February Issue 2014

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180 S. Livernois Rochester Hills, MI 48307 Volume 76

Students at RHS share about their success with long-term relationships.

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Engaged and married teachers share their proposal stories and marriage advice. Page 9

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Find out who your Talon love is by taking the annual Talon Love Quiz.

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news briefs: 1. RHS

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3. STATE

4. COUNTRY

5. WORLD

Snowcoming was this year’s replacement for the typical Sadie Hawkin’s dance. It was expected to take place on Feb. 1 at Palazzo Grande in Shelby Township; however, the event ended up being cancelled.

Although student council attempted to pick the best date for the dance, snow days and exams the week prior seemed make the timing of the event inconvenient for a number of students.

“With all of the snow days we had cut down students from having the time to ask and buy tickets,” junior Paul Lee said. “The final factor about timing was that exam week was the week prior to the actual dance. This would have put off the thought of Snowcoming for many students, and stall them from asking.”

As a result of events surrounding the dance, only 35 students purchased tickets, and student council had to cancel Snowcoming.

“The power to have had the dance was solely on the students,” Lee said. “When students didn’t support it, the dance wasn’t possible.”

The Oakland County Sheriff’s Office conducted an investigation of a security guard at RHS who violated the weapons-free school zone statute. Due to the investigation, Rochester Community Schools decided to cease their contract with D.M. Burr Security Services.

“I support the decision of our Superintendent,” principal Mr. Charles Rowland said. “It is clear that he felt this change was necessary.

As administrators, we are committed to providing a school environment which does not compromise the safety, health or well-being of our students.”

Beginning Feb. 4, security guards from Safe-Ed are on duty in all four of the RCS high schools. The Safe-Ed employees are expected to provide a higher standard of security than the previous security company.

“I am very excited about having Safe-Ed in our building,” Mr. Rowland said.

“They are very professional and their top priority is the safety of our students and staff. “

Michigan governor Rick Snyder formally launched his campaign for reelection in Detroit on Feb. 3. Snyder kicked off his “comeback tour” by emphasizing the success he has had within the state during his previous term.

However, history teacher Ms. Christina Larsen does not believe Snyder’s programs are not as positive as advertised.

“From an educational perspective, Governor Snyder has made changes in the budget in recent years that have greatly impacted education and schools in Michigan, which has caused concern among many educators and citizens.” Ms. Larsen said.

Snyder emphasized the importance of focusing on issues within the state government and Detroit, arguing that improvements within the city are essential for the success of the rest of the state.

“If he’s re-elected, I’m assuming we’ll see a lot of change,” junior Mikayla Stephens said. “It’ll be interesting to see how it all turns out really.”

On Feb. 5, CVS drug stores announced their plan to cease selling tobacco products by October, making CVS the first national chain of pharmacies to take tobacco off their shelves.

“People do need to stop advertising and they need to control and limit the selling of tobacco products,” senior Fabian Villalobos said.

“They’re only there to help people get better not to kill them.”

Although some U.S. cities, such as Boston and San Francisco, already prevent pharmacies from selling tobacco products, the majority of the country continues to allow the sales.

Those who advocate national smoking-cessation hope that CVS’ decision will encourage more pharmacies around the nation to remove tobacco from their shelves.

“Other pharmacies should follow through with removing tobacco products from their stores,” Villalobos said.

“Maybe it should be limited to only gas stations.”

The 2014 Winter Olympics kicked off on Feb. 7 in Sochi, Russia when athletes from 87 nations made their way into the Olympic Stadium for the Opening Ceremony.

Despite the controversy surrounding the Sochi games surrounding poor treatment of gay people and stray animals, there is no shortage of support for the athletes.

“The Olympics demonstrate the best of the best and it’s amazing to see true talent and what people have been working for in their lifetime,” senior Lara Dhayni said. “The events that are occurring are saddening, but they don’t take away from the talent.”

Math teacher Mrs. Lisa Gotko is also planning on watching the Sochi games.

She is eager to see how the athletes perform.

“When I am home and have the television on, it’s on the Olympic station,” Mrs. Gotko said. “I really like watching the skiing and snowboarding. The speed is amazing.”

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for the love of the song:

BY SARAH WALWEMA

Senior Vanessa Rodriguez ends Rochester Idol career with an upbeat performance of a Whitney Houston classic.

Smile wide and eyes bright, Rodriguez steps onto the high school stage for the last time. This is the stage that she’s been performing on for four years now.

Being up there seems so familiar, as she belts out with the voice she’s been improving for so long.

“Ever since I was little I would perform little shows for my family,” Rodriguez said. “My sister always sang, so we already had a passion for music. I just chose to embrace it as well.”

To her friends and family, Rodriguez is known for her happy demeanor.

“Vanessa is a ball of sunshine,” senior Mackenzie Van Vleck said.

“She’s bubbly and she has fun with everything. She doesn’t take anything too seriously.”

Many claim she has the voice to match. “[Her voice is] free, powerful, spirit-filled and resonant,” choir director Mrs. Jolene Plotzke said. “[She has] great intonation. Vanessa has had her groove on for some time. No improvements will be needed.”

Through participating in Rochester Idol, musicals and the choir program, Rodriguez has given herself the chance to get used to the stage.

“As a freshman I was really nervous,” Rodriguez said. “But as a senior, I look at it as a fun thing to do, and there’s not all that pressure. It’s just a way to have fun and show people what you can do.”

Being involved in school productions and musicals gave Rodriguez a slight advantage at this year’s Rochester Idol competition.

“With the opportunity to have had practice with the stage will make her comfortable in front of an audience,” Van Vleck said. “This wasn’t her first musical, and she knows how to handle herself on stage, which definitely gives her an advantage.”

In this year’s Rochester Idol, Rodriguez performed Whitney Houston’s “I Wanna Dance with Somebody.”

“I just really like that it’s an oldie that everyone loves,” Rodriguez said. “It’s fun and upbeat and hopefully it will be good.”

According to Mrs. Plotzke, this song was perfect for an event like Rochester Idol.

“The fast and energetic song usually wins this competition,” Mrs. Plotzke said. “The person who puts on a show and entertains the crowd usually gets the votes. The performer usually feels comfortable to interact with the audience, dances and has a good time.”

Some think that Rodriguez has the talent to go beyond the stage in the RHS auditorium if she wanted to have a career, as long as she stays focused.

“I would tell her not to let anything get in her way, because she’s talented enough,” Van Vleck said “She’s [more] talented than all the people in the charts right now, so [she shouldn’t] let anything get in [her] way.”

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RHS freshman Andrea Cota strums and sings “The Way”

by Ariana Grande. Photo by Danielle Kullmann

Junior Aaron Koss sings “House of the Rising Sun” by the animals to the audience.

RHS junior Jono Mammel serenades the crowd with the tune “Movies Were Movies,” by Mack & Mabel.

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Adams High School senior Marissa Ratzenberger belts out her winning piece, “Holding Out For a Hero,” by Bonnie Tyler.

Photo by Danielle Kullmann

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HOW TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK People share advice on how to have a long-term relationship.

BY MELODY ZHANG It’s a bright and cheerful Saturday morning, and senior Rachel Nash wakes up early to prepare for a special day with her boyfriend, Wesley Linn. Today is their 4th anniversary and as she gets ready to bake a cake for the occasion, her mind drifts back to all of the memories she has had for the past four years with Wesley. She smiles and shakes her head, thinking about how the hard times brought them closer together and that it was all worth it.

“There are disagreements, [but] we don’t break up over it,” Nash said. “We just talk it out and get the key components out of whatever the fight’s about and try to resolve it together.”

High school relationships that last this long are rare. According to a 2004 Harris Interactive survey, only 14 percent of respondents reported having met their current

partners in either high school or college. A reason for this may be because of the increased number of causes for breakups during high school.

“If they are seniors in high school, [breakups happen] because they might be going to different colleges and they don’t think long distance will work,” senior Melanie Ramin said.

“Underclassmen [break up] because of stupid drama and rumors that weren’t even true and were started by their friends. The top cause for breakups is just drama in general.”

Senior Gemma Najar shares another reason for quick breakups.

“Everyone is busy in high school and [people] don’t have enough free time,” Najar said. “Without a stable foundation, a relationship can lose focus. A strong relationship requires common goals and key components to set a foundation upon.”

Despite the growing difficulty in maintaining healthy and happy long-term relationships, Nash and Linn seem to have the system down.

“I think the key ingredients to a healthy, happy, and romantic relationship are

understanding one another, spending quality time with one another and being comfortable with each other,” Linn said.

Counselor Kelly Messing-Mirabito adds a few other factors for healthy, long-lasting relationships.

“They [should] trust each other and have common interests and goals and can get along,” Mrs. Messing-Mirabito said.

One of the factors that separate a lasting relationship from a short-lived one is how the couple deals with conflicts and disagreements.

“We resolve major conflicts by sitting down somewhere private and talking things out, where we both share how we feel and try to come up with solutions to resolve them,” Linn said. “For minor conflicts, we simply either talk about it, or we try to just simply fix it and move on, because life is too short to fight over small things.”

Dr. Achmet Salie, a relationship expert, shares his insight on why he thinks many relationships get hung up on small conflicts.

“Too often very minor things are seen as huge in some people’s eyes and they don’t have a sense of what is absolute and what they cannot

negotiate,” Dr. Salie said. “Struggle is part of life; if we go into a relationship thinking [that] it is going to be trouble-free, then we have unrealistic expectations. So have realistic expectations, work from there, and communicate effectively.”

Mrs. Messing-Mirabito has a similar mindset, and shares some suggestions that can cultivate a long-lasting relationship in high school.

“Honesty and open communication are really important,” Mrs. Messing-Mirabito said. “You must be able to communicate your feelings and thoughts.”

Linn gives advice to struggling couples who are nearing the end of their “honeymoon stage” and want to stay committed.

“My advice to any couples who are nearing or are at the end of their honeymoon stage would be to just spend more time together doing the things that both of you love to do,” Linn said. “I'd spend some time going out and having fun. Whether it's just you two or with some friends, spend more time and connect at a deeper level.”

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DOES TECHNOLOGY RUIN ROMANCE? RHS students and media specialist Mrs. Julie Harris recount their experiences with the influence of technology on romance.

BY AMBIKA VOHRA

Graphic Illustration by Ambika Vohra

Years ago, current media specialist Mrs. Julie Harris straightened out her dress and took a deep breath as she prepared for that nerveracking first date at Chili’s. She smiled slightly and wondered what would happen, mulling over dozens of scenarios in her head. Little did she know that this meeting would mark the unfolding of her love story that culminates at a grand finale: a wedding.

“My husband and I actually went to the same high school yet never knew each other,” Mrs. Harris said. “His little sister was in my grade, but we didn’t hang out – just ran with different crowds and never had a class together.”

This romantic scenario of mystery has become quite unlikely today because technology has made people more exposed to each other.

Social media mediums make communication less direct and more is learned through “stalking” profiles than in-person conversations.

Seniors Jasmine Kim and Kaushik Rao are currently in a relationship, and Kim affirms this idea.

“A lot of people hide behind screens and have time to think of that funny comment,” Kim said.

“Unfortunately, in real life, they’re not sure how to communicate.”

Technology has also commercialized romance and holidays such as Valentine’s Day, giving viewers or listeners an idea of what they need to receive or give in order to celebrate.

“Chocolate and flowers and teddy bears are always in every Valentine’s Day ad,” Rao said.

“But sometimes you can have the most fun by just kicking back and watching a movie.”

Speaking of movies, many romance movies and love songs are also known to give unrealistic expectations of happy endings and a

perfect significant other. To some, the ideal of perfection has become just another expectation.

Even so, Mrs. Harris has a different take on the idea.

“I think that in the wake of reality TV, we see more un-idealistic relationships than not,” Mrs. Harris said. “More problems, more drama.

I think of the Bachelor – all drama and no real lasting romances.”

Mrs. Harris also described other differences between communication when she was in high school compared to now. She prefers when people communicate with her in person because it gives her a better idea of who they are.

“Before, you were forced to be confident and get over your shyness,” Mrs. Harris said. “Using tech and not facing a person allows you to avoid that, but think about it. If someone was asking you out and you didn’t know them that well, wouldn’t you want them to actually approach you and talk to you so you could get a better vibe on whether you were interested or not?”

Kim also believes that personal touch of getting to know someone can be harmed by technology, and she prefers that old-style way of communication.

“Overdependence on technology can be a scary thing,” Kim said. “And handwritten letters are much more romantic than any Twitter or Facebook updates could ever be.”

Other downsides of these social media platforms include the danger of words being misconstrued or misinterpreted. Words are in the eye of the reader; many perspectives can be taken on one sentence.

“You just can’t evoke any real sense of emotion over technology that you can face-toface,” Mrs. Harris said. “You might not be able

to discern real heartfelt feelings from sarcasm, whereas you could easily pick it up when talking to someone.”

However, even with these cons of technology, there are still pros. Going on a long trip? No need to fear being forgotten about. Confused about where to meet? Just send a text. In fact, Mrs. Harris sees the benefits of technology and encourages its use in spite of the risks.

“Used without any forethought, [technology] can actually make things more difficult for you,” Mrs. Harris said. “Used wisely, it’s an awesome time-saver! I use technology to communicate things like ‘be home in an hour’ or ‘where do you want to go for dinner?’”

Rao feels similarly about the two-way street technology seems to tread upon.

He believes that rather than a step back, technology can serve as a step forward for romance.

“My stance is that technology doesn’t ruin romance at all unless you let it,” Rao said. “Before, you could only develop a relationship in person, but now you can have many ways to get to know each other.”

Mrs. Harris finally took that step into Chili’s years ago, her first date with her husband. Rao finally got the courage to ask Kim out on a date during June of last year.

Regardless of technology’s prevalence, love still happens. Moreover, it seems to progress in similar ways for everyone no matter what the time period.

“I thought he was hot,” Mrs. Harris said jokingly, “And how lucky I was when he wanted to go out with me!”

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SENIOR BOYS PARTICIPATE IN THE ANNUAL RHS MEN’S BEAUTY PAGEANT: MR. ROCHESTER

Senior Scott DeFillipo was most worried about bears during his performance. “They can swim, climb trees and run up to 50 km/h,” DeFillipo said. “How can you not be worried?” Defillipo’s talent was a comedy skit of his own creation.

Senior Ludovic Clavette-Lachappelle hoped to “gain knowledge on what to do in male beauty pageants, so that I am prepared for future reference.”

His talent was a performance of the ‘History of Rap’ with Noah Hubbard.

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Senior Vince Gannon-Piacentini did not think he’d be picked for Mr. Rochester because he believes he is very “soft-spoken and sort of shy.” His talent was a parody of the Plain White T’s song, ‘Hey There Delilah’ as ‘Hey There Deluca.’

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“I never thought I would be picked,” senior Doug Johnson said about his Mr. Rochester experience. “I’m not super well-known in this year’s senior class, so I never thought I’d be a part of this.” Johnson’s talent was a comedy skit he had written himself.

Senior Tim Carpenter feels that Mr. Rochester is “nerve-wracking but fun at the same time. I am happy I was able to be a part of it.”

Carpenter’s talent was juggling and eating apples.

[Mr. Rochester] will be another great memory I will have when looking back at my high school years,” senior Michael Murri said. Murri’s talent was the dance from the film ‘Napoleon Dynamite.’

Following his win of Mr. Rochester, Connor Pacella “feels good to have his dance moves appreciated.” Pacella’s talent was performing the ‘Evolution of Dance.’

Choosing and learning a skit for Mr. Rochester was work for each of the contestants. “I’ve been practicing the art of magic for about five days,” senior Sam Monica said. “I guess you could say I’m confident.”

Monica’s talent was a magic show.

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RHS teachers are passionate about teaching, as well as the relationships they establish with students and colleagues.

BY EDGAR SOKOLI

taken many graduate and continuing education courses. Since I make all my own teaching materials, I am constantly working to improve my German and German teacher Frau Nancy Hanson teaching skills.” is passionate about her job. When a Many teachers get inspired to be an student answers a question incorrectly, educator from one of their past teachers. she will not move on until he or she “I knew in 11th grade, after I got done corrects the mistake. Sometimes it’s with my AP U.S. history class because brutal, but it works. Students have no my teacher has such a giant impact on choice but to learn German in Frau my life, that I had to do the same for Hanson’s room. others,” social studies teacher Mr. Chad “A passionate teacher continues Zwolinski said. “If she could make that to work at the craft of teaching and considers what students need to make the big of an impact on my life, that’s what I wanted to do.” subject matter learnable,” Ms. Hanson Educators cite a variety of things that said. “You teach from the heart.” are great about the teaching profession.

Media specialist Mrs. Julie Harris “I like the high-school age, so I like explains how a passionate teacher can being around high schoolers,” Mrs. start a chain reaction.

Harris said. “I also like that, for me in my “We have a very important job – a job, every day is different. good teacher can I’m able to help kids with spark an interest for a subject in When a former student so many different things – it makes me useful.” a student that contacts me, it lets Other teachers may make a big mentioned enjoying seeing me know that I made difference in the progress their students that student’s a positive impact on make. life,” Mrs. Harris his or her life. My heart “It’s really cool to said. “It should grows a size or two. see you guys grow, and be a goal of all teachers to create FRAU HANSON, TEACHER to see where you are at the beginning of the year spark.” or from when you’re Loving freshmen to when you’re teaching does seniors,” Mr. Zwolinski said. “It’s really involve more than the typical 40-hourrewarding to be a small part of that.” work week, according to choir teacher At times good teachers need to fork Mrs. Jolene Plotzke. out some “tough love.” “[Typically, I work] 60-70 hours “You have to be strong willed; you a week,” Mrs. Plotzke said. “Summer have to have tough skin,” Mr. Zwolinski is work for me. I attend a four-day said. “If I didn’t have tough skin, I workshop in August to master new techniques, I attend classes at MSU from probably wouldn’t last. You have to realize you’re doing what’s best for the June-July and I conduct at Blue Lakes kids; you’re like a parent. They don’t Fine Arts Camp for two weeks, too. I’d always like what you do, but you know say I work during my ‘vacation.’” what’s best.”

Preparing for a career in education It seems that many passionate teachers can be a very involved process. cited one thing that really makes their “After spending a year in Europe, I occupation worthwhile: passionate returned to the U.S. and began working students. on a degree in Scandinavian Studies,” “When I’m feeling like the Grinch Frau Hanson said. “I completed my and a former student contacts me, it lets undergraduate degree in Norwegian and me know that I made a positive impact then did a Master’s Degree in German on his/her life,” Frau Hanson said. “My Language and Literature and earned my heart grows a size or two.”

Teaching Certificate. Since then, I have

Whenever one of her classes is having a hard time understanding a grammar concept, Frau Hanson uses one of her many puppets as a visual representation. In this picture, Frau Hanson explains direct objects to her German 2 class. Photo by Edgar Sokoli

Mr. Zwolinski discusses World War II with his AP U.S. History Class; students enjoy his approach to teaching as his lessons are full of enthusiasm and class involvment. Photo by Edgar Sokoli

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POPPING THE QUESTION: ADVICE FROM RHS STAFF: PROPOSALS SHOULD BE PERSONAL AND WELL-PLANNED, AND COUPLES SHOULD MAKE SURE THEY ARE ON THE SAME PAGE ABOUT GOALS, FINANCES, FAMILY, WHERE TO LIVE, CAREER PATHS AND MORE BEFORE DIVING INTO MARRIAGE.

BY DAVID MARTIN THREE PROPOSAL STORIES This past November, social studies teacher Ms. Christina Larsen was in Ludington with her significant other hiking the dunes, going to the beach and visiting national parks. She came back engaged.

“After hiking out to one of the father lighthouses, he got down on one knee and proposed right there on the beach,” Ms. Larsen said. “I was completely surprised and definitely did not expect it! He asked my family and my best friends before proposing, so they all knew it was coming.”

English teacher Mr. Todd Miesch also involved the parents of his in-laws-to-be in his proposal process.

“It was at Rochester Park on one of the bridges - I had my parents and Mrs. Miesch’s parents go down to the park and decorate the bridge with flowers and candles,” Mr. Miesch said. “While they were doing that, the two of us were hanging out at a friend’s house. When we showed up, the bridge looked beautiful so we walked down to it; I got on one knee and proposed.”

While beautiful scenery is common for many proposals, English and journalism teacher Mrs. Julia Satterthwaite got engaged at RHS. “My husband and I are both journalism teachers; it’s sort of what brought us together. He thought it would be cool to involve my newspaper staff in the proposal, so he got in touch with my editor-in-chief at the time, Jordan Hubbard, and asked her for a good day to come in and propose,” Mrs. Satterthwaite said. “The day came and we were having a brain break kind of day after a particularly grueling layout week. When he showed up in my F208 classroom, I was shocked. He did the whole one knee thing and everything. I, of course, said yes. He also had a newspaper created about our love story.”

COMMON INTERESTS LEAD TO EPIC PROPOSALS Mrs. Satterthwaite explained why she loved this proposal.

“I think the best proposals involve thinking about what it is that truly brings you together as a couple and infusing that into the scenario,” Mrs. Satterthwaite said.

“If it’s journalism, a newspaper is great. If it’s music, a serenading is awesome. If it’s art, a painting is thoughtful. If it’s adventure, a hike would be cool. Instead of trying to make proposals like the clichés on TV and in movies with candles, roses, and all that jazz, why not make it personal and unique?”

Ms. Larsen agrees.

“A great proposal in my opinion is one that is unique & heartfelt, maybe involving something the couple enjoys together, like an event, the outdoors or a favorite vacation spot,” Ms. Larsen said. “But each proposal really depends on the couple and their personalities.”

Mr. Miesch explained why he thinks it’s important to put thought into the proposal.

“This is one of the biggest commitments people will make and therefore it should not be overrated or thought of as ‘going through the motions,’” Mr. Miesch said.

“Proposing in a place that is meaningful and showing the girl that you put thought into it is exactly what she would want. I don’t think the romanticism of proposals will ever go away.”

WHEN TO GET MARRIED, IF EVER Mrs. Satterthwaite explains that marriage isn’t necessarily for everyone.

“I think sometimes people like the idea of marriage better than marriage itself,” Mrs. Satterthwaite said. “Also, people feel pressure from society to get married by a certain age, but people are ready at totally different points in their lives, so there’s no one best way to do it. I also think people can live rewarding, happy, successful lives without getting married. If a person prefers to ‘play the field’ or gets bored easily, I’d suggest they DON’T get married. Do the George Clooney thing.”

Mr. Miesch agrees that marriage shouldn’t be entered into lightly.

“Staying committed to one person forever is important and the relationships should always be fought for through easy and hard times,” Mr. Miesch said.

Many wonder at what point they are “ready” to get married. “[You should think about getting married] after you’ve gotten on the same page about your life goals, finances, family plans and more,” Mrs. Satterthwaite said. “The right age is different for everyone, but in our current society, any time before 28 seems too rushed. There’s so much growth that a person goes through as he or she chooses a career path, city to live in, living arrangement – so if people get married too young, they can grow apart before they are fully established.”

Mr. Miesch had different thoughts about the issue.

“I believe dating for a few years and having completed college are the two most important things,” Mr. Miesch said. “Through time, one can see how the other acts in all different situations and being done with college allows you to focus on the marriage more and not have to worry about school, work and marriage.”

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CONTROVERSY SURROUNDS SOCHI OLYMPICS The 22nd Olympic Games began on February 7 in Sochi, Russia, surrounded by a storm of controversy ranging from poor construction and infrastructure planning to treatment of gay people and stray animals. People are pointing fingers at the Olympic planning committee for allowing the Olympics to take place in Russia, President Vladimir Putin for his homophobic policies, and the media for prefering to cover soft news instead of informing the public about the true nature of injustices.

POOR AND INCOMPLETE CONSTRUCTION POSES CHALLENGES Russia spent an estimated $50 billion on the construction of the arenas, hotels, roads and other necessary environmental conditions for those staying Sochi. Money also went to security and social safety.

In terms of preparation, Russia has been reported to have rushed throughout the process of construction, from the stadium to roads to hotels and the overall use of environment. Government and history teacher Mrs. Laura Matthews comments on the problems surrounding this topic.

“When they decided that Sochi was going to be the Olympic city, people that lived where the Olympic park now stands were completely removed from their property but were not compensated,” Mrs. Matthews said. “They don’t have domain laws like we do here. Now people are completely homeless. They have forced labor camps for people that are serving life sentences about 20-50 miles outside of Sochi.”

The quality of hotels were not up to par, causing an explosion of humourous tweets about conditions from journalists and athletes alike. Tweets include subjects involving strangely colored water, dangerously faulty elevators, poorly constructed restrooms, and general disarray of hotel accommodations.

“Journalists are there and people have nowhere to stay,” Mrs. Matthews said.

“If you go to the bathroom and you flush the toilet, you can’t flush paper down the toilet.”

Mrs. Matthews speculates on how things managed to spiral out of control under so many sets of eyes.

“They’ve had seven years to do this,” Mrs. Matthews said. “This Olympics cost 52 billion dollars to run.

That is more than all of the Olympics combined. Russia said it was going to be 12 billion, but now

it’s hovering over four times the national budget. [The government doesn’t] have this kind of money. You use all this money and resources, and what a waste.”

Mrs. Matthews believes lack of preparation for such an event is both unsightly under the world’s eyes and all in all dangerous for those in Sochi for the Games.

“Olympic athletes [are] telling their parents not to attend because of the threat of terrorism and security,” Mrs. Matthews said. “Olympic athletes will be secure because they’re in the Olympic village. But the average onlooker? They don’t have enough security to actually ensure it. Obama said they have all this protocol in place, but God forbid if something were to happen, what is [the] whole emergency procedure when you have this many threats coming into Russia?”

ANTI-GAY POLICIES One cause for concern came from Russia’s strict intolerance of gay rights and Putin’s refusal to negotiate on this matter, even as entire nations have spoken out against this issue. “[Russia has] an anti-gay law,” Mrs. Matthews said. “Putin created the law sometime last year and it’s basically just discrimination. The new laws stipulate jail sentences for up to 14 years if you’re promoting homosexuality. The thing is the lack of transparency in Russia. Putin will just hide things and he will say ‘shame on my citizens’ for it.”

On February 18th, the Russian band “Pussy Riot” tried to stage a protest against these policies, and they received whippings from the Cossack army in response that was caught on tape.

This issue has raised awareness throughout the world, but Mrs. Matthews does not think any legal action will be taken.

“If you’re gay and you live in Russia, you can’t petition because you’re silenced, but there’s an international

petition going on and they do [make Russia] look very bad. [Though] Putin knows that, Russia is going to have deaf ears.”

Mrs. Matthews believes that the ban on a homosexual lifestyle is unjust.

“I think you legislate regulation - you can minimize it; you can increase it, [but] I don’t think you can legislate morality,” Mrs. Matthews said.

Spanish teacher Ms. Beth East agrees with Mrs. Matthews’ viewpoint.

“I am completely in opposition to Russia’s close-minded and unfair anti-gay laws,” Ms. East said. “They are impeding the rights of their people to protest and demonstrate. That seems very totalitarian to me.”

ANIMAL INJUSTICE: STRAYS AND ORCAS Sochi received much attention not only on humanitarian injustice regarding gay rights, but animal injustice as well. In an attempt to clean up the streets, thousands of stray dogs were either shot or poisoned.

“They are shooting stray dogs on the street because Russia is embarrassed by the amount of stray animals they have; they’re removing them in the most ‘quick’ manner,” Mrs. Matthews said. “A human can petition for themselves. But at the end of the day, if anyone is going to tune up for animals, only a human voice can. So they count on you; you are it.”

Although there have been petitions regarding strays, Mrs. Matthews thinks it will do little.

“I think [this petition] has raised awareness and it won’t be talked about; it will be forgotten about unless there’s a massive protest,” Mrs. Matthews said.

However, a glimmer of hope was seen when a rescue movement was started among Americans. Much support has led to American athletes taking in these strays into their own care.

This isn’t the only instance of animal abuse in Russia. In addition, seven wild orca whales were captured to put on for show during the opening performance.

“A Russian company captured seven orca whales last summer right outside of Japan,” Mrs. Matthews said. “They had to fly them over seven time zones to keep them in captivity. And orca whales are herd animals; they’re very dependent [on each other in the wild]. After the Opening Ceremony the Russians put them on display in an aquarium. They are kept in a small concrete tank. I know they want to show you their culture, [but it’s so wrong].”

THE INTERNATIONAL OLYMPICS COMMITTEE TAKES BLAME The American public questions the International Olympics Committee for choosing Sochi as a location in the first place. Mrs. Mathews expresses her frustration towards the I.O.C. system and suggests that Russia may not have been the best fit.

“One of the people on Russia’s committee to get the Olympics is one of the biggest drug smugglers in Russia and he’s part of the Russian mob,” Mrs. Matthews said. “Now it’s like [we are] supporting this major underground industry. I just feel like the I.O.C. did a bad job because I don’t think that Russia is a cause for celebration.”

Mrs. Matthews believes that the decision to nominate Sochi as host was a violation of the peaceful nature that the Olympics are intended to represent.

“I think this is a big world issue,” Mrs. Matthews said. “When you’re choosing an Olympic country, you’re choosing a country that best portrays where we’re at in society, and I think that we’re taking major steps back. You have human rights violations, animal rights violations ... why is the I.O.C. supporting a country that discriminates against its people?”

Ms. East offers that the public may not be getting the whole story.

“From what I’m reading, Sochi may not be in the greatest shape for an event so large as the Olympic Games,” Ms. East said. “However, I’ve only read news from some U.S. sources and cannot really know if it is accurate. I cannot really say if I.O.C. made the right choice, as I have no experience what they do. It’s easy to point fingers when you don’t have the full story of what is behind the decision making.”

INSUFFICIENT MEDIA COVERAGE AND THE PUBLIC’S INDIFFERENCE As an avid human and animal rights supporter, Mrs. Matthews doesn’t think that the media did enough to educate the people on the behind-the-scenes of the Winter Olympics.

“I watch the news every night and every morning, and I have yet to see NBC [note these issues],” Mrs. Matthews said. “I think our news has become extremely entertainment based and ‘soft news,’ warm fuzzy things but they don’t ever talk about [big news]. Like when Justin Bieber got arrested, that was covered as breaking news. As that was going on, you have massive rebellions happening in Ukraine to the point of a state of emergency. People on Fox or CNN were calling it an apocalypse. I think because celebrity news sells, that’s what people respond to. It’s supply and demand. They don’t talk about the human rights violations [or] what’s happening to these animals.”

Mrs. Matthews asserts that people may choose to be apathetic about the situation because it’s simply the easiest thing to do.

“Ignorance is totally bliss,” Mrs. Matthews said. “I think people are extremely busy with their day-to-day lives and I do think it’s easier [for others] to turn a deaf ear.”

Media specialist Mrs. Julie Harris agrees that there is a focus on “soft news,” but believes that news from social media may change this in the near future.

“I understand that

Americans by and large don’t have a big interest in global affairs,” Mrs. Harris said. “We trust the media to report what we need to know, therefore the media gets to pick and choose what will get them ratings. If people aren’t interested in human rights violations around the world, then the large media outlets won’t cover it and risk losing viewers. I’m glad the internet and social media is changing that – we have more of a choice of where we get our information and the ability to find it on our own. Twenty years ago without the internet, that simply didn’t happen.”

WATCHING THE OLYMPICS Despite knowing the state of havoc that Russia is in socially and politically, Mrs. Matthews states that she will still watch the Games.

“I don’t like what Russia stands for. I don’t like how they treat their people.

I don’t like how they treat animals,” Mrs. Matthews said. “I feel like if you tune in, then you’re supporting it. So it’s a conflict because I do want to see their opening ceremony, but I don’t want to support it.”

Mrs. Harris concurs.

“I am still interested in the Games and still support those people who’ve worked hard to get there,” Mrs. Harris said. “If there is a question of Sochi being an acceptable place to hold the Games in light of the Russian human rights issues, the Olympic committee should have acted on that.”

Ms. East concurs and clarifies.

“I will still watch the Olympics, because I support ALL of the athletes (gay or straight) who have sacrificed so much and worked so hard to get there,” Ms. East said.

English teacher Mrs. Julie Kuslits adds that these issues may be smoothing over after the Games kick off.

“I must add that so far I am impressed by what I’m seeing in Russia,” Mrs. Kuslits said. “Maybe it will be a great Games after all! Almost ALL Olympics have their issues, critics and problems heading in—even our Salt Lake City Winter Games.

So hopefully these issues will be resolved now that the world’s eyes are upon Russia.”

12 I LIFESTYLES

FAMILY TREE: THE POWER OF SUPPORT

BY ERIN EYLER Deann Geossart has been in family counseling since 2012, and with five children of her own, family has always been her passion.

As Harper Lee writes in “To Kill a Mockingbird,” “You can choose your friends but you sho’ can’t choose your family, an’ they’re still kin to you no matter whether you acknowledge ‘em or not, and it makes you look right silly when you don’t.” Goessart agrees.

“Strong bonds are formed by spending time together in an environment of mutual trust, respect and affection,” Geossart said. “Current research shows that parenting style has a large impact on how strong family bonds will be. Keep in mind that every family is different; they have different beliefs, values, culture, personalities, environment and so many other variables are constantly in motion. There are many different perspectives and approaches to families.

There are other

opinions to consider in family matters.”

According to Geossart, parenting is one of the most powerful links in family relationship.

“Parents have a large effect of creating family bonds in destructive situations and in productive families,” Geossart said. “Parents can create a home with love, understanding, boundaries and consistency, creating an environment of support and growth so that family members bond with each other through mutual affection and shared experiences. Parents model behavior, so when parents treat each other and their children with respect and affection, these traits are modeled by the children. On the other hand, parents who are not nurturing and supportive create an environment where siblings have to rely on each other for survival. Bonds created in these environments are also strong.”

Sophomore Elizabeth Paden explained her feelings about family bonds.

“I see family as not just the people who you share DNA with, but the people that you claim as family,” Paden said. “Like, if you have an abusive parent, you’re not going to think of them as family - and close friends automatically qualify as family.

You definitely need to keep close bonds with family - the family you’re born into and the family you make because they won’t always be there and you need to make the

most of your time with them. You don’t want to just realize how important someone is to you after they’re gone.”

One potential complication that surfaces in families is when parents divorce and remarry – meaning the potential introduction of step siblings.

“Research shows that it can be very challenging for step parents to create bonds with their step children; many times, children want their parents to reconcile and they resent the presence of the step parent,” Goessart said. “It is very difficult for step parents to create enough of a bond in order to be effective disciplining children; this can cause conflict in the family. I have seen amazing step parents who care for their step children in the same way they care for their own, but I don’t think this is the majority.”

Sophomore Emily Kowalczyk struggled with her step siblings initially.

“My step siblings ruined a year of my life,” Kowalczyk said. “But by being with them, I learned to converse with people of very different personalities. When I lived with them, sometimes it was good and I liked them.”

Freshman Claire Zuckerberg explains why close relationships with her family members are essential.

“Personally, when I spent more time away from home my family was always frustrated with each other and we just were not used to being together,” Zuckerberg said. “So I feel it’s important to keep those bonds we have active.”

FEBRUARY 2014

THE PERKS OF BEING SINGLE

BY AMBIKA VOHRA Eating: Whether you consider a patisserie or a cake decorator, humankind has really mastered the art of eating. It’s a shame if you don’t appreciate the art gallery during a holiday such as this. You’re lucky because you don’t have anyone to impress, so grab your favorite foods and movies and munch away!

Single Extra: Try Raffaello chocolates by Ferrero Rocher. Never has there been a more delicious, underrated chocolate. Make sure to keep this under wraps.

The secret, that is. Not the chocolate.

Meeting: There is no one stopping you from mingling and meeting new people when you’re single. When you’re in a relationship, your whole life seems to revolve around that significant other. When you’re single, you have more time to go out and have fun with friends. You don’t necessarily have to be looking for romance; just meeting a new friend who you really connect with can make you feel confident and new. So go to that party you might not have originally went to, and put yourself out there.

Single Extra: Try making a list of funny or fulfilling things you want to do, and do them.

No one is holding you back. High-fiving a stranger? Getting coffee with that old friend?

The time is now.

Thinking: Sometimes, when you’re in a relationship, it’s hard to remember who you were as a single entity. Some self-reflection and development is never a bad idea. Getting to know others is valuable, but getting to know yourself and what you want out of life is priceless. Take the time to map out what you’re looking for, and then look for it!

Single Extra: “In order to love someone else, you have to love yourself.”

Hoping: You don’t have to lose hope if you’re single. For you, the mystery continues.

There’s always time, so keep third-wheeling your friends’ dates and keep saving up those candy hearts for the right person! Rushing into a relationship just because you’re lonely is never a good idea. The right person is worth the right amount of wait. You just haven’t found your other half yet. The secret? The half you have is so much better anyway.

Single Extra: Listen to “Single Awareness Day” by Joseph Vincent. It really gets you in the single mood, yet still rekindles hope for the future.

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1. THE SENTIMENTAL

These types of lovers are affectionate, sweet, respectful, and overall genuine romantics when it comes to relationships and wanting to please their partner. They tend to be a bit sappy and emotional at times, but are very sincere when expressing their feelings and desires.

These people cherish their partners and will go to great lengths to protect their loved ones because they value them so dearly.

4. THE GIVER

Givers are quite selfless and enjoy showering their partners with gifts and luxuries. Sometimes, they feel that they do not provide enough to the relationship, which causes them to invest themselves more into the romance. These people tend to sacrifice too much into the relationship because they believe they are not fully valuable and want to give their partners enough to prove that they are gracious and worthwhile.

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2. THE PLAYER

Players generally have wavering love lives and do not to commit to longterm relationships. Their feelings for their partner fluctuate and they tend to get bored if they feel the relationship is becoming monotonous and stagnant, which causes them to give in to temptation quite easily. People who fall into this category usually have a lot of experience when it comes to dating because they like to experiment with different types of people to add to their relationship résumé.

5. THE SELFISH

These types of lovers seem to care more about their own well-being rather than their partner’s. Although their selfish desires may not be entirely conspicuous, they secretly want the option that will benefit themselves at the moment or in the long-run when making decisions. They tend to focus more on themselves and always seem to look for some sort of compensation when doing any task for their partner.

3. THE OBSESSIVE

These lovers are a bit too attached to their partners and want to spend every moment with them.

They tend to be the ones who feel insecure in the relationship and will do anything to keep the romance alive in order to maintain the love connection. At times, they come off as apprehensive and overbearing because they have a fear of being separated from their loved one but it’s just to stop anything that may pose as a threat to the relationship.

6. THE DELUSIONAL

These kinds of lovers tend to be quite passionate when discussing their infatuation with certain well-known stars. This group is stereotypically comprised of teenage girls who are enamored with popular male figures in society, whether they be famous musicians, Hollywood actors, or fictional characters from books/television. They are very devoted to the ones they admire and maintain hope that their favorite celebrity will sweep them off their feet in a fairytalelike fashion someday.

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UNIQUE DATE IDEAS

BY DAVID MARTIN

1. LASER TAG/PAINTBALL If you’re looking for an exciting, fastpaced date, this is the one for you. Team up with your partner to shoot people with laser beams or cover an opposing team in all the colors of the rainbow. If you are the competitive type, this date should give you an opportunity to really bond with your date, because nothing says romance like blasting people with balls of paint.

2. TAKE A CLASS TOGETHER

Whether it is a cooking class, learning to play an instrument, yoga, or dance lessons, there are many options that will let you spend more time with your partner while learning to do something fun. A date like this gives you something to do that could lead to new hobbies for you and your signifigant other. This date can help you both stay in shape, learn something new, and have an overall blast.

3. PLAY/CONCERT

With this date, either get in touch with your cultural side or jam out to your favorite band with your BF or GF. There are also many free concerts that are easy to find which makes this date option exciting, high energy, and possibly affordable. Check local venues, like The Palace and The Fillmore, often for great deals and acts that you can go to as often as possible.

4. BAD MOVIE NIGHT

This is not your typical movie date.

There are always bad movies in the theater and they are almost never boring. This date can easily bring a smile to both of your faces while bringing up many opportunities for humor and bonding. Not to mention, not many people go see bad movies so you both can have privacy.

5. ICE SKATING/ROLLER BLADING Travel back to the 80’s and 90’s with a trip to the skating rink with your sweetheart where you will experience laser shows and groovy music. Drifting around the track holding hands in such a romantic setting is sure to make for a fun date that is great for any time of the year.

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14 I ENTERTAINMENT

FANDOMS EXIST.

ELVIS 1953 THE LORD OF THE RINGS 1954 THE BEATLES 1960 DOCTOR WHO 1963 BRUCE SPRINGSTEEN 1964

STAR TREK 1966

DAVID BOWIE 1969

QUEEN 1970

STAR WARS 1977

PHISH 1983

Urban dictionary’s definition of fandom: The community that surrounds a TV show/movie/ book/etc. Fan fiction writers, artists, poets, and cos-players are all members of that fandom.

BY SYDNEY BAMMEL & BILQEES SALIE

Junior Shama Parekh is engrossed with posts about and from One Direction as she scrolls through her Twitter feed. She looks around for pictures of the band members, new tour dates and rumors circulating about the band, anything to be involved. She cries about their hardships, smiles at their flawless personalities, and screams for joy at the sound of their breathtaking voices. She then proceeds to go on Tumblr and look at pictures and videos of the band’s recent performances.

Parekh is a part of a fandom, or a group of fans who share a common interest who devote their time to creating, criticizing, praising and learning about said interest. A fandom is the state of being a fan and being surrounded by fan culture. People in fandoms are so involved in this other reality that it touches their everyday lives.

“It starts off as liking the band; then it escalates to knowing every word to every song,” Parekh said. “And then you watch their interviews and find out everything you can about each member, but you don't really notice that you are becoming obsessed. You just like a few songs, then BAM. You feel like Alice, because all of a sudden you're down a hole and you have no idea what to do once you hit the bottom.”

For some fans, being part of a fandom helps connect them to people with similar interests.

“Being part of a fandom is like being part of a family where everyone has the same things in common,” Parekh said. “There is always someone to talk to about what’s going on in another world no matter what time of day it is.”

Obsessions all start somewhere. Whether it was getting your first Justin Bieber poster from Teen Bop magazine as a kid or that Beatles guitar song book you really wanted for Christmas.

“I’m a fan of The Beatles,” social studies teacher Mr. Chad Zwolinski said. “I’ve been a fan since I was about six years old. My parents influenced me when I was younger and I listened to their music all the time.”

Fans are called fans because they often feel very passionate about what they’re fanning over. This brings about a lot of feelings that people have, whether it’s being a Miley Cyrus fan or loving horror movies.

“I love Disney and Pixar movies and Disney princesses,” sophomore Lily Mackley said. “The movies make me feel happy. I enjoy watching the movies because they always show the bright side of situations and have happy endings so it makes me feel good about life.”

To a devoted fangirl or fanboy, fandoms are more than just an addiction, they are a way of life. To understand one’s fandom completely, a great love develops for characters, whether fictional or not, blooming into an obsessive longing.

“Obsession comes in when the characters connect with the viewers,” junior Olivia Bevacqua said.

“It’s cool how the viewers and readers can relate to what the characters are going through. There's this mutual love for a character or idea that just grows as the show or book continues, or even if it's over.”

Being part of a fandom can do much more than make connections; it can help many discover themselves. What they like to do, what kind of people they want to attract into their life, or even what they want to be when they grow up. Interests open us up to the world and all that it has to offer.

“When you are passionate about something, it makes you who you are,” Mr. Zwolinski said.

Social media is a large platform for fan communication.

“Fans communicate with each other, they tend to become a support system for each other,” Parekh said. “They're a group that is all over the world but can talk to each other no matter where they are.“

THE AVENGERS 2012 ONE DIRECTION 2011

MY LITTLE PONY 2010 SHERLOCK 2010 HOMESTUCK 2009 GLEE 2009

THE HUNGER GAMES 2008

BREAKING BAD 2008

LADY GAGA 2005

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ENTERTAINMENT I 15

BEYONCÉ’S NEW ALBUM STUNS

BY A.J. PRISCIANDARO At the end of 2013, the queen of pop gave all her fans an early Christmas present with the surprise iTunes-only release of her self-titled fifth album, “Beyoncé.” Not only were there 14 new songs, but 17 music videos too, including one for every track. Only a handful of artists could pull off a project this ambitious, and fewer could drop it out of nowhere with no hype beforehand and still sell over a million copies after a couple weeks. Beyoncé is one of them. With her usual lyrical themes over beats from the industry’s top producers, “Beyoncé” is also her best album yet.

Beyoncé’s music has always had a clean, pop shine to it for the most part, but here it feels darker and more hip-hop influenced. Anyone can gather this after hearing “Drunk In Love.” Accomplished beatmakers like Timbaland and Hit-Boy team up to create a much edgier sound that is cohesive throughout.

The beats to “Partition” and ‘Flawless” wouldn’t sound out of place on a modern street-rap album, and Beyoncé’s delivery is definitely at her most aggressive. There are also lighter cuts, like the opener “Pretty Hurts” and the three closing tracks, which provide a nice balance.

Lyrically, Beyoncé displays her common themes of feminist selfempowerment and relationships. “Pretty Hurts” is a semi-autobiographical look at growing up taught to be only concerned about looks and nothing else, and the damage it causes. On tracks like “Blow” and “Rocket” listeners get to hear plenty about what the sex between the world’s hottest couple is like, to the point it’s almost awkward (Surfboard!), although Jay-Z sounds pretty wack on his “Drunk In Love” guest verse. It’s made up for with touching songs with Drake (“Mine”) and Frank Ocean (“Superpower”). Even more emotional is the album closer “Blue,” about her world-famous baby and the experience of being a mother.

Only a few tracks stand out as being noticeably weaker than the rest, and non-Beyoncé fans probably won’t notice more than a few popular songs that make their way onto the radio. Still, these 14 tracks stand on their own as Beyoncé’s most consistent of her extremely successful career, and the accompanying music videos take the themes and theatricality to a whole new level. In a year full of pop releases from Justin Timberlake, Katy Perry and Lady Gaga, the queen of pop surprised everyone and delivered the best one yet.

TOP 5 BEYONCÉ SONGS

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3

4

5

“IRREPLACEABLE”

“CRAZY IN LOVE”

“SINGLE LADIES”

“SWEET DREAMS”

“NAUGHTY GIRL”

Written by Ne-Yo about his ex, the honest lyrics combined with Beyoncé’s powerful voice made this song a hit.

Known as the track that brought together the power couple, this song gives the listener a window into an otherwise private relationship.

Accompanied with a wellchoreographed music video, “Single Ladies” was the girls’ anthem of the year.

Off of the album where she brings out her alter-ego Sasha Fierce, “Sweet Dreams” is a song about how love can be two-sided.

This raunchy track off of her first album gained its popularity because of its sex appeal and unapologetic guitar riff.

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16 I OPINION

FEBRUARY 2014

Despite annulments, divorce and adultery, marriage has remained a sacred bond between two people in modern society.

For couples who practice abstinence, marriage also means sex. For couples who feel like they’re ready, they should not feel obligated to wait until marriage to have sexual intercourse.

By attaching sex and marriage, some couples might forget that marriage is about commitment and compromise and only think of the fact that they can finally have sex. Incidents like this contribute to the 40 percent divorce rate of young couples and a third of 35-year-olds having a previous marriage.

If sex is seen as something exclusively for marriage, unmarried couples—especially teenage ones—are more prone to be shy about asking about contraception and talking to their parents about this very important step that they’re taking in their lives. If they decide to be abstinent but then change their mind, there’s more of a chance of receiving false information or not even making an effort to get the right information, especially when abstinence has been proven not to work. According to an article titled “We Teach Them to Wait. Are They Listening?” by Melissa Mixon, Texas is the state that promotes and advocates for abstinence the most.

Texas also happens to be a state with one of the highest teen birth rates in the country.

Some might claim that sex before marriage decreases the sacredness of the experience because the two people involved aren’t as committed as a married couple might be. What these people might be forgetting are the long-term couples that choose to be in a civil union instead of getting married at all.

Regardless of what choice people make, the decision to have sex should be taken seriously. In order to decrease divorce rates of couples who marry just to have sex, it should not be attached to marriage and marriage only.

PRO

BY SARAH WALWEMA

CON

BY AUBREY RITZ

Couples should wait to have sex until marriage because it prompts them to value the intimate act as more than something physical but rather something that is emotional, spiritual and mental. Most importantly it leads them to value one another’s relationship as a bond with love instead of making it solely a lustful act.

A couple can focus on their actual relationship in many other ways. Especially when younger relationships occur, hormones can easily take over and can lead to uncertainty on the reason why one is actually dating another and whether it’s for lust or love. People are very capable of taking advantage of someone and leaving them afterwards, but marriage is a more binding contract. Expectations may also arise from those who are experienced, which could lead to the relationship being decided on the lust aspect rather than love once again.

If one waits for marriage, and it is the only person they will ever have sex with, it would be more special and will not have lost its meaning by the time someone is married. Individuals who have had a significant amount of experience prior to marriage may not feel as much loving, passionate, emotional and permanent attachment to be with the one they love versus someone who has never

experienced sex before.

Also, when a partner has already been sexually active, this may cause problems in a relationship with jealousy from the other partner along with other emotional problems such as depression. In addition, if more people waited to have sex until marriage, the spread of sexually transmitted diseases would decrease.

Disease increases significantly if someone is sexually active, which is something that could potentially be lifelong. No matter the protection used, there is always a chance of pregnancy and getting an S.T.D. If one isn’t ready for the lifelong commitment of taking care of a child, he or she should not engage in sex.

Although waiting for the right person may seem like it changes the definition of marriage more with sex, it actually has the potential to give more value to the connection of a relationship.

Ultimately, the decision is something that can never be taken back.

SEX before MARRIAGE

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STAFF EDITORIAL:

When is it time to say, “I love you”?

There you are, sitting in the middle of the park with your significant other after a wonderful night out.

The sun has set and you two are finally alone. There’s this strange and awkward tension in the air, and you’re not sure what to do - is it time to head in for the night, or is this the time to pull out those three magic words? Flustered and embarrassed, you manage a string of syllables that come out as a gurgle, and with that, your romantic night is over.

Saying your first “I love you” can be very intimidating and difficult, especially if you don’t share your feelings easily. Figuring out exactly how you feel, knowing what saying it means for your relationship and having a long-term plan can help you avoid uncomfortable and confusing situations like this.

When it comes to communicating those dreaded three words, the first question is “when?” The first step is to understand what “true love” means to you and your relationship.

There are certainly no set of rules or guidelines to follow. However, many consider this point to be a lifechanging decision, and that saying “I love you” means that you are ready for a long-term commitment. Some may even believe that saying “I love you” should be reserved for when

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It’s time to say “I love you” when, if you lost the person, it would severely affect you.

Through tragedy, love is shown.

Kailie Fowler, 11 someone thinks they have found their life partner - after the couple goes through several ups and downs and passes the honeymoon phase, and are stronger in love than ever. The right moment is different for each couple, and the only way to know when is to know what “love” means for you and figure out whether or not it describes your feelings and your relationship.

This could require much reflection, research, and support from your friends and family.

When you decide that you are finally ready to take the scary first step of a committed relationship, it is important to communicate it in the right way. Sharing your sincere feelings is a very personal matter,

I think you should wait past the puppy love stage, and if you look at the person and recognize their flaws and still like them, then you should say it.

Saying “I love you” is not something to be taken lightly; you should reserve it for someone you truly care about.

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and most would consider it extremely rude, impersonal or insensitive if relayed in any way other than face to face. Texting or calling can often do for quick, on-the-go messages, but in order to make these three words special and meaningful to you and your partner, it is best to set up a more romantic, face-to-face setting.

Start with a place or an activity that is special to your relationship or a place that you think your significant other may particularly love. After the dinner or night out, wait until you feel it is the right moment. Here, you can get creative: spelling it out with food, taking a walk to a spectacular view, or simply telling them after the conversation dies down. Finding a

unique setting and the perfect moment can play a great role on the effect of these powerful words.

After the task is accomplished, it is essential to not expect hearing it back right away from your partner.

Give him or her time to sort out his/ her feelings. This process may take anywhere from a few days to a few weeks, or even months - everyone approaches it differently. Remember that saying “I love you” should have no strings attached, and you said it because you meant it, not because you wanted to hear it back. This may be a difficult pill to swallow. If you truly love your significant other, be patient.

If the love is reciprocated, you two are ready to start a new chapter.

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18 I SPORTS

FEBRUARY 2014

Drama on National Signing Day

BY ZACH LIBBY

Coleman runs by Carolina Panther linebacker Thomas Davis in week one of last season. Photo Courtesy of Bob DonnanUSA TODAY Sports

Coleman celebrating a tackle on spcial teams during Super bowl 48 agaisn tthe Denver Broncos. Photo Courtesy of Ed Mulholland-USA Today Sports

FOR THE LOVE OF THE GAME:

Deaf athlete overcomes odds in the NFL not think he is a stepping stone for other

BY ZACH LIBBY athletes rather someone who has created “They told me it couldn’t be doneawareness for impaired athletes and the that I was a lost cause.” success they or anyone for that matter can Seattle Seahawks fullback and have if they make the right choices and 2014 Super Bowl champion, Derrick work hard. Talent helps too.”

Coleman, recalls his life story on a According to Bob Condetta of The Duracell Battery commercial, depicting Seattle Times, Coleman became deaf at rejection from classmates and coaches three-years-old. He played football at to playing for the Seahawks on the Troy High in Fullerton, California before biggest football stage. attending UCLA for college.

“I believe that there should be The 23-year-old signed with the more people like Derrick Coleman,” Seahawks on December, 2012 after math teacher Nick Merlo said. “Not being released because he is by the Minnesota hearing impaired Vikings, the team but because His disability will not be he signed with as he is a man an unrestricted with character what holds him back, free agent. Playing possessing it will be his ability to mostly special integrity, teams, Coleman has courage, produce on the field receptions for empathy, physically. If he can block/ eight 62 yards. He caught justice and his first touchdown run he will have a job. accountability.” on Monday Night The Football on Dec. 2, minute-long CHAD ZWOLINSKI, TEACHER 2013. advertisement “I think shows that, Coleman can last in despite the NFL,” AP U.S. History teacher Chad Coleman’s disability with his impaired Zwolinski said. “His disability will not be hearing he has overcome the odds what holds him back; it will be his ability and inspired fans from all over, as to produce on the field physically. If he he continues to the road for disabled can block/run, he will have a job.” football players.

The fullback position can be one of “There have been other impaired the most brutal and physical spots on the athletes before Derrick Coleman most field.

Multiple collisions and frequent famously Jim Abbott, who was born without a right hand,” Merlo said. “I do violent plays are common for fullbacks,

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as they are required to block opposing defenses at full speed.

As the recent debates of the concussion problems in the NFL continue, it raises the question of whether or not the fullback position is needed.

This has sparked the evolution of franchises switching to a pass first, run second motive.

“It’s all cyclical. It all comes back,” Varsity football coach Erik Vernon said.

“Right now it’s not obsolete because some of the teams, like Seattle or San Francisco, they run the ball and use the fullback. I think a lot of teams will come back to it.”

Coach Vernon further explains.

“Football is funny. Offensively, teams want to go faster and throw the ball around and defense will want to match that. The offenses will then realize that we need to get bigger and pound it out.”

In his second year in the NFL, Coleman has already received a Super Bowl ring after winning SB XLVIII against the Denver Broncos. It was the first-ever Super Bowl in franchise history and the first championship won by any Seattle professional team since 1979.

“I was a little surprised by the result of the game,” senior Jacob White said. “Knowing that the Broncos have arguably the best quarterback in the NFL with Peyton Manning, who set the single season passing record in 2013.

But defense wins championships and Seattle had the No. 1 scoring defense last season.”

For any top high school football recruit, the process of selecting a major Division 1 program to play for his college career on national television is one of the greatest moments of his young life.

National Signing Day, held on the first Wednesday of February, is the first day that the best recruits from the country can sign a National Letter of Intent with any program that has offered scholarships to a certain individual.

Unlike some recruits, it was a bittersweet experience for Southfield High defensive tackle Malik McDowell. The 6-foot-6, 260 pound lineman had offers from the likes of Alabama, LSU, Notre Dame, Michigan & Michigan State, Oregon and USC. McDowell eventually narrowed it down to U-M, MSU, Ohio State and Florida State. It was clear that he wanted to play for the Spartans and head coach Mark Dantonio, but his mother and father had different ideas about where McDowell should attend college.

In an interview with 247Sports. com on February 3, Greg McDowell explained why he doesn’t want his son to play at MSU. “You have to be somewhere you have less distractions and be around people that do what you do, go to class, be football players, be a studentathlete. That’s the environment I want him to be around, and not be in close proximity to his friends.”

Greg sucked up his dignity and came to the signing event held by Southfield High to watch his son announce where he wants to attend MSU in front of a national audience.

Unfortunately, Malik’s mother was not at the event to sign the letter of intent, causing the signing to delay. Greg told the media that since he’s not the legal guardian, the NLI to Michigan State is not official.

It was a tough day for McDowell, as he was seen holding back tears on camera due to not having his mother at the event, watching and supporting him at one of the biggest moments of his life. She told 105.1 FM that she didn’t want her son to attend Michigan State for the same reasons as her ex-husband. Unlike Greg McDowell, she showed her frustration that Malik wanted to go to *999

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BY OLIVIA BENNETT AND A.J. PRISCIANDARO

As one of the top baseball and hockey athletes in the county, junior Max Harper has gained recognition from his peers and coaches. “Max has been our best all-around hitter in the last two years and has steadily become one of the best players in the county,” baseball coach Mr. Eric Magiera said. “He has a very bright future.”

Rochester United’s Max Harper takes a shot on goal against Clarkston. Photo Courtesy of MI Prep Zone

Junior Max Harper is visually attractive to the human eye based solely on his golden mane that flows like a cascading waterfall. His shy smile is about all you’ll get out of him, unless he has something truly important to say.

“I speak fine; I just don’t talk much,” Harper said. “I guess I’m pretty particular about how I use words.”

This man of few words happens to be one of the strongest student athletes at RHS, excelling in both baseball and hockey.

“Max has a passion to excel at the sport,” hockey coach Mr. Craig Staskowski said. “He might be the most talented kid I have ever coached. He seems to do everything well and make it look easy.”

Harper’s teammates say the key to his success are his work ethic and discipline.

“He probably works harder than anyone else at practice,” senior Conner Pacella said.

Harper explains his approach to practice.

“I always just practice like it’s the game,” Harper said. “It’s the best way to get prepared.”

Other teammates see Harper as

inspiration to try harder.

“I think Max shows us all that trying our hardest gets results,” senior Evan Asuncion said.

“It’s great to have a teammate like him.”

Many say one of the most intriguing attributes of Harper is how reserved and humble the all-star athlete is.

“He’s a man of few words,” Mr. Staskowski said. “But the team looks to him as a leader. Max leads by the example he sets on the ice.”

According to his teammates, Harper is more outgoing and social on the playing field than he appears to be in the halls of RHS. “In smaller groups, Max becomes a different person,” Pacella said. “He appears to be really humble because he is so quiet, but he is actually a little cocky.”

Players on both teams claim to be close with each other.

“My chemistry with my teammates is very strong,” Harper said. “Despite

Rochester United’s Max Harper cross sticks while fighting for the puck. Photo Courtesy of MI Prep Zone

some of us being from rival schools, we have a lot of bonding time, staying in the hotel together and dinner parties.”

Other players seem to agree with this strong chemistry.

“Our team’s chemistry is on another level,” Pacella said. “It’s basically AP Chemistry.”

Continuing his hockey and/ or baseball in college seems imminent.

“If Max wants to play beyond high school, the opportunity will be there,” Mr. Staskowski said. “He is that good. It really comes down to what he wants to play more, baseball or hockey.”

According to baseball coach Mr. Stephen Fox, Harper also has the ability to play baseball in college.

“He has definite potential to play in college,” Mr. Fox said.

“He’s only a

junior right now so he has two more years to get even better than what he already is.”

Harper wants to continue his athletic career in college; however, he is not set on which sport he will pursue.

“Playing baseball in college is more likely,” Harper said. “But I’m not 100 percent sure.”

Harper’s athleticism is innate and natural, according to Mr. Fox. “Overall, he’s just a really talented athlete who works very hard and focuses at everything he does,” Mr. Fox said. “He never screws around in practice or a game, it’s like everything comes naturally to him.”

The battle between schoolwork and sports can be hard, but Harper says he’s managing fine.

“It’s hard work being such an involved athlete,” Harper said. “But it’s worth it, and I can still find time for homework if I use my time wisely.”

Harper is additionally known for his kind heart, making him a role-model for the next generation of student athletes.

“I have two young sons and I feel the greatest compliment I could give any of my players is to say that I want my sons to grow up and be as good of a young man as them,” Mr. Staskowski said. “I want my boys to grow up and be like Max Harper.”

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20 I TALON LOVE QUIZ

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1. WHAT IS YOUR IDEAL FIRST DATE? A. WITH A GIRL B. A CONCERT C. ANYWHERE I WANT D. WATER PARK E. A MOVIE

2. WHAT IS YOUR DREAM VACATION?

2. WHAT IS YOUR DREAM VACATION?

A. GREECE B. THE GALAPAGOS ISLANDS C. PARIS IN SPRING D. A BEACH IN THE CARIBBEAN E. AUSTRALIA 3. WHO IS YOUR CELEBRITY CRUSH? A. MEGAN FOX B. MILA KUNIS C. KRISTEN BELL D. NATALIE PORTMAN E. NINA DOBREV 4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ROMANTIC MOVIE? A. “FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS” B. “500 DAYS OF SUMMER” C. “27 DRESSES” D. “BEAUTY & THE BEAST” E. “A WALK TO REMEMBER” 5. WHAT IS ONE THING THAT IS ON YOUR BUCKET LIST? A. 2.7 SECONDS ON A BULL NAMED FU MAN CHU B. GO ON A MISSION TRIP TO AFRICA C. TRAVEL TO EVERY CONTINENT BUT ANTARTICA D. SEE ELLEN DEGENERES LIVE E. SWIMMING WITH DOLPHINS

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A. TORONTO B. NEW ZEALAND C. HAWAII D. BARCELONA E. ITALY 3. WHO IS YOUR CELEBRITY CRUSH? A. RYAN GOSLING B. ANDREW LINCOLN C. CHANNING TATUM D. DAVID BECKHAM E. JOHN STAMOS 4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ROMANTIC MOVIE? A. “SILVER LININGS PLAYBOOK” B. “TITANIC” C. “THE VOW” D. “CASABLANCA” E. “THIS MEANS WAR” 5. WHAT IS ONE THING THAT IS ON YOUR BUCKET LIST? A. MAKE A BUCKET LIST B. BECOME A BILLIONAIRE C. PLAY ONE BASEBALL GAME IN THE MAJOR LEAGUES D. LIVE IN FLORIDA WITH A GATED POOL E. REPAY MY PARENTS FOR ALL THEY’VE DONE FOR ME

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY A’s, your Talon love is: Olivia Bennett. She likes “How I Met Your Mother”, candles and putting her feet up.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY A’s, your Talon love is: A.J. Prisciandaro. He likes sarcastic tweets, Justin Bieber mugshots and Nintendo 64.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY B’s, your Talon love is: Melanie Wong. She likes watching Netflix, baking and going to boy band concerts.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY B’s, your Talon love is: David Martin. He likes sports, intelligent conversation and adventures.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY C’s, your Talon love is: Ambika Vohra. She likes biking, travelling and looking at good art.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY C’s, your Talon love is: Grant McPherson. He likes watchnig tv, hanging out with friends and listening to music.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY D’s, your Talon love is: Aubrey Ritz.

She likes cats, finding new music and trying new things.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY D’s, your Talon love is: Zach Libby.

He likes build-a-bear workshop, cutting off old people and strip clubs.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY E’s, your Talon love is: Paige Farnsworth. She likes running, vacationing and good style.

IF YOU GOT MOSTLY E’s, your Talon love is: Edgar Sokoli. He likes watching Netflix, spending obscene amounts of time at Lifetime and “Draking and driving.”

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