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EDITORIAL LETTER Everyone desires happiness. Everyone dreams to live in a loving relationship, life is interwoven into harmony. I look at people, distant spectator attention, and I see the world, everything is different. Nothing is the same, nothing is permanent. There is not a form of love, love is not the same language. The development of harmonious relations so as to use the law of attraction: there who is working perfectly, and there is that does not always succeed. A closer look at this magazine. Theresia Valoczy Editor in Chief Conscious Creators Magazine, May/June, 2016
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CONSCIOUS CREATORS
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TABLE OF CONTENTS LOVING RELATIONSHIP -HOW TO ATTRACT WONDERFUL PEOPLE INTO OUR LIVES By Toby Negus.................................................................5 HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR SOUL MATE By Patricia LeBlanc, RMT, IARP.................................12 LOVE, GRATITUDE, FORGIVENESS By Theresia Valoczy........................................................19 INTERVIEW WITH THE INNER VOICE By Edith Siklosi...............................................................26 ONCE UPON A TIME By Karen Wiltshire.........................................................36 IS YOUR LIFE AS MAGICAL AS IT SHOULD BE? By Lisa Marie Rosati......................................................42 ME, MYSELF AND I . THE ULTIMATE RELATIONSHIP By Elena Cheremet.........................................................49 HOW TO ATTRACT LOVE INTO YOUR LIFE THE LAW OF RECIPROCITY AND RELATIONSHIP By Jennifer Low..............................................................57 THE MAGICAL WORLD OF NUMBERS MAY...NUMBER FIVE...TAKING OFF NATURE'S SPANDEX! By Elizabeth Summers...................................................62
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LOVING RELATIONSHIP HOW TO ATTRACT WONDERFUL PEOPLE INTO OUR LIVES By Toby Negus Our relationships with other people can be among the most challenging and wonderful experiences we have in our life. Providing us with a mirror of who we are, the good, bad and ugly of us and a sacred space to share the loves we feel about life.
I have a loving relationship with my cat - but humans can be tricky!
It’s easy and simple to have a loving relationship with our cat or dog but our relationships with other humans can be anything but simple. Because we humans are anything but simple, we bring to any relationship our life time of experience and the thousands of feelings and meanings that we have because of it. This coupled with the thousands of
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feelings from the other person can make for an interesting and sometimes dynamic experience! It’s important to choose and attract the right kind of ‘dynamic’ (person) that we want to share our life with because our relationships are a profound influence upon our lives. Depending on the depth of the relationship, we become open to them, connected to them and who they are flows down that connection to us. We integrate with it and in deep relationships, marry with the energy, essences and meanings about life that the other person carries. This makes it important that the people we choose as friends and those we choose to love are compatible to who we love to be in ourselves.
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We can’t really love another more that we can love ourselves. If we are not good at loving ourselves we will always struggle to truly love another.
We can’t expect a loving relationship if we do not love ourselves, it’s like trying to stop the wars in the world without stopping the war within ourselves:, it isn’t going to happen. We will attract whatever goes with the frequency and energy that we are sending out into the world. That’s the law of attraction. So, to attract a loving relationship we must first have enough self love. going on in ourselves to be an attraction for other loving people to respond to. Self love is vital in creating and maintaining a loving relationship because: 1. The deeper we love ourselves the more we are in touch with our true heart feelings. a. The less our decisions are clouded by
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our lack of self worth. b. The less we act out of defence or attack because we know we are OK not perfect, but OK.
2. The deeper we love ourselves the more we cherish our well being. a. Our well being becomes our guide as to what we will or will not do, who we will and will not share our life with.
3. Creating self love builds compassion of self and because of that for others, that’s has got to be good for any relationship!
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Toby has studied and taught spiritual and personal development in the UK and around the world for over three decades. This journey has caused the acquisition of an abundant treasure of principles that help free the mind and heal the heart in practical and sustainable ways. Toby’s passion inspires and facilitates others to let go of unhelpful habits , wherever a person finds themselves in their lives, and find the courage which releases the heartfelt, wisdom and peace that comes from a life lived according to ones deepest wishes and values.
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HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR SOUL MATE By Patricia LeBlanc, RMT, IARP If you are looking to attract the love you want and deserve, then you are in the right place, as I will show you how to attract your soul mate by using the Law of Attraction. Here is my step by step process that I use with my clients to attract their soul mate. Start by loving and be happy with yourself You need to start by accepting and loving yourself unconditionally. It all starts from within YOU. Are you able to spend time by yourself without feeling restless or hating it? If you cannot spend time alone, how do you expect someone else to want to spend time with you? Make it a point at least once a week to schedule a date with yourself and do something that you love doing. You can either go for brunch/supper, by taking a nice bath, or going for a massage, facial, and/or manicure/pedicure. You deserve to be spoiled and the only person you should expect to spoil you is YOU! Tell yourself regularly that you love yourself. At first, it may not seem natural, and that is OK. Make it point to tell yourself at least 2-3 times a day that you love yourself. Say it in front of a mirror. With time, you will start believing it. Also, make yourself a priority in your own life. Take time to nourish the relationship you have with yourself and to be in touch with you. Let go of the your past 12
Before you can attract love, you need to let go of your past. Are you still madly in love with your ex? Do you have resentment or anger towards your ex? If yes, then you need to start letting go of the resentment, anger, or any negative feelings you have towards them. One good way to release your ex from your past is to write a letter to each of your exes. (Don’t worry, you do not need to mail it to them). In the letter, write everything that you feel. Do not hold on to anything. After you are done with the letter, write another letter but now from your ex’s point of view. After you are done, burn safely both letters, as you are now releasing any feeling you have. Notice how much lighter you feel. Creating your soul mate list Before you can attract your soul mate, you need to be very clear about what you want. How can the Universe give you what you want if you do not know what you want? The Universe wants to help you attract your soul mate, but you need to be very clear. Here is a list to get you started. Feel free to add more to your own personal list. Abundant, Adorable, Affectionate, Ambitious, Articulate, Beautiful Bubbly, Caring, Charismatic, Creative, Considerate, Emotionally Available Enjoys (life, pets, etc… add what is important to you), Family oriented 13
Fun, Generous with their time and/or money, Happy, Healthy Independent, Intelligent, Loves to‌. (Add whatever it is that is important for you) Loving, Nurturing Playful, Self-secured, Sexy, Sensuous, Spiritual Successful, Supportive, Talented You also need to specify if your soul mate is male or female. Do not focus on what you do not want, instead focus on what you do want. You attract what you focus on. After you make your list, turn them into affirmation. Write them down on paper. Here is an example of affirmations that you can use. I am in a healthy relationship with a healthy, successful, funny, intelligent man. My male soul mate is sexy, sensuous, tall, dark, and handsome. He is loving to his family and friends. He is generous with his money and time, and I am a priority in his life. He enjoys tennis, travelling, walking, going out to restaurants, and discovering new places. He complements me perfectly. Thank you Universe for giving me my male soul mate. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Repeat these affirmations every morning and night for at least the next 21 days. Be who you want to attract
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Now that you made the list of what you want in your soul mate, you need to become who you want to attract. Go through the list that you made and ask yourself if you have those qualities. If you are looking for someone loving and affectionate, and you are neither, then you need to become loving and affectionate. If you are noticing that you do not have most of the qualities in the list, do not worry. Start by taking 1-2 qualities and work on becoming that every day until it becomes natural, and then move on to a few more qualities, until you are a mirror of your soul mate. You attract who you are, so be who you want to attract. Take action and live in the now Ever noticed that some people are always living in the future? They tell themselves, I will be happy once I am with my soul mate, or that I will be happy once I am married. What do you think happens when you think this way? You will never meet your soul mate, as you are living in the future. Chance are too, you are not happy. Start living in the NOW! When you live in the moment, you start taking action. You will also attract better people and will be a much happier person, as you do not put any expectation on your happiness. When you notice that you start telling yourself, “I will be happy when …” stop yourself in that moment. Start by telling yourself that you are happy right now because you choose to be. Do not put value in 15
something or someone else to be happy. Also, start believing that you deserve to be happy. You need to take action. How can you take action? Start by telling all of your friends what the qualities of your soul mate are that is on the list. Ask them to introduce you to anyone who meets the characteristics of that list. Be open to the possibilities, as you will meet your soul mate when you least expect it, so you need to be ready to take action when the opportunity arises. Go out. Go to events that you love. It could be museums, sporting events, musical events, networking events, or any type of events that you love. You will increase your chances of meeting your soul mate. Also, you will be feeling great and happy, so you will attract the same. Next thing you know, you will meet your soul mate. Remember to enjoy the ride. Happy Manifesting!
Patricia LeBlanc is a dream maker. She empowers
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heart centered business owners to manifest what is best for them. Using a holistic approach, she helps them to get out of their own way, get clear on what they truly want and teaches them how to attract it into their own life so that they can live a happy, fulfilled and abundant life. Patricia is the multi-gifted CEO of Patricia LeBlanc International Inc., a #1 Best Selling Author/Compiler/Publisher and 9X International Best Selling Author, International Speaker, and Alignment and Manifesting Strategist. To learn more about Patricia and how she can help you, please visit her website www.ManifestingStrategist.com and while you are there don’t forget to download your copy of her free E-Book Manifesting a New Life.
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CONSCIOUS CREATORS MAGAZINE'S HIGHLY RECOMMENDED BOOK With daily mantras of love and sacred feminine power, Messages From Shakti provides 24 days of illumination on inner power, the inspiration to cultivate more sacred selflove, and mantras to attract more confidence and beauty to you. This is a must-have guide to make strength, beauty, power and grace a foundation for your life. But this book is so much more than daily mantras and a selfhelp guide. It is an essential tool for turning on your feminine light and it is a path to power and freedom from pain. Written by inspirational bestselling author, Zinnia Gupte is an expert at connecting women with their souls' desires and is passionate about helping women embrace their sacred feminine power. She has navigated the journey herself, and today she embodies everything Shakti represents. Zinnia Gupte is also a speaker, priestess and a sacred dancer who teaches sacred dance every year in Spain at the Ibiza Spirit Festival. Every healing process requires a dedicated practice, and the wisdom contained in Messages From Shakti will guide you to open your heart and create the life you long for. The life you deserve.
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LOVE, GRATITUDE, FORGIVENESS By Theresia Valoczy Everyone dreams of his life full of harmonious relations. Surround with love and blessings. But how can this be achieved? "A loving and happy relationship midpoint of you� - Sent a message to the Angels. - You were always well. The live inside you "love" is determined by the quality of your relationships. The fact that you can give love and able to receive depends on whether you believe that you are worthy of love? Do you believe that your life can be part of any good? Whether you believe that you are valuable? If you accept, you appreciate and love yourself, you become able to create in a magical relationship. And now not only think about the love relationship, the same applies to the parentchild, teacher-student relationship is God and People. If you are able to love yourself, you are able to receive love, which flows from the outside. " Knowledge of the Universal Laws of great help in the development of relationships. If you get to know them and begin to apply in your own life, you'll find yourself surrounded by miracles everywhere.
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The Law of Love What if your love directed to start growing. Flourish and Embellished. What you embrace with love is changed. Takes off the dirty energies and begins to breathe. It comes to life, and reflects the loving, positive smile.
The Law of Gratitude Why give thanks for what you rate, you give it energy. It is like a seed sown nutrients. Healing rays out of you, light and blessings for others and yours is filled with brilliance. The Law of Forgiveness: Everything you forgive, frees you and others from suffering. When you consciously choose to forgive, you open up wings are raised with love in the air. "The center of the loving and happy relationship you are" - you remember, what the Angels said to me. Do you love yourself? Honestly? Pure heart? Would you appreciate yourself? Are you able to make it to relate to yourself, as you want others to relate to you? The lack of self-love caused a lot of problems in relationships. When one party (or both) does not evaluate himself and protesting against the people 20
who lives in it (a real person), waiting for the others to lift herself. Because love is something that imagines things, which flows inwards from the outside, it measures the value obtained in the amount of love. (Attention, gift) Look at the love relationship... Look at the parent and child misguided relationships (If you're good, you'll get something. I'll give you something that meets the others, I'll be loving) Look at thePeople-God relationship (I praying regularly, I get what I want?) It is time to change this. 1. Believe in yourself! 2. You shall love yourself, appreciate good qualities! I know everyone has properties which cannot be changed and is not satisfied with them. Well, do not try to change them. Focus on what you love yourself! If you do not like your waist size but you love your hand. Love it! Practice What do you like yourself? - write down every day for 21 days, at least 10 things that you love yourself. Write down why ‌ The self-love and self-esteem problems may result from previous relationships, etc. from childhood. It 21
is therefore very important to recognize that the root causes and completely forgive those who caused it unknowingly. Practice Take a sheet of paper and start to write your old partners, friends, parents' names. When you're done, take prompt them to summon up the memories. Has something happened, which is why we should forgive them? Are you angry, angry for them for some reason? Please do not forget yourself off this list ... often forgive ourselves for everything to be the most... (Some years ago, a teenage boy was talking; he did not want to learn. - He said this about himself, but he seemed very interested in different topics. I asked him to tell me about the school, which involves During the conversation repeatedly said one of the teacher's name... he said he does not like this teacher when he told his opinion of a certain topic, the teacher said not to talk further, because he don't know the answer. - This schism brought about self-esteem truth as adopted, and it shows the school results... I suggested to him to release the teacher. Forgive him completely. - Now go to college and study marine-biologist).
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Forgive all those who appear on your list. Say the name, and then use the following text forgiving: "I forgive you completely, let you go. Go in peace and blessing accompany your way� When you start something to turn to a debt of gratitude to the changes. Put your focus on moments of your life when something extraordinary has happened to you. Remember a success! Remember that when beautiful, attractive made you feel! Remember that when you help someone! Remember when you felt beloved, as you are very fond of! Be grateful for these moments. Start a gratitude journal, and after waking up every morning to write down at least 10 things for which you are grateful. Focus on the desired improved connections! For example, if your mother is not balanced, you can visit every day 10-10 of the things you can thank him. For example: brown color of your hair is amazing... These three basic knowledge of the law become able to create in your life harmonious relationships. 23
Be it any relationship, you are able to change it. Love yourself! Forgive! Be grateful for your life, for people, for this event in your life. Trust yourself! Believe in the functioning of the Universe! Create the magic of relationships! TheresiaValoczy is certified hypnotherapist, LOA coach, #1 Bestselling author, Certified in Indigo Studies. She helps people to change their lives and manifest their dreams. She coach female and MLM enterpreneurs with business and artist start-ups and mentoring under 25 years old. She helps her clients to discover and find their passion and grow their business, develop personality. Her main aim is to teach people how to use their creativity energy and The Universal Laws to complete their Life. You can contact Theresia via: www.consciouscreatorsmag.com
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MANIFESTING 101: HOW I MANIFESTED MY TRUE LOVE Podcast By Peggy Nolan
I'm a big believer in Ask. Believe. Receive. If I ask for something but don't believe I am deserving or worthy of what "it" is, then I won't receive it. This probably explains why it's easy for all of us to attract so much negativity in our lives - because we don't believe we are worthy of receiving all the good stuff. After being divorced for three years and doing a lot of inner work and practicing forgiveness so I could move on, I came to a point where I really, truly, deeply believed that I deserved to be with a man who was truly, madly, deeply in love with me and that I felt the same way about him. Tune in as I share my story about how I manifested the love of my life! http://letgomoveforward.podbean.com/e/manifestin g-101-how-i-manifested-my-true-love/
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INTERVIEW WITH THE INNER VOICE
By Edith Siklosi The human experiences are characterized by a flood of our age. Every experiences are a journey toward to the wholeness, and as if it was something, forces us to rush. As if to suggest "Faster, faster!"The informations are breaking us with a vollcanic force. We were almost no time to dissection a problem and to jump to a conclusion. Therefore, many people are uncertain, and a number of open questions remain, which we can not do anything. Perhaps now it is the time, the incline to stop in a little bit and think about. Life is a perpetual development, and now our time is limited. Do you think there is actually beginning or end? Yes, defined as the length of human life. It is not true. Life is an endless series of events that are repeated over and over again, but in another capacity, and in another physical body, but the soul is yours. Perhaps it could be explain the more graphically, if you stay on a ball and getting start on it (be it, e.g.; our Globe). You will go out, but the road will never run out. You just go one way, but next to you countless , the search never stops. 26
The roads are different, so you can choose to your`s liking. Your experiences will decide you are on the right direction, or you will change another direction. I understand, but maybe not. From the moment of birth our brains continueosly making "recordings" in which from we associating with the feelings the memories are formed. Have you ever have a feeling of a smell, a sound, a light, you had identified? Yes. For example, I felt the smell of love. Our memories stored in our consciousness and subconsciousness to recall them at the right moment. Family patterns, relationships are mapped, which are implanted in our lives. Many people like the mother or father model to carry on their relationship. Yes, but this has their own dangers. An incorrectly crafted image may temporarily affect our actions. Let me give you an example. My father looked at my mother weaker and therefore will not feel free until a couple of my weakness not I concluded. But the years have made me realize something I only understood as an adult. My father has always been stronger than my mother. His love is placed in front 27
of my mother, so it was indulgent towards him. So it is today, when I see his efforts to the beloved woman for whom in silence, to be up in anything to glorify her days. What is your advice to young people? How to choose a couple? First, get to know themselves. They should be aware of their personal values and incompletenesses. Do not pressing for external opportunities, to tone the inside. This is true but you say it all so scientifically. Given a young adolescent who is now openings his wings. He thinks he knows everything about life, because they had seen this and that. What would you say to him? You know, sometimes I use to engage with astrology. I have three children, one of whom is a girl. The problems easier to process with me not with his father. When she entered the adolescence and began to deal with the boys, continuously collected the birth formulas and asked that ,with him or with another boy, what will be the relationship. I told for her honestly what I saw. One night she came home and told me You were right, but I had to experience. I could only say - I agree. You're right. In her own experience in life is the most important, because it shapes the personality. Who ordered you from life, it's going to pop up at 28
the right moment, be experiences and learn lessons offered by the life. Lately almost become fashionable the single lifestyle. What do you think? One of the fundamental reasons for the problem of single lifestyle, self-realization, whatever does not fit into a joint. We don`t live in the old, familiar ways, everything moved a little towards to the individual freedoms. Another fundamental reason what I feel is the lack of conviction the necessity of the relationship. But ideally, in connection with positive thoughts we would be able to attract the true love to our lives. What do you think about the good relationship? Not possessive, above all permissive. The ideal relationship in which the couple are able to separate themselves, realize they are free to enjoy themselves, born with a determinate lifetask. Because of our differencies we have to adapt to each other. Understanding the others problems guarantee of a balanced co-created, which promotes the development of our spirituality.
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Speaking of soul! Talk a bit about it. Our soul get codes. These codes are converted our look like, our attributes, and at that moment the events whatever happened to us. So our souls have the opportunity to our lives. Because everything comes from us, there will be a product of our own thoughts. So it seems like the happiness is nothing more than a decision? It would be that simple? That is true. Our life consists the plurality of a fragment of a second. It is full of pleasant and less pleasant feelings. The fact that which we build into our life and which we let go, is only the result of our decision. When our wishes are realistic and do not exceed our ability, or desire things what can be available for us, and we do not deal with unreachable targets, then we will be happy. Accordingly our potential is still huge, only we have to be able to sort out well. Yes, this is what life is about , and something else. In that selection we could also ask for and receive help, but we have to realize at the earliest time , that really only one person`s opinion we can rely on, there is only one person could stand beside us, and that someone is no one else, then ourselves. 30
Tell me, please what it's that makes you happy? A lot of things. My family, my dog, my job. When the sun is shining, when the first tulip comes out from the ground, when the trees are blossoms, or if a pleasant environment surrounded by me with loving people. A good movie , or a performance, a wonderful concert, journeys, a glad conversation, a lecture, which is surrounded by inquiring glances, or when I can help others, and I can see the positive results. What are your tasks nowadays? We have created a foundation in which all branches of the arts, and most specifically the talented artists we support around the world. People need to have their creative works to rise to the vibrations and thus to spend energy. Be it music, a book, a movie or a theatrical work, a graphically works, or even a cake artfully prepared. It is a very big challenge The challenge is really big, but I found many wonderful working companion with whom to work with joy. You know, we all have one aim, to achieve perfect happiness. 31
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Exciting life, special experiences - it's characterized Edith Siklosi, who was born in Hungary, Budapest. With her psychological, direct relationship abilities, her suggestivity has provided a helping hand to many people. She was choosing the existence of healing even if she's an economist. The healing, which have got an unusual meaning in her expression toolbox. "Be creative! Enjoy the arts! Love, and have great laugh! Live as you have forever life. " Since 20 years, Edith provides a variety of healing methods. She loves to work with disabled people. Their impressive recovery, a miracle, which brings tears to the eyes.
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CONSCIOUS CREATORS MAGAZINE'S HIGHLY RECOMMENDED BOOK
'The Sacred You' (by Toby Negus)is a weaving of practical and uplifting, intelligent insights, awareness' and guidance about who we are and of our wonderful, unique and individual potential. It gives a lift if you are feeling low, or/and is simply most enjoyable and thought-provoking if you are interested in the contemplation and inspiration of your Sacred Self. These books are not religious, they are spiritual in the widest sense. There is no preaching to believe in anything, but Toby's words and illustrations gently lead the reader into a profound place of Who You Are, and there is the space within the pages and the contemplation that they provoke, to weave your own experiences of life and its meaning for you whilst one receives the feeling of being held in a place of trust and of the divine. The Sacred You is also filled with beautiful illustrations throughout the pages alongside the text, which are an inspiration in themselves. YOU CAN BUY IT HERE: getBook.at/The-Sacred-You
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ONCE UPON A TIME By Karen Wiltshire Love to me comes from the depths of one's soul. No two people can define, feel, give or receive love in the same manner. Love cannot be measured, at times it cannot be explained. No one tell another what they feeor don't feel. Not one person has that power over another. Love is raw, it can be beautiful and it can hurt. Love is holding on to someone, when they cannot hold onto themselves. Love is forgiveness for those who live in glass houses! For those who throw stones as a result of assumtion. Love is when someone says " I love you" and you can turn to them and say "I know". How is the Law of Attraction used to attract Love? We need to remember that our vibrations both positive and negative are set out into the Universe. If we are experiencing negative emotion we will attract negative people and unfortunate outcomes will be bestowed upon us. Let's take the tragic love of Romeo and Juliet (one of Shakespearss finest playwrites). Barbara Shultz, a critic review states "Romeo and Juliet" has it all, clever dialogue, passionate romance, violent 36
conflict, and plenty of poetry. Romeo's love for Juliet is beautiful, intense and causes his behviour to become somewhat exreme. As for Juliet, her love for Romeo starts off logical and she is quite rational. As time passes, Juliet comes 'undone' so to speak. When she believes Romeo to be dead, her shear intense love for him drives her to take her own life. Juliet takes a daggar and plunges it deep into her broken heart. "Good night, good night. Parting is such sweet sorrow. That I shall say good night till it be, morrow (2.2 197.8) Juliet. Then there is love defined by the bible (Rich Deem) "God is love". we each have a great capacity to love , as we 'are created in God's image'. In the New Testament, the Greek language uses the the word 'agape to reference Gods love for us whether we put out unpleasant thoughts towards this love or great joy and deep apprectiation for this unconditional and constant love. "Agape, love gives and sacrifices, expecting nothing in return. We all can use our energy to flow back for Gods love, when we 'ask, believe. you give up any resistence and you start to receive. When we are aware of our thoughts and the absolute correlations between them and what or 37
who we wish to manifest in our lives we can celebrate the births of these dreams. For me the greatest dreams that came to me are my girls, Kate and Meg. We have 'agape' kind of love for each other. My girls are truly, the loves of my life. Something that still astounds me to this day is....that God chose me to be their mother. As a parent I feel It is essential to provide safety and love to our children. To create an atmosphere for children where they feel valued and are worthy of an abundant life. To teach them to focus on things , actions and people that feel good for them. To explain the benefits of the expending positive energy and to be very much aware of all they can give thanks for. We can teach our children that the more they appreciate the more good they will want to do for themselves, friends, classmates or those less fortunate the themselves. They will be attracting great love in their lives, especially loving themselves . Parents need to teach children that when bullies appear in their lives, they need to draw upon their deep inner strength to block the negatives forces that are trying to weigh them down. They need to remember that they do not deserve this behaviour and to walk away from that darkness. Children are love and they deserve harmonious connections. Perhaps these negative individuals don't know how to love. 38
When Kate and Meg were young, before they left for school I would say.....'Have the best day of your whole life. Put a smile on your face and don't forget to share all your wondeful ideas. Always remember to tell the truth and for every time you are thinking of me, I am thinking of you at the exact same time'. I knew that Kate and Meg had no doubts about how deeply loved they were and are by their mom and dad. The bonds shared with our children, are unbreakable, this is predominantly because they felt love before they were born. I feel that all parents or caregivers should be responsible for encouraging children to attract great love in their life whether this is love of learning, love of a hobby, love of sharing, love of their home and love of the environment.The positive energy that flows in their very being, can give them a beautiful loving life, simply by using the Law of Attraction. By no means do I mean a fairy tale life or love. Fairy tale love cannot be nourished, as it is based on illusion.Yes of course I can imagine it to be appealing. There are times in all our lives that we all could use an emotional vacation from our reality. Who doesn't want to be the most beautiful girl in the room. After all we are introduced to 'happily ever after' at a very young age. We are taught that the handsome prince will come along and rescue young women. That the the desires of this prince is all one needs to feel the love. 39
"Once in a while right in the middle of Ordinary life, Love gives us a fairy tale"(quotes gram.com) "No one falls in love by choice, it's by chance. No one stays in love by chance, it is by work. And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice"(love quotes 8 blogspot.ca.) "A heart will never be practical until it is made unbreakable". (The Wizard o Oz). But how do we attract the love we need and desire in this life. I have been so very blessed to feel various types of love. But now at this stage of my life I have had to learn that I have an enourmous heart and after realizing my worth in this world, I am so very ready to share my heart with someone who is waiting for me as much as I am waiting for him. No prince has come along and resurrected my heart, I did that myself!!! So the steps that I am taking to manifest my heart's desires for love include being crystal about what or who I want to attract. As well to believe that I deserve it. I journal every day, I am specific about what it is I am grateful for and what I want. I read what I have written out loud as if I am speaking to my love. I believe that the Universe likes to feel my energy and hear my voice. When negaivity creeps in, which it does now and again, I begin again with my intentions. 40
We influence the Universe with our passion for love. I cannot wait to see what gifts of love I have yet to open. "The best way to predict the future is to create it"
Karen Wiltshire, Certified Transition/Life Coach She uses her intuitive sense; wisdom and knowledge to help others transition from one stage of life to another. Whether it is a loss of a loved one, separation or divorce, Karen brings courage and conviction to her clients. "Grief never ends.it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness ,nor a lack of faith. It is the price for love. Facebook:https://www.facebook.om/karenwiltshire.71 LinkedIn:https://www.likedin.com/pub/1b/10a/453 Website: http://www.yourpeaceofpower.com/ Email: kebwiltshire@hotmail.com
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IS YOUR LIFE AS MAGICAL AS IT SHOULD BE? By Lisa Marie Rosati I’d like to ask you a question… when you wake up in the morning, do you think to yourself, “I love my life?” My answer would have been – “NO” a few years ago. It was only when I began to consciously tap into my feminine energy that I began to fully live and love my life. As women, mothers, business owners, daughters, and friends we are constantly giving, giving, giving… so much so that we feel like our energy is depleted to dangerous lows on a daily basis. My passion and soul work is to help women to tap into their feminine essence and use that divine energy to nourish them so they feel refreshed and fulfilled every day, in EVERY aspect of their lives. The big question I hear all the time is “Lisa, my life is a chaotic mess, where do I start to make sense of it all?” My answer is always the same – you start at square one and get a base line of where you’re at today in the 12 key areas of your life. Humans are holistic creatures, so there are many facets to your life, however I’ve identified 12 key areas that are central to living a Goddess Lifestyle. Each component relates magically and spiritually to the four Cardinal Elements of AIR, WATER, FIRE 42
and EARTH plus SPIRIT. By learning how to work with each of them, you’re guaranteed to see a radical shift in your energy, overall success and relationships. The 12 Life Components To Create Your Goddess Lifestyle Elixir Are: Health & Wellness: Your sacred body vessel needs to be treated with care so that you can feel amazing, energetic, and nourished every day! Mental Clarity: As women we tend to be people pleasers or give into our ego and this causes overwhelm, overload and fuzzy, wishy-washy thinking. By getting rid of those negative attitudes, we clear our mind to make way for personal peace. Love & Romance: Create real intimacy and passion in your relationship, or accept failed relationships. By channeling your feminine energy, you can improve your relationship, or move on to find a mate, lover, and friend who appreciates your Inner Goddess! Family: Make the most of your time spent with your family, husband, children and parents that deepens your bond and provides unconditional love and support. 43
Home: Create altars and sacred spaces throughout your home to connect you to the divine power, and live in rhythm with Goddess, Earth, Moon and Universe in your personal everyday space. Friendships: Release yourself from toxic relationships and attract goddess sisters that lift you up instead of bog you down with drama and negativity. Career: Learn how to escape a soul-sucking job that you thought you wanted, and identify what you’re meant to do for a job that feels true to your talents… and create strategies to make it happen! Personal Growth: Constantly expand your horizons and learn new activities that open the world up where anything is possible! Spirituality: Make spiritual magic, by connecting to your preferred Divine energy or Deity—whether that is Jesus, The Blessed Mother, Allah, Buddha, The Greek Gods and Goddesses, Isis, Cerredwin, Nature, or New Age Spirituality. If your Spirit is disconnected, everything is less magical.”
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out with the girls, go to yoga, meditate, travel— whatever brings you joy without ANY effort, guilt or drama. Financial: Stop the stress and desperate feelings that being deep in debt causes. Identify wants versus needs, and make a plan to get out of debt and start saving to live your goddess life without living beyond your means. Authentic Style: Start rocking your individual goddess style, add funky colors to your hair— whatever reflects your authentic self Like I mentioned earlier, as holistic creatures, if ONE key area of your life is out of alignment, the rest suffer. For example, if you’re overloaded with busy work, you aren’t meeting deadlines, earning your highest potential or finding ideal clients… you’ll have less time to spend with your children, and feel guilty if you take any me time or spend time with friends. It’s a snowball effect and everything just feels off. The only way to create real change is to know what’s working and what’s not. You have to take an honest accounting of where your life is today in order to know what to do to
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create change tomorrow. So, I invite you to take stock and rate each of the 12 key areas of your life on a scale from 1-10 - 10 being amazingly perfect and awesome and 1 being a “you have to be kidding me” level of sucky. Be totally honest and focus on your life as it is today, not yesterday and not as you wish it were. SCORES • 1-3 should be addressed right away with a strategic plan you action on ASAP! • 4-7 rated items can be second on the list. • 8-10 are areas that you can continue to let flow and progress as they have been. If you find you have many areas that need work just pick one or two areas to focus on at a time. Trying to do too much will make it hard to get anything done. I am a firm believer that slow and steady wins the race. I’ve always been an Alchemist… it brings me great pleasure to take something that’s “not so great” and turn it into fabulous. Alchemy is the medieval practice of attempting to turn base metals into gold to find a universal elixir. Over time we have
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learned that it’s not scientifically possible to turn lead into gold; however I’m a big fan of using alchemy in a symbolic way… the process of transformation from crap to fabulous. YOU can use alchemy to transform your life; I call this magical process Goddess Lifestyle Alchemy™. Begin your transformation by doing the above exercise. Beltane is upon us, so it’s the perfect time to work on relationships and in my opinion the most important relationship to begin with, is your relationship with YOU. From that place of selflove, you are guaranteed to call in fabulous people and experiences to enjoy for years to come. May your Beltane celebrations be blessed and full of passion and mirth, and may the next six months be the best of this year for you. That’s my wish. I hope your life continues to surprise you in powerful and joyous ways. Always. And so it is.
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Lisa Marie Rosati is a leading global Success Coach for spiritual women and soulful entrepreneurs. She’s the Creatrix of The Goddess Lifestyle Plan™ & The Goddess Lifestyle Sisterhood™, Expert Columnist for Aspire Magazine, International Best Selling Author and a renowned transformation catalyst for women. Lisa’s passion is to inspire and empower spiritual women to magically create an abundant life and prosperous business they love! Learn more about Lisa’s work by visiting http://www.goddesslifestyleplan.com/ While you’re visiting be sure to download Lisa’s free gift to you, The Magical Goddess Lifestyle Swag Bag! The Design Your Goddess Life Planner will help you identify what your goals and dreams 48
are, what makes you tick, what makes you enthusiastic, happy, refreshed, ecstatic, fulfilled, content, healthy, whole, and authentically YOU! http://www.goddesslifestyleplan.com/goddess-liferecipe-free-gift-page/
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ME, MYSELF AND I . THE ULTIMATE RELATIONSHIP By Elena Cheremet When I was invited to contribute to the relationship issue, my first thought was: “Right. Me, twice divorced in the past and now single for longer than I would care to admit, a relationship expert.” And then, mulling over the idea, I realized that I do have something to share, something other than my past mistakes. In fact, I no longer call them “mistakes”. It’s “lessons learnt” now and I am really glad I got to learn a couple or five. A lesson learnt is the one never to be repeated, this is the best part of them. No remedials, thank you very much. I didn’t have to think too hard to decide which of the lessons learnt I want to share today. Having been around the block a few times, I could tell a handful of fun and instructive stories on relationships in all flavors: from love to friendship to parenthood to partnership. However, it is my deepest belief that the most important relationship in anyone’s life is the relationship with oneself. We might have all heard about it numerous times, but it doesn’t get less true from repetition. “Learn to love and respect yourself first” – the relationship gurus are teaching us, meaning that once achieved, the state of inner love and harmony will be 50
inevitably followed by better relationships with other people. The gurus are quite right, no question about that. The trouble is, this philosophy is fairly recent in our society. For years and years my generation has been taught to put others first, to love and respect people around us. “Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself” says the Bible, and so a lot of us did, religiously observing the first part of the verse and blissfully ignoring the second. Not just in the religious context either. I grew up in the communist Russia where church-going was very much frowned upon, and yet we were encouraged to follow the same idea: a good person was supposed to take care of others before taking care of him or herself. What it often translated to was that the person’s most essential emotional or physical needs were neglected. I am not quite sure how it happened that the wonderfully balanced idea of a harmonious relationship of everyone with everyone went awry and loving one’s neighbor became the opposite of loving oneself, the latter being perceived as selfish and ungenerous. Growing up, I was one of those people who truly put others first. Selfless, I was so eager to please everybody but me. My parents, my siblings, my teachers at school, classmates, friends, co-workers, 51
and later my husband and my own new family. While there is nothing wrong with loving and taking care of your family, friends and people in general, ignoring your own needs will play a cruel trick on you. Pushing your comfort, physical or emotional, to the bottom of your daily to-do list will create resentment. You will inevitably become bitter and unhappy, not to mention you might push your body’s limits a bit too much and get sick. That’s how it was for me and for many other people I knew. I ended up having cancer at the age of 37; failure to meet my emotional needs being high on the list of the probable triggers. There is a reason the safety drills you have to watch every time you board a plane instruct you to put the emergency air mask over your own nose and mouth first, and only then to proceed putting the mask on those in your care: young children or elderly people. Only by making sure you stay conscious and keep breathing can you take care of others. Knocked out, you won’t be much help to anyone. You don’t need to be flying to take good care of yourself. It works the same way on the ground too: the better you feel, the more you can do; the happier you are, the more you can give to those you love. Loving yourself has nothing to do with egoism.
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“Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself” was meant as loving and taking care of yourself first and other people next. This is how the happiness is created in the world, this is how the best relationships are built. It took me a while to understand where exactly my most important relationship went wrong and how to mend it. The road back to myself turned out to be as exciting as any road could be. Along the way, I became a happier person, a kinder mother and a more sympathetic partner. I walked away from some old toxic relationships and built some new ones, happy and peaceful. The following is what loving myself means to me, after all those years of healing and detoxifying. Give or take, I’ve been following this formula since I took up the natural route for cancer-free living. Live clean. Make sure your food, your drink, your home and your thoughts are as clean as can be. Choose to stay away from toxic foods, environments and people. Try to avoid strong medications as they are always toxic. Live in the present. No dwelling in the past or getting carried away by the future plans. The real life happens today, so live it to the
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fullest and enjoy every moment. Trust yourself. Deep inside, you always know what’s best for you. Trust your instincts and they will never let you down. Forgive yourself. It’s only human to error. Understand your mistakes, own them and do your best to fix what can be fixed. But don’t dwell on them and stop the blame game before it even starts. Self-blame never helped anyone be a better person. Forgive others. Once you learn to forgive yourself, it gets much easier to forgive other people. Holding the grudge is such a boring pastime! However, this piece of the equation goes hand in hand with the next one. Respect yourself. Recognize any kind of abuse and walk away from it the minute you see it. This includes you abusing others. Understand your feelings and emotions. Emotional intelligence is the new term for 54
recognizing your feelings and knowing what caused them. This important skill can be learnt, although takes some practice. Learn to love the skin you live in. Easier said than done, it might take time to rediscover the beautiful you. But it’s absolutely worth the time and effort. Take care of your body and your mind. Exercise, take long walks, balance work and play, and know when to take it easy. Spoil yourself. Moderation is the key on this one, and your imagination is the only limit. As a Wellness coach, I offer advice on lifestyle changes that would promote stronger health and help get rid of disease or chronic condition. Healthy relationships are a big part of healthy lifestyle. Being comfortable and happy with yourself attracts healthy relationships with other people.
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Elena Cheremet is a cancer survivor and a committed believer in natural self-healing. She refused chemo and radiotherapy and became cancer-free by changing her diet and lifestyle. She is educating people on how food and energy practice can change the body’s biochemistry gaining health without aggressive therapy. She is writing about health facts and mechanisms in her blog: The Words of Health http://www.wordsofhealth.com/
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HOW TO ATTRACT LOVE INTO YOUR LIFE THE LAW OF RECIPROCITY AND RELATIONSHIP By Jennifer Low Eight years ago, as my marriage was slowly but surely dissolving, my therapist said something to me that changed my life forever! In fact, she started me on my path to deliberate pre-paving. At first she asked me to make a list of my perfect man, which I thought was such a dumb exercise! After all, we all know there is no such thing as a perfect man, right?! I had agreed to do it knowing very well that list would never happen. First of all, I can’t stand writing lists. I have two simple reasons for this: My mom lived her life according to a list. A list was a way of life that was just too rigid for me. I wanted my life to flow and exist in a three dimensional plain, instead of a piece of paper. How could I itemize a “perfect” man on paper? I was surely to forget SOMETHING! In which case I avoided doing this list altogether. A month after the assignment, she asked me again if I had made that list. My answer was still ‘no’ to 58
which she kindly warned that if I did not make that list, Fate would bring me something I did not ask for. Somehow, that day, I understood the importance of that entire exercise. After twenty years of marriage to someone I should have perhaps never been paired with, disappointment certainly lingered and I did not want to invest the next 20 years of my short time on Earth with someone who would be an unworthy match. I proceeded to start that list in the following days. It was quite difficult as I did not know where to start. I had no structure and no one guiding me either. I had to figure out how to build that foundation by myself. And so I did! Writing up this list provided me with clarity to what I wanted and also gave me guidelines to who was suitable for me and to me. I had divided my wish list in three main categories: the deal breakers, the personality and character traits, and who he is in this lifetime, that is to say what makes up his every day life. The deal breakers were clean cut. If the guy did not fit all of those items from that particular category right from the beginning he was not given access through the garden gate. The character traits illustrated who he was at the core and what type of person he was according to how he behaved towards people, animals and things. The third category was about what made up his every day life. What did he do, how did he run his daily life, 59
was he a workaholic, a health freak, a wage earner, a business man, what was his cause, and where did his drive come from. The list kept getting polished over the years, but all in all, I had it “right” the first time. A lot of what I was asking for were some of the best qualities I saw in myself. Commonality would create a lasting bond. It took me six years to find that man that was perfect for me. Six years may seem like an eternity when you are looking for a partner and a life long companion, but it isn’t that long in the span of an entire lifetime. In hindsight, I needed those six years to truly grow myself. I needed to discover who I really was and through that process, make sure I was going to show up as the right person in this forth coming relationship. Yes, he happened and we are a perfect match! More importantly, the entire experience from writing it down on paper to manifesting him into my life has allowed me to help many others in doing the same: to write their list. The magic in making this list actually goes beyond the manifesting itself… It helps people unearth and discover so many other lost and forgotten aspects of their life. So how do you attract love into your life? Finding your perfect match or your soul mate could bring you love. Yet where does love truly come from? Love comes from an interaction between two 60
“things�. We feel love as an emotional response to something, or someone. When I help someone make their list, what I am truly helping them do is to facilitate them to get out of their own way, to reveal to themselves their scars and resentments, as well as their dreams and ambitions. The first and most important relationship you have is the one you have with yourself. That is the source of all of your relationships and all of your interactions. Everything will have a ripple effect from the way you feel and behave; life around you will be affected by how you love. I encourage you, as early as today, right now, to go and make that list of your perfect partner, of your perfect day, of your perfect life, and become the Conscious Creator that you are meant to be. Be loved and then love others.
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If you are finding yourself seeking a new path in life yet can’t figure out how to get out of “stuck”, then Jennifer is the right ally for you! This multi-talented and creative woman will shine her inspirational light onto your path and will guide you step by step towards clarity and results. She will show you how to go from something that doesn’t work, to something that does, and more importantly to something that will fit more harmoniously with who you naturally are. Jennifer is a teacher, a mom, and is certified in NLP. www.AnAuthenticU.com
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THE MAGICAL WORLD OF NUMBERS MAY...NUMBER FIVE...TAKING OFF NATURE'S SPANDEX! By ELIZABETH SUMMERS
As we move into the fifth month of our calendar year, all of Nature seems to be taking off its “spandex” and bursting into the joy of freedom. The Number Five exudes this very energy. To hold life loosely, to patiently allow life to unfold
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and to live in moderation are the key lessons of the energy of Number Five. Mother Nature, as she slowly unfolds her beauty is teaching this to all of us…”don’t rush things…I have it all handled! All of life has its seasons so just be patient as I do my work!” A person’s birthday Number, meaning the actual day one chose to be born, is a huge indicator of one’s temperament and personality. Perhaps many reading this article are too young to have experienced the erratic energy of the toy called a “Mexican Jumping Bean”. This fun capsule jumps around in the warm palm of one’s hand in response to the “heat of the moment”. Never staying in one position too long, this capsule- shaped toy impulsively moves in all directions. Those born on the fifth, fourteenth, or twenty-third of any month enjoy this same quick, resourceful and versatile reputation. Unique, unconventional and a seeker of the latest and greatest, Number Five individuals could easily wander off to faraway lands both mentally and physically, just to answer the philosophical quandaries of life. Not one to take advice from others, this “jump off a cliff without a bungee cord” temperament would do well to learn its lessons in life through observation of others so going through dramas in life become 64
unnecessary. Life is never dull for those that are the companions of the Number Five. The marriage mate of a Five needs to understand their mate’s need for an unrestricted lifestyle and the dislike for handling responsibility. The Number Five has difficulty committing to anything because it basically does not trust itself. The subconscious knows that its motto is “don’t fence me in” and the structures of a married life seem like a big “fence”. Paradoxically, the very thing the Number Five needs is structure. It isn’t uncommon to see a young Number Five enlist in the military or marry early or even have children that require them to stay focused and settle down within a framework. Number Five people are verbal and mentally highstrung, choosing to live on their nerves and create adventures that satisfy their craving for excitement. A good metaphor for Number Five energy is a NASCAR vehicle racing full speed around the track on Memorial Day weekend at the Indianapolis speed way. Patience in thought, word and deed is not Number Five’s strong point! This is not to say that Number Five would be a “couch potato”. As long as the experience has excitement, challenges or adventure, patient perseverance will be exercised to accomplish the deed. With a genuine dislike for hard manual labor, occupations that utilize quick 65
paced and mental dexterity suit these characters just fine. The five energies of the senses vibrate to the Number Five personality. Therefore, sports, exercise and sex play a big part in their lives. This spirited experimenter and thrill seeker must be on guard against over-indulgence in drugs, sexual escapades and gambling of all types. Gambling lays to their love of risk-taking. When the Number Five appears in a chart for a transit reading it always means major changes abound. Changes in location, lifestyle, career, even partners must be taken into consideration. Some modifications in lifestyle can be experienced involuntarily, presenting uncertainty as to what to do next! Represented by the Hierophant card in Tarot, the inner teacher will guide the Number Five, if it will only listen and follow through. Mercury the planet of communication rules over this rather loquacious energy. Talking, selling, teaching, traveling, exploring and bubbling over with excitement allows everyone and everything to remain totally energized. This mercurial Number Five, with its disdain for the monotonous, thrives under stress and in crisis conditions. It adapts to sudden changes while remaining centered in the moment. The lucky days for this “jumping bean� energy certainly can be on 66
Wednesdays and Fridays when they should decide to make their next leaps! Staying in the NOW, doing the work in front of them and trusting that they will have what they need when they need it is a major lesson for all souls regardless of temperament. The Number Five needs to work choosing patience with its life to learn this very issue. Perhaps Denis Waitley put it best “life is a movie you see through your own eyes. It makes little difference what’s happening out there. It’s how you take it that counts”.
Spiritually guiding clients since 1988, Elizabeth Summers provides practical information by combining Numerology, Astrology and Tarot interpretations in her personal readings Website: www.elizabethsummers.com For a private Numerology reading with Elizabeth Summers, please go here to review your choices: http://www.elizabethsummers.com/numerologyread ings.html
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