The Vision of the “Voice of Manifestations” Newsletter is to communicate the various events to our partners and the community. Thus, it helps to build and enhance relationships between the two. The newsletter is also a mechanism to evangelize, encourage, build and lift up. The Voice focuses on the four aspect of Manifestations Worldwide, which are Spiritual Trainings, Education, Job and Housing. Our prayer is that God is touching someone’s life through the Voice of Manifestation Newsletter (VOM). Ultimately, our desire is to be obedient to the commission God has given us; to go and spread the gospel. All we need is an audience; someone that is interested, ready to listen, with a heart to receive. Many go door to door; but VOM newsletter travel email to email; across the country and around the world, seeking the heart in need of a word. And teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthews 28:20 (NIV)
A Note from the Editor
Dear Reader, As you know the focus of VOM is to communicate what is happening in the community, as well as to minister to those that are in need of a word and have an open heart to receive. This month we want to take this opportunity to remind you that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins and that you still have an opportunity to receive eternal life. It is FREE... and as simple as: A
Admit that you are a sinner
B Believe that Jesus Christ is the son of God and died for your sins C Confess Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior If this is what you believe and are ready to confess, repeat this prayer: “I know I am a sinner, and I ask for your forgiveness Father. I believe Jesus died for my sins and rose from the dead. I trust and follow Him as my Lord and Savior. Guide my life and help me Lord, to do your will in Jesus name, Amen.” We encourage you to tell someone about “Eternal Life” and invite them to receive Jesus as Lord and Savior. Proverbs 11:30- The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that winneth souls is wise.
This Issue
Page 8 God Bless Mothers by Pastor Eddie Boles Page 9 Motherhood by Jennifer Grant Page 10-13 Happy Mother’s Day from the Seasoned Seniors Ministry Page 16 Arise, Woman of God by M.S. Lowndess Page 17, 20-21 The Prayer Every Mother Must Pray Page 24 My Mom is My Superhero by Pastor Al Gonzales
Page 25 A Letter to Mothers by Linda Page26-27 An Unqualified Man’s Viewpoint of Motherhood by Keith Lashley Page 30 - 31 Car Maintenance Tips for Single Moms Page 32-33Not Just for Teacher Only– To All Mothers I Honor You Page 34 - 35Turning Barrenness into Blessing
“GOD BLESS MOTHERS” Pastor Eddie Boles Greetings believers! This month brings with it our annual celebration of Mother’s Day. The book of Proverbs provides valuable instruction concerning the treatment and honor of mother’s. Proverbs 30:11 advises us that there is a generation that doesn’t bless their mother. I believe we’re living in that generation currently, however as believers in Christ our attitude should be one of honor and adoration as it pertains to mothers; not only our biological mothers, but also women who serve as mothers in our lives in the role of mentors. The bible instructs us that life is but a vapor, we’re here today and gone tomorrow, and shame on us if we fail to recognize and honor the work of our mothers. Mothers are tasked with the job of raising us to be God fearing productive individuals as we mature to adulthood, committing their lives to our nurturing. I believe the majority of people will agree that mothers hold special places in our hearts so we should make all attempts to be very sensitive to these relationships since we have no idea how long God is going to allow them to be with us. Believers let’s make sure that we take every opportunity to celebrate our mothers as often as possible, so we never find ourselves in a place of regret. Think for a moment from the time you were born about all that your mother has done for you. Not many things in this life can compare. Our mothers basically put their lives on hold for at least 18 or so years; the majority of mothers have sacrificed many more years than that. So those that can, take time to give them their flowers now while they’re still here because one day it may be too late. For others thank God for the time that He allowed them to be with us to share and receive their love. They were truly a gift to us and for us. So, love them, celebrate them, honor them, bless them, encourage them, speak life over them, and make them feel like the most special person on the face of the earth. Why? Because they deserve it!
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!
MOTHERHOOD Jennifer Grant From a woman to a Mother Is a transition like no other Her tiny miracle comes to earth Then from her a child is birthed Held in her arms, she prays Oh Lord teach me motherly ways Designed for nourishment to come through She supplies her child with the milk that's due A mother's love is like a trees main vine It's the stem to our very life line Her love bares the leaves of patience, More love, goodness and acceptance She likens her child to an angel above As she cradles the babe with all her love She watches her seed grow day by day Teaching love and respect along the way She listens to her child’s every dream And is able to understand every scream Releasing to her babe needful peace With her embrace and kisses as problems increase She prays fervently for her child To grow NOT heartless and or wild But be manifested in wholesome pride With God's love and His heavenly guide
Happy Mother’s Day From the Seasoned Seniors Ministry Mother Anne Winston, Ministry Leader The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children. To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands that the word of God be not blasphemed (Titus 2:3-5). The Seasoned Seniors of Center for Manifestation pause today to honor all mothers of the family as well as motherhood, and the influence of mothers in society. Mother’s Day was created by Anna Jarvis in 1908 and became an official U.S holiday in 1914. Mother’s Day is an annual celebration held on the 2nd Sunday of May. The Seasoned Seniors Ministry want to especially encourage young mothers (especially single mothers), encourage women with no children, and encourage women with adult children who are wanting to mother (empty nest syndrome). Today is a day of celebration and recognition for the tremendous responsibility God has given you; the great call and privilege of motherhood. According to the word of God, Titus admonished the aged women to be teachers of good things and to teach the young
women to love their children. Mothers, your ministry is to your home first. We know you may be challenged with many concerns and serious issues that kids face; however, today is your day and our hope is to encourage you with good things from the wise aged women. Mother Anne Winston wor ds of encouragement to mothers: “We are as unique as our fingerprints. God has individual plans for us all (Jeremiah 28:11). Criticizing how God made you is an offence against God. For there is no respect of persons with God (Romans 2:11). You are not a mistake regardless of how you got here. Faith in God and obedience is what brings Him glory out of our lives.” Mother Kathleen Ransom wor ds of encouragement to mothers: “Ladies, we are called mothering mentors. A mothering mentor is a woman who has scaled the mountains you intend to climb. Listen, she has gone before you. She knows the path, she knows the toehold. This is what she does- she comes alongside you and offers encouragement that you too can make it.
From her own life experiences, she can teach on such subjects as how to mother, how to organize life, and how to develop your abilities and character. She has been there. She is a trail blazer. If you look around they are in the church, in our families, even in our cross-generation friendships. Are you eager to find one? You must look for qualities like honesty,
wisdom, discernment, and encouragement. You don’t have to look far- watch and observe. Observe how she acts with her husband (if she has one), her children, and her decision-making skills. Observe how she goes through trials. You don’t have to get it all from one single person. A mothering mentor is not a know it all. She is not an expert with degrees and credentials after her name. She is simply a mom who made it through some of the most challenging years of mothering. She learned from her mistakes, enjoys a few successes and can now share her insight with those who are
coming along behind her.”
Mother Agnes Huggins wor ds of encouragement to mothers: “Stay humble before God. Learn to be quiet before the Lord. Learn to live a simple life in every area of it. That you can hear what the Spirit of the Lord is speaking to you on a personal level.” Mother Olivia Brown wor ds of encouragement for the singles: “Daughters of Zion, we must continue to work together in unity. There is greater strength in unity. We must put love in action. Being single can be challenging and when you have children and your relationship with your spouse has ended, stay before God, Abba Father. If you harbor anger and bitterness, your children or child will be affected and that will give an open door for Satan to come into your home to kill, steal and destroy your peace. Therefore, be honest with yourself about your true feelings, and stay at the feet of Jesus until your deliverance comes. As seasoned women of God, our love is sincere. If you need help we are here for you. Whatever we can do to help with your work to live in harmony and serving the Lord, we are here (Romans 12:4-13).”
Mother Betty McCray wor ds of encouragement to mothers: “Ladies, we must stop hitting the nail and missing the head; meaning, getting guys hot and bothered, but no commitment. Attraction is good; but having standards are where it’s at... because if you don’t stand for something, you will fall for the lies, smooth talk and games. Open your eyes see pass he is fine, good looking, driving that new car, and someone else is making the payments; it might even be his wife. Please recognize their pick- up lines. Stop letting them offer you the world. It’s not theirs to give. Psalms 24:1 says “The earth is the Lord’s and everything in it, the world and those that dwell in it.” Mother Wendy Pettis wor ds of encour agement to mothers: “Married, but yet single. Ladies you can be in marriage in bed with your mate and yet you are living a single person’s lifestyle because the two of you have different motives-both not satisfied. Women becareful of what you ask God for, knowing He will not override your decision for you to want His way. Wait on the Lord, I say, wait on the Lord. God knows how to satisfy you. Women like to be cuddled, loved and protected and that ladies only comes from God. Women, we need to educate one another.” Mother Monica Jones wor ds of encouragement to mothers: “Do things to make yourself happy. Don’t be so quick to have sex. Don’t just think of yourself. Get to know God closer, always. Be willing to keep a job. Get to know the one
you think you want to be with.” Mother Bobbie Gambrell- My testimony and words of encouragement to mothers: “You don't get this far in Christ without going through something. Time is not as long as you think it is. I've been going through test and trials ever since I was a little girl. When I was young I went through a lot. I was raped all the time, beat, been talked down to and I felt I was not good enough for God. But God worked it out. When I made up my mind to give my life to God, He came and changed my life. He raised me from my deathbed when I was dying of asthma. He took me off the streets when I was a prostitute. I no longer smoke or drink or fornicate. God delivered me from so much and He can do the same for you! I give Him all the glory and honor for it. Amen.”
glorify God. Walk in the manner of God that’s worthy of calling. The God of peace Himself will give us peace. Love you all.” Mother Cynthia Myles wor ds of encouragement to mothers: “Beauty within is having compassion for others, helping others, being a shoulder to cry on, respecting others, respecting yourself, having kindness to all that God created, loving others and of course loving yourself. Serving others can be a beautiful demonstration of godliness in your life. God wants you to be willing and joyfully serving those he brings into your life. God desires His beauty to shine through your life. Beauty flows out of a heart hidden in the beauty of Christ. Remember the Lord’s words to Samuel thouI am accepted (Ephesians 1:6); I am a sands of years ago that are still as true child of God (John 1:12); I am Jesus friend (John 15:14): I am joint heir with today. Man looks at the outside appearJesus (Roman 8:17); I am redeemed and ance, but the Lord looks at the heart of man (1 Sam. 16:7). You are beautiful.” forgiven (Colossians 1:14); I am free from condemnation (Romans 8:1); I am the temple of God- His Spirit and life lives in me (1 Cor. 6:19).” In closing young women, the Seasoned Seniors Ministry is here for you. God is Mother Brenda Sidbury words of englorified whenever we teach and guide couragement to mothers: “Trust in the you in your Christian walk. Be encourLord with all thine heart; and lean not aged on this Mother’s Day and rememunto thine own understanding (Proverbs ber (Psalms 127:3-5 NLT), “Children 3:5). As long as you trust in our true livare a gift from the Lord; they are a reing God, you will never go wrong. Love ward from Him. Children born to a you and stay blessed in the Lord.” young man are like arrows in a warriMother Mary Wynn wor ds of encour - or’s hands. How joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them!” Mother Sandra agement to mothers: “Our purpose is simple- to honor the Lord God and read Barr your Bible daily. Pursue wisdom and start your time to design things that will
Arise, Woman of God Š By M.S. Lowndes
Rise up, O woman of God In what He has given you, The things God has laid on your heart, Rise up, go forth, and do Unlock what God has placed within, The potential you have inside The world is waiting for your release To expand your wings and fly Arise in your God-given gifts For this is your finest hour Arise in the Lord's holy might, Ignited and empowered For God is calling you to come forth To impact this world for Him, Don't hold back or limit yourself Let His power arise within And take His message to the world To those that have lost their way, For you can surely make a difference If you'd hear His voice and obey You shall be strengthened in the Lord As you begin to arise, Conquering those doubts that pull you down And believe who you are in Christ
For you shall surely be transformed As, in you, God increases more And become a woman of true excellence Bringing honor to her Lord
The Prayer Every Mother Must Pray Right to the Heart of Woman © Rebekah Montgomery 2007
I don’t think I ever truly loved anyone so absolutely unreservedly until the doctor placed a squirming little morsel of humanity on my chest and the nurses lifted my head so I could see my newborn. It was as if the spirits of every mother from Eve to the present gathered around the head of the delivery table and said, “Now you are really going to learn about unconditional love!”
years and adolescence was all-out warfare. The school actually had my phone number on speed dial. We tried everything and later discovered that he had some contributing medical problems. None of this changed our love for and commitment to our son, but it certainly tested it.
There were literally hundreds of nights when all I did was pray, begging God True. Too true. The slog through the for wisdom and to heal and save our Valley of the Shadow of Death required wayward son. I felt like I was trailing to birth a baby is a cakewalk compared the Good Shepherd through the darkto the rigors of childrearing. Like all ness, edging sheer cliffs, fighting mothers, I have needed to draw heavily wolves, as we searched for this lost on that God-given reserve of love for lamb. patience, wisdom, and endurance for I’ll admit it: I very often felt discourthat trek. But even childrearing is a stroll-in-the-park compared to the hand- aged. Yet, like the persistent mother Jeto-hand combat with Satan for the souls sus encountered (Matthew 15, Mark 7), I had just enough stubborn faith to keep of each of our four children. This was never truer than for our youngest son. After the tragic loss of a son and several miscarriages, my husband and I were blessed to adopt to complete our family. Some children are born with sunny dispositions and eager to please, but our last son came into the world indignant about the cold hands of delivery room nurse, the doctor’s bad breath, and slow service in getting him a bottle. He was angry and opinionated for the next 20
begging God to help and heal.
“True. But even dogs get crumbs.”
From my perspective, the story of the persistent mother is a tragic comedy with a happy ending. In the story, Jesus is visiting Tyre on the seacoast. The Scriptures don’t say what He is doing there—resting, preaching, shopping— but a mother attaches herself to Him, begging for mercy for her demonpossessed child and refuses to leave His side. The disciples are peeved. They don’t care about the suffering of the child or the mother. They want peace and quiet!
At this point, you can almost hear Jesus laugh with delight at her stubborn confidence in His goodness and grace. “You have great faith! Your daughter is healed!”
Here is just one of the heartbreaks experienced by the parents of wayward children: Not only are their children at risk, their Christian friends may not be very supportive. They may not know what to say. Or they are full of those irritating pat answers. Often, my husband and I found comfort and help at Al-Anon that we did not find at church. That should not and need not be the case.
One night, when the situation with my son looked hopeless, I had a vision. In it, I was carrying my son through a dark, foggy night over rocky terrain. He was heavy and the way was difficult but I would not set him down. I carried him uphill until I could go no farther. I looked up and before me was the cross and Jesus hanging upon it, His blood dripping down. In wonder and awe, I touched His blood and immediately, I felt stronger, hopeful, empowered, and wiser.
And joy of joys, she was! Regardless of the attitude of the disciples, prevailing religious snobbery, or any discouragement, the mother trusted and doggedly pursued the compassionate heart of Jesus. Every despairing parent can, too.
Fortunately, Jesus never tired of our neediness. Nor did He tire of the pleadAnd I knew what to do; I prayed the ing of the relentless mother. prayer every mother must pray for her The comedy portion takes place in the child whether that child is prodigal or clever, almost playful repartee between Jesus and the persistent mother. He says (paraphrase), “I can’t help you. I’m sent only to the lost sheep of Israel.” “Help me anyway,” the mother begs. “It’s not right to take the children’s meat and give it to the dogs.”
not: “By the power of the blood of Jesus Christ, bring every thought and imagination of my child’s mind, every emotion of his heart, every deed of his hands, and every step that he takes under Your Lordship. Lead him to love You with all of his heart, mind, and soul, and his neighbor as himself.”
I still pray for my son, but I pray in confidence now rather than out of desperation and fear. Like the persistent mother, I have laid him at Jesus’ feet. His love is healing him. Jesus wants my son to be well, too.
I have prayed the prayer of the persistent mother with many mothers and With that, I touched him with the blood grandmothers struggling to bring their of Jesus. Then I asked the Lord, “What children to mental and spiritual health in now?” a world where Satan actively seeks to destroy them. We will stay on our knees He said, “Leave him with Me.” pleading for the healing of our chilI laid my son at the foot of the cross. dren’s souls until we receive what we Although the vision ended, in my heart, seek, all the while believing in the powthere my son remains. erful love of Jesus whose crumbs heal.
Ministry Tips to Help Parents of Prodigals (POPs) 1. Acknowledge that prodigals happen despite the best efforts of parents. After all, God had two perfect children in a perfect world and was the perfect Parent but wound up with two prodigals (Adam and Eve). 2. Pray God’s protection over the children of POPs. The terror of every POPs is that their children will not only miss out on the peace and joy of knowing Christ now, but also eternally live separated from Him 3. Encourage POPs to let the Holy Spirit do His work and for them to cultivate a joyous relationship with their children. It is tempting for many POPs to focus only on the state of their children’s eternal souls and drive them further away from God. 4. Pray that God will give POPs special wisdom and sensitivity to their children’s needs. The parent-child bond needs to be strengthened regardless of the state of the child’s soul. As it is strengthened, the child is drawn away from his rebellion against the Lord.
My Mom is My Superhero MOOOOOOOMMMMMMMYYYY YY!!! That’s a call you will hear in the mall, in your neighborhood, house, airport, or anywhere a child may be found. It’s amazing! Whether it is pain, laughter, fear or joy; the name “mom” seems to be the remedy for all of them.
Mothers have a unique place in this world, from leaders to supporters, from queens to superheroes. She can be found giving a lecture or disciplining her children from ages 0 to 50. A mom has the superpower to make pain magically disappear because of a song, or turn a can of corn, mayo, and cheese into a gourmet dish. Drained from a busy day and only wanting to sit and be still, a mom will hear the grumblings of stomachs before they even walk in the door of the home. Up she goes and “ta da” a meal set for a king is ready in minutes.
raised. For me as a man, my mother could not be any greater, yet every day she shows greatness in the little and the big things. I can never show enough appreciation to her, yet she allows me to do so by how I choose to be a man after Gods own heart; that brings her the most joy and pride.
Even as an adult, moms may still gently give you a smack in the face that you gladly take; you know it’s not a physical hit, but an assertive reminder of what she’s taught you regarding a proclivity that causes the life pain that you’re going through. Yet when you hear her gentle whispers, you feel inclined to shift because making this supermom proud is a lifelong goal. To be half the person she is seems insurmountable. Yet generation after generation the bar has been
Thanks mom you are my superhero, and there is NO marvel comic character that can hold a candle to the strength and courage you have. Love you, Alex
A Letter To Mothers Mothers are Natural producers. Their bodies were equipped to house one of the most complex processes of Human history. Without mothers there would be no you or me. Dear Mother, You were chosen by God to be a vessel that would give birth to the future. To care for and protect the very being that came out of you. Your innate ability to be affectionate, nurturing, and having the capacity to understand your offspring’s need is a profound trait. You showed me the meaning of sacrifice through your actions when time and time again you put me before yourself. You were right there when I fell, and you nudged me back up through encouragement in your very own way. When I was sick you were there to make it better. You rubbed my back until I was peacefully sleeping. You were there to help prepare me for life through words of wisdom and your own experiences. Thank you for being God’s gift to me. Thank you for walking the extra mile just to see me smile, and for being the constant thing in my life. You share a love that never ends, and for that I’m grateful. Always a daughter,
Linda
An Unqualified Man’s Viewpoint of Motherhood Bro. Keith Lashley
AS A MAN WHO has never raised children, I will state that I am unequivocally unqualified to give advice to mothers. I can only write from observations and experiences throughout my life. Ultimately, motherhood is about nurturing and doing so no matter how bleak a situation may be. Good mothers know instinctively how to assuage their children's fears and convey a sense of love and security, regardless the circumstances. But what really marks a mother's life is her ability to impart these and other positive values into her children. A few years ago I was ministering at WT Edwards (youth detention center) to a group of incarcerated young men. One in particular, stood out from the group of rowdy youths in the classroom. He was obviously very intelligent even though he was quieter than the other boys. I asked him what was going on in his life. With great sadness in his eyes, and in a quiet voice he told me that his mother was a crack addict. There had been a drug bust at their house. She had been arrested previously and if she was arrested again, she would have gone to prison and he and his siblings would have been separated into foster homes. Looking into his eyes I could see his love for his mother, and a mature understanding love well beyond his years or even his capacity to truly understand. Despite the drugravished condition of his mother, he loved her and was willing to pay the price for her transgressions to keep her and her children together. The other young men quieted down to hear his story. I could see the empathy in some of their eyes as they recog-
nized the sacrifice he had made. His mother had taught him how to love sacrificially, even as she herself continued to live as an addict. Again, I can never understand the workings of a mother's love, especially that of a single woman struggling to care for and provide for her children. Whenever I asked the question at WT Edwards, who here has a relationship with his father; invariably, only one or two if any of the young men at WT raise their hands. But when asked about their mothers, almost all raise their hands. Several express regret for the pain they have caused their mothers. Both they and their mothers struggle with internal and external problems, some of which draw these young men back into the system over and over again. Yet their mothers show up time after time in the lobby of the youth detention center, not only to visit but to once again receive their children and try once more to overcome their adversities.
I know it is difficult for mothers who have their own families and problems to reach out and help others but, as believers, we are charged with helping others in need.
No one can teach a young mother how to be a better mother than another Godly mother, even one of a similar age. Godly mothers can talk to other mothers at the doctor’s office, on a bus, at church, even in a store aisle, sharing There are young people among us with incar- their struggles and offering a few simple cerated, missing or deceased parents who words of encouragement that can make a could benefit from the consistent nurturing of huge difference in another family’s life. We a substitute mother, even if it is for a few plant seeds and it doesn't take long to do so. hours every couple weeks. There are young And only other mothers can truly identify girls longing for a loving and friendly older with the struggles some face in their difficult “mother” in whom they can confide and ob- nurturing roles. tain Buying groceries for a mother who is obviGodly wisdom. ously struggling to pay for her items in a checkout line is one way. Or pressing a few dollars bills in her hand and telling her that God loves her is another way to spread the Gospel while offering practical assistance. If you are an empty nester, volunteer to babysit for a few hours or offer to pay for her to go to the hair and/or nail salon. Allow her to take in a movie or go for a walk. In fact, if you can, pay for her trip to the salon or movie theatre as well! So again I say, I am the least qualified to give advice to mothers. But I can observe the fruits of love. Most mothers are given a special love that has nurtured and preserved the human race since the beginning of time. As Believers, it is even more important to use the tool of motherly love to reach the lost. In doing so, the entire family may be brought into the arms of our loving Savior. Remember, He too had a loving mother, divinely chosen because of the importance of the work he was to accomplish on this earth. And His mother was instrumental in helping to prepare him for his earthly ministry by giving Him the love and support of a human woman to the earthly part of His divine self. Selah!
Car Maintenance Tips for Single Moms When it comes to routine automobile maintenance, many women take a back seat. "You don’t have to be a ‘grease monkey,’ but every woman should know some basics of car maintenance. Who wants to be stranded? It’s better to take care of things, so you’re less likely to have a breakdown." To increase the longevity of your vehicle and save time and money, consider these 10 maintenance basics offered by national automobile repair experts. “Also, do a quick inspection of the tires, belts, hoses, lights, wipers and fluids. Do you see anything that needs to be addressed?” 2. Retain records. “Archive all maintenance done on your car,” says automotive technology educator John Hoopes. “For organizational purposes, use a notebook to record the type of service, who performed it, the date and the vehicle mileage. More importantly, keep a folder of all receipts, so you have concrete records if there is ever a warranty isSource: MetroParent.com sue.” 1. Read, check and inspect. Paul 3. Observe oil. “To increase the lonDavis, an adult education auto gevity of your car, change the oil at technology instructor, says reading the manufacturer’s recommendathe owner’s manual will help indi- tion,” says Ed Kriston, AAA automoviduals locate, understand and op- tive expert. “Between changes, erate different instruments on the check the oil level regularly, particuvehicle and explain the manufac- larly if you suspect a leak or have an turer’s recommended mainteolder model. When the engine is nance intervals by time and mile- cold, start the car and let it run for age. “Whenever the oil is one minute then shut it off. Remove changed, check the manual to see and wipe the dipstick then reinsert it if the car is due for one or more into the tube and remove it again. maintenance items,” he says.
Read the lines toward the bottom of the dipstick to determine the oil level. Add oil until it reaches the full line, then replace the dipstick. Use only the type of oil specified in the owner’s manual.” 4. Filling fluids. “Refer to the owner’s manual to determine where the receptacles for each of the fluids are, what the proper levels should be, how to read them, if the engine should be turned on or off and what type and grade of product to use,” says Davis. “Most important, don’t get them confused; put the proper fluid in the right receptacle.” 5. Appropriate inflation. “Check tire pressure every few weeks, particularly when there has been a dramatic change in outside temperatures,” says Kriston. “Use the psi listed either inside the driver’s door frame, in the glove box or under the fuel filler door. Some people go by the number stamped on the outside of a tire, but that’s the maximum pressure, not the recommended pressure. To get a true reading, check pressure when the tires are cold. And don’t forget about the spare.” 6. Detect tire damage. “Cuts or grooves on the sidewall near the metal rim may mean the tire is losing air,” says Kriston. “To check tread depth, turn the tires to the right or left, then hold a penny between your thumb and index finger and place Lincoln’s head down into the tread. If you see the top of his head, you need new tires.”
7. Battery basics. Hoopes says, “Batteries more than three years old should be checked before winter and summer – times when most batteries fail.” “If you notice corrosion on the terminal, brush it off with a baking soda and water paste; then rinse. But remember, batteries can be dangerous, so wear safety glasses and rubber gloves,” he says. “If there’s a substantial amount of corrosion, the battery may need to be replaced.” 8. Look at lights. “Pull up to a storefront that has glass, turn on your headlights, switch to high beams and then put on your turn signals. Check the tail lights the same way by backing in,” says Kriston. 9. Watch wipers. “If the blades streak, wipe them with a paper towel to remove build up,” says Davis. “If they still streak or chatter going across the window, get a new set. Tell the auto parts store your car’s make and model. They will give you the right size and may even put them on for you.” 10. Use your senses. “Look, listen, smell and even feel for changes in the way your vehicle operates,” says Hoopes. “Leaking fluid, knocking under the hood and pulsating brakes are just a few of the many telltale signs there is a problem that needs to be addressed.”
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Not Just For Teacher’s Only……………
by Eva Thomas Johnson
To All the Mother’s – I Honor You!
You hold a powerful God-given responsibility that only God can help you fulfill! For this month’s article I would like to focus on:
~Single Mothers~
Single Mothers whether Separ ated, Divor ced, Unwed, Raped, Widowed, etc., God knows how you got to the place you ar e now and only with the help of God can you accomplish the tasks of Motherhood. Read the Story of Hagar (her name means “flight”) the first biblically recorded “Single Mother” in Genesis 16 and Genesis 21. Here are some facts about Hagar: Sarah’s maidservant Became Abraham’s wife at Sarah’s request Became pregnant with a son – Ishmael (name means “God Listens”) Mistreated by Sarah Victim of jealousy She and her son evicted from their home Homeless This story may sound familiar and some parts may even correlate with your own life but God was still with Hagar throughout her ordeal. She was not alone and neither are You! - God spoke to her in the midst of her situation Read Genesis 16:7-16 and Genesis 21:4-21 Isaiah 54:10 - Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed,” says the Lord, who has compassion on you. God is a Father to the Fatherless, Husband to the Husbandless Psalm 68:5- A father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows, is God in his holy habitation. Isaiah 54:5 - For thy Maker is thine husband; the Lord of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called. Isaiah 41:13- For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. Follow God’s Manual – He is a Comforter, a Teacher, our Hope Isaiah 51:12- I, even I, am he that comforteth you: who art thou, that thou shouldest be afraid of a man that shall die, and of the son of man which shall be made as grass; Psalm 25:12 - What man is he that feareth the Lord? him shall he teach in the way that he shall choose. Proverbs 1:8- Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 6:20 - My son, keep your father’s command and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. Proverbs 9:9 - Instruct the wise and they will be wiser still; teach the righteous and they will add to their learning. Proverbs 22:6- Start children off in the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it. John 14:26- But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.
Psalm 118:6- The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Isaiah 54:13- All your children will be taught by the Lord, and great will be their peace. Isaiah 66:13 - As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you; and you will be comforted over Jerusalem. Deuteronomy 4:9- Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them. Ephesians 6:1-4 - Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— 3 “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth. Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Your Endless Supply of Provision Philippians 4:19- And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus. 1 Corinthians 2:9 - However, as it is written:“What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived” the things God has prepared for those who love him. Your Strength In God Isaiah 40:31- but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Matthew 11:28- Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Colossians 1:9-11- For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, [a] 10 so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, 11 being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, Philippians 4:13- I can do all this through him who gives me strength. Unconditional Love – The Decree – Speak positively over yourself and your children. Create a prayer to pray specifically over your family Psalm139:13- For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I Thessalonians 2:7- Instead, we were like young children[a] among you. Just as a nursing mother cares for her children. Proverbs 29:15- A rod and a reprimand impart wisdom, but a child left undisciplined disgraces its mother. Psalm 127:3- Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Be Aware of What Is Going On With Your Children Are they being Bullied or doing the Bullying? Is there Drug Abuse? Is there Sexual Activity or Abuse? Is there a Learning Disability? Reward Good Behavior / Discipline Bad Behavior
A Stone Or A Fish?
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Matthew 7:9-11 (KJV)
Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? 10 Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? 11 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?
Mothers Be Encouraged! God Got You Covered!
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She was ashamed. She was tormented. She was barren. Her husband tried to console her. 'You're already blessed,' he virtually told her. Yes, Hannah was a beloved wife. Hundreds of lonely, rejected women would be content with that, but not Hannah. She could know no peace until she had borne a child. (1 Samuel 1:1-8) This yearning for a baby arose from within, was fuelled by her society's attitude and further intensified by her rival - her husband's second wife. Ultimately, however, I believe the pressure was from God.
(probably, by Hebrew custom, about three years). She then plunged a knife into her heart, severing herself from her flesh and blood. Custody battles involving surrogate mothers expose the faintest echo of her agony. If the bond at birth can be strong, it was three years harder for Hannah. And this was her only child.
But the beautiful story continues. The Lord, having inspired her heart-wrenching vow, flooded her with blessings. Her reward went beyond giving birth to a son. It went beyond proudly viewing the development of one of the greatest men of God earth has seen. And it went beyond 'And she was in bitterness of soul, and prayed her acclaim ringing around the globe, generation unto the Lord, and wept sore. And she vowed . . after generation extolling her devotion. There . , "O Lord of hosts, if thou wilt . . . give unto were further treasures, but the path was steep. thy handmaid a man child, then I will give him to the Lord all the days of his life . . . " ' (1 Sam- As she surrendered to the priest the fruit of her uel 1:10-11) womb, Hannah jubilantly sang, 'The barren hath borne seven.' (1 Samuel 2:5) Oh Hannah! WhatIt seems the Lord had long been waiting for this ever do you mean? You have no abundance degree of commitment. Perhaps reaching this only one, and even he has been torn from you. point sooner would have shaved years off her wait. Nonetheless, to her vow of consecration Year by year she made a little robe for the child she added faith. Before any tangible sign of an- who was no longer hers. Every stitch was imswered prayer 'her countenance was no more pregnated with love and thanksgiving, but many sad.' (1 Samuel 1:18) Years of anguish fostered were dampened with tears for the child she prayer, devotion, and now, faith. A miracle was longed to hold, but could not. hurtling toward this planet. (1 Samuel 1:20) Once a year she would journey to the house of That's how God moves. Isaac, Israel, Samson, God and hand over the robe - a pitifully small Samuel and John the Baptist were all born to gift for the little boy she longed to wait on day women who had been barren. (Genesis 18:11; and night. At each visit the priest would ask 25:21-26; Judges 13:3; 1 Samuel 1:20; Luke God's special blessing upon this precious moth1:7, 13) Barrenness forced these women to ex- er. And God heard. Radiance burst through the ceptional fervor in praying for conception. Little tears of sacrifice. That once-barren lady gave wonder that they conceived exceptional chilbirth to three more sons and two daughters. (1 dren. They were barren, but barren for a purSamuel 2:19-21) Her glory was complete. Yes, pose. the Lord made her like other mothers as she had always wanted, but first he had exalted her Hannah nurtured the babe until he was weaned above other mothers.
Hannah's vow of surrender unleashed the power of God. Is your life at a stalemate because heaven is awaiting a new depth of consecration from you? Search your heart and God's mind for an answer. But never make rash vows. Always add, 'if it be God's will.' Otherwise, the vow, not Jesus, is our Master. Our humanity makes it impossible to know we have every eventuality covered. We may be certain our vow is divinely inspired and later discover to our horror that we have misheard. The Bible exposes the perils of disregarding this warning. Unless you are convinced of the gravity of this matter, I beg you to study the relevant Scriptures. (Compare Deuteronomy 7:1 -2 with Joshua 9:4-20; note also Judges 11:2935; Psalm 15:4; Proverbs 20:25; Ecclesiastes 5:2,4-6; Leviticus 5:4; 27:28; Acts 5:3-5) Commitment is the key, not a rush of well-meaning words that flare and fizzle. Ending barrenness involves being intimate with the one we love. We can think this a chore, and turn it into one, but it is meant to be delightfully fulfilling. Communing with God and waiting in his presence is intimacy with God. We can treat this as a burden - struggling, straining and afflicting ourselves - or we can unleash love and let snuggling into the heart of God become the beautiful experience he intends it to be. To wish we could know everything about our calling without spending hours alone with God is to wish we could trade the pinnacle of human experience for the clinical coldness of some sort of spiritual in-vitro fertilization. Sing, O Barren Let's bring together the many principles of entering fruitful service that Hannah's experience highlights. God's woman turned barrenness into a blessing not by suppressing her desires but by letting it bring her to her knees and to a rare level of commitment. Despite her husband's pleas, she would
settle for nothing less than God's best. And God, in his grace, would settle for nothing less than her best. Creature and Creator wrestled in prayer until she finally yielded, reaching heights of devotion fertile women seldom know. Then she believed before seeing the answer. Closing her mind to a thousand previous failures, she again tried to be fruitful. Even when she held her dream in her arms, she did not slacken in her spiritual quest. She praised her Lord and mixed it with more faith. She kept her costly vow. She gave no space to bitterness. Without overstepping the mark, she faithfully did the little she could to serve the son who now was God's. Finally, the Lord poured upon her an abundance beyond her fondest hopes. So if life seems barren, emulate Hannah and 'Sing, O barren, ... for more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married wife, says the Lord.' (Isaiah 54:1)