The Lantern – Dec. 3, 2019

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Toddlers and textbooks

Navigating college as a single parent MAEVE WALSH Patricia B. Miller Special Projects Editor walsh.607@osu.edu

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ssays and exams make up a tiny fraction of Naomi Lindsay’s stressors at Ohio State. She also has to make sure the Spiderman costume, canisters of Play-Doh and Buzz Lightyear action figures are cleaned up from her living room floor. Lindsay, a second-year in social work, returns to her two-bedroom apartment every day after picking up her 5-year-old son, Dominic, from school at the Columbus Bilingual Academy. After cooking dinner, giving Dominic a bath, reading bedtime stories and tucking him into bed, Lindsay is finally ready to start her pile of homework that is due the next day. If she’s lucky, she goes to bed by 1 a.m. She wakes up grudgingly, five hours later, at 6 a.m., drives Dominic to school and starts her day jam-packed with classes. Then it repeats. “It’s stressful as a student-parent; it’s a lot of stress,” Lindsay said. “You have to handle five classes of homework, and then my son’s in kindergarten. So by the time I get him from school,

we get home, you have to do his homework with him, you wanna spend time with your child. So then you’re pushing your stuff back.” Although it’s easy to feel alone as a single student-parent in a sea of 66,000 college students, Lindsay has company. Approximately 1 in 5 undergraduate college students nationwide are parents, according to Molly Peirano, the deputy Title IX coordinator for the Office of Institutional Equity at Ohio State. That’s about 22 percent of the undergraduate population in the U.S. — or more than 4 million people — according to an April 2019 report from the Institute for Women’s Policy Research. A little more than 40 percent of student-parents attend community colleges. The exact number of student-parents at Ohio State, however, isn’t clear. University officials suspect it’s far more than the 300 students who reported a dependent on financial aid forms. They think the low number is largely due to the perception that comes with reporting oneself as a

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Naomi Lindsay, a second-year in social work, reads a story to her 5-year-old son, Dominic, in front of their Christmas tree. Lindsay is a single mother working on getting her undergraduate degree from Ohio State.

student-parent. As Lindsay illustrates, the college life of a student-parent is far from easy. Access to affordable housing, cost of child care and transportation are just a few of the many challenges they face. There’s also the stigmatization — a feeling that they don’t belong at Ohio State because they don’t fit the typical description of a college student. All of these obstacles lead to a significant discrepancy between those with and without children when it comes to graduating. Nationwide, the six-year graduation rate for student-parents is about 33 percent, which is roughly half that of students without children, Peirano said. To combat the barriers faced

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Nahla Walker, a second-year in exploration, plays with her 9-month-old son, Carson, outside the ACCESS office building at 84 N. 17th Ave. Discovering she was pregnant just after her high school graduation, Walker was unsure if she could still attend Ohio State.

by the student-parent population, Ohio State offers a support program called A Comprehensive College Experience for Single-Parent Students. Created in 1989 under the Office of Diversity and Inclusion, it provides single student-parents with services and accommodations, ACCESS Director Traci Lewis said. The program hosts events every Tuesday night and support groups throughout the week to provide single student-parents help and understanding about academic resources, financial literacy, programs geared toward their kids and more. “That’s the purpose of ACCESS, and that’s how we try to help them make it through the university, by giving them the support and the encouragement and the empowerment that they need to know, ‘Hey, I belong here,’” Lewis said. Lindsay and Nahla Walker, a second-year in exploration, are among the approximately 50 single parents who participate in the program. Discovering she was pregnant shortly after graduating high school, Walker was unsure if she could attend Ohio State. “My family, my friends were kind of doubting me, thinking I was going to stay home,” Walker said. “But I didn’t really have to because I found out about ACCESS.” Her 9-month-old son, Carson, sports a contagious grin and enormous blue eyes. Despite his adorable demeanor and the support she receives from ACCESS, Walker said balancing school and parenting is a handful. “I don’t really give myself enough time for self care. I’m constantly spending time with my

son as much as possible because I feel like he’s already in day care most of the day anyway,” Walker said. “So when I can spend time with him, I really set aside that time, sometimes neglecting my homework and responsibilities as a student.” “Stares and whispers” Although the more tangible obstacles, like housing, child care and transportation, are evident in the lives of student-parents at Ohio State, the stigma and judgment they face from peers and professors for being pregnant or parenting on a college campus is sometimes even more impactful. Jillian Deas, a graduate student in educational policy and graduate assistant for ACCESS, said her journey with pregnancy and parenting her 2-year-old son, Jahlil, often feels isolating. “You feel alone, and it becomes very depressing, builds anxiety,” Deas said. “It adds another barrier that’s more psychological than anything else.” Deas said that after becoming pregnant during her third year at Ohio State, navigating her way around the campus community felt lonely because professors and academic advisers don’t always accommodate the needs of student-parents. “They might say, ‘You know what, our program’s really hard. Maybe you should try this one.’ Or, ‘That’s a big change. Maybe this program isn’t for you,’” Deas said. Although Deas stuck with her program during undergrad, she said many student-parents do change course when confronted with similar comments from their PARENTS CONTINUES ON 2


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