Issue 182

The White Dove of Comfort An alman receives an unexpected visitor

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// Inside

The White Dove of Comfort An alman receives an unexpected visitor

FREE ISSUE 182 JANUARY 16, 2019

‫פרשת בשלח‬ ‫י' שבט תשע”ט‬

Just Shoo It Away?

The halachos of shiluach haken are more complex than many realize

A Robin and Her Eggs Finding a nest was a priceless adventure for our grandchildren

Do You Know Our Feathered Friends?

Check out FYI for a local birds pictorial!

Fruity Beauties for Tu B’Shvat

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(Inbox, Issue 181) I appreciate your response to the letter regarding the Yiddish comics. The writer seemed to be of the opinion that publishing a Yiddish comic following a long-running English comic was discriminatory toward Litvishe readers. While the Litvish community is dominantly English-speaking now, there are Litvishe children in the community being educated in Yiddish who will enjoy Yiddish-language comics, despite speaking English at home. There is no contradiction in being both Litvish and Yiddish-literate. Also, discrimination, for the most part, is perpetrated by powerful groups on less powerful groups. English is perhaps the most powerful language in the world, let alone our community. For an English comic series to cede room for an occasional Yiddish comic is hardly discriminatory.

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I don’t want to get into whether the comic is for the Litvish or chassidish community. I know Litvaks who speak Yiddish and chassidim who don’t. What the issue comes down to is consideration for the different segments of the community.

In general, all Yiddish-speaking households have someone in the household who is also an English speaker, but the reverse is not gener-

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ally the case. Many, if not most, of the English-speaking households are exclusively English-speaking; therefore it is impossible for them to share in the Yiddish comic.

I agree that each constituency should have a comic in their native tongue as it encourages our children to keep reading kosher material in addition to their learning. An option might be to use a footnote for each speech bubble. The footnote could then provide the translation for the non-presenting language.

This way everyone could enjoy the comic and each constituency could have their time as the featured language in the comic.

Thank you for this consideration, Looking for Achdus P.S. On the same theme, it would really be nice if the picture section had bilingual captions. For nonYiddish speakers and non-chassidim, it is often too difficult to translate the frequently unfamiliar names of the various chassiduses and visiting Rebbes. With captions in both languages, bridges can be built.

Thank you.

To the writer of the letter who voiced her disappointment in regard to the Yiddish comic: You mentioned that you are Litvish, and as such, feel discriminated against when a feature appears in Yiddish.

But in pre-war Lithuania, the kinderlach all spoke and read Yiddish.

What a wonderful opportunity you have to teach your child the mamme lashon now that it’s being provided in such an exciting format, even with nekudos! Give your child the gift of being literate in Yiddish — the gift of his Litvish heritage.

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(Re: Your Voice, Issue 180; Inbox, Issue 181) In regard to the letters about pay for cleaning help, I want to relate a story.

My cleaning lady once had letters translated into Yiddish so that she could share it with her other Jewish bosses. The letters were heartbreaking. Basically, she said she was quitting because she could not stand to be treated like a thief all day. She declared that she had never stolen anything from anyone, and despite this, she was being watched over all day with suspicion. She said it was simply unbearable to be treated in such a way. I know she is not the only one with such an experience, but unlike her, many cannot afford to quit. While theft does happen, it does not follow that all cleaning ladies should be treated like thieves.

I was taught that you don’t call a child a ganev because he might grow up to be one. Taking time to find the right cleaning lady and showing her that you trust her and are also paying a fair wage can go a long way for both her and your peace of mind. If you cannot afford to pay the price, either in money or respect, don’t expect to get the services you are looking for.

A Respectful Boss

It is quite obvious that last week’s letter-writer is not struggling with money, and therefore can’t understand this difficulty. Who spends extra money on toys, bagels and clothing? In our home, toys are purchased second-hand, bagels are baked at home, we purchase clothes that are mostly sale items and last year’s styles. With the high rent and tuition costs, who can afford luxuries?

Cleaning help is a different matter. With our large families, ka”h, a cleaning lady is a necessity.

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“HELLO, RABBI WINTER,” said Michoel. “I am so thankful that the Rav agreed to meet with me. I know how busy the Rav is.”

“Come in and sit down, Michoel. I’m always happy to make time for you.” Rabbi Winter smiled, indeed happy that Michoel, a baal teshuvah who davened in his shul, had called. Michoel had recently begun cooling off a bit in his passion for Yiddishkeit, and Rabbi Winter wanted to help.

“I was hoping the Rav could guide me.” Michoel hesitated a moment, and then added, “I… I think there’s something wrong with me.”

Rabbi Winter listened intently but said nothing, waiting for Michoel to continue, which he did. “When I first became frum, everything was so easy and clear.

I could see hashgacha pratis everywhere I turned, and I could feel the fire inside me when I learned. I did not need to push myself to come to shul — the incredible closeness to Hashem that davening gave me was enough motivation to get me to run to shul.”

“Yes,” agreed Rabbi Winter, “I remember that you were always the first to arrive.”

“Right, I used to be. And Shabbos! I felt like I could really see and feel the light of Shabbos. But I don’t feel that anymore. Any of it.” Michoel looked down in embarrassment. “I feel so far from Hashem now, like I fell from a high place. Like I said, there’s something wrong with me.”

Rabbi Winters smiled gently at Michoel. “There’s nothing wrong with you, Michoel. What you are going through is quite normal. Not only that, but it’s a sign that you are now one step closer to Hashem than you were before.”

Michoel looked up with hope in his eyes. “Really?”

“Absolutely,” stated Rabbi Winters. “You did indeed fall from a high place, but it wasn’t your true place. When a person makes a choice to get closer to Hashem — as you did when you became frum — Hashem gives them a gift. For a period of time, Hashem lifts them up to experience the spiritual highs a tzaddik might experience. But the tzaddik has earned that place, whereas for you, it was a temporary gift.”

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Michoel sighed. “But what should I do? I feel so lost.”

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“R’ Tzadok Hakohen explains from the Zohar that there are four stages in a person’s journey to get closer to Hashem. Stage one is Revelation, which is the stage you just left. The person chooses to move closer to Hashem, and Hashem opens that person’s mind and lights up his eyes and heart with kedusha. The person will be elevated to a level that is higher than where he truly belongs. Hashem does this to confirm to the person that Hashem is real and that His light does indeed fill the world. Hashem then returns the person to his original, lower state so that he can set out on a journey to get back to that level — but this time, he will have earned his place.”

Rabbi Winter leaned back and continued, “Stage two is Concealment. During this stage, the person finds himself back in his lowly place, which feels dark and confusing. This leads to the third stage: Disconnect. The person begins to doubt his experiences and wonders if it was real. After a time, he begins to feel guilt and shame that the life he had been living until then was not in alignment with the previous elevated experience. Then he enters the fourth and final stage: Commitment. He makes a commitment to accept Hashem’s hashgacha and to move forward as a humble servant. The Zohar concludes that eventually this will lead to joy and song.”

Michoel stood up with determination burning in his eyes. “Thank you, Rabbi. I think I know what I need to do to get back to where I had been. I need to push forward and earn it by myself.”

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Agudath Israel of America said in a statement released last week that it had been contacted by multiple Suffern residents whose children were adversely affected by the district’s failure to provide certain mandated services. By law, school districts in New York State are required to provide nonpublic school students with services including transportation, textbooks, health services and special educations services.

Advocating for yeshivah parents, the Agudah urged the DOE to contact the school district, and a letter written by NYSED Associate Commissioner, Office of School Services, Renee Rider, reminded Dr. Adams of his legal obligation to provide mandated services to all schools in

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The Agudah’s director of education affairs, Mrs. Deborah Zachai, asked parents and schools to contact her with any additional issues and said that she is optimistic that the letter will help alleviate the concern of yeshivah parents who were denied services by the Suffern School District.

Demolition Begins at Thruway’s Harriman Toll Plaza The iconic Harriman toll plaza heading to the Catskills will soon be taking its place in the annals of history. The New York State Thruway Authority began demolishing the barriers this week as part of a $13.9 million plan to upgrade to an all-cashless toll system.

Cashless tolling was first implemented on the northbound lanes of the Thruway in Harriman this past September, part of a $150 million reconstruction of the Woodbury Transit and economic hub. Two lanes using a ticketed toll system will remain in place for southbound drivers.

Demolition of the 13-lane toll plaza began this week, well ahead of Governor Andrew Cuomo’s initial estimate of a 2024 completion date for the project.

No traffic changes are in place during the initial phases of demolition.

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Rabbi Edgar Gluck, co-founder of Hatzolah, who also served as a special assistant for community projects with the NYSP, worked closely with Thruway officials and then-governor Mario Cuomo to designate an official Mincha area in lieu of the impromptu highway minyanim at the Harriman toll plaza. Over the next few years, the location of the Mincha area changed several times until it ultimately found its current home in 1993 at the Sloatsburg rest stop.

Commenting on some of the original Mincha signs on the Thruway that read “Service Area,” Rabbi Gluck quipped, “We take it literally. We hold services.”

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These vibrant desserts incorporate the freshly delightful flavors of fruit. On Tu B’Shvat, when our table is adorned with the best of nature’s offerings, let’s remember how fortunate we are to be the recipients of Hashem’s bountiful blessings. With gratitude and joy, make a bracha and savor the sweetness… May we all be blessed with a year of bounty.

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This sorbet can be made without an ice cream maker and does not require boiling the juice. It’s really easy to make and the results are incredibly refreshing! Any fruit juice can work with this recipe; you can try pineapple or mango, but adjust the amount of sugar to your taste.

POMEGRANATE SORBET 4 cups pomegranate juice 1 T. lemon juice 1 cup sugar

FRESH ORANGE SORBET 3½ cups freshly squeezed orange juice, strained Taste oranges before juicing to ensure they have a delicious, sweet flavor.

Store-bought orange juice works great, too! ½–¾ cup sugar

OPTIONAL GARNISH Whip, pomegranate arils, grated orange rind

DIRECTIONS 1. Stir together juice/s and sugar until sugar is dissolved.

2. Pour juice into a gallon-size Ziploc bag and zip tightly.

3. Put the bag flat on a tray or pan in your freezer (this makes it so much easier to break into chunks when the juice is frozen). Freeze until solid; it will take a few hours.

4. Cut open the bag and quickly cut or break the frozen juice into ice-cube size chunks. Put half the chunks into the bowl of your food processor fitted with the S blade. Keep remaining chunks in the freezer. Process until completely smooth. You may have to stop while blending to rearrange the frozen chunks. Pour sorbet into a large container or loaf pan. Freeze.

5. Repeat with the remaining frozen chunks. Put sorbet back into the freezer to firm it up a bit.

NOTE: This sorbet has the best texture within a few hours after it’s made. The pomegranate sorbet will remain soft; the orange sorbet may harden in the freezer. If it gets too hard to scoop, take it out of the freezer and let it soften up for a few minutes before serving.

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A fruity and heavenly bite-sized treat to satisfy your sweet tooth! Best of all, it is simple and easy to make.

INGREDIENTS 7 oz. good-quality dark chocolate (I used Noblesse chocolate) Assorted dried fruits, chopped into small pieces (I used dried pineapple, guava, kiwi and craisins) Nuts (I used shelled pistachios, cashews and pecans)

DIRECTIONS 1. Line two trays or cookie sheets with parchment paper. On the back of each of the parchment papers, draw 10–12 circles with a black marker, each about 2 inches wide. These will be your guides.

2. Break chocolate into pieces and melt them in a double boiler, stirring frequently. Alternatively, heat the chocolate in a microwave-safe bowl, stirring every 30 seconds until the chocolate is completely melted and smooth.

3. With a spoon, drizzle some of the chocolate into the center of each drawn circle and smooth it out with the back of a spoon. Make 5–6 at a time.

4. Drop some of the dried fruits and nuts onto each circle of chocolate.

5. Place the trays in the refrigerator for 20 minutes or until the chocolate has set.

Note: if you don’t have the time or patience to make individual bites, you can pour all the chocolate onto the parchment paper, spread it thinly, sprinkle the fruits and nuts on top of it, and refrigerate. Once the chocolate has set, coarsely chop the bark into small pieces.

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Fresh Fruit Platter with Chocolate Fondue Luscious, vividly beautiful and healthy — everybody will enjoy this combination of fresh fruits and sweet chocolate. Tip: If you’re slicing the fruits in advance, dip or brush the cut sides of the apple with lemon juice to keep the slices from turning brown.

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CHOCOLATE FONDUE 7 oz. good-quality chocolate 5 oz. whip

FRUIT PLATTER A beautiful assortment of fresh (or dried!) sliced fruits.

Some ideas: green apples, mango, cherries, star fruit, kiwis, pineapple, cantaloupe, grapes, orange segments, etc.

Please consult your rav for personal guidance in regard to checking fruits.

Skewers for dipping, optional

DIRECTIONS 1. Cut fruits to size and arrange on a platter. Put a small glass bowl in the center.

2. Heat chocolate and whip in a double boiler, stirring frequently until the chocolate is completely melted and the mixture is smooth. Alternatively, heat chocolate and whip in a microwave-safe bowl, stirring every 30 seconds until the chocolate is completely melted and smooth. ( If making in advance, reheat the chocolate right before serving.)

3. Pour the chocolate sauce into the glass bowl. Start dipping and enjoy!

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Three-Layered Pomegranate Mousse Cake This elegant fruity cake is a showstopper. The sponge layers are light and airy, and the pomegranate mousse has a divine, fruity flavor with a slight tang. The pomegranate jello topping adds a unique and beautiful element, but if you prefer simpler preparation, you can easily skip the pomegranate jello and instead just top the center of the cake with a generous layer of fresh pomegranate arils.

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DIRECTIONS Before starting preparation for the cakes, prepare ice cubes in the freezer for the last step (the pomegranate topping), if using.

CAKES 8 eggs, separated

CAKES

1⅓ cups sugar

1. Preheat the oven to 350°. Line three 9-inch round cake pans with parchment paper and lightly spray the sides.

1 T. vanilla sugar

2. Make a firm snow with the egg whites and sugar. Very gently fold in the yolks, vanilla, oil, juice and then the dry ingredients.

3. Divide evenly among the three prepared pans. Bake for 22 minutes, but if your oven is especially strong, check for doneness after 21 minutes — you don’t want to overbake the cakes.

4. Allow cakes to cool. (You can freeze the cakes so they’re easier to work with when assembling).

POMEGRANATE MOUSSE 1. In a small saucepan, sprinkle gelatin over the pomegranate juice. Let stand for two minutes. Stir in sugar and cook over medium heat, stirring frequently, until steaming.

2. Remove from heat, cool for 5 minutes and then refrigerate mixture for 30 minutes.

3. Beat the whip in your mixer until stiff. Fold a third of the whip into the cooled pomegranate mixture, and then lightly mix the pomegranate mixture with the rest of the whip. Gently fold in the raspberry jello.

1½ T. oil 1½ T. orange juice 1 cup flour ¾ tsp. baking powder

POMEGRANATE MOUSSE 2 tsp. unflavored gelatin (you can find this in any grocery store near the jello) 1 cup pomegranate juice ¼ cup sugar 16 oz. whip, slightly thawed 2 T. raspberry jello (powder)

WHIP ASSEMBLY (AND WHIP TOPPING) 1. Remove cakes from pans. If necessary, trim the top edges of each cake with a serrated knife to make the cake tops completely even.

2. Spread a third of the mousse mixture on the surface of the bottom cake.

Place another cake on top of the mousse, and repeat another two times.

3. Place the cake in the freezer until the cream is completely firm.

4. Beat whip until stiff. Pipe or spread on top of the assembled cake. The outer edge of the whip should be a bit taller than the middle. Freeze or refrigerate the cake.

8 oz. whip

POMEGRANATE JELLO TOPPING (This topping is optional; see introduction.) ¾ cup pomegranate juice 2 T. sugar

TOPPING

2 tsp. gelatin

(Optional, a generous amount of pomegranate arils can be put in the center of the cake instead.)

1¼ cups pomegranate arils

5. Place ¾ cup of pomegranate juice in a small sauce pan and sprinkle in 2 teaspoons gelatin. Let stand for 1 minute to soften gelatin before putting it on the flame.

6. Whisk in 2 tablespoons sugar and cook over medium heat, constantly stirring until sugar dissolves and mixture is steaming.

7. Remove from heat and let mixture cool down a bit for 4–5 minutes. Then set the saucepan into a larger bowl of ice water, stirring gently until it is cold and slightly thickened, but not set — it doesn’t take long. (Mixture should look like a thin syrup; make sure it doesn’t thicken into a jello.)

Remove from ice bath.

8. Stir in pomegranate seeds, and immediately spoon topping onto the chilled cake (you might not have to use the entire topping). Refrigerate cake until the topping is set (about 1 hour).

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Good to Know!

• Pomegranates are at their peak now! Their season typically runs from October through February.

• Pomegranates are packed with important nutrients, including antioxidants, vitamin C and potassium.

• When selecting pomegranates, look for a ripe, deep-colored fruit with a red to reddish-brown outer rind that is heavy for its size.

• The fruit, when unopened, will last three to four weeks in the refrigerator.

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“LOOK!” DOVI CALLED OUT TO HIS BROTHER. “It’s a real nest! And I see two little eggs inside! Maybe we can do shiluach haken!” The boys ran to tell their father what they had found.

They soon discovered that it wasn’t as simple as they’d thought. Quite a few specifications must be met before the mitzvah of shiluach haken can be performed!

The bird must be kosher and it must be sitting on the eggs or baby birds. The bird must be ownerless, and if hatched, the hatchlings must be very young. Sometimes the mother and father birds take turns tending the nest, but it must be the mother bird specifically that is sent away.

No sticks or hands are necessary, but the noise or other action must be made with the explicit intention of sending her away. Then the eggs or hatchlings are taken. No bracha is made.

Shiluach haken is an interesting mitzvah, one that is hard to understand on a simple level. Yet the reward is so great, as the pasuk specifies, “l’man yitav lach, v’haarachta yamim.” For sending away a roosting mother bird and taking her young, one is granted all good and long life!

Rashi explains that this comes to teach us that if such a relatively simple and inexpensive mitzvah brings such great rewards, how much greater must be the reward for more difficult mitzvos?

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IN AND AROUND MONSEY CHERISHED WINGS Most opinions maintain that one need not go looking for a nest to perform shiluach haken; it is meant to be executed if you “happen” upon a nest, as it says, “Ki ‘yikarei’ kan tzipor.” It isn’t something that “happens” every day, so when it does, it engenders much excitement.

“We decided to showcase our little egg in the china closet,” one woman said. “It is, after all, a ‘cheftza shel mitzvah!’” You can imagine the surprise of her children, when a couple of days later, they woke up to the sound of a baby bird squawking! The spotlights in the china closet warmed the egg as if it were an incubator…

When the Braunsteins discovered a nest on their windowsill, they chose to honor their rav with the mitzvah. A few members of the shul came along to observe the special event. “The rav then replaced the egg in the nest so that I too would be able to perform the mitzvah,” Mr. Braunstein shared. “The next evening, I called over a friend in need of a yeshuah so he could have the zechus as well. Oddly, the eggs had disappeared…”

According to some poskim, it is perfectly okay to be mafkir the egg and put it back inside the nest so the mitzvah can be repeated.

However, the mother bird would need to return and be sent away again.

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The most common qualifying bird in Monsey is the sparrow, followed closely by pigeons and robins. These may be kosher for shiluach haken, but are not to be eaten!

The black birds foraging in the garbage are not kosher.

Sparrows need but a small space to create a nest. Generally, they build them in crevices on the outsides of our houses, on top of doorways, and on beams or boards of porches. In our area, fewer nests are found on trees because of the abundance of squirrels jumping from branch to branch, disturbing the birds.

The season for egg-laying is in the spring or summer.

During that time, you may want to track down a nest! Here are some tips to help you find one: A pair of birds will work together to build a nest by scavenging for twigs or other findings. Spread food on a clean area (not on the grass). The birds will keep coming to peck at some crumbs between their work. Observing them from a distance will allow you to discern where they are taking the twigs. When the bird is not around, you can approach the spot to check out the nest! The nest may not be touched before the bird lays eggs because then the mother will likely never return.

The sparrow typically lays two eggs per season. She lays one egg in early evening, and sits on it as night descends. The next night, she lays a second egg. During the daytime, the father bird often takes over, watching over the eggs. As shekiah approaches, the mother has usually returned to the nest. This is the ideal time to perform shiluach haken!

FLEDGLING ACCEPTANCE

Shiluach haken cannot be understood ON A LIGHTER NOTE simply. It is a chok, which is a mitzvah Reb Tzvi Hersh Heller, zt”l, the Baal Tiv Gittin, fondly reeven though the reasons are not spelled ferred to as Reb Hershele Charif, was a brilliant man, and nuout. merous stories are told of his childhood wit.

The Rosh Yeshivah of Porat Yosef in Once, he watched his mother bake kindel, a yeast cake Yerushalayim, Rabbi Ezra Attia, zt”l, rolled with nuts and jam, and he very much wanted to taste (1885–1970) was accustomed to giving it. Knowing that his mother would be unwilling, he called out a shiur in Gemara for baalei batim. Once, they were learning the sugya discussto his mother that someone was at the door. As she turned ing the mitzvah of shiluach haken. Being her back and left the room, he helped himself to some kindel. that the pasuk specifies, “If a bird’s nest Finding no one at the door, she returned, only to discover that chances before you on the road, on any her son had taken from her baked goods. Annoyed, she asked, tree or on the ground,” the Gemara rais“What did you do?” es the question regarding a nest that is He quickly replied, “I did as is stated in the Torah! The pafound on the head of a person instead. suk says, ‘Shalach teshalach es ha’eim v’es habanim tikach Incredulous, one of the listeners lach’ — Shick avek di mamme, un di kinder/kindel nem far called out disparagingly, “What’s the zich (Devarim 22:7)!” point of this question? Such a thing can’t actually happen!”

Rav Attia responded patiently, yet firmly, “The words of the Gemara are ra says it is possible — it is a metzius! That’s why we say, kodesh kodashim, and we do not question them!”

The listener remained quiet, but his face continued ‘Moshe emes v’Toraso emes!’” to display his skepticism. Disturbed, Rav Attia entreated a silent prayer, “Ribono Shel Olam, please let the truth of REWARD IS HATCHING Your holy Torah be recognized!”

Shiluach haken is one of two mitzvos whose rewards are A couple of moments later, the door opened and one delineated in the Torah. The other is honoring one’s parof the regulars at the shiur, who had been missing for a ents. short while, came in.

The enormous reward of goodness and long life is Grabbing at the opportunity to diffuse the tension, complemented by numerous other privileges that the Rav Attia welcomed him. “Where have you been?” he Midrash ascribes: having children, finding a zivug, merasked. iting parnassah, purchasing a new home, and being safe “I had business in India,” the man replied. “It is such during travels. It is also worthy of bringing the Geulah a strange country, with such strange ways! I’ll give you closer! an example… I saw a man who sat still with his hands These promises ring loudly in the ears of many who folded, under a tree, doing absolutely nothing. He must yearn for the zechus to perform shiluach haken. They have have been there for two or three days straight. And be- even prompted the opening of an organization that cause he didn’t flinch, a bird came and built a nest on avails the opportunity of shiluach haken to all Yidden, at his head. And the man — he didn’t even move his hand a fee. to chase the bird away! What do you say?!”

Silent amazement. The head of the doubtful listener drooped in shame.

Rav Attia announced, “If the Gema-

On a simple level, taking eggs or baby birds from their nest seems to be an act of cruelty, when in effect, this mitzvah teaches the middos of compassion and kindness.

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CULTIVATING COMPASSION On a simple level, taking eggs or baby birds from their nest seems to be an act of cruelty, when in effect, this mitzvah teaches the middos of compassion and kindness.

People connect emotionally, and it is the natural way of the world for family and friends to miss one another when separated. Conversely, the connection birds develop for their young is a temporary, short-term issue. Baby birds grow wings and fly off on their own, and the mother bird does not spend the rest of her life reminiscing and yearning for them. She may go on to continue laying and hatching more eggs, and her pain is therefore short-lived.

The Zohar describes that when the mother bird weeps for her young, the bird’s malach intercedes on her behalf before Hakadosh Baruch Hu. In turn, Hashem gathers His other malachim and points out, “This malach is concerned about the welfare of a bird… Do any of you seek merit for My children, the Yidden, and the Shechinah, whose nest in Yerushalayim has been destroyed…?”

Thus, through the mitzvah of shiluach haken, we arouse Hashem’s mercy and stimulate the showering of Hashem’s compassion on us.

It is our sincere dream that the Ribono Shel Olam, upon seeing Yidden perform this mitzvah, will return His flock to their nest with the coming of Moshiach.

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‫מאנסי‬

‫צבי יוסף נאלמאן‬ ‫תומר נפתלי‬ ‫אלטער וואגשאל‬ ‫אברהם אונגער‬ ‫ר' אריה לייב לאקעטש‬ ‫וואלווי בערגער‬ ‫יעקב לייב קויפמאן‬ ‫לוי פאלגער‬ ‫אפרים מרדכי שכנא וויינשטאק‬ ‫מרדכי שטערן‬ ‫מרס מ‪ .‬געשטעטנער‬ ‫מרס ל‪ .‬לאזאר‬ ‫מרס ר‪ .‬פרידמאן‬

‫מרס א‪ .‬מייזעלס‬ ‫מרס ח‪ .‬גרינפעלד‬ ‫מרס ר‪ .‬פעקעטע‬ ‫מרס ר‪ .‬שטיינפעלד‬

‫אירמאנט‬

‫הרב נחום פריד‬ ‫ישעיהו אייזען‬ ‫מרס ש‪ .‬גליק‬ ‫מרס ח‪ .‬לאם‬ ‫מרס ר‪ .‬מאנדעל‬ ‫מרס ש‪ .‬בראדי‬ ‫סקווירא מאנסי‬ ‫נפתלי גרין‬

‫ישראל גרין‬ ‫ברוך אברהם גרינבערג‬ ‫יצחק ברוין‬ ‫מרס ב‪ .‬בריל‬ ‫מרס ח‪ .‬מערמילשטיין‬ ‫מרס ש‪ .‬אויסטערליץ‬

‫בעלזא‬ ‫אהרן גרויסמאן‬ ‫נחמן וויינבערגער‬ ‫אביגדור ב"ר ב"צ קליין‬ ‫אהרן ב"ר אבא קליין‬ ‫שאול ביגעלאייזען‬

‫ווישניץ‬

‫הרב בערל שנעבאלג‬ ‫מענדיל ווייסבערגער‬ ‫צבי אביץ‬ ‫הרוצה בעלום שמו‬ ‫הרוצה בעלום שמו‬ ‫הרוצה בעלם שמה‬

‫ספרינק וואלי‬

‫שלמה לעבעוויטש‬ ‫פישל קארמאל‬ ‫מרדכי שטיינפעלד‬ ‫יעקב קליינבערגער‬

‫הרב יואל קליין‬ ‫הרב קאפיל פארעטצקי‬ ‫הרב יואל מייזעלס‬ ‫סטארט קאהנען‬ ‫דוד משה גרין‬ ‫מרס א‪ .‬נאה‬ ‫מרס ח‪ .‬שווערן‬ ‫מרס ח‪.‬ב‪ .‬פרידמאן‬ ‫מרס א‪ .‬אלבוים‬ ‫מרס ח‪ .‬טייטילבוים‬ ‫מרס ד‪ .‬מאנדעל‬ ‫מרס ע‪ .‬וועקסלער‬ ‫מרס ל‪ .‬אייזינבעגרגער‬

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IT’S ONE THING for my second-grade granddaughter to read about a mother robin sitting on her eggs until they hatch, and about their father helping to find worms to feed the hatchlings, but it was quite another thing for them to discover an actual robin’s nest under the corner of our porch.

Not only were the usual sticks and twigs used in its construction, but somehow, somewhere, the robin had found white ribbon and shiny pieces of foil with which she decorated her nest. The nest was under the slats of our porch, and the only way to see what was happening inside was to look through the spaces between them. The children had no problem lying prone on the floor and putting their eyes to the crack. Thus, we got a day-today report on the internal affairs of our robin’s home.

“Bubby, there’s an egg in the nest.”

“Now she laid another one.”

“There are three now!”

They also reported on the robin’s comings and goings, and how she kept on rearranging the eggs in the nest, sometimes positioning them in a straight line, and sometimes placing them in the form of a triangle.

We also noticed an interesting phenomenon regarding the bird. Attached to the side of the porch are two heavily used swings. The movements of the swings and the noise of children at play did not faze the robin at all. Yet when anyone approached from the street in front of the porch, just breathing a bit loudly, it was enough to send the robin into flight. I guess she instinctively felt threatened when she sensed an adult approaching.

Since the chance practically came knocking at

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my door, I wanted to perform the mitzvah of shiluach haken. The first few times I came close to the porch, the mother bird flew away before I had a chance to chase her away. Finally, holding my breath as I approached, wielding a broomstick, she cooperated. A light tap on the nest, and the robin was aloft, leaving her eggs unattended. I reached in (with the help of a ladder, of course) and took out the eggs. The best way to describe these robin’s eggs is that they looked like Jordan almonds on steroids. They were proof that the paint and crayon color “robin’s egg blue” is an accurate description. What surprised me while holding the eggs was how warm they were — though I should have expected that!

Most people who do shiluach haken keep the eggs as a souvenir; others return the eggs to the nest. Some birds, such as doves and sparrows, will not come back to their nests after they’ve been disturbed by human presence. A robin has a different nature, though. I opted to return the eggs to their nest because my grandchildren were anxious to watch them hatch. Wouldn’t every grandmother do the same for her darlings? Sure enough, about fifteen minutes after I performed the mitzvah, the robin was once again sitting on her eggs.

Then the waiting began. The mother sat on the eggs most of the time, though she flew off occasionally, either because she was disturbed, or perhaps to look for food. The children kept on checking the nest. Soon one grandson claimed that he saw a crack in an egg, but another child disputed it, saying that what he was seeing was a piece of grass, and that the egg was still whole.

It seemed to my impatient grandchildren that the waiting was taking forever, but at long last, one morning they reported that two eggs had hatched, though nothing seemed to be happening with the third egg. The fledglings, who are born without feathers, were described by the children as looking “like the raw chicken that mommy cooks.”

The next morning there were two robins on my roof, each with a worm dangling from its mouth. The worms were provided by the father, who we learned comes into the picture when it is imperative to keep hungry little mouths satisfied.

Watching and reporting on the happenings in the nest kept my grandchildren fascinated. Every day they reported on the changes, as the birds grew larger and their feathers thickened. One Friday, a half hour before Shabbos, the excited children came to report that the father bird (don’t ask me how they knew it was the father, but trust me — they knew) was sitting on the edge of the nest with the fledglings near him. I guess this was lesson number one in “how to fly”!

The third egg never hatched, so I thought that I would get my shiluach haken souvenir after all. I figured I would wait until the birds flew away, because I wouldn’t dream of disturbing the tranquility in that lovely nest while it was occupied. However, I was in for a disappointment. When the babies were ready to fly away, the mother must have done a thorough house cleaning. The nest looked as if it had been swept clean, and my little blue egg was nowhere to be seen. Had they eaten it? Had they taken it along with them? Had some sort of predator visited the nest? I guess this is one mystery that will never be solved.

As disappointed as I was for not getting the egg, I am still thankful to Hashem for giving me the opportunity to show my grandchildren a real live lesson in niflaos haBorei.

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DR. MOSHE DAVIDSON* is a frum neurologist in his fifties. Last year, at a professional conference, he shared this interesting narrative that was told to him by one of his patients.

Hershel, a simple old Yid in his eighties, was a steady patient at Dr. Davidson’s clinic. He visited the office periodically for follow-up treatment and to refill his prescriptions.

One morning, Hershel came for his appointment, and Dr. Davidson immediately noticed something different. Until now, Hershel would

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arrive together with his wife, but this time, he came alone.

“Where’s your wife?” Dr. Davidson asked affably.

Smiling serenely, Hershel replied, “She passed away.”

“When did that happen?” the doctor pressed.

“Two months ago.”

Dr. Davidson noticed that the smile did not leave Hershel’s face for even a second. “That must have been hard,” he said.

“Yes,” Hershel nodded, still smiling. “It was very hard.”

Dr. Davidson knew the couple well.

They seemed to have been happily married for about sixty years. Such a separation doesn’t usually pass with a simple smile. Though his case had been mild, Hershel was ultimately an Alzheimer’s patient. His condition must have worsened if he doesn’t seem to be bothered much by his wife’s passing, the doctor thought.

It was quiet for another moment and then Hershel added, “When I sat shivah, I cried a lot. I couldn’t contain my pain… My wife and I had discussed the topic of death, but there is a huge difference between the discussion and the reality. Neighbors, friends and family came to be menachem avel. That made the pain a bit lighter. But when I got up from shivah, my pain got so much worse. I was alone with the four walls of my home. I’d never felt so lonely before. I felt I couldn’t cope.”

The pain that had overtaken his features lifted, and Hershel gave a little chuckle.

“Then an interesting thing happened. I was eating breakfast at the kitchen table, and the window near me was open. I heard the sound of flapping wings, and suddenly there was a white dove sitting on the windowsill. A moment later it flew inside and settled on the back of the chair across from me. I looked at the bird. She was beautiful, white as snow, and she was looking right back at me with her tiny black eyes. I felt a certain peace.

“I finished eating and left the house for a morning shiur that I often attend. When I got back home in the afternoon, the dove was perched on her spot on the chair.

I sat down to eat and the dove sat opposite me.”

Hershel stopped. He looked at the doctor, and seeing that he was listening intently, continued, “That’s

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how the first few days passed. The bird kept me company. Every time I sat across from the bird, I didn’t feel the aching loneliness. It was as if she was telling me, ‘You are not alone!’ and I didn’t feel so lonely.

“And you know what? When I went into the next room, the bird would follow me and perch on the vanity, the closet shelf or the windowsill.

Such a separation doesn’t usually pass with a simple smile.

Whenever I was in the house, the bird stayed with me. She didn’t leave me alone for even a minute!”

Dr. Davidson peered at his patient. He had listened to every detail of Hershel’s account carefully. Now he was convinced with certainty that the disease must have worsened, perhaps as a result of his loss. Hershel was obviously living in a fantasy world, letting his imagination overtake his reality.

“I will schedule an appointment for you in another two days,” Dr. Davidson said. “And I want you to come along with your son.”

After following through with the examination, the doctor walked Hershel out, repeating firmly, “Make sure not to come without your son.” Dr. Davidson felt a responsibility to make sure the family was aware of Hershel’s decline.

When Hershel and his son showed up two days later, Dr. Davidson told the son about the inconceivable story that his father had recounted.

He was sure that the son would confirm that the bird was but one of the indicators of Henry’s deteriorating condition, but when the doctor finished talking, the son surprised him with his response.

“Did he tell you about our trip?”

“No,” Dr. Davidson replied.

“In that case, let me share it with you. Almost three weeks after my mother passed away, I took my father to a resort about an hour away from his home. I figured that two days of complete relaxation would have a calming effect on him after all he’d been through. As I was helping my father into the car, we spotted the dove near us.

My father, who had become very attached to his feathered friend, asked me to bring it along. I acquiesced and managed to get the bird into the car.

“Soon we arrived at the hotel, and my father and I came out of the car. The bird also came out, but to our dismay, she began to flap her wings

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and off she flew. As she disappeared from view, my father kept berating himself, ‘I shouldn’t have brought her along!’

“Two days later, we went back home. All along the way, my father kept talking about the wondrous bird. ‘She was constantly there with me and helped me get used to living alone... She made me forget my loneliness… I have nothing to return to, the house will now really be empty… What a shame she flew away…’ In his sorrow, he was really taking it hard.

“But then, when we walked inside my parents’ home, we found a real surprise! The kitchen window had been left open, and standing there on the windowsill was — my father’s white dove!”

Hershel, who had been listening silently to his son’s account of his story, suddenly chimed in, “You can’t imagine… I was so excited! I sat down to eat lunch and the bird perched on her spot again. I looked into her eyes and again I felt the same feeling of warmth — I was not alone! Someone sent the bird to me…”

“On the day of the shloshim,” the son continued, “when we came home from the beis hakvaros, the bird jumped off her place on the corner of the chair and flew over to the windowsill. She spread her wings and fluttered through the window, soaring higher and higher into the sky. Since then, she never came back.”

“It was a special gift,” Hershel concluded with a smile. “A gift from Heaven… The Borei Olam in His rachmanus sent the dove to help me pass those first thirty days to ease the loneliness that I was left with.”

The gift of the dove was so comforting and so powerful to Hershel that it left an everlasting smile on his face, reflecting his inner peace.

Now he was convinced with certainty that the disease must have worsened, perhaps as a result of his loss.

*Not his real name.

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HILCHOS BORER | PART 6

IMMEDIATE USE We mentioned in previous articles that when faced with a mixture of two different types of foods or items, or a mixture of ochel (food) with pesoles (garbage),1 one can avoid issues of borer by following three conditions: 1) taking what one wants to eat or use now from what one doesn’t; 2) taking it only immediately before eating or using; and 3) using one’s hands and not a kli that helps in the separation process.2 Let’s discuss the second condition of immediate use.

What is considered immediate use?

The main question here is how long before use one may do borer to comply with the condition of immediate use. Though there are different opinions about this, one should only begin preparations that require borer the latest possible, only leaving the amount of time it takes to get it ready for use.3 For example, there is a mixture of spoons, forks and knives in the drawer, and one wants to set the table for the upcoming meal. If it takes approximately ten minutes to set up, then one can only start doing borer approximately ten minutes before the time one plans on starting the seudah. What’s important is to begin the use at the end of the borer process.

When there are other preparations for the meal that don’t require borer, then according to some poskim, one should begin those preparations before the borer preparations so that the borer will be done immediately before use.4 Many people eating together For a large seudah where many people will be eating together,5 some hold that one can start preparations early enough to leave the amount of time it takes to prepare, so if it takes one hour to prepare, then one may start from one hour before.6 However, it is brought in the name of the Chazon Ish that the maximum amount of time to start preparing for a seudah for many people is a half hour (see footnote).7

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Not planning other things before use It is important to note that one may not start doing borer earlier in order to be able to do other things after one is finished with doing borer. So Mommy can’t do borer to set the table earlier than the time it takes to set up in order to go to a kiddush afterward — and then come home to a set table.

She also can’t set it earlier than she needs to because she plans on davening or cleaning up the toys after setting up,8 because it is considered a hefsek in the immediate use.

Similarly, Mommy can’t take all the kids’ clothing from a mixture of clothing in their drawer all at once because the

1 See Taz 319:12; Shulchan Aruch HaRav 319:8; Mishnah Berurah 319:15; not like the Ohr Sameach, Shabbos 8:11, who holds there is no borer by kelim.

2 Shulchan Aruch 319:1; see Shulchan Aruch HaRav 319:1 who explains that these three conditions constitute derech achilah and therefore it is mutar.

3 This is the opinion of the Igros Moshe, Orach Chaim, vol. 4, siman 74, borer 13. See also Chut Shani 25:4. See Magen Avraham 321:15 and Mishnah Berurah 321:45. See Biur Halacha 319:3 “sheberer shachris” where he brings more lenient opinions with regard to borer of shnei minei ochlin. But lemaskanah he is machmir there as well. See Shulchan Aruch HaRav 319:3-4 where he says “samuch l’seudah mamash” but also uses the lashon of “shaah.” It seems that “shaah” is lav davka.

See Teshuvos V’Hanhagos vol. 2 siman 185. But see Ayil Meshulash perek 8 footnote 22 who says in the name of Rav Nissim Karelitz, shlit”a, that one doesn’t have to do this.

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5 See Ayil Meshulash 8:14 where he says that if the people will not eat together then even according to the meikel opinions one cannot take the time it takes to prepare for all of them together since they have no connection to each other, and preparation for each one will be considered a hefsek in immediate use of the other.

6 See Shaar Hatzion 611:9;M’or HaShabbos vol. 1 Michtav 8 of Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach; Ayil Meshulash 8:13.

7 See Ayil Meshulash 8:13. It must be pointed out that even according to the Chazon Ish, if it takes less than a half-hour to prepare, one shouldn’t begin a half-hour before — the time of a half-hour is l’chumrah, not l’kulah. This is the understanding of Rav Nissim Karelitz, shlit”a, in regard to the Chazon Ish (see Chut Shani).

See Shemiras Shabbos K’hilchasah 3:75–76. Ayil Meshulash 8:6.

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See Ayil Meshulash 8:9 in the name of Rav Nissim Karelitz, shlit”a.

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See Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 319:1 Rema and Mishna Berurah 319:4. See Ayil Meshulash 8:8 and Shemiras Shabbos K’hilchasah 3:69. See also Iglei Tal 319:5.

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It seems that the halacha could vary depending on whether dessert is generally eaten and also whether one does it before or after bentching.

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dressing of one child is considered a hefsek in the immediate use of the other kids’ clothing.9 So what should one do if he wants to set up early?

One eitzah is to make sure things are not in a mixture.

For example, make sure the knives, forks and spoons are clearly separated in the drawer in a way that they are not considered a mixture. That way, one may set up even before, by taking the knives and setting them — and then taking the spoons and setting them, etc. But even when the cutlery is separated in the drawer, one may not remove them from the drawer together because then they are considered mixed in one’s hands, which would mean that one would have to wait to set it up immediately before use.

Borer for the whole seudah However, not everything is considered a hefsek in immediate use. For example, one is allowed to set up the knives and forks on the table for the main course, even though one will only serve it after the fish and soup.

In this case, since the entire meal is looked at as one unit, the fish and soup are not considered a hefsek beforehand. Therefore, as long as one prepares immediately before the meal, it is okay to do so for the other courses as well.10 When it comes to dessert, though, it is not clear whether it is considered a part of the meal or not, and therefore, one should not do borer for dessert before the meal.11 The purpose of this column is to bring awareness to matters of halacha. As with any halacharelated questions, consult your rav for a psak.

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By: R. Tov

The houses of Eretz Yisroel had long disappeared from view. Rav S., a prominent rosh yeshivah with a glowing countenance, sat on the plane, engrossed in his seforim, using every moment of his precious time to learn Torah.

He wasn’t a “man of the world”; never before had he left Eretz Yisroel. But now his yeshivah’s dire financial straits had compelled him to set out for England on a fundraising campaign to ensure his beloved students’ uninterrupted learning.

Soon enough, Rav S. found himself at the doorstep of the wealthy gvir, Mr. Michael. He hoped that Mr. Michael, who was known to contribute generously to institutions of Torah and chesed, would give his yeshivah a handsome donation. He never imagined what would take place in the following moments at the Michael home...

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The rosh yeshivah was received respectfully and invited to enter the magnificent living room, which was illuminated by crystal chandeliers. He sat down on one of the plush chairs surrounding the mahogany table and pulled out an album with photos of the yeshivah. He spoke about the special atmosphere, the daily schedule of the diligent bachurim, the staff of dedicated maggidei shiurim, and also — about the difficult financial situation that threatened the yeshivah’s continued existence.

Mr. Michael listened with interest, leafed a bit through the album, and said, “Please wait here while I go to my workroom to fetch the checkbook.”

Rav S. nodded politely and asked the host for permission to use a volume of Gemara that lay on the table in the interim. “Of course. It would be my pleasure for the Rosh Yeshivah to learn

from my Gemara,” said Mr. Michael.

A few minutes later, the gvir returned with a checkbook and a gilt pen. He glanced momentarily at the esteemed rosh yeshivah sitting there at the table, appearing to be engrossed in a sugya of the Gemara, and then it happened — “I’m very sorry, but I’ve changed my mind,” said Mr. Michael coolly, his eyes fixed on the rosh yeshivah. “I’ve decided that I’m not donating anything to your yeshivah.”

Shocked silence.

The stunned rosh yeshivah couldn’t understand what lay behind the gvir’s sudden change of heart. As he took his papers and headed for the door, he gently said, “Forgive me for asking, sir, but what caused this abrupt change in your decision? I suspect that there was some mistake…”

The gvir looked again at Rav S.’s stately face and then said apologetically, “I’m sorry, but I prefer to give my money to genuine talmidei chachamim, not to someone who introduces himself as a rosh yeshivah, yet does not even know how to read —” An uncomfortable silence reigned in the large room, but the next moment, a pleasant smile lit up the rosh yeshivah’s face. “I understand. You must have noticed that the Gemara I was studying was upside down, and you concluded that I don’t even know how to open a Gemara…” said Rav S. He returned to the table, picked up the Gemara he had been studying shortly before, and to Mr. Michael’s amazement, began reading it fluently, even though it was upside down!

The gvir listened, open-mouthed, to Rav S.’s story. “I was born in Yemen. We used to learn in groups with the ‘mori,’ and each group had only one sefer. Since my place was always opposite the mori, I got used to reading upside down… Of course, today I can also read text that is straight, but reading upside down is easier, since that is how I learned to read as a child.”

Rav S. left Mr. Michael’s mansion that day with a particularly substantial check, and he left behind him, in the elaborate, brightly-lit living room, a memorable message: How important it is to always judge favorably — no matter how puzzling the situation!

(Based on a story in Achas Sha’alti)

Ask the Rav Deserted by a Good Friend By: Harav Hagaon R’ Menachem Mendel Fuchs, Shlit”a Moreh Tzedek of the Eidah Hachareidis, Rav Kiryas Shomrei Hachomos, Ramot, and Rav of Mishmeres Hasholom

Question Many times I hear my brothers speaking disparagingly about things that my mother does.

For example, that lunch didn’t taste good, or that they were supposed to go visit our cousins but my mother kept dawdling because of the little kids, etc. Sometimes I try to explain to them that you’re not allowed to talk like that about a mother, that it’s lashon hara, and that besides, my mother is a tzadekes who works so hard for our sake. But they don’t listen to me, apparently because I’m their younger sister.

What can I do?

Answer If the brothers’ words are said in a derogatory manner or without to’eles, constructive purpose, they will often contain lashon hara, and sometimes also rechilus. But one should be aware that, in most cases, this conduct also involves severe sins of dishonoring their mother, which falls under the category of the extremely serious mitzvah of kibbud av v’eim. This is the case even when there are real flaws in the mother’s functioning!

Of deeds such as these, the Torah tells us: “Accursed is one who degrades his father and mother,” r”l, as the Chofetz Chaim ruled (Pesichah, mitzvos aseh 10). The Shulchan Aruch, too (YD 241:6), states explicitly that one who degrades his father and mother, even insinuatingly, is deemed cursed by the mouth of Hashem, and the beis din should penalize him for this with makas mardus and other punishments! It’s frightening!

In light of this, the suggestion would be for the questioner to show her brothers the abovementioned words of the Chofetz Chaim and the Shulchan Aruch. It’s advisable to also show them the words of the Sefer Chareidim (ch. 9, sections 26, 27, 35–38), which elaborate on the severity of these matters. She can present them with all this material photocopied from the seforim, in an orderly fashion.

Then, they will hopefully, b’siyata d’Shmaya, be inspired to rectify their deeds and be zoche to the birchas haTorah, as it says, “So that your days will be lengthened, etc.”

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THROUGH A LENS OF ZECHUS Resounding Screams It was a pleasant winter day. The clouds had scattered and the rain had stopped. Kids went out to ride their bikes and play in the park, and I sat on the porch reading the new book I’d gotten from Zeidy and Bubby for Chanukah.

Suddenly, from the window of the downstairs neighbors, I heard the voice of Yaakov — the boy my age who attends a different cheder. He was — yes, I’m sure, I heard it with my own ears — screaming at his father with terrible chutzpah. I heard him say, “Get out of here! I don’t want to see you here anymore…!”

Yaakov is the youngest. His older brothers are away in yeshivah; his sisters are married. His mother is usually out of the house at this time of day. Who, besides his father, could he be screaming at?

On the outside, he actually looks like a good boy… Who would think that he’d act so shamefully at home?

I couldn’t bear to hear it any more. I went inside, closed the door to the porch, and read another chapter in my book. Then my mother asked me to go to the store.

I went down one flight of steps. The door to Yaakov’s house was open, and he was busy walking out his married sister and her five little kids. I heard the sister say, “Nu, kinderlach, say thank you to Yaakov for the nice story he acted out for you.”

The children all said in unison, “Thank you!” Then one of the boys added, “The best part was when you played the mean paritz who screams and chases out the goy who wants to say bad things about the Jew…” It’s a miracle that Yaakov was so busy with his nephews that he didn’t see my face turning red as a beet. Chutzpah? No! It was simply a dramatic skit performed for a rapt audience of cute nephews...

How simple it appears, when you know the other side,

How important to find a zechus, when the details seem to hide.

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‫אכטונג היי‪-‬סקול מיידלעך!‬ ‫זוכט איר אנצופולן די שעות אינדרויסן פון סקול מיט‬ ‫תוכן און סיפוק? האט איר א געשמאק צו העלפן‬ ‫קינדערלעך מיט‬ ‫ספעציעלע געברויכן?‬ ‫המספיק “עפטער סקול רעספיט” פראגראם נעמעט‬ ‫יעצט אויף שטאב‬ ‫מיטגלידער פארן נייען סקול יאר‪.‬‬ ‫שעות‪ :‬מאנטאג ביז דאנערשטאג‪ 3:00 ,‬ביז ‪5:45‬‬ ‫געשמאקע אטמאספערע – מלא סיפוק – און גוט‬ ‫באצאלט‬ ‫רופט נאך היינט מיט אייער אינפארמאציע‪:‬‬ ‫‪845-503-0259‬‬ ‫‪January 16, 2019 / THE MONSEY VIEW / 127‬‬ ‫‪www.themonseyview.com / 845.600.8484‬‬

By: Shevy Hollander

HOUSE SPARROW

NORTHERN CARDINAL

BLUE JAY

This bird is found in most parts of the world, in both rural and urban residential settings. Sparrows feed mostly on seeds of grains, weeds, insects and other foods. On the ground they typically hop rather than walk. While these are the most common sparrows in the area, there are more sparrow species that call Monsey their home.

Also known as the redbird, common cardinal or just cardinal, this songbird has a distinctive crest on the head and mask on the face.

Male cardinals are a vibrant red with black masks, and females are a dull reddish-olive with gray masks. Cardinals were once prized as pets, but in 1918 their sale as cagebirds was banned in the U.S.

Sometimes called a jaybird, the blue jay lives in residential areas through most of Eastern and Central United States, and as far north as Newfoundland, Canada.

It mainly feeds on nuts such as acorns, which blue jays hide like squirrels for later consumption, as well as soft fruits and different insects.

AMERICAN ROBIN

COMMON YELLOWTHROAT

Known for its reddish-orange breast, this migratory songbird is widely distributed throughout North America and is second to the most prevalent bird on the continent. It is the state bird of three states: Connecticut, Michigan and Wisconsin.

This warbler is abundant throughout North America and winters in Central America and the West Indies. Adult males have black face masks bordered with white or gray. Females have paler yellow underparts and no mask. The yellowthroats in our area are less vibrant than their southwestern counterparts.

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AMERICAN GOLDFINCH

RUBY-THROATED HUMMINGBIRD

This migratory finch winters in Mexico.

The male is vibrant yellow in the summer and an olive color during the winter, while the female is a duller yellow-brown shade, brightening just a bit in the summer.

The most common hummingbird seen east of the Mississippi River in North America, these migrators have one of the highest metabolic rates of any animal, with up to 1,260 heartbeats per minute, 250 breaths per minute and oxygen consumption during flight that is 10 times higher than a human athlete. You will usually only sight them if you prepare feeders for them at the beginning of spring.

WOODPECKERS Most woodpeckers live in wooded habitats, mostly in holes that they excavate in tree trunks. They’re known for the echoing sounds they produce when “woodpecking,” drumming their beaks against the bark of a tree. Below are the four woodpeckers commonly found in our area.

Downy Woodpecker

Northern Flicker

Red-Bellied Woodpecker

Pileated Woodpecker

COMMON GRACKLE

NORTHERN HOUSE WREN

PIGEON

These black-feathered birds have purple, green or blue iridescence on the head. The females are smaller and have less iridescence than the males. They live in open or semi-open areas across North America, and the northern birds migrate in flocks to the southeastern U.S. for the winter.

The house wren is a very small songbird widely distributed throughout America, often seen in suburban areas.

Also knowns as doves, with no clear distinction between the two names, pigeons are the most common birds in the world. In fact, they are found all over Earth except for the driest areas of the Sahara Desert, the high Arctic, and Antarctica and its surrounding islands.

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COMMON RAVEN

COMMON STARLING

Also known as the northern raven, the large all-black bird is found across the Northern Hemisphere.

They feed on just about anything and can thrive in various climates.

Also knowns as the European starling, these birds have a metallic sheen with different hues. Their bills are black in the winter and yellow in the summer, and they migrate southwest for the winter.

AMERICAN CROW

BLACK VULTURE

All black with iridescent feathers, the crow looks very similar to the common raven, but can be distinguished from it by its smaller size.

They are susceptible to the West Nile virus, serving as bioindicators to track the virus’s spread.

(Direct transmission from crows to humans are unlikely.)

Although black vultures were seen years ago in the southern states only, these “road cleaners” as they’re called for their tendency to eat roadkill, have become common in the Northeast too. There are some turkey vultures in the area as well.

BALD EAGLES You won’t usually spot eagles on the ground round our parts (unless you’re near a large body of water), but you will often see them flying high. They are not actually bald; their name is derived from an older meaning of the word — “white-headed.” The bald eagle is the national bird of the U.S. and appears on the the U.S. seal.

Word of caution: If you find an eagle feather, don’t keep it! According to law, only individuals of certifiable American Indian ancestry are allowed to possess an eagle part. As for the rest of us? We risk facing a fine of up to $250,000 by doing so.

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Thank you to the hundreds of readers who submitted their surveys, allowing us to take a good look at the demographics of our town and its renters.

Please note that the results are based on the submitted data and may not reflect the exact market data.

Winner of a $100 Gift Certificate at Challah: 845-xxx-0453

01. Rental Apartments

by Floor

13.5% Third Floor

14.4% Basement

16.3% Second Floor

55.8% Ground Floor

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11.6%

02. Rental Apartments by Entrance

03. Rental Apartments

by Size

3 rooms

2.1% 2 rooms

1.2% 1 room

3.2%

46.1% Side

7+ rooms

31.5% Front 7.4% 6 rooms

22.5% Back 53.7%

21.1%

4 rooms

5 rooms

46.25% of Monsey rental apartments have windows

facing the front of the house.

31.75% of Monsey rental apartments have a

Less than 3% of Monsey’s apartments are currently vacant.

porch

53.75% of Monsey rental apartments have a

private entrance 45% of renters of

6-room apartments use 3 of its rooms for bedrooms, and the rest use 4 bedrooms.

On average, 22.5% of landlords

include utilities in their rental price.

In Monsey, only

1-bedroom apartments are furnished.

a 4-room apartment is priced at $335 more than a 3-room apartment, a 5-room apartment is priced at $280 more than a 4-room apartment, and a 6-room apartment is priced at $500 more than a 5-room apartment.

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05. Apartment Price Trends Based on Year of Construction 3-room 4-room 5-room 6-room

1990

1995

2000

2005

2010

2015

2019

06. Some stipulations landlords have for renters: Property should be kept clean.

No parties.

Boxes should be put out no earlier than the night before they are collected.

No conventions.

A path must be shoveled in snow from the door until the road.

No smoking.

If a repair is necessary, the landlord should be informed immediately.

Playing only allowed in the back of the house.

Garbage may not be kept outside the door.

Cheaper rates for kollel yungerleit.

Tenants receive a $50 discount for paying rent before the due date.

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Ramapo Tires

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‫גדלי' וויינבערגער‬

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Dina, Sury, Malky and Shulem Bloch

Family Feldman

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Ruchy and Libby Wolodarsky

Avrumele, Yitzy & Naftoli Kushner

Avrumi and Meir Weber, 5 and 3

Shimi Breier, musician

Shimie Spira, 5 - Basya’s hand and Baby Moshe

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‫אּב ִריק‪,‬‬ ‫יידע'ס ַפ ְ‬ ‫יידן‪ֵ .‬לייּב גֵ ייט צּו זַ יין זֵ ֶ‬ ‫ייּבט ַּביים זֵ ְ‬ ‫ארט ַאוֶ ועק‪ ,‬אּון ֶער ְּב ַל ְ‬ ‫אטע ָפ ְ‬ ‫יער‪ֵ :‬לייּב'ס ַט ֶ‬ ‫קּור ְצן פּון ְפ ִר ֶ‬ ‫ִאין ְ‬ ‫עקס‪ַ ,‬א ִאינְ גְ ל ִאין זַ יין ְק ַלאס‪.‬‬ ‫ַאל ְ‬ ‫ערל אּון ֶּבעט ַאז ֶער זָ אל ֶעס גִ ְיּבן צּו ֶ‬ ‫ייפ ְ‬ ‫וואּו ֶדער ֶמענֶ עזְ ֶׁשער גִ ְיּבט ִאים ַא ַפ ֶ‬

‫יׁשט וָ ואס‬ ‫וייסט נִ ְ‬ ‫יקר ִאיז ַאז ֵלייּב וֵ ְ‬ ‫ֶדער ִע ֶ‬ ‫יׁשט‪.‬‬ ‫ארג זִ יְך נִ ְ‬ ‫ִאיז ִאינֶ עוֵ ויינִ יג‪ .‬זָ ְ‬

‫נּו נּו‪ֶ ,‬ער ִאיז‬ ‫אפן‪.‬‬ ‫עׁש ָל ְ‬ ‫ַאיינְ גֶ ְ‬ ‫יקגֵ יין‬ ‫צּור ְ‬ ‫ֶמען ֶקען ִ‬ ‫ערנֶ ען‪.‬‬ ‫ֶל ְ‬

‫ערל‬ ‫ייפ ְ‬ ‫יקט ַא ַפ ֶ‬ ‫עׁש ְ‬ ‫עקס‪ֶ ,‬מען ָהאט ִדיר גֶ ִ‬ ‫ַאל ְ‬ ‫גּוטן‪ֶ ,‬‬ ‫ַא ְ‬ ‫יידע'ס ִפ ְיר ֶמע‪.‬‬ ‫פּון ַמיין זֵ ֶ‬

‫ֶער ִאיז‬ ‫על ֶּבע‬ ‫ִדי זֶ ְ‬ ‫ארגַ אנְ ג וִ וי‬ ‫יָ ְ‬ ‫עקס?‬ ‫ַאל ְ‬ ‫ֶ‬ ‫ֶער ִאיז ָדאְך‬ ‫ַמ ֶמׁש נִ ְיד ִריג‪...‬‬ ‫אל ְטן‬ ‫ֶער ִאיז ָדאְך ַאזַ א ַצ ִדיק‪ .‬נָ אר ִאין זַ יין זְ כּות ַה ְ‬ ‫יׁש ַקייט‪.‬‬ ‫ִמיר זִ יְך ַּביי ִא ִיד ְ‬

‫אטי‬ ‫ארוָ ואס ָהאט ַט ִ‬ ‫אטע‪ַ .‬פ ְ‬ ‫ערל ִאיז ַאנְ ְׁש ָטאט ַא ַט ֶ‬ ‫ייפ ְ‬ ‫ערל‪ְּ ...‬כ ִאילּו ַא ַפ ֶ‬ ‫ייפ ְ‬ ‫ַא ַפ ֶ‬ ‫ארי אּון ֶדער ְׁשטּוּב ִאיז‬ ‫עק ָט ִ‬ ‫יידי ִאיז ַא גַ אנְ ְצן ָטאג ִאין ִדי ֶפ ְ‬ ‫ארן? זֵ ִ‬ ‫גֶ עמּוזְ ט ָפ ְ‬ ‫עוואּוק ְסן‪.‬‬ ‫ְ‬ ‫ויׁשן ִדי גֶ‬ ‫ָארט ְצוִ ְ‬ ‫על ֶטענִ יׁש ְ‬ ‫אה ְ‬ ‫ערוַ וייל ִאין ַמיין ַּב ֶ‬ ‫יידיג‪ִ .‬איְך וֶ ועל גֵ יין זִ ְיצן ֶד ְ‬ ‫ֵל ִ‬

‫אׂוי!‬

‫קאפיטל‬

‫ד'‬

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LAST WEEK’S QUESTION: Which dead-end streets in our area have a circle with a patch of grass in the center?

ANSWER: Amsterdam Avenue, Baldwin Court, Hilltop Place, Holly Circle, Jodi Court, Lenore Avenue, Lynnhaven Court, Meadow Lane, Nelson Road, Robert Court, Wilson Court, Park Terrace

Question of the week:

What’s the most popular last name in Monsey?

Do you have a trivia question to share with your fellow Monseyites? Feel free to send it to us!

Questions may include any of the local areas currently inhabited by the frum community.

Send in your answer and/or trivia question to comments@themonseyview.com by Sunday at 8:00 p.m.

Please include your name and phone number.

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The winner of last week’s drawing is:

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Classifieds FOR SALE NISSAN ARMADA 2006, 215k Miles. $2800 OBO. 845-587-3366

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CHINA CLOSET used, traditional look . $800 call/txt 845-517-9231 NATURAL CRIB and matching combo dresser/changing table 500$ or best offer. 8454997363 FOR SALE Office desk, chair, treadmill, glass table dinette setplease call 347-946-5511 D&W CHINA CLOSET mahogany with 4 doors, Call/ Txt 845.548.2685 MASTER BEDROOM SET About 8 yrs old. Great condition! Call: 918-1753 BOSCH DISHWASHER new condition Stainless Steel Bosch Dishwasher for $150. (not kosher) please call/text 201.204.6315

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GIRLS SUMMER TOP new long sleeved, 12 months bought from lily & todd. $10.

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STUNNING CONDO! Absolutely gorgeous, spacious 4-bedroom condo. High-end custom moldings, doors, and hardware. In the Joshua area. Call agent: Abraham Spitzer—914.341.2974 BATES 3 room, 2 bedrooms, kitchen, spacious closets.available for January. 845.376.0233 LE SUITE GUESTHOUSE Luxurious accommodations in the new chassidish area of Lakewood. Booking for Weekday and Shabbos, Simchos and business, retreat and recuperation.

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TWO BEDROOM with private porch, new house, Maple area, please call, 917-474-2456

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FOR RENT ON ELM STREET Flat style unit for rent includes: Kitchen/Dinette, Dining Rm/Living Rm, 4 bedrooms, 2.5 baths and porch. Please Call 845-6594531.

SHABBOS GETAWAY Looking to go away for Shabbos? Family getaway in Kingston, NY is the place.

Call 845-334-9044 or email leah@iloveganisrael.com ONE BEDROOM full bathroom and kitchen in Chestnut Ridge. Please call (845) 521-9432 TWO BEDROOM brand new, spacious, ground level,New County Rd. And Route 59 area please call 845596-7727 MONTICELLO new, 3-4 bdrm single family home with kosher kitchen.

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Available March 1st. Please call/text 917-589-7352 APT FOR RENT Beautiful Apartment for rent in airmont. $1900.

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4 ROOMS new on west central avenue.

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SPACE AVAILABLE Office/warehouse space available In Airmont NY, Ground level, 500 Sq Ft + additional kitchenette space and restroom. Call for more information 917-662-6948

FURNISHED APARTMENT Looking for a nice furnished 1-2 bedroom apartment 845213-6690

OFFICE SPACE New walk in-2 room for rent.

Option of taking only one room 845-459-6234

APARTMENT FOR RENT Nice large walk in Studio Apartment. Near New Day.

OFFICE SPACE 3 spacious rooms/offices Call 917-557-7273

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STORAGE RENT 700 SF garage for rent for storage on main rd in Chestnut Ridge/Airmont txt/ call 845-788-5440

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LEGAL SCHOOL SPACE available for rent for daycamp summer 2019. Please email: daycampspace@gmail.com

FINISHED BASEMENT for rent in Bates area.

Suitable for office or playgroup etc. 845 746 7251 BUTTERMAN PL. 1000 s.f. 8 1/2 ft. Ceiling unfinished basement please call 646-596-4838 ROOM TO RENT Looking to rent a room in Monsey twice a week 7:15 8:15 in the evening, to teach there Art for small groups of boys. Please call 845 4592696 DORSET/WIDMAN AREA A big spacious room accommodating 25-30 people for rent, can be used as ‫ביהמ”ד לשבת ויו”ט‬, or for classes / programs / events.

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OFFICE ROOMS 10x10 for rent on ground floor, off Highview Rd between college & Spook rock please call 347-243-1815

HELP WANTED JOB OPPORTUNITY Local Mortgage Brokerage is seeking a Full Time Commercial Processing Assistant. Candidate must be creative, detail oriented, great with numbers, and with people. Qualified applicants please email/fax resume. Fax: 845.230.8682 Email: saram@everestequity. com.

OFFICE ASSISTANT Seeking full time office assistant for finance department of a logistics center in Nyack. Must be proficient in Excel. Salary commensurate with experience. Please send resume to finance@rubyhas. com

Awesome Opportunity!

Part time office position is now open for female applicant.

Candidate must have excellent communication and computer skills; be detail oriented and organized; and speak Yiddish.

Submit your resume at jobs@hamaspikrockland.org

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Looking for female to spend two and a half hours a day with a young lady with special needs. Flexible hours. Driver’s License required.

Please call 845-425-5011.

Chesed 24/7 is currently looking to expand our self-direction department. Requires a caring, energetic and self-motivated individual who will join our team and work with families to obtain services for their developmentally disabled child.

No educational requirements necessary, will train. Yiddish speaking a plus. email efeder@chesed247.org.

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Classifieds ADMIN ASSISTANT A nursing home group is looking for someone to monitor daily staffing levels, monitor contracts, monitor daily expenses, monitor efficient use of staff, monitor agency usage and overtime. Maintaining a close relationship with financial departments, assisting the department director with his day to day goals and needs, creating and maintaining spreadsheets are a must.

Job location: Englewood Cliffs, NJ. Email resume: CareRiteCareers@gmail.com OFFICE POSITION For female available, email resume hr@adlersinsurance. com, fax 845-356-5690 MEDICAL BILLING OFFICE looking for young girl for F/T. Needs to be articulate and detail oriented. email resume to jobopportunities120@ gmail.com or fax to 845-7741299.

TRI-COUNTY CARE Tri-County Care (Hamaspik) is seeking a F/T A/R Specialist. Graduates welcome, full training provided. Candidate must be organized and detail oriented. Great compensation and excellent office environment. Please email resumes to m.schwartz@ tricountycare.org or fax to845-503-9204 RECEPTIONIST Medical facility in Monsey is looking for an energetic, pleasant and friendly person for receptionist position.

Afternoon and late evening hours. Work-week includes Sunday but not Friday.

Competitive pay. Please email resume to: jobsin10952@ gmail.com SEEKING MANAGER Busy Monsey retail store seeking manager. Must be efficient and detail oriented,

experience in customer service or management preferred. Email resume to yitzi27@gmail.com or call 8456644449

cert. + NYS LBA; Ability to supervise in the delivery of ABA services. Interested?

Email resume to info@ attentivebehavior.com.

SALES PERSON Individual must have a desire to build a career, Full Training and Support provided. Call: 845-6395216 or email: dglick@ ft.newyorklife.com

SEEKING MALE from 3-7 daily to work with a individual with special needs. $25 an hour. please call 845-263-4667

BOYS SCHOOL seeks capable ELA teacher for 6th through 8th grade.

Monday through Thursday 3:25-5:15. Competitive pay.

Please email resume to monseychederjob@gmail. com.

BOYS SCHOOL seeks Title I teacher to work with students to improve reading and math skills. Please email monseychederjob@gmail. com.

LOOKING TO HIRE Hamaspik is looking to hire a female to work with girls in a group setting. Great and fun filled environment.

Must drive. Hours are Mon-Thurs. 9:00-3:30, Friday 9:00-1:30. Please send resume to Eschonfeld@ hamaspikrockland.org BOY’S YESHIVA has new opening for 4th Grade GS Teacher due to simcha. Please email resume to mkagan@baishachinuch. org.

SEEKING ASSISTANT for a Cheder kindergarten in the afternoon hours. I”YH starting Feb. Please call 845.558.6699.

BCBA/LBA Attentive Behavior is seeking a full time Board Certified Behavior Analyst/ Licensed Behavior Analyst in the Rockland County area. Requirements: BCBA

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ASSISTANT WANTED for Yiddish speaking playgroup to start immediately. 845-793-7413 BABYSITTER Looking for a babbsitter for my 11 month old in my home in Wesley Hills, 4hrs a day 4 days per week. 917 755 0190 RN SCHOOL NURSE School Nurse Needed: Looking for an RN to fill a position at a local school/ Yeshiva . Excellent pay.

Please call 6468085489 or send resume to chaimf@ gnyservices.com PLAYGROUP SUB Please call 845-426-4608 MONSEY YESHIVA Seeks capable f/t secretary with strong writing and computer skills.

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SEEKING DRIVERS A heimisha Taxi company is looking for new drivers, nice pay! (845) 290-7435

BABYSITTING BABYSITTING A heimishe responsible experienced babysitter. Great with babies is accepting ages newborn till 15 month in spring valley area. For more info please call 347-9866066.

WARM AND EXPERIENCED babysitter available to babysit night hours in your home or at weddings. References available. Please call 845 499 9272

SERVICES MORAH MALKA’S ANIMAL THERAPY In your home or school Animal Care Certification Ages 7-14 Preschool Programfun and interactive for ages 2-6 Bunnies, Birds, Reptiles, Farm Animals and more.

Certified and Insured. 845642-9066 ORCHESTRA 5 piece orchestra for any occasion. Super affordable.

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VOLUNTEERS NEEDED/ AVAILABLE To volunteer to feed the sick or elderly, OR if you are in need of this service, Please call 845-352-1016

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LOOKING FOR VOLUNTEER local drivers for chessed.

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CHILDBIRTH EDUCATION CLASSES To join the next class please call 845-426-0931. Tzippy Tauber CD (DONA)Certified Birth Doula

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gmail.com, Call:(917)2803707 BAR MITZVAH PHOTOGRAPHY

Quality and affordable bar mitzvah photography by Moshe Grunfeld call 845-3621312 or email moshe@ moshegrunfeld.com PERSONAL DRIVER AVAILABLE Personal driver available on a steady basis. Very reliable and responsible flexible hours. please call: 845-4225827 FRUM LADY DRIVER Punctual, friendly, caring, responsible, dependable.

Scheduling winter routes and all transportation & delivery needs. Excellent customer service! Please call/text 917750-4105.

BOOKKEEPING Too busy to do your own bookkeeping? Let us do it right for a small fee.

Specializing in small businesses. (845) 261-1169 GARTLECH we fix knitted & crochet Gartlech & make beautiful professional fringes. We also teach how to knit & crochet. call: 917-414-3281

TRI STATE SHADES Custom shades at affordable prices. Shop in the comfort of your own home! Call for free estimate: Monsey T. Diamant 845-213-5481, Brooklyn D. Friedman 929-420-1398, Lakewood E. Friedman 929289-8519 THE BUNDT SHOPPE Bundt cakes for all occasions!

Is it a L’chaim? Bris?

Upsheren? A Rebbe’s Tish? Or just for Shabbos! An array of sizes and flavors! Call or text 917-586-9864 REGISTERED DEITITIAN NUTRITIONIST Miriam Shurpin, MS, RD, CDN | In person and online consultations | Insurance accepted | 347 480 1670 | rd@ miriamshurpin.com | www. miriamshurpin.com LEAN HOW TO CLEANSE Your digestive system, powerfully with our 1 day cleanse. Great before starting a new food plan. Products, instructions & consultations included. 845-468-0054 GRAPHICS COURSE Professional graphics course on Adobe programs based on the famous Baily Biederman’s method. Learn Photoshop, InDesign and Illustrator in a kosher and fun environment.

No internet. 6 slots available.

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Suri Wachsman 845.356.2101 or 917.474.6826 DRUM LESSONS

by Shmuel Klaver - Monsey’s most experienced Shomer Shabbos drum instructor.

Lessons ($45 & up) given in your home or my studio, to boys or girls ages 10-adult, beginners to professional.

Call (845) 459-9935 MUSIC LESSONS Give your daughter the gift of music at a very reasonable price! References available.

Call Yitty @ 845-426-7561 after 4:30 pm SEWING COURSES private sewing course with master teacher Esty Krauss. call or text 845-662-5931 HIGH SCHOOL GIRLSSEWING COURSE Beginners basic alterations course on Sundays 3:15-5:15 Esty Krauss. call or text 845662-5931 PROFESSIONAL SEWING COURSE One on One, by Esty Krauss.

Group forming now for high school girls. call or text 845662-5931.

PIANO AND KEYBOARD LESSONS Piano and keyboard lessons children and adults

beginners to Advance for more info please contact Yisroel at 718-790-8659 973928-3476 GUITAR LESSONS

by Moshe Klaver, for beginners of all ages. Very motivating and patient teacher. References available.

(845) 746-0925. Shomer Shabbos WASH & SETS/ HAIRCUTS Wash & Sets $15 (limited time only), Hair cuts (home visits included) $10, Perela: 845.376.9566 HAIR Wash and sets, haircut, and styling, at very reasonable prices. Pick up and drop off available for your sheitel. please call 845 538 5623 HAIR-DOS Have your hair done professionally for all your occastions in a prime area.

Call 8453561937 HAIR WITH CARE Professional hair cutting & hair styling affordable prices, saddle river area, call 845356-5038.

PROFESSIONAL PHOTOBOOKS Bring your memories alive.

Photobooks for all occasions.

845-499-9745

GREAT OPPORTUNITY! Looking for competent paraprofessionals to join our growing team. Work with a BCBA and gain valuable experience. We now have openings in our Monroe location. Driver’s license preferred.

Please submit resume to services@masterfaster.org or call 845.477.5000 ext 127.

Tri County Care is seeking to hire a Care Coordinator in the Monsey location to support people with Developmental Disabilities and their families.

Job Requirements: Bachelor’s Degree with 2 years relevant experience and a sincere desire to enhance the lives of individuals with disabilities.

Fulfilling and rewarding work. Great compensation and opportunity for promotion.

Excellent office environment!

Please submit resume to m.schwartz@tricountycare.org

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Classifieds ATTENTION KALLAHS! Let us create your master Tenoyim or Chassunah Album You-WIll-Be-ProudOf!! Different Samples, Ideas and sizes to choose from.

Please call 845-459-7664.

ENGLISH TUTOR Professional English Tutor.

Experienced with adults and children. Call: 973-727-8375 PRIVATE TUTOR Private tutoring for your elementary aged son/ daughter by experienced teacher. Limudei Kodesh/ General Studies. call 845587-8500 MATH TURORING Regents/GED/TASC/SAT/ ACT Common Core, Algebra, Geometry, Trigonometry, Precalculus, Calculus, Physics ALL Grades/Levels. call: 845-445-8003 ARROWSMITH Is your child still in the same place after all that tutoring?

The Arrowsmith Program has helped many children become successful in the regular classroom. Please call Mrs. Feuer to find out more 845-304-7053 4 FREE SESSIONS Will tutor your child according to his level, with patience & clear explanations. Great rate.

248-955-8559.

MATH ANXIETY? I can help! All ages. All levels.

Regents, SAT Prep, CLEPS,

AP courses. Remediation and Enrichment also available Linda 845.538.5319 LEARN ENGLISH English lessons for cheider, yeshiva, and adult learners by an experienced, professional native English speaker. Call: 973-727-8375 ADDRESSING ENVELOPES Amazing prices, call for quote, mention ad for a discount. Printing can be done immediately. Call 845-445-7422 or e-mail printingaddresses@gmail. com

ODDS & ENDS DIABETIC STRIPS Looking to buy your extra Diabetic Test Strips. Strictly Confidential. 347-871-7574 MAFRISH CHALLAH? Be mispalel for someone in need of a yeshuah. Call 24/6 @216-371-0413 SPECIAL NEEDS AGENCY is seeking exercise equipment donations please contact 718-564-3805 BANDANAS NEEDED for a cancer patient. (only thin material - no velours or itchy fabric.) Please call 587-3774.

INSPIRE BY WIRE Reb. Ruti Waldman, 3 part live teleconference shiur Thursday’s Jan. 10, 17, and 24,

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// services // odds & ends // gemachim

ARE YOU STRUGGLING WITH YOUR WEIGHT? Call/Text Now!

Esty Weiss 845.499.9354

The solution to lasting weight loss

9:30 p.m. Dial 718-906-6451 press 9-9.

TRANSFORM Thurs. @10a.m. 641 715 0700 pin 549732 playback 6417150709 pin 549732 ref 122

GEMACHIM GOWN GEMACH mother and sister gowns size 0-12, by appointment only.

845-426-7496 or 845-3523031.

DVD/VIDEO GEMACH DVDS and portable players for sick and homebound adults and children.425-2660 SIMCHA HAT $25. many styles and colors.

We also accept donations of elegant hats. Call 347 351 1604 LEV DEVORAH Layett gemach 917.697.0790

BABIES LAYETTE text 718-551-1732 or email frimitbabies@gmail.com FLORAL BISOMIM for your Simcha - 845-6292785.

CHASUNAH HAIR ORNAMENT for rent @ $3 and below. West central area 371-1765 BABY CHASUNA GOWNS Adorable gowns and 2 pieces.

Matching shoes and hair accessories, from 3 months 2 years. 425-3049 MECHITZA’S 30 feet - 5 six foot tables 10 chairs stands and bus-boxes $100 deposit. $18 Donation call 845-445-8015 or email Mitzvah1@gmail.com MATERNITY GEMACH Weekday and shabbos clothing, various sizes. Please call or text 845-445-9687

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Classifieds SHIFRA PUAH DOULA Please call to register in advance. 845-587-1649 ELEGANT HATS For short term rental please call 845-517-0838.

HOSPITAL SUPPLIES TPN equipment, feeding pumps, NG tubes, & All feeding supplies. To donate or receive. call 845-746-8293.

GPS GEMACH Call 845-352-2588. Leave message. (Minimal fee).

BRIS GEMACH located in Central Monsey.

617-955-3630. poya, pillow case, outfit, blanket. ‎ OT WATER URNS H Please call 845-425-9211 ROOF CARRIERS For all cars even without bars on roof. 845-659-1863.

Monroe: 845-662-7102.

ISRAEL GPS No fee. English or Hebrew.

Must reserve in advance by email at IsraelGPS@gngroup. com BRIS GEMACH Located on Blauvelt Rd. 356-6215 poya, outfit, blanket and hat.

EAR-PLUG GEMACH for ba’alei simcha to protect your guests’ hearing. Baby headsets also available. 845202 -0105.

BECHER GEMACH Real bechers from our free-loan gemach. 845-377KOS1(5671) KosYeshuos@ gmail.com FREE BOXES for moving (mostly egg carton size). Please call 845425-6826 or 845-608-7830.

Donations of flattened boxes are always welcome!

FREE MOVING BOXES Packs of 10x for easy transport. Please call (845) 641-5536.

WHITE KALLLAH SHOES. Proceeds go to tzedakah.

Call\Text 845-200-0211 TOY GEMACH Keep the children busy by your simchas with tons of lego and clicks. Call Sussman @ 845-578-6513 PACK N PLAY We have New Pack n Plays tova222@gmail.com or text 845-216-4885 PHONE GEMACH We will lend you a cell phone free of charge for as long as necessary. Call: 845 579 5538

learn to outgrow Anxieties, Phobias, Low Self-esteem, PTS, etc. in 3-4 sessions call or text Alex Zion NLP Master Practitioner

(845) 269 8788 now should be returned to 21 Calvert,425-2660.

GOWN GEMACH. South Monsey Ladies gowns and petticoat gemach. Please call or text after 5pm. 347278-1278 COAT RACK GMACH Coat racks and hangers available for your simcha.

Please call 845-356-9841

REFLECTOR GEMACH Hosting guest? Be safe! Wear a reflector. 845-356-0815

REFLECTOR GEMACH: Be safe! If ur having guests or having a simcha and need reflectors call 347-977-6816

TABLECLOTHS for your Simchos. Call (845) 371 2105

HEATER GEMACH 845 362 8666

SIDDUR GEMACH Sfard: Friedman 845-6087830 Ashkenaz: Shulman845 352 1756 or 845-826-6718 MEZUZOS GEMACH 362.2333 MODEST HOSPITAL GOWN for maternity or hospitalization Tzniusdige & Comfortable.845-425-8687 5 locations

CHUPPA CARDS. Please call or text after 5pm.

347-278-1278 WE ACCEPT clothing, shoes and household items in brand new condition. To donate or receive please call 845 425 7214 BECHER GEMACH (not zmiros) please call 845642-0910

PIDYON HABEN coins,silver tray, lace box, outfit 845-426-1681 845-6427256

BED REST? We do the laudry for you. call 213-7437 (also looking for volunteers)

SIDDUR/CHUMASH GEMACH 558.4774

WEDDING KIT for Machetunim to take along. 845-425-2036

DVD GEMACH DVDs borrowed from 7 Dunn Rd. gemach

APPOINTMENT looking for woman volunteers to occupy ladies

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// gemachim // dresses & gowns

or children to appointments.

Please call if you are in need of this service or to volunteer.

845-425-7241 BANDS $10 New ladies bands, all lengths. Also berret hats. Call 845 290 8319

DRESSES/GOWNS SIMCHA DRESSES & GOWNS FOR RENT OR SALE Mechtenistes-adult sisters of the bride-maternity, Beautiful selection 845659-8753, We also take your gowns on consignment & rent or sell it for you!

ONE OF A KIND Magnificent cream dress size 0-2 for sale/rent. Please call 845.200.4326 CUSTOM HALBERSTAM Black/white gown/dress size 8-10 for rent. For more info call 845.425.0924 B&W wedding dresses adult size 4,6, 8-10, for rent, send email to dressrental3207@ gmail.com call 845-425-3207 size 2 childrens gown for sale, matching shoes and hair accessories . Please call 8456599876 ladies black and white dress for rent. size 6-8. reasonable price. 371-2947.

Bridal gown size 6. Very reasonable 347.278.1278 mauve gown ladies size 12 black and gold gown ladies size 10/12 call: 354-9328/6089122

MEDICARE SUPPLEMENT INSURANCE

Eligible for Medicare?

Turning age 65?

Consider a Medicare Supplement Plan to complete your out of pocket cost, not paid by medicare.

Starcare

Insurance Brokerage

Mrs. R. Schwartz Licensed agent Phone: 845.782.3449 Urgent/Express Service: 845.263.0617

Tri County Care is seeking to hire a Care Coordinator in the Monroe location to support people with Developmental Disabilities and their families.

Job Requirements: Bachelor’s Degree with 2 years relevant experience and a sincere desire to enhance the lives of individuals with disabilities.

Fulfilling and rewarding work. Great compensation and opportunity for promotion.

Excellent office environment!

Please submit resume to m.schwartz@tricountycare.org

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Classifieds YEDEI CHESED IS LOOKING TO HIRE A RESIDENTIAL MANAGER FOR OUR GRANDVIEW HOME

// dresses & gowns // lost & found Black and gold maternity gown. size8 - 8453520926 Black/mauve maternity dress/gown Size S/M- 845578-1546

Manage and oversee all aspects relating to a group home that operates under OPWDD regulations.

Ivory gown, mauve/gold brocade inlay, size 6-8. Please call or text 845-323-2434

This includes all components of staff management and scheduling, financial reporting, the upkeep and maintenance of the residence, and extensive administrative duties.

Pink/Blush gown, size 4 for $475, please call 845-3521650

Requirements: • Supervisory and management experience • Skilled in team building • Highly organized and detail oriented • Knowledge of OPWDD services and requirements a plus

black and white maternity dress for rent. For more info call 845.376.3412.

Maternity gown plus size gold and black, Adorable girls gold gown size 2, boys grey wedding outfits size 4,6,8 please call 845-538-5623 off white chasunah/vort dress to sell size 4/6 for only $125 call 845-356-6215

Great salary and benefits package

floral Size 4 gown for rent for $350. Text 845-642-3904

Please send your resume to careeryc48@gmail.com. or call Yitty Gutner at 845-425-0887 x278

white and navy gown. Size 4 teens. $1250 text/call 3474862881

Blush gown size 0 845.352.4686 Find&Co. black mechateniste gown 16/20 for sale 352.468 Ivory/pink girls gowns for rent approx sizes 5, 6, 7, 12 Call 347-300-1679 pink/mauve sister of bride dress size 2-4 call (845)3525916 Fine Pink Gown sz 2-4 Teen for sale. 845 425 4578 Blush Gowns for sale sz 14 & 16 kids 845.425.4578 Maternity Black & Silver Mechutenista Dress for Sale.

Small,Petite. 845-263-9404.

Pink Gowns for sale sz 8 & 10 kids 845-263-9404 Black Maternity Chasuna dress, with flowers, Size Medium, $150, Please call: 826-6733

blush and cream gown. sz 8 - 10. Please call or text 845.499.1947.

black and gold ladies gowns for rent. Please call or text 347-278-1278 White & black ladies gown size 14 354-1934 White & black children’s gown size 5 & 12 -14 – 3541934 Black velvet maternity gown for rent, size small. 845-4255321. black maternity gown (cocktail length) Size large.

845-263-2170 Black maternity gown for rent. Size small. Please call: 845-578-1720 black and champagne hi-low Size 6. Great price! please call 845.354.2615 Black and white Carolina Herrera gown for rent/sale, Size 8. Call or text 917-5869864

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Teen/adult Size 4, Beige/ powder/cream/gold 845-3545523 black gown with soft colored flowers for rent sz 6 call 347243-1822 white and green dress for sale-size 2. Please call/text 845-269-8649.

Green and Black size 10-12 Cocktail length for rent, Please call: 845-587-0204 silver size 2 gown for sale.

Call or text 8457467089 Mauve & black magnificent gown sz 2-4 Call or text 587-5873 dark navy and gold size 8 women’s gown for sale. 845459-6062

Black and white Carolina Herrera gown for rent/sale, Size 8. Call or text 917-5869864 maternity gown size xs/s for sale please call or text 13476317190 size 2 sister of bride / tenoyim dress for rent. Please call 426-7460.

Black n gold gown ,sz 4 for rent. call or text 845 274 3366 Size 8 Gown. Velvet top with Valentino ballgown skirt Black & Cobalt 3560835 evening dress size 4-6 call 347-351-4708.

LOST diamond earring and bugabee carriage plstc 213.7897 box with bike lights in a Monsey Glatt bag on Maple ave, Dolson or college Rd. 845-641-4494. pink camera case with sd card inside 5178108

FOUND Money Parshas Shmos by Tomchai Shabbos please call 845.352.0031 red baby headband in Shopper’s Haven parking lot.

845 426 2434 grey suede headband with gold design near Park and Ride. Call: 845-426-2434 Money in a taxi. 371 0499 2 rain covers for carriage 845-356-3516 New velour stretchy3 month on Rt. 59 3520314 bag with womens clothes on Saddle River/Harvest Friday night 3477602813

FREE GIVEAWAYS

teens black and gold gown size 8 for sale for $600, call 845- 596-6501

Graco Snap & Go call 845587-2438

Pastel summer robes, new size 3&5. One for $30 both for $50 call 4253783

Brother tn 620 toner cartrige, new, p. U. In monsey, 718 210 8477

Remove an Ayin Hara R’ Avraham Lebel 718.977.5459 Price: $50 per name - credit cards accepted - Pls leave a message With the endorsement of Rabbanim of ‫בד”ץ העדה החרדית ירושלים‬

Power Washing

Weekly Office Cleaning

Rubbish Removal

Post Construction Cleaning

cleaning from black to blue...

845.327.6997 Fully Insured

Dirty trash bin?

LET US CLEAN IT FOR YOU.

845.839.4024 info@mrcancleaning.com www.mrcancleaning.com

5”,6”,7” Gutters Copper and aluminum gutters Over 30 colors 845-782-4473 sales@advancedguttersinc.com

Fully Insured Free estimates

Gutter Guard Installation Cleaning and Repirs

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.‫האדמו''ר מטאהש בלוי' של אחד מחסידים ותפלת מנחה במאנסי | בילדער אבי ס‬

‎‫בר מצוה של בן אב"ד קערעסטיר טשעסנאט רידזש‬

In the last 10 days members of COMMSAR (Community Search and Rescue) were assisting New York State officials on a 2-day search for an elderly man with dementia (who was ultimately found ok in an abandoned house); and took part in a massive multi-agency drill in Northern New Jersey during a hailstorm, which included hasty and grid search, patient stabilization and packaging, shelter and fire building, and evacuation using low angle rope rescue system.

‫מלוה מלכה לטובת ביהמ"ד שאץ במאנסי‬

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Complete the survey found inside the box to be entered in a raffle to win a single Bugaboo stroller of your choice. One winner selected every 3 months!

Congratula�ons to our January Bugaboo Winner!

Mrs. Fulop (Monroe, NY) Be sure to par�cipate: you can be the next lucky winner!

Our next drawing will held on April 1st 2019 Ask Zahler 877.ASK.ZAHLER ask@zahlers.com zahlers.com

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‫יהדות עיר התורה מאנסי אינאיינעם מיט די טויזענטע תלמידים פונעם ראש ישיבה‬ ‫זצ"ל האבן דעם שב"ק אויפגענומען די בשורה מרנינה מיט די פטירה פון הגאון הצדיק‬ ‫ראש ישיבת שער אפרים זצ"ל‪ .‬טויזענטער תלמידים ותושבי עירינו האבן זיך באטייליגט‬ ‫מוצש"ק ביים לוי' אין בנין הישיבה ווי עס האבן מספיד געווען גאב"ד סאטמאר מאנסי‪,‬‬ ‫הגה"צ דומ"ץ בעלזא מאנסי‪ ,‬גאב"ד טאשנאד‪ ,‬אדמו"ר מנייטרא‪ ,‬גאב"ד יוניאן סיטי‪ ,‬גיסו‬ ‫הרב ר' יודל אשרי און בנו ומ"מ הגה"צ ר' משה‬

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‫הגאון הצדיק ר' אשר זעליג גרינבערג זצ"ל‬ ‫ראש ישיבת שער אפרים למנוחות‬ ‫‪PHOTO CREDIT: DER BLICK‬‬

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‫האדמו"ר מדעלאטין ביים ווייזן די מקוה בוי ארבעט פאר האדמו"ר מפארשעי נאכ'ן יארצייט סעודה פון הרה"ק מדעלאטין זצ"ל‬

‫חומש סעודה אין תלמוד תורה באר ישעיה בהשתתפות האדמו"ר מקראלי וויליאמסבורג‬

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‫מראות ימי חיו של הגאון הצדיק ר' אשר זעליג גרינבערג זצ"ל ראש ישיבת שער אפרים‬

‫שבע ברכות לבן אב"ד סקולען מאנסי בן האדמו"ר מסקולען וחתן אב"ד טערצאל‬

‫דער בעל מספר נפלא הרב דוד בעק איז מהנה די הונדערטע קינדער פון חברת תהלים דשיכון סקווירא ניטל נאכמיטאג‬

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‫שמחת נישואי בן אב"ד סקולען מאנסי בן האדמו"ר מסקולען וחתן אב"ד טערצאל עב"ג הכלה בת אב"ד אור יחזקאל‬

‫פון ד צום ‪ 1‬וו‬ ‫ינער‪-‬שליסאך‬ ‫זשור ונג‬ ‫נ‬ ‫אל‬

‫מרכז הכוללים‬ ‫דשיכון סקווירא‬

‫בנשיאות כ"ק מרן אדמו"ר שליט"א‬

‫יהדות‬ ‫התורתית‬ ‫גרייט זיך‬

‫צו פייערן דעם דערגרייכטן וואוקס‬ ‫פון נאענט צו טויזענט לומדי תורה הי"ו‬ ‫וואס מהם יוצא תורה והוראה בעולם‬

‫הרבני הנכבד‬

‫מוה״ר עמרם אונגאר הי״ו‬

‫ידיד נאמן להנהלת הכוללים רבות בשנים‬

‫נזר הרבצת תורה‬ ‫הרב החסיד‬

‫רבי שמעון שלום ביסטאן שליט״א‬ ‫מנהל רוחני ישיבת סקווירא וויליאמסבורג‬

‫נזר החסד‬ ‫הרבני היקר‬

‫מוה״ר יעקב יוסף בייער הי״ו‬ ‫מטובי עסקני שיכון סקווירא‬

‫נזר החינוך‬ ‫הרב החסיד‬

‫רא‬

‫מ‬

‫םד‬ ‫הכוללי שיכון‬ ‫כז‬ ‫סק‬ ‫ר‬ ‫ווי‬

‫נזר אהבת קדומים‬

‫רבי יצחק יוסף אונגער שליט״א‬ ‫מנהל רוחני כללי ת״ת דשיכון סקווירא‬

‫מרכז‬ ‫הכוללים‬ ‫דשיכון‬ ‫סקווירא‬

‫נזר עסקנות‬ ‫הרבני היקר‬

‫מוה״ר מרדכי יודא האלצלער הי״ו‬ ‫מעסקני ביהמ״ד סקווירא ‪14‬׳טע עוו‪.‬‬

‫אורח הכבוד‬

‫כי עתה הרחיב‬

‫ה׳ לנו‬

‫‪Annual Dinner‬‬

‫‪Peter G. Steinherz, M.D.‬‬ ‫‪Chief, Pediatric Leukemia & Lymphoma Service‬‬ ‫‪Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center‬‬

‫‪Professor of Pediatrics, Cornell University Medical College‬‬

‫הדינער מוקדש‬ ‫לזכר נשמת ידידנו הבלתי נשכח‬

‫זונטאג תרומה‪ ,‬כ"ח שבט‪ ,‬תשע"ט לפ"ק‬ ‫באולם עטרת גאלדא‬ ‫‪1362 50TH ST. BROOKLYN, NY‬‬

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‫האדמו"ר מסאטמאר בפאלם ספרינגס‬

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‫‪PHOTO CREDIT: JDN‬‬

‫הכנסת ספר לבית המדרש הגדול ויזניץ לע"נ הילד משה נתן נטע האגער ע"ה נין האדמו"ר מויזניץ ונכד האדמו"ר מזוועהיל‬

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‫דינער‬ ‫קופתינו‬ ‫ווערט‬ ‫צוגעגרייט‬ ‫צום‬

‫האלט אייך‬ ‫געשפאנט!‬

‫א נאכט פון‬ ‫די מאנסי‬ ‫איינוואוינער‬ ‫פאר די‬ ‫מאנסי קאסע‬

‫ליל שישי‬ ‫פ‘ משפטים‬ ‫כ"ה שבט‬

‫אטריום פלאזא‬

‫קופת עזרה‬

‫דינער תשע”ט‬

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‫תשים‬ ‫לראשם‬ ‫עטרת פז‬ ‫בדין הוא שיטלו שכרם‬

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‫נזרי‬

‫מו‬ ‫ע די ה‬

‫ידידינו הנכבדים בעלי חניות‬ ‫בעירנו המסורים בכל לב ונפש‬ ‫למען קופת עזרה‬

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‫במעמד האדיר "קופתינו" נגיש אותות של‬ ‫הכרת הטוב למען ידידינו הנכבדים העומדים‬ ‫במסירות נפלאה למען קופת עניי עירנו‬

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‫מוה"ר ישראל אברהם‬ ‫שפירא שליט"א‬

‫מוה"ר דוב טעוולאוויטש‬

‫ר עסקנ‬

‫מוה"ר שלום פעדער‬

‫ראש הגזברים של קופת עזרה‬

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‫מוה"ר זושא ברוין שליט"א‬ ‫מחשובי עסקני פרנסינו שע"י קופת עזרה‬

‫ליל שישי פ‘ משפטים‬ ‫כ"ה שבט‬

‫אטריום פלאזא‬

‫קופת עזרה‬

‫דינער תשע”ט‬

‫טיש‬ ‫אונטערן‬ ‫פון "פרנסינו"‬

‫איבערגעגעבן דורך‬

‫הר"ר זושא ברוין‬

‫שליט“א‬

‫מחשובי עסקני פרנסינו‬

‫'מפעל פרנסינו' שע"י 'קופת עזרה' דינט ווי א שדכן צאמצושטעלן‬ ‫תושבי העיר וואס זוכן ארבעט‪ ,‬מיט ביזנעס אייגענטומער וואס זוכן‬ ‫ארבייטער'ס‪ .‬צום ערשט וועט מען זיצן מיטן אינגערמאן און זען אין‬ ‫וועלכער פעלד ליגט זיינע פעאיגקייטן‪ ,‬דערנאך לייגט מען זיך אריין בלב‬ ‫ובנפש אים צו טרעפן א פאסיגע פאסטן‪ ,‬אזוי אויך וועט מען אים‬ ‫ווייטער באגלייטן לאורך כל הדרך‪.‬‬ ‫ווי אויך האט 'פרנסינו' א שטאב פון מומחים וואס העלפן‬ ‫ארויס תושבי העיר מיט ייעוץ והדרכה‪ .‬אזוי אויך טוט‬ ‫מען כסדר פארהאנדלען סכסוכים צווישן ארבייטער‬ ‫און בעה"ב‪ ,‬און דערמיט האט מען שוין אנגעהאלטן‬ ‫צענדליגע ארבעט פאזיציעס‪.‬‬ ‫עס איז נישט שייך אראפצולייגן וויפיל מיה און‬ ‫ארבעט‪ ,‬טעג און נאכט‪ ,‬עס ליגט אין יעדע‬ ‫איינציגע דזשאב וואס מיר שטעלן צוזאם‪ .‬עס‬ ‫לוינט זיך אבער אלע ארבעט אין די וועלט‬ ‫צו האבן די זכי' אוועקצושטעלן א איד‬ ‫זאל קענען אריינברענגען פרנסה‬ ‫אין שטוב‪.‬‬

‫תושבי מאנסי‬

‫רופט אייך אן מיט לכה"פ‬

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‫טים‬

‫צו דערהערן די‬ ‫וויי‪-‬געשריי‬ ‫פון עניי עירנו‬

‫קופת עזרה‬

‫אטריום פלאזא‬

‫א נאכט פאר די מאנסי קאסע‬ ‫פון די מאנסי איינוואוינער‬

‫דינער תשע”ט‬

‫א בליק‬ ‫אויף די אקטיוויטעטן פון פרנסינו‬

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‫פרנסינו האט פארגאנגענע יאר‬

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‫צו קענען אריינברענגען פרנסה אין שטוב‪.‬‬

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‫שמחת החתונה של החתן בן הרה"ג ר' אהרן קאהן אב"ד תולדות אהרן מאנסי בן האדמו"ר מתולדות אהרן‬

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‫‪PHOTO CREDIT: JDN‬‬

‫הנגיד החסיד ר' חיים מענדל מאשקאוויטש הי"ו בניחום אבלים אצל מחותנו הגאון ר' אליקים‬ ‫ובנו הגאון ר' מאיר שלעזינגער היושבים שבעה על פטירת אשתו‪/‬אמו הרבנית ע"ה‬

‫‪PHOTO CREDIT: JDN‬‬

‫סיום ובחינה על סוגיא יאוש שלא מדעת בכתה ה' בישיבה דגל התורה‬

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‫צופרידענע עלטערן!‬ ‫צופרידענע קינדער!‬ ‫בס״ד‬

‫‪ 3‬חינוך‪-‬וויכטיגע שיעורים‬ ‫פאר איש וביתו‬ ‫אין א געשמאקע אטמאספער‬

‫די מנהלי רוחניים‬ ‫מוסדות החינוך‬ ‫פון‬

‫לייענט‬ ‫צו ערשט‬ ‫די שורות‪:‬‬

‫א‪ ,‬דרכי אבות‪-‬צאנז‬ ‫בעלז‬ ‫בית דוד‪ ,‬ץ‪ ,‬סקווירא‪ ,‬פאפא‬ ‫וויזני רג‪ ,‬ראכמיסטריווקא‬ ‫צאנז‪-‬קלויזענבו‬

‫אנדירן די חשוב'ע‬ ‫רעקאטמערן צו די דאזיגע‬ ‫עלוויכטיגע שיעורים‪.‬‬

‫יעדע טאטע‪ ,‬יעדע מאמע‪,‬‬ ‫זוכט צו געבן דעם בעסטן חינוך‪.‬‬ ‫א גוטער‪-‬חינוך מיינט אוועקשטעלן‬ ‫די קינדער אויף אן ערליכן תורה'דיגן‬ ‫שטייגער פארן גאנצן לעבן‪.‬‬ ‫עס איז שוין יארן וואס הרב חיים צבי‬ ‫יאקאב שליט״א פון א״י איז ‪ -‬מער ווי‬ ‫אויסערגעוונטליך ‪ -‬מצליח‪ ,‬צו געבן‬ ‫פאר עלטערן די שליסלעך פאר׳ן‬ ‫בעסטן סארט חינוך‪.‬‬ ‫סיי וואס ער זאגט סיי ווי אזוי ער זאגט‬ ‫עס ‪ -‬באגלייט מיט אינטרעסאנטע‬ ‫סליידס און געשמאקייט ‪ -‬איז גאר‬ ‫זעלטן‪ .‬מ׳באקומט אלע יסודות און‬ ‫ידיעות קלאר און שארף מיט צו‬ ‫נעמען פארן פראקטישן לעבן‪.‬‬ ‫טויזנטער עלטערן געניסן שוין פון א‬ ‫שינוי לטובה אין דעם אופן פון פירן‬ ‫זייער שטוב‪ .‬א דאנק הרב יאקאב‬ ‫שליט״א‪ .‬איצט וועט דער חרדישער‬ ‫מאנסי אויך פון דעם נהנה זיין‪.‬‬

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‫הר״ר חיים צבי יאקאב‬

‫שליט״א‬

‫די ‪ 3‬טעמעס פון די ‪ 3‬שיעורים‪:‬‬

‫דינסטאג יתרו‬

‫‪1‬‬

‫א געזונטער נפש ‪ -‬ווי אזוי צו מחנך‬ ‫זיין קינדער צו האבן די כוחות אנצוגיין‬ ‫אפילו ווען מ׳האט א שוועריקייט‪.‬‬

‫מאנטאג משפטים‬

‫‪2‬‬

‫אמת׳ע קשר ‪ -‬ווי אזוי קומט מען‬ ‫אן צום העכסטן לעוועל האבן‬ ‫קשר מיט יעדן קינד באזונדער‪.‬‬

‫מיטוואך משפטים‬

‫‪3‬‬

‫שטארקע דיסיפלין ‪ -‬אז א יא איז יא‪,‬‬ ‫און א ניין איז ניין ‪ -‬ווי ביים שלאפן‬ ‫גיין א‪.‬ד‪.‬ג‪ - .‬און דאך מיט ליבליכקייט‪.‬‬

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