The Knot The Carolinas Spring/Summer 2019

THE CAROLINAS

FIND YOUR VIBE

Ceremony and Reception Ideas You'll   

#YOUDOYOU

NEW PLACES TO WED E F F O RT L E S S DRESSES PLUS AN UN FORG ET TA BL E B RUN C H BA S H

WEDDING D R E S S CO D E S DEBUNKED R E G I S T RY

BY RO O M PHOTOGRAPHY TIPS F RO M T H E P RO S

AND MORE! ➜

CAROLINA WEDDINGS

EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GETTING MARRIED IN

NORTH CAROLINA / SOUTH CAROLINA / COASTAL CAROLINA

PRETTY BOHO-CHIC LOOKS

CHARLESTON S O U T H

C A R O L I N A

To stay in Charleston is to be swept back to an era of flickering carriage lanterns and cobblestone streets. It is a world of lovingly manicured gardens, spectacular architecture, sophisticated interpretations of Southern cuisine, and soul-stirring coastal landscapes—a fabled setting for your dream wedding. Plus, with daily nonstop flights to 25 cities it’s never been easier for your guests to get here. Find everything needed to plan your special day at CharlestonWeddingGuide.com. @CHSWEDDINGGUIDE @CHARLESTONWEDDINGGUIDE

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Rose Photo has been creating visual memoirs with its signature, couture photography for more than a decade. Start building your story, no matter where it begins, with amazing imagery.

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CONTENTS

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get the look theknot.com editor’s note wedding tools havana night southern soiree ask the knot squad top picks venue scout expert advice the wed thread haute hues keeping time marriage licenses and wedding announcements snapshot

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happy trails

PHOTOGR APH BY CHRIS CR AYMER

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What if planning your wedding could be simple?

ELEGANT SETTING & EXCELLENT FOOD, TOGETHER AT LAST

WWW.HIGHGROVE-NC.COM 919.552.6154 | 1613 South Main Street | Fuquay-Varina, NC @highgrovenc

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fashion & beauty 109

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slice by slice

bridal beauty, debunked Pros bust the biggest skin, hair and makeup myths.

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dress codes decoded The right attire and accessories no matter your venue or style.

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stylist on call Shoe queen Tamara Mellon gives us the scoop on choosing the best wedding shoes, plus trends she’s loving.

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happy trails

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Put the “glam” in glamping and channel the boho vibe of the great outdoors with these fresh wedding day looks.

stylist on call

style 80

morning matrimony A bright palette and plenty of personal details kick a daytime affair up a notch.

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slice by slice Every cake detail you need—and want—to know.

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suite talk All the basics for your suite.

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registry by room Products for every corner of your newlywed nest.

FROM LEF T: JADE + MAT THEW TAKE PICTURES; THERESA BRIDGET PHOTOGR APHY

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real weddings 61

ann & nate november 4, highlands, nc

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ashley & aaron april 28, asheville, nc

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lauren & marcus

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may 26, wilmington, nc

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lauren & mohan

the year’s freshest venues

april 16, pittsboro, nc

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ann & nate

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planning 153

the year’s freshest venues The new twists on some old faves.

xanna & travis

Nail down your wedding vision.

october 14, mt. pleasant, sc

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chancey & zach monika & chris

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april 21, awendaw, sc

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cameron & daniel

how to pull off all those other parties Ensure every wedding-related bash is a (fun) success.

june 9, columbia, sc

REAL WEDDING BUDGET KEY

$ = $10,000 or less

picture perfect Use these photography tips for photos you’ll cherish for a lifetime.

may 5, greenville, sc

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your style, defined

We know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!).

Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.

$$ = $10,001–$30,000

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$$$ = $30,001–$50,000

$$$$ = $50,001–$75,000

$$$$$ = $75,001+

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A storybook estate where dreams come true.

Wayfaring Wanderer Photography Fletcher & Fletcher Photography

WESTGLOW RESORT & SPA 224 WESTGLOW CIRCLE | BLOWING ROCK, NC 28605 | 800.562.0807

www.westglow.com

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ABOUT THE COVER

get the look Love our boho-chic cover dresses?

Check out more fashion-forward styles for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.

COVER Dress, $3,220, Leanne Marshall at Gilded Bridal, GildedBridal.com (Raleigh, NC), London and Lace Bridal Boutique, LondonandLace Bridal.com (Columbia, SC), Lovely Bride, LovelyBride.com (Charleston, SC); engagement ring, $2,815 (not including center stone), Noam Carver.com; earrings, $195, AlexisBittar.com

COVER Dress, $8,500, TemperleyLondon .com; engagement ring, $3,890 (not including center stone), Tacori.com; earrings, $575, JenniferBehr.com; shoes, $950, JimmyChoo.com

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COVER Dress, $3,300, Rita Vinieris at Hayden Olivia Bridal, Hayden Olivia.com (Charlotte, NC); vest, $1,450, shop similar styles at TSECashmere.com; earrings, $1,000, JacquieAiche.com

Scout’s Honor

We a sked these campers about their fave moments on set.

glamping

\ glam·ping \ noun

SCOUT Luca AGE 8 BEST PART OF THE SHOOT “I liked being outside, running toward the camera, dressing up and getting to meet a lot of new people.”

SCOUT Brett AGE 7 BEST PART OF THE SHOOT “I love being outdoors, so I liked the camping theme of the shoot.

It was pretty cool exploring the woods.”

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SCOUT Tyler AGE 9 BEST PART OF THE SHOOT “It was fun dressing up as a scout because I’m a Cub Scout in real life.

I’ve learned a lot about volunteering.”

A trendy way to do outdoor nuptials that combines glam amenities (think: tricked-out décor) with more traditional camping elements.

COVERS AND BOY SCOUTS: CHRIS CR AYMER; ICON: B FARIAS/NOUN PROJEC T

BEHIND THE SCENES

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wedding + special event venue

168 EAST KINDERTON WAY, BERMUDA RUN, NC 27006 | 336.397.2010 | WINMOCK.COM JAKE + HEATHER PHOTOGRAPHY | REBECCA ROSE EVENTS

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THE CAROLINAS

EDITOR IN CHIEF

Kristen Maxwell Cooper DESIGN DIRECTOR

DEPUTY EDITOR

MANAGING EDITOR

MANAGING EDITOR

SENIOR DIRECTOR, REAL WEDDINGS

PHOTO DIRECTOR

Tracy Everding

Lauren Kay

Susan Berryman

Maria Bouselli

Rebecca Crumley

Jo Miller

SENIOR DIGITAL EDITOR SENIOR NEWS EDITOR FASHION & BEAUTY EDITOR STYLE & PLANNING EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITORS ASSOCIATE ART DIRECTOR JUNIOR DESIGNER ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH ASSISTANT EDITOR, PHOTO ASSOCIATE DIGITAL EDITOR, PHOTO ASSISTANT EDITORS, DIGITAL EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY CONTRIBUTING PHOTO DIRECTOR CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR, SOCIAL MEDIA EDITOR, SOCIAL MEDIA MARKETING MANAGER, SOCIAL MEDIA SENIOR VIDEO PRODUCER VIDEO PRODUCER

Ivy Jacobson Esther Lee Shelley Brown Alyssa Longobucco Rachel Sylvester, Becky Murray Sarah Evans Emma Gray Pitt Katie Kortebein Rebecca Delman Jessica Kane Maggie Seaver, Sophie Ross Farah Prince Sarah Rozen Michele Parrella Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter Whitney Little Sarah Hooper Trisha Tucker Jacquie Militano Jose Marmolejos

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PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy PUBLICATION DESIGNER Kate Richter SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNER Katie Hover GRAPHIC DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION MANAGER Carly Steier CONTENT EDITOR Lois Brunnert Bethune THE STUDIO @ XO VP, CUSTOM CONTENT & HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig EXECUTIVE PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR, SALES DEVELOPMENT MARKETING Chaucy Dixon SENIOR EDITORS Cassie Kreitner, Kate Traverson ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelsey Paine SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher JUNIOR DIGITAL MARKETING COORDINATOR Claire Flanagan ASSISTANT SOCIAL MEDIA EDITOR Stephani Schell SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Thomas Chelednik, tchelednik@theknot.com (877) 238-2369 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Tamara Crenshaw, tcrenshaw@theknot.com (843) 510-0553 SENIOR REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE SENIOR DIRECTOR, SHOWS & EVENTS DIRECTOR, PRODUCT MARKETING STRATEGY SPECIALIST DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS & MARKETING SENIOR MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS & MARKETING COORDINATOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS & MARKETING COFOUNDER

Audrey Groves, agroves@theknot.com (919) 200-0955 Rhonda Haberkamp, rhondah@xogrp.com (888) 332-7815 Diane Thaete, dthaete@xogrp.com (877) 771-3018 Kristy Newquist, knewquist@xogrp.com (817) 927-3070 Danielle Pelletiere, dpelletiere@xogrp.com (214) 460-7080 Susana Diharce, sdiharce@xogrp.com (866) 960-9909 Bevin Stella, bstella@xogrp.com (212) 515-3544 Jena Fogarty, jfogarty@theknot.com (402) 596-8473 Melissa Bach, pr@xogrp.com Lauren Nolan, pr@xogrp.com Emilie Berman, pr@xogrp.com

Carley Roney

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www.ladiesoflineage.com • info@ladiesoflineage.com

redefining the bridal gown shopping experience Charlotte Location 1419 East Boulevard, Suite E Charlotte, NC 28203 704-547-4208

Fort Mill Location 1329 Broadcloth Street, Suite 103 Fort Mill, SC 29715 803-233-1722

Designers NOR TH CAROLINA Sassi Holford of London Legends by Romona Keveza Matthew Christopher • Lis Simon Bridal Aire Barcelona by Rosa Clará Theia Couture • Tara Keely • Allison Webb Ella Rosa by Kenneth Winston SOUTH CAROLINA Essense of Australia • Pronovias Allison Webb • Lis Simon Separates Beloved by Casablanca Bridal Rebecca Ingram

DRESS: ALLISON WEBB

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.com/carolinas Discover new ideas, get answers to your questions and find local wedding pros that fit your style and budget.

REAL WEDDINGS

get inspired Browse weddings from across the Carolinas, including Kelly and Steve’s fall fete that played up the old-school glamour of The Graylyn Estate in WinstonSalem, North Carolina. The bride carried snapdragons, lamb’s ear and proteas, and dramatic splashes of wine and apple green, plus arrangements dotted with artichokes and pomegranates filled the day.

Kelly and Steve said “I do” under a gazebo outdoors.

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Ready to assemble your pro squad? Discover the top-rated wedding vendors in your area and find out why couples love them at TheKnot.com/bow. +

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BEST OF WEDDINGS

Gather your dream team of local wedding vendors with the help of our Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/carolinas. You can connect with planners, photographers and other vendors by searching by region and price in our local Marketplace. Your state directory has everything you need to know to get married, even where and how to secure a marriage license. You’ll also discover real wedding inspiration from other couples in the Carolinas.

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I’m all about the idea of a brunch wedding. Cereal and mimosas? Yes, please. (p. 80)

EDITOR ’S NOTE

Casual themes, like glamping, are very on trend. (p. 122)

If a white dress doesn’t speak to you, find one in a color that does and just go for it. (p. 40)

ON THE APP WE’VE INCLUDED THIS ICON throughout the magazine to indicate whenever The Knot app can help with a planning or inspiration task.

When it comes to weddings today, the rules are simple: There are no rules! You can get married on a campground (p. 122), wear a colorful suit or dress (p. 40), or host a brunch celebration complete with cereal décor and everyone’s fave breakfast bites (p. 80). In other words, the options are truly endless. For all of the brides and grooms out there looking for a rule book ( hi there), the thought of “anything goes” could feel overwhelming—and you may not know where to start.

Whoever you are, and whatever celebration you’re throwing, begin by downloading The Knot app—it will help you determine your style, customize to-do lists and find vendors in your area. The next step? Look to your relationship for inspiration. Consider activities you like to do together, a location you frequent or a global tradition you both admire.

Start adding these bit by bit into your ceremony and reception, and you’ll soon have a celebration that feels just like you.

KRISTEN MAXWELL COOPER Editor in Chief

Follow me @kristenmax I want to hear from you! kristen@theknot.com

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COOPER: SAR AH LOVE PHOTOGR APHY; EMOJI: EMOJIPEDIA; BRIDE AND BOY SCOUTS: CHRIS CR AYMER; BRUNCH COUPLE: JESSIC A HUNT PHOTOGR APHY; COUPLE IN PINK: NERIPHOTO; CEREAL: ISTOCK

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The Barn at Forevermore Farm & The Stables at Forevermore Farm offer a unique, rustic experience you and your guests will never forget. Surrounded by meadows and natural beauty, our location is perfect for hosting elegant wedding ceremonies.

Now offering waterside weddings & events overlooking our 5 acres of pond.

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WEDDING TOOL S

CONGRATULATIONS

you’re engaged!

Here are the big tasks from “yes” to “I do.” Turn the page for more, including the tools you’ll need and how to get your personalized checklist.

BOOK A VENUE Search for the perfect place to celebrate, keeping budget and guest count in mind. Then set the date.

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NAIL DOWN THE BUDGET Envision your wedding and decide how much you want to spend (and who else will be contributing).

GATHER YOUR CREW Ask your besties to stand by you at the altar and in the months leading up to your day.

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REGISTER & CREATE A WEBSITE Start a wish list and site on The Knot .com. Share the link so guests are in on all the details, like hotel room blocks.

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PLAN THE CEREMONY Meet with your officiant to discuss the details and attend prewedding counseling if required.

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COMPLETE YOUR TEAM Book any outstanding pros like hairstylists, makeup artists, day-of transportation or a photo booth for your reception.

BUY THE RINGS Shop for and purchase your wedding rings—don’t forget insurance (now it’s starting to feel really real, right?).

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PICK YOUR WEDDING PAPER Decide on invites, thank-yous and other stationery. If you place one order, you may snag a discount.

FINALIZE OTHER PARTY DETAILS Plan your rehearsal dinner, after-party and morning-after brunch.

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GO FOR FITTINGS Have the final dress fitting and arrange for suit or tux rental pickup.

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CHOOSE A POINT PERSON If you don’t have a wedding planner or day-of coordinator, task a friend or family member to be the go-to so you can relax and enjoy the day.

BUY THE FORMALWEAR Shop for your attire and schedule necessary fittings—don’t forget accessories. Decide what your wedding party will wear too.

GET THE MARRIAGE LICENSE You’ll find this must-have doc at the state registrar’s office in the county where you’ll wed.

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get married!

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The planning and hard work are behind you—time to celebrate your new status.

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Wedding planning at its finest.

Serving Asheville, Charleston, Savannah and beyond.

Offering complete design and luxury planning services for today’s busy bride.

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plan your wedding on your phone Organizing all those details and to-dos? There’s an app for that. The Knot Wedding Planner pulls together your vision, pros and guests to put planning in the palm of your hand.

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PHOTOGRAPH BY YUNHEE KIM

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FIND YOUR WEDDING STYLE We know—you’re probably figuring out where you should even start.

We’ve got you covered. Once you download the app, the first thing you’ll do is swipe, swipe, swipe on images in our Style Quiz. It’s a fun way to help zero in on your wedding vibe. Once complete, you’ll have your very own Wedding Vision (more on that on the next page).

KEEP ORGANIZED Not sure what to do when? No sweat—we’ve put together a checklist for you, and it’s totally customizable. So if Uncle Jeff is officiating, we’ll take “find an officiant” off your list. Plus, our budgeter will help you track your overall spending and how much you’ve put toward each detail.

COMPILE YOUR TEAM After sharing all your info (budget, location, guest count) we’ll help you assemble your squad with personalized recs. And if you want to keep scrolling, we’ve got thousands of award-winning pros, plus reviews, on The Knot Marketplace.

MANAGE YOUR REGISTRY Now for the fun part: your registries. Family and friends are going to be looking to shower you with gifts all engagement long, so keep your wish lists full of options right from the app. Our universal registry tool makes it easy to add items from anywhere you shop—so you don’t have to choose between that handmade glass pitcher from Etsy and the badass grill from Home Depot. And if you’d rather ask for cash to put toward things like a home down payment or first-class tickets, register on The Knot Newlywed Fund.

THINK OF YOUR GUESTS Trust us—your wedding website is going to be your new best friend. Fill it with need-to-know info, like hotels, directions to the venue and your registries (we’ll help you along the way). Then share it with guests so your phone isn’t constantly blowing up with questions. You can sync it with your phone contacts to save time address hunting and stay on top of RSVPs. GET YOUR DAY-OF TIMELINE As you check off to-dos (so satisfying, right?) the app creates a detailed wedding day timeline. Share it with your pros, wedding party and parents. This way, everyone knows when it’s all going down, and you can focus on enjoying your mimosa and having a blast with your besties. >>

PROP STYLING: JULIE FLYNN AT HALLEY RESOURCES

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A timeless mountain venue for a wedding as unique as you.

BLUE BEND PHOTOGRAPHY

FLEENOR PHOTOGRAPHY

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Your wedding will be as unique as you, and Laurel Ridge Country Club can help make it a reality. With fully customized experiences and flexible indoor/outdoor venue spaces, your journey can begin here, just as you have pictured. Call today to set up a tour or request more information.

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WEDDING TOOL S

LE T ’ S G E T STA RT E D ON

Not sure how to define your style and theme?

That’s okay! Download The Knot Wedding Planner app and take our Style Quiz to get your personalized Wedding Vision.

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DISCOVER YOUR ST YLE No couple is just one set style—instead, you’ll get a series of words that describe your vibe.

Bonus: You can use this lingo when talking with your pros.

PERFECT YOUR COLOR PALET TE Check out the colors that best match your wedding style.

And don’t worry—you can always change them up as you plan.

GET PERSONAL RECOMMENDATIONS We’ll take your quiz answers and match you with vendors based on your location, style and budget— starting with your venue.

CREATE YOUR VISION All that swiping will leave you with tons of inspo, which you can add to anytime. Plus, there’s room for personalized must-haves (think late-night taco truck, dog-friendly ceremony space or room for a sangeet).

SHARE YOUR IDEAS When you’re ready, send your vision board to your fam and the people bringing your day to life.

A series of images will help convey your idea of what a “romantic garden party” looks like.

ON THE APP LOOK FOR THIS ICON Throughout the issue we’ve included more ways the app can help you plan, like creating your wedding website and setting up the ultimate registry.

SAY “I DO” WITH EASE As you check off your to-dos, we’ll create a personalized day-of timeline to help you pull off the main event.

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PROP ST YLING: PA M MORRIS; VISION BOARD AND VENUES: DANA CUBBAGE WEDDINGS (6); VISION ICON: C ASEY SPEER/ THE NOUN PROJEC T; SHARE ICON: LOGAN/ THE NOUN PROJEC T; IPHONE ICON: NIKITA KOZIN/ THE NOUN PROJEC T; CHECK ICON: KIMMI STUDIO/ THE NOUN PROJEC T; RECOMMENDATION ICON: PRESENT TAS/ THE NOUN PROJEC T; PALET TE ICON: ALEX AUDA SA MOR A/ THE NOUN PROJEC T; ST YLE ICON: CHRIS HOM AN/ THE NOUN PROJEC T

your wedding vision

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A great kitchen STARTS WITH GOOD TASTE BELK .COM/WEDDING

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THE KNOT MARKET MIXER

havana night CHARLESTON PHOTOGR APHY BY ANNE RHET T PHOTOGR APHY

LOLUMA built four custom cabanas jazzed up with café lighting inside THE CEDAR ROOM. Inspired by the hot colors, prints and summer vibes that reflect the Cuban spirit, they filled planter boxes with five-foot-tall palm leaves, painting some in bright corals, pinks and blues. Mojitos and Cuba Libres (rum and Coke) also made an appearance.

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“Dessert was not to be forgotten. We treated guests to passed churros with chocolate sauce and a cake with two pairings: chocolate Coke cake with mint chocolate ganache and vanilla cake with white chocolate rum mousse.”

—Sha Sha Harnik, Loluma

THE TEAM VENUE & CATERING The Cedar Room EVENT PLANNER & FLOWERS Loluma PHOTOGRAPHY Anne Rhett Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Paragon Filmworks STATIONERY Calligraphy and signage: J.Lily Design; printed signage: Studio R Design; graphics and vinyl: Charleston Wraps RENTALS EventHaus; The French Eclectic LIGHTING Aurora Creative Group LINENS BBJ Linens MIXOLOGY BAR Pop the Bubbly Events DESSERT Delicious Desserts MUSIC Charleston Virtuosi; David Fox/Bunn DJ Company RUM Blue Chair Bay Rum ENTERTAINMENT Cigars: Cigar Row Events VINTAGE CARS Lowcountry Valet & Shuttle Co.

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ADVICE

Q AND A

ask the knot squad We tapped our experts for answers to your most pressing questions.

CARLEY RONEY Cofounder, The Knot

BRITTNY DRYE Founder and editor in chief, Love Inc. Mag

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MARY CHATMAN CEO and editor in chief, Black Bride

SHAWNA GOHEL Founder and editor in chief, Maharani Weddings

MARK INGRAM Owner and creative director, Mark Ingram Atelier

BRITTANY LO CEO and founder, Beautini

HARMONY WALTON Founder, Jet Fete and The Bridal Bar

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What should we put in the welcome bags for our island destination wedding?

HARMONY WALTON: For tropical vows, definitely include some sun essentials.

Travel-size sunscreen and after-sun care, like aloe and moisturizing lotion, are both useful items for guests. Then, throw in some beach-themed gifts to give everyone a peek into the fun to come. Sunglasses (even better if they’re emblazoned with your hashtag), flip-flops, tote bags and anything local you can source, like island rum cake or a voucher for a water activity such as paddleboarding, all do the trick.

DIY your favors, like an infused olive oil, for a sweet touch

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I love the idea of navy bridesmaid dresses, but I’m worried they’ll clash next to black tuxes on the groomsmen.

Is this color combo a no-no?

CARLEY RONEY: This rule has gone the way of “no white after Labor Day”—so don’t bother giving it a second thought.

In fact, these colors can work for almost any type of wedding. Pair inky-blue dresses with classic black suits and rich eggplant florals for an elegant, moody affair. If your signature style is a bit more vibrant, throw in a pop of color, like flamingo pink or kelly green. For a modern celebration, brighten the palette with scarlet accents.

Still not convinced? Consider choosing ties or vests in something other than black—that still coordinates with your wedding palette, of course—to lighten the overall look and shift the focus away from the tuxedos. And for your attendants, opt for a shade of navy closer to black than to blue. But trust us: You don’t have to worry about a color clash.

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My family expects me to serve traditional Indian cuisine at my wedding, but how can I make sure I offer a meal every guest will love?

SHAWNA GOHEL: There are a ton of fusion menu options that allow you to creatively incorporate Indian flavors with a variety of other cuisines—think spicy chicken tikka tacos or paneer lettuce wraps. Another thought: Since Indian weddings often consist of multiple events, compromise with your family by having one of the events feature a predominately non-Indian lineup. That way, you and your partner can incorporate some other favorite dishes into the wedding celebration. Food is one of the best ways to show guests who you are as a couple. >>

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PLANNING

What are some other terms we can use for our wedding party besides bridesmaid and groomsman?

BRIT TNY DRYE: Gone are the days of ladies on one side of the aisle and guys on the other—today’s couples are having mixed genders on both sides on their wedding day. You shouldn’t feel limited by binary titles—instead, allow yourself to pick verbiage that best suits you and your loved ones. You can use more typical titles such as person of honor, bridesman, groomswoman and attendant. Or try giving your group a fun twist with broader labels, like ceremony squad or “ I do” crew. Having a themed wedding? Incorporate it into the wedding party title.

For a travel-themed wedding, try adventure seekers, or for a camp celebration, go with counselors.

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PLANNING

How do we choose the best signature cocktail for our reception?

MARY CHATMAN: When picking a signature sip, you want to make sure it has great flavor and some personal significance to you and your partner. Tap a local mixologist to help you create a one-of-a-kind libation with your favorite spirit that guests will enjoy.

It’s important to also consider the time of year you’re celebrating, so you can land on a drink that has the perfect balance of in-season flavors and colors—and is the right temperature too. When in doubt, go classic with a mojito, margarita or martini, and add a few ingredients to make it your own (think: lavender, herbs like basil or mint, edible flowers, jalapeño or fresh fruit like raspberries). These elements are also a great way to tie in your wedding colors. Then, just give your drink a creative name and you’re all set.

23% OF COUPLES HAVE A SIGNATURE COCKTAIL AT THEIR WEDDING

FA S H I O N

What kind of undergarments should you wear to your wedding dress fitting?

MARK INGRAM: You should plan to wear the same undergarments you’ll be wearing on your actual wedding day. Many gowns today have a built in corset and bust cups (or they can be added), so an additional bra isn’t really necessary. Your undergarment needs will also depend on your body type, and the fabrication and structure of your gown. Ask your consultant for their recommendation before purchasing any items.

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How do you keep your hairstyle intact at an outdoor summer wedding?

BRIT TANY LO: For warmer temps, I tell brides to be realistic and choose a look that both complements their features and can withstand potentially hot and humid weather. For example, if your hair already doesn’t hold a curl well, ask your stylist if a half-up style may better defy the heat and humidity of the day. But if you’ve always dreamed of looking a certain way on your wedding day, there’s no need to completely stay away from that style. Your stylist has worked in plenty of conditions—they’ll be able to come up with a look that you’ll absolutely love and feel beautiful in from start to finish.

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Whether you envision your wedding on the water, inside a loft or somewhere in between, these 15 venues are worth a look.

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SETTING

waterfront

CELEBRATION COTTAGE ATLANTIC BEACH, NC COST from $4,500 GUEST COUNT 250 STYLE Nautical & charming ABOUT The name’s a bit of a misnomer: The oceanfront “cottage” venue may look like a house externally, yet inside has an open floor plan, no bedrooms and 19-foot ceilings. Nearby houses are available to rent.

Set a simple, unmistakably idyllic scene for your “I dos” by getting married near a stream, a river or the Atlantic Ocean.

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WILD DUNES RESORT ISLE OF PALMS, SC COST from $1,000 GUEST COUNT 400 STYLE Luxe & convenient ABOUT Choose from five spots on-site, from the beach to a more traditional balloom, Palmetto Hall.

Our pick is the Grand Pavillion for its cool breeze, stunning views and built-in shelter from any rain.

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THE WATSON HOUSE EMERALD ISLE, NC COST from $35,000 GUEST COUNT 200 STYLE Intimate & romantic ABOUT Surrounded by the Bogue Sound and stunning gardens, the secluded, seven-acre venue includes a rustic barn, horses, doves and swans. Snap pictures on the dock, and end the night near the outdoor fireplace.

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O.HENRY HOTEL GREENSBORO, NC COST from $5,000 GUEST COUNT 150 STYLE Vintage & elegant ABOUT Guests can take advantage of afternoon tea and jazz peformances.

SONESTA RESORT HILTON HEAD ISLAND, SC COST from $7,500 GUEST COUNT 500 STYLE Casual & colorful ABOUT Postcard-perfect palms trees and ponds line the walk to the beach.

HOTEL DOMESTIQUE TRAVELERS REST, SC COST from $20,000 GUEST COUNT 150 STYLE Rustic & stylish ABOUT The boutique, intimate spot has 13 rooms.

SETTING

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HUGUENOT LOFT AT THE PEACE CENTER GREENVILLE, SC COST from $5,250 GUEST COUNT 200 STYLE Elegant & rustic ABOUT It sits near Reedy River and downtown.

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Huguenot Loft at the Peace Center

SETTING

loft Make an open space entirely your own by working with existing details like exposed brick, floor-to-ceiling windows and glass chandeliers.

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BYRON’S SOUTH END CHARLOTTE, NC COST from $19,500 GUEST COUNT 325 STYLE Historic & casual ABOUT The prior knitting mill was built in 1927.

MERCHANTS HALL CHARLESTON, SC COST from $2,400 GUEST COUNT 200 STYLE Industrial & glamorous ABOUT It shares a block with bustling City Market.

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THE BARN AT REYNOLDA VILLAGE WINSTON-SALEM, NC COST from $6,900 GUEST COUNT 100 STYLE Simple & rustic ABOUT The former cow barn reopened in 2016.

OLD WIDE AWAKE PLANTATION HOLLYWOOD, SC COST from $4,000 GUEST COUNT 250 STYLE Classic & Southern ABOUT The building was a general store in the 1800s.

THE CEDAR ROOM CHARLESTON, SC COST from $18,500 GUEST COUNT 300 STYLE Minimal & industrial ABOUT The red fire door is original to the cigar factory.

TANGLEWOOD PLANTATION LYNCHBURG, SC COST from $3,500 GUEST COUNT 600 STYLE Classic & romantic ABOUT The converted groom’s cottage was once a schoolhouse.

ROSE HILL PLANTATION NASHVILLE, NC COST from $10,500 GUEST COUNT 300 STYLE Elegant & stately ABOUT Get married on the front steps, in the Swan Gazebo or in a pecan grove.

MAGNOLIA PLANTATION & GARDENS CHARLESTON, SC COST from $6,000 GUEST COUNT 250 STYLE Southern & natural ABOUT Have your first look among gorgeous magnolias.

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SETTING

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advice from a baker

The husband-and-wife duo behind Charlotte-based Celestial Cakery makes the case for a personalized confection.

OUR PRO

Ella Stone, Owner TOP TIP

Browse Instagram and Pinterest to get a feel for cake designs that match your style—and those that don’t— prior to meeting with your baker.

How can a cake reflect a couple’s style?

Most cakes tend to incoporate the colors or flowers of the wedding or are inspired by the venue. We find that a lot of our modern cake designs end up at musuem receptions, while our naked cakes tend to make an appearance at farmhouse celebrations.

Can you share some of your favorite flavor pairings ?

We offer more than 100 flavors and fillings and are always open to customizing combinations that are not on our official list. Here are a few unique examples: ginger and wasabi chocolate ganache, pear compote and ginger, rosewater buttercream, and chocolate and cayenne.

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What’s the key to a delicious cake?

Fresh is the main ingredient. We try to bake and assemble a wedding cake as close to the day as possible to ensure it stays moist. We also never freeze our desserts, and you shouldn’t either. Though the tradition of saving the top tier for your first anniversay has been around forever, we recommend you slice that tier, then get a replica when the time comes.

What’s the difference between buttercream and fondant frosting?

Fondant provides a smooth, seamless surface that’s great for applying techniques like gold leafing or hand painting.

However, it dries hard and is often too sweet, which can be a huge turn-off. Buttercream is silky smooth and pleases even the pickiest critics, but if your cake artist isn’t careful, it can be susceptible to looking sloppy.

How can clients on a budget save on dessert?

Because naked cakes take less time to create, we offer them at a discount. Another option is to display a faux cake with only one real tier for the two of you to cut at the reception. You can then serve sheet cake or cupcakes to guests.

Describe one of your most original creations.

All of our designs are completely unique because we don’t offer choices A, B or C. However, we once made a groom’s cake in the shape of a two-foot-tall spray paint can with a cartoon face, one eye and a huge smile for a local graffiti artist. In general, plain white cakes with no design, flowers or personality just aren’t in our wheelhouse.

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advice from a planner

OUR PRO

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You can absolutely pull off a wedding in six months with the right planner.

To save money, hire a DJ instead of a band, and don’t purchase custom stationery.

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What are the first three things a newly engaged pair should tackle?

Define your overall budget. Everyone has a budget, even those who say they don’t, and this figure is an important factor when choosing vendors for your wedding day. Next, work on a tentative guest list to help narrow in on venues that can accommodate your headcount.

The number you’re anticipating will also determine how much of your budget to allocate to each vendor—catering, bar service and rentals, for example, fluctuate per person.

Lastly, set a date, or at least a tentative one if you have some flexibility.

How can couples ensure they book a quality venue?

We look out for a few key factors when scouting venues with couples. First, the location’s style must match our clients’ vision. A barn wedding is not going to work well for a pair who has a modern, contemporary style. Secondly, we look for a helpful event manager and an attentive staff. It’s a red flag if your contacts are hard to reach or slow to respond to emails before you’ve even booked. Just imagine how tough it will be to get answers from them once they’ve received your signed contract and deposit. Finally, we consider venue policies, such as clearance for amplified music, flame-lit candles and draping, plus accessibility. Limited access for setup may require additional staffing due to time constraints, meaning more charges to you in the long run.

Are there advantages to hiring a planner instead of a day-of coordinator?

Where do I start? As the saying goes, you get what you pay for, and a good full-service planner is well worth the price. The main benefit that comes to mind is that having someone else take the reins from the beginning will help alleviate stress throughout planning, and, in fact, you might even find it to be a fun experience. Also, by utilizing a planner’s expertise, he or she can actually help you save money along the way.

Can you share some of the challenges that come with planning a destination wedding?

Communication will often happen by email, phone or Skype because you won’t be able to come to town often enough for in-person visits. To help bridge the gap between where you live and where you’ll be celebrating, hire a full-service planner who can handle all of the logistics and provide local recommendations. Otherwise, you’ll get stuck with endless hours of research, relying on the Internet for answers.

What trends are you into right now?

I’ve been a longtime fan of tented weddings. As for color, although blush and white are still classic and stunning, deeper hues and bolder patterns are now the focus of many of our celebrations. We love when our clients go custom with their bars, entrances, floral structures and more. For example, one of our brides got married on her family farm, but wanted to incorporate a traditional ceremony in a church. Instead of asking her guests to drive 30 minutes to the nearest church, we built a structure resembling a chapel right on the farm—pews included.

Do you have a favorite wedding-day moment?

Nothing beats a couple’s reaction to seeing their reception for the first time. After months of planning, consultations and dreaming, they get to see their vision come to life. I also look out for the groom’s face when first seeing the bride. Whether at the altar or during a first look, that moment is always priceless.

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THEIR STORY Though Ann Browning (35 and in fundraising for a public policy think tank) and Nate Hollingsworth (34 and an investment firm portfolio manager) met at a black-tie wedding, for their own celebration, they asked guests to dress in their best “cocktailrustic-chic” attire. “I actually ended up wearing cowboy boots under my dress during the ceremony because the grass was a bit soft,” Ann says. The couple booked Old Edwards Inn & Spa site unseen because they spend a lot of time hunting, fishing and hiking. “It was a place we could bring in the spirit of the outdoors that was still a respite for everyone traveling.” Southern family heirlooms, country music and a four-foot antler chandelier made for one personalized party.

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Old Edwards Inn & Spa, Highlands, NC The menu, highlighting local game and the fall season, started with a first course of roasted candy roaster squash soup topped with sage pesto, butter squash jelly and crispy sage.

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Though Ashley found her gown “picture perfect,” she wanted to be able to party at the reception. Her second look, a short, long-sleeve beaded number, was “fun, yet bridal,” Ashely says.

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THEIR STORY College sweethearts Ashley Lanier (26 and a nursing school student) and Aaron Dunmire (25 and COO of an electrical contracting company) met as students at Wake Forest. Though they now live in Maryland, they returned to the state where they met to tie the knot. “There’s just something about North Carolina,” Ashley says. “It appealed to us because it’s easygoing, relaxing and kind of an escape from the sometimes overwhelming Northeast.” Their wedding at the picturesque Biltmore Estate took on a “rustic French countryside” theme, Ashley says. “Soft design elements create such a romantic and comfortable atmosphere, which we wanted for our friends and family.” —BM

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Ashley invited a man of honor and six bridesmaids to stand by her side, and Aaron tapped 11 groomsmen. Slate blue, blush and pops of navy brought their style goals to life, while metallic accents made the day feel a bit more formal. “We wanted a super-romantic feel with lots of candlelight,” Ashley says. “The entire evening had such a glow. It embodied the love we feel for each other, family and friends.”

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Ashley and Aaron opened the dance floor with Al Green’s “Let’s Stay Together.” The evening’s comfort-food-focused menu included fried chicken biscuits at cocktail hour, a butter-poached lobster appetizer and a late-night dish of Old Bay–seasoned chips, honoring the pair’s Maryland home.

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THEIR STORY Despite their current residence in San Francisco, UNC Chapel Hill alumni Lauren Porter (27 and a digital media professional) and Marcus Lindroos (28 and a senior associate at Adams Street Partners), returned to North Carolina to say “I do” under a 400-year-old oak tree. “Airlie Gardens was the perfect setting for our guests to enjoy Wilmington’s beautiful coast and Southern charm,” Lauren says. —Rachel Sylvester

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Lauren asked her bridesmaids to wear dresses from previous weddings or events they already owned and loved.

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A black-and-white dance floor and disco ball made the couple’s intentions clear to dinner guests. “I really cared about our band and our bar,” Lauren says. They hosted a cocktail hour both before and after the ceremony and included craft beer from the various cities in which they’ve lived on the menu.

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Lauren’s embellished red and gold lehenga (right) was especially sentimental—it was a gift from Mohan’s family. She donned a beaded sheath for the reception.

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THEIR STORY

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For their Jewish-Indian fusion wedding at a rural North Carolina barn, Lauren Ring (28 and a physician) and Mohan Mallipeddi (32 and also a physician) managed to seamlessly blend traditions from their respective backgrounds. “We wanted to celebrate the best parts of each of our cultures,” Lauren says.

“It was important that both of our families felt like their traditions were respected.” Yarmulkes were gifted to male guests prior to the ceremony, while members of Lauren’s wedding party wore vibrant saris that showed off their mehndi. Once they were official, Lauren and Mohan moved the party into the barn, where they danced to “Married Life” from the movie Up. Later, guests took home lemongrassturmeric-marigold soap handmade by Lauren’s mom—one last family tradition. —RS

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Your cake is probably one of the most anticipated elements of your wedding—after all, who doesn’t like dessert? And while it’s bound to be delicious no matter what you do, there are a few things you should know about your confection before you sit down with a baker or start sampling frostings. Allow us to fill you in. >> 89

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must-read wedding cake tips Keep these pointers in mind to get the tiered confection of your dreams.

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Nail down your style, then choose your cake.

You may love a rustic semi-naked cake, but if you’re hosting a black-tie ballroom wedding, the two styles may not jive. Before deciding on the look of your cake, figure out certain specifics about your event, like the venue, palette and vibe. That way, your cake will complement— and not compete with—your overall wedding look.

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Consider the size of your space (and guest list).

When deciding what size cake to order, first look to your guest count. Three tiers typically serve between 50 and 100 guests, so if your list is in the hundreds, increase your order. Second, consider your venue.

Hosting in a tent with a grand ceiling? Add Styrofoam tiers (yes, that’s a thing!) to up the height and make your cake proportional to your space.

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Budget for the flavor and details you want.

Cakes are generally priced by the slice and can range from $3 to a whopping $30 per slice (and beyond), depending on the flavors, filling and frosting you choose. If you have your taste buds set on an custom combo, put aside extra funds to cover it. This goes for decorative additions too. Fresh fruits and flowers can often be applied for a small fee, while delicate, hand-crafted sugar blooms or intricate detailing will take a baker more time to create—and cost you more money.

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Don’t forget to finish it off.

Before your event, pass off your cake topper to your baker, planner or catering manager so they can place it on your cake for its big reveal.

A classic figurine is a traditional choice, but more and more couples are using the cake topper as a moment of personalization in their day. Choose something that represents you as a duo, like a clay model of your pet, figurines of your favorite action heroes or a monogrammed acrylic sign.

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have your cake and eat it too (even a year later) The 411 on saving your sweet for your first anniversary.

There’s simply no way your cake will taste as good after spending a year in the freezer as it does on your wedding day, which is why our first suggestion to couples is always to sneak a slice (or two!) while at your reception. If you’re worried about getting a chance to sit down and enjoy it, ask your planner or caterer to set aside two pieces for you and your partner to enjoy later that evening. Then, set aside the top tier for a celebration soon after, like returning from your honeymoon or your one-month anniversary and opt to buy a fresh version (in a similar flavor) to enjoy on your one-year anniversary. If you simply must adhere to tradition, tightly wrap the tier in plastic wrap and place it in an airtight bag before freezing.

top it off Cake toppers didn’t become popular until the 1950s, when couples in the US started using them on their wedding cakes.

cut it right Cutting the cake—and feeding your spouse—is a timehonored wedding tradition. Here’s how it should go down.

The ceremonial cutting of the cake has remained popular with newlywed couples. In fact, according to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, 85 percent of couples include a formal cake cutting in their reception. Even if you think you’re a pro at cutting sweets, check with your baker or caterer for instructions on how to make the first cut—they may suggest you cut from the bottom tier or help you avoid a Styrofoam one. Once cut, the newlyweds usually feed each other the first slice, symbolizing their commitment to provide for one another. In some cases, this is replaced by a different tradition: smashing cake into each other’s faces.

How you feed each other is up to you, but remember—you don’t need to smear frosting on your new spouse simply because you think guests expect it. >>

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fresh trends Some of the “it” ways bakers are creating standout cakes this year.

Edible gold leafing (!!) is a luxe touch

3-D textures Even basic white buttercream feels fresh when the focus is on texture. Get inspired by fabrics you love, like a cozy fisherman sweater or delicate Swiss dot, then ask your baker to re-create the look on your cake’s exterior.

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Geometric detailing Interesting, architectural accents are in.

Ask your baker to echo any modern ones at your event space, like playing up your loft venue’s ceiling look in fondant or using a wire geode to hold up two individual tiers of cake.

Marbleized exterior Work several hues from your wedding day palette into your cake with fondant icing designed to look marbled. The result will be so smooth and sleek, guests may think it’s the real deal.

Hand-painted patterns Delicate paintings (typically made on a fondant exterior using food coloring) can be pricey, but the payoff is big.

Use them to mimic details like the colors of your grandma’s heirloom china or the blooms in your bouquet.

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Celestial details Look to the stars for the future of cake decoration— literally. Make this trend yours with a dramatic inky-blue fondant exterior that resembles the night sky or a goldflecked pattern of the stars the night you got engaged. >>

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Semi-naked Totally naked cakes had their moment—now it’s their slightly dressed-up counterpart’s turn in the spotlight. With a sheer outer layer of frosting, a semi-naked cake strikes a classy balance between rustic and refined.

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Couples are loving the combination of soft watercolor washes with gold or silver foil flecks on the exterior of their cake. They’re so free and beautiful—it’s my favorite look to create.

Before getting started on a design, I always ask my couples what kind of feeling and style their wedding will have. From there, we’ll look at photos and sketch an idea that incorporates their vibe.

Practically anything can serve as a jumping-off point for cake design, whether it’s a pattern, an old book or even a favorite photo. Use that to create a new vision and look that’s all your own.

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pastry passport Get inspiration for your cake with these traditional wedding sweets from around the world.

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A fanciful fruit cake takes center stage at British weddings. Typically made from cognac-soaked dates, prunes, raisins, currants and orange peel, the cake is finished off with a marzipan or fondant topping.

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Buttercream Perhaps the most ubiquitous type of frosting, thanks to its delicious taste and versatility. Made using butter and cream, it can be flavored with various extracts, fruits and more to garner a different taste.

Due to its ingredients, buttercream can melt quickly, so it should be kept out of extreme heat, humidity or direct sunlight until serving.

Italian couples opt for a millefoglie: crisp sheets of pastry dough layered with pastry cream, whipped cream, lemon curd, berries and more. Many couples even have a pastry chef prepare it on-site for their guests.

Ganache A decadently rich frosting with a fudgy texture. Ganache is made by combining chocolate and cream. Traditional chocolate will make it a dark brown hue that can’t be tinted, so ask your baker to make it wedding worthy with colorful fruit. Or opt for a white chocolate version, which can be dyed practically any shade.

Norwegians serve up brudlaupskling, a bread that became popular when white flour was rare in Norway.

The sweet bread is topped with cheese, cream and syrup, then folded over and cut into small squares before serving.

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Fondant A smooth sheet of sugar paste, often used for the polished exterior it lends. Pros love that it can be easily tinted and molded, making it a no-brainer for cakes that require impeccable detailing or a modern, smooth exterior. Most bakers will ice a cake with buttercream before finishing the exterior with fondant, as fondant alone isn’t as tasty.

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Swiss meringue Icing made by whipping egg whites together with sugar. Swiss meringue is a less popular choice for wedding cakes, but it has a light and fluffy appearance that makes it look instantly whimsical and romantic. The airy marshmallow flavor means it pairs great with fruit-based cakes and fillings, like lemon, raspberry or strawberry.

Indonesian couples will usually have a cake known as kek lapis at their wedding. Made from layers of chocolate and vanilla cake and spiced with cinnamon or nutmeg, this sweet dates all the way back to the Dutch colonial period.

To-be-wed couples in Bermuda top their confection of choice with a small cedar sapling. The sentiment is said to symbolize the couple’s growing love, and it’s planted by the newlyweds following their “I dos.”

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Not sure what info belongs on your wedding website rather than your invitations? It’s cool— we’re here to walk you through the proper etiquette. Any imperative info, like the date, time and location, should be front and center on your wedding invites (then repeated on your site), while details like directions and parking can live just on your website.

Same goes for registry info—it’s considered a bit, ahem, in your face, to include it on the invites (guests aren’t required to get you a gift, after all), so play it safe and add links to your website instead.

Looking to host an adults-only event? Include that wording on your site, and address the envelope to just the guests invited.

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Your save-the-date cards and invitation suite are usually the first impression your guests will get of your wedding day vibe, so make sure your paper goods slay. Think about your whole vision for your day, then work with a stationer or designer to incorporate colors, textures, typography or even witty lingo that lets guests know they’re about to have the most fun ever.

How you address your envelopes is a great way to indicate which members of a group or family are actually invited.

If your affair is adults only, address the invite specifically to Mr. and Mrs. Jones instead of The Jones Family. Giving a bud a plus-one? Jane Smith and Guest is the way to go. If a guest isn’t getting a plus-one, address the envelope just to the invitee—they should get the hint.

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With invitations getting more complex (embossed leather, anyone?), it’s smart to take a trip to the post office before sending yours out.

Have them weigh a completed suite, as well as review the calligraphy or lettering you’ve chosen for the address. Both an extra-hefty envelope or an address that can’t be read digitally can equal more necessary postage, so it’s good to know ahead of time if you need to snag some extra stamps.

Timing is everything when it comes to your invitations and save-the-dates.

You want to give guests ample notice to add you to their calendars, but not so much time that it happens to slip their minds. As a rule of thumb, save-thedates should go out six to eight months ahead of your wedding (a bit earlier if it’s a destination bash), while invitations can be mailed six to eight weeks out, with an “RSVP by” date at least two weeks before the wedding. >>

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Whether it’s one pretty botanical or the lyrics to your favorite song, a stylish envelope liner is the exclamation point on your suite.

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L O C A L M A P For a personal touch, work with a designer to create a map of your wedding area. Tip: Beyond your ceremony and reception locale, include favorite spots, like your go-to pub, karaoke joint or ice cream shop so guests can make the most of their trip.

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A C R Y L I C A C C E N T It’s pretty clear why this modern detail is coming in hot.

It adds a luxe weight and texture to your suite and makes for an undeniably cool invitation that can double as artwork.

B O L D T Y P E For an eye-catching statement, look no further than creative typography. One killer font is all it takes to ensure a total wow moment the second guests open the envelope.

Purists love the upscale effect a letterpressed invitation has.

On a tighter budget? Choose one or two high-impact details to letterpress instead of the whole design.

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The translucent paper can serve as an accent within your suite, a wrap to hold together all the individual pieces or the main material. Whatever way you use it, it’s a stunner.

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A fancy way of referring to paper with frayed, torn edges, deckled paper is the perfect way to add soft, subtle texture to your suite.

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We’re calling it now—metallics are here to stay. Modern couples can work in the shine with geometric accents, while romantically minded duos may prefer a design with delicate gold calligraphy and line drawings. We love either.

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Paper obsessed? The fun doesn’t stop once you send out your invitation suites.

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Let’s face it: Muddling through all the beauty advice out there is the last thing you want to add to your already-crazed to-do list. And while some beauty myths are easy to spot (no, that pricey cream won’t really erase your pores), others are harder to figure out (does naturally oily skin really need a moisturizer?). We asked the experts to set the record straight on some of the most common bridal beauty misconceptions—so you can focus on the important stuff.

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MYTH Committing to a solid skin care routine will instantly transform your skin.

FACT Slathering on new skin care products (even the expensive kind) is not a quick fix. Get a jump on perfecting your complexion and start your new skin care routine when you first start planning your wedding. “Most skin care products take six to eight weeks to work. You may even experience a purging effect, where skin gets worse before it gets better,” says Lian Mack, MD, a dermatologist and spokeswoman for Lumenis. And, if you’re looking to treat serious skin issues such as acne, wrinkles or uneven skin tone with more intense treatments (think: neurotoxins like Botox, peels or fractional laser resurfacing) you may need several weeks or even months to complete the suggested amount of treatments and fully recover in order to see results. “Give yourself enough time to be certain you have no complications and are totally happy with the outcome before you walk down the aisle,” Mack says.

MYTH Collagen supplements can reverse the signs of aging.

FACT Collagen pills, powders and creams are all the rage right now, promising thicker hair and smoother, firmer, more youthful skin—but are they the real deal?

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“Few reputable studies have been done on collagen supplements,” says Ted Lain, MD, a dermatologist. “The claim that these supplements increase the collagen content of the skin, leading to improvement in wrinkling and texture, are unfortunately untrue.” Rather than stocking up on trendier formulas, Lain suggests using a moisturizer with hydrating ingredients like glycerin to boost your glow.

MYTH More is more.

FACT Your wedding may seem like the perfect moment to pull out all the stops, but it’s actually not the time to try something drastic where your hair and makeup are concerned. “You should still look and feel like yourself on your wedding day,” says celebrity makeup artist Wendy Rowe. “You don’t need to try anything new or extreme—you just need to enhance what’s already there.” Rowe suggests sticking to products you know will work for you. “If you want to take your makeup up a notch, flawless foundation, some concealer, and a pretty lip and cheek stain can really elevate your look,” she says.

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MYTH Oily skin doesn’t need an added moisturizer.

FACT It sounds counterintuitive, but you shouldn’t skip moisturizer if you have an oily complexion or T-zone. Drying out your skin can increase its oil production, creating a vicious cycle of clogged pores and breakouts. “Moisturizers are used to improve your skin’s water content, not its oil content,” says celebrity facialist Cecilia Wong. “The right moisturizers or serums for your skin type won’t leave a greasy residue behind.” Wong suggests avoiding heavy moisturizers with mineral oil, petroleum, lanolin and coconut oil that won’t absorb as easily, and instead seeking out lighter formulas with grapeseed and sunflower oils or hyaluronic acid. >>

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MYTH Dirty hair is easier to work with than clean hair.

FACT Do your strands and your stylist a favor and show up to both your hair trial and wedding day with clean hair.

“Hairstylists don’t really like working with dirty hair,” says celebrity hairstylist Jon Reyman. “Dirty hair isn’t as sanitary, and we like the freedom to create hold with products that work best for the hair type we’re working with. If your hair is too oily, it may not hold the style as well.”

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MYTH Pinterest is the best place to find makeup inspo.

FACT While Pinterest does offer a wealth of fun beauty tutorials, what you see isn’t necessarily what you get. “A lot of the beauty images on Pinterest are altered, filtered or way too dramatic for your wedding day,” says Ashlee Glazer, global artistic director of Laura Geller Beauty. “I always recommend finding your celebrity doppelgänger, looking to classic red carpet icons and other real brides as a source of makeup inspiration. That way, you can see how the looks you’re loving will photograph in real life—without lots of editing.”

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MYTH High humidity will melt off your makeup.

FACT Even if you’re getting married in the middle of summer, that doesn’t mean your makeup will get messy—especially if you hire a pro to help you out. “While high humidity can affect the efficacy of some products, a professional makeup artist will know how to prep your face so your makeup stays put,” says Brittany Lo, founder and CEO of Beautini. “Make sure you’re using primer, waterproof mascara and have a few blotting sheets on hand, and you’ll have nothing to worry about.”

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dress codes decoded

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So you booked the venue and figured out the general vibe of your wedding—congrats!

Now it’s time to find the right outfits and accessories.

BY SHELLEY BROWN PHOTOGR APHY BY DEVON JARVIS

B L ACK T IE You locked in a grand location, hired the 24-piece band, splurged on over-the-top centerpieces and asked your bride tribe to wear floor-length gowns—all that’s left to do is make sure you and your SO show up looking snazzy. For the über-luxe event you’re planning, only a traditional tux and formal gown will do.

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FOR THE BRIDE It’s your day—celebrate it. Make the most of your moment in the spotlight with a dramatic dress. We love a classic ball gown with illusion lace sleeves à la Kate Middleton, or a more fashion-centric style with a ruffled skirt or lots of bling. When it comes to accessories, don’t be afraid to indulge in more glitter. Pair drop earrings with a loose updo to play up the embellishments in your gown. Stash your lipstick, a compact and a tissue (or a whole bunch of tissues) in an equally glitzy beaded clutch, and step into some bejeweled heels or strappy metallic sandals for the finishing touch.

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FOR THE GROOM Though you’d certainly look dapper in any suit, a classic tux will guarantee you’ll be dressed for the part for your formal affair. To keep it modern, forgo contrasting studs (those little doodads that cover the shirt’s buttons), dated cummerbunds and shiny vests, and instead consider a trendy notch collar and a self-tie bow tie. Opting for a sleek satin lapel won’t hurt either. If you’re more daring, try a tux with a velvet jacket—they’re all over the red carpet.

Equally streamlined accessories, like understated cuff links and black patent leather dress shoes, complete the polished look. >>

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SE M IFO R M A L

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Your wedding is all about a killer setting with a modern feel.

Whether it’s a cool museum or an art gallery off the beaten path, your ideal affair is sophisticated without the strict formality of a traditional venue. When it comes to your look, opt for a wardrobe that’s as cutting edge as your celebration.

Hint: It’s all about structure and polished details.

a bedazzled clutch adds a glam touch

FOR THE BRIDE

FOR THE GROOM

A minimalistic silhouette will work for your one-of-akind nuptials, without being too conservative.

A strapless, satin, mermaidstyle dress is fancier than your average cocktail look, but still more subtle than a full-blown ball gown. Want to create an unexpected contrast? Consider a style with a cowl back or oversize bow on the back. Not only are they all over the runways, but they make for one heck of a dramatic exit.

Finish off your look with sparkly earrings and a pair of elegant heels.

A classic black tuxedo might feel too stuffy. Instead, pair a charcoal or midnight-blue suit (darker hues are more formal than lighter ones) with standout accessories like a patterned tie or pocket square and statement cuff links. Another idea: Fun socks (like a classic argyle or a kitschy pattern) can bring in the theme and color palette of your wedding without overpowering the rest of your outfit. Keep your footwear simple—a pair of black leather oxfords or monk straps are polished without being too flashy.

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CO CK TA IL If it wasn’t already obvious from the swanky invitations, rooftop locale, gourmet hors d’oeuvres and signature martinis, your wedding wardrobe will surely solidify the fact that you’re hosting a hip wedding. You can’t go wrong if you stick with fitted silhouettes and statement accessories for both of you.

FOR THE BRIDE

FOR THE GROOM

Find a gown that’s dressy but not totally over the top for your cocktail soiree.

Consider one of this season’s hottest silhouettes: a simple, fit-and-flare dress.

A formfitting style with a plunging neckline or daring low back still feels classy but will also show off your curves for just the right amount of va-va-voom.

Where bling is concerned, sleek ear crawlers or even a back necklace are fashionforward options. Complete your outfit with a graphic clutch (we love acrylic ones) and unexpected black heels.

Try a slim-cut gray suit for a look that’s sharp but still not trying too hard. A skinny tie works best with this style because it mimics the narrow shape of your suit (regular-width ties can appear too bulky or wide). You’ll look more pulled together if your tie and belt are the same solid color, but a fun, colorful or printed pocket square will give your ensemble unique appeal. Keep the modern look consistent with a pair of dress loafers.

They used to get a bad rap for looking dated, but new, trendier styles are actually the perfect in-between shoe. >>

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B E ACH FO R M A L Whether you’re jetting off to an exotic destination or staying domestic at your local seaside venue, you’re all about saying “I do” with your toes in the sand.

And while you aren’t into the idea of wearing anything too formal, you still want to dress to impress. Relaxed silhouettes, lightweight fabrics and novelty accessories are essential when it comes to pulling off a beach-chic wedding style.

FOR THE BRIDE

FOR THE GROOM

Dramatic silhouettes (read: ball gowns or dresses with long trains) and heavy fabrics aren’t exactly compatible with a seaside locale, but that doesn’t mean your dress shouldn’t show some personality.

Beach wedding dresses can run the gamut from super-casual ones you could wear again to more romantic, Grecian-inspired gowns and lacy, boho numbers. As far as footwear is concerned, go barefoot to fully embrace your environment, or opt for metallic sandals or short wedges (heels will sink into the sand) for a fancier vibe.

Breathable fabrics like linen and cotton that will stand up to heat and humidity are a must where beach-appropriate formalwear is concerned. A darker suit could be too formal, but the same cut in khaki or light blue is a great option for more casual asual surroundings. (Depending on how low-key your wedding is, you may even want to lose the suit jacket and roll up your sleeves.) To take your wedding theme up a notch, opt for nautical- or tropical-printed accessories (anchors and pineapples FTW). For shoes, bare feet, sandals and boat shoes are all acceptable choices—just make sure you and your partner are on the same page.

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DAY T IM E While a luxe venue plus fussy attire isn’t your thing, you’ve been dreaming of a stylish, backyard ceremony (well, at least something more intimate and homespun) since the second you got engaged.

FOR THE BRIDE

FOR THE GROOM

Keep it simple with a short, midi-length or high-low wedding dress and let your accessories do the talking.

After all, a flirty hemline is the perfect opportunity to show off killer shoes. If heels aren’t your thing, opt for embellished flats or more playful sneakers. For a whimiscal touch, add a birdcage veil or fascinator.

A light gray, light blue or khaki suit with a patterned bow tie and complementary pocket square (we love the idea of mixing gingham and polka dots) is equal parts preppy and laid-back. If you’re going for a slightly edgier and more personalized feel, consider ditching the jacket altogether for a vest, or adding colorful or patterned suspenders plus a custom lapel pin or bouttoniere— they’re all the rage right now.

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Stylist on Call

tamara mellon

The footwear guru gives us the scoop on choosing the right wedding shoes, plus the trends she’s loving now.

BY SHELLEY BROWN PHOTOGR APH BY THERESA BRIDGET PHOTOGR APHY

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If anyone knows shoes, it’s Tamara Mellon. In 1996, she left her post as an accessories editor at British Vogue to cofound a company with an East London cobbler named Jimmy Choo (maybe you’ve heard of it?). Over the next 16 years, she built one of the most recognized luxury brands in the world, worn by fashion icons—both real and fictional—like Beyoncé and Carrie Bradshaw. She left Jimmy Choo in 2011 and launched her eponymous direct-to-consumer shoe brand in 2016.

Here, her tips on finding the best shoes for your day—without sacrificing your feet or the chance to dance the night away. >>

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make it personal “It’s a cute idea to get a professional calligrapher to personalize the soles of your shoes with your partner’s initials, your new monogram or your wedding date.”

WHAT’S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING A BRIDE SHOULD CONSIDER BEFORE BUYING HER WEDDING SHOES?

You’re probably going to be wearing these shoes from your ceremony to your reception, so choose a heel height you feel comfortable and confident in. For instance, my perfect heel height for walking all day is three-and-a-half inches, but it’s different for every woman. Go with whatever feels best to you personally.

WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR FAVORITE BRIDAL FOOT WEAR

BRIDE: KEN PAK PHOTOGR APHY; SHOES: COURTESY OF TA M AR A MELLON

TRENDS? I love classic silhouettes with a modern twist.

My Belle shoe is a cross between a pump and an ankle boot, and my Siren pump has unexpected PVC (read: clear vinyl) details—both are standout, nontraditional options in white.

DO YOU HAVE ANY TIPS FOR BREAKING IN NEW HEELS?

You should break in your wedding shoes at home so you don’t get them dirty or damage them. Wear them around the house at least a few times before your day. That way, there won’t be any unpleasant surprises, and you’re less likely to get blisters.

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WHAT ABOUT CHOOSING THE RIGHT SHOES FOR VENUES WITH UNEVEN TERR AIN, LIKE BEACHES OR VINEYARDS. ARE THERE KEY THINGS TO LOOK FOR? I recommend opting

for flats, block heels or wedges—anything but a stiletto heel, which will sink into the ground and throw off your balance. I especially love the idea of a block heel with a platform in the front that will evenly distribute your weight and take some of the pressure off the ball of your foot and toes. This style will give you some extra height, but won’t feel like you’re wearing a typical high heel.

strut your stuff A guide to Tamara’s favorite wedding-worthy shoes.

ALL THAT GLIT TERS

A CUT ABOVE

If embellishment isn’t your thing, keep it interesting with cutouts.

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KEEP IT CLEAR

These pumps with PVC details are just made for a bridal pantsuit. Siren pumps, $450, TamaraMellon.com

Flashy heels work for a glam wedding or a night on the town.

Frontline sandals, $425, TamaraMellon.com

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girly scout Tiers of lace fringe put a flirty twist on a tea-length sheath.

Dress, $3,995, Lela Rose at Alexia’s Bridal Boutique, AlexiasBridal.com (Raleigh, NC), Maddison Row Bridal Chic, MaddisonRow.com (Charleston, SC); earrings, $1,595, Ippolita.com; bandanna, $34, Abercrombie .com; boots, $360, RedWingHeritage.com

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easy livin’ Calling all bridechillas. An embellished crop top plus a curve-skimming skirt feels effortlessly chic. Top and skirt, $5,430, Rime-Arodaky .com; engagement ring, $2,775, LizzieMandler.com; earrings, $29,000, Sylva & Cie, ModaOperandi.com; bracelet, $1,095, Ippolita.com; shoes, $180, Schutz-Shoes.com

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flower child If you’re feeling bold, consider a vibrant gown with floral embroidery. It’s equal parts romantic and fashion forward.

Dress, $8,500, TemperleyLondon .com; engagement ring, $3,890 (not including center stone), Tacori.com; earrings, $575, JenniferBehr.com; hat, stylist’s own; shoes, $950, JimmyChoo.com

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force of nature An oversize Mongolian fur vest takes a flowy frock from simple to striking. Dress, $3,300, Rita Vinieris at Hayden Olivia Bridal, HaydenOlivia.com (Charlotte, NC); vest, $1,450, shop similar styles at TSECashmere.com; engagement ring, $2,992 (not including center stone), SimonGJewelry.com; earrings, $1,000, JacquieAiche.com; bracelet, $11,375, Sylva & Cie, ModaOperandi.com

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stunning site Turn some heads (without trying too hard, of course) with a dreamy combo of delicate lace and sheer bell sleeves. Dress, $5,625, Claire Pettibone at Gilded Bridal, GildedBridal.com (Raleigh, NC), London and Lace Bridal Boutique, LondonandLaceBridal.com (Columbia, SC); earrings, $145, LuluFrost.com; opal ring, $3,940, JacquieAiche.com; boots, $199, MarcFisherFootwear.com

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perfect catch A bridal romper is a surprisingly versatile choice. Rock a sleek, belted style to your shower or morning-after brunch. Romper, $1,800, CatherineKowalskiBridal .com; engagement ring, $699 (not including center stone), NoamCarver.com; ear crawlers, $2,795, Ippolita.com; rain boots, $75, RomaBoots.com

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into the wild It’s all about daring details.

Lace-up shoulders and sleeves add an edgy tilt to an otherwise traditional silhouette. Dress, $3,220, Leanne Marshall at Gilded Bridal, GildedBridal.com (Raleigh, NC), London and Lace Bridal Boutique, LondonandLaceBridal .com (Columbia, SC), Lovely Bride, LovelyBride.com (Charleston, SC); earrings, $195, AlexisBittar.com

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An eyelet number with flutter sleeves is right at home in a rustic setting. Lose the shoes and go barefoot for an even more laid-back vibe. Dress, $240, DavidsBridal.com; engagement ring, price upon request, EvaFehren.com; earrings, $245, LuluFrost.com; cocktail ring, $4,315, JacquieAiche.com

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breezy beauty Casual doesn’t have to mean less stylish. An allover lace dress with a ruffled bodice is comfy and totally on trend. Dress, $650, Tadashi Shoji, BHLDN.com; engagement ring, $1,799 (not including center stone), NoamCarver.com; band, $1,716, SimonGJewelry.com; earrings, $352, Bounkit.com; shoes, $180, Schutz-Shoes.com

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Xanna accessorized with a headband designed by Andrew Prince, the jewelry designer behind Downton Abbey’s tiaras and crowns.

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The bride and groom stood at an altar made from wood sourced from Xanna’s family farm in Virginia.

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An ordinary grocery run turned into an extraordinary meet-cute when Xanna Garner (25 and a media manager) bumped into Travis Bailey (31 and an information security analyst) at a Whole Foods.

“I was shopping with a friend when I spotted Travis working in the meat department,” Xanna recalls. “I went back every day for two weeks and probably bought $100 worth of meat simply because I thought he was the cutest guy in a 10-mile radius.” The two invited more than 300 guests to Boone Hall Plantation for a fete that blended Southern elegance with European grandeur. The venue’s dusty driveway presented a prime opportunity to craft a grand aisle: Wood planks were installed to match the design of a dock.

—Rachel Sylvester Luna and Waffles, the couple’s two huskies, were escorted down the aisle on greenery leashes.

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Stationers at La Artista designed a custom crest that incorporated Boone Hall Plantation’s notable gated entrance. Finishes like driftwood, pitted silver, crystal, Lucite and metallic-threaded linens resulted in a reception design that felt both refined and approachable.

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Guests took home brunch-themed favor bags filled with biscuit mix, local honey and a branded rolling pin.

“People went crazy for the live-shucking demonstration,” Xanna says. Fresh oysters were paired with specialty cocktails named after their dogs. At the end of the evening, the newlyweds made their grand exit in the back of a ’48 Oldsmobile. “My dress fit only after we put the top down,” Xanna says.

XANNA & TRAVIS’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Boone Hall

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• GREENVILLE, SC

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The pair packaged their rose gold foil invites in dark blue envelopes and tied them off with ivory velvet ribbon.

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Greenville locals Chancey Greco (31 and an English teacher) and Zach Rubin (33 and a finance director) drew inspiration from their home city when planning their spring nuptials at Village Green. “I wanted a tasteful and sophisticated look with a bit of color and character, much like the aesthetics of Greenville,” Chancey says. One year after their engagement, they said “I do” on Cinco de Mayo—and the day of the Kentucky Derby— with the venue’s existing stone waterfall as their backdrop.

Zach sported a bow tie and cufflinks passed down from his grandfather, while Chancey accessorized with a cathedrallength veil and a pearl bracelet from her mother-in-law. —RS

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The couple’s goldendoodle, Misty, wore a floral wreath collar for the occasion.

Fuchsia, peach, blush and citrus flowers sat atop a hand-dyed runner at the head table. Inviting louge setups were arranged throughout the reception as a welcome retreat from dancing. “We wanted everyone to be involved, whether they wanted to dance or even just watch,” Chancey says.

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The newlyweds danced to Kenny Chesney’s “Me and You.” The DJ later played the Jitterbug so the bride’s 94year-old grandfather could show off his moves. “Everyone was so surprised!” she says.

CHANCEY & ZACH’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Village Green at Courtyard

Marriott Downtown, Greenville, SC RECEPTION SITE The Wyche Pavilion, Greenville, SC PHOTOGRAPHY Keith and Crystal Carson/Red

Apple Tree Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Nest Productions PLANNER Bri Sizemore/Upstate I Do FLOWERS Paul Simpson AIFD CFD (groom’s

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uncle) GOWN Justin Alexander Signature, The Poinsett Bride, Greenville, SC HAIR & MAKEUP Cotton Rouge VEIL The Poinsett Bride SHOES David’s Bridal ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Hales Jewelers BRIDESMAID DRESSES

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Waugh MUSIC Ceremony: Anne Matthews; reception: DJ K Moss DANCE LESSONS Palmer Dance Studio REGISTRIES Bed Bath & Beyond; Pottery Barn HONEYMOON Maui, HI GUESTS 130 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8) The quintessentially Southern menu included sweet tea, crab cakes, pimento cheese BLT sandwiches and stone-ground grits. For cocktail hour, bartenders poured champagne over popsicles to make refreshing “poptails.” Cakes came in three flavors: lemon curd, chocolate truffle and vanilla cream.

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• AWENDAW, SC

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Monika’s gown featured beading and off-the-shoulder sleeves. “It was easy to move in and perfect for dancing,” she says.

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Greenery, ranunculus and garden roses decorated wood folding chairs.

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New York City–based newlyweds Monika Parisi (30 and a director of data science) and Christopher Jun (33 and a GM of an electrical engineering firm) looked to Charleston as the site for their destination wedding. “We chose it because of its architecture and scenery,” Monika says. “We especially love the oak trees.”

Over 150 family members and friends traveled to The Palmetto State to join Monika and Chris as they solidified their union with two separate ceremonies—the second being a traditional Korean paebaek that called for the couple to don colorful hanboks. “We wanted everyone to enjoy Charleston and all the beauty it has to offer,” Monika says. —RS

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Blush and mauve details and clusters of pink peonies topped tabletops at the alfresco dinner. She-crab soup, along with signature mescaloma cocktails, freshly shucked oysters and the groom’s favorite dessert—classic hummingbird cake iced with vanilla frosting—made for an ultra-personalized lineup.

MONIKA & CHRIS’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE RiverOaks

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“All of my friends tease me that I’ve had my wedding planned since I was six years old, and that’s partially true,” Daniel (left) says.

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Swarovski crystals covered Daniel’s one-of-a-kind blush suit, while a crystal necklace peeked out from underneath Cameron’s collar.

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CAMERON & DANIEL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE South Carolina

State Museum, Columbia, SC PHOTOGRAPHY Jessica Hunt Photography DAY-OF COORDINATOR Brandy Naylor FLOWERS

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Two years after Daniel Price (33 and a hair and makeup artist) proposed to Cameron Swofford (25 and a med school student) with caricature art at Disney World, the fun-loving pair threw an epic bash at Columbia’s historic South Carolina State Museum. “The museum has always been our favorite landmark, and the beauty of the building was perfect for our day,” Daniel says. With an “art deco Southern glam” design in mind, the pair drew inspiration from the classic movie Steel Magnolias to create a celebration that was uniquely their own. Daniel’s best friend, Justin Keller—a Celine Dion impersonator and drag queen known as Bootsie Lefaris—officiated. Cameron and Daniel kicked off the party to the tune of Queen’s “Crazy Little Thing Called Love.” —RS

Kayla Stojek, Etsy.com ENGAGEMENT RING Satterfield’s Jewelry Warehouse WEDDING RINGS Tiffany & Co. GROOMSMAID DRESSES Theia Bridesmaids MENSWEAR Cameron: Ticknors; Daniel: ASOS; Jake Simpson; Miranda’s Vintage Bridal; groomsmen: Express STATIONERY Designs

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Singer: Cameron Mitchell Bell; reception: Bridal DJs FAVORS Matchbooks: PicturePefectPapier, Etsy.com; koozies: MyWeddingStore.com REGISTRIES Zola.com HONEYMOON Europe GUESTS 175 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)

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the year’s freshest venues

These new picks have some of the same perks as our perennial favorites, with a unique vibe all their own.

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If it feels like everyone you know is getting married in a barn or on a vineyard, you’re not alone.

According to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings study, the two locales are consistently growing in popularity for couples who are tying the knot. And while we love us a good rustic barn celebration or refined vineyard affair, we’re also excited to introduce you to the new kids on the block. Score one of these venues and you’ll officially be that couple ahead of the curve. >> Dos Pueblos Orchid Farm, Goleta, CA

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Franklin Park Conservatory and Botanical Gardens, Columbus, OH

Does the word “rustic” give you all the heart eyes? Well, you’re in luck because there’s a new “it” venue on the market to help you achieve that look. While barns aren’t going out of style anytime soon, to-be-weds wanting a fresh space to bottle up that same casual, outdoorsy vibe should look to greenhouses. Nature lovers will go crazy over the built-in décor (hello, plants, plants and more plants!), while the airy structure (think: floor-to-ceiling glass windows and so much light) makes it the perfect spot to host a fun party for a few hundred of your closest friends and family.

MAKE IT YOURS Go for custom botanical-inspired stationery to set the scene and give guests a sneak peek into your wedding location.

On the day of, reinforce the natural vibes by asking your florist to go heavy on the vines and greenery to incorporate your tabletops or ceremony space into the surrounding scenery. Wood farm tables and chairs will add refined texture to the place, while strings of bistro lights will make dinner under the stars feel magical.

SOME OF OUR FAVES Franklin Park Conservatory and Botanical Gardens in Columbus, OH // The Greenhouse at Driftwood in Driftwood, TX // Historic Shady Lane in Manchester, PA // The Greenhouses at Audrey’s Farmhouse in Wallkill, NY // Snow Avenue Greenhouse in Lowell, MI // Volunteer Park Conservatory in Seattle // Planterra Conservatory in West Bloomfield, MI >>

Snow Avenue Greenhouse, Lowell, MI Planterra Conservatory, West Bloomfield, MI

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If you like a barn, try a greenhouse

fun plans for out-of-town guests Keep your crew entertained all weekend long with these out-of-the-box activities.

Treat them to a cooking class

Ask your favorite local eatery if they offer cooking classes and enroll your loved ones in some midday culinary fun ahead of your wedding day. Guests of all ages will enjoy getting a taste of the local food scene (and flexing their chef muscles), and a good meal always brings about good conversation and friendships.

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Host a cookie and coffee reception

Looking for a way to make all your guests feel included on the night of your rehearsal dinner without breaking the bank? Host a cookie and coffee reception afterward for a sweet end to the night. The casual yet intimate setting will be perfect for catching up before the busyness of the day.

Arrange for a group tour

Odds are if guests are traveling for your wedding, they’ll want to see the city while they’re there. Encourage everyone to play tourist by arranging a guided tour, like a coastal boat trip, bike ride or food crawl.

A unique experience will have your guests loving your city just as much as you do.

Host a postwedding brunch

End a weekend of celebrating on a high note with a farewell brunch. Guests will appreciate a hearty meal before they hit the road, and it gives you and your partner a last chance to connect with any friends and family you didn’t get to spend QT with the night before. Keep it casual and flexible to respect travel plans.

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Dunton Hot Springs, Dolores, CO Tanque Verde Ranch, Tucson, AZ

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smart questions to ask before you book What’s the driving distance from your ceremony space?

If you’re not providing transportation for your guests, you’ll need to know how long it’ll take them to get from the ceremony to the reception. Ask what the traffic is like around the time of your wedding to ensure your guests won’t get stuck bumper to bumper on a road for an hour.

Is the venue near hotels?

This could impact your decision to book if guests have to drive a long way to get from their hotel to the venue and back, especially if transportation isn’t provided. Usually, anything over 30 minutes is a big ask.

If you like a vineyard, try a ranch If you love the foodie vibe a vineyard lends (plus all that wine), think about looking into ranches. You’ll score a stunning private property with added perks like activities for your guests (think: kayaking or lasso lessons) and even live animals. The best part?

Some ranch venues are fully functioning and can accommodate overnight guests, so you and your whole crew can call it home base for the weekend and make the most of your time together.

MAKE IT YOURS Play up the surrounding scenery with accents that tie together the whole vibe of the joint, like terra-cotta pots overflowing with just-picked wild flowers and leather charger plates. For eats, this is the perfect time to go for high-end BBQ, so see if you can find a caterer who will grill up guest favorites right in front of you. Finish the night with dancing and toasting around a big bonfire. S’mores are optional but of course encouraged.

SOME OF OUR FAVES The Ranch at Rock Creek in Philipsburg, MT // Hofmann Ranch in Castroville, TX // Bayshore Ranch in North Fort Myers, FL // Rancho Dos Pueblos in Goleta, CA // Dunton Hot Springs in Dolores, CO // Tanque Verde Ranch in Tucson, AZ // Ironstone Ranch in Elizabethtown, PA >>

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This directly impacts your guest list and, therefore, your budget. If you love the space but it only fits 75, and your guest list is looking more like 200, you have to decide if the venue or your guest count is more important.

What kind of services do you offer?

You’ll want to know whether the venue has any all-inclusive packages for the site and food, if any rentals or pros are included (some venues may even ask that you hire specific companies), and whether there’s an on-site coordinator. Don’t assume that anything is included.

What restrictions do you have?

There are a few kinds of limits to be aware of. Ask if there are any alcohol restrictions or permits. Some venues may not have a liquor license, and some may not let you stock the bar yourselves. Same goes for vendors—your venue may only allow you to book pros from a certain list, while others will let you bring in whoever you want. Ask whether there are any décor restrictions, like confetti or open flames. Also check to see if there’s a noise ordinance after a certain time— many venues won’t allow you to play loud music past 10:30 p.m. or so, which won’t work if you want the option to dance until midnight.

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How many people does the space accommodate?

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10 Inspired Venues for Intimate Gatherings of 15 Guests to Grand Celebrations for 500.

Charleston Harbor Resort & Marina

20 Patriots Point Road. Mount Pleasant, SC 29464 843.856.0028 CharlestonHarborResort.com CharlestonHarborResort CHSResort CharlestonHarborResort

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If you like a loft, try a distillery If your style is more industrial than glam, a loft wedding is probably at the top of your list. For a similar feel with added personality, seek out a whiskey or spirit distillery in your local area. You’ll get a lot of the same lust-worthy industrial features (like exposed piping, brick walls and metal windows), plus the added bonus of a space that isn’t totally a blank slate. Translation: You probably won’t have to worry about bringing in essential things like tables and chairs and can instead focus on the fun stuff, like what killer set of flatware goes best with the distillery’s copper equipment.

MAKE IT YOURS An oversize venue is the place to go big with high-impact design accents, so opt for a massive Lucite escort card display or statement-making suspended arrangement of graphic branches. Pair the raw feel of the space with hits of metallic gold, copper and inky black for a color palette as chic as it is sophisticated. At the end of the night, send guests packing with bottles of whatever spirit is the house specialty, customized with a signature wax seal featuring your wedding crest or monogram.

SOME OF OUR FAVES Journeyman Distillery in Three Oaks, MI // Westland Distillery in Seattle // McClintock Distilling in Frederick, MD // O.Z. Tyler Distillery in Owensboro, KY // Union Horse Distilling Co. in Lenexa, KS

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Couples looking for a classic or glam environment to host their wedding should look no further than an old manor or stately home.

The authentic space will pack in all of the opulence of a traditional ballroom setting, while still feeling unique and special to your event. Plus, a private home or manor means you’ll likely be the only duo saying “I do” on the property, so you won’t have to worry about running into other weddings that weekend.

MAKE IT YOURS Reinforce the refined dinner party atmosphere by sprinkling your reception tables throughout the main floor of the home so each guest gets their own unique dinner surroundings.

Old homes mean lots of vintage fabrics or wallpapers, so keep your other décor accents neutral and opt for streamlined tabletop textiles, flowers and paper goods. Work in lots of candlelight (real or fake) to set a romantic mood and hire a string quartet or jazz trio to fill the home with live music that sets a celebratory mood.

SOME OF OUR FAVES Rixey Manor in Rixeyville, VA // Lyndhurst Mansion in Tarrytown, NY // Decatur House in Washington, DC // The Twelve Oaks Bed & Breakfast in Covington, GA // Benachi House & Gardens in New Orleans // The Chanler at Cliff Walk in Newport, RI // The Manor House in Littleton, CO

The Chanler at Cliff Walk, Newport, RI

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Table for Two or Two Hundred, Everyone’s Welcome.

The beauty of a Gathering Common is that it’s designed for uncommon gatherings. Cannon Green’s versatile venue options, including our enchanting courtyard and historic Trolley Room, are ideal for weddings, rehearsal dinners, welcome receptions, or farewell brunches. Our culinary and event team are wedding pros. Come celebrate the uncommon.

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With a 1,500 square-foot versatile floor plan, the Garden Room offers comfortable elegance and privacy for rehearsal dinners, welcome receptions, bridal showers, and luncheons.

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Now that you have the helpful visuals and words to describe your ideal wedding day look, it’s time to do a deep inspo dive. This is the “dreaming” phase of your planning, so don’t worry too much about the cost of an idea or whether it’s a good fit for a certain venue— your vendors can help you figure all that out. Right now just focus on getting a better idea of what you do (and don’t) want. Instagram and real weddings (like those on TheKnot.com) are crazy-valuable sources of inspiration, but don’t stop there. Practically anything can inform your wedding day vibe, so be on the lookout for unusual sources of inspiration. Love a pattern you see on a dress while shopping at Anthropologie? Snap a pic of it. Touched by the sweet china pattern on your mom’s plates at Thanksgiving? Model your invitation suite after it. The more unique places you can pull inspiration from, the more true to your DNA your wedding will feel.

Nailing down certain specifics for your day can make imagining it (and executing it) much easier. Once you think you’ve compiled a good amount of inspiration, start to narrow in on a few of the most important factors for your day, such as which season you prefer to get married in, a general radius or location, and the size and formality of celebration that feels right to you. A lot of times, your season or your setting can dictate your vision, so you want to firm this up ASAP. Have your heart set on a beachfront wedding? You’ll likely want to say “I do” during warmer months, and a sandy spot may mean a more casual feel overall. Likewise, the desire for a moody, glamorous affair may point you in the direction of a fall ballroom wedding. Once you have certain guidelines sketched out pertaining to your whole vision, it will be much easier to find vendors, details and products to help you execute it flawlessly. >>

fun ways to personalize your day Make your wedding truly feel like your wedding with these touches.

The invitations

Think beyond just coordinating your paper with your color palette. Instead, include unique details as well, like finishing the envelope off with vintage stamps from the states where you both grew up, shutting it with a custom wax seal depicting your initials or incorporating a favorite piece of poetry onto the back of your details card for guests to frame.

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Your vows

The promises you and your partner make to each other during your ceremony are the whole reason this party is going down, so put your heart into it.

If you’re too nervous or shy to do anything super personal, think about including a special sentiment in your wedding programs instead, like additional vows, a favorite poem, quote or inside joke.

The menu

Serve solely local cuisine, or a certain specialty dish you both love (like French pastries, if you got engaged in Paris). Midnight snacks are also becoming increasingly popular, so keep the dance floor packed by having waiters pass around your grandmother’s famous chocolate chip cookies or paper cones filled with “Nuts for Each Other” peanuts.

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Leave your ceremony or reception in a vehicle that’s totally #couplegoals. Take a ride in a vintage cab to nod to your love of New York City, scooter away on a super-sleek mint-green Vespa if you’re honeymooning in Italy, or say your final farewells to your coastal reception venue aboard a luxe sailboat. It will be a farewell to remember.

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Terrible flooring THE FIX: Keep in mind, your dining tables will likely

cover much of the floor. But, if it still makes you cringe, price out the cost of outfitting the whole space in the same material as your dance floor, like hardwood or a chic checkered tile. Or, roll out several neutral carpets to create a blank-slate background fit for any décor.

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Figure out your priorities The key to making the most of your vision—and your budget?

Sticking firm to your list of priorities. Before you and your partner spend one dollar or hire one vendor, sit down and prioritize each aspect of your wedding in terms of its importance to you both.

Are you big foodies who couldn’t care less about wow-worthy floral displays? You do you, and allocate some of your floral budget toward a delicious catering team instead. Are over-the-top personalization moments your jam? Then splurge on that custom vinyl dance floor and save on something lower on your “must-have” list instead. You’ll find your dreams of a luxe venue, Michelin-starworthy meal or high-flying performing artists are more in reach than you think once you know what you’re willing to scale back on.

Tap your A-team One of your biggest assets when it comes to nailing down and pulling off your wedding day style is—you guessed it—your kickass vendors. Whether you’re working with a full-blown creative team (think: a planner, florist, photographer, stationery designer, glam squad—the works), or just a few essential members, trust your pros to help fine tune your style. Think of them as your inside look into the wedding industry—they know what’s trending and how to execute your biggest ideas in a way that feels fresh and doesn’t break the bank. Plus, real talk: If you’re going to a pro and just asking them to replicate a look you saw on Pinterest or their Insta feed, you’re not going to get their most creative work or an end result that’s unique to you. You’re hiring your team for a reason, so share your likes and dislikes, then leave them to rock it out and do their thing. Trust us, they’ll rise to the challenge.

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Gaudy chairs THE FIX: If you can’t justify spending to rent new

chairs, try making the current style work for your needs with a few hacks. Pick out a pretty fabric to have sewn into cushions, or task your florist with creating swags of greenery for the chairbacks.

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Too-bold wallpaper THE FIX: Create another world within the room by

covering the walls in drapery. Select a fabric that fits well with your wedding palette, or choose white for a clean, neutral look. Then, have the venue hang it from the walls (and even the ceiling) for a cozy feel.

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An oversize space THE FIX: Up the intimacy by using rectangle tables for

dining—they’ll take up more space than circle tables, which will go a long way in making the room feel more utilized. Past that, consider setting up different lounge areas to put the extra square footage to work.

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Play to their strengths

Think of an engagement session as a second date with your photographer (the first date should be a get-to-know-you phone call or in-person meeting). This is your chance to get comfortable in front of the lens (it’s a bit different than snapping selfies, trust us) and get to know your pro and how they work. “Awkward always shows, so use this session to get out the nerves and figure out your best angles—we all have them,” says Elizabeth Fogarty, a fine art wedding photographer based in Washington, DC. Keep it casual by choosing one or two special-to-you locations, and ask your photographer to shoot you somewhere quiet if you’re especially camera shy. Otherwise, trust that they’ll warm you up and get you feeling like a natural. “Posing is very much a photographer’s job,” explains Jen Huang, a fine art photographer based in New York City. “There’s no need to practice before your session because you’ll want to be as authentic as possible. I try and direct couples so their natural moments can emerge.”

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Digital photography

Digital is the most typical way of shooting. The biggest advantage? Time—depending on how your photographer works, you could see snaps just days postwedding.

Digital cameras can shoot in very low light, and thanks to a display screen, your photographer can preview shots and adjust accordingly. That means lots of images to choose from when putting together your album.

Film photography

Images shot on film will have a soft, organic quality to them, which may fit your vibe. But shooting with film is more work and, therefore, more money. In addition to the price of film, your photographer will also factor processing and development fees into your final cost.

Classic style

Like the ones in your grandparents or parents’ wedding album, classic images are those that stand the test of time—striking, gorgeous and a bit formal. These photos reflect reality, but they’re often infused with your photographer’s signature style or aesthetic.

Lifestyle

Think of lifestyle photography as the casual sister of classic photography. It’s candid, but with a dose of styling and direction. A good photographer will look for moments but also set the scene for a relaxed, approachable result.

Artistic style

Not all portraits have to be a couple in full frame looking at the camera. Think: unique angles, cool framing and contrast-y lighting and coloring.

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To start, hire a photographer who has the same vision for your day as you and your partner do. Whether you love a soft, romantic look, covet crazy candid dance floor shots or know you’ll want formal family portraits, partnering with a pro who specializes in exactly what you’re looking for will ensure you’re already off to a good start. “Intentionally seek out a photographer whose portfolio is filled with the types of moments you want to see reflected in your own wedding photographs,” explains Kate Ignatowski, a fine art photographer based in Richmond, Virginia. Ask to see full wedding galleries (not just what they’ve posted online) so you can scope out how they’ll capture your entire day, and schedule a phone call to ask more about how they operate and whether they’ll do things like pose you and curate moments, or just act as a fly on the wall.

Dress like you’re out on a date Choosing a look for your engagement photos can be almost as hard as picking your wedding day outfit, so focus on a coordinating palette of solids for you and your partner that you both feel natural in. “I always tell my couples to wear something they’d pick out for a date night,” Huang says. “Everyone has a different look and style—just be sure your outfits ‘match’ in the sense that if one of you is wearing something casual, the other isn’t in formalwear.”

Worried you won’t know what to do when your photographer starts snapping? Set up a little wine and cheese picnic, go grab drinks at an outdoor bar or wander the streets of your city with ice cream cones in hand. Giving yourselves an activity will automatically make you more natural.

Put their knowledge to good use Your pro has likely been in the wedding industry for a while, so use them like your own personal vetting tool when it comes to whom else to hire for your dream team. More than any other vendor, your photographer will encounter every person involved in your day (from your planner to your florist and the DJ), so it’s in both your best interests that they feel confident with your choices. After bringing your photographer on board officially, provide them with a list of who else you’re considering to get their take before signing on the dotted line. While their opinion doesn’t have to be the be-all, end-all of whom you choose, it’s a good place to start.

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“Allowing enough time for each part of the wedding day is essential if you want amazing images,” Fogarty says. To ensure your photographer doesn’t miss out on a moment of the action, pass them along a detailed outline of your day from start to finish. (Not sure where to start? Download The Knot Wedding Planner app, and we’ll do the work for you.) Keep in mind, if you want pictures of everything from morning mimosas to the night’s last call, you may need to work overtime hours into your contract, which can increase your costs a bit. Another thing to consider? Whether or not you want to do a first look together. “I always encourage my couples to do one,” Fogarty says. “It allows them to have a bit of alone time together while taking it all in—the wedding day flies by so quickly, and this is a great way to slow it down. Besides getting more portraits in, it also means you can actually go to your cocktail hour and enjoy your guests.” Lastly, ask your photographer to shoot all those amazing details you spent months dreaming up, like your escort cards or your invitation suite (be sure to get and bring an extra copy). “Also allow your photographer time to capture a few reception details before the room is flooded with guests,” Ignatowski says. >>

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Have these must-haves on hand the day of your wedding to set a pretty scene.

Ring box

Extra blooms

Ribbon

Sentimental extras

A beautiful ring box is a must for those up-close shots of your sparkler.

Choose a color or style that goes with the overall vibe of your wedding, like a rich burgundy velvet for a vineyard celebration.

Provide your photographer with a few extra spools or strands of the ribbon used in your bouquet or throughout your décor. It will make a great addition to your invitation suite photos.

Invitation suite

Speaking of your stationery—bring it!

You’ll want your photographer to get a shot of everything laid out nicely, so make sure you order an extra complete set for exactly that purpose.

Have your florist bring a few bonus stems when they drop off your bouquet and centerpieces for your photographer to work into styled photographs of your stationery or accessories.

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your picture-perfect kit

Consider packing a few bonus items that are particularly reminiscent of you as a couple. Whether you wrote letters to each other your first year of dating, picked up a beloved brass figurine on a trip together or even want to include shells you’ve collected over the years, it’s a great way to add sentimental value to a shot.

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Plan for the light When plotting out your day-of timeline, it’s important to factor in the golden hour—that covetable time of day photographers love to shoot during to capture incredibly romantic, glowy shots.

“Shooting in the best light possible makes all the difference, both for your engagement shots and your wedding day portraits,” Ignatowski says. “Start shooting about an hour and a half before sunset for an engagement session, and begin couple’s portraits about an hour before sunset on your wedding day, depending on how much time you need to allot.” Your location, venue and day-of timeline can all impact how much time you’ll have during golden hour (if any), so loop in your photographer ahead of your wedding to plan out the most logical solution for your day.

From the moment you bring a photographer on board, encourage an open dialogue with them regarding everything from where you hope to shoot your couple’s portraits to how much communication you want to have with them in the months leading up to your wedding. Remember, you’re going to be spending the most time with your photographer on your wedding day (even more than your partner, honestly), so it’s important that you hit it off with them.

The more up front you are about your needs, the more you and your photographer can make sure you’re working together in a way that will surpass your expectations for the day. “I try to encourage my clients to tell me everything they need me to capture as soon as it pops into their head,” Huang says. “Figure out your priority shots—things that you really want captured versus things that are maybe a little less important. This way, if there’s a time crunch, I’ll know which types of images to focus on.”

But don’t try and control everything Listen, you’ve done all the right stuff, so once your wedding day rolls around, let it go. Relinquish control to your photographer and vendor team, and trust that you’re in good hands. Trying to get too prescriptive with your photographer’s work will mean they may miss out on more special, genuine moments, so just let them do their thing. “Trying to re-create that Pinterest-perfect image you love means we may be missing out on authentic moments, like your mom holding your veil or your bridesmaids tearing up,” Fogarty says. “Trust your photographer and their eye—if you let your story unfold naturally, your photographer will capture it beautifully.”

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Josh Deaton is a fine art film wedding and editorial photographer based in Charlotte.

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When looking to hire a photographer, ask to see at least two full wedding galleries. It will give you a much better idea of the overall quality of the photographer’s work over a full wedding day.

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who gives a toast (and when) Smiles, laughs and happy tears— here’s who gets a turn at the mic.

The parents If one set of parents is hosting the wedding, they’ll usually speak first.

If the bill is being split, both sets of parents should speak together. They welcome the guests to the celebration, thank them for coming, raise their glasses to the newlyweds and give some words of wisdom for the new couple.

The best man The best man’s tribute kicks off the wedding party speeches. He’ll make the crowd laugh with stories of the groom’s glory days and tear up with surprisingly heartwarming words about the couple.

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guy) should take the stage to say a few sweet words, though if she feels like freestyle rapping instead, we say go for it.

The couple While you can’t toast to yourselves, it’s always a good idea to take a moment to acknowledge the hard work of your wedding party and parents and thank your guests for sharing in this special day with you.

Who shouldn’t give a speech Constant toasting interrupting the party will get old fast, and your guests will appreciate you limiting the amount so they can hit the dance floor. Keep the mic reserved for the honored members of your wedding party and family, and never pass it off to a guest who has had

Engagement party Depending on your preferences and how your engagement went down (think: a surprise dinner with your besties), you and your partner may decide to have an official party celebrating your new status as to-be-weds. According to The Knot 2017 Real Weddings study, about 28 percent of couples have an engagement party. Hosted by your parents, a close relative, your sibs or even the two of you, the party is meant to act as a casual get-together where friends and family can pass along their congrats and toast you with bubbly. We recommend keeping it informal—trust us, there will be plenty of occasions for you to rock black tie and cover everything in blush, but this doesn’t have to be it. Consider a low-key backyard barbecue or beachfront clambake, where you and your partner can focus on mixing and mingling with everyone you’re looking forward to celebrating your marriage with.

And that brings us to the guest list. There is no “right” amount of people to invite to your engagement party, but there are a few things to keep in mind. Whether you decide you want to keep it small and intimate or make it big and boisterous, steer clear of including any guests you won’t be inviting to your wedding (that is, unless you’re planning to elope). It may result in guests being confused as to where they stand, or having their feelings hurt once they realize they’re not receiving an invite for the actual wedding day.

Shower For argument’s sake, we’re going to refer to this next category as a shower, but this can really include any wedding-related event leading up to the celebration where one or both sides of your friends and family members join together to celebrate your impending nuptials, like a bridal shower, couple’s shower and more.

Remember, a wedding (and any related events) are all about what feels right to you and your partner, so if you’re not so thrilled by the idea of a shower, just skip it. If you’re looking to stick with tradition, plan to hold your shower anywhere from one to six months ahead of your wedding. Keep in mind that showers are often coordinated by someone other than the bride or groom (think: your MOH or future mother-inlaw), so be sure to tap your party people early on to give them enough time to plan your event. For traditional bridal showers, women who are attending the wedding are the ones invited, while a couple’s shower or other celebration usually extends to include anyone on your wedding guest list and can be as big or small of a gathering as you’d like. Another important point: These events are when the majority of the gifting will happen, so stock your registry with plenty of options at least a month ahead of your party so guests have a variety of items (and price points) to choose from. Plus, you don’t want Great-Aunt Beatrice going rogue, do you?

start early Stock your registry with plenty of options at least a month ahead of your party so guests have a variety of items (and price points) to choose from.

Bachelor/bachelorette party Is there anything more fun leading up to your wedding than a weekend partying with your besties? We think not. A long-standing tradition for both sides of the aisle, bachelor and bachelorette parties are a chance to let loose, hang with your pals and make some memories.

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While typically hosted by the maid of honor or best man, virtually anyone can pull together this party. Steer clear of celebrating too close to your actual wedding date so you can feel free to let loose and enjoy all the revelry that goes along with this prewedding bash. One thing to remember: Make your party preferences known. While you’re free to have a weekend that’s as low-key or over-the-top as you want, your friends aren’t mind readers, so if there’s something that’s truly off limits, say so. Beyond that, try and choose a location that has a lot to offer no matter what the budget or what your buds are into. Cities like Nashville, Tennessee, Charleston, South Carolina, and Portland, Oregon, all have a great mix of classy, rowdy and understated.

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twice as nice Fit in face time with everyone who’s in town for your wedding weekend by following up your intimate rehearsal dinner with a few hours of welcome drinks or another fun festivity, like s’mores around a bonfire.

Farewell brunch Swap stories over waffles with a postwedding brunch—the perfect way to wind down the weekend. Usually held at or nearby whatever hotel you and the majority of your guests stayed at, you can cast a wide net with your invite list, including anyone who spent the night and doesn’t have to sneak out too early the next morning. Don’t feel like you have to send formal invitations unless you want to—this info is fine to put on your wedding website, or on the details card within your invitation suite. You just threw a killer party the night before, so don’t overcomplicate this. The only things you need are hearty breakfast eats, lots of coffee and goodbye hugs.

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The night before your wedding is bound to bring a few jitters, and there’s no better way to distract yourselves than wining and dining alongside your loved ones.

Rehearsal dinners have become a pretty standard wedding weekend event, and are traditionally held the evening before the “I dos,” after the couple and their wedding party have walked through the run of show for the following day with the officiant.

It’s a great opportunity to spend time with your VIP guests in a relaxed environment, so keep the vibe fun, festive and comfortable. No matter who the official host is (it can be your or your partners’ parents, you two or even grandparents or godparents—whoever’s up for it), you should aim to book and solidify your rehearsal dinner plans four to six months in advance. As for the guest list, that should include your immediate families, your wedding party and their spouses or significant others, the parents of any child attendants and your officiant (they may not come, but it’s a nice to invite them).

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Host a traditional dinner, then open up the celebration to anyone already in the area for your wedding with a few hours of welcome drinks or some other night-before festivities (like s’mores and bonfires).

While the structure is pretty loose when it comes to a rehearsal dinner (you do you!) there are a few things you may want to include, like passing along any thank-you gifts to your wedding attendants and hearing any toasts that won’t take place during the main event.

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Have Your First Dance Whether you want to show off your salsa moves or wow with your (okay, slightly modified) rendition of Dirty Dancing’s signature scene, plan to have your first dance immediately after your entrance into the reception. If you’re not a pair who loves center stage, sway for a few minutes, then have your DJ or band segue right into an upbeat song. That’s your wedding party’s cue to storm the dance floor and get your guests moving.

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Give Toasts WHEN TO During dinner tends to be the best time for speeches—everyone is sitting, and music isn’t blaring.

The hosts (whether it’s your parents or yourselves) usually kick off the meal with a greeting, then the honor attendants follow soon after with their toasts.

If other friends would like to share some stories, encourage them to speak at the rehearsal dinner, and keep the main event speeches short, sweet and PGPG-13.

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Before you race to the bar and down a cocktail, make time for a little schmoozing. To score face time with everyone, from your college roomie to Great Aunt Vera, organize a receiving line as guests exit your ceremony or enter your reception. Not into that idea? Plan on using your cocktail hour (or part of dinner) to make the rounds and flash those new wedding rings.

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Cut the Cake WHEN TO

Sign the Ketubah

We know what you’re thinking—ASAP, right?

While the temptation to dig in may be strong, most couples wait until the last hour of the reception to start slicing. If you prefer a more private moment, simply do it to the side with your photog instead of making it a big to-do. Trust us, guests will be too busy on the dance floor to notice.

The ketubah is a Jewish marriage contract traditionally signed by the couple and their witnesses ahead of the wedding ceremony.

Modern or mixed-faith couples often take the signing public and share the moment in front of all their guests, or even invite everyone present to sign their names onto an oversize document that doubles as art.

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North Carolina Marriage License Requirements

GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In North Carolina, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Those under 18 must

have parental consent. Couples must apply for and sign the license together at the Register of Deeds office. A Social Security number and a driver’s license (and sometimes a birth certificate) are required as proof of identification. Residency and blood tests are not required. If previously married, the bride or groom may be asked to provide the appropriate documents regarding the divorce or death. There is no waiting period to obtain the license, which is valid for 60 days. The fee for a marriage license is $60; methods of payment vary. All offices are open Monday through Friday; in some counties appointments are required. Please call ahead to get all of the details.

WHERE TO APPLY Alamance County

Craven County

Gaston County

Iredell County

Brunswick County

Cumberland County

Guilford County

Johnston County

118 W. Harden St. Graham, NC 27253 (336) 570-6565 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Register of Deeds 75 Courthouse Dr. Bolivia, NC 28422 (910) 253-2690 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Buncombe County

35 Woodfin St., Ste. 226 Asheville, NC 28801 (828) 250-4300 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Cabarrus County

65 Church St. SE Concord, NC 28025 (704) 920-2112 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Catawba County

100-C Southwest Blvd.

Newton, NC 28658 (828) 465-1573 7:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.

226 Pollock St. New Bern, NC 28560 (252) 636-6617 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

117 Dick St., Rm. 114 Fayetteville, NC 28301 (910) 678-7775 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Davidson County

203 W. 2nd St. Lexington, NC 27292 (336) 242-2150 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Durham County

200 E. Main St. Durham, NC 27701 (919) 560-0480 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Forsyth County

201 N. Chestnut St., Fl. 2 Winston-Salem, NC 27101 (336) 703-2700 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

325 N. Marietta St. Gastonia, NC 28052 (704) 862-7511 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

201 S. Eugene St. Greensboro, NC 27402 (336) 641-7556 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Harnett County

305 W. Cornelius Harnett Blvd., Ste. 200 Lillington, NC 27546 (910) 893-7540 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Henderson County 200 N. Grove St., Ste. 129 Hendersonville, NC 28792 (828) 697-4901 9 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

201 E. Water St. Statesville, NC 28677 (704) 872-7468 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

207 E. Johnston St. Smithfield, NC 27577 (919) 989-5160 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Mecklenburg County

720 E. 4th St., Rm. 106 Charlotte, NC 28202 (704) 336-6090 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

New Hanover County

216 N. 2nd St. Wilmington, NC 28401 (910) 798-4530 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Onslow County

109 Old Bridge St. Jacksonville, NC 28540 (910) 347-3451 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m., M–F; 4:30 – 5:45 p.m., T. & Th. (by appointment only)

Orange County

228 S. Churton St., Ste. 300 Hillsborough, NC 27278 (919) 245-2675 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Pitt County

100 W. 3rd St. Greenville, NC 27834 (252) 902-1650 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Randolph County

158 Worth St. Asheboro, NC 27203 (336) 318-6960 8 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Robeson County

500 N. Elm St., Rm. 102 Lumberton, NC 28358 (910) 671-3044 8:15 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Rowan County

402 N. Main St. Salisbury, NC 28144 (704) 216-8626 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

Union County

Register of Deeds 500 N. Main St., Ste. 258 Monroe, NC 28112 (704) 283-3610 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Wake County

421 Fayetteville St., Ste. 300, Fl. 3 Raleigh, NC 27601 (919) 856-5460 8:30 a.m. – 4:45 p.m.

Wayne County

224-226 E. Walnut St. Goldsboro, NC 27533 (919) 731-1449 8 a.m. – 4 p.m.

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GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In South Carolina, the legal age to obtain a marriage license is 18 years old. Parental consent can be granted for those younger than 18 years of age. Residency and blood tests are not required. The fee for a South Carolina marriage license varies according to the county, typically between $50-$100. There is no expiration date for a South Carolina marriage license. No proof of divorce is required if previously married. There is a 24-hour waiting period before the marriage license is in effect. Proof of age is required in the form of a passport, driver’s license, etc. Some counties may require a social security card.

WHERE TO APPLY Aiken County

Probate Court 109 Park Ave. SE, Rm. E126 Aiken, SC 29801 (803) 642-2009 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Anderson County Probate Court 100 S. Main St. Anderson, SC 29622 (864) 260-4049 Call for hours

Berkeley County

Probate Court 300 California Ave. Moncks Corner, SC 29461 (843) 719-4519 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Charleston County

Judicial Center– Probate Court 100 Broad St., Ste. 469 Charleston, SC 29401 (843) 958-5183 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Beaufort County

Hilton Head Island Satellite Probate Office 539 William Hilton Pkwy.

Hilton Head, SC 29928 (843) 255-5866 9 a.m. – 4 p.m., T-W, F Beaufort Probate Office 102 Ribaut Rd. Beaufort, SC 29902 (843) 255-5850 9 a.m. – 4 p.m.

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Dorchester County

Probate Court 5200 E. Jim Bilton Blvd.

St. George, SC 29477 (843) 832-0104 8:30 a.m. – 4:30 p.m.

Florence County

Probate Court 180 N. Irby, Rm. 206 Florence, SC 29501 (843) 665-3085 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Greenville County Probate Court 301 University Ridge Greenville, SC 29601 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Horry County

Probate Court 9630 Scipio Ln. Myrtle Beach, SC 29588 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m., M, W-F, 8:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m., T

Lexington County

Probate Court 205 E. Main St., Ste. 134 Lexington, SC 29072 (803) 785-8324 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Pickens County

Probate Court 222 McDaniel Ave., B-16 Pickens, SC 29671 (864) 898-5903 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Richland County

York County

Spartanburg County

Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@theknot.com.

Judicial Center– Probate Court 1701 Main St. Columbia, SC 29201 8:30 a.m – 4:45 p.m.

Probate Court 180 Magnolia St. Spartanburg, SC 29306 (864) 596-2556 8:30 a.m. – 5 p.m.

Sumter County

Probate Court 215 N. Harvin St. Sumter, SC 29150 (803) 436-2166 8:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.

Probate Court 1 E. Liberty St. York, SC 29745 (803) 684-8513 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.

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GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.

GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS

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CONTACT

TIME CONSTRAINTS

FEE

Asheville Citizen-Times

(828) 232-5998 Attn: Weddings PO Box 2090 Asheville, NC 28802

Nonpaid weddings must be submitted within 30 days after the wedding date by noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

Basic announcement is free; larger announcements range from $50 to $210.

Charlotte Observer

(704) 358-5260 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 32188 Charlotte, NC 28232

Must submit info at least 24 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Fees range from $115 to $1,885.

Greensboro News–Record

(336) 373-7053 Attn: Celebrations Rep. PO Box 20848 Greensboro, NC 27420

Must submit info by 5 p.m. Wednesday, at least 11 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes All announcements must be proofed before they can be published in the paper.

Six-line announcements (no photo) are free. For longer announcements, rates start at $30.10 and must be prepaid.

Raleigh News & Observer

(919) 836-2800 Attn: Special Occasions Dept.

PO Box 191 Raleigh, NC 27602

Must submit info by 4 p.m. on Monday, six days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

The cost is $40 per column inch, approximately eight lines of text.

Wilmington Star-News

(910) 343-2325 Attn: Occasions PO Box 840 Wilmington, NC 28402

Must submit info by 4 p.m. Thursday, 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Optional; must be typed and double spaced.

There is no charge for submitting a basic announcement. The fee for an announcement plus a photo is $18.55 per column inch. There is also an additional $13.25 online posting fee.

Winston-Salem Journal

(336) 727-7422 Attn: Celebrations Dept.

418 N. Marshall Street Winston-Salem, NC 27101

Must submit info by noon on Friday, nine days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

There is no charge for submitting a basic announcement. Packages range from $90 to $2,500.

South Carolina Publications GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS

FEE

PUBLICATION

CONTACT

TIME CONSTRAINTS

The Post and Courier

(843) 937-5775 134 Columbus St. Charleston, SC 29403

Must submit by 3 p.m. on Monday, two weeks prior to the wedding date.

Form: Yes; available online.

Online-only fee is $75; online and print packages vary in price .

The State

(803) 771-8431 Attn: Celebrations The State Media Company PO Box 1333 Columbia, SC 29202

Must submit by 3 p.m. the Monday before the desired date of publication and online posting.

Form: Yes; available online.

The cost varies according to text and/or photo size. Packages range from $117 to $422.

Island Packet

(843) 706-8181 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 5727 Hilton Head Island, SC 29938

Must submit info by 3 p.m. Wednesday, prior to the Sunday of publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Standard announcement is free; larger packages range from $140 to $535.

The Greenville News

(864) 298-4130 Attn: Celebrations 305 S. Main St. PO Box 1688 Greenville, SC 29602

Must submit by noon Wednesday, prior to Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Prices range from $20 to $120 according to size.

The Sun News Daily

(843) 444-1771 Attn: Celebrations PO Box 406 Myrtle Beach, SC 29578

Must submit info by 4 p.m. Tuesday, prior to the Sunday of publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Starting at $30 for a one-column passage without photo, ranging up to $350.

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event lawn. Let our custom catering bring your culinary vision to life. On-island cottages treat your guests to Southern hospitality all weekend long. capacity 250 | price $$$

cannon green

the 1927 lake lure inn & spa

2771 Memorial Hwy., Lake Lure, NC (888) 434-4970 | LakeLure.com Let the Blue Ridge Mountains surround you! Choose from our historic inn, lakeside, mountain, garden, and beach venues. The inn blends historic ambience, inclusive options, full-service catering, on-site accommodations, spa, salon and stunning views to create a truly unique destination experience. capacity 200 | price $$

alexander homestead

4717 Shamrock Drive, Charlotte, NC (704) 737-1023 | nicole@ahweddings.net Alexander Homestead is Charlotte’s only all-inclusive historic wedding venue. The Homestead boasts a beautiful garden ceremony and, just steps away, a striking dairy barn with full amenities for you and your guests. Schedule a visit today and let our event management team take care of the details! capacity 225 | price $$

the barn at reynolda village

106 Reynolda Village, Winston-Salem, NC (336) 758-2276 | sales@reynoldabarn.com ReynoldaBarn.com The Barn at Reynolda Village is a newly renovated wedding venue in the heart of the Reynolda Historic District. We’re able to accommodate up to 175 guests for a cocktail-style reception or 125 for a seated dinner with dancing, and we’re proud to offer additional ceremony space in nearby Reynolda Gardens.

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capacity 150 | price $$

belfair clubhouse

200 Belfair Oaks Blvd., Bluffton, SC (843) 706-4634 | weddings@belfair1811.com Belfair1811.com Belfair offers a dream-like setting for an unforgettable wedding celebration. Whether you are planning an intimate gathering of 20 or a large ceremony for 220, Belfair offers a beautiful, serene location and a complete range of supporting services and amenities. capacity 220 | price $$$$

cabarrus arena & events center

(704) 920-3976 | tjones@cabarrusarena.com CabarrusArena.com Cabarrus Arena & Events Center is your perfect wedding venue. Accommodating from 50 up to 1,000 guests, a professional and courteous staff is here for you. Our exclusive catering is awaiting your request.

Visit our website today, and let us join with you on your extraordinary journey. capacity 1,000 | price $$

callawassie island

(843) 987-2155 CallawassieIsland.com Have the waterfront ceremony of your dreams surrounded by mossy oaks and views for miles. Dance the night away in our Lowcountry clubhouse or moonlit

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103 Spring Street, Charleston, SC (843) 817-6299 events@cannongreencharleston.com CannonGreenCharleston.com With beautiful indoor and outdoor settings for your ceremony and/or reception, Cannon Green is an all-season, flexible entertaining space. Our downtown Charleston venue offers an all-inclusive services package covering all the bases from rentals and lush tabletop décor to custom menus. capacity 250 | price $$$

cape fear botanical garden

536 N. Eastern Blvd., Fayetteville, NC (910) 486-0221 events@capefearbg.org CapeFearBG.com The Wyatt Visitors Pavilion Complex at Cape Fear Botanical Garden is the premier rental space for wedding ceremonies and receptions, corporate and military functions, special occasions and holiday celebrations—small and large, intimate and grand. capacity 500+ | price $$

charleston gaillard center

95 Calhoun Street, Charleston, SC (843) 242-3094 ngarrand@gaillardcenter.org GaillardCenter.org Whether planning an intimate gathering or a large ceremony, the Gaillard Center offers quintessential charm with a complete range of supporting services and amenities. Located in the heart of Charleston’s famed Historic District, with accommodations to suit all tastes, we are perfect for your wedding. capacity 650 | price $$$

charleston harbor resort & marina

20 Patriot’s Point Road, Mount Pleasant, SC (843) 284-7039 | CharlestonHarborResort.com Charleston’s only harbor-front resort is located on Patriot’s Point. The resort offers a full-service marina, golf, pool, private beachfront, two restaurants and event space with views of Charleston Harbor. Whatever season, we can design the perfect setting and event tailored to your dreams. capacity 400 | price $$$

the cottages on charleston harbor

(866) 901-2688 CharlestonHarborWeddings.com The Cottages on Charleston Harbor are beautifully arranged just yards from the harbor. The picturesque two-bedroom cottages feature spacious living areas and private screened porches, complete with hammocks.

Host your ceremony on the water’s edge and the reception on our beautiful event lawn. capacity 125 | price $$$

daniel stowe botanical garden

6500 South New Hope Road, Belmont, NC (704) 829-1268 privateevents@dsbg.org DSBG.org With 110 acres of stunning themed gardens, sparkling fountains and ever-changing Southern seasonal displays, DSBG is one of the Charlotte region’s most beautiful

wedding venues, offering a wide range of wedding packages and unique sites. It’s located in charming Belmont within 30 minutes of Uptown. capacity 400+ | price $$

diamond room event venue

103 East Main Street, Gibsonville, NC (336) 494-8874 | debbie@wadesjewelers.net WadesDiamondRoom.com A full-service venue, the Diamond Room is located between Greensboro and Burlington, NC. The Diamond Room allows outside, licensed caterers and provides on-site rentals. It’s perfect for small and large events.

It’s where “Elegance Meets Effortless.” Tours are available days, evenings and weekends. capacity 220 | price $$

doubletree resort by hilton myrtle beach oceanfront

3200 South Ocean Blvd., Myrtle Beach, SC (843) 315-7008 | kyleen.tamney@hilton.com MyrtleBeachResort.DoubleTreebyHilton.com As one of the only resorts in Myrtle Beach offering toes-in-the-sand beach weddings, it is an idyllic location for couples looking to tie the knot. For an intimate celebration or lavish affairs, we offer three oceanfront ballrooms overlooking the Atlantic Ocean for your wedding day. capacity 300+ | price $$

explore charleston

CharlestonWeddingGuide.com She is called the Holy City. She is also known as Conde Nast Traveler Readers’ Choice 2017 Top U.S. City. And now the Charleston area may add one more esteemed title: host of your destination wedding. capacity 400+ | price $

the farm - a gathering place

215 Justice Ridge Road, Candler, NC (828) 667-0666 | TheFarmEvents.com The Farm has rustic charm, hardwood floors, a huge fireplace and wraparound porches that are designed for use in winter and summer. Imagine declaring your vows at sunset in the gazebo, a romantic spot nestled in the trees with the western mountains as a backdrop. capacity 300 | price $$

the farmhouse siloam

2738 Siloam Road, Mount Airy, NC (336) 756-1983 | fhsiloam@thefarmhousesiloam.com TheFarmHouseSiloam.com The beautiful countryside setting includes a rustic barn or woodsy backdrop for your ceremony, an old tobacco barn reception pavilion and farmhouse. Packages include the ceremony setting, reception pavilion, tables and chairs, décor, lawn games, fire pit, groom’s suite, bridal suite and a wedding planner. capacity 175 | price $$

florence center

3300 W. Radio Dr., Florence, SC (843) 679-9417 | ptaira@florencecenter.com FlorenceCenter.com The beautifully remodeled Florence Center offers stylish rental spaces, magnificent ballrooms, an outdoor courtyard, on-site catering and much more. Our unique combination of quality amenities, professional planning and world-class catering can turn events of all sizes into experiences to remember. capacity 700 | price $$

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forevermore farm: home of the barn & the stables

135 Waldon Rd., Moore, SC (864) 707-5655 TheBarnatForevermoreFarm.com Our historic farm, where modern conveniences meet rustic charm, is the perfect location for your event. A charming carriage house hosts the bridal suite, and a separate groom’s quarters has a pool table and private lawn. Outdoor space boasts a rock fireplace and amazing sunsets for Forevermore memories.

historic rice mill and good food catering

17 Lockwood Drive, Charleston, SC (843) 723-7952 | GoodFoodCatering.net HistoricRiceMill.net Congratulations on your engagement! We are Charleston’s most spectacular waterfront wedding location, featuring versatile indoor and outdoor space and unparalleled sunset views over the Ashley River— everything you can imagine for your fairy-tale wedding.

Call today to schedule a complimentary tour!

capacity 300 | price $$

fripp island golf & beach resort

2119 Sea Island Parkway Harbor Island, SC (843) 838-1507 | (888) 974-1873 kkluttz@frippislandresort.com FrippIslandResort.com All you’d expect for your important event. There’s every amenity imaginable for your guests—golf, tennis, boating, 3 1/2 miles of beach, catering to meet your every wish and more. Our accommodations range from spectacular beachfront homes to scenic panoramic views and offer something for everyone. capacity 200 | price $$$

gambill estate

7348 Old 60, Roaring River, NC GambillEstate.com With down home charm and natural elegance, this family-owned country estate has 145 exquisite acres coupled with mountain vistas—an ideal wedding location. Southern hospitality is our foundation, and an atmosphere of community and exceptional service is our trademark. capacity 200 | price $$$

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grande dunes

(843) 839-0818 GrandeDunesWeddings.com Imagine your wedding at the Ocean Club or Members Club at Grande Dunes—an experience of luxury and elegance in South Carolina’s premier coastal resort community. The serene, natural beach has stunning Atlantic views, and the private club offers world-class golf—both settings can be exclusively yours. capacity 200 | price $$

hidden river events

(828) 333-3401 hiddenriverevents@gmail.com HiddenRiverEvents.com An elegantly simple events center nestled along the Swannanoa River, just five minutes from Asheville, North Carolina. Reserve our 17+ acre farm for weddings, reunions and other celebrations. Specializing in allinclusive and destination weddings. We craft events with your love and comfort in mind. Be a guest at your own wedding. capacity 350 | price $$$

highgrove estate

1613 S. Main Street, Fuquay Varina, NC (919) 552-6154 | info@highgrove-nc.com Highgrove-NC.com Whether your dream is an elegant garden wedding or an evening soiree, Highgrove Estate is the ideal setting for your special day. Exchange your vows overlooking Lake Laurel, celebrate the pleasure of fine food and dance the night away in our fabric-draped Garden Ballroom. capacity 200 | price $$

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the historic wakefield barn

12617 Old Falls of Neuse Road, Wake Forest, NC (919) 278-7287 jessica@southernoakevents.com HistoricWakefieldBarn.com Originally built in the 1930s, the meticulously restored Wakefield Barn anchors the property, while the outdoor ceremony and cocktail hour space boasts a weeping elm. The natural backdrops offer an inspiring array of unique possibilities for staging the perfect wedding ceremony and reception. capacity 300 | price $$$

isis music hall

743 Haywood Road, Asheville, NC (828) 575-2737 | lillianna@bellsouth.net IsisAsheville.com For couples looking to exchange their vows in Asheville, this internationally acclaimed music hall hosts an unforgettable evening. Located in the heart of hip West Asheville, Isis Music Hall can host nearly any size wedding and event from intimate rehearsal dinners to large indoor or outdoor weddings. capacity 300+ | price $$

jennette’s pier

Nags Head, Outer Banks (252) 255-1501 rentjennettespier@ncaquariums.com JennettesPier.net This oceanfront venue on the Outer Banks of North Carolina has a pristine beach and expansive pier that’s perfect for ceremonies. The second-floor banquet room and outside covered deck provide panoramic ocean views. It’s a breathtaking site sure to make your celebration nothing short of spectacular! capacity 175 | price $$

mountain location and experience to ensure that your event is perfect in every way. Every aspect will resonate with rustic elegance and style. capacity 250 | price $$$

lavender oaks farm

3833 Millard Whitley Rd., Chapel Hill, NC (919) 909-7417 | info@lavenderoaks.farm LavenderOaks.farm The serenity of our organic lavender farm and elegant century-old barns set on 60 acres of majestic forest awaits you in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. Escape to your dream destination in a timeless setting for exclusive weddings and special events. We’re so close to area hotels, restaurants and RDU Airport! capacity 250 | price $$$

middleton place

Charleston, SC (843) 377-0548 MiddletonPlace.org Middleton Place offers an unparalleled wedding experience in the Lowcountry of South Carolina. In one place, extraordinary natural beauty, cultivated landscaped gardens and early American history converge to give your wedding a picture-perfect backdrop—an enchanting day filled with beautiful memories. capacity 250 | price $$$$

the oaks wedding venue

325 Huitt Rd., Anderson, SC (864) 293-3606 | TheOaksWeddingVenue.com Happily ever after starts here! Enter the building through 10-foot French oak double doors from the 1800s French Carriage House to a 5,000-square-foot venue facing a 30-foot wall of glass along a serene 20-acre lake. capacity 375 | price $$$

old edwards inn and spa

445 Main Street, Highlands, NC (828) 787-2610 groupsales@oldedwardsinn.com OldEdwardsInn.com/weddings With year-round venues for weddings of all sizes, the Four-Star luxury of Old Edwards Inn and Spa provides full-service event staff, superior resort amenities and abundant activities, ensuring that this experience will become part of your memories forever.

kaminski house museum

1003 Front Street, Georgetown, SC (843) 546-7706 kleatherwood@kaminskimuseum.org KaminskiMuseum.org Imagine your once-in-a-lifetime event at the Kaminski House Museum in historic Georgetown (just 60 miles north of Charleston). Weddings on the lawn of the Kaminski House Museum or special events on The Kossove Terrace feature Southern-style charm and tradition in our historic waterfront setting. capacity 300+ | price $

laurel ridge country club & event center

49 Cupp Lane, Waynesville, NC (828) 452-0545 events@laurelridgegolf.com LaurelRidgeExperience.com Whether you are celebrating the most important day of your life with hundreds of guests or having a more intimate gathering, we have the scenic western NC

one eleven place

(919) 654-5413 | 111Place.com The place to be for all of your wedding events! One Eleven Place offers you privacy, elegance, uniqueness, great staff, and creative catering. The grand ballroom and garden patio are perfect for a rehearsal dinner, ceremony, and reception. Enjoy the day you have been waiting for at One Eleven Place. capacity 250 | price $$

outer banks wedding association

hello@obxwa.com | OBXWA.com The Outer Banks Wedding Association is the premier resource for couples seeking a destination wedding on the Outer Banks of North Carolina. With over 300 members strong, our wedding professionals can cater to any wedding style through their unparalleled local knowledge and expertise.

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pawleys plantation golf & country club

70 Tanglewood Drive, Pawleys Island, SC (843) 237-6000 | GrandStrandWeddings.com At Pawleys Plantation Golf & Country Club, we specialize in high-end Lowcountry weddings. Our unparalleled, simple yet elegant venue combines classic Southern architecture with country club ambience. Let us help create the most unforgettable day of your life! capacity 400 | price $$

rumbling bald resort on lake lure

112 Mountains Boulevard, Lake Lure, NC (828) 694-3013 | RumblingBald.com/weddings Set along the shores of Lake Lure and the beauty of the Blue Ridge Mountains, we have the picture-perfect spot for your wedding. Whether you are planning an intimate wedding or a grand reception, our staff is dedicated to making your wedding day everything you dreamed it would be. capacity 350 | price $$

sanderling resort

1461 Duck Rd., Duck, NC (877) 574-8219 | Sanderling-Resort.com Sanderling boasts unique event spaces on the beaches of the Atlantic Ocean, plus beautiful Currituck Sound sunsets. capacity 200 | price $$$

sawyer family farmstead

(828) 743-5456 theteam@sawyerfamilyfarmstead.com SawyerFamilyFarmstead.com Sawyer Family Farmstead is part Christmas tree farm and part mountain paradise. Our unique wedding location is nestled in the heart of the Blue Ridge Mountains of western North Carolina on the Highlands/Cashiers Plateau overlooking Lake Glenville and only six miles from Cashiers. capacity 250 | price $$

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the sea pines resort

32 Greenwood Drive, Hilton Head Island, SC (843) 842-1495 | agoodman@seapines.com SeaPines.com A world-renowned destination, The Sea Pines Resort offers an unparalleled setting for your unique and special occasion. With several new venues offering spectacular views and beautifully appointed event space, The Sea Pines Resort is sure to exceed expectations and ensure the wedding of your dreams. capacity 250 | price $$$

seabrook island club

3771 Seabrook Island Rd., Seabrook Island, SC (843) 768-7869 kmccormack@discoverseabrook.com SeabrookIslandWeddings.com The Seabrook Island Club hosts oceanfront weddings for both club members and nonmembers.

(910) 327-2050 | topsailmanor@accessthebeach.com TopsailManor.com Topsail Manor is a grandiose, eight-bedroom oceanfront manor that boasts luxurious amenities, spacious accommodations and elegant coastal décor. Designed to accommodate large groups, Topsail Manor’s approximately 8,000 square feet provides the perfect venue for your entire wedding day. capacity 100 | price $$$

westglow resort and spa

224 Westglow Cir., Blowing Rock, NC (800) 562-0807 | jen@westglow.com Westglow.com Imagine walking down the aisle amidst the grandeur of our historic mansion, surrounded by the stunning beauty of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Each wedding is exclusively assured the personalized attention of our entire staff to help you create the day of your dreams. capacity 150 | price $$$

the westin charlotte

capacity 300+ | price $$$

willow falls weddings and events

125 Little Willow Circle, Hendersonville, NC (828) 338-8479 | WillowFallsEvents.com Willow Falls, nestled on a gently sloping, natural 70foot waterfall, is surrounded by forest, trails, gazebos, winding porches and lush gardens. There are two homes on the property, which sleep 16—perfect for a bridal party—and numerous indoor and outdoor spots to create the event you envision. capacity 150 | price $$

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Serving nationwide Belk.com Belk’s professionally-trained bridal consultants make planning your wedding gift registry enjoyable and convenient. You’ll find quality brand names and styles in dinnerware, glassware, flatware, kitchen electrics, bedding and bath essentials and more. Your guests are a click away from making your house a home. Just visit our website.

flowers & décor

eliana nunes floral design

12133 N. NC Hwy. 150, Suite A, Winston Salem, NC (336) 764-4300 ElianaNunes.com Serving the Triad, Charlotte and Triangle area, we offer inspired floral and event design for busy couples with impeccable taste. Visit our website to learn more!

bridal fashion & beauty

winmock at kinderton

168 East Kinderton Way, Bermuda Run, NC (336) 397-2010 | rebecca@winmock.com WinMock.com A visual gala of breathtaking architecture and lush greenery, WinMock at Kinderton combines historic charm with a relaxed atmosphere. Grassy knolls lead the way to the romantic West Terrace, while the soaring Loft provides an unforgettable backdrop to your special day. capacity 300 | price $$

wedding consultants

ladies of lineage

Charlotte, NC | (704) 547-4208 Fort Mill, SC | (803) 233-1722 info@ladiesoflineage.com LadiesofLineage.com Two locations. Same passion. Same experience. Ladies of Lineage offers an exclusive collection from some of the world’s most sought-after fashion houses. Our style consultants work directly with our bridal designers, helping create your wedding day look based upon your personality, style and budget.

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tides folly beach

capacity 300 | price $$$

belk

601 S. College St., Charlotte, NC (704) 335-2100 | WestinCharlotteHotel.com Discover a modern urban oasis in the heart of uptown at The Westin Charlotte, situated steps away from the city’s premier attractions and designed with the modern traveler in mind. Enjoy the freedom to curate your own one-of-a-kind hotel experience at The Westin Charlotte.

capacity 300 | price $$

1 Center Street, Folly Beach, SC (843) 588-6464 | TidesFollyBeach.com Tides offers the perfect oceanfront venue for ceremonies on the sand and beachside festivities. With full-service catering, we are pleased to host everything from casual beachside events to formal black-tie affairs for up to 300 guests.

bridal registries

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mary bell events

(828) 450-2209 | mary@marybellevents.com MaryBellEvents.com Mary Bell Events is a full-service wedding and event planning company, offering affordable packages designed to bring your vision to life—and to perfection.

19826-D North Cove Rd., Cornelius, NC (704) 895-1007 LilyRoseBridal.com The Lily Rose Bridal is 15 minutes from uptown Charlotte. Specializing in couture fashion, The Lily Rose features designer lines for bridal, bridal party, special events and head-to-toe accessories. Enjoy attention to your personal style, designer selections and service that is a cut above the rest.

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nitsa’s apparel

107 S. Stratford Road, Winston-Salem, NC (336) 725-1999 | nitsas@nitsas.com Nitsas.com Nitsa’s offers the finest selection of couture bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses, veils, accessories, social occasion and cocktail dresses, and sportswear. As the Carolinas’ Couture Bridal Salon, Nitsa’s provides its signature personal service and exceptional in-house alterations. Fabulous since 1964!

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lkn@theicingandthecake.com TheIcingandTheCake.com The Icing & The Cake designers strive to provide you with the perfect centerpiece for your special occasion.

We offer a comprehensive and creative design process to provide you the cake of your dreams. Contact us or visit our boutique to book your consultation and tasting.

inlet affairs banquets & catering

4024 Highway 17 Business, Murrells Inlet, SC (843) 651-2904 | info@inletaffairs.com InletAffairs.com Inlet Affairs is a premier venue and full-service caterer for Myrtle Beach, Grand Strand and the surrounding areas. We cater a variety of events that include weddings, rehearsal dinners and much more. Call or email us to get your menu planning process started.

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(910) 508-2517 coralcloudsphotography@gmail.com CoralCloudsPhotography.com With over 15 years of event management and photography experience, owner/photographer Deirdre Lynn strives to provide excellent customer service and preserve lifelong memories. She takes great care to make each wedding as special as the couple. It would be a privilege to be chosen as your photographer.

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rose photo

(828) 771-6130 | (312) 282-2997 info@rosephotographics.com | Rose.photo Rose Photo has been creating visual memoirs with its signature, couture photography for more than a decade.

Start building your story, no matter where it begins, with amazing imagery.

cakes & caterers

bistro catering and events

48 Union Street South, Concord, NC (980) 621-6333 | bistrocatering@aol.com BistroCateringandEvents.com Bistro Catering and Events is a full-service catering company offering a wide range of options and covering the greater Charlotte area. Call us to schedule your no-obligation consultation, and let us start helping you plan the event of your dreams.

the icing & the cake

105 Singleton Rd., Suite 103, Mooresville, NC (704) 663-0399

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the oz agency

Serving the Southeast (919) 772-2366 | david@theozagency.com TheOzAgency.com The Oz Agency has over 40 years of experience in the music industry. Our ultimate goal is to make your event easy and enjoyable. We offer several choices for your entertainment, whether a band or a DJ. The Oz Agency provides lights, staging and tents. It is your day and we want to make it special!

specialty services

(843) 352-2099 events@thurstonsouthern.com ThurstonSouthernCatering.com From a backyard wedding to an extravagant Charleston affair, our immaculate attention to detail will ensure your special event is a truly unparalleled experience.

jewelry

blanc de bleu cuvée mousseux

(855) 874-2394 Blanc de Bleu is the world’s first blue sparkling wine—a dry, crisp, sparkling grape wine with a hint of blueberry. It’s perfect for wedding receptions. Visit BlancdeBleuUSA.com for your nearest retailer.

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f8 photo studios

Serving the Carolinas and beyond (919) 389-5757 | cara@f8photostudios.com F8PhotoStudios.com F8 Photo Studios is a well-established, award-winning studio offering amazing customer service. We take pride in the relationships that we build with our clients, allowing us to capture emotive imagery on your big day!

Dow Oak Events is a North Carolina DJ and photo booth company. We provide our clients with everything they need for a stress-free, amazing party at a VERY affordable rate. We offer young, energetic and experienced DJ/MCs, uplighting, a photo booth and more for a price that will fit any budget.

malak jewelers

8042-1000 Providence Road, Charlotte, NC (704) 341-1188 | info@malakjewelers.com MalakJewelers.com Malak Jewelers, the diamond specialists, has one of the largest selections of diamonds and fine jewelry in the Carolinas. They carry everything bridal, including designer engagement rings, diamond wedding bands, men’s wedding bands, bridal party gifts and custom design, plus vintage estate jewelry.

rhudy’s jewelry showroom

2410 Murchison Road, Fayetteville, NC (910) 488-7571 EXT. 2 rhudysinfo@rhudysjewelry.net RhudysJewelry.com With over 100 years of combined experience, our staff has knowledge as vast as our inventory. We give you better pricing on a much larger inventory, including more than 15 live bridal lines. Shop with us to see why Rhudy’s Jewelry Showroom is truly “The Gem of Fayetteville”!

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things remembered

(866) 902-4438 customerservice@thingsremembered.com ThingsRemembered.com From personalized bridesmaid and groomsmen gifts to wedding essentials, put your personal touch on every part of your happily ever after at Things Remembered.

Work with gifting experts in store, by phone or visit our website to get personalizing today.

total wine & more

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entertainment

dow oaks events

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Highgrove Estate

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1927 Lake Lure Inn & Spa

47

Isis Music Hall

112

Alexander Homestead

117

Jennette’s Pier

93

The Barn at Reynolda Village

103

Kaminski House Museum

143

Belfair

7

Laurel Ridge Country Club

23

Cabarrus Arena & Event Center

71

Lavender Oaks Farm

118

Callawassie Island

29

Melrose Knitting Mill

107

Cannon Green

159

Middleton Place

167

Cape Fear Botanical Garden

73

The Oaks Wedding and Event Venue

35

The Cedar Room

10

Old Edwards Inn and Spa

105

The Charleston Gaillard Center

2

One Eleven Place

42

Charleston Harbor Resort & Marina

157

Outer Banks Wedding Association

87

Charleston Wedding Guide

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Pawleys Plantation

163

The Cliffs

139

Rumbling Bald Resort on Lake Lure, NC

121

The Cottages on Charleston Harbor

165

Sanderling Resort

91

Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden

95

Sawyer Family Farmstead

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Diamond Room Event Venue

17

The Sea Pines Resort

45

DoubleTree Resort by Hilton Myrtle Beach Oceanfront

165

Seabrook Island Weddings

49

The Farm

54

Tides Folly Beach

177

The FarmHouse Siloam

117

Topsail Manor

110

Florence Center

137

Westglow Resort & Spa

9

Forevermore Farm

19

The Westin Charlotte

65

Fripp Island Golf & Beach Resort

155

Willow Falls Events

85

Gambill Estate

118

WinMock at Kinderton

13

Good Food Catering

149

Grande Dunes

145

CAKES & CATERERS

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Hidden River Events

111

Best Impressions Caterers

60

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SITES & LOCATIONS

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The Icing & The Cake

41

PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO

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Inlet Affairs Catering

163

Coral Clouds Photography

115

Thurston Southern Catering

132

f8 Photo Studios

77

Union Street Bistro

115

Rose Photo

1

FLOWERS & DÉCOR

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ENTERTAINMENT

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Eliana Nunes Floral & Event Design

121

Dow Oak Events

67

The Oz Agency

110

SPECIALTY SERVICES

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BRIDAL FASHION & BEAUTY

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Ladies of Lineage Bridal Boutique

15

The Lily Rose

27

Nitsa’s

31

Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux

JEWELRY

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Malak Jewelers

39

Rhudy’s Jewelry Showroom

33

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The French Eclectic

167

Queen City Selfies, LLC

112

Things Remembered

59

Total Wine & More

37

Wish Upon a Wedding

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WEDDING CONSULTANTS

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Loluma

53

BRIDAL REGISTRIES

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Mary Bell Events

21

Belk

25

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