeless yet whimsical blue floral motif. Pair with a topper of sugar flowers or your new monogram for an elegant look. CAKE BY BETTY BAKERY

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Love a detail from your stationery or the pattern of your wedding china? Let that inspire your cake.

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g lam A mix of patterns, metallics and dimensions create an extravagant confection. Bold pops of color in the base (echoed in the sugar blooms) lend a bit of sophistication. Opt for varying tier heights— it will give your cake depth and a little opulence. A MIDAS TOUCH

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Metallics make anything feel instantly luxe—including cakes. Gold edging, bold brush strokes and a confetti speckled tier create intrigue and texture.

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modern Proof that a simple design can make a big impact, this marble-inspired cake pairs perfectly with any wedding palette. A classic red rose gives the top tier dimension. Add even more drama by having nontraditional layers like hexagons, squares or ovals. CAKE BY BUTTERFLY BAKESHOP

Flecks of gold combine with gray and black in a rolled fondant technique. This motif is equal parts elegant and edgy.

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rustic Not quite naked, not quite frosted, this hybrid look is focused on flavor. Vary the ingredients based on the season, like decadent dulce de leche in the winter or vanilla lemon zest in warmer months. Decorate with fresh blooms or nods to the flavors (think: berries or shaved chocolate). CAKE BY LUCKYBIRD BAKERY

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global gifts Get inspired by traditional favors from around the world.

italy JORDAN ALMONDS These candycoated nuts are gifted in groups of five, representing health, wealth, fertility, happiness and longevity.

china DOUBLE HAPPINESS Display the traditional Chinese wedding character, which signifies a couple’s joy and love, on note cards or in the icing of a sugar cookie.

holland BRIDAL SUGAR Bruidssuiker, Dutch for “bridal sugar,” can be five pieces of any type of candy (chocolates, peppermints). The name comes from what these pieces mean: love,

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happiness, loyalty, prosperity and virility. Wrap five of your favorite candy bars together in a kitschy or pretty package for a sweet send-off.

switzerland PINE TREE Newlyweds plant a pine tree in their backyard to represent fertility. Send guests home with their own seedlings.

korea DATES OR CHESTNUTS Traditionally exchanged between the groom’s parents and the bride, and symbolic of children, these can be given whole or baked into cookies to pass on the luck.

morocco MILK BATH Moroccan custom dictates that before the wedding, the bride takes a milk bath. Pamper guests with small jars of milk bath to enjoy when they get home—just include an explanation.

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You’ve planned a wedding full of thoughtful details and now you’re stuck on the perfect favor, something that will make your guests remember your day. “As we realize how much ‘stuff’ we all actually have, it’s just not something we need,” says planner Brian Worley of YourBASH! Instead, channel your favor budget toward something to be enjoyed at the beginning of your celebration or at some point throughout the wedding (or weekend if you’re hosting a destination party). Here are a few of our favorite no-fail options.

welcome guests in style Hosting a weekend-long celebration? Treat guests to a plush welcome bag upon arrival. “The welcome bag is the first impression of the wedding weekend for guests,” says Lynn Easton of Easton Events. In addition to making your loved ones feel, well, loved, you can quickly get them acclimated with your chosen destination. Include a welcome note, a few of your favorite things to do and see around town, and suggestions for nearby restaurants. Make the logistics fun by including a custom map or adding some wit to your recommendations (“Scoops is Tim’s favorite ice cream shop, but Meghan swears the rocky road is superior across the street at Mick’s—you be the judge!”). Don’t forget an itinerary of the activities—but only include events or celebrations open to all guests. And last, but not least: snacks. Your guests have already traveled—don’t make them raid the minibar. Include you and your fiancé’s favorite goodies as well as local flavor, Easton recommends. If you’re packing it all in a tote you hope guests will reuse, you may not want to add your monogram or wedding date (they’ll be less likely to use it post-celebration). But do add your own custom logo to other details, such as waterbottle wraps or itinerary information.

give something to the kids Let’s face it—the people who like party favors the most are the under-12 crowd. If you’re including kids in your celebration, consider packaging up something especially for them. Instead of waiting until the end of the evening, give them a treat early on (it can double as entertainment). For wee ones, create a custom activity book with pictures to color and easy puzzles to solve. Older crowd of tweens? Wrap up a disposable camera and send kids on a picture scavenger hunt (get a snap of you and your new spouse kissing, take a picture of someone older than you, capture a relative dancing). Your littlest guests will feel extra-special, and their parents will be eager to engage in adult conversation during dinner—a total win-win.

entertain them Treat your guests to a special performance—we’re not talking your typical band or DJ, but something extra. It’s not a traditional favor, but we guarantee your guests will remember (and really enjoy) the marching band you hired to perform your alma mater’s fight song or the synchronized swimmers who take over the pool. They also contribute to the overall “awesome-time” vibe you’re channeling for your wedding. Opt for a performance that has some significance to you or the place you’ve chosen to wed—a mariachi band for a Mexico wedding or a jazz serenade for the couple who shared their first date at an underground club. Your guests will be delighted, and your choice will personalize your celebration.

hire a food truck A food truck, arriving at the end of the night and waiting at the exit of your venue, is perfect for guests craving a late-night snack after tearing up the dance floor.

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secrets to unforgettable favors Follow these rules and your gifts won’t get left behind.

think practically Ask yourself: Is this something I would want? Consider something that’s practical like locally roasted coffee or a picture frame. You can’t go wrong with an edible treat like homemade cookies.

skip the monogram Personalize your packaging, not the gift itself. This will ensure everyone will want to use their favor long after your wedding day.

try before you buy Once you’ve decided on a favor, do a trial run—you want to make sure the truffles taste as good as they look, or the handmade soaps are the right scent, before you order 200 of them.

Whether you choose to give one favor backups ready. Plan for 10 extra for every hundred guests in case something happens to get lost or broken in transit.

wrap it up Personalized packaging and a thoughtful display goes a long way. Match your packaging to your wedding theme. If you’re gifting something edible, choose a box or bag that won’t absorb grease.

Photo and video booths have been around for decades because, well, they’re fun! Roll in an old-fashioned photo booth, or try for a more modern GIF or slow-motion version. Everyone will love sharing the photos on social media (and you’ll get copies too). If you really want to do something special, hire a caricature or silhouette artist to livecapture your guests. They’ll head home with an exceptional keepsake.

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treat them to breakfast If you really want your guests to leave the party with a tangible token of your gratitude, edible favors are the way to go. “Sending your guests off with a tasty treat for the ride home or the following day is the new party favor,” Worley says. If you’ve already indulged guests in a five-course meal, consider gifting them breakfast to go. This is an especially nice touch if you don’t plan to host a day-after brunch. Instead of a candy bar, set up big glass jugs filled with your favorite cereals. Include wood spoons with your wedding date or custom hashtag. If you want to bake something, package homemade muffins or chewy granola bars for guests to enjoy with their morning coffee (while they relive all the fun they had at your wedding). Presentation is key— include a clever message like, “Thanks for sharing in the most important day of our lives. Don’t let tonight’s party keep you from skipping the most important meal of the day tomorrow.” S earch hundreds of favors by style and season at TheKnot.com/favors

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From legal marriage requirements to working with far-off vendors and etiquette around the globe, learn everything you need to know about planning a wedding away from home. Next stop: the bookstore.

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pick the perfect spot The location of your wedding is going to be instrumental in determining the overall vibe of your celebration (rustic, sophisticated, beachy). You want your guests to walk away from your wedding weekend thinking, “That was so them!” so it should say something about your personal style, experiences and your passions. Did he propose on vacation in Paris? Then why not host a swank wedding in the City of Lights? Are you foodies? Think about gathering your crew in a place

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like Tuscany or California wine country. Or if you love outdoor adventures, consider Costa Rica, where guests can zip-line through the treetops before the rehearsal dinner. Also keep in mind that the location you choose will determine the travel, time and budget required to pull it off.

time it right Unfortunately, the best weather in popular vacation destinations tends to correlate with tourist season, when there are typically more crowds, fewer hotel and

venue availabilities, and higher rates. If you choose to marry during high season, you’ll want to reserve hotel blocks and venues immediately and send out save-the-dates 10 to 12 months in advance so guests can book their flights and accommodations before prices skyrocket. If you choose the shoulder season (right after high season), you may be able to save yourselves and your guests some money and still enjoy great weather. While the off-season means fewer crowds, the weather can be iffy, and many stores, venues and vendors may close up shop. >>

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take a trip We seriously can’t recommend this enough: Take at least one planning trip, and if you can swing it, two or three is ideal. On the first trip, scout and secure your key venues—ceremony and reception spaces, hotels for guests, a rehearsal dinner spot—and local suppliers such as caterers, florists and photographers. Next (or during a second trip), schedule tastings with your caterer, see sample bouquets from the florist, plan a hair and makeup session with a local salon and organize activities (golf, tennis, walking tours, museums) for your guests.

research local marriage requirements The legal side of tying the knot in a different country can be complicated. Many countries have a residency requirement (for example, 48 hours in Turks and Caicos and seven days in England), which means you must reside in the country for a certain length of

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time before your ceremony. Although this is usually just a few days, it can be longer—France requires you to arrive at least 40 days before you marry.

get help Type As, beware: If you’re hosting a wedding in a distant locale, you’ll need to entrust at least part of the planning to someone else’s capable hands. A wedding planner can shoulder the burden of researching and securing local vendors (especially valuable if said vendors speak English only as a second language), dealing with logistics like tent rentals and lighting, and handling any lastminute fires in the weeks leading up to your wedding. A planner can also be the behind-the-scenes guru, creating gift bags for guests, vetting special requests (babysitters, dry cleaners and so on), and getting you, your fiancé and all of your guests where you need to be—on time. Many resorts include a coordinator in their wedding packages, but it might be a good idea to set aside about 10 to 15 percent of your total budget for a

planner. Generally speaking, a local planner is your best bet, as they can be your man or woman on the ground when you can’t be there. But if you prefer to go with a planner from back home, make sure they have experience planning weddings in your chosen destination, and expect to cover the transportation costs for their planning visits and the actual wedding.

remember you’re on island time Don’t keep a constant eye on the clock. Remember that many tropical islands run on “island time”—things happen when they happen—so don’t mistake a vendor’s laid-back attitude for incompetence. Schedule regular check-ins and then trust your vendors to work their magic.

vet vendors carefully While you can view vendors’ portfolios online and check references from afar, it’s especially important that you’re comfortable with all your pros. You’ll be leaving a lot in their hands, as you won’t be able to be nearly as hands-on, so it’s important you trust that they’re capable. (That’s why we >>

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factor in extra expenses If done right, a destination wedding can cost no more—and maybe even less—than hosting the same party at home (depending on where you live, of course). For example, if you live in a US city where event facilities are in high demand, like New York City, then holding your wedding in Mexico will likely be less expensive than doing it at home, even when you factor in airfare, hotel expenses and planning trips. Still there are extra expenses you’ll need to consider, including importing key vendors and décor, welcome bags, additional activities for guests and travel costs for you and your immediate families (including the planning trips, not just the wedding weekend).

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forewarn your friends Tell your bridal party about the destination before you ask them to stand by your side so they can gracefully decline if finances are tight. Don’t be upset if some of your closest friends or relatives don’t attend. While you are, in a sense, footing some of the food bills, their fees for travel,

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hotel, and a car rental (if necessary) can really add up. And while your wedding is a mini vacation for you, it may not be the one they want to take.

mind mother nature Don’t just assume the weather in the Caribbean, Hawaii and Mexico is gorgeous year-round. Hurricane season lasts from June through November in the Caribbean and can put a major damper on your nuptials, while rainy season makes marrying in Hawaii dicey from November to March, and Italy can be uncomfortably hot in July and August.

take care of guests In addition to arranging group rates for flights and rooms, list information for your friends and family on how to get to and from the nearest airport to your wedding locale, invite everyone to the rehearsal or welcome dinner and next-day brunch, and deliver welcome bags full of essentials for the trip, like sun tan lotion, snacks, water and bug spray.

dress the part Consider the climate when picking your wedding dress—and everyone else’s attire. You’ll be swimming in sweat if you pair your satin ball gown with tropical humidity, and asking your groomsmen to wear tuxes in the heat is just cruel. Also, if you’re exchanging vows outside, you may want to reconsider a long train that will easily get grass stained or stilettos that might stick in the mud.

stay organized Every trip should be a to-do list of appointments with vendors, coordinators and venue managers, so do your research, set up appointments and form a clear vision of what you want before you go. The good news: If you give yourselves one weekend to find a reception site, you’ll find one. In other words, distance will make you decisive, which will make the whole planning process a lot less stressful. Find more destination planning tips at TheKnot.com/destination-weddings

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strongly suggest making at least one planning trip to meet with potential pros.) If you must hire your vendors unseen, schedule a video chat so you can get a sense for their demeanor and personality before you sign a contract. You could also have your wedding planner meet with them on your behalf, and then brief you on your options. Another idea: Bring pros you trust from home to handle critical aspects such as the wedding photography, your hair and makeup, and the design (the lighting, flowers), and then work with local vendors in a supervisory capacity to avoid any communication mishaps. Just remember: You will have to cover their travel and lodging expenses.

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alifornia-based Yoyo Zhang (29 and a pediatric resident) and Christopher Rogan (29 and a treasury analyst) made it clear to their guests (all 26 of them!) that their wedding would not be a traditional one. “We wanted it to be as un-wedding-like as possible,” Yoyo says. “We invited just our closest and dearest friends. It felt like the most luxurious, effortless dinner party we’d ever thrown.” Yoyo didn’t wear makeup or heels, and the couple intentionally kept several details a secret from their guests, including the rooftop venue. “The place makes your heart stop for a second, this secret garden surrounded by glass and steel,” Yoyo says of the space. “The proportions and contrasts, the sky, the iconic St. Patrick’s in the background—it felt like the perfect celebration of a city we both love.” —Stephanie Cain

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venue The couple put complete faith in their planner to find a spot that was “classic New York with an outdoor space and fabulous view.” The result: a rooftop and loft overlooking the famed New York landmarks of St. Patrick’s Cathedral, Fifth Avenue and Rockefeller Center. details A small guests list meant the couple could personalize almost every aspect, including using one friend’s favorite candle scent during the reception and serving another friend’s preferred whiskey during cocktail hour on the patio.

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reception To reflect the spring date, Yoyo and Christopher wanted everything to feel lush and vibrant, using pops of bright pink against pastels and greenery. The guests dined on burgers stuffed with foie gras and short ribs at one long table accented with a fl oral garland and gold geometric lanterns. toasts Instead of gifts, the couple asked each guest to share a toast. “To hear the people we love share with such soul-bearing candor how they felt about us and our years of friendship was something we will never forget,” Yoyo says. THE COLOR PALETTE:

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REAL WEDDINGS

NORTH CAROLINA These seven couples and their weddings highlight the beautiful corners of the Tar Heel State, from mountain towns to coastal cities.

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photography by MorningWild Photography at Yesterday Spaces

Pale blue damask linens covered the tables as navy napkins contrasted nicely with the bright pink and purple blooms.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Abigail “Abbie” Wharff, a marketing manager GROOM Mark Rosenblum, an equity researcher HOW THEY MET After attending a heated UNC vs. Duke game for their respective schools WEDDING STYLE Abbie and Mark threw a cheerful, rustic celebration on a farm to reflect their playful relationship. —Juliette Cheatham

Abbie’s 2-year-old nephew, Grayson, helped the bride make her grand entrance at the ceremony by waving a flag. Abbie and Mark exchanged vows in an intimate dairy barn decorated with dried flowers suspended from the rustic ceiling.

“I wanted all the florals to reflect the rawness of the farm,” Abbie says of keeping her bouquet organic and textured with a variety of blooms.

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Mark gifted his groomsmen matching bow ties to wear for the day.

Hanging floral chandeliers served as the focal point of the reception and added impact to the spews of fresh greenery. For a sweet treat, guests took home sentimental favors: Mark’s mother and grandmother are famous among friends and family for their homemade cookies. “Mommy Rosenblum was kind enough to share her recipes, and we had our baker whip some up for each of our guests,” Abbie says.

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Abbie helped design both her custom wedding dress and her reception gown, a “gold, sexy number” with a champagne-hued robe. “Playing a role in the designs of my dresses was the most fun part of planning for me,” she says.

The duo had a trio of cakes, including a bourbon-honey drizzled confection, that they served alongside artisanal ice cream.

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Tucked cozily in a mountain valley, the ceremony was held in front of a flowerdraped wood cross.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Rebekah Baker, 22, a retail manager GROOM Malcolm “Mac” MacLaren, 23, a law student HOW THEY MET While studying abroad in London in college WEDDING STYLE Drawing on their love for craft beer and the Blue Ridge Mountains, the pair hosted a rustic barn wedding. “I wanted it to feel like you were entering an outdoor mountain church,” Rebekah says of their “I dos.” —JC

Rebekah and Mac had a custom watercolor painting made of their picturesque venue. The unique design, which alluded to their fall color scheme of cranberry, navy and gold, appeared on all their paper goods including the invitation suite and programs. The same hues popped in the day’s florals, which Rebekah’s florist kept more organic in shape than bohemian.

“My dad built doors as the entrance for the ceremony,” Rebekah says of the gateway into the “church.”

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Guests dined on wood farm tables decorated with simple garlands of fresh eucalyptus. Two eight-foot floral chandeliers were suspended overhead, and the mantle included an “M” made of greenery. “It was important to find ways to complement the colors, tastes and sounds of the Blue Ridge Mountains and bring that to life for our guests,” Rebekah says.

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The bridesmaids wore a mix of flowy dresses and jumpsuits in the same shade of cranberry.

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Fall flowers and berries decorated the nearly naked cake topped with a gold “Mr. & Mrs. MacLaren” sign.

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Claxton Farm,

“I was going down the aisle rain or shine,” Rebekah says of the short bout of precipitation earlier in the day. “By the time I got to the end of the aisle, the sun had broken, creating two rainbows right next to us. I like to think they were my two late grandfathers watching over the wedding.”

Weaverville, NC

PHOTOGRAPHY Graham

Terhune Photography Good Earth Films a Blossom (friend)

VIDEOGRAPHY

FLOWERS Two Buds and

OFFICIANT Thaddeus Pleasant GOWN Hayley Paige, The White

Magnolia, Atlanta

VEIL The White Magnolia

SHOES Calvin Klein

ENGAGEMENT

& WEDDING RINGS Diamond Vault Jewelers MAKEUP Cali Stott Artistry

HAIR &

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Joanna August,

Bella Bridesmaids

MENSWEAR Kenneth Cole

STATIONERY Invitations & programs: Wide

Eyes Paper Company; escort cards: Paracosm Paper

RENTALS &

Solutions & Catering Ruth & Ranshaw

CATERING M7 Event CAKE & DESSERTS

MUSIC Ceremony: Blue

Ridge Tradition Band; reception: Emerald Empire Band

FAVORS Garrett Popcorn

TRANSPORTATION M7 Event Solutions

& Catering

ACCOMMODATIONS The Omni

Grove Park Inn

REGISTRIES Bloomingdale’s;

Crate & Barrel; Macy’s; Williams Sonoma HONEYMOON Bangkok; Bali, Indonesia;

Siem Reap, Cambodia; Singapore GUESTS 130 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 6)

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EVE OF MILADY

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July 30 â&#x20AC;˘ Wilmington, NC

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The couple kept the reception mood romantic with delicate string lights, candles and dim lighting.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Lauren Huckabee, 28, a banker GROOM Jonathan Kacmarcik, 27, a financial advisor HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE The pair hosted a romantic, intimate wedding at an industrial space with billowing white drapery and lots of fresh greenery. â&#x20AC;&#x201D;JC

Lauren and Jonathan wed in a lofty location, where gauzy fabric and mini potted plants along the aisle created a warm atmosphere. The soft gray of the invitation suite and day-of paper goods added to the dreamy vibe.

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“I was inspired by the rustic Tuscan look,” Lauren says. “I wanted to reflect nature and have imperfect elements.” During cocktail hour, guests lounged on cozy, tufted furniture while snacking on granitas. For the family-style dinner, they feasted on shrimp and grits before digging into the four-tier cake and a display of European-style desserts like mini tarts, macarons and tiramisu cups.

The couple saved the top tier—classic red velvet—for their first anniversary.

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Brooklyn

Arts Center at St. Andrews, Wilmington, NC PHOTOGRAPHY Matt Ray/Millie Holloman

Photography Creative

VIDEOGRAPHY Blueberry

PLANNER &

Harbor Designs Ashcraft

FLOWERS Salt

OFFICIANT Pastor Mike

GOWN Monique Lhuillier, Nitsa’s

Apparel, Charlotte, NC

VEIL Vera Wang,

Nitsa’s Apparel HAIRCOMB BHLDN Prada

SHOES

WEDDING RINGS Benchmark; Preston

Diamond

HAIR Kym Lambros

Shannon Kernahan Amsale, Nitsa’s

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID DRESSES

MENSWEAR Groom: Hugo

Boss; groomsmen: Jos. A. Bank

STATIONERY

Pressed Cotton; calligraphy: Southern Bee Designs

RENTALS High Performance Lighting;

Party Suppliers & Rentals; Salt Harbor Designs CATERING Pine Valley Market & DESSERTS One Belle Bakery

CAKE MUSIC

Ceremony: Maura Kropke; cocktail hour: Benny Hill Music; reception: GrooveTown PHOTO BOOTH Truth Booth, Millie Holloman

Photography LIVE PAINTER Wed on Canvas TRANSPORTATION Azalea Limousine HONEYMOON Nosara, Costa Rica GUESTS 200 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 6)

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photography by Perry Vaile Photography at The Graylyn Estate

“I love flowers and was very hands-on when selecting the varietals we used,” Kelly says of her exotic bunch including snapdragons, lamb’s ear and proteas.

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Vintage-inspired stationery echoed the whimsical vibe of the day.

THEIR STORY

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BRIDE Kelly Ross, 30, a music licensing director GROOM Steve Stromp, 32, also a music licensing director HOW THEY MET During a party at work WEDDING STYLE Playing up the old-school glamour of their venue, the couple included dramatic splashes of wine and apple green, plus exotic arrangements that boasted artichokes and pomegranates. —JC

Roses, amaranthus and eucalyptus adorned the gazebo where Kelly and Steve said “I do,” and guests watched from whitewashed chairs set on the lawn. During the ceremony, the couple included a unique element: a honey ceremony using honey from Kelly’s mother’s bees.

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The newlyweds danced to Miguel’s “Simple Things,” a song they’ve often listened to during their courtship.

Sweets ended the night. After dinner, the couple served a decadent wedding cake, then handed out ribbon-tied bags of Kelly’s father’s candies. “He makes incredible chocolate and pecan toffee, and he’s famous for it in his hometown,” Steve says of the late-night treat.

KELLY & STEVE’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

The Graylyn Estate, Winston-Salem, NC

PHOTOGRAPHY Perry Vaile

Photography Creative

PLANNER Rebecca Rose

FLOWERS Carrie Poole Floral

& Garden Design Moon

OFFICIANT Kathi VEIL Anne Barge,

GOWN &

Kleinfeld Bridal, New York City Badgley Mischka

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT

RING Mociun WEDDING RINGS

Catbird EARRINGS BHLDN

HAIR

Madeline Pidgeon/Dry/Style MAKEUP Erin Alice Makeup

BRIDESMAID

DRESSES BHLDN

MENSWEAR

Groom: Suitsupply; groomsmen: Men’s Wearhouse Tenfold

STATIONERY Hello

RENTALS Party Reflections

CATERING The Graylyn Estate CAKE Regi Originals

MUSIC TFC

Band/East Coast Entertainment FAVORS DIY

.com

REGISTRY MyRegistry

HONEYMOON Maldives GUESTS

150 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 6)

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CMI worked very hard to find me the wedding band of my dreams. My husband and I had a wonderful experience. All of their staff is extremely knowledgeable, and we felt zero pressure when shopping. I highly recommend CMI!

CMIJEWELRY.COM (919) 948-2589 4630 PARAGON PARK RD. | RALEIGH

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The handsome couple paired their suits with eucalyptus and orchid boutonnieres for the timeless look Andy envisioned.

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The pair’s Siberian husky attended the wedding in spirit as part of the silhouette-style cake topper.

GROOM Andy Vu (left), 29, a software developer GROOM Daniel Moose, 30, a lawyer HOW THEY MET Online WEDDING STYLE The couple patiently waited 11 years to legally tie the knot in a courthouse ceremony, followed by an intimate dinner party at their favorite restaurant. —JC

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Since the couple couldn’t decided who of their five guests should hand them the rings, they had the magistrate pull a name out of a box during their ceremony. After their vows, the group toasted with champagne and a surprise cake Daniel ordered at Whiskey Kitchen next door. “We wanted an elegant wedding with our closest friends,” the grooms say. “This made us happy, and that’s all that matters.”

THEIR STORY

ANDY & DANIEL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Wake County

Justice Center, Raleigh, NC RECEPTION SITE The Capital Grille, Raleigh, NC PHOTOGRAPHY Ashley Landers

and David Green/Ashley + David Photography Flowers Davis

FLOWERS Fallon’s

OFFICIANT Judge Jacob WEDDING RINGS Jared the

Galleria of Jewelry; Helzberg Diamonds MENSWEAR Suits: J.Crew; Sandro;

ties & pocket squares: Brooks Brothers STATIONERY Minted.com CATERING The Capital Grille CAKE The Cupcake Shoppe HONEYMOON Spain GUESTS 5 BUDGET $ (see key, p. 6)

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August 13 â&#x20AC;¢ Charlotte, NC

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photography by Crystal Stokes Photography at The Mint Museum Uptown at Levine Center for the Arts

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Nicole Bullock, 27, works in human resources GROOM Jimmy Sealey II, 32, an air traffic controller with the FAA HOW THEY MET At a local Charlotte lounge WEDDING STYLE The spunky duo hosted an informal affair with modern touches, lots of clean lines and pops of cheerful colors. —JC

The couple exchanged vows in front of a backdrop made of low billows of brightly colored ribbon, then headed to cocktail hour on a terrace and dinner in a light-filled space. Nicole surprised Jimmy with a playful addition to the fondant cake: “We had the Ninja Turtles peeking out from underneath the ribbon,” she says.

NICOLE & JIMMY’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Mint

Museum Uptown at Levine Center for the Arts, Charlotte, NC

PHOTOGRAPHY

Nekia Miller/Posh Affairs Chelish Moore Flowers Sonya Allen

PLANNER FLOWERS

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Crystal Stokes Photography

The reception décor featured a combination of teal and yellow linens with bold fuchsia blooms.

OFFICIANT Rev.

GOWN Stella York, Poffie

Girls, Gastonia, NC

VEIL Poffie Girls

SHOES Adrianna Papell

ENGAGEMENT &

WEDDING RINGS Diamonds Direct JEWELRY

Diamonds Direct; Poffie Girls

HAIR

Salon of Zin; Sparkles Hill Studio MAKEUP Flawless Makeup Art DRESSES B2, Poffie Girls

Jos. A. Bank

BRIDESMAID MENSWEAR

INVITATIONS Carlson

Craft/M.G. Designs

RENTALS AFR Furniture

Rental; Eye Dialogue; Party Reflections CATERING Something Classic

Nona’s Sweets

CAKE

MUSIC Ceremony: Matt Kelly/

Key Signature Entertainment; reception: Queen City Weddings PHOTO BOOTH Charlotte’s Best Photo Booth Sweets

FAVORS Sugar Shack

REGISTRIES Crate & Barrel;

Macy’s; Target

HONEYMOON Mexico

GUESTS 175 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 6)

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rebecca &

The ceremony took place on a wood platform over a dune by the beach that included a custommade hexagonal archway adorned with large white blooms.

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“We were going for something that felt natural to the landscape of the beach,” Rebecca says of the décor.

THEIR STORY BRIDE Rebecca Ende, 34, managing director of Theater J GROOM Drew Lichtenberg, 32, dramaturge at The Shakespeare Theatre HOW THEY MET At a theater performance WEDDING STYLE The theater lovers threw a modern beach fete with geometric patterns, succulents and gold accents. —JC

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Sanderling Resort, Duck, NC PHOTOGRAPHY Genevieve and Chad

Stewart/Genevieve Stewart Photography FLOWERS Renee Landry Events

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PLANNER Debbie Norris/Sanderling

Resort

Rebecca and Drew’s invitation suite helped inspire the wedding look, including structural design motifs and natural elements. To echo the laid-back beach vibe, Rebecca and Drew eschewed “a lot of traditional wedding pageantry.” Rebecca walked down the aisle to a Death Cab for Cutie song, while Drew’s father officiated their ceremony. Guests dined on barbecue, other Southern fare and ice cream sandwiches.

REBECCA & DREW’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS

OFFICIANT Andrew Lichtenberg

(groom’s father)

GOWN Leanne

Marshall, Lovely Bride, Washington, DC

VEIL Untamed Petals Bridal

SHOES Alice + Olivia

ENGAGEMENT

& WEDDING RINGS Kristen Powers JEWELRY Bracelet & earrings: Alexis Bittar HAIR &

MAKEUP Spa at Sanderling

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various MENSWEAR Hugo Boss, Nordstrom STATIONERY Haute Papier CATERING Sanderling Resort CAKE Great Cakes DESSERTS Zen Pops MUSIC Ceremony: Leslie Erickson/

Club Violin; reception: Empty Pocket ACCOMMODATIONS Sanderling

Resort

REGISTRIES Bed Bath &

Beyond; Bloomingdale’s

HONEYMOON

Tokyo and Thailand GUESTS 88 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 6)

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Your wedding is a party. Why not dress for the occasion? Whether you go for fringe or feather details, or a flirty silhouette, choose a one-of-a-kind dress that plays up the celebratory vibe of your day.

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Shake Your Feathers A sheer column gown goes from sexy to showstopping with cascading plumes. Dress, $9,800, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; sapphire engagement ring, $50,000, CoastDiamond.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

Preservation Hall, PreservationHall.com

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Swing It A cocktail-length number embroidered with tiers of silk fringe is perfect for dancing the night away. Dress, $5,995, Naeem Khan, NeimanMarcus.com; engagement ring, $3,915, EfvaAttling .com; earrings, $54, HartHagerty.com; fan, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com MUSICIANS

Drums: Joe Lastie Jr.; trombone: Freddie Lonzo

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Steal the Show Take center stage with a striking combo of intricate allover beading and a curveskimming silhouette. Dress, $3,000, Blush by Hayley Paige at Hayden Olivia Bridal, HaydenOlivia.com (Charlotte, NC), The Lily Rose Bridal Boutique, LilyRoseBridal.com (Cornelius, NC), The White Magnolia, WhiteMagnoliaBridal .com (Greenville, SC); engagement ring, $6,600 (not including center stone), band, $2,500, SayYesWithKarl .com; earrings, $250, Theia Jewelry, KleinfeldBridal .com; shoes, $395, SJP Collection, Amazon.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

Hotel Royal, FrenchQuarter HotelGroup.com

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Get Up, Get Down A high-low hemline puts a fashion-forward twist on a romantic, floral-embellished gown. Dress, price upon request, Marchesa.com; engagement ring, price upon request, UneekJewelry .com; headpiece, $197, SaraGabriel .com; shoes, $795, JimmyChoo.com ON HIM Suit jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew.com; shirt, $90, pocket square, $30, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse.com; tie, $19, TheTieBar .com; shoes, $350, ColeHaan.com

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Play It Cool Give a sweet, polka dot ensemble some cool-girl edge with hot pink slides and a studded clutch. Dress, $3,400, Christos Costarellos, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $2,830 (not including center stone), AJaffe .com; cocktail ring, $1,995, EffyJewelry .com; clutch, $65, AldoShoes.com; shoes, $895, Manolo Blahnik, Saks.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

Peter Patoutâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s private residence

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Dare to Bare A lace-up back, barely there lace panels and off-the-shoulder sleeves make a sexy statement. Dress, $4,200, Rivini at Nitsa’s Apparel, Nitsas .com (Winston-Salem, NC), Traditions by Anna Bridal Boutique, TraditionsbyAnna.com (Raleigh, NC) ON HIM Jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew.com; shirt, $90, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

New Orleans’s City Park, NewOrleansCityPark.com

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Romp Around Feeling brave? A romper with a detachable overskirt is equal parts sophisticated and unexpected. Romper with overskirt, $8,150, Mark Zunino, KleinfeldBridal .com; tourmaline engagement ring, $9,390, CoastDiamond .com; opal drop earrings, $110,000, gold huggie earrings, $1,700, EricaCourtney .com; clutch, $350, Moyna, BHLDN .com; shoes, $995, JimmyChoo.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

Harryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Corner

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Flirt It Up

SPECIAL THANKS TO Bourbon Orleans Hotel (BourbonOrleans.com) and New Orleans Convention & Visitors Bureau (NewOrleansCVB.com) STORY Shelley Brown FASHION STYLING Audrey Slater HAIR Miok using Wella Professionals at Judy Casey Inc.

Add some retroinspired flair to your bridal look with a short A-line dress and birdcage veil. Dress, price upon request, Sareh Nouri at Maddison Row Bridal Chic, MaddisonRow .com (Charleston, SC), Nitsaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Apparel, Nitsas .com (Winston-Salem, NC); birdcage veil, $227, SaraGabriel .com; engagement ring, $1,800 (not including center stone), AJaffe .com; band, $825, CoastDiamond .com; earrings, $450, PearlCollective.com ON HIM Jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew.com; shirt, $90, pocket square, $30, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse .com; tie, $230, Brioni, MrPorter.com

MAKEUP Brett Jackson using Nars Cosmetics at Sarah Laird & Good Company FLORALS Poppy & Mint Floral Company

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FASHION

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art works of

Feel like you’re wearing a masterpiece with the perfect ring for you. By Shelley Brown

hot designs These stunning sparklers are totally of the moment. A fully rose gold setting gives an ultra-romantic feel. $2,794 (not including center stone), Noam Carver, CrownRing.com

2. MODERN GEOMETRY

7. COLORFUL CENTER STONE

Play off an angular center stone with sleek, channel-set baguettes. $39,995, MarkBroumand.com

Fancy-hued yellow or pink diamonds (or any other colorful gemstones) will set you apart from the crowd. Price upon request, ChristopherDesigns.com

3. COLORFUL ACCENTS

A pink diamond halo is a pretty contrast to a white metal ring. Price upon request, JackKelege.com 4. VINTAGE INSPIRED

This art-deco-looking setting has instant heirloom quality. $2,520 (not including center stone), AJaffe.com PHOTOGRAPHY BY

YASU + JUNKO ST YLING BY

ELIZABETH PRESS

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5. FANCY SHAPES

Retro pear-shaped diamonds are making a comeback. $11,990 (not including center stone), Tacori.com

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6. ROSE GOLD

Diamond-encrusted blossoms and vines add just enough whimsy. $7,175 (not including center stone), ScottKay.com

1. FLORAL DETAILS

8. DELICATE SETTINGS

You don’t need a giant center stone to make an impact. Dainty settings feel just as special. $1,980, SimonGJewelry.com 9. STACKING RINGS

What’s better than one engagement ring? How about a gorgeous stack of five. $11,540 (not including center stone), LX-Antwerp.com >>

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settings glossary The frame around your diamond can determine the style of your engagement ring, so choose wisely.

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1. PRONG The most popular ring setting, including anywhere from three to six claws or tines. Price upon request, Forevermark.com 2. THREE STONE A center stone flanked by two side diamonds. Also known as a trinity or trilogy, a three-stone setting often represents the past, present and future. Price upon request, JBirnbach.com 3. BEZEL A sleek metal rim surrounds the perimeter of the center stone, holding it in place. This modern setting is ideal for protecting

softer stones (like opals), and its smooth surface won’t snag on clothing. $2,880 (not including center stone), Danhov.com 4. BAGUETTE Two smaller rectangular stones along the sides of the center diamond. They can also be set horizontally. $59,995, MarkBroumand.com 5. PAVÉ From the Old French word for “to pave,” a band lined (or paved) with tiny round diamonds, resulting in subtle, allover sparkle. $2,640, SimonGJewelry.com >>

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Ideal destination and ideal atmosphere makes for a perfect combination

6 miles north of Cashiers, NC, overlooking Lake Glenville in the heart of the Blue Ridge Mountains

828-743-5456 www.sawyerfamilyfarmstead.com theteam@sawyerfamilyfarmstead.com LAUREN ROSENAU PHOTOGRAPHY

JESS HUNTER PHOTOGRAPHY

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JESS HUNTER PHOTOGRAPHY

ERIN KRANZ PHOTOGRAPHY

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band trends

Opt for one of these stylish bands to find a chic mate for your engagement ring, or stack up several.

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1. SCROLLWORK A perfect companion to a vintage-inspired engagement ring, scrollwork and milgrain (rows of tiny beads) give extra flourish to a wedding ring. $4,210, KirkKara.com 2. COLORFUL METAL Besides being on trend, rose gold is universally flattering. $1,425, Ammara Stone, BenchmarkRings.com 3. MIXED METALS Your wedding band and engagement ring don’t have to match. Consider a mixed metal band for a fashion-forward look. $4,825, ParadeDesign.com

4. ETERNITY BAND Also called an infinity ring, this band has identical stones set in a continuous line. The circle symbolizes endless love. $5,525, MartinFlyer.com 5. ALLOVER PAVÉ Similar to a pavé engagement ring setting, a band covered in tiny diamonds adds subtle sparkle. $2,420, SimonGJewelry.com 6. TRIANGULAR BAND A statement all on its own, this edgy band also complements a pear-shaped or trillion diamond. $2,795 for set of 3, EffyJewelry.com

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t he 4 Cs A quick breakdown of this diamond grading system. CUT A diamond’s cut determines its brilliance and refers to the facets within the stone. Don’t confuse this with the shape of a diamond, which is the geometry of the stone. CLARITY The clarity of a diamond is graded on how free it is of inclusions (otherwise known as imperfections) when viewed with the naked eye and with a loupe (a 10x magnifying glass). The fewer inclusions a stone has, the more valuable it is.

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CARAT A unit of weight. One carat is exactly 0.2 grams, or about the same weight as a standard paper clip. COLOR This refers to the colorless to near-colorless variety. The Gemological Institute of America (GIA) grades color based on a range from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow and brown). A colorless diamond will cost you more than a colored stone, unless the color is extremely rare (think: green or red diamonds).

a guide to metals Know your platinum from your palladium? Study up with a rundown of some of the most popular ring metals. PLATINUM Naturally white and one of the purest metals. It won’t change color and is hypoallergenic. YELLOW GOLD Malleable, yet strong. Also available in colors like white and pink. WHITE GOLD Yellow gold plated with rhodium. Less expensive than platinum, but the white coating could wear off over time. ROSE GOLD A mix of yellow gold and copper alloys gives this rosy metal its pretty pink tint. PALLADIUM Similar to platinum but less costly, this lustrous darker gray metal can also be an alloy in white gold. TITANIUM Typically used for men’s bands, a rugged gray metal that’s corrosion resistant and hypoallergenic.

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Pull off an awesome camp wedding, complete with color wars, bonfires and fabulous food. (Just don’t forget the bug spray.) BY MAGGIE SEAVER PHOTOGRAPH BY JEREMIAH AND RACHEL PHOTOGRAPHY

There’s something about the fresh outdoors, a relaxed vibe and a nostalgic first look on the dock of your childhood summer camp that makes for an unforgettable wedding. For the ultimate celebration, bring your loved ones together for a few days of camp-inspired activities like capture the flag, canoeing, and arts and crafts. Exchange vows at sunset, then dance the night away amid fireflies and a chorus of crickets. And who doesn’t love a round of s’mores? But before you spear any marshmallows, you’ve got some planning to do. We went to two pros, Amy Shey Jacobs of Chandelier Events and Andrea Freeman of Andrea Freeman Events, who know all about pulling off a fabulous camp wedding, rain or shine. >>

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do a little research First things first: Make sure the campsite you’re dreaming of is available on your preferred wedding date. A working summer camp will most likely only be available during its off-season, so months like June, July and August could be off-limits. Also keep varying seasonal climates in mind. “Camps can often be in cooler mountainous locations, so their seasons can differ from what you’re used to at home,” Jacobs says. “Often, nights are 10 to 20 degrees cooler than average temperatures at higher elevations.” As gorgeous as your natural camp setting already is, you’ll probably want to add personal wedding touches (especially if you’re hosting a large group for a few days), whether it’s an entire tent, your floral ceremony arch or a photo booth. So when it comes to picking a date and talking with pros, factor in time to set up and break down. Freeman recommends leaving anywhere from two to seven days for setup, and one to two days for cleanup.

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This probably isn’t the venue for a long gown with lots of volume and multiple undergarments, but if you just can’t part with the idea of a dramatic dress, you have a few options. “A great bustle will usually do the trick—just discuss it with your seamstress beforehand,” Jacobs says. “Otherwise, I say stick to shorter trains and get the drama with a removable tulle overskirt paired with a more lowmaintenance silhouette. Or just go with the camp theme and opt for a short gown and fun pair of wedges.” Speaking of footwear, you won’t want to deal with stilettos sinking into the grass, so Freeman recommends flats (or at least flat-soled shoes). Just make sure your dress is altered to avoid letting extra fabric drag. >>

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As with any outdoor wedding, the last thing you want is a rainstorm with no backup plan. Freeman suggests using a tent for outdoor affairs, no matter the weather—even if you land a glorious day, you’re going to want some shade. Freeman’s best recommendation is a clear tent with removable sides. That way, you can adjust the tent setting according to the weather and temperature at a moment’s notice. Otherwise, if you’re set on an open-air wedding, check to see if the camp has an indoor space you’d be able to use in case of bad weather. Other smart extras to have around (depending on the season) are heaters, fans, umbrellas, rain ponchos or blankets. Beyond the ceremony and reception, if you’re having a multiday celebration, Jacobs says to prep rainy-day activities just in case. “Basketball games in the gym, pottery and lanyard making in an arts and crafts class, movie nights with a s’mores bar and flannel blankets—it’s all possible, but think these things through before you get to camp.”

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Since your campsite is most likely not a full-service wedding venue, factor in additional expenses, like party rentals, proper lighting, suitable restrooms and additional lodging (in case you don’t want your grandparents cramped in bunk beds). If you do block extra rooms nearby, don’t forget transportation to shuttle guests back and forth. “Accessibility is also critical,” Freeman says. “If the location you love for the reception is in the middle of the woods, but trucks can’t get there to load and unload, you could be looking at increased labor costs for rentals and catering.” And something you probably haven’t thought of? Hiring a lifeguard— you’ll want a certified pro on duty during any activities involving water. >>

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pole tent These tents have peaks in the center, plus one or two rows of interior poles, creating that lofted shape. They’re often used for formal affairs, and work well with vibrant ceiling lighting.

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game on Four ways to make your party more playful.

lawn games Croquet and horseshoes are favorites perfect for a rustic fete. Cornhole is a lawn and beach party staple. Custom sets are available online—even with your wedding date or faces printed on it. Buy (or DIY) these games in your wedding colors.

cocktail table tic–tac–toe This is a simple DIY project: Use masking tape to make your cocktail tables into giant tic-tac-toe boards. Provide wooden or colored cardboard Xs and Os, and then people can get to know each other over drinks.

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Whether it’s a personalized crossword puzzle, a word search on a giant chalkboard or a set of trivia questions about the couple displayed on your cocktail napkins, games that make your guests think could have them thinking your cocktail hour is pretty great.

checkers or chess You can either set up your cocktail tables as built-in game boards or purchase a life-size set (think: extralarge Jenga), which is fun for board game aficionados of all ages and great for large families attending your wedding.

prepare electrical backup A rural site means certain amenities, like electricity, aren’t necessarily a given. First, discuss the situation with the site director and whether you’ll need extra power from a generator. Then talk to all your pros about their electrical needs. “When you plan things out, make sure you get a generator that has at least two more outlets than you think you’ll need,” Freeman says. “Also, the band may need two power sources, one for the ceremony and another separate spot for reception.” If your camp venue often hosts weddings, it may have a list of preferred vendors it’s worked with before. Finally, make sure there are enough phone chargers, batteries and flashlights on-site, whether it’s something the venue provides or you bring yourselves.

offer fun activities Now for the really fun part: games and activities. These will obviously depend on the size and age range of your party, but you have so many options to choose from. Jacobs loves organized camp activities like color wars, a field day or tug-of-war to get everyone involved and spark some fun competition. It’s also a good idea to have sports gear and arts and crafts materials, and give your guests some time to take a break. You could set the younger ones up with a movie night while the adults enjoy something a little more festive, like a wine and cheese tasting. “You want to strike a balance between organized activities, free play and rest time for your guests,” Jacobs says. Utilize the camp’s facilities but don’t micromanage—you don’t want everyone exhausted for the wedding.

keep food simple and local Celebrating over a few days? Jacobs likes to cater daily meals through the camp, if possible. Think: buffet breakfasts, deli spreads and relaxed barbecues.

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She suggests recruiting a local caterer to craft a locally sourced and seasonally fresh menu for the main event. “Farm to table is the way to go, and don’t expect to overcomplicate with fussy menu items or things that are hard to temperature control,” Jacobs says. As for serving, Freeman loves food stations. “Guests can play lawn games, dance, or sit and chat on a blanket and grab a bite whenever they’re hungry,” Freeman says.

take care of your guests Your friends and family are rock stars for making the trip to the camp, so give them the goodies they deserve (and need). Greet guests with a welcome bag filled with local treats, campsite maps, daily itineraries and nearby areas to visit. And seeing as the closest pharmacy might be miles away, make sure every room and restroom is stocked with nice soaps, shampoo, toothpaste, toothbrushes, deodorant, bug spray, sunscreen, and allergy and pain reliever medication— better safe than sorry. And don’t forget creams and ointment for any rashes or poison ivy. If you’re in a climate that gets chilly at night, always have cozy blankets and throws at the ready.

check local sound and alcohol ordinances You may be secluded in the woods, on a lake or in the mountains, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t rules. You might have a 10 p.m. noise curfew or need to obtain a permit that allows your band to play later into the night. Same goes for alcohol—do a little research and find out what the deal is with serving cocktails, beer or wine on camp premises. Your camp staff can generally point you in the right direction. et more planning tips at G TheKnot.com/planning

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how to actually pay for your wedding The little things you can save, the big things you can sacrifice and how to make it all add up for your wedding. BY RACHEL TORGERSON ILLUSTRATIONS BY LIBBY VANDERPLOEG

Your wedding is probably the priciest party you’ll ever throw in your life. It’s easy to say you’ll stick to a budget, or have tons of fabulous DIY details, but at the end of the day, your venue and catering bill could amount to way more than you imagined. It’s important to understand how your budget will be broken down. Saving up for the wedding isn’t an insurmountable task—we promise. Here’s how to save up and pay for your wedding by spending smartly and cutting back a little along the way. >>

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use this simple math equation If you have a big budget goal that seems daunting, divide it into smaller chunks that are easier to digest. The simple math trick that makes it all work? Take the sum of your desired budget and divide it by the number of months you have to save up. Getting married in a year with a budget of $20,000? Divide $20,000 by 12 (which equals about $1,700 per month). If that amount seems like too much per month, add more time or try cutting back on a few of your big-ticket monthly expenses to help you save. “That’s literally how simple planning [financially] for a wedding can be,” says David Bach, founder and chairman of FinishRich Media and author of Smart Couples Finish Rich, about this relatively simple math. Where should this money go? Into a newly created “wedding account,” of course. Throughout your life, having a savings account dedicated to something more exciting than a retirement plan, like travel, a wedding or another big event, is a good idea and will help make saving more fun. Obviously, the amount of time you’ll need to save up for a wedding depends on your current income and expenses. For example, if you can only save $800 a month, but your dream wedding looks like it will cost somewhere in the $50,000 range, you’ll be saving for more than five years. When you’re thinking of your budget, work within realistic parameters and don’t set unattainable goals. For some couples, more drastic sacrifices will be required, while other to-be-weds will be splitting the cost with relatives to help lighten the load. Think about what’s best for you and your partner and what makes the sense. Be practical about your limits. The amount of time it takes you to save will depend entirely on your own circumstances.

cut back on monthly expenses Do you belong to a gym, club or subscription service that takes a monthly sum out of your account? Cutting back on these types of expenses can have some of the quickest effects on your account balance. Turning off your cable could save you $100 a month, and ending a gym membership could put an extra $75 in your account each month. You’re not going to give up your cell phone, but you might be able to change the data plans or forgo on-demand movies for a year. You should make a habit of reaching out to your cell phone and cable companies annually and negotiating a better deal. Sometimes, just by asking, you can get a price cut on your bills. Even $20 off a monthly bill can save you $240 over the course of a year. Nowadays, it’s so expensive for a company to acquire a new customer that most will lower their fees just to keep you around. And if your attempts at negotiation fail, consider cutting out nonessential monthly costs. We’re not talking about your health plan or your life insurance—those things are non-negotiable.

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family finances

Discuss with your families about who’ll be paying for what. Some couple’s families will still pick up the entire tab, but now, 10 percent of couples are covering the cost themselves.

But for things like cable, Netflix, Amazon Prime, Birchbox and Spotify—anything that debits you on a monthly basis—the time has come to really consider if these are must-haves you truly need, or if you can sacrifice them for a bit in favor of a larger wedding budget—and that fancy cake you have your eye on.

stop little spending habits that add up Scale down your shopping during the months you’re saving or only buy lunch out one day a week. You’ll begin to see a little wiggle room for your wedding account in no time. “I call this ‘the latte factor’—the way we spend money on a lot of little things without thinking about it,” Bach says. “It could be your coffee, bottled water, eating out for lunch and dinner, or having drinks. It could even be taking a cab instead of taking the subway, or parking your car closer to your office and therefore paying a higher parking fee.” A dollar here, three dollars there—it adds up over days and weeks. Cutting back on a few (or a lot) of these expenditures can result in saving up to $10, maybe $20, per day—that’s $300 to $600 per month. But don’t worry—cutting out these expenses isn’t going to change your whole life for the next year. Trust us, time flies when you’re wedding planning. >>

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make bigger sacrifices, if you’re willing Looking for any possible way to cut costs or find extra money to help pay for your wedding? There are some more drastic measures you can take as well. You could move in with your parents to save on rent for the year (or move in together if you haven’t already). If you both own a car, consider selling one of them—that itself could save you more than $5,000 in expenses like gas, tune-ups and insurance. “The expenses from that car could pay for a third of the wedding,” Bach says.

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use your credit cards—realistically If you’re in the process of saving up for the wedding while you’re making deposits to reserve your venue and other vendors, you’re likely going to have to use credit cards. That shouldn’t worry you as long as you’re using them correctly (read: paying them off in full in a timely manner). Credit cards can actually protect you from fraud and make transactions easier, so we don’t suggest avoiding them entirely as long as you’ve saved up enough, or will have saved up enough to pay them off before interest sets in. But one big thing to keep in mind: Don’t start your marriage off in debt—it’s never a good idea—and don’t consider paying for things with money you don’t have and won’t have for a long time. You also shouldn’t take out a loan to cover costs. “Going into marriage with debt for a one-day party is a huge mistake,” Bach says. “People start their lives in these huge financial holes and it’s just a shame. It’s smart to create a specific wedding account to put money into and then simply reverse the math to come up with your savings plan.” Bottom line: Don’t spend more than you can afford.

think of creative ways to make more cash Have you considered selling items you don’t need anymore online? What about starting an Etsy shop or doing freelance work? This can be a great way to supplement your wedding fund. Once you have a plan in place, start a budget with The Knot Budget Calculator. There are lots of additional ways to save too, like looking into expensive wedding dates to avoid and checking out planning advice to get a handle on the whole process.

what about investing to pay for the wedding? Investing in stocks is more of a long-term process, and probably not the best idea as a way to pay for the wedding. But if your parents are planning to pay, it’s something they might have already considered years before you even met your partner. Set your budget at TheKnot.com/budget

where not to skimp All the places that are worth splurging for your wedding day.

the photographer

Trust us—you don’t want a wedding album full of blurry photos to realize a pro is worth it. Your friend who took up photography last year might take great photos of his dog running on the beach, but that doesn’t mean he’s a cheap alternative for your wedding day. A professional photographer knows what to capture—the rings, the cake, the details and candid moments. They’ll also be able to work the crowd and direct you and your new spouse in order to get the best shots.

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the dress

You don’t need to spend a ton on a dress to look beautiful on your day, but you do need to have it fitted by a good tailor.

the music

Hiring a DJ simply because he charges only $40 an hour or recruiting your friend’s garage band might not be the best bets for your wedding. Splurging on a great band or DJ who will have you and your guests dancing all night is truly money well spent.

the bouquet

Your bouquet is the one floral purchase you shouldn’t hold back on. Consider that as a part of your overall look—it’ll be photographed like crazy. Opt for more expensive blooms for your bunch and scale back on centerpieces.

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Serving unappetizing food will make your guests remember your reception for all the wrong reasons. Eliminate a course or offer less expensive options, but maintain the quality.

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put guests first Settle on the approximate number of guests you’ll invite before selecting a venue. This will ensure there’s ample space for your crew. As a rule of thumb, allow for 25 to 30 square feet per guest. That may seem like a lot, but it’s not if you count the space you’ll need for the tables, bustling waiters, the band and a dance floor. Nobody wants to feel cramped or overheated.

listen to mother nature Heed the weather and other potential annoyances. Guests have been known to skip out early from hotter-than-hot summer weddings and improperly heated winter receptions. Be prepared. Bugs (gnats, flies and mosquitos) also swarm during certain seasons. Consider renting pest control tanks to alleviate the problem or including bug repellent in restroom amenities.

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manage the mail Of course you want the perfect stamps for your wedding invitations, but not all stamps are widely available at every post office, especially in large quantities. Save yourself some scouting time by ordering them online at USPS.com. Weigh your invitation with all the additional paper products before you send them so you can attach the right amount of postage. Ask your stationer about the need for additional postage for oddly shaped envelopes— and don’t forget to stamp the RSVP envelopes too.

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pay it forward Listen to your prosand one vendor can lead you to another— plus, they know what they’re talking about. Your wedding photographer can tell you which florist’s blooms really pop, and your planner should know which band will pack the dance floor.

make a meal plan Another unforeseen expense? Feeding your wedding pros. Before you sign contracts, make sure you’re not required to serve the same meal to your vendors that guests will receive. Otherwise, you could be paying for 20 additional lobster tails. Choose a less expensive (but equally hearty) meal for them instead.

get organized Compile all your correspondence with vendors, notes from meetings and photos you want them to see. Set up a special email address dedicated to your wedding. For on-the-go planning, download the Wedding Planner by The Knot app.

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prepare for rejection Generally about 20 percent of the people you invite won’t attend your wedding. It all depends on the location (destination weddings are harder to attend), how many out-of-towners are on your list and the timing of the event (some guests may have annual holiday or summer plans).

tend to your bar Typically, you need one bartender per 50 guests to keep the lines short. But if you’re serving a signature sip that can’t be mixed ahead of time (or in large quantities), consider adding an extra server. Your guests will thank you.

release rooms As soon as you’ve picked a date, start to look for hotels in a wide variety of price points. Many allow you to reserve rooms for guests under a special wedding block and a reduced rate. You can then release any unbooked rooms a month prior to your wedding. If the hotels you contact insist upon drawing up contracts with cancellation penalties, just say no—you don’t want to be responsible for rooms you can’t fill. >>

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express engagement timeline Have just five months? Here are your essential to-dos.

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keep a paper trail Get any nonstandard changes to your agreements in writing, or send the vendor a confirmation email saying, “Hello, just confirming that you’ll keep the venue open until 2 a.m. versus midnight.” Don’t just assume everything’s all set. Sometimes, by the time the actual day rolls around, your contact for a certain vendor may no longer be working there to vouch for you.

help guests pay attention Make sure your guests can both see and hear from their seats. If people are seated farther than 15 rows back from your ceremony altar, consider renting a mic or riser. This could range anywhere from $50 to $150, depending on the equipment used. You’ll need to coordinate the delivery and setup with your ceremony space too, so put your wedding planner or a wedding party member in charge of this task.

be realistic with your time When it comes down to the last month of your planning (and when you’re particularly stressed), look at your mile long to-do list and cut three things. Yes, three things. Not crucial things that you just don’t feel like doing, such as picking a processional song or confirming final details with all of your vendors. Eliminate the over-the-top tasks like hand-painting “Just Married” signs, or baking cookies for all of the welcome bags. Get more planning advice at TheKnot.com/planning

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4–5 months before ail down your date, N time and budget, and compile the guest list. Book your venue(s) and vendors (planner, florist, photographer, band). Find flower alternatives (in your price range) if a specific bloom is unavailable on your wedding day; include unacceptable substitutions, if any. Choose your dress (off the rack). Order invites, and give travelers the date.

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egister and shop for R wedding rings. Book your rehearsal dinner space. Plan the ceremony with your officiant.

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ut the seating P chart together. Prepare your wedding toasts. Place cash tips for vendors in envelopes. Apply for your marriage license together. Have your dress pressed or steamed. Confirm vendor orders/delivery details. Get a mani-pedi. Give your officiant your marriage license. Rehearse the ceremony. LENS CAP PRODUCTIONS

learn about marriage licenses You can check your state’s license requirements online, but confirm with a call to the county clerk’s office to see when they’re open. Even if it’s from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., it may issue marriage licenses only during slower times like, say, Thursdays from 2 p.m. to 3 p.m. Give a copy of your marriage license to your officiant or honor attendant (just in case you lose yours during the final days before your wedding).

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Once you’ve narrowed down your list to two or three potential photographers, meet with each in person to see if you feel comfortable with them. We can’t stress enough how important this is—almost as crucial as their camera skills. Aside from your gut instinct, ask these questions before signing a contract.

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What photography style(s) do you specialize in? Are there any styles you don’t do? Most shooters use a blend of several, but make sure they shoot portraits, for example, if they’re important to you. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW You wouldn’t ask Monet to paint a Picasso, right? Going with the style a photographer likes to shoot (and has the most experience shooting) will give you the best results. Will the photos be retouched and color balanced? Is that done before I see the proofs? These are the techniques that professionals use to digitally enhance your photographs and make them look perfect. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Some photographers will polish up all photos before you see them for the first time, while others will show you unretouched proofs of the images and work their magic only on the ones you order. How many weddings have you shot in your career, and about how many do you do in a year? Your photographer should do this for a living and edit photos in a timely manner. Don’t pick a friend or family member who takes pictures as a hobby. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW You have one chance to get amazing photos, so you’ll want a seasoned pro who can take them under pressure.

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Do you shoot both digital and film? Which do you prefer? While digital is more common today, film has had a resurgence. If you want the latter, be sure your photographer has the relevant experience and technical skills required to execute this format. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW If you’re obsessed with the quality of film, go with a pro in this medium. And let him know how many photos you want taken with film—all of them or just the ceremony.

What is included in your packages? When comparing fees, check whether prints, albums, proofs and extra coverage (such as engagement shoots) are covered. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW These differences can alter the costs significantly. It’s not necessarily a bad thing if, say, your album isn’t included—you can always buy it à la carte—but you want to be sure you’re comparing apples to apples to get the best value. If you’re having your shooter use film, ask about cost and processing fees. How many hours of coverage do we get? What’s the charge for overtime in case we need you longer? While photographers almost always charge by the day, the number of hours that gets you will most likely vary. >>

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look amazing in your wedding photos Be ready for your close-up—instantly.

practice smiling Taking selfies for Snapchat isn’t the only way to practice your best smile. Got a favorite photo of yourself? Tape it to your mirror and perfect the expression.

get your look down pat Book hair and makeup trials, and take practice photos to see how different looks translate into pictures.

close your eyes Quickly closing your eyes, and then opening them slowly when you hear “Say ‘cheese’” will help you look relaxed and natural—and prevent you from blinking.

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If you have six hours of coverage but your photographer charges a huge hourly rate for overtime, you might have them leave after you cut the cake instead of after the last dance. Or you may opt for a longer package to pay a little more up front (and avoid the larger hourly overtime rate later).

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What’s the deposit and total fee? You’ll owe a percentage up front and the balance at a later date. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW In addition to these numbers, you should also ask when all the payments are due.

Will there be a second shooter? If the answer is yes, ask about any fees. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Second shooters can give you two perspectives on big moments (for instance, one can photograph your vow exchange while the other simultaneously captures your mom’s teary reaction). But this may cost extra.

money matters

“Don’t let cost get in the way of quality. If you find yourself yearning after a quality of images that’s out of budget, cut costs elsewhere.” —Paul Seiler of Paul Seiler Photography in Raleigh, NC

down slightly and look up at the lens for immediate enlargement.

strike a red-carpet pose Here’s a secret straight from Hollywood: Looking thin on camera isn’t only due to diet and exercise. Angle your body threequarters of the way toward the camera, with one foot in front of the other and your weight on your back foot.

stand up straight We know—we sound like your mother. But standing up straight with your belly button tucked in and your shoulders back will help you look tall and relaxed.

loosen your arms Leaving a little space between your torso and your arms make both look smaller.

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If you’re going with a larger company that employs a team of photographers, you’ll have a built-in backup shooter. But if you’re going with a solo photographer, ask if she has colleagues on call in case of an emergency.

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shooters Will you be my actual photographer, or will one of your associates shoot my wedding? Don’t assume Taylor of Taylor Photography will be taking your photos. Make sure the actual photographer is specified. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Taylor’s partner Stacey may be just as good (or even better!), but you’ll want to meet with her and see her photos so you know exactly what you’ll be getting. Do you have backup photographers available if you’re sick? You have a contingency plan in case of rain, right? Well, you’ll need one in case your photographer comes down with the flu as well.

logistics How long after the wedding day does it take for us to see all of the photos? Most photographers will offer a sneak peek a couple of days or weeks after the wedding; the rest will take a few months. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW The wait to see your photos can be agonizing, so it’s good to manage expectations. How will you coordinate with my videographer? If you haven’t hired a videographer yet, ask the photographer you’re interviewing for suggestions. There’s a good chance they’ve worked with certain videographers at events in the past. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW They’ll need to coordinate and stay out of each other’s way during the celebration—easier to do if they have a good rapport. How many weddings do you shoot a weekend? It isn’t uncommon for photographers to work multiple events on the same day. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW If your pro is shooting an afternoon wedding before your evening affair, you’ll need to work out a plan if the first event runs over.

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Have you shot at my venue(s) before? If they haven’t photographed a wedding or other event in your venue, they should be willing to check it out beforehand. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Your shooter should be aware of any lighting needs at your venue or issues specific to the space ahead of time. Will you be following a shot list? Or do you prefer to have free rein to capture the festivities how you see fit? If they have a standard shot list, take a look at it ahead of time and add any musthaves that aren’t included. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW You want to make sure you get the special pics you need. But keep in mind that you’re hiring the photographer for their eye as well as their experience creating amazing albums. Try not to overwhelm them with requests.

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Will we own the copyright to our photos? In other words, are there restrictions for sharing photos online, having photos printed or an album put together by another source? WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Most contracts stipulate that the photographer owns the rights to all of the photos, which restricts you from posting them without permission—even on social media.

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What type of paper will you use for the prints and album? You want your wedding photos to last for generations to come, without worrying about fading and any other problems. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW The answer should be acid-free, archival-quality paper, which will stand the test of time.

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Torres del Paine, Chile

AROUND THE WORLD From beautiful beaches to grand adventures and off-the-beaten-path escapes into the wilderness, pick a region of the world and pack your bags for the trip of a lifetime. >> BY JEN MURPHY

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BONDI BEACH, sydney

WHY GO The Great

WHY GO One of

Barrier Reef gets all the hype, but the Ningaloo Reef on the northwest coast is equally spectacular. WHEN TO GO April to September is prime time. Whale shark swim experiences are available April to July and humpback whale swims from August to October. WHERE TO STAY The Outback-meets-reef setting of Sal Salis in Cape Range National Park puts you steps from UNESCO World Heritage–listed coral. Stay in the honeymoon tent (from $710 per person, including meals; SalSalis.com.au), which features ocean views and a double hammock for stargazing. BEST FOR Adventurous couples looking to disconnect, and reconnect with nature WORTH THE SPLURGE If you love being on the water, book the sail and snorkel package (from $3,600 per person). It includes three nights at the camp and three nights aboard the 51-foot catamaran.

Pretty Beach House, Sydney

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the world’s most dynamic cities, Sydney will fill your culture quota with museums, restaurants, opera and architecture while also checking your chill box with its beachside cafés and surfer style. WHEN TO GO September through November and March to May offer comfortable temps and fewer tourists. WHERE TO STAY The hip, new QT Bondi (from $215; QTHotelsandResorts .com/bondi-beach) has a vibrant SoCal vibe, retro furnishings and a location just off legendary Bondi Beach. There isn’t a restaurant, but each room has a kitchenette, and every Saturday, the Bondi Farmers Market sets up across the street. BEST FOR Cool seekers who want culture mixed with seaside R & R WORTH THE SPLURGE Get an aerial view of the Opera House during a seaplane ride to Pretty Beach House. This four-pavilion retreat is all about indulgence (from $1,500 per night, two-night minimum; round-trip seaplane flight from $495; PrettyBeachHouse.com).

Hoanib Skeleton Coast Camp, Namibia

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AFRICA

MAKGADIKGADI PANS & THE KALAHARI DESERT, botswana

WHY GO Deemed the Serengeti of the South, the lunarlike Makgadikgadi Pans is one of the largest salt flats in the world. During wet season, the area boasts southern Africa’s last surviving zebra and wildebeest migration—a must-see. WHEN TO GO Wet season, November through March, brings high rainfall but also zebras, wildebeests and flamingos. April to May is dry and warm, while June to August is dry but chillier. WHERE TO STAY Jack’s Camp feels like a mirage set in the desert. Ten en suite canvas tents are decked out in lavish, 1940s exploration style complete with Persian rugs and rich mahogany furnishings (from $1,225; UnchartedAfrica.com). The guides at Jack’s are a rare mix of wise scholars and old-school bushman adventurers. BEST FOR Couples nostalgic for Hemingway-esque safari luxury; couples who want culture and wildlife ROMANTIC MOMENT Enjoy a drink on the salt pans as the sun goes down—just two chairs, a few beverages and you and your new spouse. Once the sun has set, the most amazing star-filled night sky appears, as there’s absolutely zero air pollution.

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SKELETON COAST,

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Bali in favor of Raja Ampat. Nestled deep in an archipelago of uninhabited islands, you’ll find some of the best diving in the world. WHEN TO GO October through April is the dry season, and it also brings an abundance of manta rays. WHERE TO STAY Misool Eco Resort is surrounded by the protected 300,000-acre Misool Marine Park, teeming with ocean life. Spend days snorkeling, at the spa or touring local villages (from $2,400 per person for a seven-night stay, all-inclusive; MisoolEcoResort.com). BEST FOR Diving enthusiasts INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Don your snorkels and swim with baby black tip reef sharks in the waters just off the resort.

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WHY GO One of the world’s most dramatic stretches of coast is home to ancient valleys, dune fields and shipwrecks. Despite the extreme landscape, it’s also startlingly full of life and offers a really unique safari experience. WHEN TO GO Namibia is a true year-round destination. December through March is hot, but also green with lots of wildlife. WHERE TO STAY Conservation-minded outfitter Wilderness Safaris boasts some of the top guides in Africa and operates the eight-tent, fly-in, fly-out Hoanib Skeleton Coast Camp (from $595, allinclusive; Wilderness-Safaris.com). Each tent features an en suite bedroom with an outdoor deck. You may be blissfully isolated from civilization, but the camp still provides top-shelf gin and tonics around the campfire, cashmere slips under the duvets and a delicious springbok fillet for dinner. BEST FOR Couples who have already been to Africa or who are looking for a fresh take on the classic safari INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT The Big Five are overrated. Instead, take home game drive shots of Namibia’s desertadapted wildlife, like brown hyena, giraffe and desert elephants. WORTH THE SPLURGE On a three-night stay or more with Wilderness Safaris, guests have the opportunity to experience a flying excursion over the coast, which provides a magnificent perspective of the other-worldly landscape (think: moonlike), plus great photo ops of seal colonies.

WHY GO Bypass

WHY GO The gateway to the ancient temples of Angkor Wat, Siem Reap offers authentic Khmer restaurants, and access to the floating village on Tonle Sap Lake. WHEN TO GO December and January are assuredly sunny, but can also be crowded. While June is in the rainy season, the days are cooler and the temples don’t overflow with tourists quite like “summer” months. WHERE TO STAY Located only a 20-minute drive from Angkor Wat, Phum Baitang is the hotel of choice for celebrities. The resort has the feel of a traditional Khmer village, with 45 stilted villas and a bar and restaurant housed in a century-old Cambodian farmhouse (from $375; PhumBaitang.com). The Spa Temple offers seven treatment rooms, or choose to unwind at the cigar and cocktail lounge. BEST FOR Culture lovers INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Skip the typical sunrise temple posts. Get your guide to snap a photo of you riding a buffalo cart through Khmer villages. ROMANTIC MOMENT At Cuisine Wat Damnak, chef Joannès Rivière updates Cambodia’s golden age dishes like Mekong langoustine with pumpkin and lemon basil. The six-course menu is a steal, and the garden patio is the perfect spot for a special meal (CuisineWatDamnak.com). >>

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resort city of Nha Trang is known for its beaches, dive sites and vibrant nightlife. Off the coast, you have your choice of quiet island paradise. WHEN TO GO Sunny days abound from February through August. WHERE TO STAY The new 105-villa Anam raises the bar for over-the-top service. In addition to a private beach, you have your choice of three swimming pools (from $200; TheAnam.com). BEST FOR Beach lovers; architecture nerds; service snobs; couples seeking nightlife ROMANTIC MOMENT Spend an afternoon being totally pampered with body scrubs and massages at the Balinese-inspired Sri Mara Spa at The Anam, then have a private lunch with your own waitstaff right on the beach.

MALAYSIA WHY GO Malaysia offers a unique blend of Malay, Chinese and Indian cultures, plus wild rain forests, untouched beaches and some of Southeast Asia’s most delicious cuisine. WHEN TO GO Avoid monsoon season and visit between March and September. WHERE TO STAY Indulge your private island fantasies at Pangkor Laut Resort (from $193; PangkorLautResort.com). Just off the west coast of Malaysia, the resort is surrounded by jungles and turquoise sea and has its own spa village. Of the seven restaurants, Uncle Lim’s Kitchen stands out for its Chinese-style home cooking. BEST FOR Spa junkies; romantics; foodies INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Let a resident naturalist lead you on a rain forest trek in search of monkeys, reptiles and more.

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NORTH AMERICA Wai’anapanapa State Park, Maui

MAUI, hawaii WHY GO Maui is the best of all worlds:

You’ll find a carefree surfer vibe on the North Shore, amazing resorts and a place that makes you feel like you’re in another era in Hana. WHEN TO GO During shoulder seasons— April through May and September through November—you’ll find more affordable rates, fewer crowds and idyllic weather. WHERE TO STAY Skip the tourist-filled big resorts of Maui’s South Coast and experience the island like a local on the North Shore. The Inn at Mama’s is set on a secluded beach shaded by coconut palms and puts you steps from the island’s celebrated restaurant Mama’s Fish House and a five-minute drive from the hippie-chic town of Paia (from $275; InnatMamas.com). BEST FOR Free-spirited beach lovers INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT A photo tour with Daniel Sullivan, owner of Paia’s Indigo Gallery, will take you off the beaten path along the wildly popular Hana Highway (three-hour tours from $560; DanielSullivan.PhotoShelter.com). Just don’t give up the location of the remote spots when you post.

KAUAI WHY GO People

get hooked on Kauai because of its Jurassic Park–esque waterways and the postcard-perfect sunsets of Hanalei Bay. WHEN TO GO Mid-April to mid-June and September to December are best. WHERE TO STAY The St. Regis Princeville Resort has a heavenly setting overlooking Hanalei Bay and a “your wish is our command” philosophy (from $1,575; StRegisPrinceville.com). Don’t fall victim to the resort’s 5,000-square-foot infinity pool. You can easily laze away a week under a pool lounger, but the natural attractions should not be missed. BEST FOR Couples seeking wild natural beauty but super-luxe digs WORTH THE SPLURGE Dine by candlelight while a private waitstaff attends to your every whim during a secluded, four-course, alfresco dinner at the St. Regis (from $1,290 per couple).

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Tutka Bay Lodge, Alaska

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SOUTH AMERICA EL CALAFATE, argentina

WHY GO El Calafate

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WHY GO Rugged coastlines, wild beaches and animals like whales, eagles and bears make you feel like you’re truly in the wild, but the quirky town of Homer— with its hippie cafés, fun bars and funky shops—is just a 25-minute boat ride away. WHEN TO GO June to August is the warmest, but shoulder months May and September can be cheaper. WHERE TO STAY Tutka Bay Lodge’s remote setting on a seven-mile fjord at the southern end of Kachemak Bay feels worlds away (from $4,860 per person for a three-night, all-inclusive stay; WithintheWild.com). The six-cabin wilderness retreat perfectly combines adventures with indulgences including a sauna, wine tastings, massages and multicourse meals. BEST FOR Wannabe chefs; outdoorsy types INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Bring your zoom lens to snap a photo of a brown bear at Katmai National Park and Preserve. ROMANTIC MOMENT The staff can arrange everything from a picnic for two on top of Grewingk Glacier to a sunset cruise through Kachemak Bay followed by a private dinner on your cabin’s deck. They’ll even prepare oysters you’ve scouted at a nearby farm.

WHY GO Unparalleled trekking through a changing landscape of glacial lakes and jagged mountains is just outside your door. WHEN TO GO November through March is best, but shoulder months April, September and October have lower rates. WHERE TO STAY EcoCamp offers sustainable digs in the heart of Torres del Paine National Park (from $1,395 for a five-day wildlife safari; EcoCamp.travel). Guests sleep in geodesic dome-shaped structures modeled after ancient Kaweskar tribe dwellings. Ceiling windows let you fall asleep while stargazing, and private terraces offer a romantic spot to watch the sunset. Guests gather for meals in an enormous dining dome. Request one with heat unless you prefer to snuggle. BEST FOR Eco-conscious travelers; glampers; hikers; yogis; outdoor lovers WORTH THE SPLURGE Visit one of Patagonia’s largest ranches and spend a day horseback riding with local baqueanos (cowboys). You’ll ride past small villages, spot condor nests and hear about the region’s legendary stories over a picnic lunch (from $461; Cascada.travel). >>

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is the gateway to the ever-shifting icy landscape of Los Glaciares National Park. WHEN TO GO Visit from November to mid-December or March through April. WHERE TO STAY Set within a nearly 10,000-acre estate, Eolo was inspired by ancient Patagonian ranches and exudes old-world gaucho elegance. Rooms offer views of the Lago Argentino and La Anita Valley (from $770; EOLO.com.ar). The in-house guides are all locals and have exceptional knowledge. But don’t expect gaucho cuisine—the fine dining restaurant has earned Eolo Relais & Chateaux status. BEST FOR Food and wine connoisseurs; nature lovers; hikers; wannabe gauchos ROMANTIC MOMENT The staff can arrange a horseback ride to a private picnic with a bottle of malbec.

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Malliouhana, Anguilla

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CARIBBEAN ST. BARTS WHY GO The

Caribbean’s most elite island has 22 white-sand beaches, extraordinary restaurants and hot nightclubs. WHEN TO GO May through June has great weather and a chill vibe. December is peak season and prime for celebrity sightings. WHERE TO STAY Nestled on Baie de St. Jean, arguably St. Bart’s sexiest beach, Le Tom Beach Hotel (from $342; TomBeach.com) is in walking distance to island hot spots like Nikki Beach and Eden Rock. Rooms are secluded by gardens. BEST FOR Sun seekers; couples who want nightlife; celeb junkies ROMANTIC MOMENT Stop at a local grocery for a picnic lunch and hike to quiet Anse du Grande Colombier, one of the world’s prettiest beaches.

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DOMINICAN REPUBLIC WHY GO A quick

flight from major East Coast hubs, the Dominican Republic is a mix of party beach towns and elite and exclusive compounds. WHEN TO GO Skip crowds and hurricane season and visit March through May. WHERE TO STAY With just nine colorful bungalows, Playa Grande Beach Club is an intimate departure from the DR’s all-inclusive mega-resorts (from $800; PlayaGrandeBeachClub.com). The North Coast retreat is set on a mile-long beach, but guests can also sunbathe in a cabana by the property’s lap pool. BEST FOR Beach bums ROMANTIC MOMENT Playa Grande can arrange sunset horseback rides for all levels ($66 per person for two hours).

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restaurants and gorgeous beaches make this one of the Caribbean’s hot spots. WHEN TO GO May through August are the best months to visit. WHERE TO STAY An 18-month remodel by Auberge Resorts brought the famed Malliouhana hotel back to its 1950s glamour: The rooms, suites and a cliffside restaurant were redone and a 15,000-square-foot spa was added (from $525; Malliouhana.AubergeResorts.com). Perched atop a bluff above three of the island’s top beaches—Meads Bay, Bobbing Cove and Turtle Cove—the hotel is ideally situated for snorkeling and sunsets. BEST FOR Food lovers; sun seekers INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Every honeymoon requires the quintessential sunset photo, and the Sunset Bar at Malliouhana is the precise place to snap it—with mojitos in hand, of course. ROMANTIC MOMENT Book a candlelit, private dinner with a dedicated waiter and guitarist under one of the recently refreshed pool cabanas overlooking the ocean. Then, indulge in gourmet s’mores around the fire pit for dessert accompanied by an aged rum tasting. Cap your night off with a late-night dip in the two-tier pool.

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MEDITERRANEAN

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WHY GO Salina is the greenest of seven of the inhabited islands in the UNESCO World Heritage–status Aeolian archipelago. Hikers can climb Monte Fossa delle Felci, the highest peak. WHEN TO GO The busy season is from mid-July through August when sun seekers descend. Late May and September are the sweet spots—great weather, fewer crowds. WHERE TO STAY The family behind Tasca d’Almerita, one of Sicily’s most important wine producers, owns the 20-room Capofaro hotel, which overlooks some of the vineyards (from $296; Capofaro .it). Food and wine are taken seriously here, but don’t expect fussy eats—the philosophy is simple and delicious. BEST FOR Wine lovers looking for a fresh experience; foodies; island junkies WORTH THE SPLURGE Have the hotel arrange a day cruise aboard the yacht Don Felipe and explore coves, bays and caves that are otherwise unreachable by land.

Dubrovnik, Croatia

WHY GO Don’t follow the masses to Santorini, Mykonos or Paros. Instead, explore Serifos. Active travelers can keep busy hiking, biking and diving. Plus, you’re just a three-hour ferry ride from Athens. WHEN TO GO April to June and September to mid-October are the best bets. WHERE TO STAY In a previous life, CocoMat Eco Residences housed local miners. Today, the beachfront hotel has a seaside lounge bar and a friendly staff who can arrange a romantic breakfast in bed (from $231; Serifos.Coco-Mat-Hotels.com). BEST FOR Eco-minded, active couples ROMANTIC MOMENT Coco-Mat’s staff can help you rent scooters for a perfect island beach crawl.

PUGLIA WHY GO Puglia has

always had amazing beaches, beautiful architecture and ancient ruins. But the recently booming food scene on this remote heel of Italy’s boot has the region primed to be the next Tuscany. WHEN TO GO A temperate climate makes Puglia a year-round destination. WHERE TO STAY Masseria Le Carrube, a working farmhouse in the town of Ostuni, has been transformed into a sister property of Puglia’s top hotel Borgo Egnazia (from $155; MasseriaLeCarrubeOstuni.it). Don’t miss a meal at its vegetarian restaurant. BEST FOR Food and wine nerds; beach lovers INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Explore Valle D’Itria and the village’s cylindrical houses with beehive-shaped roofs.

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WHY GO One of the world’s most magnificent walled cities, Dubrovnik charms visitors with its pedestrian-only Old Town, Baroque churches and fortified beauty. Add its stunning beaches and laidback eateries serving top-notch seafood and excellent Croatian wine to the mix, and you have a recipe for paradise. WHEN TO GO Avoid the cruise passengers and visit September through November. WHERE TO STAY Built into a cliff above the Adriatic, the newly renovated Villa Dubrovnik makes you feel like royalty perched above the Adriatic and Old City (from $490; Villa-Dubrovnik.hr). The exclusive setting means guests must arrive from the Old Town via a 10-minute Vaporetto speedboat ride. Some of its 56 rooms and suites offer sea-view balconies, and the roof is home to a wine bar. BEST FOR Couples who have already explored classic Europe; history buffs; über romantics; urbanites INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Re-create a scene from a vintage Adriatic postcard and pose in your swimsuits on the hotel’s private rocky beach. At the shoreline, concrete platforms extend out from the sandstone, creating a natural backdrop from another era.

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North Carolina Marriage License Requirements

GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In North Carolina, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Those under 18 must have parental consent. Couples must apply for and sign the license together at the Register of Deeds office. A Social Security number and a driver’s license (and sometimes a birth certificate) are required as proof of identification. Residency and blood tests are not required. If previously married, the bride or groom may be asked to provide the appropriate documents regarding the divorce or death. There is no waiting period to obtain the license, which is valid for 60 days. The fee for a marriage license is $60; methods of payment vary. All offices are open Monday through Friday; in some counties appointments are required. Please call ahead to get all of the details. WHERE TO APPLY Alamance County

Craven County

Gaston County

Iredell County

Brunswick County

Cumberland County

Guilford County

Johnston County

118 W. Harden St. Graham, NC 27253 (336) 570-6565 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Buncombe County

35 Woodfin St., Ste. 226 Asheville, NC 28801 (828) 250-4300 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Cabarrus County

65 Church St. SE Concord, NC 28025 (704) 920-2112 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Catawba County

117 Dick St., Rm. 114 Fayetteville, NC 28301 (910) 678-7775 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Davidson County

203 W. 2nd St. Lexington, NC 27292 (336) 242-2150 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Durham County

200 E. Main St. Durham, NC 27701 (919) 560-0480 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Forsyth County

201 N. Chestnut St., Fl. 2 Winston-Salem, NC 27101 (336) 703-2700 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

325 N. Marietta St. Gastonia, NC 28052 (704) 862-7511 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. 201 S. Eugene St. Greensboro, NC 27402 (336) 641-7556 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Harnett County

305 W. Cornelius Harnett Blvd., Ste. 200 Lillington, NC 27546 (910) 893-7540 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Henderson County 200 N. Grove St., Ste. 129 Hendersonville, NC 28792 (828) 697-4901 9 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

201 E. Water St. Statesville, NC 28677 (704) 872-7468 8 a.m. – 5 p.m. 207 E. Johnston St. Smithfield, NC 27577 (919) 989-5160 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Mecklenburg County

720 E. 4th St., Rm. 106 Charlotte, NC 28202 (704) 336-6090 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

New Hanover County

216 N. 2nd St. Wilmington, NC 28401 (910) 798-4530 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Onslow County

109 Old Bridge St. Jacksonville, NC 28540 (910) 347-3451 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m., M–F; 4:30 – 5:45 p.m., T. & Th. (by appointment only)

Orange County

228 S. Churton St., Ste. 300 Hillsborough, NC 27278 (919) 245-2675 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Pitt County

100 W. 3rd St. Greenville, NC 27834 (252) 902-1650 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Randolph County

158 Worth St. Asheboro, NC 27203 (336) 318-6960 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Robeson County

500 N. Elm St., Rm. 102 Lumberton, NC 28358 (910) 671-3044 8:15 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Rowan County

402 N. Main St. Salisbury, NC 28144 (704) 216-8626 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Union County

Wake County

421 Fayetteville St., Ste. 300, Fl. 3 Raleigh, NC 27601 (919) 856-5460 8:30 a.m. – 4:45 p.m.

Wayne County

224-226 E. Walnut St. Goldsboro, NC 27533 (919) 731-1449 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

100-C Southwest Blvd. Newton, NC 28658 (828) 465-1573 7:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.

226 Pollock St. New Bern, NC 28560 (252) 636-6617 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

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GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In South Carolina, the legal age to obtain a marriage license is 18 years old. Parental consent can be granted for those younger than 18 years of age. Residency and blood tests are not required. The fee for a South Carolina marriage license varies according to the county, typically between $50-$100. There is no expiration date for a South Carolina marriage license. No proof of divorce is required if previously married. There is a 24-hour waiting period before the marriage license is in effect. Proof of age is required in the form of a passport, driver’s license, etc. Some counties may require a social security card. WHERE TO APPLY Aiken County

Probate Court 109 Park Ave. SE, Rm. E126 Aiken, SC 29801 (803) 642-2009 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Anderson County Probate Court 100 S. Main St. Anderson, SC 29622 (864) 260-4049 Call for hours

Berkeley County

Probate Court 300 California Ave. Moncks Corner, SC 29461 (843) 719-4519 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Charleston County

Judicial Center– Probate Court 100 Broad St., Ste. 469 Charleston, SC 29401 (843) 958-5183 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Beaufort County

Hilton Head Island Satellite Probate Office 539 William Hilton Pkwy. Hilton Head, SC 29928 (843) 255-5866 9 a.m. – 4 p.m., T-W, F Beaufort Probate Office 102 Ribaut Rd. Beaufort, SC 29902 (843) 255-5850 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.

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Dorchester County

Probate Court 5200 E. Jim Bilton Blvd. St. George, SC 29477 (843) 832-0104 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Florence County

Probate Court 180 N. Irby, Rm. 206 Florence, SC 29501 (843) 665-3085 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Greenville County Probate Court 301 University Ridge Greenville, SC 29601 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Horry County

Probate Court 9630 Scipio Ln. Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m., M, W-F, 8:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m., T

Lexington County

Probate Court 205 E. Main St., Ste. 134 Lexington, SC 29072 (803) 785-8324 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Pickens County

Probate Court 222 McDaniel Ave., B-16 Pickens, SC 29671 (864) 898-5903 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Richland County

York County

Spartanburg County

Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@theknot.com.

Judicial Center– Probate Court 1701 Main St. Columbia, SC 29201 8:30 a.m – 4:45 p.m. Probate Court 180 Magnolia St. Spartanburg, SC 29306 (864) 596-2556 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Sumter County

Probate Court 215 N. Harvin St. Sumter, SC 29150 (803) 436-2166 8:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.

Probate Court 1 E. Liberty St. York, SC 29745 (803) 684-8513 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

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North Carolina Publications

GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the

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announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting. GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS

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Asheville Citizen-Times

(828) 232-5998 Attn: Weddings PO Box 2090 Asheville, NC 28802

Nonpaid weddings must be submitted within 30 days after the wedding date by noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

Basic announcement is free; larger announcements range from $50 to $210.

Charlotte Observer

(704) 358-5260 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 32188 Charlotte, NC 28232

Must submit info at least 24 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Fees range from $115 to $1,885.

Greensboro Newsâ&#x20AC;&#x201C;Record

(336) 373-7053 Attn: Celebrations Rep. PO Box 20848 Greensboro, NC 27420

Must submit info by 5 p.m. Wednesday, at least 11 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes All announcements must be proofed before they can be published in the paper.

Six-line announcements (no photo) are free. For longer announcements, rates start at $30.10 and must be prepaid.

Raleigh News & Observer

(919) 836-2800 Attn: Special Occasions Dept. PO Box 191 Raleigh, NC 27602

Must submit info by 4 p.m. on Monday, six days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

The cost is $40 per column inch, approximately eight lines of text.

Wilmington Star-News

(910) 343-2325 Attn: Occasions PO Box 840 Wilmington, NC 28402

Must submit info by 4 p.m. Thursday, 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Optional; must be typed and double spaced.

There is no charge for submitting a basic announcement. The fee for an announcement plus a photo is $18.55 per column inch. There is also an additional $13.25 online posting fee.

Winston-Salem Journal

(336) 727-7422 Attn: Celebrations Dept. 418 N. Marshall Street Winston-Salem, NC 27101

Must submit info by noon on Friday, nine days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

There is no charge for submitting a basic announcement. Packages range from $90 to $2,500.

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The Post and Courier

(843) 937-5775 134 Columbus St. Charleston, SC 29403

Must submit by 3 p.m. on Monday, two weeks prior to the wedding date.

Form: Yes; available online.

Online-only fee is $75; online and print packages vary in price .

The State

(803) 771-8431 Attn: Celebrations The State Media Company PO Box 1333 Columbia, SC 29202

Must submit by 3 p.m. the Monday before the desired date of publication and online posting.

Form: Yes; available online.

The cost varies according to text and/or photo size. Packages range from $117 to $422.

Island Packet

(843) 706-8181 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 5727 Hilton Head Island, SC 29938

Must submit info by 3 p.m. Wednesday, prior to the Sunday of publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Standard announcement is free; larger packages range from $140 to $535.

The Greenville News

(864) 298-4130 Attn: Celebrations 305 S. Main St. PO Box 1688 Greenville, SC 29602

Must submit by noon Wednesday, prior to Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Prices range from $20 to $120 according to size.

The Sun News Daily

(843) 444-1771 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 406 Myrtle Beach, SC 29578

Must submit info by 4 p.m. Tuesday, prior to the Sunday of publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Starting at $30 for a one-column passage without photo, ranging up to $350.

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sites & locations

cobblestone park golf club

1298 University Parkway, Blythewood, SC (803) 333-8100 | CobblestoneParkGolfClub.com Cobblestone Park Golf Club is perfect for your “I do,” with several outdoor ceremony locations and an awardwinning clubhouse overlooking our beautiful 18th hole and lake with elegant fountains. capacity 250 | price $$

the farm

215 Justice Ridge Road, Candler, NC (828) 667-0666 | TheFarmEvents.com The Farm has rustic charm, hardwood floors, a huge fireplace and wraparound porches that are designed for use in winter and summer. Imagine declaring your vows at sunset in the gazebo, a romantic spot nestled in the trees with the western mountains as a backdrop. capacity 300 | price $$

belfair clubhouse

200 Belfair Oaks Blvd., Bluffton, SC (843) 706-4633 Belfair1811.com Belfair offers a dream-like setting for an unforgettable wedding celebration. Whether you are planning an intimate gathering of 20 or a large ceremony for 220, Belfair offers a beautiful, serene location and a complete range of supporting services and amenities. capacity 220 | price $$$$

callawassie island

(843) 987-2155 | CallawassieIsland.com Whether you choose our Low Country–style Clubhouse, tented marsh front lawn or waterfront River Club, Callawassie Island is a perfect location for your wedding reception or rehearsal dinner. On-island accommodations are available. capacity 250 | price $$$

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carolina country weddings

3721 Little Buffalo Creek Rd., Mt. Pleasant, NC (980) 349-5933 CarolinaCountryWeddings.com Enjoy our peaceful setting surrounded by nature’s simple beauty—an idyllic spot to celebrate the wedding of your dreams complete with rustic elegance, amazing vistas, a gorgeous barn and a varied selection of ceremony sites including our enchanted forest, charming country foothills and more. capacity 300 | price $$

charleston harbor resort & marina

20 Patriot’s Point Road, Mount Pleasant, SC (843) 284-7039 | CharlestonHarborResort.com Charleston’s only harbor-front resort is located on Patriot’s Point. The resort offers a full-service marina, golf, pool, private beachfront, two restaurants and event space with views of Charleston Harbor. Whatever season, we can design the perfect setting and event tailored to your dreams. capacity 400 | price $$$

chestnut ridge

(828) 549-8411 | info@chestnutridge.events ChestnutRidge.events Chestnut Ridge is a timeless-style venue nestled on a family farm with breathtaking views that overlook the Blue Ridge Mountains at an elevation of 3,000 feet. Full venue access comes with every package, all-inclusive package options have preferred vendors and rehearsal dinner accommodations are available. capacity 300 | price $$$

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the cottages on charleston harbor

(866) 901-2688 CharlestonHarborWeddings.com The Cottages on Charleston Harbor are beautifully arranged just yards from the harbor. The picturesque two-bedroom luxury cottages feature spacious living areas and private screened porches, complete with hammocks. Host your ceremony on the water’s edge and the reception on our beautiful event lawn. capacity 125 | price $$$

daniel stowe botanical garden

6500 South New Hope Road, Belmont, NC (704) 829-1268 | privateevents@dsbg.org DSBG.org With 110 acres of stunning themed gardens, sparkling fountains and ever-changing Southern seasonal displays, DSBG is one of the Charlotte region’s most beautiful wedding venues, offering a wide range of wedding packages and unique sites. It’s located in charming Belmont within 30 minutes of Uptown. capacity 400+ | price $$

the diamond room at wades jewelers

103 East Main Street, Gibsonville, NC (336) 449-4949 WadesDiamondRoom.com Wades Diamond Room is a full-service event facility located between Burlington and Greensboro, North Carolina. The Diamond Room is the perfect venue for wedding receptions, corporate events and large or small parties. capacity 250 | price $$

doubletree suites by hilton charlotte-southpark

6300 Morrison Boulevard, Charlotte, NC (704) 364-2400 | natalie.hoekstra@hilton.com CharlotteSouthParkSuites.Doubletree.com You create the guest list…we create the rest. The beautiful surroundings and professional wedding experts at the DoubleTree Suites By Hilton Charlotte-SouthPark make it easy to create that special day for you! capacity 250 | price $$

explore charleston

CharlestonWeddingGuide.com She is called the Holy City. She is also known as Conde Nast Traveler Readers’ Choice 2016 Top U.S. City. And now the Charleston area may add one more esteemed title: host of your destination wedding. capacity 400+ | price $

forevermore farm: home of the barn & the stables

135 Waldon Rd., Moore, SC (864) 707-5655 TheBarnatForevermoreFarm.com Our historic farm, where modern conveniences meet rustic charm, is the perfect location for your event. A charming carriage house hosts the bridal suite, and a separate groom’s quarters has a pool table and private lawn. Outdoor space boasts a rock fireplace and amazing sunsets for Forevermore memories. capacity 300 | price $$

fripp island golf & beach resort

2119 Sea Island Parkway Harbor Island, SC (843) 838-1507 | (888) 974-1873 kkluttz@frippislandresort.com FrippIslandResort.com All you’d expect for your important event. There’s every amenity imaginable for your guests—golf, tennis, boating, 3 1/2 miles of beach, catering to meet your every wish and more. Our accommodations range from spectacular beachfront homes to scenic panoramic views and offer something for everyone. capacity 200 | price $$$

gambill estate

7348 Old 60, Roaring River, NC GambillEstate.com With down home charm and natural elegance, this family-owned country estate has 145 exquisite acres coupled with mountain vistas—an ideal wedding location. Southern hospitality is our foundation, and an atmosphere of community and exceptional service is our trademark. capacity 200 | price $$$

grande dunes

(843) 839-0818 GrandeDunesWeddings.com Imagine your wedding at the Ocean Club or Members Club at Grande Dunes—an experience of luxury and elegance in South Carolina’s premier coastal resort community. The serene, natural beach has stunning Atlantic views, and the private club offers world-class golf—both settings can be exclusively yours. capacity 200 | price $$$

the hall and gardens at landmark

12450 Cleveland Road, Garner, NC (919) 329-7674 | weddings@thehallatlandmark.com TheHallAtLandmark.com The Hall is a grand ballroom located on the top floor of

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the Landmark Building. The Gardens at Landmark are host to vibrant flowers and lush foliage. Exquisite details and amazing amenities at the Hall and Gardens will add a special touch for any event. capacity 300 | price $$$

hidden river events

(828) 333-3401 | hiddenriverevents@gmail.com HiddenRiverEvents.com An elegantly simple events center nestled along the Swannanoa River, just five minutes from Asheville, North Carolina. Reserve our 17+ acre farm for weddings, reunions and other celebrations. Specializing in allinclusive and destination weddings. We craft events with your love and comfort in mind. Be a guest at your own wedding. capacity 350 | price $$$

highgrove estate

1613 S. Main Street, Fuquay Varina, NC (919) 552-6154 | info@highgrove-nc.com Highgrove-NC.com Whether your dream is an elegant garden wedding or an evening soiree, Highgrove Estate is the ideal setting for your special day. Exchange your vows overlooking Lake Laurel, celebrate the pleasure of fine food and dance the night away in our fabric-draped Garden Ballroom. capacity 200 | price $$

historic rice mill and good food catering

Waynesville, NC (828) 564-1105 InnatTranquilityFarm.com The Inn at Tranquility Farm is a distinctive and unique event venue and lodging destination situated in the peaceful mountains of western North Carolina. Tranquility Farm offers you an exclusive, elegant and exceptional backdrop for your special event or wedding day. capacity 150 | price $$$

majors estate

(828) 476-7763 MajorsEstate.com Host your unforgettable wedding weekend at our unique 200-plus-acre Smoky Mountain ranch that sits among the most breathtaking scenery in the Carolinas. Call us today to schedule a free tour and wine tasting. capacity 100 | price $$$

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capacity 250 | price $$$$

the millennium center

101 West Fifth Street, Winson-Salem, NC (336) 723-3700 MillenniumEvents.ws Our full service, five-star venue with three levels can host any event size. We have hosted over 1,000 wedding celebrations including rehearsal dinners, ceremonies, receptions and going away parties. Enjoy in-house catering, full bar service, A/V, décor, design and planning.

the oaks wedding and event venue

325 Huitt Road, Anderson, SC (864) 293-3606 | TheOaksWeddingVenue.com Happily ever after starts here! Enter the building through 10-foot French oak double doors from the 1800s French Carriage House to a 5,000-square-foot venue facing a 30-foot wall of glass on a 180-acre gated estate along a serene 20-acre lake. capacity 375 | price $$$

outdoor fireplace, overlooking our awe-inspiring golf courses. From the lush landscape and views to a private, intimate ceremony on Steam Gun Beach, there are many ways to make your dream come true. capacity 200 | price $$$

proximity hotel

704 Green Valley Road, Greensboro, NC (336) 379-8200 | ProximityHotel.com Whether celebrating a wedding or any special milestone, you can be guaranteed that our attentive staff will do everything possible to create a bespoke event in our modern spaces. We’re a AAA Four Diamond hotel. capacity 200 | price $$$

sanderling resort

1461 Duck Rd., Duck, NC (877) 574-8219 | Sanderling-Resort.com Sanderling boasts unique event spaces on the beaches of the Atlantic Ocean, plus beautiful Currituck Sound sunsets. capacity 200 | price $$$

sawyer family farmstead

(828) 743-5456 theteam@sawyerfamilyfarmstead.com SawyerFamilyFarmstead.com Sawyer Family Farmstead is part Christmas tree farm and part mountain paradise. Our unique wedding location is nestled in the heart of the Blue Ridge Mountains of western North Carolina on the Highlands/Cashiers Plateau overlooking Lake Glenville and only six miles from Cashiers. capacity 250 | price $$

old edwards inn and spa

445 Main Street, Highlands, NC (828) 787-2610 | groupsales@oldedwardsinn.com OldEdwardsInn.com/weddings With year-round venues for weddings of all sizes, the Four-Star luxury of Old Edwards Inn and Spa provides full-service event staff, superior resort amenities and abundant activities, ensuring that this experience will become part of your memories forever.

one eleven place

(919) 654-5413 | 111Place.com The place to be for all of your wedding events! One Eleven Place offers you privacy, elegance, uniqueness, great staff, and creative catering. The grand ballroom and garden patio are perfect for a rehearsal dinner, ceremony, and reception. Enjoy the day you have been waiting for at One Eleven Place. capacity 250 | price $$

port royal clubhouse—hilton head island weddings Hilton Head Island, SC (843) 681-1747 HiltonHeadGolf.net/weddings At Port Royal Clubhouse, you’ll be inspired by the Southern plantation verandas, complete with an

the sea pines resort

32 Greenwood Drive, Hilton Head Island, SC (843) 842-1495 | agoodman@seapines.com SeaPines.com A world-renowned destination, The Sea Pines Resort offers an unparalleled setting for your unique and special occasion. With several new venues offering spectacular views and beautifully appointed event space, The Sea Pines Resort is sure to exceed expectations and ensure the wedding of your dreams.

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the inn at tranquility farm

Charleston, SC (843) 556-6020 MiddletonPlace.org/weddings Middleton Place offers an unparalleled wedding experience in the Lowcountry of South Carolina. In one place, extraordinary natural beauty, cultivated landscaped gardens and early American history converge to give your wedding a picture-perfect backdrop—an enchanting day filled with beautiful memories.

17 Lockwood Drive, Charleston, SC (843) 723-7952 GoodFoodCatering.net | HistoricRiceMill.net Congratulations on your engagement! We are Charleston’s most spectacular waterfront wedding location, featuring versatile indoor and outdoor space and unparalleled sunset views over the Ashley River— everything you can imagine for your fairy-tale wedding. Call today to schedule a complimentary tour!

middleton place

capacity 250 | price $$$

sea trail resort

SeaTrailWeddings.com Sea Trail Resort is the premier wedding destination on the North Carolina coast. We offer both beach and garden weddings and beautiful golf course views. Whether you are looking for a casual or elegant setting, let our professional staff handle all the details to make your day memorable. capacity 300+ | price $$

shiki catering & events

Durham, NC (919) 973-2727 ShikiTasu.com As the perfect place for weddings, receptions, corporate

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THE ULTIMATE WEDDING DIRECTORY cont. and private events, our banquet hall seats up to 180 guests with an expansive dance floor, state-of-theart A/V systems and available bridal room. We offer international menu selections, each customized specifically to meet your individual needs.

bridal fashion & beauty

capacity 180 | price $$

spirit communications park

1640 Freed Street, Columbia, SC (803) 888-3023 Spirit Communications Park is a multi-purpose facility that can accommodate a wedding ceremony, reception, rehearsal dinner or bridal lunch! Our dedicated catering team will create custom menus for you and your guests, while the special event team ensures all you have to do is say “I do!” capacity 300+ | price $$

springdale house & gardens

3150 Platt Springs Road, Springdale, SC (803) 794-5557 | SpringdaleHouse.net Discover Columbia’s hidden jewel. Host your celebration in the Mansion, in the beautiful Pavilion ballroom or in the Charleston-style gardens. Treat your guests to our signature cuisine, created with your taste and budget in mind. Let’s begin planning your memorable event. capacity 350+ | price $$

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tides folly beach

1 Center Street, Folly Beach, SC (843) 588-6464 | TidesFollyBeach.com Tides offers the perfect oceanfront venue for ceremonies on the sand and beachside festivities. With full-service catering, we are pleased to host everything from casual beachside events to formal black-tie affairs for up to 300 guests. capacity 300 | price $$$

westglow resort and spa

224 Westglow Cir., Blowing Rock, NC (800) 562-0807 | jen@westglow.com Westglow.com Imagine walking down the aisle amidst the grandeur of our historic mansion, surrounded by the stunning beauty of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Each wedding is exclusively assured the personalized attention of our entire staff to help you create the day of your dreams.

paolo’s gelato catering biltmore bride prom & tux

800 Fairview Rd., Ste. A1, Asheville, NC (828) 299-7403 | BiltmoreBride.com Biltmore Bride Prom & Tux is also the home of Merle Norman of Asheville, where we have been serving our Customers for over 30 years. Appointments are scheduled for each bride to make sure you receive the highest level of personalized service with a dedicated bridal consultant.

the lily rose bridal

19826-D North Cove Rd., Cornelius, NC (704) 895-1007 | LilyRoseBridal.com The Lily Rose Bridal is 15 minutes from uptown Charlotte. Specializing in couture fashion, The Lily Rose features designer lines for bridal, bridal party, special events and head-to-toe accessories. Enjoy attention to your personal style, designer selections and service that is a cut above the rest.

perry’s emporium

2520 Independence Blvd., Suite 100, Wilmington, NC (910) 392-6721 | info@perrysemporium.com PerrysEmporium.com Perry’s Emporium carries some of the most exclusive bridal collections and fashion-forward jewelry lines on the North Carolina coast. Family owned and operated, Perry’s Emporium prides itself on having the largest selection of quality products, the best prices and exceptional customer service.

cakes & caterers

capacity 150 | price $$$

winmock at kinderton

168 East Kinderton Way, Bermuda Run, NC (336) 397-2010 rebecca@winmock.com WinMock.com A visual gala of breathtaking architecture and lush greenery, WinMock at Kinderton combines historic charm with a relaxed atmosphere. Grassy knolls lead the way to the romantic West Terrace, while the soaring Loft provides an unforgettable backdrop to your special day. capacity 300 | price $$

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(704) 663-0399 | lkn@theicingandthecake.com TheIcingandTheCake.com The Icing & The Cake designers strive to provide you with the perfect centerpiece for your special occasion. We offer a comprehensive and creative design process to provide you the cake of your dreams. Contact us or visit our boutique to book your free consultation and tasting.

info@paolosgelatocatering.com PaolosGelato.com | PaolosGelatoCatering.com Paolo’s Gelato offers the first-ever mobile gelateria. Now you can have authentic Italian gelato anywhere— perfect for a plantation wedding. We have a variety of carts and catering ideas as well as custom flavors of gelato—even fresh flower flavors!

sweet josephine’s

1345 North Main Street, Suite 101, High Point, NC (336) 883-8121 | sweetjosephines@hotmail.com Sweet-Josephines.com We pride ourselves on creating scratch-made, all-natural and delicious desserts for weddings and large events. The difference is in the flavor! We would love to be the sweetest part of one of the biggest days of your life!

thurston southern catering

(843) 352-2099 | events@thurstonsouthern.com ThurstonSouthernCatering.com From a backyard wedding to an extravagant Charleston affair, our immaculate attention to detail will ensure your special event is a truly unparalleled experience.

invitations & details

old north state press

(336) 525-1206 | hello@oldnorthstatepress.com OldNorthStatePress.com At Old North State Press, we are dedicated to preserving the tradition and craft of fine letterpress printing.

jewelry gigi’s cupcakes of charlotte

4732 Sharon Road, Suite M, Charlotte, NC (704) 643-7117 | gigischarlotte@gmail.com GigisCupcakesUSA.com A gourmet cake piled high with delicious frosting and exquisitely decorated—that’s a Gigi’s Cupcake. We offer more than 100 flavor varieties, all baked with the finest ingredients. Our signature swirl is a uniquely delicious way to make your special day a hit!

the icing & the cake

105 Singleton Rd., Suite 103, Mooresville, NC

cmi jewelry showroom

4630 Paragon Park Road, Raleigh, NC (919) 948-2589 | CMIJewelry.com We are the largest locally owned jewelry showroom in North Carolina. We offer an incredible variety, with

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no-pressure sales of hand-selected engagement rings. Our jewelers take the time to educate our customers so they may knowledgeably purchase the highest-quality jewelry, all at our famous low prices.

malak jewelers

8042-1000 Providence Road, Charlotte, NC (704) 341-1188 | info@malakjewelers.com MalakJewelers.com Malak Jewelers, the diamond specialists, has one of the largest selections of diamonds and fine jewelry in Charlotte. They carry everything bridal, including designer engagement rings, diamond wedding bands, men’s wedding bands, bridal party gifts and more. They also carry vintage estate jewelry.

works with each client to create unique, memorable events and occasions.

mary bell events

(828) 450-2209 | mary@marybellevents.com MaryBellEvents.com Mary Bell Events is a full-service wedding and event planning company, offering affordable packages designed to bring your vision to life and to perfection.

photography & video

perry’s at southpark

6525 Morrison Blvd., Charlotte, NC (704) 364-1391 | PerrysJewelry.com Perry’s at SouthPark’s one-of-a-kind antique and estate pieces provide a classic touch—everything from engagement and wedding rings to the perfect earrings or pendant. Or, if you prefer, our custom jeweler can design a beautiful engagement ring or wedding band for a truly unique piece.

rhudy’s jewelry showroom

the oz agency

faith harris photography

(843) 291-8955 | faith@faithharrisphotography.com FaithHarrisPhotography.com I take pride in getting to know my clients on a personal level to create truly authentic images. My number one goal is for you to look back at your photos and absolutely love what you see—pictures that make you smile, laugh, cry and be in awe of how amazing you look. Those are the images you can expect.

9911 Rose Commons Dr. E., #E725, Huntersville, NC (704) 750-9701 | info@bellasapore.com BellaSapore.com Events by Bella is a full-service planning and design firm uniting rich history with modern flare. Detailed to fit every couple, our signature approach styles each wedding with refined elegance. Let us plan your day so you can plan a lifetime.

(262) 635-7597 | melissablythecontact@gmail.com MelissaBlythe.com As a fine art film wedding photographer, Melissa strives to create romantic and luminous photographs that have an organic feel to them. She is the perfect match for the refined bride who loves attention to detail, adores art and wants a beautiful wedding captured in a timeless fashion.

(704) 320-3089 | hello@robpluskristen.com RobPlusKristen.com Weddings produce some of life’s most intensely emotional moments—the culmination of months and years of a relationship. We are invited into these moments as honored historians to make art inspired by what unfolds before us. Beautiful wedding photos start with the most beautiful thing we can possess: love. t

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specialty services

blanc de bleu cuv´ee mousseux

(855) 874-2394 Blanc de Bleu is the world’s first blue sparkling wine—a dry, crisp, sparkling grape wine with a hint of blueberry. It’s perfect for wedding receptions. Visit BlancdeBleuUSA.com for your nearest retailer. Drink responsibly.

bridal registries

entertainment belk

honeybee’s events

134 North Sterling Street, Morganton, NC (828) 443-1629 | honeybeeripley@gmail.com HoneyBeesEvents.com HoneyBee’s Events is a full-service event planning service, offering personalized event design to reflect your style, vision and budget. Owner Stacey Ripley

Serving the Southeast (919) 772-2366 david@theozagency.com TheOzAgency.com The Oz Agency has over 40 years of experience in the music industry. Our ultimate goal is to make your event easy and enjoyable. We offer several choices for your entertainment, whether a band or a DJ. The Oz Agency provides lights, staging and tents. It is your day and we want to make it special!

melissa blythe photography

rob + kristen photography

events by bella

(919) 721-8242 IrresistibleGroove.com Irresistible Groove offers custom-tailored performances for your event. Our song list is larger and more diverse then any other band in the country—every single show is tailored to the exact event.

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irresistible groove

2410 Murchison Road, Fayetteville, NC (910) 488-7571 EXT. 2 rhudysinfo@rhudysjewelry.net RhudysJewelry.com With over 100 years of combined experience, our staff has knowledge as vast as our inventory. We give you better pricing on a much larger inventory, including more than 15 live bridal lines. Shop with us to see why Rhudy’s Jewelry Showroom is truly “The Gem of Fayetteville”!

CharlestonVirtuosi.com The Charleston Virtuosi is an ensemble of the finest local musicians offering a broad variety of musical styles. Our ensemble is comprised of a solo electric violinist, guitarist, string quartet, orchestra, jazz, bluegrass and cover band as well as a DJ providing exceptional and intimate performances.

charleston virtuosi (843) 270-7158

Serving nationwide Belk.com Belk’s professionally-trained bridal consultants make planning your wedding gift registry enjoyable and convenient. You’ll find quality brand names and styles in china, crystal, flatware, kitchen electrics, bedding and bath essentials and more. Your guests are a click away from making your house a home. Just visit our website.

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RESOURCE INDEX SITES & LOCATIONS

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The Pavilion at Silver Fork

177

Belfair

Port Royal Golf Club

Callawassie Island

Proximity Hotel

Carolina Country Weddings & Events

184

Sanderling Resort

177

Charleston Harbor Resort & Marina

Sawyer Family Farmstead

163

Charleston Wedding Guide

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The Sea Pines Resort

Chestnut Ridge

183

Sea Trail

Cobblestone Park

101

Shiki Catering & Events

181

The Cottages on Charleston Harbor

101

Spirit Communications Park

103

Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden

175

Springdale House & Gardens

The Diamond Room at Wades Jewelers

Tides Folly Beach

113

DoubleTree Suites by Hilton Charlotte - Southpark

178

Westglow Resort & Spa

The Farm

187

WinMock at Kinderton

Forevermore Farm

Fripp Island Golf & Beach Resort

103 WEDDING CONSULTANTS

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Gadsden House

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124

Gambill Estate

181 Events by Bella

170

Good Food Catering

Grande Dunes

HoneyBee’s Events

177

The Hall & Gardens at Landmark

Mac & B Events

Hidden River Events

168

Mary Bell Events

169

Highgrove Estate

178

The Inn at Tranquility Farm

139

CAKES & CATERERS

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Majors Estate

Best Impressions Caterers

Middleton Place

110

Flipside Catering

Millennium

Gigi’s Cupcakes

175

O. Henry Hotel

The Icing & The Cake

The Oaks Wedding & Event Venue

Paolo’s Gelato Catering

110

Old Edwards Inn & Spa

Sweet Josephine’s

187

One Eleven Place

171

Thurston Southern Catering

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BRIDAL FASHION & BEAUTY

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ENTERTAINMENT

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Biltmore Bride Prom & Tux

Charleston Virtuosi

Ladies of Lineage Bridal Boutique

133

Irresistible Groove

186

The Lily Rose

The Oz Agency

189

The Wedding Dress Shoppe by Perry’s Emporium

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JEWELRY

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Old North State Press

189

CMI Jewelry Showroom

143 Things Remembered

Malak Jewelers

Perry’s Jewelry

Rhudy’s Jewelry Showroom

SPECIALTY SERVICES

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Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux

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Rock My Wedding

117

PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO

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Faith Harris Photography

Melissa Blythe Photography

183

BRIDAL REGISTRIES

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Rob + Kristen Photography

186

Belk

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NOTES

Find more online at TheKnot.com/carolinas

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bridget & timothy PIEDMONT, SC “The church was packed with people we love,” Timothy says of exchanging vows with Bridget in a simple ceremony at their local parish. “There was no theme nor colors, and the only flowers were the bouquet and boutonniere. We splurged on our cake and a sparkler exit—that was it! And we wouldn’t change it.”

Get inspired by more real weddings in your area at TheKnot.com/carolinas

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