Sticks Feb 2014

Issue 17 February 2014

In this edition of The Sticks Exclusive interview with Alan Clark formerly of Dire Straits Interview with Ed Byrne BBC Radio 2’s Janey Lee Grace on 7 Steps to a Longer Life Win tickets to see “The Magic of the Beatles” & “Viva La Diva” We road test the Lexus IS300H The latest Kippings Food Column And much more Plus pages of events listings across Herts, Beds & Bucks

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Welcome to the February edition of the Sticks Magazine!

The most talked about magazine in Herts, Beds & Bucks With over 16,000 readers a month

In this issue: Exclusive interview with Alan Clark Interview with Ed Byrne Curwens Column If Your Happy And You Know It Win Tickets to see the Magic of the Beatles Win Tickets to see Viva La Drag Janey Lee Grace- 7 Ways to a Longer Life Road Test – Lexus IS300H Boomerang Kids Kippings Food Column Listings for Herts, Beds & Bucks

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Contributors: Janey Lee Grace, Martin Wilson, Terry Sullivan Donna Obstfeld, Andrew Merritt-Morling, Jo Coker

See you in March Editor & Sales: Layout and design:

Terry Sullivan Martin Wilson

Tel: 07756 274444 Email: thesticks9@gmail.com www.the-sticks.co.uk Follow us on twitter @thesticks9 www.facebook.com/sticksmag

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Exclusive Interview with Dire Straits Keyboard Player Alan Clark

Alan Clark joined Dire Straits in 1980 as their first keyboard player and played a significant part thereafter in their transformation into one of the world's biggest bands.

Acknowledged by his fellow band members as Dire Straits' unofficial musical director he co-produced their last studio album On Every Street - he has also played and recorded with many other artists including a four year stint in Eric Clapton's band, two Bob Dylan albums, Tina Turner's Private Dancer record (and her musical director) and the Bee Gees’ hugely successful Still Water album.

The Sticks spoke to Alan about his career

How did you get in to music? Well I guess I was always into music really, I was caught plonking on my Grandmothers piano at a very early age when I could barely reach the keys, after that I was sent off for piano lessons and we had a piano in the house and after that I just taught myself and then, what really did it, was a Hammond organ shop opened up in my local town where I went to school and I went in there a taught myself how to play the Hammond organ. Then I started playing in working men’s clubs and one thing lead to another and here I am. I was the resident organist in a club, so I would be backing the acts, even strippers, and playing a few tunes in between with the drummer.

There was a big live scene happening then in the working men’s clubs.

Just before I was asked to join Dire Straits, I had a very strong feeling that something was going to happen. I was headhunted by Dire Straits - they had heard about me as I had been playing with Gallagher and Lyle, so when they needed a keyboard player they asked around and one of the people they asked was their manager and he recommended me. Before that I had been playing with a duo called Splinter who in 1974 had a hit with “Costafine Town” They were the first group signed to George Harrison’s Dark Horse Records. I made a few albums with them, so I met George Harrison before I joined Dire -4-

Straits and then of course I would meet him again when I was playing with Eric Clapton’s band in the late 1980’s. He used to hang around and play with us.

So how did the invite to join Dire Straits happen?

One morning I was in bed around 10am and the phone rang so I ran downstairs (as we did not have mobiles in those days of course, this was 1980) and it was Dire Straits’ second in command manager enquiring about my availability for a major band and I said tell me who it is, he said I can’t tell you that, so I said I am not interested then, so then he did tell me and I knew all about them because a friend of mine was a huge fan of them and he used to play their records all the time. So I was very familiar with them.

Was it strange joining an already established group? No not really because they had never had a keyboard player so it was not like I was replacing an existing member so I was inventing all the keyboard parts. It was a perfect scenario for me.

Did you ever think that Dire Straits were going to be as successful as they were? No, nobody knows they are going to be that successful. I hoped they would be because that is what you strive for. We were very different at the time and it is amazing that the group managed to emerge from the punk era. It was Holland that first picked up on them in 1977 then it happened in the rest of Europe then drifted across to the States. It was really “Brothers in Arms” that cracked America for Dire Straits and the album was the best selling of 1985 and is still one of the biggest sellers of all time.

What would you have said was the highlight of working with Dire Straits? Probably would be the “Brothers in Arms” era as we were so successful. When we arrived in New Zealand for instance, we got that Maori welcome, like the Queen gets, where they dance etc. and on the tour we played to 67% of the population of New Zealand.

Have you had any low points in your career? I suppose the only thing is when you are getting dragged around the world, moving from one hotel to another you can get a little bored but I can’t really complain but the travelling can get to you, I would rather be in the studio being creative.

Would you say that Dire Straits were responsible for MTV taking off with the song “Money for Nothing”? That was my idea, we had the track and when we were rehearsing, I thought it would be good to have an intro and MTV had and by then had dropped the song by Sting “I want my MTV“ then MTV picked up on “Money for Nothing” again and it went on to be the most played video in MTV. -5-

What did you do when Dire Straits split up? I was quite happy to do nothing for a while but then I did some stuff with Tina Turner (I became Tina’s musical director) I had worked with Tina before as Mark wrote and performed on her hit “ Private Dancer” and I played on it too and I also recorded with lots of artists including Joan Armatrading.

Is there anyone you would like to work with? There are quiet a few, Van Morrison, I would love to join his band for a while and Paul Carrick would be fun.

Is there anything you would like to be remembered for? The reason I do what I do is to make people happy, so for making people happy then.

Do you have a favourite song? It would be something by John Mayer probably “Gravity” and my favourite Dire Straits track would be “Private Investigations”.

Where is the best place you have played? I think that would be Australia as it was such fun. We played 21 nights in Sydney at one go, all sold out. I used to go wind surfing in the afternoon and arrive at the Entertainment Centre at about 6pm still in my wetsuit.

Is there anywhere you would like to perform? I have never been to South America and maybe China.

What do you do as a hobby away from music? I do kickboxing everyday and I am into keeping fit and run 6 km everyday.

Now you are with a group called “The Straits”, how did that happen? It all began two years ago in Rome. Dire Straits' sax player Chris and I were having breakfast beside a pool one beautiful, sunny morning when I declared we were going to form The Straits. We'd been presented with the opportunity to put a band together to play at a charity show at the Albert Hall. I had discovered a singer called Terence Reis and heard him performing some Dire Straits songs rather brilliantly; it seemed the logical thing to do to form a band around him. So, next we needed a band. My first thought was to call guitarist Phi Palmer who'd played on Dire Straits' ‘On Every Street’ world tour in '91/92, and that was easy because he lives in Rome. There was only ever going to be one drummer: Steve Ferrone, probably the best rock drummer in the world, a good mate - we'd played together for some years when we were in Eric Clapton's band - and godfather to my son and daughter. There was a slight catch insomuch that he's Tom Petty's drummer and has been for the past 20 years but I figured -6-

Tom wouldn't mind sharing him for a good cause! Then we needed a bass player. We'd briefly considered using a line-up of ex Dire Straits players - and believe me, there were plenty offers - but we decided to go our own way', to hand-pick the absolute best, so Mickey Feat was recruited on bass. As for the additional keyboard player role: I'd watched Jamie Squire grow up - his family were neighbours of mine in a village in Northumberland, as were Tim Healy and Denise Welch, Brendon Foster, and Rowan Atkinson - and develop into the amazing multi-instrumental singer/songwriter he is today. So, he was on board too. As is the way with all things that are meant to be, it was all very easy. Suddenly we had a band, and what a band it turned out to be! I've played in some pretty damned good ones in my time; this one might be the best. People regularly tell us we are at least as good as Dire Straits in their heyday; some, and discretion prevents me from naming names but suffice to say they are very well qualified indeed to make judgement, say we are even better.

Are you going to be recording any new music? Yes we are working on new material and we started recording in January and sometime in 2014 we will be releasing a record, hopefully an EP. See the Straits live: Friday February 14th - Stevenage Leisure Centre Sunday February 16th - St Albans Arena

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INTERVIEW – ED BYRNE

By Veronica Lee Ed Byrne says he's a miserable old git. He didn't celebrate his 40th birthday last year and his new show, Roaring Forties, is partly about the many things in life that annoy him. But in the flesh he's smart and funny, and as for being a party pooper... Well, not really – he's planning a celebration in November when his tour reaches Glasgow, the city where his career began 20 years ago after he had studied horticulture at the University of Strathclyde.

The Irish observational comic, who grew up in Swords in Dublin, started re-evaluating his life after that landmark birthday, as you do, and it gave him the idea for Roaring Forties, which is his trademark mix of one-liners and extended anecdotes, and covers a range of subjects from fatherhood and friendships to vasectomies and driving awareness courses .

“It's about getting older,” Byrne says, “about being at an age where you're not really that old but no one thinks you're trendy anymore.”

Byrne has embraced middle age and reached the conclusion that on the whole people annoy him.

“It's like a spring-clean of my life,” says Byrne, “and I've come up with reasons why you can't be my friend. There are seven billion people on the planet and I only have the time to be friends with 10 of them and so I have to choose carefully.”

What are his rules? “It's the little things that annoy me,” he says. Such as? “People who don't indicate on roundabouts, people who uses the phrase, 'Touched a nerve there', or 'I'm just making conversation'...” The list runs on.

How flexible is he? Could we negotiate if I forget to indicate just the once, for instance?

“I don't have time for you! If we have to get into a debate about it, then no,” he says, laughing.

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in his material, ever object? “It's something that most comics experience,” Byrne replies. “People know what you do for a living and then they complain when you mention them in the act, and I've certainly had at least one girlfriend in the past who objected.

“But my wife and my family are really funny and Claire understands what goes with the job. Actually she comes off very well and people say our relationship – very sparky, very joshing - comes across. I can't think of a time when she's said you can't use this, but if she did, I'd not use it.

“As for the kids, any stuff I do about them I seriously doubt in years to come they'll hate me for and make me pay for their therapy,” he says with a laugh. “Although I am aware that there's an age at which you have to be sensitive to their wishes and not embarrass them, but that's some years off.”

Talking of sensitive matters, Byrne finds the funny about having a vasectomy, but he was also under the surgeon's knife recently when he tried to move a compost bin in his garden and gave himself a hernia. Fans may have seen him exposing his midriff on Graham Norton's BBC programme to show off his war wounds, but they're healed now.

“It's all fine, and I'm stronger than ever before,” he says. The Irishman is actually superfit; a keen hillwalker, he recently climbed Mont Blanc and bags Munros in Scotland.

As he is about to mark 20 years in the business, has he noticed any differences in his performances over that time? “One thing that has changed is that I now don't pretend to think something for the sake of a joke. I mean there's always comic exaggeration and embroidering a story to make it funnier, but it's more true to my life now. I used to say I hated kids, for example, and it wasn't true – I've always loved kids and wanted to have them, but that wouldn't have fitted with the style of comic I was earlier in my career.

“I think being truthful makes it more chancy, but if I take an opinion and try to find a way to make it funny – even if people don't agree with me - I think it pays off because audiences know what's authentic.”

His fanbase is, he says, “pretty broad” - people of his own age and above, and teenagers who know him from his Mock the Week appearances, while some of his audience is drawn from his TV advertisements and occasional acting roles.

Byrne may do more acting as he has some ideas bubbling away for a sitcom – no doubt one about a miserable middle-aged git one of them - and who knows if we'll lose him to the small screen. Catch him live while you can.

See Ed on his tour: Thurs 27th February. Bedford Corn Exchange Weds 12th March. Alban Arena, St Albans Fri 21st March. Hertford Theatre

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Finding solutions together – how collaborating with your ex could save you money

It is that time of year when relationship breakdowns are on the increase. Traditionally, this means bitterness and mistrust between the couple – which can be intensified when one of you decides to instruct solicitors.

People usually believe that involving solicitors means huge legal bills and having to attend court. However, there is an alternative. This can avoid any court hearings and help keep your costs down.

The collaborative approach is different.

• specialist family solicitors are trained to help you find solutions through discussions with your ex-partner at face-to-face meetings • your solicitor and your ex-partner’s solicitor work together to help you and your partner through the maze of options • there are no court proceedings unless by agreement • you and your partner retain control of the process – for example deciding how often the meetings take place, how long they last, and what is on the agenda • you have access to like-minded professionals to assist in the negotiations- such as Family Consultants for emotional support and Financial Neutrals for specialist money and pension advice • you and your partner decide on the final solutions for your family - not a Judge at court who does not know you or what is important to you

Resolving all those money and children issues amicably allows you and your ex-partner to maintain civil communications with each other. This can help your children cope better with the separation and save on legal costs in the future, In Hertfordshire, a large proportion of the family solicitors have trained as collaborative advisers and we regularly meet up to ensure that we are able to work well together to assist clients. We even have a group website to jointly promote the collaborative approach – www.hertsfamilylaw.co.uk If someone you know is going through a difficult relationship breakdown and needs legal advice please suggest that they give us a call for a different approach. At Curwens LLP, we were some of the first in the county to train as collaborative lawyers and we are always happy to have an initial chat without any obligation to instruct us.

All our contact details are on our website www.curwens.co.uk Curwens LLP are your local solicitors based in Royston, Hoddesdon, and Enfield.

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If You’re Happy and You Know it ………… ….you’ll work better! One of my long held mantras is that you spend too much time at work not to enjoy what you are doing. Do you work to live or live to work? Many people who work can’t afford not to, but working should not just be about the pay cheque at the end of the month.

To be truly happy and effective in your role, you need 4 key elements: • • • •

To have the skills, ability and experience required to do the job for which you are employed.

To be paid enough that you feel fairly rewarded for the work you are doing.

To understand the impact and value of the work you are doing to both your employer and your customers - both internal and external.

To feel valued, challenged and able to work with a degree of trust and autonomy.

January is typically a time when people begin to job hunt. With the economy picking up, employers are increasingly willing to recruit and that creates more opportunities for people who are job hunting.

Whether you are already in a job, looking to return to work after a break, or looking for your first job, there are several considerations apart from the elements identified above and increasingly these are lifestyle driven choices: • •

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What hours do you want to work? Increasingly there is a move away from Monday to Friday 9 – 5 work. With the increase in trading hours across many industries from retail to customer service, there is now more flexibility than ever to work hours to suit.

Where do you want to work and how will you get there? There is often more money attached to jobs in the centre of the City, but some people may prefer not to battle with the daily public transport commute into their nearest City / Town Centre. People want to work closer to home, reducing the stress levels and commuting times.

What do you enjoy doing and how can this earn you money doing what you enjoy?

Changing jobs is not the only way to become happier at work. Making changes to your working environment through discussion (and perhaps negotiation) with your boss may help you to be able to put a tick in one or more of the above boxes where there wasn’t one before.

Donna Obstfeld is Managing Director of DOHR, an HR practice which specialises in making the workplace a better place to be. For more information, call 01923 504100, visit the website www.dohr.co.uk or email enquiries@dohr.co.uk

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WIN TICKETS TO SEE THE MAGIC OF THE BEATLES At Grove Theatre, Dunstable on Saturday 15 March Help the producers of The Magic of the Beatles create the authoritative Beatles top ten, and win a pair of tickets to come and see the show into the bargain. . .

Celebrating 50 years of number one Beatles hits, The Magic of the Beatles is coming to town with its A Hard Day’s Night Golden Anniversary Tour and we have one pair of tickets to give away. Simply provide the name of your favourite Beatles song (to help create an all-time Beatles top 10) and complete the question at the bottom of this article to be in with a chance of winning.

The critically-acclaimed stage show has embarked on a nationwide tour celebrating the golden anniversary of the Beatles film, album and hit single – all of the same name – that propelled John, Paul, George and Ringo to worldwide stardom.

The Magic of the Beatles recreates the group’s legendary live performances, and more.

Taking you from their Mop Top roots to the psychedelia of Sgt Pepper and beyond, from Love Me Do to Let It Be. Fantastic costumes, brilliant vocals and incredible musicianship come together in a lavish magical musical trip back to yesterday.

A Hard Day’s Night with The Magic of the Beatles celebrates the most exciting time in pop music history live and in concert.

To win tickets to this amazing show answer this simple question: At what local theatre is the Magic of the Beatles going to be performing?

Send your answer on an email with your name, address and daytime phone number and the name of your favourite Beatles song to: thesticks9@gmail.com Closing date: Noon Monday 10th March The tickets will go to the first entry drawn on Monday 10th March. There is no cash alternative. Usual Sticks rules apply. Editor's decision is final.

To buy tickets contact: Grove Theatre, Dunstable Box office: 01582 602080 www.grovetheatre.co.uk

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WIN A PAIR OF TICKETS TO SEE VIVA LA DRAG We've teamed up with the producers of brand-new stage show Viva la Drag! to give a lucky readers the chance of winning a pair of tickets to see the spectacular production at the Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage on Thursday 27th March.

If you’re ready to party like you’ve never partied before, Viva la Drag! comes fresh from a critically-acclaimed West End run.

It’s the ultimate girls’ night out. . . with added extras!

The outrageous party night stage show to die for packs in more chart toppers than any other. Glee-style mash-ups blend classic hits with current No1s: Single Ladies, Stop in the Name of Love, Car Wash, Get Lucky, Rolling in the Deep, Jolene, Crazy in Love, Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy and scores more.

Starring sweet harmonies, wondrous costumes and cutting-edge variety – including exquisitely-ripped male eye-candy – the famous dragtacular boasts real musical pedigree: directed by Kylie Minogue’s creative director; songs especially composed by Boy George; musical direction from No1 hit songwriter for the Sugarbabes, Emma Bunton and Kylie; vocals by arranger to Girls Aloud and Danni Minogue, costume design by Kylie’s famed world tours team.

Viva la Drag! charts the rise from rags to the queens of drag of an all-male/female close harmony group. Their razor-tongued manager navigates band splits and solo hits, against a backdrop of glitz, hits, fun and kitsch in the show of the year. Over-16s advised. www.easytheatres.com To win tickets please answer this simple question: Viva la Drag is coming to which local theatre?

Send your answer by email to thesticks9@gmail.com with your name, address, email address and daytime phone number. Closing date: Noon on Thursday 20th March First prize will go to the first entry drawn on Thursday 20th March. There is no cash alternative. Usual Sticks rules apply. Editor's decision is final.

To buy tickets contact: Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage. Box office: 01438 363200 www.gordon-craig.co.uk

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7 Easy Steps To Live Longer

7 easy steps to a longer life was the heading on a national newspaper recently. There are seven golden rules for a healthy life that can prevent heart disease and cancer according to a new report. The simple steps were originally flagged up to help people with heart disease but it was found that they can cut cancer risk by half. The Lancet published the report saying that the conditions causing most years of life lost were - in order – heart disease, lung cancer, stroke, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, lower respiratory infection, colorectal cancer, breast cancer and self harm.

It’s a sobering list and one that may make you wonder if the ‘longer life’ is worth the sacrifice, there is always the old quotation…

‘Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chardonnay in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out screaming ‘woo..woo.. what a ride’ But joking aside - what are the seven steps?

Stay physically active Keep a healthy weight Eat healthily Maintain a good cholesterol level Keep your blood pressure stable Control blood sugar levels Don’t smoke Well let’s look at them briefly from a holistic perspective. We get a huge amount of ‘feel good factor’ hormones from physical activity and its benefits cannot be underestimated. Keeping a healthy weight is hugely important, especially as a huge percentage of the western world is over fed yet undernourished, Eating healthily, is SO my mantra its practically written on my forehead, Avoid processed foods and eat pure unadulterated foods that ‘roam’ or ‘grow’ preferably indigenous and locally sourced.

I truly believe cholesterol IS good, stick to organic eggs and you’ll be doing just fine, don’t limit them.

Keep your blood pressure stable, watch your stress levels especially. Control blood sugar levels, (sugar is the big killer), always eat breakfast and ensure you get enough proteins and complex carbohydrates, don’t expect your body – equivalent to a premier formula one car to keep going without the right fuel.

But it probably won’t surprise you though to hear that I have at least one of my own suggestions to add to that list, indeed I’d tweak the order and put mine first!

The super important extra secret to longevity is to Be Happy – scientists show that people who are happy and have a sense of community live longer and more fulfilled lives, but what if the chips are down and life is not treating you well? Well according to research you can CHOOSE to be happy, one sure-fire way is to practice kindness. David Hamilton author of ‘Why Kindness is Good for You’ explains that kindness is beneficial on a physiological level not just to the recipient but also for the person being kind.

Be kind to yourself and others, maybe you could share the chardonnay and strawberries …

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Road Test Lexus IS300h 2.5 Luxury CVT 4dr Compact Executive Saloon

It is hard to believe that Lexus has been in the UK for almost a quarter of a century. The IS can directly trace its roots back 14 years to the launch of the first IS. The new IS is a handsome looking car and a significant improvement on the previous generations. The front is a lot more distinctive with a big grille accentuated by sharp Lblade LED lamps that are separated from the main lamp clusters. The new IS is set on a platform that has seen the wheelbase stretched by 70mm which translates into improved space for those occupying the rearmost seats.

This now means that a couple of six-foot passengers can easily fit into the back and feel quite at home and arrive at their destination suitably refreshed.

From behind the wheel is where Lexus really scores points. The interior is superbly appointed and spacious with a combination of authentic retro and high-quality finish.

The driving position and steering column are more comprehensively adjustable compared to the previous generation which makes finding the ideal driving position a doddle.

Under the bonnet lies a heavily revised 2.5-litre four cylinder petrol engine which runs direct injection and is tuned to work its best at medium revs. An electric motor takes

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over when conditions allow. Combined, they make 220bhp at their peak – which is more than you would find in most rivals with 2.0 diesels.

The 0-60mph sprint can be accomplished in an acceptable 8.3 seconds and top out at an artificially limited 125mph.

Incredible refinement creates an enhanced feeling of well-being. Driven gently and the Lexus is imperceptibly quiet with barely a murmur emanating from under the bonnet.

Apply the throttle gently and you will be impressed with how slick and quiet it is. But press on and you could become more frustrated with noticeable lag before the power arrives.

The IS has a surprisingly happy hunger for bends and roundabouts. If you are prepared to push on the handling is slop-free. There are hints of mild understeer but not enough to worry you. In town, not only do you travel in relative serenity, but the ride is comfy but firm without much banging or thumping. We were genuinely impressed with the ride and handling of the Lexus, and feels that this has set a new standard for the Japanese company.

At 450-litres, the boot on the hybrid is 30-litres less than that found on its traditionallypowered petrol sibling. However, the rear seat backrests fold down in the ubiquitous 60/40 fashion to provide space for longer items. This is standard on this trim and would often be an extra-cost option on some its so-called premium-badged competitors.

Thanks to the gubbins beneath the body, the IS300h can slip beneath the psychologically important 100g/km CO2 emissions line, but the version as tested runs on wider rubber and 17� wheels which means this is a smidgeon over at 103g/km.

In conclusion, the IS 300h is a great alternative to the Teutonic establishment from Audi, BMW and Mercedes-Benz who dominate the compact executive car class. If you treat it as you would a BMW, you may well be disappointed since the CVT gearbox achieves its best if driven gently. Do precisely this, and you will be rewarded with what might be the closest experience you could get to what it must feel like to own and drive a Rolls-Royce – and for about a fifth of the price. www.first4auto.com -16-

Boomerang Kids With ever increasing house prices and frozen mortgage provision more children are now seeking to return home to live. Recent statistics reveal that over 3 million over 50’s still have grown up children living at home. Naturally, many parents are keen to help their child, but offering an adult child a room can create enormous problems if the ground rules are not well thought out before hand. For example, though the media often pitches articles about sex at the young, recent studies have shown that more than 80% of 50-90 year olds are sexually active. Greater longevity, increased wealth and improved health for this age group mean they are fit active and interested in sex. This is a very positive and healthy thought for many of us looking into the future, as health wise an active sex life has many benefits and once the children leave home, many adults rediscover freedom in their relationship, and time for each other. However, this can be compromised by an adult child returning home to use all the facilities and make a noise, just when the couple are enjoying some intimacy and personal space. As well as putting a dampener on the parents sexual relationship, it can be squeamishly embarrassing to think, or hear, your parents, or parent and new partner, having sex! The restriction of freedom, privacy and spontaneity, that the adult child, parent or parents experience, can result in pressures for all involved and affect relationships.

So when considering offering an adult child a room back at home it is vitally import and to set some ground rules so that you can live companionably together. ● Will they pay rent and how much? Some times parents do not want to take rent, but take it and bank it so it can go towards a deposit for their own home. ● What is the time frame? It is wise to put a boundary on this or you might find they may never go. ● What areas and consumables can they use? Please be very, very specific. There is nothing worse than your daughter nipping into your luxurious bathroom and pinching the oils that you had better plans for! Or getting home after a hard day to find all your wine has been drunk. ● What you will and will not do for them? Some parents slip straight back into cleaning, cooking, picking up clothes and doing the washing, and then wonder why they are tired and frustrated.

Adult children also find it easy to slip back into dependence. ● Privacy rules, how will you respect each others privacy and space? Much as you might love to hear about your child's life them bursting into your room at night to tell all, may be enough to finish any intimacy that night. ● How will friends will managed? Often returning children bring with them a friendship group.

How and when can they come around? If your house is full of noisy young adults all the time, where will you have space and peace? Similarly, the parent will need space for their friends and partners if they are single. How is this to be agreed?

Sit down and have a sensible discussion and negotiate the rules, this will help avoid the pit falls, allowing the two generations to live comfortably side by side while offering a much needed stepping stone to an adult child on their way to independence.

Consult our web for lots of helpful information and if you want to see a therapist remember help is just a phone call away and sessions are available from just £15.00 (subject to status)

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Make no bones about it Having dined in many New York steak houses, I have always had a real desire to sell roasted marrow bones in one of my restaurants. Fergus Henderson has been selling them for years at his St John’s restaurant, but until recently I had never seen them regularly served outside of London. The practice of eating marrow became very popular among the upper classes in late 17th and 18th centuries, but in later years it became a nutritional choice for anyone with a poor diet as it was easily digested, rich with collagen and contained vitamins K1 & K2 which are known to improve bone health, regulate normal blood clotting and prevent calcification of the arteries – with all that collagen as well – you may look pretty good too... who knows?!

The marrow bones served at Kippings Bistro are veal bones which are kept overnight in salted iced water and then roasted in our ovens for 15 to 20 minutes to serve. The garnish of gremolata (parsley, garlic and lemon zest) is the perfect partner to accompany the marrow on the toasted bread. It may not sound to your liking, but it is truly delicious and so far, some of the fussiest diners we have ever encountered, have been charmed by this delicacy – now it’s your turn.

Kippings Bistro is rated as one of the Top 75 restaurants (out of over 1600) on Trip Advisor in Hertfordshire.

Discover why!

Telephone - 01582 833122 Email - reservations@kippings.co.uk 1 Church Street, Wheathampstead, Herts AL4 8AR www.kippings.co.uk

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Herts Listings World of Wallace – Alfred Russel Wallace and his life in the field - til Saturday 22 Feb Explore the world of Alfred Russel Wallace and his achievements. See beautiful natural history specimens and discover how Wallace pioneered the theory of natural selection. Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain SG14 1DT Murder Mistaken - Saturday 1 Feb An accomplished cast perform in a tense psychological thriller, Murder Mistaken. Edward Bare the outwardly respectable clerk, is married to Monica, a rich, doting wife many years his senior. Henderson Hall, High Street, Abbots Langley WD5 0AR Stay and Play Saturdays - Sat 1 Feb 10.30 am – 3.30 pm .The Andrews Room at Hertford Museum will be open for families to enjoy. Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain Hertford SG14 1DT Winter Market- Saturday 1 Feb We will have our usual popular stalls of homemade cakes and marmalade, fresh eggs and vegetables, as well as bric-a-brac. Letchworth Free Church Hall, Gernon Road, Letchworth Garden City SG6 3HS Masters Of The House - Sunday 2 Feb Don’t miss this musical feast featuring former stars from Les Miserables, Evita, Phantom of the Opera, and other hit West End musicals, performing in concert. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL Teddy Time 2 - Sunday 2 Feb It’s bedtime for Lily and she knows that bedtime is never fun without a story. With a little a bit of help from her magical storybook, be transported into the enchanting world of Lily’s imagination...

Hawthorne Theatre, The Campus, Welwyn Garden City AL8 6BX Drawing for Pleasure - Wednesday 5 Feb Learn to draw with our professional illustrator and non stop drawer Brian Melling. Friendly and informative. All abilities welcome. Booking is essential. Frogmore Paper Mill, Fourdrinier Way, Apsley HP3 9RY Joe Longthorne - Wednesday 5 Feb This talented artist began his career over three decades ago with appearances on Junior Showtime, followed by a grounding on the tough Northern club circuit. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL Absent Friends - Wednesday 5 to Saturday 8 Feb The Gordon Craig Theatre in house productions present Alan Ayckborn’s Absent

Friends. Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage Arts and Leisure Centre SG1 1LZ Stephen K Amos - Thursday 6 Feb Fresh from the Edinburgh Festival, Amos is hitting the road with a brand new show. Expect an evening of fun, warmth, big laughs and audience interaction from the master of feel-good comedy. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL Macmillan Cancer Support Film Screening "Untouchable" - Friday 7 Feb Film Night in aid of Macmillan Cancer Support. Untouchable (15) This film is an irreverent, uplifting comedy about friendship, trust and human possibility.

Harpenden Public Halls, Southdown Road, Harpenden AL5 1PD Our Country’s Good - Friday 7, Sat b, Mon 10 to Sat 15 Feb The barren landscape of Australia in1789 provides the setting for Timberlake Wertenbaker’s classic play that has become perhaps the strongest affirmation yet of the redemptive power of theatre. The Barn Theatre, Handside Lane, Welwyn Garden City AL8 6ST Aesop’s Fables- Saturday 8 Feb Come and enjoy a brand new re-awakening of Aesop’s Fables. Meet ‘The Boy Who Cried Wolf’ run riot with’ The Hare and the Tortoise’, play with ‘The Dog and the Bone and singing The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL Mum2Mum Market - Nearly New Sale - Saturday 8 Feb Sell your kids outgrown stuff and keep 100% of the proceeds. It’s hassle free, fun and profitable. Buy top quality preloved baby and children’s goods. Sele Farm Community Centre, 25 Perrett Gardens, Hertford SG14 2LW Comedy Club - Saturday 8 Feb Paul B Edwards hosts another anarchic evening of great comedy, with Christian Reilly, Jon Murfin and Jack Heal.

Licensed bar.Letchworth Arts Centre. 2 The Arcade, Letchworth Garden City SG6 3EW Brian Sewell - The Outsider - Saturday 8 Feb Hugely revered Art Critic for the Evening Standard for 20 years, Brian Sewell talks with great courage, passion, and wit about everything from superb classic cars to the latest fashion The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL Fowlmere Farmers Market - Sat 8 Feb We have gained a reputation for our friendly and welcoming atmosphere. We offer a full range of local foods including meats, poultry and game, fruit & veg, eggs. Fowlmere Village Hall, Chrishall Road, Fowlmere, Royston SG8 7RY

A Night at The Movies - Saturday 8 Feb An evening of film theme tunes played by your local brass band - Watford Town Band. St Luke’s Church, Langley Way WD17 3EG

together. Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage Arts and Leisure Centre SG1 1LZ ’80s Valentine’s Party Night - Friday 14 Feb With Our Friends Electric. Back by popular demand. A great party night with one of the finest ’80s party bands around. How better to celebrate St. Valentine’s Day? Letchworth Arts Centre, 2 The Arcade, Letchworth Garden City SG6 3EW

Pennyfarthing Antiques & Collectors Fair Sunday 9 Feb A quality range of 70 stalls, including Porcelain, Jewellery, Glass, Small Furniture and much more. Ideal for finding that individual gift. Wyllyotts Theatre Darkes lane, Potters Bar EN6 2HN

Charlie and Lola’s Extremely New Play Saturday 15 Feb Charlie and Lola are completely excited to be back on stage with their Extremely New Play - and this time they’re bringing along Sizzles the Dog! The Weston Auditorium, University of Hertfordshire, Hatfield AL10 9AB

Q The Music - Sunday 9 Feb Q The Music is a totally live performance of the very best Bond themes with amazing vocals accompanied by an outstanding band of musicians plucked from leading orchestras. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Sandon Village Market - Sat 15 Feb Sandon Village Market is a friendly farmers/craft market showcasing locally created products. Our regular produce stalls include locally reared meat, pork pies, fruit and veg, cakes and more. Sandon JMI School, Sandon, Nr Buntingford SG9 0QS

The Rise of Art Nouveau - Tuesday 11 Feb Lecture by Peter Darty BA This Lecture examines Art Noveau in all aspects, covering architecture, interior design, furniture, Silver, glass, metalwork, fashion, jewellery and textiles. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Jo Caulfield - Celebration of Anger - Saturday 15 Feb Award-winning comedian Jo Caulfield is back with a hilarious new show. Jo’s always wondered why anger is seen as such a bad thing.

Old Town Hall, High Street, Hemel Hempstead HP1 3AE

Beatlemania - Thursday 13 Feb Fifty years ago The Beatles released their debut album “Please Please Me”, and then went on to dominate the charts throughout the world and become the greatest, most successful act in the history of pop music. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Spirit of the Wild at Hertford Museum Saturday 15 Feb Wonder at an array of amazing creatures from around the world with Spirit of the Wild! Timed entry slots will be allocated on the day on a first come first served basis.

Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain SG14 1DT

Gerry Cross the Mersey - Thursday 13 Feb Join in this musical journey through the life and times of -Gerry Marsden. This is a roller coaster ride of fun, music and nostalgia. Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage Arts and Leisure Centre SG1 1LZ

Watford Finescale Show - Saturday 15 and Sunday 16 Feb Organised jointly between the Watford & District Model Railway Club and the North London Group. Parmiter’s School, High Elms Lane, Watford WD25 0UU

Paper Arts and Crafts - Thu 13 Feb Creative paper crafts with Paula Watkins – scrapbooking, collage techniques to produce wonderful images even if you believe you cannot draw. Booking is essential. Frogmore Paper Mill, Fourdrinier Way, Apsley HP3 9RY

Kidnapped - Sunday 16 Feb Presented by: Sell A Door Theatre Company “If life were easy, where would all the adventures be…?” An adventure tale for all the family. Hawthorne Theatre, The Campus, Welwyn Garden City AL8 6BX

Breakfast at Tiffany’s - Friday 14 Feb Struggling writer Paul Varjak (George Peppard) moves into a New York apartment building and becomes intrigued by his pretty, quirky neighbour Holly Golightly (Audrey Hepburn). Old Town Hall, High Street, Hemel Hempstead HP1 3AE

Through The Ages Wedding Show - Sunday 16 Feb A great way for the suppliers to showcase their creativity and to offer the bride and grooms some inspiration. Newgate Street Village, Near Hertford SG13 8RA

The Straits - Friday 14 Feb This unmissable evening of music is an absolute must, not just for fans of the music of Dire Straits but also for anyone who appreciates great musicians playing

The Johnny Cash Roadshow - Sunday 16 Feb Fronted by respected singer/songwriter Clive John, with The Spirit Band, the performers truly capture the essence of what it was like to be at a real Cash show! Also featuring Jill Schoonjans

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as June. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Bizet represented. Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage Arts and Leisure Centre SG1 1LZ

Harpenden Antique Fair - Sunday 16 Feb Haddon Events are pleased to be launching a brand new fair for 2014. Harpenden Public Halls, Southdown Rd, Harpenden AL5 1PD

Old MacDonald had a Farm - Thursday 20 Feb Old MacDonald had a farm E-I-E-I-O. But Old MacDonald’s animals have gone missing! Can you help a friendly scientist and his amazing time machine get them back for him? Hawthorne Theatre, The Campus, Welwyn Garden City AL8 6BX

Historical Dance - Sunday 16 Feb Country dances and a selection of allemandes. St Stephen’s Church Hall, 14 Watling Street, St Albans AL1 2PX

LA TRAVIATA-Russian State Ballet and Opera Thursday 20 Feb La Traviata combines compelling characters with hugely powerful, moving and instantly recognisable melodies, making it still, 160 years after it’s 1853 debut.

Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage Arts and Leisure Centre SG1 1LZ

Top Events Outdoor Activity zone February half term - Monday 17, Thu 20, Fri 21 Feb Activities for individuals, families and groups and parties from 2 or 3 people to parties of 100. We provide fun, different and challenging activities for all abilities (age 6yrs+) Top Events Activity zone at ‘Three Lakes’ Leisure, Westmill Farm, Westmill Road (A602), Ware SG12 0ES

Andy and Mike’s Tick Tock Time Machine Friday 21 Feb Created by Mike James, Andy Day, Iain Lauchlan Directed by Iain Lauchlan Music and Lyrics by Jamie Ledwith Following their smash-hit show, Andy and Mike’s… Big Box of Bananas. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Wow! This Show is Magic! - Tuesday 18 Feb Dr Bondini is a master of spellbinding storytelling and illusion, whilst Jezo can’t fail to keep any audience enthralled with his quick jokes, quick tricks, quick wit and friendly boyish charm.

Hawthorne Theatre, The Campus, Welwyn Garden City AL8 6BX

A Night of Dirty Dancing - Friday 21 Feb Come and experience the brand new spectacular featuring all the hits from everyone’s favourite dance movie Dirty Dancing in the ultimate tribute show. Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage Arts and Leisure Centre SG1 1LZ

Abbamania - Tuesday 18 Feb Abbamania will have you dancing in the aisles, creating nearly 2 hours of pure ABBA nostalgia. Gordon Craig Theatre, Stevenage Arts and Leisure Centre SG1 1LZ

Swinging At The Cotton Club - Saturday 22 Feb Featuring: The Jiving Lindy Hoppers & Harry Strutters Hot Rhythm Orchestra Take a step back into 1920s New York City and through the doors of Harlem’s hottest nightclub. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Excellent Explorers at Hertford Museum Family craft activities for February half termTuesday 18 to Thursday 20 Feb 10.30 am – 3.30 pm, last entry 3.00 pm Become an intrepid explorer like Dora and Diego with crafty activities inspired by our Alfred Russel Wallace.

Hertford Museum, 18 Bull Plain SG14 1DT

Knight Time - Saturday 22 Feb Scratch Built Productions What would you do if you were face to face with a dragon? Is jousting as painful as it looks? And what is the best way to shine rusty armour? Old Town Hall, High Street, Hemel Hempstead HP1 3AE

Half-Term Holiday Courses -Tuesday 18 to Thursday 20 Feb 3-Day Football Course on fantastic 3G artificial pitch at The Arena, Norton Road, Baldock, SG7 5AU. Fun skills, games, mini tournaments, and more. All participants receive prizes.The Arena, Norton Road, Baldock SG7 5AU

The Witches of Eastwick - Tuesday 25 Feb to Saturday 1 Mar Ware Operatic Society will be performing The Witches of Eastwick. The story, made famous in the 1987 film starring Jack Nicholson, Cher, Susan Sarandon. Hertford Theatre, The Wash, Hertford SG14 1PS

Half term school holiday activities - Tuesday 18 to Thu 20 Feb Fun activities for children aged 4+. Mill Green Mill and Museum AL9 5PD

Fascinating Aida - Wednesday 26 Feb Following a sold-out 2012 tour, three Olivier Award nominations and over 10 million YouTube hits for Cheap Flights (their infamous anthem to budget air travel) The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

CARMEN - Russian State Ballet and Opera House - Wednesday 19 Feb Large live orchestra. The music of Carmen has been widely acclaimed for it’s brilliance of melody, harmony, atmosphere and orchestration, and for the skill with which

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Radlett Music Club: She’Koyokh - Klezmer Group - Wednesday 26 Feb This award winning group is regarded by many as todays best Klezmer and Baltzan music band. The evening will be a multilingual exploration of songs from the Baltic to the Black Sea and Klezmer. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Enzo Liason Live at Grosvenor G Casino Luton Saturday 1 Feb 10:30pm Free Entry Join us for our Saturday night entertainment with Duet Enzo Liason! 35 Park Street West, Luton LU1 3BE Ardley Hill Academy Table Top Sale - Saturday 1 Feb Refreshments and craft tables to entertain the children.

Lowther Road, Dunstable LU6 3NZ

David Starkey - The Tutors -Thursday 27 Feb The Tudors and Us The UK’s leading constitutional historian, known for his forthright views, talks about the period he describes as “the most glorious soap opera”. The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Baking demonstration - Monday 3 Feb Come and see how to bake a red velvet cake in the Riverside Cafe at Jordans Mill. Jordans Mill, Langford Road, Broom Nr Biggleswade SG18 9JY

Screaming Blue Murder - Friday 28 Feb Sean Meo, Tania Edwards Compere: Martin Coyote.

Let’s celebrate the end of the shortest month with a cracking SBM line-up. Old Town Hall, High Street, Hemel Hempstead HP1 3AE

Philharmonia Orchestra: Best Of British Wednesday 5 Feb Dramatic works by Benjamin Britten and Vaughan Williams, including Britten’s striking Four Sea Interludes from Peter Grimes, and Williams’ powerful Symphony no. 6.Bedford Corn Exchange, St Paul’s Square, Bedford MK40 1SL

Dylan Thomas: Clown in the Moon - Friday 28 Feb Clown in the Moon, (the title of a poem written when Dylan was 14), is a portrait of the poet’s chaotic, frequently hilarious and all too brief life. Hawthorne Theatre, The Campus, Welwyn Garden City AL8 6BX

Dick Whittington - Friday 7 and Saturday 8 Feb The Totternhoe Players are performing their 2014 pantomime Dick Whittington. This is a fun production for all the family, written by local script writer Gavyn Ludsden. Totternhoe Lower School, Church Road, Totternhoe LU6 1RE

What The Ladybird Heard - Friday 28 Feb and Saturday 1 Mar Based on the award-winning picture book by Julia Donaldson & Lydia Monks Two crafty robbers, one tiny ladybird, and a whole farmyard of fun! The Radlett Centre, 1 Aldenham Avenue, Radlett WD7 8HL

Quiz Night - Friday 7 Feb Sandy & District Horticultural Association is holding a quiz night in conjunction with The Sandy Allotment Association, Starting at 7.00 p.m. for 7.30 cost is £5.Bedford Road Sandy

Quiz Night - Friday 28 Feb Get Quizzical at the Paul Strickland Scanner Centre Quiz Night. Will your team be crowned Quiz Champions? Teams of 6 welcomed - bring your family, friends, neighbours and colleagues for a fun filled evening. The Fairway Inn, Rickmansworth Golf Club, Moor Lane, Rickmansworth WD3 1QL

Giant Browse and Book Sale - Saturday 8 Feb Come and browse and buy our huge selection of nearly new books. Enjoy refreshments teas/coffee cakes & biscuits, home made soup.

All profits to Blunham Church Fabric Fund. St Edmund or St James Parish Church, Blunham MK44 3NQ

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Time Traveller Trail - Saturday 15 to Sunday 23 Feb Travel through time at Wrest Park and solve our time travelling clues to win a prize!

How much do you know about Wrest Park’s history? Come and visit us this half term and find out! Wrest Park, Silsoe Luton MK45 4HR

Oh What a Beauty - Sat 1 Feb The TADS adult panto returns with a new twist on the tale of Sleeping Beauty. This production contains mild swearing and references of a sexual nature.

Suitable for over 18s only. Tads Theatre Conger Lane, Toddington LU5 6BT

Crafts, Cake and a Cuppa - Sunday 16 Feb A wide variety of high quality local handmade art and craft items, with typically over twenty different crafters attending. Tea, coffee and light refreshments available all day. Free admission. Woburn Village Hall, Crawley Road Woburn MK17 9QD

Heart to Heart Psychic Fair - Saturday 1 Feb In aid of the British Heart Foundation - a mind, body and spirit fair with stalls, tarot, reiki, healing, gifts, gemstones and spiritual gifts and products for sale, numerology, palmistry and astrology. Marston Vale Forest Centre, Station Road, Marston Moretaine MK43 0PS

Biggleswade Antiques Fair - Sunday 16 Feb Over 45 stalls offering a range of antiques from

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Mum2Mummarket - Saturday 1 Feb Childrens Nearly New Sale, Sell your outgrown children’s items, clothes, toys and equipment with tables from just £10, bookable via the website. www.mum2mummarket.co.uk.

The Grange School, Aylesbury HP21 7NH

jewellery, glass, china, pictures, postcards, kitchenalia and militaria. Popular cafe serving lunches, hot and cold drinks. The Weatherley Centre, Eagle Farm Road, Biggleswade SG18 8JH Rainbow Fish - Kids crafts and storytelling Monday 17 Feb Brighten up the end of winter with rainbow storytelling and make a bright and colourful window decoration. Marston Vale Forest Centre, Station Road, Marston Moretaine MK43 0PS

Well Oiled Band Night - Saturday 1 Feb A relaxed evening of live music provided by local band "Well Oiled". Cash bar, BYO nibbles.

Everybody welcome. St Joseph’s Parish Centre, St Josephs Church, Austenwood Common, Chalfont St Peter SL9 8RY

Luton’s Full House Feb Fest - Monday 17 and Tuesday 18 Feb Stuff to do and things to see for Children and young people during February half term A selection of performances, storytelling, arts based workshops, youth theatre and dance for children. Luton Culture LU1 2NG

Quiz - Saturday 1 Feb A General Knowledge Quiz with Fish & Chip Supper (bring your own drinks) To book your table (up to 8 people) contact Jane Rogers 01844 347906.Longwick Village Hall, The Green, Off Thame Road, Longwick HP27 9QY

Skeptics in the Pub - Thursday 20 Feb ’An atheist’s guide to the Alpha Course: What can atheists learn from the church?’ A presentation

by Simon Clare. The White Horse, Newham Ave, Bedford MK41 9PX

Taster Art and Craft series - Drawing and Painting - Saturday 1 Feb This will be a relaxed workshop, led by painter Jane Hansford, where you are encouraged to explore different techniques and materials and work in a style that suits you. Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX

Mole’s Underground World - Kids Crafts and Storytelling - Friday 21 Feb Find out about these secretive creatures and make your own model of the mole’s underground world. Marston Vale Forest Centre, Station Road, Marston Moretaine MK43 0PS

The Marlow Antiques & Vintage Fayre Saturday 1 Feb Discover a treasure trove of Antiques and Vintage items from 9am to 4pm.

Liston Hall, Chapel Street, Marlow SL7 1DD

Scrapbooking / papercraft workshop - Sat 22 Feb What to do with all those photos? Have a go at making a memory album scrapbook. Friendly workshop - come along with your scrapbooking project or card making, or start a new hobby.

Leighton Buzzard LU7 8TD

Changing Buckingham - Saturday 1 Feb A temporary exhibition of photographs of the town taken over the past 100 years. Buckingham Old Gaol, Market Hill, Buckingham MK18 1JX Art Club - Tuesday 4, Tue 11, Tue 25 Feb Jane and Lian from Happydoodle are back for more art adventure! Join them for this seven week course, featuring a different art technique each week.

Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX

Bucks Listings Craft Bags! - til Sat 1 Mar Come along to the Visitor Centre at Denham Country Park while it’s wet and have a go at making an indoor craft.

Pick a craft bag from our selection ranging in price from 50p to £3. Colne Valley Park Visitor Centre UB9 5PG

Family History Talk: The Paths and Old Roads, Watering Holes for Man and Beast - Wednesday 5 Feb Bruce Smith discusses the unusual subject of local drove roads. Droving started as soon as man began to own livestock. Methodist Church Hall, Queensway, Bletchley, Milton Keynes MK2 2HB

A Brush with Art - til Tues 25 Feb Discover some of the amazing artists linked to Wycombe District from Eric Gill to James Gillray, Lorna Cassidy to Joshua Reynolds. Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX

The Bible: The Complete Word of God (Abridged) - Friday 7 Feb It’s apocalypse now as the three cultural guerillas of The Reduced Shakespeare Company set their reductive sights on the good book with The Bible: The Complete Word of God (Abridged). The Theatre, Stantonbury Arts & Leisure MK14 6BN

Boutique Cinema - Mon 3, Mon 10, Mon 17, Mon 24 Feb Every Monday Clayton’s Marlow transforms into an intimate Boutique Cinema to show you the very best in film. Sit back in one of their comfy sofas & sip on a cocktail. Clayton’s Marlow, 16 Oxford Road, Marlow SL7 2NL

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Storytelling Workshop - The Art of Telling Tales - Adults - Saturday 8 Feb Join master storyteller, Peter Hearn, for a practical workshop in storytelling. Great for parents, grandparents and budding storytellers. Don’t miss this wonderful opportunity! Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX

Get to know your sewing Machine - Thursday 13 Feb Sewing machines can be intimidating!

Learn what yours can do in a friendly environment, get to grips with those feet and release the tension! Sally White teaches £35.00.Threads and Patches, 15 Watling Street, Bletchley, Milton Keynes MK2 2BU

Little Chalfont Farmers’ Market - Saturday 8 Feb Great selection of quality, locally produced food at this monthly market, running since 2009.

Buy rare-breed pork, bacon and sausages, buffalo meat, lamb, game and poultry. Village Hall car park, Cokes Lane, Little Chalfont HP8 4UD

Romantic Tchaikovsky - Thursday 13 Feb A spectacular celebration of Tchaikovsky’s Romantic classics, from the sunny Capriccio Italian and popular tale of Shakespeare’s starcrossed lovers in his Romeo and Juliet Fantasy Overture. Wycombe Swan, St. Mary Street, High Wycombe HP11 2XE

Amersham Concert Club presents a Clarinet and Piano Recital - Saturday 8 Feb Kimon Parry (clarinet) and Tony Ingham (piano) are an exciting young duo whose recital is presented in conjunction with the Countess of Munster Musical Trust. Dr Challoners High School, Cokes Lane, Little Chalfont HP7 9QB

Tiny Talk Time: Percy the Park Keeper- Friday 14 Feb A special time at Wycombe Museum for the under fives. Enjoy stories, trails and craft activities, inspired by the Museum collection and gardens. Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP11 1ET

English National Badminton Championships Saturday 8 & Sunday 9 Feb See the best in the country play as the English National Badminton Championships arrive in Milton Keynes Tickets are now on sale for this great event. stadiumMK, Milton Keynes MK1 1ST

The 6th Bletchley Seed Swap - Saturday 15 Feb Bring your own seeds to swap, or unwanted commercial seeds. Or make a small donation per packet if you have no seeds to swap. Heritage and locally- grown seeds. Freeman Memorial Methodist Church Hall, Buckingham Rd, Bletchley, Milton Keynes MK3 5HH

Valentines Open Weekend - Saturday 8 & Sunday 9 Feb Open to all the family, a weekend of valentine related arts, craft demonstrations, try for yourself crafts and kids Giant Drawing wall. Tecton Centre, 46 Church Street, Fenny Stratford, Bletchley MK2 2NY

RSPB Big Bird Activity Day - Saturday 15 Feb A fun-filled day for adults and children alike. Make an apple feeder to take home. Dissect and owl pellet to find out what birds eat. Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX

Bourne End Community Food and Craft Market - Sat 8 Feb 10am-1pm ~ Free Entry ~ Disabled Access ~ Public Car Park (reasonable charges 30p/hour) The Jackson Room, Bourne End Library, Wakeman Road, Bourne End SL8 5LX

Abbamania Live 2014 UK tour - Saturday 15 Feb From Dancing Queen to Waterloo their record-breaking songs are timeless and continue to thrill generations. Abbamania are widely regarded as the UK’s top ABBA tribute show.

Wycombe Swan Theatre, St Mary Street, High Wycombe HP11 2XE

Buckingham Garden Centre Potato Weekend -Saturday 8 & Sunday 9 Feb Come along and meet our Experts, Thompson & Morgan’s potato and vegetable guru, Colin Randel, over potato weekend, to chat all things potatoes and vegetable growing (best varieties to select etc. Tingewick Road, Buckingham MK18 4AE

The Circus Is Back In Town! - Saturday 15 to Friday 21 Feb 10.30am, 12.30pm, 2.30pm & 4.30pm daily The award winning John Lawson’s Circus voted ‘Best Small Circus’, will make its return to Frosts Garden Centre, Woburn Sands, Milton Keynes MK17 8UE

Spectacular Wedding Show - Sunday 9 Feb If you are looking to plan a Magical Day without the drama then this Wedding Show is for you!

Located within a truly unique venue and with 100’s of ideas from local supportive Wedding Suppliers.

Aylesbury Waterside Theatre, Exchange Street, Aylesbury HP20 1UG

Model Railway Exhibition - Saturday 15 Feb With over 40 layouts and 25 traders, this is one of the largest model railway exhibitions in the region. Once again, we have expanded into additional space this year making this our biggest ever show. Shenley Brook End School, Walbank Grove, Shenley Brook End, Milton Keynes MK5 7ZT

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Felt Making and Stitch - Sunday 16 Feb Discover the magic of felt making with textile artist Helen Price. This two-part practical course will take you through the step-by-step process beginning with raw wool. Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX

two dozen real beers and ciders, many of them local(ish). Fairtrade wines and juices, Hot food, and a jolly atmosphere also available. York House Centre, London Road, Stony Stratford MK11 1JQ RISEX 2014 Model Railway Exhibition Saturday 22 Feb Presented by Risborough & District Model Railway Club, The whole of the Community Centre in Princes Risborough is taken over one day in the spring each year. Community Centre, Wades Park, Stratton Road, Princes Risborough HP27 9AX

Children’s Activities - Brass Rubbings - Monday 17 Feb A chance to do rubbings of historical, local characters and more. Buckingham Old Gaol, Market Hill, Buckingham MK18 1JX Lockdales Coins and Collectables Free Valuations and Buying-In Event - Tuesday 18 Feb Bring along your coins and collectables for a free, no obligation expert valuation. You will also have the option to consign your goods to our auction or to sell them direct to us for cash.

Liston Hall, Chapel Street, Marlow SL7 1DD

Quiz Night - Saturday 22 Feb Join South Bucks Hospice for an evening of fun at their annual quiz night! This year the quiz has moved to the new and very exciting location of Hughenden Valley Village Hall HP14 4NX

Wildlife Trust Evening Talk - ’All About Fungi’ Tuesday 18 Feb BBOWT invites you to a talk by Penny Cullington of the British Mycological Society. She will take us on an armchair foray looking in particular at fungi to be found in the Chilterns. Great Missenden Memorial Centre HP16 9AE

Go wild About Nature - Sunday 23 Feb Join in the fun and go wild about nature with different activities each month including crafts, investigations and discoveries.

Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX The Ultimate Ladies Night - Sunday 23 Feb Hobo Events presents The Ultimate Ladies Night Featuring three of London’s top rated male strippers, a Drag act and Ann Summers raffle all set in a club scene with DJs and all your best floor fillers. The Kiln Farm Pub, Keller close, Kiln farm MK11 3LH

Unicorns, Dragons and More! - Tuesday 18 & Thu 20 Feb Create your own magnificent mythical creature to take home. Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX The Berks, Bucks & Oxon Wildlife Trust: Children’s Workshop: Hoooo’s For Dinner? - Tuesday 18 Feb Come along to discover what our local owls have been eating for dinner! Dissect an owl pellet and be amazed at what you find. All children must be accompanied by an adult. College Lake Nature Reserve HP23 5QG

Tiny Talk Time: Billy’s Beetle - Friday 28 Feb A special time at Wycombe Museum for the under fives. Enjoy stories, trails and craft activities, inspired by the Museum collection and gardens.

Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX

Pop-ups and Moving Mechanical Workshop Wednesday 19 Feb Discover how to create your own pop-up pages and moving pictures in this fun, practical workshop. Wycombe Museum, Priory Avenue, High Wycombe HP13 6PX Classic Clapton - Friday 21 Feb Nearly 2 Hours of Classic Clapton from the world’s No1 Eric Clapton Tribute band. Stockwell Lane, Wavendon, Milton Keynes MK17 8LU

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Comedy Night at Missenden Abbey - Friday 21 Feb Join us for a delightful evening of comedy brought to you by Top Marks Entertainment.

Starring comedians Mickey Hutton, Kate Lucas and Chris Neill. Missenden Abbey HP16 0BD

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