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THE CHARLESTON GAILL ARD CENTER
FOR THE CELEBRATION OF A LIFETIME
Stunning setting | Exquisite custom menus | Unforgettable destination
The Charleston Gaillard Center is more than a world-class performing arts center in the heart of downtown Charleston, SC – with stunning architecture and exquisitely appointed ballrooms, it is the ultimate destination for your wedding. The Charleston Gaillard Center’s unique collection of spaces, each with its own unique look and its own brand of vibrant appeal can be set up to create the perfect backdrop to impress your guests. A variety of seating plans and event arrangements are available to meet your specific event needs.
95 Calhoun Street | Charleston, SC 29401 (843) 242-3102 | gaillardcenter.org | Taylor Rae Photography
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CONTENTS
contents SPRING/SUMMER 2018
in this issue 12 get the look 16 theknot.com 18 editor’s letter 20 checklist 24 garden blues 26 lush urban escape 28 ask carley 34 top picks
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revitalized venues 44 expert advice 50 secrets from real couples 53 haute hues 61 love stories 183 marriage licenses and wedding announcements 192 snapshot
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What if planning your wedding could be simple? ELEGANT SETTING & EXCELLENT FOOD, TOGETHER AT LAST
ROSEY SHELL
WWW.HIGHGROVE-NC.COM 919.552.6154 | 1613 South Main Street | Fuquay-Varina, NC @highgrovenc
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beauty & wellness 111 beauty for hire All your makeup choices can be overwhelming—consider hiring a pro.
fashion 115 10 things bridal consultants
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From your first shopping trip to the final fitting, here’s what to consider.
121 how to avoid dress drama
126 avant garden
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Soft pastels, floral details and airy fabrics create a whimsical ambience.
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style 92 high impact Vibrant fuchsia and sleek black team up for a dramatic, modern affair.
98 defining details Invitation accents for a memorable suite that will get guests excited for your day.
102 beyond the bouquet Floral accents to make every part of your décor stand out.
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A storybook estate where dreams come true.
WESTGLOW RESORT & SPA 224 WESTGLOW CIRCLE | BLOWING ROCK, NC 28605 | 800.562.0807
www.westglow.com
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real weddings 67 emily & chase november 12, highlands, nc
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72 shannon & chris april 15, charlotte, nc
your catering checklist
78 camille & bryan may 13, cary, nc
82 fabienne & ben may 14, bald head island, nc
86 eric & phillip september 24, gastonia, nc
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90 yoko & andrew
158 how to throw
a beach wedding Details to keep in mind when planning for a seaside affair.
166 planner perks
september 3, asheville, nc
Why you should hire a pro, plus the right type for you.
139 yasmine & john
Create a memorable wedding meal with these pointers.
november 12, marietta, sc
177 this one’s for the girls
150 nicole & carlton
Make your bachelorette weekend one to remember.
june 11, columbia, sc
154 jennifer & clay april 21, charleston, sc
r eal wedding budget key $ = $10,000 or less
W e know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!). Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.
$$ = $10,001–$30,000
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$$$ = $30,001–$50,000
$$$$ = $50,001–$75,000
$$$$$ = $75,001+
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171 your catering checklist
october 28, charleston, sc
144 melissa & aaron
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you are my sunshine
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Rain on your wedding day really is good luck!
Rain on your wedding day can make you feel pretty blue. But what if it rained diamonds? With Perry’s Ring in the Rain promotion, if it rains an inch or more in Charlotte on your wedding day, your Perry’s engagement ring and/or wedding bands could be FREE!
How It Works: • Purchase your engagement ring or wedding band from Perry’s. • Register your wedding date with Perry’s Ring in the Rain program. • Receive a $100 gift certificate from Perry’s just for registering. • Do a rain dance. That’s right – we’re turning stormy weather into diamond rings. And with all that extra cash you can turn that blue into something special for you.
Visit in store or online at www.RingInTheRain.com for more details
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Store Hours: Mon-Sat 10-6, Thurs 10-7 PerrysSouthPark
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get the look
ABOUT THE COVER
Check out more fashion-forward dresses for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.
ON HER
Dress, price upon request, Mira Zwillinger at Betty Bridal Atelier, BettyBridalAtelier.com (Charleston, SC); veil, $995, LivHart.com; aquamarine cocktail ring, $48,570, CoastDiamond.com
ON HER
Dress, $2,995, Marchesa Notte, Marchesa.com; engagement ring, $5,225 (not including center stone), CoastDiamond.com; hairpins, $85 each, BijouVanNess.com; earrings, $354, Oscar de la Renta, NeimanMarcus.com; shoes, $540, SophiaWebster.com
ON HER
Dress, $7,590, Romona Keveza, RomonaKeveza.com; earrings, $2,221, AnabelaChan.com
ON HIM
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Suit, $549, BlackLapel.com; shirt, $168, tie, $85, Bonobos.com; wedding band, $1,090, Brilliant Earth.com; shoes, $120, AldoShoes.com
BRIDAL IN BLOOM
With its spectacular grounds full of living sculptures, Ladew Topiary Gardens was a natural fit for our lighthearted fashion feature, “Avant Garden.� After all, what better place to shoot floral-print dresses and whimsical accessories than a lush location with a distinctly magical feel?
glam squad Hairstylist Alberto Guzman preps our model before she poses with a peacock topiary.
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photography Liz Von Hoene hair Alberto Guzman for Bumble
& Bumble at Ray Brown Pro makeup Georgina Billington for By Terry Cosmetics at Judy Casey Inc. fashion styling Shelley Brown prop styling Frederique Stephanie, The Pop Up House location Ladew Topiary Gardens, Monkton, Maryland
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EDITOR IN CHIEF
Kristen Maxwell Cooper DESIGN DIRECTOR
DEPUTY EDITOR
MANAGING EDITOR
ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR
REAL WEDDINGS DIRECTOR
PHOTO DIRECTOR
Tracy Everding
Lauren Kay
Susan Berryman
Maria Bouselli
Rebecca Crumley
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SENIOR DIGITAL EDITOR SENIOR NEWS EDITOR FASHION & BEAUTY EDITOR STYLE & PLANNING EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITORS ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, DIGITAL SOCIAL EDITOR CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR DESIGNER REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS ASSOCIATE PHOTO EDITOR ASSOCIATE DIGITAL PHOTO EDITOR VIDEO PRODUCER EDITORIAL & MARKETING COORDINATOR
Ivy Jacobson Esther Lee Shelley Brown Alyssa Longobucco Stephanie Cain, Rachel Sylvester Katie Kortebein Farah Prince Maggie Seaver Jessica Molinari Toby Fox Katie Ragan Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter Sarah Love Barrie Tovar Jose Marmolejos Toni Franchini
PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy PUBLICATION DESIGNER Kate Richter SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Daryl Wills, Katie Hover GRAPHIC DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION MANAGER Carly Steier PRINT QUALITY ASSURANCE Lois Brunnert Bethune
THE STUDIO @ XO HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj SENIOR EDITORS Cassie Kreitner, Kate Traverson ASSOCIATE COPY EDITOR Kelsey Paine SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelley Rowland JUNIOR DIGITAL MARKETING COORDINATOR Claire Flanagan
SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Thomas Chelednik, tchelednik@theknot.com (877) 238-2369 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Tamara Crenshaw, tcrenshaw@theknot.com (877) 789-8817
REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF SHOWS & EVENTS SENIOR MARKETING MANAGER ACCOUNT STRATEGIST DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS
Audrey Groves, agroves@theknot.com (855) 229-9544 Rhonda Haberkamp, rhondah@xogrp.com (888) 332-7815 Diane Thaete, dthaete@xogrp.com (877) 771-3018 Kristy Newquist, knewquist@xogrp.com (877) 927-3070 Danielle Pelletiere, dpelletiere@xogrp.com (214) 460-7080 Susana Diharce, sdiharce@xogrp.com (866) 960-9909 Bevin Stella, bstella@xogrp.com (212) 515-3544 Nikki Martinez, nmartinez@theknot.com (402) 596-8407 Melissa Bach, pr@xogrp.com Lauren Nolan, pr@xogrp.com
COFOUNDER Carley Roney
The Knot The Carolinas is a publication of Weddingpages LLC, a subsidiary of XO Group Inc. All content © 2017 XO Group Inc. All rights reserved. Reproduction, either in whole or in part, is forbidden without written permission from the publisher. The Knot, TheKnot.com and The Knot The Carolinas are trademarks of XO Group Inc. The Knot is not responsible for the return or loss of, or damage to, unsolicited materials. Those submitting manuscripts, photographs, artwork and other materials for consideration should not send originals, unless specifically requested to do so in writing by The Knot. Manuscripts, artwork and other materials submitted must be accompanied by a self-addressed stamped envelope. Editorial Offices: 195 Broadway, New York, NY 10007 (212) 219-8555. Production Offices: 11106 Mockingbird Drive, Omaha, NE 68137 (800) 843-4983. please recycle after wedding
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.com/carolinas Discover new ideas, get answers to your questions and find local wedding pros that fit your style and budget.
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Browse weddings from the Carolinas, including the 2017 winners of our 50 Weddings, 50 States. Our Tar Heel State pick, Amanda and Alex, celebrated at a coastal yacht club with bluegrass music and Nye’s Cream Sandwiches. “It was about bringing the people we loved to a place we loved and sharing that with them,” Amanda says.
Organizing your wedding details and pros just got easier, thanks to the new digital planning tool from The Knot. Use it to help you and your fiancé define your style, book and communicate with vendors, and automatically create a personalized day-of timeline so everything goes off without a hitch. Try it by downloading our app or signing up at TheKnot.com.
GO LOCAL
connect with pros and find tips Gather your dream team of wedding vendors with the help of our Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/carolinas. Your state directory has everything you need to know about saying “I do,” from getting your marriage license to seasonal tips. Then, connect with planners, photographers and more by searching by region and price in our local Marketplace.
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168 EAST KINDERTON WAY, BERMUDA RUN, NC 27006 | 336.397.2010 | WINMOCK.COM JAKE + HEATHER PHOTOGRAPHY | REBECCA ROSE EVENTS
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EDITOR ’S LE T TER
I love everything about this dress, from the romantic ruffle to the hint of color. (p. 126)
My jaw dropped when I first saw this succulent cuff—I want to wear one every day! (p. 102)
If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.”
This envelope liner is a fun surprise waiting for guests. (p. 98)
Every relationship is unique. So every wedding should be too. This doesn’t mean you need an over-the-top element to make it truly special, but rather that your wedding should reflect the two of you as a couple. It means you should forget the perceived “rules” and do what feels right. Are you less type A and more type “I never really thought about it?” A simple celebration at your family home might be right up your alley. Have you been dreaming of this moment since you were little? Then here’s your chance to go all out. Whoever you are and whatever you want, we’re here to help. So here’s to all of you—the planners, the procrastinators, the over-thinkers, the bridechillas, the groomzillas, the classic couples, the eclectic couples, the can’t-be-defined couples and everyone in between. Whether you’re having a religious service, a nondenominational ceremony, or a celebration for 20 people or 200, this is the moment to throw out the rule book and plan a wedding that’s as unique as you are.
KRISTEN MAXWELL COOPER Editor in Chief
Follow me
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I want to hear from you! kristen@theknot.com
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CLOCK WISE FROM TOP LEF T: LIZ VON HOENE; SAR AH ANNE WARD; SAR AH LOVE PHOTOGR APHY; CHARLOT TE JENKS LEWIS PHOTOGR APHY
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CHECKLIST
download The Knot Wedding Planner app to get your custom wedding plan
This checklist will tell you what to do, and when, on your way to the altar. Make sure to download our must-have app for virtual access to all the tools that will help you get there.
12+ MONTHS
date: ______ /______ /______
9-11 MONTHS
date: ______ /______ /______
Take our style quiz on TheKnot.com to help narrow in on your wedding vision, including color palettes and décor.
Find a stationer and order save-the-dates.
Nail down a budget.
Create your website with The Knot, then pack it full with need-to-know info like reception details and nearby hotels for the wedding weekend.
Determine where and when you’d like to tie the knot. Not sure where to start? Use our app to get personalized suggestions based on a few key details, like guest count and general location. Hire any pros you just have to have on your wedding team, like your photographer or planner. Start searching for the dress, jumpsuit, skirt or tuxedo of your dreams. If you haven’t already, get your engagement ring appraised and insured.
Propose to your wedding party.
6-8 MONTHS
date: ______ /______ /______
Plan the ceremony with your officiant and discuss any religious requirements such as premarital counseling. Book your honeymoon. Choose the formalwear. Send out your save-the-dates.
Book your other important pros, like a band or DJ, florist or videographer.
Place an order for your invitations—and thank-you notes while you’re at it.
Order the gown and veil, and schedule fittings for six weeks and one to two weeks before the wedding. (A third fitting may be necessary.)
Hire a day-of coordinator (if you don’t have a full-service planner or a day-of planner isn’t included with your venue).
Choose and order the bridesmaid dresses.
Schedule beauty trials, and book hairstylists and makeup artists.
Create your registry and start adding things to your wish list—a super-fun to-do.
Iron out the rehearsal dinner details, like the time and location. >>
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date: ______ /______ /______
Address your invitations or hand them off to your calligrapher. Finalize the rental list (tables, chairs, linens and so on) with the caterer or rental company. Taste test some flavors and complete your wedding cake order. Also order the groom’s cake if you’re having one. Buy wedding rings. Arrange day-of transportation for yourselves and the wedding party.
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Figure out how to get a local marriage license—you need one to make it official. Finalize your ceremony outline and readings with your officiant.
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Mail your invitations. RSVPs should be due one month before the wedding. Begin writing your vows. Go to your first formalwear fitting. Be sure to bring along whatever shoes, undergarments and accessories you’d like to wear on your wedding day. Finalize the cocktail hour and reception menu with your catering team. Solidify your Blueprint (aka your day-of timeline—see sidebar) and share with your vendors, spouse and wedding party.
Compile a must-take photo list for your shooter. Keep it under a dozen so you get the shots you really want.
1-2 WEEKS
date: ______ /______ /______
Once you’ve got your final head count, share it with the caterer, cake baker and site manager, and finish the seating chart.
DEFINE YOUR WEDDING ST YLE Download The Knot Wedding Planner app, then take our style quiz to zero in on the perfect vibe for your wedding. Once complete, you can easily share key details of your aesthetics with potential vendors at the click of a button, so pros know exactly what you mean by “rustic chic.”
COMPILE YOUR DREAM TEAM Receive personalized vendor suggestions based on your wedding style and budget, or browse hundreds of vetted pros in your area via The Knot Marketplace.
Pass on requests from your pros, like a table for the DJ, to the site manager. Go to the last dress fitting. Designate point people for day-of tasks. Make sure all your prewedding beauty appointments are scheduled.
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STAY ON SCHEDULE Track RSVPs and completed tasks, and perfect your day-of plan. Bonus: As you check off to-dos, your personal wedding planner (that’s us!) is working in the background to populate a wedding day Blueprint (the ultimate day-of timeline of who, what, where and when) so you can walk down the aisle with confidence.
DAYS
date: ______ /______ /______
Steam the dress or suit if wrinkled. Touch base with the ceremony and the reception sites one more time to go over the schedule and points-of-contact.
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DAY BEFORE date: ______ /______ /______
Pass off the marriage license to your officiant. Rehearse the ceremony and enjoy the rehersal dinner with your favorite people. Breathe—and have fun!
CREATE THE ULTIMATE REGISTRY Register at your favorite stores, then share on your website for easy shopping. Already have everything you need? Our Newlywed Fund lets you ask for cash gifts you can put toward anything you like, from an epic honeymoon to a down payment on a home.
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PURE LUXE BRIDE threw a graceful garden party at the THE GOVERNOR THOMAS BENNETT HOUSE in Charleston, South Carolina, inspired by blue-and-white-patterned china. Our favorite detail? A “press for champagne” button for a glass of bubbly.
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“We wanted to keep the venue light and airy. As guests arrived, we had an acoustic violinist playing as they entered the venue, dressed in a knee-length floral skirt. The gold hanging lanterns, macaron tower, pretzel wall, roaming ceviche, mobile library and lounge setting all complemented the space’s charm.” —Pure Luxe Bride
LOCAL TREND ALERT The Knot editors are traveling the country reporting on the hottest wedding style and tech trends brought to life by local wedding pros. Charleston’s standout pretzel bar comes from Mosaic Catering + Events—the sweet and savory options, including cinnamon sugar and jalapeño cheddar, were the perfect pairings for the drinks from the champagne door.
THE TEAM VENUE The Governor Thomas Bennett House PLANNER Pure Luxe Bride PHOTOGRAPHY Catherine Ann Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Dock House
Digital FLOWERS Petaloso STATIONERY Fancy Creative CALLIGRAPHY J. Lily Design CATERING Mosaic Catering + Events BAR SERVICE Squeeze Cocktail & Beverage Catering DESSERTS Sablée; Wheely Good Ice Cream ENTERTAINMENT Darby Events VIOLIN Charleston Virtuosi VINTAGE LOUNGE & CHAMPAGNE DOOR 428 Maine OTHER RENTALS EventWorks LINENS Pressed Fine Linens LIGHTING TEC BEAUTY Pampered & Pretty FAVORS Candlefish
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HAZEL GEORGE EVENTS brought the outside in at the MINT MUSEUM UPTOWN in Charlotte, North Carolina, using tall floral arrangements of roses and hydrangeas, luxurious linens, wooden vineyard chairs and crystal chandeliers to create a fanciful, verdant oasis amid the concrete jungle.
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“Who says you cannot bring the outdoors inside when the temperatures are pushing 90 degrees in the middle of the Southern summer? I dreamed of an upscale soiree, where the design comes to life through the details.” —Hazel George Events
DETAIL WE LOVE Our favorite local element is the incorporation of blue floral-print linens intermixed with shimmery blush sequin tablecloths, all from Carolina’s Luxury Event Rentals. The linens echoed the classic garden arrangements and further transported guests to a greenhouse-like atmosphere as a whimsical retreat from the heat of the afternoon.
THE TEAM VENUE Mint Museum Uptown PLANNER Hazel George Events PHOTOGRAPHY Katheryn Jeanne Photography VIDEOGRAPHY West Mint
Media FLOWERS CLux Florals STATIONERY Viri Lovely Designs CATERING Something Classic Catering CAKE & DESSERTS Sky’s The Limit! Bridal Sweets ENTERTAINMENT & LIGHTING ATG Entertainment PHOTO BOOTH Smile
Laugh Share Photo Booth CHAIR RENTALS CE Rental LINENS Carolina’s Luxury Event Rentals VINTAGE FURNITURE Carolina Charm Rentals BEAUTY Julie Page Makeup
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E XPERT Q&A
ask carley
Our cofounder answers your questions.
How can we create a menu that will make all of our guests happy? When choosing the entrée options for your reception, consider possible dietary restrictions. Although you can’t account for every guest’s allergy and menu preferences, you can try to ensure everyone will enjoy something. Include a vegetarian option on your response cards, or ask your caterer if they can create a few special dishes. For a buffet, include allergenfree options, like dishes with no nuts, or allow your guests to garnish their own plates. For instance, if you’re having a sundae bar, offer plenty of gluten-free toppings like M&Ms and Haribo gummies.
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One of my bridesmaids won’t order her dress and I’m afraid she won’t get it in time for my wedding. What should I do?
Find out why she’s holding off. Is she trying to lose 10 pounds before getting her measurements taken? Has she been busy with work? Is she just being a little flaky? If it’s one of the last two reasons, call and ask her for her measurements so you can order the dress for her. If you find she’s hoping to lose weight, let her know she can order now and a seamstress can alter the dress a few weeks before the wedding. It’s much easier to take in a too-large dress than vice versa. So ordering her current size will actually save her money in the long run.
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Think of places where flowers won’t be missed. Swap berries, acorns or other greenery into boutonnieres for an equally debonair look. Same goes for bridesmaid bouquets. Try a smaller arrangement, like a nosegay or posy, and use supporting elements from your bouquet like spray roses and greenery instead of more expensive stems like peonies. Just make sure yours isn’t too large or the rest of the bouquets could look unbalanced. For ceremony and reception décor, greenery is trending. If that’s not your style, get creative with fabrics and textures. Balloons add a whimsical touch, sequins are perfectly glam and candles are classic romance. >>
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The guest list should include your closest female pals and relatives (as well as your fiancé’s mom, sister and any other close female friends and family). You don’t have to invite every woman who’s invited to your wedding. As for more distant guests, sending a shower invite is a nice gesture even if you know they won’t be able to attend—it shows them they’re important to you.
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Good news! Most wedding consultants are willing and able to work within a variety of budgets, and because of their connections and expertise, they’re often able to save you a good deal of money too. And you don’t have to sign a consultant on for the whole planning process. Many couples hire someone to oversee the final details the evening before and day of the wedding. Some pros even offer their services on an hourly basis for short-term tasks. You can try the à la carte route and choose exactly which services you’ll need. Just make sure it’s clearly defined in your contract.
PARTY FOUL
Hopefully your parents will be able to put aside their differences during your wedding. You can try diffusing the situation by seating them in different places at the ceremony and reception—the less they interact, the less likely they’ll argue. If you’re really concerned about their behavior, then sit down with them and tell them it would make you happy if they could be civil for one day. They may be more willing to call a truce (at least for 24 hours) if you’ve verbalized how important it is to you.
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My fiancé and I want our first dance to be uniquely ours. What’s the best way to pick a song that isn’t played out?
If you don’t already have a song that’s decidedly yours, think back on the highlights of your relationship. What was playing the day you first said you were in love, or on the car ride to where he proposed? If you don’t have a song with history, consider creating the story. Do you have a shared favorite band or genre? Narrow it down to some options from there, and if the beat doesn’t quite lend itself to a first dance, see if there are acoustic options.
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17 Lockwood Dr., Charleston, SC; (843) 723-7952; HolyCityHospitality.com This waterfront mill, built in 1861, offers both indoor and outdoor space for the couple looking to experience the best of the Lowcountry. The classic design features exposed brick, plank wood floors, large double windows and pressed-tin ceilings. Exchange vows beneath towering oaks on the front lawn or on the back patio overlooking the Charleston Harbor. Plus, a mahogany and marble bar and dance floor make entertaining effortless during your seated dinner reception with 200 guests.
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Keep your lipstick on longer: Dust transluscent powder over a tissue and pat on. Don’t change your skin care routine right before you wed. It can cause breakouts or allergic reactions. Ask your pros questions or voice your concerns about your daily beauty routines. We can answer them!
What’s the best way to deal with last-minute disasters like streaky self tanner, hives and breakouts? Talk to your pro makeup artists. Always feel free to contact them with any concerns before the day. Your pro will be prepared to cover up tan lines, sunburns, scrapes, bruising and tattoos (if you want). Let us know before you try any do-it-yourself remedies. Any beauty trends you’re loving? We’re always about a fresh-face glow and individual lashes—they look amazing in the photographs. We also like keeping it classic. Nothing boring, but it wears gorgeous and timeless. For hair, opt for soft and romantic. It looks easy but will last all day. Finally, what three things should a bride keep in her wedding clutch? A lip color touch-up kit, especially for after the cake, a transluscent-colored shine-control powder compact and a few extra bobby pins!
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cake baker What is challenging about what you do? Most often, couples come in with a picture of a cake that they love from Pinterest or a magazine. While they’re gorgeous, I try to get them to think outside of the box and steer them toward a cake that is unique to them.
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Let’s not forget the groom’s cake. What’s the most creative one you’ve designed? A bride wanted to surprise her groom with a cake that encompassed all his favorite things. The base was a football field with the logos of his two favorite teams. On the field were fondant Minions, Batman in the Batmobile and even Star Wars characters. It was so fun!
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Ask your baker if they offer complimentary anniversary tiers. You won’t have to freeze a layer and eat old cake. Consider your total guest count to determine the cake size and amount of servings. Avoid colors and frostings that will stain your clothes and teeth.
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Make sure your venue has enough space to fit you inside in case of inclement weather. Great photography is key. It’s worth spending money on since it’s all you will have after the day ends. Think about taking a day or two before heading on your honeymoon. Relax and recap your favorite moments from the day!
Tell us about how you put an innovative twist on a popular tradition? To me, this has always been one of our strong points. We love playing! We did a holiday wedding and hung Christmas ornaments on a tree as the escort cards. They were handpainted with the chapel where the ceremony took place, the names and the table numbers. It was a great statement point and doubled as favors for the guests to take home. What are some fun details you’ve always wanted to include in a wedding design but have yet to do so? I’d like to see personal china for a large wedding, a sommelier at each table and custom dinner jackets for all the staff. what’s your ultimate pro tip? Remember the day is about the marriage and the person you chose to spend your life with.
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What are the three things a couple should do after getting engaged? Let it all sink in. Enjoy it and don’t become overwhelmed with figuring out every single detail. When you’re ready, get a solid idea of the guest count, which can affect the venue and budget, and think about the type of wedding you want, be it formal, casual, destination or even at home.
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“Don’t be afraid to delegate and assign planning tasks to your friends and family members. If someone wants to help, take them up on their offer.” —Sabrina & Grant
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“It’s unlikely everything will work out the way you initially plan for it to, but that doesn’t mean you won’t have a great wedding day you’ll end up loving.” —Dana & Jordan
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“IF YOU’RE ABLE TO DIY, DO IT. IT’S WORTH THE FEELING YOU GET WHEN YOU WALK INTO YOUR VENUE TO SEE ALL OF YOUR HARD WORK, ESPECIALLY KNOWING YOU PUT YOUR HEART INTO IT.” —Emily & Jovan
“If it rains, you’ll still get married and your wedding will still be pretty. You can’t do anything about the weather, but your hired vendors can.” —Jen & Tevje
“Hire pros you genuinely trust to be in control while you’re busy being the bride.” —Helena & Michael
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“TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR OWN WEDDING. WHEN YOUR PARENTS SEE THAT YOU HAVE A VISION AND RESPECT YOUR BUDGET, THEY’LL BE MORE LIKELY TO LET GO OF THE DECISION-MAKING.”
“You only have a few short hours to take it all in. Be present and pause throughout the night to take a few mental pictures.” —Holly & Sara
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The ideal choice for couples who may not want (or be able to afford) a full-service planner but still want a pro the day of the wedding to assure everything goes smoothly.
The abbreviation RSVP is so well known that its actual meaning is what needs defining. In French, “répondez s’il vous plaît” translates to “please reply.” To avoid any last-minute guest list headaches, require your guests to respond “yes” or “no” at least two to three weeks before the wedding.
The most recognizable type of “formal” dress code, black-tie attire usually means the wedding is a fancy affair. Gentlemen in attendance should plan on wearing a tuxedo with a bow tie and patent leather shoes, while ladies should go all-out in a stunning floor-length gown.
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MAKEUP ARTIST MARRIAGE LICENSE Obtained from a state registrar’s office before your wedding, a marriage license grants you permission to legally wed. After the signed license is filed, you’ll receive a marriage certificate as record of your union.
Also often abbreviated as MUA, the makeup artist gets you wedding ready. Do a trial run (or two) to ensure you like the look they create. If possible, snap a few pictures to see if it photographs well, and then rock your trial look to find out how it wears throughout the day.
FOOD AND BEVERAGE Venues that include an in-house catering team often set a food and beverage minimum for prime event days like Friday, Saturday and Sunday. This “minimum,” also known as F&B, refers to the required menu and bar price or head count total necessary to rent the space.
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Slightly less formal than black-tie attire, a cocktail dress code states that men should wear a suit and tie, while women can wear a cocktail dress or dressy suit. It’s a great choice for venues like a city loft or tent.
BM, or best man, is generally the male friend or family member of the groom designated with leading all things groomsmen related. He stands beside the groom at the altar and gives a speech at the reception.
Wedding STDs are a good thing! A precursor to the formal invite, a save-the-date notifies guests to mark their calendars for your day. Etiquette suggests sending them out six to eight months before your wedding.
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CERTIFICATE OF INSURANCE Also known as COI, it’s common practice for event venues to require any vendors working in the space—especially florists, photographers, caterers and musicians— to submit proof of general liability insurance in the amount of at least $1 million and to list the venue as additionally insured for the wedding date. That way, if anything goes wrong, neither the venue nor you is responsible.
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The PP that appears next to the pricing you see on your contracts indicates the cost per guest. You’ll want to keep an eye out for this type of pricing structure on anything that involves your catering or liquor choices.
A paper printing technique in which text, calligraphy or even a drawing is etched in reverse (think: mirror image) on a raised plate, which is then coated with ink and pressed into the paper.
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Unless provided by your caterer, many venues and caterers charge an opening fee per bottle of alcohol, wine or champagne that you supply. The price per bottle can range drastically, so ask ahead of time about your venue’s regulations surrounding alcohol. Then, factor the additional pricing into your budget if you plan to bring your own bottles of vino or are envisioning an elaborate champagne toast at the reception.
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MAID OF HONOR MOH is the abbreviation for maid of honor, the female friend or relative of the bride designated to lead all bridesmaid duties. If she’s married, the MOH stands for matron of honor instead.
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Sports fans probably already know this one. Like a football game, wedding receptions can go over the intended time frame and into overtime. If the wedding is extended, OT fees may apply for the venue, as well as the band, photographer or other vendors you’ve contracted on an hourly basis. Be sure any OT fees are spelled out clearly in your contracts so the rate will not be a surprise.
PROCESSIONAL AND RECESSIONAL The processional is the entry of the wedding party into the ceremony—the officiant, groom(s), attendants and/or finally the bride(s). The recessional is the exit.
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Lulu’s suspicions ran high when Andrew posed an ambiguous request to get up at dawn without a reason why. “Something big must be happening,” she says of her feelings that day. But Andrew still managed to deliver an enormous surprise: The pair boarded a hot air balloon for a sunrise ride over central New Jersey. “It was just me and her—plus a random balloon driver—on a crisp autumn day,” Andrew says of the intimate setting. There, he pulled out a pear-shaped diamond ring and popped the question. “I’m so lucky to have found my best friend,” he adds. The ring: Pave Jewelers >>
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For their vacation in Jamaica, John elaborately organized a proposal over a private dinner on the beach complete with a hidden photographer. Unknowingly, however, Janelle derailed his plans with a last-minute hotel change the day before they departed. “With the ring in my suitcase, I decided to just go for it,” John says of devising plan B. While getting ready for dinner when they arrived, he got down on one knee. “No words can describe my excitement and relief when she finally had the ring on her finger,” he adds. “Truly, one of the best moments of my life.” The ring: Stardust Jewelers
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Knowing how much Jasmine loves hiking, Caitlyn (right) found it only fitting to propose after one, ending at a spectacular view. During a visit to see Jasmine in Iceland, where she was completing her studies, Caitlyn and Jasmine opted for a trek to a waterfall. “The hard but satisfying hike was personal because our lives have never really been easy, but our journey together and the experiences we’ve shared have definitely been worth the climb,” Caitlyn says. With the falling water as a backdrop, Caitlyn wiggled a ring out of her backpack and knelt down. “It just felt so right,” she says. The ring: Brilliant Earth >>
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“We were in the middle of a very popular park, but he somehow found a quiet spot where no one else was around,” Yoko says of the secluded corner of Hong Kong Park where Andrew suggested the pair take a photo. In front of a waterfall, Andrew set their camera on a self-timer and stepped into place. But before the shutter clicked, he had dropped to one knee and shocked Yoko. “We ended at a beachside bar, where we watched the sunset,” she adds of celebrating after saying ‘yes.’ “It was the perfect end to the perfect day.” The ring: BlueNile.com R E A D M O R E P RO P O SA L S TO R I E S AT HowHeAsked.com by The Knot
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These couples added sophisticated, elegant touches to their rustic settings, letting both their love stories and their locations be celebrated simultaneously.
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“My family has a house at Lake Toxaway, and the area holds a very special place in our hearts,” Emily says of their destination wedding.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Emily Grien, 26, a Spanish teacher GROOM Charles (Chase) Warden, 28, an inventory analyst HOW THEY MET Walking their dogs outside the apartment building where, coincidentally, they lived across the hall from one another WEDDING STYLE Atlanta-based Emily and Chase hosted a black-tie affair that incorporated a luxurious amount of twinkling lights, candles and a florals for a fairy-tale atmosphere in a place Emily loves to visit. —Juliette Cheatham Wanting to maintain the integrity of the rustic barn while adding sophistication, the duo had fresh eucalyptus and full white blooms cascading down their chuppah. Ornate lanterns lined the aisle and accented the massive stone fireplace to provide soft light for the sunset-timed ceremony.
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Arrangements included orchids, roses, ranunculus, lisianthus, lilies and eucalyptus.
Above the long estate table, strands of lights hung from the barn’s exposed beams. “I loved feeling like I was looking at the stars at the reception.” Emily says. “It really brought my fairy tale to life.” To combat the chilly November weather, Emily and her bridesmaids draped fur stoles over their gowns.
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The massive buttercream cake had a carrot cake layer—Chase’s pick—plus apple hummingbird cake, the Southern staple.
“My favorite drink is a Moscow mule, so we put a twist on it and called it a Munson mule, named after our beloved cockapoo,” the bride says of including their pups in a sweet way—they also featured a Peyton cosmo for their other dog. After a dinner featuring North Carolina trout, the party headed outside to roast marshmallows at the s’mores bar.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Shannon Fanning, 32, a chief operations officer GROOM Chris Evans, 38, a bond trader HOW THEY MET As coworkers WEDDING STYLE The couple held an airy Southern garden party at The Duke Mansion with lush garlands of greenery, lots of candles and a tent made of billowing white fabric. —JC “We lined the aisle with green and white florals that appeared to be growing from the grass,” Shannon says. Two large green, white and blush arrangements framed the entryway where the couple said “I do” under a gold chandelier. “Being from the South, we wanted to have a warm, dreamy feel to the wedding,” she adds.
Shannon's bouquet included hydrangeas, ranunculus and peonies, connected with a lace wrap—a piece of her mom's wedding gown.
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“The most important thing to me during this process was the fact that I wanted to enjoy it,” Shannon says of hiring a planner to organize the day. “It was nice to trust someone to bring your vision to life. The mental freedom was priceless!” The couple’s planner created their reception look, including the geometic chandeliers, a unique version of a tent and modern-meets-rustic accents.
“Having flowers everywhere with an open-air tent made things feel magical,” Shannon says.
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Grand History. Majestic Beauty. Unforgettable Memories. Western North Carolina’s Premier Lakeside Mountain Wedding Destination
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We offer lush accommodations, exquisite ceremony reception venues, and full-service catering and planning services. Photoand courtesy of Jacob Dean Photography
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Located in front of a tasty doughnut wall, Shannon and Chris gifted their guests with boxes of fresh Krispy Kreme to take home after the celebration. “Krispy Kreme has been a staple in my upbringing," Shannon says of the sweet way to share a family tradition.
Guests feasted on area fare like fried chicken, pimento cheese rice and a biscuit and fixings bar.
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FLOWERS The Bloom Room
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MAKEUP Be Pretty SHOES Badgley ENGAGEMENT &
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SIGN-IN BOOK Kristin Byrum Photography RENTALS Katrina Hutchins Events; La Tavola
Fine Linen; Nüage Designs; Old South Vintage Rentals; Party Reflections; Party Tables; Wink Lighting
CATERING The Duke Mansion
CAKE The WOW Factor Cakes
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Taking communion together for the first time was the most important part of the day for Camille and Bryan. They included a white communion bench on their altar.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Camille Gipson, 35, a communications manager GROOM Bryan Bagwell, 31, a college athletics coach HOW THEY MET On Match.com WEDDING STYLE Drawing on their mutual love for old movies, the duo found inspiration in old-Hollywood glamour for their traditional nuptials. —JC The couple picked their hotel venue to make it easy on guests, since many were coming from out of town. “We didn’t want them to have to travel to join the celebration,” the bride says. A rich plum hue, Camille’s favorite color, carried throughout the day, including the bridesmaid dresses, sequined linens and sparkly detail on the invitation suite.
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A fan of Sherlock Holmes, Bryan donned a traditional English-style suit with a peak lapel and gray ascot cravat fit for the dapper detective. For a unique twist on their wedding cake, the newlyweds cut into a croquembouche, the customary French wedding confection, as a nod to Camille’s time spent in France.
Lima Photography Buhler
VIDEOGRAPHY Chris
PLANNER A Southern Soiree
FLOWERS Fresh Affairs
Pastor Jonathan Smith
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GOWN Liancarlo,
Alexia’s Bridal Boutique, Raleigh, NC
HAIR
Toria Evans Hair Essentials MAKEUP Natural eauties by Vee Seattle, WA
VEIL Alex Bridal,
SHOES Badgley Mischka
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Jordan’s
Jewelry Design JEWELRY Bracelet: Connie and Dolly
BRIDESMAID DRESSES White by Vera
Wang, David’s Bridal Formalwear
MENSWEAR Bernard’s
STATIONERY Invitations: Maria
Scheel Invitations; escort cards: Calligraphy by Carrie; programs: PaperBuzz Kade Kimber
SIGN-IN BOOK
RENTALS CE Rental CAKE The Umstead Hotel
CATERING &
and Spa DESSERTS Andia’s Homemade Ice Cream
MUSIC Bull City Syndicate;
G-One Band
FAVORS Plantables
ACCOMMODATIONS Embassy Suites HONEYMOON The Ritz-Carlton, New
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BRIDE Fabienne Schulz, 28, a program manager GROOM Ben Hansen, 29, a head of business development HOW THEY MET When Fabienne mentioned her love of German sports cars on their first day of class at Columbia University WEDDING STYLE To reflect their fascination with nature, the pair planned a rustic-chic wedding with view of the water and nods to the bride’s German background. —JC “We didn’t want our wedding to be over-scripted,” Fabienne says. They decided to convert the venue’s seaside deck into a German beer garden to pay homage to Fabienne’s heritage and time spent abroad in Hamburg. But they didn’t forget the South: A summery signature drink of muddled peaches and gin, dubbed the Georgia mule, was a favorite among guests.
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HAIR &
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Bonobos
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MENSWEAR
STATIONERY Invitations:
DIY; programs and escort cards: Salt Harbor Designs
SIGN-IN BOOK Pressed Cotton
RENTALS Pomp Event Furnishings;
Party Suppliers and Rentals; Salt Harbor Designs CATERING The Shoals Club
CAKE
& DESSERTS One Belle Bakery
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Charles Echols/Active DJ Entertainment OTHER ENTERTAINMENT Photo booth: Millie
Holloman Photography Harbor Designs Shoals Club Ben and his groomsmen sported navy-blue jackets with a mix of neckties and bow ties for a formal nautical look. In fact, one of the groomsmen actually organized all the attire, and Ben gifted each guy a pair of socks to wear along with a traditional German beer stein.
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Eric (right) and Phillip made their three-piece suits with a bespoke clothier.
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Looking to reflect their personal styles, Eric and Phillip found a way to combine chic with masculine. Classic white blooms decorated a pergola for the outdoor ceremony in the garden, where guests sipped on glasses of champagne and lounged on vintage furniture prior to the nuptials. Both Eric and Phillip entered the space escorted by their mothers before exchanging handwritten vows.
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The couple offered dozens of macarons to accompany the dual-flavored cake.
Textured linens inspired by flowers topped tables in shades of gray and plum, the two main colors for the day. “We asked our families to wear something in our palette to coordinate for the family photos,” Eric says. The grooms even donned plum-colored socks.
ERIC & PHILLIP’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE
Separk Mansion, Gastonia, NC PHOTOGRAPHY Casey
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FLOWERS
OFFICIANT Jim C. Butts
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MENSWEAR Bruce
Julian Clothier SHOES Johnston & Murphy
ENGAGEMENT &
WEDDING RINGS Jared the Galleria of
Jewelry
STATIONERY Granite Sky
Designs
RENTALS Old South Vintage
Rentals
CATERING Best Impressions
Caterer
CAKE WOW Factor Cakes
MUSIC All The Right Grooves GUESTS 110 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)
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Despite telling herself that a strapless mermaid gown was not for her, Yoko fell for that very style with alenรงon lace and guipure details.
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“We ate everything!” Yoko says of being warned by friends that you don’t eat much the day of. “We wouldn’t let that be the case.”
THEIR STORY BRIDE Yoko Matsumoto, 29, a consultant GROOM Andrew Gerba, 30, a consultant HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE The pair opted for a venue in the Blue Ridge Mountains for their destination wedding so guests could take advantage of local activites, like river tubing, around the celebration. —JC
CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE
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Photography PLANNER Cortney OFFICIANT John
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YOKO & ANDREW’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS
GOWN
Pronovias, Pronovias, New York City HAIR Andrea Boyer Hair & Makeup
Artistry MAKEUP Blush Asheville VEIL Etsy.com
Prey
SHOES Shoes of
ENGAGEMENT RING Blue Nile
WEDDING RINGS David S. Diamonds JEWELRY Earrings: Etsy.com BRIDESMAID DRESSES Jenny Yoo MENSWEAR Custom
STATIONERY
Invitations: Minted.com
SIGN-IN
BOOK Artifact Uprising
RENTALS
CATERING &
Biltmore Estate Biltmore Estate
CAKE
MUSIC Ceremony:
Café String Quartet; reception: We Got the Beat
FAVORS Asheville Bee
Charmer
ACCOMMODATIONS
DoubleTree by Hilton; Yonder Luxury Vacation Rentals GUESTS 70 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)
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daringly deep A black and marble place setting is a crisp backdrop for a vibrant centerpiece of oxblood peonies, pink ranunculus, chocolate cosmos, blush garden roses and branches. The cake’s marbled exterior and sugar flowers echo the tablescape and unite the overall palette. Cake, IntricateIcings.com; florals, FlorabyNora.com; tabletop décor, EclecticHive.com; linens, LuxeLinen .org; stationery, YonderDesign.com; gifts, BundlesGiftCo.com; venue, DenverPhotoCollective.com >>
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Reinvent table numbers by trading paper signs for black engraved shagreen plaques, set on a gilded photo ledge.
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fresh ingredients Go beyond florals in your boutonnieres. For a woodsy vibe, try leaves and touches of pine.
standout seating Swap your typical rentals for something unexpected, like luxe velvet stools mixed with plush chairs.
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A leather folio and luggage tag for guests are nice personal touches, and add a hint of texture to a streamlined black-and-white invitation suite.
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defining details
Design a standout suite with one of these fresh invite accents. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY COCO TR AN
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Your invitation suite (including, but not limited to, your invite, response card, reception card and accommodations/directions card), is often the first glimpse guests get into your wedding day style, so it’s important to pay attention to the message your paper goods are sending. Whether your vibe is streamlined and classic, natural and aged, or bright and modern, adding these trendy accents to your correspondence will make it stand out and will help set the mood for all your unique wedding day celebrations to come.
Statement envelope liner
Turn your invitation suite into a work of art worthy of display (even if it’s just on the fridge) by hiring a painter or artist to create a stunning scene for your invites, RSVP card or save-the-date. Pastoral or landscape scenes are growing in popularity as more couples choose to make the destination of their wedding, like sprawling vineyards, the focus of their design. If the idea of nature doesn’t fit your wedding style, look to your venue—or you and your partner’s life together—for inspiration. A portrait of your beloved pups, a monochromatic rendering of your first date spot or even a new family crest dedicated to your interests are all great ways to personalize the painting. Then, make the most of your investment by reusing the imagery throughout other parts of your event, like imposing it on lounge pillows, sticking labels on goodies in your welcome bags or having a vinyl version made to attach to cornhole boards. You can even frame an oversize version and hang it in your newlywed nest as a sweet reminder of your wedding day.
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Give guests a special surprise by lining envelopes with an eye-catching design. Logistically, envelope liners serve to make envelopes a bit heartier so they stand up to mailing, and also ensure you can’t see through to the inner contents. Practicality aside, they’re also a great place to work in color or design. Think of liners as the wallpaper of your envelope—the underside of the flap is one of the first things guests will see. You want something attention-grabbing that will give guests a taste of your party personality. Task your stationer with designing a liner that accents—not competes with—the rest of your invitation suite. A bold geometric pattern falls perfectly in line with a modern city loft wedding, while soft pastel watercolor blooms are an ideal accent if you’re hosting a romantic garden affair.
Leather detailing Heads up: Leather details are the new “it” wedding texture, and they’re the perfect choice for couples or to-be-weds looking to incorporate a bit of edge into their invitation suite. Leather that’s been debossed (meaning it’s been stamped so it’s indented with wording) is great for smaller accents like an insert card, program binding or as a belly band to hold the whole suite together. Or make the material the star of the show by seeking out a stationer who specializes in leather pressing and have them craft your actual invite using leather as the “paper.” Keep in mind that a heavier style like that may double or triple your postage costs. >>
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Coordinated stamp sets
The ancient art of calligraphy (available in a variety of styles, like traditional copperplate and modern script) has long been a go-to for wedding invitations, giving them a special, more formal feel. While it’s often reserved for addressing the inner and outer envelopes of invitation suites, you can incorporate it on other details as well, like escort cards, menu cards, ceremony programs and favor tags. Pros also use spot calligraphy in their invitation designs. An entirely handwritten invite can be difficult to read and also expensive, but using script in a few key spots (like your and your partner’s names) is a great compromise. Calligraphers are also turning to metallic inks, like iridescent golds, coppers and silvers, to give an invitation a truly celebratory feel.
Next time you’re scouring local antique shops for blue and white ginger jars for your centerpieces, keep an eye out for vintage stamps that match your invite suite as well. Hunt down styles that somehow complement your wedding palette or invitation suite, either in color or by the images they depict, then add them to the exterior envelopes for some old-school charm. Your stationer is a great resource for this, but you can also check out vendors like VintagePostageShop and LittlePostageHouse on Etsy.com. Whether you choose to accent your envelope with bold blues or all blooms, head to the post office before you buy. You’ll want to have a sample envelope (filled with your complete suite) weighed first so you know how much postage will cost. Vintage stamps are worth less, so you’ll likely need five or more per envelope to ensure it will ship.
Vellum paper You’ve likely seen this thin, waxy paper popping up in your inspiration feeds lately, either layered atop a printed invite or serving as the invitation itself. Known as vellum, this material is typically made from a rag or plasticized cotton blend, and has an opaque, nonreflective finish that feels a bit softer than plastic. It’s sturdy enough to be printed or written on with calligraphy (and looks especially great in a monochromatic palette, like black or white) making it a cool, modern solution for envelopes, liners or invitation paper. Work it into your suite for an edgy twist, then carry it throughout the rest of your wedding décor by using it everywhere—think: vellum menus, place cards, ceremony programs, favor tags and confetti bags. It seriously does it all.
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Unique texture can bring a little something extra to even the simplest invitation suite design, and there’s no better way to do that than by choosing a paper style with deckle edges. In manual papermaking, a deckle refers to the removable wood frame used to size the sheet of paper and keep the wet paper materials within the shape. Once pressed and released from the frame, the edge of the paper can be feathered and slightly irregular, resulting in its characteristic torn look. Also popular in old-school bookmaking, deckle edges have become a coveted addition to invitation suites, especially if the couple is looking to infuse their design with a vintage, bespoke charm. Paper featuring deckle edge detailing pairs most naturally with equally organic design accents, like a soft neutral color palette, flowy handwritten calligraphy, hemp or twine bundle ties, and a casual or rustic wedding day venue.
Wax seals For the perfect finishing touch, go old school with a wax seal. Traditionally used to close envelopes and letters before the handy glue strip was commonplace (the practice dates to before medieval times) wax seals are experiencing a renaissance thanks in part to their popularity in wedding invitations. Keep it simple with a traditional fleur-de-lis-style seal or explore the offerings on sites like BacktoZero.co or Stamptitude.com, where you can browse unique options or customize your own styles. With dozens of colors to suit any palette and even more ways to use them, wax stamps are becoming a must for practically any event. Supply your stationer with one featuring your new initials to seal a ribbon onto your invitations, stamp them onto welcome bag tags or invest in several numbers to use them in an unexpected table card display.
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Perfect for romantics at heart, raw silk ribbons are a great way to introduce texture, movement and a dusting of color to any invitation suite. Often seen tied around a stack of materials or used as the binding in wedding programs, silk ribbons add an effortlessly whimsical finishing touch. Sites like StellaWolfe.com, SilkandWillow.com and Tono-Co.MyShopify.com specialize in hand-dyed, raw silk ribbons, which gives the material its signature desaturated colors and fluttery feel. Ask your stationer to work some ribbon into your suite, then carry the finish throughout your wedding by tying ribbons onto your bridal bouquet or looping them around the napkins at place settings. Order an extra spool to hand off to your photographer on the day-of—it’s a great accent to add to those gorgeous flat lay shots you’ll want of your stationery suite.
local spotlight: darling devotion The North Carolina stationer shares what trends are inspiring her, plus advice for to-be-weds. ABOUT THE EXPERT
KEEP IT SIMPLE
GET PERSONAL
SEEK INSPIR ATION
ADD SOME ART
Alexis Deaton is a calligrapher, illustrator and owner of Darling Devotion, based in Charlotte, NC. She specializes in creating inspiring paper goods for weddings and events.
This year, the wedding industry seems to be going with more simple and elegant designs. I’m especially loving the use of watercolor elements, botanical illustrations and simple design details.
It’s important I get to know my couples. I like learning how they met, what they like to do on the weekend and what inspires them. It helps me find direction when creating their design.
The best ideas are usually inspired by the most unlikely things, so I try to keep an open mind at all times. A lot of my designs come from nature, architecture, vintage prints and museums.
I love creating everything, but my favorite has to be the custom illustrations I do of my couples. I can incorporate all the things that make them who they are as a pair, and still put my unique touch on it.
DarlingDevotion.com
@alexis_deaton
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ECLECTIC TABLE GARLAND
Instead of a traditional vessel centerpiece, have your florist create a diverse arrangement of blooms, greenery and fruit that guests can feast their eyes on as they dine. This statement-making version includes cacti, pomegranates, roses, orchids and tropical goodies like lychee, papaya and dragon fruit. Prairie porcelain charger plate, $77, Vista Alegre, JungLeeNY.com; Melamine dinner plate, $10, Lulie Wallace, Anthropologie.com; gilded rim white wine glass, $22, Anthropologie.com; Mykonos satin stitch napkin in Orange, $24, JonathanAdler.com; copper-handled flatware, $40 for 5-piece set, PotteryBarn.com; Josie double old-fashioned glass, $4, CrateandBarrel.com >>
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ROMANTIC HAIR PIECES
Your bridesmaids will feel extra beautiful with bud-covered combs to tuck into their updos. >> CREATED BY POPPIES & POSIES, PoppiesandPosies.com
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Make every lucky guy feel like a VIP with bundles of blooms for them to wear throughout the night. Have a florist create enough for the groomsmen and any standout helpers, like ushers or your officiant. Ribbon, from $8, StellaWolfe.com
CREATED BY TIN CAN STUDIOS, TinCanStudiosBk.com
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MODERN CUFF
Throwing a chic city affair? Swap bridesmaid bouquets for sleek succulent cuffs that have an of-the-moment spin. Extra wide statement cuff, $54, AatelierAndrea, Etsy.com >>
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Attach a swag of blooms and greenery to the backs of your and your partner’s chairs. Guests will know where to find you (if you ever leave the dance floor!). Bonus: If you decide to rock a backless dress, this is a great way to call even more attention to the stunning silhouette. American classic European dining chair in Gold, $123, Commercial Seating Products, Wayfair.com
CREATED BY ÉLAN FLOWERS, ElanFlowers.com
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BOHO ESCORT CARDS
Point guests in the direction of their table with a display of oversize palm leaves, calligraphed with their names. Attach them to a hanging macramé with gold pineapple pins for an escort card display that doubles as décor. Pineapple pin, $18, DanielaSigurd, Etsy.com CALLIGRAPHY BY JESSICA MCSWEENEY, Jessica-McSweeney.com
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Get inspired You’ve spent months tearing pages out of wedding magazines and pinning everything you can find for your wedding décor and dress, but your inspiration hunt shouldn’t stop there. The easiest way to ensure your makeup turns out exactly the way you envision it is by using a reference photo. “Pinterest or bridal magazines and blogs are a perfect place to start,” Lo says. “Finding photos that reflect a bride’s vision is helpful for an artist to fully understand the desired direction for the look.” Take those pictures and file them away for your makeup artist to reference. And if you don’t have a specific image in mind, that’s okay too. Just knowing the shades you’d like to incorporate or the feeling you’d like to evoke can help your makeup artist lock down a look you’ll love.
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Past clients will be able to tell you everything their portfolio can’t, like how they interacted while they worked and if they are punctual and easy to work with and have a positive attitude. “Having trust in your makeup artist is key,” Lo says. “It’s okay if you don’t know exactly what look you’re going for. But if you’re not working with specific inspiration images, it is important to trust that the makeup artist you’re working with can create something you’ll love.”
Schedule your makeup trial
The ideal time to schedule your trial is around the time of day your actual wedding will be. If your ceremony is in the morning, have your trial early—that way you can see how the makeup looks in different lighting throughout the day. Take photos from different angles as well, and pay attention to how your skin reacts to the products. Is your mascara flaking? Does your skin feel irritated or greasy from the foundation? >>
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You should book your makeup trial immediately after you send your makeup artist your inspiration photos. You’ll want to know early on if the makeup artist you chose is the right fit and if the look you’ve been envisioning will work for you. “Bring inspirational photos of hair and makeup that you like as well as photos of yourself that you like,” Lo says. But remember, your inspiration photo should be just that— inspiration. Be open to suggestions from your makeup artist, especially if you don’t have specific images to reference. They can guide you to a look that complements everything from your features to your wedding color scheme. Other essentials for your makeup trial? “Makeup products you love wearing on a daily basis and a lipstick that you are looking to incorporate into the look,” Lo says.
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Has your concealer disappeared? You want your makeup to be picture perfect, so don’t be afraid to voice all your concerns to your makeup artist—now is the time to do so. “Communication is extremely important,” Lo says. “You’re spending a lot of money for a trial. Don’t feel bad about speaking up about what you like and dislike. An artist can’t read your mind, but their top priority is making sure you leave looking fabulous and feeling totally happy.” If you don’t like your look after the trial, contact the artist or a representative from their company. Frequently, a company will offer a complementary or discounted second trial. Also, it’s a good idea to time your makeup trial. This way, you’ll have an estimate of how long it will take on the actual wedding day so you can plan accordingly. While you’re there, discuss wedding day logistics. If you’re traveling to your makeup artist, budget extra time. If they’re coming to you, make sure they have a clean space with surfaces to lay out their products and tools, as well as access to multiple outlets and (if possible) natural lighting.
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On the day of your wedding, you should be as relaxed as possible—so leave plenty of time to get ready before the ceremony since it usually takes two to three hours to complete a bride’s hair and makeup. And keep in mind: If the makeup artist is also working with your bridal party, depending on the size of the party, she’ll need at least an additional two hours for their looks. If possible, it’s best to hire another person for your party or hire a makeup artist that has an assistant or a team that can work on all of you at the same time. If the same pro is working on both you and your bridesmaids, go last so you’ll look fresh in photos. G E T M O R E E X P E RT A DV I C E AT TheKnot.com/beauty
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10 things bridal consultants want you to know
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From your first shopping trip to your final fitting, here’s what the pros want you to consider before you hit the salon. >> BY SHELLEY BROWN PHOTOGR APH BY ERIC KELLEY
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Always book an appointment While you may get lucky and snag a salesperson just by walking in, scheduling an appointment is the only way to ensure you’ll get a full hour of undivided attention. Also, plan to play hooky to avoid crowds. Going in on a weekday will allow you to hit the stores while crowds are at a minimum. You’ll get much more attention from the sales staff if you shop on a slow Tuesday morning rather than a hectic Saturday afternoon.
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Do your research Before you start shopping, think about what style you want. Consider your venue and body type to narrow that down. Then look through pictures of wedding dresses online and in magazines, and save the styles you like. The Wedding Lookbook by The Knot app (free, iTunes.com) is a great place to begin—you can search thousands of gowns by style and price, and if you find a few you want to try on, you can see which local salons carry your favorites.
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Hidden costs add up Your wedding gown budget includes more than the dress. Your veil or headpiece, shoes, jewelry, undergarments and alterations (and in some cases, steaming and storing your dress) will also add to your bottom line. Factor in these costs before you give the salesperson your final shopping budget.
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Make requests Just because a bridal salon carries your favorite designer doesn’t mean it will have the exact wedding dress you’ve been wanting to try on. But if you phone in advance and request a specific style, chances are that a salon staffer will be able to call in a sample of that gown ahead of your appointment. >>
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Shop early Take note: A designer wedding gown is custom made to your measurements. It will take months of work to create and a series of alterations to fit your body perfectly. In other words, it’s not the kind of garment you can toss into an online shopping cart and have show up on your doorstep two days later—which is why you should go to a bridal salon to shop for your gown. Book your first appointment 12 to 9 months before your wedding date. (Some designers can accommodate orders in six months or less, but even then, you’re cutting it close.) If you’re shopping closer to your wedding, you may be limited to samples or off-the-rack gowns. And smaller stores may not be able to accommodate last-minute orders.
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After you nail down your venue and wedding date, start gown shopping. A nine-month buffer before your wedding will give you time to find the dress and accessories you love— without any pressure.
Keep in mind that after purchasing your dress, you’ll usually have to wait a minimum of four months for it to be custom made. Once it arrives in store, it can take one to three months for alterations.
The problem with ordering a dress online is not being able to see the quality or fit firsthand. Gowns look very different in photos than they do up close and in person, which can be a huge disadvantage.
Fittings will vary from bride to bride. If you require minimal alterations, only one or two fittings may be necessary. More complicated changes could require up to six.
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Shop for your shape When trying on dresses, focus less on the number on the scale and more on the general shape and frame of your body. Your weight may be constantly fluctuating, especially if you’re stressed out, so don’t let that be the deciding factor in choosing your dress. Concentrate on finding a silhouette that accentuates the features you love and makes you feel confident. Limit your entourage You may be tempted to invite all your friends and family to help you shop for your gown, but bringing a big group to the salon is a gown shopping don’t. Enlist one or two of your closest friends or family members to help you start your search. This way you can find the gown that best suits you and your style and not feel pressured by too many conflicting opinions.
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Trust is key Even if a gown doesn’t look amazing on the hanger, that doesn’t necessarily mean it won’t look amazing on you. Be open to what an experienced consultant thinks will flatter your figure and work with your wedding style (after all, they’ve done this before). Bottom line: The dress you end up loving might be different than what you originally pictured, and that’s okay.
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Don’t get discouraged There are hundreds of bridal designers out there with thousands of designs, which makes your odds of finding a fantastic gown pretty darn good. We know that coming up empty-handed on your first trip can be a letdown, but don’t give up. “The one” for you is definitely out there.
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You’re paying for an experience While shopping online for your dress may seem like the more convenient option, visiting a bridal salon is a once-in-alifetime experience with numerous benefits of its own. For starters, you’ll get face-to-face interaction with a wedding dress expert to help guide you, taking the guesswork out of finding your perfect size and silhouette. Additionally, you have the opportunity to touch and feel the dresses you’re considering, so you know exactly what you’re paying for. Trust us, while dress photos may look dreamy online, there’s a huge difference between high-quality fabrics and embellishments and low-quality ones in person. Practical aspects aside, your salon appointment is first and foremost a special moment. It’s a chance to celebrate your upcoming nuptials, sip bubbly with the people you love and enjoy accomplishing a huge moment in your wedding planning process.
ways to customize your dress Wedding dresses certainly aren’t one style fits all. On a day when all eyes are on you, opt for a dress that perfectly reflects your personal style.
Add sleeves
Fell in love with a strapless dress but looking for more coverage or support? Ask your stylist about adding sleeves or straps. Most gowns can be customized with cap sleeves or straps, and many silhouettes can even be altered with long sleeves. Bonus: They’re on trend. Or if you’re looking for a less permanent option that you can switch out between ceremony and reception, consider a jacket or capelet.
Customize your bustle
Every dress with a train needs a bustle, but not many brides know that each bustle is custom made to suit the gown. These tricky systems of hooks, buttons and ties are designed to pull your train off the floor, and they need to be carefully sewn in a pattern that works with each individual silhouette.
Modify embellishments
You might feel like your dress could use a little more, or even a little less, embellishment. See how much control you have over the existing details on your dress—can you add more to or remove from certain areas?
Lace it up
Swapping out a zipper for a corset closure adds a romantic finishing touch for brides looking for a dramatic back. But a corset-style closure isn’t only for looks. If you think you might need extra breathing room, a lace-up back gives you some leeway.
Make it personal
Find a creative way to incorporate “something old, new, borrowed or blue.” Stitch your loved one’s initials in blue inside your bodice, close to your heart, or sew a charm with a special meaning into the hem.
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You’ve heard this line: “The best part is—you can totally wear this dress again.” So have your bridesmaids, but they may not be easily convinced. How can you really keep your girls looking and feeling fabulous? Here, bridesmaid dress rules for a happy, confident bridal party. >> PHOTOGR APH BY EMILY DEL AMATER PHOTOGR APHY
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Let them pick the dress Just hear us out on this one. Letting each bridesmaid choose her own dress proves you want everyone to look their best and shows you trust their fashion sense. The trick to getting this mismatched look right is setting some guidelines (think: color, fabric and formality) so your whole bridal party still looks cohesive. It’s even okay to create a list of don’ts with requests like no dresses with miniskirts, sky-high slits or super-plunging necklines.
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There are obvious reasons why black dresses will keep major complaints at bay: Black is flattering on all types of figures, black dresses look great in both long and short lengths (who couldn’t use another LBD?) and classic black will never go out of style. And if your wedding has a more formal vibe, black dresses can give your besties an instantly polished look.
Like wedding gowns, bridesmaid dresses don’t run true to size and are usually ordered using the largest measurement as a guide. Chances are, your bridesmaids will end up with dresses that are a size or two larger than what they normally wear. Depending on the dress and the body types in your bridal party, alterations can cost anywhere from about $30 (for a simple hem) to about $150 (taking in, hemming, adding straps). Suddenly, a small price tag becomes a small fortune. Choosing a knee-length style will eliminate the need for at least one alteration: hemming. Also, opting for a simpler fabric, like chiffon or jersey, and skipping intricate lacy or allover beaded styles will make for less expensive alterations. The more elaborate the design or silhouette of the dress, the more expensive it will be to change. >>
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trends to try When it comes to bridal party fashion, there are no rules. Try one of these fresh ideas.
Mismatched Pull off this popular look by choosing one color or a palette and letting your girls pick their dress style. Just make sure you give them guidelines (specify formality and fabrics) so your bridesmaids still look cohesive.
Ombré Get in on this pretty trend by choosing a color (like green), and assigning each of your bridesmaids a different shade in the same family (think: hunter green, emerald green and mint) for an ombré effect.
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Metallics Similar to the embellished bridesmaid dress trend, this style is perfect for a more formal affair. Go bold with gold and silver or more subtle with rose gold or champagne.
All white Take a cue from celebs like Solange Knowles and opt for all-white dresses in a variety of styles. And don’t worry, even if your girls are also wearing white, you’ll still stand out as the bride.
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If any of your friends have been in a bridal party before, they’re bound to know bridesmaids generally pay for their own dresses. But a gentle reminder is never a bad idea. When it comes to price, try to be considerate of your friends’ lifestyles. If you’re concerned your wedding might be a financial burden for one or more of your bridesmaids, focus your search on dresses in a more affordable price range, or select a color you like and let them pick a style off the rack that won’t require a lot of alterations. If you do fall in love with a pricey gown, offer to pay for your girls’ hair and makeup or alterations (if it’s within your budget) or allow them to opt out of getting you a wedding or shower gift. Another idea: Take a cue from the guys and consider having your bridesmaids rent dresses. Rental sites like Vow to Be Chic (VowtoBeChic.com) and Rent the Runway (RenttheRunway.com) let your girls choose from gowns by popular designers (like Monique Lhuillier and Jenny Yoo) in a range of styles and colors—for a fraction of the cost.
Here’s the deal: Your girls don’t want to steal the show, but they do want to look their best. They’ll be standing in front of a large audience, and they’ll be in lots of photos (and probably in many #tbt posts for years to come) too. The best way to prove that you respect their feelings is by trying on the bridesmaid dress to see how it looks and feels. Does it flatter your body type? Is the fabric itchy? Does it pinch or cut under the arms? If there are any issues, move on. When you find one that you’d honestly love to wear yourself, you’ll have no problem persuading your friends to get on board.
Schedule a shopping trip Our best formula for a complaint-free shopping spree? Make it a whole day of fun. Your first stop: the beauty salon. Get all your bridesmaids together for mani-pedis (bonus points if you’re treating) and some pampering. Next up: ladies’ lunch. Choose a restaurant with light dishes that won’t leave your friends feeling too full or bloated. But don’t skip the mimosas—relaxed bridesmaids are more likely to fall in love with your dress choice. And finally: the bridal salon. Do everyone a favor and pick your favorite styles ahead of time so your friends won’t feel at liberty to try on the whole store. Then let your ladies put on a fashion show for a fun selection process.
get personal By letting your bridesmaids select their own jewelry and accessories, you’re encouraging them to express their personalities.
Choose something comfortable We’re aware the term “comfortable” can be somewhat subjective (to your bustier friends, strapless dresses are irritating, but to your smaller-chested pals, thick straps feel overwhelming), but who can argue with the idea of slipping into a frock made of soft, itch-free fabric like jersey? Or an empire-waist gown that’s easy on the tummy and waistline? Bring on the wedding cake and the dancing, please!
Have them bring the baubles By letting your bridesmaids select their own jewelry, you’re encouraging them to express their personalities (and their personalities are the reason you chose them to be your bridesmaids in the first place, right?).
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Let’s be honest: It’s going to be tough to make everyone in your group happy. If one of your friends balks at the bridesmaid dress you chose, do your best to channel your inner bridechilla—and not your inner bridezilla—when it comes to hearing her concerns and exploring other options. Maybe the dress silhouette doesn’t work for her body type, the scoop neckline makes her feel self-conscious or the color isn’t flattering to her skin tone. Try to be understanding and see if there is room for compromise. Even if you just agree to disagree, an honest conversation can usually snuff out dress drama before it gets out of hand.
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Insisting everyone purchase a particular pair of silver strappy sandals may feel like the perfect finishing touch to you, but to your bridesmaids, it simply creates yet another expense—especially if you have your heart set on a high-end designer. And like the dress, it’s unlikely they’ll want to wear the shoes again. Most of your friends probably already have a pair of black, nude or metallic dress shoes that they’d be thrilled to reuse. Another bonus: Sporting a pair of their own shoes means a night of blister-free fun on the dance floor.
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LADY OF THE LAKE For a look that’s both polished and fashion forward, top off a classic tulle ball gown with a gauzy, shoulder-baring shrug. Dress, $7,700, Sabrina Dahan at Betty Bridal Atelier, BettyBridal Atelier.com (Charleston, SC); earrings, $7,600, EricaCourtney.com
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Express your personal style in a sequined, watercolor-print gown with an oversize shoulder ruffle. Dress, $6,600, Rivini at Nitsa’s Apparel, Nitsas .com (Winston-Salem, NC); engagement ring, $2,850 (not including center stone), Monique Lhuillier, BlueNile.com; earrings, $15,920, FernandoJorge.co.uk; shoes, $1,495, ChristianLouboutin.com
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INTO THE BLUE Float down the aisle in a flowy nude gown embroidered with cerulean beading.
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PROPORTION PLAY A slim, dropped-waist corset and over-the-top tulle skirt create a striking silhouette that’s as fun as it is dramatic.
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GILT-Y PLEASURE Glittery statement accessories like an embellished headpiece, chandelier earrings and even a hedgehog clutch give off instant glam vibes.
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BLOOMING BAUBLES Layer on whimsical cocktail rings, plus a one-of-a-kind straw boater hat to dress up a simpler frock. Dress, $6,790, Ines Di Santo, MarkIngramAtelier.com; floral engagement ring, $5,700 (not including center stone), ParadeDesign.com; wedding band, $1,570, KirkKara.com; frog ring, $3,510, butterfly ring, $5,400, EffyJewelry.com; pearl ring, $2,750, VictoriaSix.com; quartz ring, $4,097, Le Vian, Jared.com; pink sapphire ring, $6,335, AnneSisteron.com; hat, $603, AwonGolding.com
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NOVEL ROMANCE You don’t have to go by the book where your day-of ensemble is concerned. Mix it up with allover 3-D appliqués and colorful accessories.
Dress, $2,995, Marchesa Notte, Marchesa .com; engagement ring, $5,225 (not including center stone), CoastDiamond.com; earrings, $345, OscardelaRenta.com; flower hairpins, $85 each, BijouVanNess.com; shoes, $540, SophiaWebster.com ON HIM Suit, $549, BlackLapel.com; shirt, $168, tie, $85, Bonobos.com
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HAUTEHOUSE FLOWERS
A dress covered in vibrant blooms is bold and totally of the moment. Just add a sparkly rabbit clutch for good luck. Dress, $11,995, Naeem Khan, Bergdorf Goodman.com; engagement ring, $1,070 (not including center stone), wedding band, $575, BlueNile.com; birdcage veil, $150, BijouVanNess.com; earrings, $1,827, AnabelaChan.com; clutch, $5,495, Judith Leiber, NeimanMarcus .com; shoes, $995, Marchesa, AKHStudioNY.com
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HIDE AND CHIC
Channel the celebratory vibe of your nuptials with a feathery gown and bedazzled bandeau veil. After all, it doesn’t get more festive than wispy plumes and head-to-toe shimmer. Dress, price upon request, Mira Zwillinger at Betty Bridal Atelier, BettyBridal Atelier.com (Charleston, SC); veil, $995, LivHart.com; ON HIM Suit, $549, BlackLapel.com; shirt, $168, tie, $68, Bonobos.com; bunny ears, stylist’s own
SPECIAL THANKS TO
Ladew Topiary Gardens Planning your own extraordinary outdoor nuptials? Consider Ladew Topiary Gardens, located near Baltimore. Established in the 1930s by huntsman and socialite Harvey S. Ladew, the sprawling 22-acre grounds feature over 100 larger-than-life topiaries, which serve as centerpieces for a series of formal garden “rooms.” Named “The Most Outstanding Topiary Garden in America” by the Garden Club of America, Ladew’s stunning greens host around 40,000 visitors per year. FOR MORE INFORMATION VISIT LadewGardens.com
FASHION STYLING Shelley Brown HAIR Alberto Guzman for Bumble & Bumble at Ray Brown Pro MAKEUP Georgina Billington for By Terry Cosmetics at Judy Casey Inc. PROP STYLING Frederique Stephanie, The Pop Up House
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REAL WEDDINGS
SOUTH CAROLINA
The Palmetto State’s distinct Lowcountry cuisine, natural beauty and refined culture inspired these couples to host beautiful affairs from Marietta to Charleston.
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Loose greenery and crystal strands hung from string lights above the dinner tables.
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Eucalyptus garlands greeted guests as they entered the ceremony space, and large oak trees dripping in Spanish moss acted as a natural backdrop for the couple’s vows.
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BRIDE Yasmine Hussein, 37, a vice president GROOM John Hernandez, 44, a vice president HOW THEY MET As friends, but started their romance after John sent Yasmine a Facebook message WEDDING STYLE The two planned a bohemianinspired wedding indicative of all their favorite memories and experiences. —Juliette Cheatham The couple put a twist on their nuptials, creating a “modern, nontraditional Muslim” ceremony by remixing an Arabic song for their entrance and reading a passage from Kahlil Gibran’s The Prophet. Instead of escort cards, a bookshelf sat at the entrance to where guests found hand-calligraphed book covers inscribed with their name and table number. “Anyone that knows John understands his love for books and reading, so we wanted to incorporate that during the day,” Yasmine says.
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Gold dusted berries and fresh flowers accented the buttercream cake.
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Place settings included blue and white chinoiserie chargers topped with mixed-pattern Spanish tiles wrapped in paper belly band denoting their names. The tiled place cards represented the couple’s Puerto Rican home and doubled as favors along with pouches of almonds, a nod to Yasmine’s Lebanese background.
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YASMINE & JOHN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE PHOTOGRAPHY Greg Finck PLANNER
Lindsey S. Boyce/A Charleston Bride FLOWERS Palmetto Bloom
Muhammad Eissa
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“I wanted an outdoor wedding where you arrived and felt like you were just breathing happiness,” Yasmine says. For dinner, the pair served dishes that fused their heritages with Charleston fare, including “fawaffles,” waffle-shaped falafel with a yogurt garnish, and dulce de leche bread pudding.
VIDEOGRAPHY Life In Rewind
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GOWN Temperley London,
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HAIR Meg
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HEADPIECE Sara Gabriel, Saks Fifth
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SHOES Badgley Mischka
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Laurie
Sarah Designs Zegna
MENSWEAR Ermenegildo
STATIONERY Invitations: Print Chas;
escort/place cards, programs & menus: Sweet Magnolia Paper; save-the-dates: Rhian Awni RENTALS La Tavola Fine Linen; Nüage Designs;
OOH! Events; Snyder
CATERING Cru Catering
CAKE WildFlour Pastry
MUSIC Ceremony:
DJ Natty Heavy; Seth G.; reception: Poncho Grammy Award– winner Poncho Sanchez and his band performed Latin jazz for the reception.
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TRANSPORTATION Charleston Style
Limo; Lowcountry Valet; Marquee Limo Co. REGISTRIES Anthropologie; Williams Sonoma HONEYMOON Canvas Travel Co. GUESTS 110 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)
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• MARIETTA, SC
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Melissa’s two-piece gown included beaded floral embellishments, which she paired with a cathedrallength veil.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Melissa Kronthal, 30, a special education teacher GROOM Aaron Salsbury, 30, director of partner strategy HOW THEY MET During their freshman year at Bucknell University WEDDING STYLE The duo hosted an elegant fall wedding at the barn, cabin and mountainside Glassy Chapel of The Cliffs. —JC The décor inside the stone chapel was kept to simple garlands of fresh greenery so the cliffside view could take center stage. “I wanted the feeling of A Midsummer Night’s Dream in autumn,” the bride says. Since guests stayed in nearby Greenville, the couple transported them by bus with a sweet surprise: “We played the movie Father of the Bride and provided flavored popcorn,” Melissa adds.
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Draped linens and hanging greenery in the barn evoked the Shakespearean vision the bride imagined. Place settings included gold chargers and mismatched glassware to add a sense of whimsy. “I couldn’t have been any happier with the flowers,” Melissa says. “They were out-of-this-world stunning. It felt magical.”
Melissa’s love of William Shakespeare comes from performing in her elementary school plays.
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Perfect Moments deserve the perfect setting.
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Belfair | Bluffton, SC | (843) 706-4633 | belfair1811.com Oaks photograph by Landon Jacob
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After dinner, guests enjoyed a coffee bar with toppings like homemade marshmallows.
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Thoughtful “get cozy” scarves were offered to help guests combat the chilly November mountain air. Plush gold velvet seating surrounded by a large hanging installation filled with greenery and purple flowers created an intimate area to sit back and enjoy the cozy soiree—or take time for a quick photo opp.
MELISSA & AARON’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Glassy Mountain Chapel,
Landrum, SC RECEPTION SITE The Barn at Mountain Park, Marietta, SC PHOTOGRAPHY Cheyenne and Geoff
Schultz/Cheyenne Schultz Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Life Stage Films PLANNER Tara Jordan/Weddings with Tara FLOWERS The Bloom Room
Tim Wiles
OFFICIANT
VEIL Mira Zwillinger,
GOWN &
Neiman Marcus, Short Hills, NJ
HAIR Emily
Anne Hair MAKEUP Wendy Ballance/Blush Asheville
SHOES Christian Louboutin
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS
Wedding Bands & Co.
BRIDESMAID
DRESSES Hayley Paige, Bella Bridesmaids MENSWEAR Various
Momental Designs
STATIONERY
RENTALS Party Tables
CATERING & DESSERTS The Cliffs at
Mountain Park
CAKE Buttercream Bakehouse
MUSIC Ceremony: Café String Quartet;
cocktail hour: Unspoken Tradition; reception: Party on the Moon Elite Limousine
TRANSPORTATION ACCOMMODATIONS
Hotel Domestique
HONEYMOON
Bora Bora, Tahiti; New Zealand GUESTS 150 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)
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— Forevermore Farm — HOME OF...
The Barn
135 WALDON ROAD, MOORE, SC 29369 • 864-707-5655 • THEBARNATFOREVERMOREFARM.COM For an experience that you and your guests will never forget, The Barn at Forevermore Farm in Moore, South Carolina, hosts special events in an alluring 1934 gambrel-style barn. With a classic barn fit for events surrounded by meadows and natural beauty, our location is perfect for hosting elegant wedding ceremonies. Rustic and hand-built.
The Stables 140 WALDON ROAD, MOORE, SC 29369 • 864-707-5655 • THEBARNATFOREVERMOREFARM.COM The Stables at Forevermore Farm is a new state-of-the-art horse barn specifically designed for weddings, family reunions, corporate parties, and many other events.
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“My bouquet was probably my best accessory—it really made my dress look fabulous,” Nicole says of her peonies.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Nicole Smith, 37, works in public affairs GROOM Carlton Boyd, 36, a health care professional HOW THEY MET In a leadership class at their local chamber of commerce WEDDING STYLE Nicole and Carlton said “I do” in the manicured gardens of the South Carolina Governor’s Mansion. Shimmering rose gold décor with pops of fuschia kept their outdoor wedding feeling chic and elegant. —JC “We got married directly across from the building where we first met,” Nicole says. Rose petals dotted the aisle, and candles were scattered around the floral-draped altar and fountain backdrop for the ceremony. To evoke an ethereal air in the gardens, centerpieces featured an ombré arrangement of flowers, including roses and hydrangeas.
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All three bridesmaid wore sequin metallic dresses—“I think that color looks great on all skin tones,” Nicole says—and the invitation suite featured glittery lining and rose-gold foil lettering.
“My makeup was low-key glamour, not too much, but just enough to make me look flawless,” Nicole says.
NICOLE & CARLTON’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTIONSITE
The Lace House Memorial Garden, Columbia, SC
PHOTOGRAPHY
Joshua Aaron Photography VIDEOGRAPHY ClearVision
Media Only
PLANNER By Invitation FLOWERS Something
Special Florist
OFFICIANT Dr. Will
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GOWN
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ANGEL RUFF PHOTOGRAPHY
ANGEL RUFF PHOTOGRAPHY
Enter the building through 10-ft. French oak double doors
from the 1800s French Carriage House to a 5,000-sq.-ft. venue facing a 30-ft. wall of glass on a 180-acre gated estate, along a serene 20-acre lake. Indoor/outdoor venue accommodates seating for 375
with Caterers’ Kitchen, Bridal Suite, Groom’s Room and Limestone Fireplace. Ceremony Reception Rehearsal Dinner Wedding Brunch Engagement Party Bridal Shower The Oaks Wedding and Event Venue 325 Huitt Road Anderson, South Carolina 29626 (864) 293-3606 | theoaksweddingvenue@gmail.com www.TheOaksWeddingVenue.com
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“I made the first move, totally smitten with his dapper attire and warm persona,” Jennifer says of the day she met Clay.
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Invitations included a watercolor painting of the venue and custom-made, pineapple-shaped wax seals in pink, pale blue and gold.
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Jennifer made a statement with a single large king protea in her garden-style bouquet of cascading florals.
JENNIFER & CLAY’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Sacred Heart Catholic
Church, Charleston, SC RECEPTION SITE The Gadsden House, Charleston, SC PHOTOGRAPHY Faith Teasley Photography PLANNER Koches Koncierge; month-of
coordinator: Bouquets & Bowties Purple Magnolia Floral Design Thomas Miles
FLOWERS
OFFICIANT Fr.
GOWN Pronovias, Amanda
Ritchey Bridal & Beauty, Baltimore MAKEUP Lashes and Lace
Bridal
SHOES Ted Baker
HAIR &
VEIL David’s ENGAGEMENT
RING Mozaffarian Jewelry JEWELRY Bracelet: J.
Crew
BRIDESMAID DRESSES Anthropologie
MENSWEAR The Black Tux
STATIONERY
DIY; illustrations: Caitlin Smith/The Fox and Bloom
RENTALS BBJ Linen; EventHaus;
Lowcountry Entertainment; OOH! Events; Polished; Snyder Events
CATERING Hamby Catering &
CAKE Whole Foods Market DESSERTS
Pure Fluff Co.; Wheely Good Ice Cream
MUSIC
Ceremony: Ear for Music; cocktail hour: Jake Cummings; reception: DJ RDOT TRANSPORTATION Lowcountry Valet ACCOMMODATIONS Hyatt House Charleston
To honor Jennifer’s Persian heritage, the couple included a sofreh aghd, a display of symbolic items including a mirror, spices, fruit, coins and a holy book, which represent a couple’s new life together. “My dad traveled all the way to the Middle East to buy the authentic items,” Jennifer says.
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REGISTRY Zola.com
HONEYMOON Spain
GUESTS 105 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)
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HISTORIC CHARLESTON’S MOST SPECTACULAR WATERFRONT VENUE
GOOD FOOD CATERING FULL SERVICE CATERING AT OUR VENUE OR YOURS
GOODFOODCATERING.NET • 17 LOCKWOOD DRIVE, CHARLESTON, SC • 843.723.7952 • HISTORICRICEMILL.NET
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how to throw a beach wedding Celebrate your love among all things sun, sand and surf. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APHY BY BR ANDON KIDD PHOTOGR APHY
Exchanging vows on a sandy beach is a dream scenario for many couples, and with good reason—you just can’t beat the romantic charm of waves crashing, the sun setting and a soft summer breeze blowing. But, like with any venue, there’s plenty to consider when planning your celebration (possibly even more for beach “I dos”). Keep these points top of mind to ensure a memorable event. >>
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Ask for permission in advance
Think about vendor access
If you’re hoping to pull off a pop-up wedding on a public beach, think again. Unless you’re getting married on a private spot of sand or beach club property, there are several boxes you’ll need to check off before setting down your altar. You’re most likely going to have to file a permit with the city in order to celebrate on the beach. Register your event at least 30 days ahead of time. When filing, take note of a few things: How large of a space does your permit allow your event to take up? Does the fee cover an all-day affair or is it an hourly charge? Are things like furniture, alcohol, glass and open flames allowed? Lastly, inquire how many guests the contract permits, as that will dictate both the size of your guest list and how many pros you can have on hand the day of.
A vows-only ceremony on the beach should be fairly headache free, but if your plan is to host an all-night affair, complete with a full reception, you’ll want to give a lot of thought to your vendors and how easily they can access your chosen spot. Most beaches don’t permit vehicles on the sand, meaning all of your reception needs (including tables, chairs and food) will have to be carried to your site. Ease your pros’ stress by keeping your setup close to an approved parking lot or loading zone, which can also make necessities like electricity, a food prep space and a spot for portable rental restrooms much easier to come by. If you really can’t make it work, look into renting several dune buggies day of to help transport goods and keep the setup process streamlined. >>
time it right Here’s how to pick the perfect day to walk down the aisle.
Symbolism
How romantic would it be to marry on the date you met or your grandparents’ anniversary? If you have a special day for you and your partner, search for venues with that in mind.
Season
Weather can affect your wedding’s style, location and mood. Think of what personality you want your day to have (like a boho summer bash), then choose accordingly.
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May, July and December are typically the most popular months to marry, so prices are higher. Save money by choosing off-peak months like January or March.
VIP preferences
Take a second to consider your most important guests and try to plan your date around their availability. Keep it to your close inner circle, and don’t budge once the date is set.
Holidays
Choose a date around a specific holiday to bottle the spirit already in the air, like a moody Halloween celebration or white winter wonderland event in December.
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Charleston’s Ultimate Waterfront Destination “One of the Best New Hotels in the World.” - Fodor’s Travel
Charleston Harbor Resort & Marina
20 Patriots Point Road. Mount Pleasant, SC 29464 843.856.0028 CharlestonHarborResort.com CharlestonHarborResort CHSResort CharlestonHarborResort
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Dress the part
Choose durable décor
You’ll want to keep the vibe of your location in mind when shopping for your and your partner’s attire. What may be well suited for a ballroom affair will likely feel out of place on the beach, so opt for lightweight fabrics, casual silhouettes and, most importantly, practical footwear. No one wants to watch you wobble down the aisle trying to un-stick your stilettos from the sand. Likewise, alert guests to the location on your wedding website and in your invites so they can plan accordingly. Have extras like sunscreen, flip-flops and lightweight wraps available the day of to make sure guests remain comfortable all day long.
A coastal location comes with at-the-ready décor courtesy of Mother Nature, so you won’t have to add much to the scene for a wow-worthy environment. If you’re looking to bring in a few accents of your own, like flowers, lanterns or textiles, make sure to choose sturdier options that can stand up to wind, hot sun and the occasional spray of saltwater. Avoid bouquets or table arrangements that feature delicate blooms, and anchor anything that could take flight with a sudden gust of wind, like the fabric on a chuppah, an aisle runner or flowing tabletop linens.
Mind Mother Nature
Between potential sun-bathing crowds, crashing waves and blustery winds, it can get a bit loud while celebrating your wedding beachside. Make sure guests can hear your vows (and afterward, the DJ) with plenty of amplifying speakers. Your ceremony should be spoken into a microphone, and you can even seat guests in a semicircle around your altar to ensure that no one is out of earshot. If you’re hiring a videographer to capture the day, make sure they know ahead of time that they’ll be filming on the beach so they can bring the necessary sound equipment. Lastly, be sure to abide by any local sound ordinances or curfews. >>
It goes without saying that any outdoor bash should always come with a plan B in case the weather takes a turn for the worst. But besides accounting for the possibility of showers, you’ll also need to plan for a few sea-specific snafus. Unless you want a soggy ceremony, make sure you know when high (and low) tide hits your area, as well as when the sun is strongest throughout the day. By timing your ceremony and reception right, you can avoid the possibility of overheated guests or bright reflections off the waves that make it hard for loved ones to see the main event.
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Celebrate
YOUR DAY
on Hilton Head Island
Port Royal Golf Club Weddings Receptions Rehearsals Private Events & More! The Lowcountry provides the perfect backdrop for your wedding day. Our elegant clubhouse, pristine beach, and award winning chef will exceed your expectations.
843 . 681 . 1747
www.hiltonheadgolf.net/weddings Port Royal Golf Club | 10 Clubhouse Drive | Hilton Head Island, SC
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Level the playing field Anyone who has been on the beach can tell you, walking on soft sand is tiring. To avoid burning calves and tired legs, work with a vendor to install wooden planks to help guests get from one spot to another (thick seagrass runners are a great inexpensive option too). If you’re planning to host your reception on the sand, look into having a large wood platform on risers as your “flooring”—it will ensure tables and chairs are sturdy and don’t topple over.
Choose an experienced crew Vendor research is super important when planning a celebration in a complicated location. Vet pros based on whether or not they’ve worked in a beach environment before. Your photographer will need to know how to contend with the bright lighting and any reflections off the water, while your catering crew may need to know how to prepare food off-site without a traditional kitchen.
bottle the beach
Prepare to share your space
Add warmth and texture to a tablescape or altar with twisty, weathered driftwood branches. They’ll instantly evoke a coastal feel and are hearty enough to stand up to the blustery winds common on the beach. Intersperse them with white blooms for a romantic touch.
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If seclusion is your expectation, you’re better off choosing a private garden or quiet lake. A public beach may be teeming with patrons, and there’s not much you can do to stop them from placing their towels nearby or snapping photos of you in your wedding finery. You can try to keep a handle on the crowd by hanging signs that read “private event,” but you may have to accept onlookers.
Whether you’re actually tying the knot on the sand or just want it to feel like you are, try working in some of these stunning seaside accents.
Driftwood
Sea fan coral
Linen
Pampas grass
The quintessential summer fabric is the perfect casual touch for your attire and décor. Have members of your wedding party rock relaxed linen shirts or dresses, or drape tables with flowing tablecloths.
Shells
Often found in sun-washed pastel hues or bleached white, sea fan coral is a great way to add dimension to your tabletop. Or find an especially clean piece and top your cake with it. You could also have your cake baker re-create the shape and design with sugar.
Thanks to its fluffy, flowy shape and sandy hue, pampas grass is the perfect “living” accent to a seaside soiree. Have bridesmaids carry it in place of traditional bouquets, or surround your altar with it for an eye-catching display.
Keep things modern and chic by trading craft store white shells for more dynamic mussel or oyster shells. Add them to a greenery table runner or have them calligraphed and use them as escort cards. I N S P I R E YO U R D É CO R AT TheKnot.com/weddingstyle
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Y our perfect day begins with an unforgettable destination.
PHOTO COURTESY OF DANA CUBBAGE WEDDINGS
A world-renowned destination, The Sea Pines Resort is situated on the Atlantic Ocean and is surrounded by the stunning landscape of the South Carolina Lowcountry. Boasting beautiful beaches and brand-new one-of-a-kind wedding venues, The Sea Pines Resort offers a new beach club, the area’s top-rated restaurants on TripAdvisor and the island’s only four-star accommodations. Let our experienced wedding professionals help you create your perfect day and memories that will last a lifetime.
Plantation Golf Club
Sea Pines Beach Club
HILTON HEAD ISLAND, SC
Harbour Town Clubhouse
Contact Wedding Sales Manager Ann Goodman at (843) 842-1495 or agoodman@seapines.com. VIEW BRIDAL GALLERIES AT SEAPINES.COM/WEDDINGS
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planner perks Still debating whether or not to hire an expert to help execute your wedding? Here’s why you should say “I do” to a party pro. BY AMY ROBERTSON PHOTOGR APHY BY KOBY BROWN, ARCHET YPE
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You may have helped a friend plan her day or spent hours on Pinterest creating your dream wedding board, but that doesn’t mean you should tackle your affair solo. Between booking vendors, working a full-time job and maintaining your relationship, pulling together a wedding can be a lot of work for even the most organized to-be-weds. Hiring a pro can take a huge weight off you and your partner, leaving you time to enjoy the process without the stress.
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Wedding planner 101 Trust us—planning a wedding, whether you’re expecting 50 or 150 guests, requires a lot more than just picking out pretty flowers or tabletop décor. A wedding planner essentially juggles the roles of designer, legal counsel, budget manager, coordinator and therapist—all while helping you pull together your wedding. They can be tapped to take care of everything on your to-do list, from choosing aesthetic details to going over vendor contracts and dealing with day-of emergencies—a huge asset for busy couples hoping to plan their day with minimal stress. They’re clued into everything there is to know about throwing a wedding, and all that comes along with such an emotionally charged event, so you’ll be in good hands whether your issue is bouquets or overbearing in-laws. Plus, they’re connected with top venues and pros in your area, ensuring you have the best team of experts to pull off your celebration. Simply put, an experienced planner is one of the key investments you can make when bringing your day to life.
Determine your needs
Planners have connections with top venues and experts in your area, helping you to assemble the best team for the type of celebration you’re looking to throw.
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There are essentially three types of wedding planners: full-service, à la carte and day-of coordinators. A full-service planner will handle it all, start to finish—from crafting the vision for your event to hiring and meeting with your vendors, and coordinating a weekend of activities for guests. This option is best for a pair looking to host a multiday affair or destination wedding, or for couples who simply want a professional to guide them through every step of the wedding planning process. Prefer a part-time pro you can contact on an as-needed basis? An à la carte planner can help you iron out specific details, like your tabletop rentals, or give suggestions for the perfect caterer to execute your French bistro menu. Ideal for couples who just need someone to help refine their wedding day blueprint, an à la carte or part-time planner is also a more price-conscious choice, giving you the help you need for a price that doesn’t put you over budget. For assistance during your wedding day (but not throughout the entire process), opt for a day-of coordinator. Different from an on-site venue coordinator, they’ll be solely focused on your priorities and responsible for making sure your wedding day runs smoothly. Typically, a day-of coordinator will begin working with you anywhere from two weeks to a month ahead of your wedding to make sure everything is in order. They’ll coordinate both your ceremony and reception setup, keep you and your wedding party on schedule, and handle any necessary, immediate postwedding duties, like tipping. If you’re unable to include a full-service or à la carte planner in your budget, adding a day-of coordinator to your team will help you and your partner relax and enjoy your wedding day festivities to the fullest.
Stick to your budget Packages can range depending on the pro you hire, but a wedding planner typically charges their clients a flat fee, an hourly rate or a percentage of their overall wedding budget. These days, most planners list a flat fee for their contracted services. If they don’t, expect to set aside around 10 to 20 percent of your overall budget for a full-service planner. An à la carte planner will charge an hourly rate or flat fee for each service they provide, while day-of coordination is generally a flat fee. While hiring a planner may seem like a big chunk of your budget, it’s an investment that will give you peace of mind and ensure you enjoy the moments you’ve spent months planning. Plus, with an expert behind all your decisions, purchases and negotiations, you’ll save money in the long run. Their pull may be able to score you insider deals, and they’ll always look out for your budget so you don’t have to. >>
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Find the (other) “one” Hiring the right pro can be tough, so start your search early on, preferably after you have a date and locale (about a year out is a good time to seek out a full-service team). Ask your venue for a list of vendors that typically work in the space (always an added benefit), tap recently wed friends for their suggestions or scour The Knot Marketplace (TheKnot.com/marketplace) for a list of top-rated pros in your area. Once you’ve narrowed down your selection to a few favorites, spend time looking through their online portfolios, reading reviews from past clients and stalking their social media feeds. A planner’s Instagram or Facebook page is a great place to catch a glimpse of their most recent work or collaborations. Contact your final choice and set up a time to chat.
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Meet, greet and get down to business Think of your initial meeting with a planner like a first date— you want to make sure the two of you get along and have the same vision, as you’ll be spending a lot of time together over the next year or so. Arrive armed with a few basic questions: Which of their packages best suits your budget and needs? How does the contract and deposit process work? Do they have insurance? What other vendors (like florists, caterers, photographers or bands) do they typically like to work with? Get a feel for how familiar they are with your venue as well—the more they’ve worked on-site, the more in-the-know they are with the team there, and the more likely it is they can tackle any snags that may come up. It’s important to do your part as the client too. Prep for the meeting by compiling any details or facts your coordinator will likely want to know ASAP, like what you’ve budgeted for different vendors, a rough guest count and your overall vision. Together, you can start pulling inspiration and making important decisions as soon as possible.
Enjoy the day It’s time to relax and get married! Think of your planner as a safety net on your wedding day. If anything goes wrong (and something always does) they’re there to troubleshoot so you won’t have to fret. They’ll be the one able to make the rain call to move your affair indoors when you can’t bear to, or hunt down your set of heirloom champange flutes before the first toast of the evening. On your wedding day, your only order of buisness is to soak up every memorable second, so trust the pro you’ve hired to do their job, and let go of control day-of. Hiring a pro also means you’ll get to spend precious extra time with loved ones instead of worrying about the cake not showing up or a missing flower arrangement. Trust us on this one—you want (and deserve) a helping hand and some room to breathe. After all, this is going to be the happiest day of your life.
5 must-hire vendors Add these other experts to your wedding team for a flawlessly beautiful celebration.
Photographer
Snapshots of your day are the longest-lasting legacy when it comes to your wedding, so it’s not the place to skimp or trust just any friend with a digital camera.
Videographer
Once looked at as a “bonus” hire when the budget allowed, videography is becoming a priority for pairs and shouldn’t be overlooked (in fact, 34% of couples make sure to hire one!). You will love watching your ceremony or first dance years from now.
Band or DJ
Music makes the party, so your band or DJ pick is a very important one. These entertainers understand the flow of music and how to keep guests dancing all night long, in a way that your Spotify playlist can’t.
Florist
Blooms may seem easy to execute on your own, but when you factor in the time and energy spent sourcing and arranging, they practically pay for themselves. If you really want to DIY some florals, opt to do an event leading up to your day, like a bridesmaid brunch.
Catering team
Feeding a crowd takes skill, and it’s likely that you don’t have the time, equipment or space to prep a complete meal that will feed your 100-plus guests. Hire a team, then give the day your personal flavor with an edible favor.
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Whether you’re planning a delicious buffet or a seven-course sit-down dinner, you’ll want to abide by these important tips. >> BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY PATRICIA HE AL
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Dreaming up your wedding reception menu can be one of the most fun (and important) parts of the planning process, especially if you and your partner are big foodies. A large portion of your budget will be put toward feeding your guests—you’ll want make sure everyone ends the night happy and well-fed. From booking your food pro to creating a menu to remember, here are six questions you should ask yourself to ensure you get it right.
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Have they worked at your venue before? Hiring a caterer who has prepped food at your venue for previous events can make the day run more smoothly and efficiently. A repeat team will already be in the know about the available cook space on-site and what your venue supplies, so they’ll have a clear idea of what additional gear may be needed (this is especially important if you’re celebrating at a nontraditional venue, like a barn or a vineyard, where an entire kitchen may have to be brought in). If you’re really pulling for a catering team that hasn’t worked in the space before, see if they can arrange a walk-through of the venue and get a sense of the available equipment at least a month beforehand so they’re fully prepared the day of your event.
What does your package include? There are a lot of different things to consider before signing on the dotted line. Catering packages can vary, so make sure you leave your initial meeting with a concrete idea of what your caterer includes in theirs. For instance, is your quoted price based on the specific foods or dishes you choose, or is it an all-inclusive rate (which typically includes an appetizer, a salad, an entree and a dessert, plus coffee service and, in some cases, wine for each guest)? Also, unless you’re going with an outside mixology team, work alcohol service into your contract and your catering plans. Talk through the tiers of alcohol coverage, what brands will be served and whether there’s a corkage fee if you provide your own wine or champagne. When it comes to must-have items like plates, napkins, silverware and more, ask if they’ll be bringing those and whether they or the venue are in charge of setup and breakdown. Lastly, inquire as to whether waitstaff is provided. Most caterers work with their own staff, but it’s good practice to check. >>
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Whether you’re working with the team provided by your reception venue or are planning on bringing in an outside crew from your favorite barbecue joint, you’ll want to make sure your caterer is licensed for both food and liquor. This means they’ve met important local health department standards for food prep and service and carry liability insurance for both the food and the alcohol they’ll be serving, ensuring no responsibility falls on your shoulders (or your venue’s) if something goes wrong the day of.
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John Zucker is the executive chef and owner of Cru Catering and Café in Charleston, SC, serving clients for weddings and other special events. His newest restaurant, Purlieu, opened in 2017.
More couples are leaning toward sit-down dinners than in the past, and we love to see that. Fullservice dinners give your event more of a restaurant experience, and they reduce waste considerably.
If you give guests a good variety of food options, you can’t go wrong. We have go-to dishes that people always seem to request, but we always work with our clients to perfect the menu.
We have a wonderful pastry chef who we love to use for events. After tastings we have her prepare a spread of desserts, and couples always end up adding sweets to their menu.
If you do a seated salad course and then have three or four plated stations with different mains or vegetables at each, you’ll increase the odds of pleasing more people. That’s the goal!
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Can you sample their menu in advance? Researching caterers through reviews and sample menus is a great start, but taste-testing the food yourself is a must-do (and delicious!) part of the process. Sitting down for a tasting session before your wedding day will help you and your caterer plan out a cohesive menu and eliminate any dishes that don’t suit your tastes. Be sure to ask what date your caterer needs to know your final menu choices and guest head count by. Then, base your RSVP date on that, to ensure that all responses from guests are in at least two weeks before your catering head count is due to their team.
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What kind of meal appeals to you? Depending on the vibe and formality of your event, there are plenty of tasty choices to consider when it comes to serving your guests. If you want a constantly bustling party, a dinner of passed apps and interactive stations may work for you. Looking for something more formal? A sit-down dinner is always on trend. Want guests to interact with their surroundings? You may want to hire foodie entertainment like a flair bartender, ballerinas to serve champagne or even a few bow-tie-clad oyster shuckers. Whatever feels right for your day, make sure your catering team is on board to execute. Staffing and equipment needs can vary greatly between a buffet meal and multicourse plated dinner, so plan your style from the get-go in case it affects the overall cost of the services.
Can they handle food allergies? Depending on your guests’ needs, there may be special dietary restrictions your caterer should plan in advance for. Ask your team if they’re able to prepare vegetarian, gluten-free, kosher or halal meals if guests should request or need them, and what the additional cost per plate may be. While you’re at it, if you’re planning on having children at your reception, ask about including a kid-friendly menu or smaller portions. You’ll also want to learn about meal options for serving wedding pros the day of (a must).
5 alternatives to a traditional sit-down meal Plated service isn’t the only option. Personalize your meal with one of these fun (and tasty) swaps.
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Drive-in dinner
Skip the seats and instead delight your guests with a bevy of passed plates piled high with hearty appetizers and filling finger foods for a constant cocktail party atmosphere.
Top your tables with platters of mains (like fish, steak and chicken) and yummy sides, then let guests pass around the plates and serve themselves. It’s a great way to keep the conversation flowing.
European family style
Similar to traditional family style, except each guest selects their main meal course and only the side dishes are shared among the guests.
For a meal that feeds and entertains at the same time, create a culinary circuit of action stations serving interactive foods like make-your-own burgers, tacos, pasta, sushi and more.
Round up a few of your favorite food mobiles and serve guests truck-side for a charming picnic-style event. Be sure your venue has an accessible gravel patch for the vehicles, as well as electrical access. ANGEL A NEW TON ROY PHOTOGR APHY
You want your wedding day to be a reflection of you and your partner, so your reception menu should be too. If you have a particular cuisine in mind, seek out a caterer who specializes in it. They’ll not only boast all the right resources (like the perfect shop to secure that French cheese you love for cocktail hour), but also know how to properly prepare and serve specialty dishes on a large scale, promising a better and tastier event. Expecting a Southern barbecue crew to execute a traditional Italian menu probably isn’t going to end well for anyone, so inquire ahead of time about your top pick’s cuisine specialties and ask to see sample menus.
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this one’s for the girls
There’s no better way to celebrate your impending “I dos” than to spend time alongside your best friends. Replace the typically cheeky X-rated agenda with a bachelorette theme that will make for a weekend to remember. >> BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY ROBERT EVANS STUDIOS
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say it with a shirt No weekend is complete without playful matching tees. Here are cheeky phrases for every theme.
Go all out with a glamette A little confused by the lingo? Allow us to explain—think of a glamette as the over-the-top, indulgent big sister of the traditional bachelorette. The Bridal Bar founder Harmony Walton coined the phrase after planning a honeymoon-esque getaway for a bride and her gals in Deer Valley at the luxe St. Regis hotel. Walton made sure the weekend included lots of good food, high-end moments and even a picnic hike (see previous page). “Do what you love to do together as friends, but bigger and better,” Walton says. “Make it a trip you will all remember.” A glamettethemed weekend should be packed full of activities that spoil you and your girls, like spa appointments, private yoga sessions and luxe accommodations. You’ll want to get pampered, dress up in your party finest and eat like queens, so seek out a resort with a top-notch spa and grounds, or a city where you can go all out on the little luxuries.
Escape on a wellness retreat Whether you’re an avocado toast obsessive who can’t get enough of hot yoga, or are planning a party for a gal that is basically Gwyneth Paltrow 2.0, a wellness-themed bash may be perfect for your crew. Focus on mind-, body- and soul-fulfilling fun for a weekend that will leave you and your friends feeling Zen and refreshed. >>
General • I Do/I Do Crew • Yes!/That’s What She Said • She Said Yes, We Said [Location] A drink-loving group • Wed, White and Boozed • Pop the Bubbly, [Name’s] Getting a Hubby
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Destination • Boots and Bling, It’s [Name’s] Last Fling
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bachelorette planning 101 Make sure you cover all your party basics with this foolproof guide to planning the ultimate bash.
Decide who is hosting The maid of honor typically takes the lead when it comes to the bachelorette party, but anyone can play hostess for the weekend. Volunteer your services or, if you’re the MOH, task the rest of the bridal party with jobs like securing travel and accommodations.
Make the guest list All bridesmaids get an invite, as do any friends the bride wants to include in the celebration. It’s not necessary to invite everyone who attends the shower (typically all women invited to the wedding) to the bachelorette—try to keep it on
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Figure out a date If the bride has any must-attend guests, coordinate with them first on preliminary dates (roughly anywhere from three months out to a month before the wedding). Arranging one weekend that works for dozens of people can get complicated, so do your best to pick a date that’s doable for the majority of the group and stick to it.
Spread the word If you want to splurge on fun themed paper invites then go for it, but it’s not a must. Digital invites will work great for a bachelorette bash and will help you track RSVPs easily. Make sure you get responses at least two weeks before the party, but allow for more time if you’re planning a destination affair that requires a hotel.
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You can pack your schedule with a variety of classes and events around your home city (think: meditation sessions followed by green juices), or head to a destination retreat organized through companies like Pravassa (Pravassa.com), Fit & Fly Girl (FitandFlyGirl.com) and The Runaway Experience (TheRunawayExperience.com).
Make a splash at a pool party Fla-mingle with your favorite ladies and work on your prewedding glow at a grown-up pool party. If you don’t already know a friend willing to lend out her pool for the afternoon, look into nearby hotels or rooftops—many rent spaces on an hourly or daily basis for events. Then, fill the water with tons of cute floats, mix some margs and pile baskets high with pool party essentials like fun sunnies, magazines, sunscreen, towels and more. Hire a bartender through a local joint or app like GigMasters to act as your personal cabana boy. Piña coladas at the snap of a finger? We’re in!
Get in touch with nature while camping There’s nothing like roughing it in the wilderness to bring you and your friends closer together. Go back to basics with a bare-bones camping weekend at a nearby state park or campground. Skip the RV in lieu of a tent you have to pitch yourselves, then work together to build a fire and cook dinner, ending the night swapping old memories under the stars. If full-on survivalist mode isn’t your thing, you can still capture all the charm of a wilderness retreat with none of the extra schlepping by booking a spot at a “glamping” resort. You’ll get the grandeur of the great outdoors, but with luxury amenities (like running water, real beds and even, in some cases, air conditioning) to keep you all comfy.
Sip your way through a vineyard tour Just like you and your partner, wine and girlfriends are the perfect match. Why not spend the weekend wandering your way through the vine-covered rows of a local vineyard or two, toasting to your upcoming day and snacking on yummy bar bites? Most vineyards host tastings either for free or for a reasonable $10 to $20 per person, so you’ll get a lot of bang for your buck if you’re on a budget. Encourage your gals to each buy their favorite bottle, then revisit everyone’s picks later in the evening over a potluck dinner. Just be sure to look into booking a limo or party bus, or designating a sober friend to drive everyone safely.
Indulge in a food crawl Foodie fans will love a weekend agenda filled with culinary curiosities. If you or your to-be-wed friend is obsessed with a certain dish or cuisine (say, burgers or Thai food), plan an epic “crawl” around a nearby area packed with eats or a city known for its killer culinary scene (like Nashville or Portland). Then, dream up fun additional activities to go with the weekend’s food theme, like beer and wine pairings or a cooking class.
Set sail on the open seas Give thanks to the best mates in your life with an adventure on the open water. A day-long sailboat or yacht rental isn’t a low-budget option, but it often comes with additional perks like sailing lessons, a coastal tour of the area or even a staff to serve your group food and cocktails while on board. Use the sail as the kickoff to a coastal-themed weekend, and spend the rest of your time on land hanging at the beach, sampling oysters and snacking on lobster rolls. Have motion-sickness medicine on hand and a backup plan in case gray skies prevent your excursion.
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Search for your future among the stars Everyone has that one friend who won’t make a decision without consulting Susan Miller first. If she tells everyone she meets that she’s an Aries and what fire signs mean, then she’d probably love a celestialthemed party. Besides having perhaps the prettiest potential when it comes to décor (think: constellation-etched wine glasses, star paper lanterns and gilded temporary astrological sign tattoos), there are several activities perfect for a star-crossed shindig. Hire a tarot card reader to answer questions about the future, a psychic to predict which solo pals might be headed to the altar next or even an astronomer to lead a stargazing experience.
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If jetting off to France isn’t in the budget, settle for the next-best thing with a weekend filled with all things Parisian. Francophile friends will swoon over a très chic schedule filled with French-inspired activities like a wine and cheese pairing, perfume mixology, macarons and more. Another idea? Seek out a figure drawing class through a company like The Artful Bachelorette (TheArtfulBachelorette.com), who will provide a professional nude male model to sketch. You’ll end up with a few giggles and a keepsake portrait that even Jack Dawson would envy.
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GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In North Carolina, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Those under 18 must
have parental consent. Couples must apply for and sign the license together at the Register of Deeds office. A Social Security number and a driver’s license (and sometimes a birth certificate) are required as proof of identification. Residency and blood tests are not required. If previously married, the bride or groom may be asked to provide the appropriate documents regarding the divorce or death. There is no waiting period to obtain the license, which is valid for 60 days. The fee for a marriage license is $60; methods of payment vary. All offices are open Monday through Friday; in some counties appointments are required. Please call ahead to get all of the details.
WHERE TO APPLY Alamance County
Craven County
Gaston County
Iredell County
Brunswick County
Cumberland County
Guilford County
Johnston County
118 W. Harden St. Graham, NC 27253 (336) 570-6565 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Register of Deeds 75 Courthouse Dr. Bolivia, NC 28422 (910) 253-2690 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Buncombe County
35 Woodfin St., Ste. 226 Asheville, NC 28801 (828) 250-4300 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Cabarrus County
65 Church St. SE Concord, NC 28025 (704) 920-2112 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Catawba County
117 Dick St., Rm. 114 Fayetteville, NC 28301 (910) 678-7775 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Davidson County
203 W. 2nd St. Lexington, NC 27292 (336) 242-2150 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Durham County
200 E. Main St. Durham, NC 27701 (919) 560-0480 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Forsyth County
201 N. Chestnut St., Fl. 2 Winston-Salem, NC 27101 (336) 703-2700 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
325 N. Marietta St. Gastonia, NC 28052 (704) 862-7511 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. 201 S. Eugene St. Greensboro, NC 27402 (336) 641-7556 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Harnett County
305 W. Cornelius Harnett Blvd., Ste. 200 Lillington, NC 27546 (910) 893-7540 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Henderson County 200 N. Grove St., Ste. 129 Hendersonville, NC 28792 (828) 697-4901 9 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
201 E. Water St. Statesville, NC 28677 (704) 872-7468 8 a.m. – 5 p.m. 207 E. Johnston St. Smithfield, NC 27577 (919) 989-5160 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Mecklenburg County
720 E. 4th St., Rm. 106 Charlotte, NC 28202 (704) 336-6090 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
New Hanover County
216 N. 2nd St. Wilmington, NC 28401 (910) 798-4530 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Onslow County
109 Old Bridge St. Jacksonville, NC 28540 (910) 347-3451 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m., M–F; 4:30 – 5:45 p.m., T. & Th. (by appointment only)
Orange County
228 S. Churton St., Ste. 300 Hillsborough, NC 27278 (919) 245-2675 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Pitt County
100 W. 3rd St. Greenville, NC 27834 (252) 902-1650 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Randolph County
158 Worth St. Asheboro, NC 27203 (336) 318-6960 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Robeson County
500 N. Elm St., Rm. 102 Lumberton, NC 28358 (910) 671-3044 8:15 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Rowan County
402 N. Main St. Salisbury, NC 28144 (704) 216-8626 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Union County
Register of Deeds 500 N. Main St., Ste. 258 Monroe, NC 28112 (704) 283-3610 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Wake County
421 Fayetteville St., Ste. 300, Fl. 3 Raleigh, NC 27601 (919) 856-5460 8:30 a.m. – 4:45 p.m.
Wayne County
224-226 E. Walnut St. Goldsboro, NC 27533 (919) 731-1449 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
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100-C Southwest Blvd. Newton, NC 28658 (828) 465-1573 7:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.
226 Pollock St. New Bern, NC 28560 (252) 636-6617 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.
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GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In South Carolina, the legal age to obtain a marriage license is 18 years old. Parental consent can be granted for those younger than 18 years of age. Residency and blood tests are not required. The fee for a South Carolina marriage license varies according to the county, typically between $50-$100. There is no expiration date for a South Carolina marriage license. No proof of divorce is required if previously married. There is a 24-hour waiting period before the marriage license is in effect. Proof of age is required in the form of a passport, driver’s license, etc. Some counties may require a social security card. WHERE TO APPLY Aiken County
Probate Court 109 Park Ave. SE, Rm. E126 Aiken, SC 29801 (803) 642-2009 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Anderson County Probate Court 100 S. Main St. Anderson, SC 29622 (864) 260-4049 Call for hours
Berkeley County
Probate Court 300 California Ave. Moncks Corner, SC 29461 (843) 719-4519 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Charleston County
Judicial Center– Probate Court 100 Broad St., Ste. 469 Charleston, SC 29401 (843) 958-5183 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Beaufort County
Hilton Head Island Satellite Probate Office 539 William Hilton Pkwy. Hilton Head, SC 29928 (843) 255-5866 9 a.m. – 4 p.m., T-W, F Beaufort Probate Office 102 Ribaut Rd. Beaufort, SC 29902 (843) 255-5850 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.
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Dorchester County
Probate Court 5200 E. Jim Bilton Blvd. St. George, SC 29477 (843) 832-0104 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Florence County
Probate Court 180 N. Irby, Rm. 206 Florence, SC 29501 (843) 665-3085 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Greenville County Probate Court 301 University Ridge Greenville, SC 29601 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Horry County
Probate Court 9630 Scipio Ln. Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m., M, W-F, 8:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m., T
Lexington County
Probate Court 205 E. Main St., Ste. 134 Lexington, SC 29072 (803) 785-8324 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Pickens County
Probate Court 222 McDaniel Ave., B-16 Pickens, SC 29671 (864) 898-5903 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Richland County
York County
Spartanburg County
Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@theknot.com.
Judicial Center– Probate Court 1701 Main St. Columbia, SC 29201 8:30 a.m – 4:45 p.m. Probate Court 180 Magnolia St. Spartanburg, SC 29306 (864) 596-2556 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.
Sumter County
Probate Court 215 N. Harvin St. Sumter, SC 29150 (803) 436-2166 8:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.
Probate Court 1 E. Liberty St. York, SC 29745 (803) 684-8513 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.
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GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting. GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS
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Asheville Citizen-Times
(828) 232-5998 Attn: Weddings PO Box 2090 Asheville, NC 28802
Nonpaid weddings must be submitted within 30 days after the wedding date by noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
Basic announcement is free; larger announcements range from $50 to $210.
Charlotte Observer
(704) 358-5260 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 32188 Charlotte, NC 28232
Must submit info at least 24 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes; available online.
Fees range from $115 to $1,885.
Greensboro News–Record
(336) 373-7053 Attn: Celebrations Rep. PO Box 20848 Greensboro, NC 27420
Must submit info by 5 p.m. Wednesday, at least 11 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes All announcements must be proofed before they can be published in the paper.
Six-line announcements (no photo) are free. For longer announcements, rates start at $30.10 and must be prepaid.
Raleigh News & Observer
(919) 836-2800 Attn: Special Occasions Dept. PO Box 191 Raleigh, NC 27602
Must submit info by 4 p.m. on Monday, six days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
The cost is $40 per column inch, approximately eight lines of text.
Wilmington Star-News
(910) 343-2325 Attn: Occasions PO Box 840 Wilmington, NC 28402
Must submit info by 4 p.m. Thursday, 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Optional; must be typed and double spaced.
There is no charge for submitting a basic announcement. The fee for an announcement plus a photo is $18.55 per column inch. There is also an additional $13.25 online posting fee.
Winston-Salem Journal
(336) 727-7422 Attn: Celebrations Dept. 418 N. Marshall Street Winston-Salem, NC 27101
Must submit info by noon on Friday, nine days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
There is no charge for submitting a basic announcement. Packages range from $90 to $2,500.
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The Post and Courier
(843) 937-5775 134 Columbus St. Charleston, SC 29403
Must submit by 3 p.m. on Monday, two weeks prior to the wedding date.
Form: Yes; available online.
Online-only fee is $75; online and print packages vary in price .
The State
(803) 771-8431 Attn: Celebrations The State Media Company PO Box 1333 Columbia, SC 29202
Must submit by 3 p.m. the Monday before the desired date of publication and online posting.
Form: Yes; available online.
The cost varies according to text and/or photo size. Packages range from $117 to $422.
Island Packet
(843) 706-8181 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 5727 Hilton Head Island, SC 29938
Must submit info by 3 p.m. Wednesday, prior to the Sunday of publication.
Form: Yes; available online.
Standard announcement is free; larger packages range from $140 to $535.
The Greenville News
(864) 298-4130 Attn: Celebrations 305 S. Main St. PO Box 1688 Greenville, SC 29602
Must submit by noon Wednesday, prior to Sunday publication.
Form: Yes; available online.
Prices range from $20 to $120 according to size.
The Sun News Daily
(843) 444-1771 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 406 Myrtle Beach, SC 29578
Must submit info by 4 p.m. Tuesday, prior to the Sunday of publication.
Form: Yes; available online.
Starting at $30 for a one-column passage without photo, ranging up to $350.
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(803) 285-9435 | CarnesLakeBanquetHall.com Carnes Lake Banquet Hall is a great place for weddings and wedding receptions. We have a full kitchen, tables and chairs for around 60 people, as well as a huge 900-square-foot deck and pergola overlooking the lake. This affordable private gated lake and reception hall is perfect for your special day. capacity 150 | price $$
the barn at reynolda village
106 Reynolda Village, Winston-Salem, NC (336) 758-2276 | sales@reynoldabarn.com ReynoldaBarn.com The Barn at Reynolda Village is a newly renovated wedding venue in the heart of the Reynolda Historic District. We’re able to accommodate up to 175 guests for a cocktail-style reception or 125 for a seated dinner with dancing, and we’re proud to offer additional ceremony space in nearby Reynolda Gardens. capacity 150 | price $$
belfair clubhouse
200 Belfair Oaks Blvd., Bluffton, SC (843) 706-4633 | Belfair1811.com Belfair offers a dream-like setting for an unforgettable wedding celebration. Whether you are planning an intimate gathering of 20 or a large ceremony for 220, Belfair offers a beautiful, serene location and a complete range of supporting services and amenities. capacity 220 | price $$$$
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burke manor inn & pavilion
303 Burke Street, Gibsonville, NC (336) 449-6266 | (888) 679-1805 BurkeManor.com Our historical inn, beautiful gardens, pavilion, exceptional AAA 4 Diamond–rated cuisine and professional staff create the perfect combination to host your special occasion. The Burke has become the premier wedding and reception facility in the Triad. We look forward to hosting your event, large or small. capacity 300 | price $$$
callawassie island
(843) 987-2155 | CallawassieIsland.com Have the waterfront ceremony of your dreams surrounded by mossy oaks and views for miles. Dance the night away in our Lowcountry clubhouse or moonlit event lawn. Let our custom catering bring your culinary vision to life. On-island cottages treat your guests to Southern hospitality all weekend long. capacity 250 | price $$$
cape fear botanical garden
536 N. Eastern Blvd., Fayetteville, NC (910) 486-0221 | events@capefearbg.org CapeFearBG.com The Wyatt Visitors Pavilion Complex at Cape Fear Botanical Garden is the premier rental space for wedding ceremonies and receptions, corporate and military functions, special occasions and holiday celebrations—small and large, intimate and grand. capacity 500+ | price $$
carnes lake banquet hall
3548 N. Rocky River Road, Lancaster, SC
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carolina country weddings
3721 Little Buffalo Creek Rd., Mt. Pleasant, NC (980) 349-5933 CarolinaCountryWeddings.com Enjoy our peaceful setting surrounded by nature’s simple beauty—an idyllic spot to celebrate the wedding of your dreams complete with rustic elegance, amazing vistas, a gorgeous barn and a varied selection of ceremony sites including our enchanted forest, charming country foothills and more. capacity 300 | price $$
cedar ridge plantation venue
5403 Hwy. 221, Bradley, SC (864) 396-3975 | maryann@crpvenue.com CRPVenue.com This site overlooking 120 acres of pristine forests, a pond and fields offers ceremony sites, luxurious lodging, a Rolls-Royce, spacious barn with a wall of glass, deck with French doors opening to the dance floor, heat and A/C, 200 chairs with tables, vintage bar, three bathrooms and catering kitchen. capacity 200 | price $$
charleston gaillard center
95 Calhoun Street, Charleston, SC (843) 242-3094 | ngarrand@gaillardcenter.org GaillardCenter.org Whether planning an intimate gathering or a large ceremony, the Gaillard Center offers quintessential charm with a complete range of supporting services and amenities. Located in the heart of Charleston’s famed Historic District, with accommodations to suit all tastes, we are perfect for your wedding. capacity 650 | price $$$
charleston harbor resort & marina
20 Patriot’s Point Road, Mount Pleasant, SC (843) 284-7039 | CharlestonHarborResort.com Charleston’s only harbor-front resort is located on Patriot’s Point. The resort offers a full-service marina, golf, pool, private beachfront, two restaurants and event space with views of Charleston Harbor. Whatever season, we can design the perfect setting and event tailored to your dreams. capacity 400 | price $$$
chestnut ridge
(828) 549-8411 | info@chestnutridge.events ChestnutRidge.events Chestnut Ridge is a timeless-style venue nestled on a family farm with breathtaking views that overlook the Blue Ridge Mountains at an elevation of 3,000 feet. Full venue access comes with every package, all-inclusive package options have preferred vendors and rehearsal dinner accommodations are available. capacity 300 | price $$$
the cottages on charleston harbor
(866) 901-2688 CharlestonHarborWeddings.com The Cottages on Charleston Harbor are beautifully arranged just yards from the harbor. The picturesque two-bedroom luxury cottages feature spacious living areas and private screened porches, complete with hammocks. Host your ceremony on the water’s edge and the reception on our beautiful event lawn. capacity 125 | price $$$
daniel stowe botanical garden
6500 South New Hope Road, Belmont, NC (704) 829-1268 | privateevents@dsbg.org DSBG.org With 110 acres of stunning themed gardens, sparkling fountains and ever-changing Southern seasonal displays, DSBG is one of the Charlotte region’s most beautiful wedding venues, offering a wide range of wedding packages and unique sites. It’s located in charming Belmont within 30 minutes of Uptown. capacity 400+ | price $$
diamond room event venue
103 East Main Street, Gibsonville, NC (336) 494-8874 debbie@wadesjewelers.net WadesDiamondRoom.com A full-service venue, the Diamond Room is located between Greensboro and Burlington, NC. The Diamond Room allows outside, licensed caterers and provides on-site rentals. It’s perfect for small and large events. It’s where “Elegance Meets Effortless.” Tours are available days, evenings and weekends. capacity 220 | price $$
explore charleston
CharlestonWeddingGuide.com She is called the Holy City. She is also known as Conde Nast Traveler Readers’ Choice 2017 Top U.S. City. And now the Charleston area may add one more esteemed title: host of your destination wedding. capacity 400+ | price $
the farm
215 Justice Ridge Road, Candler, NC (828) 667-0666 | TheFarmEvents.com The Farm has rustic charm, hardwood floors, a huge fireplace and wraparound porches that are designed for use in winter and summer. Imagine declaring your vows at sunset in the gazebo, a romantic spot nestled in the trees with the western mountains as a backdrop. capacity 300 | price $$
the farmhouse siloam
2738 Siloam Road, Mount Airy, NC (336) 756-1983 | fhsiloam@thefarmhousesiloam.com TheFarmHouseSiloam.com The beautiful countryside setting includes four acres with a rustic hay barn for your ceremony backdrop and an old tobacco barn reception pavilion. Packages include use of the barn, pavilion, tables and chairs, décor, lawn games, fire pit and a farmhouse bridal suite to pamper yourself before the wedding! capacity 175 | price $$
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forevermore farm: home of the barn & the stables
135 Waldon Rd., Moore, SC (864) 707-5655 TheBarnatForevermoreFarm.com Our historic farm, where modern conveniences meet rustic charm, is the perfect location for your event. A charming carriage house hosts the bridal suite, and a separate groom’s quarters has a pool table and private lawn. Outdoor space boasts a rock fireplace and amazing sunsets for Forevermore memories. capacity 300 | price $$
fripp island golf & beach resort
2119 Sea Island Parkway Harbor Island, SC (843) 838-1507 | (888) 974-1873 kkluttz@frippislandresort.com FrippIslandResort.com All you’d expect for your important event. There’s every amenity imaginable for your guests—golf, tennis, boating, 3 1/2 miles of beach, catering to meet your every wish and more. Our accommodations range from spectacular beachfront homes to scenic panoramic views and offer something for everyone. capacity 200 | price $$$
gambill estate
7348 Old 60, Roaring River, NC GambillEstate.com With down home charm and natural elegance, this family-owned country estate has 145 exquisite acres coupled with mountain vistas—an ideal wedding location. Southern hospitality is our foundation, and an atmosphere of community and exceptional service is our trademark. capacity 200 | price $$$
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hidden river events
(828) 333-3401 hiddenriverevents@gmail.com HiddenRiverEvents.com An elegantly simple events center nestled along the Swannanoa River, just five minutes from Asheville, North Carolina. Reserve our 17+ acre farm for weddings, reunions and other celebrations. Specializing in allinclusive and destination weddings. We craft events with your love and comfort in mind. Be a guest at your own wedding. capacity 350 | price $$$
highgrove estate
1613 S. Main Street, Fuquay Varina, NC (919) 552-6154 | info@highgrove-nc.com Highgrove-NC.com Whether your dream is an elegant garden wedding or an evening soiree, Highgrove Estate is the ideal setting for
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the inn at tranquility farm
Waynesville, NC (828) 564-1105 InnatTranquilityFarm.com The Inn at Tranquility Farm is a distinctive and unique event venue and lodging destination situated in the peaceful mountains of western North Carolina. Tranquility Farm offers you an exclusive, elegant and exceptional backdrop for your special event or wedding day. capacity 150 | price $$$
laurel ridge country club & event center
49 Cupp Lane, Waynesville, NC (800) 433-PAR4 | events@laurelridgegolf.com LaurelRidgeWeddings.com Whether you are celebrating the most important day of your life with hundreds of guests or having a more intimate gathering, we have the unique location and experience to ensure that your event is perfect in every way. Every aspect will resonate with rustic elegance and style. capacity 400+ | price $$$
lavender oaks farm
3829 Millard Whitley Rd., Chapel, NC (919) 909-7417 | info@lavenderoaks.farm LavenderOaks.farm As you enter the gates at Lavender Oaks Farm, the serenity of our forest embraces you as our country road winds through the trees to our lovingly restored, century-old timber frame barns, breathtaking lavender fields, picnic areas and reflective pond. It’s a destination your guests will remember forever! capacity 250 | price $$$
middleton place
Charleston, SC (843) 377-0548 MiddletonPlace.org/weddings Middleton Place offers an unparalleled wedding experience in the Lowcountry of South Carolina. In one place, extraordinary natural beauty, cultivated landscaped gardens and early American history converge to give your wedding a picture-perfect backdrop—an enchanting day filled with beautiful memories. capacity 250 | price $$$$
the millennium center
101 West Fifth Street, Winson-Salem, NC (336) 723-3700 MillenniumEvents.ws Our full service, five-star venue with three levels can host any event size. We have hosted over 1,000 wedding celebrations including rehearsal dinners, ceremonies, receptions and going away parties. Enjoy in-house catering, full bar service, A/V, décor, design and planning.
102 Town Square, Burnsville, NC (828) 682-2329 | nuwrayinn@yahoo.com NuWrayInn.com If you’ve always dreamed of tying the knot with family and friends, then look no further than the historic Nu Wray Country House, which dates back to 1833. This picture-perfect wedding venue is the ideal site to celebrate your special day. capacity 150
the oaks wedding and event venue
325 Huitt Road, Anderson, SC (864) 293-3606 | TheOaksWeddingVenue.com Happily ever after starts here! Enter the building through 10-foot French oak double doors from the 1800s French Carriage House to a 5,000-square-foot venue facing a 30-foot wall of glass on a 180-acre gated estate along a serene 20-acre lake. capacity 375 | price $$$
old edwards inn and spa
445 Main Street, Highlands, NC (828) 787-2610 | groupsales@oldedwardsinn.com OldEdwardsInn.com/weddings With year-round venues for weddings of all sizes, the Four-Star luxury of Old Edwards Inn and Spa provides full-service event staff, superior resort amenities and abundant activities, ensuring that this experience will become part of your memories forever.
one eleven place
(919) 654-5413 | 111Place.com The place to be for all of your wedding events! One Eleven Place offers you privacy, elegance, uniqueness, great staff, and creative catering. The grand ballroom and garden patio are perfect for a rehearsal d inner, ceremony, and reception. Enjoy the day you have been waiting for at One Eleven Place.
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(843) 839-0818 GrandeDunesWeddings.com Imagine your wedding at the Ocean Club or Members Club at Grande Dunes—an experience of luxury and elegance in South Carolina’s premier coastal resort community. The serene, natural beach has stunning Atlantic views, and the private club offers world-class golf—both settings can be exclusively yours.
capacity 200 | price $$
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capacity 250 | price $$
port royal clubhouse—hilton head island weddings
Hilton Head Island, SC (843) 681-1747 | HiltonHeadGolf.net/weddings At Port Royal Clubhouse, you’ll be inspired by the Southern plantation verandas, complete with an outdoor fireplace, overlooking our awe-inspiring golf courses. From the lush landscape and views to a private, intimate ceremony on Steam Gun Beach, there are many ways to make your dream come true. capacity 200 | price $$$
sanderling resort
1461 Duck Rd., Duck, NC (877) 574-8219 | Sanderling-Resort.com Sanderling boasts unique event spaces on the beaches of the Atlantic Ocean, plus beautiful Currituck Sound sunsets. capacity 200 | price $$$
sawyer family farmstead
(828) 743-5456 theteam@sawyerfamilyfarmstead.com SawyerFamilyFarmstead.com
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the sea pines resort
32 Greenwood Drive, Hilton Head Island, SC (843) 842-1495 | agoodman@seapines.com SeaPines.com A world-renowned destination, The Sea Pines Resort offers an unparalleled setting for your unique and special occasion. With several new venues offering spectacular views and beautifully appointed event space, The Sea Pines Resort is sure to exceed expectations and ensure the wedding of your dreams. capacity 250 | price $$$
tides folly beach
1 Center Street, Folly Beach, SC (843) 588-6464 | TidesFollyBeach.com Tides offers the perfect oceanfront venue for ceremonies on the sand and beachside festivities. With full-service catering, we are pleased to host everything from casual beachside events to formal black-tie affairs for up to 300 guests. capacity 300 | price $$$
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westglow resort and spa
224 Westglow Cir., Blowing Rock, NC (800) 562-0807 jen@westglow.com Westglow.com Imagine walking down the aisle amidst the grandeur of our historic mansion, surrounded by the stunning beauty of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Each wedding is exclusively assured the personalized attention of our entire staff to help you create the day of your dreams. capacity 150 | price $$$
willow falls weddings and events
125 Little Willow Circle, Hendersonville, NC (828) 338-8479 WillowFallsEvents.com Willow Falls, nestled on a gently sloping, natural 70foot waterfall, is surrounded by forest, trails, gazebos, winding porches and lush gardens. There are two homes on the property, which sleep 16—perfect for a bridal party—and numerous indoor and outdoor spots to create the event you envision.
devyn leigh events
Charlotte, NC (704) 578-0119 | devynleighevents@gmail.com DevynLeighEvents.com Devyn Leigh Events is your one-stop planning solution, offering everything from coordination to à la carte and full-service planning. We allow our clients to be as involved in the planning as they would like, and strive to make your wedding as seamless and stress-free as possible.
events by bella
9911 Rose Commons Dr. E., #E725, Huntersville, NC (704) 750-9701 | info@bellasapore.com BellaSapore.com Events by Bella is a full-service planning and design firm uniting rich history with modern flare. Detailed to fit every couple, our signature approach styles each wedding with refined elegance. Let us plan your day so you can plan a lifetime.
honeybee’s events
134 North Sterling Street, Morganton, NC (828) 443-1629 | honeybeeripley@gmail.com HoneyBeesEvents.com HoneyBee’s Events is a full-service event planning service, offering personalized event design to reflect your style, vision and budget. Owner Stacey Ripley works with each client to create unique, memorable events and occasions.
mary bell events
(828) 450-2209 | mary@marybellevents.com MaryBellEvents.com Mary Bell Events is a full-service wedding and event planning company, offering affordable packages designed to bring your vision to life—and to perfection.
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the lily rose bridal
19826-D North Cove Rd., Cornelius, NC (704) 895-1007 | LilyRoseBridal.com The Lily Rose Bridal is 15 minutes from uptown Charlotte. Specializing in couture fashion, The Lily Rose features designer lines for bridal, bridal party, special events and head-to-toe accessories. Enjoy attention to your personal style, designer selections and service that is a cut above the rest.
nitsa’s apparel
107 S. Stratford Road, Winston-Salem, NC (336) 725-1999 | nitsas@nitsas.com Nitsas.com Nitsa’s offers the finest selection of couture bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses, veils, accessories, social occasion and cocktail dresses, and sportswear. As the Carolinas’ Couture Bridal Salon, Nitsa’s provides its signature personal service and exceptional in-house alterations. Fabulous since 1964!
verità. a bridal boutique
320 W. Coleman Blvd., Unit J, Mount Pleasant, SC (843) 388-7064 | hello@veritabridal.com VeritaBridal.com The Charleston area’s newest bridal boutique, Verità, is located just five miles from downtown. Verità offers designer collections for brides, bridesmaids and mothers, plus accessories. We are dedicated to offering brides a stress-free, personal shopping environment and the very best in customer service.
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winmock at kinderton
capacity 300 | price $$
1419 East Boulevard, Suite E, Charlotte, NC (704) 547-4208 | info@ladiesoflineage.com LadiesofLineage.com For a half a decade, Ladies of Lineage has offered an exclusive collection of designer wedding gowns created by some of the world’s leading fashion houses. Our style consultants work directly with our bridal designers to help create your wedding day look based upon your personality, style and budget.
bridal fashion & beauty
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168 East Kinderton Way, Bermuda Run, NC (336) 397-2010 rebecca@winmock.com WinMock.com A visual gala of breathtaking architecture and lush greenery, WinMock at Kinderton combines historic charm with a relaxed atmosphere. Grassy knolls lead the way to the romantic West Terrace, while the soaring Loft provides an unforgettable backdrop to your special day.
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best bride prom & tux
800 Fairview Rd. A1, Asheville, NC (828) 299-7403 BestBrideNC.com Best Bride Prom & Tux is also home of Merle Norman of Asheville, where we have been serving our customers for over 30 years. Appointments are scheduled for each bride to provide the highest level of personalized service with a dedicated bridal consultant.
48 Union Street South, Concord, NC (980) 621-6333 | bistrocatering@aol.com BistroCateringandEvents.com Bistro Catering and Events is a full-service catering company offering a wide range of options and covering the greater Charlotte area. Call us to schedule your no-obligation consultation, and let us start helping you plan the event of your dreams.
the icing & the cake
105 Singleton Rd., Suite 103, Mooresville, NC (704) 663-0399 | lkn@theicingandthecake.com TheIcingandTheCake.com The Icing & The Cake designers strive to provide you with the perfect centerpiece for your special
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occasion. We offer a comprehensive and creative design process to provide you the cake of your dreams. Contact us or visit our boutique to book your free consultation and tasting.
paolo’s gelato catering
info@paolosgelatocatering.com PaolosGelato.com | PaolosGelatoCatering.com Paolo’s Gelato offers the first-ever mobile gelateria. Now you can have authentic Italian gelato anywhere— perfect for a plantation wedding. We have a variety of carts and catering ideas as well as custom flavors of gelato—even fresh flower flavors!
sweet josephine’s
1345 North Main Street, Suite 101, High Point, NC (336) 883-8121 | sweetjosephines@hotmail.com Sweet-Josephines.com We pride ourselves on creating scratch-made, all-natural and delicious desserts for weddings and large events. The difference is in the flavor! We would love to be the sweetest part of one of the biggest days of your life!
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rhudy’s jewelry showroom
2410 Murchison Road, Fayetteville, NC (910) 488-7571 EXT. 2 rhudysinfo@rhudysjewelry.net RhudysJewelry.com With over 100 years of combined experience, our staff has knowledge as vast as our inventory. We give you better pricing on a much larger inventory, including more than 15 live bridal lines. Shop with us to see why Rhudy’s Jewelry Showroom is truly “The Gem of Fayetteville”! t
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malak jewelers
8042-1000 Providence Road, Charlotte, NC (704) 341-1188 | info@malakjewelers.com MalakJewelers.com Malak Jewelers, the diamond specialists, has one of the largest selections of diamonds and fine jewelry in the Carolinas. They carry everything bridal, including designer engagement rings, diamond wedding bands, men’s wedding bands, bridal party gifts and custom design, plus vintage estate jewelry.
perry’s at southpark
6525 Morrison Blvd., Charlotte, NC (704) 364-1391 PerrysJewelry.com Perry’s at SouthPark’s one-of-a-kind antique and estate pieces provide a classic touch—everything from engagement and wedding rings to the perfect earrings or pendant. Or, if you prefer, our custom jeweler can
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the oz agency
Serving the Southeast (919) 772-2366 david@theozagency.com TheOzAgency.com The Oz Agency has over 40 years of experience in the music industry. Our ultimate goal is to make your event easy and enjoyable. We offer several choices for your entertainment, whether a band or a DJ. The Oz Agency provides lights, staging and tents. It is your day and we want to make it special!
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(855) 874-2394 Blanc de Bleu is the world’s first blue sparkling wine—a dry, crisp, sparkling grape wine with a hint of blueberry. It’s perfect for wedding receptions. Visit BlancdeBleuUSA.com for your nearest retailer. Drink responsibly.
bridal registries
belk
Serving nationwide Belk.com Belk’s professionally-trained bridal consultants make planning your wedding gift registry enjoyable and convenient. You’ll find quality brand names and styles in china, crystal, flatware, kitchen electrics, bedding and bath essentials and more. Your guests are a click away from making your house a home. Just visit our website.
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4630 Paragon Park Road, Raleigh, NC (919) 948-2589 | CMIJewelry.com We are the largest locally owned jewelry showroom in North Carolina. We offer an incredible variety, with no-pressure sales of hand-selected engagement rings. Our jewelers take the time to educate our customers so they may knowledgeably purchase the highest-quality jewelry, all at our famous low prices.
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(336) 737-4306 weknowlove@thirteenthmoonphotography.com ThirteenthMoonPhotography.com Husband-and-wife photography team Bill and Rachel Bolen have captured nearly 700 weddings since 2008. Fine art wedding photography doesn’t have to mean high fashion—it can still be fun and full of life and color! With our honest reputation, we’re one part of your wedding day that needs no worry.
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thurston southern catering
(843) 352-2099 | events@thurstonsouthern.com ThurstonSouthernCatering.com From a backyard wedding to an extravagant Charleston affair, our immaculate attention to detail will ensure your special event is a truly unparalleled experience.
thirteenth moon photography
j.p. lord photography
(571) 288-5015 jplordphotography@gmail.com JPLordPhotography.com Justyn with J.P. Lord Photography is a Raleigh-based photographer, offering destination packages and specializing in capturing weddings, love of all kinds and portraits.
rob + kristen photography
(704) 320-3089 hello@robpluskristen.com RobPlusKristen.com Weddings produce some of life’s most intensely emotional moments—the culmination of months and years of a relationship. We are invited into these moments as honored historians to make art inspired by what unfolds before us. Beautiful wedding photos start with the most beautiful thing we can possess: love.
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Hidden River Events
112
1927 Lake Lure Inn & Spa
75
Highgrove Estate
5
The Barn at Reynolda Village
66
Historic Wakefield Barn
77
Belfair 147
The Inn at Tranquility Farm
63
Burke Manor Inn & Pavilion
122
Laurel Ridge Country Club
25
Cabins of Asheville
27
Lavender Oaks Farm
119
Callawassie Island
39
Melrose Knitting Mill
77
Cape Fear Botanical Garden
85
Middleton Place
179
Carnes Lake Banquet Hall
181
Millennium
13
Carolina Country Weddings & Events
81
Nu Wray Inn
27
Cedar Ridge Plantation Venue
170
The Oaks Wedding and Event Venue
153
The Charleston Gaillard Center
2
Old Edwards Inn and Spa
35
Charleston Harbor Resort & Marina
161
One Eleven Place
113
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The Pavilion at Silver Fork
120
Chestnut Ridge
97
Port Royal Golf Club
163
The Cliffs
60
Sanderling Resort
117
The Cottages on Charleston Harbor
179
Sawyer Family Farmstead
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Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden
110
The Sea Pines Resort
165
Diamond Room Event Venue
23
Spirit Communications Park
52
The Farm
123
Tides Folly Beach
178
The FarmHouse Siloam
89
Westglow Resort & Spa
7
Forevermore Farm
149
Willow Falls Events
120
Fripp Island Golf & Beach Resort
176
WinMock at Kinderton
17
Gambill Estate
117
Good Food Catering
157
CAKES & CATERERS
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Grande Dunes
169
Bistro Catering & Events
81
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The Icing & The Cake
33
Hazel George Events
65
Mosaic Catering + Events
10
HoneyBee’s Events
120
Paolo’s Gelato Catering
175
Mary Bell Events
29
Something Classic
45 Pure Luxe Bride
49
PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO
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Dock House Digital
175
J.P. Lord Photography
97
Rob + Kristen Photography
122
Thirteenth Moon Photography
89
Sweet Josephine’s
125
Thurston Southern Catering
173
FLOWERS & DÉCOR
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Petaloso 176
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Best Bride Prom & Tux
19
Ladies of Lineage Bridal Boutique
41
ENTERTAINMENT
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The Lily Rose
57
ATG Entertainment
51
The Oz Agency
123
INVITATIONS & DETAILS
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Things Remembered
21
SPECIALTY SERVICES
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Nitsa’s 37 Verità. A Bridal Boutique
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BRIDAL FASHION & BEAUTY
191
JEWELRY
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CMI Jewelry Showroom
1
Malak Jewelers
31
Perry’s Jewelry
9
Rhudy’s Jewelry Showroom
43
Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux
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EventWorks 138 WEDDING CONSULTANTS
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Devyn Leigh Events
85
BRIDAL REGISTRIES
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Events by Bella
114
Belk
15
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“I was utterly astonished by how gorgeous Katherine looked,” Jon says of his first peek at his bride on their wedding day. “I remember a sense of disbelief that I would marry this beautiful woman, and I reminded myself I was one lucky guy.”
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