APRIL NOWLIN

April Nowlin supports people who are ready to experience the joy and freedom of real healing after a failed relationship and create a life they love April is a Certified Divorce Recovery, Dating, and Business Coach As a 3-time divorcee, shes weathered the storms of transition and learned the techniques to fully heal and thrive after a broken relationship. April is a published author, inspiring speaker, podcast host, and workshop leader who combines relatable storytelling, humor, and authenticity April has created unique solutions for people who want to crush the barriers to their personal and business success

Outside of entrepreneurship. Who is April in 5 words?

Adventurous, Compassionate, Relentless, Empowered, Funny

How did you get your start in counseling and coaching?

From a young age, I’ve had a passion for helping people achieve their goals and a knack for thinking outside of the box to solve problems While working for organizations that created tools for small businesses, I realized how much I enjoyed helping them grow In 2013 I launched a business consulting venture to help entrepreneurs create sustainable businesses that affected change in their community and fulfilled their purpose In 2021 I added life coaching to my repertoire after realizing that the success of a business was very closely tied to the personal success of the business owner

What sparked your interest in divorce recovery specifically?

In 2019 I navigated my third divorce, and through my healing process, I experienced firsthand the massive gap in the level of support for people processing a devastating heartbreak This was even more prevalent in faith-based communities. There was an abundance of help for single, engaged, and married individuals, but resources for those experiencing divorce were scarce One of the reasons it took me 20 years to break the cycle of toxic relationship habits was the lack of niche support that was relatable to my unique situation I set out to become the help I needed many years ago I was determined to give my pain a purpose and help others to create a life of freedom, joy, and independence

Can you share the benefits of having a certified Divorce recovery coach as part of your divorcing process?

As with any healing process, whether it be physical, mental, or emotional, having the right support greatly increases your chances of lasting healing A divorce recovery coach is specially trained to advise individuals on important decisions to be made when contemplating divorce and going through the process They are experts in supporting people who are recovering from the fallout of failed relationship

Counselors and therapists are valuable resources that often focus on the past; a divorce recovery coach is futurefocused, honing in on where you are now and where you want to be Working with a divorce recovery coach can greatly ease the distress of rebuilding a life after heartbreak

You have gone through 3 divorces and have been able to bounce back and transition into the best version of you. Can you share a little about your experience and what made you realize you had to fully heal in order to move forward?

My daughter, who was 10 years old during my last divorce, was the catalyst to seek lasting healing I knew my actions were going to shape her perception and expectations of intimate relationships As a close second, I was sick and tired of the same relationship outcomes I’m sure age, maturity, and exhaustion played a role in this major turning point, but at the core of me, I simply wanted something different for my future I did not want to get to the end of my life and have a road of regrets to reflect on I made the intentional choice to look inward, asked for help, focused on my toxic patterns, and did the hard work to see real change

What message do you hope women take away from your platform?

Divorce is a death but not a death sentence Despite the trauma of a failed marriage, the divorce recovery process doesnt have to be a dreadful experience It can be a golden opportunity to redesign your life just the way you want it Starting over and loving your life again can seem like the greatest impossibility, but your broken relationship is just one chapter in your story, and your story doesn’t end there You are stronger than you think; with the right support and resources, you can turn your trauma into triumph

Tell us about your book and your target audience with this work?

Move The Finish Line: A Healing Journey of Pain and Purpose was written as part of my healing process following my third failed marriage In the book, I share my raw and authentic thoughts and revelations about what led me to experience three divorces over a span of 20 years and identify the tools to end the cycle of toxic relationship choices

What is next for you?

While helping my clients to bounce back from unhealthy relationships, I realized how beneficial it would be to prepare them to avoid those relationships altogether In 2022 I launched a new program focused on healthy dating for those who are ready to re-enter the dating world These resources help people to understand unhealthy dating patterns, recognize blind spots, and assist with creating a personalized dating strategy. My next phase will include new group coaching programs, services, and workshops, delivered virtually and in person, to help break toxic relationship habits

What is your definition of a Pretty Woman Who Hustles?

When I think of Pretty Women Who Hustles, I envision the woman who is relentless and unstoppable at achieving her goals, dreams, and purpose She is not perfect but uses her challenges as a catalyst to propel her to her destiny